PET Blackmail

By RACHEL WEBB

Get a pet, they beg. Yet you’ll be the one in the driving rain hanging on for dear life to a wildly overexcited puppy while they sit glued to their screens. The emotional blackmail, with tearful turning of the screws, is all too real. But before you cave and sign up for one more doe-eyed creature to train, feed and care for, here’s what you need to consider.

Expert opinion varies on what age children can help look after a pet, but as a general rule, don’t expect anything much from a child under ten. Also prioritise the animal’s safety because under the age of six, children may not be able to distinguish between vulnerable living creature and toy. Of course, a lot depends on the pet you choose – a goldfish or gerbil requires less day-to-day time than a cat or dog and might be a good introduction. Even so, adult supervision is essential, whether it’s feeding the goldfish or handling a slippery rodent.

Some animals have had it hard – none more so than rabbits and guinea pigs, which used to be considered perfect small-child companions. In fact, they don’t appreciate hard cuddles and loud noises and do need space (not a cramped hutch), stimulation and a furry companion of the same species. Rabbits may live for ten plus years and guinea pigs six. That’s one reason why they often end up in animal rescues.

Cats and dogs can be brilliant companions, but close watch is essential to ensure children are clear about boundaries and respect. Many animal charities are understandably wary of rehoming dogs to homes where children are under a certain age. If that means a puppy, choose your pooch with care. Breed temperament and health, exercise requirements and allergy issues should all be checked out thoroughly – as should the place the puppy comes from.

With all the caveats, there is nothing better than a pet for helping children to develop empathy and learn how to care for and consider others. There are also the huge benefits of that special relationship you so often see develop between children and animals. It requires a whole-family commitment, but a pet is a wonderful childhood companion, bringing love and company through formative years.