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Let’s Talk About Sex Baby!

Collated from a community survey by Indy Shead and Chetha Nawana

What’s something that turns you on? • Flirty banter • Choking • Nothing, I’m on the pill • Neck kisses • Trust • FemDom • Spooning • Pretty much anything • Eye contact • Praise • Consent • Someone very caring and gentle, who also turns rough in the bedroom • Enthusiasm! • My partner without clothes • Brian Schmidt • BDSM dynamics • Discreet public foreplay • Sexting • Dirty talk • Lingerie

What movie/tv show/book has the best sex scene you’ve watched/read? • Sense8 • Sex Education • Game of Thrones • Peaky Blinders • The Longest Ride • Gossip Girl - Chuck and Blair hate sex • Austin Powers • Young Royals • Bridgerton • Shameless • Normal People • 365 Days • Elite • The 100 • 50 Shades of Grey - ice scene • The Girl Next Door • Daredevil • New Girl - Nick & Jess have sex for the first time • Love Victor • Call Me By Your Name • Fleabag • Fanfics • A Wild Sheep Chase by Murakami

Why do you have sex? • For fun • Pleasure • Horny • Building initimacy with my partner • Makes you feel desirable • As I get older, I’ve found that my ~need~ or desire for sex has really dwindled. After quite an active period through the first half of my twenties, I can take it or leave it now that I’m twenty-five. Having sex as a het male comes with pressures and performance expectations. Frankly it’s just quicker and easier to masturbate • Exercise • I have a very impressive penis, I like to use it • My boyfriend is hot • Cause it feels great! • My love language is physical touch

Why don’t you have sex? • I’m not having sex at the moment because I feel like I get used and I don’t want to participate in hook-up culture. I need an emotional connection to enjoy sex, and I don’t have that with anyone at the moment • Haven’t met the right person • If I don’t feel comfortable or confident in my sexual energy • Asexual • Not into hookups • I’m scared and it probably hurts alot • UTIs • Trauma lol • Don’t have time or energy to pursue it • Afraid to talk to girls! • I’m asexual, but I’m horny • I don’t have sex because I’m not married • Religious reasons, family expectations • Had sex once and found myself distinctly uninterested in the whole process; haven’t bothered since

What is your go-to song to get you/your partner in the mood?

A sexy time playlist made by the community featuring:

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