West Hartford Magazine Nov/Dec 2012

November | Deceber 2012

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Civic Clubs Give All Year • Action Photographer • Grant’s Final Legacy • Steinberg’s “Last Stop”

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NATURAL COLORED DIAMONDS & GEMS

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JULIA KNIGHT

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It's all about men for this evening's event. Come celebrate with us as we feature an extensive collection of watches, jewelry and gifts for men. Plus a few surprises you will not want to miss!

JULIA KNIGHT PERSONAL APPEARANCE AND SIGNING Saturday, November 17 (11:30am to 2:30pm) The newest Fall and holiday designs and colors have arrived. Meet Julia for a special signing event where she will be on hand to personalize your purchases.

NATURAL COLORED DIAMONDS & PRECIOUS GEMSTONES Thurs.-Sat., Nov. 29 to Dec. 1 (10:00am to 5:00pm)

Diamonds and gemstones of all colors can be found in nature from pink to black, spanning all the colors of the rainbow including blue, red, yellow, green, gray and brown. View a magnificent collection of natural colored diamonds and gemstones.

SIMON PEARCE ENGRAVING EVENT Saturday, December 1 (12:00 to 4:00pm)

Master Engraver Heidi Cockwill will personalize any Simon Pearce glass product you purchase that day with a monogram, a date, or a short handwritten message of your personal choice at no additional cost. Can't make it to the event? Pre-order in-store or online today to get in on the fun!

KATHERINE JETTER SPECIAL SHOWING Thursday, December 6th (10:00-5:00)

Inspired by the natural landscapes of her home country Australia, her signature collection lays tribute to the lush Daintree Rainforest. Katherine Jetter’s collection will be at our store for one day only!

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Year Round Giving

by Kerry Hubbard

Four local civic organizations continue giving 365 days a year!

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Action Photography... with heart!

by Lisa Lelas

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Looking ahead to the upcoming holiday season

12 SPOTLIGHT

Find out what’s trending on westhartfordmagazine.com

14 PEOPLE Notable events and galas raising

Last Stop, West Hartford

28 WEDDINGS

by Nikki A. Sambitsky

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DEPARTMENTS

A portrait of national sports photographer, Dan Burns, making a world of difference.

Hollywood screenwriter, David Steinberg, shares his hometown memoirs of West Hartford.

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money for worthy causes Russo & Cianci Kenney & Yopp Stanger & Poza

Gift Ideas 51 Holiday from SPIN Monograms & Gifts and Pet Supplies Plus

53 COCKTAILS

holiday specialties

57 THe TABLE

Beautiful place settings for the holidays.

63 Oh, Christmas Tree

Selecting the perfect tree

64 FINANCE

Spreading the spirit of giving

40 TRAVEL

81 FITNESS

A look back at the life of philanthropist, Murray Grant, and his final legacy to children of Israel.

43 FOOD

89 Let the Merrymaking Begin

5 Ways

WINE 49 Alternative bubbly for the holidays

Navigating a Legacy

by Cindy Papish Gerber

styling by Bridgette Larcada

Styling the little black dress and the little black blazer.

All inclusives resorts Spiced Autumn Latkes & Caramel Apple Cupcake

Dancing to the beat of passion Tips for de-stressing the holidays

93 AROUND TOWN

Fun community snapshots in and around West Hartford

94 GARDEN

Gardening for the Winter

ON THE COVER Phoebe and Dan wrapped in holiday wear! on her: Faux Leather Ponte Dress ($128) and Nude Pumps ($178) at Ann Taylor, Blue Back Square.

Short Pearl & Crystal Necklace ($68) and Layered Pearl Necklaces ($38 each) at Lyn Evans, West Hartford Center. on him: Tuxedo Jacket ($475 for suite) at Joseph A. Bank, West Hartford Center. Trousers ($168) at Brooks Brothers, Westfarms. Vest ($155) designed by Daswani, West Hartford Center. Shirt ($60) and Hounds Tooth Tie ($60) at Banana Republic, Westfarms.

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President and CEO of The New Children’s Museum Robert Griesmer, United States Senator Richard Blumenthal, U.S. Trust, Bank of America Private Wealth Management Private Client Financial Advisor Filomena Soyster, West Hartford Mayor Scott Slifka and West Hartford Magazine Publisher Tom Hickey.

If you missed opening night of KING TUT-THE BOY KING at The New Children’s Museum, you need to make it a “must see” this holiday season!

The exhibit offers a unique adventure for friends and family. If you can’t get there, give a gift certificate so your holiday guests don’t miss it! West Hartford Magazine celebrated its one-year anniversary, sharing the festivities at opening night. Special thanks to our opening night sponsor, U.S. Trust, Bank of America Private Wealth Management. Their office expansion at Town Center shows their commitment and dedication to our community. I thoroughly enjoyed working with Jim, Joan, Filomena and Karen … what a team (see party pictures on pages 14 and 15)!

Once again we struggled with which of our features was going to be this month’s cover (nice challenge to have). Since the holidays are here, we thought you would enjoy the LBD, and LBB (See pages 81-85).

And remember Pheobe and Dan are not professional models. Our style editor, Bridgette, spotted them at Sight and Barcelona. It really is hard to believe that these models are local and the shots are taken here in town.

There is no excuse not to have the perfect table setting this Holiday after you see what Sheryl Green and Bridgette came up with (see pages 54-59). Our local merchants are ready to help with your every need.

When your table is set, snap a picture of it and share it with us.

Philanthropy is regularly featured in our Holiday Issue and we bring the focus close to home this year. Four civic organizations in town work daily to better our community. The Exchange Club, Kiwanis, Lions and Rotary organizations need to be commended (see pages 23-26). How about a New Year’s resolution including getting involved or donating to these fine organizations?

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For our male readers who tell me all the time that we don’t feature enough “stuff” for them, pages 34-37 are especially for you… Happy Holidays! You have seen some of Dan Burns’ amazing shots on the cover of many national sports magazines, National Geographic, and broadcast live on all the major networks. His philanthropic approach and passion for photography has helped so many non-profit organizations.

Sadly, when I first heard about Paul Newman’s “Hole in the Wall” camp being built in Israel it was too late for us to interview the driving force, Murray Grant (see pages 73-76). What he has done, with the help of his family, is truly an inspiration to all.

Please consider joining our Subscription Club (see page 96) so we can guarantee delivery to your home or office and you won’t miss a single issue. Worth noting that if you JOIN the CLUB you get lots of perks such as the free event tickets and a complimentary copy of our holiday gift guide DAZZLE. Have a happy, healthy and safe Holiday Season,

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Happy Holidays West Hartfordites,

This replica of the funeral mask of King Tut is part of an exhibit at The New Children’s Museum ( more party photos on pages 14 ).

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This issue is filled with holiday festivities, philanthropic favorites and all those warm ‘n fuzzies. That being the case, we decided it would be a good idea to shine a spotlight on the Clothes Horse, a store that enables all the above mentioned. This Park Road corner store is a West Hartford gem, not just in what you can find within, but because of what it has done for our community for over 65 years. After using some of their clothing and accessories in our last fashion spread entitled “Where Edge Meets Elegance” we were astounded at how many people hadn’t heard of the Clothes Horse in its full essence. Started by The Junior League of West Hartford, all the store profits are used to help with service projects and community outreach put forth by the organization. This high-end resale shop has great finds for the everyday shopper as well as the sublime. The best part of The Clothes Horse experience is the feeling you get when you discover a one-of-a-kind item no one else has but everyone will covet! To make your shopping experience even better look for the store manager Mary.

Mary’s knowledge, expertise and appreciation of the merchandise will make your Clothes Horse experience that much more enjoyable. She has years of industry wisdom and will school you on any designer, brand, label or vintage piece. Hopefully our last style spread will inspire you to pair those newly bought boutique items with some great thrift finds. Take ownership over your outfit, get imaginative, help your community, and don’t just shop the window. Keep in mind that you too can attribute to the good deeds The Clothes Horse puts forth by donating your gently used items.

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Angela DeFelippi (right) takes in the King Tut, The Boy King exhibit.

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John Byrnes and Sharon Gualtieri.

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Bob Laraia with his son Dario.

Hundreds gathered recently for the opening of an exciting new exhibit at The New Children’s Museum. West Hartford Magazine shared opening night, marking its first anniversary. With a festive celebration, presented by U.S. Trust, attendees enjoyed a first peek of the King Tut...The Boy King exhibit and a lavish under-the-tent reception.

Senator Richard Blumenthal, Mayor Scott Slifka, U.S.Trust Co./Bank of America Senior Vice President, Filomena Soyster, and West Hartford Magazine Publisher, Tom Hickey welcomed attendees to an evening of cocktails, food, and prize give-aways.

Museum CEO, Bob Griesmer shared up to date news on exciting changes for the museum.

The King Tut exhibit will be open through May 2013.

Visit: wwwthechildrensmuseumct.org

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Alison Murphy, Cathy and Kevin Dowd, Fred and Barbara Tanguay.

Jackie and Drew Iacovazzi, with Gib Barrieau.

Left: Gift card winners included Val Bogner, Karin Comer, and Dee Rivera.

Bridgette Larcada, Barbara and Pasquale Lamugnale, with Lisa Lelas .

Ron Van Winkle.

Kevin Kickery with Barbara and Dave Kreitner.

Halley and John Heslin.

photography by CHEYNEY BARRIEAU PHOTOGRAPHY

Filomena Soyster, Jim and Anne Carroll with Karen Connal.

After viewing the exhibit, guests enjoyed the refreshments under a tent.

Right: Mike Gualtieri and Ali Devine

Kristen and Mike Fritz

Kerry and Rich Hubbard.

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The physician leaders from the Comprehensive Women’s Health Center : Anita Kelsey, M.D., Women’s Heart Program; Kristen Zarfos, M.D., Medical Director, Comprehensive Breast Health Center; John Rodis, M.D., Chair OBGYN; Kathleen Mueller, M.D., Medical Director, Integrative Medicine.

Miracles XXIII Saint Francis Hospital & Medical Center

Dr. Anne Massucco, OBGYN, Saint Francis Hospital and Medical Center with husband Tod Alberghini.

It was another sellout evening with over 1,400 guests at the Connecticut Convention Center for this year’s MIRACLES XXIII Gala! This year’s beneficiary was The Comprehensive Women’s Health Center at Saint Francis Hospital, slated for opening in late 2013.

The event featured a cocktail reception, dinner, dancing and a silent wine auction. “Once again, our community has come together to show its generous and inspiring support for our efforts to provide the very best in healthcare services by attending this sold-out event,” said Christopher M. Dadlez, CEO of Saint Francis. The annual Miracles Galas have raised more than $12 million for initiatives at the hospital.

The Comprehensive Women’s Health Center (CWHC) will provide dedicated services for women in the nation’s most advanced state-of-the-art facility.

For more info: www.stfranciscare.com

Right: Christopher M. Dadlez, President and Chief Executive Officer, Saint Francis Hospital and Medical Center, Eileen Dadlez; Most Rev. Henry J. Mansell, Archbishop of Hartford; Dr. and Mrs. Mark J. Gerber and Mr. and Mrs. Joseph P. Gibbons, MIRACLES XXIII Co-Chairs.

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Tobye Karl, Director, Volunteer Services, Saint Francis Hospital and Medical Center with husband Edward H. Karl

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The gorgeous Jessica, Karen, Lorie-Ann & Ruby model and outfits at Lyn Evans.

Fashion Night Out

The lovely ladies of BK&Co: Debbie Bannon, Karen Herbert (Owner), Barbara Karsky (Owner), and Louann Gaudet.

photography courtesy of RJ3 Photography (Kimberly Boutique); Virginia Mumejian (Lyn Evans); Mathieu Jean (BK&CO)

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Vanessa strikes a pose on the Lyn Evans Red Carpet.

Model, Liz Getz, on Bk&Co Red Carpet.

This year’s Fashion Night Out was celebrated by far more cities than just the usual suspects - New York, Paris, and Milan. The event was thought up

by American Vogue editor-in-chief Anna Wintour to encourage people to get out and support the fashion industry in the slumping economy. Now, in its fourth consecutive successful year the “trickle down” effect has caused this economy-friendly event to expand into 500 style savvy areas of the world, including West Hartford. The West Hartford Center Business Association encouraged all merchandisers and surrounding store owners to take part in one fun way or another. Come Thursday, September 6th, the streets were filled with stylish gals and dapper dudes - we were highly impressed at the overall support and good vibes for the evening. Everyone came out to shop the night away at our local stores and boutiques in both The Center and The Square. Red carpets rolled, music played and models strutted as glamour enveloped the night.

Margaret Myers models at Kimberly Boutique Fashion Show.

The Kimberly Boutique crew on their Red Carpet: Beth Abbatemarco, Lesa Whittingham, Kimberly Moster (Owner), Kendra Lamotte, and Hannah Lewin. november | december 2012

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Book Signing

Pam Reid and Tom Hickey.

With Author, Mark K. Shriver

Chuck and Mary Coursey opened their home for a special book signing reception honoring author, Mark K. Shriver, son of the late Eunice Kennedy and her husband, political strategist, Sargent Shriver and celebrating his new book, ‘A Good Man… Rediscovering My Father, Sargent Shriver’, a New York Times and Washington Post bestseller.

The West Hartford event was hosted by the Courseys, Phyllis & Bob Brown, Carole & Burke Doar, Holly & Beau Doherty, and Mary & Sean Duffy.

Mark Shriver served as a member of the Maryland House of Delegates for 2 consecutive terms and he currently serves as Senior Vice President of U.S. Programs for the Save The Children organization.

His father, Sargent Shriver, was the founder of the Peace Corps and a close advisor to his brother-in-law, President John F. Kennedy. Mark Shriver and Chuck Coursey were college roommates at Holy Cross. The book is available at bookstores and on Amazon.

Chuck Coursey, Governor Dannel Malloy and author Mark K. Shriver.

Josh Hughes and Attorney General George Jepsen.

Kelly Conway, Ashley Gengras and Kerry Boyle.

Left: Kathy Bremer, Paula Sheahen, Kara Sundlun and Dennis House.

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Mary Duffy, Sarah Galatie, Amy McMahon and Polly D’Addabbo.

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or me, the word philanthropy has always conjured images of accountants and financial planners gathered around a conference table, bestowing sums equivalent to the entire national budgets of many small countries, for causes as lofty as world peace and ending poverty. Names forever etched in the annals of history spring to mind— Kellogg, Mellon, Ford and, of course, Gates.

Without a doubt, the world is a far better place because of these titans of industry and technology. But philanthropy can be so much more.

Merriam-Webster Online defines philanthropy as “goodwill to fellow members of the human race; especially: active effort to promote human welfare.” I’ve come to learn that neither “goodwill” nor “active effort” requires a trust fund or personal banker. In fact, the gift of one’s time can be every bit as impactful, sometimes even more so, than writing a check.

Every community has people in need—at-risk children whose families struggle mightily just to put food on the table, much less provide the extras that many of us take for granted; people with physical disabilities who are unable to afford access to resources that will improve their lives; students for whom a scholarship takes a college education from dream to reality.

Certainly funding is a necessary part of the equation, but money alone can’t produce results; it takes people to affect real change.

We are closing in on the holiday season, a time that inspires a heightened awareness of those less fortunate. Many charitable organizations get much, if not most, of their funding during the months of November and December. Come January, while most of us return to the demands of normal daily life, four community civic groups help others make practicing philanthropy a 365-day commitment. We’ve all seen the logos, heard their names. Maybe you or your children have participated in a sports team or essay contest sponsored by one, perhaps you’ve donated by purchasing a raffle ticket or wreath, or watched them march in a holiday parade. But who exactly are they and what are they doing in West Hartford?

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The West Hartford Exchange Club

West Hartford Exchange Club President, Paul Connery.

The West Hartford Exchange Club is different from the others in that, while a larger body oversees the local chapter, it is an exclusively American organization.

This club originally took its name in the early 1900’s from a small group of men in Detroit who met to discuss current events and exchange ideas on business and community. Through those discussions, they became committed to using their talents to fulfill the mission of making their community a better place to live.

Over time, The Exchange Club has focused its objectives on four specific areas, called the four “pillars” of exchange: Americanism, Youth Programs, Community Service and their national project, the Prevention of Child Abuse.

The West Hartford branch is active in all four areas. According to president, Paul Connery, “We raise money throughout the year, most of which is donated to local causes. One of our major benefactors is The Bridge.” They hold a number of well-attended fundraisers including a golf

tournament and an annual wine tasting event.

In addition to raising money, the local chapter, which includes approximately 55 active members, participates in service projects such as food drives for the West Hartford Food Pantry, sponsorship of a youth baseball team and their long-standing “GiveAKidAFlag to Wave Program” in which volunteers hand out small flags to children at holiday parades, school events, fairs, picnics and other community events. This project is meant to instill a heightened respect for the flag and a great way to promote the exchange of ideas within the community.

The club is also very passionate about the national project to prevent child abuse. They have established Child Abuse Prevention (CAP) Centers across the U.S., including a number in Connecticut. The centers all support a parent aid program in which volunteers are trained to serve as parenting mentors to at-risk families, or families in which abuse has already occurred.

Like the other civic clubs, the Exchange Club is primarily focused on service to the community, and as members, they strive to live the motto of “Unity for Service” on a regular basis.

The West Hartford Kiwanis Club The name Kiwanis is borrowed from the Native American term “Nunc Kee-wanis” and roughly translates as “we trade” or “we trade our talents.” The West Hartford club is a diverse group of approximately 15, who, according to president Motkue Bowles, the Kiwanis are less about raising money and are more about serving the community through activities such as blood and food drives and promoting the health and wellness of children.

The Kiwanis were absent from West Hartford for some time. When the group re-formed in 2003, Bowles thought, “What a great opportunity” to get involved and make a difference. The new club quickly became a presence in the community, fully embracing the motto “Serving the Children of the World.” They have sponsored initiatives such as Stars for Kids, a program that recognizes local children and teens who show exceptional leadership in helping other children in the community and Lose the Training Wheels, a camp that helps special needs children master riding a two-wheel bike.

Locally, the WH Kiwanis Club is developing

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partnerships with The American School for the Deaf and The Bridge. They’ve distributed newborn safety kits to help new mothers and their babies in the community. They’ve sponsored scholarships, school bands and local blood drives. The efforts of these local individuals are also reaching well beyond our borders as they support the Eliminate Project, a partnership with UNICEF to eliminate neonatal tetanus, a deadly disease found in underdeveloped countries where children are often born in unsterile environments.

Bowles had no idea back in the 80’s when he was a member of his high school Key Club (a junior leadership organization under the Kiwanis umbrella) that he would one day be president of his own community’s club. “Service is what makes it all worthwhile.”

West Hartford Kiwanis Club President Motkue Bowles.

The West Hartford Lions Club “I think we might be the tiniest Lions group out there,” said Patricia Lauretti, president of the West Hartford club. As one of approximately ten active members, and currently the only active female, Lauretti said that they are not deterred by the size of their membership. When their two major annual fundraisers (April pancake breakfast and holiday nut sale) roll around, many others show up to help.

Lions Club International, founded in 1917, became “knights of the blind” after Helen Keller addressed their national convention in 1925. While they’ve broadened their mission to “empower volunteers” to serve a variety of community needs, much of the focus of the local West Hartford Lions Club is still on providing resources for the visually impaired.

You may have seen drop-off boxes for used eyeglasses at the Farmington Bank in the Center where Pat Lauretti is branch manager. The glasses are sent overseas to help visually impaired people around the world.

But the proceeds from their fundraisers are earmarked for local organizations such as FIDELCO Guide Dog Foundation in Bloomfield, which trains guide dogs and their own-

ers in their home communities; Connecticut Radio Information System (CRIS) the state’s only news reading service for those unable to read printed material; and annually funding a four-year scholarship to a deserving West Hartford high school student.

Over the years, Lauretti had been involved in a number of different volunteer organizations; however, it was her experience with her two hearing-impaired granddaughters that motivated her to focus her efforts on the Lions Club. “I consider sight my most special gift,” Lauretti said. That, and personal experience with macular degeneration, inspires her to help those with low vision.

Like other service organizations, the WH Lions Club has been hit hard by the economy and continues to struggle with membership issues. When asked about the challenges of attracting new, young members, Lauretti said, “I understand that to make the time is difficult, but when you realize the end result, it is amazing.”

West Hartford Lions Club President Patricia Lauretti.

The Rotary Club of West Hartford

The Rotary Club of West Hartford President Dana Gordon.

The Rotary motto, “Service Above Self,” embodies the ideal of volunteerism. It is an organization of businessmen and women, originally founded in the early 20th century for the purpose of serving communities in need.

Today, Rotary International is comprised of 32,000 clubs with 1.2 million members across the globe. And while Rotary International and The Rotary Foundation work to address such pressing global issues as environmental concerns, literacy and world hunger, our local West Hartford Rotary Club works to help meet similar needs in our own backyard.

President, Dana Gordon explained that through the hands-on activities of club members, the WH Rotary Club raises $30,000$45,000 annually, all of which is returned to the community in the form of support for

approximately 30 local charities, including The American School for the Deaf and the Hillcrest Area Neighborhood Outreach Center (HANOC), which serves at-risk children and families of limited financial means.

Gordon said that one of the Rotary’s favorite activities is hosting an annual holiday party for HANOC families at the Children’s Museum.

The party includes refreshments, entertainment and gifts, as well as the opportunity for the children to experience all the Museum has to offer.

In addition to participating in fundraising activities, members attend weekly meetings during lunch at the Pond House at Elizabeth Park. And while there is no specific obligation to give money, members are recognized for every $1,000 they donate to the Rotary Foundation.

What sets this club apart from its peers for Gordon is the “closeness and fellowship as members work side by side, united by a common goal. The friends I’ve made at the Rotary Club are amazing.” n

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Get to Know the Clubs THE WEST HARTFORD EXCHANGE CLUB

WEST HARTFORD LIONS CLUB

Motto: Unity for Service Supports: The Bridge; West Hartford Food Pantry; Give a Kid a Flag; Fundraisers: Golf tournament; Wine Tasting More information: www.nationalexchangeclub.org

Motto: We Serve Supports: Local charities including FIDELCO; CRIS Radio; American School for the Deaf; Connecticut Lions Eye Research Foundation Annual Fundraisers: Pancake Breakfast; Holiday Nut Sales Meetings: First and third Tuesdays, 7p.m.

The Stonewell Restaurant, Farmington More Information: www.westhartfordct.lionswap.org

WEST HARTFORD KIWANIS CLUB Motto: Serving the Children of the World Supports: Local organizations including American School for the Deaf, The Bridge, St. Agnes Home, Stars for Kids, Lose the Training Wheels, Food Drives, Blood Drives Annual Fundraisers: Include a Fall Mum Sale, however, emphasis is on service rather than fundraising.

Meetings: Second and fourth Tuesdays, 6:30 p.m.

West Hartford Town Hall More Information: www.westhartfordkiwanis.org

ROTARY CLUB OF WEST HARTFORD Motto: Service Above Self Supports: 30 local charities, International projects include eradicating polio around the world and providing fresh water to homes and schools in the Philippines.

Annual Fundraisers: Jazz Brunch; Lobster Fest, Lobster and Steak Dinner; Vines of March, Wine Tasting and Auction Meetings: Mondays, 12:15 at the Pond House. Visitors welcome.

More Information: www.westhartfordrotary.org

Recent Past Presidents of our local organizations: THE WEST HARTFORD EXCHANGE CLUB: Bob Herr Joe O’Brien Jim Caroll Phil Cote Tom Ackman Dave Hager Steve Litchfield Andrew Baldassarre Mark Bemis

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WEST HARTFORD KIWANIS CLUB: Eugene Market Bill Austin Claudia Bowles Tom Prioetti Tom Murphy Bill Austin Charles Walters John Larkin

WEST HARTFORD LIONS CLUB: Claude Pane Ed Krakauskas Joey Belanger Greg Burt Lonnie Burt James Schwarzhaupt Richard Violette

ROTARY CLUB OF WEST HARTFORD: Andrew Webster Donald Chapman Raymond Morris Edward Tinson William Short Frederick Andrews John O’Keefe Rev. Douglas Kennedy Thomas McManus Jr Norman Sayers Arthur Carling

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WEDDINGS

Congratulations

Angela Russo & Paul Cianci photography by Duet Photography It was during their sophomore year at Villanova University that fellow engineering students, Angela Russo and Paul Cianci began their love story. After graduation, long distance commutes became routine between New York and Connecticut. While decorating Paul’s Christmas tree, two years ago, Angela opened a surprise gift box to find her engagement ring!

The bride is the daughter of John and Rosanne Russo, of Garden City South, NY. With a bachelors and masters degree in civil engineering, Angela recently left her position at Thornton Tomasetti when she moved to Connecticut.

The groom is the son of Carl and Amy Cianci, of West Hartford. His dad is the President of Cianci Engineering, LLC. After he graduated with a Bachelors and Masters degree in civil engineering, Paul became an Associate III at Wiss, Janney, Elstner Associates, Inc. in Shelton, where he practices both forensic and design engineering.

On a beautiful summer day, the couple exchanged vows at St. Catherine of Sienna Roman Catholic Church in New York and celebrated with a festive reception at the Surf Club in New Rochelle, overlooking Long Island Sound.

After a honeymoon in Hawaii, the newlyweds now reside in Branford. n Visit westhartfordmagazine.com for more WEDDINGS.

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Angela and Paul (top right).

The bride & groom with their parents (center, left), “V” ice sculpture for their alma mater, Villanova University (above) The complete wedding party on the Long Island Sound (below).

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WEDDINGS

Congratulations

Jennifer Stanger & Carlos Poza photography by Adan Rebolledo

Bride & groom with Jennifer’s parents, Bruce & Linda Stanger , and bride’s sister and brother-in-law, Anna & Ben Golden (top left).

Carlos & Jennifer (top right).

Jennifer and her father, Bruce Stanger (inset, circle) Guests happily frolicking on the beach (above). The wedding dinner on beautiful Mexican Riviera (right).

Jennifer had been enjoying her new life in California with her boyfriend, Carlos. Both busy lawyers, they know the importance of getting away from work once in a while to relax. So, despite a major highway washout, the couple headed down toward Big Sur one weekend, per Carlos’ urging. “He kept stopping at several highway scenic points and I was getting annoyed,” remembers Jennifer. To her surprise, Carlos found the perfect spot and proposed to her!

The bride is the daughter of Bruce and Linda Stanger, of West Hartford. Bruce is a well-known family law attorney in town and Linda Satz Stanger is a social worker for at risk foster children. Jennifer graduated from Hall High School, Boston University and the University of San Francisco School of Law. She is a defense attorney at McNamara Law Firm.

The groom is the son of Sandra Poza, an architect in San Francisco. Carlos graduated from the Chicago School of Law and is an attorney with Glaspy & Glaspy.

Their August wedding took place in Zihuatanejo, Mexico with an encore reception at Beth El Synagogue in West Hartford a month later. The couple is planning a Paris honeymoon in April and currently reside in San Francisco. n Visit westhartfordmagazine.com for more WEDDINGS. november | december 2012

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WEDDINGS

Congratulations

Taryn Kenney & Stephen Yopp photography by Photo Expressions LLP www.PhotoExpressions.com It was a bold move from Taryn that won Stephen over‌for life! Stephen, a chef at Besito restaurant, in West Hartford, was surprised by a glass of wine sent over to him after work by an unknown patron. Taryn was embarrassed by her seemingly bold gesture and quickly left. The chef was intrigued and tracked her down later in the week at a nearby restaurant where she was working. After their first date, she already knew he was the one!

The bride is the daughter of Darryl and Debbie Kenney, of Plantsville. Taryn graduated from Central Connecticut State University and is currently the technical assistant at Michael Baker Engineering, Inc. The groom is the son of Robert Yopp, Sr., and Maureen Yopp, of Old Bethpage, NY. Stephen graduated from the Culinary Academy of Long Island and is currently the head chef at Besito, of West Hartford.

The April wedding and reception took place on a beautiful day in a picturesque setting under a willow tree at The Barnes at Wesleyan Hills in Middletown.

After their honeymoon cruise to the Bahamas, they now reside in Rocky Hill. n Visit westhartfordmagazine.com for more WEDDINGS.

Taryn & Stephen (top). Avery Yopp, niece and flower girl (center, left). Apple wedding mementos (center, right).

The wedding party under a willow tree (left).

Bride & groom with their parents (above).

Whimsical groomsmen shoes (inset).

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Famous ‘helmet catch’ picture, photographed at the Giants/Patriots Superbowl game.

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Action PhotographY with heart!

Portrait of Sports Photographer, Dan Burns.

photograph courtesy of the Mets team photographer, Marc Levine.

by Lisa Lelas photography by Dan Burns

Dan Burns with Melvin Morales, wounded warrior. The Mets brought them down to Citifield to shoot a game. As an extra special surprise, the Mets honored Mel’s service to our country.

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Dan Burns shot the infamous ‘helmet catch’ photo from the Giants/Patriots Superbowl game, which went global!

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imply stated, photographer Dan Burns is intrigued with all things action-oriented, through his profession and his “make-a-difference” philosophy.

Dan, a West Hartford resident, has been an NFL sports photographer for 33 years, now shooting for the NY Giants. For 25 years he has also been shooting car races from coast to coast, and celebrities, such as the late Paul Newman, a racecar driver at Lime Rock.

“Paul Newman showed some of my photos from his racing on the David Letterman Show!” Dan fondly remembers.

In addition, Dan shoots UConn football games, Greenwich polo matches, and even past presidents, such as Richard Nixon, Gerald Ford and George Bush. Dan donates much of his photography services and photos to charitable organizations all around New England, including breathtaking nature shots from the Greenwich Audubon Society.

His work has been published in National Geographic, many national sports magazines, and countless local venues.

Perhaps his most famous photograph in recent years was the infamous ‘Helmet catch’ shot from the Giants/Patriots Superbowl game in Phoenix 5 years ago. The photo went global and was seen in hundreds of newspapers around the country!

As much as he loves what he does, he admits times have changed. The business of photography is not what it once was”, says Burns. Typical incomes are down 33% from ten years ago, which he attributes to the digital age and a slow economy.

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“I first picked up a camera when I was 10 years old. It was a ‘Brownie Instamatic’!

I knew I had an eye for it from very early on.” Camera equipment has evolved so much in recent years. Perhaps the biggest jump on improvement, in his opinion, was the Nikon D2 to D3 model.

“A huge improvement!” Burns turned professional in 1981 when he signed a contract with the National Football League.

Burns grew up in Connecticut and had lived on the West coast for a while, but now happily makes his home here in West Hartford with his fiancee, Nancy.

Dan is a Vietnam era vet who served in the air force. In the spring of 2010 he approached the ‘Wounded Warrior Project’ asking if there was a vet who had a passion for photography and might like to be mentored by him. Soon after, he was matched up with wounded warrior, Melvin Morales, a Connecticut resident who, after serving in the military for 18 years, had suffered with TBI (traumatic brain injury) and was left 80% blind in one eye.

“We needed places to work,” Dan explains. “Together, Mel and I began contacting charities in New England offering to donate our photography services. It gave us great opportunities to shoot.” Dan exudes pride when he speaks about Melvin.

Dan was thrilled to become a mentor to Mel. Despite his eye injury, Mel has become a prominent photographer and

is now in school getting his Masters for Teaching. Mel has had the pleasure of accompanying Dan on photo shoots far and wide. Dan and Mel have shot numerous events for Adaptive Sports (Windham, NY), Leaps of Faith Water Skiers (Sandy Hook, CT), CT Special Olympics, and the CT First Tee (teaching young people life skills and integrity through the game of golf ).

“Mel is the most positive guy I ever met!” says Dan, “From the moment I met him, I knew he was very interested in learning photography. He clearly wanted to establish a relationship and learn as much as he could.” Since their first meeting in 2010, the two have become great friends. As Dan would purchase new camera equipment, he would hand down his older models to Mel. What’s next on Dan’s bucket list? “My big picture is putting my collection of photos on-line and getting corporate sponsorship and donations to all these great charities in our state!”

Dan affirms his vision goal is to continue shooting charity events every month of the year. In the summer, he enjoys shooting athletic events for special needs athletes. “I look at their courage!

They are having so much fun. True warriors.”

How does Dan Burns keep himself re-charged for all he accomplishes? He laughs, “Double shots from Starbucks!”

For more information, visit www. danburnsphotos.com n

Photographer, Dan Burns and Wounded Warrior, Mel Morales, have formed a charitable partnership to inspire and encourage others through their work.

Photographed at Connecticut First Tee: www.thefirstteeconnecticut.org

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TRAVEL

Relaxing at a sunset dinner.

Travel Tips

Today’s traveler wants value and more!

T byLydia Brown

he concept of an allinclusive resort has existed in one form or another for many years, but the metamorphosis started to take shape during the 80s in Jamaica. In 1950, the first Club Med Resort opened on an island off Spain and the first all- inclusive was born.

For one fee you get your room, meals, wine, beer, soft drinks and most sports activities.

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resort is not only looking for value, but also looking for more. More luxury, spas, golf courses, adventures like zip lining, and rock climbing, fine dining, fine wines, cooking classes, tennis, children’s programs, etc.

Travel to all-inclusive resorts in the Caribbean, along with cruise vacations, are now the hot sellers. Travelers today want to control their travel costs and know what they are getting for their dollar, so it’s no surprise that when companies like Club Med, Sandals , Beaches, Secrets, Dreams Resorts, Iberostar, Riu Hotels ( just to mention a few) came into existence, they became instant hits. They took the all-inclusive to a new level.

The onset of cruise vacations started in the late 1960-70s(which is somewhat inclusive). Before then it was simply a mode of transportation, only available to the rich and famous. Now cruising is available to all levels of travelers. Things have changed.

While not all cruise lines include alcohol or gratuities, they do include tax, cabin and meals. There are cruise lines that are basically all inclusive, such as Regent, Silver Sea, etc., but these are the more deluxe lines.

Your basic cruise line, Princess, Royal Caribbean, Norwegian, Carnival, Celebrity, etc., include your accommodation, meal plan and taxes with options to prepay gratuities and drink plans.

River cruises have become the ‘inclusive’ vacation in Europe this year. They include accommodations, meals, wine with lunch, dinner, shore excursions, local entertainment on board, taxes, pre and post hotel packages, etc.

Keep in mind, not all ‘all-inclusives’ are

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• When booking an all-inclusive vacation, make sure it is not only a good value but offers the amenities your family is looking for, since packages vary from resort to resort.

• Remember, not all ‘all inclusives’ are created equally. Always ask what is included and what is not included in the package.

• If traveling to Europe, take note from tour companies, by purchasing 3-4 night escorted tour modules and combining two or three cities together

created equally. Many have gone viral with luxury offerings such as concierge and butler services, private plunge pools, jacuzzi ensuites, Red Lane Spas and golf, in an attempt to tap the upscale luxury and honeymoon market. Many travelers, once leary of the of the old ‘inclusive’ concept of Club Med with its buffet dining and no frills accommodations, are now on board and won’t travel any other way. The ‘inclusive’ fever is growing and there are strong indications that we will see more inclusive resorts sprouting up in Hawaii and the U.S. mainland very soon.

(We have a few, but they are limited).

It’s odd that while the inclusive concept is growing in the Caribbean, the traditional escorted tour in Europe is shrinking. Your basic tour was an inclusive of sorts and kept costs down, by virtue of the larger numbers.

The trend in the European market is changing. Where Americans once took escorted tours they are now booking independent travel to Italy and France, Great Britain, etc.

They are renting cars and doing self-drive vacations. One of every 10 bookings I plan to Europe is an independent vacation: no bus, no tour escort, no luggage out the door

Many specialty cocktails are included.

at 6 a.m. and no changing hotels every night.

Most spend at least 2 to 3 nights in a city before moving on. Travelers are getting off the bus and getting on a bike or a barge and going to cooking classes, wine tastings, hiking and walking tours as well as even exchanging homes and living like locals. The escorted tour companies, in an effort to maintain a share of the market, are shortening their tours and making them more flexible to allow more free time, thus creating 3 and 4 night modules in many cities that can be combined.

So, whatever your preference, whichever way you want to travel, remember, not all ‘all inclusives’ are created equally. While they are a good value, you should ask what is included and what is not included. Read reviews from other travelers and remember not everyone is meant for an inclusive resort and not all destinations should be experienced that way. I can’t imagine going to Italy and eating in the same hotel every day. While I have no problem with the inclusive plan, I think it has a purpose, which was created in the Caribbean to fill a void in places where there were no restaurants in remote areas or it was unsafe to venture far from the hotel. Not every one is a fan of the inclusive resort but no matter what your travel preference, what matters is that you get out there and travel. Experience the world in any way you feel comfortable! n

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with an applesauce side 1 sweet potato, peeled 1 parsnip, peeled 1 yellow onion 2-3 Russet or Yukon gold potatoes 1 inch fresh ginger, peeled and grated 1/2 teaspoon fresh milled ground fennel seed

1 teaspoon kosher salt 1/2 teaspoon fresh milled black pepper 2 eggs, beaten 3 ounces flour peanut or other high smoke point oil applesauce or sour cream for serving

1. Grate the sweet potato, onion, and parsnip using the large holes into a large bowl.

2. Wash and scrub the Russet potatoes very well, leaving the skins on.

Grate into the bowl with the other vegetables. Add the salt, pepper, fennel, and ginger. Let rest a few minutes.

3. Using a colander (or cheesecloth if you prefer) wring all the excess moisture from the mix. Repeat, then return to the bowl.

4. Mix in the beaten eggs and flour.

Executive chef, Stephen Grace is just as much an institution as The Crown Market itself. A graduate of The Culinary School of America as well as Paul Smith’s College, Stephen has been creating dishes at The Crown for 24 years. Running a busy kitchen, Stephen focuses on using fresh seasonal ingredients to offer his customers quality convenience cuisine made from scratch. This particular creation, The Spiced Autumn Latke, was the winner at last year’s CT Latke Throwdown.

5. Generously coat the bottom of a heavy pan with 1/8” of oil. Heat to medium high until a drop of liquid would sizzle in the pan.

6. Working in small batches, ladle the mix to the heated pan to form 4 latkes with about a 3 to 4” diameter. Fry each one on one side until golden brown, then flip and cook the other side until golden. Drain on paper towels.

7. Serve warm with generous dollops of sour cream and applesauce.

Serves 4-6

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New addition to our seasoned bakery team, Pastry 1 tablespoon pure vanilla Chef Anita Magistrali joins extract us from her years of experience 1 1/4 cups milk in a local CT bakery. Anita attended The Vanilla Buttercream, either Culinary School of America where she fell homemade or store-bought in love with baking and pastry arts. Baking Apple Pie Filling, either store-bought or homemade from scratch each day, Anita, along with the Crown Bakery Team strive to provide an old Caramel Sauce (available world bakery experience nestled within the with ice cream toppings) confines of a full service market.

1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Line 2 muffin tins with cupcake liners.

Whisk together flour, baking powder, salt, and cinnamon and set aside.

2. With an electric mixer on medium-high speed, beat butter and sugar until pale and fluffy, for about 4 minutes. Mix in the eggs, one at a time, scraping down sides of bowl, until well blended. Mix in vanilla.

3. Add flour mixture in three batches, alternating with milk, beating until combined after each. Divide batter evenly among prepared muffin tins. Bake, rotating tins halfway through, until tops spring back

when lightly touched, about 20 minutes. Let cool in tins on wire racks.

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5. Fill each cupcake with apple pie filling and top with reserved cake circle.

6. Pipe or frost each cupcake with buttercream.

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WINE

RISING To the Top Alternative Bubbly for the Holiday Season

by Ertan Sener

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t amazes me that a year has flown by, and I find myself writing the wine column for the holiday season already. Thoughts of family gatherings, celebrations with close friends or the dinner party at the neighbor’s house lead to the same question, ‘what should I bring?’ I like to believe that the simple solution in all cases is a nice bottle of wine! This time of year, with all the festive occasions, a glass of something bubbly is always fun, and helps put the “Cheer” in the word “Cheers!” Champagne, the king of sparkling wines, is a wine that can fit all occasions. Although, sometimes the price of champagne might not be the answer for all functions you’ll be attending during a busy holiday season.

Well, what to do? Believe it or not, there are some amazing alternatives to fill a glass with a lively liquid. I would like to discuss three sparkling options as we search for some alternative bubbly.

Only sparkling wine from the Champagne region of France, by law, can be called champagne. This does not deter other producers throughout France from creating a wine that will tickle one’s nose and dance on their palate.

So, what to call these beauties? The term Crémant is used to describe a quality sparkling wine. Added to the title is where the wine is from, or AOC. Like champagne, the grapes used to create these wines might be Chardonnay and/or Pinot Noir, but other grapes can be used like Chenin Blanc in the Loire Valley. Here is a list of a few of the Crémant wines areas and how it will be listed on the label. Crémant de Alsace, Crémant de Bordeaux, Crémant de Bourgogne,

Crémant de Die, Crémant du Jura, Crémant de Limoux, Crémant de Loire and Crémant de Luxembourg. The grape varieties will differ depending on where the wine comes from, but one can be assured that it will be a fine quality, dry sparkling wine. They are fun to try as they can help narrow in on a style and a producer that is truly enjoyable.

Sparkling wine can be found in a number of countries that have adopted a tradition for the given regions. Now, let’s travel to two countries that have developed their own quality sparkling wine.

Italy has an amazing wine making tradition and history, as well as having hundreds of grape varieties that are used to make particular wines from particular areas. Up in Northeastern Italy we find the Veneto Region. Here, grapes are

magically turned into a beautiful sparkling wine call Prosecco. The grape variety was also known as Prosecco, but over recent years, with new Prosecco wine making laws, ancient grape variety names have been reintroduced. Names such as: Glera, Balbi, Serpina, and Tondo. These new laws have also given higher quality designation levels to particular growing

Prosecco aims to please with its light mouth feel and flavors of crisp apple with a finish clean.

A perfect alternative bubbly, that will still eagerly dance in the glass.

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WINE regions. The new quality designations are: Prosecco DOC, Prosecco DOC Treviso, Valdobbiadene Prosecco Superiore DOCG, and the two top levels, Cartizze DOCG and Rive de DOCG. These last two are only produced by a handful of wineries. Prosecco can come in different styles, as well. The full sparkling, Spumante and the lightly sparkling, Frizzante. No matter which style, Prosecco aims to please with its light mouth feel and flavors of crisp apple with a finish clean. A perfect alternative bubbly, that will still eagerly dance in the glass.

Spain is proud of their lively liquid they call Cava. Cava was originally known as Champan, the Spanish translation of the French word Champagne, but after some legal conflict with France, they changed the name to Cava (meaning “cellar” in Catalan.) Well, that is where the conflict ended, and now Cava is a sought after Sparkler for any occasion. There is Cava production all over Northern Spain and actually around 159 official producers are authorized to label their wines with the Cava designation or DO. In order to be called Cava, the wine must be made with the Champagne Method

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• Discover quality sparkling wine alternatives this season, such as Cremant, Prosecco, or Cava, from France, Italy, and Spain, respectively.

• The Cremant grape varieties differ depending on its region, but each will be a fine quality, dry sparkling wine.

• Prosecco aims to please with its light mouth feel and flavors of crisp apple with a clean finish. A perfect alternative bubbly.

• Cava is produced all over Northern Spain. The wine must be made with the Champagne Method or it cannot have the word Cava on the label.

(Méthode Champenoise) or else it cannot have the word Cava on the label. There are three main indigenous grape varieties that are used to make Cava: Macabeo, Parellada, and Xarel-lo, although, Pinot Noir and

Chardonnay are used by some of the top Cava producers. There are different taste profiles for each Cava producer, but overall the wines can be dry, yet fruity and crisp, showing some lovely orchard fruit and even possibly subtle notes of tropical fruit.

This is just a short list of some of my favorite bubbles for any occasion. But please, don’t stop there. There are a vast number of other fun bubbles that are made all over the world, including the United States that are of fantastic quality. A little bubbly can turn any gathering into a festive occasion, with the pop of the cork to the chorus of bubbles that sing from the glass. Let this holiday season be filled with family and friends and a toast…a toast to fine sparkling wine from around the world! Cheers! n

Ertan S. Sener, wine educator, has been seen in Wine Spectator Magazine, and is the buyer/manager at West Side Wines & Spirits. 860-233-1241. westsidewines.com.

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COCKTAIL

“Old Thymer” 6 sprigs of Thyme 2 lemon wedges, 1 orange wedge ½ oz. simple syrup 1 ½ oz. Carpano Vermouth 1 ½ oz. Woodford Reserve Bourbon Minced Rosemary, sugar in raw Orange wede, pintxo Steps Of Preparation 1. In a cocktail shaker, muddle the thyme, lemons, orange and simple syrup.

2. Add the measured vermouth and bourbon. Fill with ice.

3. Shake well. Strain into ice filled Rocks glass.

4. Dip orange wedge into rosemarysugar mixture. Pierce with toothpick, garnish.

Cocktail provided by: Wine & Spirits Director

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Inspired by the beach culture of Punte del Este and Buzios in South America, bartaco brings upscale street food with a coastal vibe in a relaxed environment. The spacious dining room, complete with high ceilings, draws attention to the unique paintings and photographs decorating the walls.

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“Brookline Sour” 6 to 8 red grapes handful of thyme ½ oz. Simple Syrup ½ oz. Lemon Juice 1 oz. High West white whiskey 2 squirts boston bittahs 3 red grapes, sliced in half Steps Of Preparation 1. In a clean cocktail shaker, muddle the grapes, thyme and simple syrup 2. Add the lemon juice, whiskey and bitters.

Fill with ice and shake well 3. Strain into ice filled rocks glass.

4. Garnish with sliced grapes.

Cocktail created by: Gretchen Thomas Wine & Spirits Director

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TABLE Story and styling by Sheryl Green & Bridgette Larcada Photography by Rebecca Hales

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festivity

The common thread and inspiration for each of these place settings is “Breaking the Rules”. Be creative, add elements of surprise, explore textures, and find multiple uses for pieces. Take an inventory of what you own and add some newness. We all know that our wardrobes need a spark of new every year, so does your table.

Although everything used in these settings is new and available from retailers throughout West Hartford, many pieces are similar to what you might already own and, if not, we can help you shop!

The use of brown paper on this table is the foundation of the setting on this page. It sets the tone for the earthy colors used in the mixing of faience, pottery, and stoneware. Mix it up! Utilize your rustic flatware, use your good crystal and add some fun stems such as the bubble flutes shown here. Serve your dishes on a fabulous piece of wood - or is it a cheeseboard? What fun would it be to sit down at your Thanksgiving dinner with this eclectic table buzzing with both old and new world elegance.”

-Sheryl Green

For this setting we used champagne flutes and wooden servings dishes from Crate & Barrel. Colored stemware, stainless utensils, plates, charger and napkins are available at Lux Bond & Green. The pottery and candle votives can be found at Spruce Home & Garden.

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UNEXPECTED

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Start with a contemporary vessel and fill it with traditional pinecones and ornaments, making sure it is filled with lots of silver and greens. Pull out the stops with striking black and white Balcon Hermes dinnerware placed on top of a more casual Mariposa platter - a play on opposites. It’s about the unexpected, whether it’s a dinner for two or buffet for twelve, the table reflects a modern traditionalist. Add the juxtaposition of a casual votive, the sleekness of stainless utensils, and the green crystal hock wine glass to add warmth. All placed on top of a beautiful soft green cashmere throw and we have created a sophisticated dining experience. Voila! It’s New Year’s Eve.”

-Sheryl Green

For this setting a bold candle votive and silver charger from Comina. Weaved placemat and cheese knives available at Crate & Barrel. Find the porcelain plates, colored glasses, napkins and flatware at Lux Bond & Green. Center piece, playing cards and cashmere throws are from Spruce Home & Garden.

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A favorite red antique tray sporting contemporary decanters, all playing off the designs of a Hermes and Versace dinnerware. Adding yet another era the place setting is accented with Art Deco flatware. A rich gold table runner weaves it all together and accents the earthy goldwashed bowls used cleverly as votives. No flowers for this setting, a glided branch from the garden turned into an art project anchors the festive setting as well as a beautiful mirror used as a tray to highlight the theme of your dinner.

Red and gold are festive for all occasions. The setting will “WOW” guests and the meal will be easy. Something I learned early on - it’s all in the presentation.”

-Sheryl Green

For this setting we used an antique tray, detailed mirror, candle sticks and silver charger from Comina. Mustard runner, speckled glasses, decanters and gold votives from Crate & Barrel. Bold china plates, silverware and colored glasses can be found at Lux Bond & Green.

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Is This YOU?

Is This YOU?

h, Christmas Tree…

How to Select the Perfect holiday Tree!

by Lisa Lelas

Container Trees for Planting: Perhaps this is the year for selecting a live tree, with its root ball, so that you can plant it in your yard after the holiday season to enjoy for many years ahead! Before choosing a live tree, you must first determine exactly where the tree will be planted outdoors after the season passes. Once you decide on its permanent spot, remember to pre-dig a hole two times as wide as the root ball, and equal to, or slightly less than the depth of the root ball.

Most fresh/live trees are available in containers or balled in burlap.

Best choices, as recommended by the Gledhill Christmas Tree Lot in West Hartford, are the Balsam Fir, Blue Spruce, Norway Spruce, or Omorika Spruce.

If you are purchasing one of these trees this year, make sure you choose a tree with fresh green needles. When you bring the tree home, keep it outside and give it plenty of water. On an outside porch is a fine location. Ideally, you should only bring the tree indoors a few days prior to Christmas (trees actually only survive a few days indoors). Continue to give your tree plenty of water.

Container trees can still appear just as festive in your living room by simply adding a large tree skirt around the entire root ball. Gledhill offers a huge selection of tree skirts in various sizes and colors.

After the holiday festivities, plant the tree in the pre-dug hole. Adding an amendment, such as Fafard compost or planting mix, will help establish the tree.

Fresh Cut Trees: If you and your family are opting for a fresh cut tree to take home, Balsam and Frasier Fir trees are the most popular and durable.

For best results, make sure the tree you purchase is local to your region of the country. All Gledhill fresh cut trees, for example, are grown in the Northeast, so they haven’t spent many days or weeks on a hauler truck.

Give the needles a snap test, whereby you bend a needle on a tree to see if it ‘snaps’ easily, indicating it’s a freshly cut tree. A fresh cut off the bottom of the tree will allow it to take up water and remain fresh longer. When you get home, place the tree in a fresh supply of water. Adding Pro-Long or Fresh-Cut (infused with pine scent) will extend the life of your cut tree.

Another recommended product is Wilt-Pruf, which helps extend the life of fresh garlands and wreaths. Always follow the directions on the product label. n

FINANCE

A Value-Based Approach to

Philanthropy Tips for Spreading the Spirit of Giving

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t’s the holiday season—a popular time for getting together, expressing gratitude, and spreading the spirit of giving. Forty-three percent of wealthy donors confirmed that they make more charitable contributions during the holiday season between October and December compared to the rest of the year, according to the 2012 Bank of America Study on High Net Worth Philanthropy. While making a charitable donation to any organization seems simple, a thoughtful strategy can maximize your gift so that it’s both meaningful to you and impactful to your organization. Creating a philanthropic strategy is also an activity you can do as a family. Sharing these values and incorporating the next generation into your philanthropy can help continue support of causes close to your heart and help build a legacy of strong values.

Identify Your Giving Values And Interests Especially with the economic uncertainty over the last few years, there’s a multitude

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of organizations in need of donations.

To focus your giving, it’s useful to have a framework. You can start by looking inwardly to identify your own basic values and interests. Whether it’s the community, education, or family, these values can guide what issues speak most to you and personalize the difference you make. From there, you can research the organizations that are most aligned to what you hope to address. Different factors include the organization’s mission statement, programs, and state of their finances.

Be sure that the organizations you’re considering are verified and registered nonprofit and tax-exempt companies. They should also maintain transparency in the donation process, so that you know where your dollars are going.

Structure Your Giving While you may want to donate as much as possible, it’s critical that your philanthropic goals do not put your other financial goals and your future quality of life at risk. To choose an amount that you can donate comfortably, take a close

look at your cash flow and investment portfolio. Are they currently meeting or surpassing your financial goals? Working with an advisor to analyze your current assets and goals can help you identify the amount that fits your situation.

Remember, protecting your financial stability will position you to continue your charitable efforts for the long-term.

Once you have a specific amount in mind, you can select the appropriate way to disseminate your gift. Vehicles for giving include foundations, funds and trusts, which have varying degrees of control. For example, a private foundation can allow you and your family to decide how grants are made and how foundation assets are invested, but require a large team of legal and financial professionals to establish and maintain. On the other hand, donor-advised funds are less complex but allow the donor less control. Charitable trusts are another option with other advantages and drawbacks.

With so many financial and legal procedures involved, it’s best to work with a team of trusted experts to choose the appropriate vehicle for your donation and situation.

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by James W. Fanelli and Filomena Soyster

Empower The Next Generation To Give To continue your legacy of giving, communicate with your family as you plan. According to the 2012 U.S. Trust Insights on Wealth and Worth™ study, philanthropy has become an important social responsibility across generations. The study, which explores the attitudes, preferences, goals and needs of high-net-worth and ultrahigh-net-worth individuals and their families in the United States, found that nearly three-quarters (73%) of Baby Boomers (ages 47-66), two-thirds (66%) of older respondents (ages 67+), and approximately half (53%) of younger respondents (ages 18-47) feel there is a responsibility to be philanthropic.

One way to engage the next generation about philanthropy is to learn about the causes that are personal to them. By understanding one another’s values, consider collaborating together on issues that are important to all of you. This offers them a vested interest in your efforts

Finance Tips • A study, which explored the attitudes, preferences, goals and needs of high-networth and ultra-high-net-worth individuals and their families in the United States, found that nearly three-quarters (73%) of Baby Boomers (ages 47-66), two-thirds (66%) of older respondents (ages 67+), and approximately half (53%) of younger respondents (ages 18-47) feel there is a responsibility to be philanthropic.

• There’s no one single way to give, so create a unique philanthropic plan that works best for you and your situation.

reviewing your priorities personally and as a family can help to ensure your charitable efforts remain aligned with your interests.

Especially as your family grows older, you may find that you and your children have new philanthropic interests and concerns. There’s no one single way to give, so create a unique philanthropic plan that works best for you and your situation.

Consistent communication with an advisor can help you remain on track with your charitable goals and your overall financial picture and transition your legacy to the next generation.

For more information, contact your financial advisor or visit www.ustrust.com. n James W. Fanelli, CFP, managing director Filomena Soyster, private client advisor U.S. Trust, Bank of America Private Wealth Mgmt, West Hartford www.ustrust.com

and gives you an opportunity to teach them about the responsibilities of wealth.

Greater involvement can inspire the next generation to continue this tradition of generosity.

Over time, needs and interests are going to change. Therefore, regularly

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Last Stop Last Stop, West Hartford!

West Hartford Hollywood screenwriter, David Steinberg looks back at this Town!

by Nikki A. Sambitsky

â&#x20AC;&#x153;As you get older and become

an adult, and have your own kids, you start to value what the West Hartford upbringing was like.â&#x20AC;?

W David Steinberg wrote the sequel to the hit movie, “American Pie”.

est Hartford will always remain the town that influenced the way screenwriter, David H. Steinberg grew up. Despite having moved to California, his hometown still continues to shine through in many of his creative works.

References, both specific and vague, make their appearance in anything and everything from movie scripts, to television pilots, to his recently published book, entitled “Last Stop This Town.”

“You can’t escape your own upbringing, and I think that growing up in West Hartford definitely shaped my view of the world and how I write teen comedies,” explained Steinberg, who is most known for writing sequels to the “American Pie” movies. “You definitely infuse your own views on life based on your own experiences.”

Steinberg, a 1987 graduate of Hall High School, grew up in his family home on Pioneer Drive and attended Bugbee Elementary School, Kingswood Oxford School, and, like many kids, could be found hanging out at Liggett Suburban Pharmacy in his down time. Because he graduated during his junior year and advanced to

Yale University to study law, he said he was mainly known in school for being ‘the guy who went to Yale a year early.’

“I definitely was the more advanced student,” he explained. “I was always taking classes that were in the next grade level. I was a smart kid and I did end up going to Yale after my junior year.”

Surprisingly, Steinberg, who just recently celebrated his 43rd birthday, did not enjoy writing essays while in school and noted that English was one of his least favorite subjects. Mostly favoring math, he explained that even in college, he would elect to take classes that had very little to do with writing. Despite that fact, Steinberg began publishing a humor newsletter for his College Comp Page.

“It was just fun stuff that I would think up, write down, print the newsletter, and mail it out to my friends,” he said. “I should have known then that that was my calling.”

Steinberg gave up practicing law in 1997 as he packed up and headed to Los Angeles to attend film school. That summer he would pen his first script, a comedy meant for actor/comedian, and former SNL alum

Previous Page: Inset photo: David Steinberg, talking to director of photography, Ben Kantor. Photo courtesy of Keetgi Kogan.

David hams it up with childhood friend, Josh Aronie in West Hartford. Photo courtesy of Paula Steinberg.

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Chris Farley. Because of his enrollment in film school, meetings with professors who were in the industry, as well as classmates who were in the producing program, Steinberg’s script got the attention of an agent.

“One classmate read my Chris Farley script and she gave it to a lawyer, and that lawyer gave it to an agent,” he explained.

“Pretty soon I had representation.”

But the untimely death of Farley prevented any kind of production on the script, which sent Steinberg back to the drawing board. After writing a second script, which was unsuccessful, he was told to write a third. It was the third time that was the charm. Seeking to dedicate his time to writing that script, which in the end, turned out to be the raunchy comedy “Slackers”, Steinberg quit film school to write full time.

“My agent said there was a new movie coming out that summer called ‘American Pie’ and that I should try writing something like that,” he said of the 1999 hit comedy. “I’m not really a crude person. I don’t tell dirty jokes and it’s a little bit embarrassing, but I guess it’s a little liberating too. So I said, okay, I’ll write some sex jokes and stuff.”

Those ‘sex jokes’ about three guys in college trying to beat the system would turn into a hit movie for Steinberg in 2002 by raking in 100 million dollars. It was one month later that he received a call from Universal Studios asking him to write the sequel to “American Pie.” Fast forward to 2012. Steinberg, has been married for 12 years to wife, Keetgi, a film producer and owner of Monkey Business Press, a printing and publishing house. They live in Santa Monica with

their two young children. Steinberg has just published his first book about four life-long teenage friends residing in West Hartford about to embark on their journey into college. “Last Stop This Town” follows the teens on their last weekend before graduating from Hall High School as they spend a very wild night in New York City, compelling them to come to terms with growing up and growing apart.

Basing most of the book on his own personal experiences, Steinberg said he wanted the writings to reflect the upset he felt after leaving high school.

“I had written all these teen comedies and I felt that I wanted to write about something that was much more about my own personal experience and not just about a random bunch of guys trying to find girls. Of course, that’s on the mind of most teenage boys, but it’s not like the only thing they are thinking about,” Steinberg quipped. “I wanted to write a teen comedy that would really be about what I experienced growing up, and for me, leaving high school was very traumatic, especially since I left after my junior year. I never really had my senior year to transition to college. At the time, I thought I was a genius and all of my friends thought I was brilliant going to college early, and they were stuck in high school. It was senior year and they were all having the times of their lives and I was like a 16 year-old freshman and no girls were even talking to me.”

Steinberg, who does all of his writing out of his home office, said that it was important to write about his life as a teen in West Hartford, noting that there was something interesting about growing up in

Above: David with wife, Keetgi, their two children, Henry and Hannah, and dog, Max. Photo courtesy of Erik Nelder.

Left: David’s novel centers around his life, pre-graduation time, at Hall High School.

Last Stop This Town is a novel about four teens

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David’s dad, Lewis Steinberg, David Steinberg, and David’s mom, Paula Steinberg. Photo courtesy of Keetgi Kogan

the suburbs.

“All of the kids want to leave and go see the world and explore things, and they don’t realize at that age that it’s a pretty good life. After they go off to college they come back to West Hartford because it’s

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a place where they want to raise their kids, and they want them to go to school there,” reflected Steinberg. “When you are an adult, you realize that it’s a great place to grow up, and you have fond memories of growing up in West Hartford. But the weird thing is that you don’t realize that when you are a senior because you can’t wait to get out of there. I think the interesting thing for me was the expectation of what college was really going to be like versus the reality. It was so shocking that I kind of wanted to capture that moment in time when it’s the last weekend before graduation and everything is about to change.

They don’t tell you that when you go off into the world that growing up is hard.”

The book, which garnered positive reviews, most recently sold out at a signing back in April at Barnes & Noble in Blue Back Square. The future is looking bright for Steinberg, as ABC family signed on to produce “Phys Ed”, his television pilot about a “jock” who returns to his alma

mater as the new gym teacher. He is also currently working on a second novel and another sequel to “American Pie.” Though he is based out of California, Steinberg says he still returns home to visit family and friends as often as he can.

He holds high regard for the upbringing that being from West Hartford has afforded him.

“As you get older and become an adult, and have your own kids, you start to value what the West Hartford upbringing was like, and not just the educational system, which was better than almost any other place in the country,” he reflects, “but also the type of people that you are exposed to growing up. You’ve got a town that’s really proud of education and sending kids off to college. It’s the kind of place where they have those sorts of values, and when you get older, you start to add those values to your own life. You realize that it’s just a great place to grow up.” n

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Navigating a Legacy Murray Grant River of Hope for Children in the Middle East

by Cindy Papish Gerber photography courtesy of Jordan River Village

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Murray and Marilyn Grant are all smiles at the camp opening.

n a gloriously sunny June afternoon, high above the hills encompassing a vista of the Sea of Galilee, hundreds of well-wishers surround Murray and Marilyn Grant, of West Hartford. Parents, children, state officials, media reps, celebrities, volunteers, staff members, friends, and family are gathered to celebrate the grand opening of Jordan River Village (JRV). But more than that; they’re here in Israel to witness the realization of the Grants’ longheld dream: a facility, unlike any other in the Middle East, where seriously ill Jewish, Christian and Muslim children can enjoy an enriching, safe, weeklong camping experience, completely free of charge.

During their stay, these kids will exchange their wearisome routine of hospitals, clinic visits, I-V lines and complex medical regimens for the pure unadulterated pleasure of “just being kids”.

All eyes are upon Murray on the stage, as he cuts the ceremonial red ribbon. Cameras flash and the crowd cheers. The 61 acre

JRV complex officially joins the worldwide SeriousFun Children’s Network, formerly known as Paul Newman’s Hole in the Wall Camps. JRV, like the other recreational, medically supervised villages and programs in this chain, will help campers (aged 9-18) and their families, ”…reach beyond their illnesses and discover new strength, hope and resilience.”

Two days later, Murray Grant is gone; passing away on the airplane while traveling with Marilyn from Israel to their home in Florida.

“It is an amazing story,” says their daughter Lisa Grant, a former West Hartford resident and Professor at New York City’s Hebrew Union College. “Jordan River Village was my parents’ joint obsession for over 14 years. Despite his declining health at 85…his serious heart condition, he was completely SO determined to attend the opening,” she emphasizes. While in Israel, “It was pretty clear how sick he was,” says Lisa.

Yet, there was simply no stopping Murray Grant. “The most exceptional thing about him is that he penetrated every single level of society in Connecticut, Israel and

elsewhere,” says Linda Ashkenazi, the Executive Director of the American Friends of the Jordan River Village. “He gained respect from all echelons of society—from the very wealthy, to those in local, national and international politics, the arts, other nonprofits, religious leaders, corporate executives, small business owners and average folks. Equipped with a quick mind and a huge heart, he got people to listen.”

Lisa Grant acknowledges her father’s tenacity. “Even while waiting in the airport lounge with my mother, in all his discomfort, he managed to pitch JRV to a couple from Arizona. “Within days after my father’s death, she adds, “this man and his wife gave a pretty sizable donation.”

The airport personnel who attended to him when stricken (one of whom also flew to his packed memorial service in West Hartford), were inspired enough to give money.

“My dad truly ‘worked the room’ for JRV until his very last breath.”

“If Murray were here,” muses his widow, Marilyn Grant, “he would definitely ask you for a contribution.” Married for 63 years, or, as Marilyn phrases it, “joined at the hip, with the same dreams”, the seed for their vision first took root at a 1998 CT jazz concert to benefit Paul Newman’s Hole in the Wall Camp. “It was all my idea for 45 minutes,” she quips. “I picked up the brochure, read it and a light went on. But that was the end of my ownership.” From that point onward, Marilyn cheerfully handed over the reins, deriving pleasure in her husband’s achievements. “It was destiny,” she states. “The fact that Murray was able to go to Israel, see this come true and was a happy man, keeps me going.”

The couple met in Marilyn’s home state

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“ The 61 acre Jordan River Village complex officially joins the worldwide SeriousFun Children’s Network, formerly known as Paul Newman’s Hole in the Wall Camps. of Michigan while attending college. Murray, who lived in the Hartford/West Harford area since 1927, brought his bride back to West Hartford in 1949 to raise a family (Lisa, and a son, Paul, who passed away in 2007). In 1971, the Grants’ pivotal decision to make aliyah (immigrate) to Israel did not affect their close ties to their Connecticut “stomping grounds.” Marilyn maintains that, “without the amazing support of the Greater Hartford and West Hartford communities, we could have never accomplished this. They helped establish it and got it running.”

Working in the 1980’s as a liaison between the SNEC (the Southern New England Consortium, a partnership between the Israeli region of Afula/Gilboa with Jewish Federations in CT and MA), provided Marilyn with additional insights.

She observed a significant influx of families to that part of Israel from the former Soviet Union, including many children emigrating from Chernobyl with cancer. The area lacked a facility to treat them.

While the Grants lived in Israel (until 2005), one of their priorities was to somehow help these kids. Even before the JRV opened , sick kids from Israel were sent to other Hole in the Wall camps. “The first group of campers consisted of six kids, and a nurse, flown in from Israel to attend the Paul Newman camp in Ashford, CT,” Marilyn explains. “There were two Arab children, and four were Jewish.” At first, these families had nothing in common…except for their illnesses.” Within a very short time, the kids bonded like sisters and brothers. “We realized we can make an enormous difference in these children’s lives,” she asserts. A secondary goal is that this effort could create a ripple effect leading to peace in the Middle East. “I strongly believe that if we can live, work and share together, good things can result.”

“In deeds as well as words, Murray and Marilyn helped make come alive a moribund city (Afula),” says Stanley M. Kessler, the Rabbi Emeritus of Beth El Temple in West Hartford. “And, as culmination of

goals, they were determined to see realized the Jordan River project by giving a brief measure of recreation to children suffering the most life-threatening of diseases.

Murray Grant’s life’s devotions knew no bounds.”

The logistics of their project proved daunting. Lisa Grant enumerates: “Building boards, here and in Israel, dealing with zoning, bureaucracies, and creating a network of people who could do all this. My parents didn’t have resources of their own, but were

A child enjoys the camp’s playground facilities.

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“It was his destiny. The fact that Murray was able to go to Israel, see this come true and was a happy man, keeps me going.”

-Marilyn Grant Murray Grant at ribbon cutting ceremony in Israel.

remarkably successful in raising funds.”

It took many years before any facility was operational, and when it did, it became necessary to hire a professional staff.

Presently, JRV’s Israeli Board is chaired by actor Chaim Topol (best known for his portrayal of Tevye in the film Fiddler on the Roof). To date, JRV has hosted more than 900 children--Arabs and Jews from all political, cultural and religious backgrounds.

A top-notch medical and administrative team, reinforced by more than 400 volunteers, plays an essential role in planning, fundraising and daily operations. The Israeli government has also committed its support.

“The toughest stage was getting everybody to believe in it,” shares Katia Citrin, JRV’s former CEO, who worked closely with the Grants for over 40 years. Murray taught her, “perseverance, optimism and believing in dreams.” Katia remains grateful for the many individuals who came together for this purpose. “With their help, “she acknowledges, “the dream was indeed realized.”

Harford Attorney, Bruce Stanger has seen that dream evolve through his two separate JRV visits. “The first time, the project was just beginning and things were a bit straggly,” he remembers. “The next time (2011), it was impressive and fully operational. I am in awe of the attention to

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detail. The medical facilities are astounding awareness, build and develop a board of in their ability to care for children first— directors. “I don’t think we will find ten and make them feel special in all stages of people together who can really replace their illness.”

Murray Grant,” says Ashkenazi. “But hope “I am very familiar with the commitfully, his inspiration to others will motivate ment required to see a project like this many more people to get involved. That will through,” says John C. Read, the President be his legacy.” & CEO of the Serious Fun Children’s For more info go to: http://www.jordanNetwork. “And it is Murray’s and Marilyn’s rivervillage.org n extraordinary and active compassion for children struggling with illness that impressed me the most.” Read came to know Murray in the last year before he died and had “the privilege of joining him” at the JRV grand opening. “My first and most lasting impression is of the ‘consummate gentleman’, working quietly and effectively to get something important done. There was an underlying strength that made evident the benefits of doing what he asked vs. the alternative. Murray, and the way he lived his life, reminds me of the difference between a person who is merely empathetic in regard to others and one whose compassion translates into active and sustained service toward those in need.”

There is more work to be done. Plans are underway to expand JRV’s campus to include sports, performing arts, an arts and crafts center, nature trails, adventure park and even a petting zoo. In the U.S., Linda Ashkenazi continues to raise This unique camp for children brings new smiles everyday!

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by Irene W. Yukash crowd of women and a few adventurous men of varied ages are bunched outside of a group fitness room waiting for the previous class to clear out. A now common scenario at Zumba classes all across the nation. This is only a slight indication of great things to come when the fitness class begins. As the weights are stacked and mats put back to their cubby, people start filing into the room, taking position and anxiously waiting for the music to begin.

“Zumba has the power to change peoples’ lives and lifestyles; when you’re physically empowered you’re mentally empowered,” said Iris Ivette Watkins, Zumba Instructor at Big Sky Fitness. “Zumba is for everybody, anyone can do it; whatever works for you, works for me.”

In front of the class of nearly 50 people packed like sardines, Iris enters. No taller than 5’, the 21-year-old instructor sets the mood by asking “Is everybody ready?” The class explodes in cheer and applause. The music sounds and the class begins to sway back and forth, clapping hands in the air.

This is only the warm up for Iris’ hour long Zumba class in Newington, where many ‘West Hartfordites’ like to let loose.

“It’s the greatest class ever! I’ve been taking Zumba for the past five years,” Adelle Clark of West Hartford. “I’ve taken it in many places from New York to Miami and Iris’ class is the greatest! I’ve lost so

much weight because of her class and I’ve now become an instructor.”

Born and raised in West Hartford, Clark is the manager of the California Pizza Kitchen and a mother of two little girls. She’s been taking Iris’ Zumba class for about a year and isn’t the only mom rearranging her schedule to attend these sessions.

Amy Parker, a Curriculum specialist at Smith School joined the program last year. “I leave the class feeling like I’m 17 again!” she smiles.

The sexy and intoxicating moves of the salsa are Iris’ favorite, but she doesn’t discriminate. With the change of a song, the dance styles change from swing to cha cha to hip hop. Iris encourages students to spice up the routines with their own moves. “How are we feeling?” Iris will shout mid routine. Each time there is an energetic response from dancers, shouting as they squat, shake and pop it.

“When I look out at all of the students and see the joy in people’s hearts, it’s a feeling that I can’t explain…it’s amazing,” said Iris. “Hearing those success stories is what makes your job feel like the best job in the whole world.”

“Besides being an incredible workout because you’re dripping when you’re done; its so much fun and because she’s grinning the entire time, you forget you’re killing your body in a good way,” said Holly Miller, a psychologist at the American School for the Deaf.

The class then parts in two. Iris takes a side and once the next song plays, leads

her side of the dance off. While one half of the room imitates her moves, the others watch as they wait for their time to shine. Back and forth the dancers push themselves, knowing cool down is soon to come.

“I just give them everything I’ve got. I lay it all out on the dance floor and try to give them as much energy as I have,” said Iris.

Iris recalls her first time taking Zumba class, just four years ago. “It was a group of high energy people jumping around the room, and curiosity got me in there to see what it was all about.” Iris took guidance from Tanya Beardsley of Live, Love Dance Studio. She credits much of her success to Beardsley.

Iris’ class continues with stretches in sync to the peaceful sounds of Para Amarte by Shakira. Arm, leg and back muscles are freed of tensions. One final deep breath in, arms stretched overhead. The music switches off but moods are still elevated as participants exit the room feeling refreshed and euphoric. Iris surmises, “As long as I stay true to myself then my class will always be uplifting and motivating!” n Irene Yukash is currently a CCSU student dedicated to finding enriching fitness experiences that can improve mental and physical health. yukashirw@my.ccsu.edu

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Is the thought of writing cards, gift shopping, decorating and planning your annual cookie swap overwhelming you already?

While it’s easy to get tangled up in the holiday web of endless activities and chores…adjust and simplify them if you must, but don’t give up on family traditions. With a little finetuning you can see them, not as obligations, but as blessings.

After all, we are fortunate to have this one time of year that shakes up our daily life, colors our world with extra sparkle, warms our heart with gratitude, connects us with our loved ones and gives us new perspective as we prepare for the New Year. So, throw a candy cane into your coffee mug and take note on how to lesson the stress and strengthen the traditions of everyone’s favorite holiday season!

Gift Giving: Take a large manila envelope and label it ‘Holiday Shopping 2012’ and use it as the one assigned place to throw in all your holiday receipts this year. Cut your gift list in half, and shop only for your closest friends and relatives. If your extended family agrees, pick names out of a hat, whereby family members now just buy for the person whose name they draw. Give ‘coupons for service’, such as babysitting or meal making. Give to charitable causes in the person’s name this year. Keep a list of ideas going all year long of items they really want and keep track of their sizes. Exchange one ‘family’ gift between families rather than buying for everyone in the family. Buy recurring gifts that the recipient will look forward to each year, such as Florida citrus, Vermont cheeses, a holiday collectable or theatre tickets. Keep some extra gift bags and generic gifts on hand (ones that you can also use after the holidays) in case you need an additional hostess gift or something for an unexpected guest, such as one size fits all gloves, bottles of merlot or pairs of candles tied together with raffia.

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Holiday Parties: Make it a point to say ‘no’ at least once when someone invites you to attend a holiday party if you tend to feel over-scheduled during this busy season. Receiving an invitation is a great salute to you, but you’re not obligated to accept every one. If you are the party host, consider holding the festivity away from home…perhaps a caroling party through the neighborhood, or at a restaurant, eliminating the need for pre-cleaning and decorating as well as cleaning up.

Still want the big bash at home? Throw it early in the season.

Your guests will be more excited about catching the spirit, less burnt out from other parties and you’re more likely not to be competing with other party dates within the same social circle.

Holiday Baking/Cooking: For your favorite celebratory meals, turn your recipe cards into a shopping list by writing the menu on the front of an index card and all the ingredients needed to prepare it on the back. Once a week, make a double batch of the family meal to freeze, so you’ll have extra meals ready to heat up in a pinch, as the days only get busier. You don’t have to give up the traditional cookie-bake day with your kids, just do it earlier, preferably even before Thanksgiving and freeze the cookies, thawing out only those you need throughout the season.

Decorating the House: Don’t be the one that does everything this year. Make it a family affair. Host a family tree trimming party one weekend afternoon, complete with hot cocoa, popcorn and a classic holiday movie. Rather than anguish over hundreds of old ornaments, pull out only your absolute favorite ornaments this year and when packing up the décor, place them in their own storage bin, labeled ‘family favorites’. Simplify holiday decorating by concentrating primarily on the room your family spends the most time in. White candles with sprigs of evergreen can elegantly brighten up a fireplace mantle or dining room table. Plop a big red candle in the middle of your kitchen table and light it at every meal this season…yes, even breakfast! Place a wreath on the front door and load your I-Pod with holiday classics … go ahead, it’s time…and it’s okay to get into the spirit already! Have a wonderful holiday season! n

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Two West Hartford churches are joining with Hartford Area Habitat for Humanity (HAHH) to build a home on Liberty Street in Hartford. The ceremonial “ground breaking” took place on October 6th at the future location of David and Onieka Webb’s home. While the foundation has already been poured, there are many hours of work ahead for these church members, the Webb family and countless volunteers. On hand for the ceremony were: Don Shaw, Interim Exectutive Director, HAHH; Reverend Patrick Perkins, St. John’s Episcopal Church; Mary Nurse, Marketing, Communications and Special Events, HAHH; Harold Steever, First Church of Christ Congregational member; Bea Powell, representing the Clay Arsenal Neighborhood Association; Dale Wolfe, First Church member; Onieka and David Webb, future homeowners; Mark Proft, St. John’s member and Veronica DeLandro, HAHH Board Member. photography by Joy B. Taylor.

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Around Town Congratulations to all who participated in Mathnasium’s 2nd Annual TriMathlon in September.

Bruce and Linda Stanger receiving a Distinguished Service Award for their service to Beth El Temple from Jacob Kovel, Men’s Club President.

Authors, speakers and the creators of the “DnA Reinvention Retreat” Dee Rivera and Allyson Spellman (aka DnA) hosted “Girls Gone Glam” a fun-filled girls night out at Blo Blow Dry Bar in West Hartford. Each attendee received a goodie bag and complimentary services including styling by Blo, mini-makeovers by ESPN make-up artist Erin McParland and pink carpet photos

by Cheyney Barrieau with raffle items sponsored by C & S Style and Shop Addicts. Dee & Allyson did a quick overview of their upcoming “Spa-tacular Reinvention Retreat” in November at the Mayflower Inn & Spa in Washington, CT. For more information visit: www.dnaretreatconnecticut.eventbrite.com photography by Cheyney Barrieau Photography Anthony Cifelli (Cifelli Representatives) represented the Lungarno Suites & Gallery Art in Florence; Robert Eastman (American Express Vacation’s Villa Experience); Gail Goldberg (Business Development Manager with American Express Vacations); Leslie Brooks (Baglioni Hotels) and Alessandro Minuzzo from the Villa Pitiana. november | december 2012

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winter interest

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Gardening for the ‘Other’ Season

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by Karla A. Dalley elieve it or not, it is possible to have a garden that is interesting in winter. Here are my best tips so that you can start planning for next winter!

My favorite daisy-like flowers, the coneflowers and black-eyed Susans, make lovely seed heads of dark brown on sturdy stems that stand up throughout the winter.

They go nicely in the subdued winter palate of browns, buffs, grays and tans.

Another favorite are the coral bells, which will be evergreen if there is no snow. Their varied pallet of deep green, purple, chartreuse and amber can brighten an unexpected spot and they can stand in for a dwarf evergreen.

Evergreens seem to be the mainstay of what most call a ‘winter’ garden, but these plants come in two varieties: conifers, or cone-bearing, and broad leafed varieties like hollies, rhododendrons and Japanese pieris.

Among the conifers there are several shades of green to choose from, and even variegated and gold-tipped varieties.

There are blue, yellow and chartreuse, and variations on those color too. Many of the conifers come in dwarf size so they are appropriate for smaller gardens.

Some will even survive the coldest of winters in containers.

Among the broad-leafed evergreens, there are fewer dwarf choices, but they do exist. Even rhododendrons that only grow 2’ tall--and even smaller azaleas--can be found.

Tiny leafed hollies come in 2’ varieties and resemble boxwood in appearance and even

Japanese pieris, or Andromeda, which can often grow to 8’, also comes in dwarf 2-3’ varieties as well.

Many of these dwarf evergreens can be layered so that the broad leaf and conifers form a colorful garden year round. Best of all, many of the broad-leafed evergreens are shade tolerant and some even deer resistant.

It is possible to have a winter garden with no evergreens at all. I mentioned the winter palette of browns earlier.

Ornamental grasses play nicely into this palette and most should be left standing through the winter and only cut down in early spring. These grasses will often

the berries need to ripen before the birds enjoy them, they do stay on the plant through the winter, meaning that you can also enjoy them.

Many trees and shrubs have bark or branches with winter interest and many of them are small enough for smaller yards as well. Japanese maples come to mind--they are small and slow growing.

They are lovely both in leaf and in winter, which cannot be said for some of the ‘contorted’ species that are often sold like ‘Harry Lauder’s Walking Stick.’

Another beautiful small tree is the stewartia.

While it blooms in June with unusual flowers, its exfoliating bark is the star of the winter garden.

Red and yellow twig dogwoods come is smaller varieties with even brighter winter stems. ‘Arctic Fire,’ a red-twigged variety, and ‘Arctic Sun’ a yellow twigged version, are two cultivars that are suitable for most gardens.

With so many choices for foliage, bark, berries and even the flash of colorful songbirds, winter need never be a dull time in the garden! n

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remain upright throughout the winter and their leaves and seed heads will sway in the winter winds and make a rustling sound. As a bonus, the seed heads will feed the birds-no extra work is required! If, after a heavy wet snow the grasses look down trodden, they can always be cut at that time.

The traditional winter shrub for birds is holly, with its bright red berries.

Something to know about this plant is that it is dioecious, meaning you need a male and female plant of the same variety to get the bright red berries. They will have similar names like ‘prince’ and ‘princess’ so that you know you are getting the correct plants. If there is any doubt, your garden center will be sure to know the correct matches. Because

Karla Dalley is a garden writer and speaker from West Hartford. kdalley@comcast.net. gardendaze.wordpress.com

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