Friday 9 August 2019 | AL HAKAM
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“Take pride in modesty” Hazrat Khalifatul Masih delivers address at ladies Jalsa Gah Hadeeqatul Mahdi, 3 August: Hazrat Khalifatul Masih Vaa presided over the Lajna session on the second day of the 53rd Jalsa Salana at 12:05pm. The session began with the recitation of the Holy Quran by Hibatul Noor Sahiba; verses 12-14 of Surah al-Hujurat (chapter 49) were recited followed by the Urdu translation read out by Quratul Ain Tahir Sahiba. A poem written by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih IIra was then melodiously recited by Amatu-Nur Sahiba.
spend his whole life in leisure and games? In worldly terms, this is not possible and if one does this, then their lives ultimately result in ruin. Huzooraa said that some women write to him and inform him of their husbands who waste time watching television or in social gatherings and rely on social income for financial sport. Huzooraasaid that they have no real reason for this, and as a result, they cause restlessness and discord within their homes. Allah says that if we do not fulfil the rights of Allah, His worship, serving faith and are totally engrossed in earning wealth, then this will be the sport and pastime of the world. Referring to his opening address the previous day, Huzooraa reiterated that the Promised Messiahas said that if we take the oath of Bai‘at, then our actions should be in accordance with the conditions of Bai‘at. Both men and women need to transform themselves to adopting piety. Huzooraa said that when he questions some men about their engrossment in worldly pursuits, they answer by saying that their wives demand too much of them. For this reason, they must work more and therefore cannot spare time for worship. Huzooraa emphasised that such an excuse is nonsense; in such an instance, they are putting their wives and Allah on the same Huzooraa graciously presented awards pedestal. They should fear Allah as this is no to over 115 Ahmadi women for the less than committing Shirk. achievement of academic excellence across Addressing the audience, Huzooraa said various fields of education. These included that if women really do pose such demands, both UK and achievers from abroad. then they should remember that this is not After Tashahud, Ta‘awuz and the recita- how an Ahmadi woman should be. Ahmadi tion of Surah al-Fatihah, Hazrat Amirul Mo- women should clearly say to their husbands, mineenaa recited verse 21 of Surah al-Hadid that leaving faith for the world is wrong (chapter 57) and verse 19 of Surah al-Hashr and not something she wants. An Ahmadi (chapter 59), followed by their translations. woman should clearly state that they want to Huzooraa said that he had received fulfil the rights of God rather than attaining reports of women speaking during Jalsa worldly objects. Salana sessions. He said that they should After we pass on to the next abode, Allah be mindful not to talk among themselves will not question us on how much wealth we left behind or the number of children we during formal sessions in the future. Huzooraa then presented statistics that brought up. He will ask us about our good portray the religious condition of the world; actions, whether we fulfilled His rights, people do not believe in religion and even whether we presented a good example those who do are of very low standards faith. before our children. He will ask us whether Ahmadis should care about saving wives told their husbands to prefer Allah the world from falling into the pit of fire, over the world. If a believer does not do so, however, first we should ask ourselves if then they will be like that hot gust of wind our own condition is such that we give that razes crops to the ground. Huzooraa reiterated that these teachings preference to the love of Allah before the world. are not just for women, but they are for all The purpose of this Jalsa is to develop our believers, including men. spiritual, moral and educational conditions. During the time of the Holy Prophet, We must ask ourselves whether these are the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, purposes we have come for or whether we the excuses of men about their wives were are here for socialising only? of such a nature that they would say, “My Referring to the Quranic verses recited wife spends her whole time in worship and at the outset, Huzooraa said that Allah overlooks my needs.” And if women ever tells us that the world is temporary and complained, they would inform the Holy we should not think it is to last forever. Prophetsa that they did not take care of Allah has declared that the world is a mere their own beauty as their husbands spent pastime and sport. Can an intelligent man their time in worship alone. The Holy
Prophetsa would advise men and women to fulfil the rights of their spouses along with worship. The female companions would beautify themselves not for fashion or to show the world, rather they did so to create a pure atmosphere within their household. Huzooraa said that women should not put on make-up and walk around in the streets without purdah. Huzooraa also highlighted that modesty is the true adornment of women and they should take pride in this. To say, “We have familial ties or such and such families are family friends and for this reason we do not observe purdah” is entirely incorrect. When the hijab is left, it is then that immodesty spreads. Huzooraa recognised that there would be some press members present during his speech who might remark, “Look how these people draw rules for their women.” Huzoor said that we should not care about what others think, but rather we should follow what Allah has taught us. Boys and girls should not have sleepovers at other houses either as this is important to uphold modesty. The female companions had such obedience for the Holy Prophetsa that once he sent a companion to see a wedding proposal. When this companion met with the girl’s father, he disapproved and did not allow the companion to look at her daughter. The daughter, who knew the Holy Prophetsa had sent him, herself showed her face and immediately said that if the Holy Prophetsacommanded this, then who was she to oppose. The companion instantly lowered his own gaze out of respect for the level of piety and obedience the female companion displayed. Hazrat Amirul Momineenaa emphasised that the Holy Prophetsa taught to opt for righteous and pious spouses. If both boys and girls begin to prefer righteous spouses, then we will witness an atmosphere where they shall be striving to become the most righteous. Households shall compete with one another to become the most pious and righteous. If parents bring up their children according to religious values, then those children will also want to choose religious partners. Once, the Holy Prophetsa warned women, saying that the woman who has gold jewellery made and flaunts it with great pride and shows it to other women and men, then they shall receive a great torment. Wearing jewellery is not forbidden, but being boastful and acting in a proud manner is incorrect. Showing beauty and jewellery should be for mahram relations [those relations with whom strict purdah has been excused by the Holy Quran]. Huzooraa said that this Jamaat has a responsibility to bridge the gap between the awwalin [pioneers] and akharin [those
of the latter days]. It is our choice, Huzooraa said – do we wish to acquire the pleasure of Allah by following these companions or do we wish to follow Satan? Every Ahmadi should introspect and ask themselves whether they are following the examples of the Companionsra of the Holy Prophetsa or not. The second verse of the Holy Quran Huzooraa recited was one that is recited in the Nikah ceremony. It highlights the need to be righteous and the importance of doing deeds that shall become useful in the Hereafter. It is righteousness and fulfilling the rights of Allah and his creation that shall be questioned. Fashion and worldly wealth shall not be examined. If we leave pious children behind, then they will aid in our own spiritual development as well. If mothers bring children up in a proper manner, then the children will be pious and righteous. Allah knows what is hidden and He cannot be fooled. He knows what we conceal and therefore knows exactly how well we follow the teachings of the Promised Messiahas. Today’s mothers and those girls who will Insha-Allah soon become mothers should plan to develop their spiritual conditions and increase their knowledge so that they are able to bring their children up in a proper manner. They should be able to teach their children that the world is not our aim, but rather it is following the commandments of Allah. If our own spiritual conditions are not up to the mark, we cannot expect any change within our own children. If we want our children to become good spiritual servants of Allah, then proper planning and action is required. Hazrat Amirul Momineenaa reminded the audience that Allah does not care how pious one’s parents were; it is only our own actions that will count – they will be responsible for their actions and we, our own. The Holy Prophetsa reminded his daughter, Hazrat Fatimara, that she would not be forgiven merely because she was the daughter of the Prophetsa. Only her good actions would attract the forgiveness of Allah. Concluding his address, Huzooraa prayed for Ahmadi parents to prefer Allah over the world and bring up such children who can set their eyes on faith rather than the world. Huzooraa then graciously listened to various poems recited by groups of Lajna from an array of nationalities after which he visited the creche, where mothers and children sit in a designated marquee to listen to the Jalsa proceedings. Thereafter, Huzooraa proceeded to the men’s marquee to lead Zuhr and Asr prayers at approximately 2:15pm.