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WOMEN BUILDING A BETTER OKLAHOMA CITY

President’s Letter Dear fellow Junior League of Oklahoma City members,

MISSION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving the community through effective action and leadership of trained volunteers.

Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.

VISION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. will empower volunteers to impact our community and enrich lives.

FOCUS Women Building a Better Oklahoma City

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Some of my favorite memories come from the holiday season. I look back on the holidays from my childhood and remember the family traditions—decorating the house, holiday parties at school, and all of the food. My father is from southern Louisiana, so every Christmas Eve we would eat gumbo, open a few gifts from family members, and attend Christmas Eve service. My three siblings and I would all share a room (because Uncles and Grandparents were visiting) and we would take turns sneaking out to see if Santa had come to visit. A favorite memory is when we turned off the backyard lights on my dad (accidentally) when he was trying to sneak our gifts in from the shed to the house. I don’t remember the gifts I received each year (except when I was 6 and got the Barbie Dream House) but I do remember the traditions, the laughter with my family, and they excitement of the season. I found a quote online that says, “At the heart of every family tradition is a meaningful experience.” My new favorite holiday memories are sharing the traditions and creating new ones with my two nieces and three nephews.

I love that the Junior League has so many amazing traditions—Mistletoe Market, Holiday Open House, Silver Bells, and the Passing of the Gavel at the May General Meeting are a few of my favorites. We are also expanding and creating new traditions—Legacy and Legends, Speaker in the City, and Western + Grand to name a few. I cannot wait to look back years from now to see how our League traditions continue to grow and change. I hope you all join me in celebrating our current traditions, and bring new ideas to the League that can be our future traditions.

Every past Junior League President I have talked to has given me the advice to enjoy the ride, because the year goes by faster than expected. I thought it was a cliché, but I am learning it is absolutely true. I am amazed by the hard work and dedication that our members have, from helping us raise money to fund our community projects, to the thousands of hours that have been volunteered in and outside of the League. Our members truly are the future leaders of Oklahoma City.

We are celebrating our 90th anniversary as a League, and I encourage each of you to join us in the multiple activities. My corporate background is training, and it is one of my favorite parts of the League’s mission. I love that we develop the potential of women through training. I hope all members will join us in our goal to train a minimum of 90 women in multiple aspects—I would love to have a minimum of 90 women in our League CPR certified and suicide prevention (QPR) certified. Please join us for these amazing opportunities that could enable you to help save someone’s life.

I wish you all a happy holiday season, and thank you for your continued dedication to build a better Oklahoma City with the Junior League of Oklahoma City.

Best Holiday Wishes,

Tracey Frederick President, Junior League of Oklahoma City 2017-2018

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Contents

LINK VISION

To inform members and increase awareness of Junior League of Oklahoma City projects and events.

EDITOR Jenn Tupps ASSISTANT EDITOR & BUSINESS MANAGER Michelle Phillips COMMITTEE MEMBERS Kelly Burchett, Stephanie Hinton,

Leah Jackson, Colin Rockefeller, Christy Wilson 2017-18 BOARD OF DIRECTORS

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PRESIDENT Tracey Frederick PRESIDENT-ELECT Pam Campbell ADMINISTRATIVE VP Paula Cagigal BYLAWS CHAIR Sabrina Froehlich COMMUNICATIONS VP Christy Wilson COMMUNITY VP Cortney Smith FINANCE VP Katharine Johnston FUNDRAISING VP Kristen Ferate MEMBERSHIP VP Adrienne Nobles NOMINATING CHAIR Mei Cheng SUSTAINING ADVISOR Pam Newby

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CHIEF OF STAFF Jamie Manoles

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Self-Care and Work-Life Balance Get to know your Speaker in the City Committee 2017-18 Provisional News

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Spotlight on Sustainer Karen Luke Transfer Transition Ladies of the League

COMMUNITY ADVISORY BOARD

James Farris, Debbie Forshee, Dr. Terry Cline, Nicole Dobbins, Lillie-Beth Brinkman, Mel Martin, Alex Cameron, Beth Shortt, Clytie Bunyan, Mary Melon, Noel Williams, MD, Annette White-Klososky, Molly Ross, Jim Gebhart, Rita Aragon, Aurora Lora, Jeff Kretchmar, Kelly Fry, Michael Brooks-Jimenez, Teresa Rose Crook, Kersey Winfree, Kristine Browne, Susan Webb COMMUNITY PROJECTS/PROJECT MANAGERS

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FAMILY FITNESS NIGHTS Danielle Lidwell HEALTHY PETS/HEALTHY HOMES Shannon Stiger HEALTH BEYOND SIGHT Casey Randall THE HEALTH FAIR Denise Cramer KITK/TOP CHEF Amanda Essali & Rachel Vernon PARENTS NIGHT OUT Hayley Moore HEALTHY PRACTICES FOR SURVIVORS OF DOMESTIC ABUSE

Nikki West & Britnee Joyner KIDS ON TRACK Lauren Hammonds PROM NIGHT Cassie Thompson RONALD MCDONALD HOUSE GUEST CHEFS Heather Davey

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ELEMENTARY HEALTH Lindsey Truelove FOOD AND FUN AT FAMILY JUNCTION Mindy Rule

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Beyond the League Meet Your Nominating Committee League Leash

SAFE KIDS CAR SEAT SAFETY CHECKS Tina Izadi SINGLE PARENT SUPPORT GROUP Kristen LeForce WELLNESS FOR LIFE Nicole Doherty OPEN STREETS Katy McNeil FAMILY FUN NIGHTS Tori Raines VARIETY PACK Blair Bradley HEALTH BEYOND SIGHT Casey Randall THE HEALTH FAIR Denise Cramer

League Link is published five times a year by the Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. HEADQUARTERS

The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. 1001 NW Grand Blvd.

Oklahoma City, OK 73118 Phone (405) 843-5668 Fax (405) 843-0994 www.jloc.org

ON THE COVER: Speaker in the City guests Bill and Giuliana Rancic.

See cover story, page 4.

FUNDRAISERS

Mistletoe Market Speaker in the City Annual Campaign Western + Grand Goodnight OKC

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Bill & Giuliana Rancic Words on to Speak in OKC Inspiring Relationships and

BY LAURA STEEN t is 7 p.m. on Thursday, February 8, 2018. Where are you and what are you doing? If your answer is The Criterion, listening to Giuliana and Bill Rancic speak, then you will be at OKC’s most exciting speaking engagement! That’s right friends, we are so excited to host this power duo for our 2018 Speaker in the City event.

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Have you purchased your ticket yet? Members are required to purchase a $50 general admission ticket, but guess what? VIP tickets are also on sale! They guarantee your seat and grant you access to a private reception, including a photo op with the Rancics, after the event!

Either option would make an incredible gift during the holiday season. To purchase your ticket, visit www.jloc.org.

Best known for hosting “Fashion Police” and conducting her red-carpet interviews, Giuliana has also launched XO G wine and is currently celebrating the fourth year of her clothing line G by Giuliana, for HSN. In addition, she has created “Fab-U-Wish,” a program to grant fashion, beauty and celebrity-themed wishes to women battling breast cancer. This program is just one aspect of her ongoing mission to help those going through hardships to find happiness and a positive outlook on life.

Bill was put on the map as the first winner of the NBC reality show “The Apprentice”.

Continuing his commitment to entrepreneurship, Bill speaks to businesses, organizations and universities as well is appearing regularly on daytime broadcast and cable television programs such as NBC’s “Today” show, ABC’s “The View,” “The Rachel Ray Show” and various CNBC programs.

Giuliana and Bill Rancic are one of the hardest working couples in Hollywood.

Between the duo, they have published five books, opened three restaurants, hosted or starred on many television shows, and kicked cancer to the curb. Always in the public eye, they managed to accomplish all their many endeavors while remaining a shining example of what it takes to have a successful marriage and maintain strong family values. Their message focuses on how to balance work and family life without sacrificing either one.

Who knows? Maybe even their son, Duke, will make an appearance!

Please use the official hashtags of #JLOC: #WeAreJLOC, #JLOCFavoriteThings, #JLOCHealthySelfie, #SpeakerInTheCity, #GoodnightOKC, #LegacyAndLegends #JLOC90

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Prospective Provisional Information!

For prospective Provisional members for the 2018-2019 League year, JLOC will be hosting Prospective Member Events (PME) on the dates listed below. All Events will be held in the Large Conference Room at JLOC Headquarters. Invite your friends and spread the word!

Wednesday, January 10th, 2018 @ 6:30pm Tuesday, February 6th, 2018 @ 6:30pm Wednesday, March 7th, 2018 @ 6:30pm All applications for Provisional membership for the 2018-2019 League year and associated payments will be due no later than Monday, March 12, 2018 by midnight. For more prospective member information, please visit www.jloc.org.

REMAINING 2017-18 PROVISIONAL COURSE MEETINGS PROVISIONAL COURSES:

REQUIRED TRAININGS:

Course 3: February 7 or 21, 2018 Course 4: April 4, 2018

January 31, 2018 February 28, 2018 March 28, 2018

2018 GENERAL MEMBERSHIP MEETINGS

General Membership Meetings are held on the second Tuesday of the month. General Membership Meetings begin at 7:00 p.m., with social time beginning at 6:00 p.m. Meetings will be held at Will Rogers Theater, located at 4322 N. Western Ave.

2018 MEETING DATES January 9, 2018 February 13, 2018 *March 13, 2018 April 10, 2018 May 8, 2018 *We will only meet in March if another meeting is cancelled due to weather.

2017-18 PROVISIONAL NEWS BY JENNIFER FRITSCH AND JENNA HUDSON The Provisional year is well underway, and the Provisionals are jumping right into volunteering in the community. The first Provisional Course was held at Infant Crisis Services, where Miki Farris, Executive Director, spoke to the ladies about her time in the League and how Infant Crisis Services was founded. Afterwards, the ladies volunteered. During this event, the Provisional members sorted and matched Halloween costumes, unpacked 108 car seats, and they sorted 500 pounds of clothing! From just this initial course, our Provisional members donated over 100 volunteer hours at Infant Crisis Services!

The second Provisional Course delved into the inner workings of the JLOC. After the course ended, the members played “Junior League Jeopardy,” which covered the different committees, councils, and board positions within JLOC. It was a fun time for everyone! In the near future, we are looking forward to TLDC’s presentation of the “official” League history as one of their Provisional trainings!

Costume sorting at ICS

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(Right) Provisional Course #2 – “JLOC Jeopardy”

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Training and Leadership Development Committee (TLDC) Information

By Megan Johnson and Samara Terrill

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rom exercising our bodies, to training our minds, JLOC members have been enjoying the year’s TLDC events thus far! So far, our members have been treated to a Skincare Education Class led by Provisional member, Dr. Courtney Caplin, a cosmetic surgeon at Cosmetic Surgery Affiliates. At this training, attendees learned important skincare techniques, and had a chance to enter a raffle for fabulous prizes. A different night, JLOC members headed to Beyond Studios for a Pilates class. Physical activity has been said to improve one’s quality of life, and studies have shown that you gain seven minutes of life for each minute of moderate exercise!* JLOC members have also focused on the important leadership skill of public speaking, attending a Toastmasters’ meeting together. During the training, members honed their impromptu

Bottom (left to right): Jennifer Fritsch, Sarah Stringer, Marshelle Oakley, Alexis Lux; Top (left to right): Morgan Jones, Laura Heckenkemper, Krystal Murer, Jeanette Stanton, Caroline Turan

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speaking skills and worked on gaining confidence to speak in front of their peers.

Along with these health-focused trainings and socials, TLDC has been focusing on our 90th Anniversary Trainings; including Domestic Violence Awareness training, Suicide Prevention training, Child Abuse Awareness training, CPR training and a Blood Drive. While some of these courses have already been offered once, many are being offered again during the spring (January-May 2018) to help us achieve our goal of 90 women per training – enabling our members to be more knowledgeable volunteers in our community – now and for many years to come!

We are also excited to bring you more information about Junior League of Oklahoma City’s Leadership Academy, a pilot program we have created this year! We believe that strong leaders make strong communities.

By training women to develop their leadership skills, be effective collaborators, poised speakers, confident negotiators, know appropriate etiquette, and how to be confident in advancing your leadership track not only in Junior League, but in your workplace as well – our members will be better equipped to serve our community!

The Leadership Academy features public speaking sessions, resume building and pay negotiation training, as well as a “Happy Hour & Headshots” session, just to name a few! We are eager to grow this program with our members! If you have any types of trainings/workshops you would like to see in this program – please contact TLDC! We know that strong leaders make strong communities. By training women to be effective collaborators, poised negotiators, and committed volunteers, JLOC is equipping our members to go out and serve in our community. Together, we all weave a network that strengthens the capacity of society to meet the needs of all members. *(http://commonhealth.legacy.wbur. org/2013/03/minutes-exercise-longer-life )

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Provisional Kristal Cochran & Active Caroline Turan

Sustainer Christi Coyle won a skin raffle from Dr. Courtney Caplin, Provisional Member

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Women’s Leadership Society Samara Terrill and Megan Johnson

Megan Johnson, TLDC Chair:

Why do you like serving on TLDC? I love being able to help develop our member’s strengths and help them become even better leaders in our community, while adding fun learning experiences as well!

What is your favorite thing about JLOC? How diverse our members can be, and come together to help bring positive change in our community.

Favorite holiday tradition? Baking while watching Hallmark Holiday Movies!

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Why do you like serving on TLDC? I enjoy serving on the TLDC committee because it gives me a chance to meet so many of the other women in the League, and it allows me the opportunity to get to know them on a more personal level.

What is your favorite thing about JLOC? My favorite thing about JLOC is that it is full of women who have a heart for serving others. Our community has so many needs and the women of the Junior League work so hard to meet them.

Whether that’s educating the youth on healthy eating habits, or empowering women who have been a victim of domestic abuse, the women of Junior League are always eager to help.

Favorite holiday tradition? My favorite holiday tradition is watching “A Christmas Story” all day long on Christmas day with my sister. This is a tradition that we’ve been doing since we are kids and I can’t wait to do this same tradition with our own children.

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90th Anniversary Lookback: The Early Years of JLOC

By Kelly Burchett

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he Junior League of Oklahoma City was founded as The Junior Service League in the home of Mrs. George Chase Lewis in 1927. Mary Baker Rumsey presided as the League’s first President, from 1927-1928. Ten founding women invited twenty-nine provisional members to join them in their efforts to establish the Walnut Grove Community Center near the Oklahoma River.

Due to their hard work in establishing the community center, and after several field visits made by officers of the League who traveled to Oklahoma City to verify the group’s achievements, their application to join the Association of Junior Leagues of America, Inc., was approved in February of 1928, and the Junior League of Oklahoma city was born.

In the League’s early days, a new member “must have completed her debutante Winter, or have been one year out of school,” must have lived in Oklahoma City for at least one year, and must be under forty years of age.

Additionally, no more than ten new members were elected each year. The original JLOC

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community project was known as the Walnut Grove Community Center, which served impoverished families in the OKC area. The children that lived in the area were organized into clubs for enrichment activities. Food, clothing, and showers were available for the children. Trees were planted throughout the neighborhood, and with the Junior Service League’s help, Santa Claus gave stockings filled with fruit and candy to each neighborhood child at the annual Christmas Party.

Mothers were taught courses in nutrition and homemaking skills – regular attendance at classes earned these mothers flower bulbs to plant in their gardens for cheer. JLOC also created a library for these impoverished children, filled with books donated by The Carnegie Library in New York City.

JLOC purchased four automobiles for the Community Center, which were intended to provide transportation to and from doctors’ appointments, cultural activities, day trips, and camping trips out of town. These cars were also occasionally used to rush com-

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JLOC welcomed Amelia Earhart to OKC for an Air Show

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munity members to the hospital, in times of emergency. The Community Center would grow in 1932 to include the Walnut Grove Health Care Center, which included a Well Baby Clinic, Sick Baby Clinic, and Obstetrics Clinic staffed by doctors and nurses.

The founding members of JLOC raised money to support the Walnut Grove Community Center through fundraisers, including hosting a Spanish Fiesta evening, modeling, bridge parties, Christmas card sales, and a Horse show. One of the most interesting fundraisers the JLOC was involved with was an Air Show for the Milk and Ice Fund, which was a fund established to provide fresh food to parents to sustain their children during the Depression. For this event, the JLOC brought a young, female aviator to Oklahoma City for a show – Amelia Earhart!

In 1930, JLOC opened the Thrift Shop on Main Street in the Commerce Exchange Building near the trolley station on December 3, 1930. The JLOC also created an Unemployment Committee. Its purpose was to “alleviate the unfortunate local conditions” occurring during the Depression. The JLOC Arts and Interests Committee was created to enhance OKC’s cultural experience. The League joined Florence King in sponsoring the 1933 Town Hall Lecture Series, which brought noted authors and artists to lecture and perform in OKC. This Lecture Series remains in existence today. The Oklahoma City Children’s Theatre program was started in 1933, and JLOC volunteers staged the program’s very first production: Cinderella.

JLOC volunteers built the sets, created the costumes, and performed in the play.

The fall of 1940 saw the creation of the Junior Bookshelf Radio Series, which encouraged children to read, plus offered comfort for little ones during the uncertain days of WWII. League members would

read “on air,” while others organized city and county “listening posts” at libraries, hospitals, and community clubs—these programs were broadcast to over 40,000 eager listeners. The League invested $11,000.00 in the radio project in 1941. During WWII, the League devoted itself to projects supporting the war efforts in the community. The JLOC was instrumental in staffing the Office of Civilian Defense, and the Volunteer Office, while also supporting the work of the Red Cross. Many women involved in the JLOC served on civic and welfare boards in the absence of the men who were called up for active duty.

Also in 1940, the Child Guidance Center began as a partnership with the Sunbeam Home and Community Fund. The Center was staffed by a psychiatrist, psychologist, social worker, and medical staff. The clinic opened in part because of WWII, in an effort to help children affected by the war, specifically through counseling. Many of these children had fathers who either had gone to war or whose parents were working to support wartime efforts.

Another shining highlight from 1940 was the Junior League’s initiation of the Oklahoma Arts Council, under the leadership of Nan Sheets and Eleanor Kirkpatrick. The Oklahoma Art Center became what is today known as the Oklahoma City Museum of Art. Many individuals in the league were instrumental in founding the Beaux Arts Ball in order to raise money for a permanent collection at the Oklahoma Art Center in 1946. The first debutantes presented were female art students at the state’s colleges. The ball is still held annually presenting college age daughters and sons of Oklahoma City families. Proceeds fund new acquisitions for the museum.

Fellow Junior League members, we come from an impressive background. Let us each do our part to ensure that the JLOC makes important contributions in our community for the next ninety years. 

JLOC volunteers helped at the local hospital at Christmas-time

90TH ANNIVERSARY Introducing Western + Grand To many, the words “Junior League” and “Cookbook” are synonymous—and with good reason. The culinary site, Epicurious, has named multiple Junior League books to their numerous “must have” lists. Southern Living magazine has named 14 Junior League books to their “Most Famous and Cherished Community Cookbooks” list as a celebration of food and fellowship. Even the Pioneer Woman, Ree Drummond, has said, “the best recipes in the world reside in Junior League cookbooks, particularly those whose origin is in the southern states”.

With accolades such as these, one thing is certain: Junior Leagues across the country know how to produce a solid and reputable book.

As women on the move, who not only juggle personal, professional, and civic lives, Junior League books serve to show that community books, those created by real people and not professionals imposing their rules on what to do and what not to do, are the absolute best because they are authentic.

By sharing a recipe or party idea, we reveal the ways we approach our everyday lives and special events, showing that in all seasons of life there is much to celebrate.

Building on the success of storied League cookbooks, including our very own Superlatives released in 1985, the 90th Anniversary Committee is proud to introduce our newest literary endeavor, WESTERN + GRAND, a unique approach to entertaining – Oklahoma City style. The title, paying homage to the physical intersection of the Junior League of Oklahoma City Headquarters, sets the stage to discuss the crossroads of entertaining and items needed to host various events throughout the year. While most books focus on recipes alone, WESTERN + GRAND focuses on the overall entertaining process.

By Sheena Karami

This clever twist allows us to tell an allencompassing story of entertaining, detailing party ideas and tips-and-tricks, ultimately pairing them with carefully selected recipes from local contributors. These stories are interwoven with high-quality photography taken at the homes of JLOC members, painting the real-life picture of hospitality, creativity, and love – the key ingredients needed for a successful gathering.

Remaining consistent with our focus on all things local, WESTERN + GRAND also features wrap-around cover art by the talented Oklahoma City artist, Rita Ortloff.

This beautiful entertaining book is meant to be shared on a coffee table for all to enjoy, not hidden away on a bookshelf.

Entertaining is an inspired way for a community to come together. Through food and drink we tell stories, communicating so much about ourselves and our homes with relaxed ease. No arena is more intimate or exciting than a home kitchen. Welcoming the people we love into our personal sanctuaries—our homes—allows for ways to connect not otherwise experienced. Our hope is WESTERN + GRAND will inspire you and households across the country to come together and celebrate life with the same flare many of us already experience here in Oklahoma City.

A limited number of books will be released in Spring 2018. Pre-sales for WESTERN + GRAND began at Mistletoe Market and will continue both online at www.JLOC.org and through the order form below. Don’t miss your chance to reserve this piece of Oklahoma City history at the discounted presale price of $40! 

Western + Grand cover art by Rita Ortloff

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September & October 2017 General Membership Meetings

By Michelle Phillips

September General Meeting

(Left to right) Jeanette Stanton, Cortney Smith, Alexis Lux, and Nichole Glover

GUEST SPEAKER • Aurora Lora Superintendent of Oklahoma City Public Schools • PSAT/SAT preparation classes for all students free of cost • Free lunches for all students • Mental Health support in schools HOW TO HELP • www.donorschoose.org • Help teachers in need of supplies • Partners in Action • Principals post projects the community can volunteer to support BE THE MATCH-STEM CELL REGISTRY • R egister online for free and provide a cheek swab • I f you are a match, you could help save a life 

Aurora Lora, OKC Public Schools Superintendent, poses with President Tracey Frederick after the September GMM

• Peripheral Blood Stem Cell donations are the method used in 75% of cases (4-8 hours of donating blood) • Bone Marrow donations are the method used in 25% of cases • Register to donate at dkms.org SPEAKER IN THE CITY GUESTS ANNOUNCED • Bill and Giuliana Rancic STAR RECIPIENTS • Megan McGinnis-Brought therapy dogs to YWCA • Kayla Coffey-Pet Food Pantry • Stephanie Josefy-Health Beyond Sight ABC RECIPIENTS • Azadeh Adlamini & Chelsea RickettCommunity Project Development • Jenn Tupps-League Link • Kristin Van Nort-Strategic Planning

“At the moment, our society’s notion of success is largely composed of two parts: money and power. But it’s time for a third metric, beyond money and power—one founded on well-being, wisdom, our ability to wonder and to give back.”

—ARIANNA HUFFINGTON

October General Meeting GUEST SPEAKERS General Rita Aragon • Presentation of United States and Oklahoma flags Dr. Martha Brennan • Pay attention to your health and what your body is telling you How to Help • Share your story so others can learn from it HOMELESS ALLIANCE • The Curbside Chronicle is a $2 magazine sold by vendors who are homeless • Each purchase helps vendors build skills and supports them on their journey out of homelessness HOW TO HELP • Go to homelessalliance.org for more ways to support STAR RECIPIENT • Kiley Hendley-Food and Fun at Family Junction

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(Left to right) Lauren Lembo-Kelliher, Emme Cotton, Lori Mayhue, Miranda Hines, Sarah Klepacki, and Sarah Miller ABC RECIPIENTS • Jenna Hudson-PAT Vice Chair SPEAKER IN THE CITY

• Purchase quota tickets for $50 on Digital Cheetah • All other ticket purchases on Eventbrite

An exceptional education opens many doors, so we’re opening ours.

PARENT PREVIEW DAYS

TOUR OUR SCHOOL DURING A SCHOOL DAY EARLY CHILDHOOD (PS-PK) and LOWER SCHOOL (K-4th): Wednesday, December 6 (9 am)

ADMISSION GROUP TESTING SATURDAY, FEB. 24, 2018 8:30-11:00 AM

MIDDLE SCHOOL (5th-8th): Wednesday, November 29 (9 am) Wednesday, December 13 (9 am) SPACE IS LIMITED AND SOME GRADES WILL HAVE WAITING POOLS. PLEASE CALL EARLY TO RESERVE YOUR DATE: 405.749.3002.

PLEASE CALL 405.749.3002 TO REGISTER

TO LEARN • TO LEAD • TO SERVE 1800 NW 122nd Street • Oklahoma City, OK 73120 • 405.749.3002 • heritagehall.com

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Spotlight on Sustainer Karen Luke

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o refer to Junior League Sustainer, Karen Luke, as humble would be an understatement. According to Karen, who was the JLOC President for League year 1981-82, is a two-time Sustaining Advisor to past League presidents, is a recipient of the JLOC Mary Baker Rumsey Lifetime Achievement Award, and the Association of Junior Leagues International’s Mary Harriman Community Leadership Award, the most important thing she took away from her League membership were the relationships.

Karen grew up in Woodward, Oklahoma, a community that she believes nurtured her service-oriented heart. In a small community everybody mattered, “you don’t just stand

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by and watch a community grow. Building a community is not a spectator sport.” This small town helped build her sense of responsibility for others that she carried with her when she joined the Junior League. Karen began her time in the League 45 years ago, during a time when one had to be nominated for membership consideration. Her Provisional class, which consisted of 29 members, became very close volunteering through community projects and working at the Remarkable Shop. Their friendships are what Karen calls “the special gift of the League,” relationships that she still holds close to her heart. She also appreciated the relationships she formed with her League mentors, who became her role models. Karen considers these League mentors her heroes, as she learned from their diverse styles of leadership and was inspired by their commitment to volunteer service. Her hope for the 2017-2018 Provisional class is that they remain active in their community, using what they learn during their time in the League.

Karen also hopes that they remain friends in 2062, 45 years after their Provisional year, as she has with her Provisional class.

Another important part of Karen’s League experience was the training she received during her time as a Provisional and an Active. The training events prepared her for leadership and service, within and beyond the League. One particularly important training she received and would later facilitate was the Leadership Training Course lead by Michael Doyle. This training focused on how to make meetings work, including room set up and how to facilitate discussions within a large group. This focus on meeting structure transformed the League from Karen’s viewpoint, not only in their meetings but also throughout their community placements. Karen is encouraged by the League’s renewed focus on training and service throughout the city as she believes these are two very important components of the JLOC’s mission.

Karen insists that her favorite placement during her time as an Active League member, was as the Provisional Education Chair (now referred to as the PAT chair). During this placement, she learned about the community projects throughout the League, and enjoyed nurturing future League leaders. She also enjoyed being the chair of the Bicentennial Gift, when the Junior League built a playground for the Oklahoma City Zoo, dedicated to the children of Oklahoma City. During this placement she worked closely with renowned architect Rand Elliott, on the guide map for the Zoo. Karen is probably most remembered by her peers for her service and volunteer work following the bombing of the Alfred P. Murrah Federal Building, in April of 1995. Her devotion and commitment to the people of OKC during this time, is what led her to receive the AJLI’s Mary Harriman Community Leadership Award. Karen says that “the bombing brought people together throughout the OKC community”. She was chosen as the Vice Chair of the Memorial Task Force and later became the Chair. During this time, she provided comfort to family members and survivors. She also assisted in the fundraising efforts, and played a part in selecting the building design for what is now the beautiful and comforting Oklahoma City National Memorial.

Karen uses what she learned in the League in all aspects of her life, and knows that she can depend on her friends from the League to help out! She trusts their skills and knows they are committed to making this city a better place to live. Karen wants to remind members that “you don’t quit once you become a Sustainer; rather you apply the skills you have learned through the League, to continue with the League’s mission of serving our community.” She tries to live every day for others and her community, remembering that, “not intelligence, nor wit, nor wealth, but effort makes the difference.”

Self-Care & Work-Life Balance

By Taylor Rockefeller

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n today’s society, most people are on a constant quest to find, or maintain, a perfect work-life balance. It is a topic that has been at the top of both employers’ and employees’ lists alike for a few years now. A quick search on the internet will yield suggestions like setting clear expectations with your boss, or setting realistic goals with what you can handle outside of work. When talking about “work” and “life” in the work-life balance, most of the time “work” is defined as anything falling within the categories of your career and/or your life’s ambition, and “life” as anything falling within the family, friends, or home-life categories. These traditional definitions are all fine and good, but with women having higher expectations than ever before this current two category equation is in need of a third: self-care.

Adding an additional category is not in an effort to add yet another baton to juggle, but rather to look after the person juggling. How can we expected to do our best at anything if we are not first our best selves? Ultimately this would mean having true “me-time,” but starting out by adding yet one more thing to an already packed schedule could prove too much to ask of ourselves, at first.

First, and most importantly, it is essential to have a good relationship with ourselves. You have to be able to accept yourself in order to love yourself. Only once you can love and accept yourself will it be easier to implement self-care a.k.a. true “me-time.”

So, what steps can we take to better accept and love ourselves? I think it is best to start by examining our inner dialogue. Are we nice to ourselves in our head? Do we give ourselves positive pep talks or do we tell ourselves that we just can’t do it?

Making sure we have positive self-speak is very important to reaching the goals of self-love and self-acceptance. One way to start having a more positive inner dialogue is to have some sort of mantra or affirmation we say to ourselves over and over. At some point during the day, maybe as part of a morning or evening routine, taking less than a minute to tell yourself that you are enough, or reminding yourself that no one deserves your own love more than yourself, can help to set up your self-speak to be more positive day after day. Once a positive inner dialogue is established, the pieces that are needed for finding time for ourselves will more easily fall into place.

The ability to love and accept ourselves will make it easier for us to allow ourselves to have “me time,” because we will know that we need and deserve it. When you have a good relationship with yourself, you will also be able to better accomplish things like, setting clear expectations with your boss and having realistic goals with what you can handle outside of work because you will love yourself enough to not let things get too out-of-whack.

The trick for having a perfect work-life balance may always be something society places a large focus on. Women, today in particular, are asked to seamlessly balance so much at once.

Hopefully with proper steps in place to better focus on the person doing all of the balancing, it will become less of a trick-based balancing act, and more of a product of self-care.

JLOC SPOTLIGHT ON HELEN JONES With all she does behind the scenes, let’s get to know our JLOC Office Manager!

How long have you been working for JLOC? 2 ½ years.

What does a typical day look like for you at JLOC? Numbers and I love it.

Tell us a bit about your family. Married with 4 kids and 14 grandkids.

What do you think is the biggest impact JLOC has on the community? Compassion for those who need it.

What do you do in your free time? Hobbies?

Cub Scouts, sewing/crafts, herding grandkids.

Do you have any pets? No. My husband has a Dachshund, Molly, who seems to think I belong to her.

Thanks for all you do for JLOC, Helen! You are an integral part of the Junior League and we appreciate you!

Your favorite summer memory? Being young enough to enjoy summer.

Favorite vacation destination? Any place with my family.

Favorite food? Also, Favorite restaurant in OKC? Mexican at Ted’s.

What’s on your bucket list? Make sure all the grandkids have at least one memorable moment with me.

Anything else you want the JLOC members to know? Thank you for giving me the opportunity to be with JLOC. It is truly an honor to work with so many women making a difference in the world around us.

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Get to know Your Speaker

2018 Speaker in the City Committee

Jill Merritt Co-Chair (Active) Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? I would recommend members to self-submit because you really don’t know how awesome of an event and experience it is—from working with crazy-talented women, to coordinating with celebrity agents, to seeing it all pan out for the greater good of the League—it’s very rewarding.

What is your favorite thing about being in JLOC? I think my favorite thing about the League is the ability

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to experience things I may not have experienced otherwise. There have been so many trainings, events/ activities to participate in, and the opportunity to meet so many amazing ladies, that it naturally builds you up by a learning experience you sometimes don’t even realize.

when I was active. I am very impressed with everyone’s dedication to SITC and to the League.

What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? My favorite tradition is spending time with family and friends and remembering Christ’s birth.

What is your favorite thing about being in JLOC? My favorite thing about JLOC is the thought that I am helping our community.

Christmas morning with the kiddos to see what Santa brought. Their excitement makes me feel like a kid again.

What is your favorite thing about being in JLOC? I have learned so much about myself through JLOC’s guidance and leadership. The skills and knowledge I have gained through JLOC has helped in my life and work, not only within JLOC, but outside as well.

Amy Crowley Co-Chair (Sustainer) What do you like most about serving on the Speaker in the City Committee? I have had the chance to meet some fantastic people and reconnect with ladies I worked with

Angie Huffaker Co-Vice Chair (Active) What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? Waking up early

Sarah Frank Co-Vice Chair (Sustainer) One word to describe your JLOC experience thus far? Growing.

in the City Committee What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? Hands down Christmas music! My family doesn’t let me start listening until the day after Thanksgiving. But what happens on my car radio stays in my car…

Laura Steen

Sormeh Slater Arrangements/Hospitality Chair Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? It's a great way to find out what goes into a big fundraising event, if you haven't been a part of one in the past; and it's exciting to collaborate on the details with the other women.

What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? Baking and decorating cookies with family.

What is your favorite thing about being in JLOC? Meeting all of the different members, and learning something new each year.

Marketing/Promotions Co-Chairs Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? Part of JLOC's mission is to train women how to be leaders in the community and there's no better training than sitting on a committee and raising money for the community. With the funds raised from SITC, we have a chance to really make a difference in our community projects.

What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? Setting out bourbon and peanuts for Santa after going to Christmas Eve service at church. (My Grandpa Pete always said Santa needed to warm up from the cold milk and cookies!) I'm looking forward to continuing this tradition with my kids!

What is your favorite restaurant in OKC? My first answer is anything that isn't a chain because OKC's restaurant scene is amazing! But my current fave is probably Barrios - get the avocado margarita and short rib enchiladas!

Hillary Ashton Marketing/Promotions Co-Chairs What do you like most about serving on the Speaker in the City Committee? Getting to know the other ladies on the committee better. We have such amazing and dedicated women in JLOC. One word to describe your JLOC experience thus far? Empowering.

What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? Eating the Yule Log my mom makes for New Years.

Whitney Tatum Special Events Co-Chair (Active) What do you like most about serving on the Speaker in the City Committee? I enjoy sharing my talents as an event professional with the League, in a way that is directly affecting our impact within the community, by raising funds for our projects. Our committee is comprised of a fantastic group of ladies, each with diverse

backgrounds and talents. It’s wonderful to see everyone’s talents utilized to their fullest!

Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? I’d recommend that all members self-submit for any leadership position, not just this committee! (But this one is very rewarding!)

Christi Coyle Special Events Co-Chair (Sustainer) What do you like most about serving on the Speaker in the City Committee? As a Sustainer, I love being involved with the Active members. No matter what we are doing, I continue to learn from them. I am a HUGE lover of planning parties, so this is so in my wheelhouse. I love that JLOC has the ability to draw such interesting, successful people to participate in this event in OKC! What is your favorite thing about being in JLOC? The support that is always available to you – not just in the community, but personally as well. There is always someone that sees something in you that maybe you missed, or there is someone that you can help with your special gifts. It is a never-ending circle of special friends as well as friends of the community in which we live and volunteer.

What is your favorite restaurant in OKC? I am one that mourns the closing of The Coach House but coming in a close second is The Metro.

Melissa Frost Fundraising Manager (Active) Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? Every placement I have had with JLOC has taught me something different.

Don’t be afraid to try something out of your comfort zone. Some of your best future experiences cannot be planned.

What is your favorite Christmas/ Holiday tradition? I buy a real Christmas tree every year! You cannot beat a real tree smell, and you do not have to spread out the branches.

Valerie Aubert Fundraising Manager (Sustainer) What do you like most about serving on the Speaker in the City Committee? Learning new things, meeting new people.

Why would you recommend members to self-submit for a SITC leadership position? Great collaborative experience.

What is your favorite restaurant in OKC? Downtown Mahogany and Paseo Grill – hard to choose.

Jen Randle Finance Assistant

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Members of the Transfer Committee enjoy a night at the OKC Dodgers game

Transfer News

By Nichole Glover, Transfer Committee Chair Welcome to our new Transfer members!

Debra Ridpath from the Junior League of Midland, TX Jaleesa "Leesa" Komolafe Jourdan Srouji from the Junior League of Tulsa Jennifer "Jenny" Neff from the Junior League of Tulsa Emily Lilly from the Junior League of Dallas Katie Atkins Janessa Gallegos from the Junior League of Pueblo, CO Dawn Bogart (Sustainer) from the Junior League of Collin County, TX Amber Corbin from the Junior League of Fort Worth, TX

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lease introduce yourself to these women and let’s make them feel right at home! The transfer committee is off to a great start!! Our primary focus is to welcome, educate and acquaint our new transfers to not only JLOC, but to Oklahoma City. It can be fun yet sometimes overwhelming when you move to a new city, and we hope to make that transition as easy as possible. The transfer committee is made up of Provisionals, Actives and Sustainers but we always welcome new ladies that would like to join our committee.

Thanks to the generosity of Jennifer Fritsch (and family) our committee started the year off with a homerun! We cheered on the OKC Dodgers from our private suite, where we enjoyed lots of ballpark treats and got to know one another.

In September, we met for a fun happy hour at West with lots of delicious appetizers, great conversation and of course cotton candy at the end of the night.

Some of our upcoming events include an evening of yoga at the Myriad gardens, a Christmas potluck, and a painting/pizza party. We hope to create a fun and exciting year for the transfer committee and we are keeping our fingers crossed we get a TON more, new and amazing transfers!!!

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This year, members will be given the opportunity to apply for appointed positions on a single form, much like they select their Community Placements. They will also be able to indicate which positions they do not wish to be considered for. If there is a particular position the member would like to expound upon, more detailed self-submissions will still be considered.

A self-submission might include the reasons you are applying for the position and any detailed competencies that would aid the Nominating Committee in their decisions. Any experiences (educational, vocational, volunteer) shared with the committee will aid the decision-making process. Your selfsubmissions help the committee to avoid making selections based on superficial observations.

The Nominating Committee wishes to operate in the best interest of the Junior League of Oklahoma City. We strive to keep our process credible and transparent; however, to ensure respect to all the candidates, all deliberations are confidential. You can have confidence that all discussions are kind and thoughtful. Throughout the year, please read your JLOC & ME for deadlines of upcoming appointments. For the full list, the Appointment Timeline can be found in the Members Only area of the website under the “Resources” tab. Select “Nominating Documents and Forms.”

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Safe Kids Car Seat Safety Checks

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ar crashes are the leading cause of death for children aged 1 to 13. Many deaths and injuries can be prevented by proper use of car seats, boosters and seat belts. The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration’s research reveals that 59% of car seats are not installed correctly. A properly installed car seat is proven to save lives and this project is potentially saving hundreds of childrens’ lives a year.

Safe Kids Car Seat Safety Checks is in its third year as a full-time placement for our members.

Working in conjunction with our agency partners, Safe Kids Oklahoma and Infant Crisis Services, JLOC provides properly installed car seats for hundreds of families around the Oklahoma City metro. At the events held in July and September of 2017, almost 200 car seats were distributed and

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installed to children who were in need of a car seat.

Hundreds of car seats were checked for safe and correct installation.

JLOC supports approximately 6 to 8 events throughout the year. More than 75 car seats are provided to children in need at each event, making these events the largest of their kind in Oklahoma.

Last year over 500 car seats were distributed at the JLOC supported events, and even more car seats were checked for the safest installation possible.

At each event, certified child passenger safety technicians install car seats which have been donated by JLOC and/or other organizations.

The public is invited to have the installation of any car seat checked to ensure that the seat is properly and safely installed. The safety technicians teach families how to transport children correctly and safely.

JLOC volunteers assist the technicians with paperwork by scribing the needed information; reviewing recall lists to determine the safety of any previously installed car seats; and completing the warranty information for each new car seat distributed so that the family may receive notifications regarding recalls or other important information. JLOC volunteers also distribute information; provide water in JLOC bags to the families; entertain and interact with the children and families; and ensure that the event runs smoothly by lining-up and organizing the cars; directing traffic; and providing information about the process.

The events take place at Infant Crisis Services on Saturday mornings every other month.

JLOC volunteers arrive at 8:00 a.m. and typically finish around noon. JLOC volunteers

typically stay until all car seats have been installed and checked. JLOC sponsors at least one event a year by providing the car seats for that event. The JLOC sponsored event this year was held this past October.

It is a first come, first served event and occurs regardless of the weather. Families in need of a car seat(s) start lining up hours before the event in hopes of securing a car seat. To obtain the greatest safety results, the child in need of a car seat must be present; this allows the technicians to determine the proper car seat for that child’s height and weight. Numbers and cards identifying which car seat should be installed are distributed to the families. A $10 donation per seat is requested from eligible families.

The event is targeted to families where either a child or the parent/guardian receives some form of government assistance.

At each of the events the number of families that attend continue to increase.

Many of the children who are at our events arrive without any car seat. Unfortunately, families in need are turned away at each event because the demand exceeds the supply. Families who do not receive a car seat are provided with information about the next event and encouraged to arrive early to receive a car seat.

The Coalition Coordinator for Safe Kids Oklahoma, Cassandra Herring, finds the partnership with JLOC to be a crucial asset, stating “the dedication and hard work the Junior League of Oklahoma City brings to our project is an invaluable part of allowing us to effectively provide car seats and proper use education to families in need.

We are very thankful to work with such an amazing group of women who share our goals to reduce injuries amongst Oklahoma children.” Regarding JLOC, Danielle Morgan, Volunteer Program Coordinator for Infant Crisis Services, stated “because of Junior League we are able to not only fully staff volunteers for each of our events, but this year we were able to add an extra event entirely, due to the generosity of Junior League funds. Adding an extra event guarantees an additional hundred plus babies, toddlers, and children are able to receive a safe and reliable seat, ensuring their safety during travel. Infant Crisis Services is so grateful for the women of Junior League and we cherish our partnership with them and with Safe Kids Oklahoma.”

The JLOC volunteers work hard at these events and have done an excellent job at providing support and assistance in ensuring that children will be transported safely. JLOC in conjunction with its agency partners are protecting the safety and lives of hundreds of children in the Oklahoma City metro area.

H E A LT H Y P E T S H E A LT H Y H O M E S Pet Food Pantry of Oklahoma City is a JLOC placement in which JLOC volunteers work with local senior citizens, veterans and homeless programs to reduce hunger in pets of these families. This year’s placement has 19 volunteers who will assist Pet Food Pantry for two Saturdays a month. The second Saturday of the month, volunteers help with bagging pet food that is delivered to over 130 senior citizens and veterans throughout central Oklahoma. The third Saturday of the month, our volunteers load the bagged pet food and supplies into the cars of volunteers, so it can be delivered to the front door of the over 130 senior citizens and veterans that qualify for this assistance.

As volunteers, a large part of the help we provide the Pet Food Pantry is with public awareness and education at events, all throughout Oklahoma City. So far this year we have helped setup and man information tables at events such as: the OKC Dog Show, the OKC Bridal Show, Dog Days of Summer at the Norman Library, and Fassler Hall’s Ice Cream Social (for dogs and pet parents).

At these events, we are able to share the mission, vision and goals of Pet Food Pantry. With our help disseminating this information, we are able to help more of the senior and veteran populations in need of

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this assistance; as well as attracting support in the form of recruiting volunteers and pet food donations.

This is our third year to participate with Pet Food Pantry. This year, JLOC volunteers are undertaking a new project to help the Pet Food Pantry’s clients have access to low cost, annual vaccinations for their pets, by establishing a database that will enable the drivers who deliver the food, to provide information on these low-cost veterinarian services. We are also establishing a process to provide birthday cards for the clientele, as well as seasonal postcards, that illustrate helpful tips and tricks to better care for their pets. This is a much needed additional service that will help the Pet Food Pantry expand the services they are able to provide to their clients. We are all excited about the additional opportunity to help those in need.

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Please update your JLOC Member Profile photo! With over half our members missing a photo on their Member Profile Page, it can be difficult to determine “who’s who” in JLOC. If your profile photo is not current or is a “No Photo” box, please log on to your member profile page and upload a photo!

Gentry Snow Johnson Born September 28, 2017 Parents are Lauren & Mitch Johnson

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Healthy You Parents’ Night Out I magine for a moment what it would be like to have a child with an illness. You don’t have all of the answers for them and you are doing your very best to get them the highest quality care available, to keep them safe, and help them to get well again. But it’s scary. And stressful.

Unfortunately, many of you have experienced this, or have a close friend or family member that has been in this situation.

Healthy You Parents’ Night Out placement at OU Children’s Hospital, provides families with a monthly opportunity to participate in activities, let their kids play in “The Zone”, and enjoy food from outside of the hospital. Each month, Junior League volunteers plan activities ranging from arts and crafts, to yoga, to trivia.

The group meets at the Children’s Hospital in “The Zone”, which is a controlled environment designated for the kids staying at the hospital.

It contains a wide range of toys and opportunities to let them be kids.

The genesis of the Parents’ Night Out program was to provide an opportunity for the families to get out of their rooms, let the kids play, and give the parents some time to rest and think about something besides their child’s diagnosis or the impending uncertainty. Parents’ Night Out offers a reprieve from the stresses of a

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family’s day in the hospital. Some of the parents enjoy an ear to listen to their challenges. Others want to quietly paint or color and enjoy some silence to process their day while their kids play.

Deemah Ramadan, JLOC volunteer, shares what has made this project rewarding to both the families and volunteers, “one of my most memorable moments was meeting a young girl who had been undergoing extensive treatment.

During our very first class, she painted a gorgeous canvas while her father painted next to her. They were creating memories together, right in front of us, during one of the most difficult times they will probably ever face. It was timeless and heartfelt. At Parents’ Night Out, the patients and their families are able to smile and forget their burdens for a moment. We get to see their stresses relieved and be a part of that. When my sister was undergoing treatment, I spent a lot of time in the hospital with her, and I understand the stresses and pain these families feel. We are able to provide priceless time for them to enjoy moments of normalcy and slow down the clock. I am so grateful to JLOC for this opportunity to serve my community in a way that I could have never done on my own.”

The Junior League offers a unique service to the community by providing volunteers for an

Project Manager Hayley Moore array of nonprofits. The training the group members obtain preparing for their placements helps to provide structure to the volunteer opportunities that keep the placements running efficiently and seamlessly, making sure everyone involved benefits.

Hayley Moore touches on her favorite aspect of being the Project Manager, “it’s incredible to see the progression of everyone involved in the group by the end of the year. They become great friends and their heart for the Children’s Hospital is so big. Many members are interested in returning to volunteer on their own. That’s my goal as the project manager— to ignite a passion in people for community service that lives on past their active years in the League, and encourages them to serve at higher capacities in these nonprofits. That’s how we create real change in Central Oklahoma. We provide training and experience to these incredibly talented women, then inspire them to take initiative and join boards and lead by example. It’s the Junior League method that has been proven time and time again, and we have really perfected that structure because our members care a whole lot about our community and they want to see it succeed and grow.”

LADIES OF THE LEAGUE What do you most look forward to during the holiday season?

Katherine Chandler ACTIVE

What is OKC's best kept secret holiday activity?

It isn't a secret—But, I love mapping out the best lights and getting hot chocolate with friends/family and driving around singing Christmas songs and looking at lights!

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Running and looking at Christmas lights—makes running in the dark so much more fun! (common theme I love Christmas lights)

Decorating my house while watching Christmas Movies, Baking for Neighbors, Parties.

What was the best part of your 2017?

Time with Friends and Family.

Current favorite restaurant?

Cheever's and Kitchen 324.

Kristen Ferate BOARD MEMBER

What is OKC's best kept secret holiday activity?

Devon's Saturdays with Santa which takes place at the Devon Energy Center 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., Saturdays in December. Children can visit Santa, make crafts and immerse themselves in the holiday spirit.

There is a wonderful Illy coffee shop to assist grownups in keeping up with said holiday spirit. The Devon building really is stunning when it is decorated for the season.

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

When I was little and growing up in Kansas my mother would bundle my little brother and I up and take

us to the Prairie Pines Christmas Tree Farm to cut down our tree. Prairie Pines is a nostalgic wonder outside of Wichita. It has turn-of-the-century barns decorated with Victorian sleighs and buggies. They serve hot cocoa and cider to warm you while you traipse through the timber looking for your "perfect" tree. I have such happy memories of this place and I love sharing it with my children.

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ctive Jennifer Andersen Ketter is a dedicated community volunteer with the Oklahoma City Museum of Art (OKCMOA), and is one of the founding members of the OKCMOA Moderns, the museum’s young patron group.

Jennifer joined the Junior League of Chicago in 2008. When Jennifer moved to Oklahoma City with her future husband (he referred to OKC as the “Paris of the South”), she transferred to JLOC. Currently in the Variety Pack placement, Jennifer has enjoyed her time in the League, getting to meet so many new friends. She noted that volunteering with the Junior League gave her insight into how many organizations need quality volunteers, patrons, and stakeholders.

When OKCMOA President and CEO, Michael Whittington, joined the Museum in 2013, he had a vision of involving OKC’s younger demographics to ensure that the OKCMOA would evolve with the

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city and remain a vital part of the art scene for decades to come. Although Jennifer was relatively new to OKC, her passion for philanthropy coupled with her professional experience as a strategy consultant with Boston Consulting Group led to her selection for the group tapped by OKCMOA leadership to determine how to better connect with OKC’s young patron demographic. The end result was the creation of the OKCMOA Moderns.

The Moderns are a dynamic group of young patrons and rising business, civic, and social leaders committed to supporting the OKCMOA. As a founding member, Jennifer has been instrumental in not only the strategizing of the organization, but has also served as Chair of Events and as Membership Chair.

Joining the Moderns is a great opportunity for civic-minded young patrons to network with one another in an intellectual and interesting environment. There are multiple avenues for engagement.

1. Attend an event (many are open to the public).

Email moderns@okcmoa.com to get added to the e-mail list for future events. 2. Join the Moderns by visiting the OKCMOA website or by calling (405) 278-8207. 3. Volunteer at an event, such as Festival of the Arts. 4. Moderns members looking to increase their engagement are invited to apply for the Moderns Board in April of each year.

The Moderns is a great jumping off point for deeper involvement with OKCMOA. Jennifer and her husband will be chairing the OKCMOA’s Renaissance Ball in September 2018. If you are interested in supporting the Museum’s most important fundraiser, either through sponsorship or attendance at the event, please let her know. (http://www.okcmoa.com/visit/events/renaissanceball). Of her service, Jennifer notes, “The Moderns Board has given us the opportunity to connect with other civic leaders in OKC, to develop a close relationship with the Museum and its staff, and most importantly, to cultivate the future supporters of OKCMOA. The Museum has, in many ways, become a second home to me.”

Jennifer notes that JLOC members are particularly appealing to other community organizations because League members are experienced volunteers who have a demonstrated commitment to service. She underscored the benefit of membership in JLOC, as League service is an investment in developing League members into quality volunteers and patrons. She notes, “it can be easy to get deeply involved in an organization that you are passionate about if you put in the effort to develop a relationship beyond sporadic volunteering.”

Jennifer owns local home goods company, Sparrow Park Goods & Co. (www.sparrowparkgoods. com). She lives near downtown with her husband, Aaron, and their black lab, Frank. Get in touch at: jennifer.e.andersen@gmail.com. For more information about the Moderns, visit http://www. okcmoa.com/moderns/ *If you would like to be featured (or would like to nominate someone for a feature) in an upcoming issue of League Link, please email tupps. editor2017@gmail.com. We are so proud of all our community volunteers, and want to showcase other projects that our members are passionate about!

Other charitable pursuits outside of JLOC and Moderns? Regional Food Bank of Oklahoma and Positive Tomorrows.

Favorite restaurant in OKC? Museum Café, Cheever’s and Chae.

Currently reading? Morning: articles from The Economist, WSJ, and FiveThirtyEight. Evening: “A Guide to the Birds of East Africa” by Nicholas Drayson.

Favorite Podcasts? Freakonomics, Reveal, More Perfect, and Homecoming.

Hobbies? Anything outdoors, traveling to the mountains, swimming, Pilates, cooking.

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Transfer Transition Featuring Janessa Gallegos

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joined the Junior League of Pueblo, Colorado and completed my Provisional year this past year. I was awarded “New Member of the Year” and that was a huge honor! My Provisional class organized an amazing and very large event for our community called "Holiday with Heroes." I love to get involved, and last year I was on many committees, including Touch-A-Truck, Kids in the Kitchen, Monster Dash, Girls Night Out, Fit4Fun, as well as several small committees. I had the pleasure of attending ODI this past June, which was incredible and I can’t wait to go back! This year, before I left Pueblo to come to OKC, I was the Co-Chair for Touch-A-Truck.

I am married to my wonderful husband, David. His job brought us here to OKC—he is a Journeyman Carpenter. We have a beautiful daughter, F'Lissitee, who is in her third year of nursing school. We also have two amazing grandsons, Amaziah and Zaxon. They are my life and my world. They all live in Colorado and we miss them terribly. The saying is true, "being a grandparent is way better than being a parent!" I also have an identical twin sister, Vanessa, who also lives in OKC. I am a flight attendant by occupation. However, I have been off work for a bit due to an emergency landing (literally like in the movies with ambulances and fire trucks). I also have a background in property management and marketing, but I absolutely love to fly and can't wait to get back in the air! Fun fact: my twin sister is also a flight attendant!

I officially transferred to JLOC in September 2017, although we moved to OKC in August.

My favorite thing about OKC so far is the people. Everyone is very kind and genuinely wants to be inclusive which is fantastic as I am definitely a people person and I love getting involved. I have only been here a few months and I already make cards with a card club once a week, volunteer with JLOC, and with Life Church - Mustang. Oh, and I just began couponing— WOW! My placement this year is something dear to my heart—YWCA Survivors of Domestic Abuse—as my daughter is a survivor twice and we used the services at the YWCA in Pueblo a few years ago. I have completed my training and got to participate in my first event last night.

I was sitting with a 7-month-old baby who began to choke and I had to perform the Heimlich Maneuver on the poor little guy. I just stayed calm and my training as a flight attendant kicked in. I was then given the opportunity to teach the baby's mom how to do the Heimlich, should her son ever choke again. My composure helped the

mom to calm down—what an amazing blessing it is helping others!

In all, I am LOVING JLOC! I must say that I was very nervous as I was coming from a Junior League of about 300 members to JLOC with over 1400 members. I am already making friends and jumping right in as the transfer committee is fabulous! First off, the leaders Nichole and Jeanette are so kind, willing to answer all my questions, and they go above and beyond to make sure that each new transfer feels welcome!

Second, it’s very helpful being new,to know there are other women in your shoes. Keep up the good work ladies as YOUR CARING and GIVING back is noticed! In Junior League, I know that I have found my calling in life. I have always loved to give back, but I found in Junior League that women lift other women, we don't tear each other down. That is a big deal in today's world!

Janessa and her husband, David

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Meet Your Nominating

We asked each of the Nominating Committee Members to tell us a little bit about themselves…here are their answers.

CRISTI REIGER Sustaining Advisor

What do you like most about serving on Nominating? This is my third time around (member, Chair, Sustaining Advisor) and, each time, what I have loved is this group of women coming together to decide, really, the future of the League, in terms of the leadership, and what those individuals will accomplish in the coming two years. Seeing our Nominating committee members put aside agendas, friendships and, maybe, personal preference, to what is best for our League is encouraging and satisfying. The two previous times, I have made new friends, and walked away proud of our slate. I expect the same from this year’s experience!

What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Go the extra mile in each of your placements, and make it known to your leadership you would like to be more involved. Self-submit.

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

I love my family’s tradition of going to my parent’s house for Thanksgiving lunch. They live in Norman, close to the OU campus. So, after we eat, we go for a long walk around campus, remanence, and pass stories along to our kids. Then, we go back and watch football pretty much the rest of the day, with friends dropping in. Leftovers, for dinner, in the bar.

Then, we return on Saturday to walk to the OU game. Best weekend of the year!

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KATHERINE CHANDLER

ANGIE HUFFAKER

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? Serving as Advising Mentor Co-Chair with Leslie Coale-Mossman.

She is so fun to work with and I am loving working with our amazing group of Advising Mentors.

What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Self-Submit, Self-Submit!! Also, make sure you have a picture on your profile and that your profile is up-todate with your experiences and skills. Final word of advice - don’t get discouraged - apply for multiple positions!

Favorite OKC restaurant? Cheever’s, Kitchen 324, Zorbas.

What do you like most about serving on Nominating? Knowing that the nominations we make has the potential to help shape the future of JLOC. What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Self-Submit!

It may seem intimidating, but that’s the best way to let the committee know you’re interested in something.

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Waking up early Christmas morning with the kiddos to see what Santa brought. Their excitement makes me feel like a kid again.

LEAH JACKSON

MIRANDA HINES

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? I loved serving in the community at the YWCA! What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Decorating and watching Christmas Vacation!

Favorite OKC restaurant? Right now- Barrio’s!

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? The impact I get to make on electing the future lead roles for JLOC and the community.

What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? I really enjoyed being League Link Editor and currently the League Photographer. I get to meet and talk to so many people I normally wouldn’t.

Favorite OKC restaurant? Pho Lien Hoa, I could eat there every day.

Committee to use your talents to benefit the League!

Favorite OKC restaurant? I’m a brunch lover—so at the moment I’m loving Hatch, Kitchen 324, West, The Mule, Cheever’s and Café 501.

LAUREN OTTAWAY-JOHNSON

What do you like most about serving on Nominating? The other women on the Nominating Committee. It has been such a pleasure to work with them!

What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Do not be afraid to self-submit!! We cannot place a member in the position that she wants if we don’t know!

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Watching the Muppet Christmas Carol with my father every Christmas Eve (or as close to Christmas Eve as we can).

LAUREN REIKEN-HOBBS

What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Talk to the current and previous position holders to learn what the placement entails, read the description in P&P, then self-submit with detailed info about why you are qualified and interested in the position!

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

Christmas morning breakfast with my immediate family.

Favorite OKC restaurant? Paseo Grill.

SAMARA TERRILL

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? Being a PAT. What advice would you have for League members who wish to be considered for an appointed position within JLOC? Go for it! Also, don’t be shy about asking your advisors, advising mentors, or previous chairs of committees you’ve served on for letters of support!

Favorite OKC restaurant? Cafe Kacao.

WHITNEY TATUM MOIRA MCCARTHY-PARHAM

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? I have really loved all of my positions, but I have to say Nominating is particularly fulfilling.

What is your favorite holiday tradition? I’m from Chicago, so my family goes skating and catches a show at Second City or Zaney’s. We also go shopping down Michigan Ave. Favorite OKC restaurant? Vast!

What do you like most about serving on Nominating? What I love most about serving on Nominating is putting ladies in positions to bring out their full potential; sometimes pushing them outside of their comfort zone. In my career, I was always pushed in those areas, and it has made me thrive. I hope to have that effect on upcoming leaders as well!

What has been your favorite JLOC position or placement thus far? My favorite position in JLOC thus far would be Prom Night Project Manager. I feel as though it used my talents in events, as well as management. It’s always nice 25

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League Leash

Each issue, we will feature JLOC pets!

If you would like to see your pet in the League Link, please email photos to tupps.editor2017@gmail.com.

Tyson 9-years old

Elise Lopez, Pet owner Tyson is a sassy little dog with a huge heart who will always lay on top of your phone so you can’t leave him.

Daphne

7-year-old rescue pup Lauren Reiken-Hobbs, Pet owner Rescued by Lauren at 9 months old, Daphne now enjoys hassling her older dog-brother Bennie, a Yorkie, cuddling & giving kisses, and propping herself up on her back legs like a meerkat when she wants a treat!

Ranger

7-year-old rescue pup Shayna Sims, Pet owner Ranger’s favorite activities include bossing around her fur brother (George), going on car rides, and protecting her family.

Stella Roux

3-year-old Lab/Schnauzer mix Kasey Brown, Pet owner Her hobbies include eating, chasing bubbles, and lounging in the sun. Her favorite food is Sonic tater tots.

Simon

6-year-old Great Dane Kayla Coffey, Pet owner Simon is a champion for arthritis research and awareness because kids and dogs get arthritis too! His favorite TV show is Bones.

Shameous

5-year-old English Bulldog Shannon Stiger, Pet owner Shameous is not a “fan” of the hot dog days of summer, but does know how to keep cool in any kind of weather.

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Remy & Tux

3-year-old Cavalier King Charles Spaniels Tori McKee, Pet owner Tux is a rescue with a seizure disorder and is an advocate for other Cavaliers with the same condition. Remy and Tux do everything together but mostly they enjoy a good day at home with a lap to lay on and Netflix on the TV.

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Women Building a Better OKC

MISSION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. is an organization of women committed to promoting voluntarism, developing the potential of women and improving the community through effective action and leadership of trained volunteers.

Its purpose is exclusively educational and charitable.

Thank you for advertising with us!

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VISION The Junior League of Oklahoma City, Inc. will empower volunteers to impact our community and enrich lives.

FOCUS Women Building a Better Oklahoma City

Increase your business and advertise with us!

Get on board for the 2017-18 League Link year and start advertising. The circulation is over 1,500 and sent not only to JLOC Members and Provisionals, but numerous businesses, and community organizations.

Special rates are available for JLOC Provisionals, Actives and Sustainers.

WWW.JLOC.ORG

Contact Michelle Phillips, League Link Business Manager and Assistant Editor, for more information at mpteach17@gmail.com.

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