BYU Women's Conference Program 2020

Cosponsored by the Relief Society

Gather All Safely In Christ April 30–May 1, 2020

Welcome to BYU Women’s Conference Dear Sisters, Welcome to the 2020 Brigham Young University Women’s Conference. We are delighted to have you here, and we thank you for bringing that special “Women’s Conference” spirit of charity and commitment with you. We are very grateful for the co-sponsorship of this conference by the Relief Society. Their guidance and influence in all of our preparations are unparalleled. Together we hope that you will feel answers to your concerns, comfort for your struggles, and encouragement in your efforts.

This year’s theme, Gather All Safely In Christ, comes from President Russell M. Nelson’s emphasis on the gathering of scattered Israel in preparation for the Savior’s Second Coming. He has reached out to all of us, daughters of Heavenly Parents, and asked that we do all in our power to assist in bringing our brothers and sisters to Jesus Christ and the blessings of the plan of salvation. In this conference we will explore the many ways we can facilitate this great gathering.

We also invite you to respond to our invitation, described on the Women’s Conference website and social media pages, to help illustrate the many ways sisters are contributing to the gathering of Israel. Please share your examples and experiences with us, and we will share them with attendees at Women’s Conference this year.

We especially note the second Sister-to-Sister Event on Friday morning as our sister leaders answer questions and concerns from around the world and here at home.

We invite you to take advantage of the service opportunities available at the Marriott Center on Thursday morning and during our Thursday evening service event. We thank you in advance for the good you will do. We also thank our friends at Deseret Book for providing another outstanding entertainment event for you on Thursday evening.

Our gratitude grows each year for all those who have a part in making this conference possible. And we are especially grateful to have you gather with us this year.

Sandra Rogers Chair, 2020 BYU Women’s Conference

BYU Women’s Conference Committee Sandra Rogers, Chair Reyna I. Aburto Jeanne Burgon Jana Eubank Ruth Gardner Lita Little Giddins Jamie Glenn Linda Godfrey Kimberly Huff Jean Hwang Jennefer Johnson Shelby Killpack

Kristin Gerdy Kyle Rebecca Mehr Michelle Moore Lynne Nielsen Stephanie Norris Lorelie Sander Emily Sanderson Melinda Semadeni Mackenzie Sylvester Salote Tukuafu Peggy Worthen

Marriott Center General Sessions [ THURSDAY, APRIL 30 ] Thursday Morning Opening Session

Thursday Afternoon General Session

9:00–10:15 a.m.

3:45–5:00 p.m.

Sandra Rogers

Kate Holbrook

Gather All Safely In Christ

The Continuing Restoration and the Gathering of Israel

[ FRIDAY, MAY 1 ]

Friday Morning General Session

Friday Afternoon Closing Session

9:00–10:15 a.m.

3:45–5:00 p.m.

Reyna I. Aburto Becky Craven Lisa L. Harkness

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland Patricia T. Holland

Tracy Browning, moderator

Sister to Sister Event

Instant Choir Join with your Women’s Conference friends and share your testimony through music by participating in the 2020 BYU Women’s Conference Instant Choir. All information, including music, is available on our website, womensconference.byu.edu. Come and sing with 500 of your newest friends at the Thursday morning opening session. Rehearsal starts promptly at 6:30 a.m.!

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M A R R I OT T C ENT ER (M C) • 19,0 0 0 CA P

Is the Atonement of Jesus Christ Written Deep in Our Hearts? [pg. 13] Sue Clark Kim B. Clark

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Truth is Truth [pg. 17] Becky Craven Michelle D. Craig Bonnie H. Cordon

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Hearts Knit Together in Unity [pg. 22] Reyna I. Aburto Sharon Eubank Jean B. Bingham

S M I T H FIELDHOUS E (SF H) • 3, 375 CA P

Come Follow Me for Individuals [pg. 13] Melinda Semadeni Hank Smith

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A Prophetic Plea to Women: “Shape the Future

by Helping to Gather Scattered Israel” [pg. 18] Heidi Allsop Susan R. Madsen

“I Will Be What I Believe” [pg. 22] Kandyce Ciarrocchi John Bytheway

BA L L RO O M , WI L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 1 , 3 0 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW When We Feel Alone: “I Will Come to You” (John 14:18) [pg. 14] Whitney Johnson Julianne Holt-Lunstad

Forsaking Contention [pg. 18] Sharon Hiatt Julie Haupt

Taking Time to Talk: Communication in Marriage [pg. 22] Katrina Christensen Brent Christensen

DE J ON G CO N C E RT H A L L , H A R R IS FINE ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 1 , 2 8 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW Forgiving Oneself and “Walk[ing] in the Newness of Life” (Romans 6:4) [pg. 14] Michael D. Newman Deborah Hawley

Raising Resilient Children by Being Resilient Parents [pg. 18] Toni Carlson Jennifer Beck Carter

“Bring Up Your Children in Light and Truth” (D&C 93:40) [pg. 23] Maren Daines Ryan Eggett

AU D I TO R I U M , J OS E PH S M IT H BU ILDING (JSB ) • 855 CA P | OV E R FLOW Marriage Is Worth the Work [pg. 14] Amy Sackett Alan Sackett

Divorce, Death, Blended Families and the Sealing Covenant [pg. 19] Marie K. Hafen Bruce C. Hafen

Receiving the Tender Mercies of the Lord [pg. 23] Shelly Edwards Jorgensen Marilee Killpack

32 20 –32 24 W I L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 58 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW Strengthen and Unify Children and Youth in the Gospel [pg. 14] Steven J. Lund Shauna Ogden

When Some Choose Not to Be Gathered to Christ [pg. 19] Sue Samson Peterson Julie Harps

Increasing Our Spiritual Capacity to Receive Revelation [pg. 23] Janet Jenks Jeanne N. Burgon

ASSE M BLY H A L L , H I N C KL EY A LUM NI & V IS ITO RS C ENT ER (HC) • 50 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW Ministering Is the Foundation of Gathering [pg. 15] Starr Anderson Memnet Lopez

“The Lord of the Vineyard Labored also with Them” (Jacob 5:72) [pg. 19] Shawna Borg Julie Olson

The Prophet Is Leading the Gathering [pg. 24] Patrick Degn Carol Costley

THURSDAY [ April 30 ] Concurrent Sessions

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PA R D O E T H E AT R E , H A R R I S F I N E ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 58 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Equally Yoked in the Work of Salvation [pg. 15] Jana Eubank Kevin Eubank

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Dating and Marriage: Preparation and Good Choices [pg. 19] Laura Morrin Brian Willoughby

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Trust in the Lord [pg. 24] Leslie Soderberg Kelly Wosnik Tangiteina Paletu’a Kinikini

MA DSE N R EC I TA L H A L L , H A R R I S FINE ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 4 3 5 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Put Off the Natural Man and Gather to the Family of God [pg. 15] JoAnn Tominaga J.B. Haws

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“Circle of Sisterhood”: Blessed by Diversity [pg. 20]

Our Personal Journey Towards Christ [pg. 24]

Lita Little Giddins (moderator) Jamie Glenn Perpetua Lynne Nielsen Salote Tukuafu

Christy Spencer Christine Van Wagenen

VA RSIT Y T H E AT R E , WI L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 3 85 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Look For the Good: Interfaith Efforts [pg. 16] John R. Taylor Amy Pickering Wylie

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Gathering Families through the Truths Taught in the Family Proclamation [pg. 20] Annie Godfrey Kory Godfrey

Successfully Gathering a Blended Family [pg. 25] Kristin Gerdy Kyle Calee Reed Adams

2 2 5 4 CO N F E R E N C E C ENT ER (CO N F ) • 3 0 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Gathering as a Ward [pg. 16]

“He Won’t Forget Your Work”: Early Returning Missionaries [pg. 20]

Heidi Weight Janet Mitchell

Janeal Irving Stephen Diederich

The Great Plan of Happiness: Heavenly Father’s Plan of Love [pg. 25] Ashley Baird Jana Winters Parkin

BA L L RO O M , H A R M A N BU ILDING (HC EB ) • 3 6 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

“Hold On in His Love”: Helping to Prevent Youth Suicide [pg. 16] Keri Hermann Greg Hudnall

Drawing Others to the Savior through Your Example [pg. 21] Ada S. Wilson Diana Hasler Hoelscher

The Sabbath: A Dedicated Day [pg. 25] Jennifer Coleman Lynette Bowen

2 26 0 BYU CO N F ER ENC E C ENT ER (CO N F ) • 20 0 CA P

Cuando algunos eligen no ser congregados en Cristo [pg. 17] Effy Briseño Miguel Giraldo

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Darse el tiempo para conversar: La comunicación en el matrimonio [pg. 21] Maria Luisa Torres David J. Torres

Los tesoros espirituales de la adoración en el templo [pg. 26] Maria Paspuel Nery Muller

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[ 11:00 a.m.–noon ]

[ 12:30–1:30 p.m. ] M A R R I OT T C ENT ER (M C) • 19,0 0 0 CA P

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“Endowed with Power from on High” (D&C 38:32) [pg. 27]

Participating in the Gathering Whatever Our Circumstance [pg. 31]

Barbara Morgan Gardner Rosemary Wixom

Cristina B. Franco Lisa L. Harkness Joy D. Jones

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The Lord Knows You and is Aware of You [pg. 35] Rosemary Thackeray Astrid Tuminez

S M I T H FIELDHOUS E (SF H) • 3, 375 CA P

Gather to Be Perfected but Not Perfect [pg. 27] Gaylamarie Rosenberg Mary Ellen Edmunds

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Finding Hope and Help When Struggling with Mental Illness [pg. 32] John Goodson Jane Clayson Johnson

Scripture Study: Our Own Personal Liahona [pg. 35] Nancy Dance Camille Fronk Olson

BA L L RO O M , WI L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 1 , 3 0 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Women Speaking with the Power of God [pg. 28] Janiece Johnson Tara Mickelsen

Choosing Your Spouse Every Day [pg. 32] Beth Whitaker Barry Whitaker

Gather in Christ through Small and Simple Means [pg. 36] Tamra Reeves Michalyn Steele

D E JON G CO N C E RT H A L L , H A R RIS FINE ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 1 , 2 8 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

The Sweet Peace of Forgiveness [pg. 28] Cassi Richmond David Morgan

Cherish the Gift of Repentance [pg. 32] Ronald A. Stoddard Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt

“God Hath Not Given Us the Spirit of Fear” (2 Timothy 1:7) [pg. 36] Lauren Barnes Jennifer Buckner

AU D I TO R I U M , J OS E PH S M IT H BU ILDING (JSB ) • 855 CA P | OV E R FLOW

The Book of Mormon: Instrument of the Gathering [pg. 28] Julie Davis Julie Hawks

Find Joy in the Gathering [pg. 32] Debbie Cardon Craig Cardon

Safely Finding Answers to Gospel Questions [pg. 36] Richard Bennett Carri Jenkins

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32 20 –32 24 W I L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 58 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

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ASSE M BLY H A L L , H I N C KL EY A LUM NI & V IS ITO RS C ENT ER (HC) • 50 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Young Mothers: Never Underestimate Your Central Role in the Gathering [pg. 28] Jennefer Free (moderator) Heidi Braby Millie Dadson Annie Jones Crystal Schultz

The Spiritual Treasures in Temple Worship [pg. 29] Kathleen Hughes Potter Joanne Hoehne

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Refuge from the Storm: Home-Centered, Church-Supported Teaching [pg. 33] Shelby Killpack (moderator) Sarianna Valgardson Cynthia Ware Drena Wong Lopez

“First and Foremost a Child of God”: Loving Our LGBT and SSA Family and Friends [pg. 33] Becky Borden Ben Schilaty

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Women Fulfilling Prophecy [pg. 37] Tiffany Bowles Susan Porter

Simplify Your Approach to Discipleship [pg. 37] Annette Hullinger Sherie Allen

FRIDAY [ May 1 ] Concurrent Sessions

[ 11:00 a.m.–noon ]

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[ 12:30–1:30 p.m. ]

PA R D O E T H E AT R E , H A R R I S F I NE ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 58 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Finding Peace Now in the Last Days [pg. 29] Kimberly Morris Diane Gerdy Iman

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“Of Souls, Symbols and Sacraments”: Intimacy in Marriage [pg. 37] Angela Bradford Chelom Leavitt

M A DSE N R EC I TA L H A L L , H A R R I S FINE ARTS C ENT ER (HFAC) • 4 3 5 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Janielle Christensen Adam Anderegg

“Ask in Faith” (James 1:6) [pg. 34] Samantha C. Butterworth Jane C. Curtis

Patriarchal Blessings: A Precious and Priceless Personal Treasure [pg. 37] Barbara Randall David Randall

VA RSI T Y T H E AT R E , WI L KI N SO N ST U DENT C ENT ER (WSC) • 3 85 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Self-Reliance Is a Temporal and Spiritual Quest [pg. 30]

Choosing the Best Part [pg. 34] Susan Probst Judy Chynoweth

Valerie Waite Mel Gardner

Gathering at the Sacramental Table [pg. 38] Tina Davis Oceane Giraud-Carrier Olsen

2 2 5 4 CO N F E R E N C E CENT ER (CO N F ) • 3 0 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

Teens, Technology, and Social Media: Asking Your Child the Right Questions [pg. 30] Shea Bradshaw Michelle Busch-Upwall

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Family History and Temple Work: Bringing Forth Blessings of Sealing and Healing [pg. 34] Tommy Ayre Ashlee Ayre Alice Faulkner Burch

Learning from the Legacy of Modern-Day Pioneers [pg. 38] Kelly Eggertsen Laurel Bradford Rose Chibota

BA L L RO O M , H A R M A N BU ILDING (HCEB ) • 3 6 0 CA P | OV E R FLOW

“More Holiness Give Me” (Hymns, no. 131) [pg. 30] Emily Sanderson Traci Garff Longmore

“Decade of Decisions”: Navigating Life as a Young Adult [pg. 34] Steve Smith (moderator) Michelle Brannock Kunmi Ogunfeibo Jared Reid Adeline Yorgason

Fighting Addictions: Giving Our Spirits Control Over Our Bodies [pg. 39] Jessica Wood Lynda Howes

2 26 0 BYU CO N F ER ENC E C ENT ER (CONF ) • 20 0 CA P

Hallar esperanza y ayuda cuando se lucha con enfermedades mentales [pg. 31] Susana Muñoz Jim MacArthur

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Loving Our Neighbor: Gathering Refugees and Immigrants [pg. 33] Elissa McConkie Rebecca Millard

The Power of the Arts to Gather [pg. 29]

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Refugio de la tormenta: La enseñanza centrada en el hogar y apoyada por la Iglesia [pg. 35] Ana Mata Georgia Porras

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Ministrar es el fundamento del recogimiento [pg. 39] Julieta Flores Marta Bravo

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Photo Booths

Build Your Schedule

Be sure to capture your Women’s Conference experience at one of our photo booths!

Locations will be posted in the Program Update.

TH [ April 30 ] Opening Session—Marriott Center, 9:00–10:15 a.m.

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FIRST CHOICE

SECOND CHOICE

THIRD CHOICE

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[ 2:00–3:00 p.m. ]

General Session—Marriott Center, 3:45–5:00 p.m.

Evening of Service—Richards Building and Smith Fieldhouse, 5:00–8:00 p.m.

Evening Performance—Marriott Center, 8:15–9:45 p.m.

F [ May 1 ] General Session—Marriott Center, 9:00–10:15 a.m.

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FIRST CHOICE

SECOND CHOICE

THIRD CHOICE

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Closing Session—Marriott Center, 3:45–5:00 p.m.

Upcoming Conference Dates 8

April 29–30, 2021

[ 2:00–3:00 p.m. ]

Women’s Conference by Topic We hope this topic guide will help you navigate the sessions offered. Please read the abstract in its entirety to help with your class selection.

Note: Numbers reference session numbers, NOT the page.

Addiction and recovery................................ 77 Arts.............................................................. 48 Atonement of Jesus Christ............................ 1 Children raising resilient children........................ 17 strengthening and unifying.................... 6 bringing up in light and truth................ 30 Children and Youth program........................ 6 Come, Follow Me— For Individuals and Families.................... 2, 58 Contention, forsaking.................................. 16 Discipleship............................................ 28, 72 Diversity, blessings of................................. 22 Divine identity............................................. 66 Divorce, death, sealing and covenants........ 18 Example, drawing others to the Savior...... 25 Faith vs. fear........................................... 61, 69 Family history............................................. 63 Forgiveness............................................. 4, 43 Gathering a prophetic plea to women.................... 15 as a ward................................................ 11 at the sacramental table....................... 25 Book of Mormon, instrument............... 44 equally yoked in the work....................... 8 finding joy............................................... 57 in small and simple ways...................... 68 ministering is the foundation.................. 7 participating in many ways................... 53 put off natural man................................. 9 the Lord labors with us......................... 20 the prophet is leading........................... 33 through the Family Proclamation......... 23

to be perfected....................................... 41 to the family of God................................. 9 when some choose not to be gathered........................................ 19 Gospel questions................................... 61, 70 Heavenly Father His “great plan of happiness”............... 37 Holiness....................................................... 51 Holy Ghost.................................................. 32 Home-centered teaching........................... 58 Interfaith efforts.......................................... 10 Jesus Christ love of.................................................. 3, 66 our personal journey towards................ 35 tender mercies of.................................... 31 trusting in the Lord................................. 34 Legacy, learning from................................. 76 LGBT and same-sex attraction................... 59 Marriage and intimacy......................................... 73 and blended families........................ 18, 36 choosing your spouse daily.................. 55 communication..................................... 29 dating, preparation for marriage........... 21 working together..................................... 5 Mental illness, finding hope and help......... 54 Missionary, returning early......................... 24 Motherhood................................................ 45 Parenting............................................ 6, 17, 30 Patriarchal blessings................................... 74 Peace in the last days................................. 47 Personal revelation..................................... 32 Prayer........................................................... 61

Priesthood, endowed with power............... 40 Priorities..................................................... 62 Prophet....................................................... 33 Refugees and immigrants, reaching out.... 60 Relief Society, unity.................................... 27 Repentance................................................. 56 Sabbath day................................................ 38 Scripture study........................................... 67 Self-reliance................................................ 49 Social media, helping teens navigate......... 50 Suicide, youth prevention............................ 12 Temple, spiritual treasures......................... 46 Truth............................................................. 14 Women speaking with the power of God........... 42 helping to gather scattered Israel......... 15 fulfilling prophecy.................................. 71 Young adults, decisions.............................. 64

Sesiones en español Cuando algunos eligen no ser congregados ......................................... 13 Darse el tiempo para conversar: La comunicación en el matrimonio ........... 26 Hallar esperanza y ayuda cuando se lucha con enfermedades mentales...................... 52 Los tesoros espirituales de la adoración en el templo................................................ 39 Ministrar es el fundamento del recogimiento......................................... 78 Refugio de la tormenta: La enseñanza centrada en el hogar y apoyada por la Iglesia................................. 65

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8 • Build Your Schedule CF • Campus Map and Dining (centerfold) 45 • Evening Performance 42 • FAQs 10 • Insights and Information

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3 • Instant Choir 40 • Presenter Index 13 • Schedule and Abstracts 4 • Schedule-at-a-Glance 44 • Service Projects 9

Conference Insights and Information REGISTRATION INFORMATION

AGE LIMIT

There are four easy ways to register:

The conference is designed for women and men ages 16 and older. Due to the large crowds during BYU Women’s Conference, safety concerns and logistical constraints on campus do not allow us to accommodate infants and children in the residence halls or any session rooms, including the Marriott Center, evening service, and cultural events. This policy applies to volunteers, participants, presenters, and guests of presenters.

• Online: womensconference.byu.edu • Phone: 1-877-221-6716 or 801-422-8925 • In person: Weekdays 8:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. in the Harman Continuing Education Building lobby • On the days of the conference, April 30 and May 1: Marriott Center, northeast and northwest concourse entrances Registration:

Full Conference One Day

by March 27

after March 27

$65 $42

$72 $49

Don’t forget to pick up your Program Update at the conference! This booklet contains all conference updates, as well as service projects and their locations. It will be available when you arrive at the Marriott Center and at all Women’s Conference information desks.

INFORMACIÓN CONCERNIENTE LA REGISTRACIÓN

MAY WE HELP YOU?

Las mujeres y los hombres de 16 años, o mayores de 16, pueden registrarse para esta conferencia. Cada día empezaremos con una sesión general en el Marriott Center. Este año las cuatro sesiones generales serán traducidas al español. Entre las dos sesiones generales del jueves y viernes, habrán tres sesiones simultáneas en español (sin traducción). Existen cuatro maneras de registración.

Do you have a question? Do you need more information? Please call, email, or message us through Facebook. We are ready to help you have a wonderful experience.

• Por internet: womensconference.byu.edu • Por teléfono: 1-877-221-6716 o 801-422-8925 • E n persona: Los días de la semana 8:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. (tiempo montaña) en el edificio Harman de Educación Continua (Harman Continuing Education Building, HCEB) • L os días de la conferencia: Se puede comprar los boletos que se encuentrarán en la entrada del Marriott Center, empezando a las 7:30 a.m.

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PROGRAM UPDATE

• Information: 801-422-7692 • Registration: 801-422-8925 / 1-877-221-6716 • Email: womens_conference@byu.edu • Facebook: BYUWomensConference

GIVE THE GIFT OF BYU WOMEN’S CONFERENCE Share BYU Women’s Conference with a friend by downloading one of the gift certificates available on our website. Whether for a family member, a birthday, a roommate reunion, a best friend, or just to say thank you, the gift of sharing Women’s Conference together will be a cherished experience.

CONFERENCE INFORMATION DESKS For assistance with directions, lost name badges, shuttles, and other needs, contact an information desk assistant at one of the following locations between 9:00 a.m. and 3:00 p.m.: • Marriott Center concourse (MC)* • Main third-floor gallery, Harris Fine Arts Center (HFAC)

Please cooperate by parking in designated areas and within stalls.

Please note that program participants should not park in the neighborhoods north of the Marriott Center or east of 900 East.

Parking in areas other than those noted will lead to towing of your vehicle. Self-contained recreational vehicles can park in lot 37Y, north of the Indoor Practice Facility. No facilities are available.

• Lobby, Joseph Smith Building (JSB)

UVX FREE BUS SYSTEM

• North entrance, Smith Fieldhouse (SFH)

Catch the free UVX bus and be dropped off within a three- to fiveminute walk to the Marriott Center to avoid parking on campus. Utah Valley Express (UVX) is a bus rapid transit line featuring high-capacity buses running between the Orem Central Station (Frontrunner station), BYU, and the Provo Central Station (Frontrunner station), and other stops in between, and it’s free! It features convenient stops at the BYU Baseball Stadium (about a three-minute walk to the Marriott Center), the BYU Harman Building, BYU North Campus, and BYU South Campus. Note: Regular fares are required for bus lines other than UVX. Visit our website under parking for more information.

• Memorial Lounge, Wilkinson Student Center (WSC) *MC open until 8:00 p.m. on Thursday, and until 5:30 p.m. on Friday

ON-CAMPUS LIVE BROADCASTS Concurrent sessions originating in the Marriott Center, de Jong Concert Hall, Pardoe Theatre, and Madsen Recital Hall will be broadcast in rooms in the following locations: • BYU Conference Center (CONF) • Martin Building (MARB) The Program Update will include a list of all session rooms with video or audio overflow options for each session; pick one up on Thursday morning at any Women’s Conference Information Desk.

ASL INTERPRETERS American Sign Language (ASL) interpreters will be provided for all Marriott Center conference sessions. Participants needing ASL interpretation should sit in section 8, row 3, in designated seats (enter through Portal H).

Interpreters for sessions other than the Marriott Center can be provided if requested by April 17, 2020. Further details can be found on our website at womensconference.byu.edu.

PARKING Each year we strive to make your parking, shuttles, and walking as easy as possible. We have easily accessible parking lots and extensive courtesy shuttle service to get you to and from parking areas.

(Please refer to the map in the center of this booklet.) For Women’s Conference, the largest parking areas are available in these lots: • 20Y, northeast of the Marriott Center (shuttle stop with attendant) • 45U, west of LaVell Edwards Stadium (shuttle stop with attendant) • 37Y, north of the Indoor Practice Facility (shuttle stop with attendant)

PARKING FOR PARTICIPANTS WITH DISABILITIES If you have a state-issued disability placard or permit, you may park in the designated area northeast of the Marriott Center based on space availability. Participants who have these placards may also park in any of the state disability parking spaces on campus. If disability spaces are filled in a particular lot, you may hang your placard and park in any campus parking spaces EXCEPT for service or timed lots, and designated spaces for deans, directors, or specific license plates.

COURTESY SHUTTLES Courtesy shuttles run the routes indicated on the parking map in the center of this booklet. Shuttles run from 8:00 a.m. to 11:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 30, and 8:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. on Friday, May 1. While the shuttles are available to all conference participants, preference will be given to seniors or those with disabilities. Shuttles pick up and drop off at designated shuttle stops only.

Please Note: From 8:30 to 11:00 p.m. on Thursday, and from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m. on Friday, shuttles will only run from the Marriott Center to the parking lots and campus housing.

Please continue to exhibit kindness, consideration, and patience when parking and using the shuttle service. Your words and actions affect the experiences of other attendees and university employees.

One wheelchair-accessible shuttle is available (one friend may accompany). To contact the driver on April 30–May 1, please call 385-335-3143.

Although parking areas closer to the Marriott Center fill up early, parking is available in the lots listed above, with enhanced courtesy shuttle service to campus. You may want to save time and go there first. Other parking lots are noted on the center map in this booklet.

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HOW FAR IS IT TO WALK?

SPECIAL BYU STORE HOURS AND LOCATIONS

Wait times for the shuttles can be long, so if you are physically able, we encourage you to enjoy campus and take a walk to your next session.

For your convenience, the BYU Store and the Marriott Center satellite store will be open at the following times:

Marriott Center to:

Cannon Commons

5–7 minutes

Marriott Center satellite store (located south of the Marriott Center):

Conference Center

5–7 minutes

• 7:00 a.m.–10:30 p.m. on Thursday, April 30

Harman Building

5–7 minutes

• 7:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. on Friday, May 1

Harris Fine Arts Center

Hinckley Center

Joseph Smith Building

Martin Building

10–12 minutes

Smith Fieldhouse

12–15 minutes

Wilkinson Student Center

10–12 minutes

7–10 minutes 5–7 minutes 15 minutes

Wilkinson Student Center to:

Cannon Commons

15 minutes

Harris Fine Arts Center

3 minutes

Joseph Smith Building

7–10 minutes

Martin Building

Smith Fieldhouse

5 minutes 15 minutes

We don’t recommend it, but if you are planning to text and walk, don’t forget to look up! Please obey all traffic laws, and cross at designated crosswalks.

Note: Walking time is dependent on crowds and comfort of shoes.

WHEELCHAIR SEATING Due to limited wheelchair seating in all conference locations, wheelchair access areas are reserved only for participants who use wheelchairs. One to three companions may accompany those who use wheelchairs, and they will be seated in close proximity.

In the Marriott Center, wheelchair seating is available at all portals except G, H, and J on the concourse level. Limited floor wheelchair seating is available for those accompanied by a companion who can push the chair up a steep ramp in the event of an emergency.

Wheelchair-accessible restrooms are located on the concourse level but not on the floor level.

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Main BYU Store: • 7:45 a.m.–8:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 30, and Friday, May 1 • 10:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 2 Beehive Clothing outlet (located on the lower level of the BYU Store): • 9:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m. on Thursday, April 30, and Friday, May 1 • 10:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m. on Saturday, May 2

WHILE YOU ARE HERE Check out what other participants say are “must-do” on-campus activities: • Attend all the Marriott Center general sessions. Enjoy that feeling of sisterhood as we all meet together.

• Visit the BYU Creamery for ice cream or a mint brownie.

• Check out the new Sweet Stop at the BYU Store for a share-bag of chocolate-covered cinnamon bears or grab fresh fruit at Cosmo’s Mini Mart!

• Go to the evening performance and enjoy the wonderful music.

• Grab Thursday dinner at the Marriott Center or Cannon Center and go serve on lower campus.

• Make a new friend. Say hello to the sister next to you. Everyone needs a new friend!

• If you are attending with friends, split up for sessions and share insights each evening.

• Visit the BYU Conference Center or the Martin Building and watch the on-campus live broadcasts (look at the Program Update during the conference for details).

RECORDING OF TALKS

• Sing in the Instant Choir with 500 new friends.

Personal audio and video recording of conference sessions is not allowed. Select transcripts from the 1997 to 2019 conferences are posted on our website at womensconference.byu.edu under Library/ Transcripts.

• Take a cultural break at the Museum of Art. • V isit the BYU Store and pick up your favorite BYU T-shirt!

Go Cougars!

• W ork on a Take, Make, and Return project and return the finished item to the Marriott Center!

Women’s Conference Sessions Thursday Morning Opening Session MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 9:00–10:15 a.m.

“Gather All Safely In Christ” Sandra Rogers – international vice president, BYU; chair, BYU Women’s Conference; Sunday School teacher

Concurrent Sessions [ 11:00 a.m.–noon ] MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

1 • Is the Atonement of Jesus Christ Written Deep in Our Hearts?

In speaking of the Savior’s Atonement, Sister Linda K. Burton said, “That supreme act of love ought to send each of us to our knees in humble prayer to thank our Heavenly Father for loving us enough that He sent His Only Begotten and perfect Son to suffer for our sins, our heartaches, and all that seems unfair in our own individual lives. . . . How does knowing our worth to Him change how we keep our covenants? How does knowing our worth to Him affect our desire to minister to others? How does knowing our worth to Him increase our desire to help those who need to understand the Atonement as we do—way down deep? When each of us has the doctrine of the Atonement written deep in our hearts, then we will begin to become the kind of people the Lord wants us to be when He comes again. He will recognize us as His true disciples.”

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 11:00 a.m.–noon

2 • Come, Follow Me for Individuals The Come, Follow Me resource is for every individual and family in the Church, and its purposes and blessings are the same for all, no matter what our individual circumstances may be. When introducing this program, Elder Quentin L. Cook taught, “In the home-centered, Church-supported portion of this adjustment, there is flexibility for each individual and family to determine prayerfully how and when it will be implemented.” President Russell M. Nelson warned, “The adversary is increasing his attacks on faith and upon us and our families at an exponential rate. To survive spiritually, we need counterstrategies and proactive plans.” President Nelson later stated, “As you diligently work to remodel your home into a center of gospel learning . . . the influence of the adversary in your life and in your home will decrease.” In what ways can Come, Follow Me help us follow President Nelson’s counsel to be “responsible for our individual spiritual growth”? How can finding our own way to implement Come, Follow Me for ourselves and our families build our reliance on the Spirit and personal revelation? How can our individual study of Come, Follow Me strengthen others, in and out of our home?

Melinda Semadeni – served mission in Italy; former radio and TV news anchor/reporter; classical vocalist; MPA from BYU Marriott School; assistant dean, Fine Arts and Communications, BYU; Women’s Conference committee member Hank Smith – husband, father; assistant teaching professor, Ancient Scripture, BYU; author

Sue Clark – wife, mother, grandmother; served with her husband as he presided over BYU–Idaho from 2005–2015; has served in various ward and stake callings and as a temple ordinance worker Kim B. Clark – husband, father, grandfather; Harvard BA, MA and PhD in economics; professor, Management Department, BYU Marriott School; emeritus Seventy; former president BYU–Idaho and Church Commissioner of Education

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Women’s Conference Sessions BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

3 • When We Feel Alone: “I Will Come to You” (John 14:18)

The feeling of being alone can come to each of us. The Savior felt completely alone in Gethsemane, when his disciples failed to stay awake and watch with him, and on the cross when the Father withdrew His comforting presence so that the Savior’s victory would be complete (Mark 15:34). Elder Jeffrey R. Holland assures us that “because Jesus walked such a long, lonely path utterly alone, we do not have to do so. . . . We will never be left alone nor unaided, even if sometimes we may feel that we are.” The Savior promised, “I will not leave you comfortless: I will come to you” (John 14:18). He also said, “Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him” (Revelation 3:20). Even when we feel defeated and alone, though we may be surrounded by other people, how can we increase our faith that Heavenly Father and the Savior never leave us alone? When we are feeling alone or lonely, how do we “open the door” and invite them in? How can our trust and faith in Jesus Christ comfort and strengthen us as we deal with feelings of being alone?

Whitney Johnson – counselor in ward Relief Society; works at NCAA Leadership Development office; returned missionary; former ward Relief Society president and early morning seminary teacher Julianne Holt-Lunstad – wife; professor, Psychology, BYU

DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

4 • Forgiving Oneself and “Walk[ing] in the Newness of Life” (Romans 6:4)

Prolonged worry about past wrongdoings hinders our efforts to move forward and spiritually progress. While remembering helps us avoid making the same mistakes, forgiving ourselves brings healing and peace through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. President Dieter F. Uchtdorf said, “When the Lord requires that we forgive all men, that includes forgiving ourselves. Sometimes, of all the people in the world, the one who is the hardest to forgive—as well as perhaps the one who is most in need of our forgiveness—is the person looking back at us in the mirror.” In D&C 58:42, the Lord tells us, “Behold, he who has repented of his sins, the same is forgiven, and I, the Lord, remember them no more.” Once we are sincerely striving to repent, how can we find joy in “walk[ing] in the newness of life” (Romans 6:4)? How do we turn to the Savior when recrimination or mental replaying of past guilt returns? How do we see ourselves as God sees us and “put our feet onto the path of true healing” (Elder Jeffrey R. Holland)?

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Michael D. Newman – widower, remarried, father, grandfather; former bishop of both YSA and family wards; banjo and guitar player of bluegrass and classic rock Deborah Hawley – mother; reluctant puppy owner; returned missionary, former MTC teacher; BYU graduate; mental health counselor; yoga lover, meditation teacher, and lover of all things chocolate!

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 11:00 a.m.–noon

5 • Marriage is Worth the Work President Spencer W. Kimball observed that many believe that marriage “solves all the problems. I want to tell you,” he declared, “that there are no marriages that can ever be happy ones unless two people work at it.” On the Hinckleys’ 60th wedding anniversary, President Gordon B. Hinckley counselled about the work marriage requires: “Live the gospel. . . . That means sacrifice in some circumstances. That means love and appreciation and respect. That means self-discipline.

That means curbing your temper and your tongue and being careful of what you say because words can wound just as deeply and just as seriously as can anything that inflicts bodily harm. And you have to look on the bright side of things; you have to be optimistic and say, ‘We can make it!’” Sister Marjorie Hinckley added, “You cannot be selfish in marriage. You have to have as your first priority the happiness and comfort of your spouse. If you work on that, then you are happy, too.”

What does “The Family—A Proclamation to the World” teach us about the kinds of work that will help create successful marriages, including the work of forgiving? What can we work on in our own attitudes, words, and behaviors that will help strengthen our marriages?

Amy Sackett – wife, mother Alan Sackett – husband, father; former seminary teacher; institute choir director; former director of music at the Nauvoo Pageant

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

6 • Strengthen and Unify Children and Youth in the Gospel

President Russell M. Nelson told the youth of the Church, “You have the capacity to be smarter and wiser and have more impact on the world than any previous generation! . . . You are the hope of Israel, ‘children of the promised day!’” Elder Quentin L. Cook promised that, through the principles guiding the Children and Youth program, “Our youth will develop greater faith in the Savior, be protected from the temptations of the adversary, and stand prepared to meet life’s challenges.” How can we model the principles of agency, personal

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revelation, and service so that we can grow together with our children and youth, families, wards, and stakes? What strategies help us guide and support our children and youth to be agents for themselves?

Steven J. Lund – husband, father, grandfather; business executive, attorney; member, Young Men general board; former Area Seventy; former president, Georgia Atlanta Mission Shauna Ogden – wife, mother, grandmother; member, Young Women general board; owns and operates medical practice with her husband; serves in civic, community, and philanthropic organizations

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

7 • Ministering Is the Foundation of Gathering The Savior’s work and glory is to provide the way to bring the sons and daughters of God back to Heavenly Father. He drew people to Him through ministering to the needs of individuals. Bishop W. Christopher Waddell explains that we too can focus on others’ “needs [that] come in a variety of shapes, sizes, and conditions. A single parent; a less-active couple; a struggling teen; an overwhelmed mother; a trial of faith; or financial, health, or marriage issues—the list is almost endless.” Sister Jean B. Bingham taught, “No matter our age, when we consider how to minister most effectively, we ask, ‘What does she [or he] need?’ Coupling that question with a sincere desire to serve, we are then led by the spirit to do what would lift and strengthen the individual.” How can we overcome the fears that our individual offerings are insufficient? How can we help others feel the Savior’s love and want to be part of His fold? How can we, as the scriptures teach, “watch over and nourish them with things pertaining to righteousness” (Mosiah 23:18)?

Starr Anderson – mother; wife of stake presidency member; ministering companion to a beautiful Young Woman; nursery leader; homemaker and seamstress; trying to live by the motto “We go with thee” (John 21:3) Memnet Lopez – wife, mother, grandmother; from Philippines/Guam; convert; served in Illinois Chicago Mission; served with husband when he presided over the Philippines Bacolod Mission; member, Relief Society general board

God does not regard either gender as better or more important than the other. President Hinckley declared to you women that ‘our Eternal Father never intended that you should be less than the crowning glory of His creations.’” How, as President Ballard taught, do our “different gifts, different strengths, and different points of view and inclinations” strengthen our efforts to partner more effectively with men both at home and at church? What can we do to build on each other’s strengths, show compassion, learn from and help each other along the path?

Jana Eubank – wife, mother, daughter, sister; marketing director at Simple Stories; Women’s Conference committee member Kevin Eubank – husband, father; bishop; chief meteorologist, KSL-TV

MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

9 • Put Off the Natural Man and Gather to the Family of God

King Benjamin taught that “the natural man is an enemy to God” (Mosiah 3:19). Elder Neal A. Maxwell explained that this is “because the natural man will keep God’s precious children from true and everlasting happiness.” We all have mortal tendencies that separate us from God, yet President Henry B. Eyring assured, “God the Father wants His children home again, in families and in glory.” It is through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, Elder Maxwell promised, that “we can have real and justified hope for the future—enough hope to develop the faith necessary to both put off the natural man and to strive to become more saintly.” How can we bring the power of the Savior’s Atonement into our lives to help us put off natural-man tendencies and be safely gathered? How can knowing our identity as a child of God help us triumph over the adversary’s efforts to keep us from His presence?

JoAnn Tominaga – wife, mother, grandmother, sister; Relief Society teacher; Faith-Family-Friends and a lot of food!

J.B. Haws – husband, father; associate dean, Religious Education, BYU

PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

8 • Equally Yoked in the Work of Salvation President M. Russell Ballard taught that “Men and women are equal in God’s eyes and in the eyes of the Church, but equal does not mean the same. The responsibilities and divine gifts of men and women differ in their nature but not in their importance or influence. Our Church doctrine places women equal to and yet different from men.

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Women’s Conference Sessions VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

10 • Look for the Good: Interfaith Efforts Our leaders encourage us to foster interfaith efforts, to serve shoulder to shoulder with members of other faiths. Apostle Orson F. Whitney stated, “God is using more than one people for the accomplishment of his great and marvelous work. . . . It is too vast, too arduous, for any one people.” We can love all of God’s children and lead out in civility while being true to our own beliefs. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland teaches that “When we look beyond people’s color, ethnic group, social circle, church, synagogue, mosque, creed, and statement of belief . . . we are thereby drawn into a closer union with that God who is the Father of us all.” What steps can we take to look for the good and appreciate the beautiful ways different people worship? How can we create loving, respectful, and truly friendly relationships with those of other faiths?

How can we identify common ground and serve together?

John R. Taylor – husband, father; works for Church communication department; stake president; former president of the Mexico Monterrey East Mission Amy Pickering Wylie – wife, mother; serves with husband as refugee specialists in inner city mission; member of African Refugee branch (Swahili speaking)

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 11:00 a.m.–noon

11 • Gathering as a Ward Sister Linda K. Burton quoted an old proverb, “Thee lift me and I’ll lift thee, and we’ll ascend together.” She then said, “Brothers and sisters, we need each other! As covenant-keeping women and men, we need to lift each other and help each other become the people the Lord would have us become.” Throughout the Church, members are organized into wards (or branches), with the leadership of bishops assisted by ward councils, to help us “lift each other” as we seek to further the work of salvation. Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf taught, “To help others is the path of discipleship. Faith, hope, love, compassion, and service refine us as disciples.” With shorter meeting blocks, how can we better lift our ward members on Sundays? Throughout the week, what can we do as individuals and families to strengthen unity and increase feelings of charity in our wards? How do we maintain contact, strengthen our relationships and effectively care for one another with limited time together?

Heidi Weight – wife, mother, grandmother; ward Primary second counselor; school teacher for 25+ years; presently teaches high school family and consumer sciences and child development for young mothers Janet Mitchell – willing, grateful, committed, patient, faithful, worthy, diligent, blessed, happy; disciple of Christ; ministering sister; wife, mother, grandmother; licensed clinical social worker

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 11:00 a.m.–noon

12 • “Hold On in His Love”:

Helping to Prevent Youth Suicide

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland encouraged, “Whatever your struggle, my brothers and sisters—mental or emotional or physical or otherwise— do not vote against the preciousness of life by ending it! Trust in God. Hold on in His love. Know that one day the dawn will break brightly and all shadows of mortality will flee. Though we may feel we are ‘like a broken vessel’ . . . we must remember, that vessel is in the hands of the divine potter. Broken minds can be healed just the way broken bones and broken hearts are healed. While God is at work making those repairs, the rest of us can help by being merciful, nonjudgmental, and kind.” How can understanding the Atonement of Jesus Christ provide strength to hold on to life? What Church resources are available to help those considering suicide? How can we minister compassionately to those contemplating or affected by suicide?

Keri Hermann – wife, mother, grandmother; child and adolescent psychiatrist, clinical director for pediatrics at The Utah State Hospital

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Greg Hudnall – husband, father; founder and executive director of Hope4UTAH and Hope Squads for suicide prevention; former high school principal and associate superintendent for Provo City School District

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2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 11:00 a.m.–noon

13 • Cuando algunos eligen no ser congregados en Cristo

El presidente Henry B. Eyring declaró: “Nuestro Padre Celestial está ansioso por congregar y bendecir a toda Su familia. Aunque sabe que no todos ellos escogerán ser congregados, Su plan da la oportunidad a cada uno de Sus hijos de aceptar o rechazar Su invitación; y las familias son esenciales en ese plan.” Cuando nuestros seres queridos escogen otros caminos o abandonan sus creencias o a su familia, podemos escoger permanecer cerca del Señor, y con Su ayuda respetar su albedrío con paciencia. El Salvador nos dice: “Yo soy el buen pastor y conozco mis ovejas, y las mías me conocen” (Juan 10:14). El presidente Eyring explica: “Él, que ve todas las cosas, cuyo amor es infinito y quien nunca duerme, vigila con nosotros. Él sabe lo que las ovejas necesitan en todo momento.” Él vela por todos y continúa amándonos y cuidándonos, y también a quienes amamos. ¿Cómo podemos vivir el segundo gran mandamiento de amar a los demás, aun a los que tienen diferentes actitudes y opiniones que son difíciles de entender? ¿Cómo puede el don de la gracia que da el Salvador ayudarnos a ministrar mejor a quienes eligen no ser congregados? ¿De qué manera hallamos paz en Cristo y sabemos que los que han dejado el camino del Evangelio están en Sus manos?

Effy Briseño – madre, abuela; ex maestra de Seminario; ex asistente al Setenta de Área para la Iniciativa de Autosuficiencia en Los Ángeles Miguel Giraldo – esposo, padre; consejero de obispado, ex obispo y ex consejero de presidencia de estaca en Venezuela; maestro de inmersión bilingüe en el distrito escolar Alpine; ex maestro de Seminario e Instituto; ex coordinador del programa del SEI

Concurrent Sessions 12:30–1:30 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

14 • Truth Is Truth President Russell M. Nelson has taught, “Truth is truth. Some things are simply true. The arbiter of truth is God—not your favorite social media news feed, not Google, and certainly not those who are disaffected from the Church. President Spencer W. Kimball taught that absolute truth cannot be ‘altered by the opinions of men. . . . If men are really humble, they will realize that they discover, but do not create, truth.’” President Nelson continued, “You may know for yourself what is true and what is not by learning to discern the whisperings of the Spirit. ‘For the Spirit speaketh the truth and lieth not.’” In Moroni 10:5, Moroni teaches, “And by the power of the Holy Ghost ye may know the truth of all things.” How can we teach our children to discern and choose between truth and error? How can we be strong enough to stand up and stand fast for the truth? How do we help our children recognize and understand this important principle?

Becky Craven – wife, mother, grandmother; second counselor, Young Women general presidency; executive board member, CHOICE Humanitarian; served with husband when he presided over the North Carolina Charlotte Mission Michelle D. Craig – wife, mother, grandmother; first counselor, Young Women general presidency; former member, Primary general board; returned missionary; former Women’s Conference committee member Bonnie H. Cordon – wife, mother, grandmother; Young Women general president; returned missionary; served with her husband when he presided over the Brazil Curitiba Mission

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Women’s Conference Sessions SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

gift of discernment help us to recognize and act appropriately when others use contention to control or manipulate?

15 • A Prophetic Plea to Women: “Shape the Future

Sharon Hiatt – happy second mom with great posterity; served two missions; temple worker, ministering sister, serves in a YSA branch; taught special education; loves leading Primary music

by Helping to Gather Scattered Israel”

President Spencer W. Kimball testified, “Much of the major growth that is coming to the Church in the last days will come because many of the good women of the world will be drawn to the Church in large numbers.

This will happen to the degree that the women of the Church reflect righteousness and articulateness in their lives and to the degree that the women of the Church are seen as distinct and different—in happy ways—from the women of the world.” President Russell M. Nelson has taught that we are the women President Kimball foresaw in his landmark 1979 prophecy. President Nelson declared, “Anytime you do anything that helps anyone . . . take a step toward making covenants with God and receiving their essential baptismal and temple ordinances, you are helping to gather Israel.” Why are women crucial in the gathering of Israel? How do we as women fulfill President Kimball’s prophecy in our sphere of influence? How will better understanding of our priesthood authority in callings, and access to priesthood power through covenant keeping, help us in our daily lives as we try to gather Israel?

Heidi Allsop – wife, mother, daughter, sister; counselor in stake Primary presidency; former ward Relief Society and Young Women president Susan R. Madsen – wife, mother, grandmother; professor of organizational leadership, UVU; founding director of the Utah Women & Leadership Project; author

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

16 • Forsaking Contention The meaning of the word forsake is to abandon or leave behind. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland taught, “Jesus has asked that we ‘live together in love’ (D&C 42:45) with ‘no disputations among you’ (3 Nephi 11:22). He warned the Nephites, ‘He that hath the spirit of contention is not of me . . .’ (3 Nephi 11:29). Indeed, to a great degree, our relationship to Christ will be determined—or at least affected—by our relationship to each other.” The Lord revealed to Joseph Smith that one of the reasons the gospel was restored was “that there may not be so much contention” (D&C 10:63). President Henry B. Eyring explains, “Our Heavenly Father wants our hearts to be knit together. That union in love is not simply an ideal. It is a necessity.” Seeking the Lord’s help in controlling negative feelings and overcoming differences can help us change destructive habits and patterns of behavior, thus drawing us closer to others and to the Lord. What can we learn from the Savior’s teachings and example to help us forsake contention? How can we apply these doctrinal truths in our marriage and family situations? How can the

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Julie Haupt – mother; associate teaching professor, School of Family Life, BYU; ward Relief Society president; runs nonprofit that works with youth in the US and China

DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

17 • Raising Resilient Children by Being Resilient Parents

Elder Lynn G. Robbins said, “But in truth, youth are inundated with challenges, trials, and temptation that previous generations never faced. The good news is that youth today are exceptional. . . . The bad news is that Satan knows this as well. He is doing all in his power to derail, detract, diminish, and destroy these noble members of the Lord’s team. . . . Our charge as nurturing parents is to help prepare them to meet those challenges head-on by cultivating and encouraging their resilience, faith, and fortitude. With powerful gospel principles to assist us, we can help youth strengthen their resilience, enabling them to become more like the Savior by “increas[ing] in wisdom [intellectually] and stature [physically], and in favour with God [spiritually] and man [socially and emotionally]” (Luke 2:52). How can we use gospel principles on a daily basis to teach our children resilience? How can a correct understanding of agency, self-worth, repentance, learning from failure and perseverance help parents and children learn resilience? In what ways can we strengthen and practice resiliency ourselves as we manage life’s stresses and model resiliency for our children?

Toni Carlson – wife, mother; Primary president; former ward and stake Young Wsomen president; BYU graduate in health and biology; junior high school biology teacher Jennifer Beck Carter – wife and mother who has lived in Boston, Manhattan, Connecticut, and San Francisco; returned missionary; BYU graduate; former seminary and math teacher; PTA and town council member; loves cooking, tennis, and playing piano

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AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

18 • Divorce, Death, Blended Families, and the Sealing Covenant

When the hoped-for lifelong marriage is not our reality, it can be easy to assume we have failed or that we have been deprived of a necessary mortal experience. But President Henry B. Eyring helps us better understand that all of our earth life is “preparation for eternal life in loving families.” Members who have divorced but remain worthy of the sealing covenant retain all the magnificent and eternal blessings promised in that ordinance. It can be confusing to understand why the sealing is not cancelled and what that means in the eyes of the church and in our own or our children’s lives. How can we better understand the glorious blessings of the sealing covenant? How does the sealing ordinance continue to bless a covenant-keeping member following divorce, a spouse’s death, and/or a remarriage?

Marie K. Hafen – wife, mother, grandmother; former St. George temple matron and member, Young Women general board; author Bruce C. Hafen – husband, father, grandfather; emeritus member, Quorum of the Seventy; former St. George temple president and BYU provost; author

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

19 • When Some Choose Not to Be Gathered to Christ President Henry B. Eyring stated, “Our Heavenly Father is anxious to gather and bless all of His family. While He knows that not all of them will choose to be gathered, His plan gives each of His children the opportunity to accept or reject His invitation. And families are at the heart of this plan.” When loved ones choose other paths or forsake beliefs or families, we can choose to remain close to the Lord, and with His help patiently respect their agency. The Savior tells us that, “I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep, and am known of mine.” (John 10:14). President Eyring explains, “He who sees all things, whose love is endless, and who never sleeps—He watches with us. He knows what the sheep need at every moment.” He watches over all and continues to love and care for us and those we love. How can we live the second great commandment to love others, even those with different attitudes and opinions that are difficult to understand? How can the Savior’s gift of grace assist us to better minister to those who choose not to be gathered? How do we find peace in Christ and know that those who have left the gospel path are in His hands?”

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

20 • “The Lord of the Vineyard Labored Also with Them” (Jacob 5:72)

Elder D. Todd Christofferson expressed, “While we strive to be diligent in building up Zion, including our part in the gathering of the Lord’s elect and the redemption of the dead, we should pause to remember that it is the Lord’s work and He is doing it. He is the Lord of the vineyard, and we are His servants.” As we strive for truth and righteousness, we should remember the Savior leads His Church, and when we gather round the standard bearers He has appointed, we can also labor in His vineyard under His guidance and care. How can our testimony of Christ and His chosen servants grow as we choose to follow Him valiantly and go and do? How can we develop the courage and faith necessary to stand strong and firm in the face of opposition to the Lord’s work? What can we do to help others join the Lord in the gathering of His children?

Shawna Borg – wife, boy mom; former member, Women’s Conference committee and service subcommittee chair; served a mission in Austria; BYU graduate; grateful optimist Julie Olson – homemaker; teacher; friend; wife, mother of many (though not as many as my grandma); lived for 26 years on Long Island, New York, where she loved serving with the Saints; gospel student

PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

21 • Dating and Marriage: Preparation and Good Choices

Elder Robert D. Hales taught, “Dating and marriage aren’t final destinations. They are the gateway to where you ultimately want to go.”

Temple sealing covenants with their instruction and promises point us to eternal blessings in store for us and our future posterity as we honor our covenants. Although young adults in the Church are encouraged to make dating and marriage a priority and to seek a companion worthy to go to the temple, in society the priority of marriage is declining and divorces are increasing, even among newlyweds. What teaching strategies can we use to help our children learn to make wise choices in dating and courtship? In what ways can we be examples of the lasting joy of temple marriage? How do we trust the Lord’s timing if the blessings of dating and marriage do not come when they anticipate?

How does faith in Christ’s love for us assure that the blessings will come as we remain faithful and worthy? What are ways to better prepare young men and young women for successful marriages?

Sue Samson Peterson – wife, mother, grandmother; stake Relief Society president; writer

Laura Morrin – wife, mother, grandmother, friend; temple worker; loves to walk, loves to serve; learning Portuguese

Julie Harps – has a passion for people; former teacher, now works in higher education

Brian Willoughby – husband, father; associate professor, School of Family Life, BYU; expert in healthy relationship formation and family process

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Women’s Conference Sessions Salote Tukuafu – mother, grandmother; member, Primary general board; former stake Relief Society president and stake Primary president; service missionary, translating documents from Tonga for Church archives; served mission to Tonga; Women’s Conference committee member

VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

23 • Gathering Families through the Truths Taught in the Family Proclamation

MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

22 • “Circle of Sisterhood”: Blessed by Diversity In 1980, a group of Czechoslovakian women sent a message through President Boyd K. Packer to their Relief Society sisters throughout the world: “A small circle of sisters send their own hearts and thoughts to all the sisters and begs the Lord to help us go forward.” President Packer said, “Those words, circle of sisters, inspired me. I could see them standing in a circle that reached beyond that room and circled the world.” The Church of Jesus Christ is a global church that unites people of great diversity. Each is cherished by Heavenly Parents. Each has part in the atonement of Jesus Christ. Each should be valued by every other member. How can our shared faith and covenants lead us naturally to respect, embrace, and love each other, celebrating our diversity and valuing differences? In what ways can these differences bless us personally, strengthen the Church, and help to gather Israel?

Lita Little Giddins (moderator) – wife, mother; convert; returned missionary; first African-American female member of BYU Young Ambassadors; therapist; Women’s Conference committee member; a “Jesus activist” Jamie Glenn – aunt, sister, friend; retired from Church employment; Church-service missionary at LDS Business College; Women’s Conference Committee member Perpetua Lynne Nielsen – mother, grandmother; BYU statistics professor; Relief Society teacher; grew up in the Philippines; Women’s Conference committee member

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When we speak of the gathering, President Henry B. Eyring taught, “[God] ordained a plan by which we would come to earth, in families, and have experiences that would prepare us to return to Him and live as He lives.” Families are the foundation of the gathering. President M. Russell Ballard taught, “We often speak about the family proclamation, but please remember to read it in light of the saving power of the living Christ. Without the living Christ, our fondest expectations will be unfulfilled. As the family proclamation states: ‘The divine plan of happiness enables family relationships to be perpetuated beyond the grave. Sacred ordinances and covenants available in holy temples make it possible for individuals to return to the presence of God and for families to be united eternally.’” This proclamation remains a resolute beacon of truth to us and to the world. How can studying and following the family proclamation help to strengthen and gather our family? How do the truths taught in the family proclamation gather us to Christ? What can we do to apply the principles of the family proclamation as we reach out and gather the family of God? Annie Godfrey – wife, mother; please address her as Mrs. Dr. Kory Godfrey, RDH (Dental Hygiene); “Gangsta” Young Women president Kory Godfrey – husband, father; ward choir director; department chair, BYU–Idaho; assistant scoutmaster for community unit (yes, Boy Scouts still exists)

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

24 • “He Won’t Forget Your Work”: Early Returning Missionaries

Returning home from the mission field before one’s release date, regardless of the reason, can be a difficult transition. Speaking to early returned missionaries, President Thomas S. Monson said, “The Lord loves you. . . . He is aware of your disappointment. Know that He still has a work for you to do. Don’t let Satan tell you otherwise.”

Heavenly Father appreciates the service rendered, no matter how long or short the period. An early returned missionary testified, “Maybe your full-time mission ended earlier than planned, but there’s another

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mission for you, and if you trust in God and follow Him, He will help you find it” (July 2019 Ensign). How can loved ones, neighbors, friends and ward members support early returning missionaries to meet their challenges, stay true, and keep optimistic? How can we create a loving atmosphere where they can heal and adjust? What opportunities and possibilities are available to help them continue to contribute and participate in the gathering?

Janeal Irving – wife, mother, grandmother; homemaker; Primary teacher; former elementary school teacher; motto: “Cheer and bless and brighten” Stephen Diederich – husband, father; Gospel Doctrine teacher; former bishop; works in Human Resources at Zions Bank; served missions in Austria, Deseret Industries, and Portland, Oregon

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

25 • Drawing Others to the Savior through Your Example

Speaking of our responsibility to share the gospel, Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf said, “What I am asking is that you always look for opportunities to bring up your faith in natural and normal ways with people—both in person as well as online. I am asking that you ‘stand as witnesses’ of the power of the gospel at all times—and when necessary, use words. . . . Your role is to share what is in your heart and live consistent with your beliefs.” President Russell M. Nelson said, “Your virtue, light, love, knowledge, courage, character, faith, and righteous lives will draw good women of the world, along with their families, to the Church in unprecedented numbers!” The Lord needs you in whatever sphere you are in to be an example of gospel living. In what ways can “non-traditional” missionary work such as kindness, respect, civility, good neighborliness, and living gospel truths help influence and advance the work? How can we have confidence when talking to others about the gospel? How can we recognize and reach out to those who are ready to receive the restored gospel?

2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

26 • Darse el tiempo para conversar:

La comunicación en el matrimonio

El élder Marvin J. Ashton enseñó que la comunicación caracterizada por el amor se aprende mediante la disposición a sacrificarse, a escuchar, a expresar los sentimientos, así como mediante la determinación de no juzgar, de guardar confidencias y de practicar la paciencia. Añadió que “la comunicación es algo más que simplemente compartir palabras. Se trata de compartir en forma sabia las emociones, sentimientos y preocupaciones, de dar totalmente de uno mismo.” Ese tipo de comunicación puede ayudar a los esposos y las esposas a mantener un matrimonio fuerte y sano, a crear unidad y respeto el uno por el otro, y a encontrar soluciones compartidas a los asuntos importantes de la familia y de la pareja. ¿En qué forma el entender las diferencias entre la manera en que los hombres y las mujeres se comunican puede fortalecer la relación matrimonial? ¿Cómo podemos tratar los desacuerdos y las diferencias con amabilidad en vez de con palabras negativas y ofensivas? ¿De qué manera los dispositivos electrónicos pueden mejorar la buena comunicación y la conversación? ¿En qué formas podemos aprovechar el tiempo que pasamos juntos para fortalecer el matrimonio y deliberar en consejo con armonía y amor?

Maria Luisa Torres – esposa, madre, abuela; graduada de la Universidad de Utah; miembro del Comité de la Iniciativa Hispana; presta servicio en el primer barrio hispano de JAS; ex miembro de la mesa general de la Sociedad de Socorro; prestó servicio en una misión con su esposo cuando él presidió la Misión Guatemala Norte David J. Torres – esposo, padre, abuelo; profesor; miembro del obispado del barrio Río Vista (de JAS hispanohablantes); ex presidente de la Misión Guatemala Norte

Ada S. Wilson – wife, mother, grandmother; Sunday School teacher, temple worker; companion as husband presided over the Washington Everett Mission; local school board member Diana Hasler Hoelscher – wife, mother; author, speaker; returned missionary; ward Young Women president; seminary teacher; cast as eight-year-old boys in cartoons because of trademark voice; likes all things girly except salad!

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Women’s Conference Sessions Concurrent Sessions 2:00–3:00 p.m.

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

Nephi “desired to know” for himself what the Lord had revealed to his father (1 Nephi 2:16, 10:17, 11:1). We are each invited to seek personal revelation to learn, to strengthen our own testimonies, and to build the Lord’s kingdom. President Russell M. Nelson said, “I urge you to stretch beyond your current spiritual ability. . . . Oh, there is so much more that your Father in Heaven wants you to know.” But knowing is not enough: James wrote, “But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only” (James 1:22). As we live the gospel, we will, as Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf promised, “become the person we were designed to become.”

President Nelson, speaking directly to the sisters of the Church said, “I urge you, with all the hope of my heart, to pray to understand your spiritual gifts—to cultivate, use, and expand them, even more than you ever have. You will change the world as you do so.” How can increasing our spiritual abilities strengthen our conversion to Jesus Christ and His gospel? On our personal path of conversion, how can we recognize our progress and receive direction to move forward? How can both our testimonies and our examples invite others to come to the Savior?

27 • Hearts Knit Together in Unity Relief Society is a global community of diverse women, and all are needed. All covenant women—from every walk of life, every geography, culture, generation, and circumstance—are not only welcomed, but crucially needed to help gather Israel. “As women participate in Relief Society, they serve as valiant disciples of Jesus Christ in the work of salvation. . . . Sister Julie B. Beck, the fifteenth Relief Society general president, taught, ‘Through Relief Society we practice being disciples of Christ. We learn what He would have us learn, we do what He would have us do, and we become what He would have us become” (Daughters in My Kingdom). How can we “rejoice with each other, listen to each other, learn from each other, and help each other” (Sister Chieko Okazaki)? What are some practical ways to truly knit our hearts together in love and charity? How can we make our Relief Societies organizations that welcome, depend upon, and embrace the talents and gifts of all sisters?

Reyna I. Aburto – wife, mother, grandmother; second counselor, Relief Society general presidency; former member, Primary general board; translator; native of Nicaragua Sharon Eubank – first counselor, Relief Society general presidency; director, Latter-day Saint Charities; family member Jean B. Bingham – wife, mother, grandmother; Relief Society general president; former first counselor, Primary general presidency; former Primary general board member; former English as a Second Language teacher

28 • “I Will Be What I Believe”

Kandyce Ciarrocchi – wife; recent convert; ward missionary John Bytheway – husband, father; author; master’s degree in religious education; returned missionary; part-time instructor, BYU Salt Lake Center; BYU Education Week instructor

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

29 • Taking Time to Talk: Communication in Marriage Elder Marvin J. Ashton taught that loving communication is learned through a willingness to sacrifice, listen, vocalize feelings, avoid judgment, maintain confidences, and practice patience. He added that, “communication is more than a sharing of words. It is the wise sharing of emotions, feelings, and concerns. It is the sharing of oneself totally.” This kind of communication can help husbands and wives keep marriages strong and healthy, build unity and respect for one another, and find shared solutions for important family and couple concerns. How can understanding the differences between how men and women communicate strengthen marriage relationships? How can we manage disagreements and differences in a kind way rather than with negative or offensive words? How can our electronic devices enhance good communication and conversation? In what ways can we take advantage of “together time” to strengthen marriage and counsel in harmony and love?

Katrina Christensen – wife, mother; Primary chorister and activity days coordinator; interested in sewing, cooking, music, painting, and creating

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Brent Christensen – husband, father; elders quorum president; financial professional; loves fishing, hiking, and anything outdoors; always learning new skills and hobbies

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DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

Marilee Killpack – wife, mother; founder of Gathre; BYU graduate; “AllIn” podcast participant sharing how one son needed a bone marrow transplant and another son saved his life

30 • “Bring Up Your Children in Light and Truth” (D&C 93:40)

Sister Joy D. Jones taught, “The Lord has specifically instructed parents to teach their children ‘to understand the doctrine of repentance, faith in Christ the Son of the living God, and of baptism and the gift of the Holy Ghost’ and ‘to pray, and to walk uprightly before the Lord.’” President James E. Faust once shared, “The Lord has directed, ‘Bring up your children in light and truth’ (D&C 93:40).

To me, there is no more important human effort.” He added, “The little things are the big things sewn into the family tapestry by a thousand threads of love, faith, discipline, sacrifice, patience, and work.” What little things can help us build harmony, happiness, peace, and love in our home to help give children the required inner strength to cope with life’s challenges? How do we learn to respond, rather than react, to our child’s behavior in a purposeful and deliberate way that teaches skills and nurtures connection? What truths has Heavenly Father given us that will help us bring up our children in light and truth?

Maren Daines – wife, mother; attorney; advised on child development policy and practice for international fellowship program; served as a research analyst for United Way and the EveryDay Strong program; currently developing resources for parents for the Church Ryan Eggett – husband, father; PhD, Educational Psychology; religion teacher, Utah Valley Institute; music director, Provo MTC choir; member, Children’s Songbook Selection committee

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

32 • Increasing Our Spiritual Capacity to Receive Revelation

President Russell M. Nelson has taught us about the importance and blessing of receiving revelation, stating, “The privilege of receiving revelation is one of the greatest gifts of God to His children.” He invited, “I plead with you to increase your spiritual capacity to receive revelation. . . . Choose to do the spiritual work required to enjoy the gift of the Holy Ghost and hear the voice of the Spirit more frequently and clearly.” Sister Michelle D. Craig spoke of the personal nature of revelation when she said, “As His faithful disciple, you can receive personal inspiration and revelation, consistent with His commandments, that is tailored to you.” What can we do personally to respond to our prophet’s plea and increase our spiritual capacity?

How can we learn to recognize the presence of the Holy Ghost in our lives? How do we discern the difference between our own thoughts and revelation? In what ways can we, as Sister Craig taught, “be intentional about creating time and space to hear God’s voice”?

Janet Jenks – wife, mother, grandmother; served mission with husband to Kiribati Jeanne N. Burgon – disciple of Jesus Christ; wife, mother, grandmother; instructor of Ancient Scripture, BYU; former Church curriculum writing committee member; writer; Women’s Conference committee member

31 • Receiving the Tender Mercies of the Lord Nephi declared that “the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith” (1 Nephi 1:20).

Elder David A. Bednar explained that “the Lord’s tender mercies are the very personal and individualized blessings, strength, protection, assurances, guidance, loving-kindnesses, consolation, support, and spiritual gifts which we receive from and because of and through the Lord Jesus Christ.” They are evidence of His love and commitment to us. Sometimes we may not recognize a tender mercy because it is different than what we wanted. What can we do to better recognize and receive the Lord’s tender mercies in our lives? How can we be more grateful and willing receivers? How does acknowledging the Lord’s tender mercies help us increase our faith in Him? Shelly Edwards Jorgensen – wife, stepmother, grandmother; temple worker; BYU manufacturing engineering graduate; author; trauma survivor after losing her mother at a young age lead her to the Gospel

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Women’s Conference Sessions PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

34 • Trust in the Lord

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

33 • The Prophet Is Leading the Gathering The work of gathering Israel is the Lord’s work. As figuratively expressed in Zenos’s allegory of the olive tree, He is “the master of the vineyard.” He calls a servant to assist Him and to direct other laborers in the work of “the vineyard” (see Jacob 5). President Russell M. Nelson is that servant today. He holds the keys of the gathering. President Nelson has rallied children, youth, women, and men to “the greatest challenge, the greatest cause, and the greatest work on earth today!”

In his prophetic role, President Nelson is continually urging saints to prepare themselves and others for the Second Coming of Christ.

What specific instructions and invitations has President Nelson given that we can strive to follow as individuals and families? As the Lord’s prophet, what promised blessings has President Nelson identified for all those who help to gather Israel? What is the connection between obedience to prophetic counsel and promised blessings?

Patrick Degn – husband, father; instructor, Seminaries and Institutes of Religion; Primary teacher Carol Costley – wife, mother, grandmother; MSW from BYU; works with inmates transitioning from prison after mental health and substance abuse issues; member, Young Women general board

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Elder Jeffrey R. Holland said, “Everyone meets affliction in mortality.

Everyone knows some sorrow. Everyone experiences disappointments, even despair, and looks for ways to bear up and keep on going. The answer for all times and all seasons is to ‘trust Jesus.’” Alma taught his son Helaman and us, “I do know that whosoever shall put their trust in God shall be supported in their trials, and their troubles, and their afflictions, and shall be lifted up at the last day” (Alma 36:3). Sister Bonnie H. Cordon taught, “Sisters, remember, in our premortal life we stood with the Savior. We trusted Him. We voiced our support, enthusiasm, and joy for the plan of happiness set forth by our Heavenly Father. . . . Once again we have the sacred responsibility to stand as a witness and put our trust in the Lord.” What can we do to increase our trust in the Lord so that we trust “with all our hearts” (Proverbs 3:5)? How can we keep trusting during difficult times or when prayers seem to go unanswered? How does trusting in the Lord allow our trials to “give [us] experience” and “be for [our] good” (D&C 122:7)?

Leslie Soderberg – wife, mother; RNMSN; recently retired nurse of 40 years at Primary Children’s hospital; Sunday School teacher Kelly Wosnik – nurse practitioner; founder, CCD Smiles and Bristol Health; former ward Young Women president and temple worker; 2019 BYU School of Nursing outstanding alumni Tangiteina Paletu’a Kinikini – mother; missionary; Relief Society president; genealogist; family history specialist; author

MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

35 • Our Personal Journey Towards Christ Sister Jean B. Bingham taught, “Lasting joy is found in focusing on our Savior, Jesus Christ, and living the gospel as demonstrated and taught by Him. The more we learn about, have faith in, and emulate Jesus Christ, the more we come to understand that He is the source of all healing, peace, and eternal progress. He invites each of us to come unto Him, an invitation that President Henry B. Eyring has characterized as ‘the most important invitation anyone could accept.’”

Sister Becky Craven also invites “each of us to seek the guidance of the Holy Ghost to know what adjustments we need to make in our lives to be more carefully aligned with our covenants. I also plead with you not to be critical of others making this same journey. . . . We are each in the process of growth and change.” As we draw near unto Him, He will draw near unto us (D&C 88:63). What can we do to strengthen our personal conviction to follow Christ and “not be critical of others on the same journey”? How do we center our lives around Him and

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A wonderful collection of talks selected from the 2019 BYU Women’s Conference, Seeking Jesus, shows us how we can use the promise of the gospel and the pattern of Christ’s Atonement to strengthen each other and ourselves.

Contributors to this collection include: Elder D. Todd Christofferson • Kathy Christofferson • Jean B. Bingham • Sharon Eubank Reyna I. Aburto • Joy D. Jones • Lisa L. Harkness • Cristina B. Franco • Julie B. Beck Martha Darger Carrington • Michelle D. Craig • Laurel C. Day • Lita Little Giddins Tyler J. Griffin • Rebecca Mehr • Lee Anne Pope

Available online, on the Deseret Book Bookshelf, visit deseretbook.com

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April 30–May 1, 2020 134 Richards Building

Waiver required 18+ years

FREE to all Women’s Conference attendees

THURSDAY 16–17 years

6:30–7:30am ZUMBA

FRIDAY 6:30–7:30am HIGH

T-shirts $15 at the RB 112 window

7–8pm STRONG studentwellness.byu.edu

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EVENING SHUTTLES Thursday, 4:00–11:00 p.m.: BLUE, BROWN, PINK, PURPLE, *ORANGE (*ends at 8:00 p.m.)

Friday, 4:00–6:00 p.m.: PINK, BLUE, BROWN, PURPLE

DAYTIME SHUTTLES: 9:30 a.m.–4:00 p.m.: PINK, RED, GREEN, ORANGE Limited shuttles will also run the BLUE, BROWN, and PURPLE routes during both days.

MORNING SHUTTLES: 7:30–9:30 a.m.: PINK, BLUE, BROWN, PURPLE

TIMES:

ORANGE route: MC  WSC  MC On-call routes: Wyview and Bulldog lots; call number posted on sign in lot during times listed below.

GREEN route: MC  near JSB  MC

RED route: MC  HFAC  MC

BROWN route: MC  Stadium Parking  MC

PURPLE route: MC  Provo High  Stadium Parking  MC

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ROUTES:

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PLEASE continue to exhibit kindness, consideration, and patience when parking and using the shuttle service. Your actions can and do affect the experiences of other attendees. When using the shuttles, plan for an extra 20–30 minutes to get from the parking lots to the Marriott Center.

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Please give preference to seniors and those with mobility issues. See page 11 for information on conference parking, wheelchair van, and disability parking.

COURTESY SHUTTLES run the routes shown below to the stops indicated with bus icons.

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Come enjoy a great dining experience at The Commons. We offer all-you-care- toeat from six different food platforms, which include the following: a salad and fruit bar, pasta, entrée choices, burgers, soups, waffles, desserts, and more. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/cannon

Don’t lose your parking spot to drive around looking for a restaurant. Stay at the Marriott Center and enjoy great food without the hassle. Choose from sandwiches, entreés, salads, BYU brownies, and more. Also enjoy food booths from outside restaurants and food trucks. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/concessions

Social gatherings and great food fill the Cougareat. You’ll find Aloha Plate, Subway, Chick-fil-A, Choices, Wendy’s, Papa John’s, Cougar Café, Jamba Juice, Cougar Express, Milk & Cookies, and Taco Bell. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/cougareat

Enjoy lunch and appeal to your finer tastes with quiches, fruit, sandwiches, salads, soups, breads, and entrées at this bistro cuisine café located in the Museum of Art. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/moacafe

LOCATION: Helaman Halls, Cannon Commons

LOCATION: Marriott Center

LOCATION: Wilkinson Student Center

LOCATION: Museum of Art

WOMEN’S CONFERENCE HOURS: Thu.–Sat. (Breakfast) 6:30–9:00 a.m.

Thu.–Fri. (Lunch) 11:00 a.m.–1:30 p.m.

Wed.–Fri. (Dinner) 4:30–7:30 p.m.

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Let your taste buds tackle the flavor of BYU. Choose from specialty salads, hearth-baked pizzas, salmon, chicken, oven-toasted sandwiches, and much more. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/legendsgrille

Enjoy a spectacular view of campus while you partake of our chef-inspired international buffet at our national, award-winning restaurant located on the sixth floor of the WSC. To see what menu the Chef has created, visit: dining.byu.edu/skyroom

Fill up on an all-American meal of hamburgers, fries, and milkshakes in a ’50s-style atmosphere. When you’re finished, stock up on groceries with a variety of fresh fruits, vegetables, meats, bakery items, and household products.

For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/creamery

LOCATION: Student Athlete Building

LOCATION: Wilkinson Student Center, 6th floor

LOCATION: 1200 North 900 East

HOURS: Thu. 11:00 a.m.–3:30 p.m.

Thu. Buffet 5:00 p.m.–7:30 p.m.

Fri. 11:00 a.m.–2:00 p.m.

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Enjoy a refreshing Jamba Juice any time of day. Choose from a variety of delicious fruit combinations. For menu information, visit: dining.byu.edu/jambajuice LOCATION: 8a–Wilkinson Student Center, 2nd floor 8b–Student Athlete Building HOURS: Wilkinson Student Center Thu. 8:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Fri. 8:00 a.m.–7:00 p.m.

Student Athlete Building Thu. 9:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Fri. 9:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m.

11:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

11:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Ice Cream April 30 7:00 a.m.–10:00 p.m May 1 7:00 a.m.–11:00 p.m.

Located off University Parkway, Campus Floral is a convenient choice for all of your floral needs. Pick up fresh flowers for any occasion. When you really want to impress, pair flowers with any of our fine jewelry or other assorted gifts. We deliver anywhere in the continental United States.

Please visit: campusfloral.byu.edu

Come enjoy good company and great food, including salads, sandwiches, and specialty drinks.

LOCATION: 685 E University Pkwy

LOCATION: Wilkinson Student Center, 1st floor

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For more information about The Wall, visit: thewall.byu.edu

7:45 a.m.–11:00 p.m.

7:45 a.m.–midnight

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LOCATION: Southwest corner of the BYU Store HOURS: Wed. Thu. Fri. Sat.

Low-priced milk, fresh bread, and famous Creamery ice cream are just a quick walk away at the creameries at Wyview, Helaman Halls, and the Creamery Outlet.

Enjoy friendly service and other delicious dairy and snack items. For more information, visit: dining.byu.edu/creamery

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Cosmo’s Mini Mart offers an enticing selection of breakfast, lunch, and dinner options available early and late. Find delicious sandwiches, pizza, chips, drinks, and more. Whether you are looking for a snack or a meal, or you need that toothbrush, shampoo, or Kleenex that you forgot to pack, you’ll find it here! Please visit: byustore.com

7:30 a.m.–6:00 p.m.

7:30 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

7:30 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

9:00 a.m.–6:00 p.m.

10:30 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

Dining Services Chef Driven, Student Powered dining.byu.edu 801-422-4935

Creamery Outlet: Located in the Culinary Support Center Thurs.–Fri. 7:00 a.m.–9:00 p.m.

Helaman Halls: Located next to Cannon Commons Thurs.–Fri. 7:00 a.m.–10:00 p.m.

Wyview Housing Area: 1700 North 950 East Thurs.–Fri. 9:00 a.m.–9:00 p.m.

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continue to be faithful? How does emulating the Savior’s attributes build our faith in him and help us come to know him better?

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

Christy Spencer – believer, friendly introvert; returned missionary; writer; nature lover; covenant keeper; former LDS Humanitarian employee; current child wrangler and infatuated wife

37 • The Great Plan of Happiness: Heavenly Father’s

Christine Van Wagenen – living life with purpose, light, and charm; inviting others to know the value and power that comes from finding and then choosing true happiness

VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

36 • Successfully Gathering a Blended Family Blended families face unique challenges in gathering because of new surroundings, emotions, and relationships. The Family: A Proclamation to the World states, “Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities.” These principles are also important in the effort to successfully blend families. Speaking of his childhood, Elder Robert E. Wells shared, “Our ‘blended family’ was successful because we were given love and respect as well as opportunities to serve and sacrifice.”

Later, he and his second wife, Helen, successfully blended their families. To others, Elder Wells stated that “the hoped-for ‘happily ever after’ can come to a blended family only through a lot of hard work, prayer, patience, and persistence.” How can we apply the principles of the family proclamation to increase unity in our families? What resources are available to help blended families with their challenges?

How can we help each family member feel valued, respected, and loved?

Kristin Gerdy Kyle – wife, stepmother; former ward Relief Society president; teaching professor, BYU Law School; Women’s Conference committee member Calee Reed Adams – wife, mother, stepmother; singer; map enthusiast; cookie connoisseur; lover of therapy

Plan of Love

As individuals gather through covenants, they learn of Heavenly Father’s plan of happiness, of Jesus Christ’s central role in that plan, and of Their love for each of us. Sister Neill F. Marriott has said, “We must understand that God the Father directed His Son, Jesus Christ, to create the earth for our growth, that Heavenly Father gave His Son to pay the demands of justice for our salvation, and that the Father’s priesthood power and the Son’s true Church with the necessary ordinances were restored for our blessings. Can you feel the depth of love running through Their preparations for our joy and growth?” What is the connection between our continued study of the plan of happiness and our ability to keep an eternal perspective?

How does this perspective give us strength and comfort through life’s challenges? How does faith in the plan help us to feel the love of Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ in our lives?

Ashley Baird – wife, mother; triple negative stage 4 breast cancer survivor Jana Winters Parkin – wife, mother, grandmother; joyful ward choir director; ardent student of the scriptures; personal essayist; graphic designer; fine artist specializing in watercolor; adjunct art professor at UVU; cookbook author/illustrator

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

38 • The Sabbath: A Dedicated Day When the Lord gave the commandment to honor the Sabbath day, He also explained why: “for it is a sign between me and you throughout your generations” (Exodus 31:13). President Russell M. Nelson shared, “[When] I learned from the scriptures that my conduct and my attitude on the Sabbath constituted a sign between me and my Heavenly Father . . . I no longer needed lists of dos and don’ts. When I had to make a decision whether or not an activity was appropriate for the Sabbath, I simply asked myself, ‘What sign do I want to give to God?’ That question made my choices about the Sabbath day crystal clear.”

What changes might we need to make in our Sabbath observance to dedicate the day to God? How can our choices on the Sabbath day help us gather ourselves, our families, and others in Christ?

Jennifer Coleman – wife, mother; stake Young Women president; loves yoga, sewing, missionaries, temple traveling, music, laughing, and sweet rolls Lynette Bowen – wife of Elder Shayne M. Bowen of the Seventy, mother; served with husband when he presided over the Spain Barcelona Mission

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Women’s Conference Sessions 2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

39 • Los tesoros espirituales de la adoración en el templo

El profeta José Smith explicó que “el objeto [principal] del recogimiento del […] pueblo de Dios en cualquier época del mundo […] era edificar una casa al Señor en la cual Él pudiera revelar a Su pueblo las ordenanzas de Su casa y las glorias de Su reino.” En la actualidad, el presidente Russell M. Nelson ha dicho: “Espero que las hermanas comprendan los tesoros espirituales que son suyos en el templo.” El Señor mismo nos dice: “… me manifestaré a mi pueblo en misericordia en esta casa” (D. y C. 110:7). ¿Cómo podemos aumentar nuestra comprensión de los tesoros espirituales, el poder y la importancia de la adoración en el templo en nuestro progreso eterno? ¿De qué manera puede nuestra adoración en el templo aumentar nuestra fe en el Salvador y nuestra dedicación a Él? ¿En qué forma se nos manifiesta el Salvador en el templo?

Maria Paspuel – Ecuatoriana; conversa; exmisionera; líder de expediciónes para CHOICE Humanitarian; coordinadora de eventos; entusiasta de actividades al aire libre; exploradora del mundo; tía preferida; gastrónoma; comité de actividades Nery Muller – originaria de Argentina; esposa, madre, abuela; hermana ministrante; gerente de proyectos de localización, PSD (traducción); ex asistente al director del coro y administrador de Luz de las Naciones en la Manzana del Templo

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Thursday Afternoon General Session MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 3:45–5:00 p.m.

The Continuing Restoration and the Gathering of Israel Kate Holbrook – wife, mother; managing historian in women’s history for the Church History Department; PhD in Religious Studies

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Friday Morning General Session MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 9:00–10:15 a.m.

Sister to Sister Event Reyna I. Aburto – wife, mother, grandmother; second counselor, Relief Society general presidency; former member, Primary general board; translator; native of Nicaragua Becky Craven – wife, mother, grandmother; second counselor, Young Women general presidency; executive board member, CHOICE Humanitarian; served with husband when he presided over the North Carolina Charlotte Mission Lisa L. Harkness – wife, mother, grandmother; first counselor, Primary general presidency; former member, Primary general board Tracy Browning – wife, mother; client service director, Church Publishing Services department; member, Relief Society general board

of knowledge to know how to draw upon that power.” He also explains that “every time you worthily serve and worship in the temple, you leave armed with God’s power and with His angels having ‘charge over’ you” (D&C 109:22). How can we deepen our understanding of the temple endowment? What godly powers and gifts can be ours through honoring sacred temple covenants, and what does that look like in our daily lives? How can drawing upon priesthood power help us personally and in gathering others safely in Christ?

Barbara Morgan Gardner – wife, mother; associate religion professor, BYU; PhD; Higher Education Chaplain; member, Correlation Committee; author Priesthood Power of Women; former Seminaries and Institutes teacher and director Rosemary Wixom – wife, mother, grandmother; former Primary general president; former matron of Salt Lake City Temple

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 11:00 a.m.–noon

41 • Gather to Be Perfected but Not Perfect Elder Jeffrey R. Holland explained, “My brothers and sisters, except for Jesus, there have been no flawless performances on this earthly journey we are pursuing, so while in mortality let’s strive for steady improvement without obsessing over what behavioral scientists call ‘toxic perfectionism.’” He continued, “every one of us aspires to a more Christlike life than we often succeed in living. If we admit that honestly and are trying to improve, we are not hypocrites; we are human. If we persevere, then somewhere in eternity our refinement will be finished and complete—which is the New Testament meaning of perfection.”

Elder Gerrit W. Gong taught that “our campfire of faith can encourage us to remember perfection is in Christ, not in ourselves or in the perfectionism of the world.” How does the assurance “that by his grace ye may be perfect in Christ” (Moroni 10:32) provide comfort, peace and promise that we can continue forward even when mistakes are made? How does faith in the doctrine of repentance and the plan of redemption help us as we strive for steady improvement?

Gaylamarie Rosenberg – wife, mother; adjunct faculty, Church History and Doctrine, BYU; counselor in stake Relief Society presidency

Concurrent Sessions 11:00 a.m.–noon

Mary Ellen Edmunds – author; nurse; former director of training, Provo MTC; former member, Relief Society general board

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

40 • “Endowed with Power from on High” (D&C 38:32)

Glorious promises and access to priesthood power are available to women in the temple endowment. President Russell M. Nelson teaches “Those who are endowed in the house of the Lord receive a gift of God’s priesthood power by virtue of their covenant, along with a gift

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Women’s Conference Sessions BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 11:00 a.m.–noon

42 • Women Speaking with the Power of God

44 • The Book of Mormon: Instrument of

President Russell M. Nelson taught, “As a righteous, endowed Latterday Saint woman, you speak and teach with power and authority from God.” Do we truly grasp the significance of these words? Our prophet urges us to join with our priesthood brethren and “Take your rightful and needful place in your home, in your community, and in the kingdom of God—more than you ever have before.” Eliza R. Snow asked, “Has not God endowed you with the gift of speech? . . . If you are endowed with the Spirit of God, no matter how simple your thoughts may be, they will be edifying to those who hear you.” Our strength, conversion, conviction, ability to lead, wisdom, and voices are needed to assist in the work of salvation, working interdependently with the brethren. How do we speak with the power of God in our homes, communities, and at church? How do we work side by side with the brethren as we speak with the power of God? How can we grow in our ability to speak with godly power?

When sharing his conversion story, Elder Rubén V. Alliaud said, “I had been found directly by the power of the Book of Mormon,” and so, he said, have “millions of others around the world.” Elder D. Todd Christofferson called the Book of Mormon “the instrument of gathering and conversion.” And President Russell M. Nelson taught, “The Book of Mormon is central to this work. It declares the doctrine of the gathering. It causes people to learn about Jesus Christ, to believe His gospel, and to join His Church. In fact, if there were no Book of Mormon, the promised gathering of Israel would not occur.”

In what ways is the Book of Mormon crucial to the work of gathering?

How can the Book of Mormon help us, as individuals, gather closer to the Savior? How can we use it in our teaching/ministering/gathering efforts in simple, everyday ways?

Janiece Johnson – professor and research associate, Neal A. Maxwell Institute, BYU; Gospel Doctrine teacher; author Tara Mickelsen – wife, mother; former legal secretary and paralegal; member, Primary general board

DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

43 • The Sweet Peace of Forgiveness “Forgive, and ye shall be forgiven” (Luke 6:37) is a short and simple but challenging admonition of our Savior Jesus Christ. Elder Ned B. Roueche said, “When we forgive and let go of that which has weighed heavily on our hearts . . . a great burden is lifted from our souls and we are free—free to move forward . . . with an increase of love.” Elder Massimo De Feo taught, “If you are struggling to find the strength to forgive, don’t think of what others have done to you, but think of what the Savior has done for you, and you will find peace in the redemptive blessings of His Atonement.” How can we “drop [our] burden at His feet” (Hymns, no. 125) and sincerely forgive even in difficult circumstances? How do we forgive and still remove ourselves from the cycle of abuse? In what ways does forgiveness facilitate our progression on the covenant path? How can pain and heartache be replaced by peace with our faith in the Savior and the blessings and strength of the Atonement of Jesus Christ?

Cassi Richmond – wife, mother, foster parent; Sunday School teacher; event director; trek women’s advocate; cycling enthusiast David Morgan – husband, father, grandfather; PhD from BYU; licensed psychologist; author; elders quorum president; lover of the scriptures; Disneyland expert

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the Gathering

Julie Davis – wife, mother, grandmother; counselor in stake Primary presidency; former ward Young Women president, stake Young Women counselor; seminary teacher; Pathway missionary with her spouse; temple worker Julie Hawks – wife, mother, grandmother; served with her husband as he presided over the China Hong Kong Mission; volunteer for Latterday Saint Charities; temple ordinance worker

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

45 • Young Mothers: Never Underestimate Your Central Role in the Gathering

Mothers of young children are essential to the gathering of Israel.

Sister Marjorie Hinckley counselled, “This is a time of great opportunity for you to build the kingdom. When you teach children to love their Heavenly Father, you have done one of the greatest things you will ever do . . . you are now doing the work that God intended you to do.” In the midst of the mundane, repetitive, and commonplace tasks of motherhood are countless opportunities to help children grow into discipleship. Elder Brian K. Taylor said, “To mothers, especially young mothers, who often feel overwhelmed and underwater while striving to raise ‘a sin-resistant generation,’ never underestimate your central role in God’s plan. In stressful moments . . . know that God sanctifies your most difficult days.” How is the faithful raising of children part of the gathering of Israel? How can we create teaching moments throughout typical days? As young mothers, what can we do to strengthen our partnership with God? Jennefer Free (moderator) – wife, mother, grandmother; member, Primary general board; former stake Young Women’s president and temple worker; 2011 BYU Women’s Conference service subcommittee chair

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Heidi Braby – wife, mother; ward Relief Society secretary; pianist; former elementary and preschool teacher Millie Dadson – wife of stake president, mother; convert Annie Jones – wife, mother; former program assistant for BYU Education Week; ward Relief Society secretary Crystal Schultz – wife, mother

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

46 • The Spiritual Treasures in Temple Worship The Prophet Joseph Smith explained that the main “object of gathering the . . . people of God in any age of the world . . . was to build unto the Lord a house whereby He could reveal unto His people the ordinances of His house and the glories of His kingdom.” Today, we hear from President Russell M. Nelson, “I hope the sisters understand the spiritual treasures that are theirs in the temple.” The Lord Himself tells us, “I will manifest myself to my people in mercy in this house” (D&C 110:7). How can we increase our understanding of the spiritual treasures, power and importance of temple worship in our eternal progress? How can our temple worship increase our faith in and commitment to the Savior? What are the ways that the Savior can manifest himself to us in the temple?

Kathleen Hughes Potter – wife, mother, grandmother; psychiatric director of state prison in Delaware; online stake seminary teacher and ordinance worker in Philadelphia temple; former ward Primary and Relief Society president Joanne Hoehne – wife, mother, grandmother; assistant matron at Provo City Center Temple

PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

47 • Finding Peace Now in the Last Days The Savior said, “Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid” (John 14:27). President M. Russell Ballard testified that “the safety, peace, joy, and security we seek are found only in accepting and sincerely believing in the life and mission of Jesus Christ.” Sister Jean B. Bingham counseled, “Jesus Christ is ... the source of peace. He invites us to ‘lean on [His] ample arm’ and promises the ‘peace . . . which passeth all understanding,’ a feeling that comes when His Spirit ‘speak[s] peace to our souls’ no matter what challenges surround us.” In what ways does believing in Jesus Christ, gathering to His Church, and living His gospel free us from fear and bring peace? How can we follow the Savior’s commandment to be at peace and feel confident in His care, remembering that “he will fulfil all his promises” (Alma 37:17) and in the knowledge that He is “able to do [His] own work” (2 Nephi 27:20)?

Kimberly Morris – daughter, sister, wife, mother, friend; disciple of Christ; lover of mountains, wave-watching, dark chocolate, family gatherings and the temple Diane Gerdy Iman – wife, mother; member of stake Primary presidency; cancer survivor; former seminary teacher; mother of sons with life-impacting illness

MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

48 • The Power of the Arts to Gather Who has not been touched by a beautiful painting, a powerful song, or an uplifting book? Responsiveness to creativity gathers and unites us in wonder and worship, moving us to feelings of gratitude and awe for the love Heavenly Father has for us. President M. Russell Ballard stated, “God’s purpose for the artist is to inspire, to give us visions of ourselves that we might not otherwise see, to make us better than we would have been. The world is better for the arts and righteous artists in it.” Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf reminds us “Creation brings deep satisfaction and fulfillment. We develop ourselves and others when we take unorganized matter into our hands and mold it into something of beauty.” How have you felt the love of God through the arts? How can appreciating the artistic works of others—or creating our own—draw us closer to Him and to others? What are some ways we can recognize, develop and share the gifts the Lord has given us?

Janielle Christensen – mother, grandmother; former faculty, BYU School of Music and Department of Dance; former artistic director, BYU Living Legends, BYU Young Ambassadors, BYU Spectacular Adam Anderegg – husband, father; director, writer, producer; founder of Kaleidoscope Pictures; director of current Book of Mormon series videos

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Women’s Conference Sessions VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 11:00 a.m.–noon

49 • Self-Reliance is a Temporal and Spiritual Quest The Lord said, “And it is my purpose to provide for my saints . . . but it must needs be done in mine own way” (D&C 104:15–16). His way includes the principles of self-reliance, because as President Thomas S. Monson taught, “It is an essential element in our spiritual as well as our temporal well-being.” He continued, quoting President Marion G. Romney, “Salvation can be obtained on no other principle.” The General Handbook states, “Self-reliance is the ability, commitment, and effort to provide the spiritual and temporal necessities of life for self and family. As members become self-reliant, they are also better able to serve and care for others.” Temporal and spiritual self-reliance are inseparably connected. The Lord declared that “all things unto me are spiritual, and not at any time have I given unto you a law which was temporal” (D&C 29:34). What resources does the Lord’s Church provide to help members become self-reliant? What can we start or stop doing to become more self-reliant temporally and spiritually?

Valerie Waite – wife, mother; ward self-reliance specialist; accountant Mel Gardner – husband, father; branch president for Fayette Branch, Utah Homeless Services

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 11:00 a.m.–noon

50 • Teens, Technology, and Social Media:

Asking Your Child the Right Questions

“While the internet can be a wonderful education and communication tool, it can also be a dangerous place for young teens. “According to a Congressional report, one out of five kids has been solicited online for sex, usually by someone they met in a chat room or through instant messaging” (focusonthefamily.org). “Just as we teach our children how to be safe when cooking on campfires, ovens, or stoves, we can also teach our children to use technology wisely to avoid danger.

Technology can bless and benefit our lives when used appropriately, but there are many potential pitfalls. As we teach our children about safe technology use, we can help them avoid the dangers of pornography, sexting, overuse of social media . . . cyberbullying, and other potentially dangerous situations” (churchofjesuschrist.org). With so many social media apps available, what are the right questions we should be asking our teens with regard to their online presence? What behaviors signal technology overuse, misuse or entrapment? How do we help them modify their online behavior to be less vulnerable?

What resources are available to help us teach our children a safe and intentional technology plan?

Shea Bradshaw – loyal husband and father; a bishopric counselor and high school assistant principal who hikes, bikes and sings Michelle Busch-Upwall – wife, mother; education specialist with Utah Attorney General’s Office, Internet Crimes Against Children Task Force; former community coordinator for Salt Lake Area Gang Project

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 11:00 a.m.–noon

51 • “More Holiness Give Me” (Hymns, no. 131) President Russell M. Nelson said, “Daily repentance is the pathway to purity, and purity brings power. Personal purity can make us powerful tools in the hands of God. Our repentance—our purity—will empower us to help in the gathering of Israel.” Eliza R. Snow proclaimed, “It is the duty of each one of us to be a holy woman. . . . There is no sister so isolated, and her sphere so narrow but what she can do a great deal towards establishing the Kingdom of God upon the earth.” How can we become more “blessed and holy”? How can we have “more patience in suff’ring, more sorrow for sin”? What simple daily efforts can we make to lead us forward on the path to holiness?

Emily Sanderson – sister, daughter, favorite aunt; returned missionary; medical assistant; ward Relief Society president; Women’s Conference committee member Traci Garff Longmore – daughter, sister, aunt, wife, mother of twins; adjunct faculty, Ancient Scripture, BYU; former EFY speaker; BS in Special Education, MET in Educational Technology, EdD in Learning Technologies

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2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 11:00 a.m.–noon

52 • Hallar esperanza y ayuda cuando se lucha con enfermedades mentales

Las aflicciones mentales y emocionales, entre ellas la depresión y la ansiedad, pueden nublarnos el camino y ensombrecer nuestra alegría cotidiana. Cuando esas condiciones impiden nuestra capacidad de funcionar cabalmente, es posible que necesitemos conseguir ayuda y apoyo. La hermana Reyna I. Aburto dijo: “Al hablar abiertamente de nuestros problemas emocionales, reconociendo que no somos perfectos, damos permiso a los demás de expresar sus desafíos y juntos comprendemos que hay esperanza y que no tenemos que sufrir a solas.” El élder Jeffrey R. Holland nos alienta: “Aunque sintamos que somos como una ‘vasija quebrada’ […], debemos recordar que esa vasija está en las manos del Alfarero Divino.” El Padre Celestial y el Salvador están conscientes de nuestras luchas y no nos han olvidado: nos pueden brindar esperanza, ayuda y finalmente sanación. ¿Qué recursos tenemos a nuestra disposición? ¿Qué estrategias pueden ayudarnos a atender nuestra propia salud mental cuando nos sentimos abrumadas por los desafíos de la vida?

Susana Muñoz – esposa, madre; graduada de BYU, Maestría en Terapia de matrimonio y familia; terapista licenciada en matrimonio y familia para Servicios para la Familia en el sur de California; o nacida en Perú Jim MacArthur – esposo, padre, abuelo; ex psicólogo y profesor clínico, Servicios de Desarrollo al Alumnado, BYU; ex presidente de la Misión Chile Rancagua

Concurrent Sessions 12:30–1:30 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

53 • Participating in the Gathering Whatever Our Circumstance

President Russell M. Nelson is urging all members from every walk of life to participate in the gathering of Israel. He has extended a prophetic plea to the women of the Church “to shape the future by helping to gather scattered Israel.” Sister Michelle D. Craig taught, “each of us has a different mission to perform, and at times the Spirit may call us in ‘another way.’ There are many ways to build the kingdom of God as covenant-making, covenant-keeping disciples of Jesus Christ. As His faithful disciple, you can receive personal inspiration and revelation, consistent with His commandments, that is tailored to you.

You have unique missions and roles to perform in life and will be given unique guidance to fulfill them.” In what ways can we, in our individual circumstances, find ways to be part of the gathering of Israel? What are examples of how roles in the gathering change throughout our lives? How can we better appreciate the uniqueness of our individual opportunities to participate in the gathering?

Cristina B. Franco – wife, mother, grandmother; second counselor Primary general presidency; former member, Primary general board; served with husband when he presided over the Argentina Resistencia Mission Lisa L. Harkness – wife, mother, grandmother; first counselor, Primary general presidency; former member, Primary general board Joy D. Jones – wife, mother, grandmother; Primary general president; former member, Primary general board

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Women’s Conference Sessions SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

54 • Finding Hope and Help When Struggling with Mental Illness

DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

56 • Cherish the Gift of Repentance

Mental and emotional afflictions, including depression and anxiety, can cloud our way and overshadow our everyday joy. When these conditions impede our ability to function fully, we may need to seek help and support. Sister Reyna I. Aburto said, “When we open up about our emotional challenges, admitting we are not perfect, we give others permission to share their struggles. Together we realize there is hope and we do not have to suffer alone.” Elder Jeffrey R. Holland encourages, “Though we may feel we are ‘like a broken vessel’. . . we must remember, that vessel is in the hands of the divine potter.”

Heavenly Father and the Savior are aware of our struggles and have not forgotten us: they can provide hope, help, and ultimate healing.

What resources are available to assist us? What strategies can help us care for our own mental health when we feel overwhelmed by life’s challenges?

President Russell M. Nelson teaches us, “Too many people consider repentance as punishment—something to be avoided except in the most serious circumstances. But this feeling of being penalized is engendered by Satan. He tries to block us from looking to Jesus Christ, who stands with open arms, hoping and willing to heal, forgive, cleanse, strengthen, purify, and sanctify us.” Repentance is fundamental to progression, and to having peace of mind, comfort, and joy. Elder Neal A. Maxwell called it a “vital and merciful doctrine.”

Elder Dale G. Renlund said, “The fact that we can repent is the good news of the gospel!” How do we humble ourselves before the Lord and counsel with Him in our daily efforts to repent? What actions and attitudes facilitate repentance? What is “godly sorrow” (2 Corinthians 7:10) and how can it soften our hearts? How is repentance connected to grace, forgiveness, and the Atonement of Jesus Christ?

John Goodson – husband, father; counselor at LDS Family Services; Young Men advisor

Ronald A. Stoddard – husband, father, grandfather; neonatalperinatal medical doctor; former stake president; former president of Germany Frankfurt Mission; currently a district president, Provo MTC

Jane Clayson Johnson – journalist; wife, mother, stepmom; violinist; foodie; recovering perfectionist; best-selling author, I Am a Mother and Silent Souls Weeping

BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

55 • Choosing Your Spouse Every Day President Thomas S. Monson admonished, “Choose a companion carefully and prayerfully; and when you are married, be fiercely loyal one to another. Priceless advice comes from a small framed plaque I once saw in the home of an uncle and aunt. It read, ‘Choose your love; love your choice.’ There is great wisdom in those few words. Commitment in marriage is absolutely essential.” The Lord commanded, “cleave unto [your spouse] and none else” (D&C 42:22).

President Spencer W. Kimball taught, “The words none else eliminate everyone and everything. . . . [No] other interest nor person nor thing shall ever take precedence over the companion spouse.” When we make a conscious effort to choose our spouse every day, we are better prepared to face marital challenges when they come. In what ways can we show our spouses that we choose them daily? What can we change in our lives to increase our commitment to our spouses? How can we better show them our love and commitment? How do we show our love and commitment in ways that our spouses understand?

Beth Whitaker – wife, mother; team teaches Sunday School with her husband; assistant director, Family History Center; temple ordinance worker Barry Whitaker – husband, father; retired high school biology teacher; team-teaches Sunday School with his wife; assistant director, Family 32 History Center; temple ordinance worker

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt – wife, mother; religion faculty, BYU– Idaho; PhD in developmental psychology; former stake Young Women president; instructional designer for LDS Church; former Women’s Conference committee member

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

57 • Find Joy in the Gathering President Russell M. Nelson exclaimed, “This gathering is ‘the greatest challenge, the greatest cause, and the greatest work on earth today’! It is a cause that desperately needs women, because women shape the future.” Elder Quentin L. Cook adds, “When it comes to gathering Israel, we need to align our hearts with . . . love” and move to “participation in the divine partnership of sharing the Savior’s message, ministry, and mission with the world.” Elder D. Todd Christofferson said, “the joy ‘set before us’ is the joy of assisting the Savior in His work of redemption.”

How is our personal joy enhanced by extending a hand of fellowship, encircling those around us, and together gathering to Christ? During adversity, how can we avoid becoming discouraged and feel the joy promised by the Lord in bringing even one soul into the kingdom of His Father (D&C 18:16)?

Debbie Cardon – wife of Elder Craig A. Cardon, emeritus Seventy; mother; served with husband as he presided over the Italy Rome Mission Craig Cardon – husband, father; emeritus Seventy; former president, Italy Rome Mission

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3220–3224, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

on the family? How can we build strong relationships and reach out with love, understanding and respect, continually demonstrating that they are beloved sons and daughters of Heavenly Father?

58 • Refuge from the Storm: Home-Centered

Becky Borden – works in the Priesthood and Family Department as manager of LGBT products for the Church; board member, North Star; married to husband, Bennett

We teach the gospel most effectively when we live it with all our heart.

President Russell M. Nelson promises that “as you diligently work to remodel your home into a center of gospel learning. . . . Your children will be excited to learn and to live the Savior’s teachings, and the influence of the adversary in your life and in your home will decrease.

Changes in your family will be dramatic and sustaining.” President Henry B. Eyring asks “With so little time and so few opportunities, what words of doctrine from me will fortify [my children] against the attacks on their faith which are sure to come?” How do we use Come, Follow Me as a resource to teach and learn the gospel in our individual family circumstances? In what small and simple ways can we include and involve our children in our home-centered study? How can we apply our family gospel learning in daily life?

Ben Schilaty – BYU Honor Code administrator; stake high councilor; Family Services therapist

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Shelby Killpack (moderator) – wife, mother, grandmother; member, Young Women general board; served with husband as he presided over the Utah Orem Mission; BS in family science, BYU; Women’s Conference committee member Sarianna Valgardson – wife, mother; dance fitness instructor and home building design specialist; ward Relief Society secretary Cynthia Ware – wife, mother; former ward Primary president, choir pianist; native of Mormon Colonies in Mexico; BA in international studies, international law and diplomacy Drena Wong Lopez – wife, mother; born in Hawaii, raised in Singapore; studied accounting at BYU–Hawaii where she met her husband; serves in ward Relief Society presidency

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

60 • Loving Our Neighbor: Gathering Refugees and Immigrants

Sister Linda K. Burton stated, “It is our hope that you will prayerfully determine what you can do—according to your own time and circumstance—to serve the refugees living in your neighborhoods and communities. This is an opportunity to serve one on one, in families, and by organization to offer friendship, mentoring, and other Christlike service and is one of many ways sisters can serve.” Sister Sharon Eubank explained, “Our responsibility as covenant people is to just be good to people, reach out to them, treat them as if they are our family.”

How can we reach out to those who are strangers in our communities?

How can we see them as our brothers and sisters? What are some effective ways to utilize justserve.org to help in our communities?

Elissa McConkie – aunt to 75 amazing humans; manager, Church Humanitarian Refugee Initiative; Primary teacher for refugee children; master’s degree in international management Rebecca Millard – wife, mother; ward Relief Society activities committee member; former community coordinator of refugee settlement in Utah and manager of Annual Giving for LDS Philanthropies; co-founder Musana Jewelry nonprofit

59 • “First and Foremost a Child of God”: Loving Our LGBT and SSA Family and Friends

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland assured our LGBT brothers and sisters: “If your life is in harmony with the commandments, then you are worthy to serve in the Church, enjoy full fellowship with the members, attend the temple, and receive all the blessings of the Savior’s Atonement.”

He reminded, “You are first and foremost a [child] of God, and He loves you.” Elder Holland admonished Church members not to exclude anyone from their circle of fellowship. “When our actions or words discourage someone from taking full advantage of Church membership, we fail them—and the Lord. The Church is made stronger as we include every member and strengthen one another in service and love.” What are some ways that we can show love, compassion, respect and be inclusive of our family and friends who identify as LGBT while also holding to the important doctrine found in the proclamation

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Women’s Conference Sessions MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

61 • “Ask in Faith” (James 1:6) In James we read, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.

But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering” (James 1:5–6). Elder David A. Bednar teaches, “True faith is focused in and on the Lord Jesus Christ and always leads to righteous action.” Elder Bednar continues, “I long have been impressed with the truth that meaningful prayer requires both holy communication and consecrated work. Blessings require some effort on our part before we can obtain them, and prayer, as ‘a form of work, . . . is an appointed means for obtaining the highest of all blessings.’ We press forward and persevere in the consecrated work of prayer, after we say ‘amen’, by acting upon the things we have expressed to Heavenly Father.” How do we, as Elder Bednar taught, learn to “ask in faith” with “honesty, effort, commitment, and persistence”? How can our “pray[ing] with the expectation to act and not just to express” help us continually build our faith? In what ways does faith help us to move beyond “checklist” prayers and engage in meaningful conversations with Heavenly Father? How do we appropriately ask in faith and act in faith as we humbly accept “not my will, but thine, be done” (Luke 22:42)?

Samantha C. Butterworth – director of Communications for Latterday Saint Charities; serves in ward Primary presidency; wife, mother; forever curious Jane C. Curtis – happily married to Elder LeGrand R. Curtis, mother, grandmother; served in Italy, Africa, and two temples; currently a Church History Docent and Primary worker

VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

62 • Choosing the Best Part “Wherefore, I shall give commandment unto my seed, that they shall not occupy these plates with things which are not of worth unto the children of men” (1 Nephi 6:6). Just as the Lord gave counsel about what to include in the scriptures, the same advice can be applied to us—do not waste precious time and space on things that ultimately don’t matter. Sister Belle S. Spafford’s counsel still applies today: “The average woman today, I believe, would do well to appraise her interests, evaluate the activities in which she is engaged, and then take steps to simplify her life, putting things of first importance first, placing emphasis where the rewards will be greatest and most enduring, and ridding herself of the less rewarding activities.” President Dallin H. Oaks taught, “Some uses of individual and family time are better, and others are best. We have to forego some good things in order to choose others that are better or best because they develop faith in the

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Lord Jesus Christ and strengthen our families.” How do we determine what is good, better, and best for our individual lives? How do we eliminate things that are unnecessary and replace them with the most meaningful and essential? How can the Spirit guide and help us selfevaluate, refocus, and make adjustments when needed? In what ways can simplification strengthen us and our loved ones?

Susan Probst – wife, mother, grandmother; counselor in stake Young Women presidency; BS, Business Administration/Business Education from Southern Utah University Judy Chynoweth – wife, mother, grandmother; stake self-reliance specialist; former ward and stake Relief Society president

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

63 • Family History and Temple Work: Bringing Forth Blessings of Sealing and Healing

Speaking of our sacred duty and privilege of doing family history and temple work, Elder Dale G. Renlund said, “When God directs us to do one thing, He often has many purposes in mind. Family history and temple work is not only for the dead but blesses the living as well.” He went on: “It is breathtakingly amazing that, through family history and temple work, we can help to redeem the dead. But as we participate in family history and temple work today, we also lay claim to ‘healing’ blessings promised by prophets and apostles. These blessings are also breathtakingly amazing because of their scope, specificity, and consequence in mortality.” How can we and our families obtain the spirit of family history and temple work to help gather family members who have gone on before? What needed “healing blessings” may come to us and our families here through this sacred work?

Tommy Ayre – at 12 years old, has been a Family History consultant since he turned 11; he loves the work and going to the temple Ashlee Ayre – Family History consultant (age 18), has provided her family with countless family names and enjoys helping others do the same Alice Faulkner Burch – wife; Relief Society president for LDS Genesis Group; secretary of the Utah chapter of Afro-American Historical & Genealogical Society; entrepreneur; first African American ordinance worker called to Salt Lake temple

BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

64 • “Decade of Decisions”: Navigating Life as a Young Adult

In addressing the youth, Elder Robert D. Hales stated that “life-altering decisions will be made in a very busy, relatively short period during your 20s—during what I call the ‘Decade of Decision.’” In this crucial

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period of life, young adults make major decisions such as whether to serve a mission, what to study, when to go to the temple, and who to marry. President Nelson declared, “In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, comforting, and constant influence of the Holy Ghost.” What can we learn from our young adults about their challenges and struggles?

What are the best ways for family members, friends and ward members to support them in meeting these challenges? As young adults and family members seek for personal revelation, how are communications improved and relationships strengthened?

Steve Smith (moderator)– husband; executive director, Student Development Services and clinical professor, BYU; bishop Michelle Brannock – student in nursing program at Provo College; co-chair of ward prayer; native of San Francisco Kunmi Ogunfeibo – BYU senior preparing to graduate in May 2020 with a major in political science; convert; elders quorum instructor; native of United Kingdom Jared Reid – BYU sophomore from Phoenix, Arizona; served mission in Nampa, Idaho Adeline Yorgason – BYU student majoring in public relations; returned missionary; FHE co-chair, temple/family history consultant in ward; oldest of five children

2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 12:30–1:30 p.m.

Concurrent Sessions 2:00–3:00 p.m.

MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

66 • The Lord Knows You and is Aware of You Elder Ronald A. Rasband testified, “Each of us is precious and loved by the Lord, who cares, who whispers, and who watches over us in ways unique to each of us. . . . He knows our challenges, our triumphs, and the righteous desires of our hearts.” The Lord knows His flock and is aware of them, wherever they are—He is the true Shepherd, “and he inviteth them all to come unto him” (2 Nephi 26:33). Elder Robert C. Gay taught, “The Savior looked upon the Samaritan, the adulterer, the tax collector, the leper, the mentally ill, and the sinner with the same eyes. All were children of His Father. All were redeemable. . . . In the eyes of Christ, each soul is of infinite worth.” What are some simple ways to help us remember our divine identity when we are discouraged or in need of His care? How does remembering the divine identity of others help us to more charitably gather others to Christ?

Rosemary Thackeray – Assistant to the President, Planning and Assessment at BYU; former member, Young Women general board; stake Relief Society president; favorite aunt Astrid Tuminez – wife, mother; first female president of Utah Valley University; graduated from BYU, Harvard, MIT; former Microsoft executive

65 • Refugio de la tormenta: La enseñanza centrada en el hogar y apoyada por la Iglesia

Enseñamos el Evangelio con mayor eficacia cuando lo vivimos con todo nuestro corazón. El presidente Russell M. Nelson promete que “a medida que trabajen con diligencia para remodelar su hogar, centrándolo en el aprendizaje del Evangelio […], [s]us hijos estarán entusiasmados por aprender y vivir las enseñanzas del Salvador, y la influencia del adversario en su vida y en su hogar disminuirá. Los cambios en su familia serán notables y duraderos.” El presidente Henry B. Eyring pregunta: “Con tan poco tiempo y tan pocas oportunidades, ¿qué palabras de la doctrina que yo les enseñe fortalecerán a [mis hijos] para enfrentar los ataques contra su fe que sin duda los acometerán?” ¿En qué forma utilizamos Predicad Mi Evangelio como recurso para enseñar y aprender el Evangelio en las circunstancias particulares de nuestra familia? ¿En qué maneras pequeñas y sencillas podemos incluir a nuestros hijos y lograr su participación durante nuestro estudio centrado en el hogar? ¿Cómo podemos aplicar a nuestra vida diaria lo que aprendemos en familia sobre el Evangelio?

SMITH FIELDHOUSE (SFH) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

67 • Scripture Study: Our Own Personal Liahona

Ana Mata – esposa, madre; maestra de jóvenes de la Escuela Dominical; ex consejera de presidencia de Mujeres Jóvenes de barrio

Directions through the Liahona led Lehi’s family through the wilderness to the promised land. Similarly, Alma explained, the “words of Christ” will lead each of us through our mortal experience to eternal life (Alma 37:44–45). Nephi admonished us to “feast upon the words of Christ; for behold, the words of Christ will tell you all things what ye should do” (2 Nephi 32:3). President Russell M. Nelson reminded us that “The Lord instructed Emma to expound the scriptures, to exhort the Church, to receive the Holy Ghost, and to spend her time ‘learning much.’” And to each sister who prayerfully studies the scriptures, President Nelson stated, “I promise that the heavens will open for you.

The Lord will bless you with increased inspiration and revelation.” In what ways can the scriptures help us receive the revelation we need to guide our lives? What simple daily habits can help us increase our love for and knowledge of the scriptures? What blessings are promised to us if we will faithfully study the scriptures?

Georgia Porras – esposa, madre; propietaria de establecimiento de educación preescolar; originaria de Costa Rica; líder de días de actividades

Nancy Dance – daughter, wife, mother, grandmother; served with her husband as he presided over the Baltic Mission; member, Primary general board Camille Fronk Olson – wife, mother, grandmother; retired professor of 35 Ancient Scripture, BYU

Women’s Conference Sessions BALLROOM, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

DE JONG CONCERT HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

68 • Gather in Christ through Small and

69 • “God Hath Not Given Us the Spirit of Fear”

Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf taught that “discipleship is not about doing things perfectly; it’s about doing things intentionally.” When we live every day intentionally, focused on the Savior, we will feel the love needed to serve others and live as He did. Simple acts—such as speaking kindly, smiling at a stranger, opening a door, carrying groceries, or holding a crying baby—all bring us closer to Christ. His hands are hands of kindness, love, and compassion, and each time we emulate Him, we are gathering in Christ. The Savior said, “Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me” (Matthew 25:40). In what ways can we follow Elder Uchtdorf’s counsel to “choose to incline [our] heart[s] to God” and “strive each day to find Him”? How can we emulate Him through the “small and simple” daily actions that “bring great things to pass” (Alma 37:6)? How does trying to be like Jesus gather others to Him?

Elder David A. Bednar has stated, “fear is dispelled through a correct knowledge of and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. . . . We can be blessed to conquer our fears and strengthen our faith as we follow the Lord’s instruction: ‘Look unto me in every thought; doubt not, fear not’ (D&C 3:36). President Russell M. Nelson has encouraged, “It is mentally rigorous to look unto Him in every thought. But when we do, our doubts and fears flee.” The Lord Himself has told us, “Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness” (Isaiah 41:10). What does it mean to look unto the Lord in every thought? How do we keep our thoughts on Jesus Christ amid the distractions of the world? What can we do to develop unshakable faith in Jesus Christ? Since “God hath not given us the spirit of fear” (2 Timothy 1:7), how do we turn from fear to faith?

Tamra Reeves – wife, mother, grandmother; counselor in stake Relief Society presidency; BYU History graduate with a love for studying women in Church history; loves family parties and home decorating

Lauren Barnes – wife, mother; associate clinical professor, BYU School of Family Life; Marriage and Family therapist; PhD; stake Primary president

Michalyn Steele – professor, J. Reuben Clark Law School, BYU; member, Seneca Nation of Indians, New York

Jennifer Buckner – wife of area Seventy Elder David L. Buckner, mother, sister, daughter; seminary teacher; Masters of Organizational Behavior, BYU

Simple Means

(2 Timothy 1:7)

AUDITORIUM, JOSEPH SMITH BUILDING (JSB) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

70 • Safely Finding Answers to Gospel Questions Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf said, “There are few members of the Church who, at one time or another, have not wrestled with serious or sensitive questions.” He reassured, “Asking questions isn’t a sign of weakness; it’s a precursor of growth.” Elder David A. Bednar said that “honest, spiritual, intellectual inquiry never ends. But there’s something wrong if that turns to mistrust, suspicion, disbelieving, and cynicism.” The Lord said, “But ye are commanded in all things to ask of God, who giveth liberally; and that which the spirit testifies unto you even so I would that ye should do in all holiness of heart, walking uprightly before me . . . doing all things with prayer and thanksgiving” (D&C 46:7). To what sources should we turn to find true answers to our gospel questions? How can we cultivate the presence of the Holy Ghost in our lives so we can discern truth from error? How can we help others to seek their own answers safely and in faith? How can we follow the Savior’s example in teaching and loving those whose doubts have led them off the covenant path?

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Richard Bennett – husband, father, grandfather; YSA stake high council member; BYU professor of Church History and Doctrine; Church historian; author

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Carri Jenkins – wife, mother; assistant to the president, University Communications, BYU

3220–3224 WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

71 • Women Fulfilling Prophecy Forty years ago, President Spencer W. Kimball prophesied of the significant impact righteous women will have on the growth of the church. We are the foreseen women responsible for the fulfillment of this prophecy! President Nelson promises that as we do so, “the Holy Ghost will magnify your influence in an unprecedented way!” We can each fulfill prophecy—within our own spheres of influence, despite our weaknesses, in our everyday lives and varied circumstances. How can we develop the courage to be distinct and different, stand for truth, and to share the joy that comes from making and keeping covenants?

How do we better reflect righteousness and articulateness in our lives?

Tiffany Bowles – museum educator, Church History Museum; produced “Sisters for Suffrage: How Utah Women Won the Vote” exhibit; MA, Historical Administration

PARDOE THEATRE, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

73 • “Of Souls, Symbols and Sacraments”: Intimacy in Marriage

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland teaches, “Such a total, virtually unbreakable union, such an unyielding commitment between a man and a woman, can only come with the proximity and permanence afforded in a marriage covenant, with the union of all that they possess.” He continued, “Sexual intimacy is not only a symbolic union between a man and a woman—the uniting of their very souls—but it is also symbolic of a union between mortals and deity.” President Howard W. Hunter said, “Tenderness and respect—never selfishness—must be the guiding principles in the intimate relationship between husband and wife.” How can physical relations in marriage be kept sacred and holy?

In what ways can a correct understanding of marital intimacy build a happy marriage?

Angela Bradford – wife, mother; associate professor, Marriage and Family Therapy, School of Family Life, BYU Chelom Leavitt – wife, mother; assistant professor, School of Family Life, BYU; author; researches mindfulness and healthy sexuality

Susan Porter – mother, grandmother; member, Relief Society general board; served in Frankfurt and Moscow with husband Bruce, who served in Area Presidencies

ASSEMBLY HALL, HINCKLEY CENTER (HC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

72 • Simplify Your Approach to Discipleship Elder Dieter F. Uchtdorf has asked, “Are we making our discipleship too complicated? This beautiful gospel is so simple a child can grasp it, yet so profound and complex that it will take a lifetime—even an eternity—of study and discovery to fully understand it.” Elder Uchtdorf offered an invitation “to step back, look at your life from a higher plane, and . . . focus on the basic doctrines, principles, and applications of the gospel. I promise that God will guide and bless you on your path to a fulfilling life.” That path will focus on “the simplicity that is in Christ” (2 Corinthians 11:3). How can we simplify our discipleship and ensure we focus on the things that matter most? How can we help new converts understand, and remind ourselves, that living the gospel doesn’t need to be complicated? How can the Spirit guide and help us self-evaluate, refocus, and make adjustments when needed? In what ways can simplification strengthen us and our loved ones?

Annette Hullinger – mother, grandmother, great-grandmother; ward Relief Society teacher; recycled through many years of Church callings and community service; author; former member, Church curriculum committee, and Church-service missionary Sherie Allen – mother, grandmother; CEO, Ohana Beginnings; BYU graduate in psychology, master’s degree, Utah State University; serves in ward Young Women; former Gospel Doctrine teacher

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Women’s Conference Sessions MADSEN RECITAL HALL, HARRIS FINE ARTS CENTER (HFAC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

VARSITY THEATRE, WILKINSON STUDENT CENTER (WSC) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

74 • Patriarchal Blessings: A Precious and Priceless

75 • Gathering at the Sacramental Table

Personal Treasure

“When you receive your blessing, you get a glimpse of eternity,” Sister Julie B. Beck explained. She continued, “In your blessing, you are told about your ancestry in the house of Israel. . . . Your lineage is important.

It means that you are included in the promises given to Abraham that through him all the nations of the world would be blessed.” President James E. Faust further taught, “The patriarch has no blessing of his own to give; the blessing is the Lord’s to give. God knows our spirits; He knows our strengths and weaknesses. He knows our capabilities and our potential. Our patriarchal blessings indicate what the Lord expects of us and what our potential can be. Our blessings can encourage us when we are discouraged, strengthen us when we are fearful, comfort us when we sorrow, give us courage when we are filled with anxiety, lift us up when we are weak in spirit.” How is a patriarchal blessing, as President Thomas S. Monson stated, “a valuable gift . . . a precious and priceless personal treasure”? How does our declaration of lineage help us understand our mission and purpose? In what ways can understanding our patriarchal blessing draw us closer to Christ and provide guidance, comfort and protection? How can our patriarchal blessing help us to identify and develop our spiritual gifts?

Barbara Randall – wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother; scribe for her husband, a patriarch; former assistant matron of Mt. Timpanogos Temple; served with her husband as he presided over Canada Edmonton Mission David Randall – husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather; patriarch, temple sealer; former mission president, counselor in Mt. Timpanogos Temple presidency; retired BYU music professor

Elder Lawrence E. Corbridge said, “The worst of all human conditions is . . . to be separated from the presence of God, and in this life, His presence is His Spirit or power.” If separation from God’s Spirit is the worst of human conditions, then the best of all human conditions is to “always have his Spirit to be with [us]” (D&C 20: 77, 79). This is the promised blessing of keeping our sacramental covenants, including our promise to “always remember him.” President Henry B. Eyring promised that those who always remember the Savior “will finally come to him and he will take them home to his Father and our Father, where we may live forever.” What practical things can we do to “always remember him”? What daily blessings can result from “always hav[ing] his Spirit to be with us?” How can always remembering the Savior help us gather others safely in Christ?

Tina Davis – wife, mother; ward Relief Society president; BYU student Oceane Giraud-Carrier Olsen – wife, mother; Relief Society teacher

2254 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

76 • Learning from the Legacy of Modern-day Pioneers

President Dallin H. Oaks has said, “The days of the pioneers are not past. There are modern pioneers whose achievements are an inspiration to all of us.” Just as the pioneers of old were courageous and faithful, modern-day pioneers are also determined and committed. How has the Lord guided our modern pioneers and what blessings and miracles have they witnessed along the way? What can we learn from their experiences and examples to increase our efforts to fulfill our own potential? How will learning of their struggles and sacrifices give us courage to walk by faith as we consider what our own legacy will be for our families, church, communities, and beyond?

Kelly Eggertsen – wife, mother, stepmother; PhD candidate in English; Activity Days leader for boys age 8–9 Laurel Bradford – wife, mother; pediatrician; convert; counselor in ward Young Women presidency Rose Chibota – wife, mother; convert and native of Zimbabwe and Malawi; master’s degree student; human resources generalist at Church

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BALLROOM, HARMAN BUILDING (HCEB) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

2260 CONFERENCE CENTER (CONF) 2:00–3:00 p.m.

77 • Fighting Addictions: Giving Our Spirits Control

78 • Ministrar es el fundamento del recogimiento

Over Our Bodies

President Russell M. Nelson reminded us, “The spirit and the body are the soul of man” (D&C 88:15). Both spirit and body have appetites. One of life’s great challenges is to develop dominance of spiritual appetites over those that are physical. Your willpower becomes strong when joined with the will of the Lord. As we forsake the will of the flesh and come unto Christ in faith, He will heal and strengthen us and those we love from the struggles of addictions.

What support and resources are available to help us walk the pathway to recovery? How do we trade our addictions for the safety of the Spirit? How do we rely on Christ to avoid despair when we or our loved ones experience addiction? President Dallin H. Oaks teaches us that “The healing power of the Lord Jesus Christ— whether it removes our burdens or strengthens us to endure and live with them like the Apostle Paul—is available for every affliction in mortality.”

Jessica Wood – single mother; struggled with several addictions and now has seven years of sobriety with Heavenly Father to thank for it Lynda Howes – wife, mother, grandmother; served with husband on a three-year mission as addiction recovery counselors

La obra y la gloria del Señor es proporcionar la vía para que los hijos e hijas de Dios regresen al Padre Celestial. Él atrajo a las personas a Sí mismo al atender sus necesidades. El obispo W. Christopher Waddell explica que nosotros también podemos centrarnos en las “necesidades [que] vienen en una varie­dad de formas, tamaños y situaciones: un padre o madre solos; una pareja menos activa; un adolescente con dificultades; una madre que se siente abrumada; una prueba de fe; proble­mas económicos, de salud o matrimo­ niales… la lista es casi interminable.” La hermana Jean B. Bingham enseñó: “Sin importar nuestra edad, cuando consideramos cómo ministrar de manera más eficaz, preguntamos: ‘¿Qué necesita ella [o él]?’ Combinando esa pregunta con un deseo sincero de servir, el Espíritu nos guía a hacer lo que animaría y fortalecería a la persona.” ¿Cómo podemos vencer los temores de que nuestras ofrendas individuales no sean suficientes? ¿De qué manera podemos ayudar a los demás a sentir el amor del Salvador y desear ser parte de Su redil? ¿En qué forma podemos nosotros, como se enseña en las Escrituras, “vela[r] por [ellos], y […] sustenta[rlos] con cosas pertenecientes a la rectitud” (Mosíah 23:18)?

Julieta Flores – esposa; maestra de escuela primaria; originaria de Argentina Marta Bravo – esposa, madre; secretaria ejecutiva de la hermana Reyna Aburto; ex presidenta de Sociedad de Socorro de barrio y de estaca; exmisionera; originaria de Chile

Friday Afternoon Closing Session MARRIOTT CENTER (MC) 3:45–5:00 p.m.

Patricia T. Holland – wife of Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, mother, grandmother Elder Jeffrey R. Holland – husband, father, grandfather; member, Quorum of the Twelve Apostles

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Presenter Index

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Reyna I. Aburto . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22, 27

Debbie Cardon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Cristina B. Franco . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

Calee Reed Adams . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Toni Carlson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Jennefer Free . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Sherie Allen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

Jennifer Beck Carter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Barbara Morgan Gardner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Heidi Allsop . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Rose Chibota . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Mel Gardner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Adam Anderegg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Brent Christensen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Lita Little Giddins . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Starr Anderson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Janielle Christensen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Miguel Giraldo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Ashlee Ayre . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Katrina Christensen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Jamie Glenn . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Tommy Ayre . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Judy Chynoweth . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Annie Godfrey . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Ashley Baird . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Kandyce Ciarrocchi . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Kory Godfrey . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Lauren Barnes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Kim B. Clark . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

John Goodson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Richard Bennett . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Sue Clark . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Bruce C. Hafen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Jean B. Bingham . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Jennifer Coleman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Marie K. Hafen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Becky Borden . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Bonnie H. Cordon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Lisa L. Harkness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27, 31

Shawna Borg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Carol Costley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Julie Harps . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Lynette Bowen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Michelle D. Craig . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Julie Haupt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Tiffany Bowles . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

Becky Craven . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17, 27

Julie Hawks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Heidi Braby . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Jane C. Curtis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Deborah Hawley . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Angela Bradford . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

Millie Dadson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

J.B. Haws . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Laurel Bradford . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Maren Daines . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Keri Hermann . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Shea Bradshaw . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Nancy Dance . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Sharon Hiatt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Michelle Brannock . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Julie Davis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Joanne Hoehne . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Marta Bravo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Tina Davis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Diana Hasler Hoelscher . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Effy BriseĂąo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17

Patrick Degn . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Kate Holbrook . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26

Tracy Browning . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Stephen Diederich . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Jeffrey R. Holland . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Jennifer Buckner . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Mary Ellen Edmunds . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Patricia T. Holland . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Alice Faulkner Burch . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Kelly Eggertsen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Julianne Holt-Lunstad . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Jeanne N. Burgon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Ryan Eggett . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Lynda Howes . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Michelle Busch-Upwall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Jana Eubank . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Greg Hudnall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Samantha C. Butterworth . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Kevin Eubank . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Annette Hullinger . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

John Bytheway . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Sharon Eubank . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22

Diane Gerdy Iman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Craig Cardon . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Julieta Flores . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Janeal Irving . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Carri Jenkins . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Susana MuĂąoz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

Melinda Semadeni . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Janet Jenks . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Michael D. Newman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Hank Smith . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Jane Clayson Johnson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Perpetua Lynne Nielsen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Steve Smith . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Janiece Johnson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Shauna Ogden . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Leslie Soderberg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Whitney Johnson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Kunmi Ogunfeibo . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Christy Spencer . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Annie Jones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Oceane Giraud-Carrier Olsen . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Michalyn Steele . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Joy D. Jones . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

Camille Fronk Olson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Ronald A. Stoddard . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Shelly Edwards Jorgensen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Julie Olson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

John R. Taylor . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Marilee Killpack . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 23

Jana Winters Parkin . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Rosemary Thackeray . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Shelby Killpack . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Maria Paspuel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26

Joann Tominaga . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Tangiteina Paletu’a Kinikini . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Sue Samson Peterson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

David J. Torres . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Kristin Gerdy Kyle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Jennifer Brinkerhoff Platt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Maria Luisa Torres . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Chelom Leavitt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

Georgia Porras . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Salote Tukuafu . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20

Traci Garff Longmore . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Susan Porter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 37

Astrid Tuminez . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Drena Wong Lopez . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Kathleen Hughes Potter . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Sarianna Valgardson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Memnet Lopez . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Susan Probst . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34

Christine Van Wagenen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25

Steven J. Lund . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Barbara Randall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Valerie Waite . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Jim MacArthur . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

David Randall . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 38

Cynthia Ware . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Susan R. Madsen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18

Tamra Reeves . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 36

Heidi Weight . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Ana Mata . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Jared Reid . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

Barry Whitaker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Elissa McConkie . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Cassi Richmond . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Beth Whitaker . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Tara Mickelsen . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Sandra Rogers . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13

Brian Willoughby . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Rebecca Millard . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Gaylamarie Rosenberg . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Ada S. Wilson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21

Janet Mitchell . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Alan Sackett . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Rosemary Wixom . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

David Morgan . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 28

Amy Sackett . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Jessica Wood . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 39

Laura Morrin . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 19

Emily Sanderson . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30

Kelly Wosnik . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 24

Kimberly Morris . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Ben Schilaty . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 33

Amy Pickering Wylie . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16

Nery Muller . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 26

Crystal Schultz . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 29

Adeline Yorgason . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 35

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Frequently Asked Questions How many women and men attend BYU Women’s Conference?

The average number of attendees each year, including volunteers, is about 15,000. Approximately 98% of the attendees are female; 2% of the attendees are male.

Conference Etiquette • To maintain a spirit of reverence, please be courteous to the presenters and those around you by remaining in your seat until the session has ended.

• Entrance to sessions will not be permitted during the last 15 minutes.

• Please refrain from saving seats; all seating is first come, first seated. To seat sisters as quickly as possible, open seats will be filled with those waiting in line.

Your name badge is your ticket for the performance. The doors will open at 7:45 p.m.

Why can’t we bring small children, infants/nursing infants into conference sessions?

The conference is designed for women and men ages 16 and older. Due to the large crowds during BYU Women’s Conference, safety concerns and logistical constraints on campus do not allow us to accommodate infants and children in the residence halls or any session rooms, including the Marriott Center, evening service, and cultural events. This policy applies to volunteers, participants, presenters, and guests of presenters.

• No eating or drinking is allowed in session rooms, with the exception of the Marriott Center.

Families, children, and infants are all welcome on the BYU campus; but not in rooms/buildings as noted above during the conference sessions. If you are a nursing mother and would like information on areas to nurse or pump, there are many places on campus available.

Please check the Program Update when you arrive for a listing of those locations.

• To maintain a reverent atmosphere in the session rooms, please refrain from clapping at the end of sessions. If you wish to show your gratitude to presenters, please use the evaluation located in the center of the Program Update.

Can my friend/ward attend the evening activities (service projects, performances) without being registered for the conference?

• Please move over when seats are needed so empty seats can be accessed easily.

• Please turn off all electronic devices before entering session rooms.

• To avoid any copyright violations, recording video or audio with any electronic device is not permitted.

I misplaced/lost/forgot my name badge. How can I get another?

Your name badge is your ticket to the conference and the evening activities. If you lose your badge or leave it at home, a duplicate may be obtained for $5 on verification of registration at the conference information desk at the Wilkinson Student Center, Memorial Lounge (WSC) or Marriott Center (MC). Duplicate name badges will not be mailed.

What should I wear?

Some participants prefer to dress up and wear dresses or skirts.

Others prefer to be casual and wear slacks or jeans. The choice is yours, as long as you are within BYU dress standards. Comfortable shoes are recommended for walking between session venues.

What will the weather be like?

The weather may still be cool during the conference. Average high temperature in April, early May is 65–70 degrees F; average low is 45 degrees F. Come prepared for Utah’s changeable weather and varying indoor room temperatures.

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How do I get tickets for the evening performance?

Sessions of Women’s Conference and all activities on Thursday evening are for registered participants. Everyone who attends will need a conference name badge.

Why can’t we preregister for sessions?

We continue to consider this possibility. However, for a conference of this size, such logistics would result in a substantial increase in registration fees. The available preregistration methods also create other challenges that we feel would not provide the best experience for all participants. First-come, first-served is not a perfect solution, but it is the best one we have at this time. We will continue to evaluate other systems and will consider them as cost and efficiency make them feasible for Women’s Conference.

What if the class I’ve chosen is full?

Many people have had the experience described by this Women’s Conference participant: “Sometimes the session I want is full (or too far away), but no matter which session I attend, I always feel I benefitted from it and come away uplifted.” That is part of what Women’s Conference is about.

While a particular session you want may be full, plenty of seats await you in other worthwhile sessions. The Marriott Center alone can accommodate more than 19,000 participants, and the other venues together have space for over 11,500 participants. Many participants have found that their favorite session had been an alternative choice.

Why are classes spread out all over campus? Why don’t you repeat popular classes?

The largest classrooms are found in various buildings across the university’s campus. Since the schedule is finalized before the conference begins, and we already use all campus space available to us, we cannot set up another session as a repeat.

Why don’t you put popular speakers in larger rooms?

While we already schedule the largest rooms on campus, we honestly do not know beforehand when a presenter will draw a crowd larger than a room will accommodate. Each year we pull together a large focus group of women of all ages and gather information about class selections. However, even with focus groups, it is difficult to anticipate

who will want to attend a particular class. We also consider as many elements as we can, including past attendance, predictions on the appeal of new presenters, and presenter availability.

Where is the Lost and Found?

During the conference, Lost and Found locations are at all WC information desks (see page 11 for locations). On Friday afternoon during the closing session, all items will be moved to the WC Marriott Center Information Desk. After the conference is over, please call the BYU Lost and Found office at 801-422-3024.

Refunds Please visit our website at: womensconference.byu.edu/refunds for information on all refund policies.

Will Call Information If you register after April 15, 2020, you can pick up your name badge and program at Will Call locations, as follows: Date Location

Time

April 16–28

Harman Continuing Education Building Lobby

10:00 a.m.–5:00 p.m. (M–F)

Wednesday, April 29

Harman Continuing Education Building Lobby

8:00 a.m.–8:00 p.m.

Thursday, April 30

Marriott Center Northeast & Northwest Entrance

7:30 a.m.–8:30 p.m.

Friday, May 1

Marriott Center Northeast & Northwest Entrance

7:30 a.m.–4:00 p.m.

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Service Projects We invite you to be part of something truly extraordinary! Continuing a tradition that began in 1999, the Women’s Conference Service Subcommittee has visited with more than 100 local agencies and identified the areas in which Women’s Conference participants can best serve. Participate in this spiritual legacy at Women’s Conference by helping us complete a variety of projects for those in need.

We hope you will leave the conference energized and excited to find and fill service needs in your own sphere of influence. As we joyfully immerse ourselves in the service of others, our own burdens will seem lighter and we will become more like our Savior. Please join us for another year of extraordinary service!

AREAS OF SERVICE Take, Make, and Return Projects Marriott Center (MC)

Whether you stitch, cut, color, or crochet, we have a project for you! Pick up a project kit on Thursday morning at the Marriott Center and finish it during classes over the two days of the conference. You can return your project (finished or unfinished) at the Marriott Center or any Women’s Conference information desk. Please return all project kits by 2:00 p.m. on Friday, May 1.

2020 Projects

• Bookmark Kits • Christmas Stockings • Courage Capes

• Crocheted Hats • Greeting Cards/Keychains • Hand Puppets

• Infant Fleece Blankets • Tag Monsters • Teddy Bears

Evening Projects

Don’t miss the energy and excitement of our annual Evening of Service! It will take place on Thursday, April 30, from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. in the Richards Building and in the Smith Fieldhouse courts and annex. Our evening projects are open to all Women’s Conference participants, including those who register for Friday only.

2020 Projects

• Autism Caterpillars • Birthday Bags/Activity Kits • Celebration Banners • Girl’s Hair Kits

• Hygiene Kits • Meal Kits • Turtle Shelter Vests

“You pass the heritage along as you help others receive the gift of charity in their hearts.

They will then be able to pass it to others. The history of Relief Society is recorded in words and numbers, but the heritage is passed heart to heart.”

President Henry B. Eyring “The Enduring Legacy of Relief Society,” October 2009 general conference

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Deseret Book, Shadow Mountain Artists, and BYU Women’s Conference present

An Evening of Entertainment Calee Reed

The Bonner Family

Nashville Tribute Band

Jenny Oaks Baker

Thursday, April 30, 2020 • 8:15 p.m. • Marriott Center (MC) • Doors open at 7:45 p.m.

Your name badge is your ticket to all conference activities.

Don’t miss our evening of inspirational and uplifting music and messages highlighting some of your favorite LDS artists.

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