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Pots With Purpose
BY JACKIE SCHATELL
AAt 12 years old, most kids save for sneakers or games. Reya Sonthalia saves for comforters, vacuum cleaners, and kitchen supplies for women she has never met.
A seventh grader from Short Hills, Reya has turned a childhood love of making things into a business with a mission. Her hand-painted terracotta pots decorated with handmade polymer clay motifs have earned her $300 to $500 and allowed her to send half of every sale to Sierra House, a transitional home in West Orange for young women building new lives.
Reya’s workbench is as personal as her purpose. Her most iconic design, the Ocean pot, is a crowd favorite. Each tiny scene is inspired by a memory. A drifting jellyfish recalls the glowing tanks at the oceanarium in Singapore. A small stingray comes from a family vacation. Every shell on the rim is made by pressing clay into real shells from the collection she and her brother have gathered on trips. Nothing is mass produced. Every detail passes through her hands.
Her giving spirit started long before the pots. During COVID, Reya joined Millburn Inspire to assemble care packages for frontline workers and sell Rainbow Loom bracelets and Perler bead keychains to raise
money for essentials. After Hurricane Ida, she rallied friends to sell more keychains and bracelets, raising over $600. The group handed the money to the mayor of Millburn, and Reya went on to raise additional funds and sponsor 20 meals for families on Ridgewood Road in Millburn.
Polymer Clay became her newest canvas last year. A Mother’s Day sale of 13 pots brought in $300 to $400, including $220 that purchased bedding sets for Sierra House. She reinvested the rest into supplies, then spent months preparing for Rocktoberfest and holiday sales, where her Diwali, Halloween, and Christmas pots drew steady crowds.
Reya also volunteers through Millburn Inspire at Sierra House, helping turn an empty building into a home for 25 young women. As the holidays approach, she is aiming to sell at least six more pots, raising another $120, so she can walk into the shelter in mid-December and deliver the essentials they still need.
For Reya, art is not just something pretty on a shelf. It is a way to change what another girl finds when she opens the door to a brand new life.
To make a purchase or donate, contact Reya’s mother, Rakhee Sonthalia, at 201-637-0529 or rakhees77@gmail.com. Items can also be purchased directly for Sierra House directly at amazon.com/hz/ wishlist/ls/YUJO83Z8JRI3?ref_=wl_share
Here are some of the Perler bead keychains Reya made to raise money during Covid for essential workers.
A group of pots created by Reya for sale to raise money for Sierra House, a transitional home in East Orange.
Reya at work designing clay designs for her pots, which will be sold to raise money for Sierra House, a transitional home in East Orange.
Reya at Rocktoberfest selling pots for her cause.
Just a half mile from the Murray Hill train station, Providence Place offers an unparalleled luxury rental experience in a serene, tree-lined 27-acre suburban enclave in desirable New Providence. This transit-friendly community features a stunning collection of one-, two-, and three-bedroom apartments as well as two-bedroom and threebedroom with den townhomes with private garages. Convenient to local shops, parks, and New Providence’s top-rated schools, Providence Place offers a luxuriously amenitized lifestyle that includes an expansive clubhouse, a resort-style pool, and a state-of-the-art fitness center.
Community Connection Becomes a Lifeline at The Support Network of Madison
OBY JACKIE SCHATELL
On any given evening in Madison, while most people are winding down, the Support Network of Madison. NJ is just getting started. A watercolor class might be wrapping up, a mindfulness workshop beginning, a middle school hang out at the Madison Community House, or a cluster of neighbors gathering at The Joyful Shoppe for Craft and Connect Night. At the heart of it all is a simple belief quietly fueling a growing movement: community connection shouldn’t come with a price tag that most can’t afford.
Founded in 2022 by a small group of volunteers led by guidance counselor and therapist Jen Walters, the Support Network of Madison, NJ has grown into a hyper-local mental health lifeline with a remarkably simple model: make support accessible, welcoming, and radically affordable. Their classes cost under $40, many under $20, and many completely free. There is no profit margin, ever. Everything is cost-share, designed so no one is priced out of activities that nourish
mental health and provide the opportunity to make friends.
Word spread quickly. Today, nearly 300 household members from Madison, Chatham, Summit, Florham Park, and beyond participate in the Network’s workshops, support groups, and creative sessions. “Everyone knows someone struggling,” Jen says. “People want to help. When you give them an accessible way to show up for others, they do.”
That ethos extends to The Joyful Shoppe, the nonprofit retail and event space gifted to the Network for 2025 by Jenny and David Stone of the Smart Family Foundation. Opened in February 2025, the shoppe features over 25 hyper local vendors who are mostly women owned and many of whom are home based, offering handmade gifts, journals, candles, cards, yarn, and small treasures meant to spark connection. The space doubles as a gathering hub, hosting near-daily classes, open mic nights, and community events.
Vendors consign at a higher rate than in typical shops, ensuring small businesses thrive alongside the Network itself. The shoppe is hoping to become a permanent piece of the Support Network and is currently seeking sponsors for 2026.
But some of the most meaningful work happens outside the Shoppe’s walls. Each May, for Mental Health Month, volunteers blanket Madison in green ribbons, reminding neighbors that mental health is a shared priority. Kids host lemonade stands to raise money so local families facing financial hardship can receive sponsored memberships to the Madison Community Pool. Last summer, the Network sponsored seven families; this year, they achieved eight! The Network and its sponsors provide 25 weeks of free family art activities with local artist Marianne Tuttle to provide tangible and enriching connections at the Madison Farm and Artisan Market.
For Jen, the impact is measured in moments of connection, whether it is a child who feels included, a parent who finds community, or a neighbor who walks into a class alone and leaves with new friends. “In this world, we need reminders that we are here for one another,” Jen says. “This is our small way of doing that.”
Small, perhaps, yet undeniably heroic.
To learn more, visit supportnetworkofmadison.org.
Community Liaisons Jeannie Kosakowski and Betty Landi hang Mental Health signs in downtown Madison to build awareness.
Sarah Switeck volunteers to read to children at the Winter Wonderland sponsored by the Support Network of Madison and The Thursday Morning Club.
Local artist Marianne Tuttle, along with Intern Becca Bellotti, host free art activities at the Madison Farm and Artisan Market.
BY JACKIE SCHATELL
Berkeley Heights
Author
Inspires Readers of Every Age
For longtime Berkeley Heights writer Pamela Hegarty, storytelling has taken many forms, but her latest adventure is winning the hearts of young readers. Her newest book, Jo Moonstone and the Atlantis Diamond, written for upper middle grade audiences, follows Jo and her misfit team of friends as they race beneath the sea to find the legendary Atlantis Diamond before a powerful villain claims it.
Filled with heart, courage, and high-tech wonders, it is the first in a planned trilogy, with a second book in progress.
While her newest work targets ages nine through twelve, Pamela is also well known for her Christa Devlin archaeological quest thriller series. Readers love the mix of history, mystery, romance, and adventure as Christa searches for legendary treasures including the Ark of the Covenant. Pamela is also working on a cozy fantasy story, which is a lighter style of fantasy that builds rich, whimsical settings but keeps the conflicts mild and the tone heartwarming.
Jo Moonstone and the Atlantis Diamond is available wherever books are sold.
Native Gardens Blossom Thanks to Friends of the Millburn Library
More native gardens will soon be sprouting around Millburn, thanks to a new initiative by Friends of the Millburn Library. Last spring, the group installed a Native Seed Library inside the Glen Avenue entrance and began offering free packets of locally harvested native seeds for residents to plant at home.
The program builds upon earlier efforts to encourage ecological gardening and has grown with help from community members including Odarka Stockert, Radhika Iyengar, and Vanita Gangwal, who harvest and donate seeds from their own gardens. Friends Vice President Sapna Gupta oversees the initiative, supported by a team of volunteers who clean, sort, and package the seeds for public distribution.
“By sharing local seeds, we’re helping residents reconnect with nature right in their own backyards while supporting pollinators and biodiversity,” Sapna said.
Seeds are available free of charge on a first-come, first-served basis. To get involved, email friends@millburnlibrary.org
Chatham’s Youngest Rock Stars Are Still “Unknown”—But Not for Long
They call themselves The Still Unknown, but in Chatham, everyone already knows the rock-ready band of four 13-year-old schoolmates, three of whom first discovered their passion for music through School of Rock before bringing their talents together.
Singer Leo Zotti, guitarist Derek Kahney, drummer Ben Stroud, and keyboardist Max Arent have played everywhere from New York City to the legendary Stone Pony, where packed crowds and bright lights only fueled their love of performing. They will next perform on 12/4 at the Cougars Against Cancer fundraiser at Chatham High School.
The band mostly rocks covers, but they’ve also written original music and recently recorded their first song together in a professional studio in LA while also meeting with a major record label that has expressed interest in their sound.
Even better, The Still Unknown is a band with heart. They donate all their performance earnings to charity, supporting children’s cancer research and other local causes.
With weekly rehearsals, big energy, and even bigger dreams, these Chatham teens are determined to spread the joy of music—one stage at a time. Unknown for now, but not for long.
If you or someone you know in Essex/Morris County is doing something interesting, send an email to Jackie.subessex@gmail.com
Native Seed Library program volunteers collecting seeds, (l-r) Odarka Stockert and Elizabeth Valovahn, as well as Friends of the Millburn Library board members Dorothy Kelly, president, and Sapna Gupta, vice president.
The Still Unknown in front of The Stone Pony. Ben Stroud (drums), Max Arent (keyboard), Leo Zotti (vocals), and Derek Kahney (guitar).
A Chatham Teen is Changing the Conversation on Period Equity
When Chatham High School senior, Asher Robson, got her period at the library in eighth grade and found no products available, she walked to a CVS and promised other girls would not face the same situation. Her Girl Scout Gold Award project, “Period Power: Breaking the Cycle,” grew from that moment into a movement for period equity and education.
Asher installed a free Aunt Flow period product dispenser in the Library of the Chathams after raising more than $600 selling Taylor Swift–inspired friendship bracelets. With help from generous donors, she supplied 500 pads and 500 tampons to keep it stocked. She also hosted a workshop that produced 50 period kits. Twenty-five were placed in a middle school locker room and 25 were donated to a nonprofit serving homeless teens.
She received a proclamation from Chatham Township and met with Claire Coder, founder and CEO of Aunt Flow, for a lunch meeting. Asher is now working with NJ assemblywoman Dunn on legislation requiring public libraries to provide free period products and continues her other advocacy through an annual diaper drive benefiting Moms Helping Moms.
Maplewood Resident Launches Career Guide for Job Seekers
Maplewood resident Cara Bedick’s debut book, Your Next Big Career Move, will be released on December 16, offering much-needed support to job seekers navigating a challenging market. A publishing professional for 20 years, Cara was inspired to write the book after experiencing a period of unemployment in 2024. She wanted to create something helpful for people facing long searches, resume black holes, and the uncertainty of waiting.
The book is structured as a journal filled with prompts, reflection exercises, and practical guidance. Cara says it’s designed not only for those currently out of work, but also recent graduates, first-time job seekers, and professionals considering a change. It covers essential topics including interview preparation, resume optimization, and workplace adaptability, which she says is one of today’s most in-demand traits.
Cara’s goal is to empower job seekers with confidence and career clarity during their employment transition. Your Next Big Career Move will be available everywhere books are sold, including Maplewood’s Words Bookstore.
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Founder and CEO of Aunt Flow Claire Coder, Asher Robson, and Genevieve Jaser.
The Aunt Flow period product dispenser
Chatham High School senior Asher Robson had installed at the Library of The Chathams.
Cultivating Community
METC Gala Raises Over $50,000 for Education
TThe Museum of Early Trades & Crafts celebrated its mission and supporters during its annual Fundraising Gala on October 9 at the Park Avenue Club. This year’s theme, “Celebrating Our Community,” honored the many community partners who help the museum flourish.
Guests mingled amid lush garden-inspired décor symbolizing growth and collaboration while enjoying cocktails, fine dining, and live jazz by The Jerry Vezza Trio. Master of Ceremonies and actor Jim Conroy led an exciting live auction that helped raise more than $50,000 to benefit METC’s educational programs for students, seniors, and people with disabilities.
Special recognition was given to community partners The Support Network, The Kubert School, the Morris County Historic Preservation Trust Fund and the Morris County Board of County Commissioners.
Through events like this, METC continues to inspire and educate thousands each year—cultivating curiosity, creativity, and connection across generations.
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CAmerica at 250 –Discover the Story That Started in New Jersey
Celebrate America’s 250th birthday with a fascinating journey through New Jersey’s Revolutionary past. As the “Crossroads of the American Revolution,” New Jersey witnessed more battles, encampments, and turning points than any other colony. This winter, the Museum of Early Trades & Crafts invites history lovers to explore the state’s pivotal role through a compelling three-part lecture series led by historian Joel Farkas. Attend one evening or enjoy the full series.
Part 1: Road to the Revolution
Tuesday, January 27, 7pm Travel from 1453 to 1776 as Farkas traces the origins of the Colonies, the French and Indian War, rising tensions over taxation, and the bold decision to declare independence.
Part 2: The Revolutionary War Tuesday, February 24, 7pm Dive into the years 1775 to 1783, when New Jersey became the backdrop for critical battles, encampments, and the leaders who shaped the fight for freedom.
Part 3: After the Revolutionary War Tuesday, March 31, 7pm Explore the years 1783 to 1812, including the creation of the first Constitution, the Hamilton–Burr duel, and the defining moments that cemented America’s independence.
A perfect way to honor this milestone year and rediscover the Revolutionary story written in our own backyard.
The Museum of Early Trades & Crafts 9 Main Street, Madison, NJ
To register visit: metc.org
The Support Network is one of the community partners honored at the gala. (l-r) Jen Walters, Jenn Daley, METC Trustee Gary Ruckelshaus, and METC Executive Director Deborah Farrar Starker.
Back row, (l-r) Paul Haus, Doug Magill, Rich Tierney, Andrew Boles, and Paul Skilton; front row,(l-r) Janet Haus, Lauren Magill, Bevin Tierney, Lisa Boles, and Katie Skilton.
Trumbull’s Declaration of Independence
Decorate a Gingerbread House for a Cause
KKick off the season with a heartwarming holiday tradition that does more than spread cheer—it helps support a mission of empowerment, education, and hope.
Join the Love You Girl Foundation for a festive Gingerbread House Decorating Workshop for children and adults of all ages. Enjoy a cozy afternoon sipping hot chocolate, snacking on treats, and building your own candy-covered creation inside the beautiful Boutique Events & More space. A $25 per person donation includes all supplies, snacks, and holiday fun. Registration is required.
As you decorate, you’ll also be supporting the Love You Girl Foundation’s powerful year-round mission to raise awareness about domestic violence, uplift survivors, and educate the community through outreach, events, and advocacy. Your participation helps fuel programs, conversations, and resources that truly make a difference.
Saturday, December 20, 3pm
Love You Girl Boutique Events & More 76 South Orange Ave., South Orange (Entrance on Valley St.)
To register visit: https://boards.com/a/EJAU9.jbAb63 For more information: loveyougirl49@gmail.com, loveyougirl.org
services include precision cuts for men & women, vibrant colors, highlighting and balayage, hair extensions, smoothing treatments, waxing, makeup, and more.
GGet ready for a bright and joyful morning as Oaks and Acorns celebrates Hanukkah! This special holiday edition invites little explorers ages 3-5 to dive into the magic of the season with hands-on crafts, festive stories, and a playful stroll through the Arboretum’s wintry landscape.
Children will create their own Hanukkahinspired art, listen to meaningful seasonal tales perfect for young ears, and enjoy a gentle introduction to nature, wonder,
Hands-On Hanukkah Activities at the Arboretum!
and light. It’s the perfect way for your preschooler to celebrate the Festival of Lights with creativity, community, and curiosity.
Space is limited, and this popular program fills quickly—be sure to register early! Due to construction Arboretum parking will be unavailable. Street parking is available, and handicap parking remains accessible.
Monday, December 15, 10:30–11:30am Reeves-Reed Arboretum
165 Hobart Ave, Summit
To register visit: reeves-reed.givecloud. co/product/Hands-on-HanukkahDec-15-2025/oaks-and-acorn-hands-onhanukkah
Holiday Magic, All in One Place
LLooking for gifts that feel personal, meaningful, and anything but ordinary? Step into The Shakespeare Theatre of New Jersey’s Holiday Market, where dozens of local artisans and specialty makers come together under one festive roof. It’s your chance to shop small, shop local, and enjoy holiday gifting again.
The F. M. Kirby Shakespeare Theatre will be transformed into a cheery marketplace filled with handcrafted goods, seasonal treats, and one-of-a-kind finds. Explore favorites like La Monique Cosmetics, Sustainable Love, The Japanese Weekend, Nyah Beauty, and many more talented vendors offering items you truly won’t find at the mall.
Whether you’re checking off your list or treating yourself, this community-driven market makes holiday shopping a little brighter and a lot more fun. Come support local makers while celebrating one of New Jersey’s most beloved cultural institutions.
Saturday, December 13, 10am-7pm and Sunday, December 14, 10am-2pm
The F. M. Kirby Shakespeare Theatre 36 Madison Avenue, Madison, NJ | 973-408-5600 email: boxoffice@ShakespeareNJ.org | ShakespeareNJ.org
LOCAL BUZZ
Sweet Gingerbread House Decorating Fun at the Durbin Firehouse
LLooking for a delicious way to get into the holiday spirit? Troop 10665 is rolling out the frosting, sprinkles, and cheer for a cozy Gingerbread House Decorating Workshop at the Durbin Firehouse. It’s the perfect family-friendly afternoon filled with creativity, sugary surprises, and warm community vibes.
Turn simple gingerbread into holiday masterpieces. Whether you’re building a candy-covered cottage or a sprinkle-loaded winter cabin, everything you need to make your creation shine will be provided. Hot chocolate and snacks will keep everyone fueled and festive while you decorate.
A $25 donation includes all supplies and treats. Please RSVP to ensure the proper number of kits and goodies ready for all builders.
Saturday, December 20, 3–5 pm Durbin Firehouse 1st Street, South Orange
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Special
Holiday Concert
CChrist Church in Short Hills will present a Special Holiday Concert featuring George Frideric Handel’s Messiah (Part 1). The performance, conducted by guest conductor and Christ Church parishioner George Mathew, will feature the Christ Church Festival Choir, Orchestra, Organ and vocal soloists.
The Christ Church Festival Choir, under the direction of Christ Church Organist and Choirmaster, Dr. Andrew Moore, will include choristers from the Community Congregational Church in Short Hills, St. Stephen’s Episcopal Church, Millburn, Temple B’Nai Jeshurun and other local churches, educational and musical institutions.
The Festival Orchestra will comprise distinguished artists from major New York orchestras including the Orchestra of St. Luke’s, Metropolitan Opera Orchestra, American Ballet Theater Orchestra and others. The Rev. Bowie Snodgrass, Rector of Christ Church in Short Hills, will introduce the concert. The Concert is presented free of charge, donations are welcome.
Sunday, December 14, 4pm Christ Church
66 Highland Avenue, Short Hills
George Mathew, Conductor.
Photo by Joy Yagid
Don’t Miss the Winter Wonderland Carnival
CCelebrate the season with an afternoon of festive fun at the 4th Annual Winter Wonderland Carnival, a beloved community tradition that brings families together for a joyful cause. This year, all proceeds support the Dare to Dream Project, which helps transform treatment and care for children with blood cancer.
Children ages 3–10 will enjoy stepping into a holiday wonderland filled with games, prizes, and cheerful surprises around every corner. Highlights include the Mt. Everest Slide, a cozy igloo, a fire pit complete with s’mores, gingerbread house decorating, and whimsical photo ops perfect for capturing seasonal memories. Little ones can make a wish at the Wishing Tree, enjoy live music from the Denville String Band, and be serenaded by festive carolers. In addition, Books Beyond Limits will offer a trio of free activities designed to spark creativity and a love of reading, including creating your own bookmark, exploring comic strip templates, and decorating your own reading log.
Families can also enjoy snacks for purchase and explore winterthemed crafts and entertainment throughout the afternoon. Bundle up, bring your holiday cheer, and join a magical afternoon that supports an incredible cause. $10 per child or $25 for a family of three or more children.
Saturday, December 13, 1-4pm Madison Elks Lodge Main Street, Madison
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group training sessions, along with opportunities for clients to compete in Special Olympics New Jersey. Participation in the program has enabled clients to increase endurance, maintain healthy weight, and strengthen their social skills.
Through individual clinical assessments, many clients receive specialized counseling from JESPY’s Clinical & Behavioral Support Department. Sessions include: how to best enhance coping skills; the use of techniques to manage challenges; and ways to improve relationships with family and friends. The Department also offers a wide range of services to individuals in the community.
The JESPY nurse conducts weekly visits to the agency’s shared houses, where clients reside as housemates, to help monitor and support each client’s health and well-being.
JESPY maintains an ongoing partnership with Cooperman Barnabas Medical Center’s Community Health & Outreach Program, which provides clients with health education workshops. In addition, JESPY hosts on-site vaccine clinics and informational presentations from Planned Parenthood.
JESPY also supports over 350 clients with employment, day habilitation, and residental services.
JESPY House 76 South Orange Avenue, Suite 205, South Orange, NJ 07079 973-762-6909 x302 | https://jespyhouse.org
L Livingston Gym Where Kids Discover Movement, Confidence & Creativity
BY MICHELLE LEMIEUX, PHOTOS BY DAN EPSTEIN
Livingston Gym is more than just a gymnastics studio; it’s a place where kids can enjoy physical activity and creativity in a warm, inclusive and fun environment. With a full roster of classes for all skill levels, this boutique gym offers something for everyone.
Run by owners Jackie and Pasquale Ranalli of West Orange, Livingston Gym prides itself on its small class sizes, individualized attention and familial feel. The Ranallis’ passion for athletics and community encouraged them to open the studio in May 2023, which they say has been one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences of their career.
“Our goal has always been for children and caregivers to feel like this is an extension of home,” Jackie says. “We focus on kids as a whole and meeting them where they are in their skillset.”
With classes for children ages nine months to 12 years of age, Livingston Gym offers traditional gymnastics, as well as Ninja, Move and Tumble, and Music and Movement classes. They are also launching new classes this winter including Parent/Child Yoga, as well as Tumble and Create, while Open Gym is available to the public every Friday. Livingston Gym also hosts weekend birthday parties and mini camps throughout the year.
Enrollment is now open for Livingston Gym’s 12-week Winter Session, which can also be bundled with its 10-week Spring Session for additional savings. Flexible make up schedules, three week trials, and multi-class and sibling discounts are also available. There’s no better time to join!
Livingston Gym 615 South Livingston Avenue, Suite 5, Livingston, NJ 07039 973-362-2424 | www.livingstongym.com
Bar Bacoa:
Summit’s SoCal-Inspired Backyard Hangout
Brandon Gutierrez, service manager, Alexis De Leon, bartender; Dylan Baker, managing partner; Chef Rob Tami
BY JACKIE SCHATELL,
BY DAN EPSTEIN
BBAR BACOA’S KITCHEN EQUIPMENT ARRIVED ON THE VERY DAY GOVERNOR PHIL MURPHY HALTED NON-ESSENTIAL CONSTRUCTION IN MARCH 2020, LEAVING OWNER DYLAN BAKER SIMPLY TO WATCH AND WONDER.
WOULD THE SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA-INSPIRED TEX-MEX RESTAURANT – HIS SECOND CONCEPT – EVER OPEN ITS DISTINCTIVE GARAGE DOORS?
In September 2020, Bar Bacoa – born amid extraordinary circumstances and thanks to riverboat gambler confidence –made its debut.
Baker was, at the time, working around the clock next door trying to save Summit House despite furloughing most of his staff amid the COVID-19 pandemic. He and a few vital team members served only “Grab + Go” family dinners for more than a year to make that happen.
“Despite the uncertainty of the moment, and the insanity of that year, I just wasn’t ready to give up on Bar Bacoa,” Baker says now, laughing. “Perhaps it was foolishness, but this vision meant too much to me.”
Today, it is one of Summit’s most vibrant and beloved neighborhood hangouts, with Friday night Karaoke, live music Saturdays, and inspired mouth-watering cuisine.
Bar Bacoa is owned by Baker and his wife, Melissa, along with partners Tyler and Sara Reeder, the same foursome behind Summit House. For BarB, as it is nicknamed, they envisioned something casual and lively, distinct from their elegant sister restaurant yet equally rooted in craft, hospitality, and community.
The Bakers once lived in Santa Barbara and wanted Bar Bacoa to channel that laid-back West Coast spirit with a relaxed, backyard-barbecue energy. The name is a nod to tradition: “barbacoa” is the centuries-old Mexican method of slow-cooking meat in underground pits. Inside, the atmosphere is warm and curated, with a hint of nostalgia. Vinyl spins on the record player, much of it from the collection of Baker’s late father, John.
A recent redesign by Nashville interior designer Jessica Adams opened up the dining room. The refresh added a banquette, new lighting, repainted walls, reframed artwork, and a projection screen offering everything from classic movie nights to weekend football.
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Chef Rob Tami
The fun is taking simple ingredients and giving them depth through time, smoke, and technique. We are not reinventing tacos, just making every component the best version of itself.
– CHEF ROB TAMI
At the heart of the kitchen is a wood smoker, where Chef Rob Tami slow smokes meats and vegetables before turning them into tacos, bowls, and plates that feel comforting and creative. The restaurant highlights “from-scratch” cooking, including its salsas, marinades and cult-favorite Alabama white sauce.
“The fun is taking simple ingredients and giving them depth through time, smoke, and technique,” Tami says. “We are not reinventing tacos, just making every component the best version of itself.”
Brandon Gutierrez
Renowned Executive Chef AJ Capella oversees the broader culinary direction. Soon after joining the Summit House team, he and Baker traveled to cooking school at Casa Jacaranda in Mexico City, where they learned sauces, spice blends, and cooking techniques that now inform the menu. Guest favorites include the Baja Fish Tacos, Queso Birria Tacos, carnitas, smoked wings, and coconut tres leches cake.
Behind the bar, Alexis De Leon leads a program centered on fresh-squeezed citrus and clean, balanced cocktails. The menu highlights a curated selection of tequilas, mezcals, and agave spirits, along with bourbons that often surprise first-time guests. Top sellers include the Mexican Daisy, classic and frozen margaritas, and grapefruit-forward Paloma.
The crowd ranges from after-work regulars and families to friends and first dates who love the laid-back atmosphere. Happy Hour is a big draw, and Bar Bacoa also hosts bar takeovers, parties, corporate gatherings, and offers catering.
Each December, the space transforms into a Christmas Cantina holiday pop-up (with this year’s immersive décor by Lauren Fisher of Step It Up Designs), seasonal cocktails, and dishes that draw crowds.
Five years in, Baker’s gamble continues to delight.
Visit barbacoanj.com for events and menus.
Alexis De Leon
Holiday Lights at Turtle Back Zoo
TTake a winter stroll through the Essex County Turtle Back Zoo this holiday season under the sparkling lights of over 50 winter and animal characters. Admission is free, and reservations are not required. though a fee is required for some activities Celebrate the season of giving by donating non-perishable food items, new unwrapped toys, and/or new and gently used winter coats to help families in need.
Daily Friday, November 28Saturday, January 3
(Closed December 24, 25 & January 1)
Meet & Greet with Santa
Add a visit with Santa to your holiday list! Meet & Greet is free and personal photos are allowed. Option to purchase professional photos on site. No appointments necessary. (Lines may close earlier).
Friday December 5Sunday, December 7, 5-8:30pm
Friday, December 12 –Tuesday 23, 5-8:30pm
Location: Gazebo
Ice Carving Demonstrations
Watch a block of ice transform into an ice sculpture before your eyes.
Friday’s, December 5 - January 2, 6pm
Location: Amphitheater
Princess Holiday Appearance
Sing-a-long with popular princess characters. A mix of holiday songs (and princess songs) are sure to lift your holiday spirit!
Saturday December 5 & Sunday, 6
Saturday, December 12 & Sunday, December 13, 6:30pm and 7:30pm
Location: Picnic Area
“Don’t Be a Grinch”
Meet-and-Greet with the Grinch!
Friday, December 19 - Sunday, December 21
Location: Picnic Area
Igloo Rentals
Features: Heated, Decorative Lighting, Soft Seating with Tables, Lighted Necklaces, Hot Chocolate, S’Mores, Chocolate Chip Cookies
Rent for 4 hours from 5pm – 9pm; Holds 8 – 10 guests
Location: Picnic Area.
To book, call 862-930-7679 or e-mail: marshmon-darnell@aramark.com.
Find the perfect holiday gifts at nearby independently owned businesses in our community.
Blackstone Grill—Fire up the holidays with the ultimate gift for the grill master in your life. From weekend breakfasts to backyard feasts, the Blackstone delivers restaurant-quality flavor and versatility that make every meal an experience. Give the gift of sizzling memories this season!
Harquail Bros.
324 Springfield Avenue, Summit, NJ 07901 | 908-273-2858 www.harquailbrothers.com
Chic gifts for her, him and of course the host can be found at Maison 53. For her? Sparkling jewels and the seasons “it” accessories. For him? A list of the best places to sip the finest wines. And for the host? The most beautiful and classic cheese knives from France. So much more in store and we gift wrap!
Maison 53
340 Springfield Avenue, Summit, NJ 07901 | 201-408-9300 www.maison53.com
Celebrate the season at Lavender and Sage, your destination for gifts with heart and style. Discover gorgeous barware, soft cashmere hats, and cozy fur-trimmed gloves—alongside beautiful jewelry, including jewelry by Freida Rothman. Every piece is thoughtfully curated to bring beauty, purpose, and a touch of luxury to your holiday gifting. Lavender and Sage Boutique
426 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-248-2662
www.lavenderandsageshop.com Follow Us @lavenderandsageboutique
The V-Force 2.0 is the table for performance in Air Hockey® since Brunswick invented the game more than 30 years ago. The V-Force 2.0 table features dual abacus scorers and exceptional speed of play. Aluminum rails with powder-coated metal corners accelerate the action. Super slick, scuff-proof “ice” helps keep the table looking sharp even after hours of intense competition.
The Game Room Store
461 Route 46, Fairfield, NJ 07004 | 973-227-2245
www.thegameroomstore.net
These exquisite pieces easily transition from day to evening, and when paired with a stunning evening bag and embellished shoes, they will elevate your elegance at holiday parties. From timeless classics to this season’s essential trends, 688 Boutique curates a selection of fashion that enhances the beauty of every woman.
688 Boutique
178-180 Mt. Bethel Rd., Warren, NJ 07059
908-456-3380
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Teleties are clips that are your comfortable, everyday go to. These are perfect for a night of Chanukah or as a stocking stuffer! GLAZE Salon
7 Townsquare, Chatham, NJ 07928 973-701-0099 | www.glazesalon.com
Where Beauty Lives. Give the gift of Beauty this Holiday. Please call or visit Salon 518 for our Kerastase Hair and Scalp Care Holiday Gift Boxes. Gift Cards also available. Salon 518
518 Millburn Avenue, Short Hills, NJ 07078 973-376-5180 | www.salon518.com
A perfect stocking stuffer or Hanukkah gift for a little one in your crew. With plush faux fur, oversized jeweled details & adjustable fit, Super Small earmuffs are a cozy-meets-cool gift that’s sure to wow. Whether they’re bundling up for school, the slopes, or just some outdoor sparkle, these brings serious style to snow season! Choose from three of our best-selling styles—Jungle Jeweled, Cotton Candy & Lavender Dreams. Matching glove available.
Smith & Company
343 Bloomfield Avenue, Caldwell 973-228-1167
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This season, we are excited to carry a new jewelry collection, Capucine De Wulf. Each piece is handcrafted by artisans and set with genuine stones, making it as authentic and unique as the person receiving it. Designed to make a statement, these creations elevate any look into something extraordinary.
Walter Bauman Jewelers
653 Eagle Rock Avenue, West Orange www.walterbauman.com Follow Us @ walterbaumanjewelers
Frame your favorite Jersey for the Holidays! We frame jerseys, puzzles, personal art and anything else you can think of.
Mona Lisa Framing
7 Highland Place, Maplewood 973-762-2777 www.monalisaframing.com
Meet Frasier Fir’s New SideKick Noir Woods… Choose from Thymes Frasier Fir our best-selling holiday scent. Enjoy the aromatic snap of crisp Siberian fir needles, cedarwood & sandalwood or Noir Woods a smoky wood & fresh evergreen blend with golden amber to create a refined fragrance. You may just need both! Thymes Complete Collection Available. Smith & Company
343 Bloomfield Avenue, Caldwell 973-228-1167
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Something Shiny or Something Soft! Our #1 gift recommendation if you need ideas for her. Products featured from Inoui Editions, Jenny Bird & Hestra. Oodles of special things are always in-store and online.
Tea & Oranges
316 Springfield Ave, Summit 908-287-5193
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Enjoy exceptional pet care with our $5 First Night of Boarding offer*— a $75 value—when you book 3 or more nights. This promotion can be used once per dog, providing a safe, fun, and comfortable stay with our expert team. Perfect for travel plans, it gives your pup plenty of play and attention. *Vaccinations required. Must present this original coupon. Must book 3 or more nights. Other fees may apply. Offer expires 4/30/26.
The Dog Stop Long Hill 977 Valley Road, Gillette, NJ 07933 908-838-0991
Meet the first ever Jewelry Wash® that cleans your jewelry while washing your hands. A new favorite must-have, earning the coveted spot on Oprah’s Favorite Things two years in a row. Formula is clean & plant-based, making it perfect for every day shine & use. Cleaning your jewelry is now as easy as washing your hands. Use daily for soft, glowing skin & jewelry that sparkles & shines!
Smith & Company
343 Bloomfield Avenue, Caldwell 973-228-1167
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Bringing Prosperity & Health to the New Year… Burning bayberry candles at the holidays is a cherished custom since colonial times. As the legend says, “A bayberry candle burnt to the socket brings food to the larder & gold to the pocket.” Our hand-dipped, dripless bayberry tapers keep this tradition alive & come gift box ready with the classic legend included. Votives in store, too!
Smith & Company
343 Bloomfield Avenue, Caldwell | 973-228-1167
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At Pink Jewels, our gold-filled pieces give you the beauty of solid gold with out the high price. They’re water-resistant, tarnish free, and made to shine through every moment— the perfect meaningful gift that lasts.
Pink
Jewels
Boutique
60 East Mount Pleasant Ave, Livingston | 973-994-0975 www.pink-jewels.com
Perfect gifts for the Mah Jongg and Canasta aficionados! Game sets as well as the bling to go with it! Visit us online or in store for other gift ideas.
Mixology Livingston 1160 Town Center, Livingston | shopmixology.com
Give the golfer in your life the gift of year-round play— no matter the weather. At GolfCave, players enjoy private, climate-controlled bays with state-of-the-art simulators, realistic courses, and fun games for all skill levels. Swing into the season and save: Holiday Gift Card Special Get 15% OFF* GolfCave gift cards now through December 24! Use coupon code: CHEERS15 *Terms and conditions may apply.
GolfCave New Providence
675 Central Ave. New Providence, NJ 07974
908-263-CAVE (2285) | golfcave.com
Safely own the night! Our rechargeable LED Beanie hats make an ideal companion offering hands-free visibility in the dark. Utilize the push-button LED to rotate between three levels of brightness, remove light to wash & recharge as needed for hours of illumination. Great for dog walking, exercise, camping, hiking & more! Fits any standard USB port.
Smith & Company
343 Bloomfield Avenue, Caldwell | 973-228-1167
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Best of Essex
Best Adult Instructions
Silver: South Orange-Maplewood Adult School
17 Parker Avenue, South Orange 973-378-7620 www.somaadultschool.org
Best Architect
Bronze: Studio1200 511 Millburn Avenue, #1, Short Hills 973-232-6567 www.studio1200.com
Best Art/Framing
Silver: Mona Lisa Framing 7 Highland Place, Maplewood 973-762-2777 www.monalisaframing.com
Best Bakery
Silver: Liv Breads Artisan Bakery and Coffee Bar 184 Essex Street, Millburn 973-218-6922 www.livbreads.com
Bronze: Splurge Bakery, Millburn 105 Main Street, Millburn 973-379-0740 www.splurgebakery.com
Best Boutique Bakery
Gold: Three Daughters Baking Co. 12 Vose Avenue, South Orange 908-991-3827 www.threedaughtersbakingco.com
Best BYO Restaurant
Silver: Jack’s Surf and Turf 504 Millburn Avenue, Short Hills 856-542-7677 www.jacksurfturf.com/
Best Children Party Places
Gold: Splurge Bakery 105 Main Street, Millburn 973-379-0740 www.splurgebakery.com
Best Chinese Restaurant
Bronze: Bill and Harry’s Chinese Cuisine, 147 Maplewood Avenue, Maplewood 973-763-19607 www.billandharrymaplewood.com
Best Consignment
Silver: dbltke sustainable luxury 800 Morris Turnpike, Suite 105, Short Hills 973-564-6464 https://dbltkeboutique.com
Best DentistGroup Practice
Bronze: Dental Group of Millburn 187 Millburn Avenue, Suite 1, Millburn 973-376-2700 www.dentalgroupofmillburn.com
Best Hearing Care
Gold: Kubick & Kubick 135 Main Street, Chatham 973-467-1690 www.kubickandkubick.com
Best Indoor Play Spaces
Gold: Genius Gems 215 Millburn Avenue, Millburn 862-267-0611 www.geniusgems.com
Best Pet Supply
Bronze: Pet Wants 63 South Orange Avenue, South Orange 973-762-4300 www.petwantssouthorange.com/
Best Painter
Silver: Wilber Home Improvements 2087 Millburn Avenue, Maplewood 973-762-6333 www.wilbershomeimprovements.com
Unplug to Recharge: The Benefits of a Digital Detox
IIn today’s always-online world, our devices constantly compete for attention—buzzing, pinging, and lighting up with every new notification. While technology keeps us connected, it can also drain mental energy, disrupt sleep, and distract us. A digital detox doesn’t mean abandoning your phone forever—it’s simply choosing intentional breaks to restore balance. Be aware that starting may feel difficult, but gradual steps can help you overcome resistance and stay motivated.
Designating phone-free hours each day is a powerful place to start. Try keeping devices away during meals so you can fully enjoy your food and engage with the people around you. In the evening, give yourself at least an hour without screens before bed. Starting small makes the goal feel more manageable, and studies consistently show that reducing exposure to blue light at night leads to deeper, more restorative sleep.
Beyond improved rest, unplugging creates space for mindfulness, helping you feel calmer and more centered. Without constant digital noise, your mind can settle, creativity flows more freely, and simple activities—like walking, reading, or just sitting quietly— become surprisingly refreshing. You may notice conversations feel
A digital detox isn’t about restriction—it’s about reclaiming your time and energy, helping you feel more in control of your habits. Start with small, consistent steps. Your mind and body will thank you.
richer, your attention span lengthens, and you reconnect with parts of life that get overshadowed by screen time.
Quick, StressRelief Techniques
SStress can strike at any moment—during a busy workday, while commuting, or even in the middle of a conversation. Having simple, portable tools to bring your nervous system back into balance can make all the difference. These quick stress-relief techniques can be done anytime, anywhere, and require no equipment.
One of the most effective methods is controlled breathing. Try the 4-4-6 technique: inhale slowly for four counts, hold for another four, and exhale for six. This longer exhale signals the body to relax, lowering your heart rate and easing tension. Just one minute of this breathing pattern can help restore a sense of calm and clarity.
If you can step away momentarily, a brief change of environment works wonders. A walk to the nearest window, a few minutes outside, or even simply standing up and stretching resets your mind. Shoulder rolls, performed slowly and deliberately, release built-up tightness from long periods of sitting or stress-induced tension.
Small pauses throughout the day are more powerful than they seem. These micro-breaks interrupt the cycle of stress before it escalates, helping prevent burnout and improving focus. Think of them as tiny investments in your well-being— moments that ground you and allow you to return to tasks with renewed energy.
Whether you’re at your desk, in a meeting, or on the go, these quick techniques help you stay centered. With regular practice, they can become a reliable part of your self-care toolkit.
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Morning Habits That Set a Positive Tone for the Day
How you start your morning often influences the rest of your day. Beginning your day with intention doesn’t require a lengthy routine; just a few simple habits can nurture both your mind and body. Start with gentle stretching to wake up your muscles, improve circulation, and release any tension from the day before. This small act signals to your body that it’s time to rise and move with purpose.
After stretching, drink a full glass of water. Your body naturally dehydrates overnight, and hydrating first thing in the morning helps boost your energy levels, supports digestion, and clears mental fog, giving you a refreshing start. Consider adding lemon or a pinch of salt to your water for extra benefits, such as improved taste and enhanced nutrient absorption.
Another valuable habit is to take a moment to write down three things you are grateful for. This quick practice shifts your mindset toward positivity and helps you focus on the good aspects of your life. Over time, it can help cultivate resilience, reduce stress, and enhance your overall emotional wellbeing. Gratitude can transform negative thoughts into uplifting reflections, nurturing a more positive outlook.
Even dedicating just five minutes to stillness—whether through deep breathing, meditation, or simply enjoying the quiet—can create a sense of calm that carries throughout your day. These small choices enable you to begin grounded, energized, and prepared to face whatever comes your way, leading to improved productivity and happiness.
SShovel Smart:
Winter Safety Tips You Shouldn’t Skip
Shoveling snow may seem like a simple winter chore, but recognizing the risks highlights the importance of following safety measures to prevent injuries. Cold weather, slippery surfaces, and physical strain can all increase the chances of injury. With a few precautions, however, you can protect your body and stay safe during winter clean-up.
One of the most critical steps is preparing your body before you start. Treat shoveling like a workout to help you feel capable and in control. Begin with light stretching to warm up your muscles, especially your back, shoulders, and legs. Wearing layered clothing helps you stay warm without overheating, while gloves and boots with proper traction reduce your chance of slipping.
When lifting snow, use proper technique to reduce strain. Bend at your knees — not your waist — and push snow when possible, rather than lifting it. If lifting is necessary, take small scoops and keep the shovel close to your body to prevent back injury. Remember to take frequent breaks, especially if you feel your breathing or heart rate increase significantly.
It’s also important to stay hydrated, even in cold temperatures. Your body loses fluids through exertion, and dehydration increases the risk of muscle strain. Keeping hydrated helps you feel cared for and prepared during your shoveling tasks.
Finally, know when to stop. If you experience chest discomfort, dizziness, or shortness of breath, stop shoveling immediately and seek medical attention. Being aware of these signs encourages you to listen to your body and prioritize your health.
The Holiday Season is Upon Us!
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Manual Lymph Drainage Massage (MLD) is a gentle, therapeutic technique that:
• Stimulates your lymphatic system
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Massage is POWERFUL! It’s not an indulgence. It’s not a treat. It’s an essential part of your overall well-being!
Book your Manual Lymph Drainage or Massage today!
Gift Cards are available for the holidays!
Providence Health and Fitness
18 South Street, 2nd Floor, New Providence 908-898-0008 providencehealthandfitness.com
Christian Kubick, Owner & Provider Supervising NJ HAD Lic. #25MG00099200
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Jill Venturella Patient Care Coordinator
DINING GUIDE
It is recommended to call in advance as reservations may be required.
BERKELEY HEIGHTS
Ami Sushi & Bar
538 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-898-1188 | www.amisushinj.com
Japanese restaurant featuring a wide selection of sushi, rolls, and other Japanese favorites.
Gabagool Deli & Italian Market
430 Springfield Avenue, Berkeley Heights 908-947-0206 / www.gabagoolbh.com
Italian tradition meets modern comfort with bold flavors and hearty portions.
Proud Thai Cookery
645 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-665-0055 | www.proudthainj.com
Authentic Thai cuisine
Trap Rock Restaurant & Brewery
279 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-665-1755 | www.traprockrestaurant.net
A microbrewery offering seasonal craft brews & a delicate menu that accentuates a southern flare.
CHATHAM
Charley’s Aunt Restaurant
8-10 S Passaic Ave, Chatham | 973-635-6772
www.charleysauntchatham.com
Traditional American cuisine.
Gregorio’s Mediterranean Restaurant
255A Main Street, Chatham | 973-635-2777 www.restaurantgregorios.com
Italian Mediterranean cuisine bursting with flavor.
Mitsuba Japanese Cuisine
237 Main St, Chatham | 973-635-3888 www.MitsubaChatham.com
Traditional Japanese specialties and cuisine
Scalini Fedeli
63 Main Street, Chatham | 973-701-9200 www.scalinifedeli.com
French-influenced Italian fixed-price menus in an elegant, vaulted interior with Tuscan touches.
GILLETTE
Vintage Tavern
342 Valley Rd, Gillette | 908-580-1100
www.VintageTavern.com
New American tavern with pub-grub standards, including burgers, thin-crust pizzas and more. Your go-to spot for sports, live entertainment, trivia, bingo, private parties & much more!
MADISON
Bottle Hill Tavern
13 Waverly Place,, Madison | 973-949-6060
www.thebottlehilltavern.com
Tavern Fare—Comfort Flare
Grillera Mediterranean Cuisine
91 Park Ave, Madison | 973-301-2080
www.grillera.com
Distinguished Mediterranean Cuisine
Krust Kitchen
7 Cross St, Madison | 908-525-7878
www.krustkitchen.com
Pizza place · Italian Restaurant · Dessert Shop
MAPLEWOOD
Artie’s
15 Newark Way, Maplewood | 973-378-5800
www.artiesnj.com
Destination featuring a bread bakery, plus a wood-fired pizzeria, wine & cocktails.
Luna Stella
5 Highland Pl, Maplewood | 973-761-7600
www.restaurantlunastella.com
New American with an emphasis on creativity, fresh ingredients, and inventive cocktails.
Osteria LK
180 Maplewood Avenue, Maplewood 973-327-2871
Elevated Italian cuisine
MILLBURN
La Pergola
120 Essex Street, Millburn | 973-376-6838
www.lapergolanj.com
La Pergola has curated a delightful outdoor garden dining experience, as well as a signature indoor dining space. So, whether you prefer to dine surrounded by the lush, flower-filled beauty of nature, or in the candlelit elegance of our chic interior, we look forward to serving you the region’s best Northern Italian cuisine in style!
Liv Breads
184 Essex Street, Millburn 973-218-6922 | livbreads.com
Artisan bakery & coffee bar
Ms. Lin Chinese Cuisine
59 Main St, Millburn | 973-912-8838
www.MsLinMillburn.com
Ms. Lin Chinese provides convenient take-out and delivery for lunch and dinner and specializes in off-premise catering.
Umi Sushi
339 Millburn Ave, Millburn | 973-921-2848
www.MillburnUmi.com
Traditional and Fusion sushi and sashimi. Also find teriyaki, tempura, udon and soba noodle dinners. Most fish is wild-caught. Free delivery.
NEW PROVIDENCE
Celestino’s Pizza & Ristorante 590 Central Avenue, New Providence 973-566-1078
Authentic Italian homemade dishes prepared with fresh ingredients.
Moe’s Bistro and Bar 535 Central Ave, New Providence 908-840-4540 | moesbistrobar.com
Located inside the Best Western Plus & Murray Hill Hotel and Suites, Full and varied menu with a Mediterranean flare. Full bar & live entertainment.
Providence Bar & Kitchen 1288 Springfield Avenue Italian-inspired cuisine
SHORT HILLS
Boxcar Bar & Grill 25 Chatham Rd, Short Hills | 973-912-0002 www.boxcarbar.com
Bar fare
Par 440 Restaurant & Lounge 440 Parsonage Hill Road, Short Hills | 973-467-8882
www.par440.com
A full service restaurant, bar & lounge located on the East Orange Golf Course in Short Hills. Offering bar bites, burgers and tasty entrees.
STIRLING
Trattoria Biagio 239 Main Avenue, Stirling | 908-350-8064
Authentic Italian cuisine
Twelve Islands Greek Taverna 1255 Valley Rd, Stirling | 908-647-2193
12islandsgreektaverna.com
Traditional Greek fare
Bar Barcoa
10 Maple Street, Summit | 908-273-6006
www.barbarcoanj.com
A slow-cooked Mexican smokehouse and taqueria.
Due 36
50 Maple St, Summit | 908-608-0222
Authentic Argentinian/Italian tapas restaurant
Huntley Taverne
3 Morris Avenue, Summit | 908-273-3166 thehuntleytaverne.com
Huntley Taverne dining experience offers classic seasonal cuisine, a 250 bottle wine list, two stone fireplaces, outdoor porch dining, and private events.
La Pastaria
327 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-522-9088 www.lapastaria.org
Italian cusine
Natale’s Summit Bakery
185 Broad St, Summit | 908-277-2074
natalesbakery.bakesmart.com
Enjoy a selection of house made specialties including breads, pastries, pies and cakes. Daily specials. This family owned and operated bakery is serving up their delicious twist on bakery classics for over 80 years.
Roots Steakhouse
401 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-273-0027
rootssteakhouse.com/summit
Old-fashioned NY- style Steakhouse—expect delicious USDA aged prime beef sourced from the highest quality ranches in the mid-west.
Tonydoms
529 Morris Avenue, Summit | 908-472-0187
www.tonydoms.com
Bone-in fried chicken, chicken tenders, sandwiches, biscuit sandwiches, wraps, bone-in fried chicken, fresh hand cut French fries, mac-n’ cheese, and hand-rolled biscuits.
Summit House Restaurant + Bar
395 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-273-6000
www.summithousenj.com
An American restaurant and bar offering seasonal cuisine, craft cocktails, fresh local beers, and terroir-driven wines.
Courage
BY BARRY FARBER
OOne of my favorite quotes on courage is:
“The secret to happiness is freedom… And the secret to freedom is courage.”
—Thucydides
Happiness comes from freedom— freedom to make your own choices, to pursue what truly matters, and to live a life guided by purpose rather than fear. But freedom doesn’t simply arrive on its own. It requires courage. Courage to take risks, to step away from the comfort of the crowd, and to confront fear rather than avoid it. It’s the quiet but powerful decision to move forward even when uncertainty stands in the way.
Last month we talked about Bosco the Bear and his secret about keeping a positive attitude and “giving a smile to all you see…” This month we turn to Sheba the Wolf, who represents courage and “being as brave as you can be…”
A positive attitude is important, but without the courage to act—especially when things become difficult—we never get to discover how strong, capable, and resilient we truly are. Courage is what transforms a hopeful mindset into meaningful results.
I often wonder what would have happened if I hadn’t made that difficult phone call, tried that new idea, or stepped into the unknown with a business concept that nobody else understood at the time. Every major turning point in my life came from a moment when fear whispered “don’t,” and courage answered back with “try.”
The word courage comes from the Latin cuer, meaning “heart.” At its core, courage is the strength of spirit that allows us to face danger, challenge, or uncertainty instead of shrinking away from it. It does not mean the absence of fear. In fact, those who feel no fear at all can become reckless, careless, and even dangerous to themselves and others.
Real courage means knowing fear—feeling it fully—yet choosing to move forward anyway. It’s looking fear in the eyes and saying, “You may slow me down, but you will not stop me.”
Many years ago, I came across an acronym for F.E.A.R.: False Evidence Appearing Real
Most of the time the fear we feel isn’t based on reality—it’s based on the story we think will happen. And that inner voice, if left unchecked, can talk us out of opportunities, growth, and experiences that were meant to shape our lives for the better. Don’t let that voice choose fear over action.
When we look back on our lives, we rarely remember the moments when everything felt easy. We remember the moments when we were challenged— when we confronted fear, acted with courage, and discovered something of value within ourselves. These are the stories we pass down to our children and grandchildren so they understand that fear is natural, but allowing fear to dictate our actions is a choice.
And in the end, we begin to see the truth behind Thucydides’ words:
Happiness comes from the freedom to act—and that freedom is only possible when we find the courage to take the first step.
“It’s not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that things are difficult.”
BARRY FARBER is a best-selling author, an award-winning radio and television host as well as an agent and marketing consultant for corporations, professional athletes, and entertainers. He’s also the creator and marketer of the FoldzFlat® Pens. His latest release is an inspirational children’s book, “In search of the magic tree,” available at www.barryfarber.com. Stay tuned for a new TV show on Pain & Pleasure and follow him @barryfarberofficial
–Seneca
©2025 Barry Farber
©2025 Barry Farber
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