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PLU S FASHION FORWARD 25 years of glamour from Rosa Clará

BRIDAL TRENDS A MARRIAGE OF LUXURY & STYLE

Key looks for 2021 and beyond

PARADISE PLACES Perfect honeymoon destinations

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CHIC TWIST

Cool styles for relaxed and pared-back parties

HERO HEELS

This season's most-wanted bridal shoes

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Sophisticated styles for every type of wedding

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A romantic wedding album of happy endings

Our exclusive fashion shoot at Bourton Hall

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A romantic and intimate garden wedding in the heart of the Sussex Weald

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WEDDING PLANNER 111 PLANNING NOTES

Creative gift lists, sustainable flowers, virtual shopping and fashion for 2021 and beyond

L U X U R Y T R AV E L 117 LAKE COMO MAGIC A luxurious minimoon in Italy

122 HOME TREASURES Two private retreats on home soil

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All of us who started this year with so many high hopes and dreams are now holding on to the thought that love conquers all...

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his has become the weddings theme of the year, with so many plans postponed and couples left wondering when their day will dawn. The stars will realign and love will prevail – and that's what has inspired our New Romantic issue. Our magical shoot at Country House Weddings' Bourton Hall from page 16 (a dead ringer for Tuscany although it's in romantic Shakespeare country) sets the tone for an issue which is all about love, dreams and happy endings. The beautiful gowns by Rosa Clará couldn't be more appropriate in capturing the magic we are all imagining. We are here with you in spirit and in life – our wonderful Venues Editor Isabella Eckett has postponed, just like so many other brides – and this issue is packed with ideas to help you make your beautiful dreams reality. Our Venues Hot List 2020 (from page 97) showcases the latest and greatest locations, every one visited and hand-picked by our team. All that plus fashion inspiration, planning insights and travel ideas for the ultimate honeymoon escape after your celebration.

Love from all of us at Absolutely Weddings – keep the faith and keep planning for your perfect day.

L I B BY N O R M A N AMANDA WAKELEY'S TAKE ON Helena by Rosa Clará Soft , THE BEJEWELLED TREND FOR photographed at Bourton Hall.

BRIDES, SEE PAGE 47 See p.16

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From earrings with meaning and the scent of summer to bridesmaid glamour, here are ten things we absolutely love for the season to come

ST R O N G WO R D S

Keep the faith through trying times with Alex Monroe's Love&Hope asymmetric statement drop earrings.

Shown here in gold plated silver, you'll also find them in silver. ÂŁ345; alexmonroe.com

GREEN THEME We salute the environmental initiatives happening in bridal, notably at Pronovias, which is championing #WeDoEco. Its pledge extends from sustainable fabrics and local suppliers to innovative packaging that's kind to the planet; pronovias.com 8

H E I R LO O M TIME

Inspired by a piece made during the Belle Époque, this white gold Heure Romantique watch from Vacheron Constantin is studded with 123 round-cut diamonds and has a black mother-of-pearl face. POA; vacheron-constantin.com

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SW E ET RO U N D

With flavours such as Raspberry Madness, Mint Julep and Arabesque Jasmine, Senda El Kardali's French macarons are unbelievably moreish.

You're going to need a bigger dessert table. From £17.99 for nine; treatmesweet.org.uk

ROMANTIC R E V I VA L

Kitten heels are a classic, especially in New Romantic paisley silk brocade. Mandarina's glorious selection includes these Darcy Silver Slingbacks with black micro suede lining. £145; mandarinashoes.co.uk

DREAM DRESSES RING ME

Taylor & Hart will design that dream ring, with stones and setting to match your style. With more delicate designs rising in popularity, they report that yellow and rose golds and coloured gems are also having a revival. taylorandhart.com

TH&TH's upcoming bridesmaid collection includes star gowns that will ensure your attendants feel like princesses. This beyond-glamorous pink Anais gown is set to be a star. thandth.com

S H A DY S P OT

Tap into the nature-inspired mood with these classic Garland shades from Black Eyewear, cut square to flatter most face shapes and oversized for guaranteed cool round the pool. You'll find them available with plain or prescription lenses. £197; blackeyewear.com

T R AV E L L E R ' S Z E S T The honeymoon may be in planning, but Lavender & Lillie's candles and diffusers take you on an exotic journey.

We particularly love Praslin, Seychelles, a heady mix of coco de mere, bougainvillea, frangipani and gardenia. £48 for diffuser; lavenderandlillie.com

HERB GARDEN

Capture memories of summer with Herbae, a L'Occitane scent with fresh and citrus-floral notes based on white clover, grasses and angelica. £52 for 50ml; uk.loccitane.com

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Romantic Style While all weddings are romantic, right now portraits of couples who have tied the knot make our hearts sing. Here are eight dreamy photos to capture the magic of two people, one heart, one day Wo r d s L I B B Y N O R M A N

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Baby and dog came too when Diana and Matt celebrated their wedding at Holkham Hall in Norfolk in an intimate celebration with their families. They were captured in a series of lovely portraits

by Kathy Ashdown, framed against Holkham's dreamy classical Temple. holkham.co.uk & katherineashdown.co.uk 2 A M Y & J O R DA N Photo: Ben Bull

Jordan tied the knot with Amy at Swynford Manor, near Newmarket with family and friends. While this was a midwinter celebration the light was just right, captured beautifully in this portrait by Ben Bull. We love the bride's glamorous pearl headband and romantic off-the-shoulder gown. benbull.net 3 GEORGIE & MILES Photo: Tara Moller

Georgie and Miles were married at The Queen's Chapel of the Savoy in central London, with a beautiful and intimate ceremony in this historic setting attended by their very closest family and friends.

Photographer Tara Moller captured the joy as bride and groom celebrated being wed. taramoller.com 4 L U CY & TO M Photo: Ben Bull

Lucy and Tom chose the day before New Year's Eve for their celebration, but the weather proved mild and they were able to take a turn round the grounds of Hatfield House for some wonderful photos among the parterre hedges and herbs before the sun went down and the after-party proper started. benbull.net

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Lauren and Luke were married in mid-autumn, just as the leaves were starting to fall, with glorious sunshine signalling their newly-married status – the perfect backdrop for their photoshoot in the gardens of Sissons Barn, Cambridgeshire. We love the bride's beautiful trailing bouquet. benbull.net

For Kate and Mark there was a delightful ceremony and party at Hales Hall & Great Barn in Norfolk, an opportunity to celebrate among friends and family in its perfect grounds. One of the most magical moments was when they and their guests lit sparklers to mark the day. haleshall.com & andydavison.com

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Will and Polly had a classic old-school London ceremony at Chelsea Old Town Hall, emerging into the brilliant July sunlight to be greeted with cheers and lots of confetti by their well wishers. There was a wonderful relaxed flavour to the whole day, as they headed on for an intimate family garden party to celebrate. taramoller.com

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8 JA S O N & C R A I G Jason and Craig made it official at romantic Langley Castle, near Hexham in Northumberland at one of its special 'Two-Become-One' celebrations designed to help couples get married without a crowd. Diane Makepeace captured idyllic moments around the historic castle and its woodland grounds, including this shot of the couple getting ready. langleycastle.co.uk & dianemakepeacephotography.com

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For the most stunning selection of beautiful shoes for brides, mothers of bridesmaids and guests, look no further than Mandarina Shoes.

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Photographed on location in Tuscany, Lihi Hod's 2021 White Blossom collection celebrates pure romance, with classic silhouettes, lavish fabrics and stunning floral details – see more romantic gowns for the new season on page 38. lihihod.com

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New Romantic The new romantic spirit offers elegant silhouettes and uid fabrics. We capture the magic on location at Bourton Hall with gowns by Rosa Clarå Photography R O B E R T O A G U I L A R Stylist A N T O N I A K R A S K O W S K I

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Connie dress, from £1,850; Rosa Clará.

Pearl choker, £110; Astley Clarke.

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Savana dress, from £3,480; Rosa Clará Couture.

Headpiece with pearls and beading, £250; Rosa Clará.

Earrings, £195; Emily Mortimer.

Shoes, £1,995; Jimmy Choo.

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Helena dress, from £1,640; Rosa Clará Soft.

Shoes, £595 and clutch bag, £350; both Sophia Webster.

Pearl bracelet, £95 and ring £850; both Astley Clarke.

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Apollo dress, from £1,950; Rosa Clará Boheme.

Veil from a selection available at Rosa Clará.

Earrings, £195; Emily Mortimer.

Ring, £850; Astley Clarke.

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Eire dress, from £2,440; Rosa Clará Couture.

Necklace, £295; Emily Mortimer.

Earrings, £79; Estee Lalonde x Daisy Jewellery.

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Shot on location at BO URTO N HA LL , WA RW IC KSHIRE , part of CO U N TRY HO USE W E D D ING S' portfolio of fairytale properties. countryhouseweddings.co.uk All dresses by ROSA C LA RÁ , celebrating 25 years of dreamy wedding gowns and evening gowns. rosaclara.es Photography RO BE RTO AGUILA R photoaguilar.com Stylist A N TO NIA KRASKOWSKI antoniakraskowski.com Hair & make-up L AURE N IRW IN using Charlotte Tilbury make-up and Bumble and bumble. hair products; laurenirwin.co.uk Model VA N E SSA J O BB at Linden Staub; lindenstaub.com Photographer’s assistant RO BE RT C HA DW IC K Flowers STE M SATIO N S stemsations.co.uk S t o c k i s t s Astley Clarke astleyclarke.com Daisy Jewellery daisyjewellery.com • Emily Mortimer emilymortimer.co.uk Jimmy Choo jimmychoo.com • Sophia Webster sophiawebster.com

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Celebrating 25 brilliant years dressing brides – and now with a store in London, Rosa Clará remains a go-to for the ultimate dress. We speak to Rosa Clará Pallarès to find out what makes the brand unique Interview LIBBY NORMAN

Q You are celebrating 25 years at the forefront of bridal fashion When you look back, what have been the biggest changes and what things remain the same?

A There have been many changes. The online world has made fashion available to many people and this was unthinkable a few years ago. Now brides have a culture in fashion that did not exist before. However, the main change is in the age. When we started, the typical bride was 23 or 24 years old at most. They were girls who came to try on dresses accompanied by their family, which greatly influenced them. Today, brides get married from the age of 30 – they know exactly what they want and make decisions for themselves.

Q While seasonal trends may shift, I've often heard it said that you can always spot a Rosa Clará gown. How would you describe the 'signature' of your brand?

A A wedding dress has to stand the test of time, it must have a classic point, even if it innovates in neckline or details. Our collections have an impeccable pattern; we use the best fabrics and innovation is constant. Design, craftsmanship and quality are the DNA of the brand.

Q Rosa Clará has distinct collections to match different styles of bride – could you outline the key design elements of the four collections?

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Clará Couture collection, with designs that keep to its 'less is more' concept. Simple lines, and exceptional fabrics, such as silk satin, crepe, georgette, Italian cloque and flocked plumetti tulle, define a sophisticated and romantic collection. The Rosa Clará line combines minimalism and sensuality in contemporary dresses that enhance the silhouette and faithfully represent the essence of the brand. Ethereal and delicate, Rosa Clará Soft also does not forget sensuality through muslin silk dresses with slits in the skirt. For a wedding in nature, Rosa Clará Bohème offers designs with artisanal details and Provencal lace bodies that represent a luxurious and delicate boho style – it's a Rosa Clará style of boho.

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Q You also have Rosa Clarรก Cocktail, which is popular with mothers of the bride and guests. What is the inspiration behind these dresses and separates?

A One of the main goals is to make women more beautiful and suit their needs. As with our bridal collections, in our cocktail line we have a wide variety of styles, silhouettes and cuts aimed at women of all ages. Our constant is to always use the best fabrics, and we are continually researching and looking for new options and trends every season.

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Q You are now a major presence in 80 countries. How have the many different brides and global bridal traditions you work with influenced the design of your collections?

A They influence us a lot. Being present in so many countries and being able to listen to so many brides with different styles and cultures has allowed us to create collections designed and created around each one of them.

In Rosa Clará you will not find a similar design, and this is thanks to them Brides are our main source of inspiration.

Q Your HQ remains Barcelona, a city that is widely considered the 'world capital of bridal'.

What does being in bridal's heart mean in terms of bridal talent, access to world markets and inspiration?

A In our case, constant innovation and being able to reinvent and adapt ourselves in every situation

has played a very important role in our brand. We also have a product whose bases are craftsmanship, quality, and design. 'Made in Spain' provides a seal of quality. In Barcelona, there is a long tradition in textiles and this quality is recognised internationally.

Q You now have a wonderful Rosa Clará store here in Mayfair where brides can see all your collections, alongside exclusive bridal accessories. Could you describe how the experience works for brides visiting one of your boutiques to choose a dress?

A The experience is the same in all our stores. It is a unique experience since it is about finding the most important dress of your life. I always tell brides to listen to our professional advisors.

Q Finally, having reached an amazing 25-year milestone, can you share any of Rosa Clará's plans for the upcoming seasons?

A The bridal fashion industry is a constant challenge.

To keep Rosa Clará the innovative brand it is, we

must constantly contribute new ideas that position us first. On top of this, we also need to grow the brand in markets where we are already recognised. Above all, the incorporation of my son Daniel into the business project is something that makes me especially excited. He is well prepared, so that makes me think that he can do it much better than me.

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Chic and slimline gowns are popular across new-season collections but Isabel Sanchis can always be relied on to add a sophisticated twist. We love this tailored off-the-shoulder design for its clean lines and sparkling trim at the neckline. isabelsanchis.com

Tiers are adding a lighthearted twist to 2021 bridal collections and Rembo Styling has a classic look for the high-summer or beach bride in Eco Love. It has bootlace straps, a bandeau neckline and layered tiers to give plenty of movement to the skirt. rembo-styling.com

We've seen a few bold minis this year but this delicious babydoll-style design by Poesie Sposa tops our list for its fun take on bridal traditions. With a round embellished illusion-panel neckline, it has a frothy spotted skirt with silk frill. poesiesposa.it

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Lounge-style dresses and separates are key trends for 2021 and this flowing number from Yolancris is just perfect for poolside or relaxed gathering. On-trend elements include bold feature sleeves with smart button cuffs, a split front and soft bow detail at the neckline. yolancris.com

A newcomer to the Valmont Barcelona Bridal Week runway, Vestal showed a glittering collection full of intricate details.

This silver-hued dress stood out for its refined and regal flavour, with simple round neckline, scalloped short sleeves and flowing skirt with train. k-vestal.com

The new collection from Jesus Peiro has looks for every style of celebration. One of our favourites is this column dress in crepe and Chantilly lace. Jewelled tassels add a Deco twist and guaranteed shine – especially if you add one of the designer's fabulous glitter tulle capes. jesuspeiro.com

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Perfect party gowns are in abundance in the new season, with standout glamour to make you feel every inch the star at your dream celebration

MERMAID FLAIR

BERTA P RI VÉE From the latest Berta PrivÊe collection, this cool take on the mermaid line has fine lace detailing. The floaty layered skirt flares out in soft folds to create a dramatic train. UK stockist is The Wedding Club. thewedding-club.co.uk

GOLD GLAMOUR

SAS S I HOL FORD You shall go to the ball in this dreamy ballgown from Sassi Holford.

With off-the-shoulder neckline and fitted bodice, it has a soft gold sheen and floaty full skirt with shimmering detailing to catch the light. sassiholford.com

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S UZA N N E N EV I L L E Adelaide is a standout ballgown from Suzanne Neville's Modern Love collection. It features a boned sweetheart bodice with dropped shoulders and a full skirt. We love the glamorous retro floral print, featuring soft purple roses. suzanneneville.com

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SILK DRESSING LOU I S E S E L BY Water Lily is a classic bridal look from designer Louise Selby's lovely collection. It has a sweeping, almost Bardot-style, off-the-shoulder neckline and is made of luscious silk zibeline that has a soft and pearlescent sheen. The bodice is cut to flatter and there's a sweeping circular skirt for drama up the aisle. louiseselby.com

DEBS' DELIGHT

I N E S DI SA N TO Lunaria is a 1950s style gown with a romantic debutante flavour from Ines di Santo's spring 2021 couture collection. It features fine straps, a scoop neck and a full skirt. The dress is heavily embellished with glorious 3D beaded flowers and foliage. inesdisanto.com

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L I Z M ART I NEZ If you yearn for a ballgown shape but don't want to max your luggage allowance, Eden is the perfect choice. It comprises a ballerina-length tulle skirt, boned strapless bodice and delicate silver bow belt. lizmartinez.co.il

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BLISS MONIQUE LHUILLIER A classic for an evening or high-summer party, this romantic dress from the new Bliss by Monique Lhuillier collection has flattering wide straps, a low back and a full train with bow.

Relaxed details such as slouch pockets make this a wonderfully wearable ballgown style. thewedding-club.co.uk

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LE AH DA GLO RIA Ophelia is a star number from Australian couture star Leah Da Gloria's latest Bohème collection.

It has a period quality thanks to the extraordinarily detailed beading and flower appliquĂŠ. Featuring a fitted strapless sweetheart bodice, it has a wide ballgown skirt with scattered pearl and flower trails. leahdagloria.com

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FLOWER POWER AL AN HANNAH Tulsa is a fitted column dress with train from the new collection of London design house Alan Hannah. With a wonderful 1960s flavour, it has skinny straps and delicate pink flower beading, concentrated at the bodice and then scattered along the length of the skirt. alanhannah.co.uk

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T HE COU T U RE GAL L ERY Part of The Couture Gallery's Modern Bride collection, Audrey is a sleeveless design with racer cut and slimline skirt. It's shown here with elegant draped scarf, but there are lots of options to personalise your look. thecouturegallery.com

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Sleek cuts are a key look for the new-season bride who wants to make a statement. It's high-impact dressing, with reďŹ ned fabrics and devastatingly elegant details

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SAVA N N A H M I L LE R Luella is a pure white empireline satin gown. With bootlace straps, it has a lovely lace crossover at the bodice and a soft mermaid skirt with train.

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Bridal Trends SLIM GOWNS

SQUARE DANCE

A L EX AN DRA GRECCO The Aspen is a modern slim-cut wedding gown in off-white Italian tulle. With a neat structured and boned bodice, square neckline and wide straps, it has a shimmering appliquĂŠ design. alexandragrecco.com

CURVE MAKER

STEP H ANIE AL L I N From the 2021 Spirit collection by Stephanie Allin, Brooke is a sexy dress made of Italian crepe for a sleek line.

It has a body-revealing cutaway back, perfect for showing off a tan, and is finished with a blouson-sleeved overtop dressed with floral embroidery. stephanieallin.net

INNER CIRCLE

RU E DE S E I N E Proving that a slimline number can pack just as much punch as a ballgown, Rue de Seine's Bishop dress is in silk-lined bold graphic lace and features a textured circular motif, placed diagonally to flatter curves. It has a high halter neck, and open back. thewedding-club.co.uk

BOW LINE

S UZA N N E N EV I L L E Cailey is a glamorous eveningstyle wedding gown from Suzanne Neville's Modern Love collection. Featuring a fluid mermaid line with train, it has flattering wide straps cut low either side of the bodice and a low v neckline finished with an oversized drapey bow. suzanneneville.com

DIVINE DRAPE

KAT YA KAT YA LO N DO N From Katya Katya's new Silk Collection designed for modern weddings, Lilly has a fluid curved bodice paired to draped top with wide sleeves. The A-line skirt is cut for movement, making this a great gown for evening or destination celebrations. katyakatya.co.uk

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FLOAT away

Fairytale gowns with lightweight fabrics, oral details and shimmering embellishment are a key fashion story for the new-season bride who wants a perfect happy ending

SHEER DRAMA

P RONOVI AS Daniela is a gown from the new Pronovias collection that's perfect for making a dramatic entrance. In transparent tulle with bold abstract floral pattern, it has a bateau neckline, wide cape-style sleeves and a low back with chapel train. pronovias.com

BOLD SHOULDER

MUS E BY BERTA Tapping into a new-season trend for one-shoulder gowns, this luminous and lightweight modern party dress from Muse by Berta has a bold diagonal neckline. In shimmering translucent fabric, it is embellished with flowerheads. thewedding-club.co.uk

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CHIFFON ROMANCE

SA N PAT R I CK Condamine is from the new San Patrick collection. With a neat lace bodice, cap sleeves and illusion back, it has a fluid layered chiffon skirt that's perfect for floating down the aisle. mirrormirror.uk.com

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Bridal Trends FLOWING GOWNS

STAR TURN HEL ENA KO L A N Perfect for glittering parties, Paris is a luminous and lightweight gown from rising star Helena Kolan – an engineer turned bridal designer.

With flattering wide neckline, neat tailored bodice, slim belt and floaty skirt, it's a streamlined take on a classic shape.

Stockists include Angelica Bridal. helenakolan.com

LUSH LACE

JOYCE YO U N G Lara is an elegant choice from London and Glasgow designer Joyce Young. With a full A-line soft skirt, it has a lavish beaded sleeveless bodice incorporating an illusion panel to create a soft lace trail at the back of the gown. joyceyoungcollections.co.uk

FINE FEATHERS

DAAL ARNA The stunning Budapest collection – inspired by Daalarna's home city – includes this standoutgown with frothy feather-effect chiffon skirt matched to an embroidered plunge-front bodice with stylised feather motif. daalarna.hu

FLOWER GARDEN

A L M A N OV I A Ocelo is a modern-boho choice from the Alma Novia collection, available at Boa Boutique.

It comprises a lightweight skirt, soft v neck and low back.

The distinctive lace used on the bodice and sleeves features bold flowerheads. boa-boutique.co.uk

FAIRYTALE AFFAIR

RO N ALD J OYCE Classic British design house Ronald Joyce has included this romantic and fluid gown in its new-season collection. With shimmering embellishment on the sweetheart-neckline bodice, it has a romantic chiffon skirt. Ronald Joyce London stockists include Mia Sposa in Hatton Garden. ronaldjoyce.com

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Bridal Trends CHIC LOOKS

SASSI HOLFORD This Chelsea shirtdress has floaty lace sleeves and a hand-pleated skirt with neat waist-defining belt. sassiholford.com

RIME A R O DA K Y

This classic wrap dress from Rime Arodaky's Iconics collection is made for cool parties. Stockist is The Mews Bridal. themewsnottinghill.co.uk

CHARLIE BREAR

With a Fifties flavour, Safin is a mid-length Mikado gown with halter neck and box-pleat skirt. charliebrear.com

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TWIST PERFECT FOR PARED-BACK PARTIES, THESE ALTERNATIVE WEDDING OUTFITS OFFER HIGH-GLAMOUR STYLE WITH A COOL TWIST

INES DI SANTO Honor is a sleek short number with floral lace bodice and slim fitted skirt.

It can be accessorised with matching lace half sleeves. inesdisanto.com

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REMBO STYLING This floor-length gown with split skirt has a plunge bodice and lovely lace panel defining waist, sleeves and neckline. rembo-styling.com

CYMBELINE

A dashing New Romantic ensemble, Mirys pairs cut-offs with a full-length organza shirtdress and pale green obi belt. cymbeline.com

CAROLINE CASTIGLIANO

A great choice for summer garden or evening parties, this floaty Nicole top is paired with sleek Montserrat trousers. carolinecastigliano.com

A New York designer to watch, Gracy Accad ups the ante on alternative bridal attire with this bowtrimmed Penelope mini. gracyaccad.com

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Red carpet gowns with dramatic details and oldfashioned Hollywood glamour are perfect for your star turn

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Pronovias' plungefront dress, artfully curved at the bodice, is a showstopper. pronovias.com Going for full drama, this gown with black ruffle sleeves is by Valencia couturier Isabel Sanchis. isabelsanchis.com

iva style is in full swing for the season to come, with bold statement gowns that have more than a touch of Vegas or Hollywood about them.

It's a look for brides who are ready to play a leading role, with provocative splits, dramatic cuts, bold shoulder details and a sprinkling of glitter.

Take to the aisle in style – even if you don't go for a diva dress – with statement earrings or a fabulous pair of metallic heels.

Yumi Katsura's diva-worthy collection includes this mermaid gown with ruffle sleeve detail.

This metallic gown paired with silver boots channels rock-star glamour; yumikatsuracouture.com

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A teardrop cutaway and leg-of-mutton sleeves are perfect for the powerdressing bridal look. higarnovias.com

Billionaire glitter highheel boots. £175; dunelondon.com Super Bowl Light large silver earrings. £130; giovanniraspini.com

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BRIDE Lounge pieces are having a moment and, be it poolside or garden, this is a style for brides who want to be cool, calm and perfectly glam

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Palazzo pants are matched to a cutaway bodice for the ultimate in relaxed bridal style. flora-bride.com

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ounge luxe is about 100 per cent glamour – so perfect for brides who want to steal the show without it looking as if they've tried too hard.

It celebrates the holiday spirit (think St Tropez or Mykonos), with body-revealing cuts and seriously luxe fabrics. Whether you're celebrating on the beach or closer to home, it's a style that needs minimal accessorising. Just clamp on the film-star shades, grab a tiny jewelled clutch and you're ready to take to the aisle in style.

This bamboo silk-finish slip dress is paired with cotton utility jacket with ribbon-tie sleeves. rembo-styling.com

Combining a lace crop top with lavish full sleeves and slinky full-length skirt, Flora's design is perfect for beach brides. flora-bride.com

Float down the aisle in a pleated gown that can be slipped on over your bikini. yolancris.com

Sophie et Voilà's silken two-piece has a bikini-style top with oversized bow. sophieetvoila.com

Classic oversized Bird shades in black. £187; blackeyewear.com

Cloud suede clutch with serpent ball clasp. £1,450; jimmychoo.com

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Fitzrovia ’ s hottest new wedding venue

The Loft & Gallery at Mortimer House Celebrate in style. An intimate penthouse bathed in natural daylight, boasting views across the city.

Also licensed for ceremonies.

37–41 Mortimer Street Fitzrovia, London W1T 3JH 020 7139 4431 mortimerhouse.com events@mortimerhouse.com

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GOLD Rich hues of yellow and rose gold are adding sunshine to bridal in the season to come – and what's not to love about that?

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Cymbeline's pared-back design has subtle rosegold banding to add a dash of warmth. cymbeline.com

e're on golden time in the coming season, as yellow hues bring a spirit of optimism to wedding-day dressing.

There's everything to love about gold – shade of sunlight, prosperity and smiles. While some designers have woven precious-metal shades through their collection, others have added accents to warm up white. Just add a pair of knockout yellow heels and choice gold jewels to guarantee sunshine on your wedding day.

Lavish gold fabric with black accents creates a wonderful alternative for the bride who doesn't do white. cymbeline.com

Rich golden and turquoise appliqué and a silken sash make this dress perfect for day-to-evening parties. higarnovias.com

The Atelier's glittering 2021 collection includes this fairytale number with goldenyellow strapless bodice. theateliercouture.com

The Knot white and rose gold diamond earrings. £2,200; boodles.com

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Sun satin pumps with crystal detailing. £725; jimmychoo.com

Candy Pop yellow sapphire ethical engagement ring. £1,340; lebrusanstudio.com

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Vintage ALLURE There's an Edwardian flavour to the new season, with wedding gowns featuring fitted cut, fine lace and lavish details

Beautifully buttoned up with a high collar, Jesus Peiro's design is the last word in refinement. jesuspeiro.com Creating an hourglass silhouette with a clever cutaway, this gown also has sheer feature sleeves. theateliercouture.com

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fter-dark glamour comes guaranteed with a new wave of gowns that take their inspiration from yesteryear.

With scooped necklines, fitted bodices, flowing feature sleeves and more than a dash of Edwardian flair in some of the finer details, this is look for brides who want to capture timeless style. Accessorise with velvet or kid suede shoes and a smattering of crystals or heirloom diamonds.

Pronovias' slimline dress has a sweetheart neckline, flattering lace collar and floaty sleeves with neat lace cuff.

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Dressed to impress, Isabel Sanchis' structured gown in fine lace features dramatic flowerhead. isabelsanchis.com

Amelia Casablanca's ballgown has a decadent fin de siècle flavour. ameliacasablanca.com

Fleur lace dressed pink suede shoes. £290; dianehassall.com

Portia silver crown halo. £350; emmylondon.com

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Bridal Trends SHOES

CASADEI

Strut your stuff in these Modern Love Zinc heels in a soft metallic hue. £560; casadei.com

R E N E CAOV I L L A

DUNE LONDON

Galaxie is a statement stiletto sandal with glittering mesh layer. £1,115; renecaovilla.com

Brilliante gold party shoes have a generous dash of sequins on heels and toes. £190; dunelondon.com

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HEELS

MAKE YOUR WEDDING DAY A HIGH POINT WITH OUR FABULOUS SELECTION OF PUMPS, SANDALS AND MULES FOR ADDING CLASSIC STYLE DOWN THE AISLE JIMMY CHOO

Love 100 are in silver glitter ruched fabric with chic 1950s styling. £575; jimmychoo.com

RAINBOW CLUB EMMY LONDON

Fifi have a jewel buckle and elegant straight heel. £99; johnlewis.com

Colette Dusky Pink have a lavish sash you can tie over the foot or at the ankle. £425; emmylondon.com

M A N DA R I N A S H O E S Arabella kitten heels feature lovely diamante buckles. £175; mandarinashoes.co.uk

F R E YA R O S E

Libby Blossom satin platforms have crystal flower details. £295; freyarose.com

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Alice bands are perfect for anyone who doesn't feel comfortable in a full-on hat, adding a finishing touch that is both flattering and easy to wear. This Stanhope Headband from Lock & Co is in burgundy velvet with a soft black veil. £455; lockhatters.co.uk

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Cape chic

Louise Kennedy has pieces that are ideal for modern weddings.

This Amelia dress in midnight blue silk features intricate embellishment and a draped cape. £1,795; louisekennedy.com

GLITTER TWIST Long gowns are always a versatile choice, and especially appropriate (and practical) for winter weddings. This slimline bias-cut dress from Joyce Young Collections is in a shimmering beaded silk georgette and has an overtop with long sleeves and draped back. POA; joyceyoungcollections.co.uk

GLAMOUR Whether it's a grand affair or a simple celebration, we've got brilliant outfit ideas for mother of the bride and chic wedding guest

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Eastern edge

Kensington-based couturier House of Benveniste offers choice pieces for party goers.

One of our favourites is this Easterninfluenced Penelope dress. Made of iridescent silk shot organza with a pink and gold weave, it has on-trend wide sleeves with neat cuffs, a v front and buttons along the length of the gown.

POA; bnvcouture.com

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Ja d e g l a m o u r

A formal coat is a smart choice that will always earn its keep and can be dressed up or down.

This tailored silk brocade Vicky design in jade blue is from Lalage Beaumont's autumn/winter collection. It's shown here worn over a classic jade blue shift dress, also from her collection. £999; lalagebeaumont.com

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S m a r t y pa n t s

Sassi Holford's Montreal jumpsuit features a flattering halter neck and plunge front paired to wide-leg trousers with front split. This adds flow and movement to an ensemble that works just as easily for a summer wedding as a formal after-dark affair. Shown here in a rich royal blue, it's also available in charcoal grey. £1,250; sassiholford.com

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Sleek suit

Perfect for alternative wedding style – and brilliant for a 'best woman' – this Luisa Cerano ensemble has an elegant 1930s Hollywood flavour (think Katharine Hepburn). Sold as separates it comprises a soft cream twill blazer, button-up silk blouse and wide-legged twill trousers. Blazer £479, trousers £299, blouse £249; luisacerano.com

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V e lv e t n i g h t s

Velvet is a classic choice for winter weddings and is so easy to dress up with a silk or cashmere wrap or long coat. This Sophie French navy midi dress from occasion and business-wear specialist Lalage Beaumont is in silk velvet and has a silver sparkle in the weave to add glamour. It is accessorised here with one of her exclusive silver Fonteyn clutches. Dress £899, croc print leather clutch, £499; lalagebeaumont.com

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In jewel blue with a lovely animal print, this slip on satin midi from the latest Monsoon party collection is perfect dressing up for pared-back weddings – or for the after-party if you are making a long weekend of the celebration. The dress has a low v neckline, floaty threequarter sleeves and a high waistband.

Pair it with beach sandals or satin mules for easy style. £65; monsoon.co.uk

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Bridal Trends BRIDESMAIDS

RUFFLE UP

The Amie gown has ruffled sleeves, a v-cut neckline and buttoned bodice. Shown here in a delicate shade of blossom pink, it's easy to mix and match with other gowns in the collection. maidstomeasure.com

S I M P LY R E D

This Celeste gown in a soft burgundy is from the TH&TH collection. In a fluid matte crepe with deep v cut at front and back, it has super-flattering fluted short sleeves. thandth.com

C A F É C R OW D

These mink and latte shades provide an unusual take on bridesmaid colours – perfect for the dream team who want different styles. They are part of a great range of colour and style alternatives at Motee Maids. moteemaids.co.uk

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OUR PICK OF BRIDESMAID GOWNS WILL ENSURE YOUR DREAM TEAM ARE PERFECTLY TURNED OUT

B R I DA L T W I ST

This dusty rose gown is part of Dessy's Twist Wrap collection. Worn here as a one-shoulder number, it can be wrapped in a huge number of ways. uk.dessy.com

COOL BLUE

From Halfpenny London's Sister collection, this Fox wrap dress in rich blue with teal frill hem is perfect for parties. Other styles in this colour include a cool jumpsuit. halfpennylondon.com

N E AT P L E AT

This classic Bluestone chiffon gown from Kelsey Rose features a pleated bodice with flattering halter strap that crosses at the back. Shown here worn with a beaded belt, it has a fluid and floaty A-line skirt. kelseyrose.co.uk

SOFT TOUCH

Soft neutrals are always a chic (and popular) choice for bridesmaids and Maids to Measure's Tabitha gown in dove grey chiffon ticks all boxes for sleek styling too. maidstomeasure.com

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Limited edition James shoes, £795; crockettandjones.com

WELL GROOMED

Film-star glamour for feet, keepsake rings and colour and style pops down the aisle STA R ST YL E

Alice Made This Bayley cufflinks in Quink. £190; alicemadethis.com

f you're a James Bond fan I (and we are) then you are eagerly awaiting the release of Time to Die after this autumn's disappointment. Grooms can steal a march by tuning into 007's sartorial style. Iconic British shoemaker Crockett & Jones collaborated with EON Productions and Bond wears several pairs of its Northamptonmade shoes as he restores order to a topsy-turvy world. First up there's a limited-edition James shoe inspired by the secret servant's impeccable

evening attire. Made from the finest box calf and featuring a hand grade leather sole, it's available as a limited edition and has an investment price tag, but makes the perfect choice for a black-tie party (or business wear).

Bond also wears two other pairs from its collection – the Highbury in black calf bridges the gap between formal and less formal, while Molton (as worn by Bond in the field) is in rough-cut suede with a sporting/ military twist. All offer a classic style boost – we say your beloved will be shaken, if not a little bit stirred.

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Impeccable waistcoats and suiting options for grooms; nealandpalmer.com

Showbizz navy dress shoes, £95; dunelondon.com

BR I GHT CH OICE S

edding trends come and go but the waistcoat is a classic that is worth investing in.

Whether it's morning suit, black tie or a more relaxed look for a summer or destination party, there's a waistcoat that works. The main rule is to get it made – it's the only way to ensure it fits properly with no gaps or creases. Co-ordinating with the wedding colours is the smart way to go and once you have the waistcoat chosen, you can add tie and buttonhole. We recommend you give Neal & Palmer a call, as they can give you a steer on the cut, fabric and finish that will work best. They will also advise on wedding suits to buy or hire, whatever your style.

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Sleeks sparkle dress shoe, £100; dunelondon.com

Black and white Oxford, £250; percystride.com

RULE BREAKERS

e're noticing more grooms using shoes to bring colour to their day. There are no rules, but even if there are, they exist to be broken. So, whether it's an impeccable black shoe with a pop of white (such as Percy Stride's natty clock-dressed Oxford), a two-tone shoe with a bold-coloured sole or a radically different colour, we approve. Also look out for unusual textures for dress shoes, coming through strongly in Dune London's brilliant new collection.

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Maurice Lacroix Eliros Green Smoked Dial watch, £595; mauricelacroix.com

CO LO UR T WIST

inishing touches are the other great way to personalise your wedding attire. Cufflinks are subtle and always in style, and so is a perfect wedding-day watch. Both make great wedding-morning gifts for the groom, so this could be the time and place to drop a large hint. Among our autumnal favourites are the smart and timeless cufflinks designed and made in London by Alice Made This and the extremely elegant and old-school watch collection by Maurice Lacroix.

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Blue two-tone Oxford with brown sole, £250; percystride.com

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JEWELLERY trends

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LOVE STORIES London jeweller Taylor & Hart specialises in crafting bespoke pieces to match both your style and your budget. Whether you want glorious diamonds or fine coloured gems, this is a golden opportunity to co-create rings and other unique jewels that tell your true love story. taylorandhart.com

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Jewellery Trends RINGS THEO FENNELL

G E O R G I N A B OYC E

The iconic London jeweller's diamond trumpet ring is a classic design that is just made for celebrating love. You'll also find lovely coloured gems in this setting. £4,750; theofennell.com

A twist on the classic diamond solitaire, this lovely white gold engagement ring by Georgina Boyce has a stunning main diamond, supported by smaller gems. POA; georginaboyce.com

LEBRUSAN STUDIO

This elegant ring features a single diamond in a yellow gold setting with gold foliage.

It's a bespoke design from the studio of Arabel Lebrusan. From £2,574; lebrusanstudio.com

FENTON & CO

Established by Laura Lambert, Fenton & Co is an ethical jeweller that champions glorious coloured gems, such as this delectable East West garnet design. From £1,450; fentonand.co

CATHERINE HILLS D O M I N I C WA L M S L E Y Bespoke specialist Dominic Walmsley created this delightful petal cluster ring, using a floral theme and incorporating over 2 carats of fine diamonds. POA; dominicwalmsley.com

ANNOUSHKA

While she is known for covetable silver jewels, Catherine Hills' one-off engagement rings are things of beauty.

This gold couplet design features a lilac spinel with diamond. £1,850; catherinehillsjewellery.com

Annoushka's classic diamond stack is given a nature-inspired twist with this dragonfly design, featuring glittering diamonds on an 18-carat gold band. £2,790; annoushka.com

Love rings

From glamorous garnets and pink sapphires to delicious diamonds, our choice selection of rings are made for saying 'I will' BOODLES

ALEX MONROE

This ring features an emerald-cut ethical pink sapphire within an ornate white gold floral setting with diamonds. The ring is part of the 'one of a kind' collection. £4,600; alexmonroe.com

VHERNIER

The Milan jeweller known for its modern aesthetic offers diamondstudded bands in its iconic Calla collection – perfect as an alternative engagement or wedding ring. £3,300; vhernier.com

This Ribbons ring from Boodles is a three-band design, showcasing not only its beautiful Ashoka diamonds but also the rich tones of yellow, pink and white gold. £10,500; boodles.com

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L’oscar, now a luxury boutique hotel in Central London is the ideal venue for your intimate wedding

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Jewellery Trends WEDDING JEWELS

BOODLES

Statement earrings are on-trend for brides and Boodles' Orchard White Gold Diamond Drops are the perfect pair. Featuring pavé diamonds and elegant pear motifs, they are both dazzling and delicate. £14,500; boodles.com

AUREE

A modern take on the bridal classic, Auree's Glebe earrings feature freshwater pearls.

They are shown here with gold vermeil posts and are also available in silver. £80; aureejewellery.com

KIKI MCDONOUGH Inspired by ballerina Lauren Cuthbertson, these leaf earrings are studded with diamonds.

The collection also includes pendants and bracelets. £1,500; kiki.co.uk

G I O VA N N I RASPINI

GEORG JENSEN

Conjure up the summer garden with these romantic Daisy drop earrings. In goldplated silver, they feature white enamel flowers. £170; georgjensen.com

Combining silver and natural pearls, Giovanni Raspini's new Ad Astra collection conjures up the drama of the night sky. You'll find earrings pendants, rings and bracelets in the mix. From £120; giovanniraspini.com

ANNOUSHKA

From Annoushka's elegant Garden Party collection – all inspired by her passion for topiary – these yellow gold and black rhodium drop earrings are hand set with 26 diamonds. £4,900; annoushka.com

Glamour J E W E LS

ALEX MONROE Inspired by spring violets, these blue sapphire stud earrings are set in 18 carat gold and encircled with diamonds. £1,550; alexmonroe.com

Our gorgeous wedding jewels to finish off your look include diamond and sapphire sparklers and lovely modern pearls SHAUN LEANE

BURRELLS

Ora are 14 carat huggie hoop earrings with a white gold and diamond cluster drop. Perfect for wedding-day glamour, they are part of Burrells' fine jewellery collection. £725; burrells.co.uk

Combining silver and diamonds, Shaun Leane's Tusk earrings have a chic contemporary profile and look perfect with a bridal jacket or off-the-shoulder wedding gown. £650; shaunleane.com

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These rose gold vermeil studs feature lace agate centres and are encircled by blue sapphires.

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Two leading beauty insiders give their step-by-step guides to getting ready for the big day

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Beauty expert Sophie Tilley knows everything about preparation for big events – working with both brides and celebrities. Here she gives advice on being wedding-day ready, and it all starts with your skin...

1. Cleanse properly

You may be waiting to set the date, but it’s never too early to start perfecting your regime.

Two leading bridal specialists give us their advice for being your best self on the day

It may seem obvious but many of us aren’t doing this first step quite right. And think about it, if you’re not cleaning your skin properly (that’s surface skin as well as deep into the pores) none of your serums, moisturisers and treatments can penetrate efficiently. Consider what you’re using in the morning separately to the evening as these ideally should be different textures. Morning is easy: a non-foaming facewash with a gel or cream-based product will do the trick.

The evening is where you should spend a bit more time after a long day, where you’ve likely been wearing skincare and make-up. Remove your makeup with a simple cleanser or micellar water, then clean your skin thoroughly. A balm cleanser is ideal for this as it will melt away impurities from fine lines and pores. Use with a muslin or microfibre cloth for extra polishing benefits.

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2. Exfoliate regularly

New, fresh skin is what we all want. Uncover it by promoting your skin’s renewal process. This means sloughing off any dead, dry surface skin but also stimulating the next layer to come through.

We’re not talking scrubs here (save that for your body) or anything too abrasive – gently does it. The best way is by using a liquid exfoliant.

One containing BHA’s (beta-hydroxy acid) and AHA’s (alpha-hydroxy acid) will rid your face of surplus debris and you don’t even need to remove it. Some are mild enough to use every day, others you can space out throughout the week. Ease yourself in and get ready to see glass-like skin revealed.

3. SPF always

This should go without saying but protecting your skin from sun damage and all the harmful rays we’re faced with on a daily basis, is integral. Sun protection (that’s UVA & UVB rays) is the most anti-ageing product you can apply to your skin.

Rain or shine, winter or summer, if you can see your hand in front of your face, you should be wearing sunscreen. I always advise SPF50 and there are plenty on the market, most of which are very affordable and will pay dividends on your flawless skin goals.

retinol at night. Antioxidant vitamin C yields a host of benefits: radiance boosting, treating uneven skin tone (pigmentation) and calming redness.

Available in a variety of percentages, go for the highest you can afford.

Retinol (only to be applied at night) renews skin by promoting cell turnover. It will gradually shed the outermost dead cells of your skin, revealing fresh, new layers. Retinol comes in a variety of strengths so ease yourself in and gradually build up resilience. Be sure to wear SPF the following day – very important as retinol makes your skin more sensitive to UV rays.

5. Treat your skin

Whether it’s a mask or a moisturiser, keep an eye out for these key ingredients, depending on your main concern. If you want hydration, look for hyaluronic acid (naturally occurring in our skin), which can hold a hundred times its own weight in water. Humectants like glycerin draw moisture to the top layer of the skin, a great combination. For breakouts, salicylic acid is a good antidote, helping to control excess sebum whilst calming any redness or sensitivity. If you want an all-rounder Niacinamide is a great ingredient, helping skin to repair, retain hydration levels and build resilience. sophietilley.uk

4. Serum counts

Think of serum as taking your vitamins before eating your meal.

We want to boost the nutrients and actives to improve our skin’s daily diet. The key couple I’d say here are vitamin C for the morning and

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Summer Langton, Senior Stylist and bridal expert at Michael Van Clarke in Marylebone, has expert tips on trends and pre-wedding care

The key trends:

A key trend right now is for very soft pretty hair – from loose waves to a sophisticated but relaxed chignon.

Classic half up half down remains a favourite for brides (from 1960s volume to boho plaits) and works really well with a veil. It’s also smart but ensures brides still feel like themselves. Accessories are also becoming popular with brides – some choosing this route over wearing a veil – and many are also keen to change their look from an up-do for ceremony to down for the reception.

Your wedding routine

Get yourself into a good hair routine. That includes trimming your hair every 6-8 weeks, avoiding unnecessary blow drying and applying treatments (try Michael Van Clarke 3 More Inches Pre-wash once a week, leaving it in overnight). Do get to know the hairdresser who will be doing your hair so they know your style – and the atmosphere you want to create. I recommend a hair trial after you have chosen your dress.

Take along lots of pictures – the more the better – wear a top with a similar colour and neckline and don’t be afraid to try different styles. It’s wonderful if you can time a dress fitting for after your hair trial, so you see how everything works together. vanclarke.com

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E X P ERTS Gorgeous gift list ideas with The Wedding Present Co p.70 • Easy wedding websites with GettingMarried p.75

D RE AM WE D D ING In this special Ask the Experts section Isabella Eckett speaks to leading industry insiders to get their tips on how to plan for the big day. Pictured is Norfolk's Hales Hall & Great Barn – find out more about its wonderful wedding celebrations on page 73.

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ttending a private appointment at The Wedding Present Company showroom feels a lot like popping round to a best friend’s house for a glass of fizz and friendly advice.

The team pride themselves on offering an unrivalled personal service and make the journey of choosing gifts an unforgettable one. The company was established 25 years ago when founder Jim Dundas struggled to find a gift list offering that bespoke service ahead of his own wedding. Today, the team hand pick the best luxury, sustainable and boutique brands, with thoughtful touches to make choosing your list truly memorable.

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Q Building a gift list can seem like a daunting task. Where do couples start?

A As soon as you register with us, you’ll be assigned your very own dedicated Wedding List Advisor, who will be at your beck and call from start to finish. We have a whole host of beautiful inspiration lists available on our website, from Starter Collections to actual lists from couples. Our London Showroom is a brilliant place to start, with thousands of presents available for you to see and feel in person. Alternatively, we offer bespoke virtual appointments via Zoom. Ahead of your appointment, we send you a short questionnaire and create a bespoke mood board of inspiration for you.

Q Tell us about the showroom experience.

We hear it’s a wedding rite of passage...

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presents would look in your own home.

With your own Wedding List Advisor you can enjoy browsing gift ideas in person, while sipping free-flowing Champagne. This personal service and Showroom experience is what makes a wedding list with us so special and is why most of our couples come to us on a word-of-mouth recommendation.

Q For couples who are already living together, what are the advantages of still choosing to compile a gift list?

A Most of our couples already live together, so this is something we are well versed in. Firstly, it’s a brilliant opportunity to upgrade items, but you can also add objects that you may not have been able to justify buying yourselves. With our handy group gift feature your guests can individually contribute to these extra-special, higher price-point presents. One of the biggest advantages of having a gift list is that your guests will love that you have one – it takes the stress out of choosing a present.

Q When it comes to alternative gift ideas, what do you offer that’s truly unique?

A We work with over 450 brands, from the big name ‘must haves’ right down to small bespoke artisans with amazing stories. We also offer the option to add presents to your wedding list from brands we don’t work with, meaning you have complete flexibility to choose exactly what you want. We even

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offer an antique sourcing service, something that you won’t find with any other gift list company. Plus, you’ll find experiences and subscriptions, such as Mr & Mrs Smith and Bloom & Wild. And, of course, we offer funds towards your honeymoon, a special piece of artwork or even a wine cellar.

Q How long before the wedding should you start building your list?

A Generally, we suggest you start thinking about your wedding list about nine months before your wedding. We think it’s something you should take your time over and really enjoy. I can’t think of another time in your life where you’ll have the equivalent of a personal shopper helping you kit out your home, where you don’t have to foot the bill!

Q Many couples are facing the tough decision to postpone their wedding at the moment. What happens to their gift list in this scenario?

A It has been heartbreaking seeing so many of our wonderful couples having to postpone this year. If you find yourself in this scenario, we will work with you individually to ensure your gift list supports your new plans.

Flexibility is at the heart of our business.

It always has been, and it always will be.

Q Finally, what special little touches can couples expect?

A I can’t reveal too many special touches, otherwise it would ruin the surprise! We’re all about unexpected generosity at The Wedding Present Company. For instance, we donate 2% of the value of your wedding list to a charity of your choice. This contribution always comes from our pocket – it’s our way of giving something back on your behalf. We also offer free storage for your gifts and have a fabulous in-house delivery team who can deliver your presents after work, or at the weekend, with unlimited slots available.

Beautiful dining accessories – standout pieces such as jugs and candlesticks offer endless options for gorgeous tablescapes

Creative entertaining is the new going out, so classic kitchen kit and restaurant-style dining sets are definitely on trend

Cosy accents – from beautiful cushions and throws to perfect coffee sets

Fine barware is a perennial, with couples blending fine crystal and chic glasses for cocktail time

Party-time treats – from chic china and garden games to the latest pizza ovens.

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Party of a lifetime at

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HALES HALL OFFERS DELIGHTFUL PERIOD ACCOMMODATION

With perfect grounds and spaces for celebrating, Hales Hall, is a dreamy place for a wedding party.

Helen Johnston, mastermind behind this Norfolk gem, shares what makes it such a magical setting

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elen Johnston and husband Gary instantly fell in love with Hales Hall. They knew that the medieval masterpiece had the potential to host the most fabulous celebrations. After an extensive refurb, it has fast become one of the most sought-after exclusive-hire venues.

Home to a glorious vaulted barn and fivestar luxury accommodation, here you can throw an unforgettable party.

Q Hales Hall is an award-winning venue.

What inspired you to go down this path and how do weddings here work?

A We loved the idea of sharing this beautiful setting with other people and a space like this is just crying out for a big party! Our venue offers unique settings for intimate celebrations, as well as the Great Barn – Norfolk’s largest barn. From ceremony to rehearsal dinner there are so many options to create a truly bespoke wedding. Our signature three-day wedding package allows couples to enjoy the entire estate. Midweek weddings are a wonderful option for those who are flexible with dates – all the luxury and charm for a different budget.

Q What guest accommodation is on offer?

A The Hall itself has seven wonderful ensuite double bedrooms. The Cottage sleeps another five and our walled garden rooms offer two more ensuite rooms. Our boutique self-catering approach allows you

ultimate freedom to set your own pace.

Each property has its own personality, and ambience. The romantic Gatehouse has dual aspect views, four-poster bed and roll-top bath – the perfect newlyweds’ hideaway!

Q Tell us about catering options and outdoor spaces for celebrations?

A We are totally flexible and open to all couples’ ideas. We have an abundance of superb local caterers and producers and our picture-perfect kitchen garden provides a small amount of fresh seasonal produce.

The gardens are our pride and joy, with floral avenues and acres of wildflower meadows, woodland and a moat. We are licensed for outdoor ceremonies, with many settings for your ceremony, including the walled gardens with stunning garden aisle, rustic Cart Lodge and vine-covered Pergola.

Q What about activities for guests?

A Hales Hall is on the cusp of Norfolk and Suffolk, so that means a wealth of space and things to do. We can organise events and fun activities for all your guests – from wine tasting to yoga, pampering and star gazing – alongside traditional country pursuits.

Q What are current wedding trends?

A We’ve seen a growing trend for an intimate ceremony with exceptional cuisine and beautiful personal details, followed by a top-notch big party with stand-out themes.

At Hales Hall we offer so many options for couples and it’s a pleasure to help them create such amazing celebrations.

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Wedding website bliss with

GETTING MARRIED We go behind the scenes at the UK’s favourite wedding website and stationery service GettingMarried, as CMO Julie Stuckes reveals how to make big day planning a breeze.

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urrah, good news. Choose GettingMarried and you don’t have to be a tech-savvy pair to create a sleek wedding website.

This user-friendly platform makes building a wedding website stress-free. Its handy integrated tools also mean you can wave goodbye to those deeply unromantic wedding spreadsheets. What’s more, you can keep everything in theme, with stylish matching stationery. GettingMarried CMO Julie Stuckes tells us more.

Q Do many couples build a website and what does GettingMarried offer?

A GettingMarried has been hugely popular since it launched over ten years ago and is used by thousands of couples every year, as well as millions of wedding guests.

Based on this, we decided to develop the next generation GettingMarried, offering state-of-the-art event management tools. Using GettingMarried is super easy.

We guide you through the various tasks one by one. Getting your site set up and sharing the basic event details is really quick, then you can add other elements and get busy using our event planning tools.

Q What are the advantages of having a GettingMarried website?

A On top of the website and stationery elements, there are so many great tools on offer. A couple of favourites are the ‘drag and drop’ interactive table plan and

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the menu manager, where guests select courses in advance. There’s a wedding dashboard to manage RSVPs, gift list and even a thank you manager. You receive live notifications, ensuring you’re totally in control of all your wedding plans.

Q How can couples give their website a personal touch?

A We have beautiful design templates exclusive to GettingMarried – you won’t see them anywhere else. There are then endless ways to personalise your site by changing the fonts, colours and adding photos. And, of course, you can order matching printed stationery, covering everything from savethe-dates to venue styling accessories.

Q Can couples communicate with guests via their website if plans change?

A Absolutely. Any of the content can be updated without stress or cost, and you can email your entire guest list. This year having a simple way of keeping everyone up to date has become more vital than ever. Guests can also stay in touch, sending messages directly to you, so you will be notified whenever a message is waiting.

Q When should you start your website?

A We recommend you start as soon as you decide to get married. You can experiment with designs without publishing, so you can add to it over time and change the content anytime. We recommend that your website then goes live before you send your save-the-dates – giving guests a quick and easy way to respond to your invitation.

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Fiesta time!

Victoria and Luca's fabulous destination wedding near Portofino was a feast of Mediterranean colour for family and friends, with classic Italian style. See page 78.

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DREAM Victoria and Luca chose a dream location for their Italian Riviera wedding in the height of summer, with bold colours and flavours to match the natural beauty of the setting P h o t o g r a p h y T H E W E D D I N G TA L E

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or Victoria and Luca, it just had to be Italy. She is BritishGreek and he's Italian, so it felt like a natural choice for the couple, and with a home from home flavour for many of their guests.

"We chose to get married by the sea in a town called Santa Margherita Ligure, by Portofino," says Victoria. "We loved how it was the perfect mix between Italy and Greece."

The theme for the day was in keeping with their stunning Italian Riviera setting – bright, bold and colourful. "This was something I was very keen on since I’m a travel and fashion photographer with a

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love of colour," says Victoria. Their chosen date was in late August, so the golden days of late summer, with lush foliage and flowers and warm breezes from the sea added to the splendour of the setting.

As the wedding was organised from a distance, Victoria and Luca enlisted the services of local wedding planner and co-ordinator Anna Chiantella who was, they say, incredible and brought their vision for their celebration to life.

Victoria had chosen a stunning gown by star Lebanese designer Gemy Maalouf, discovered in Islington at bridal store Mirror Mirror. With its flattering v neckline, fine lace and floaty full skirt, it was the perfect choice for a summer wedding.

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“The theme for the day was in keeping with the stunning Italian Riviera setting – bright, bold and colourful” Her bridesmaids were outfitted in soft one-shoulder gowns in a subtle gold to apricot shade, while Luca had chosen a classic DJ with rich burgundy jacket. Flowers from local designer Sara Cattaneo picked out the lovely tones of their outfits, with soft blush apricots, bolder pinks and deep reds in the mix.

Their reception setting was Villa Durazzo, a beautiful pink stucco villa overlooking the sea with classic gardens, grand period rooms and views over the Gulf of Tigullio. This also meant they could get married in the glorious Catholic church located right next door.

The weather couldn't have been finer, says Victoria. "We were blessed with the most perfect day." The church ceremony began proceedings, after which they moved

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into Villa Durazzo's glorious gardens to enjoy the welcome aperitivo hour catered

by Capurro Ricevimenti. This, as with every other element of the catering, was superb – and much commented upon by guests (no mean feat in a country famed for superb dining). Victoria says: "The food was outstanding. Many Italians at the wedding commented that it was some of the best wedding food they had experienced in Italy".

After drinks, there was a traditional element in honour of Victoria's family heritage that moved them naturally on to the feasting. "My father led a Greek blessing around the well located at the back of the villa, and we then relocated to the seafront side of the villa to enjoy a candlelit dinner as the sun went down."

The dinner was, say Victoria and Luca, one of many high points of a perfect day.

"Pink flowers dotted every table (created

by Sara Cattaneo) and they perfectly

complemented the pink villa façade. An Italian roaming band accompanied us during the welcome drinks and serenaded the dinner tables as we dined."

The music – booked through Scarlett Entertainment – was, like the rest of the day, exactly what Victoria and Luca dreamed of. With dinner concluded, there was one final formal touch – cake cutting with a dramatic backdrop of sparkler fireworks.

Official duties over, they and their guests could move on to the party, held in the villa's amazing foyer area and presided over by DJ Fabrizio Valenza. It was the perfect finale to a dreamy Mediterranean wedding.

V I C TO R I A & L U C A ' S w e d d i n g s o u r c e b o o k Venue: Villa Durazzo; villadurazzo.it • Wedding co-ordinator & planner: Anna Chiantella; matrimonio.com Photography & videography: The Wedding Tale; theweddingtale.it • Bride's dress: Roma by Gemy Maalouf from Mirror Mirror London; mirrormirror.uk.com Groom's suit: Jack Bunneys; jackbunneys.co.uk • Flowers: Sara Cattaneo; saracattaneo.it Catering & cake: Capurro Ricevimenti; capurroricevimenti.com • Invitations & stationery: So Kreate Studio; sokreatestudio.com DJ: DJ Valenza; @DJValenza • Band: Scarlett Entertainment; scarlettentertainment.com

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atherine and Rob knew they wanted a classic celebration, as Katherine describes it: "a traditional English garden wedding".

But they also live in London, where perfect garden settings are in short supply. The capital won. "First of all, we both love London – we’re still waiting for its novelty to wear off. Secondly, we wanted our wedding to be easy and stress-free for our guests to attend."

Sourcing a central garden location meant they had to find a very special spot – and what could be finer for an early June wedding than Chelsea Physic Garden. This historic botanic garden boasts a positively tropical profusion of rare trees, flowers and herbs, thanks to its mellow stone walls and

sheltered location close to the Thames.

This proved to be perfect for their garden vision. "We also had a slight military edge to the day as Rob was a serving cavalry officer at the time," adds Katherine. With such a glorious backdrop chosen, the couple went for a simple and very summery theme of sky blue, with pink and white accents – reflecting the flowers in bloom in early summer.

The couple opted to get married in Christ Church Chelsea, an early Victorian church located close to Royal Hospital and also within strolling distance of the Physic Garden. With venue and church in place, planning in earnest could begin, and having everything London local made planning meetings much easier.

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“I walked through the Guard of Honour, under the flower arch and down the aisle to meet a smiling Rob” what Katherine describes as the summer vibe. "We massively lucked out with the weather – blue skies and hot, hot, hot!"

Katherine had chosen a gorgeous sleeveless silk gown by Peter Langner, found at Browns Bride in Marylebone. She says the team were exceptional. "I cannot recommend them highly enough – the experience from initial to final fittings was perfect and at no point stressful." She

worked with make up artist Frey-ja Barker, who has a studio at Fenwick, and found going for a trial to get her look fun. "She also brought quite a lot of cool, calm and collected to the day itself!" adds Katherine.

Rob wore a bespoke morning suit and waistcoat sourced from Buckleigh of London, also star suppliers. "Lots of our wedding party also used Buckleigh and it was thumbs up all round." The formal

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attire of groom worked wonderfully with the military uniforms of Rob's colleagues who were there to make their service even more special.

This church service became a high point of the day. "It was the favourite part for both of us, from beginning to end," says Katherine. "Having dreaded the inevitable attention, I actually loved arriving at the church with my family, bridesmaids and bridesman in white London taxis to be met by our bagpiper, who looked so smart in head-to-toe tartan."

"We walked through the Guard of Honour – an arch formed by Rob’s soldiers with their swords – under the flower arch and down the aisle to meet a smiling Rob. Rob and I then lit candles for absent family, which, together with the amazing Christ Church choir, set the tone for a special service."

After the service, everyone made their way to Chelsea Physic Garden where a Raj Tents marquee had been set up for the reception. This definitely brought extra magic to an already beautiful venue. "They also supplied lighting and lovely wicker furniture with matching parasols for outside the marquee. The

aesthetic was spot on," says Katherine.

The drinks reception was another favourite part of the day. "I’ll never forget the scene: a kaleidoscope of colourful summer dresses, glasses brimming with champagne, rosé and Aperol spritz, all against the backdrop of the tropical Chelsea Physic Garden on a hot summer's day – it was spectacular!"

Their florist Joan Holdsworth (who has worked with Christ Church Chelsea for many years) had come up trumps with arrangements – both the showstopping floral arch in the church and the simple and country-style table flowers were beautiful and perfectly in tune with both the setting and the season.

While the party was glorious, Katherine and Rob would, on reflection, have chosen a dedicated co-ordinator just to take away those inevitable pre-party stresses.

Their other tip for couples is to make an event of all the wonderful small and large preparations that happen in the run up to the big day. "We had such fun at the various tastings with family, the dress and suit fittings with friends, also listening and choosing music together and picking out wedding bands." All these extra elements have become part of the memories of a perfect June wedding celebration.

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STAT E LY SPLENDOUR Emma and Jack chose Gosfield Hall for their wedding celebration with friends, taking over its wonderful rooms and grounds for an elegant country party Photography JONNY SCOTT

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hen Emma and Jack got engaged during a wonderful trip to the Rocky Mountains in Canada, they knew their wedding had to be something to match this for glamour. The most important things for their day were: first and foremost venue, followed by photographer, dress and flowers.

"As we both work in design and fashion, we had a particular style we wanted so we were keen to find the right suppliers," says Jack.

Then everything fell into place. "We wanted a venue that had something different about it, was stylish and people could stay the night," says Emma. The minute they walked into Gosfield Hall, an exclusive-use Country House Weddings property near Halstead, their search came to an end. "For us it was the interior features, the coloured doors – and when we were told we could get married in the Grand Salon that sold it. Jack’s Mum

really sadly passed away just after we got engaged and she had told Jack that she loved Gosfield Hall too, so for us that was the blessing we needed to go ahead."

With such a striking backdrop, very little extra dressing was needed. So, the couple thought in terms of colours rather than theme, with soft pinks and grey-lilac predominating. There were small pops of yellow and blue in the flowers to add extra zing. Behind the theme were lovely personal touches. "We scented the wedding with candles sourced from Saint James Paris, a hotel Jack took me to for my 30th birthday," says Emma. They also collated photos of different points in their life as a couple for the tables. In this way, they created a lovely memory board to set the scene.

Guests were also made to feel welcome with extra touches, from heel protectors, fans and confetti packs to hangover kits in the rooms (with so many guests staying over). "Together, we made the welcome A-board and postbox and Jack made all of the order of service, table plan and drinks signs," adds Emma.

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While they enjoyed being creative (and also saved on their budget), one item on their 'splurge' list was photography.

They searched high and low for several months, eventually spotting the work of Tom Halliday. Emma happened upon videographer RJ Films at a wedding fair and booked this as a surprise for Jack.

"We have lost count of the amount of times we have watched our video and have had so many comments on it. I would definitely recommend a videographer as it's a memory you will have forever.�

Another key element was Emma's dress and it ended up being not at all the gown she had planned. She went to Mirror Mirror in Islington and described what she wanted.

Then the clever fitter brought along another dress saying it was 'just to try'. At first Emma was dead set against it, but an hour later she was changing her mind. "Two appointments later and I was in love and had purchased it." Designed by Gemy Maalouf, it's perfect for a country house setting, made of structured and fitted lace with a dramatic low back. "My favourite part is the huge silk skirt that goes over the top and can be worn down as a huge

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“We wanted a venue that had something different about it, was stylish and people could stay the night – Gosfield Hall was perfect”

train or slightly shorter. Obviously, it was trodden on all day and was a nightmare to walk in, but who cares – it was amazing.”

The dress was accessorised with suede Jimmy Choos – a something blue – and a Tiffany pearl necklace bought as a gift by Jack to create her something new. Jack wore a smart navy-blue suit with grey waistcoat and an Omega watch that was a surprise from Emma on the morning of the wedding.

The couple say the ceremony was perfect, with a violin and piano music blending classical and modern to match their style.

There were candles burning in honour of those who couldn't be at the celebration.

The Grand Salon of Gosfield Hall made the event feel truly special, especially as the couple had written their own vows.

The party that followed captured more special memories. Emma and Jack chose a favourite drink each and one they both loved. This meant guests could choose from

prosecco, Aperol spritz and mojito (with lots of non-alcoholic refreshments available, alongside beer). Gorgeous canapés were served by the in-house caterers at Country House Weddings. "For entertainment we had a jazz quartet who were brilliant and were lucky enough to have the most amazing weather," says Emma.

A delicious wedding breakfast followed and then guests spread out to enjoy the after party with a DJ who had, say the couple, a very long list of songs. As a lovely extra touch, guests had each chosen a favourite song on their RSVP to add to the set. Canary Photobooths added to the fun, creating party memories to last long after the celebration.

Emma and Jack's tip for other couples would be to take time out as a couple – and also with bridesmaids and groomsmen – so you can all reflect on a day that passes all too quickly. But they definitely have no regrets about the choices they made for their wedding. "I don't think we could change anything – it wouldn't beat the day we had," says Emma.

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plans but, as it turned out, they wouldn't have altered a thing – hosting a perfect country celebration on home turf with friends and family there to wish them all the love in the world Photography BILL SYKES

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lex and Will had planned a classic country wedding at her family's home in Rotherfield, surrounded by the rolling Sussex countryside, but then life (or rather Covid-19) intervened to force a change of plan. With new rules and social distancing in place, their wedding day became something different, but the location and the overall vision remained true.

The English country wedding is a timehonoured format – celebrated in film and life – and this was just what they had always planned. "I wanted the wedding to have a relaxed feeling with the dogs running around – a country at home feeling," says Alex. She and Will had set the date

and started to put everything in place. It would be at her parents' house in East Sussex. "It's where we spend a lot of time at weekends, Christmas, Easter – basically whenever I can be there as I love being in the country, seeing my family and the dogs."

They had planned for a traditional format, with ceremony at her local church and party in the back garden at home. Originally, the guest list was going to run to around 150 people. Once the plans started to shift there was, says Alex, a lot of back and forth to decide how to proceed. But in the end they decided to stick to the original plan, albeit with a new and much smaller guest list, and make some clever adjustments.

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“I wanted the wedding to have a relaxed feeling with the dogs running around – a country at home feeling” ceremony in the church, with my parents, brother and maid of honour and Will's parents and his brother, who was best man," says Alex. She and Will had decided to keep numbers small for a very good reason. "I didn't want all my guest in masks." The ceremony was beautiful and her father was still able to walk her up the aisle, with Will and Alex coming down the church path to the traditional cloud of confetti petals.

With ceremony over, family and guests returned home. The setting, in a field behind their garden, was something special, offering beautiful views over the rolling Downs. It needed very little dressing but had delightfully rustic hay bales for guests to sit and enjoy the pastoral view. There followed a lovely alfresco ceremony under a glorious floral arch so

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that everyone who couldn't be with them in the church could be with them here.

This meant that the bride was walked up the aisle twice – a personal and very elegant solution that meant everyone could feel part of Will and Alex's special day.

The original colour themes had remained unchanged, with glorious pale pinks and creams and lots of green foliage. Alex says she went big on flowers – a decision that definitely paid off as they added amazing colour to this glorious country scene. "They were amazing!" she says.

Alex's bridesmaids wore lovely soft pink Maids to Measure gowns, while her flowergirls were in pretty white gowns

with floral headbands and big pink sashes.

Alex wore a beautiful sleeveless silk dress

by Caroline Castigliano, paired to Jimmy Choos and a glorious custom-made veil

by Unveiled by Sophie. "She creates bespoke veils that are amazing – she sources the silk and the lace," says Alex.

After this special ceremony and lots of photographs, everyone moved into the marquee for the wedding feast. Canvas had been dressed for the occasion with lavish garlands of flowers, elegant candles and neutral linens, with sides left open to make the most of the High Weald views and the summer weather. Alex and Will were incredibly grateful to the team from Papakata, who did everything possible to help make their marquee a wonderful centrepiece of the celebration. "Honestly, amazing in the planning and all the changes due to Covid. The guys who came to set up and take down were just so great!

We would highly recommend them."

While this wasn't on the scale of the country wedding Alex and Will had originally planned, it was a perfect day, fulfilling all the originals of their vision. Alex says: "The best thing about our celebration was being with friends and family and dogs at home, and the lovely weather."

Her advice to other couples is to stress less – wise words indeed from a bride and

groom who really did have to rethink plans from the ground up. "Everyone says this but the day goes so quickly after so much planning, you really need to try and take it all in. I stressed so much over so many things, but actually none of it matters in the end," says Alex. "Obviously, it was going to be much bigger, but in hindsight I wouldn't change things – the size was perfect."

ALEX & WILL'S wedding sourcebook Venue: Canvas garden marquee by Papakata; papakata.co.uk • Photography: Bill Sykes; billsykesweddings.co.uk Bride's dress: Caroline Castigliano; carolinecastigliano.com • Bride's custom veil: Unveiled by Sophie; unveiledbysophie.co.uk Bride's shoes: Jimmy Choo; jimmychoo.com • Bridesmaid dresses: Maids to Measure; maidstomeasure.com Flowers: Highgate Florist & Growers, Rotherfield; highgateflorist.co.uk • Catering: Bonnie Taylor For Friends

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A PRIVATE SETTING OF GREAT CHARACTER Bring all your friends and family together, then let Sibton cast its spell. Start the celebrations with a barbecue in the magical Walled Garden.

Hold the wedding itself in Sibton Park or one of the pretty nearby churches. Follow the ceremony with a wedding breakfast for 120 in the Orangery or up to 240 in the adjoining marquee, before partying in the cellars until dawn. Begin the next day with a stylish pool party or brunch down by the lake.

Be surprised by the beauty of Sibton, with its lake, woods and wildowers, and the quality of the interior design. On the Suffolk/Norfolk border, the estate offers up to 42 bedrooms across the mansion, coachhouse, traditional farmhouses and rustic, yet luxurious cottages.

Without any of the limits and compromises that come with hotels, you have the freedom to treat the whole Estate as your private wedding kingdom.

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Our 2020 Hot List of wedding venues, from glamorous openings to smart touches at classic locations

PERFECT SETTING Create your dream day at beautiful Four Seasons Hampshire, an historic estate with stunning grounds and perfect locations for ceremony and feasting.

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s we enter a new era of weddings, the magical process of planning still starts with the venue. Inside our Venues Hot List you’ll find the best new openings and handpicked venues that used this time to cleverly inject fresh ideas.

You and your fiancé can set the trend by being one of the first to tie the knot at these glorious locations. Imagine arriving by boat at the brand-new Mitre Hotel opposite Hampton Court Palace. Or take over a lovingly restored stately home such as Holmewood or the super-chic Chapel Barn Estate.

We’ve been to visit venues that have undergone major refurbishments. Affluent estates are offering thoughtful packages for intimate weddings, while live streaming has become the norm. Nearly all venues are now offering virtual showrounds which is a brilliant way to get an initial feel for the place.

As we prepare for a wedding boom in 2021, we’re predicting a big rise in midweek weddings.

Many couples are deciding to add an extra day or two. Cherishing that special time with friends and family, more important now, than ever before. Locations such as Deer Park in Devon are perfectly designed for this kind of wedding.

It’s also the time to be creative, so if your guest list is smaller why not go all out on the details? Innovation is at the heart of weddings and all of these venues are ready to help you plan your dream celebration.

As all romantics know, love wins and weddings are the ultimate showcase of that.

Let your exciting countdown begin.

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Be one of the first couples to tie that knot by selecting one of these gorgeous new wedding venues

The Mitre HAMPTON COURT

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by The Sunday Times, The Mitre is set to be a perfect spot on the Thames for a laidback wedding”

ne of the most talked about new openings since lockdown, this 36-bedroom boutique hotel down by the river is the first to be unveiled from the new The Signet Collection and has already established its status with a Sunday Times Best Hotel 2020 award. Founded by Hector Ross (mastermind behind the Beaverbrook and Bel & The Dragon), the gourmet hangout is set to be a fantastic wedding venue. You’ll find a light-flooded orangery and large terrace looking out over one of the nicest bits of the River Thames, with the world’s first Whispering Angel Boat House Bar offering stunning views to the water. The jewel in The Mitre’s crown is, no doubt about it, Culinary & Operations Director Ronnie Kimbugwe, a foodie extraordinaire with a clear culinary vision. Wedding packages include Espresso Martinis for the toast, a beautiful bridal suite and munchy midnight feast.

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Petersham Nurseries COVENT GARDEN

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amily owned Petersham Nurseries started out as a greenhouse in Richmond 20 years ago and has organically grown into the Instagram-famous brand it is today – known for superb food and a perfect garden setting. The second location opened last year in Covent Garden, a welcomed green oasis for bespoke weddings in the heart of the capital’s historic flower-market quarter. The Victorian light-flooded gallery space has twinkling Genoese Chandeliers with modern artwork lining the walls. There’s also the option of the Private Dining Room or The Petersham Restaurant for an elegant fine-dining feast. There’s a beautiful courtyard for alfresco drinks and the in-house florist will ensure The Petersham’s signature wild flowers take centre stage. Always mindful of the Slow Food philosophy, menus are seasonal with an Italian twist, ingredients coming straight from the family farm.

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Bijou's muchanticipated opening brings a perfect wedding setting to Norfolk

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enowned wedding specialists, Bijou Wedding Venues are set to open their first hotel in the coming spring and we can’t wait. Set to be a Norfolk gem for glamorous country weddings, this former glass-blowing workshop is now a lofty space brimming with original features. It’s ideal for smaller weddings or you can take over the hotel exclusively. In total, there are 32 boutique bedrooms and you and your guests will also have access to the luxury spa. The restaurants, Ivy’s and Stanley’s, promise to serve up a feast. There is an in-house sommelier for delicious wine pairings and the kitchen is well equipped to manage any request. We love the super-cosy den area for intimate weddings. Outside, The Yard is filled with herbs and flowers and an outdoor grill, plus firepit for colder months.

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his former coaching inn in Castle Ashby has been extensively restored into a chic country retreat. The doors opened in September and it’s set to be a Northamptonshire hotspot plus go-to wedding destination. Intimate weddings can be held in the Stables or Private Dining room. The Falcon will work hand-in-hand with local farmers to deliver the freshest menus. There are ample photo opportunities on the triple-tier-lawn and you can even take over the whole hotel, which offers 22 boutique-style bedrooms. Wellness is at the core of everything they do here, with refreshing wild swimming and guided nature walks on offer, meaning your guests will leave feeling renewed and restored.

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his is the newest addition to the established Country House Weddings collection. A slice of Tuscany in the heart of Warwickshire, it hosted its first wedding this November after an extensive refurb. The Italianate mansion is set in 12 acres of colourful gardens and houses a stunning former Catholic chapel. Inside the main house, there’s an impressive sweeping staircase, banqueting hall and 20 bedrooms for your guests. Plus, you’ll find a Gate House Lodge for the night before. Marry outside under the Portico, a super-romantic setting ideal for those craving a destination wedding. Fittingly, for a venue in Arden country, the Lady Bourton Honeymoon Suite has a dressing area with doors on to a balcony of almost Shakespearean splendour where you can drink in the views of the Leam valley and Draycote Water.

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ilderness Reserve’s latest addition, Chapel Barn Estate, is a masterclass in laid-back luxury.

Based around an original 15th-century farmstead, this exclusiveuse wedding venue is set amid the best of English nature in the heart of Suffolk: rolling wild-flower meadows, woodland and a beautiful lake. The collection of one-off period properties accommodate up to 90 overnight guests, and Chapel Barn itself is the place to say I do. In true Wilderness style, you’ll find fabulous outdoor activities.

Facilities include indoor and outdoor swimming pools, a cinema, spa and hot tubs.

For the wedding night, there’s a hopelessly romantic one-bed shack on a private island accessed only by rope bridge.

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A wonderfully atmospheric space for romantic outdoor parties

The Walled Garden at Cowdray

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n exciting new addition for the Cowdray Events Team, this Tudor Walled Garden sits adjacent to the dramatic Cowdray Ruins (a spectacular backdrop for wedding pics). Think Alice in Wonderland for the setting – you’re even given the rusty key to unlock the original heavy oak door. You and your guests can celebrate in this colourful and historic outdoor space, enjoying the delicious scents filling the air from the garden’s plentiful herbs and lush fruit trees. The venue has just installed a state-of-the-art live streaming facility for your ceremony, so all your loved ones can watch from anywhere in the world.

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ooking for a venue to hold a grand ceremony? Recently opened and lovingly restored to its former glory, this Tudor-style mansion (conveniently placed for guests from both London and across the Midlands) is fast becoming a go-to for glamorous couples, and we can see why. The decadent Gold Room is breathtaking, with a 50-foot aisle and 18-carat gold-leaf ceiling. The Banqueting Hall is a superb space for your wedding breakfast and your guests will want to check out The Vault for a late-night tipple. In summer months, you can marry outside at The Bandstand looking out over rustic parkland. The property sleeps 40 across beautiful accommodation, including the bridal suite with four-poster bed and statement chandelier. Hiring out this spectacular venue ensures you will host an unforgettable celebration.

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Splendour and unforgettable photos await in this wonderful landmark

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or the first time, we’re excited to share that couples can tie the knot in an intimate ceremony at this iconic London landmark. For a limited time, a small wedding (or civil ceremony) can be conducted in one of the 12 licensed rooms. Each space is sure to impress your guests. Take the magnificent Hintze Hall with its iconic Victorian architecture, or the Earth Hall with giant globe sculpture and six-metre dinosaur fossil. There are also a number of smaller galleries, such as Earth’s Treasury or Images of Nature, for those looking to host a more cosy affair. It’s destined to be an unforgettable day and has to be one of the most impressive backdrops for any wedding album.

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his new opening from Kimpton Hotels offers something truly special in the heart of Manchester. Housed in a magnificent landmark building (once an insurance company HQ), the Grade II-listed building is a thing of beauty, and also a short walk from Piccadilly Station.

Inside, it’s been artfully designed and offers 270 loft-style bedrooms (including 11 suites) that make use of the building's lofty ceilings.

They also pay homage to Manchester’s music scene, with some housing vinyls of its most iconic bands. Your guests can enjoy Kimpton signature treats – think in-room yoga and complimentary ‘tuck boxes’. But beyond the wildly cool vibe, this houses some serious period splendour, not least the fabulous entrance hall and the biggest hotel ballroom in the north west.

City-centre style with cool rooms and the north-west's biggest ballroom

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Innovation is at the heart of these lovely and diverse venues, which all offer couples something new and truly unique

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A simply impeccable London setting for hosting the ultimate smart wedding

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his classic London five-star hotel has everything you could wish for and more. Wedding highlights include the grand Ballroom and the wonderful Private Dining Room at Tom Kerridge’s Bar & Grill, serving up the best modern British cuisine we’ve sampled. The in-house florist will create jaw-dropping floral displays and the awardwinning ESPA Life spa is a dreamy retreat in the lead up to your wedding. The team are experts in setting a romantic mood, led by dedicated wedding specialist Alexandra Pisani. This means every little detail of your wedding day is set to be exceptional. Stay the night in one of the hotel’s penthouse suites, with panoramic London views and your own butler to make your experience even more magical.

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his Georgian manor set in 500-acres of enchanting parkland is only an hour from London, but feels a world away. Once frequented by royalty, today it still attracts a truly international guest list thanks to its quintessentially British charm and grandeur. The 16th-century walled garden is one of the most stunning and timeless settings for an alfresco wedding.

But inside, the Mandeville Ballroom and events spaces are more opulent than ever, having undergone recent refurbishment.

The options are endless here and the weddings team get to know every couple personally. Your guests can unwind in the spa or go horse riding at the hotel’s stables.

A top choice for a romantic getaway, the Wild Carrot restaurant is a culinary treat and the team can organise a dinner under the stars ahead of your big day.

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HOTEL EN DS LEIG H

An enchanting pastoral setting in Devon with lots of stylish hotel touches

Hotel Endsleigh DEVON

Hales Hall & The Great Barn

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f you’re looking for a quintessentially English backdrop, look no further than the unbelievably romantic Hotel Endsleigh in Dartmoor, Devon. Part of the Polizzi Collection (and sister to the much-loved Hotel Tresanton in Cornwall), Hotel Endsleigh is set in 100 acres of enchanting woodland, with follies and grottos designed by Humphrey Repton.

The fairytale gardens offer cascading lawns looking over the River Tamar. You’ll also find a Parterre garden, a little shell house and fabulous rose aisle. The hotel has colourful interiors with 19 individually designed bedrooms for your guests.

The Hayloft is ideal for newlyweds and has a private entrance from the cobbled stableyard, bright floral wallpaper as you enter, a sumptuous bedroom, cosy sitting room and a large bathroom with a roll-top bath. Trust us, you will never want to leave!

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his glorious medieval estate is home to buttercup meadows, moated walled gardens and sculpted topiary. It’s the epitome of romance, with a great choice of stunning outdoor ceremony options. At the heart of the estate is the magnificent Tudor barn, comfortably seating 200 guests and beautifully adapted to host great parties. Luxury accommodation includes a converted stable block and the lovingly restored Hales Hall with 40-foot kitchen that is ideal for a gathering of friends and family.

The Gatehouse is a charming nest for the newlyweds and will encourage you to stay on for a minimoon. Hales Hall is perfect for intimate weddings or large parties and offers a three-day signature wedding package that is ideal for spending quality time with loved ones. There’s also the option to host a luxurious midweek wedding here. Whichever you choose, the dedicated team go above and beyond to make anything possible.

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The perfect retreat for a glamorous weekend or midweek wedding party

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A perfect party pad in Devon, Deer Park offers superb food and stylish living quarters

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he sky’s the limit at this Georgian party pad and you can plan a bespoke wedding to suit your style. Available for exclusive hire, you’re guaranteed to have days packed full of fun. Think yoga on the lawn, leisurely brunches and long lunches cherishing every moment with your loved ones. The ultra-stylish house has antique furniture, designer wallpapers and rich velvet furnishings and you can get hitched in the decadent orangery, leading out to the Italian gardens. The food is exceptionally innovative – not just for the wedding day.

We say that a shared supper of Moroccan Mezze cooked over hot coals makes a great recovery lunch the next day! For the newlyweds, the thatched treehouse is an idyllic hideaway and you’ll feel like you really have entered paradise in this rustic setting.

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short drive from central London, this historic four-star hotel has recently undergone a multimillion-pound refurbishment.

Originally, the site of a grand Royal Tudor Palace and the place where King Henry VIII married Catherine Howard in 1504, it has plenty of romantic history and its location close to Weybridge is incredibly pretty. Today, you can have your own regal affair in one of the hotel’s lovely event spaces. Take the Mulberry Suite with spectacular lake views or the vast York Suite for celebrations for up to 350 guests.

For something more intimate, the Cromwell Suite is the perfect choice. There are 144 bedrooms here, so plenty of space to house all your loved ones and perfect if you want to make a weekend of it.

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16th century grand hotel, Rushton Hall is also ideally located in rural Northamptonshire. The Orangery has a breathtakingly beautiful stone facade that makes a great backdrop to weddings. It welcomes intimate gatherings or can accommodate up to 280 guests for more extravagant ceremonies.

The hotel has traditional charm with a twist of modern elegance. Bedrooms boast roaring open fires and four-poster beds.

Outside the sunken lawn is the place for your most memorable wedding photos.

There’s an exciting new Sovereign Wedding Package, complete with a Gourmet Menu, which pairs beautifully with elegant wines selected by the in-house sommelier. You can check into one of the refurbished lodges if you’re making this a long-stay wedding – perfectly private and gloriously set up for the bridal party on your wedding eve.

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his lavish boutique hotel in the capital offers something totally different for your big day, and is ideal for couples who want a mix of traditional and new. You can’t beat the hotel’s location in Bloomsbury with the West End, Soho and theatreland all on your doorstep. L’oscar is home to a meticulously restored former chapel, The Baptist, an octagonal double-height space with a sumptuous decor and a sense of occasion to impress your guests for ceremony or after-party. Other choice areas for a wedding celebration include the rich and seductive Committee Room and elegant Library. With an ethos here that the hotel is a theatre that must transport guests, you’ll receive a red-carpet welcome and VIP service throughout your big day.

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Creative gift list ideas, virtual shopping inspiration and bridal trends snapshot for 2021

F LOWE R BURST Juliet Glaves is the grower and floral mastermind behind Temperley London's amazing flower crowns.

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Planning NOTES Flowers grown with love, top trends in gifting and virtual shopping to get planning started for your big day

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edding gift lists are definitely branching out and one of our favourite trends is for artisan creations. The bonus for your guests is that they are gifting something that they know ticks boxes for style, individuality and matching your taste. All the gift list companies offer choice names, but we're very taken by some of the designers working with The Wedding Present Company. For instance, Cheskie offers superb talking-point silver and copper holloware made in central Mexico.

We love the toucan and cockatoo creamer jugs in double-plated silver or copper (from £270). Also check out The Wedding Present Company's Issy Granger glass candlesticks – elegant with a delightful antique meets modern flavour (from £22). They also stock her lovely carafes and jugs. Of course, if you can't find the designer you want on their books, just ask. It's all part of the service. weddingpresentco.com

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ou may not think you know Juliet Glaves' work, but you almost certainly do if you've ever admired one of Temperley London's lush flower crowns – invariably a feature of the British designer's bridal collection shoots. Juliet brings a theatrical and set designer's eye to fashion shoots, film, TV and events, as well as helping brides' dreams come true (she works on limited weddings each year). What is really exciting about her approach is her founding principles of seasonality and sustainability – key themes coming through in every aspect of bridal right now, and especially so in flowers. Many consider Juliet a pioneer in this approach, since she not only designs with flowers, but also grows her own on a large and verdant plot in Shropshire. Her flower farm initiative began after a 2007 documentary she made for the BBC about the traditional cut-flower industry in Britain – at that stage almost rendered extinct by hothouse imports. Now her carefully tended acres are a mecca for wildlife (win-win for brides whose flowers have also looked after Brothers pollinators) and take us backLeeming to a time when bespoke invitation handbrides carried whatever wasfeaturing in season. drawn illustration.

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• Think mood / colour and don't get hung up on a bloom out of season – September roses can be just as lush and blousy as May peonies.

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• Listen to your floral designer's advice – they know what works and also what will stand up to a long wedding day.

• Be inspired by local growers – there's now a network of great florists who work very sustainably.

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V I R T UA L S H O P P I N G

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irtual bridal appointments have been part of the bridal scene for a while now – always useful for brides living overseas or with a busy working schedule. But now they are being used to help brides, grooms and guests make their shopping decisions if they can't or don't want to visit in person right now. At Emmy London, for example, virtual appointments are helping brides and occasion goers choose a gorgeous pair of collection or bespoke shoes. You can have a one-to-one with a stylist and create the design in the colour you want, with perfect finishing-touch details. Lalage Beaumont also offers virtual appointments for glamorous mother of the bride and guest outfits, helping to narrow down the kind of look that will work with the event, the season and your style. All designers will tell you that nothing beats face to face (and there are lots of safety measures in place at a personal appointment), but right now we salute this approach to helping people get started on finding their dream outfit without having to travel. emmylondon.com and lalagebeaumont.com

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e're predicting a new wave of couples looking at auctions as a way to add style to their home. One reason is antique furniture is at an historically depressed price point – you can pick up a Georgian chest of drawers for a fraction of what you would have paid a decade or so ago and often the craftsmanship is superb. The trend here is for one or two choice pieces that sit comfortably alongside more modern finds.

Also check out the 20th Century sales – you'll find pieces from names such as Heal's and Liberty in the mix, alongside quality mid-century style by the likes of Ercol (now fetching quite high prices at specialist sales).

The Saleroom is the place to check for sales up and down the country and these days you can bid remotely or join a timed auction. As ever, check the condition report, set your limit and factor in the commission – think around 30 per cent. If you buy art, you may also have to pay an additional fee under Artists' Resale Rights. Why not add an auction gift fund to your wedding list? saleroom.com

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ith many brides yet to set the date (even find the place), how do you decide what to choose for a 2021 or 2022 wedding? We spoke to Clare Thompson of The Wedding Club to get insights into some of the key upcoming trends spotted at the New York and Barcelona virtual shows.

• Designers are including lots of square necklines – a classic look revived in different ways on both ballgowns and more form-fitting dresses.

• Off the shoulder remains a key trend.

Also look out for dresses with adjustable features such as half-sleeves – these are becoming popular across collections.

• Florals are always in the mix, but there are wonderful 3D and appliqué embellishments for the 2021-22 season.

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On one of the world's most beautiful lakes sits the legendary Grand Hotel Tremezzo – the most perfect honeymoon spot and with exceptional food and service, as well as wonderful romantic photo backdrops. See page 118.

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The legendary Grand Hotel Tremezzo has it all, with panoramic lake views, glorious Italian cuisine and even a floating pool – a truly tranquil destination made for paradise honeymoons

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trip to Lake Como has been on my bucket list for as long as I can remember, so when it came to choosing a minimoon destination we looked no further. Admittedly, we are technically 'pre-wedding honeymooners', an emerging travel group due to postponed celebrations, but our chosen spot is as special as it gets – the perfect place to celebrate being almost married.

The butterflies of excitement build as we wind through the mountains, on the hour-long drive from Milan Malpensa Airport. We are staying at the 5-star, Grand Hotel Tremezzo. Boasting a rich history and still family owned, it has looked after the great and the good for a century and counting.

The exterior is breathtakingly lovely, with a pale-yellow façade, sweeping staircase and palm trees swaying in the light breeze. We’re warmly greeted, our luggage is unloaded and our (slightly embarrassing) hire-car is whisked off by the valet to be parked among the Ferraris.

Inside, the hotel's grandeur exceeds our expectations – it is palatial. The walls and ceilings are painted in bold Italian tones, there are towering marble pillars, ornamental furniture and velvet sofas for lounging.

The air is scented by vases and urns of fresh red roses, all adding to the opulence. We check into a Prestige Lake View Room, which strikes the perfect balance of old meets new. There’s a golden antique king-size bed, mirrored wardrobes, marble bathroom and delightful balcony – perfect spot for an aperitif.

Later, we sneak a room tour (already thinking ahead for a return visit). Suite Greta was designed with honeymooners in mind and has a four-poster bed looking straight out onto the water. Newly refurbed rooftop rooms also boast stunning views, while the Balbianello Suite has the serious wow-factor, with a large terrace, hot tub and avant-garde furniture. We learn that all the ABSOLUTELY-WEDDINGS.CO.UK 119

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suites are named after powerful ladies of the lake, each deeply connected to the hotel's heritage.

On our first afternoon, we head lakeside, to the recently created hotel beach area. Bright orange (the hotel's signature colour) parasols and comfy sun beds look pristine against the white sand. Staff are wearing orange Supergas and white shirts – even the uniforms here are chic. We settle at the wooden-decked bar area for light lunch and order two Aperol Spritz, the famous Italian cocktail much loved by us. Later we take a dip in the floating pool, described simply as ‘water on the water’ and definitely the hotel’s crown jewel.

You can feel the sensation of the lake's waves rocking underneath

as you’re totally immersed in the amazing surroundings.

Breakfast is a truly grand affair, definitely not to be missed, and takes place in the former ballroom of the hotel. Cured Italian meats, crumbling cheeses, delicate pastries and all the classics are served from silver finery.

After indulging, we decide to burn off a few calories by exploring the tropical gardens. We follow the zigzag pathway up the steep landscape until we reach the viewing point. We’re met by the hotel's mascot, teddy-bear Bobo, who sits proudly on a bench overlooking the splendid grounds. Here, you can take in the panoramic scenery and spot Bellagio in the distance.

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“We book the boat tour of Lake Como at golden hour, sipping prosecco as the sun melts away”

tranquil Flowers Pool and pizzeria for delicious lazy lunches. T Pizza boasts a wood-fired oven and menu with all the signature toppings.

T Spa is another quiet haven with an infinity pool (again, with lake views) that can be privately hired after 8pm if you’d like it all to yourselves. Many of the treatment rooms have beautiful mosaic floors and hand-painted ceilings – a superb setting for a spoiling couple’s massage.

A real highlight of our stay is the opportunity to sample the signature tasting menu of the great Maestro Gualtiero Marchesi. He is considered by many as the founder of modern Italian cuisine, and is even rumoured to have (fabulously) turned down Michelin stars as he valued guest feedback first and foremost. Today, the menu is created by the hotel’s Executive Chef Osvaldo Presazzi and served on the terrace – said to be one of the best spots in all of Lake Como. It's certainly the place to feast on the finest Italian cuisine over five courses, including

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the restaurant's world-famous rice decorated with glistening gold and saffron. The sommelier is on hand to pair each course with wine.

Later, a nightcap at the hotel's traditional T Bar rounds off a perfect luxurious culinary experience.

The location of the hotel is hard to beat, with Bellagio only a 10-minute boat ride away. Tremezzo itself is small, with a handful of great restaurants including La Darsena (request a table outdoors). A short taxi ride up the hill takes you to the family-owned La Fagurida.

Here, copper pans hang from the stone walls and the candlelit terrace couldn’t be cosier. The simple menu of traditional dishes is exceptional. We make the mistake of sharing the tiramisu, but we find it really is too good to halve.

We discover there’s only one way to experience the lake in all its glory, and that’s from the water.

Captain Carlo meets us on the hotel’s jetty to welcome us onboard Ruy, a magnificently restored period Venetian motorboat. A natural host, Carlo pops open a bottle of prosecco and points out all the sites dotted along the shores. These include Villa del Balbianello, made famous

by Ian Fleming's Casino Royale, and Le Rose, where Winston Churchill stayed in 1945. We also pass 18thcentury Villa Sola Cabiati, owned

by Hotel Grand Tremezzo and now available for exclusive private hire.

For maximum wow factor, do what we did and book the boat tour at golden hour. The sparkle of the water as you sip prosecco and watch the sun melt away behind the jagged spikes of the mountains is unforgettable. In fact, Captain Carlo’s tour was one of the most memorable, magical moments we’ve shared together to date.

With the dramatic backdrop and everything on offer for guests, it occurs to me that this isn’t simply a hotel, it's a destination you can’t help but fall in love with. The home of our honeymoon, Grand Hotel Tremezzo we’ll be back!

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Whether it's an enchanted weekend or an idyllic rural wedding you're after, you'll find magical settings in the countryside.

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ilderness Reserve is at the top of everyone’s list for a UK staycation thanks to its gorgeous individual properties – twenty and counting.

Located in Sibton, Suffolk, it's the place for exclusive hire, nailing the laid-back luxury approach for every size of party, writes Isabella Eckett.

Over two decades, the 5,000-acre estate has been regenerated, with nature at the heart of every development. Cows and sheep graze the land freely and vast wildflower meadows add to the tranquility. But what really sets Wilderness Reserve apart is the incredibly chic interiors of the restored farmhouses and cottages in its grounds.

The Grange has its own spa facilities, outdoor pool and hot tub, cosy girly bedrooms with rolltop baths and a large rustic kitchen for cooking or dancing around. The Walled Garden is Insta-famous for its floor-to-ceiling glass windows, while the Suffolk-pink Farmhouse makes a fabulously cosy

and chic backdrop for your luxury weekend away.

Sibton Park manor house or the brand new Chapel Barn are perfect for accommodating larger celebrations.

For weddings, the estate is available for exclusive hire – and there are only a handful each year, making this rather special. There are also a romantic boltholes for two nestled in the grounds. Candle-lit (electricityfree) Hex Cottage is a honeymooners' favourite.

This is proper countryside, so with an abundance of activities on offer. Go paddle-boarding on the serpentine lake, explore by Pashley bicycle or shoot a few clays. The estate has its own ranger to show you around – hot tip: bird-watching has become the in thing among guests. Foodies are in heaven here. The Bonfire Experience, where you dine alfresco in the woods, is unmissable. If you want grand, hire one of the estate’s private chefs for a seasonal five-star feast.

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You’re guaranteed personal service from America Brewer herself, who’s there to make sure all your wishes are granted. If you want something, she will do her best to make it happen. Picture pre-wedding cocktails poolside before the ceremony in the picturesque gazebo overlooking the vines. Design your own gourmet food and wine pairing showcasing the wide range of delicious local produce, including Oastbrook’s own sparkling rosé.

Sit down for dinner in the tasting room or a marquee.

Possibly best of all, Oastbrook can be your one-stop destination. From the day before when the bridal party can settle in to the wonderful Hobbit House to the postwedding breakfast among the vines, you won’t need to leave your little piece of heaven. As well as the charming Hobbit House for the bridal party, glamping can be organised just across the little bridge in the adjacent field. So, the celebrations can go on for longer, with you and your guests surrounded by nature in total privacy.

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eep in the Sussex countryside lies Oastbrook Estate Vineyard, a perfect get-away-from-it-all setting on the banks of the River Rother, near Bodiam Castle, that can be exclusively yours on your wedding day, writes Sandy Cadiz-Smith.

Owners Nick and America Brewer have created a magical fairytale setting for weddings in this slice of rolling countryside. Originally a Guinness hop farm, Oastbrook is now a self-contained vineyard paradise with the backdrop of the centuries old oasthouse.

There’s plenty of space, both inside and out, to tailor-make your special day. You will also discover endless stunning photo opportunities. From the enchanting Hobbit House looking across the vines to distant rolling hills, to the palm-tree lined sparkling pool, quirky cabana bar and Rivendellinspired tasting room (there’s a lot of Hobbit inspiration here) let your imagination run wild.

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LONDON LUXE Just made for a capital break, 11 Cadogan Gardens offers style, history, location and unadulterated luxury – all adding up to the perfect Chelsea address Wo r d s S A N DY C A D I Z - S M I T H

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legantly placed in a leafy Chelsea street, 11 Cadogan Gardens is tucked away behind bustling Sloane Square. The grand Victorian building promises luxury and style in a rather peaceful setting. And it totally lives up to this promise. The opulent decor brings a feel of indulgence and intimacy from the moment we enter – plush and welcoming carpets underfoot, moody lighting, art-adorned walls and sparkling chandeliers.

Welcome to the ultimate in discreet London luxury.

The hotel has a long and august history. It was built

by Lord Chelsea in the late 19th century and originally comprised four separate Victorian townhouses. It very quickly became a favourite bolthole for travelling European aristocrats and bon viveurs. Later, it had a spell as a discreet and elite private members' club.

Following extensive renovation, it reopened as a hotel in 2016 – and it has the perfect boutique credentials, with all you need to feel spoiled and special.

Meandering period corridors and sweeping staircases connect the 56 rooms, including 25 suites, all of which are individually decorated. Our fabulous suite is beyond elegant. A giant four-poster bed dominates the bedroom area, with the crispest of linen and plumpest of pillows. Light pours in through the three large windows, framing the Chelsea skyline. The sparkling marble bathroom offers a huge deep bath and spacious shower, thick, cosy robes, slippers and divine Noble Isle toiletries. In the separate lounge there's a Nespresso machine and flat screen TV – perfect place to chill after a long hard day of shopping and dining.

Outside our room, we discover a wealth of lovely shared spaces. The plush, light-filled Drawing Room offers classic English afternoon tea and a hidden terrace to the side where we catch some autumnal sunshine.

Bibliophiles like us can easily get lost in the Library, with its extensive collection of unique books – some dating back to the mid-19th century. Our favourite place? The dramatic golden Chelsea Bar with its comfortable bar stools and inventive cocktail list. Perfect for an afterdinner tipple or a cocktail (or two) post retail therapy and before we head up at bedtime to our perfect suite.

Also set on this charming street is the hotel’s restaurant – Hans’ Bar and Grill. This offers a tasty all-day menu created by recently arrived rising star chef Rowen Babe. With everything you could want,

from healthy breakfasts through to light bites, sharing platters and treats from the grill, we take advantage of its flexible eating. There are great fish and seafood dishes, alongside inventive vegetarian dishes, on the menu.

When we do venture out to flex our shopping muscles, we discover that Harrods and Harvey Nichols are rather too handy, as are the world’s top brands, including Prada, Chanel and Tiffany’s. The iconic King's Road also offers myriad shopping and dining experiences. We explore Pavilion Road's artisanal food and flower shops, cafes and restaurants – perfect for a spot of people and pooch watching. No doubting that this is epicentre of shoppers' heaven and our credit cards do get a bit of a workout – especially as we can drop our bags off in between forays. And when we're finally done, it's lovely to return to our suite right in the heart of Chelsea.

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Travel DIARY Our travel diary includes great reasons to visit Jordan, a wonderful new addition to old Amsterdam, a cool Bangkok bolthole and a dreamy Tuscan escape

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The Insta-famous UNESCO World Heritage Site city of Petra has been named as the number one bucketlist experience in the world, while the rose-sand Wadi Rum desert, the Dead Sea and Dana Biosphere Reserve also make the list. While Petra needs very little introduction, it’s worth considering it in tandem with some of Jordan’s other great sites. Wadi Rum is home to nomadic Bedouin tribes and offers landscapes that will be familiar from several Hollywood films. The Dead Sea attracts visitors to Jordan from all over the world, keen to experience the natural treatments provided by its mineral-rich mud. Jordan’s largest nature reserve, Dana covers over 300 square kilometres along the face of the Great Rift Valley and is home to some 700 plant species and rare animals such as the lesser kestrel, Syrian wolf and sand cat. intrepidtravel.com

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hile many visitors to Thailand head straight out to the islands, the new Kimpton Maa-Lai Bangkok should encourage them to stay a little longer in its vibrant capital. The new Kimpton hotel is located in the city’s creative quarter of Langsuan and has decor inspired by the adjacent Lumpini Park. The term ‘Maa-Lai’ stems from the ageold Thai philosophy ‘lamiat’, which says life should be approached as a work of art. There is focus on Thai artisanship throughout the hotel, which has 362 rooms and suites, including 131 serviced residences.

There are four restaurant/dining options on site and you can also join yoga lessons on the hotel’s rooftop garden. A further hotel in the expanding Kimpton group is set to open in Bali next year, with another recent opening in Tokyo. kimptonmaalaibangkok.com

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rague is a well-trodden path for many couples (not least because it’s so popular for pre-wedding trips), but five-star Carlo IV is tempting people to explore the city like a local, with a series of curated experiences that go above and beyond the well-worn sights and restaurants. These include Dine with the Chef five-course tasting menus using the best seasonal ingredients. When the weather turns warmer Picnic in Prague lets you enjoy a gourmet picnic in one of the city’s wonderful parks and gardens with proper hamper and driver guide. There are also concierge city tours to take you behind the tourist trail to explore the rich history and culture of one of Europe’s most fascinating capitals.

The hotel makes a great base for exploring all of the above, being just ten minutes’ walk from Wenceslas Square. Delights to come home to include the hotel’s wonderful Turkish baths. nh-hotels.com

he just opened 5-star Kagi Maldives Spa Island – a 15-minute seaplane ride from Velana International Airport – is focused on wellness, both for couples/friends and for solo travellers. With 50 villas, it has a fabulous 1,500 metre spa and wellness hub at the centre of the property. This was designed

by Yuji Yamazaki and is all about space, light and a wonderful sense of freedom, with its open-air teardropshaped roof. There’s also a gym, two restaurants, three bars and a house reef and dive centre to offer lots of opportunities on or under the ocean.

Guests can choose from a Beach Pool Villa, a Lagoon Pool Villa or an Ocean Pool Villa – all of them come with private pool, sun deck and large indoor-outdoor bathroom. kagimaldives.com

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omething rather spectacular from one of our favourite cities, The Mayor’s Residence at Waldorf Astoria Amsterdam opened its doors in September. This private ninebedroom palace sits within the hotel and offers VIP service for you and your guests. It comes with a dedicated team of staff – including butler, private chef, spa therapist and concierge. Once you check in, you have unlimited spa treatments and sole use of the spa for total privacy. While this is very modern luxury, the Mayor’s Residence has always been grand. It was built during the Dutch 'Golden Age' in 1665 for Hendrik Hooft, one of Amsterdam’s most influential mayors, and has subsequently been home to many of Amsterdam’s most prominent citizens. bit.ly/MayorsResidence

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ainland Greece is site of the latest luxe arrival from MarBella Collection.

Set to open next spring, MarBella Elix will be a fivestar escape in a part of Greece that has, thus far, been off the radar for many British visitors – who tend to gravitate towards the islands.

Located close to Parga and Sivota, in a cosmopolitan area also known for its abundance of nature and glorious beaches, the resort looks over towards Corfu and Paxos.

Every room and suite has views to the Ionian Sea. It’s the perfect getaway escape, and the nearest airport is Preveza. marbella.gr/marbella-elix

ew additions to Tuscany Now & More’s selection of choice villa properties include Monassa, a delightful rustic home set on a hilltop near Montespertoli.

With views to die for, it has a large open living area that leads out under a loggia to a spacious shaded dining area with fabulous vistas, along with a private swimming pool. This is in the heart of glorious Tuscan countryside, with lots of treasures within driving distance, including Florence, Greve in Chianti and San Gimignano. Even closer to home are picture-perfect villages and small towns. There’s a local restaurant in an olive grove around 400 metres from the villa, with shops and supermarkets in Montespertoli, just over 10 minutes’ drive. The villa has three bedrooms and can sleep six. tuscanynowandmore.com

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uoni has published a honeymoon report, tracking trends among couples whose plans have been thrown into disarray this year by Covid-19.

Trends emerging so far include an increased spend – possibly couples have longer to save and have missed out on a trip or two during lockdown. Kuoni also reports a big increase in couples looking to take two honeymoons – a short haul just after the wedding, followed by a much bigger long-haul adventure a year or two down the line. So far, top three best-selling destinations for 2021 Kuoni honeymoons are the Maldives, Sri Lanka and Mauritius, while minimoon favourites are Italy, Greece and Spain. Trending requests include private-pool villas, African safaris with tended camps and UK and Ireland luxury trips. kuoni.co.uk

Sicilian treasure

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an Domenico Palace, Taormina is set to be a must-see for honeymooners. Currently undergoing extensive renovations, the hotel in the hilltop town of Taormina, Sicily will be known as San Domenico Palace, Taormina, A Four Seasons Hotel.

There are multiple terraces overlooking both the Bay of Taormina and Mount Etna and the hotel has a beach club, gardens and the two-Michelin Star Restaurant Principe Cerami. Located on the site of a 15th-century Dominican monastery, and with a wing added in the late 19th century, it has a long and star-studded history – Oscar Wilde, Elizabeth Taylor and DH Lawrence are among guests who have passed through. Nearby attractions include the town’s amazing Greco-Roman theatre (still in use today) and the medieval Corvaja Palace. There are also plenty of beautiful beaches skirting this part of the island. fourseasons.com

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There's an old rule about never working with animals or you will be upstaged, but any bride and groom worth knowing would make an honourable exception for camels called Eliza and Ed P h o t o g r a p h y : TA R A M O L L E R t a r a m o l l e r. c o m

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edding photography has perils aplenty when it comes to managing the group shots – just think of all those sugar-fuelled flowergirls and page boys. But what if you get an unusual assignment for a set of formal photographs of bride, groom plus camels? Guess what, it was simply irresistible for photographer Tara Moller!

Eliza and Ed are, after all, very special ungulates, being dearly

loved companions who have centre stage at many a family event. Having spent an awful lot of time with them at her family's home, the bride knew she had to have a formal portrait or two on her wedding day for posterity and to put in the photo album – a reminder of these favourite four-legged friends. Bride, groom, Eliza and Ed assembled – wedding finery paired to smart matching halters – and the animal magic began. It has to be said that camels are not normally known for their cheery demeanour –

sometimes they even look like they have the hump – but Eliza and Ed are used to being the centre of attention and they relished their moment in the camera's gaze and vogued like old timers.

After the first shots were sent out, the bride expressed her heartfelt thanks for the beautiful pictures, adding: "Those camels are such posers, they always steal the limelight".

They were, says Tara Moller, the ultimate wedding props, even though bride and groom definitely were most royally upstaged.

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