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Book of Esther BY SHARON E. LOCKLEAR, EDITOR-IN-CHIEF The Book of Esther is a compilation of lessons to be learned and mastered. The most important lesson for me was Obedience. Queen Vashti did not obey her king and was dethroned (NLT Esther 1:13-20). The queen lost her throne and not only was she no longer queen, she was also banished. Queen Vashti lost everything. The importance of obedience for a Christian is obeying GOD. The definition of obey is comply with the command, direction, or request of (a person, or a law); submit to the authority of, carry out (a command or instruction), behave in accordance with (a general principle, natural law, etc).
11:28 NLT, James 1: 22-25 NLT). Obedience to GOD proves our love (1 John 5: 2-3 NLT, 2 John 6 NLT). Obedience is better than sacrifice (1 Samuel 15:2223 NLT). Obedience will not be learned overnight, it is a lifelong Christian process. Daily prayer, meditation, studying the Bible, attending service, worshipping with our Christian brothers and sisters will help us to be obedient. Allowing GOD to replace our will with divine will, assists us to be more obedient. Obedience Bible Verses
As a young Christian, I struggled with obedience, I accepted Christ and desired to continue to obey my laws and rules per my interpretation, by my might and my power. It did not work, that line of reasoning failed miserably. Prayer, humility and Christian education taught me the need to embrace obedience. Becoming obedient was a process, accepting GOD’s will and authority was a choice. Understanding the why of obedience to GOD is important.
Deuteronomy 11:1 John 15:9 Exodus 19:5 2 Corinthians 10:5 Ephesians 6: 1-3 Revelation 14:12 Romans 1:5 Hebrews 13:17 John 15:14 2 John 1:16
Joshua 5:6 Romans 2:6-8 Luke 11:28 Colossians 3:22 Romans 5:19 1 Peter 1:14 James 1:25 Acts 5:29
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RENOWN PHOTOGRAPHER
KIMBERLY TAYLOR Kimberly Taylor is a successful photographer/owner of the visual branding company, Kimazing Photography. Through Kimazing, Kim has collaborated with many successful women of color, helping them grow their businesses through stunning visuals that bolster their respective brands. Kim believes her success is rooted in several things: her passion for photography, her talent for capturing a client’s strength and elegance, intelligence and beauty.
Still, she gave over twenty years of her life to that job. And as one decade bled into the next, that little voice in her head — the one that reminded Kim that the time is now — grew louder and louder. But no matter how loud that inner voice grew, Kim kept her drive locked away from the world. Then, in October 2015, Kim experienced two events that would inspire her to set her God-given gift free and share it with the world. The first event involved, of all things, a friendly coworker. One day in the break room, that coworker pulled Kim aside and told her, in no uncertain terms, that she had an eye for photography and should pursue the practice as a career.
For most of her adult life, Kim worked in retail for one of the largest pharmacy store chains in the country. The job paid the bills and gave her a sliver of security, but it lacked the one thing The second event involved the Kim desired most: A means to company she worked for. The determine and pursue her passion. CEO made a huge announcement:
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sweeping changes would take place across the organization, changes that would negatively impact retail-level employees like Kim. Most of her coworkers summed up the changes to “business as usual.” But Kim saw the reorganization as a sign… …a sign to put herself first and seek her passion. And that’s exactly what she did: Kim met that friend who suggested that she try photography for a photo shoot in a local park, the experience was incredible for Kim and she realized that this was it! This is something that she could do all day for hours and hours whether it was a financial gain or not. On October 1, 2015, Kim resigned from the job she held for the last two decades, grabbed her camera, lenses, and founded
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Kimazing Photography. But as Kim would soon learn, building a successful photography business from the ground up is damn near impossible. It’s true: according to one study, 60% of photographers close their business within the first year. And there were many moments in which Kim was a hair’s width away from becoming part of that 60%. During that first crucial year, Kim tried her hand in event and family photography. But those categories were inundated with competitors to the point where even someone as talented as Kim found it hard to stand out. Unfortunately, this inability to make a name for herself translated into weeks — and sometimes months — without generating income. Soon enough, Kim was overwhelmed with fear, worry, self-doubt, and dread. She spent many sleepless nights tossing and turning, wondering if quitting her job was the biggest mistake of her life, until she received a fortuitous call from one of her very first branding clients, Becky A. Davis. Becky A. Davis is a leadership and life coach who had hired Kim to create the visual identity for her company’s marketing materials. Kim nailed it with Becky. Soon after, Becky called with an opportunity, one that involved Kim collaborating with the amazing Dr. Felicia Phillips. This was a big deal: Dr. Phillips was (and still is) an accomplished, world-renown business strategist. So, naturally, Kim jumped at the opportunity to collaborate with this remarkable woman of
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color. After a few photography sessions with Dr. Phillips, Dr. Phillips began to book photo sessions with Kimazing for her clients. And, as the story goes, those sessions produced some of the most phenomenal business branding visuals so much so, Dr. Phillips said to Kim that “…Photographing women of color — that is your niche. That is your lane.” Suddenly, everything clicked. For years Kim harbored strong opinions about mainstream media’s failure to portray women of color in all their heavenly glory. It was an outright tragedy as far as she was concerned. So when Kim had the opportunity to photograph sisters, she made sure the camera captured the qualities she saw in them: the fierce intelligence, the supreme elegance, the unquestionable beauty… To Kim, Dr. Phillip’s didn’t just make sense — it made perfect sense. So much so that she wasted no time steering Kimazing in a new direction. In her second year in business, Kim focused exclusively on working with ambitious women of color. Fast forward eight years later: Kimazing Photography is thriving, and Kim is widely known as the go-to branding photographer for successful businesswomen of color. As Kim’s story demonstrates, God will always show you sign. It’s your duty to recognize and, more importantly, act upon them. Brandon Lawson PR
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THE TRUTH ABOUT E STHER! A L I T T L E B I T OF E N C OURAG E M E NT BY MINISTER JEANETTE CHESTNUT CHESTER Let us take a long, reflective, and honest look at
As we look into this, we see that Esther was not
Esther.
the name that was given to her by her parents, her Jewish name was Hadassah, the meaning of this
Esther was basically an orphan. Her parents were
is “Myrtle.” Interestingly noted is the fact that
deceased. The Bible does not say that she had any
the book of Esther tells how a Jewish girl became
siblings, therefore we are going to go with the
the queen of Persia and saved her people from
thought that she was an only child. When Esther’s
a plot to destroy them. She is assisted in this by
parents were killed, her cousin Mordecai adopted
Mordecai, her cousin and guardian. Esther was
her as his daughter. Not only was Esther an ordinary written to explain the origin of the Feast of Purim woman living in a foreign land, but she was part of
and to ensure that it would be observed by all future
a minority race held in low esteem.
generations of the Jewish people. It has clearly achieved this purpose, since Jews have continued
The Bible does not give us the time nor the date of
to observe Purim to the present day. The book of
her parent’s death.
Esther is read as part of the celebration of Purim. At the writing of this article, we are actually in the
What we do know is that Esther belonged to the
celebration of Purim.
period after the Babylonian exile, when Persia had replaced Babylon as the ruling power.
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So, what do we know about Esther, first we know
that she was without mother or father. We also
to comply. Her refusal is yet another clue to the
know that her cousin Mordecai adopted her as his
nature of the king’s command. It does not make
own, and that he cared very deeply for her, and
sense that she would risk disobeying a royal decree
apparently taught her to be a respectable and demur
if King Ahasuerus had only asked her to show her
daughter. We have to remember that she was not
face. The Queen was having a girl’s party and she
a grown up woman, Hadassah was no more that
was not about to make herself look foolish and
a teen when she was taken to the kings palace.
weak in the presence of her girl crew by disrobing
But let’s go back a little and find out how she got
and becoming the object of a gawk-fest for the
to the palace in the first place. Let’s call it Divine
king and his cronies! When King Ahasuerus is
Purpose!!
informed of Vashti’s refusal, he is furious. He asks several noblemen at his party how he should punish
We all know the account of Queen Vashti. Vashti
the queen for her disobedience, and one of them,
was the wife of King Ahasuerus, the ruler of
one of the eunuchs named Memucan, suggests
Persia. According to the midrash, Vashti was the
that she should be punished severely. After all,
great-granddaughter of King Nebuchadnezzar II
if the king does not deal with her harshly other
of Babylon and the daughter of King Belshazzar,
wives in the kingdom might get ideas and refuse
making her a Babylonian. So, she was a
to obey their own husbands. THE POINT: “Queen
Babylonian and she was beautiful and I would
Vashti has committed an offense not only against
imagine very headstrong and very opinioned.
Your Majesty, but also against all the officials and against all the peoples in all the provinces of King
I attest to this due to the reply she relayed when
Ahasuerus. For the queen’s behavior will make all
summoned by the king. Let’s look at the account of
wives despise their husbands, as they reflect that
what transpired. According to the Book of Esther,
King Ahasuerus himself ordered Queen Vashti to
during his third year on the throne, King Ahasuerus
be brought before him, but she would not come”
decided to host a party in the city of Shushan. The
(Esther 1:16-18). So, what’s the king to do to save
celebration lasted for half a year and concluded with face? He needs to demote Vashti. Memucan then a week-long drinking festival, during which both
suggests that Vashti should be banished and the
the king and his guests consumed vast quantities of
title of queen be given to another woman who is
alcohol.
“more worthy” (1:19) of the honor. King Ahasuerus likes this idea, so the punishment is carried out, and
In his drunken stupor, King Ahasuerus decides
soon, a massive, kingdom-wide search is launched
that he wants to show off his wife’s beauty, so he
for a beautiful woman to replace Vashti as queen.
commands Queen Vashti to appear before his male
Eventually, Esther is selected, and her experiences
guests: “On the seventh day, when the king was
in the court of King Ahasuerus are the basis for the
merry with wine, he ordered ... the seven eunuchs
Purim story. The story of Purim is one of the major
in attendance for King Ahasuerus to bring Queen
holidays celebrated by the Jewish people.
Vashti before the king wearing her royal crown, to display her beauty to the people and the officials;
Mordecai wrote letters to all the Jews in all of the
for she was a beautiful woman” (Esther 1:10-11).
king’s provinces and he ordered them to celebrate
The bible does not say what the king commanded
the fourteenth and the fifteenth days of Adar every
her to wear other that her purple crown, and
year because during those days the Jews got rid
perhaps that was the only thing she was to wear,
of their enemies. We also know that this is the
because her response was one of defiant refusal.
month when sorrows were turned into rejoicing,
Vashti receives the summons while she is hosting
So Adar is a turning point! Purim celebrates the
a banquet for the women of the court and refuses
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wicked governmental leader who wanted to destroy
Now Esther is apprehensive to say the least, but
them. So, who was this wicked man and what were
she is obedient to the one who has raised her and
his intentions? Haman (Hebrew: also known as
groomed her into the remarkable young lady and
Haman the Agagite or Haman the evil) is the main
indeed Queen that she has become. This statement
antagonist in the Book of Esther, who according
that she made in Esther 4:16“Go and assemble all
to the Hebrew Bible was an official in the court
the Jews who can be found in Susa, and fast for me.
of the Persian empire under King Ahasuerus, and
Do not eat or drink for three days, night or day, and
he had the ear of the king. Haman was appointed
I and my maidens will fast as you do. After that, I
the principal minister of King Ahasuerus, all of
will go to the king, even though it is against the law.
the king’s servants were required to bow down to
And if I perish, I perish! This statement!!! This says
Haman, but Mordechai refused to. Angered by this,
that her confidence is not in her good looks, nor her
and knowing of Mordechai’s Jewish nationality,
charms, or even her ability to sway the attention of
The truth about Esther is that she had the tenacity of a great warrior who was not afraid to go to battle for her people, the statement “if I perish, I perish” is an indication that no matter what was levied against her, not trying is not an option! ” Haman convinced Ahasuerus to allow him to have
the king. She knows that it is unlawful to just show
all of the Jews in the Persian empire killed.
up before the king, but she also knows that she has
But we understand from studying Esther, the dept
an advantage over the evil Haman. So, what does
of her character and we see her resolve. For when
Esther do? After fasting and praying and getting
faced with this calamity she does not distance
direction she confidently takes the steps needed to
herself from her people even though she is in the
secure the lives of her people. Esther 5:1- On the
palace, she is reminded by her cousin and guardian
third day, Esther put on her royal attire and stood in
Mordecai of this in Esther 4:12. When Esther’s
the inner court of the palace across from the king’s
words were relayed to Mordecai, vs.13, he sent back quarters. The king was sitting on his royal throne in to her this reply: “Do not imagine that because you
the royal courtroom, facing the entrance. 2.As soon
are in the king’s palace you alone will escape the
as the king saw Queen Esther standing in the court,
fate of all the Jews. Vs.14.For if you remain silent
she found favor in his sight. The king extended
at this time, relief and deliverance for the Jews will
the gold scepter in his hand toward Esther, and she
arise from another place, but you and your father’s
approached and touched the tip of the scepter.…
house will perish. And who knows if perhaps you
Look at what Esther did, firstly, she cleaned herself
have come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”
up and put on beautiful garments, she did not come
This is such a telling statement. When we try to
in looking downtrodden and hungry from fasting
reason out what we are dealing with, we have to
from three days and nights. No! she got dressed
remember that we don’t know what our “for such a
up and was a pleasing sight to the king. Secondly,
time as this” purpose is.
she did not approach the king making demands. Esther 5:3 “What is it, Queen Esther?” the king
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inquired. “What is your request? Even up to half
Haman restrained himself and went home. And
the kingdom, it will be given to you.”… why did
calling for his friends and his wife Zeresh,…
the king ask her this, after all she was entirely out
11.Haman recounted to them his glorious wealth,
of order, yet she was still respectable of his position
his many sons, and all the ways the king had
as king and ruler. And her reply was not ohh yes!
honored and promoted him over the other officials
Give me half the kingdom. Her reply was one of
and servants.…Haman was so upset that Mordecai
servitude and selflessness. Esther 5: 4“If it pleases
still did not pay homage to his, he almost lost it!
the king,” Esther replied, “may the king and Haman
However, he could not help bragging on himself
come today to the banquet I have prepared for the
and the dinner party he had been invited to. Esther
king. This request was pleasing to the king for he
5:12“What is more,” Haman added, “Queen Esther
said in Esther 5:5“Hurry,” commanded the king,
invited no one but me to join the king at the banquet
“and bring Haman, so we can do as Esther has
she prepared, and I am invited back tomorrow along
requested.” So, the king and Haman went to the
with the king.…I guess he didn’t realize that in his
banquet that Esther had prepared.…
plot to annihilate all the Jews, Esther was included. Esther 5:13 Yet none of this satisfies me as long as
Now the back story regarding the relationship of
I see Mordecai the Jew sitting at the king’s gate.”
Mordecai and the king is that Mordecai foiled a
His only focus out of all liberty he had been granted
plot by some rabble rousers who were planning to
by the king, was this one man who refused to bow.
murder the king, and the Esther made sure the king
Esther 5:14, His wife Zeresh and all his friends told
knew who they were and who it was that revealed
him, “Have them build a gallows fifty cubits high,
the plot thereby saving the life of the king. The
and ask the king in the morning to have Mordecai
king is also not aware that Haman has deceived
hanged on it. Then go to the banquet with the king
and tricked him into signing a decree that will wipe
and enjoy yourself.” Th e advice pleased Haman,
of the entire Jewish nation, for he only referred to
and he had the gallows constructed.…So the plot is
them as a people mixed in with other nations and
in full force. However,” for such a time as this” is
completely useless for any purpose of the king.
on the horizon.
All this because Mordecai refused to bow to him.
Now as the day before the dinner party approaches,
What an ego Haman had!!
we find the king unable to sleep in Esther 6:1-That night sleep escaped the king; so, he ordered the
So, lets peek at the preparations for the dinner
Book of Records, the Chronicles, to be brought
party! Esther 5:6-7-And as they drank their wine,
in and read to him. 2.And there it was found
the king said to Esther, “What is your petition? It
recorded that Mordecai had exposed Bigthana and
will be given to you. What is your request? Even
Teresh, two of the eunuchs who guarded the king’s
up to half the kingdom, it will be fulfilled. 7. Esther
entrance, when they had conspired to assassinate
replied, “This is my petition and my request: 8. If
King Xerxes.…so the king wanted to know “What
I have found favor in the sight of the king, and if it
honor or dignity has been bestowed on Mordecai
pleases the king to grant my petition and fulfill my
for this act?” “Nothing has been done for him,”
request, may the king and Haman come tomorrow
replied the king’s attendants.…and now the king
to the banquet I will prepare for them. Then I will
is wide awake and is wondering aloud “Who is in
answer the king’s question.” 9. That day Haman
the court?” the king asked. Now Haman had just
went out full of joy and glad of heart. At the king’s
entered the outer court of the palace to ask the king
gate, however, he saw Mordecai, who did not rise
to hang Mordecai on the gallows he had prepared
or tremble in fear at his presence. And Haman was
for him.…(Haman was very sure of himself) The
filled with rage toward Mordecai. 10.Nevertheless,
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standing in the court.” “Bring him in,” ordered the
I perish” is an indication that no matter what was
king.…So then Haman entered, and the king asked
levied against her, not trying is not an option! The
him, “What should be done for the man whom the
truth about Esther is she pleaded for Her People!
king is delighted to honor?” Now Haman thought
Here is what she said to the king in defense of her
to himself, “Whom would the king be delighted to
people.
honor more than me?”… Selfish and self-serving!! He really thought the king was referring to him and,
Esther 7:4. For my people and I have been sold out
in his arrogance, he replied: For the man whom
to destruction, death, and annihilation. If we had
the king is delighted to honor, have them bring a
merely been sold as menservants and maidservants,
royal robe that the king himself has worn and a
I would have remained silent, because no such
horse on which the king himself has ridden—one
distress would justify burdening the king.” 5. Then
with a royal crest placed on its head.… Let the
King Xerxes spoke up and asked Queen Esther,
robe and the horse be entrusted to one of the king’s
“Who is this, and where is the one who would
most noble princes. Let them array the man the
devise such a scheme?” 6. Esther replied, “The
king wants to honor and parade him on the horse
adversary and enemy is this wicked man—Haman!”
through the city square, proclaiming before him,
And Haman stood in terror before the king and
‘This is what is done for the man whom the king is
queen.…now that the evil deeds and tricks have
delighted to honor!’ ”… But the king’s answer was
come to light, the enemy is terrified and looking for
completed unexpected by Haman! Hurry,” said the
a way of escape. But the truth about Esther is that
king to Haman, “and do just as you proposed. Take
her integrity and character was a major factor in
the robe and the horse to Mordecai the Jew, who is
saving her people.
sitting at the king’s gate. Do not neglect anything that you have suggested.” I’m sure this was a very
In his desperation to gain favor from the Queen,
bitter pill for Haman to swallow, but what could
mind you she was a Jew, a people despised by
he do and what did he do? Haman took the robe
Haman, he lost all composure, and acted the fool in
and the horse, arrayed Mordecai, and paraded him
his begging for forgiveness and the king saw and
through the city square, crying out before him,
acted accordingly.
“This is what is done for the man whom the king is delighted to honor!”… Not only is Haman big mad, he still has to attend the dinner that Queen Esther has prepared! Haman told his wife Zeresh and all his friends everything that had happened. His advisers and his wife Zeresh said to him, “Since Mordecai, before whom your downfall has begun, is Jewish, you will not prevail against him—for surely you will fall before him.” While they were still speaking with Haman, the king’s eunuchs arrived and rushed him to the banquet that Esther had prepared. So, the truth about Esther is that she was no shrinking violet, no unprepared PYQ! Pretty Young Queen. The truth about Esther is that she had the tenacity of a great warrior who was not afraid to go to battle for her people, the statement “if I perish,
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Esther 7:7-8. In his fury, the king arose from
an unshakable faith in the God that is not
drinking his wine and went to the palace garden,
mentioned. We all like favor, and Esther found favor
while Haman stayed behind to beg Queen Esther
not only with her peers, but with the king.
for his life, for he realized that the king was planning a terrible fate for him. 8. Just as the king
When the threat of losing that favor is
returned from the palace garden to the banquet hall,
compromised, what will be the truth about us? Can
Haman was falling on the couch where Esther was
we say like Esther “ if I perish, I perish” How do
reclining. The king exclaimed, “Would he actually
we remain faithful and true to the Living God, the
assault the queen while I am in the palace?” As soon One who sustains us? These are real questions that as the words had left the king’s mouth, they covered require real answers. The king honored Esther’s Haman’s face.…But hold up! The servants of the
request and the Jewish people were saved from their
palace usually don’t miss a thing for Harbonah, one
enemy.
of the eunuchs attending the king, said: “There is a gallows fifty cubits high at Haman’s house. He had
Esther 8 :7. So King Xerxes said to Esther the
it built for Mordecai, who gave the report that saved Queen and Mordecai the Jew, “Behold, I have given the king.” “Hang him on it!” declared the king.…
Haman’s estate to Esther, and he was hanged on
Wow!! What a turnaround!
the gallows because he attacked the Jews. 8.Now you may write in the king’s name as you please
Now, we never see the name of the Lord mention
regarding the Jews, and seal it with the royal signet
in this entire account, but He is all there!! From the
ring. For a decree that is written in the name of the
rescue to the victory, His presence is there. From
king and sealed with the royal signet ring cannot be
slavery to freedom, He is there. From sorrow to
revoked.”
rejoicing, He is there! Be encouraged because the truth is that what the And the truth about Esther is that she displayed
King has written concerning you, He has also sealed it and it cannot be revoked. And that the truth anyhow! Bless you with love and peace.
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Talein, born Kia Talein Anderson, is multi-talented and enthusiastic about sharing her gifts and talents with the world. She is a singer, songwriter, gospelrecording artist, radio/television host, model, actress, writer, graphic designer, entrepreneur and certified life empowerment coach. This graceful, stylish, classy, award-winning artist is known for her angelic voice and explosive stage presence. When she sings into the mic, her unassuming persona quickly fades as she unleashes her powerful vocals, giving you goose bumps all over. You realize Queen Talein is on the scene and she means business. She has experience in many platforms of media and has been featured in gospel stage plays, jingles, voiceovers, newspapers, magazines, radio and television shows and loves hosting red carpet events. She is most comfortable on stage doing what she was born to do. When she auditioned for Tyrone Fox, the Las Vegas Entertainer known as “T-Fox”, he was absolutely
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blown away by her vocal talent, poise and personality. He immediately added her to his highenergy “House Party Variety Show” and in 2012 and 2014 this dynamic duo performed for many sold out audiences at the 1,500-seat Superstar Theater in the world-famous Resorts Hotel & Casino in Atlantic City, New Jersey. T-Fox was excited to have such a spiritual and humble talent match his passion, professionalism and charisma. In fact, he and the crowd were so impressed with Talein, T-Fox made her his Co-headliner in 2014! Showing an interest in the arts at an early age, Talein took ballet lessons at age 5, sang in school productions, competed in talent competitions and pageants, attended modeling schools, and received formal vocal training. As a teen, it was obvious that her passion for music dominated her dreams. She began writing and recording original material for a demo while performing solo or with a band at weddings, anniversaries, churches, conventions, school and community events, and private affairs. In 1992, Talein gave her life to the Lord but continued her lifestyle as a mainstream secular artist. Having grown up in the Motown, Disco, and Soul Train Eras, Talein was heavily influenced by the great artists and good music of those eras. Covering popular songs by Whitney Houston, Patti LaBelle, Celine Dion, Yolanda Adams, Teena Marie, Denice Williams, Mariah Carey, Stephanie Mills and many more is like breathing for her. She was laser focused on pursuing a professional career in the industry and began circulating her demo tape. Finally, her efforts paid off in1993 when Talein was selected to be the lead female vocalist for Atlantic Starr and recorded the CD, “Time” on Arista Records. She was blessed to work with award-winning songwriter, Diane Warren, one of the most prolific songwriters in the music industry. Diane has written hits for Celine Dion, Whitney Houston, and Toni Braxton to name a few. But after leaving the group Atlantic Starr in 1993, she felt depressed, despondent and broken. She decided it was the time to accept her call, follow Christ with her whole heart, and give her talents back to HIM. Seeking solace in her faith, she turned her attention and talent to gospel music, joining a few groups and doing local performances before
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becoming a Praise and Worship Leader. However, Talein’s creative energy and versatility would not allow her to stop there. She wanted to praise Him and write about HIS goodness believing that meaningful lyrics touch the heart and soul of others. Meanwhile her Mom was writing poetry as a hobby. This inspired Talein to collaborate with her Mom, La-Tina Smith, to write and record her debut gospel masterpiece entitled, “Don’t Turn Your Back on God,” It was released on her independent label Angelic Vibe Music, Inc. in 2007. This 10song CD garnered Talein new fans throughout the U.S. and abroad, paving the way for her first international television debut performance on Candi Staton’s show, “Say Yes” which aired on Trinity Broadcasting Network (TBN)--the largest Christian television network in the world. She has also been a guest performer on “Nite Line”, aired on station WGGS TV, home of Carolina Christian Broadcasting in Greenville, SC that reaches over 940,000 households; “Atlanta Live” on station WATC TV57 in Norcross, GA and Channel 7 News in Washington, D.C. Talein has received numerous awards in recognition of her talent, hard work, dedication and outstanding contributions throughout her lifetime. Her very first music award was the Youth Gospel Choice Awards Best Female Artist for 2008. She was given her most prestigious honor in 2017 when she received a Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award signed by President Barack Obama for her life-long commitment to volunteer service. Talein released two singles that resonated with her fans. “Powerful Warrior” is the Anthem of 2019 and a song of empowerment. It encourages everyone to be warriors by using their spiritual weapons and faith in God to overcome life’s challenges. For this song, Talein received over 10 music nominations in 2019 and in 2020 she received 12 nominations. She won a Newsome Award for Contemporary Artist of the Year for 2019 and two Newsome Awards for Praise & Worship Artist for 2019 and 2020. Blazing a trail in 2021, was Talein’s new single, “Atmosphere,” which was written and arranged by Talein and produced by her son, chart-topping
Music Producer RXNEY. This angelic song of worship is one of Talein’s favorites, because it is their first Mother-Son Collaboration. It has widespread appeal and quickly reached #1 for 3 straight weeks in a row on the VSC Gospel Network’s United Praise Radio Show’s Top 25 songs that is syndicated on 23 plus stations. It also charted in Cashbox Magazine’s Black Gospel Top 50 for 7 months, entering the chart at #21 before topping the chart at #6. Also in 2021 Talein was nominated to receive awards in four music categories and won Graphic Designer of the Year for the first time. After many years of designing eye-catching CD jackets, bookcovers, flyers, commercial ads and various marketing materials for other creative artists, authors, and entrepreneurs, the recognition was well-deserved. Talein’s third single entitled, “Walls Down” was released in 2023. This soul-stirring contemporary rhythm and praise song was written by the dynamic Mother & Daughter duo, Tina & Talein and produced by Grammy-nominated Dennis “MLIK” Moore for 3HP Heavy Hittaz. “Walls Down” takes you on a journey of restoration and healing by allowing God to penetrate your walls to bring you to a place of wholeness and peace. It’s already moving its way up the charts and is current #23 on the United Praise Radio Show. Talein is married to her best friend and ministry partner, Apostle John F. Harris, and they Pastor Spirit of Glory Worship Center in Decatur, GA. They are also the parents of four beautiful adults and continue to utilize their marriage to be a blessing to others.
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"Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Hebrews 11:1
“ S E L F CARE”
I S T H E BE ST CA R E!
For Your Health
T H E BE N E F ITS O F F O R G I V E NE S S VE R S E S
TH E H EA LT H RI SK O F U N FORG I VENE SS. UN FO RG I VENE SS. BY PAOLA TENNON, RN, BSN, MBA/HCA, CCM Forgiveness is extending mercy to those who have harmed us and it is a process that occurs over time, and for some, maybe even years. It is a pivotal issue in the Christian walk according to Charles Stanley, in his book “The Gift Of Forgiveness.” He asserts that forgiveness involves three elements: injury, a debt resulting from the injury, and a cancellation of the debt. He further states that forgiveness is “the act of setting someone free from an obligation to you that is a result of a wrong done against you.” And he implies that one needs to trace the sequence of the
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event because most people who suffer from an unforgiving spirit do not know that unforgiveness is the root of their problem, (1). When I think about forgiveness, I am reminded of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, who willingly took on the sins of the world for the forgiveness of our sins, thereby reconciling us back unto the heavenly Father and opening the door for us to receive God’s gift of Salvation. God’s gracious forgiveness of our sin should be our measure of grace for our forgiveness of others as commanded in Ephesians 4:32 NIV; “Be kind and compassionate
to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you,” (2). This scripture is essential for all who believe; for it is not a suggestion but a command. Therefore, we should consider the cost if we choose to forgive, or if we refuse to forgive because that is not reflective of a Christian life and it yields consequences. Nonetheless, the forgiveness that we extend towards others can often bring reconciliation to relationships. In contrast, the risk of unforgiveness can significantly impact our emotional, mental,
physical, and spiritual well-being but in negative ways. Research has identified a causal link between forgiveness and health utilizing both observational studies using longitudinal analyses and randomized trials of forgiveness interventions. While some research on the topics of unforgiveness and forgiveness may be limited, one study confirms that there are negative effects of unforgiveness on one’s mental health. According to M. E. McCullough (1998), unforgiveness triggers certain stressors that cause people to think that others have caused them harm, which can potentially lead them to taking drastic steps such as self-harm or suicidal tendencies, in extreme cases. Moreover, a research study on Chronic Stress Response (2000), concluded that when a person thinks that others can harm them, these negative emotions lead to chronic stress which can attribute to severe diseases such
as cardiovascular issues, and high blood pressure that can lead to brain hemorrhage, if not addressed, (6). Another study published April 2015 in the journal Annals of Behavioral Medicine including more than 330 people ages 16 to 79, found that regardless of age, those who were able to forgive, experienced a decrease in their perception of their own stress and this led to a decrease psychological distress. The study authors noted that “this model of forgiveness is one of the more effective responses for reducing stress perceptions and enhancing health.” They also identified 3 ways in which forgiveness is good for your health and they include: 1. Helps manage stress, 2. Activates the Parasympathetic Nervous System, which is good for the heart, and 3. Helps you ruminate less which can lower risks of psychological disorders, (10). Also included in this group of studies was a study ordinarypeoplemagazine | 29
published in October 2018 in the journal Neurology which found that people, especially women, who had high cortisol levels over extended periods of time had poorer memory and performed worst on cognitive test. This is important because the stress hormone Cortisol has several negative effects on systems throughout the body and can potentially affect memory. Furthermore, an article by Kaiser Permanente suggests that not forgiving someone often leads to hostility towards that person which keeps the levels of the stress hormone elevated in our bodies, which in turn triggers a wide range of negative outcomes, (9).
with improved psychological well-being, physical health outcomes, and longevity. It further states that forgiveness can serve as a protective factor that buffers against poor health and psychological consequences, (8).
How do we begin? We must first recognize that unforgiveness causes barriers of separation and destroys relationships. We all are guilty and have fallen into the sin of unforgiveness at one time or another; but we must realize that the sin of unforgiveness is self-destructive and poison to our souls, (5). It permeates our entire being and separates us from God, friends, family and etc. Jesus cautions about unforgiveness in Mark 11:25It only offers a lifetime of hurt that can never be 26 which states; “Whenever you stand praying, defended or justified, but it is something that must if you have anything against anyone, forgive be dealt with. When we forgive those who have him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive wronged us, their sin will never be made right and you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, all of the hurt, pain and anguish will likely remain, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your but only for a time. Isaiah tells us that God will not trespasses.” Further investigation suggests that hear our prayers when we have unforgiveness in long-term effects of chronic stress can give rise our life (Isaiah 59:1-2). Thus, it is crucial that we to psychological disorders such as depression, forgive in order to be released from the bondage anxiety, leading to anorexia or bulimia because of of unforgiveness; for only the power of the Holy unexpressed emotions. This was validated in the Spirit can give us the grace to truly forgive. The research study by E. L. Worthington and M. Scherer following information is gleaned from the annals (2004) which concluded that unforgiveness is a of the Mayo Clinic and it speaks to: Forgiveness: type of stress response that directly impacts the Letting Go of Grudges and Bitterness. https: // mental and psychological health of a person. Other www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/adult-health/ issues associated with depression include anxiety, in-depth/forgiveness/art-20047692 short-temperament, bitterness, sleeplessness, and also problems with trust (6). The Bible warns about Benefits of forgiving: bitterness: “Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness • Healthier relationships. springing up cause trouble, and by this many • Improved mental health, less anxiety, become defiled” (Hebrews 12:15). stress, and hostility. • Fewer symptoms of depression The intent of this article is to bring awareness to • Lower blood pressure the health risk of unforgiveness and the impact of • A stronger immune system. forgiveness on our overall wellbeing. We need to • Improved heart health and improved selfunderstand that forgiveness is a commitment to esteem change. I speak on this topic because of my own personal challenges with forgiveness. The struggle Moving toward a state of forgiveness: is real, and as you navigate through the process, it becomes apparent that you cannot lean on your • Recognize the value of forgiveness and own understanding. It requires that we pray and how it can improve your life. place our trust in the Lord. A 2017 abstract by the • Identify what needs healing and who you Master of Applied Positive Psychology Capstone want to forgive, Project states that forgiveness is a character strength • Join a support group or see a counselor. and process that when practiced, is associated • Acknowledge your emotions about the
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harm done to you, recognize how those emotions affect your behavior, and work to release them. Choose to forgive the person who’s offended you. Release the control and power that the offending person and situation have had in your life.
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Practice empathy Ask yourself about the circumstances that may have led the other person to behave in such a way. This is to avoid reacting similarly if faced with a similar situation again.
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Stanley, C. 1991. The gift of forgiveness. Nashville, TN: Thomas Nelson Publishers New International Version, https:// biblehub.com/ephesians/4-32.htm The Self-Destructive Sin of Unforgiveness By Carlin Lawrence, February 23, 2021. https://agairupdate.com/2021/02/23/theself-destructive-sin-of-unforgiveness/ Is Forgiveness a Public Health Issue? Tyler J. VanderWeele, PhD https://www.ncbi. nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5846597/ Unforgiveness - Merriam-webster.com The Negative Effects of Unforgiveness on Mental Health, April 28, 2014 04:55 by Christie Hunter https://www.theravive. com/today/post/the-negative-effects-ofunforgiveness-on-mental-health-0001467. aspx, retrieved 3/29/2023 Unforgiveness and your health- https:// www.counselling-directory.org.uk/ memberarticles/unforgiveness-and-yourhealth, retrieved 3/29/2023. Forgiveness: How it Manifests in our Health, Well-being, and Longevity- https:// repository.upenn.edu/cgi/viewcontent. cgi?article=1124&context=mapp_capstone The health benefits of forgiveness,
Reflect on times when others have forgiven you. Write in a journal, pray, or talk with a spiritual leader, mental health provider, or an impartial loved one or friend. Be aware that forgiveness is a process. Even small hurts may need to be revisited. Understand that reconciliation may not be possible if the offender has died or is unable to communicate with you. Reconciliation might not be appropriate in some cases, but forgiveness is possible in all cases.
Point to Remember: “The person who gains the most from forgiveness is the person who does the forgiving.”
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D E SCRIP TIONS OF THE ENEMY BY TAMMY TERRELL KENNARD Big lips, big eyes, big nose, pushed-back teeth, big head, big ears, bumpy face, knocked knees, flat booty, big chest Tammy who talked with a lisp… That’s what they called me, and eventually, it’s how I saw myself. I was the ugly girl of all my friends, according to the boys and the girls. So, I became the cool girl and the bulimic girl. I started throwing up
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after meals because one of the neighborhood adults thought it was necessary to point out how even though I was small, I was still the largest one in my circle of friends. So I started throwing up to keep from becoming a fat girl also. I became the girl who could rap better than all the boys, and I learned how to check. (Checking is kind of like your momma jokes. It’s when you
jive talk about another person). I was good at checking because I’d go low below the belt. There weren’t any limits as to what I’d talk about if you hurt me. I’d talk about you, your momma, daddy, siblings, or even deceased grandparents if you messed with me. I played really dirty. I mean, I had to make folks leave me alone and stop picking on me. My big brother couldn’t defend
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me anymore. He was graduating, so I was determined to protect myself, and checking was my answer. It worked, too. It got folks off my back.
He was a good guy, it seemed. That thought of him didn’t last long. Raised by parents who didn’t kick their kids out as soon as they turned 18 but determined to be grown and on my own, I moved out at 19 to shack with a man I eventually married. Nothing fancy, just a quick “I do” in the pastor’s living room with no one but us, the pastor, my sister, and her husband. I don’t even think the Holy Spirit attended that ceremony.
You would have thought my confidence would have been top-tier because I was one of the few families in our Smokey City neighborhood that still had two parents in the home. My daddy worked hard as a welder plus a truck driver, and my mom stayed home caring for us and the house. Times were much different back then. Kids could play But, life was together without fun now, so I anyone getting thought because I hurt. Well, that’s could dress how what I thought I wanted and do until a close friend what I wanted, we called Red was living away from killed right before my loving but my high school controlling parents’ graduation to drugs home. I didn’t and gun violence. move too far, Then, six months though. later, my friend, nicknamed Moo, was also murdered. That’s when We rented a one-bedroom duplex right down the I was 1st introduced to death, but even still, I street from them. lived my life without fear of dying. Now, with my own crib and my own husband, I felt I had it all together, especially since everyone I really wanted to be a rapper after high school wanted to be at our house. We worked during the because I was good with words, but my parents day and had parties almost every night, living insisted I find something more serious to do. paycheck to paycheck. Baby, we had it going At that time, I thought 12 years of school was on. Me 19 and him 18, you couldn’t tell us this enough for me. wasn’t the way life was designed to be.
“Descriptions of the enemy inside are what filled the bag I carried. That’s what defined me, and that’s what I believed.”
So, I decided on cosmetology school. Knowing good and well, I had zero desire to do hair. Now, I was definitely born for the beauty industry, but becoming a manicurist was my natural gift. I discovered that by doing more nails than hair in hair school (that’s still funny to me). During this time, I was 19 years old, and this was also when I met who I thought was my person.
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The only thing missing was a baby. Especially since all my friends who weren’t married already had kids because they’d gotten pregnant in high school. I was jealous. I wanted a baby, so we started trying. But miscarriage after miscarriage became the new definition of me. Big lip, big nose, big eyes, pushed-back teeth Tammy who couldn’t even carry a baby full term before it died.
With people constantly asking “When are you going to give that man a baby?” insecurities attached itself to me even more. But I painted a smile on my face as if I had it all together. Outside appearances often tell lies, and I was the face of it. Descriptions of the enemy inside are what filled the bag I carried. That’s what defined me, and that’s what I believed. You’d think with all the negative labels Satan had attached to me that it wasn’t room for any more, but that wasn’t the case for me. That cunning little sneaky, evil, and nasty beast added another description to my already list of heartbreaking labels. Our marriage didn’t stay happy very long because, for one, it wasn’t built on the foundation of GOD. He was a follower (and not of CHRIST). He was an alcoholic and a cheater. Dealing with all of that, I became physically abusive towards him. Yep, you got it. I was the one putting my hands on him. I remember one time I stabbed him in the face with a piece of glass just for hanging a picture wrong, and it fell off the wall breaking. I was angry because I thought I finally had someone who liked me and accepted all my flaws, yet he cheated over and over again. I was so hurt, and I wanted to hurt him just like he and everyone else had hurt me. The blood was pouring down his face from where I’d stabbed him with the glass. He called my daddy, and my daddy came up the street to our house. When he walked in, I fell into my daddy’s chest, crying. “He made me do it.” Before asking was he okay, my daddy asked him what he did to me. My daddy loved me, and he wasn’t going to accept anyone doing me wrong or accept anything anyone said negatively about his baby girl. I was a perfect angel in his eyes. He saw me as his beautiful girl, and I grew up with him always telling me how beautiful I was, how smart I was, and how the world was mine if I’d just go get it.
With a good daddy, you’re probably wondering how I could ever have low-self-esteem or even allow what others thought of me to affect me. But Satan spoke to the young and spoke through the young. So, as a teenage girl, when you’re at that age where boys are starting to like girls, you’re the only one no one likes, and then they verbally remind you why they don’t like you, and it’s all physical, it makes you repeat the descriptions from your peers. Big lip Tammy, big nose Tammy, big ears Tammy, pushed back teeth Tammy, knocked knees Tammy, flat booty, big chest Tammy, bumpy face Tammy, Tammy with the big head who talks with a lisp. As I said earlier, you would have thought, with all the negative labels already attached to me, that it wasn’t anything else he could say to bother me but Satan’s plots, plans, and schemes to attack my mind and my life was running rampant. After only five years of marriage, trying to beat some sense into someone who was an uncontrollable alcoholic and habitual cheater, divorce found its way to my address. I’m sure by now you’re already calling me the names everyone else did. Big lip, big eyes, big nose, pushed back teeth, knocked knees, abusive, miscarriage having, divorced Tammy who talked with a lisp. Descriptions of the enemy had their way with me, and Satan wasn’t going to give up until those labels ended with me committing suicide. To Be Continued: Scripture: “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full” (John 10:10).
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“Guys…this is Missile Morgan” Seeking to overcome the scars from her abusive, alcoholic father, Jesse Cartwright, Anthony’s best friend from childhood, is determined to make something of her life. Tomboyish in every way, at times her stubbornness puts her in direct conflict with Anthony’s other friends. A born fighter, she ultimately proves to be tougher than every boy in the neighborhood and the only friend Anthony can really count on. As Anthony battles his inner demons in his march toward glory, and Jesse struggles through her own personal tragedies and loss, their paths grow apart. Eventually the two dis- cover their lives are somehow intertwined and neither will truly realize his or her dreams without the other. Surpassing the expectations his father had for him, Anthony Morgan is poised to be the biggest phenomenon baseball has seen in years. Anthony’s future is set. He has worked hard for it, dreamed about it all his life, and can practically taste it! However, what Anthony could not foresee was the untimely death of his father—his mentor and hero. This tragedy started a downward spiral of bad decisions, which ultimately threaten Anthony’s life and future in baseball. Beyond the Lies is as captivating as The Natural, as compelling as Love Comes Softly, and at times as humorous as Diary of a Mad Black Woman. It’s a coming of age story that will appeal to the young and old, the sports enthusiast, the romantic, those gripped by human tragedy, and those who celebrate the triumph of the human spirit. Author Mr. Vanderbilt Brabson, III https://beyondthelies-theboo.com https://www.amazon.cm/Vanderbilt-Brabson-III/e/ B004DWVNW?ref=dbs_p_pbk_r00_abau_000000 See the book Trailer at https://www.vanderbiltbrabsoniii.com
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THAT IS THE QUE STION! BY VANDERBILT BRABSON III, AUTHOR A story is told about two men being marooned on an Island. One man paced back and forth worried and scared while the other man sat back and was sunning himself. The first man said to the second man, “Aren’t you afraid we are about to die.” “No,” said the second man, “I make $10,000 weekly and tithe faithfully to my church every week. It’s Stewardship Month at my church. My Pastor will find me.” When I first became a Christian, I was a single young man at the age twenty-eight. I immediately sought to find a church to join. Therefore, seeking God’s guidance, I started visiting different churches. Eventually, I felt led to join a small
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Baptist Church that a good friend and former roommate and high school and college classmate of mine already was attending. Even better, this Baptist church was only a 20–25-minute drive from my home. I felt blessed to be a part of that body of believers. Everyone was so welcoming. However, I had not been a member that long when I began to feel somewhat uncomfortable due to repeated pulpit messages, among other biblical doctrine, regarding our obligation as Christians to tithe. To me at least, it seemed to be mentioned quite frequently. Perhaps I was overly sensitive to that particular subject because as a new believer I was not a
tither. The scripture quoted each time was Malachi 3:8: which reads: Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings. To be sure, I thought to myself, I would gladly love to tithe; however, between all my living expenses: housing, utilities, groceries, gas, parking fees at my job, vehicle maintenance, and not to mention literally living from pay-day to pay-day, I told myself I just could not see how I could commit to tithing immediately nor in the very near foreseeable future. Heck, I said to myself, I was single and could barely afford to date from time to time. Not to mention, I definitely could not afford to eat out; therefore, I packed my own lunch every day for work. However, in spite of those barriers or excuses to my putting God first in my finances, my conscience or the Holy Spirit, or both, began to seriously bother me about the matter.
Shortly thereafter, one evening after work I telephoned my pastor and asked him to meet with me at the church. He agreed. That very evening the two of us did meet. I told my pastor how much money I made from my employer as well as what my financial obligations were. I told him I truly wanted to tithe but didn’t think I was able to…at least not in the near future. He lovingly took the time and showed me some scriptures and told me that as a Christian, I needed to trust God and put Him first in every area of my life—including my finances. After seeing and reading the pertinent scriptures and listening to his biblical answers to my questions, I was convinced. He encouraged me to trust God, and let God work it out. I immediately told him that I didn’t know how I was going to be able to do it, but I was committed to start right then and there. Therefore, I offered to write him a check for my tithes right there as the two of us were ending our meeting at the church. He smiled and said, “Why don’t you just wait until ordinarypeoplemagazine | 39
Sunday when the offering is lifted.” Since that time, I have learnt some really valuable lessons (none original with me) regarding generosity toward others, and regarding we as Christians faithfully giving to the church in obedience to the scriptures. Jesus said in Matthew 6:2:
Remember, Jesus said in Luke 6:38: Give, and it shall be given unto you; good measure, pressed down, and shaken together, and running over, shall men give into your bosom. For with the same measure that ye mete withal it shall be measured to you again.
Let’s be honest. As Christians we all welcome and hope for genuine blessings in our lives. However, “Therefore, when thou doest thine alms, do not if we are sincerely following Jesus, should we sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do not– as instruments in the hands of God— make in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may ourselves available to be a blessing to others, not have glory of men. for ours… but for His Verily I say unto namesake? In doing “It was nothing like you, They have so our very lives will anything I had ever their reward.” be proclaiming to the world as Paul said in experienced before, and Of course, the first 1 Corinthians 11:1 … I knew God had entered lesson to be learned … “Be ye followers of and understood is me, even as I also am of my life because of what that giving does Christ.” Jesus had done on that not start with you cross for me.” and me. God is “When I pray, I talk to the source of all God, but when I read genuine giving and the Bible, God is talking blessings. John to me … I believe we 3:16 says for God so loved the world that He gave. should know better how to pray if we knew our What did He give? Not what but who? He gave Bibles better.” His only begotten Son and by trusting in Jesus for – D.L. Moody the remission of our sin, we are given eternal life. Dwight Lyman Moody (February 5, 1837 – As Jesus says above in Matthew 6:2 when we December 22, 1899), also known as D. L. Moody, as Christians genuinely give, to the church and/ was an American evangelist and publisher or others, it is not about tooting our own horn. It connected with Keswickianism, who founded the is about being a conduit of God’s blessings in Moody Church, Northfield School and Mount benefiting the church for the work of ministry as Hermon School in Massachusetts (now Northfield well as benefiting others in their time of need. Mount Hermon School), Moody Bible Institute and Some who we bless with our gifts in turn may also Moody Publishers pass it on by becoming a blessing to others in other ways that do not necessarily involve money. © April 22, 2023 Vanderbilt Brabson III, Author Again, being a blessing to others is not always ALL RIGHTS RESERVED about money. Our giving may take the form of giving clothing to the needy, taking the time to comfort a grieving soul, sharing our resources with a movement to help the down and out, using our education and skills to tutor and train others, as well as the giving of our time for other acts of kindness and compassion.
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FROM WITHIN... BY VERNA V. NICKELBERRY My mind has been all over the place lately!
Ensure that you are getting the proper amount
It’s as if I can’t seem to get my thoughts
of sleep, which most health care professionals
together. And yet, I’m functioning at lighten
suggest seven to eight hours of good quality
speed! Busy! Busy! Busy!
sleep. Create a sleep regiment, if at all possible go to bed at the same time every night. You
I think we all have been there, busy doing
will be surprise how you will begin to fill.
this and that, and not taking care of ourselves. Don’t get me wrong busy is good, but we
Resting is good for your mental health as well,
must take time out to relax. As the saying goes
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“Stop and Smell the Roses.”
decreases blood pressure, chronic pain
Even God took a day of rest!
relief, improved immune health, and help to strengthen
Genesis 2:2 And on the seventh day God
your cardiovascular system (Integris Health).
ended his work which he had made; and he rested on the
Soooo, take time to REST from the cares of
seventh day from all his work which he had
world, trust me ,they will be there tomorrow!
made. Self-care is the best CARE! It’s ok to just take time to do nothing! Just rest, relax, and rejuvenate your mind, body ,and
And as always, Love, Peace, and Increase…
spirit. If God rested from His seven days of working, than we should follow His lead! Take
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