things, but it was absolutely worth it.
lawn, finally they decided that I wouldn’t do it,
When I found my host-family I thought they
luckily.
were the best family I could find. They were go-
The parents wanted me to cook for them, not
ing to give me good pocket-money and their
only for their kids, so I found myself taking care
house was in a good place to live. But when I met
of the kids but also of their parents. Then they
them my initial perspective changed a little bit.
left all the dishes in the sink, waiting for me to
The kids I was minding were 10 and 12 years old.
clean them once they finished the meals I had
These are good ages if you don’t like young kids,
prepared them. I had to feed two cats every day
and you are a beginner aupair, as they are very
in the morning and water the plants two days per
independent. But my kids were too independent,
week. Oh, and you know my favorite day of the
in my opinion.
week? Tuesday, when I had to iron all the father’s
They were always playing with their computers.
shirts! The may thought it was a fun thing for me
The eldest didn’t use to talk to me at all. Well, at
to do.
least he used to thank me for preparing his din-
One thing I used to do during the afternoon
ner; the youngest was kinder with me, but not
and I enjoyed as well was baking. I did muffins
much. And I think they used to see me as their
and cakes. The youngest used to like it, so it was
servant.
something we used to do together.
During the week I had to wake them up, it was
At least they bought me a present for Christmas,
easy with the youngest, but I had problems with
and that made me nice that they were good peo-
the eldest, it was very hard with him. I used to
ple after all.
prepare breakfast for them, and for the father!
I went back home for Christmas, for two weeks.
And then feed the cats. Every day I had to do
By that time everything was good with the En-
some housekeeping, but the reality was that I had
glish family and we were comfortable living
to do everything in the house, all the house work.
together, but unfortunately my grandmother
As I did not have to do so many things with
passed away during my holidays in Barcelona.
the kids, like going to the park, or take them to
Going again to London was too hard for me, but
school, I had to do the housekeeping. At first ev-
I had to go back with my host-family. Once there
erything was right, but after two months I was
again I didn’t feel supported by them at all and I
more a maid than an aupair. I even had to take
realized that some families don’t care about you.
the bins out, and they wanted me to mow the
You are just there to clean the house and to pre-
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