1. Start focusing on each other’s strength

Creating a balance seems impossible, it isn’t. Continuous criticism and pointing out each other’s flaws doesn’t help. For a happy marriage, one must accept their partner wholeheartedly, with their flaws too. It is worse to expect your partner to contribute 50 percent. It can lead to resentment, bitterness, and quarrels. Practice selflessness in marriage by putting your partner's needs first.

2. Preserve your individuality

Even if you are married, make sure to prioritise your dreams. Instead of suppressing them, cultivate them and work on them and yourself. One must possess a strong sense of independence and a well developed opinion. Continue to work on your strengths as well as your behaviour. Keeping your individuality alive is critical for a healthy and content marriage. Your difference is what makes you unique and appealingto one another.

3. Arguments between partners are common and completely normal

It's a matter of fact that every couple has differences. Various studies show that couples feel more passionate after each fight, as long as they can resolve their differences. Happy couples are great at solving problems and tend to avoid negative exchanges. Arguments help couples communicate better. Listen to your partner and find a solution, rather than letting the problem grow.

4. We value kindness the most during difficult times

Always respect your partners rather than criticising them. Constantly judging your partner can be detrimental to your marital life. Listen to your partner, talk to them, and explain yourself in a composed manner. This will help calm the situation and show your partner that you appreciate and respect your marriage with them. Kindness makes a partner feel valued, loved, and understood.