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SHE KISSED A GIRL: Pop icon Katy Perry enraptured legions of LGBT fans with her hit “I Kissed A Girl.” The performer—who released a new movie July 4—talks about her relationship with the LGBT community and why equality matters to her.

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part in Orange County’s new domestic partnership ordinance—but elected officials are nowhere to be seen; The Parliament House marks its 37th anniversary with a full schedule of celebrations; more.

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WAS DISAPPOINTED TO LEARN that [neither] the Orange County Mayor’s Of�ice, nor any current elected Orange County Commission members or representatives, were present for this historic day [of the implementation of the domestic partnership registry]. All of the debates and forums and backroom meetings, [yet] no one came to be part of the kick-off celebration? Not even the openly gay Orange County Ethics Ombudsman, Chase Smith, attended. Having attended all public meetings for the Orange County Human Rights Ordinance as well as the Orange County Domestic Partner Registry, I don’t recall seeing him at any of those meetings.

Smith even helped draft some of the “criteria” for the registry and lumped all gay men into a category, saying: “Gay men jump from bedto-bed. Therefore, we need to insure they have been in a relationship for 6 months before they can become domestic partners.”

Really? I jump from bedto-bed? I’m sure my partner would be happy to hear that.

It’s almost as if the county representatives all but washed their hands of the celebration.

I applaud and appreciate Orange County for this

“Although it doesn’t provide the same equality as marriage, it is a step forward.”

—RON HILL

initiative and recognize there are countless couples, no matter their sexual orientation, who will now be protected by the registry. But Mayor Jacobs, her staff and our county commissioners dropped the ball here.

RANDY ROSS ORLANDO

LIKE DADT, DPRS ARE A POSITIVE STEP

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HE PENTAGON GAVE AN OFFICIAL SALUTE TO THANK GAYS AND LESBIANS in the military marking Gay Pride month, Amazing! However, as a prior service member who was active on the day that DADT was enacted, I have to take issue with the continued berating of what was considered by many a victory.

At the time, a local gay newspaper asked readers “Do you think gays should serve in the military?” Shockingly, some Active Duty gays said “No!” My stance then is

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the same now. This kind of change does not come in one fell swoop, but in bits and pieces.

Too many have lost sight that before DADT, we were asked if we were homosexual at enlistment and had to swear under oath that we were not in order to serve our country. DADT removed that question and was to prohibit military personnel from discriminating or harassing service members or applicants. I am sorry for those who fell victim to the misuse of DADT, but their sacri�ice paid off. The policy changed the environment and opened some minds.

It’s a different world now.

DADT and the fallout helped make it so. We are now able to serve openly and we are thanked for it.

Let’s hope that domestic partnership will eventually result in something recognized by the government as equal to any straight marriage.

RON HILL ST PETERSBURG

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whirlwind of activity for me—and for the entire Watermark Media staff. Not only did we continue to produce high-quality issues of Watermark every two weeks and maintain an active website, we also produced two specialty publications (an in-depth Gay Days schedule and the of�icial St. Pete Pride Program). In addition, we were present at booths, parades, parties and events throughout almost every weekend.

Each year we know we have two intense months of preparation, fun, and major work. It’s something we dread, yet look forward to each spring. But the hard work always pays off in the end and I am proud of what we accomplish each summer.

Amidst all of that very gay activity, I had the opportunity to do some not-so-gay things—namely spend a

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few days with my vacationing family.

My parents, sister and brother-inlaw and their two daughters spent two weeks exploring the theme parks of Central Florida. It was an opportunity for me to see the nieces I hadn’t laid eyes on in two years and visit with my parents.

Back in May I wrote in this space detailing my apprehension about

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seeing the girls, who are now old enough to ask speci�ic questions of their uncle. The questions I dreaded most were: “Why aren’t you married?” or “Do you have a girlfriend?”

See, the girls have no idea that I’m gay nor do they have a clue that I’ve been in a relationship with a man for longer than either one of them has been alive. I just knew the 12-year-old would ask me some direct questions, or that the 8-yearold would ask about the ring on my �inger.

They don’t know their uncle is gay because, quite simply, my sister doesn’t want them to know. Their uncle living 1,500-plus miles away makes their cluelessness easier to maintain. That’s the right of her and her husband as parents, I suppose.

When I met the family at the Magic Kingdom, I was prepared to answer any questions my nieces had of me directly and honestly.

I formulated a response that not only answered their questions but also directed them back to their mother for details on why they were never informed of their “other uncle.”

Amazingly—and honestly, to my somewhat disappointment— the subject of my personal relationships never came up.

The girls were more interested in checking out the attractions within the park (at least the non-educational ones), asking questions about growing up with their mother and sharing stories surrounding their respective activities—ranging from church

plays and school friends to softball and soccer games.

It made me realize that kids don’t really care about what we do or who we have relationships with as adults.

The personal life of their uncle—or anyone else for that matter—is totally removed from their world.

They care about what they’re doing, who they see and what awaits them next on their path.

It’s a smart way to live, and adults could learn from that perspective.

As more and more cities and counties throughout our state approve domestic partnership ordinances to give at least some rights to unmarried couples, it’s become clearer that the personal relationships of adults are just that—personal. Very few—if any—area residents protested the idea of granting partners basic rights. Those who are opposed to same-sex marriage have seen that granting those rights to same-sex couples has absolutely no impact on their daily lives. The institution of marriage remains safe.

Domestic partnership registries are not marriage and they will never be a substitute for same-sex marriage.

However, they are a step toward marriage equality, whether they are packaged and sold as that or not.

Someday, hopefully in the nottoo-distant future, I’ll have an opportunity to share more of myself with my nieces. One day it will no longer be about their inquisitive minds, asking questions of their uncle. It will simply being people sharing stories about their lives.

Through continuing progress, my hope is that they will be as affected by my sexual orientation as I am by theirs. |  |

It’s a smart way to live, and adults could learn from that perspective.

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CONTRIBUTORS ABBY DEES

is a civil rights attorney-turnedauthor who has been in the LGBT rights trenches for 25-plus years. She lives in Los Angeles and Nashville. Page 25

CHRIS AZZOPARDI

is the editor of Q Syndicate, the international LGBT wire service and has interviewed a wide range of celebrities, including Cher and Lady Gaga. He lives in Canton, Mich., and can be reached via his website at Chris-Azzopardi.com. Page 31

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is a long-time Watermark contributor and author of Screened Out, our movie reviews column. He is also an Orlando playwright and business consultant. Pages 35, 37

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(LUMINAL®), phenytoin (DILANTIN®, DILANTIN-125®, PHENYTEK®) • Do not stop taking COMPLERA without first talking to your healthcare provider. ® ® • If you stop taking COMPLERA, your healthcare provider will need to check your health • the anti-tuberculosis medicines rifabutin (MYCOBUTIN ), rifampin (RIFATER , ® ® ® ® RIFAMATE , RIMACTANE , RIFADIN ) and rifapentine (PRIFTIN ) often and do regular blood tests to check your HBV infection. Tell your healthcare provider about any new or unusual symptoms you may have after you stop taking • a proton pump inhibitor medicine for certain stomach or intestinal problems, including esomeprazole (NEXIUM®, VIMOVO®), lansoprazole (PREVACID®), omeprazole COMPLERA. (PRILOSEC®), pantoprazole sodium (PROTONIX®), rabeprazole (ACIPHEX®) • more than 1 dose of the steroid medicine dexamethasone or dexamethasone sodium What is COMPLERA? COMPLERA is a prescription HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) medicine that: phosphate • is used to treat HIV-1 in adults who have never taken HIV medicines before. HIV is the • St. John’s wort (Hypericum perforatum) virus that causes AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome).

If you are taking COMPLERA, you should not take: • contains 3 medicines, (rilpivirine, emtricitabine, tenofovir disoproxil fumarate) • other medicines that contain tenofovir (VIREAD®, TRUVADA®, ATRIPLA®) combined in one tablet. EMTRIVA and VIREAD are HIV-1 (human immunodeficiency • other medicines that contain emtricitabine or lamivudine (EMTRIVA®, COMBIVIR®, virus) nucleoside analog reverse transcriptase inhibitors (NRTIs) and EDURANT is an EPIVIR® or EPIVIR-HBV®, EPZICOM®, TRIZIVIR®) HIV-1 non-nucleoside analog reverse transcriptase inhibitor (NNRTI).

• rilpivirine (EDURANT™) It is not known if COMPLERA is safe and effective in children under the age of 18 years. • adefovir (HEPSERA®)

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Also tell your healthcare provider if you take: The most common side effects of COMPLERA include: an antacid medicine that contains aluminum, magnesium hydroxide, or calcium • trouble sleeping (insomnia) carbonate. Take antacids at least 2 hours before or at least 4 hours after you take • abnormal dreams COMPLERA. • headache • a histamine-2 blocker medicine, including famotidine (PEPCID®), cimetidine • dizziness ® ® ® (TAGAMET ), nizatidine (AXID ), or ranitidine hydrochloride (ZANTAC ). Take these • diarrhea medicines at least 12 hours before or at least 4 hours after you take COMPLERA. • nausea ® ® ® • the antibiotic medicines clarithromycin (BIAXIN ), erythromycin (E-MYCIN , ERYC , • rash ® ® ® ® ® ERY-TAB , PCE , PEDIAZOLE , ILOSONE ), and troleandomycin (TAO ) • tiredness • an antifungal medicine by mouth, including fluconazole (DIFLUCAN®), itraconazole ® ® ® (SPORANOX ), ketoconazole (NIZORAL ), posaconazole (NOXAFIL ), voriconazole • depression (VFEND®) Additional common side effects include: • methadone (DOLOPHINE®) • vomiting Ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist if you are not sure if your medicine is • stomach pain or discomfort one that is listed above.

• skin discoloration (small spots or freckles) Know the medicines you take. Keep a list of your medicines and show it to your • pain •

healthcare provider and pharmacist when you get a new medicine. Your healthcare provider and your pharmacist can tell you if you can take these medicines with COMPLERA. Do not start any new medicines while you are taking COMPLERA without first talking with your healthcare provider or pharmacist. You can ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist for a list of medicines that can interact with COMPLERA. How should I take COMPLERA? • Stay under the care of your healthcare provider during treatment with COMPLERA. • Take COMPLERA exactly as your healthcare provider tells you to take it.

• Always take COMPLERA with a meal. Taking COMPLERA with a meal is important to help get the right amount of medicine in your body. A protein drink does not replace a meal.

• Do not change your dose or stop taking COMPLERA without first talking with your healthcare provider. See your healthcare provider regularly while taking COMPLERA. • If you miss a dose of COMPLERA within 12 hours of the time you usually take it, take your dose of COMPLERA with a meal as soon as possible. Then, take your next dose of COMPLERA at the regularly scheduled time. If you miss a dose of COMPLERA by more than 12 hours of the time you usually take it, wait and then take the next dose of COMPLERA at the regularly scheduled time.

• Do not take more than your prescribed dose to make up for a missed dose.

• When your COMPLERA supply starts to run low, get more from your healthcare provider or pharmacy. It is very important not to run out of COMPLERA. The amount of virus in your blood may increase if the medicine is stopped for even a short time.

• If you take too much COMPLERA, contact your local poison control center or go to the nearest hospital emergency room right away.

What are the possible side effects of COMPLERA? COMPLERA may cause the following serious side effects, including: • See “What is the most important information I should know about COMPLERA?” • New or worse kidney problems can happen in some people who take COMPLERA. If you have had kidney problems in the past or take other medicines that can cause kidney problems, your healthcare provider may need to do blood tests to check your kidneys during your treatment with COMPLERA. • Depression or mood changes. Tell your healthcare provider right away if you have any of the following symptoms: - feeling sad or hopeless - feeling anxious or restless - have thoughts of hurting yourself (suicide) or have tried to hurt yourself • Bone problems can happen in some people who take COMPLERA. Bone problems include bone pain, softening or thinning (which may lead to fractures). Your healthcare provider may need to do additional tests to check your bones.

• Changes in body fat can happen in people taking HIV medicine. These changes may include increased amount of fat in the upper back and neck (“buffalo hump”), breast, and around the main part of your body (trunk). Loss of fat from the legs, arms and face may also happen. The cause and long term health effect of these conditions are not known.

• Changes in your immune system (Immune Reconstitution Syndrome) can happen when you start taking HIV medicines. Your immune system may get stronger and begin to fight infections that have been hidden in your body for a long time.

Tell your healthcare provider if you start having new symptoms after starting your HIV medicine.

Tell your healthcare provider if you have any side effect that bothers you or that does not go away.

These are not all the possible side effects of COMPLERA. For more information, ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist.

Call your doctor for medical advice about side effects. You may report side effects to FDA at 1-800-FDA-1088 (1-800-332-1088).

How do I store COMPLERA? • Store COMPLERA at room temperature 77 °F (25 °C).

• Keep COMPLERA in its original container and keep the container tightly closed.

• Do not use COMPLERA if the seal over the bottle opening is broken or missing.

Keep COMPLERA and all other medicines out of reach of children.

General information about COMPLERA: Medicines are sometimes prescribed for purposes other than those listed in a Patient Information leaflet. Do not use COMPLERA for a condition for which it was not prescribed.

Do not give COMPLERA to other people, even if they have the same symptoms you have.

It may harm them.

This leaflet summarizes the most important information about COMPLERA. If you would like more information, talk with your healthcare provider. You can ask your healthcare provider or pharmacist for information about COMPLERA that is written for health professionals. For more information, call (1-800-445-3235) or go to www.COMPLERA.com.

What are the ingredients of COMPLERA? Active ingredients: emtricitabine, rilpivirine hydrochloride, and tenofovir disoproxil fumarate Inactive ingredients: pregelatinized starch, lactose monohydrate, microcrystalline cellulose, croscarmellose sodium, magnesium stearate, povidone, polysorbate 20. The tablet film coating contains polyethylene glycol, hypromellose, lactose monohydrate, triacetin, titanium dioxide, iron oxide red, FD&C Blue #2 aluminum lake, FD&C Yellow #6 aluminum lake.

This Patient Information has been approved by the U.S. Food and Drug Administration Manufactured and distributed by: Gilead Sciences, Inc. Foster City, CA 94404 Issued: August 2011 COMPLERA, the COMPLERA Logo, EMTRIVA, HEPSERA, TRUVADA, VIREAD, GILEAD, and the GILEAD Logo are trademarks of Gilead Sciences, Inc. or its related companies.

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SLDN, OutServe merge Staff report

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RLANDO | Two organizations that specialize in serving and advocating for LGBT veterans will �inalize their merge into a single organization during their board meetings in Orlando Oct. 26-28.

Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDN) works to advance the causes of LGBT veterans primarily through litigation and legal advice. Outserve was formed via grassroots and online efforts and works to support LGBT personnel through education, speaking engagements and lobbying efforts.

“What began as a simple effort to tell our stories has grown into something we could never have imagined, and today’s announcement that OutServe and SLDN will combine represents the next step in that evolution,” said Josh Seefried, co-founder and co-director of OutServe.

“Each organization brings its own strengths to the �ight for full LGBT military equality, and we are stronger together.”

The October meeting where the merge will be �inalized is the Second Annual OutServe International Leadership Conference at the military’s Shades of Green Resort in Orlando. Until that time, the boards and staff of both organizations will focus on unifying the two administratively, �inancially, and organizationally, according to a joint press release from the two groups. |  |

Parliament House marks 37 years Staff report

FINALLY PROTECTED: Phil Windsor, and Gary Ashland, both 49, became the first couple registered as domestic partners in Orange County on July 6. PHOTO BY ANDRES DUPUTEL

Deserved recognition Countywide domestic partner registry of�icially begins Jamie Hyman

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The Parliament House is blowing out 37 candles on its birthday cake.

The resort and entertainment complex is celebrating its 37th year of operation during the last week of July. It kicks off with the annual Footlight Players Reunion Show at Footlight Theater 9 p.m. on July 23, with Darcel Stevens emceeing a cast of special guest stars who have been regular performers with the Footlight Players in the past.

Admission is $10.

Turn-a-Bout, when Parliament House’s employees take the stage in drag, is 9 p.m. July 25 and costs a $5 minimum donation, with all admission proceeds and tips earned by performers bene�itting the Joy MCC food pantry.

The anniversary celebration concludes on July 28 with a Return to Oz party featuring Oz-themed décor, entertainment and a costume contest with a $300 cash prize. There is a $10 admission at the door.

A full schedule of Parliament House’s anniversary week celebration events is available online at ParliamentHouse.com. |  |

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RLANDO | More than a dozen same-sex couples stepped up to register as domestic partners in Orange County July 6, the �irst day a countywide domestic partner registry became available.

According to assistant comptroller Carol Foglesong, 16 couples registered at the county of�ices on that �irst day.

As of press time, about six more couples registered through the county. Orlando’s domestic partner registry went into effect Jan. 16, and couples who have registered via the city—538 as of press time—automatically will be expanded and covered under the county’s registry. Couples

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registered in Orlando should call 407-836-5115 to receive updated wallet cards.

Orange County’s registry provides the same protections as Orlando’s: hospital visitation, jail visitation, emergency noti�ications, guardian decisions, healthcare decisions, funeral/burial decisions and participation in a child’s public education.

The Orange County ordinance approving the domestic partner registry also created the HELP program, which allows individuals to select one other person to perform any or all of those functions for them. As of press time, no one had registered under the HELP program.

Additionally, couples who live outside of Orange County can register with the county and

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will receive all of the registry’s bene�its while they are in the vicinity of Orange County.

Phil Windsor, 49, and Gary Ashland, 49, were the �irst couple registered in Orange County. They didn’t plan on being the �irst, but were pleasantly surprised to �ind out they were.

They’ve been together for 21 years and were married 20 years ago at Joy MCC. “Hopefully it doesn’t take another 20 years before we’re legally married,” said Ashland.

“We consider this the �irst step down a long road,” Windsor added.

He said during a recent hospital visit, they were concerned that they would have to lie and claim to be brothers to get visitation. It wasn’t necessary, but Windsor said the domestic partner registry alleviates those worries.

“We can actually have some

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LULAC supports marriage equality Staff Report

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RLANDO | At its 2012 annual National Convention and Exposition, drawing more than 20,000 community leaders and activists, the League of United Latino American Citizens (LULAC) passed a resolution in favor of marriage equality for same-sex couples earlier this month.

Julio Alva, a LULAC district director in Florida, said that the organization took its decision based on a number of aspects, but particularly on the legalities of the matter, so that couples can one day be recognized as such and receive mutual bene�its.

“It’s not fair that after spending their whole lives together, these couples cannot hope to receive certain bene�its and that when one of them dies, the other cannot gain possession of the corresponding assets,” he said.

The vote, taken in Orlando, was applauded by Evan Wolfson, founder of Freedom to Marry.

“The vote by the League of United Latino American Citizens in favor of the freedom to marry re�lects LULAC’s longstanding support for inclusion and equality, and mirrors the values of a growing majority of Latinos in this country who know that every gay or lesbian person is part of someone’s family—a son or daughter, a brother or sister, a loved one—and no family members should face discrimination when they hope to marry the person they love,” Wolfson said. “Latino gay couples seek the freedom to marry to af�irm and strengthen their love and commitment and their ability to take care of each other and their families; government should not be putting barriers in their way. Freedom to Marry applauds LULAC’s strong stand for justice and looks forward to working together to secure the freedom to marry for all gay and lesbian Latinos, and all Americans.”

LULAC is the largest and oldest Hispanic organization in the United States and advances the economic condition, educational attainment, political in�luence, health and civil rights of Hispanic Americans through community-based programs. In 2006, LULAC launched its “Rainbow Council,” the �irst LULAC council made up of LGBT Latinos and allies, which works to create dialogue between the Hispanic and LGBT communities, both sharing one common goal: “full equality.” In 2008 and 2009, the LULAC National Membership passed resolutions to support repeal of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” policy (DADT) and passage of the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA).

An April 2011 report by the National Council of La Raza found that 54 percent of Latinos support marriage. Surveys such as the NBC/Wall Street Journal poll released in April 2012 con�irmed a Latino majority for marriage, reporting that 55% of Hispanics favor the freedom to marry (an increase of 10% since October 2009), while just 30% are opposed. |  |

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OFFICIALLY REGISTERED: Ellen Hone, 76, w and Sharon Durrant, 67, lives in unincorporated Orange County and has been together for 33 years. They registered as domestic partners in Orange County on July 6. PHOTO BY ANDRES DUPUTEL

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legal rights and that’s important to us,” Ashland said.

At 10:30 a.m., county comptroller Martha Haynie addressed the crowd in what she said was her �irst-ever press conference.

“This morning, we can acknowledge and celebrate that now anywhere in Orange County, more families can be protected and respected when they face illnesses, accidents or end of life decisions,” she said. “I am proud and honored to have had a role in this achievement.”

Haynie did mention that the registry is “a new process for us,” adding that there were a few glitches in having the wallet-size cards ready “but we’re working on it.”

Neither Orange County mayor Teresa Jacobs nor any of the county commissioners were present at the press conference or celebration.

After Haynie spoke, Orlando Anti-Discrimination Ordinance committee (OADO) members attorney Mary Meeks attorney and The Center executive director Randy Stephens, set up a table. Stephens acted as witness and Meeks volunteered her service as notary. The county registry does not generally provide witnesses or the notary, so registering couples will have to make those arrangements on their own in the future.

As couples got registered,

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the mood in the room was jubilant, with anyone gathering nearby applauding every time a partnership became of�icial, and one couple shouting, “We are legal!” as they walked off with their certi�icate.

“Another great day on the road to equality,” said Gina Duncan, MBA president.

“It’s an exciting time, just to be a part of it,” said Ellen Hone, 76, who was being registered with her partner Sharon Durrant, 67. The couple lives in

of the First Unitarian Church of Orlando.

As couples mingled, waited and celebrated, Glenda Velez, 38, sat in the corner with her 9-yearold son, cradling the 3-weeks old daughter she has with Kristen Reigle, 37, who stood in line waiting for their turn. Velez also has an 18-year-old from a previous relationship. They share a home in Sanford. Reigle gave birth to their two children and Velez is their primary caretaker.

“Were were concerned about the hospital issues and we want to be there for each other’s kids, so we need the protection,” Velez said. “Just because you didn’t give birth to them doesn’t mean they’re not yours,” Velez said.

To register in Orange County, couples should go to the of�icial records department of the Orange County comptroller’s of�ice to get their forms or download them from OCCCompt. com. The city of Orlando will notarize registries and provide witnesses, but couples registering via the county are responsible for providing a notary and two witnesses.

Orange County’s registry is cheaper, though—$18.50 compared to Orlando’s $30.

It was previously reported that the county’s would cost $10 but fees were increased because it became a two-page document. |  |

“I am proud and honored to have had a role in this achievement.”

—MARTHA HAYNIE

unincorporated Orange County and has been together for 33 years.

Hone has a daughter, and said they are looking into also using the HELP ordinance to legally link her daughter to Durrant, should anything happen to Hone.

In addition to registering couples and large number of media, straight allies showed up to celebrate. Sandra Cawthern and Joan Erwin sported bright yellow t-shirts that read, “Standing on the side of love,” which is a public advocacy campaign sponsored by the Unitarian Universalist Association.

“Our next quest is full marriage equality,” said Erwin.

The women are members

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FFA targets Marvel Staff Report

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AMPA | The Tampa-based Florida Family Association has its targets set on a new sight: Marvel Comics. The conservative organization that says its “defending American Values” is upset with Marvel Comics and its parent company, Disney, for featuring the same-sex wedding of two of its heroes in “Astonishing X-Men” #51.

“It is shameful that two companies like Marvel and Disney would deliberately create a superhero homosexual wedding for our children to embrace,” the FFA wrote on its website.

The comic features the marriage of Jean-Paul Beaubier, also known as Northstar, to his longtime boyfriend, Kyle.

The issue was released in June.

The group’s anti-gay rhetoric isn’t anything new.

Recently, the FFA �lew a plane over central Florida to “warn” tourists about Gay Days. It has asked its supporters to print a form letter from its site that urges retailers to stop selling the comic book.

“The issue has crossed the line by attempting to legitimize same-sex marriage and asking kids to fantasize about their own homosexual wedding,” the letter reads.

One retailer, based in Arlington, Tex., told the Associated Press that the threats from the FFA will not impact his decision on selling the comic.

“Any emails we get are not going to have any impact on what we’re doing,” said Buddy Saunders, 65, who owns Lone Star Comics. “I’m not going to stop selling it. It’s just another comic book. People have a right to protest anything they want to.”

Saunders said he has received about 300 e-mails from members of the group, many which seem to be coming from the same person. |  |

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Raffles and drink specials will be on hand throughout the weekend. For details visit FlamingoFla.com.

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PRIDE MARCH: Largo Commissioner Michael Smith, in blue, asked the city staff to draft a domestic partnership ordinance just two weeks after he marched in St. Pete Pride. PHOTO COURTESY MICHAEL SMITH

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The ‘City of Progress’ could be next for domestic partner protections Staff Report

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ARGO | The Largo City Commission is about to see if its constituency has progressed at all over the past 5-7 years. The commission has asked the city staff to work on a domestic partnership registry that would be similar to those already active in Tampa, Gulfport and soon to be active in St. Petersburg and Clearwater.

“It’s not a gay or straight issue,” said Largo City Commissioner Michael Smith.

“It’s a human issue.

Smith, who is gay, pitched the idea on July 10 to the commission as a way for unmarried partners—both gay and straight—to have access to each other in hospitals, jails

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and to be noti�ied in cases of emergency.

Throughout the state, similar ordinances have been passed with very little to no opposition.

It’s unclear if the process will move as smoothly in Largo, which has had a very public and dramatic battle with LGBT equality issues in the past.

In 2003, the city �irst considered a human rights ordinance that would have barred discrimination based on sexual orientation. The move sparked a controversy and packed City Hall with hundreds of people on both sides of the issue. In the end, four commissioners, including the one who pitched it, voted the human rights ordinance down.

In 2007, Largo made national headlines when it became embroiled over a decision to �ire

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City Manager Steve Stanton, who announced plans to undergo gender reassignment surgery to become Susan Stanton. Like in 2003, hundreds of people on both sides of the issue �looded City Hall physically and with e-mails and letters to voice their support or opposition to Stanton.

So many people attended a commission meeting that extra rooms with live television feeds had to be set up to accommodate the over�low. After hours of public commentary, the commission eventually voted to �ire Stanton, who had worked for the city for more than 15 years.

In an interview with Watermark earlier this year, Smith was hopeful that Largo had matured and that such controversies could be avoided.

“Largo is seeing progress,” Smith said. “There’s a focus on arts, culture and becoming a

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PRESIDENTIAL PHOTO OP: Tampa resident and The AIDS Institute Communications Coordinator Ted Howard attended a 20-person roundtable Q&A with the President in late June. Howard said that he thanked President Obama for his support of same-sex marriage and for signing the repeal of Don’t Ask Don’t Tell, among other proLGBT stances. Howard added that he was able to sit next to Rep. Debbie Wasserman-Shultz throughout the meeting.

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destination for tourism. Times are changing and it feels like a new era.”

But whether those who have combatted LGBT measures in the past will remain silent while the city ponders a domestic partnership ordinance remains to be seen.

The fee to register as domestic partners is $30 in Tampa and Clearwater, $25 in Gulfport, and will probably be similar in St. Petersburg, where the staff has not �inalized a cost but has proposed a $30 fee.

If the Largo ordinance moves forward, Smith wants it to honor domestic partnerships from other cities, as the ordinances in St. Petersburg and Tampa do. By adding Largo onto the growing list of cities in the county with such ordinances, Smith is hopeful that the Pinellas County Commission will make a countywide DPR, much like what Orange County implemented last month near Orlando.

According to the Tampa Bay Times, Largo Commissioners

Gigi Arntzen and Harriet Crozier and Mayor Pat Gerard all expressed interest in a city registry. The staff will bring a proposal to the commission at an undetermined work session in a few months, and collect feedback before any of�icial vote.

Commissioner Curtis Holmes said he needs more details.

“I don’t care what your

local domestic partnerships.

However, hospital of�icials also urge unmarried couples that want the right to make medical decisions for each other in cases of emergency to take extra steps, like giving each other power of attorney or naming each other health care surrogates.

The timing seems right for Largo to create a DPR, Smith told Watermark.

“It’s a tough balance because the gay community expects you to push for things and those on the other side are watching everything —LARGO COMMISSIONER CURTIS HOLMES you do to make sure you’re not pushing lifestyle is. As long as it’s legal through some agenda,” said and it doesn’t cost the taxpayer Smith, who wears a rainbow any, it doesn’t bother me,” Pride bracelet on his left wrist. he said.

“All I can do is be myself. I can Holmes said that he is bring things up—like the fact skeptical that a city can force I don’t have the same bene�its hospitals to recognize domestic as the straight commissioners partners as family members. because my relationship isn’t Of�icials at Largo Medical Center legally recognized. I can show and BayCare Health System, them that I’m a gay man and which includes several area that doesn’t mean I’m some hospitals, said they’d honor scary monster.” |  |

“I don’t care what your lifestyle is; as long as it’s legal and it doesn’t cost the taxpayer any, it doesn’t bother me.”

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ARASOTA | Like in so many other cities across the state of Florida, very little controversy has surrounded Sarasota’s drafting of a domestic partnership registry. The registry would grant partners—regardless of gender—certain rights, like making health care decisions for each other, planning funerals, and hospital and jail visits.

On July 1, the city commission voted unanimously to draft the ordinance. Sarasota Mayor Suzanne Atwell told the commission she had only received one email against the idea of a registry.

“I think this is exactly what the city should be doing,”

Atwell said following the vote.

“It’s the right thing to do. Our demographics show this is something we bneed to contend with and embrace.”

Atwell has been a long-time supporter of LGBT rights. Last October she not only spoke at Sarasota Pride, but she also volunteered for a dunk booth, which raised money for local LGBT charities.

While the State of Florida does not allow civil unions or gay marriage, nine cities and �ive counties have adopted registries similar to the one Sarasota is drafting. Half o those new ordinances happened in the last six months, including one in Orange County and in the cities of Orlando, Tampa, St. Petersburg, Clearwater and Gulfport.

Like in other cities, the domestic partnership ordinance would have to get public input before the adoption. The city’s attorney saw no signi�icant legal issues involved with the passage of the ordinance.

Former City Commissioner Ken Shelin, who is an out gay man, lobbied in favor of the registry in May. There he told commissioners that despite federal regulations, it can still be dif�icult or domestic partners of any gender to enforce their rights when at a hospital. He told them that power of attorney contracts are also insuf�icient.

“If experience is any guide, this is a city service which results in happy customers,” Shelin said.

It is unclear whether the

UNANIMOUS: The Sarasota City Commission moved forward on a DPR. proposed ordinance would allow residents living outside of the city limits to register, like they do in Tampa and Orlando, for example. That provision usually comes later when the public is invited to discuss such ordinances.

Currently, Sarasota County does not have a domestic partnership ordinance, which could prove problematic since most of the area’s hospitals are outside of the Sarasota City limits.

Shelin also cited U.S. Census data showing that

90% of domestic partners are heterosexual. Their numbers are growing, too, he said: 12% of U.S. households are domestic partnerships.

In other Florida municipalities, those seeking the expanded rights must follow certain rules. For example, they cannot be married to anyone else and must sign a declaration.

The city commission could see the drafted ordinance as early as the beginning of August. |  |

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ALLAHASSEE | For the �irst time, Florida’s Lt. Governor Jennifer Carroll defended herself publicly about being accused of being involved in a sex scandal. She made comments July 14 in Orange Park at the opening of a campaign of�ice for Mitt Romney.

Carletha Cole claims she walked in on a sexual encounter between Carroll and Carroll’s travel aide, Beatriz Ramos. Cole worked as an administrative assistant to Carroll. Cole is a grandmother and a minister.

“The problem is that when you have these accusations that come out, it’s not just one person you’re attacking. It’s an entire family,” Carroll said.

“My husband doesn’t want to hear that. He knows the type of woman I am. I mean, my kids know the type of woman I am. For 29 years—I’m the one that’s married for 29 years. The accuser is the one that’s been single for a long time. So usually black women that look like me don’t engage in relationships like that.”

Cole’s attorney Stephen Webster says her relationship with the Lt. Governor changed dramatically after the alleged incident.

“She suffered retaliation I believe as a result over what she observed,” Webster said.

Cole was arrested last October on charges that she gave an illegally taped conversation with another Carroll aide to a newspaper reporter.

In the �iling, Cole contends that she walked in on Carroll and a top aide in a “compromising position” in Carroll’s of�ice; that Carroll’s chief of staff secretly recorded conversations routinely at the direction of those working for Gov. Rick Scott; and that the trash can at Cole’s desk might have been deliberately set ablaze following

an argument between her and the aide.

Webster says the accusations against Cole are completely false.

“Her observations rendered her a liability to the Lt. Governor and that the Lt. Governor had a motive to do everything within her power to discredit my client,” he said.

In the meantime, Cole took a polygraph and when it came to whether or not she answered truthfully about “observing a sexually compromising position in the Capital”, a retired FDLE agent said “she passed”.

Cole also said at one point she was ordered by the aide, Beatriz Ramos, to �ind adjoining hotel rooms for Carroll and Ramos when they traveled but was later “scolded” by an agent with Carroll’s security team when she placed Ramos next door to Carroll when the lieutenant governor and her husband traveled last summer to Puerto Rico. The agent told her to not do it again, Cole says, although he did not explain why.

She says Ramos was also living in Carroll’s home.

Carroll said the allegations are an attempt by Cole and her attorney to get the criminal charges against Cole dropped.

Cole is charged with a thirddegree felony and could get up to �ive years in prison.

“They are trying to pull at straws,” Carroll said. “All this stuff you mentioned doesn’t excuse what happened.”

Webster stood by the allegations, saying “That’s the truth. It is what it is.”

Webster added that Cole is a grandmother and minister who had never been in previous legal trouble. He said the �iling was made to show that Carroll, Ramos and Carroll’s chief of staff, John Konkus, have reasons to make Cole look bad because

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they could be witnesses at Cole’s trial.

Webster works for the law �irm of Steven Andrews, who has clashed with Gov. Scott in the past. He �iled a lawsuit during the 2010 campaign attempting to obtain a video deposition Scott had given in a case against a chain of health clinics he helped start.

The Florida Department of Law Enforcement investigation that resulted in Cole’s arrest began last September after the agency received a complaint that a secret audio recording had been made in Carroll’s of�ice. The agency reported its �indings to prosecutor Willie Meggs, the state attorney for the Tallahassee area.

It is against Florida law to record someone without consent, but there have been legal questions about recordings made in public buildings.

The Florida Times-Union obtained a copy of the conversation between Konkus, Carroll’s chief of staff, and Cole, a senior program analyst who also acted as a spokeswoman for Carroll.

The Times-Union placed the recording on its website. Konkus can be heard saying that the governor’s then-chief of staff, Steve MacNamara, is afraid of Carroll. Konkus also complained that Scott “is not leading.”

Konkus worked for U.S. Rep. Cliff Stearns, R-Ocala, before joining the Scott administration in May. Cole’s trial was scheduled to begin July 16 but has been delayed. |  |

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ALLAHASSEE The president of Florida A&M University submitted his resignation on July 11, the same day the university was sued by parents of a gay drum major who died during a hazing. It was unclear if the two events were related.

James Ammons announced the resignation, which takes effect Oct. 11, in a letter to the chairman of the university’s governing board. He said his decision came after “considerable thought, introspection and conversations with my family.”

The school’s trustees gave Ammons a vote of nocon�idence in June, after questioning his leadership in several areas, including what some saw as his lax attitude toward hazing and management of the band prior to Robert Champion’s death in November.

At the time, Ammons said he would stay on the job, and he immediately recommended stringent new eligibility requirements for membership in The Marching 100 band.

Champion died in November after being beaten by fellow band members during a hazing ritual aboard a bus parked outside an Orlando hotel following a football game against the school’s archrival.

Eleven FAMU band members face felony hazing charges, while two others face misdemeanor counts for alleged roles in the hazing.

The lawsuit brought by Champion’s parents claims Florida A&M University of�icials did not take action to stop hazing even though a school dean proposed suspending the band because of hazing concerns three days before their son died. |  |

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Florida Democrats no-show for DOMA fight Staff report

When the House Democrats went to court July 10 to defeat the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), nearly one third of the party—including a number of Florida representatives—kept their names off of the legal �iling.

The brief urged a federal appeals court to strike down DOMA and 130 Democrats joined House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi’s argument that DOMA disadvantages gays and lesbians and should be found unconstitutional.

60 Democrats did not sign onto the brief, including Florida’s Corrine Brown, Kathy Castor and Frederica S. Wilson. However, all three of them have signed on as cosponsors of the Respect for Marriage Act, a bill pending in Congress to repeal DOMA. No Republicans signed onto the legal brief.

DOMA limits federal recognition of marriages to those between one man and one woman. |  |

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IN OTHER NEWS FDA APPROVES FIRST PILL TO HELP PREVENT HIV The Food and Drug Administration on July 16 approved the first drug shown to reduce the risk of HIV infection.

The agency approved Truvada as a preventive measure for healthy people who are at high risk of acquiring HIV through sexual activity, such as those who have HIVinfected partners. A three-year study found that daily doses cut the risk of infection in healthy gay and bisexual men by 42% when accompanied by condoms and counseling.

ATLANTA BEATING GETS MEN GET 5-YEAR SENTENCES Three men were sentenced July 13 to five years in prison for the videotaped beating of a gay man on an Atlanta street corner. The three men punched and kicked 20-yearold Brandon White as he walked out of a grocery store on Feb. 4 in the city’s Pittsburgh neighborhood, south of downtown. Gay slurs were heard on the video.

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THOMSON REUTERS OPPOSES MINNESOTA GAY MARRIAGE BAN The legal, business information and media company Thomson Reuters said July 13 that an amendment to ban gay marriage in Minnesota would be bad for business. In a statement, Thomson Reuters said it doesn’t believe the amendment “would be good for Thomson Reuters or the business community in the state.’’

NYC TEENS CHARGED WITH HATE CRIME IN SCHOOL ATTACK Two teenagers accused of attacking a Brooklyn eighthgrader in a school cafeteria have been charged with assault as a hate crime. The boys were arraigned July 13 in the June 5 assault on a 14-year-old, who was punched in the face until his glasses broke and is now blind in his right eye. The attackers shouted anti-gay epithets during the attack, although Ulysse is not gay.

REP. BARNEY FRANK MARRIES LONGTIME PARTNER U.S. Rep. Barney Frank married his longtime partner in a ceremony officiated by Massachusetts Gov. Deval Patrick.

The 72-year-old congressman married 42-year-old Jim Ready in a July 7 wedding at the Boston Marriott hotel in Newton. Frank, a Democrat, will spend the rest of his time in office as the nation’s first congressman in a same-sex marriage.

CHILEAN HATE-CRIME LEGISLATION SIGNED INTO LAW Chile’s president signed an anti-discrimination law July 12 following the killing of a gay man beaten by attackers who carved swastikas into his body. The law was approved in May after being stuck in Congress for seven years.

SINGER FRANK OCEAN REVEALS FIRST LOVE WAS A MAN Acclaimed R&B singer Frank Ocean revealed on his website July 4 that his first love was a man.

He wrote on his Tumblr page that he fell in love at 19 with a friend whom he spent two summers with. Ocean’s self-released ``nostalgia, ULTRA’’ was named as one of the best albums of 2011 by some critics; he also was prominently featured on Jay-Z and Kanye West’s ``Watch the Throne’’ album last year.

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AN FRANCISCO, CALIF. | As a co-owner of the Chicago Cubs, Laura Ricketts is comfortable being the odd woman out. But it has not escaped her notice that lesbians such as her are in the minority at political events for gay donors.

So Ricketts immediately embraced an idea by a fellow Chicago businesswoman who approached her a few months ago about creating a �irst-of-its kind political action committee to champion candidates and causes that appeal to lesbian voters.

LPAC, as the independent super PAC was christened, was launched July 11 with the freedom to spend

unrestricted amounts of money for or against candidates.

“Being a woman and being gay is really a unique position in our society,’’ said Ricketts, a co-chair of the Democratic National Committee’s LGBT Leadership Council. “I know in my experience of activism, oftentimes it makes a difference if something is women-focused. It’s likely to get the attention of women much more easily.’’

LPAC’s fundraising goal for the 2012 election cycle is $1 million, a modest amount by the standards of many super PACS, including the conservative Ending Spending Action Fund founded by Ricketts’ father, TD Ameritrade founder Joe Ricketts. Not surprisingly, LPAC raised $200,000 in its �irst day alone.

LPAC bene�iciaries have not been

�inalized, although LGBT candidates and campaigns to defeat ballot measures that would ban samesex marriages or restrict access to abortions and birth control are likely to be recipients of donations.

However, the group’s aim to give lesbians an in�luential voice in mainstream politics is groundbreaking, said chairwoman Sarah Schmidt.

“In my mind, there really was no downside here,’’ said Schmidt, a management consultant and philanthropist.

Along with Schmidt and Ricketts, the committee is led by veteran gay rights activist Urvashi Vaid and Alix Ritchie, former publisher of the Provincetown Banner. Jane Lynch and Billie Jean King also have pledged support. |  |

three abstentions during the church meeting in Indianapolis.

Supporters of the same-sex blessings insisted it was not a marriage ceremony despite any similarities. Called ``The Witnessing and Blessing of a Lifelong Covenant,’’ the ceremony includes prayers and an exchange of vows and rings. Same-sex couples must complete counseling before having their unions or civil marriages blessed by the church.

Other mainline Protestant churches have struck down barriers to gay ordination in recent years or allowed individual congregations to celebrate gay or lesbian unions.

However, only one major U.S. Protestant group, the United Church of Christ, has endorsed same-sex marriage outright.

In a separate vote on July 9, the full Episcopal convention approved new anti-discrimination language for transgendered people that cleared the way for transgendered clergy. ``I believe the Episcopal Church will continue to evolve on the issue of marriage equality and look forward to joining our UCC brothers and sisters in being a headlight instead of taillight on marriage equality,’’ said the Rev. Susan Russell, an Episcopal priest and longtime gay advocate in the denomination. |  |

she needs to obtain residency here because the U.S. government doesn’t recognize her three-year marriage to her American spouse.

The case is one of a number of challenges brought by same-sex couples—some of them facing immigration troubles—over the federal Defense of Marriage Act, a 1996 law that prohibits the U.S. government from recognizing samesex marriages.

“It’s clearly the kind of case where typically the waiver would

have been granted, but it was simply denied based on DOMA,’’ said Peter Schey, president of the Los Angelesbased Center for Human Rights and Constitutional Law, which �iled the suit on behalf of the couple and DeLeon’s 26-year-old son.

In addition to solving DeLeon’s immigration problems, the couple is seeking an injunction to halt the deportation of immigrants in samesex marriages who would qualify for legal status, were it not for the Act. |  |

Episcopal Church approves same-sex blessing rite Wire Report INDIANAPOLIS, IND. | Episcopalians approved a church wide ceremony July 10 to bless same-sex couples, the latest decisive step toward accepting homosexuality by a denomination that nine years ago elected the �irst openly gay bishop.

At the Episcopal General Convention, which is divided into two voting bodies, about 80% of the House of Deputies voted to authorize a provisional rite for samesex unions for the next three years.

A day earlier, the House of Bishops approved the rites 111-41 with

Lesbian couple sues over immigration plight Wire Report SANTA ANA, CALIF. | A lesbian couple �iled a federal lawsuit in California on July 12 seeking to solve their immigration woes and put a stop to the deportation of same-sex spouses.

The suit—which seeks classaction status—was �iled on behalf of Philippines citizen Jane DeLeon, who was sponsored for a green card by her employer but can’t get a waiver

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privilege of interviewing Mitch and Devynn Stein, father and daughter, on L.A.’s IMRU radio. Devynn is 15 years old and has a new baby sister, Tuolomne, who Mitch and his partner, Hugo, adopted this year.

They are the very reason why same-sex marriage and equal rights matter.

Several months ago, Mitch was �ired from his position as assistant water polo coach at Charter Oak High School in Covina, Calif., for being gay. The principal would disagree with that assertion—she’d say that he was �ired for inappropriate conduct for a teacher. It just so happens that the only thing notable about the conduct in question is that it looks kinda gay. Not kinky, not obscene, merely gay.

By all accounts, even the principal’s (who �ired him), Mitch is a great coach. He raised more money

for the school than anyone. He led the junior varsity boys’ team in an undefeated season. He got the pool deck renovated through volunteer support and in-kind donations.

He says that it was all to give back to the same team that taught him to believe in himself as a teen and never give up. Despite his �iring, he still raises money for the water polo boosters. Devynn is even on the girls’ team.

In a state that guarantees equal rights to LGBT people in the workplace, you might wonder how �lamboyantly, outrageously gay must Mitch have been to get himself �ired.

He posted a picture of himself on Facebook, dressed but wearing a bit of eyeliner, with a group of lovely drag queens. Oh, and there was also a picture of him eating a hot dog on a stick. The press said it was a corn dog, but Mitch was quick to defend himself: “I don’t eat carbs.”

Charter Oak has no policy on teachers’ use of social media, and the pictures were actually posted several years ago. They came to light when a disgruntled parent, likely upset about disciplinary action taken against his son, delivered them anonymously. Mitch was �ired almost immediately, after no investigation. He was told that coaches are held to a higher standard of behavior, and that was reason enough. It was about the kids; it had nothing to do with sexual orientation.

Mitch sees it differently. “The only thing that these pictures truly show is that I’m gay,” he told me, a point he expressed repeatedly to the principal and school board. But their conversations went nowhere, and the school has restated its position since: the pictures were inappropriate and Mitch wasn’t �ired for being gay.

A court will soon determine who is right, but I’m betting on Mitch, who’d rather have his lowpaying job back than a fat check.

There’s a lot more to this story, of course, most of it pointing to the school’s blatant double standard for gay teachers. But what really caught my attention was how much homophobes use the excuse of protecting the family and children to justify behavior that is actually harmful to families and children. At the moment Mitch

was �ired, all he could think about was his daughter, Devynn, who was two days away from starting ninth grade at Charter Oak: “I just needed to get out of there and get to my daughter.” He considered only the repercussions this could have on her and was prepared to walk away from the whole thing and send her to a new school. But Devynn insisted that they both stay and �ight. She stands by her choice today, as their �ight has become publicized, and even after she endured bullying from some kids—though not the girls’ water polo team, who have been totally

supportive, she says.

Mitch is standing up for the kids, as he has always done, and Mitch, Hugo, Devynn and Tuolomne all demonstrate that equality and respect are core family values.

Meanwhile, Charter Oak is teaching that hypocrisy and fear are okay, and that parents can get their way through bullying too.

So who’s looking out for the kids again? (For more on Mitch check out “Bring Back Coach Stein” on Facebook.) |  |

Homophobes use the excuse of protecting the family and children to justify behavior that is actually harmful to families and children.

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Visitor counts for autumn, winter and spring are all strong and steady, with a dip during the holidays as most people �ind it dif�icult to �it web sur�ing in between opening presents, arguing with relatives and stuf�ing themselves with various roast beasts.

The other major lull is during the summer. It’s not as intense a drop as we see during the holidays, but from June to August, the pace of visits de�initely slows with a slight, gradual dip in traf�ic all summer long.

Given that July is smack dab in the middle of the traditional summertime lull, it’s been a pretty interesting month in terms of social media.

unions and in domestic partnerships.

Now, there’s a visual to go along with the status. At the beginning of the month, Facebook updated its marriage icons to include man+man and woman+woman. That means gay couples who update their marital status will have an accurate visual representation—previously, the only icon was man+woman.

Of course, every pro-gay action has an anti-gay reaction. Some religious activists in Russia called for Facebook to be blocked in their country after the icons were rolled out. Let’s all hold our breath and wait for the impending collapse of the social media giant as a result of this boycott. As of press time, Facebook’s status: still gay, still going strong.

It’s one of those small changes that packs a big punch—another indication that same-sex relationships are part of the everyday landscape of social media. The more sites like Facebook quietly unroll these changes, it chips away at the bigotry, casually normalizing LGBTs and their lives. A tiny icon can pack a big punch when overnight, it’s visible to more than 900-million Facebook users.

Cam Janssen, who plays right wing for the New Jersey Devils (jeez, what is it with New Jersey and the bigotry lately?) used an internet radio show to embarrass himself. He appeared on The Thom and Jeff Show and when joking about locker room smack talk, declared, ““If he’s sucking cock, he’s getting his ass kicked.” Indeed.

He apologized and didn’t face any punishment from the league.

New York Knicks star player Amar’e Stoudemire wasn’t so lucky when he decided to air his bigotry on Twitter. After calling a fan the oh-sofresh-and-original standby “faggot,” the NBA �ined Stoudemire 50 grand for the slur. The fan took a screen

shot and made it public, which I fully support. Stoudemire also apologized, both to the fan and in a statement to the public.

So good for the NBA, but what is with these pro athletes and their bigotry online? It must absolutely kill the teams, which pay people millions to craft and maintain their images online, when a jock picks up his iPhone and smears the goodwill.

The good news is that while the internet makes it simple to air the hate, it also makes it incredibly easy to call out the bigots and hold them accountable. It’s a slow month, after all. Let’s keep it up. |  |

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A New Jersey gay couple lived the dangers of people playing fast and loose with internet images after the hate group Public Advocate sent their engagement photo to an undisclosed number of people accompanied by an anti-gay message. The mailer was a political tactic in an election, using the couple’s image with the phrase “State Sen. Jean White’s Idea of ‘Family Values?” emblazoned across it. White lost the election and the couple told the media they were “heartbroken” to �ind out their photo was used to further the ant-gay cause.

That brings up yet another reason not to steal that I didn’t mention last time—if we play fast and loose with copyright and respect to intellectual property, it’s a lot harder to be indignant and take the high road when the bigots do it in the name of justifying their hate.

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“October 29, 2011, I was legally bound by marriage to a woman whom I have loved for nearly 10 years. That was in New York. We have since moved to Orlando and our marriage means nothing here but there is a registry that gives [us] the right to call the shots in an emergency. So,

AST MONTH, FACEBOOK QUIETLY INTRODUCED NEW ICONS SYMBOLIZING SAME-SEX MARRIAGES for its members. But it didn’t slip quietly past Russian religious activists, who have demanded the social networking site be banned in the country for its “gay propaganda.”

That same group has launched a campaign to criminalize homosexuality and demanded—via fax to Facebook—that it stop “�lirting with sodomites.” |  |

is there any fight going on to actually legalize marriage or has the fighting stopped with being registered? When I think of this registry, it makes me feel like a pet that needs to be registered for his license.”

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N A NEW VIDEO RELEASED BY THE NATIONAL ORGANIZATION FOR MARRIAGE, Kirk Cameron is back �ighting same-sex unions as “one of America’s most important champions of marriage.”

In the video, Cameron says, “When a man and a woman come together and say ‘I do,’ they are committing for a lifetime to love each other and to model

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what love is and what forgiveness is and what joy is to their kids.”

The implication is that same-sex couples can’t create such commitment.

“This rhetoric won’t work anymore,” said GLAAD president Herndon Graddick.

“The implication that LGBT couples can’t create loving and stable homes is not only outdated and irrelevant, it’s designed speci�ically to hurt those families.” |  |

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HEN BRIAN EDWARD AND TOM PRIVETERE POSED FOR THEIR ENGAGEMENT PHOTO, they thought they’d have a great way to share their love. Instead, the hate group Public Advocate of the United States swiped the picture and re-released the image as a piece of anti-gay propaganda to take on former Senator Jean White, a Colorado Republican in support of civil unions.

The men were shocked by the use of their image and insist neither them nor their photographer gave permission for the photo to be used by any group, much less one spreading anti-LGBT messages. A lawsuit has been threatened, of course. |  |

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N A POSSIBLE EFFORT TO RECOUP SOME OF THAT LGBT FUNDAGE THAT EVAPORATED after it decided to support antigay marriage candidates in 2010, Target stores have started offering greeting cards celebrating same-sex marriages.

Cards that read “For two special men,” or “Two very special women, one very special love,” hit Target shelves nationwide in mid-June. More cards celebrating same-sex marriages are reportedly on the way.

No word yet on how well the cards have sold or if the cards will remain on shelves year-round. |  |

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OT EXACTLY LAST FRIDAY NIGHT,

but it still happened: Katy Perry called us from London, where it was nearly 1 a.m. If life really does imitate art, she smelled like a mini-bar on a night that’s soon to be a blacked-out blur, right?

“Not tonight,” she insists. “I have to play and be professional tomorrow, but maybe after the show I’ll be having a couple of Shirley Temples with some adult juice in them.”

We spoke with Perry just after she made a surprise appearance in London for a screening of her

new �ilm, Katy Perry: Part of Me 3D, a docu-concert chronicling the California girl’s evolution from gospel-singing daughter of two pastors to international pop phenom … with the most lethal boobs in the world.

During our interview, Perry told us what else they shoot

besides whipped cream, how the gay community can relate to her movie and why Madonna doesn’t scare her.

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PRETENDING TO KISS GIRLS TO WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITH GIRLS, RECENTLY JOKING DURING A RADIO INTERVIEW THAT YOU’D LIKE TO DO RIHANNA. WHAT’S UP WITH ALL THIS FAUX LESBIANISM?

KATY PERRY: You know, everybody’s been asking me about the duet with Rihanna and when it’s going to happen. I get that question every time I get interviewed. Obviously, we really want to do it and we want to do it in a big way, naturally. I do not

discriminate against any beauty no matter what form it comes in, and Rihanna is gorgeous. I think that everybody would tap it if they could.

HAVE YOU EVER KISSED A GAY BOY AND LIKED IT?

Yes, I have. It’s so funny. This boy I pseudo-dated in high school, a fantastic �lamenco dancer, was in Fiddler on the Roof with me and we were dating during the production, and I had just a tiny part but I was his �irst kiss. Cut to 10 years later, and we’re out at this incredible gay club in Hollywood, and he’s making out with my stylist.

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WHAT’S BEEN YOUR MOST MEMORABLE GAY NIGHT OUT?

I don’t really decipher it as gay night or straight night; it’s the same night continually. I came from a really interesting perspective—interesting being the key word, because it was obviously very suppressing and sheltering.

I was set to think that gay people were an abomination, so I was not allowed to speak to anyone who was obviously fabulous and I was never allowed to associate with that type of people. Really, generally, I was never allowed to associate with anybody that wasn’t

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The one thing it doesn’t have, apparently, is any gay clientele.

Tatum has teamed up with director Steven Soderberg (Traf�ic, Erin Brokovich, the Oceans �ilm) to uncover a little of Tatum’s own past life as a Tampa stripper.

In this �ictional version, Tatum helps down-and-out young man (Pettyfer) into the biz. What Tatum doesn’t know is that Pettyfer is going to quickly shoot his load and self-destruct in a way that the lifestyle seems to inspire—a way that, magically, Tatum’s character

mostly avoids (like that gay clientele).

Magic Mike’s strip routines will please the ladies and gays, but it’s the same song and dance about strippers’ sinning ways. There’s a skimpy, unnecessary tacked-on romance. Also, this congenial �lick cannot seem to decide if it’s about Tatum or Pettyfer, so the story sometimes lacks thrust.

Two things save it—besides the stripping (and, honestly, Tatum can bust a move). Soderberg is a great director, even with the bare-bones plot. Also, the dialogue and setting are just fun enough that the actors are have the time of their lives. For a few sweaty bucks and a couple hours of pleasure, maybe you will, too. |  |

The cute, cuddly and filthy title character of Ted.

Ted Starring Mark Wahlberg, Seth McFarlane, Mila Kunis, Joel McHale

As a child Mark Wahlberg made a wish, and ended up with a miracle: a Even after seeing this version— real, live teddy bear. That stuffed animal with more character depth and (voiced by McFarlane) grew older with emotion than the Tobey Maguire Marky Mark; they just never grew up— �ilm 10 years ago—you’ll still be remaining �ilth-mouthed adolescents, hard-pressed to understand why it threatening Wahlberg’s adult life. was absolutely necessary. There are It’s no surprise McFarlane’s plot holes galore. The �ilm can’t quite directorial debut—which he also disguise that it’s the same basic tale, wrote—is about a man stuck in despite its desperate attempts not to childhood. McFarlane parlayed just be. It’s as if Hollywood is completely such immaturity into Family Guy, which bereft of new ideas. started his comedy empire.

Gar�ield (The Social McFarlane can bring the laughs, Network) is the new Peter RATINGS GUIDE but he cannot quite seem to Parker, orphaned by his tell an original story about the parents, and raised by sweet difference between child-like Uncle Ben (Sheen) and Aunt wonder and irresponsibility.

Overflowing May (Field). This time he’s not Wahlberg has been with with glittery in love with poor Mary Jane girlfriend Kunis for four years fabulousness but rich Gwen Stacy (Stone). with nary an engagement in The same spider still bites sight. That’s perhaps because Pretty damn Peter, and our hero still has to Ted the talking teddy still good, but it’s no battle a crazed scientist from lives with them, smoking pot Oscorp. The new, duller villain Sunset Boulevard and hiring hookers. It’s funny is one-armed Ifans who turns stuff, and obviously Kunis’s himself into a velociraptor An entertaining character fell in love because of in order to grow back enough flick Walhberg’s crazy youthfulness. with perhaps his missing limb.

However, Ted starts out very a few holes Even as a comic book plot, funny and mystical, full of the very little of this makes sense. pop references and off-color Apparently, there are colorful Ever so slightly jokes for which McFarlane is little chameleons all over the watchable, just legendary. Instead of following for that hot actor city. No one, not even Parker, through—and digging thinks of letting others get deeper—the plot falls into a bit by a radioactive spider pretty standard buddy pic with Two hours of in order to get superhuman your life you’ll a boring kidnapping subplot strength. Once The Lizard never get back thrown in. knocks Spidey out, the villain That’s not to say I didn’t just leaves. Then Spidey sends his laugh. McFarlane is hilarious and girlfriend to where he knows the brilliant at one-liners. The special effects monster is going to be, only later that make Ted walk and talk are also apparently regretting the move and cute. I still believe, however, there is a trying to stop her. way to keep your miraculous childhood The effects are cool, the acting alive while maintaining a responsible is top-notch, but this is the same adulthood; McFarlane just doesn’t show dusty, spider-webbed story, only told us how this could happen with Ted. |  | with less logic. |  |

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Christian. Now I think that 90% of everyone I work with, from my assistant to two out of three of my managers, is either gay or lesbian.

It’s been an incredible journey of acceptance and tolerance.

WHERE ARE YOUR PARENTS NOW ON GAY PEOPLE?

My parents have actually become more accepting and tolerant now.

We’ve all grown up and evolved and broadened our mindset.

Sometimes people have a really picky way of eating, right? And they don’t like certain foods, but a lot of times they haven’t even tried those foods. Once they try or know or get educated and have the facts, they’re more comfortable and there’s no judgment on your shrimp cocktail. A lot of people just aren’t educated; they still have this 1950s mindset, unfortunately.

ARE YOU SAYING THAT YOU’VE TRIED THE SHRIMP COCKTAIL AND GONE LESBIAN?

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I was not allowed to speak to anyone who was obviously fabulous.

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that choice and I think that equality is very important. People ask me questions about the whole Obama thing and him coming out and saying it publicly, and I’m like, “I hope soon enough we’ll look back and say to ourselves how ridiculous it was to think this way, just like it was during the civil rights movement.”

YOU’VE SHOT WHIPPED CREAM AND FIREWORKS OUT OF YOUR BOOBS…

have been in the past. (Laughs)

AFTER WHAT HAPPENED WITH GAGA—WHERE MADONNA MASHED UP “BORN THIS WAY” WITH “EXPRESS YOURSELF” FOR HER UPCOMING TOUR AND CALLED GAGA “REDUCTIVE”—ARE YOU SCARED OF BEING TOO INSPIRED BY MADONNA?

Yes, and still continues to.

No. I’m inspired by everyone. And you know, I think that the queens love a little cat�ight every once in a while. It’s good for the cocktails and the conversation, I’ll tell you that.

YOU’VE SAID MADONNA HAD A LOT OF INFLUENCE ON THIS FILM, AND HER 1991 DOCUMENTARY TRUTH OR DARE REALLY RESONATED WITH THE GAY COMMUNITY.

DO YOU THINK KATY PERRY: PART OF ME 3D WILL HAVE A SIMILAR EFFECT ON THE GAY COMMUNITY?

I hope that people see that they don’t have to change themselves in order to achieve their goals or dreams, and they can accept the skin that they live in and overcome obstacles or judgments. The theme of this movie is me overcoming obstacles: where I came from, problems with my record label and my personal struggles.

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I never really try and try hard. I like things to roll out naturally. People like to put me in a box. From the

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�irst of�icial single, “I Kissed a Girl,” they always said I was a one-trick pony, and I’ve always known what I was gonna do next in my playby-play and how I was gonna roll out the moments—and “I Kissed a Girl” was the strongest song for me at the time.

NOW THAT MORE GAY COUPLES ARE ABLE TO LEGALLY MARRY, WHAT WOULD YOU TELL THEM ABOUT MARRIAGE FROM YOUR OWN EXPERIENCE?

It’s everybody’s individual experience. I think you can be in love without walking down the aisle, or you can walk down the aisle and be in love, but everybody deserves

Actually, if you look at the placement of those �ireworks, they come from my spirit. (Laughs) But I know people love going straight to the tits.

They’re a big target on me.

IF YOU COULD SHOT ANYTHING ELSE OUT OF YOUR BOOBS, WHAT WOULD IT BE?

I’m gonna shoot down hate. I’m gonna shoot down all the people that hate, that sip on our haterade, that hate just to hate. I’m gonna shoot them down. But I’m gonna shoot them down with love bullets.

And they’re non-violent. They don’t even hurt you. Like a Cupid’s arrow, they just turn you into a more tolerant, loving person. |  |

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man cringed when he relayed how a co-worker spotted his casual hookup ad on Craigslist.

“I’m guessing that she spotted this in my photo,” said the man, who asked to remain anonymous. He then presented something—something like a scar or a tattoo—that, if it were in a photo, would make anonymity impossible.

“What was she doing on Craigslist— especially in the Men Seeking Men section—I don’t know!” he says, exasperated. “At �irst, she asked me how my love life was going. I thought that was an inappropriate question for work, but I didn’t think much about it. Then later that morning, she asked me if I’d ever used Craigslist.

Then I knew she knew.

“It isn’t as if my ad was as tasteless as others, but there was no denying

what I was there for,” he says, blushing even now, months later. “I didn’t know what to do. I thought I might mention to her that her questioning might be considered sexual harassment, but I didn’t know the laws.”

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TEN RULES TO MANAGE YOUR ONLINE PRESENCE

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Control your privacy.

Get to know your online settings and set them accordingly. If you’re worried about what others may post on your page or tag you in, use the setting that requires you to approve everything �irst.

Represent yourself well.

A good rule is to only post on Facebook information you’d feel comfortable sharing at a mixed party—with your mom, her pastor, your boss, your niece—in fact, everyone you know.

—AN ANONYMOUS SOURCE, WHO SAYS A CO-WORKER FOUND HIS PERSONAL AD ON CRAIGSLIST

Control your emotion.

If something gets you upset or mad, think—give yourself time—before you post about it online.

Giving others the bene�it of the doubt helps.

Watch that your personal beliefs, political, social, and religious, don’t come off as rants.

The best presence online is one that asks questions and listens to others.

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Use the right forum.

Don’t give yourself multiple personalities. If you manage

your content well, nothing you post in one site will contradict what you post in another.

Know when to go private.

That’s why the Private Message function is there.

Never complain about work.

Companies are sticklers about their online presence; some even have policies stating what employees can and cannot post on your personal page.

Prove that having fun and being professional are not mutually exclusive.

Accept the consequences.

You cannot control everything, but if you’ve followed the other nine guideless here and someone draws an incorrect conclusion, learn from it and move on.

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single incident, without him speaking up beforehand, would be dif�icult.

“Then, if it blew up, all of the sudden, I might have to admit to others at work about the ad.

Instead, I panicked: I faked being sick, went home and immediately took down the ad,” said the man.

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I faked being sick, went home and immediately took down the ad.

Though it may seem like an invasion of privacy, the truth is co-workers and companies have access to much of your online presence.

“For the most part, we have to understand that we create that, we put it out there, and we control it,” says Steve Yacovelli, co-owner of Top Dog Learning Group, a company that specializes in employee development and often manages company policies on their employees’ online presence.

Some people may say that America as a whole is too prudish.

That may be true, but it doesn’t change the fact that an online presence may directly affect professional relationships and career options.

“You can argue that it’s unethical for a company to check, but the truth is, it’s happening,” says Yacovelli. “Being aware helps you make the right decisions about what you want out there.”

Controlling that content isn’t always as obvious as that ad for a hookup. On Facebook, some man may post shirtless photos of his latest workout success or that last fabulous circuit party. Maybe a

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woman might think nothing of that bar photo where she seemingly hangs drunkenly off the arm of another woman at a favorite club. Even the most innocuousseeming photo might have others drawing conclusions.

“Because I own a business—and it’s about helping people learn how to live their best lives—I’m always very conscious of my online presence,” says Dr. David BakerHargrove of BHC Assessment & Consulting. “So my views could be considered rather conservative.”

“It’s not just about being gay— because honestly, if someone’s not going to hire you because you’re gay, then likely, you didn’t want to work with them anyway,” says Baker-Hargrove. “It’s about all the other conclusions people may feel free to draw from what they see online.”

One problem is that you may not have complete control of your online presence. If you haven’t set up your Facebook privacy settings properly, friends who tag you can connect you with drunken debauchery. They can share a tasteless video on your page, and you won’t know who’s been able to see it before you were able to un-tag yourself. More importantly, without you changing your privacy settings, people can see your friend. They may judge you by the company you keep.

That can also work in your favor.

“I’ve had people tell me that they went out on Facebook and to my website before they hired me,” Yacovelli says. “We have to understand that this is the way of the world now.”

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Of course, some people are still in the closet, and their only outlet is online. As dangerous as that may be—imagine a co-worker spotting a closeted person’s Craigslist or Grindr information—that isn’t the only way people complicate their online life.

Yacovelli says, “There can be a dangerous situation where you have one persona in real life, another for LinkedIn [a businesscentric social site], and yet another for Facebook.

“I’d be careful about making too many different personalities you have to keep track of,” agrees Baker-Hargrove.

Some people, though, have to worry less.

“If you’re a female impersonator, or a bartender, say, at Parliament House—your Facebook may, logically, look a little different than mine,” says Baker-Hargrove. Meaning: it also depends on the career you’re in, where you hope to go, and what helps your customers and clients feel most comfortable.

Making others comfortable is the last thing with which some Facebook people concern themselves. Often, people see Facebook as a place to vent and to get validation for their anger or sadness. Unfortunately, this emotional ranting can also re�lect on your professionalism, losing you business.

“Oh great,” deadpans our anonymous interviewee, “that’s another thing I’ll have to run home and delete.” |  |

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3- HEY EVERYBODY: Performer Stephanie Shippae works the crowd at Hamburger Mary’s in Ybor City during her performance July 8. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST 4- COUNTESS OF NUMBERS: Cindy Barnes of Sarasota Pride reads the numbers of a raffle ticket during a July 5 Grrrls Mingle at the Flamingo Resort. PHOTO COURTESY PROSUZY.COM 5- SHOWTIME: Arica Love, right, bonds with a fan before a Drag Revue at Bayou Bleu in New Port Richey July 15. PHOTO COURTESY ARICA LOVE

6- AMERICAN PRIDE: The St. Petersburg Twirlers showed their patriotic colors while preparing for their performance at the City of Philadelphia July 4 Parade. PHOTO COURTESY TOM YOUNG 7- COMMUNITY PILLARS: Nancy and Joe Desmond man the PFLAG Tampa booth at the first ever Pride event at the Tampa VA Hospital last month. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST 8- DIVA INVASION: The Divas were out with Toby Rox at G. Bar on July 7. PHOTO COURTESY CARRIE WEST

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OVERHEARD A TWO-FER For the �irst time in its eight year history, a Talent Quest Florida performer won his respective category two years in a row.

Tampa resident Jeremiah Pagan took the top Men’s Pop spot at Talent Quest Florida July 8. He won the same category in 2011.

Pagan, who placed in the Top 20 on the FOX show X Factor last year, also performs throughout the state as “Mia,” a live vocalist. The competition, owned by Watermark editor Steve Blanchard and his partner, Phil Garris, brought more than 300 singers from throughout the state of Florida to the Tampa Westshore Marriot July 5-8.

There contestants sang in three categories—Pop, Country and Masters—divided by gender. The

�irst and second place �inishers will now move onto the national competition in Laughlin, Nev., this September, where they will compete for cash prizes and a chance to record their own album. For more information visit TalentQuestFlorida.com.

you ask, but it was no secret that the club struggled �inancially and was embroiled in lawsuits. The club closed with little fanfare, but regulars did show up before it was locked for good for a �inal goodbye—which included draining what was left of the full liquor bar.

There was one obvious tradition missing at St. Pete Pride this year—the incredibly long lines and packed groups of sweaty, shirtless men that congregate inside Detour, a club on Central Avenue. That’s because the club closed its doors the night before St. Pete Pride took over the Grand Central District.

The reasons surrounding the closure vary, depending on who

Speaking of clubs in St. Petersburg, a new one has sprouted up just a block away from the old Detour location in the Grand Central District. The Grand Central Garage had a very quiet soft opening shortly after St. Pete Pride and promises to offer a new happy hour for the area’s LGBTs. Details are still vague, but the bar is open at 2729 Central Avenue

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The men of the St. Petersburg Twirlers were invited to participate in the City of Philadelphia’s July 4 Parade—and the guys were quick to jump at the opportunity. The group �lew to Philadelphia to celebrate the nation’s birthday in one of the country’s largest parades. The group performed its ri�le-twirling, �lag-waving routine as it marched down the streets of Philadelphia while thousands upon thousands of fans clapped and waved along with the music.

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LOVE-LY DOCUMENTARY! It looks like popular, charitable performer Arica Love has another title to add to her list of credentials—that of documentary producer. Love, who hosts bingo in Lakeland, Cream Thursdays in Sarasota and performs in Ybor City and New Port Richey (among many, many other places) announced on Facebook that she and director “Jamal” have started working on a documentary together. She hasn’t released too many details yet, but we do know that it will be �ilmed in Sarasota and that production is already underway. We hope the lovely Miss Love will give us details very soon! |  |

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1- JOYFUL NOISE: The Orlando Gay Chorus joined thousands of other singers from several hundred choruses at the GALA Choruses Festival 2012, July 7-11 in Denver, CO. PHOTO

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OVERHEARD I WANT MY DRAG TV Marty Fugate, aka Leigh Shannon, may be coming to small screens near you. The legendary female impersonator posted on his Facebook page last week, that he is in pre-negotiations for a reality show based on his life. “I want to do it, but [it’s] kind of scary,” he posted. “I think [reality shows] are the way to go anymore.” Shannon says he is set to record three episodes with a production company abroad alongside executive producer Sandi Bell. “It will be about my upbringing in a redneck rural environment and family up to today with my shows, new acting venture, my store, cancer patients and the everyday struggles of a

business man/show girl/drag queen and �inding out I have a black sister,” Shannon laughs.

He recently made his big-screen debut in My Fair Lidy, which was �ilmed in Orlando, in February.

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Former Orlando party starter, LadyGuy Disco Diva, is taking his larger than life persona to the recording studio. Earlier this month, he released his very �irst dance/music track. The track “My Moment to Shine,” by Oren Nizri, features LadyGuy’s oh-so recognizable vocals. “[I’m working] to have the video done for the track,” says the Disco Diva. In June, LadyGuy

represented Orlando by riding in a vehicle during the St. Pete Pride parade. The paparazzi clearly couldn’t get enough as LadyGuy’s multi-colored mane appeared on numerous news channels, publications, and even radio interviews. Up next, LadyGuy is set to be featured on the August cover of South Florida’s Ambiente Magazine. Need a �ierce �ix? You can catch Ms. Guy every Friday and Saturday night at The Manor Nightclub in Fort Lauderdale.

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CHANGE-OF-LIFE COMMUNITY ANNOUNCEMENTS Congratulations Tami Bartels and Laine Clements, owners of Daytona Beach’s All Things Pride, celebrate the business’s sixth anniversary on July 31.

Marlyn and Melissa Moir of Joy MCC celebrate 30 years together on July 31.

Passings Linda Martha Bisset, 47, of Orlando passed away July 7 after an eight-year battle with breast cancer. She is survived by her partner of 17 years, Cathy Ciullo.

Beau Cotner, 48, of Bradenton Florida passed away on July 4. Cotner had recently opened the Bayou Bleu Bar in New Port Richey. A celebration of his life was held at the bar on July 8.

Local Birthdays Logo reality star and former St. Pete actor Jonathan Lovitz and straight ally extraordinaire Deborah Simpson (July 19); St. Petersburg’s Karmic Tattoo guitarist and vocalist Pam Green, St. Pete DCF rep Jim Rood, MBA membership director Brian Gilvin, entertainment pro Tom Zaizar and Orlando entertainer and creator of drag legend Miss Sammy Sam Singhaus (July 20); St. Pete comedy actor and Show Palace Dinner

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—Halitosis Horror in Heathrow Triple H, It’s a slippery slope. You say that you’re not super close, although you play on the same softball team and see her at work almost every day. Since you’re not one of her besties, I’d hesitate saying anything at all.

However, given your proximity to her life, you probably do also have access to people who are closer to her. I think the road to resolution is to have a con�idential, thoughtful and sensitive conversation with someone who is closer to her than you are. I doubt it will come as a surprise, and the fact that no one has told her (that you know of) is telling. But given your respective place in Doreen’s life, it’s not your place and could look like you’re being critical or catty. Keep your distance from the situation, and from direct contact with her mouth.

found myself thinking about a couple of the guys (and one of the teachers) at my school.

I’m too scared to say anything because I know my family would kill me, since my family is very Christian and my parents would not tolerate me doing anything “gay.”

The problem is I can’t stop thinking about whether I’m really attracted to these guys or if it’s just curiosity.

How do you know if you’re bi without doing something you might regret?

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It’s also perfectly normal at your age to be curious about sex in all its forms.

Thinking about something doesn’t mean you’re going to do it. And doing it doesn’t necessary make a decision about what the rest of your life is going to be, from a sexual orientation perspective. On the surface, it sounds like you might be bisexual, but that’s not something I can judge from this distance, or in this format. Here comes the good news, and the Truth: you don’t have to decide today. If you �ind that your attraction to men is persistent, then you will act on it accordingly at a time that works for you.

You say you are secure in the knowledge that your parents may not like it, but you wouldn’t be the �irst person in that boat, and something as essential as your sexual orientation will not be swayed by simply being afraid of someone else’s reaction. As you learn more about your sexuality, life and the world at large, your tree of experience will continue to �ill out. There is no need to rush it, and no reason to create a negative home life (assuming you’re still living at home).

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OFFICIAL HOME: The official Pride House Logo will be w elcome site to LGBT Olympians and their friends, family and fans at the Olympic Games this summer.

Pride House to welcome LGBTs at London Olympics after all Staff Report

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ONDON, ENGLAND | It looks like LGBT athletes and their families will have an area designated speci�ically for them during this year’s Olympic Games. According to the Pride House Foundation, a Pride House celebrating LGBT athletes and fans will open Aug. 3-7 in the Limestone Basin. The European Gay and Lesbian Sports Federation also plans to present an exhibit called “Against the Rules,” which honors 37 gay and lesbian athletes of note.

A Pride Festival will continue at various venues throughout

the Olympic Games, which run July 27-Aug. 12.

“Pride House 2012 will provide a welcoming space for all, from Olympic athletes to recreational sports enthusiasts and spectators,” said Lou Engle�ield, Pride Sports UK executive director. “Our aim is to welcome everyone to learn more about the vibrant LGBT sport movement while celebrating the London Games.”

The news of the Pride House’s return is welcome to many athletes, who were told plans for a Pride House were scrapped in April because of a lack of sponsorship. The 2010 Pride House during the Winter Olympics in Vancouver was a huge

success, and emerged as a popular hospitality center for LGBT athletes and fans.

“With the opening of Pride House 2012, we continue to build on the legacy of 1968 Olympic decathlete Tom Waddell, the founder of the Gay Games, the largest international sporting event open to all,” said Emy Ritt, Federation of Gay Games co-president. “We are pleased that Pride House 2012 will showcase LGBT sport and culture at the many clubs and organizations that have been created as a result of the �irst Gay Games in 1982.”

This year marks the 30th Olympiad, which is also referred to the “Triple-X Games.” |  |

organization during Chicago’s Gay Pride Parade in June.

The partnership continued into July with soccer ally Jay Nolly and teammate Gonzalo Segares appearing at the Equality Illinois PAC’s First Friday social. The partnership is more than just a historic gesture, according to the club’s president, Julian Posada.

Fire players are getting involved

with Equality Illinois’ efforts to bring LGBT equality to fruition.

“It’s just the right thing to do,” Posada said.

The Fire’s efforts are attracting more LGBT fans. In April, during a rainy game, fans unfurled a huge rainbow �lag in the stands. On that day it not only showed support for LGBT equality, it kept a large portion of the fans dry. |  |

Chicago’s Fire is latest soccer team to back equality Staff Report CHICAGO | The movement toward LGBT equality in major league soccer continues to grow with the help of teams like the Chicago Fire, which joined forces with Equality Illinois to help combat homophobia last month. Members of the team marched with the equality

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OS ANGELES, CALIF. | New Jersey Devil Cam Janssen has apologized for remarks he made on an internet radio program earlier this month, in which he made homophobic remarks, disrespected women and called Los Angeles residents “weirdos.” He made the remarks on the Thom and Jeff Show, which is known for its unapologetic take on interviews and news stories.

Janssen was quick to issue an apology after his appearance.

“I used some poor judgment which I now regret,” he said in a statement. “The New Jersey Devils were unaware of this interview, which I arranged myself. I would like to apologize for my poor choice of language.

The tone of the interview was very casual and off-color, and I lost focus on what is and is not acceptable and professional. I am deeply sorry to anyone who was offended by my language.

“Moving forward, I hope to eliminate that type of language from my vocabulary. I would also like to take this chance to express my support for the work the You Can Play project is doing, and for the gay community in general. I apologize for the embarrassment my comments have caused to the New Jersey Devils management, as well as my teammates.”

The You Can Play Project started earlier this year to build an environment of inclusion within the NHL. |  |

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IN OTHER NEWS CHRISTIES GET MARRIED AT GAY CLUB Former NBA player Doug Christie and his wife, Jackie, renewed their vows on their 17th wedding anniversary in a popular gay club in West Hollywood in early July. The couple said they wanted to show their support for samesex marriage rights, so they and their friends packed Eleven with an entire wedding. “We want you to be able to get married, too,” Jackie told the crowds at the bar.

The couple have also posed for the NOH8 Campaign.

LESBIAN SWIMMER TRIES CUBA-FLORIDA SWIM AGAIN Swimmer Diana Nyad has embarked on her fourth attempt to cross the expanse between Cuba and Florida, which she talks about in the current issue of Out magazine. Nyad’s previous attempts ended early because of rough tides and leg cramps. The 63-year-old plans to swim the 103-mile expanse later this summer surrounded by a flotilla of staff and supporters.

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RT COMES IN FORMS OTHER THAN WITHIN A FRAME, and that’s the idea behind “Cut It Out,” an exhibition presented by …and the Three Bears. More than 10 artists present wood, glass, metal and paper creations displayed at The Milk Bar in downtown Orlando.

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