The Scrivener - Winter 2020 - Volume 29 Number 4

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COMMUNICATING

Garry Gracey and Jacek Januszewski

Meat and Potatoes Communicating

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Garry ere are some of the personal communicating tools that were so helpful to me in my 45 years as a BC Notary.

Return Messages • Reply to email messages ASAP. • Do the same with phone messages! Never assume you know why your client is calling. Be Courteous • Greet your client in a friendly manner. Make the person feel welcome.

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Jacek

strongly believe lasting success in business is based on two factors—the amount of repeat clientele the business is attracting and the team that built the business. To be better than your competition, you need both. One of the tools that helps create success is good communicating; it’s not only what we say but how we say it. Although English is my second language (I was born and raised in Poland), I will try to summarize what I have learned as a BC Notary working with the public

Be a Good Listener; Be Respectful Let’s start by being pleasant, polite, • Respect and empathize with other attentive, and patient. Our clients keep Our clients need to feel people’s feelings to establish our businesses running; they put the we abide by the high effective communicating and build food on our table. We must do our standards of our longstanding best to make them feel good about rapport. “Tradition of Trust.” doing that. • Pay close attention when your client is speaking to you. Clients often don’t know much • Be patient; don’t interrupt until your client about the deals they bring to us. Making them feel has finished talking. as if they are our most important clients at that moment will go a long way to turning their first visit into repeat • Keep an open mind; ask questions that will help you business. understand your client’s needs. With COVID-19 and all the problems the virus has Be Honest created in the world, we need to be more attentive and • Be forthright and up front about the status understanding than ever before. Many of our clients are of the client’s file, to generate trust between you. experiencing previously unknown hardships, layoffs, Keep Your Promises business closures, problems with availability, and • Demonstrate that you are accountable. A sense childcare affordability. Their heightened stress can lead of pride grows when you care about your expectations to depression. Some are afraid of contracting the virus and those of others. Trust develops when you show and possibly dying from it; that brings them to our Notary you are reliable and have a positive commitment. offices to have their Wills drafted. • Be yourself, stand in your truth, be your word, Clients can be impatient and feel frustrated. and always wish your clients well. s We need to be able to diffuse situations and control our Garry Gracey is a Consultant for South Surrey Notary Jacek Januszewski, who purchased Garry’s practice last November.

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

own emotions. It is best to show understanding and walk the path that leads to agreement.

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TECHNOLOGY

1min
page 76

The Nose Knows

1min
page 75

WILLS AND ESTATES

9min
pages 72-74

HISTORY OF BC

3min
pages 70-71

BOOK REVIEW

2min
page 69

THE LTSA

2min
page 68

Saffron Almond Cake

3min
page 63

End of an Era

4min
pages 60-61

Gnocchi

2min
page 62

SFU MASTER OF ARTS IN APPLIED LEGAL STUDIES (MA ALS

4min
pages 66-67

BCLI

3min
page 65

Transform the Family Justice System A New Year’s Resolution

5min
pages 52-53

PROFILE OF A BC NOTARY, SHOWCASING THE WINNERS OF THE PRESTIGIOUS DR. BERNARD W. HOETER AWARD

5min
pages 56-57

WHERE ARE THEY NOW?

1min
pages 58-59

Resolutions for a Greener 2021. Dreaming of a Greener Future?

4min
pages 50-51

New Year’s Resolutions

2min
page 49

NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS

2min
page 48

Editor’s

5min
pages 43-44

Age, Disability, and Dementia-Friendly Communication

8min
pages 45-47

The Language of Music

2min
page 37

COMMUNICATING ABOUT TAXES

2min
page 42

Quotes and Misquotes

7min
pages 38-41

6 New Year’s Resolutions for Better Digital Communications

3min
page 36

The Arts Help Vulnerable Women and Child Clients Process Trauma

2min
page 35

Communicating Through the Power of Music

4min
pages 32-34

Communicating: A Fine Art

2min
pages 30-31

Whole-Body Listeners

2min
page 28

Managing Grief

9min
pages 20-22

It Only Takes One to Stop Fighting

2min
page 26

Meat and Potatoes Communicating

4min
pages 18-19

Storytelling

2min
page 23

NEW CANADIAN BOOK

5min
pages 15-16

Zoom 101

2min
page 17

Assess the Quality of Your Communicating

2min
page 13

Veracity: The Quality of Communication

2min
page 14

Every Conversation Counts The Secret to Every Great Presentation

2min
page 12

KEYNOTE

1min
page 9

Out of Touch

6min
pages 10-11

COVER STORY A Message from Al-Karim Kara

3min
page 6

CEO, BC NOTARIES ASSOCIATION

3min
page 8

VICE PRESIDENT, BC NOTARIES ASSOCIATION

1min
page 7
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