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CONTENTS: D E C E M B E R 2 0 24

ISSUE 109

HEALTH

BUSINESS (CONT.)

COVER STORY 10 Carolina Pines: When You Choose a Women's Care Practitioner at Carolina Pines Medical Group, You Get the Whole Team 12

Genesis: Is Your Skin Feeling Weathered?

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McLeod Health: What Men Need to Know About BPH and Enlarged Prostate

16 HopeHealth: Hope and Healing from PTSD

30 Baja Joe's Coastal Grill & Cantina: Omar Onate's Fusion Dream Comes to Life in Florence 32 Carolina Donut Diva: Jeanette Covington Dempsey 34 Pee Dee Tourism: Holiday Shopping GIFT GUIDE 36 Top 9 Books That Make Great Christmas Gifts NEWSWORTHY 38 Something to Celebrate with Local Businesses

BUSINESS AROUND TOWN 18 Pee Dee Land Trust's Bountiful Brunch 20 Allred Industries: Building Excellence with Integrity and Purpose 22 The Center Theater of Hartsville: Cue to Cue Run-Through 26 Piece of Work: The Art of Repurposing

CALENDAR 28 December 2024: Fun Days and Events

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LIFEST YLE 40 Circle Park: The Holidays, Underage Drinking, and Your Adolescent 42 Out & About: A Sense of Peace and Contentment to Improve Your Life Starts Now 44 Coping with Holiday Stress

HOME 46 Invited to a Party: Should You Bring a Gift?

48 Recipes That Make the Perfect Holiday Gift!

50 Book Club: Bright Shining, How Grace Changes Everything 52 La'Quantia Goodman's Drink of the Month: The Nutcracker

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When You Choose a Women’s Care Practitioner at Carolina Pines Medical Group, You Get the Whole Team When you entrust your health to the Women’s Care team at Carolina Pines Medical Group (CPMG), you likely won’t need to request a special consultation or another provider’s opinion – it’s already included.

That’s because the clinicians at the Medical Group embrace collaboration as a best practice for caring for the thousands of Pee Dee-area women they see each year.

“Patients have the opportunity to meet and build relationships with all of our providers, creating a sense of familiarity and trust,” said Scott Daniel, M.D., one of the four Obstetrics & Gynecology (OBGYN) physicians who lead the Women’s Care specialty. “This collaborative environment allows us to tailor care to each individual, ensuring they feel supported and understood at every stage of their health journey.”

The Women’s Care team sees more than 400 patients each week and thus far in 2024, has delivered nearly 300 babies at Carolina Pines Regional Medical Center.

Their team approach to care produces better patient experiences and outcomes, according to Casey Wadsworth, M.D., now in her second year with the group. “One of the key advantages of having a team of clinicians in women’s health is the ability to collaborate closely. We can exchange ideas and insights, allowing us to view patient cases from multiple perspectives.

Working as a team ensures that every patient receives comprehensive, high-quality care that draws on the collective expertise of our clinicians.”

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Dr. Daniel and Dr. Wadsworth are part of a dedicated Women’s Care team that includes Linda George, Certified Nurse Midwife (CNM); Ashekia Pinckney, M.D.; Leroy F. Robinson, M.D.; and Carrie Smith, CNM. The team serves patients at 701 Medical Park Drive, Suite 304, in Hartsville, SC. Dr. Wadsworth and Ms. George also see patients at the newest location, Carolina Pines Medical Group Pageland at 301 North Van Lingle Mungo Boulevard in Pageland, SC. The Women’s Care team mixes experience with fresh perspectives – OBGYN physician, Dr. Robinson began practicing obstetrics and gynecology in Hartsville in 1994. In the spring of 1996, he started the Women’s Care practice at Carolina Pines Medical Group, and was joined shortly thereafter by Dr. Daniel. Dr. Pinckney and Dr. Wadsworth are relatively new members of the CPMG Women’s Care team, both joining within the past 15 months. Of the nurse midwives, Ms. George has been with Carolina Pines for 28 years, while Carrie Smith, CNM is in her first year with the group.

“Each clinician brings a unique perspective and approach to patient care, which allows us to achieve exceptional outcomes for our patients,” said Dr. Pinckney. “Having a team means we can collaborate, support one another, and provide comprehensive care that addresses all aspects of our patients' needs.

This teamwork ensures that our patients receive the highest level of care and benefit from a wealth of collective expertise.”

That collective expertise is especially welcome because women’s bodies have unique medical needs.

The Women’s Care clinicians are specifically trained to help treat female health needs, from birth control to childbirth, from menopause to hysterectomies, and everything in between.

Services cover all aspects of fertility and reproductive health: menopause management, pelvic and bladder health, breast health including mammograms, well-woman exams, and other women’s health issues.

"Women face unique health circumstances, as our hormones cycle every month for much of our lives," said Carie Smith, CNM. "We also go through major transitions—like puberty, pregnancy, postpartum, and menopause—that can impact every part of our lives and our overall quality of life. And now, with women living longer than ever, expert guidance from a women’s health provider can be essential to maintaining a good quality of life at every stage."

Expert guidance occurs over time as health needs change, which is why continuity is also important to a women’s health journey. Dr. Daniel said the Carolina Pines team prioritizes consistent follow-up and connection with its patients, from annual wellness visits to checking in with them during hospital stays, and continuing care after discharge through scheduled visits.

“Through a combination of phone calls, text messages, and secure digital platforms, we stay connected with our patients, ensuring they have access to guidance, support, and follow-up care at every step,” said Dr. Daniel. “This ongoing connection helps us foster a sense of continuity and support, ensuring our patients feel cared for throughout their journey.”

“I’m now delivering babies from mothers who were once babies that I delivered,” he said. “I stay connected because I’m part of the community. I've attended many baptisms, christenings, birthday parties, weddings and yes, even memorials.”

And that patient-clinician connection is just as important to the clinician, noted Dr. Pinckney.

“My favorite part of my job is being able to share the experiences with my patients,” she said. “Watching a mom overcome all of her worries of pregnancy and deliver a happy and healthy baby. Helping a woman with bleeding issues finally find relief. It’s like watching miracles every day.”

To learn more about Women’s Care services at Carolina Pines Medical Group, visit themedicalgroup.com/womens-care.

If you don’t currently see a women’s health practitioner, the Women’s Care team at Carolina Pines Medical Group welcomes new patients and accepts most insurance plans.

Call 843.383.2764 or visit themedicalgroup.com/womens-care to schedule an appointment and let our team assist you with any questions.

Carolina Pines Medical Group is part of Carolina Pines Regional Medical Center, a hospital that has earned the Leapfrog Group’s prestigious “A” grade for hospital safety for six consecutive cycles and was one of only 35 hospitals nationwide to be deemed a “Top General Hospital” by Leapfrog last year.

Dr. Robinson noted that when you have served the same community and so many families for three decades, being connected comes pretty naturally. He estimates that he has delivered between 3,000 to 5,000 babies during the time he has practiced in Hartsville.

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Is Your Skin Feeling Weathered?

Do you have discoloration, dark circles, dry, dull or crepey skin?

Utilizing the world’s first picosecond laser present at Genesis Cosmetic Laser Center, PicoSure uses pressure wave technology. The ultra-short pulses send vibrational signals to stimulate both the upper layer of skin down to the Dermis without disrupting the outer layer. It disperses unwanted discoloration, smoothes the skin’s surface by reorganizing collagen and elastin from the inside out, resulting in an overall exfoliation with minimal to no downtime. PicoSure’s Skin Revitalization laser treatment also breaks down scar tissue and is safer for all skin tones than traditional technology. PicoSure originated for safer, effective tattoo removal. However, over time, PicoSure has become a jack of all trade modality, just like our very own Medical Aesthetician, Heather Moye.

Heather Moye performing PicoSure's Skin Revitalization reatment on patient.

Heather presents a wealth of knowledge in many aspects of the aesthetic industry, bringing the community 15 years medical aesthetic experience and 12 years skilled in the PicoSure platform, totaling 21 years overall in the medical setting. She holds numerous certifications and brings a history of building aesthetic internal operations from both independent practices and national companies assisting sustainable growth to us at Genesis, now calling us her forever home attributable to her exhilarating full circle story for marriage with her fiancé, Tommy Ewart.

Heather is a member of the National Rosacea Society, Business of Aesthetics, and the National Coalition of Esthetician’s Association. She has served thousands and thousands of patients from all walks of life and is known by other medical professionals as the ‘Laser Guru’. Heather’s result-oriented approach to skin care sets her apart and we are thrilled to have her here at Genesis. She holds impressive abilities in utilizing combination laser therapy while providing extensive knowledge in the physics of laser, the skin’s tissue response, normalized healing, and has a passion for treating Skin of Color.

Heather’s patient care is under promised and overdelivered, while always providing thorough education with realistic expectations. ‘How wonderful it is that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world,’ a quote by Anne Frank, speaks for her passion. Heather truly believes she is serving her life’s purpose. Her dedication and compassion not only exceeds expectations from the moment of your first consultation, but continues throughout your treatment session, up through the end result. Her bedside manner is exceptional as she is welcoming to all in her treatment chair.

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At Genesis Cosmetic Laser Center, we make you Glow differently, Shape differently, and Feel differently. No need to feel weathered in your skin when you can get ‘Heathered’.

Schedule your free consultation today!

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WHAT MEN NEED TO KNOW ABOUT BPH AND ENLARGED PROSTATE story by Dr. Ronald Glinski, McLeod Urology Associates A concern many men encounter as they age is prostate health. From PSA, BPH, Low T – men are flooded with mysterious terms when discussing this topic. One of the most common is BPH, Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia, otherwise known as an enlarged prostate.

The prostate is a gland found only in males and is located below the bladder and in front of the rectum, surrounding the urethra. According to the American Urological Association, nearly 80 percent of men will develop BPH, with 30 percent receiving treatment for it.

As the prostate gland enlarges, it can squeeze the urethra causing symptoms like a weak urine stream or the need to push or strain to pass urine. If untreated or in more serious cases, it may stop urination completely or cause kidney failure. For these reasons, it is important for men to know when to seek care.

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BPH impacts each man differently, and some men may not experience any major symptoms. For most, the first signs are changes in bathroom habits with urination:

• Frequent urination, as often as every one to two hours • Weak or slow stream, or stream that starts and stops • Feeling of bladder not emptying completely • Delay in starting urination, or straining to start • Awakening frequently at night to urinate Men should seek medical treatment if they are experiencing any of these symptoms to such a degree that it is impacting their quality of life. See a doctor immediately if there is blood in the urine, pain with urination, burning with urination or inability to urinate.

A diagnosis of BPH does not necessarily mean treatment is necessary. It is important for men to discuss with their doctor the most beneficial and effective treatments available and weigh the impact of their symptoms on their daily life.

When symptoms are severe enough to require more than routine monitoring, urologists may recommend one of multiple treatment options for BPH. These include medicines, minimally invasive treatments or surgical procedures. The best treatment option for each individual depends on:

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The size of your prostate Your age Your overall health How serious your symptoms are

Oral medications may be prescribed to help relax the bladder or shrink the prostate and improve urine flow. Some work quickly, while others may take more time to show improvements.

Another treatment option for BPH now offered at McLeod Regional Medical Center is Aquablation Therapy. Aquablation Therapy combines real-time, multi-dimensional imaging, automated robotics, and heat-free waterjet ablation for targeted, controlled, and immediate removal of prostate tissue.

Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia is just that: Benign.

BPH is not cancer, but men can experience both conditions at the same time. In both BPH and early stages of prostate cancer, men may not have obvious symptoms, so annual physical examinations and regular checkups are essential to combatting both diagnoses.

It is important to not overlook the signs and symptoms of BPH. Men should consult a urologist to explore all available treatment options. By working together, they can determine the best course of action to promote optimal health and enhance quality of life.

Minimally invasive treatment options include a Rezum procedure for BPH which uses steam to shrink the prostate, a Urolift procedure, also known as a Prostatic Urethral Lift, to treat BPH, and a iTind procedure to treat lower urinary tract symptoms (LUTS) caused by an enlarged prostate. Depending on the procedure, these may offer less bleeding and recovery time, and shorter hospital stays.

Surgical treatment for BPH is when removing sections of the prostate is necessary. Surgery may be the most effective relief of symptoms, but as always the case with surgery, it does involve more risk. Some men may also have other health conditions that make surgery a less favorable option for their care.

Dr. Ronald W. Glinski provides care for the full spectrum of urological concerns. Dr. Glinski serves patients at McLeod Urology Associates in Florence.

To schedule an appointment, call 843-777-7555.

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HEALTH ++ WELLNESS WELLNESS story by Francheska Russell, M.Ed, LPC, HopeHealth HEALTH

HOPE AND HEALING

FROM PTSD

It is estimated that 7 out of 10 people in America may experience a life-threatening event such as a natural disaster, serious accident, fire, physical or sexual assault/ abuse, war, having a loved one die from homicide or suicide, or seeing someone be killed or injured.

The recent natural disaster and ongoing trauma with Hurricane Helene in South Carolina and other areas have been on everyone’s minds and hearts.

Each person is different in how they respond to trauma, but symptoms can include upsetting memories or flashbacks, panic, worry, sleeplessness, nightmares, and generally not feeling safe. It may be difficult to go to work or school or interact with others.

While for some, the trauma response lessens over time, others may experience ongoing trauma. Symptoms of trauma can come and go, or even resurface months or years later. This type of long-term trauma response is part of a mental health condition called post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD. Risk factors include: • Being exposed to traumatic experiences, particularly as a child • Getting hurt, or seeing others getting hurt or killed • Experiencing an event that caused horror, helplessness, or extreme fear • Having little or no social support after the event • Having increased stress after the event, such as the loss of a loved one, pain, injury, or the loss of a job or your home • Having a personal or family history of mental illness or substance use Symptoms of PTSD vary from person to person, but the disorder is typically diagnosed after at least one month of the following symptoms: At least one triggering symptom. Reliving the event and re-experiencing symptoms can feel very real and scary. Flashbacks, distressing memories or dreams, and physical signs of stress such as sweating or a 16

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racing heart are common. Seeing, smelling, or hearing something can also be trauma reminders or triggers that bring symptoms back.

At least one avoidance symptom. Avoiding things that remind you of the event may include crowds, people, places, or certain situations. Changing habits such as not driving after a car accident, not leaving the house, or staying extra busy to not think about the event are all avoidance symptoms.

At least two arousal or reactivity symptoms. Arousal symptoms include being easily startled, feeling tense, on guard, or on edge, difficulty concentrating, and difficulty falling or staying asleep. Arousal symptoms are often constant and can affect eating, sleeping, and concentration. Reactivity symptoms include feeling irritable, having angry or aggressive outbursts, or engaging in risky, reckless, or destructive behaviors.

At least two cognitive and mood symptoms. These symptoms include not remembering certain aspects of a traumatic event, experiencing ongoing negative thoughts and feelings of blame about one’s self or others, losing interest in enjoyable activities, feeling socially isolated, experiencing ongoing negative emotions like fear, anger, guilt, or shame, or having difficulty feeling positive emotions such as happiness or satisfaction.

Francheska Russell, M.Ed, LPC Francheska Russell is a behavioral health consultant at HopeHealth on Pine Needles Road and is accepting new patients.

For more information, visit us online at hope-health.org or call (843) 667-9414.

If you or anyone you know is dealing with these symptoms and they continue to interfere with daily life, it’s important to discuss this with your health care provider as soon as possible. PTSD also increases the risk for other mental health conditions, including depression, anxiety, panic disorder, substance abuse, and suicidal thoughts, or may heighten symptoms of existing conditions. Moving on from trauma can’t happen until it has been processed in a healthy way. The earlier treatment is started, the quicker a person with PTSD can begin working on strategies to feel better.

The two main treatments for PTSD include psychotherapy with a mental health professional and medications, but one or both may be included depending on the person. Developing a trusting relationship with a primary health care provider is vital to help work through the treatment process.

Your primary health care provider can refer you to a behavioral health professional who has experience working with PTSD. Working with a behavioral health professional is critical to help a person process the event and start developing a toolbox of healthy coping skills.

Therapy sessions are individualized for each person’s unique needs. Experimentation and homework are typically part of the counseling process and may include paperwork or activities to try and report back on. Depending on the outcome, the strategies may be added to the toolbox, adapted, or dropped.

Exposure therapy teaches the individual how to gradually approach fears and feelings around the event and learn that the cues and memories are not dangerous. Cognitive restructuring helps the individual make sense of the event in a realistic way since memories may skew events, and can help lessen fear, anger, guilt, blame, and shame.

Grounding techniques are helpful for dealing with discomfort and panic attacks. This means refocusing away from emotions such as fear or panic and using physical exercises to be in the present moment.

Examples of grounding techniques include counting slow breaths, naming what you see or hear, or telling

yourself out loud, “I am safe,” while gently rubbing your chest, stroking your forehead, or hugging yourself.

Having other fun or enjoyable tools can also help you manage PTSD symptoms. It is important to find enjoyable activities within an individual’s means, such as cooking, walking, pickleball, journaling, mindfulness, yoga, music, painting, or building things. Experimenting with different options will help discover what works. Often, it can be as simple as thinking about what you enjoyed as a child or something that makes you smile or feel carefree. It’s very helpful to be creative and eliminate barriers. One of my clients loved to paint as a child. Due to severe arthritis, the client could not hold a brush anymore but realized finger painting was a fun outlet.

Experimentation also means not worrying about what doesn’t work. The goal is to keep adding the tools and outlets that do work to the PTSD toolbox.

Other helpful lifestyle strategies include maintaining routines for meals, sleep, and movement, spending time in nature, avoiding alcohol and drugs, and enjoying time with trusted friends and family. Finding or returning to a faith-based organization can also be very beneficial for many people.

Setting realistic goals and focusing on what can be managed each day is essential. Using tools to manage symptoms that arise can help tremendously with symptoms over time. Expect symptoms to improve gradually as opposed to immediately. Regular visits with your health care provider are important to give updates on the treatment plan and how it’s working. Don’t ever give up hope! The journey can be long and challenging, but with good support and treatment, individuals can regain a sense of control and lead long, fulfilling lives.

If you’re ready to start your journey today, visit hopehealth.org/services/behavioral-health-services or call (843) 667-9414 to learn more about HopeHealth’s integrated behavioral health counseling services.

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AROUND TOWN: PEE DEE LAND TRUST’S 12TH ANNUAL BOUNTIFUL BRUNCH

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PDLT held the 12th annual Bountiful Brunch on a beautiful October afternoon at XIV Hands at Mont Clare, the home of Deetz and Derrell Mullins. After a gathering which included listening to live music by Longleaf Social Club, guests enjoyed fivecourses which were expertly paired with fine wines from around the world. PDLT would like to thank the Mullins for opening their home and all of the supporters who attended. PDLT would also like to thank all of the sponsors who made the day possible.

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10. Host Table: Katherine & Bright Williamson, Lydia & Buzz Lochocki, Stacy Mullins, Deetz & Derrell Mullins, Caroline & Tim Dargan 11. Rachel King, Renee King, Tim Cunningham 12. Patty Howard, Brandis Swink, Charles Howard, Woody Swink, David Dewitt, Whit Player, Bryant Sansbury, Emory Dewitt, Amy Sansbury, Beth Player 13. Matt Lee, Thomas Brodie, Rory Brodie, Gia Lee, Emily & Ryan Hicks, Janet & Shawn McKay, Jeannie & Furman Brodie 14. Carter Brand, Buddy Brand, Janet Brand, Megan Brand 15. Longleaf Social Club Band – Collin Hatcher, Kris Houser, Bill Rivers, Ken Rogerson 16. Tim Smith, Ginny Raines, Jamie Cox 17. Kasey Hancock, Sarah Vaughn, Brandi & Cal Wheeler, Jason Stephens, Peggi Davis, Whitney & Nick Davis, DawnMarie and Bob Versluys December 2024

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BUSINESS

Building Excellence with Integrity and Purpose Founded by Ted Lewis Allred III (known as Teddy), Allred Industries has grown from a modest family endeavor into a trusted full-service general contractor serving the Southeast. Headquartered in South Carolina, the company initially operated part-time as Allred Coating Company but became a full-time venture in 2021 following a pivotal career moment for Teddy.

What began as a side business has now expanded into a thriving enterprise that values high-quality craftsmanship, community connection, and a genuine dedication to its employees and clients.

Growing up in Florence, South Carolina, Teddy attended Francis Marion University, where he earned a Bachelor’s Degree in Operations Management.

His first seven years in the workforce were spent in manufacturing, where he worked as a middlelevel manager. However, in May 2021, Teddy’s role as Production Manager was cut due to budget constraints.

Reflecting on this experience, Teddy says, "I realized that the well-being of my family was dependent on the politics of the corporate ladder." This realization became the catalyst for the full-time launch of Allred Coating Company, which soon grew into Allred Industries.

Driven by a longstanding dream to create a business that could positively impact his community, Teddy embarked on building a company known not only for its services but for its integrity and purpose. With the support of his wife, Cristin, and their three children— Olivia, Blakely, and Owen—Teddy committed himself to offering clients a high-quality product, delivered on time, with a reputation for honesty and reliability.

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Brian McQueary, COO of Allred Industries who Teddy refers to as “the heartbeat of the business,” has extensive experience in the construction industry and his personal background in recovery became an invaluable asset to the company. Together, Teddy and Brian prioritized giving second chances by offering employment to individuals in recovery, with each employee undergoing a rigorous vetting process before joining the team. Teddy’s conviction in providing opportunities to those in recovery stems from his own faith and the belief that everyone deserves a second chance.

Today, Allred Industries employs around 40 people across divisions covering operations, sales, HR, and accounting, each person committed to upholding the company motto: "Excellence without Compromise."

The company services a wide range of areas in South Carolina, including the Pee Dee, Myrtle Beach, Loris, and Charleston, with an expanding presence in North Carolina and Georgia.

Allred Industries has earned a reputation for delivering excellence in commercial and residential remodeling, large-scale facility maintenance, and protective coatings. They take pride in creating spaces that not only meet but exceed client expectations. By securing a general contractor license, the business has expanded its offerings beyond painting and facility upkeep to include comprehensive construction services, from initial consultation to project completion.

No project is too big or too small for Allred Industries. The team handles everything from residential remodels to large-scale commercial projects, including a notable 100,000-squarefoot coating and epoxy floor installation at a military base in South Carolina. Regardless of the project size, Allred Industries’ commitment to quality, clear communication, and client collaboration ensures each client’s vision becomes a reality.

From the very beginning, Allred Industries has prioritized excellence in every facet of its work, whether it’s the craftsmanship, the team’s professional appearance, or their commitment to open communication.

Clients quickly notice this dedication from the first point of contact.

“Our passion for building and design drives us to create spaces that meet our clients' needs but also exceed their expectations,” says Teddy.

The company continues to maintain strong growth momentum by consistently delivering exceptional service to each customer.

Contact ALLRED INDUSTRIES:

www.allredindustries.com | (888) 725-5733

Follow on Facebook and Instagram for updates, project highlights, and a look at how Allred Industries is transforming communities, one project at a time.

For Teddy, the most rewarding part of owning Allred Industries is the chance to make a difference. He explains, “Being average and just fitting in with the mold scares me to death, so as a business owner, we have no cap on what direction we want to go and how many people we want to minister to through our services.”

Their approach to staffing and partnerships reflects this commitment.

“The Lord has blessed our business exponentially with good employees.

Yes, it’s hard managing an operation this size, but our management team is experienced and dedicated to the vision and they work endlessly to keep our projects fully staffed so that we can keep progress going for our customers,” explains Teddy. Teddy and Brian’s shared faith in building up people and communities underscores their hiring practices and the intentional culture they’ve cultivated at Allred Industries.

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CUE TO CUE RUN-THROUGH Revitalizing a Landmark: The Restoration of Hartsville’s Historic Center Theater The historic Center Theater in downtown Hartsville, South Carolina, stands as a symbol of the town’s rich cultural history and close-knit community. Since its opening in the early 1930s, this Art Deco gem has played host to a variety of performances, community events, pageants, and gatherings, serving as a key fixture in the lives of Hartsville residents for nearly a century. But in recent years, the theater has needed a major overhaul to restore its once-grand interiors and preserve its architectural beauty for future generations. Now, with a carefully planned restoration nearing completion, the Center Theater is on track to reopen in the fall of 2025, poised to become a beacon of entertainment and culture once more.

A Community Hub for Over 90 Years The Center Theater was originally envisioned by the Hartsville Chamber of Commerce as a grand community venue where residents could gather for social events, movies, and live performances. Built with loans from the Public Works Administration, it was designed in an elegant Art Deco style, featuring sleek lines, geometric shapes, and a grand auditorium with over 800 seats. For years, it was the place to experience the magic of film, as well as live performances from iconic figures like Johnny Cash, Loretta Lynn, and even the Trapp Family Singers. Whether it was the latest Hollywood film, a local theater production, or a concert, the Center Theater was the place where memories were made.

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Through its early decades, the theater was a hive of activity, hosting everything from high school graduations to civic events and touring musical acts. In the 1980s, the Hartsville Community Players began performing at the theater, and it became a cherished spot for pageants and talent shows, including the long-standing Miss Hartsville pageant, which has raised funds for scholarships and community programs. But despite its cultural significance, the theater has weathered decades of wear and tear. By 2020, the need for repairs and upgrades became unavoidable, and a large-scale restoration effort was launched.

making it a space that can meet the needs of modern performances,” Cranford adds.

A Restoration Rooted in History and Community The restoration process has been a labor of love, involving countless hours from local volunteers, historic preservationists, and skilled craftspeople. Led by the theater’s manager, Kim Cranford, along with chairman of the building commission Ben Gore, the project has required meticulous planning, with each stage aimed at preserving the theater’s original charm while bringing its facilities up to modern standards.

In addition to structural upgrades, significant improvements have been made to enhance the theater’s acoustics and technical capabilities. A state-of-theart sound system, valued at over $250,000, has been installed, allowing for clear, professional-quality sound that can support everything from small productions to major concerts. “With this sound system, world-class artists won’t need to bring in extra equipment,” Cranford notes. “It’s a huge step forward in transforming the theater into a top-tier venue.”

“The first year and a half of the project was dedicated to stabilizing the building,” explains Cranford. Extensive repairs to the roof and foundational structure were necessary to prevent water damage and flooding, which had become major issues over the years. Windows had to be custom-made to match the original Art Deco style, and paint was painstakingly stripped from the walls to reveal the building’s initial color palette. “Our goal is to preserve the theater’s historic character while

Accessibility has also been a major focus of the restoration. New wheelchair ramps, an accessible viewing platform, and a soon-to-be-installed elevator will make the theater more inclusive, ensuring that people of all ages and abilities can enjoy its offerings.

The theater will also feature LED lighting and new, comfortable seating designed to replicate the original look of the auditorium while offering enhanced comfort and visibility.

The architectural firm McMillan Pazdan Smith, known for its work on historic buildings across the state, was brought on to ensure that the restoration was faithful to the theater’s original design. From restoring vintage lighting fixtures to selecting paint colors, no detail was too small in the effort to maintain the building’s historical integrity. One of the project’s highlights is the newly installed chandelier in the lobby, an Art Deco masterpiece donated by a local family. “The chandelier is truly a centerpiece; it captures the elegance and nostalgia of the theater’s heyday,” says Gore.

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A Community United by the Center Theater While the restoration has required substantial financial resources, the Hartsville community has come together to make it possible. Local organizations and residents have stepped up to contribute, with major grants from the Byerly Foundation, which provided $500,000, and the South Carolina Arts Commission, which contributed $1 million. Other local supporters, including Sonoco and Leadership Hartsville, have also been instrumental, along with countless individual donations.

The Friends of the Center Theater, also known as Center Stage, spearheaded grassroots fundraising initiatives that have allowed community members to feel personally connected to the project. “We wanted everyone in Hartsville to feel like they could contribute,” says Nancy McGee, a board member for Center Stage. Through creative fundraising, locals could purchase engraved bricks and commemorative seat plaques, allowing their names to be part of the theater for years to come. “It’s wonderful to see people come forward to support something that means so much to all of us,” McGee adds. Fundraising continues to support the renovations. Find opportunites at www.thecentertheater.com.

The theater’s historical importance extends beyond its architecture; it is woven into the fabric of Hartsville’s identity. Residents look forward to the return of beloved community events like Darlington County’s Dancing with the Stars and annual holiday performances by the Hartsville Community Players, both of which have drawn audiences from across the region.

Cranford explains, “The theater has always been more than just a building; it’s a gathering place, a venue that brings us all together. With these renovations, we can attract even more diverse performances and events that will benefit the entire region.”

Looking Ahead: A Bright Future for Hartsville’s Cultural Heart As the Center Theater’s plans for reopening in 2025 draws closer, the excitement among residents and local artists is palpable. Plans are already underway to expand programming to include concerts, plays, comedy shows, and film screenings, catering to a variety of interests and age groups. Cranford and his team envision a calendar filled with events that bring people together, from family-friendly movie nights to high-profile concerts and even regional theater festivals.

Once the doors open, Hartsville’s Center Theater will be ready to welcome a new generation of theatergoers while honoring the countless memories of those who have come before. Through hard work, community support, and a dedication to preserving history, the theater is on the verge of a grand return, promising to offer Hartsville the best of entertainment and cultural experiences for years to come.

JOIN US FRIDAY, JANUARY 17TH 6:30PM - 10:30PM Shag lessons: 5:30pm-6:30pm

presents SHAGGING WITH THE EMBERS FEATURING CRAIG WOOLARD 212 N Fifth Street, Hartsville For more info, visit thecentertheater.com.

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The Art of Repurposing

Les Baker's Journey from Firefighter to Artisan in Society Hill In the heart of Society Hill, South Carolina, just a few hundred yards from his childhood home, you’ll find Les Baker’s workshop—Piece of Work. The building that houses his shop is filled with memories, as it’s the same old fire department where he watched trucks rush off to emergencies when he was a child. Today, he continues his passion for service as a full-time Captain with the City of Hartsville Fire Department, while also working part-time as a Paramedic for Darlington County EMS. But it’s in his workshop, nestled along Main Street, that Les has transformed his love for problem-solving into a creative pursuit.

Growing up in Society Hill, Les spent his youth alongside family friend Henry Hudson. Together, they cruised around town in an old pickup truck, scouring the small town’s trash cans and dumps for aluminum cans and other discarded materials. The duo would make about $1,000 a year collecting beer and soda cans.

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While Henry taught him the value hidden in discarded objects, Les’s father, Lamar Baker—known around the shop as “Ole Lamar” or “Dead-e”—impressed upon him the importance of hard work and precision. These lessons, combined with the influence of Jerry “Private” Morgan’s practical wisdom, inspired Les to pursue his unique vision.

With a Bachelor’s Degree in Fire Science, Les is no stranger to tackling challenges head-on. His passion for figuring out problems shines through in the projects he takes on at Piece of Work. “It's fairly easy to take raw materials and build something,” Les says. “But there is something rewarding in the whole thought of repurposing while creating something wonderful and meaningful.” His background in emergency services has given him a problem-solving mindset that he applies to each piece, turning the challenge of creating something new from salvaged materials into a rewarding experience.

Les's workshop stands out in its approach to material use, combining wood and metal in ways most shops don’t. He draws on both raw materials and reclaimed items, blending these elements to create unique pieces that are as much a tribute to their origins as they are to his craftsmanship. Each piece tells a story, a reflection of the materials' past lives and the care put into transforming them.

What makes Les’s work truly special is the connection he builds with both his clients and the materials. “There are a variety of reasons to be motivated about projects,” he shares. “It could be the emotion of the client, the challenges of figuring something out or doing something different, or even the connection we have with the materials or objects we choose.” For Les, the process is a journey that involves constant learning and collaboration, whether he’s developing a custom piece or restoring a cherished object.

One project that stands out is the Gainey Well Drilling Windmill. This piece holds a deep sentimental value for the community of Society Hill, representing the hard work and ingenuity of those who built and operated it.

Les took on the challenge of transforming this piece, using nearly every tool and machine in his shop, and in doing so, he taught himself new skills and pushed the boundaries of what his workshop could achieve. The windmill now stands as a testament to the spirit of the town and Les’s dedication to his craft.

Since opening Piece of Work, Les has seen the business evolve, but his commitment to connecting with

clients and honoring the materials he works with has remained constant. “Like anything else, the more we do it, the level of perfection only gets better,” he says. The shop itself has grown to include new tools and processes, allowing Les to take on larger and more intricate projects that challenge his abilities and show off the craftsmanship his clients have come to appreciate.

Though his schedule is often dictated by his shifts at the fire department, Les makes time for his craft, opening the shop on most days when he’s not on duty. The storefront, located at 150 N. Main Street in Society Hill, is easy to spot thanks to the distinctive pieces displayed along the roadway. For those who prefer to browse online, Les shares his latest creations on social media, where clients can inquire about purchasing available works or discuss custom commissions.

As a creative who finds inspiration in those around him, Les is always looking for new projects to take on.

“Halloween is our favorite time of the year for projects,” he says, his enthusiasm evident. Currently, he’s working on restoring a large illuminated sign from downtown Bennettsville, a piece that will undoubtedly add to the atmosphere of his shop’s outdoor space.

For Les, the real reward isn’t just in crafting unique pieces; it’s in the relationships he builds with his clients and the stories each piece carries. Whether he’s repurposing a salvaged object or bringing a client’s vision to life, he remains dedicated to his craft, embodying the same values of hard work and ingenuity that shaped him from the start.

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DECEMBER Sunday

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Through December 26 Lights 4 Paws 3251 Mears Dr, Florence

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History Fields 1971, The Continuum, Lake City

Holiday Pops Extravaganza, Watson Theate, Hartsville

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December 8 & 15 The Christmas Star, Dooley Planetarium, Florence

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Christmas Tree Lighting & Parade, City of Dillon

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Yoga with Susan Weesner, Grand Ole Post Office, Darlington

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Duo Breve, Flute and Harp, Mule Stables, Lake City

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Pee Dee Author Expo, Florence Public Library

Open Mic Night (every Thur.)

Lula’s Coffee-Southside, Florence

Holiday Bookshop, Florence Public Library

Christmas Celebration, Florence Baptist Temple, Florence

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Love Hospice Tree Lighting, McLeod Reg'l Medical Ctr, Florence

Sock Day

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Cyber Monday

Florence Lions Club Toy Run, Florence Center

Bonsai 101, Growing Hobby, Florence

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Music Bingo with Travis, Wild Heart Brewing, Hartsville

Florence Family YMCA Online Silent Auction begins

Central UMChurch, Florence

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Trivia Tuesday (every Tues.), Local Motive Brewing, Florence

Disney On Ice, Florence Center

December 7-8 8 A Masterworks Christmas,

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Trivia (every Wed.), Seminar Brewing, Florence

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Karlos Karaoke, Green Frog Social, Lake City

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Florence Symphony – Holiday Pops, FMU PAC, Florence 7:30p

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City-Center Farmers Market, Downtown Florence Every Saturday, 9a-12p Darlington Farmer's Market, 103 Pearl St. Every Thursday, 3p-7p

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Karlos Karaoke, Green Frog Social, Lake City

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December 6-8 Hometown Holidays Lake City, Downtown Lake City Downtown Christmas Magic Downtown Florence December 6-8 Seussical Jr., Florence Little Theatre

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Florence Little Theatre

Art & Yoga Night for Kids, Wholly Beautiful, Florence December 13-14 South Carolina Dance Theatre's The Nutcracker Ballet, FMU PAC, Florence

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Christmas Parade, Downtown Hartsville

Christmas Market, PD State Farmers Mkt, Florence Christmas Festival, Darlington Square Bluegrass Music, Back Swamp School House, Florence Pee Dee Tubachristmas Concert, St. Luke Lutheran Church, Florence Holidays on Main, of Bishopville 14 Town 5K Run & Walk, Hartsville Memorial Library Breakfast with Santa, High Park Church, Florence Repack the Backpack, Darlington Raceway Pictures with the Grinch, Black Jack HD, Florence

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Call a Friend Day

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BAJA JOE’S COASTAL GRILL & CANTINA: Omar Onate’s Fusion Dream Comes to Life in Florence Omar, a beloved figure in the Florence dining scene for over 30 years, is expanding his culinary reach with a new restaurant venture, Baja Joe’s Coastal Grill & Cantina. Known as the owner of both Margarita’s locations in Florence, with additional locations in Myrtle Beach and Conway, Omar has deep roots in the community and has built his career on bringing unique, flavorful experiences to the area. His new restaurant, Baja Joe’s, combines upscale fusion cuisine with a vibrant waterfront atmosphere— a long-time dream for Omar, inspired by his frequent visits to the site when it was known as Creek Ratz.

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An Ambitious Dream Realized The concept for Baja Joe’s has been in Omar's mind for years, sparked by his fascination with the former Creek Ratz building and its waterfront location. “I loved the idea of being on the water and the potential it had. I’d always tell myself, ‘One day, I’m going to own this place,’” says Omar. Now, after three years of extensive remodeling, his vision is finally a reality. With custom renovations from floor to ceiling, Baja Joe’s is set to be a premier destination for the Florence community. Seating approximately 250 guests, the space offers both indoor and outdoor dining options, with plans for a future expansion of the outdoor area for private events and gatherings. Be prepared as mouthwatering aromas greet you from outside followed by a full visual overload with the newly renovated space.

A Fusion Menu for Every Palate Baja Joe’s stands out not only for its ambiance but also for its eclectic menu. With a fusion of Mexican, Italian, American, Thai, and Japanese cuisines, the restaurant offers something for everyone, from steak lovers to sushi enthusiasts. Dishes range from poke bowls, salads and low-country boils to upscale items like bone marrow, lamb chops and cowboy ribeyes. The diverse menu also includes a selection of non-alcoholic specialty slushie drinks, making it an enjoyable spot for all ages.

Presentation is a key part of the experience, with dishes plated on beautiful tableware and adorned with edible flowers. “The menu has so many options that guests will want to return multiple times just to try everything,” Omar says.

A Unique Bar Experience For those looking for unique drinks, Baja Joe’s bar menu won’t disappoint.

The selection includes a variety of custom cocktails, craft beers, and an impressive tequila and whiskey collection. Some of the signature drinks feature playful twists, such as cotton candy-topped cocktails and smokeinfused drinks for a touch of drama.

Baja Joe’s also offers alcoholic drinks on Sundays, adding to its appeal as a weekend hangout spot.

A Family and Community-Centric Business Omar’s passion for family and community is at the heart of Baja Joe’s.

Many of the staff members are loyal employees, family, and friends, making the restaurant feel like a welcoming place for guests to relax and enjoy themselves.

Omar emphasizes that the restaurant was designed with the community in mind. “I love Florence, and I always support it,” he says. Baja Joe’s is meant to be a space for all occasions— whether it’s a business meeting, a date night, or a family gathering. For those interested in hosting larger events, such as holiday parties, the restaurant can accommodate sizable groups in

their upstairs level, which includes a full, private bar. Occasional low-key live music will be scheduled to enhance the atmosphere without overwhelming conversation.

Operating Hours and Atmosphere Baja Joe’s will be open for lunch from 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., then reopen for dinner from 5 p.m. to 10:30 p.m., Tuesday through Sunday, with Monday as a day of rest for the staff. The atmosphere is upscale yet relaxed, ideal for social gatherings and special occasions. Omar hopes the unique fusion style and the warm, welcoming ambiance will make Baja Joe’s a staple in Florence.

Looking Forward Baja Joe’s Coastal Bar & Cantina isn’t just a restaurant; it’s a testament to Omar’s dedication to Florence to offering a quality dining experience.

With its thoughtfully curated fusion menu, unique cocktails, and inviting atmosphere, Baja Joe’s is poised to become a local favorite, fulfilling Omar’s dream and bringing something new and exciting to the Florence dining scene.

Baja Joe's Coastal Grill & Cantina will open December 2, 2024 at 2001 South Cashua Drive in Florence.

Omar and his team look forward to serving all of you. To stay updated on Baja Joe's, like us on Facebook.

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From Army Veteran to Carolina Donut Diva:

JEANETTE COVINGTON DEMPSEY Jeanette Covington Dempsey’s journey from Army service to local entrepreneur is one filled with dedication, resilience, and a deep love for her family and community. Born in Raeford, North Carolina, and raised in Hope Mills, Jeanette spent much of her early years surrounded by a large family of eleven, where everyone pitched in to cook and clean—a foundation that would shape her strong work ethic and creative spirit.

Jeanette joined the U.S. Army in May 1986 with a vision of serving 20 years. Her path took her across the globe, with assignments at Fort Jackson, Fort Campbell, Fort Drum, Fort Gillem, Fort Gordon (now named Fort Eisenhower), and Fort Wainwright, and she was stationed in Korea four times. Transitioning roles from Administrative Specialist to Intelligence Analyst and Security NCO, she rose to the rank of Sergeant First Class (E7), retiring after 21 years of dedicated service.

During her time in the Army, she completed her degree in Public Administration with an emphasis in Criminal Justice from Brenau University. Jeanette’s Army career also included two deployments to Kuwait, where she served with resilience and strength, embodying the spirit of dedication and adaptability that would later define her civilian career.

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Upon retiring in 2007, Jeanette transitioned into a role with Child, Youth, and School Services (CYSS) as an Administrative Specialist and later as an Instructional Programs Specialist at Fort Wainwright and Fort Jackson. It was here that she became a certified Health & Safety instructor, motivated by personal experience. Her father’s unexpected passing in 2001 drove her to ensure that her children—and others—could be prepared to assist in emergencies. She founded Columbia CPR, LLC, providing crucial health and safety training to individuals and organizations throughout North and South Carolina, Georgia, and beyond.

In 2019, inspired by her love of baking and a desire to explore something new, Jeanette launched *Carolina Donut Diva*, a venture that would bring her closer to her son and reconnect her with her roots in family cooking.

Discovering an ad for Lil Orbits mini donut machines, Jeanette was intrigued by the opportunity to start a flexible, recession-proof business. She began selling mini donuts at local farmers markets and events, quickly developing a following for her creative flavors like “Donut Be Cinna Suga,” “Donut Be Dusty Suga,” and her personal favorite, “Donut Be Apple Cider.”

Jeanette & her son, Jeffery

Her journey with Carolina Donut Diva has been a rewarding family affair, with her son Jeffrey as her business partner. Working side-by-side has strengthened their bond, with Jeffrey managing equipment and helping make the mobile donut shop a popular feature at local events. Together, they’ve expanded the menu to include lemonade, Café Du Monde coffee, and more, always adding personal touches to make each experience memorable.

Jeanette even rebuilt a camper she bought on Facebook for $250 with her son, transforming it into a mobile business to share her donuts far and wide.

Jeanette’s commitment to personal interaction has been key to Carolina Donut Diva’s success.

Serving from a tent so customers can watch their donuts being freshly prepared, she ensures that each interaction is warm and personal. This approach, which she calls the “calm to her storm,” has made her tent a favorite among children and adults alike at the City Center Farmers Market in Florence, SC, where they are regulars two to three times a month.

Jeanette’s story is one of resilience and reinvention, from her years of military service to her journey as a business owner, mom, grandmother, and “fur mom” to her three beloved dogs—Kirby, Skye, and Hercules. Balancing her work with Carolina Donut Diva and her role as a certified Health & Safety instructor, she’s a vital part of her community, always seeking ways to serve others.

Whether sharing her love of donuts or teaching life-saving skills, Jeanette Covington Dempsey embodies a commitment to service, family, and community—values that inspire all who meet her.

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HIGH COTTON SALON & BOUTIQUE, DARLINGTON

HOLIDAY SHOPPING IN THE PEE DEE REGION

Shopping in the Pee Dee region of South Carolina offers a delightful mix of experiences, from charming local boutiques and antique shops to bustling malls and outlet centers. Visitors can explore a variety of national retailers or stroll through downtown areas to discover unique, locally-owned stores. With a range of shopping options, the Pee Dee region caters to every taste and budget, making it a shopper’s paradise. Plan to visit these shops and more this holiday season!

FLORENCE COUNTY: Wukela’s House of Clocks, 403 2nd Loop Rd, Florence www.wukelashouseofclocks.com Beautiful mantel designs, extravagant trees, and the most adorable cuckoo clocks… Wukela’s House of Clocks is the perfect place to find a gift for your loved ones. Their motto is “Quality merchandise at affordable prices.”

BOLD & SASSY Boutique, 109 N Acline St, Lake City BOLD & SASSY is a ladies and children’s boutique offering upscale clothing, shoes and accessories. Their large selection of fashion forward clothing and jewelry will delight any young lady and woman.

MARION COUNTY: Aster Grey Boutique, www.astergreyboutique.shop Sets, dresses, sweaters, and accessories, Aster Grey has it all! Their Christmas collection of women’s clothing will be the highlight of any holiday party.

Hulon Jewelers, 325 N Main St, Marion | www.hulonjewelers.com Hulon Jewelers is family owned and operated since 1968. They have an abundance of fine jewelry items in stock. They also offer a full-service repair department on site.

Their bench jeweler has 20 years of experience, no job is too small or too big.

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DARLINGTON COUNTY: High Cotton Salon and Boutique, 114 Cashua Street, Darlington | www.highcottondarlington.com HIGH COTTON SALON & BOUTIQUE

Grow your community…buy local. We are a family owned business conveniently located off the Public Square in Darlington, SC. While we invite you to stop by our shop, unfortunately we do not ship or do online sales at this time.

However, if you see something on our Facebook page you are interested in, give us a call and we will do our bests to work with you. Your satisfaction is what we strive for!

Palmetto Furniture Company, 319 N Main St, Society Hill www.palmettofurniturecompany.com Palmetto Furniture Company is located in historic Society Hill. The company was founded in 1937 by the late Fred Auman. The business was originally a chair factory.

Palmetto Furniture is now a wholesale warehouse operation as well as a retail furniture store. The business continues to represent many well-known furniture manufacturers and prides itself on providing quality furniture at reasonable prices to its customer.

PALMETTO FURNITURE COMPANY

WILLIAMSBURG COUNTY: Mia & Beau’s, 137 N Academy St, Kingstree www.miaandbeaus.com

Looky Loo, 117 W Home Ave, Hartsville www.lookyloovintage.com Looks Loo offers a beautiful vintage and boutique shopping experience. Visit their Facebook page to see new items dropping in the shop daily as well as a delicious lunch special. Shopping and dining, all in one location.

DILLON COUNTY: Missy’s Silks “n” Gifts, 1523 Highway 9 W, Dillon Missy’s Silks “n” Gifts is a Christmas paradise. Stop in to see the latest in Christmas decor!

LEE COUNTY: Accidental Artist In The Blue Moon Gallery, 247 N Main St, Bishopville fb.com/theaccidentalartistsc For unique and creative gifts, Accidental Artist is your place to shop! It’s also a great place to include the kiddos for fun art projects.

“Our wish is that each customer becomes a friend.

We hope the women and men styled by M&B feel confident and empowered,” says owners Grace and Sarah. Mia & Beau’s carries an assortment of ladies apparel, menswear and gifts.

MARLBORO COUNTY: Gifts and More, 209 E Main St, Bennettsville Bring your home into the full circle of Christmas with candles from Gifts and More in Bennettsville.

They also have a collection of women’s clothing and accessories that will wrap perfectly under your tree.

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TOP 9 BOOKS

That Make Great Christmas Gifts Children’s/Kids (0–12) Corduroy by Don Freeman (ages 2–8): A widely

loved classic that has delighted generations of readers.

Special editions include versions packaged with a plush Corduroy bear, making it an extra-special gift.

The Chronicles of Narnia 7-book set by C.S. Lewis (ages 7+): This multi-book fantasy series offers rich themes and phenomenal world-building. These books can be enjoyed by both children and adults, making them perfect for shared family reading.

Redwall by Brian Jacques (ages 10+): This beloved fantasy book series features a total of 22 novels, providing a gift that continues to give long after Christmas morning.

Young Adults (13–18) The Hobbit & The Lord of the Rings

by J.R.R. Tolkien (fantasy): These timeless works of fantasy appeal to both young adults and adults.

Multiple editions are available, ranging from affordable paperbacks to high-end limited or first editions. Noted philosopher Peter Kreeft has remarked on the joy of rereading the series annually.

Anne of Green Gables by L.M. Montgomery

(classic; romance): A timeless romance novel considered one of the best in young adult literature.

Various editions and formats make this a versatile gift choice.

The Naturals by Jennifer Barnes (mystery): The first

installment in a four-book mystery series, this is a fanfavorite for young adult readers.

Adults The Ransom Trilogy by C.S. Lewis (sci-fi/fantasy): A lesser-known gem by one of the most talented fantasy writers of the 20th century, this trilogy offers exceptional world-building alongside thoughtprovoking themes on human nature. Trilogy is also known as The Space Trilogy.

The Count of Monte Cristo by Alexandre Dumas 152 S Dargan Street, Florence www.shopjacksbooks.com

Jack’s Books will also offer to emboss books with a special Merry Christmas from Jack’s Books during the holiday season. Gift cards are available so that your loved ones can purchase their own favorite books, too!

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(classic; adventure): This classic adventure novel is both engaging and accessible. Multiple editions are available, including an abridged version for readers who may be hesitant about the length of the unabridged version.

Pride & Prejudice by Jane Austen (classic;

romance): Arguably the most beloved romance novel of the last 200 years, this literary treasure is available in numerous formats and editions, making it a delightful gift that can be revisited time and again.

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Something to Celebrate...

Lawton Park Pickleball Courts Opens in Hartsville On November 12th, the City of Hartsville, SC Parks and Recreation celebrated the Grand Opening of the Lawton Park Pickleball Courts. 8 new pickleball courts were installed at 716 Crestwood Dr, Hartsville.

Micky Finn's Announces Their Newest Development, The Sapphire Room Micky Finn's has been making a lot of moves over the past 14 months. From opening a third location across from Buc-cee's to generous donations to a number of local charitable causes and a Bourbon Barrel Pick Program that is by far the largest in area, there's always something new coming from the Florence area institution.

But the most recent development from Micky Finn's may be the biggest yet.

Asset Technology Group Has Ribbon Cutting

Micky Finn's is announcing the opening of The Sapphire Room, a long awaited addition to the Florence area, coming after years of requests from locals for just such a facility.

Bill Lynch founder and CEO of Asset Technology Group along with family, friends, business associates, employees and Chamber Ambassadors cut the ribbon opening their new location at 901 Second Loop Road.

Located directly behind Micky Finn's' Southside location on Pamplico Highway, The Sapphire Room will function primarily as an event center. The facility will contain ample room for business meetings, wedding receptions, birthday parties, family reunions and more.

The Sapphire Room will offer tables and seating as well as an optional bar. In addition, the facility will have high speed internet and large screen TV's. Micky Finn's and The Sapphire Room are committed to maintaining the latest technology available so that any event, business meeting or social gathering, goes off without a hitch.

Bill and his team Originally known as “Advanced Computer Solutions,” was founded in 2005 built upon the motto, “Consulting for your best interest.” Since 2005, the company has grown from owner Bill Lynch just marketing himself going door to door on foot to a full-service Managed Services Provider with a team of educated Engineers. Today, their true desire to provide the best service with the best interest of the client in mind is still what fuels the team.

Asset Technology Group Managed Services and 24/7 Support is THE SOLUTION to your frustrations. They get to know their client’s business needs and take their technology to the next level, customizing a plan that is the perfect fit- looking forward to the future and anticipating growth and success.

Their new state-of-the-art facility houses the expertise needed to provide all-inclusive IT services giving you predictable budgeting with a monthly rate including hardware and software updates. Their support and managed services offer managed firewalls to prevent potential online threats to your business with a wide range of application control, antivirus, antispyware and antispam protection.

Their understanding of Managed Services and level of expertise offer stability and allow you to have peace of mind.

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Catering will also be available through Tubb's and King Jefe, two locally owned Florence restaurants, both of which are known for their food quality and service.

While The Sapphire Room will stand out as the premiere event center in Florence, there is another aspect of the facility that makes it stand out the most, particularly the manner in which it is affiliated with Micky Finn's.

In early August, Micky Finn's announced a series of Bartending workshops to take place over the subsequent weeks. To say the response from the public was overwhelmingly positive is an understatement. Just after the first announcement, a thousand people signed up for the classes, forcing Micky Finn's to open new classes in new locations.

Enter Micky Finn's' new venture.

The Sapphire Room will function as the campus for all of Micky Finn's' bartending workshops and bartending classes going forward. The facility will have the space, setup, and materials needed for even more effective classes and an easier space for students to focus and learn the craft and science of bartending.

Even more unique, however, is the fact that the Sapphire Room will be host to Micky Finn's Bourbon Barrel tastings, the events where Micky Finn's tastes and selects the barrels for its Bourbon Barrel Pick Programs that will eventually be bottled and sold exclusively at Micky Finn's locations.

If you are celebrating a positive achievement or have been awarded for a newsworthy accomplishment, email Heather Page at heather@vipmagsc.com.

Vital Care of Florence Holds Ribbon Cutting Vital Care of Florence had their ribbon cutting officially opening their Florence location at 161 Dozier Blvd, Florence, SC. Vital Care of Florence is proud to provide safe, convenient, and comprehensive infusion therapy services tailored to meet each patient's unique needs. With a commitment to excellence, Vital Care of Florence offers infusion treatments in the comfort of patients’ homes or in its private infusion suite, ensuring a seamless and personalized care experience.

Vital Care of Florence stands out through its exclusive relationships with leading pharmaceutical manufacturers and limited distribution agreements, allowing unparalleled access to a broad spectrum of therapies. The center specializes in treating conditions such as infections, autoimmune diseases, chronic inflammatory disorders, neurological conditions, and more.

Partnered with major insurance providers— including Aetna, Cigna, Humana, United Healthcare, and various state and regional plans, Vital Care of Florence facilitates comprehensive coverage and peace of mind for its patients.

Accredited by ACHC for its ambulatory infusion center and pharmacy services, including sterile compounding, Vital Care of Florence upholds the highest standards of care and safety.

The center emphasizes direct, responsive communication with patients and providers to ensure personalized service.

Palmetto Smiles Honors Kerns Restaurant Opens in Mullins In November, Tony’s Grill in Mullins celebrated their ribbon cutting with the Mullins Chamber of Commerce. “We appreciate Bo McMillan opening a new business in Mullins with delicious food and such a friendly staff,” quoted the Chamber. Tony’s Grill will be open Monday through Friday from 8am til 3pm.

25th Annual Cancer Benefit Raises More Than $154,000 for the McLeod HOPE Fund Providing thousands of cancer patients in the region with assistance related to transportation, medications, nutrition and personal financial challenges, the McLeod HOPE (Helping Oncology Patients Everyday) Fund benefits oncology patient support services and provides oncology staff with improved access for immediate needs for their patients.

This is made possible annually through gifts directed to the HOPE Fund.

Leadership Hartsville Packs Bags for Carolina's Kids The Greater Hartsville Chamber of Commerce is volunteering with different nonprofit organizations from now until Christmas. On November 15th, they took Leadership Hartsville to pack weekend food bags at Carolina’s Kids, Inc. Every weekend (and holidays), Carolina’s Kids sends food bags home with 404 students across 11 elementary schools in the Darlington County School District. This year marks 15 years of providing these vital resources to students! Help is needed to cover their weekly food order, which totals $1,400. If you would like to contribute, please send your donation to Carolina Kids, P.O. Box 28, Hartsville, SC 29551. They are also always collecting clothing for children, and during the holiday season are accepting gently used or new toys! Thank you for your continued support as we work together to make a difference in the lives of these students!

Most recently, the 25th Annual An Evening of Hope raised more than $154,000 to further assist patients through the HOPE Fund.

Held in September at the Francis Marion University Performing Arts Center, the event included inspirational video testimonials featuring Cancer Survivors Joe Bibbo, Leroy Blackwell, Michael Branham, Helen Gooden, Lynne Head and Daryn Sasser. Attendees were also entertained by Fran Coleman and the Emerald Empire Band with celebrity guest performances by McLeod Oncologist Dr. Rajesh Bajaj, Cancer Survivor Sharmeika McDuffie, the “Shirelles” and the “Drifters” from the Florence Little Theatre Production of Beautiful, The Carole King Musical.

Proceeds from the evening benefit the HOPE Fund. Gifts made in support of the HOPE (Helping Oncology Patients Everyday) Fund benefit oncology patient support services and provide oncology staff with improved access for immediate assistance needs for their patients. Since its establishment in 2014, the HOPE Fund has helped thousands of patients with needs such as transportation, medications, nutrition and unique personal financial challenges.

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HEALTH + WELLNESS LIFESTYLE

THE HOLIDAYS, UNDERAGE DRINKING AND YOUR ADOLESCENT story by Erica Buffkin, Prevention Specialist II, Circle Park Behavioral Health Services The holiday season is a time for joy, celebration, and cherished traditions. Families come together, friends reconnect, and festive gatherings are in full swing. However, it’s also a time when young people are more likely to have access to alcohol—and sometimes even try it for the first time. While some teens may get alcohol from friends, others may take advantage of alcohol that’s been purchased for holiday parties or that’s kept in the home.

Unfortunately, underage drinking is all too common during the holiday season, especially during events like Blackout Wednesday (the night before Thanksgiving), Christmas, and New Year’s Eve. According to the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA), over 11,000 young people between the ages of 12 and 17 will try alcohol for the first time on an average day in December. Tragically, alcohol-related incidents remain a leading cause of death among teens, with

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over 300 teens dying every month due to alcoholrelated causes.

Teens who drink are more likely to engage in risky behaviors, such as violence, unsafe sexual activity, and driving under the influence. They are also at a higher risk of being involved in car accidents. In fact, those who begin drinking before the age of 15 are 50% more likely to develop alcohol dependence as adults. This risk decreases slightly for those who begin drinking between the ages of 15 and 17, but it’s still a significant concern, according to the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA).

As we celebrate the season with our loved ones, let’s stay mindful of the impact that alcohol can have on young people’s health and safety. Parents can help to avoid underage drinking incidents during the holidays by utilizing a few of the following tips:

Circle Park Behavioral Health Services provides a broad range of behavioral health services, with emphasis on educational programs and counseling related to alcohol, tobacco and other drug abuse, and on family therapy.

• Be clear with your expectations; let your child know that regardless of the situation, underage drinking and/or being at a location where it is taking place is simply illegal, often dangerous and unacceptable.

• Teach your children it is not necessary to have alcohol to have a good time. Plan and provide a non-alcoholic kid friendly holiday party in your home.

• Help your children serve and enjoy traditional holiday drinks without alcohol such as cider, eggnog or punch.

For parents of underage youth, it is important to monitor all temptations with the social activities that accompany the holiday season. It is important to pay close attention to the age of anyone consuming alcohol. A few tips to help with this would be: • Never serve alcohol or have it available to anyone under the age of 21.

• If you maintain alcohol at home, make sure to always keep track of your supply and lock away if possible.

• Establish a friendly relationship with the parents of your children’s friends so that you can call ahead and make sure alcohol will not be involved in the parties or activities your child may be attending and that appropriate supervision will be on hand.

• Make sure your child maintains healthy friendships and has friends who choose not to make alcohol a part of their holiday season.

Research shows that parents are the number one influence in their children’s lives and the choices they make. Clear and direct communication, boundaries and monitoring often prove to be the most important factors in preparing youth to avoid high risk situations.

Furthermore, commitment to the consequences of set expectations allows for healthy boundaries and better functioning families which are protective factors for prevention of underage drinking.

Join us in helping all youth to have a happy and safe holiday season by supporting smart and healthy choices!

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OUT & ABOUT: Photographs by Penelope are actual documentation of the beauty nature offers and are never staged or Photoshopped.

Where is the BEST Place to Make December Your Favorite Time to Remember All of 2024? story and photography by Penelope Penn South Carolina offers a December to Remember with exciting events coast to coast. Though many remember South Carolina for the beach that borders its coast, don’t forget the possibility of a white Christmas high in the Blue Ridge Mountains on our northwestern border to make it the holiday place to be and to see.

Start your adventure with a stimulating dip in the chilly ocean, hovering in the 50s if you dare. The almost two-mile-long oceanfront boardwalk is beautiful but will never be more attractive than during the Winter Wonderland festival and will keep you entertained from November 29 to January 4. For details visit, www.myrtlebeach.com. There’s an excellent map to download with all events’ locations at www. winterwonderlandatthebeach.com.

The popular festival is full of fun for the entire family.

Don’t forget the grandparents when it begins November 29 with a beautiful lights display at the Second Avenue Pier. The official tree lighting will happen on November 30, beginning at 5:00 p.m. at Plyler Park, 1,000 Ocean Blvd in Myrtle Beach.

There’s another tree lighting and festivities on December 1, 4-7 p.m. at the Garden of Hope at 1395 Carver Street, Myrtle Beach.

A holiday market will line the streets of Nance Plaza every Saturday for unique and handmade gifts.

On December 7 a Holiday Drone Show in Plyler Park from 5-9 p.m. will inspire all with exciting technology in the most beautiful way.

To make room for more delicious holiday fare, there’s a Twinkling Two-Miler Run on December 11 at 6 p.m. that begins at 1,000 Ocean Blvd in Myrtle Beach.

On December 12, join the “Light Up the Night Slow Roll” if you’d rather roll than stroll in beautiful downtown Myrtle Beach. Deck out your bike and meet at Grand Strand Brewing Co. (GSB) at 6 p.m. for a leisurely ride through the festivities and meet everyone back at GSB for more holiday fun including trivia. GSB is located at 819 N Kings Hwy Unit 101 in Myrtle Beach. For more information, call 843-839-2801.

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There's no better place or time to rekindle relationships and find peace and joy in 2024

On December 13 and 14, Polar Express Night at the historic Myrtle Beach Train Depot at 851 Broadway Street in Myrtle Beach happens from 5-9 p.m. and features the Movie Under the Stars on December 14.

Bring chairs and blankets if desired.

To learn more about the Gullah traditions and culture that shaped our state, Ron and Natalie Daise will delight and inspire when they present a Gullah Christmas on December 14 at Nance Plaza at the intersection of Kings Hwy and 9th Avenue North in downtown Myrtle Beach before Polar Express Night.

Winter Wonderland Carolers can be enjoyed on December 22 from 2-5 p.m. and a live performance of The Grinch Who Stole Christmas is on December 22 from 3:30-5:30 p.m.

Of course, no New Year's Eve is complete without an exciting fireworks show! That happens December 31 from 9-9:30 p.m. as part of the Myrtle Beach Winter Wonderland events.

Events are still being added and fine-tuned as we go to press, so you may want to verify event times and dates so you don’t miss any of these extraordinary festivals that only happens once a year.

A loyal friend waits patiently for his human to finish shopping in downtown Columbia

South Carolina’s fortunate to be home to 47 state parks, and they’re perfect this year for spending as much time as possible with Santa and nature.

• Jocassee Santa at Devils Fork State Park • Santa on the Beach at Myrtle Beach State Park • Santa at the Lodge at Table Rock State Park • Breakfast with Santa at Hickory Knob • Cookies with Santa at Goodale State Park • Santa's at Sesqui 5K at Sesquicentennial State Park • S'mores with Santa at Lee State Park Visit www.southcarolinaparks.com for information on all of these parks. With recent hurricanes and inclement weather around us, it’s wise to verify with the parks and destinations of your choice that the scheduled events will still occur as planned.

The Church of the Good Shepherd is Only One of Columbia’s Many Historic Churches, Some Dating Back to the Early 1800s

The vibrant city of Columbia’s about halfway between the Low Country and the Upstate so it’s a great stopover when you’re traversing the state making holiday memories in South Carolina.

The hard work of this historical city and its people’s inspirational contributions are everywhere.

Entrepreneurs honor the heritage of Columbia’s buildings, past

businesses, and survivors from the past when threefourths of the city was destroyed in the Civil War. The university was spared and today, the University of South Carolina has preserved and still uses its old historic buildings. If history has always beckoned you to explore more, Columbia is a great way to open an exciting new chapter to carry over in 2025.

To help you plan your trip, here are some of Columbia's most popular December events: • The Carolina Carillon Holiday Parade will happen December 7, rain or shine, and is touted as ”South Carolina's oldest holiday tradition.” It’s packed with entertainment from cloggers, marching bands, and ballerinas to dozens of beautifully adorned floats and more all going down Sumter Street, leading the way for Santa. For more information, visit Facebook, Twitter, call 803-545-3100, or email info@carolinacarillon.com.

• Fireflies Holiday Lights brings your holiday alive with more than one million captivating light displays on your self-guided experience during December. It all happens at Segra Park at 1640 Freed Street in Columbia.

Visit Facebook, twitter or call 803-726-4487 and see www.firefliesholidaylights.com for a complete calendar including what special day you can spend there with your furry canine friend.

• The Junior League’s Holiday Market is their largest fundraiser and features over 150 vendors each year to find the perfect, unique holiday gift for the special people on your list. The event takes place at the South Carolina State Fairgrounds in the Cantey and Goodman Buildings at 1200 Rosewood Drive in Columbia.

• A Ladies Night Out, Junior League’s festive Holiday Ball, a picture with Santa, and “Sundaes with Santa” have grown increasingly popular and information can be found on their Facebook and Twitter pages, and at www. jlcolumbia.org.

Attending holiday events and discovering the other exciting things in Columbia presents a great opportunity to fit in a relaxed walking tour to discover the historic gems that abound here. A good thing to remember is that the city bustles with entertainment and business opportunities so that means street parking can be limited.

It’s free after 6 p.m. and parking garages are strategically located throughout so it’s helpful to locate them in preparation for your visit. For a map of their locations see, www.parking.columbiasc.gov. Southern hospitality, courtesy, and consideration abound in this friendly city to inspire you to find the perfect gifts for the favorites in your life. As you stroll the pretty tree-lined streets, enjoy the diverse architecture and beauty all around you. Wherever you land in South Carolina for the holidays, wishing you joy, peace, health, and happiness in your journey.

A sunset stroll along Lake Murray just outside of Columbia is the perfect way to end the day

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LIFESTYLE

Coping with

HOLIDAY STRESS story by Cynthia Ford

The holiday season is often portrayed as a time of joy and celebration, but for some, it can also bring about significant stress. From financial pressures to family dynamics, the season's demands can feel overwhelming. This article offers practical strategies to help you navigate holiday stress and embrace the festive spirit.

Tips for a Joyful Season Acknowledge Your Feelings How are you feeling this holiday season? Sometimes we have to do a self-audit and be honest with ourselves about where we are in life and how we feel about it. If you are stressed this season due to the high demands, understand that it’s normal to feel stressed during the holidays. Acknowledging your feelings can be the first step in managing them.

• Practice Mindfulness: Engage in mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing, to help ground yourself and reduce anxiety.

Set Realistic Expectations • Simplify Your Plans: This season is filled with invites from family, friends, and many holiday events. Avoid over-committing by prioritizing events and activities that truly matter to you. It’s okay to say no.

• Embrace Imperfection: Remember that not everything needs to be perfect. Allow yourself to enjoy the moment, even if things don’t go as planned. Don’t get stuck there.

Learn from moments of imperfection, and move on with plans to do better next time.

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Budget Your Feelings Wisely • Create a Holiday Budget: Set a realistic spending limit for gifts, decorations, and other expenses to alleviate financial stress. Don’t compare your funds to the next person’s available funds. Do what you can with what you have. It is not a competition.

• Focus on Meaningful Gifts: Consider handmade gifts or experiences rather than extravagant purchases. Personal touches often mean more.

Maintain Healthy Habits • Eat Well: While indulging is part of the season, try to maintain a balanced diet with nutritious foods to help keep your energy up. If your personal health allows, enjoy your holiday favorites in moderation.

• Stay Active: Incorporate physical activity into your routine, whether through holiday walks, dancing, or yoga. Exercise can significantly reduce stress. Participate in scheduled events that are happening throughout the community.

Connect with Others Make Time for Yourself • Schedule “Me Time”: The holiday season can be extremely busy. Carve out time for activities that help you recharge, whether reading a book, taking a bath, or enjoying a favorite hobby. Be intentional to put that "me" time on a physical calendar or use the calendar on your phone.

• Limit Social Media: Social media’s original intent was to be a platform where people could connect. Over time the type of content presented and the intent of the content presented has shifted, leading to a lot of comparison among users. Reduce time spent on social media to avoid comparison and feelings of inadequacy. Focus on your own experiences instead.

• Reach Out: Don’t hesitate to share your feelings with friends or family. Sometimes just talking about your stress can lighten the load. Reach out to someone that you are comfortable speaking with.

• Build New Traditions: If family dynamics are a source of stress, consider creating new traditions with friends or loved ones that bring joy and relaxation.

Practice Gratitude • Daily Gratitude Journaling: Spend a few minutes each day reflecting on what you’re grateful for. This practice can shift your focus from stress to positivity.

• Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate small moments of joy throughout the holiday season, reinforcing a positive mindset.

The holiday season doesn’t have to be synonymous with stress. By implementing these strategies, you can cultivate a more enjoyable and fulfilling holiday experience. Remember, the essence of the holidays lies in connection, joy, and gratitude—focus on what truly matters, and let go of the rest.

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HOME story by Doug Smith HOME

INVITED TO A PARTY:

Should You Bring a Gift?

The holiday season is filled with warmth and togetherness, and nothing symbolizes this more than the numerous gatherings, parties, and celebrations we attend. One of the season's highlights is the Christmas party, where friends, family, or colleagues come together to enjoy good company, food, and festive cheer.

When you receive an invitation to a Christmas party, one question often comes to mind: "Should I bring a gift?" Gift-giving is a long-standing tradition, but understanding the etiquette around it, especially when you’re told not to bring anything, can be a bit tricky. When we host a Christmas party or any party we will ask for people to bring certain things like “Will you please stop by and pick up some ice?” or “I love your dirt cake, would you be willing to bring that with you?” But sometimes you really just want your guest to bring their smile. How do you know the difference and feel good about it?

The Invitation

"Bring a Gift for the Gift Exchange"

When you’re invited to a Christmas party, it’s important to carefully read the invitation for any specific instructions from the host. Invitations may include a note about gifts or contributions to the event, and this will often guide your actions. Here's what different types of instructions might mean:

This one’s easy, I love a good Secret Santa or White Elephant gift exchange. In these cases, bringing a gift is not only encouraged, but expected. Be sure to stick to any specific instructions regarding the gift, such as price limits or themes. Participating in a gift exchange is a fun way to contribute to the party’s festive spirit, and it ensures that everyone has a chance to give and receive.

"No Gifts, Please" If the invitation clearly states “No Gifts” or “Your Presence Is Your Present,” the host is saying they do not expect or want anyone to bring gifts. In these situations, it’s best to respect the host’s wishes. Bringing a gift might make the host feel awkward, especially if others have adhered to the request. That said, if you feel uncomfortable arriving empty-handed, there are alternatives you can consider (more on that later).

No Mention of Gifts If the invitation doesn’t mention gifts at all, it’s safe to assume that bringing one is optional. However, in this case, a small token of appreciation especially for the host can be a thoughtful gesture. I always go for something the host likes and is expected to enjoy later.

While you don’t have to show up with an elaborate present, a small and considerate offering can go a long way in expressing your gratitude.

Get more from Doug Smith by following him on Facebook and Instagram at "Doug the Food Guy". Find Doug the FoodGuy on Spotify and Apple podcasts @The Pizzeria & Enzo Show

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Whether or not you should bring a gift depends largely on the context of the party, your relationship with the host, and the nature of the event. Here are some guidelines to help you navigate the decision-making process.

Respect the Host’s Wishes If the host has explicitly stated that gifts are not necessary or wanted, the polite thing to do is to follow their lead. They may be trying to reduce the pressure on guests, avoid clutter, or ensure that no one feels left out or uncomfortable. In this case, the best gift you can give is respecting their wishes and enjoying the party without any stress about presents. However, if you feel uncomfortable arriving completely empty-handed, you can always bring something subtle, like a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates. These types of items can be consumed or shared during the party, making them less formal than traditional gifts.

Hostess Gifts Even when you’re told not to bring a gift, it’s never inappropriate to bring a small hostess gift to show appreciation for the effort that goes into planning and hosting a party. Hostess gifts are typically simple and not extravagant. Think of items like:

• A bottle of wine or champagne • A box of gourmet chocolates • Scented candles • A bouquet of flowers (in a vase to make it easier for the host) • A small, festive ornament These items are thoughtful gestures that don’t feel overwhelming or create a burden for the host, and they’re a lovely way to say “thank you” for the invitation. Just make sure that your gift doesn’t require extra work for the host such as finding a vase or serving an elaborate dish during the event.

Group Gifts If you’re attending a party with a group of friends or family members, you might consider organizing a group gift for the host. This can be a fun and collaborative way to express gratitude without any individual guest feeling pressured to buy a large gift. For example, a few friends could pool their money together to buy a nice bottle of wine, a gift card to the host’s favorite restaurant, or a beautiful holiday-themed decoration. Group gifts can also be a nice option if the host is a close friend or family member, and you want to go beyond a small hostess gift.

What If You’re Told Not to Bring Anything?

If the invitation specifically says, “Don’t bring anything,” it can leave you wondering whether you should still bring something, out of politeness or gratitude. The answer depends on the nature of the party and your relationship with the host. In most cases, just don’t do it. But if you’re very close to the host ask, “How can we help?”

If you feel strongly about expressing your gratitude but don’t want to disregard the host’s wishes, there are alternative ways to show appreciation: A Thank-You Note: A heartfelt thank-you note sent after the party can be just as meaningful as a gift.

It shows that you appreciate the host’s efforts and enjoyed the event.

Help Out: Offering to help clean up, serve drinks, or set up before the party is another way to contribute without giving a material gift.

Navigating the etiquette of gift-giving when invited to a Christmas party can sometimes feel complicated, but it’s really about understanding the context and the host’s preferences. If the host says no gifts, respect their wishes, but don’t hesitate to bring a small hostess gift if you feel inclined. (Something for them, not the party.) Above all, the most important gift you can bring to any Christmas party is your gratitude, good spirits, and a genuine appreciation for the festive gathering.

from Doug the FoodGuy and family!

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VIP'S BOOK CLUB

A Book Review On

How Grace Changes Everything

by Julia Braid Julia Baird’s Bright Shining is an exploration of grace that blends the deeply personal with universal reflections on humanity. Baird dives into the transformative power of grace, viewing it as an essential yet elusive quality often overshadowed in a world fraught with mistrust, division, and skepticism. Unlike karma, which demands balance and recompense, grace calls for forgiveness, compassion, and unconditional kindness. It goes against the grain of human nature’s reward-based drive by emphasizing selfless acts that give freely, often to those who seemingly least deserve it.

Through vivid examples, such as healthcare workers who comforted the dying at the peak of COVID-19 and senior citizens who continue to donate plasma well into their later years, Baird shows us grace in action. She highlights how these small yet profound acts of generosity form the backbone of our shared humanity, lighting up our world even amid darkness.

Baird’s personal journey—grappling with cancer and chronic illness, finding solace in the ocean, and reflecting on her relationships with family and friends—gives the book a deeply intimate feel. She allows readers a window into her gratitude for the people who stand by her, and in doing so, inspires readers to recognize the grace around them. This journey of self-reflection, buoyed by kindness and care, serves as a reminder of the beauty in ordinary life and the power of connection.

Julia Baird

Julia Woodlands Baird is an Australian journalist, broadcaster, and author. She contributes to the New York Times and the Sydney Morning Herald and is a regular host of The Drum, a television news review program on the Australian Broadcasting Corporation (ABC).

Her books include Media Tarts; a biography of Queen Victoria which was named one of the New York Times’ Ten Best Books of 2016; and the multi-award-winning international bestseller Phosphorescence. Julia lives near the sea with two children and an abnormally large dog.

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For readers from any background, Bright Shining is a call to see the grace woven through our lives and embrace its ability to heal, uplift, and unite us. And for Christians especially, it reaffirms the understanding of grace as a gift from God—undeserved, freely given, and full of the promise that we are not alone. This book serves as a timely reminder of the grace that lives within and around us, offering healing and hope in a world that often feels starved for both.

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