...Or ponder and respond here for yourself!

Consent

Forme,consentishavingaspacefreeofpressure to say "yes." Consent is the active listening between two parties. consent should never be a negotiation. People can change their minds whenever they want. Respect that and don't push it. There should be a major emphasis on assuring your partner that it's okay to stop as well if you sense they feel uncomfortable. Some people tend to continue maybe because they've been assaulted before and are desensitized to these experiences, soit'simportanttoencouragehealthyengagement. Conversations of consent should be had before the act: talk about boundaries, desires, and needs.

Make it clear to your partner on what your intentionsare.

no! you have no right to do that!

it's not your life!

Iwant tobe ableto unzipmy belly.

What's the problem?

i am struggling with my finances. I can't afford the baby.

the government can help. there are many options such as adoption.

You can't kill a life just because you think you can't afford it. other people can adopt the child.