Wairarapa Midweek Wed 1st August

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Wairarapa’s locally owned community newspaper

WEDNESDAY, AUGUST 1, 2018

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Teen parent a ‘survivor’ Emily Ireland At just 19 years old, Masterton’s Mere Kawana is a mum and a domestic violence survivor. And she doesn’t know where she would be today if it weren’t for the Wairarapa Teen Parent Unit, and the blessing of her son TJ, now two years old. “I take my baby as a second chance. “I take it as an opportunity to ďŹ x myself and everything that has come my way.â€? Mere dropped out of Makoura College at the age of 15. Within a year, she became pregnant – she had just split up with her son’s dad when she found out and was in the middle of a visit to Tauranga to be with her biological dad. “I had an inkling I was pregnant, but I hid it from everyone and went away. “I eventually came out and told my mum, look I think I’m pregnant. “We took a test and

that came back negative. “A couple days passed and I took another one and it came back positive. “I thought, oh my gosh, what do I do?� Thankfully she was given support by her family, although, at the time, she said her biological dad’s side of the family encouraged her to have an abortion. “They were trying to tell me it [having a baby] was going to ruin my life. “Nowadays, they can’t stop apologising and telling me how proud they are of me. “It was hard being pregnant because I was quite young and people were quite judgemental to talk to about the situation.

“My son’s dad wasn’t really around – he was always back and forth between places.� A week after giving birth to TJ, Mere said she was involved in a domestic incident. “I’m a survivor of domestic violence. “I just still had it stuck in my head that I wanted the perfect family and I tried to make it work. “I wanted my son to have a dad. “I didn’t want to be known as the single mum that didn’t do anything with her life. “After a while, he kept showing that it wasn’t going to happen.� She said the domestic violence continued, amid other recent hardships including the death of a high school friend, the death of her grandad, her grandmother’s cancer diagnosis, and being assaulted by a close friend’s relative. Continued on page 3 Tory-Jason (TJ) Kawana, 2, and his mum Mere Kawana. PHOTO/EMILY IRELAND

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