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the inside starts here being a H.E.R.O. is important to 06 Why new member development justin jones-fosu
Justin Jones Fosu has a proven track record when it comes to educating student leaders on being more successful and effective leaders. From the lesser discussed concept of being humble to a new look at what it means to empower others, Jones-Fosu keeps it real and keeps it simple.
Hazing Necessary 08 No Tyler Micek
Micek says hazing happens for a reason: because there are people who think it has benefits and positive outcomes. We love this straightforward approach. But, Micek, unlike many hazers, doesn’t use that as an excuse not to end hazing. This article suggests using purposeful programming to phase hazing out of a chapter’s traditions. Whether or not your chapter is hazing, read this.
Seven Deadly Phrases 12 The of Fraternity & Sorority Life RICK DANIELS
We like Rick Daniels for lots of reasons. One big one is that he says it like it is. Daniels offers seven phases that, if used, can (and will) prohibit a chapter from moving toward success. Also known as a list of phrases to NEVER say, Daniels takes us the extra step. He doesn’t just tell us what not to say or do, he shows us what we can say or do instead.
Questions for Evolving 14 Four Your New Member Development Aaron Boe
Aaron Boe has outlined four questions that we know you’ve either asked or had to answer in the past year. Whether you’re doing the asking or the answering, this article gives insight. He breaks down a very big picture by offering tangible solutions for implementation. If you work best by taking one step at a time, Boe offers a great starting point.
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