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In This Issue Our feature this month is Lauren Abbigail Etheridge. 24-year-old Lauren was Photo by Zachary Dailey diagnosed with progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) three years ago. The news was devastating for the young actress and cosplayer. But with May 2022 Complimentary the support of medical staff, family and friends, she has come to terms with her illness.

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or years, 24-year-old Lauren Abbigail Etheridge used makeup and costumes to transform into some of her favorite characters.

From playing a cowgirl at the Pine Mountain Gold Museum in Villa Rica to cosplaying as Jedi Ariel – a cross between a Jedi Knight from Star Wars and the Disney Princess Ariel – Lauren loved creating costumes and bringing her characters to life. She had built quite a following and was becoming an online influencer.

But suddenly, she was thrust into a role that she didn’t prepare for.

There were no rehearsals.

No costume changes.

No understudy to take over when she’s unable to perform.

But thankfully, she has a supporting cast – a group of people to lift her up and support her during all she's been through over the last three years.

When Lauren was diagnosed with progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) in 2019, the news was devastating. But with the support of medical staff, family and friends, she has come to terms with her new role as a young woman with an invisible illness.

There have been many ups and downs since her diagnosis, which has led her on a journey to find

Lauren Etheridge, now 24 years old, was diagnosed with progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) in 2019.

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She enjoyed going to anime (a style of animation originating in Japan that is characterized by stark colorful graphics depicting vibrant characters in action-filled plots often with fantastic or futuristic themes) conventions with her older brother, Jason, Left, Lauren cosplays as the Marvel character Spider-Gwen and right, as her favorite fast-food and she loved seeing all of the restaurant mascot, Wendy. Photos: FaceBook. different cosplays (the activity to carry a .22 Derringer. Of course, it had blanks in it. or practice of dressing up as a character from a work We would rob the trains. We would have shootouts. of fiction, such as a comic book, video game, or I’d play the good guy or the bad guy. I had the best television show.) time of my life.”

That’s when Lauren decided that she wanted to Sometimes they would take the act on the road cosplay, too. and travel to rodeos and participate in parades.

“I saw it and I was like, ‘Ooh, what is this?’ And I “It was a lot of fun,” she says. “I got to ride kind of just got into it,” she says. horses.”

In addition to Jedi Ariel, Lauren – who is now 24 – She had a job she loved as a security supervisor has cosplayed as the Marvel character Spider-Gwen where she had already received two promotions, and the DC character from Teen Titans, Starfire. and hobbies that not only brought joy to her life but She has even cosplayed as her favorite fast food also to other people. restaurant mascot – Wendy.

Her sweet, loving and vibrant personality made it Lauren easy for people to like her. is also For Lauren, life was good. But passionate soon, all that would change. about acting and The Conflict was wellknown in the One morning in November community 2019, Lauren woke up and as the something didn’t feel quite cowgirl seen right. robbing She was paralyzed from the trains during waist down, which was very shows at strange, especially because she the Pine felt fine the night before.

Mountain “I thought she hurt herself Gold during the cowboy show or Museum in strained something,” her Villa Rica. mother, Jewel, recalls.

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office to be seen immediately. But after growing more concerned and realizing Lauren was genuinely paralyzed, she took her to the emergency department at Tanner Medical Center/Villa Rica.

The doctors assessed her but were unable to determine a diagnosis. They recommended she see an orthopedist. The next day, they went to see the specialist who ordered an MRI. Unfortunately, there was a delay in getting the MRI approved by insurance so they went back home feeling frustrated. Then Saturday morning came.

“She woke up and she looked like death,” Jewel says. “It scared me. She didn’t look well. She was pale. She wasn’t speaking well. I rushed her to the hospital and it turns out she was in full sepsis. It was bad.”

Lauren was immediately admitted into the hospital where she spent two weeks being treated for a viral infection. But before being sent home, Jewel requested a consultation from a neurologist.

“Something just didn’t feel right,” she says. “As a mom, you just feel it.”

They called in Dr. Laura Larson, a rare and infectious disease specialist, and Dr. Anna Katema, a neurologist.

“They were amazing,” Jewel says. “Within the next 48 hours, they had ordered a spinal tap and multiple tests.”

It wasn’t long before they found multiple significant brain and spinal cord lesions, which led to a diagnosis of multiple sclerosis, a neurological disease of the central nervous system. When Lauren learned she had MS, it was hard for her to accept it.

“When I was told at first, I kind of denied it,” she says. “I was like, ‘No, this can’t be happening.’

I felt my world was falling apart.”

With MS, the immune system attacks the protective sheath (myelin) that covers the nerve fibers, leading to communication problems between the body and brain. MS symptoms vary depending on the person, but infusion therapy can help slow the disabling effects of the disease.

Within a month and a half, Lauren began Ocrevus infusion treatments at the Tanner MS Infusion Center - Atlanta. She would get the treatments every six months.

Even though Lauren wasn’t thrilled about having to go to the infusion center, she made the best out of a terrible situation. When she entered the room, she’d find the person who looked the least happy about being there and try to lift their spirits.

“In comes this little ray of sunshine and she's like, ‘Hey y’all,’ and she’s talking to everybody,” Jewel says.

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painful muscle spasms to not being able to walk or talk. These flare-ups can happen at any time and last for hours or days. They can also go away as fast as they showed up, allowing windows of relief.

She also suffers from insomnia, loss of mobility, memory loss, migraines, sensory issues and sometimes stuttering.

In addition to the infusion treatments, trips to the emergency department can be constant. They have had as many as 17 visits in one month.

With so many visits to the hospital under her belt, it was only inevitable that she’d start developing relationships with the staff there. One person she is grateful for is Amber Griffith, RN. “She was actually one of my main nurses who I had when I first got diagnosed with MS,” Lauren says. “I loved her. She was there every step of the way when I was in the hospital. It didn’t matter if I got discharged and I came back, she was there.”

Unfortunately, Lauren’s symptoms progressed, interfering with her ability to do her job. Sadly, she stepped down – forced to face reality.

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“I got sick so fast, and I just kind of felt like I lost everything all at once,” she says. “I couldn’t do my cowboy stuff anymore. I couldn’t work. I just felt awful.”

Having lost the ability to do the things she loved really impacted her mental health. Her family extended every resource they could to help, but she wasn’t ready.

“Mom was trying to help, and she was trying to get me in groups,” she says. “But at the time, I was like, 'I don’t want to do this. I don’t want to talk to people.'”

When she was finally ready to get into a better mindset, she started therapy and reached out to support groups.

“Support and friends matter, and can help get you through,” she says.

MS is sometimes called an invisible illness because many people living with the disease experience symptoms that aren’t outwardly visible.

This can lead to some people assuming they don’t really have a disease.

This is something Lauren has had to deal with.

“Right now, people look at me and are like, ‘Well, she doesn’t look like she’s disabled,’” she says. “I still don’t know what that is supposed to look like.”

She remembers one instance when her mom had parked in a handicapped space at Walmart, and a woman approached them before they could put the handicap parking sticker in the vehicle’s window.

“This lady came up aggressively and she said we needed to move, that neither one of us looked handicapped,” she says.

Lauren is not afraid to speak her mind, so she politely approached the woman and explain that she has MS. “As soon as I said that, she went in for a hug,” she says. “She surprised me by just suddenly hugging me – I mean no words. She just went for it.”

While Lauren is grateful for the support she’s received, she wants to emphasize that people who are disabled or living with an invisible illness are discriminated against every day.

“People can be unkind more than you think, even to the point of bullying,” she says. “It’s hurtful being laughed at or treated differently. It is a common painful fact for many people with disabilities. It’s sad and unfair.”

She wants people to not be so quick to judge.

“You can look at them, see them and understand that they might have a different life than you,” she says. “Take a second, try to put yourself in their shoes if only for a moment.”

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out of the car, hug the bubble and leave,” Jewel says. “I just try my In 2020, the COVID-19 best to be a creative mom.” pandemic brought a host of new While that idea may have problems to Lauren’s life. worked, she decided to try She had to quarantine like something a little simpler. everyone else, but she was more at “I started a ‘Hugs for Lauren’ risk of contracting COVID because campaign,” she says. of her condition.

Jewel created a Facebook page “I wasn’t able to see friends where people could send a virtual not only because of COVID, but hug. While the virtual hugs weren’t because my immune system was the same as real ones, they helped.

Lauren became very sick after her diagnosis. shot,” she says. “I couldn’t risk it, The first two years of Lauren’s She couldn't eat and began losing weight, so I had to isolate myself for a very getting down to 100 pounds. illness were spent adapting long time.” and learning how to cope with When her birthday came around that year, she everything. By the time January 2021 arrived, she had only one thing on her wishlist. was battling another bout of sickness.

“I was very sad, kind of lonely and I missed “I got really, really sick in the beginning,” Lauren interacting with people,” she says. “So, I told my recalls. “It was really bad. I was constantly throwing mom that I just wanted a hug for my birthday.” up. I got severely skinny. I mean I was at 100 Lauren’s request brought her mother to tears pounds. I just wasn’t hungry. I couldn’t eat.” because she knew how risky it was to grant that She stayed that way for a long time until it got to wish. But that didn’t stop her from trying to come up the point where she almost had to have a feeding with ideas. tube because she couldn’t eat.

One idea was to get a bubble ball and put Lauren “Of course, I wasn’t seeing what everybody was in it. seeing,” she says. “I was like, ‘Oh, I lost weight. This “I could just let people come to the house, get is great.’ But now looking back, I realize it wasn’t

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figure out why this was happening. All they knew was that her white blood cell numbers and blood work were extremely abnormal and dangerously high.

“I really didn’t know what to do,” Jewel recalls.

“There were constant doctor’s appointments – one “Carrollton’s Prescription Headquarters” after the other – yet still no answers.”

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They were able to secure an appointment at “I was in the laundry room and all of a sudden, I the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota for March, but now went to look up and then I just completely blacked they had to figure out how to get there. Jewel was out,” she says. “I woke up on the couch with my overwhelmed with the expenses required for the parents and the medics were called to check me trip. out.”

Lauren started Medicare in January 2022. She In March 2021, Lauren decided to get a tattoo previously had private insurance, but Jewel was for MS Awareness Month. The tattoo, done by Joey unable to retain it after becoming Lauren’s full-time Hulsey at Villa Rica Ink and designed by her mother, caregiver.

Medicare has a 20 percent deductible. who is an artist, features an orange MS awareness There would also be hotel bills, travel expenses ribbon and a koi fish. and food that would have to be paid for. Not to “I wanted the koi so that way, whenever I get IVs, mention that Jewel is already dealing with extensive the IV line goes where the fish’s mouth is and it kind medical debt left over from previous gaps in her of looks like he’s drinking the IV,” she says. insurance coverage and out-of-pocket expenses.

As time passed, Lauren started gaining weight To help ease the family’s financial burden, family again, but when she did it was rapid. She had friend and local artist Melissa Crawford set up a gained over 100 pounds in less than 8 months.

Because of the weight gain caused by medication, GofundMe page to help fund their trip to the Mayo Clinic in Minnesota.

Lauren eventually Jewel admits that stopped cosplaying. pride had prevented “I can’t really her from asking for cosplay right now financial help and because I don’t remembers what fit in any of my Melissa told her. costumes, which is “She said the really hard for me only way I would be because cosplay failing my daughter was everything to is if I did not me,” she says. swallow my pride,” Jewel recalls.

The Climax Funds will also help pay for return In June 2021, trips to the Mayo Lauren was attacked Clinic and fulfill with “mystery” infections that were In March, Lauren spent two weeks at the Mayo Clinic undergoing multiple tests. the dream of an assistive device relentless.

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motorized wheelchair for Lauren who sometimes experiences painful muscle spasms and loss of motor functions. The chair is paid for by Medicare, but they need a handicapped van to transport it.

The Georgia Arts Initiative also hosted an Art With Heart benefit for Lauren at the V-Plex in Villa Rica that featured a silent auction to help raise money.

Jewel, who is on the art initiative’s board, wants to thank everyone who came out showing their support.

“So many people cared and made this happen,” Jewel says.

Supporters include Shane’s Rib Shack in Carrollton, which donated all the food for the fundraiser, Infinite Games owner Dylan Eberline (who is on the art initiative’s board), Yenifer Balloons, Donna’s Health Corner, Southern Quilt & Textile Museum, West Georgia Quilters Guild, Keyline Home Care Solutions, Midway Church and many more.

Through it all, Lauren and her mom have been supported by a long list of family and friends who

An excerpt from a letter Lauren wrote to her mom in March: “You didn’t ask to have a daughter who suddenly became chronically ill.

You never were asked if you wanted to quit everything to be there and take care of me.

Mom, I see you working day and night, losing sleep, while working until you couldn’t anymore, just so I could have a better life … “… We have so much love coming from every direction, we will never be alone. My illness doesn’t just affect me, it affects the both of us.

I want people to appreciate you, just as much as I do.

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“I almost gave up,” she says. “Dating is hard if you have disabilities, then I met Romeo and I was like, 'Wow, he’s amazing.'”

She describes him as being sweet, caring and genuine.

“Not only was he completely understanding about my health, but he asked questions,” she says.

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She also remembers how her brother Jason went above and beyond to be there for her.

“When my brother and his wife, Jeanette, found out that I had been diagnosed, they actually moved home for me,” she says.

Jason and his wife, Jeanette (Lauren’s best friend) had built a life in Gulf Shores, Ala., but didn’t hesitate to return to Georgia to support her. Other people in her supporting cast includes her dad Scott Gantt, family friends Phyllis Lindsay, Robert Holloway, Dee Johnson, LeAnn Preston, Tracie Ivey, Charles Branson, Vicki Burne and Kelly Silva, and her friends Max, Liz Brewer and Dennica Fifield.

Dennica always sends care packages to Lauren, one of which included a handmade bear.

“She recreated something I had as a child, which was a wind-up giraffe that played music,” Lauren says.

Not only did she replicate the colors of the original giraffe, but she also put a music box in it.

Lauren also has two four-legged friends who offer her daily support – her cats Lucipurr and Goblin.

“We have so many people we’d like to mention,” Jewels says. “But we would like to thank all the donors that have sent donations. Whether it’s $5 or $500, every donation matters. From the bottom of my heart. Thank you.”

She sees these as more than just donations. They are donations from people who are helping save her daughter’s life.

“These donations make us stronger,” she says.

“They give hope and when you’re in this position, hope is so important.”

Another person who has supported Lauren through it all is Julie Straton (her mom’s best friend who she affectionately calls Aunt Julie).

Julie was at one of the doctor’s appointments when the doctor told Lauren she was “a zebra in a horse field.”

In fact, doctors have told them more than one

time that Lauren is the rarest thing they’ve ever seen.

So Julie, who is an artist, decided to paint a beautiful picture of a rainbowcolored zebra for the silent auction.

The painting was purchased by Jennifer Parsons, another family friend, who ended up giving it to Lauren to remind her that she is the zebra.

“It was very sweet to have that hanging in our house as a reminder that just because you’re different doesn’t mean you’re not beautiful,” Jewel says.”

"My situation is not great. I’m facing a lot of stuff. Some days I can’t walk. Sometimes I can’t talk. Sometimes I can’t do things ... there are definitely going to be bad days – I’m not going to sit here and sugarcoat that. And there’s going to be good days, too. But you gotta push through it. You have to just take it one day at a time."

The Resolution?

In March, Lauren spent two weeks at the Mayo Clinic undergoing multiple tests.

When the tests came back, doctors were able to rule out leukemia. But they are still awaiting results from other tests that will get them closer to finding the best treatment options for Lauren.

They will have a video visit with her healthcare team at Mayo in three months, and they’ll return to Minnesota in six months for an in-person visit.

While Lauren and her mom didn’t get all the answers they were hoping for, they’re hopeful for the future.

“I don’t know what to expect from this journey,” Jewel says. “You can’t fight what you don’t know.

That scares me most. But I’m hopeful and ready to fight whatever comes our way.”

The Epilogue It’s been a long journey.

From not accepting her diagnosis to now owning it, Lauren has come a long way.

“Now, I’m in a group, and I talk to people who have MS as well, and it does help,” she says. “But it took me a while to get to that point.”

Now that Lauren is at that point, she often gets comments from people saying how strong she is.

But the way she sees it, she’s just living her life.

That life includes creating joy by watching comedy, singing and sharing a laugh with family and friends.

And when people ask her what keeps her going, she credits her supporting cast.

“My situation is not great,” she says. “I’m facing a lot of stuff.

Some days I can’t walk.

Sometimes I can’t talk.

Sometimes I can’t do things. But I’m not where I’m back living in the hospital like I was in the very beginning.”

She realizes that there are other people who have it worse than she does, and offers a word of advice.

“There are definitely going to be bad days – I’m not going to sit here and sugarcoat that,” she says.

“And there’s going to be good days, too. But you gotta push through it. You have to just take it one day at a time.” WGW

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In 2020, roughly 59 million Americans lost, on Another way scammers try to get people’s average, $1,200 to phone scams, according to call information is by claiming a lottery win or promise of security app maker Truecaller. free stuff – for a small fee. When The easiest way to avoid Safety Tips from Lt. Detective Dan Keever it comes to the lottery scam, being scammed is to not with the Carrollton Police Department if you didn’t enter, then it’s answer any “unknown caller” 1. Never give your personal or financial information impossible to win. calls. If there is a name on the over the phone or over the internet, unless you're Other red flags include your certain you are on a legitimate business' website. caller ID but it’s not one you Scammers are fishing for your information to name is not in the “to” field recognize, ignore it and don’t access your financial resources. If you receive a and there are spelling mistakes, call the person back. Delete phone request for your financial information, hang including the company name. and block the phone number. up and call the business directly.

Threatening language may also 2. Don't fall for scams that offer a product or item Scammers go after that is way underpriced or offers the promise of be used. A legitimate company anybody and everybody. lottery winnings. If it sounds too good to be true, it will never coerce a client with However, those over the age probably is a scam. threats to get their money.

3. If anyone tries to get you to purchase any type of of 60 make up more than Social networking scams gift cards to prevent your own arrest, bail a relative 80 percent of scam reports. out of jail or help a friend or relative leave a foreign have become more prevalent In 2021, seniors lost an country, then asks you to give them the card numno matter how safe these average of $34,200 through bers over the phone, it's a scam. companies claim they are.

4. Scammers will ask you to stay on the line while scammers, according to Fraudsters are capable of you get the funds they want. They don't want you Consumer Affairs. hanging up to verify their requests. Anyone who stealing IDs and sending emails Fraudsters have become pressures you to stay on the phone while you facili- from your friend’s account so sophisticated, they tate a financial transaction is a scammer. requesting money for any 5. Pay attention to the emails you receive. Some make emails look like and number of reasons: lost their email addresses will look very similar to businessvoicemails sound like they es you may patronize. Scammers will add logos to job; they’re in jail; or stranded come from legitimate entities their emails such as PayPal, EBay or financial instiwhile traveling. The easiest such as banks, credit card tutions. Verify everything that requires you to send way to corroborate the request money. Go to the actual business website and call companies, online stores, is to call the friend or family the number listed to inquire about any requests. online payment apps or member and speak directly with 6. The INS or IRS will not require payment over the social networking sites. phone in lieu of arrest and they will never ask for her about the financial request.

Whether it be via email or gift cards to be used as payment.

You’ll both quickly realize you've 7. Scammers will impersonate local law enforcephone, there is a common encountered a scammer. ment to request funds over the phone for fines or spiel scammers give, hoping If you think you’ve been fees in lieu of arrest. Law enforcement will never you’ll fall for it and pay request you to pay a fine with a gift card over the scammed, call your local law up. They will claim there phone. enforcement agency to file a 8. When in doubt, call your local law enforcement was suspicious activity on report or report the incident at agency and discuss with an officer or detective. your account; there was a www.Identitytheft.gov. WGW Please call us before becoming a victim of fraud. payment problem; personal

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Chef Rose Isaacs is a native of Carroll County and lives in Carrollton with her husband Shawn and their son, Sebastian.

She graduated from West Georgia Technical College in 2013 with a degree in Culinary Arts.

After graduation, she began her career as a chef at the Carrollton Kroger Marketplace where she works in the bistro.

Fish Tacos

Ingredients

Preparation

3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil Juice of 1 lime 2 teaspoons chili powder 1 teaspoon paprika 1/2 teaspoons ground cumin 1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper 1 1/2 pounds cod (or other flaky white fish) 1/2 tablespoon vegetable oil Kosher salt Freshly ground black pepper 8 corn tortillas 1 avocado, diced Lime wedges, for serving Sour cream, for serving

In a medium shallow bowl, whisk together olive oil, lime juice, paprika, chili powder, cumin and cayenne.

Add cod, tossing until evenly coated.

Let marinate 15 minutes.

Meanwhile, make slaw: In a large bowl, whisk together mayonnaise, lime juice, cilantro and honey.

Stir in cabbage, corn and jalapeño.

Season with salt and pepper.

In a large nonstick skillet over medium-high heat, heat vegetable oil.

Remove cod from marinade and season both sides of each filet with salt and pepper.

Add fish flesh side-down.

Cook until opaque and cooked through, 3 to 5 minutes per side.

Let rest 5 minutes before flaking with a fork.

Assemble tacos: Serve fish over grilled tortillas with corn slaw and avocado.

Squeeze lime juice on top and garnish with sour cream Serves 4.

For the Slaw: 1/4 cup mayonnaise Juice of 1 lime 2 tablespoons freshly chopped cilantro 1 tablespoon honey 2 cups shredded purple cabbage 1 cup corn kernels 1 jalapeño, minced

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Let the chocolate cool for a couple of minutes, then add remaining cup of powdered sugar, whole eggs, yolks and mix.

Sift in the flour and mix until just combined.

Add half the batter evenly to the ramekins or muffin tins.

Gently put the peanut butter balls into the middle of each one.

Spoon on the remaining batter into each well.

Bake for 12 to 14 minutes or until the sides are set and the middle is still slightly jiggly.

Let them rest for a minute then add a cookie sheet on top of the muffin tin (if using) then flip over. Using a spatula, slide it under the Preparation cake carefully and transfer to your plate.

If using ramekins, cake cinnamon can be served from Mix brown sugar with and salt. dish.

Halve 4 bananas lengthwise.

To make the banana whipped cream: Brush banana halves with butter and sprinkle Beat heavy whipping cream and 2 tablespoons with the sugar cinnamon sugar mixture. powdered on high until soft peaks Wrap bananas in foil and broil until golden, about form. minutes.

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Miss Kaleigh Griswell is competing for the title of Miss Georgia in the 2022 Miss Georgia Scholarship Competition.

Her pageant quote is "Though she be but little, she is fierce," from William Shakespeare's, A Midsummer Night's Dream.

The Power of Pageantry Quartet of titleholders to represent West Georgia during Miss Georgia competition in June

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he pageantry of Miss Carroll County, summer is poised to take Lexi Atkins' center stage. pageant quote is And for Donna Barr, this is “Find out who you the most wonderful time of the are and do it on year. purpose,” by As the executive director for the Miss West Georgia Dolly Parton and Miss Carroll County Scholarship Competition, Donna is beaming about the four titleholders she has representing the region for the upcoming Miss Georgia pageant next month.

The quartet heading to Columbus for the June 15-18 event features Kaleigh Griswell (Miss West Georgia), Lexi Atkins (Miss Carroll County), Chloe Wiggins (Miss West Georgia Outstanding Teen) and Emmalyn Hann (Miss Carroll County Outstanding Teen), a group that Donna is especially proud to see serving as pillars of the program for 2022.

The four titleholders were crowned this past

December during a scholarship competition at the Mabry Arts Center in Carrollton.

Donna notes how the impact of the program is a win-win for the young ladies and the communities they serve.

“This program provides leadership skills, helps build character, inspires them to meet and achieve their goals and teaches them to give back and serve their communities through community service," she says. "Plus, they gain lifelong friendships.”

Below is a bio breakdown on this year’s titleholders:

Miss Kaleigh Griswell Miss Kaleigh Griswell is competing for the title of Miss Georgia in the 2022 Miss Georgia Scholarship Competition. She is currently pursuing a degree in aerospace engineering in the Honors program at Georgia Tech. Her social impact platform is Music Makes Miracles in support of Parent Education across Georgia. Kaleigh will present a flute instrumental performance in Columbus. She is a graduate of Harris County High School.

Miss Lexi Atkins Miss Lexi Atkins is set to represent Carroll County and compete for the title of Miss Georgia in the 2022 Miss Georgia Scholarship Competition.

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performer in the area. Her social impact platform is in support of the Make A Wish Foundation and Chords for Courage. In the fall, Lexi will pursue a bachelor’s degree in music/music performance.

Next month in Columbus, Lexi will perform a vocal number with guitar for the audience and judges.

Miss Chloe Wiggins Miss Chloe Wiggins is competing for the title of Miss Georgia’s Outstanding Teen. Chloe is a natural leader in school and through her community service. Her passion and social impact platform is promoting Prostate Cancer Awareness. Chloe will perform tap dance as her talent.

Miss Emmalyn Hann Miss Emmalyn Hann will compete for the distinction of Miss Georgia’s Outstanding Teen.

Emmalyn’s social impact platform is S.P.E.A.K. Out Against Animal Cruelty. Emmalyn will take the stage for a musical theater ballet on pointe performance for talent.

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Donna has been involved with the Miss West Georgia and Miss Carroll County Scholarship Competition organization for four-and-a-half years.

As the executive director, her role entails several key responsibilities for the young ladies upon preparing them for both competition and building life skills beyond it.

“This includes ensuring that they are ready to compete by meeting their deadlines and follow guidelines set by Miss Georgia, prepare them for interviews, complete social impact initiatives in the community, gain sponsorships, ensuring their talent is ready for competition, provide educational scholarships, host local competitions, fundraisers and provide mentorship,” Donna says.

The Miss West Georgia and Miss Carroll County titles are open to young women who live, work or attend school in Georgia. In order to compete in the Miss Division, a candidate must be between the ages of 17 and 25, meet the character criteria set forth by the Miss America organization, be in reasonably good health to meet the job requirements and be able to meet the time commitment and responsibilities as set by the Miss West Georgia Board of Directors.

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young women who live, work or attend school in Georgia.

Eligible candidates are ages 13 through 17, as well as 18-year-old candidates who have not graduated high school as of July 31, 2022.

Candidates must meet residency requirements to compete in a certain city or state and then have to meet the remaining criteria of the Miss Division candidates.

Once selected as a contestant for Miss West Georgia or Miss Carroll County, candidates are put through a rigorous regimen in the preliminary event before they can compete for Miss Georgia and, potentially, Miss America.

Miss Carroll County's Outstanding Teen Emmalyn Hann's pageant quote is “Why fit in when you were born to stand out,” by Dr. Suess.

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“Each candidate Teen candidates," This program provides leadership is judged in says Donna. skills, helps build character, five areas of "Additionally, it competition, which serves as a unique inspires them to meet and achieve includes In-person fundraiser for Interviews, Social the Miss Georgia their goals and teaches them to give Impact Essay/ Scholarship Initiatives, OnCompetition communities their serve back and Stage Interview, fund. During through community service. Plus, Evening Wear and competition week, Talent,” Donna the princesses they gain lifelong friendships. explains. “In participate in – Executive Director, Donna Barr addition to all of several exciting these categories, events, in addition the teens are to being a part required to perform and are judged on a Lifestyle of the competition each night. The annual pajama and Fitness routine.” party is always a highlight for both candidates and Along with the Miss West Georgia and Miss princesses. Food, games and matching pajamas Carroll County competitions, there is also a Princess help make it a memorable, fun-filled event.”

Program for those who are not old enough to Donna notes how the titleholders are appreciative compete. The Princess Program is open for ages 5 of the support from the West Georgia area and are to no older than 12 as of June 1, 2022. also available for appearances.

“The program is designed to teach the To schedule an appearance or for more importance of community service and provide information on the upcoming pageant, visit opportunities of personal growth during the time www.misswestga.com or contact Donna at they are mentored by the Miss and Outstanding donnabarr@misswestga.com. WGW

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four-year public college education can cost close to $50,000, while a private degree can run a student upwards of $240,000.

The good news is college graduates earned 76 percent more than people with a high school diploma, according to a 2017 Economic Policy Institute report.

While the college educated make more money, many are also saddled with thousands of dollars in debt. In 2021, roughly 65 percent of students obtaining a four-year bachelor’s degree have student loan debt ranging from $27,000 to $40,000, according to the Education Data Initiative.

But with early planning, parents or grandparents can help offset educational expenses through a variety of savings and investment programs.

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Start early. Time, consistency and compound interest are parents’ most valuable assets.

Some people start saving even before their first child is born. Putting as little as $50/ month into a bank account and then moving it into an investment account, once the child is born, is one way to start, limit or avoid education debt all together.

Tax-free investments. A 529 Savings Plan is one of the most popular ways to pay for a child’s education. Parents can choose the type of investment they want (stocks, bonds, mutual funds) and as long as the money is used on college-related expenses such as tuition, books and housing, the funds are tax free. Another tax-free investment is a Coverdell Education Account (CEA). Like the 529 account, Coverdell money is tax-free when utilized for educational purposes only.

One difference – the CEA can also be used to pay for K through 12 education.

Student aid. Not all parents are in a position to invest in their child’s college education, but there are still many options for these students to offset the cost of their education.

The United States Department of Education, along with universities and colleges, hand out an estimated $120 billion annually in scholarships, grants, loans and work study

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programs to roughly 13 million students. Once a child begins senior year of high school, they can fill out the Free Application for Student Aid (FAFSA), which formulates a needs analysis through the submission of tax returns, bank statements, investments and property ownership information. FAFSA lets families know how much money a student can expect to receive in financial aid, which then helps them come up with a plan for any shortfall.

• Scholarships and grants.

These are among the most competitive sources of financial aid for students, with roughly $46 billion being made available to students on an annual basis.

Scholarships are not only given to athletes and brainiacs, there are many based on merit, for specific fields of study, for minorities and women only, as well as for dependants of veterans. If going this route, be prepared to fill out a lot of applications, some of which may require essays and other documentation proving the child is deserving. Typically, the more information required for the application, the greater the financial award.

Work Study Programs. A work study program provides part-time jobs to students requiring financial aid. The Federal Work-Study Program focuses on the fields of civic education as well as providing employment opportunities related to the student’s field of study. A student in the federal program can also receive grants and other forms of financial aid.

Scholarships and grants, even when combined, may not cover the cost of a child’s college education, so many kids have to get a job while in high school and keep it while attending college.

Before applying, research the employer. They may pay a portion, or all, of a student employee’s tuition.

Most parents hope their children get into good colleges, but they often don’t think about how to pay for it until the tuition is due.

Planning early should lessen the financial pain.

West Georgia Woman magazine recommends contacting Jennifer Sauls with Milestone Investment Management (ad on page 36) at 770.830.0063, or email Jennifer@YourFinancialFamily.com to schedule your complimentary consultation to find out what you should do now to plan for your child or grandchild's educational expenses. WGW

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Local Happenings

West Georgia Mental Health Professionals Wellness Meetup Group

This group meets the last Saturday of every month in Douglasville or Austell. For more information, contact Cheryl at theheartmatters@gmail.com or 678.754.5840.

Learn more at www.heartmatterswellness.com.

Hope For The Journey This group meets the third Thursday of each month at 6:30 p.m. in the board room at the Tracy Stallings Community Center at 118 South White St. in Carrollton.

These events are free to breast cancer survivors or those currently battling breast cancer.

Learn more at www.hopeforthejourneywestga.org, email execdirector@hopeforthejourneywestga.org or call 770.214.1491.

Rare Pearls Mentoring and Leadership Program Rare Pearls mission is to enrich and empower the

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lives of young girls and women. This group meets the third Saturday of each month at Heritage Baptist Church in Douglasville, from 2:30 to 4:30 p.m.

This program is open to all girls ages 7 to 17.

For more information, call 770.947.8210, email rarepearls2015@gmail.com or visit the website at www.rarepearlsmentoringandleadership.org.

Nursing From The Heart Breastfeeding Support Group This group meets the third Monday of each month from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at 500 Old Bremen Road in Carrollton.

These events are free to pregnant women and moms looking for breastfeeding support. Free weight checks for your baby will be available. Come and share your breastfeeding journey with us.

Please check our website for meeting and event updates at www.nursingfromtheheart.com.

Gertrude's House Breast Cancer Support Group This group meets the third Thursday of each month at 7 p.m. at Lithia Springs Family Chiropractic

at 1758 Lee Rd. in Lithia Springs.

This group is open to all survivors, caregivers, supporters, friends, family and those fighting breast cancer.

Visit their Facebook page @GertrudesHouse or email them at GertrudesHouse@yahoo.com.

Notice of Last Date to Claim Carroll Electric Membership Corporation Capital Credits Refunded in 2014

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In compliance with O.C.G.A. § 44-12-236 of The Disposition of Unclaimed Property Act, Carroll Electric Membership Corporation (“Carroll EMC”) is attempting to locate former members whose capital credit checks were issued in 2016, but which have been returned by the U. S. Post Office as “undeliverable” or have otherwise been unclaimed.

A current list of these members, and a list of their last known addresses and instructions for claiming these funds, is posted on Carroll EMC’s website at http://www.carrollemc.com.

The last possible date to claim these funds is October 1, 2022. Funds which are not claimed by this date will be used for economic development, education or donated for charitable uses, as permitted by O.C.G.A. § 44-12-236.

To claim a refund or submit any questions about this notice or the list, please contact 770-832-3552.

There is Hope is a support group for women survivors who have dealt with, or are currently dealing with, domestic violence.

This is a private group where women survivors come together and share their personal stories of experience, strength and hope.

The group meets the first Thursday of each month from 5:30 to 6:30 p.m. at a private location. A ZOOM option is available.

There will be guidance for help and resources available as needed. At times there will also be guest speakers.

Contact hopefulone807@gmail.com for more information and to obtain the privacy contract with the physical address or ZOOM meeting ID and passcode.

Survivors of Suicide Loss Support Groups Has your life been impacted by the loss of a friend or loved one to suicide? You are not alone. These groups offer peer support for anyone who has been affected by suicide loss. There is no cost to attend.

Group meetings in Carrollton are the third Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at 306A Bradley Street. For more information, contact Ivey Rollins at iveyrollins@gmail.com or call 470.729.0909.

Group meetings in Douglasville are the second Tuesday of each month from 7 to 8:30 p.m. at the First United Methodist Church at 6167 Priestley Mill Rd., Room 226. For more information, contact Terri Johnson at chose2live@aol.com or 770.765.2181.

Group meetings in Newnan are the second Monday of each month at 7 p.m. at Crossroads Church, 2564 Hwy 154. For more information, contact Lynn Bradley at 770.301.4890 or email nbll.bradley170@gmail.com, or contact Nancy Bradley at 770.251.6216.

PASS Executive Director Cynthia Langley to Retire at Year-End After leading the organization for more than a decade and positively impacting thousands of lives, Cynthia Langley, executive director for Partners Advancing Student Success (PASS), has announced that she will retire at the end of the calendar year.

Cynthia was integral in the establishment of PASS, formerly Communities in Schools, in Carroll County in 2012. Through her tenure, the organization has remained focused on improving student success by providing support and services to students with the ultimate goal of increasing graduation rates and keeping students on track to finish high school.

PASS advocates work within the local high schools to ensure students have access to this needed assistance. Nearly 35,000 students have received support from the work of PASS in some way since its inception. During the 2020-21 school year, PASS served 215 students in the Carroll County and Carrollton City school systems on a case level basis.

Of those students, the graduation rate for seniors was 98%.

“The past 10 years have been an incredible

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journey, and I can truly say this has been the most fulfilling professional experience I’ve had in my lifetime,” said Langley. “We have transformed ourselves in such a way that we have been able to make an even greater impact on students in the local public school districts. While bittersweet for me, this is an exciting time for PASS, as the leadership transition will create a powerful opportunity to lean into the ongoing, good work of the organization to even further inspire and influence our local students.”

Langley notes that the level of student success the organization has seen in its first decade would not be possible without the dedication and support of the student advocates, PASS staff, volunteers, community partners, donors and an exceptionally strong board of directors, which she notes, “is in the best place it has ever been.”

“While I cannot fully describe the magnitude of the work Cynthia has done and the impact she has had on our community, I can extend my gratitude,” said Jerome Johnston, PASS board chair.

“Her passion to serve our community has helped change the lives of thousands of students, in turn strengthening families and bettering our community.

On behalf of the board, I want to publicly thank Cynthia for the blood, sweat, tears and time she has invested into creating a meaningful and sustainable way to serve our local students.”

As the organization prepares for Langley’s retirement, the PASS Board of Directors has begun the search for its next leader and posted the open position for executive director last month. The organization expects to name its next executive director by the beginning of the 2022-23 school year. Through the transition, Langley will serve in an advisory role to her successor.

“Many people don’t realize the impact they can have on a person just by believing in them, and that’s what PASS is all about,” says Cynthia. “PASS’s next executive director will have the opportunity to work with a talented advocate staff and a deeply committed board of directors to spark and support positive change in innovative ways for our students.

He or she will be stepping into a strong, resilient and adaptable organization that is poised to play an even more significant role in creating a skilled workforce for Carroll County.”

To learn more about PASS and its mission to serve students, visit https://www.passwestga.org or follow Partners Advancing Student Success on Facebook and Instagram.

For more information about how to donate and

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further the mission of PASS, visit https://www.passwestga.org/donate.

PASS Executive Director Cynthia Langley will retire at year-end.

Southwire and Braves Development Company Announce New Offices at The Battery Atlanta, Partnership with Atlanta Braves Southwire, one of North America’s leading wire and cable producers and an emerging influence in the electrical industry, will soon open office space at The Battery Atlanta in Cobb County adjacent to Truist Park, home of the Atlanta Braves. In late March, Southwire signed a deal for roughly 23,000 square feet of offices, meeting rooms, workstations and multipurpose space.

“We have embraced adaptability through the pandemic, and we have proven that we are able to successfully meet the expectations of our stakeholders in a hybrid work environment,” said Rich Stinson, Southwire’s president and CEO. “Having a presence at The Battery Atlanta offers additional flexibility to our team members and further demonstrates that Southwire is an employer of choice.”

Headquartered in Carrollton, Ga., Southwire has had a presence in metro Atlanta for several years with a Southwire Commuter Hub in Cobb County and The Spark innovation center on Georgia Tech’s campus, among other locations. Recently, the building in which the company’s Commuter Hub is

located was sold, and leaders sought other options to meet the needs of its workforce.

“As we have emerged from the pandemic and as we considered next steps with our Commuter Hub, the timing was right to move toward a larger presence in this area,” said Fernando Esquivel, executive vice president of People and Culture. “Our office at The Battery Atlanta will provide us with increased visibility and opportunities to attract professional talent while allowing us to further connect, communicate, collaborate and celebrate with each other.”

While expanding its presence in metro Atlanta gives the company a competitive edge for talent recruitment and retention, Southwire remains committed to each of its existing communities, and the company continues to drive the electrical industry forward.

“We have a long history of serving our customers with excellence and giving back to the local communities in which we work and live,” said Norman Adkins, Southwire’s president of Wire & Cable and COO. “Our presence in Atlanta has been – and will continue to be – no different. As we consider more than just the office space, we are also excited to forge a partnership with the Atlanta Braves that will add value to our employees, our customers and our communities.”

Throughout its more than seven decades in business, Southwire has upheld a strong commitment to service, quality and innovation. The new office space and partnership with the Atlanta Braves serve as a culmination of these three objectives.

“Southwire celebrates 72 years as a company in 2022, and one of our late founder’s frequently shared phrases was about putting technology to work,” said Brandon Moss, president of Tools, Components and Assembled Solutions. “This new office space will do just that — giving existing and new employees more opportunities to connect in the metro Atlanta area while at the same time supporting many of the tenets that define our commitment to growth and sustainability.”

As the company finalizes plans for its office at The Battery Atlanta, Southwire has announced an agreement with the Atlanta Braves in which Southwire will now be a proud electrical products manufacturing partner of the Atlanta Braves.

The partnership will also focus on strengthening both organizations’ efforts to give back to the community, as Southwire connects with the Braves’ established community and diversity, equity and inclusion (DEI) efforts through sponsorship and volunteerism through at least two events this year.

“We are thrilled that Southwire will be joining

the premier office-line up at The Battery Atlanta.

Employees here have an incomparable array of amenities just outside their doors, and the World Series Champion Atlanta Braves as a neighbor,” said Jeremy Strife, executive vice president of Braves Development Company. “We look forward to our larger partnership, including events and charitable programs that showcase how our core values align.”

About Southwire: A leader in technology and innovation, Southwire Company, LLC is one of North America’s largest wire and cable producers and an emerging influence in the electrical industry.

Southwire and its subsidiaries manufacture building wire and cable, utility products, metal-clad cable, portable and electronic cord products, OEM wire products and engineered products. In addition, Southwire supplies assembled products, components, contractor equipment and hand tools. For more on Southwire’s products, its community involvement and its vision of sustainability, visit www.southwire.com.

About The Battery Atlanta: The Battery Atlanta, a 2 million square-foot mixed-use development, located at the intersection of I-75 and I-285, offers an unmatched mix of boutique shopping, marketexclusive entertainment experiences, chef-driven restaurants, the Omni and Aloft Hotels, The CocaCola Roxy and 531 residences. The complex includes offices One Ballpark Center, Comcast’s regional headquarters; Two Ballpark Center, home to SPACES; Three Ballpark Center, which will serve as Papa John’s global headquarters and TK Elevator’s North American headquarters; and Four Ballpark Center, home to Southwire and DCO Commercial Floors. Powered by Comcast’s all-fiber network and delivering multi-terabit capabilities, The Battery Atlanta has the highest-capacity network serving any mixed-use development in the nation. For more information on The Battery Atlanta please visit batteryatl.com or connect on Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.

About Atlanta Braves: Based in Atlanta since 1966, the Braves are the longest continuously operating franchise in Major League Baseball. Since 1991, Braves teams have earned two National League wild cards, 19 division championships, six National League pennants, and two World Series titles. Atlanta Braves games are telecast on Bally Sports South and Bally Sports Southeast. Radio broadcasts can be heard in Atlanta on 680 The Fan (AM) and regionally on the Atlanta Braves Radio Network. Follow the Braves at braves.com, facebook.com/braves, and twitter.com/braves.

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Nailing Your Next Job Interview

By Sandra Bolan and Angela Dailey

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o matter how good your resume is, nailing the job interview is crucial. A firm handshake, combined with direct eye contact and a confident smile, all while standing up straight, shows a potential employer you mean business.

Be early, turn off your phone and treat everyone you come into contact with with the utmost respect.

You never know how a negative encounter with a receptionist or gatekeeper can affect your chances of landing the job.

The following tips will help you put your best foot forward during the job interview.

Do Your Research Know everything about the company and the position you're trying to land. Learn the company's history, who the bigwigs were and are, who the interviewer is, any social and community initiatives or awards and anything else that may be pertinent to the position for which you’re applying.

Throughout the interview, find ways to mention this information as it shows the interviewer you’ve done your homework and have a genuine interest in the company.

This information can also help you decide if company is suitable for you. No matter how perfect

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the job may be, it won’t be worth compromising who you are to get it.

Connect With the Interviewer When you enter the interviewer's office, scan the room. Are there pictures of children, spouse/significant other or pets, trophies, sports memorabilia or awards? Use the things you have in common with the interviewer to connect with her on a deeper level.

If you see a picture of a child, ask the interviewer about it, and if you have children of your own, briefly tell her about them. Same goes for pet photos. If she has a picture of her boxer and you just got a new puppy, ask her for tips on helping your puppy adjust to your children – this brings kids and pets into the conversation.

If she's a Braves fan, briefly tell her about how much fun you had on your last trip to the Battery.

See college football memorabilia in the room? Tell her how much you're looking forward to football season.

Mention your past or current involvement with any sports teams, sororities, civic organizations or other groups. Anything you can do to connect with the interviewer on a deeper level may help you land the job, according to Forbes.

Focus on Your Best Qualities Knowing your own resume is equally as important as being knowledgeable about the company.

Depending on how long you’ve been in the workforce and the number of jobs you’ve had, there are a lot of details you’ll need to be able to readily recall.

You should be able to explain how each of your previous position’s skills transfer to the job at hand.

Explain how your skills and experience will benefit the company.

Come equipped with questions about issues that are important to you such as work/life balance or opportunities for advancement.

Many interviewers will ask the question, "What is your greatest strength/weakness?" Turn your weaknesses into strengths. For example, you could answer, "My greatest weakness is my tendency to be a perfectionist. When I'm working on a project, anything less than amazing just won't do." Or, "I have a tendency to care so much about my teams' success that my kindness and willingness to go above and beyond for my coworkers is sometimes taken advantage of in the workplace."

Remember to always be yourself and honest during an interview. Most people can sense when someone isn't telling the truth or being authentic.

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Be prepared. Rehearse your answer to this question over and over until you are confident with your response.

Be honest. Honesty really is the best policy.

Potential employers have ways of finding out all kinds of information about you. But you don't have to go into every minute detail to explain the situation. Keep your answer brief and professional, then move on. You don't want to draw any more attention to the situation than necessary.

Don't answer emotionally. Even if you were wronged, don't badmouth your previous employer. Don't place blame and remain objective. As much as it hurts to refrain from saying anything negative, remain positive.

Share what you've learned from the experience. If you were responsible or partly responsible for losing your job, own it. Be professional and mature in your explanation.

Share how you've grown professionally and personally, and how you will handle similar situations in the future. Explain that the experience can be used as an advantage for the position you're applying for, now that you have learned from it. WGW

What to Say if You've Been Fired Being fired or laid off from your job can be extremely traumatic — particularly if it was done by someone who is mean-spirited. As if being canned wasn’t traumatic enough, now you have to answer the question as to why you were let go during the interview with the new company.

Make no mistake, most interviewers will ask you about this.

Your first job interview after being let go can be extremely intimidating. Don't be embarrassed and don't panic. People are fired from their jobs every single day. In fact, most workers will be fired or laid off at some point in their career. Those people move on to find new jobs and so will you. And, contrary to popular belief, many people have been fired for absolutely no good reason at all. Perhaps you had sneaky coworkers who sabatoged you. Maybe your boss encouraged you to do something unethical and you refused.

Whatever the reason, or lack of reason, you can overcome this challenge and find a job that is right for you.

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Kids Korner

By Jordan Dailey Photos by Zachary Dailey

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Using the hot glue gun, glue the strips of curling

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ribbon to one end of the stick.

Wrap the decorative ribbon over the curling ribbon strips to cover approximately 3/4 of the stick, then glue in place.

Decorate as desired with the floral stickers.

Mother's Day Photo Frame

Instructions Using the hot glue gun, glue the popsicle sticks together on the corners of all four sides to create a photo fram base.

Decorate as desired.

Glue the desired photo to the back of the frame and give to your mom. WGW

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