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26, 2011. Where: Urban Outfitters. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908657
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Bruegger’s Bagels I quipped about what life would be like in 20 years. You sympathized, and when coaxed, revealed that you’re 50. Coffee or tea sometime? When: Friday, March 4, 2011. Where: Burlington. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908678 Mardi Gras parade We were standing together at the parade! You were adorable and so was your son! We watched the parade together in front of Kinkos! I wish we had exchanged numbers so we could get to know each other. I would have loved to hang out longer! You got a phone call and left. I wanna see you again! Please! When: Saturday, March 5, 2011. Where: Mardi Gras parade, Burlington. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908677 effective memo Mr. Connor, your name in lights, kid. I saw you. Thanks for your prompt reply and for listening, not just hearing. Have an awesome life. When: Thursday, March 3, 2011. Where: prerogatives. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908676
KEEGAN this is for YOU! Tis “Your Time to Shine” and show the “Love,” so enjoy “The Message” and don’t worry that “You Don’t Know,” just “Follow the Sun” to your destiny, and keep on rockin’ to the “Memory” and one day you will “Find Love” again. When: Thursday, March 3, 2011. Where: On Stage. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908666
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blue doritos & tabasco Happy 25th birthday, chicken nugget! You were my first and only love, and I wouldn’t want it any other way. Being with you makes me happier than anything else in the world, and though the past few years were hard sometimes, it was all worth it to have what we do today. Happy birthday, my darling. :) When: Wednesday, July 4, 2007. Where: Fairfield House, Northbrook Lodge. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908656 Pearl St. Laundry encounter You: Sexy, even in your blue sweatpants. You were reading a book and doing laundry. Me: Tall, dressed black from top to bottom, brown shoes, hat and shades. I was awfully sick so I was not really comfortable engaging in a conversation. Although we talked for a sec about the doc who was fighting gravity really badly. You grabbed my attention right away! When: Tuesday, March 1, 2011. Where: Pearl St. Laundry around 5 p.m.. You: Woman. Me: Man. #908655 SWT<3 So good to see you for lunch, baby. Missed you terribly. No one has ever made me feel the way you do. I don’t know where to go from here, and the what-if thoughts have already started. I see you and me together, have since the day I realized I loved you. Hoping some day you’ll say the same. XXOO, Skookie. When: Friday, February 25, 2011. Where: Lunch. You: Man. Me: Woman. #908654
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mistress maeve Dear Mistress Maeve,
I’m a civil unioned guy, and I love my husband of 10 years. I also have a lover (barely legal to drink) who adores my nearly-50-year-old self. Sex with my young lover is amazing, like it used to be when I first got together with my partner. My husband knows about my lover, and he’s glad I have him because he has no interest in providing me with the same strenuous workouts in bed. Unfortunately, sex with my lover is only a onceor twice-a-year thing, for a few days at a time, when he visits New England. Here’s the question: My lover proposed that I travel down to see him, and my husband states he has no qualms about it. Should I do it, or should I not open that chapter?
Sincerely,
Dear How Far,
How Far Should I Go?
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03.09.11-03.16.11
Sounds like you have a formula that works between your husband and your lover, and you’re worried about spoiling the recipe by adding too many ingredients. You have a valid concern — it’s not easy finding a healthy balance in an open relationship, and it seems like you’re worried about messing up a good thing by getting greedy. First and foremost, you must decide what you want. Are you chomping at the bit to visit your lover, or are you content with how things are? If you feel compelled to transform your twice-per-year trysts into quarterly occurrences, it’s time to have a serious talk with your husband. Let him know that, while you appreciate his easygoing attitude about your boy toy, you would feel more comfortable setting up expectations and boundaries from the get-go. Having this conversation will solidify your commitment to hubby and also allow you to have a guilt-free good time by following the rules. Above all else, be honest with yourself. I sense apprehension in your letter, and if you’re nervous that this additional time with your lover will damage your civil union — be smart and don’t do it. Your primary relationship should be your primary concern, and a young lover shouldn’t cloud your judgment (no matter how much he worships your 50-year-old bod).
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Singing guy on Church St. Your singing and cute looks caught my eye, and I couldn’t help but smile as I was walking by. I looked back as I was walking away and noticed you looking in my direction. Your singing definitely made my night. Maybe we Popsicle Sickness can get coffee or tea sometime? Me: Times’ve changed, times’re Don’t get it, it’s bad. When: Thursday, dark hair in bun, short, walking with strange November 26, 2009. Where: girl in heels and Afro. When: Saturday, 1x3-cbhb-personals-alt.indd 1 6/14/10 2:39:13 PM My dear Sebastian, here’ s to impending Username: “misfit1978”. You: February 26, 2011. Where: Church St.. sweaties, ‘80s movie marathon cuddles, Woman. Me: Man. #908672 You: Man. Me: Woman. #908653 then waffles and smokes and giant mugs with coffee. This time my place. Jezza1918 City Market Checkout Lanes I miss my bed and Señor Smushy You said your name was Nathan. Are We locked eyes over adjacent checkout kisses. Heart, AJ. When: Saturday, you stalking Lisa still? Good karma lanes at noon. You: tall, thin, brown January 1, 2011. Where: NYE bash. in reuniting old friends who haven’t eyed, with librarian specs and straight You: Man. Me: Woman. #908664 seen each other since elementary black hair, at end of middle checkout school. Wonder what your last name lane, smiled; you walked up the stairs. @JanieDD is. William. When: Sunday, March 1, Me: mae, blue jacket, tall, brown hair, OK. You want anonymous. Be at 2009. Where: She says she’s at the waiting to check out next lane over. Farrell Park in S. Burlington March gym. You: Man. Me: Man. #908671 Wanted to introduce myself. Lunch 5, 11 a.m., wear a red sweater and a sometime? When: Monday, February red hat. When: Wednesday, March Mumps Face 28, 2011. Where: City Market checkout 2, 2011. Where: Hot 2 Tango. You: You don’t look like you have the lanes. You: Woman. Me: Man. #908652 Woman. Me: Man. #908663 mumps anymore. I’m so glad your giant mouth holes are feeling better Clutch Show GG Allin Shirt BraveNewWorld in shoe section now, I hate seeing you so miserable, You were wearing a GG Allin shirt Emily, i had a lovely conversation with which is why you should go do what and a bandana. I saw you from afar you and I’d like to keep it going. If you you need to do, and I’ll be OK with it. at the end of the night talking to a read this, contact me. I’ll treat you to a I love you. When: Friday, March 4, friend. Don’t think you saw me, just coffee and we can talk about our perfect 2011. Where: Delirious on the couch. wanted to say you’re ridiculously hot, utopia. When: Wednesday, March 2, You: Man. Me: Woman. #908670 wish I had noticed you earlier. Maybe 2011. Where: Dick’s Sporting Goods. next time? When: Sunday, February You: Woman. Me: Man. #908662 Sarah R., former Ekis vocalist 27, 2011. Where: Higher Ground. Tell me that your smooth sound and You: Man. Me: Woman. #908651 reenactment funky vocal style can still be heard “Life is so good. Life is great! I mean that. somewhere in Vermont. Inquiring minds Lower Church St./my place Really! I’m not miserable at all. Nope! want to know. -A fan. When: Friday, We met Thursday night on lower These are tears of joy. This is weepiness March 4, 2011. Where: Red Square. Church St., we spent all night talking of content. My life! Please don’t You: Woman. Me: Man. #908668 at my style’n pad, ‘til the morning change. Your shirt.” When: Monday, when we broke the bed. I had to say February 28, 2011. Where: Homeroom. Pretty Pretty Princess in Bueno goodbye too quickly. I was not done You: Woman. Me: Man. #908659 You were doing your barista thing at kissing your soft, beautiful lips. I still Bueno, I was complimenting you on your want to see your art. Call me. When: Looking sharp at UO “happening” necklace. Maybe we can Thursday, February 24, 2011. Where: To the guy working upstairs at UO on meet up and see what else may happen. Lower Church St./my place. You: Saturday evening: We had an awkward BTW, great muffins! When: Thursday, Woman. Me: Man. u #908650 moment or two. I wish I wasn’t too March 3, 2011. Where: Bueno Espresso. shy to say anything to you! You were You: Woman. Me: Man. #908667 driverfoundinVT on match wearing a gray pull-over with a white You winked at my on match.com on collared shirt and a nose ring. Stay February 27, 2011, but I don’t have sexy. When: Saturday, February
Sexy-Senior calender models Oh! I get it now! Thanx for the *hint* ;) When: Friday, March 4, 2011. Where: Colchester. You: Man. Me: Man. #908673
a memebership. Is there another way to get a hold of you? Facebook perhaps? I figured this might get your attention, as it says you read Seven