May 2024

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Spring in Cottage country is always an exciting time as the Trades get busier, the town welcomes back our seasonal friends and we can safely put away our winter gear. We enjoy the ever popular “May 24" and we get to celebrate the Mothers in our lives. Apsley has Euchre back at the NKCC in support pf our Lions Club, the Legion is holding a Mothers Day Brunch May 12 and as always, great programming at the Library.

I wanted to share a picture I put together a few years back. One of myself, my Mother and my daughter. I always get a bit emotional every year around this time, as we lost my mother over 42 years ago to cancer...growing up without MY mother didn’t mean I grew up without A mother...it just meant I got mothered differently. A whole community stepped up for me and my brother: my Aunts, friends and other family members all filled the role. So this Mothers day, I welcome you to acknowledge the important and inspirational women (or men) in your life that nurtured and mothered you. It takes a village sometimes. xo

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Gayle Davis, Freelance

May - The Month of Transition and Promise

Well, the blithe and beautiful days of May are upon us. Hopefully we have seen the last of the snow until November.

Gardens are awakening and bringing forth their first offerings. Have you noticed that even the ‘weeds’ look pretty this time of the year? May is a month of transition. From cold to warm. From cloudy to sunny. From indoors to outdoors. Fire up the barbeque! So, aside from all that, what makes May so special? The name May has its roots in the Latin word Maius. In ancient Greek times, Maius was the name of the goddess of growth. How appropriate! Maius evolved into May in the 15 th century.

Everyone has heard of dancing around the maypole. May 1 st is designated as the day to celebrate Spring’s arrival in many places around the world. Dancing, music, and feasting are features of this originally pagan tradition. May Day festivals are still held today in many cultures as a joyful greeting to spring. The original maypole was usually a pine or birch tree. Today, maypoles can be fabricated and are often painted various colours to suit the region where the festivals are held. During the dance around the maypole, girls move in one direction with one colour of ribbon while boys move in the opposite direction with ribbon of a different colour, entwining the colourful ribbons as they dance in a circle around the pole. Long ago, the trunk of the tree represented masculine energy while the ribbons represented the female counterpart. The spectacle is a splendid reminder that spring is here, and rebirth has begun.

How about some May superstitions? While May is a popular month for weddings, in earlier times May was avoided as it was considered to be a less than favourable time to take the plunge. An adage from earlier times states, “Marry in May and you’ll rue the day.” Another

superstitious belief was that May was an unlucky time to buy a broom or wash blankets, as these activities could affect a person’s good fortune. “Buy a broom in May and sweep your family away” is an old English rhyme. As with most superstitious beliefs, these oral traditions make very little sense to us today. However, they served as cautionary folk tales until more scientific and factual information was available to explain the happenings of life.

In 2011, May the 4th was designated as Star Wars Day. Stating the date sounds like “May the Force [be with you],” a quote from this very popular, modernday movie. It has become a fan holiday that celebrates the Star Wars franchise. Today, Star Wars fans gather and dress as their favourite Star Wars character in annual observance of this event. The phrase also came into popular use in Britain, when Margaret Thatcher won the election and became the first female prime minister on May 4, 1979.

On the scientific side, the spectacular Eta Aquariids meteor shower passes by the earth and can be seen annually between April 19 and May 28. Discovered in 1870, the celestial event is easiest to view in the equatorial regions of the world. The meteor shower is best glimpsed just before dawn and has become a popular ‘May’ event in that part of the world.

If you were born in May, you are in very good company! Pamela Wallin, John F. Kennedy, Clint Eastwood, and Queen Victoria, all claim May as the month of their birth. While not scientific, there is a belief that those born in May have a greater chance of being successful in life. The above list a t t e s t s s o m e w h a t t o t h a t conclusion, even though the belief cannot be born out with deductive facts.

The much-storied days of May are finally here, heralding Spring’s long-anticipated arrival! May the Fourth be with you!

Contributed by Joyce Corner

The Frozen River

BOOK NOOK

Written by Ariel Lawhon

The Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon is based on the remarkable life of Martha Ballard, a midwife in 18th century Maine. Martha was illiterate when she married Ephraim. He taught her to read and write and gave her a diary where she recorded daily events.

Martha is called to establish the cause of death of Joshua Burgess who has been found frozen in the Kennebec River. She establishes Joshua has been badly beaten and hanged. Cause of death, murder. A local physician arrives and declares the death to be an accident. Martha is appalled and continues the investigation on her own.

Martha makes all her calls by walking or riding her frisky horse, Brutus. Martha and Ephraim have 9 children. She manages to look after her family and make the necessary visits to deliver babies or for health reasons whatever the hour.

Martha gets a call from Rebecca Foster and finds she has been badly beaten and raped..Rebecca takes the case to court accusing Joshua Burgess and Joseph North, both well respected citizens, of rape. Martha is called as a witness. No decision is made and eventually the case is heard by two upper courts and North is acquitted. North seeks revenge on Martha and family.

Martha survives North's attacks. She and Ephraim move to a new property on the Kennebec with their six remaining children, three having succumbed earlier to diphtheria.

Martha Ballard is a remarkable woman with her compassion and speaking out for the truth, especially when women's views in the 18th century were ignored. Look her up on Wikipedia.

THE BEAST

by Roy Anderson

Chapter One

For every child fortunately to be born in the early 40's, raised in the 40's and 50's, there was not the pressures of thosebornaerthe80's.

The before generaons did have it’s phobias. Monsters in the dark. The tree that came to life in the willow tree swamp. Or the monster in the river that preferredfaircomplecon humanstodineon.

The enre community especially the young, we all had thetokenspiritinthecloset. Weallknowthatone. Every nightatmidnighttheclosetdoorwouldopenandstrange shadows would move around the room. If the closet door was le open as parents suggested, a long slinky arm, with a moss covered hand, would reach out and closeit.

Yes. I am normal because in those days there was no cell phones, so entertainment was general by who could tell the biggest tale at recess or on the walk home, or aroundacampfire.

But in some kids life, there was a monster; a very real monster, large and blackwithonelargeeye,placedatthehighestpointofitsbeing.

Unfortunately I was one of those kids, who at eight years old had to deal withabeast,whobythewaywasveryreal.

The encounter with the "beast" was not mine alone. The "beast" was shared by most of my classmates at the local public school. Despite insurances from the teachers and parents, if we stayed away the "beast" wouldnothurtus.

Now if you can imagine leaving school and the only street to go home, passedrightpastwherethe"beast"hovered,itsoneeyewatchingthekidsas theypassed by

The more mid of the school children and of course the younger ones always walked as far as possible on the opposite side of the road. There was a path travelling to north, then a large open drainage ditch beside the path, then horrors of horrors the well beaten path the "beast" travelled on, all within thirty feet of the north bound trail to go home from school and then return to school from lunch or at day's end going home from school. To myself and I am sure the other school goers, the "beast" lay in waing for them.

TherewasakindoldgentlemannamedMr.Ross,amarketgardener,every Friday, early morning around 7:30 a.m. travelled south bound on the main road to the different stores downtown to deliver the fresh veggies and eggs, fortheweekendtogroceryshoppers.

Now on this parcular September morning, Mr. Ross was late. In order to make extra me, in his 48 Ford pickup, he pushed the truck a lile faster Okayletssayalotfaster.

Normally the "beast" would be in its lair, by the school, you know to terrorize the school kids. However on this morning for some reason the "beast" had le its lair and under full steam headed north. Black smoke pouring from the smokestack and the steam rams pumping and blaring under full load. All of this would be terrifying enough for a person already scared to death of the "beast", that now approaching the main roadway on a slightcurve,toaccessatrestlebridgetocrossaravineandtheriver

That very morningI was walkingthesidewalk,headingto school and what wastakingplaceinfrontofmewassoreal.

JustasMr.Rosscrossedtherailwascrossingonthemainroad,the"beast" slammed into the truck. The engineer of the "beast" realizing the inevitable applied the brakes and with metal on metal, the high pitched scream emied, along with the clanging of the large bell and the screetch fromthe"beasts"whistle.

As truck and "beast" collided, the sickening sound of steel against steel topped off the sound. The "beast" pushed Mr. Ross and his truck across the mainroad,offthetrackstoonesidetumblingitdowntheembankment.

In the early years 50's, the emergency responders were not what we have today, however the delay in help from the fire, police, and ambulance was, there no fault of their own. But the effort to reach them by early telephone, also the ambulance was privately owned. The balance between emergency services and the cizens was pick up by area populaon, doing their best to help.

When the "beast" devoured in a manner of speaking by Mr. Ross and his pick-up. Men and women from the surrounding business rushed to his aid. They scrambled from service staons, factories, resturants and homes to hlep,notasgloryseekers,butasconcernedneighbours.

The "beast" aer the collison came to a stop with the engine and seveal box cars on the tressel. The engineer and fireman exited the engine. Being the closest to Mr Ross, and the truck, they arrived first. Mr Ross was standing on his own two feet outside what was le of his truck. As Mr. Ross, 6

the engineer and fireman walked up the banks of the ravine, the group of rescuersstoppedandstoodinawe.

TherewasacoursetheSundayWarriors,thatexclaimed"PraisetheLord, itisamiracle."

Whileothersinthegroupexclaimedunprintableexplicitsnotsuitablefor a family magazine. I just stood there in complete shock, normally one or two things would happen, one or the other would mean a return home for a changeofunderwearandpants. Soshockwasokay.

Standingonthesidewalk,hearingthewhineofpolicecars,andfiretrucks approaching, I felt a gentle hand on my shoulder and looked up into the face of a woman smiling down on me. I recognized her as the mother of a older schoolmate. BeforeIcouldspeak,shespokeinagentlevoice."Ihavecalled yourmother Sheiscomingforyou."

Intheearly50'svery fewfamilieshadtwocars. Ifmymotherwascoming formeshewould bewalking. The woman onceagainspokeinavery gentle voice. "Come up to the front porch and wait on the swing. It will be safer for you."

As the woman and I sat on the porch swing, we observed the stuff taken place across from us. The area around the collision and down the tracks looked like a garden salad as the result of Mr. Ross's produce mixed in with pieces of his truck. I thought Mr Ross must be made of rubber to survive that collision. My mother soon arrived and home I went, with simple instrucontoforgetwhatIsawandrememberitcouldbeworse.

Everyday I went to school aer that day, there was sll the "beast" sing there. Very lile smoke from its stack or steam from its drive pistons, but its oneeyestaringintheschoolkidsintheremind.

One day shortly aer the incident and for whatever reason I approached andcouldtellbythefreshpaintonhiscowcatcheritwasdefinitelythesame 'beast".

For some reason and unl this day I know not why, I walked up to the "beast" and reached out running my hand over the drive piston, short and down the large wheels touching each one gently, when suddenly the locomove shuddered, the same type of shudder you would cause a horse oranimalwouldproduceiftouchedunexpectedly.

The engineer looked down from his seat in the cab and just smiled at me. Ibackedslowlyfrom thelocomoveand turned to walkawayto school. AsI walked forty or fiy feet towards the road, that led to the school, a sharp steam whistel blasted causing me to jump. I turned quickly, the fear in my mind that the "beast" was moving forward and I would be trapped on the pathafewfeetfromit.

When I looked back the engineer and fireman (who shovelled the coal into the firebox to produce the heat that made the steam for the drive pistons) were both standing at the side of the train, looking upward at the whistle on top of the "beast" then at myself. The engineer shrugged his shoulders and chuckled. Iwastedmylilemetoget totheroadandschool.

If I encountered the "beast" aer that episode I always gingerly waved, receiving back a wave from the engineer and fireman and a lile blast fromthewhistle.

Aer the incident with the accident and train we moved to a farm for two

years, west of the city because of my father's employment.

There was no tracks or trains near us, and I soon forgot the"beast".

One day aer two years I was informed we were movingfurtherwesttoasmallvillage,onceagainbecause ofmyfather'semployment.

I looked forward to a bigger school and to make new friends, "but" lile did I know what the future was going tobring.

by Rick de Haan

A Whirl of Squirrels

I don't know if you've noced, but it seems that there are more squirrels this year than ever. They're everywhere. Black ones, grey ones, red ones, and of course the squirrel's lile cousin, the chipmunk. Flying squirrels are around too, but you normally don't see them because they onlycomeoutatnight.

Anyone who lives or vacaons in central and northern Ontario is very familiar with the red squirrel. This is the one we see all through the woods that can't sit sll unless it's eang something. It has two speeds; quick and quicker! The red squirrel chaers and barks in its busybody lile way to warn the enre forest that you are there. A real pain in the neck if you're trying to sneak through the woods to see what you can see!

The chipmunk is generally less quick and nervous than the red squirrel, but sll fairly high strung. Almost everybody is familiar with its ancs.Chipmunksarequitefriendlyandsomemeswillcomerightupto youifyouhavesomethingtoeat.

A few years ago I painted the outside of a big house in the countryside near Peterborough. It was breakme and my lunchbox lay open in the grass beside my camp chair While I was eang a sandwich, peacefully looking around at the scenery, I began to hear a rustling noise. I looked down and there was a chipmunk in my lunchbox busily unwrapping my cookies! I could have closed the lid on him if I'd wanted to. When I reached down to save my snack, he jumped out and sat a few feet away scolding me for disturbing him. I then put a few ny pieces of cookie in the boom of the lunchbox to see if he'd return to the scene of the crime. Sure enough. A minute or so later he was in there again nibbling awayasiftheenrebusinesswashis!

The black and grey squirrels that are so prolific are the same species—the "eastern gray squirrel". They are just different colour phases. It's highly entertaining to watch them romp and play, chasing eachotheraroundandaroundtreetrunks.

Eastern gray squirrels will usually shy away from humans unless they are young and don't yet knowwhat you are! Kim and I were volunteering at a Chrisan youth camp a few years back and had to do some clean-up in the woods. It was late spring and there were several squirrels in the immediate area including one black female with three half-grown lile ones. We were watching them for a while as they snuffled around in the old leaves. One of the young ones came quite close to Kim, and as she watched it get closer and closer, it suddenly jumped and climbed up her jeans! Apparently mother squirrel had never taught her babies to stay away from humans, because one of the other two decided to join in the fun as well and proceeded to climb up Kim's other leg. Kim didn't know what make of the situaon other than smile nervously. It was both fascinang to her and a lile frightening at the same me. Aer deciding Kimwasn'tatree,theyjumpeddownbutremainedquiteclose,probably trying to figure out what this strange thing was! It was one of those

experiencesthatwewillneverforget.

Kim and I bought our first house back in the mid-eighes. It was quite an investment for us at $38,500 but we managed somehow! It was a lile old house at the end of a street on the very edge of Lakefield. It needed a lot of work. The eaves were roed in various places and, by virtue of two big maples at the front, provided easy access to a warm, dryplacetolivefortheneighbourhoodsquirrels.Everyeveningwewere plagued with sounds of skiering, scratching, and running back and forth in the ceiling over our heads. It sounded as if there was a veritable condominium complex up there. We'd finally had enough. So, armed with boards, a hammer, and a ladder, I nailed all the holes shut so the squirrels couldn't get in. Aer I got done, I stood proudly back and admired all my hard work. One of the boards didn't quite cover all of the hole resulng in a small gap on the one side. Kim happened to noce some movement in the gap. All of a sudden a lile black hand wiggled outandwavedpathecallybackandforth.

"Whattheheck?"

"Oh crap! I must've boarded up a squirrel in there by accident", I said, ckedthatIhadtogettheladderbackout.

"Youdidn'tchecktoseeiftheywerealloutfirst?"

"Well, it's not like I could just squeeze my way in there to check, ya know!"Isaidratherirritably I eventually got them all out by opening up the hole and then waing on the ground below with a long pole to make sure that they only came out and didn't go back in. The evenings were much more peaceful aer that.

As much as squirrels are amazingly agile, I found out on several occasions that they can somemes make poor judgment calls when leapingfromtreetotree,orevenfromonebranchtoanother.

There were several huge silver maples that grew out in front of our lile house in Lakefield. They provided wonderful shade in the summer. One pleasant Sunday aernoon as we were leaving to go for a walk, we heard some rustling in the branches high up in the trees. Looking up we sawablacksquirrelfallfromoneofthetopbranchesandthensmackthe hard-packed dirt of the driveway with a sickening thud! Thinking the poorthingmustbeseverelyinjuredordead,Iquicklywalkedovertosee. Aer a few seconds of wondering what had just happened, the squirrel shook himself off and ran back up the tree! We stood there with our

mouths hanging open, marveling at how resilient these creatures truly are. Factoring in the size differences, it would've been akin to a person falling from a thirty-storey balcony,hingtheground,gengup,stretchingabit,and thenwalkingawayasifnothinghappened!

Years aer that incident I was installing some new flooringformydaughterandherhusband.Iwasonmyway to get something in the garage, deep in thought about a challenging corner I had to deal with. As I was walking along on the concrete path beside the front lawn, I noced bits of icy snow falling from a big spruce tree that grew right next to the walkway When I got beside the tree, I heard disnct rustling and squeaking sounds from somewhere in its upper branches. As I started to look up, a black blur streaked past my nose, glanced off the inside of myleg,andwithathud,cametorestinatangleofblackfur between my feet. The stunned squirrel then got up, shook itself, and shot away like its tail was on fire. Aer geng past the inial shock and realizaon of what had just happened, I laughed and wondered how many people can saythey'vebeenhitbyafallingsquirrel!

Squirrels are friendly, amazing creatures that fill our woods with life and joy But they can be a pain somemes—especially when there are a lot of them. As I already menoned, they can get into your ac and keep you awake at night. They can also wreak havoc in your vegetablegarden.

My friend Gus had this problem at his place. Gray squirrels and even a couple of flying squirrels used to make regularly forays in the middle of the night to plunder his kitchen.Helive-trapped them(one mecatchinghis cat by mistake), and then sealed up all the holes on the outside of hiscabin.He'sonlyhadoneortwosince.

Hisvegetablegarden,however,isregularlyraidedbythe enre populaon of gray squirrels that live in his woods. His ever helpful friend Snuffy McDougall had a brilliant soluon;itevenincludedarecipeforpan-friedsquirrel.

So Gus considered his opons. He found he had no choice; he did what he had to do. He went to the hardware store and bought several rolls of chicken wire. Now his enre garden is protected from marauding squirrels, as well as other rodents, who had acquired a taste for fresh vegetables.

I dropped in to see Gus just as he and Snuffy were finishing up the construcon. He proudly showed off his vegetable "cage", complete with a chicken wire roof. They had even dug down a foot and buried the screening so nothingcouldburrowunderit.

As we were admiring the structure, I noced that something was missing, "How are you going to get in there?"

Aer a few moments of quiet reflecon, interrupted only by the sweet sounds of birds chirping and leaves rustling in the trees above, Gus's proud smile began to fade,"Ohhman...Iforgotthedoor!"

What’s Happening at the Library

Contributed by Kim Tucker and Lisa Mace

A Heartfelt Thank You

How lucky we are to live in a community of residents who are willing to help. A huge thank you goes out to JoAnne Alexander of Coe Hill and her dear friend Susan, who so graciouslyprovideduswillalltheyarnneededforourApril Tween/Teen Event. As well, we are so appreciave of Patsy Larabee for loaning us her impressive popcorn machine for our Naonal Canadian Film Event and Jim Thatcher for donang the sewing machine for sewing workshops.Ittakesavillage,that’sforsure.

A u t h o r V i s i t w i t h L . E .

Carmichael

What’s Your Book About? How to Decide What to Leave Out When WringaBook.

ThursdayMay2nd

3:30–4:30pm

How lucky are we to be hosng this workshop with L.E. Carmichael, an author of more than 20 science books for children and young adults. Lindsey writes to spark her readers’ curiosity and ignite their imaginaons. “I’ve been a fact addict since I was a kid,” she says, “and those are the kids I write for the ones who are passionate about a topic, or who will be, as soon as they discover the right book.” She believes that great nonficon inspires a love of learning, but also a love of reading. Lindsey will be introducing us to some of her collecon, and sharing cool animal facts from her book, The Boreal Forest. As well, she will be explaining her decision-makingprocessasawriter-howshetakesagiant mountain of amazing research and whiles it down to something that fits in a kid’s book. Kids will see how she took the first totally terrible dra of one scene and progressivelyrewroteitunlitbecamethefinalpublished dra. Even professionals need mulple dras. Come and learnfromoneofthebest!

Don't

Panic, ArtisforEveryone!

Learning the basics of Colour, Line,andShape.

Saturday May 4th & Saturday May11thNoonto2pm

As children, we approach the world with a sense of wonder and curiosity, free from fear of judgment or comparison. We're eager to explore,

experiment, and create without worrying about whether our art measures up to that of our classmates. As we grow older, societal pressures and comparisons can dampen our natural creave insncts. We start to internalize noons of what is considered "good" art, and this can lead to selfdoubtandinhibion.

The truth is, we are all creave. Don't believe me? How about when we hear of a road closure between our home and work, and we think of an alternate travel route? Or when we are in desperate need of groceries, and we are sll able to concoct something out of nothing for dinner? Or how about when we are planning a garden, picking out seeds, and deciding on plant placement? Alltheme,indifferentways,wearecreave.

Thismonth,joinprofessionalarstLisaMacetolearnafewbasicelementsof art. Lisa believes that art is oen taught with the misconcepon that it must replicate a specific example or reference picture to be deemed "good." This noon is false so, don't expect to leave with a finished piece ready to hang on your wall. Do expect to try some things, mess around, relax, and have some fun. Art is for everyone so; this class is all-ages. No special supplies are required. Paper and materials are provided. Bring your nephew, bring a neighbour, bring your grandma, and most importantly; bring yourself and a willingnesstotry.It’sgoingtobeok!

LimitedSpaces,pre-registraonisrequiredbycallingLisaat705-652-4333or emailingheratl.mace@northkawarthalibrary.com

“NotYourAverageReadThisOrDie”BookClubThursMay96:30-8pm

This month book club is hing the road and having a lile social gathering in one member’s home. If you are interested in joining us, email l.mace@northkawarthalibrary.com for direcons. All that is required is to bringthelastbookyouread,andanopenmind,andawillingnesstolaugh.

StorytellingFridayMay10th,10:00-11:30am

Ever wished you could tell a great story? A story that keeps your company spellbound? Dive into our Storytelling program, where tales come to life amidst a community of eager listeners and storytellers alike. Discover the art of weaving unforgeable narraves, mastering the cra of capvang storytelling, and holding your audience spellbound with every word. Join us atthelibraryMay10foranimmersivejourneyintotherealmofstorytelling.

Tween and Teen Event Friday May 10th Aer School to5:00PM

Learn how to recycle your old t-shirt into yarn. We’ll be craing t-shirt bracelets with them that are prey sweetindeed.

Spring Sounds of North Kawartha - Nature & WildlifeWalk

Legacy Trail – Loon Call Lake Access Point Wednesday May15th, 6:30pm

Keegan McKierick is a professional ecologist with 10 years of experience in the private, public and academic sectors. He has had the opportunity to work with a variety of different species groups including plants, birds, amphibians and reples, all while maintaining a focusontheinterconnectednessofecosystemsandthe various species found on the landscape. He is currently teaching at Fleming College where he hopes to impart his love of nature on to his students.

Keegan loves being in the outdoors and is a humble steward of a forested property here in North Kawartha where he enjoys managing the woodlot for nature appreciaon and wildlife habitat, hiking with his wife and dog,

canoeing, camping, bird watching, gardening, chicken-keeping,woodworkingandsomuchmore! Everyone is welcome to join us as Keegan leads the group on a guided walk into the Kawartha Highlands where he will share his knowledge of the ecological history of the area. He will help parcipants learn to idenfy many signs of spring including birds, plants and amphibians and otherfascinangwondersofthenaturalworldrighthereintheKawarthas. Meet at the Legacy Trail at 6:30pm. The Legacy Trail starts on the north side of the Anstruther Lake Rd opposite the entrance to the Loon Call Lake Access Point road The trail traverses deciduous and mixed forest, Precambrian rock barrens and wetlands. The hike is moderately strenuous. Pleasewearlongpantsandsturdyshoes.

Direcons: On Anstruther Lake Rd, go past FR 56 and the Look Call Lake AccessPointroadisthenextle. Lookingforwardtogengtogetherandexploringthewoodstogether!

Beginner Sewing Workshop with Shirley MacFarlaneThomas

FridayMay17th,3:00-5:00pm Limitedspaces

In this workshop you will learn how to use your sewing machine, what the different parts are and how they work, and how to maintain your machine. In addion, parcipants will learn how to make a makeup/ulity bag and sew a zipper into it. Different sizes will be available. You will learn how to lay a paern, cut material and basic sewing techniques. All materials for the project are included. Bring your own sewing machine orthereare2freetouseatthelibrary.

From a very young age Shirley has been an avid sewist, enjoying a wide variety of sewing projects from quick sew items to quilts and everything in between. She has a passion for teaching all ages the mechanics and maintenance of the sewing machine, layout of a paern and how to sew. We are thrilled that Shirley is coming to the library to share her knowledge. The workshop fee is $25 per person and pre-registraon is required. If cost is a barrier, please contact Kim Tucker at 705-656-4333 or k.tucker@northkawarthalibrary.com.

UkuleleGroup Thursdays 6:30-8:00pm

Join our Ukulele Group for an evening of music and camaraderie! Whether you're picking up the ukulele for the first me or you're a seasoned player, you'll find a welcoming community eager to share the joy of music together No formal instrucon, no pressure to perform—just a relaxed atmosphere where everyone supports each other's musical journey. Don't have a ukulele? No problem! Borrow one from the library and discover the magicofstrummingawaywithus.

Don't miss out! Throughout the month of May, we'll be gathering every Thursday from 6:30 pm to 8:00 pm. Join us for an upliing blend of music and socializaon that's sure tobrightenyourspirits!

PleinAirPainng

MeengWedMay2910am

We are looking forward to running this successful library program once again this summer where we “get out of the box” and visit a number of beauful locaons in North Kawartha. In this meeng we will

explore painng locaons, mes and dates so please drop in and lend your voice. Plein Air painng with a group of people outside in nature not only provides a creave outlet but also nurtures social connecons and enhances wellbeing.Throughcollaboravepainngsessions,parcipants forge meaningful relaonships, share experiences, and offer support to one another The serene environment of nature promotes relaxaon and reduces stress, allowing individuals to immerse themselves fully in the creave process. Overall, painng in nature with a group offers a holisc experience that enriches both the arsc journey and personal well-being for beginners and experienced alike.PainngwilltakeplaceweeklybeginninginJune.

KidsClubThursdays3:30–4:30pm

Gather together Thursday aer school for something fun! It might be a cra, or a game. Maybe it’s a STEM project or an art lesson. No maer what, we always have fun. Feel free to drop-inandjoinin.

Kniterary

Wednesdays3:00-4:30pm

Come on down to the library and cozy up with our laid-back group of kniers, spanning all skill levels and ages. Bring along your current project, whether it's kning, crocheng, needlework, or any portable cra that strikes your fancy. Around our circle, you'll find socks, scarves, and blankets in the making plus, we've got needles for beginnerseagertodivein.

Monday to Friday 9 - 5

Saturdays 9 - 1

We Are Open Year Round

We encourage you to use one of our secure drop boxes, either outside our office on Hwy. 28 or outside of the Apsley Guardian pharmacy. Secure document sharing, E-signature and Paperless filing

by Mayor Carolyn Amyotte, Township of North Kawartha

COUNCIL’S CORNER

Please visit for all things www northkawartha ca municipal in North Kawartha If you would like to receive regular municipal updates you may also subscribe to North Kawartha's email alerts via the website as well. For those of you that are active on social media please follow me @MayorAmyotte on Facebook andTwitter It is my intent to share positive, factual and timely information about issues, events and happenings that impact our community and residents. To contact me directly, myphonenumberis(705)931-1342andmyemailismayor@northkawartha.ca

Here’s a Few Things That Happened in April:

• We held a joint meeting with the Council from HavelockBelmont-Methuen to discuss issues of mutual interest and share ideas

• Council approved the changes to the Wilson ParkTennis Courts to allow for free public access on weekends in addition to providing dedicated court time for theTennis and Pickle Ball Clubs

• We provided a letter of support for Community Care’s upcoming Casino Night Fundraiser

• Council learned about the County’s new Health Care NeedsAssessment form and encourages all residents to take a moment and complete this form.You can access it online here www.ptbocounty.ca/yourhealthmatters or call 705-930-4765 if you don’t have internet access.This innovative tool is designed to gather crucial insights about healthcare needs from the residents of Peterborough County, and it will allow residents to register their need for a primary care provider and become the official list for residents without a doctor

• Our ShortTerm RentalAdvisory Committee will be launching a public survey in June… stay tuned!

Here’s what’s coming up in May…

May 7, 2024- Regular Meeting of Council

May 14, 2024- ShortTerm RentalAdvisory Committee

May 21, 2024- Regular Meeting of Council

May 28, 2024- Regular Library Board Meeting

FAMILY FAVOURITES FOR MOTHERS DAY

By Helena McMann

Crepes

These can be served savoury or sweet...have some fun by adding vanilla (sweet) to the baer or even herbs (savory) ...andIusuallydoubletherecipe‘causewhynot!?

3/4CSiedAllPurposeFlour

1TBSPSugar

1/2tspSalt

3Eggs

1CupMilk

1TBSPMeltedBuer

1.Measureflour,sugarandsaltintoasier.

2.Beateggsjustunlblendedinalargebowl.SiFlourmix overeggsandbeatinjustunlsmooth

3.SrinMilkandmeltedbuer

Usesmallnonsckpan,forfullsizedCrepes-abouta1/3C of baer for each crepe, cook about 1 -2 min each side…you’re looking for the top to “set” and edges to get a bitbubblyandcrispy

Play with the temp as you go…medium heat, adjust if they are browning too quickly Flip, cook on other side for anotherminortwo... let rest on plate, then Fill them with your favourites and enjoy!

My Mom’s handwritten recipe.

When I think of recipes for May, I think of tradition...cooking in the kitchen with Grandma or Mom. So this month I wanted to share a couple favourite family recipes that have been handed down to me from important people in my life - the crepes are something my Babcha used to make with me and something my Mom used to love to make. The scones are from a friend of mine that used to own an amazing restaurant that prided themselves on “made from scratch” focus.

Diana’s Scones

These Scones are rich, served best with fruit and cream. Or add some herbs forasavourybiscuitthatdipswellintoaheartysouporstew

2CFlour

1TBBakingPowder

1tspSalt

2TBSugar

Blendtheaboveingredientstogetherthenaddthefollowing: CUTIN1/4CofCOLDBuer(Iusemycuisinart-itworksperfect)

NOTE: you can now freeze this mix and pull it out (and add the cream) when youwantaquickhotscone,readyinminutes)

Add1(generous)Cupof35%Cream…yup…35%

Pull together in a bowl…JUST unl mixed - put on surface to knead it out (just a couple mes), then flaen to a about 1 1/2” thick circle…cut into wedgesandbakeat425forabout15min.

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AUTHOR VISIT w/ L.E. Carmichael “What’s Your Book About” 3:30pm - 4:30pm NK Library

ARTISTS WORKSHOP “DON'T PANIC - Art is For Everyone, Learning the Basics of Colour, Line and Shape” Free - Noon to 2:00 pm

Not Your Average BOOK CLUB, Adults, 6:30pm to 8:00pm, Locaon to be determined, email l.mace@northkawarthalibrary.com

STORYTELLING, 10:00 to 11:30am NK Library

TWEEN AND TEEN Event. Turning TShirt’s into Yarn, Bracelet Cra Aer School l 5:00pm NK Library

MOTHERS DAY

BRUNCH at the LEGION $15/pp Kids 10 and under free 10:00am to 1:00pm 29 PLEIN AIR Painng Meeng - 10:00 am NK Library

SPRING SOUNDS OF NORTH KAWARTHA, Nature and Wildlife Walk with Keegan McKierick 6:30pm Legacy Trail, Loon Call Lake Access Point

EUCHRE, support of the Lions Club $2/pp 7:00pm, NKCC

BEGINNER SEWING Workshop with Shirley MacFarlane Thomas $25/pp NK Library

VICTORIA DAY

LIONS 50th Anniversary Celebraon 2:00-4:00pm NKCC

DID YOU KNOW?! We have an extensive calendar on the North Kawartha Website for Township related events

22 HEARING CLINIC No-Charge, Appt must be booked Call 705-656-4589 Community Care Office, Apsley https://events.northkawartha.ca/default/Month

June 5th Walker/Wheelchair Clinic, 10am Community Care Office

June 15th APSLEY GAMING NIGHT Fundraiser 6:00pm

June 16th FATHERS DAY

June 20th First Day of SUMMER

July 1st CANADA DAY July 20th and 21st LIONS ANNUAL FLEA MARKET

What’s up WEEKLY...

FALLPREVENTION

EXERCISE CLASS

10:00-11:00AM NKCC

DARTS 7:00pm Apsley LEGION

Adult Community PICKLE BALL($2) 6pm to 9pm NKCC

(not on Stat Holidays)

SHUFFLE BOARD CORNHOLE 10:30AM Then Lunch and EUCHRE/CANASTA (Hand & Foot) NKCC (ABC Seniors)

TABLE TENNIS 7pm to 9 pm NKCC

EUCHRE 7pm to 9pm WILSON PARK Community Centre

FALLPREVENTION

EXERCISE CLASS

10:00-11:00AM PICKLE BALL

11:15am-2:00pm CRAFT CLASS 2:00 pm-4:00 pm Seniors Club, NKCC

SHUFFLEBOARD

1:00 pm Apsley LEGION

KNITERARY LIBRARY 3:00pm to 4:30pm

PLAYGROUP 0-6yrs

10:00am-12:00pm NKCC

UKULELE NK LIBRARY, 6:30pm

CANASTAHAND & FOOT OR DARTS 12:30 to 4pm WILSON PARK Community Centre

Adult Community PICKLE BALL($2) 6pm to 9pm NKCC 1st, 3rd, 5th Thurs

CLUB 3:30 to 4:30pm UKULELE 6:30 to 8:00pm THURSDAYS at the LIBRARY

DUPLICATE BRIDGE 1:00pm to 4:00pm NKCC MUSIC JAM Sessions 4pm Apsley LEGION

Congrats to Logan Bridgewater Age 7

Thank you to all that entered, I know how hard each of you worked on your page, and I’m so proud of all of you!

Spring Colouring Contest Winner

What’s Happening at the Rink

By Helena McMann, AMHA Board Secretary

March 30th was a full house at the North Kawartha Community Centre as skaters took to the ice for the always popular, year end skang show with the Township of North Kawartha Skang Club. You’re all amazing! It’s not easy pung on a show like this and so much goes on behind the scenes...thank you to all the dedicated parents,courageousskatersandpassionatecoaches.

Specialcongratulaonsto:

ThomasEvanSteenMemorialAward AveryWilson

NicoleDunkerleyMemorialAward EmersonWalker

CindyWhitmoreMemorialAward EmilyWilson

EvereFamilyAward ReidBelford

ForestGlenMarinaAward RubyMartens

AlyceMcConkey-Coppins

TOP LEFT: Lauraleigh Cairns, Coach Daina Greene, Emily Wilson

FAR LEFT: Lexi Bolton

BOTTOM MIDDLE: Hadleigh Perks LEFT: Destany King, Emily Wilson

Stay tuned next month for a wonderful recap of the

WOMEN OF NORTH KAWARTHA

by Helena McMann

The driving force and inspiration behind some of the most successful businesses’s, events and important roles, right here in our community. This column, launched March 2024, will feature one or more women, their stories and how they contribute to the very essence of why we Honourandacknowledge InternationalWomen’sDay.

DR.MAEGANMELILLO

Apsley Veterinary Services

town at Wellington Street with Mike and Bob. Apsley has always been my “happy place”, making lifelong friends and cemenng core memories.

As a post-secondary student, I focused my efforts on applying and being accepted into vet school while compleng my Bachelor of Animal Science at the University of Guelph – growing up, I always knewI wantedto workwithanimalsand bea veterinarian.I graduated from the Ontario Veterinary College in 2014 and immediately began working in small animal pracce. I enjoy all aspects of veterinary medicine but am most passionate about internal medicine, emergency medicine, surgery and helping facilitate the special human-animalbondbetweenpetandowner Dr. Kim Facey, the founder of Apsley Veterinary Services, has been a friend and mentor since 2010 when my own dog was quilled white at our coage and needed emergency care. I was also lucky enough to complete one of my O.V.C. 4th year placements at A.V.S. When Kim reached out to let me know that she was pung the pracce up for sale in 2019, the decision was easy. I have always had a mind for business and, having worked in clinics from the age of 16, I was able to see what I liked about the industry and where there might be room for improvement. As a pracce owner, I take significant pride in, and want to perpetuate, creang an above-standard hospital environment for mypaentsandclients;inaddiontofosteringanenvironmentwhere my employees feel valued as an important member of a team and enjoy coming to work everyday. I am proud of having a team that shares a similar passion for facilitang and forfying the humananimalbond.

I have been lucky enough to be influenced (and connue to be) by some incredibly strong, smart, and genuine mentors in my life. My greatest hope for the future is to empower those to pursue their passion, understanding that it requires dedicaon, determinaon, and discipline It takes being metaphorically kicked in the gut, repeatedly, and geng back up again. It means doing the tasks no one else wants to do, swallowing your pride and ego, and maintaining integritythroughitall. Therefore, if I can contribute or lend a hand to anyone following their pathinlife,Icanlaymyheaddownatnightahappywoman.

My name is Maegan Melillo, and I am your friendly, neighbourhood veterinarian! My family has quietly been a part of the Apsley community since the 1930s. I fell in love with the area at the young age of four when we first started camping on our property on Chandos Lake. I grew up in Toronto, escaping to Chandos Lake every summer My first job at the green age of 14 was scooping ice cream at the local marina, and summer jobs connued every year aer that in

Laura is one of out RVTs and you can see her hand on the patient on the left. Narcisse is a second year Ontario Veterinary College student and has been part of the AVS team for 4 years now. Lauren was a fourth year vet student doing a 2-week placement with us. Rachet is the unsuspecting patient and happens to be our Office Manager's (Angela) cat. Rachet is being neutered. Teamwork makes the dream work!

RACHELCHARLEBOIS

by Rachel

If you were to tell me when I was in high-school that when I'm 30, I would own a small business - creating metal artI'd say you were lying. I've always liked to believe that where we're destined to be, we will end up. Back when I was 18, I never would've thought this would be my career path. Throughout highschool, I felt an immense amount of pressure to figure out what I'd take as my post-secondary education. I grabbed all of the college selection books and looked through them multiple times, to no avail. When graduation day came and went, I still didn't know "what I wanted to be when I grew up". Isn't that the question they ask all

throughout grade school? Why, after fourteen years of schooling, did I not know what I wanted to be when I grew up? Some days that question did torture me.

After graduation, I had decided that it was okay if I didnt have the a n s w e r t o t h a t d a u n t i n g question. After-all, I was only 18 with not much life experience outside of the public school system. I ended up getting a job at a local welding shop. I had taken metal shop in high-school but other than that, I had no prior experience with metal work. The man who owned the shop, Gary, took me under his wing and taught me all he knew about welding. I was quite nervous at first but within a few months, I was catching on. To make a long story short, I ended up working at that shop for close to thirteen years.

I had been welding on industrial snowplows for about 5 years when I figured it was time to spice things up. There had always been this machine, called a plasma cutter, sitting on the work bench. I didn't know a thing about it until Gary encouraged me to try it out. I grabbed some chalk and sketched out a maple tree onto a sheet of 14 guage steel. Within minutes, the sparks were flying. By the end of that day, I had created my very first piece of metal arta maple tree, mounted to a rock to hang my necklaces on. That was approximately 10 years ago and the plasma cutter sparks have been flying ever since!

To say there's a lot to learn through life experience, would be an understatement. The things I've learned from being (mostly) a self-taught metal artist, are invaluable. It's hard to compare textbook work to hands-on experience. Education is never a bad thing, but every individual learns in a different way - there are so many ways to learn! Now that I am homeschooling my two young children, I try my best to instill this knowledge in them, every day.

My hope is that I can encourage young individuals in the public school system not to feel such immense amounts of pressure to go to college if they're unsure. There are plenty of job opportunities in the trades industry, where you can get paid to learn. "Better yet, you could start your own business because then the possibilities are endless!"

TheAmazingWomenof Anstruther-Burleigh-Chandos

SeniorCitizens’ClubInc.

The Amazing Women of AnstrutherBurleigh-Chandos Senior Cizens’ ClubInc.

ABC Seniors was incorporated in 1976. Our mandate is to provide a range of social, cultural, learning and recreaonal programs for seniors. Our mission is to promote wellness, social connecons and educaon in order to reduce social isolaon, help seniors connue to a g e a t h o m e , s t a y a c v e , independent and engaged in their community.

caring for grandchildren through uncertainmes.

Join us for Pickle ball and other Fitness programs, Lunches, Euchre, Canasta Hand & Foot, Floor Shufeboard and relevant Senior’s Learning Programs. New members are welcome!

By elecon in March of every year, the club appoints 4 Officers (President, Vice President, Secretary and Treasurer) and up to 6 directors (currently Acvies & Food Procurement; Communicaons; Kitchen Coordinaon & Food Preparaon; Membership; Social Events, Arts & Culture). All members of the board are truly commied volunteers. Oen these volunteers are involved in other parts of community programs, eitherasaparcipantoravolunteer Many have been caretakers for family, whether fathers/mothers or

The board members are all women between the ages of 60 and 75. Everyone on the Board has a common goal – to provide an enjoyable experience for our members in all that we do. Our backgrounds are diverse, experience in human resources, negoaon, retail, bookkeeping, educaon, kinesiology, informaon technology, administraon and management means everyone at the table brings s o m e t h i n g va l u a b l e to t h e discussion.

Congratulaonstothenewlyelected board for 2024-2025. Ladies, you rock! And, let’s not forget our other volunteers,withoutwhomwewould not be the club we enjoy. Other volunteers, both men and women, contribute to the culture of our club by running the loery, making coffee, selecng ambient music to play during our social me, assisng in set up, cooking, cleaning up and encouraging members to try out newacvies. Youareallamazing! Here'stoanothergreatyear!

THINK TURTLE CONSERVATION

by Kelly Wallace

The Snapping Turtle’s Way

Like many things in life, which at first seem inmidang, but when you take the me to understand more about them, they become more accessible, and the scariness fades. Snapping turtle encountersarelikethat.

Ontario's largest species, the snapping turtle, has a reputaonforbeingfierceandaggressive—andlet's notforgetthesnap.However,thisimpressioncomes primarily from people who have come too close to them on land or made the mistake of feeding or antagonizing them. The disposion of this turtle species on land differs from what they are like in an aquac environment. In water, snapping turtles are calm and naturally curious but do whatever they can toavoidhumaninteracon.Theywantnothingtodo with people on land but cannot make as swi an exit astheycaninthewater

Unfortunately, this turtle species was given a name that has blemished their character Snapping turtles are about so much more than snapping; given their physical aributes, the reason they snap and possess a spirited nature when out of water is understandable. Unlike turtle species that can pull their limbs into their shell to safeguard themselves from predators, which include animals and people, snapping turtles have an under-shell (plastron) that is so ny retreang into their shell is not an opon in

mes of danger. This leaves snapping turtles exposed and vulnerable to unwanted encounters. Under such circumstances, when cornered and feeling suscepble to harm, is it any wonder they snap at the air and appear defensive? They are doing what they can to protect themselves. When you approach a snapping turtle, you know you mean this animal no harm, but the snapping turtle perceives you as a menacing predator. Their defensive manner is all they have to make them appear biggerandwardoffwhatscaresthem.

Snapping Turtles are not the fearsome creatures that internet hype and hearsay make them out to be. There are many animals in the wild, and you would be in danger if you happened upon them in their natural habitat. That is not the case with snapping turtles. They are not going to run you down or aack you, nor are theytheleastbitinterestedineangyou.

Hundreds, even thousands of people assist turtles, including snapping turtles, across roads in Ontario and come out of it unharmed. Do you know how many people die in snapping turtle aacks every year? Zero. There has not been a single reported snapping turtle fatality. Are we suggesng you stroll to a snapping turtle and expect a friendly exchange? Absolutely not. When you are in the wild and encounter a snapping turtle, you are in their home. Just like you would go into selfpreservaon mode if someone unexpectedly showed up in your home, you would react and be blessed with the gi of words as the first line of defense, which wild animals do not possess. Do not judge snapping turtles for responding as they do; likeus,theymustlookoutforthemselves.

Take the me to understand the nature of the snapping turtle so you can look past the snap and appreciate them for the majesc ancient species they are. Having encountered and helped many snapping turtles over the years, every encounter is memorable.

RecolleconOfAnEncounter

On a warm summer evening last year, I helped a snapping turtle across Highway 62 that seemed especially stressed, and yes, she bucked and snapped while I walked her across the road. As I approached the water on the other side of the road, she relaxed slightly in my grasp as if she knew she was headed to where she intended to go. I set her down at the water's edge, and as soon as I did, she spun around to face me, and characterisc of snapping turtles, she bounced, this being her best aempt to scare me. I took two steps back. We locked eyes, and she lowered her bodytothesandyshorelineasiftostandherground,allthewhilehereyesfixedon mine. It felt like the longest me, but it was a mere few minutes, and in that me, she said everything she had to say with those soulful brown eyes and had a lot to say.Shetoldmeoffforgengintoherpersonalspaceandforscaringher,touching her, and moving her I respecully took in everything she had to say When she felt shehadsaideverythingthatneededtobesaid,sheslowlystoodup,turnedaround tofacethewater,andswamaway.

HelpingASnappingTurtleAcrossTheRoad

If it is safe to stop to help a turtle across the road, maintain its direcon and set it downasafedistancefromtheshoulder.Onlyaempttouseahands-onmethodto move a snapping turtle across the road if you are comfortable doing this and understand how. If you are uncomfortable picking up a snapping turtle, there are plenty of other ways to assist a turtle that does not include touching them. To read more informaon about snapping turtles and the various methods for helping them across the road, please visit the snapping turtle page on our website: hps://thinkturtle.ca/snapping-turtles. Should you have quesons or concerns regarding turtles, hatchlings, or nests, contact Think Turtle Conservaon Iniave via phone or text at 647-606-9537 or e-mail thinkturtle@yahoo.com if the maer isnotme-sensive.

By taking the me to understand why snapping turtles act as they do, it will be apparent that this is an animal to be respected, not feared. Snapping turtles have somuchtoteachthosewhoarewillingtolearn.

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POEMS By WINSTON

By Winston E Ralph

The Old Fishing Hole

The bait and tackle shop sat by the lake

Where folks came to see how many fish they’d take

Some of the fish were Pickeral Bass and Trout

So may everyone only take their limit out

Before the shop is open some people came

Even though it was cloudy and looked like rain

There were canoes wooden and aluminum boats

Will anyone because of their haul try to boast

Early in the morning is the best time to fish

But they were better when cooked in a dish

You went to fish in a car or a pickup truck

But some fished all day without any luck.

Children walked there to take a dip in the lake

As on a hot day a swim sure felt great

The fishing tackle didn’t cost much unlike today

And as bait was live little you also did pay

At night a bonfire was there on the shore

Before the folks left to return later once more

No licence was needed to enjoy the pastime

But today you need one so you won’t get a fine

Some used a stick with a line and a hook

To see if they’d get a fish for supper to cook

Years ago people walked miles to fish through the ice

Then returned at night with a catch so nice

Its hardly worth the bother to go and fish today

As all fish have mercury and other chemicals I say

I’ve never fished much as I’d rather go for a swim

Instead of hoping for a fish the water was good to be in.

by Kathy Figueroa Blessed

Treasured are objects

That sparkle and gleam

But none are as precious

As a dream

Bounty and fortune

By toil are possessed

But those who have dreams

Truly are blessed

Contributed by Lori Brock

APSLEY LEGION BRANCH #381

We are looking forward to hosng a Mothers Day Brunch (May 12th 10am to 1pm) and encourage all of you to bring your Mom to Branch 381tocelebratetheday

May is an important month for us here at the Legion and we are hosngourannualelecons.Weneedallmemberstocomeouttoour general meeng May 28th at 7pm to vote! Legion members can stop by during open hours if they wish to nominate anyone. This is your Legion,comehaveyoursay.

Please pay close aenon to our Facebook page and our marquee leer sign out front for announcements regarding sports games we will be showing this year. Snacks will be available and the bar will be openfortheseevents.

Graciela Del Mar Cubias

By Marjorie Wilson, Freelance

MEMORIES SHARED by MARJORIE

Caring for the SickEarly Doctors

Located in a two story log building between the Bancro Post Office and the town off ice in the old train staon is a “must see” museum. Among it’s eleven rooms is an area devoted to the doctors who served this area. As I look over this room I remember how different health carewasin1950whenIfirstarrivedinBancro.

The general praconers were Doctors Lumb and Anderson. I kept hearing about a lady in CoeHillcalledMaeHardinge.Peopletalkedaboutherpowders.Thosepowdersapparently could heal almost anything. To me this sounded really strange and maybe dangerous. I just keptquiet.

My husband menoned that as a child he had his tonsils removed by Dr Lumb while he lay on his aunt Ella Price’s kitchen table. I was horrified. I remembered that my brother had a similar operaon but in a Montreal hospital. I must have recovered from that shock as later on I permied Dr. Lumb to remove my tonsils in the Bancro Red Cross Outpost hospital. AlthoughitdidnotgoparcularlywellIrecovered.

My other memories were of the area densts, Dr. Rouse, Dr. Fonger, and Dr. Harye. Dr. Rouse would perform fillings but not extracons. Dr Harye could be counted on for extracng teeth. Dr. Fonger, whose office was in the basement of the Kavanagh house would perform both fillings and extracons. retain a not very pleasant memory of an episode in Dr Harye’s office. This doctor had a parcular method of extracon. He would slit the gum on each side of a tooth in order to get a really good grip on the tooth then he would give a really good jerk to pull out the tooth. On this parcular day unknown to me and apparently to the denst the tooth in queson was infected. At the same moment the doctor gave his quick jerk there was an unexpected and sudden sharp pain. I gave an involuntary movement.

While the tooth flew across the room the forceps hit the roof of my mouth. Fortunately no extra damage was done. The denst did not seem pleased that I had jumped. By the next day I was sll in lots of pain and had a swollen cheek. Thinking that I should ask for help I went back to this denst. He did not seem all that thrilled to see me. This was before penicillin so the denst gavemesomesulphadrug.Isurvived!

As I look around this room in the museum one might find it difficult to make justwhatchallengestheseearlydoctors faced.In 1950theroad from Madoc to Bancro was paved. That pavement ended just before Bird’s Creek. In spring the unpaved roads around Bancro were essenally impassable. Howdidadoctorreachapaent?Didheuseahorse?Perhapshewalked. When you visit this museum be sure to go upstairs to ponder this display. I am sure that you will come to the same opinion I have that these people weretrueheroes.

LIONS COMMUNITY REPORT

by Jim Empringham, Apsley and District Lions Club

Spring has arrived with all of the home chores that come at the same time. In a service club, the chores are there too. With so many events on the horizon, the Lions Club is into preparations for a variety of events.

Don’t forget that monthly Euchre, which returned to NKCC in April, will continue on the third Wednesday of each month starting at 7 pm. In May, that will be May 15. Admission is $2. Come out and enjoy a fun night with friends new and old.

Canada Day, July 1, is fast approaching. This exciting day begins with the parade through town at 4 pm followed by games for the kids and music for the adults in Lions Park. Of course, Lions famous fries and other good food will be available there for all as well as the traditional Canada Day cake! Fireworks are scheduled to begin at dusk. We think our fireworks display is something we can all be proud of. Come out and find out for yourself. As always, we invite any individuals, groups and businesses to be part of the parade. If you want to take part please contact Lion Brenda Lensen (705-656-9254).

The Annual Lions Giant Flea Market is always the third Saturday in July. This year that means July 20. There will be no pick ups of items again this year but drop offs will begin the Saturday of the Victoria Day weekend (May 18) and continue every Saturday until the week before the Flea Market. Drop offs will be accepted from 9 to noon. If you can bring help with you when you bring items it would be appreciated. Please do not leave items if there isn’t a Lion there to accept them. As I said in the last issue of Backroads, the Flea Market could not happen without the help of volunteers (Friends of Lions). You do not have to be a Lion to be part of this fun event. You can offer help on drop off days, during set up and on the day of the Flea Market. Students can easily earn

community service hours towards their graduation requirements. Volunteers can call Lion Brenda Lensen (705-6569254). This event is a major fundraiser for our Club and a great service to our community. Your support as a helper or buyer is very much appreciated.

The Lions Park revitalization is continuing. We are hoping to create areas for a range of ages and activities. We are inviting individuals, groups and businesses to sponsor elements of this revitalization. Examples of that support could include benches for the players in the ballpark, picnic tables, benches, trees and artwork. The cost of that support will depend on the specific item.

We see this is a great way to make this a truly community park. How nice to have a memorial bench or picnic table or other park area that can be used by a range of people that will acknowledge individuals and groups . Every donation will be recognized by a plaque or sign. We believe that, with the support of everyone, the Park will be a focal point for our community in the not-to-distant future.

We look forward to seeing you all at any Lions activity that you can attend. Bringing community together is something we believe is important. Beyond that, every hot dog, box of fries or gently used item purchased provides resources that come back to our community.

by Helena McMann

Answer the Phone

THRIVE OR SURVIVE

I find myself reflecting on my next chapter of this ever evolving story called life - especially around Mothers Day. For those that don't know me, my name is Helena and my Family and I have been enjoying the fresh Apsley air since 2016. I have spent the bulk of my career as a Doula and Prenatal Educator supporting families as they embark into parenthood. We are blessed with three amazing kids who are now 16, 17 and almost 22. Parenting can be hard - really freaking hard, so I am here to give you some humble advice.

1. They need a parent first, then a friend, at least until they are well into adulthood and perhaps starting a family of their own. Until then...lead with tough love, consistency and positive discipline. Without this strong foundation of guidance during the early years, how will they ever be able to learn and stand on their own when they need to. The HARD work is now...putting the effort into figuring out what discipline works for your family and sticking to it. When they are babies...they crave routine, so do toddlers and teenagers. Whether it’s nutrition, faith, screen time, social interaction, education, etc. Learn from others, go with your gut...but don't falter...your kids need that consistency. It teaches them self regulation, confidence and trust.

2. Be at the games, concerts and events...I can appreciate busy lifestyles and work commitments...but that core memory that is imprinted when they see your face in that crowd, or to be there to hold them up when their team makes it to the final game, only to lose in overtime...nothing can replace that moment and THAT HUG. And when your kid points to you when he rounds third after hitting a home run...immeasureable.

3. No matter what your family dynamic is, always ask yourself “is this harmful or helpful”. As parents, whether you’re together, apart, married, divorced, whatever...NEVER pit one parent over the other. Even in extreme cases where perhaps there was abuse or safety issues...instead of focusing on the horrible things, surround yourself with the good: people, memories and words. This is more important when kids are younger, as young adults, they have matured and are developing their own critical thinking. You are responsible for

teaching your children about boundaries, respect and positive role modelling. They are not responsible for creating the problem, so in moments of doubt, ask “will these words hurt or help”...

Even in the most healthy parenting relationships, its ok to parent differently, just don't confuse the kids and wedge them in the middle.

4. Laugh. That’s it...F-ing laugh, whenever you can...and Dance...like no one is watching. Be silly, be humble, be fun. Cut the toast into shapes, even when they are 20. Leave a love note or joke in their lunch. Burn dinner, laugh about and eat granola bars instead.

5. Be Real. there is a ridiculous expectation on parents (especially in our North American culture) to be perfect, and do everything right. The stupid saying “so many others have done it before me, so I should be able to” and with the “pressures of perfection” on social media outlets...why are we so afraid to fail!? Do you know how many times I’ve lost my marbles in front of the kids or over reacted to a situation?

Most times, when the dust settled, I swallowed my pride and apologized to them. The times I didn’t...well they damn sure deserved a wee taste of crazy momma putting the hammer down. This goes back to being a parent before being a friend. In that same breath...try and save the real meltdowns for crying in the shower, in the car in the driveway at 2 am or the floor of the laundry room after they left for school (may or may not be shared from experience...). You’re human, but limiting exposure to the real “cray-cray” is a good parenting practice...

5. Do the work. If the “meltdowns” are happening more often...there is something deeper going on. Do the work, deal with the generational trauma that your kids don’t deserve to be a part of. Look it up.

5. Answer the Phone. This one is most important when you're a parent of an adult...they never stop needing their momma. I’ll leave you on a funny note...

Our Son Jackson has always been our free spirit (he is currently living out West, off grid, in a trailer, tree planting and loving life. I remember a call I got from him a couple of years ago... Jackson “Mom. *sniff sniff* I need your help....I’m stuck...on the side of a mountain”

Me “Well...I’m 3500 km away, I don't think I have that chapter in my parenting book for that...”

My adventurous kid had gone for hike and worked his way up a trail and then couldn’t figure his way back down. In the moment, his fear over took his logical thinking and immobilized him.

Jackson was thoroughly convinced this was the end and any step in any direction would surely plummet him to his demise.

Did I, for one brief second, picture phone calls to local search and rescue and a heroic helicopter scene from a movie? Yes.

Instead, did Jackson and I take a few moments to breath together, refocus and make a plan. Yes. I say brief...because in true Hollywood fashion...his phone was about to die...

It’s not that this momma was the one that had the answers, it was because my voice, his mother’s voice, should be the one sound that makes everything right in your child’s world.

Answer The Phone

AROUND TOWN

Down the Road and Over the Fence

Jessup, Margaret “Joan”

Passed away suddenly on March 25, 2024 at the home she shared in Wilberforce with her loving partner Mike Bryan. Joan wore many hats but Mom and ‘Nanny’ made her the most proud. She is missed dearly by her daughters; Brooke Barnes (Chris) of Wolfville, N.S., Melissa Legge (Ron) of Digby, N.S., and Jenn Sayers (Rick) of Apsley. Predeceased by her son-in-law James Bidgood (2015). Nanny could always be counted on for a hug, a joke or a treat for her grandchildren; Maggie (Matt), Jesse, Griffin, Hazel, Nathan, Ray (Molly), Landon, Connor, Emma and Molly. Born to Jessie and Harold (late) Griffith in Whitney Ontario on February 25, 1953. Joan was a loving and devoted daughter, though a touch rebellious in her younger years. She is survived by 3 siblings and missed by her entire family, brothers Don (Cheryl) and John and sister Colleen (Brian; late) Paplinskie.

Growing up in Madawaska Ontario, Joan developed a great love for all things outdoors; hunting, fishing and camping brought her much joy. When not outdoors, working extremely hard or spending time with family, Joan could be found near the tv keeping up with her sports. Passionate about the Maple Leafs and the Blue Jays, Joan kept up with all their stats and players and was forever ready to tease fans of any teams other than her favourites! Friends are invited to join with the family at a funeral service to be held at the Apsley Community Chapel, Mc Fadden Road, Apsley on Friday April 5, 2024 at 1:00 pm. A celebration of life to follow at the North Kawartha Community Centre. As a way to honour Joan, the family invites you to wear your Blue and White to the reception. If desired, memorial donations may be made to the charity of one’s choice and may be made by contacting THE HENDREN FUNERAL HOMES, LAKEFIELD CHAPEL, 66 Queen Street, Lakefield at www.hendrenfuneralhome.com or by calling 705-652-3355.

Aubrey, Maria

Passed away peacefully at Peterborough Regional Health Centre on April 14 th, 2024. Devoted Wife to John, and cherished mother to Joanne (Joe), Mary (Bob), John Jr. (Jen), Sandra (Mike) and David (Sarah). Maria will be deeply missed by her grandchildren Jessica, Christina, Remi, Mackenzie, Zachary, Jayden, Ethan, Cynthia, Zyanyalynn, Paul, Riley, Lilee and great grandchildren Hailey and Philip. Maria is predeceased by her grandson Dustin. Maria will be remembered by her siblings Dorilla, Bernadette, Marie Ella and is predeceased by Rheal, Anita, Leonard, Albert, Jerry and Gilbert. Maria leaves behind many nieces and nephews.

Arrangements have been entrusted to THE HENDREN FUNERAL HOME –LAKEFIELD CHAPEL. A Celebration of Life will be held on May 18 th , 2024 at The Hendren Funeral Home – Lakefield Chapel (66 Queen Street, Lakefield) from 2:00 PM till 4:00 PM. Memorial donations can be made to The PRHC Foundation by calling 705-652-3355 or by visiting www.hendrenfuneralhome.com

Hall, Mary

Mary Ann Hall nee Wood, McDonald, Millar, Shand. Mom was born January 15, 1942 in Kirkcaldy, Scotland. She came to Canada with her family just after the war and they settled in Etobicoke (Mimico). That’s where she met and married our Dad, Fred. In the early 70’s they decided to leave their fast-paced lives in Burlington and move the family, including five kids back to where Dad’s family is originally from, Apsley. They eventually built the house Mom was still living in. She worked in both township offices over the years, Chandos and Burleigh-Anstruther and retired early with Dad. They had decided to buy a fifth wheel and take off for a year or more and travel North America. Turned out to be one of the best things they could have done because it wasn’t long after they returned that we lost Dad. Mom just kept soldiering on.

Through all her medical issues she was always determined to fight her way back and be as healthy and independent as possible. Even after losing two sons, David and Lance, her incredible strength, determination and resilience were evident. She was the strongest woman we know and we will miss her always. Mom passed away March 25. She is survived by her daughter Debbie Hall (Carl Bullied), son Roy Hall, son Joe Hall (Brenda), grandkids, Cara, Ben, Alex, Allan, Travis, Rebecca, Brandy, Britaney, Drew, Michael, Meghan, Susan, Kate-Lynn and fifteen great-grandkids, her brother Andrew Shand and two nieces, Sarah &; Katrina, their families and their Mom Darlene and her sister-in-law Marian Hall. Thanks to her very caring PSW Tracy, Dr. Hasson and Dr. Mallory and Palliative Care staff. Thank you to Community Care where Mom made lots of friends in her many years of volunteering and for their support during her illness. She was also involved in the establishment of Spruce Corners. Memorial donations may be made to Community Care as expressions of sympathy. A Celebration of Life will be held at the Glen Alda Community Centre, Saturday, May 11 th from 1 – 3 pm.