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2 Letter to the Editor

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6 Different Strokes

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8 Snow Boots to Gumboots

Retired professor Joan Givner redeﬁnes herself in retirement, staying true to her passion.

12 Esquimalt’s Secret Garden

Esquimalt’s Maclure estate’s dedicated gardeners bring the property back to life to the delight of locals and tourists.

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THE FAMILY CAREGIVER

wide variety of aids and equipment are available for purchase or loan to help individuals with communication, mobility or speciﬁc personal care needs. These aids may allow your family member to stay in their own home longer. They can also help to reduce the workload experienced by family caregivers. These resources include: • Communication aids • Vision aids • Incontinence supplies • Specialized clothing • Medical equipment • Mobility aids and supports • Orthopedic appliances and prosthetics A number of community loan cupboards exist from which you can borrow medical equipment such as hospital beds, walkers, commodes and wheelchairs. These services charge either a small fee, operate by donation or are free. You can also contact your local Canadian Red Cross. Several businesses focus solely on selling medical aids and equipment, including local pharmacy chains that have opened specialized Home Health Care outlets. In the CRD, the Seniors’ Services Directory, published by Seniors Serving Seniors, provides a comprehensive listing of these resources. Your regional health authority, Home and Community Care division may also be able to provide a list of resources. In addition, the Family Caregivers’ Network Society website (www. fcns-caregiving.org) includes a list under “local resources.” Finally, some seniors’ complexes have their own supply rooms, where residents can donate and share aids and equipment. Aids or equipment will change along with the needs of your care recipient. Your case manager, homecare nurse, family doctor, physical therapist or home support worker can help you decide what medical supplies you need. Also, ask other family caregivers what they have found to be helpful.

Medical Equipment and Supplies BY BARBARA SMALL

Mobility: walker, wheelchair, cane, anti-slip mats to put under area rugs, night lights. Bathing: grab bars, shower stool, hand-held shower head. Bed: washable sheep skin mattress pad to increase comfort in bed, avoid excess sweating and help prevent bedsores, a back support that helps the patient sit up in bed, a washable ﬂannel sheet protector to assist with lifting and turning over. Toileting: Raised toilet seat with grab bars, bedside commode (especially helpful during the night), and incontinence supplies. Eating: Deep bowl or plate with rim makes scooping up food with utensils easier, a child’s “sippy cup” with hole enlarged or a water bottle with a narrow opening to facilitate drinking while in bed or when grasp is weak, bendable straws, a dishcloth placed under dishes to prevent sliding on tray or table. Communication: Baby monitor to allow caregivers to hear their family member when they call for assistance and to monitor movement, breathing, etc., cordless phone. Mouth Care: Sponges or gels are available to help with dry mouth, non-alcoholic mouthwash for teeth cleaning and to help with mouth sores. This is just a sampling of the medical equipment and supplies available to assist in your caregiving role. Check out all that is available and use your creativity to come up with some unique solutions of your own. SL Next month: Tips for Avoiding Caregiver Burnout Barbara Small is Program Development Coordinator for Family Caregivers’ Network Society.

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t this time of year, being overwhelmed by an avalanche of toys couldn’t make the Salvation Army’s Jim ten Hove happier. Toys arrive at the Salvation Army year round, but it’s after the annual Naden Band Christmas Concert that donations really pick up. “Over 4,000 toys were donated in 2006, worth over $60,000,” grins Jim. And he’s optimistic this year will bring in even more. The event is part of the Salvation Army’s Christmas Appeal and has become a popular family tradition over the years, growing from the original one evening concert to two evening and one matinee performances. Donated toys will help ﬁll the shelves at the Salvation Army’s toy store, where they’ll be chosen by those on the Christmas Bureau List for the children in their lives. Volunteers put in a lot of time and energy to ensure the toys are gathered, displayed and eventually reach children at Christmastime. Jim, a Planned Giving Representative for the Salvation Army, is one of them, and has been involved with the organization since his Canadian Armed Forces days in Lars, Germany. He originally joined the armed forces as a soldier apprentice in 1964 and was in a training plan for engineers in Chile. Eventually, Jim re-mustered to Food Services as a cook, and became the Dietary Supervisor at the Hospital. He’s cooked for royalty, generals, dignitaries and gatherings of 500 and more over the years, and says that because he has a cooking background, “I’m always in the kitchen!” But it doesn’t seem to matter what size the kitchen is or who the food is for, Jim loves the work saying, “Food and fellowship – a great thing!” In 1970, while on a United Nations tour of Cyprus, Jim met a local woman who became his wife. It was during this sojourn in Germany that Jim became interested in the services offered by the Salvation Army, which had a presence on the base in a voluntary support role. Jim’s wife became involved with the Salvation Army, which ran a gift shop, held interdenominational church services and provided other social services. “My wife taught Sunday school, but I wasn’t much into that type of thing,” recalls Jim. “But one Sunday evening, I put on my jacket and went to vespers with the kids. Well, I went and never turned back.” The more he looked into the Salvation Army, the more he liked what he saw. “I was a smoker and drinker, but I gave that up,” says Jim. He started to take on voluntary roles, one of which was to set up the salad bar in their restaurant. In 1985, the family moved from Europe to Victoria taking

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with them a letter from an ofﬁcer in the German-based Salvation Army for delivery to the main downtown Citadel. Although Jim never knew what was in the letter of introduction, it must have been favourable because he and his family were quickly taken into the fold, and they never left. Jim has been a Door Sergeant for some 20 years, and he’s still greeting people, welcoming them as they come in the door. Sunday school was still a part of their commitments and, eventually, he and his wife ran a Youth Leader group with pizza evenings, singing, games and other activities along with devotionals. There are monthly adult fellowship evenings with guest speakers and the committees. When the Salvation Army moved from its Pandora location into a temporary one and then into the current quarters on Quadra at Hillside, Jim headed up the building committee. After much work, when the building ofﬁcially opened, Jim was in the parking lot helping to park the cars. The annual

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Golf Tournament is another event in which Jim invests much of his time, and he’s been on the board since day one. Held at Cowichan, with the help of many volunteers, including Jim, the tournament draws about 180 golfers. He notes that even when last year’s event was heavily rained upon, 179 of the 180 golfers turned up and a record $53,000 was raised. Jim insists he’d much rather help organize in the background than be in the spotlight and, as such, along with the many other volunteers, he helps form the backbone of the Salvation Army. “I don’t do it for the recognition, that doesn’t bother me,” he says. At this time of year, it’s the Kettles and the Hampers, along with the Naden Band Concert and toys, that are Jim’s priorities. He’s run the Kettles fundraising campaign for three years and gets service clubs, cadets, various organizations, churches and volunteers involved, and even has companies sponsor kettles. He’s sure they’ll top last year’s $201,000 worth of donations. Perhaps one day Jim will realize his dream of a mission trip to Africa but, in the meantime, with the New Year coming fast on the heels of all his Christmas involvement with the Salvation Army, he looks towards volunteering his time to help people ﬁle their income tax returns. Summing up what the many volunteers who help make life a little easier and much happier for many people Jim says, “I want to help people – service is what it’s all about.”

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Christmas 2007 with The Salvation Army The Salvation Army has served the people of Victoria for more than 115 years. Those afﬁliated with the organization consider themselves privileged to serve the community. The holiday season is a very busy time for The Salvation Army and Christmas 2007 will be no exception. The following Godwit is a brief description of the activities that Victorians can support and enjoy in the coming weeks. Christmas Cheer Kettles Commencing November 24 and continuing through to Christmas Eve, The Salvation’s Army Red Christmas “cheer” Kettles will be placed in more than 25 locations throughout Victoria. Christmas Adopt a Family Program Throughout December, Angel Trees will be set up at CIBC banks where children’s names will be supplied to customers wanting to buy a Christmas gift for a needy child. Christmas Concert This year, the Naden Band Annual Christmas Concert will be held in support of The Salvation Army’s Christmas Appeal. Royal Theatre, Dec. 10 at 7:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m., Dec. 11 at 7:30 p.m. – 9:30 p.m., Dec. 12 at 2 p.m. – 4 p.m. Tickets are available from the McPherson Box Ofﬁce, 386-6121.

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MUSIC AND MORE BY PAT NICHOL

“Musicmaking is the metaphor I use. It goes to the heart of the matter more directly than anything else I know.”

and does. Someone once asked Louise where all the notes she composed and arranged came from. She thought for a moment and then replied, “The notes are just there... so many waiting to be heard, sometimes they just tumble over each other trying to get out.” Growing up in a musical household in Norristown, Pennsylvania, by the time Louise was eight, she conducted her grandfather’s church choir. She supported herself by working as a police ofﬁcer, while receiving her music education at Temple University. And then attended Harvard School of Divinity and was ordained as a Baptist minister. Louise went on to study and work with some of the world’s most gifted musicians, like Aretha Franklin, Oscar Peterson, Ray Charles and Leonard Bernstein. In 1972, she had the opportunity to come to Victoria for a weekend workshop. “I knew when I set foot on the ground that I was home.” She walked away from a career as a university professor on the fast track to tenure teaching the sociology of ageing; so far no regrets. Three important rituals start each day: Offering thanks for being alive, stretching and drinking 12oz of water, followed by 30 minutes of quiet – a practice that has not changed in 38 years. This above all else shapes her day and gives her the energy to accomplish all that needs to be done. As she ages, Louise knows her thoughtful view of the world and her place in it is one she couldn’t have had 20 years ago. “[I have an] unshakeable sense of the fact that what I do on the planet is important. 8

munity choir, invites anyone with the desire to sing. Her philosophy about singing and life was passed down from her grandmother. “You are worthy simply because you’re breathing. Therefore, Victoria Good News Choir has no auditions. The approximately 100-member choir practises every Tuesday evening, September to June, and presents two formal concerts per year – in December and May. In addition to contributing funds raised to various community causes, this choir has fun. “The only reason to have a choir is so we can have a party,” says Louise. Each month a different seniors residence receives a visit from the Victoria Good News Choir for a two-hour performance, where they sing the songs that were popular when the residents were growing up and raising families. The next performance by the Victoria Good News Choir will be December 8 at St. Andrews Presbyterian Church at Douglas and Broughton. Tickets available at the door. Another choir that Louse works with every Wednesday is the Open Door – My Place Choir. While there are usually about 15 people, sometimes there can be as few as four. Regardless, Louise’s commitment is steadfast. “If I’m alive, I’ll be there.” This choir began four years ago as an Outreach Program. And has grown into a labour of love and hope between Louise and the people of My Place. “Music changes the molecules in the room,” she says. Plans include a major recording project, more POPS concerts to perform, choral workshops to lead, and a commitment to her choirs as long as she is able. Mostly she would like to be as healthy and hearty as her aunts were when they were 96 and 114. SL Photo: Stan Funk

ouise Rose is music. And the music rolls out of her constantly in all she is

We are all here to do important work. I would like to enable people to understand and embrace the work they are here to do.” For ﬁve years in the ’90s, Louise hosted the popular TV show Let’s Sing Again, which helped people bring back childhood memories of singing around the piano. It aired throughout the country. One of the stories Louise shares is of three sisters scattered across Canada. Sunday night, during the show, they would have a conference call while watching the program and sing with each other to the tunes of their childhood. Louise believes strongly in outreach and building community. Her roots of music and ministry are inseparable and she carries them into all facets of her life. Her music mentors and ministers to widely diverse groups of people in this and many other communities. “I was taught to use the gifts we are given.” Victoria Good News Choir, a com-

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VICTORIA’S Past REVISITED O ne would have to be blessed with a remarkably fertile imagination to walk down Wharf Street today and conjure up the waterfront of the Gold Rush days. The crude whitewashed cabins of the Hudson’s Bay Company personnel were torn down to make way for the hastily constructed warehouses of tradesmen, and the streets were nothing more than muddy tracks that nosed their way through the conglomeration of every imaginable kind of structure that made up the burgeoning settlement. Some tradesmen put rough-hewn boardwalks in front of their premises so people did not have to wade through the mud. Alfred Waddington (“Good Old Waddy”) put wooden blocks down his alley so horses on their way to Morley’s Soda Water factory could at least get some kind of foothold. But these concessions were not universal. There were no streetlights, no sewers, no sanitation and no running water. Most tradesmen lived on their business premises and raised their families in the squalor of a single backroom. Now imagine that scene and see among the higgledy-piggledy confusion of commercial establishments, A. J. Langley & Company, Druggists, with James Moore as its lone pharmacist.

Anguish and Laudanum

“Jem” Moore was a quiet Englishman who, in 1859, married the widow of a prosperous German merchant named Dewig. After her first husband’s death and her subsequent marriage to James Moore, she let it be known that her name now was “Mrs. Dewig-Moore.” Some people mistakenly addressed James as “Dewig-Moore,” an error they quickly learned never to repeat. Moore was an extremely diligent and careful druggist. His prices were high, but people felt they received what they paid for. His business flourished and his fortune rapidly increased, so when this was added to his wife’s large inheritance, he became one of the most prosperous men in Victoria. He had no need to live on his business premises and built himself a very comfortable home some distance away. He was a kind man and his generosity and compassion for the sick was legendary. One particularly foul night near Christmas 1861, Moore was about to lock up his store before battling his way home, against biting wind and torrential rain, when a bedraggled figure stumbled over the threshold. He could see in the dim light of his flickering candle that she was well-dressed, cultured and fine looking, but on this night she was clearly in deep distress as

she asked him for “two bits’ worth of laudanum.” Moore was concerned and asked her why she needed laudanum. “Toothache!” was her curt reply. “Then you don’t need as much as that! A few drops on some cotton wool is all you need. Here, I’ll put some on your tooth. Which one?” The woman blazed. “I need two bits’ worth! All my teeth are aching!” Moore was not happy with this situation and suspected she had suicide in mind. But he also knew if he didn’t sell it to her, someone else would. “I will sell you the poison if you promise me that you will be careful with it.” “I promise,” said the woman as she snatched the bottle from Moore’s hand, threw the money on the counter and dashed out into the dark, wet, bitterly cold night. Moore closed the shutters, placed the candle into a tin lantern he could use to light his way home, locked the door and waded through the mud and ﬁlth as the rain beat down and the wind howled. His direction took him up Yates Street as far as Government Street. As he rounded the corner, he tripped and almost fell over a bundle of clothes lying

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The Tale of Mrs. Wilmer on the street. He lowered his lantern and the bundle moved. He recognized the upturned face as his most recent customer. He shook her and she moaned, “Go away and let me die in peace!” “Why do you think you’re going to die?” asked Moore. “Because I have just taken a large dose of laudanum. I bought it just now from Langley’s.” “No you haven’t! I am the druggist who served you. All I gave you was paregoric and some ipecac to make you vomit.” At that moment, the ipecac did its job. It took all of Moore’s persuasive powers to convince the woman that she was not about to die and he took her home with him. Most people considered Mrs. DewigMoore a silly woman, but when it came to showing kindness to anyone in need, she was at her best. The poor, soaked visitor was fed, given a hot bath and a comfortable bed and next morning told her hosts that her name was Wilmer and that she was married, but revealed nothing of her situation. She just wanted to go home. The Wilmers left town shortly after, and it was a remarkably changed Mrs. Wilmer that presented herself at Mrs.

BY NORMAN K. ARCHER

Dewing-Moore’s front door over a year later. She said how grateful she was for the kindness she had received and felt she should explain her behaviour on that dark December night. The Wilmers were happily married, but at times, the husband would go on a drinking binge and would turn into a vicious brute. That is what happened that evening near Christmas when she ran out of the house determined to kill herself. When she arrived home after her night with the Moores, her husband was heartbroken and in his remorse, swore never to drink again. He had kept his vow and the two had left to look for gold in the Cariboo. Wilmer had struck a rich seam and was soon able to return to Victoria and purchase a comfortable home on North Park Street. Mrs. Wilmer compelled the reluctant Mrs. Dewig-Moore to accept a large nugget as a token of appreciation. Then Mrs. Wilmer divulged one more secret – a baby was on the way. The expectant mother was radiant. The two women hugged, parted and would never meet again. A few weeks after this reunion, a report appeared in the British Colonist about the tragic death of a young mother and her small baby. The woman

had woken up in the night feeling very ill. She aroused her husband to go for the doctor. Ever careful for his beloved wife’s security, he left quickly, locked the door of his North Park Street home, promising to be back soon. On the way, he met up with some Cariboo friends who persuaded him to join them for a drink. It was several days later that he recovered from his binge, staggered home, unlocked the door and was greeted by silence. The baby had died. The mother had collapsed near the bed, unable to make it as far as a window to get help. Her hands were battered and bruised by the constant pounding on the ﬂoorboards in a vain attempt to attract attention. She had died just hours before. Neighbours said they had heard screams but thought they had come from the street. Wilmer was inconsolable in his grief. The clergyman wept as the cofﬁn was lowered into the Quadra Street Cemetery grave. SL The Gold Rush era was cruel. Norman Archer is an historical city tour guide in Victoria and the author of Tales of Old Victoria.

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nly the sound of my paddle dipping into the crystal green, sparkly water breaks the serenity of the dawn. Swiftly, the canoe seems to be propelled by its own power. Waking every morning to crisp, fresh, salt air along with the gentle lapping of the waves is breathtaking. Those lucky enough to live on a ﬂoat home in Bird’s Eye Cove, surrounded by gorgeous red Arbutus trees and the musical performance of nature, experience this reality.

A Romantic History As early as 1880, when Captain Jacobsen moored his sealing fleet in front of his home in the Westbay area near Victoria, people have been intrigued with this alternative lifestyle. A few years later, Captain Jacobsen also beached a retired stern-wheeler and used it as an office and a home away from home. For more than 120 years, British Columbians have enjoyed living and working aboard different apparitions of floating buildings. Floating logging and fishing camps have provided a lifestyle vastly different from the norm for decades. Life on a float home was a modest, cost efficient way to live in urban environments back when people started to settle in places

known as Gastown and New Westminster on the Mainland. Now, there are several ﬂoat home communities on the Mainland and here on Vancouver Island. The appeal varies from not having to mow a lawn, to living what some consider an eclectic lifestyle. Regardless of the reason, there is something alluring about a 360-degree water view.

An Intimate Look Inside I swiftly dock my canoe at the Barnacle, Penny McLennan and Joanne Adamson’s 980-square-foot float home, at the Maple Bay Marina in Duncan. Climbing onto the dock and entering their home is like stepping into a little piece of floating paradise. Resting on the couch beside the glow of the propane stove, I warm up quickly from my paddle around the cove. The warm cedar walls, rustic staircase, and cozy openconcept are comfortable. Penny and Joanne have been living the float-home lifestyle full time since 2004. Previously, they owned a larger one in the Marina, which they used as a vacation spot for six years. During that time, their permanent home was near Vancouver, in Ladner – on land. Sailing over to the Island for holidays took two days to arrive and two days to return. Now, they’ve retired here. When they want to go sailing, they step out their beautiful stained glass front door and onto their boat. Living amidst the playground of the Gulf Islands, there’s no need to spend four days commuting to paradise; they’re already here. The couple experienced many changes over the last nine years. The hardest transition for them was combining three households. They had a full house in Ladner, a fully furnished float home and their current home came stocked, top to bot-

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tom. It took a year to settle. And they still have belongings in two storage locations. Downsizing is not for the weakhearted. “You need to be conscious of everything you bring home,” warns Penny. “Never mind that everything has to be hauled down the docks from the parking lot in a wheelbarrow. We’re also very mindful of the changing tides.” Walking up the ramp during low tide can make the weekly filling of the propane tanks in the winter seem like a trek up Mount Everest. Mentioning Joanne’s rock collection, including a specimen from Hawaii, raises Penny’s eyebrow. “And what part of ‘floating’ don’t you underage treatment stand?” she teases. facilities, concrete docks, upKeeping the ballast on an even keel can be graded electrical and improved tricky and moving around rocks doesn’t sound too moorings. fun. However, a quick solution sometimes lies in Penny and Joanne “It’s been 20 years in the the consumption of a bottle or two of wine from making,” they explain. “Long their hidden wine cellar in the barge. That can set before we came here, float home owners faced a lot of oppothe house back straight in a hurry. “There is such community spirit here,” says Joanne. “We sition trying to convince people to recognize this community have great dock parties, and super friends. I have never felt and allow us to pay taxes and be regulated.” Now all float homes in Maple Bay meet B.C. Standards and such a sense of community anywhere I’ve lived, since I was are legalized under North Cowichan District bylaw. There are a kid.” Penny concurs. The welcoming energy that surrounds their peaceful home regulations for the floatation, electrical, fire hydrants, smoke is accentuated when looking over at the 24-hours-a-day view detectors, propane, plumbing and toilets. “I’m intimately acquainted with all the workings of our of Chisholm Island. Right then, a great blue heron slides gracefully by, six inches above the calm, green ocean. It’s Electrosan toilet,” complains Penny. Although completely approved and meeting acceptable standards for sewage treateasy to see how happy they are to be right here, right now. But there have been some difficulties within the float home ment, everyone will be happy when the new treatment facilicommunities. Municipalities and governing agencies started ties are up and running. Thanks to the effects of global warming – rising seas and questioning the lack of regulations, the sewage treatment isheavier rain – there may indeed be an insurgence of this rosues, limited construction standards and, of course, not getting tax revenue. Some marinas were shut down, some float mantic lifestyle. And it may turn into a necessary way of life. homes were moved to other marinas, or to land, or just aban- A recent study by the European Environment Agency found doned. But slowly, regulations are being set out and progres- the average rainfall in part of northern Europe has risen 40 sive Marinas have encouraged and supported the float home per cent since 1900. The higher the seas rise, the higher the float homes float. owners. Westbay Marine Village in Victoria is one success story. Maple Bay Marina in Duncan, where Penny and Joanne And just think, if you don’t like your neighbours, you can live, is currently undergoing renovations, including new sew- untie your house and tow it to another spot! SL

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AN ITALIAN CHRISTMAS

n most cultures, Christmas is a special time for families, friends and cherished traditions. Preserving the traditions of her Calabrian village, Amata Cantanzaro, Mama Saverina Falvo passes on the foods and customs of an Italian Christmas to her family, gathered together at this festive time. For the Falvo family, Christmas is a blend of their Canadian and Italian heritage. “The villagers would go caroling on Christmas Eve and it would sound so wonderful,” recalls Mama Saverina. “Afterwards, Midnight Mass, where the highlight would be the Nativity scene in the church, was always very beautiful,” she says smiling. In Italy, each home creates a Nativity scene, which replaces the familiar Christmas tree. Food plays a large part in the festivities. Christmas Eve is a feast of seven, nine or 13 items on the table. The numbers are signiﬁcant: seven represents the seven holy sacraments; nine represents the holy trinity times three; and 13 represents the 12 apostles plus Jesus. In Canada, Mama carries on the tradition of her village, 13 food items on the table. “We would have the pesto lasagna with its three sauces because it is very festive with its layers of red, white and green. There is no meat, only ﬁsh for Christmas Eve,” says younger daughter Gina. Hearing Mama’s excited rush of Italian, older daughter Caterina interprets with a smile, “Baccala, the traditional salted cod which is soaked for a week in water and

then cooked in a tomato sauce with large green olives, onions and potatoes. There would be antipasto, other kinds of seafood, a savory long loaf, figs, roasted chestnuts, struffoli, which is a fried dough dipped in honey, cannoli, mostaccioli, anicini, biscotti and il torrone, a nougat candy filled with almonds or hazelnuts.” Christmas is another day of feasting making the weeks of preparation and baking well worth the hard work. Meat is now included and the Falvo family prepare a turkey as well as the special Christmas lasagna. “The Calabria region uses five ingredients in their lasagna, which we have done for our traditional Christmas pasta using meat. We add tiny beef or pork meatballs in the tomato sauce; sliced hardboiled eggs, mozzarella, Italian salami, semi-hot sausages and lots of basil,” says Gina. The highlight of the festive meal ends with Mama Saverina’s traditional Italian Coffee Liqueur Cake, soaked in espresso coffee laced with liqueur, layered in chocolate and vanilla custard, then covered in whipped cream, lightly dusted with cocoa powder or covered with fresh sliced fruit. However, it is not just about the food, lovingly prepared for the boisterous family gathering, there are other special touches, making the festive occasion memorable. Caterina proudly shows two of her unique gift bags, charmingly made to resemble a red-green plaid vest outfit for a boy and a red-green plaid dress for a girl. Her beautifully crafted keepsake Christmas stockings are a work of art, waiting to be filled with a tiny gift and small wrapped pieces of il torrone. Gina and Caterina fondly remember their father telling the story of “La Befana” when they were children. La Befana is the Italian Christmas witch. The legend says the Three Wise Men stopped at La Befana’s house to seek food and shelter for the night before journeying towards Bethlehem. They asked her to join them but she was too busy to follow the bright star. After the Three Wise Men continued on their way, La Befana regretted she had not joined them. Gathering up some gifts, she tried to follow the star but was unable to find Baby Jesus. She never gave up. Every year, she would gather up some gifts, fly off on her broom and leave a gift at each child’s house, hoping she had found the special baby. However, a naughty child receives a lump of coal. In Italy, La Befana has her own feast day, which is Epiphany, January 6. Meanwhile, the Falvo household is busily preparing for the festive season of family, friends and cherished traditions. Mama Saverina, Gina and Caterina cheerfully share a few of their family’s favourite recipes. Buon appetito! Buon natale!

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GIVING THE FUTURE A PAST BY CAROL BAIRD-KRUL

Photos: Carol Baird-Krul

“what if” discussion between two former col- bles; however, unlike many RTA Heritage Centres this one leagues during a New Year’s get-together several is not set up as a classroom, but rather as a workspace and years ago sparked the beginning of the Nanaimo- library. What began as a collection of a few books and the odd Ladysmith Retired Teachers Association’s quest to collect and preserve items of interest from the mid-Vancouver Island piece of memorabilia now contains over 3,000 items, some area’s educational past. Not long after that late night chat, the of which date back to the late 1860s. Interesting items like an two men, Gavin Halkett and Les Skipsey, began collecting, early primary student’s desk, an ink well filler, globes, an early inventorying and storing old textbooks and the odd piece of 20th century set of elementary readers, a typewriter, pen nibs, an original big book of Dick and Jane, history and geography memorabilia brought to them by other RTA members. books whose information is long outIn those early days the RTA Heritage Committee, as it was now known, dated and, of course, a strap are just was able to secure a room in the ofa few of the artifacts donated to the Committee. Among the most treasured fices of the Nanaimo and District materials of the collection, however, Teachers Association, where it could are personal ones that pertain to stustore and display its burgeoning collection. It remained there for several dents and teachers. Such as a notation years, but as the collection continued in a textbook, a woman teacher’s letto grow, much of it was stored in boxter of resignation due to an impending marriage, a student science notebook es because of a lack of proper display space. Eventually, in part because of with painstakingly drawn and detailed pictures, and photographs of schools its size, the variety and, in some cases, the fragility of the items, it became inlong closed and students long graducreasingly important to find a proper ated. The members of the Committee home for the ever-growing collection. treat each item, no matter how old or Adding impetus to this quest for space young, with respect and in many caswas the Committee’s belief that the es awe, often saying, “Oh, come and collection should be made available look at what I’ve found!” Founders Gavin Halkett and Les Skipsey. for use by other groups such as the As the collection grows, the ComHistorical Society, genealogists, edumittee systematically processes the existing and increasingly diversified collection of texts, teachcation students, local schools and the community at large. After much lobbying and letter writing, the Nanaimo-La- ing materials, memorabilia and archival items, while continudysmith School District agreed to provide a place that could ing to take in new donations. A couple of years ago, in order be used as a Heritage Centre and where the collection could for materials to be made available for wider use, it was decidbe more readily displayed and accessed. This room, in a cen- ed that the collection should be properly catalogued and pretrally located high school, is equipped with shelving and ta- served. To expedite this process and to encourage intercon-

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nectedness with the community, the Committee applied last summer to a Federal Program called “New Horizons for Seniors” in the hope that they would receive funding to purchase equipment, specialized supplies and training. By making the decision to move forward with standardized cataloguing, the Committee’s desire was to preserve this unique collection, give their members an opportunity to become involved in outreach programs and learn new skills. To the immense surprise and delight of the committee, the proposal was successful and in early March 2007, they received a cheque for $21,500, which was quickly followed by another small grant from the BCRTA Heritage Committee. These funds are used, among other things, to develop a proper management and cataloguing database that will eventually be available online. Another facet of this program is the ongoing liaising with various community groups, including Malaspina University-College, the Nanaimo Museum and the Nanaimo and District Archives. As well, the Committee has actively pursued public displays of the Collection at teacher conferences, through open house events, and eventually having regular hours of operation for the Heritage Centre. The Collection and the Committee have come a long way since that impromptu New Year’s meeting. “It wasn’t until our ﬁrst Open House that I realized how much we had accomplished when I saw the room and collection through the eyes of our guests and observed their very positive reactions,” says Heritage Chair Vicki Harrison. As the Collection continues to grow, the Committee hopes that it will aid university students and others who are researching the historical aspects of Education, especially in the midIsland region. They also look forward to the future when some of the materials will be put into “Heritage Boxes” and made available for local classrooms when they study life in pioneer times. In this way, they hope to continue to provide their community with a valuable educational service and as noted histoSL rian Pierre Berton said, “give the future a past.”

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piles of rubble and body parts that remained after the Second World War, and the Berlin Wall with its lists of people shot that week for trying to escape, and Europeans her own age unable to attend university because of politics, Gail realized she was actually very lucky. “When you’ve been with people who’ve had everything taken away from them and survived, you look at things differently.” Back in Canada, Gail juggled her University of Victoria premed/psych/English/theatre background into a major in Political Science at Ottawa’s Carleton University. “I was going to save the world, Third World nations, international politics, the whole schmeer,” she laughs. But first, she had to pay off her student loans. One of her most challenging position was as a vocational counsellor at Camosun College. Her caseload consisted of 100 B.C. and Yukon First Nations women aged 18 to 50. “They’d wanted a First Nations woman, but couldn’t find one qualified,” says Gail, then 27. “It wasn’t just sit them down, process them and bring them in. I had to help them find accommodation, be Big Sister, do counselling when they got into trouble. I had to figure out what to do when they ran up phone bills that had to be sent back to Whitehorse. I ended up coaching a Native women’s basketball team; that was the breakthrough, when they finally decided I was OK.” As agreed, she stayed long enough to pay off her student loan, and then returned to Europe with the intention to “save the world.” Instead, she developed a sense of herself as Canadian, and realized there was plenty to do at home. She also met a young Texan in Greece. They moved to Austin, where she again worked as a vocational counsellor with tri-racial inner city people for a year. Back in B.C., her husband completed his teaching certificate at UBC while Gail worked with Vancouver’s disadvantaged people. After working in small communities in the Cariboo, they moved to Creston to raise their two children and stayed 15 years. He taught, and Gail worked part-time as a life-skills/employment counsellor, this time with developmentally challenged individuals through Citizen Advocacy. In 1983, Gail and two other women started a food bank, collecting excess produce from local farmers to feed the poor. When people began donating clothing and furniture, the Creston Valley Gleaners’ Society opened a second-hand store, then purchased and renovated an old hotel. A government grant paid for half, and Gail signed a personal mortgage for the rest. “That was the organization that got me converted to not always starting something then running away... I learned so much, sticking with the process, watching people I was working with and watching the Photo: Erika Danko

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andra Herle, mayor of Parksville, welcomes visitors to a place she calls a “blend of tourism and retirement.” The inﬂux of seniors to this coastal oasis, only a 30-minute drive from Nanaimo on Vancouver Island, gained momentum in the 1990s and hasn’t stopped. While sandy beaches and waterfront resorts draw tourists to the area, the residential sprawl of one-story homes and condominiums attracts retirees. In fact, with a third of Parksville’s 11,000 residents over age 65, the city and its neighbour, Qualicum Beach, are second only to Elliot Lake in northern Ontario as a retirement destination. And it’s easy to see the appeal. Winters are temperate, recreational activities abound and health-care services are in place. But as the “silver tsunami” continues to roll, Parksville is increasingly viewed as an expensive place to relocate. So, is Parksville still ideal for seniors? Kitty Larner, President of the Seniors’ Drop-In Centre in Parksville, has seen many changes since she and her husband retired here 20 years ago from the Prairies. Real estate prices have skyrocketed with fewer available rentals, there’s a spanking new City Hall complex and the row of fast-food franchises along the Island highway gets longer every year. No wonder Kitty says affordable housing, better public transportation and improved health-care services are key issues for Parksville seniors, especially considering one-tenth of residents are over 80. Kitty is among 30 volunteers at the drop-in centre. She rarely sits still as she answers a call from her ofﬁce, then looks in on members line-dancing in the spacious rec room. More folks are gathered at tables by the lounge enjoying coffee. She pours me a cup “on the house.” “There’s a good feeling here,” says Kitty. “We have lots of fun and laughs.” Daily activities for members include everything from yoga and computer workshops to table tennis and darts. Three-quarters of the Centre’s 400 members are female, Kitty estimates. “But that’s the way it always is,” she says about the male-female ratio in seniors’ groups. The Centre registered as a society 20 years ago, buying a small house near downtown for a mere $45,000. Five years ago, against a backdrop of escalating real estate prices, the society burned their mortgage. But fundraising never stops. Coming 22

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soon is singer Peggy Kinsmen in concert, raising money for the Centre and breast cancer research. Copies of Senior Living magazine and other helpful brochures are displayed on the entrance’s foyer table. Kitty says the Centre posts employment ads too. She says some seniors work part-time at Tim Hortons or similar places around town. They also keep busy volunteering. According to a municipal survey of Parksville seniors, which Kitty helped conduct last year, about half the 356 respondents volunteer in the community. Considering 74 per cent surveyed own their residence, seniors are more likely to volunteer than have paid work. But 45 per cent of seniors surveyed also live alone, and City Councillor Mark Lefebvre says this is the most significant research finding. “We have to take care of our seniors,” says Lefebvre. “I’ll be there pretty soon myself.” Lefebvre predicts a population “crunch” will come in 2010, and Parksville needs to be prepared. He is part of a committee on city council involved with many initiatives. “Our model is the Saanich community, which is regarded as a senior-friendly centre,” he says referring to the Victoria suburb. Working within a larger community boundary known as Oceanside, Lefebvre hopes more doctors are hired with longer clinic hours; the business sector is trained to provide seniorssensitive hospitality; and public transportation is expanded. While most Parksville seniors surveyed have a car or access to a car, 20 per cent rely on public transport. And a walk around the residential streets near the city centre reveals lots of crosswalks, but few sidewalks. Considering the nearest hospital is in Nanaimo, and some specialists are in Victoria or on the Mainland, transportation is a key issue. However, Parksville does have public and volunteer transportation services. As well, a private franchise called “Driving Miss Daisy” now competes with taxis for seniors’ dollars, providing comfortable car transport at $40 to $60 an hour. And though the survey indicates Parksville elders feel safe at home and around town, the local RCMP have seen a need for crime awareness workshops. Eileen Sneddon, President of the Community Policing Offices, says the public is constantly warned about telephone and

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Dear Goldie: My friend and I both lost our spouses about 10 years ago. We have a close relationship and get along very well. So, you are probably wondering how I could have a problem. Well, he wants me to move in with him and I can’t stand how untidy he is in his home. He leaves dirty dishes in the sink, never makes his bed and leaves papers scattered everywhere! He is a very clean, well-dressed person, but obviously hates housework. I really care for him, but I don’t want to be his maid. Is there any answer to this problem? S.W. Dear S.W.: You are wise to look at your situation clearly. You obviously want to retain your good relationship and, it is true, you could become a housemaid. Some women have found that the wining, dining and travel disappear when they accept marriage or live-in arrangements. The following two ideas could put your worries to rest. First, have an open discussion with your friend and convey your fears are about a future together. Ask for a trial period to see if he can change. Or, secondly, you can choose to remain in your present situation – close

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he holiday travel season is here, and if you plan to board your pets while you’re out of town, BBB advises you research and find a safe and secure kennel for your pet while you’re gone. Although we receive few complaints on Vancouver Island, complaints across North America about pet kennels and boarding facilities have more than doubled in the last five years; in 2006, BBBs across the North America took in approximately 500 complaints. Grievances included disputes over billing, while the bulk focused on the treatment of the pet. Owners say their pets came back from some especially bad boarding kennels severely dehydrated and malnourished or rife with fleas, ticks and even maggots. Worst-case scenarios included pets that became extremely ill from their stay at poor facilities, while some contracted conditions such as pneumonia, which resulted in lengthy and expensive stays at animal care facilities. The BBB offers this advice to help pet owners choose a safe and reliable home-away-from-home for their pets: • Check the kennel out with BBB first at vi.bbb.org to make sure they have a good track record for keeping customers satisfied and treating animals well. • Ask your friends, neighbours, veterinarian or local animal shelters for recommendations. Also, the American Boarding Kennels Association’s website (www.abka.com) has a pet

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Step Out for Alzheimer’s On Sunday, January 27, thousands of British Columbians will “step out” to support people living with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia as part of the 6th annual Investors Group Walk for Memories. The Walk will take place in 13 communities around the province, including Courtenay, Nanaimo and Victoria. A fundraiser supporting programs and services delivered by the Alzheimer Society of B.C., the event raises money to help British Columbians impacted by dementia through research, education, information and support. Last year, nearly $90,000 was raised through Walks held on Vancouver Island! It’s easy to get started as an individual participant, or to start your own team. Go to www.walkformemories.com and sign-up online, or register in person through your nearest Alzheimer Resource Centre. Once you’ve registered, use the online fundraising system to create your personal Walk webpage. Include your fundraising goal, a photo and your own message, and send e-mails to your friends asking for support – or encourage them to join you! Each Walk is organized by local volunteers and honours people in the community whose lives have been touched by the disease. More than 63,400 British Columbians live with dementia; it’s a long, demanding and emotional journey for the person with the disease and their caregivers. It is the countless number of caregivers, the unsung heroes, who will be honoured and recognized during the Walk in Victoria. Start 2008 on the right foot – or the left – and support the thousands of people impacted by dementia in our province by taking part in the Investors Group Walk for Memories. For more information or to register, visit www.walkformemories.com or call 250-382-2033, tollfree 1-800-667-3742. SL

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hy are a couple of retired academics hopping on trains up and down Vancouver Island and back and forth across the country? Simple. And maybe not so simple. We’re checking out labyrinths - new iterations of that ancient, complex design that has inspired people of many religions, regions and walks of life to explore the practice of a walking meditation. My wife, Carol, was first interested in the myth of the labyrinth and visited labyrinths at Grace Cathedral in San Francisco and Chartres in France. Later, after being diagnosed with breast cancer, she sought out the labyrinth for a more urgent reason, as a healing ritual. “I find that, in a time of difficulty, it offers me a framework that lets me reflect on the things that really matter to me,” she says. Carol is not alone in this. Dr. Jeannie Cockell and Dr. Joan McArthur Blair recently moved from B.C. to take up positions in Nova Scotia, and have mowed a seven-circuit labyrinth in their front yard. “We use it as a place of reflection and sanctuary,” they say, “and we built it with much measuring, great laughter and joy.” Labyrinths are inviting walkways usually laid out in brick, flat stones, concrete, gravel or any standard paving material. The diameter of the labyrinth circle can vary from the 30 feet of the small Rosemont United churchyard labyrinth on Montreal’s Rue Terrebonne to the 100 feet of the big outdoor labyrinth on Bowen Island. Toronto’s Church of the Holy Trinity Public Labyrinth is an amazing space: Trinity Square Park is a quiet haven hidden behind the church in the centre of downtown Toronto surrounded by colossal commercial towers. Against these towers and the bustle of the city, the labyrinth’s 60 feet of sweeping horizontal curves clear and claim a silent, powerful, mystic space. Vancouver Island offers a range of indoor and outdoor labyrinths in Victoria, Chemainus, Duncan, Cobble Hill and Nanaimo, to name only a few. Ten years ago, Janet Etzkorn and her sister built a labyrinth at the Carmanah Point lighthouse, midway on the West Coast Trail. “My dad passed away and it was very much a tool for grieving,” says Janet. She continues walking the labyrinth, many times a week. “In hiking season, I often see visitors walking it with their packs on!” In Nanaimo, the Bethlehem Retreat Centre, operated by the Benedictine Sisters of the House of Bread, is home to an outdoor labyrinth described as a meditative pathway that can be used for those on a spiritual journey in any tradition.

BY MIKE MATTHEWS

“Our labyrinth is used at various times of the day throughout the year by individuals or groups who find it a meaningful reflective practice,” says Sister Jill, who oversaw the installation of the labyrinth. Reflection may begin with a walk. Walking, after all, is an exercise for those of us who have reached an age where the appetite for violent exertion and the muscles to support heavy exercising have dwindled away over the years. We walk the dog, stroll through parks and gardens, or just push our tired old frames around a few blocks near home. We’re with companions, perhaps, or talking to ourselves, planning that dinner party and wondering if those guests will actually get along alright. What we need is a way of getting our head clear. My interest in the labyrinth began with my wife’s responses to her own experiences walking the indoor labyrinth in Vancouver’s St. Paul’s Anglican Church. After her cancer surgery, she received some comfort or clarity from walking the twisting, back-and-forth pathway painted on the floor of the church hall. It is “the only meditation I know that helps me to sort out my thoughts,” she explains in her memoir, Reflections on the C-Word: At the centre of the cancer labyrinth, recently published by Saanich’s Hedgerow Press. My own experience walking the labyrinth has been less dramatic than Carol’s, but I do find it a calming activity, something that lets you concentrate, pursue a line of thought as your eyes and feet follow the gentle about-turns and semi-circle curves of the path. The centre of the labyrinth can be a place where you pause, unmoving, until you reach some resolution in your thoughts. Or it may be just a halfway point; followed immediately by the journey back to the busier world you came from. The 11-circuit labyrinth, best known at Chartres Cathedral, is a design developed over thousands of years. Its centre or resting place will usually have six curved bays in which you may stand, kneel or crouch for as long as suits your mood or your meditation. You begin your labyrinth walk briskly, pacing down a straight path to near the centre, then turning to begin the long series of curves that will bring you to the resting place, the halfway point. Your pause in the heart of the labyrinth will have brought you to some issue or concern that you want to work on, and your movement back through the curving paths to the everyday world is likely to be unhurried. Perhaps you will pause at a turn in the path. Others moving along the path can quietly move around you. There are hardly any rules for labyrinth walking than there are for a walk in the woods. SL

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t this time of year, it seems our world becomes a little kinder. We not only send cards and letters to our loved ones, we connect with people we haven’t been in touch with since last year at this time. What if we took the feeling this season creates and carried it through the rest of the year? Many of you have heard of and subscribe to the concept of Random Acts of Kindness. I even saw the motto sprawled across a car’s bumper “Practice Random Acts of Kindness and Senseless Acts of Beauty.” There are websites that help In-

ternet users understand kindness and lead visitors to an increased need to be thoughtful towards others. We know how wonderful we feel when we commit one of these random acts, especially when we can remain anonymous. Or maybe we don’t want to remain anonymous. Maybe our egos demand that someone knows that we have just done something wonderful for them. Here is an idea to carry through the year. Each day, practise one idea that will help bring more kindness into the world. It can be as simple as saying (silently) “Peace Be With You” when you pass another. It can be made into a game: How many people can you pass this silent message onto in a block? Then the next day, see if you can improve those numbers. I have recently heard of an act of kindness that is a little more open. It seems people up and down the Island are ﬁnding small rocks with the word “kindness” painted on them. A physical reminder that kindness can be

carried with you wherever you go. When you carry kindness with you, pass some on to others. Kindness is one of those things in life that the more you give away, the more you receive in return. I don’t know who this phantom kindness deliverer is, but I want to send them a giant hug. Kindness is a gift that we can give to anyone; from the person we pass on the street, to the harried service clerk in the large and small stores where we shop, to those people who are closest to us. I would love to hear about your Acts of Kindness. To you all, I wish you kindness, peace and love. May you receive back tenfold that which you send out. SL

Pat Nichol is a speaker and published author. She makes her home in Victoria, but travels the world. She can be reached at www.patnichol.com

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of the Second World War through 1960, you might recall sets of “bubble lights,” with eight to 20 sockets. An Everlite eight-socket set of mini-bubblers, with its original box, now books at $200. While the word “scraps” brings to mind what might be left on a Christmas dinner plate (like beets or sprouts you didn’t like as a child, and still don’t now), there is also the scrapbook type of scrap. These are cut-to-shape figures on coated, coloured cardboard, which were hung on the tree as ornaments. In this case, size does matter. Values go up as size increases, and secular images are worth more than those with a religious theme. Do modern Christmas collectibles have value? This huge category includes limited edition plates, bells, ornaments, life-sized figurines, Christmas cards and biscuit tins, to mention a few. In most cases, any secondary market value falls below the original issue price due to numbers made. One notable exception is the first Hallmark Star Trek ornament, the Starship Enterprise, which, with its box, sells in the $150 neighbourhood. Strong interest from Trekkies keeps the value high. I’m often asked about values for used Christmas cards. Usually these date from the 1930s through the mid-1960s, and are simple-design boxed cards. These have no value monetarily, but can be used for scrapbooking, if there is no family sentimental attachment. You may recall my column on old postcards from last year, and I must mention that pre-1920 postcards depicting full length Santas in robes other than red are much sought after. Other paper items worth retrieving from storage include large-size calendars given as premiums by stores at Christmas, with those from the Hudson’s Bay Company as an excellent example. While I’ve mentioned cash values

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extensively, often values lie in the good times memorabilia recalls. There is no collector value in ticket stubs from a 1980s “Breakfast With Santa” at Eaton’s. Memories of taking my small children there to watch (I suspect) a slightly tipsy Santa, the world’s oldest magician and two perspiring young ladies wearing Ewok suits serving scrambled eggs are – priceless! Comments and suggestions for future columns are welcome and may be sent to Michael Rice Box 86 Saanichton, B.C. V8M 2C3, or via email to SL fenian@shaw.ca

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ITALIAN COFFEE LIQUEUR SPONGE CAKE Grated peel of 1 lemon 15-30 ml (1-2 Tbsp) semi-sweet cocoa powder Boil ½ to ¾ of a pot of water. Reduce to low heat until custard mixture is prepared. Using an electric mixer beat the egg whites until stiff and foamy. In a separate stainless steel bowl, beat the egg yolks and sugar until mixture is thick. Add the egg whites to the egg yolk mixture. Beat in vanilla. Mix well. Slowly add the flour to the egg mixture, beating slowly to avoid any clumping. Set bowl on top of pot of boiling water and gradually stir in the milk with the lemon peels and cinnamon sticks. Stir continuously at low to medium heat to avoid burning – custard thickens as it cooks. Divide into two bowls: one plain vanilla and one chocolate (add cocoa). Cool. Refrigerate. ASSEMBLY: Make a litre of espresso coffee. Add 75-120 ml (5-8 Tbsp) Tia Maria or liqueur of choice and 45-75 ml (3-5 Tbsp) rum. Set aside to cool. Divide the Bundt cake into 3 layers. Drench the bottom layer with 1/3 of coffee mixture; spread with chocolate custard. Set the middle layer on top. Drench the second layer with coffee mixture and spread with vanilla custard. Place the top layer on; drench with the remains of the coffee. Wrap tightly and refrigerate overnight to enhance the flavours. Next day, spread with whipped cream, dust with cocoa powder or add fresh sliced fruits such as strawberries, kiwis, mandarins, peaches, etc. before serving. Note: The custard filling is also excellent for cannoli.

Please send us YOUR favourite Heritage Recipe along with the memories it evokes. Without your contributions, Tasty Traditions doesn’t exist. Contact us at editor@seniorlivingmag.com or 153, 1581-H Hillside Ave., Victoria, BC V8T 2C1

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Protecting the Sooke Hills An avid hiker and nature lover, Larry Talarico loved the Sooke Hills. Sadly, while hiking with friends in July 2005, Larry suffered a heart attack and passed away. But his spirit lives on, and TLC is proud to announce the launch of the Larry Talarico Memorial Campaign to help protect Sooke Hills. The area of the Sooke Hills in which Larry had been hiking is part of the Capital Regional District’s (CRD) vision for a Sea-to-Sea Green Blue Belt. Once completed, the belt will create a continuous protected area from Salt Spring Island to the Sooke Basin, providing habitat for wildlife (like black bear, cougar and elk). The goal of the campaign is to raise $750,000. TLC’s contribution of $500,000 will go to the overall purchase price of the new regional parkland located east of Sooke Potholes Regional Park. The remaining $250,000 will be dedicated to the maintenance and upkeep of the property. Together with CRD, TLC plans to purchase 932 hectares from TimberWest Forest Corporation. The Talarico family is leading the campaign by donating $150,000 towards this dream. Alison Talarico, Larry’s wife, says, “Larry would have been proud to be involved in this campaign.” TLC has until December 31, 2007, to complete the deal and is asking for support from concerned citizens, community organizations, private donors and local businesses. To make your gift to the Larry Talarico Memorial Campaign, please call 1-877-485-2422 or give online at www.conservancy.bc.ca

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CUBA - Spanish Studies in Cuba (Havana). University age to seniors $3000 Cdn for 7 weeks. Hotel with breakfast and dinner, tuition. Flights not included. 250478-0494 ssic@telus.net

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HOME INSTEAD SENIOR CARE - Do you need a little assistance? Meal preparation, light housekeeping, laundry, shopping, errands, or respite. We also hire seniors. Call Alistair 382-6565.

WANTED: OLD POSTCARDS, stamp accumulations, and pre-1950 stamped envelopes. Also buying old coins, medals and badges. Please call Michael 6529412 or e-mail fenian@shaw.ca

RUTH M.P. HAIRSTYLING Certiﬁed Hairdresser “Serving Seniors in Greater Victoria” in the convenience of your home. (bonded) Cell: 893-7082.

HAIRSTYLIST has a private and comfortable studio in her Sidney home. Christine offers a full, professional service. Special senior rates. Please call 882-4247.

CLEANING LADY AVAILABLE: mature, dependable, thorough, experienced. Please call Nicole at 3851696.

THE BETTER BUSINESS BUREAU of Vancouver Island is located at 220 - 1175 Cook Street, Victoria BC V8V 4A1. Toll-free phone line for Up-Island 1877-826-4222 (South Island dial 386-6348). www. bbbvanisland.org E-mail: info@bbbvanisland.org

SENIOR’S ADVOCATE, Ms. Toni Graeme. Helping seniors adjust to life changes: Loneliness, need to move, sadness and more. 250-656-0537 tgraeme@shaw.ca

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Crisis & Information Line In operation since 1971, sevendays-a-week, 24-7, NEED Crisis & Information Line offers the community continuous and conﬁdential telephone service delivered through the concern and respect of professionally trained volunteers. “I’ve been at NEED for 19 years and I still look forward to coming in to do my shift each week,” says one volunteer. “People sometimes ask me how I could volunteer at a crisis line for such a long time and not burn out.” “I think there are a lot of reasons. One is that I don’t think of what I do as that different from the rest of my life. The people I talk to on the phone are not that different from me. They happen to be in a crisis at the moment and I am not. Tomorrow, I could be the one calling – as I have from time to time. So, I don’t put myself under any extra pressure that I am anybody special.” “I receive as much from callers as I give. Anyone who has the courage to call and share their troubles is an inspiration to me. It’s not easy to ‘break the ice’ and admit we have problems. I see the caller and the listener as equal partners, belonging to that brave fraternity of those willing to look for the truth about themselves.” “Also, I have learned to be happy with small miracles. A lot of superﬁciality exists in our lives today, so it is a pleasure spending fours hours at NEED each week, getting down to real issues with real people.” “Finally, I live in the moment as much as I can. And at the age of 75, with the aches and pains of aging, living in the moment is a real blessing. When I talk to people on the NEED phone, I am totally with them, giving them everything I have in me, because that kind of deep human connection is

healing for both of us – or any of us. But, when I ﬁnish my calls at NEED, they are truly ﬁnished. I don’t dwell on them or let them dwell on me. I remember the people I talk to but the emotions we share are like a river that moves on. I don’t keep those emotions around to bug me.” NEED Crisis & Information Line provides excellent training, support and supervision by professional staff. The

volunteers develop friendships with each other, and have the comfort and security of a well-appointed ofﬁce in which to do their work. NEED is recruiting volunteers for the 24-Hour Crisis Line. If you are between the ages of 19 and 100, and want more information about how you can make a difference in your life and the lives of others, contact NEED at 386-6328 or visit the website at www.needcrisis.bc.ca SL

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Christmas in the Gallery Shop, an exciting and innovative selection of gifts designed to ﬁt every need and every budget. (Admission to Gallery is not required to enter the Gallery Shop). Until Feb 24/08: Transporters: Contemporary Salish Art. Until Jan 13/08: Marianne Nicolson: The Return of Abundance. Until Jan 13/08: Pagoda Pads: Karen Tam. Until March 2/08: Treasures Unearthed: Chinese Archeological Treasures – 16th C. BCE – 10th C.CE. Until Dec 31st : Small Works & Exhibition Sales: small format artwork by local artists for $100 each. AGGV, 1040 Moss St. For more info, 384-4101 or www.aggv.bc.ca

ART SHOW & SALE

Dec 1 - Jan 9 Collection of paintings by The Studio of Harmonious Endeavour. Dec 1-9, 9am- 4pm. Location: The Goward House Society, 2495 Arbutus Rd. Artist’s Reception and Open House, Sunday Dec 2 from 2-4pm. For more info call 477-4401 or visit www.gowardhouse.com/artshow

ART SHOW

Jan 10-31 Goward House presents student works from Frank Hobbs Elementary School, Cedar Hill & Arbutus Middle Schools and Mt. Doug Sec. School. Open to the Public. 9-4pm weekdays and 1-4pm on Sundays. The Artist’s opening reception will take place on Jan 13, from 2-4pm. Located at 2495 Arbutus Rd. For more info call 477-4401 or visit www.gowardhouse.com/artshow

DRAWING STUDIO

Thursdays 1-3pm Esquimalt Silver Threads. Students explore a variety of mediums and subjects. Beginner and Intermediate levels welcome. For more info call 386-6108.

FUNDRAISERS BE A SANTA TO A SENIOR

Dec 1-10 Local retailers, care homes and Home Instead Senior Care are joining forces for a third year to provide gifts to isolated seniors during the holiday season. ‘Be a Santa to a Senior’ ornament tags will be displayed on each participating retailer’s Christmas tree until Dec 10th; Donations accepted until the 14th. Participating Merchants: Zellers (Hillside & Tillicum); Walmart (Town & Country Mall/Langford); and the Christian Book & Music Store, located at 3082 Blanshard St. See page 32, for more info on how you can participate. For more info call: 382-6565.

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Dec 3 Proceeds will help fund the construction of an orphanage in The Republic of Guinea. Tickets available at the door $12 ($8 for students). St Aidan’s United Church at 7:30pm; 3703 St. Aidan’s Rd.

LADYSMITH FESTIVAL OF TREES

Dec 1 & 2 Vote for your favourite tree with a cash donation. Proceeds will beneﬁt the local Food Bank. Non-perishable food donations are also welcome. The Festival of Trees continues until Christmas Eve from 12- 4pm. Sponsored by the Ladysmith Downtown Assoc. See website for more details: www.ladysmithdowntown.com or call John Surtees, 250-245-3700.

FREE ABKHAZI GARDENS CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS

Dec 1-23 Come and enjoy the Christmas displays of local artists. Admission is free. 11-4pm daily. Located at 1964 Fairﬁeld Rd. For more info call 598-8096.

CHRISTMAS CONCERTS & MUSIC ADVENT CONCERT SERIES

Dec 5, 12 & 19 Dec 5 – Der Heysar Klezmar & Chanukak Music. Dec 12 – Bel Canto Singers. Dec 19 Church of St. Mary the Virgin Choir. Concert times: Wednesdays, 12:10 to 12:45pm. Location: Church of St. Mary the Virgin, 1701 Elgin Rd. Oak Bay. Admission by donation. Bring your own lunch; tea & coffee provided. For more info contact Frances 360-0356.

BEL CANTO SINGERS – “A FEAST OF ENGLISH CAROLS”

Dec 9 Concert time: 2:30pm. Location: Church of St. Mary the Virgin, 1701 Elgin Rd. Oak Bay. Tickets $12/10 & Family $25. For more info contact Frances 360-0356.

SIMPLE GIFTS

Dec 8 The Victoria Good News Choir, directed by Louise Rose will perform at 7pm at St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church, Douglas St. at Broughton. Tickets are $15 and are available at Lyle’s Place, Munro’s Books, Larsen Music & Ivy Books. For more info call 658-1946.

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Dec 14 7pm. at St. Martin-in–the-Fields Anglican Church, 550 Obed Ave. Victoria. Admission $12, includes refreshments. For more info, call Val 388-5272.

AMAHL & THE NIGHT VISITORS

Jan 11 & Jan 12 Christmas Opera by Gian Carlo Menotti. Presented by the Christ Church Cathedral Endowment Fund. Jan 11 at 7:30pm. Jan 12 at 2pm. Tickets $20 for Adults, $12 for children. For more information call 3834286.

THEATRE CHRISTMAS WITH SCROOGE

Dec 20 The Charlie White Theatre in Sidney presents Christmas with Scrooge. Proceeds from the Dec 20 7:30pm Gala Night Performance will go to beneﬁt the Arbutus Middle School Drama Dept. Dec 21 & 22 7:30pm. Dec 22 & Dec 23-matinees at 2pm. Presented by Mountain Dream Productions. Tickets $20. Phone 656-0275 for more info.

DISNEY’S ALADDIN JR.

Dec 7-16 Kaleidoscope Theatre presents Disney’s Aladdin Jr. at The McPherson Playhouse. Tickets on sale at McPherson Box Ofﬁce. Prices range from $21.50-$23.50. Call 3866121 (Toll-free line 1.888.717.6121) to charge by phone. Showtimes: Dec 7, 8, 14 & 15 at 7pm. Matinees Dec 9 & 16 at 2pm.

A VERY STICKY CHRISTMAS

Dec 18, 19, 21 Ladysmith Little Theatre presents “A Very Sticky Christmas”. Dec 18, 19 & 21 shows include Supper Buffet, doors open 6pm with showtime at 7:30pm. Dec 18, 19 & 21 Dec 22 Matinees, doors open at noon with showtime at 1:30pm - lunch buffet included. Adults $20 Kids $10. Dec 26, 27, 29 & 30. Doors open at 1pm with showtime at 1:30pm – no

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buffet. Tickets: Adults $15 Kids $5. Evening Performances Dec 28 & 29; doors open at 6:30pm with show at 7pm – no buffet. Dec 31st performance: all tickets $20, includes buffet. Showtime 8pm, doors open at 7:30pm. Visit www.ladysmithslittletheatre.com for more info.

OF THE FIELDS LATELY

Dec 1-8 Dec 2 Ladysmith Little Theatre presents Senior’s soup & sandwich Sunday. All tickets $12. Doors open 12:30pm; Showtime 2pm. Visit www.ladysmithslittletheatre.com for more info on other performance times. Located at 4985 Christie Rd.

SPEAKERS & WORKSHOPS ‘STRONG SENIORS; STRONG COMMUNITY’ WORKSHOPS

Dec 5 & 12 James Bay Community Project, 547 Michigan St. Dec 5 & 12, 1-3pm. For more info call Sue 382-3151

HOSPICE PALLIATIVE CARE INFO EVENING

Dec 11 Do you or somebody you care about have questions about end-of-life care options? Panel discussion led by a nurse and counselor from Victoria Hospice. Open to all. Free Admission. Volunteer drivers available. 7-8:30pm. Salvation Army Citadel, 4030 Douglas off McKenzie near Pat Bay Highway. For more info or to book a ride, call 370-8813.

VICTORIA FLOWER ARRANGERS GUILD

Jan 8 Workshop: Jan 8 at 7:30pm, Basics 1 Workshop – vertical design using a wide shallow container. New members and visitors welcomed. Please note: no meeting in Dec. Garth Homer Centre, 813 Darwin Rd. For more info, call 598-8096.

OSTEOPOROSIS SUPPORT GROUP

Please note there will be no meeting for Jan 2008. Call 658-8993 for upcoming events.

MISC 20TH ANNUAL “CELEBRATE-A-LIFE”

Dec 5 – 16 Honour family or friends who have passed away. Trained Victoria Hospice volunteers staff this annual Dec tradition. Hillside Centre, 1644 Hillside Ave; daily during mall hours.

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Sun Dec 16, the Celebrate-A-Life Memorial Service will be held at UVic’s Interfaith Chapel at 4pm. Open to all. Admission is free. For more info call 952-5723.

WESTSHORE COMMUNITY CONCERT BAND

Welcomes New Players. Join Greater Victoria’s newest musical ensemble, bringing together musicians of all ages. Rehearsals are Tues 7-9pm at Pilgrim United Church, 3319 Painter Rd. Bring your band instrument and rekindle your passion. Call Mike 474-3999.

CONNECTING HANDS FROM AROUND THE WORLD

Dec 6 Silent Auction, Music & Dance performances at the University Centre Farquhar Auditorium; 6-8:30pm. Adults $ 17, O.A.P. & Students $12, Children (under 12) $8. Tickets available at the University Auditorium Box Ofﬁce. For more info call 598-8991 or visit www.creativepeacemurals.com

OUTDOORS GARDEN CITY WANDERERS

Monday morning walks start time 9 am. Call Rick at 4787020 for current schedule. Tuesday evening walks: Jan 8, 15, 22 & 29: Meet at The Running Room, Broadmead Shopping Centre. Registration 5:45 pm, walk 6 pm. Contact Gail at 477-4472. Wednesday evening walks: Jan 2, 9, 16, 23 & 30: Meet at the Henderson Recreation Centre, 2291 Cedar Hill X Rd. Registration 5:45 pm, walk 6 pm. Contact Murray 721-3065. Jan 5 – 10 km walk (rated 1B). Meet at Harbour Towers Hotel, 345 Quebec St. For info, call Jaya 381-8365. Jan 20 6/10 km walk (rated 2B). Meet at Beckwith Park on Beckwith Avenue. For info, call Joan at 479-6512.

BOOK LAUNCH THE GARDEN THAT YOU ARE

Dec 8 Katherine Gordon introduces her latest book; The Garden That You Are. Saturday Dec 8th, 1-3:30 pm at the Abkhazi Gardens, 1964 Fairﬁeld Rd. For more info call 598-8096.

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Dec 8, 7:30 pm at The Port Theatre – Nanaimo. Tickets $35. For more info, call 250-754-8550. Dec 9, 7:30 pm at The Tidemark Theatre – Campbell River. Tickets $35. For more info, call 250-287-7465.

WINTER HARP – CHRISTMAS CONCERT

Dec 16 Playing at the Port Theatre in Nanaimo for 2 shows only; 3:30 & 7:30 pm. Tickets are $34. Members/Groups $30. College Students $17/High School-EyeGo $5. To reserve seats please call: 250-754-8550. For more info or to purchase tickets online, please visit: www.porttheatre.com or www.winterharp.com .

CHRISTMAS CONCERT

Dec 21 & 22 Vancouver Island Symphony presents season favourites like Pat-A-Pan, Silent Night, Carol of the Bells and much more. Sonja Gustafson will envelop you with her warm and melodious voice. Along with the traditional carol songalong, this is an evening sure to get you into the festive mood! Dec 21 & 22 at 7:30 pm. Tickets: Adults $42, Seniors $40, Students $17.

PETER & THE WOLF

Dec 26-31, Jan 4 & 5 Nanaimo Theatre Group presents Annual Christmas Pantomime at the Bailey Studio on Rosstown Rd. Tickets $20. Showtimes: Dec 26, 27, 28, 29 & 30 at 7:30 pm. Jan 4 & 5 at 7:30 pm. Special New Years Eve performance at 9 pm with refreshments served at midnight. Matinees at 1:30 pm. Dec 26, 27, 29, 30 & 31. For more info call: 250-7587224 or visit www.bailey.nisa.com

VIGIL

Jan 23-27 TheatreOne in the Round presents Vigil, by Morris Panych. Evenings at 7:30pm, matinees at 2:00pm. Tickets: $28, Member- $26, Student- $17. For more info call: 250287-7465.

ELDER COLLEGE INFO SESSION

Dec 5 Winter/Spring classes to be discussed. Dec 5, 1:30-2:30 pm. Malaspina University-College Bldg. 300. For more info call: 250-740-6160.

NORTH ISLAND EVENTS OH NIGHT DIVINE – A ROMANZA CHRISTMAS

Partial proceeds will go to beneﬁt the Vancouver Island Symphony Education Program.

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SEARCH FOR THE PERFECT TREE BY AL KEITH

t happens to me every December, when Christmas tree lots spring to life all over the city, offering selections of freshly cut spruce, firs and pine trees to decorate our homes. That’s when I’m reminded of an event that happened some 40 years ago, when our children were young and we lived in a small town up north. Returning home from a business trip, I found our three young sons, ages five to 11, up in arms. And it didn’t take them long to let me know what was behind their mutiny. “Dad, do you know there’s only six days left ‘til Christmas?” Alan, our oldest, confronted me as I unpacked my suitcase. “Well, yes, I suppose so.” I murmured as I sank into the closest chair. Tired from my flight, I was still curious to find out what the boys were up to this time. Alan quickly filled me in: “It’s almost Christmas and we haven’t got a tree!” His voice was one of doom, and his younger brothers, Philip and Brad, agreed solemnly. I thought about it for a moment. The truth was I had been so involved in my trip to the capital, I had forgotten about our annual safari into the woods to find our tree. Each year, the forestry people allowed locals to cut their own small trees in certain restricted areas. That’s why a trek into the winter forest had become a cherished tradition. “Dad must be tired from his trip,” my wife suggested as she entered the room with a tray of steaming cookies. “Perhaps this year we should buy a tree from a lot in town.” Grabbing a warm gingerbread star, Alan took a bite and shook his head. “Mom, haven’t you seen the trees that are left on the lots? Pitiful!” He took another bite while Philip, nine, nodded in agreement and Brad just looked doleful. In the matter of a Christmas tree, they were all in agreement. Our tree simply had to be one of the best! “But there’s still time to look for a tree in the woods,” Brad finally ventured. He looked at me. “Isn’t there, Dad?” I nibbled on my gingerbread Santa and tried to think this through. That’s when young Brad tugged on my tie and whispered to me. “I had a dream about a beautiful tree, Dad. Really!” There was no doubt in his voice, but his brothers rolled their eyes. They knew our youngest still believed in magic, in the Tooth Fairy, the Easter Bunny and Santa Claus. I sat and remembered one of my Christmases when I was five or six, and the idea of celebrating Christmas without a nice tree even then was unthinkable. I watched my dad drill 46

holes into a small, skinny fir, all he could afford then, and afterwards fitted shaped branches into those holes. “Our tree has to be nice and full to hold all our decorations,” he explained to me, and it had seemed a good idea to me. The boys kept up their barrage all evening, and before they crawled into their beds, they had worn me down. So, the next morning, fortified by a pancake breakfast, we piled into our station wagon and headed for the woods. At the posted area, we parked our car. Then my sons, bundled to the teeth in snowsuits, parkas, mitts and toques, made straight for the trees. “Stay in sight of each other,” I yelled, trying to keep up, with little Brad at my side. But as we headed deeper into the snowy woods it became clear the area had already been “scoured” by other parties. Carrying a small saw and with Brad holding my hand, we plowed through the deepening snow, past birch groves and tall firs; much too tall for us, of course. The remaining evergreens were scrawny and not worth a second look. We had been looking for almost an hour when Alan let me catch up with him. “We’re just too late,” he announced. “Half the town must have come through here.” Philip agreed, pulling a face. “Let’s give it another half hour,” I suggested. “Then we’ll turn back and see what kind of trees are left in town. All right?” One after another, my sons nodded, disappointment etched on their young faces. To make the situation worse, ten minutes later, it began to snow. Large, fluffy flakes at first, which quickly turned into heavier snow; I knew I had to call off our search. For a change, the boys came willingly when I called them. But before we could start back, a little snowshoe hare exploded from its cover a few feet ahead, leaped across our trail and disappeared in the undergrowth. Like a flash, little Brad left my side and gave chase. “What’s gotten into the peewee?” Alan demanded as he joined me. “Dad, why is he chasing that bunny?” I shrugged and looked at the heavy sky. “I haven’t a clue. But the snow is getting heavier, so we’d better find your brother. And quickly!” Following Brad’s tracks, we broke through the shrubbery until we finally came to a little clearing. As I took in the scene before me, I motioned everyone to a stop. We had found our youngest all right, but he was not alone. Looking like one of Santa’s elves in his red snowsuit and white toque, Brad stood in the centre of a clearing, close to a solitary evergreen. And under its snow-laden boughs, crouched the little hare, gazing at him without the slightest sign of fear.

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“There you are!” my eldest’s sharp voice cut through the silence, breaking the spell. In two giant leaps, the bunny disappeared into the bushes. It was then that we noticed the tree, and I knew we had found what we came looking for. A noble blue spruce, standing seven-feet tall, its snowcovered branches were full and bushy, and I knew in my heart that if we had searched the whole forest, we would not have found its equal. “I told you we’d find our tree,” said Brad, little face glowing, “And the bunny helped me find it, Dad. He really did!” His brothers looked at each other, pulling faces, so I quickly took charge. “We better cut that tree and get out of the woods here. The snow is really getting heavy.” Philip went to work with the saw, and in spite of the blowing snow, the trip back to the road went faster than I expected. In the car, I switched on the radio, hoping for a weather report, but instead I found our station playing Christmas carols. As a famous Children’s Choir started with a rendition of “O Christmas Tree,” we all joined in. A widower, I now live in the city. My sons are scattered across the continent, pursuing their careers, two with children of their own. But as I hang a spun-glass angel on my own small, but pretty, artificial tree, my thoughts keep travelling back in time. And I smile as I remember three pairs of young, eager eyes, and how they lit up when a little bunny led us to the SL perfect Christmas tree.

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Reflections

BY GIPP FORSTER

THEN & NOW

A GATHERING OF FRIENDS

y wife just accused me of playing with dolls. I’m in the midst of setting up our annual Christmas display in the garage. We have three decorated trees, fibre optic stuff, 40-plus animated dolls who wave lighted candles, a nativity surrounded by moving angels, miniature village houses on a shelf the length of the garage, stuffed toys galore, trains, two life-size Santas, little Santas and little sleighs with reindeer, two fake fireplaces, toys of every description and that’s not all! I like to think of my wife and myself as collectors. People call it our “Christmas” collection, and we smile and nod politely. Only we know we didn’t set out to “collect” per se; we simply got out of control. We are finished buying though. We are both adamant about that – unless, of course, we find an item we really like. But getting back to what I was saying: my wife just accused me of playing with dolls! I told her I wasn’t “playing,” I was working, setting up the display, which is no easy task! When she came into the garage, unexpectedly, my back was to her. I was taking one of my frequent rests and holding an eight-inch Santa Claus in

one hand and a ﬁve-inch reindeer in the other! Just because I was bouncing Santa Claus along and with one leap landed him on the back of the reindeer crying in a hushed but loud voice and with great exuberance, “Dash away, dash away,” does not constitute playing with dolls! I was simply rehashing Clement Clarke Moore’s 1822 poem, ‘Twas the Night Before Christmas, in my mind and adding animation to secure accuracy. My wife considered that playing, failing to recognize the intellectual process of an ever-active mind. Just because I march our four black and red Nutcracker soldiers to their designated spots, imitating the sound of a bugle while I do so is simply adding ceremony to labour and should be recognized as such! Sure, I ask the life-size Santa how his spring, summer and autumn went, but that’s just being polite. That’s not playing! She raised her eyebrows, shook her head and went back into the house. I said a few words under my breath that even I couldn’t hear and went back to contemplating the work laid out before me. Playing with dolls indeed! I have to admit, though, that I am glad to see the moving dolls, stuffed toys and all the other treasures that have been sleeping in cases, on shelves and

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