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On The Spot

What Famous Person Would You Invite to Dinner and Why?

By Warren Westura

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Michael Knowles from the Daily Wire. He has a funny way of making political arguments.

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Roger Federer. He’s an idol and I admire how he plays and how he carries himself.

—Colleen Adamson, Summit

—Martin Trautmann, NYC

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Mother Teresa, she was such a humble person.

—Teresa Carvalho, Summit

Oprah! She’s dynamic, both intellectually and spiritually, so I would gain a lot from her.

Pauline Dunberg Amy Schwartz Donna Stanul

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—Lori Polk, Caldwell

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Warren Westura

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Larry Page, the founder of Google. I’d like to know how he got onto the whole idea of creating the search engine.

Kate Middleton, because she is a commoner who became a princess.

She’s so elegant, a great mom and has a great sense of style.

—Samir Padalkar, Summit

—Stephanie Biase, Montville Tim McGraw, because he is a fantastic entertainer and he is so good looking!

—Fran Biase, Montville

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In the Vicinity News and Happenings from the Area

10 Calendar of Events 30 The Art League of The Chathams Exhibit

17 Experience Stryxe For Your Special Event

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19 Decorate for Spring Events with Debbie’s Designs

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22 Home Pros 22 Living the Dream: The Boll & Branch Flagship Store at Short Hills Embodies a Peaceful Night’s Sleep 24 The Importance of Controlling Humidity 25 Your On-Stop-Shop for Outdoor Needs 26 Home Pros Resource Directory

32 Take Charge of Your Child’s Vision Health 35 Dining/Dessert Guide 38 Diamond Minds When Faith Meets Fear

On the Cover: Scott and Missy Tannen Open Flagship Store, Boll & Branch

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In The Vicinity

NCJW/Essex Launches “Carpool Conversations”

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ave you ever been caught unprepared for the questions your children ask or wondered what they talk about when they think you’re not listening? The newest NCJW/Essex project, Carpool Conversations, aims to provide parents with the tools necessary to engage in conversations with their children about difficult and sensitive topics –before they face issues – allowing them to grow up strong, kind and safe. The project’s launch event will take place on Thursday April 4, 2019 from 10:30am-12 at Congregation B’nai Jeshurun, Short Hills, NJ. Carpool Conversations arose out of an NCJW/Essex production of SLUT: The Play in 2017, a provocative drama that sparked a conversation about consent, sexism and sexual violence as well as how to parent children in a particularly challenging environment influenced by social media. Acknowledging that conversations often start when parents are taking their children to and from activities, when they are not expecting or prepared for them to happen, NCJW/Essex created Carpool Conversations as an opportunity to help educate parents on how to navigate through these sensitive conversations with their children.

The launch of Carpool Conversations will include a panel of local experts: Donna Ellenbogen, M.S. Ed., LCSW, Jacqueline Mesnik, PhD, Andrea Sherman, LCSW, and Abby Silverman, MD. With their unique perspectives, they will provide parents with the tools to engage in important conversations with their children as well as educate attendees on sensitive topics so they have a better understanding on how to address them in a discussion.

The goal of Carpool Conversations is to breakdown walls between parents and children and open up opportunities for dialogue and understanding. Following the launch event, NCJW/Essex will continue Carpool Conversations with small group discussions facilitated by professionals in private homes or at the NCJW/ Essex office about such topics as consent, sexuality explicit material, social media, body image and gender expectations.

The fee to attend the Carpool Conversations launch is $10 for NCJW/Essex members and $15 for nonmembers. For more information or to register, please call (973) 740-0588 or visit www.ncjwessex.org.

Meet the Mayors of Essex County

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his month, Essex County residents are invited to network with local officials and Chamber leadership members in the 9th annual “Meet the Mayors” event. The annual breakfast is hosted by feature seven local Chambers (Millburn-Short Hills, North Essex, West Orange, Maplewood, Montclair, South Orange, and Livingston). Business owners, employees, and residents alike are all invited to attend.

In addition, mayors from all 22 communities within Essex County, Little Falls, and Clifton have been invited to attend the public event. “Meet the Mayors” will feature guest speakers Senator Stephen Sweeney and Assemblyman Jon Bramnick, who will be discussing important issues affecting New Jersey.

Registration for this free event is required. For more information call 973379-1198. Register online at millburnshorthillschamber.org/events/mayors-2.

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The Running 4 Answers race features a 5k USATF-certified race and 2-mile fun run/fitness walk. Beginning at 8:30am at the Roseland Municipal Building, the courses travel through the tree-lined historic streets of Essex County. The fun family and community event will also have glitter tattoos, snacks, and an awards ceremony with prizes for the top three male and female finishers.

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Fresh Perspectives Exhibition The Morris Museum celebrates the creativity of New Jersey high school student artists by hosting the annual Fresh Perspectives juried exhibition. The final selection includes drawings, photographs, paintings, prints, sculptures, mixed media works, and video. Bickford and Bush-Compton Galleries of the Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

Calendar of Events APRIL 2019 Art Exhibits “A Cache of Kinetic Art: Simply Steampunk” Exhibit

Narrative Threads: New Jersey Quilts & Textiles The exhibit showcases historic textiles from METC’s collection. It also features pieces made by contemporary NJ textile artists who draw inspiration from the past, while continuing to forge an exciting new future for the craft. Runs through June 9. Museum of Early Trades & Crafts,9 Main St., Madison. 973-377-2982. www.metc.org

Pen to Paper: Investigating Famous, Historical Letters

Developed and curated by the staff of the Morris Museum’s unique Guinness Collection, the exhibition features a collection of juried kinetic art selected by a distinguished panel of experts. The exhibition will be on view through August 11. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3728. www.morrismuseum.org

Examine documents from our Founding Fathers, past presidents, famous writers, and inventors and discover the clues that letters can reveal. Learn about the various writing tools used over the course of time and how communication has evolved, from the quill pen to text messaging. Find out how a forensic handwriting expert uses handwriting to determine a person’s character, psychological state and identity. Runs through July 7. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3728. www.morrismuseum.org

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Monday, April 1 Computer Classes April classes are PowerPoint and LinkedIn (must have LinkedIn account set up prior to class). Please call for dates and times. Computer training is available to all women at all levels. Fee is $85 per course.

NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973-994-4994. www.centerforwomenNJ.org for more information.

Career Services This ongoing program is a service of our vocational counseling, which holds one-on-one meetings and group workshops designed to help women enter the job market, return to the workplace, or make a career change. Services include goal setting, career planning, resume writing, interviewing skills, and job search strategies. Clients may also visit the Career Closet to be outfitted with work appropriate clothing. Please contact NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973994-4994. www.centerforwomenNJ.org

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Women’s Workshops April program is Unravel the Mystery of Meditation and Mindfulness.

Please call for date and time. Free for NCJW members. Non-members is $7 per workshop. NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973-9944994. www.centerforwomenNJ.org

Jazz Mondays!

Love big band music? Stop by and listen to some great tunes, Played by Glenn Franke and his very talented 16 piece Jazz Band. 8-10pm. SuzyQues BBQ and Bar, 43 South Valley Red., West Orange, 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

YBMCC Summer Camp Registration

Weeklong day summer camps provide top notch skills instruction and promote sportsmanship, respect, teamwork and excellence. Baseball camp: July 29-Aug. 2, 9am-3pm. Softball camp: Aug. 5-9, 9am-3pm. Both camps focus on fundamentals and fun. For ages 7-13. Lunch included daily. Early bird discount! Sign up on the website before April 30 to save $30 per camper. Yogi Berra Museum, 8 Yogi Berra Dr., Little Falls. 973-6552378. www.yogiberramuseum.org/ education/camps

Iconic Culture: From Little Black Dress to Bell Bottoms Morris County Historical Society explores 50 years of cultural history through clothing styles and how they mirrored the social climate with a focus on New Jersey history. 1pm.

Morris County Historical Society at Acorn Hall 68 Morris Ave., Morristown. morriscountyhistory.org/visitacorn-hall

LAW (Legal Assistance For Women) Ongoing program that provides clients with a confidential consultation with a professional to determine how best to approach a legal concern.

Appointments must be scheduled in advance. Fee is $12. NCJW/Essex Center for Women, 70 South Orange Ave., Suite 120, Livingston. 973-9944994. www.centerforwomenNJ.org

Tuesday, April 2 Italian-American Genealogy Tony Lauriano, genealogy specialist, will offer a step by step approach to overcome obstacles in Italian-American genealogy research utilizing USA records, Italian customs, and naming traditions to help in the search. He will also discuss confirming family stories using genealogy methods.

7 pm. Pre-registration is requested at 973-635-0603. Library of the Chathams, 214 Main St., Chatham. www.chathamlibrary.org

College Admissions Essay Workshop Students will learn tips for choosing essay topics, how to make their essay stand out, and basic strategies for writing a cohesive, representative piece that will impress college admissions reviewers. Learn from Joe Pickton, New Providence resident, parent, Language Arts teacher, and tutor. Register for this event on NP Community Pass. Teens Grades 9-12. 7-8pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Summit Old Guard Caregivers Program Tracy Carroll, coordinator of the Morrow Memorial Church Caregivers program, will discuss the needs, problems and techniques for successful caregiving. 9:3011:30am. New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-591-4759. www.summitoldguard.org

Blues Tuesdays Andy Lockow’s Blues Jam, plays it the way you like it. 8-11pm. SuzyQues BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange. 973-736-7899. www.suzyques.com

Wednesday, April 3 Jazz Jam Wednesdays Sit in with Mike Lee and friends or just enjoy the jam. 8pm. SuzyQues BBQ and Bar, 34 South Valley Rd., West Orange.

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Beginners and newcomers welcome. No partners needed. Every Wednesday 7-11pm. 973-228-5966. www.njfolkdance.tripod.com/fd_ morristown.html (continued on page 12)

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Book to Plate: The Gefilte Manifesto

Just in time for Passover, meet Liz Alpern and Jeffrey Yoskowitz the authors of “The Gefilte Manifesto: New Recipes for Old World Jewish Foods.”

Learn about how the two are reimagining and revitalizing Old World Jewish foods and inspiring a new generation to get in the kitchen. Guests will sample Passover recipes from their book including handmade matzo, kugel and spongecake. 6:30-8pm. The Book House, 281 Essex St., Millburn. 973-281-6262. www.thebookhousemillburn.com

Thursday, April 4 The Hunchback of Notre Dame Musical

In Mr. Stickley’s Home: The Essential Tour Largely restored to its 1910-1917 appearance, the Log House at Craftsman Farms is the only home Stickley designed and built for his own use. Visitors are taken through the two main floors of Stickley’s Log House, offering an in-depth look at Stickley’s life and work. The knowledgeable docents afford every visitor the opportunity to ask questions and discuss areas of interest. The 1 1/4 hr tours depart from the Museum Shop. Tours on the quarter hour from 12:15-3:15. Open Thurs-Sun. The Stickley Museum at Craftsman Farms, 2352,Route 10 West, Morris Plains. www.stickleymuseum.org

Book Discussion Group The library is celebrating 50 years of service at the current location and this novel, “Travels with My Aunt” by Graham Greene, was popular in 1969. Henry Pulling, a retired bank manager, is dragged into crime and exotic travel by his wayward Aunt Augusta.

The novel explores the sorrows of war, a hilarious send-up of 1960s counter culture, and surprising revelations about Henry himself. Graham Greene described his most enjoyably straightforward comedy as ‘the only book I have written for the fun of it”.

Refreshments served. 7pm. To reserve a copy of the book call 973-376-4930 x228. The Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield.

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Deirdre’s House Wine and Whiskey Tasting

There will be numerous wine and whiskey vendors, dinner and dessert, a wine/spirit pull, and silent auction. Proceeds from the event help continue to provide vital services to child victims of abuse and/or neglect in Morris County. 6:30-10pm. Hyatt Regency, 3 Speedwell Ave., Morristown. Register at bidpal. net/2019bhwinewhiskey

Computer Training Free computer lessons Thursday morning, by appointment. Sign up for an individual half-hour lesson on basic computer skills. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

Stuffed Animal Sleepover

Benny & Joon Musical This new musical is a smart, funny, tender-hearted celebration of love: between children and parents; romantic partners; friends; and, most of all, siblings.

Runs through May 5. Call for dates and times. Paper Mill Playhouse, 22 Brookside Drive, Millburn. 973376-4343. papermill.org/shows-tickets

Greenwood Gardens Birdwalk Based on the 1831 novel by Victor Hugo and songs from the Disney animated movie, deformed Notre Dame bell ringer, Quasimodo, longs to be “Out There” among the local Parisians. Will he rescue his beloved Esmeralda? Ages 12+.Local senior citizens are invited to attend the final dress rehearsal on April 3 at 3:30pm immediately followed by a complimentary dinner hosted by the Chatham Education Association. To R.S.V.P. to the senior dinner, please call 973-701-8037 or email debbie.haeringer@gmail.com. 6pm and April 5 & 6 at 7:30pm. CHS Performing Arts Center, 255 Lafayette Ave., Chatham Township. For tickets visit www.chshunchback.brownpapertickets.com

Friday, April 5

Tour Greenwood Gardens in search of early spring migrants. Explore several habitats including hardwood forest, conifer stands, ponds, and meadows.

Registration with Greenwood Gardens is required for this trip. 8am-11pm. Greenwood Gardens, 274 Old Short Hills Rd., Short Hills. Please register at 973258-4026 or online at www.greenwoodgardens.org

Arboretum Artists: Initial Impressions Surround your initials in a unique botanically-inspired watercolor design, and create a personalized masterpiece. Ages 8-12. 4- 5pm. The Frelinghuysen Arboretum, 353 Hanover Ave., Morris Township. To register call, 973-326-7601.

“Why Don’t My Kids Listen to Me?” Workshop The Iris Family Center for Early Childhood Education—TSTI’s preschool—invites parents of children ages 2-1/2 to 5 attend. The free workshop will be presented by Lisa DiSciullo, CPCC, a certified parent trainer and life coach, who will teach parents how to gain their children’s cooperation without nagging, bribing or yelling. To register, email cpaster@tstinj. org. 7:30pm. Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel, 432 Scotland Rd., South Orange.

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Children are invited to bring their favorite stuffed animal or doll for a sleepover at the Museum. After snack and story time, the stuffed friends are tucked in, kissed goodnight and left in the good hands of the METC staff. When children return anytime between 10am & 4 pm on Sat. April 6 for pick up, they will decorate a framed picture of their favorite friend showing the “trouble” they got into at the Museum.

4-5pm. Museum of Early Trades & Crafts,9 Main St., Madison. Registration is required. 973-377-2982. www.metc.org/events

Yacht Rock Revue The Yacht Rock Revue is everything the late ‘70s and early ‘80s should have been: massive sing-along soft rock hits, tight bell-bottom jeans, impeccable musicianship, polyester shirts, glorious vocal harmonies, sunglasses at night, breezy dancing and sax … lots of sax. Music and songs includes Hall & Oates, Kenny Loggins and Michael Jackson to one-hit wonders.

9pm. Wellmont Theater, 5 Seymour St., Montclair.

973-783-9500. www.thewellmonttheater.com

80’s Mixtape Dance Party Dance to the DJ with all of your favorite pop hits that made the 80’s the most awesome decade of dance.

Full bar and lounge food menu available. 8-11pm.

Followed by an eclectic DJ mix until closing. The Dome Rooftop Lounge at the Manor, 973-731-2360. www.themanorrestaurant.com

Musical Theatre Conservatory Auditions

Auditions! Broadway Boot Camp! July 1st-20th. Final Show in N.Y.C. Exciting classes in singing, dancing, TV/ acting, comedy, stage combat, auditioning and more. Meet and train with Agents and B’way Professionals. Ages 7-18, beg.- adv. levels. Pool party. To schedule appt.- Call Randy: 973-8686259.

Saturdays Under The Stars The DJ spins current dance hits along with a freestyle mashup of dance songs from across the decades under the stars in the one-of-a-kind all glass enclosed Dome lounge. Doors open 6pm. DJ 8pm-1am. Cocktail table seating & bar seating and lounge food menu available. Doors open 6pm. The Dome Rooftop Lounge at the Manor, 973-731-2360. www.themanorrestaurant.com

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Saturday, April 6 PAL Easter Egg Hunt Hop on over to the Village Green for this annual egg hunt event, featuring live entertainment and prize baskets including a select number from Sweet Nothings. In total, the Easter Bunny is prepared to hide over 10,000 eggs including a handful of specially marked prize eggs at the 2019 event. Three Egg Hunts, ages 2 & under, ages 3 & 4 and ages 5+. Specially marked prize eggs will include a “Prize” note inside with instructions on where to pick up a prize basket. All hunts at 1pm.

Village Green, 356 Broad St., Summit. summitcommunityprograms. com/291/Easter-Egg-Hunt

Tony Award winner John Lloyd Young originated the role of Frankie Valli in Broadway’s Tony Award winning Best Musical and international hit, Jersey Boys. Mr. Young went on to win the Lead Actor Tony, Drama Desk, Outer Critics Circle and Theatre World Awards, becoming the only American actor in history to win all four leading actor awards for a Broadway debut.

8pm. Centenary Stage, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908-979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org (continued on page 14)

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Pet Therapy Information Session Attend a free Information Session that answers the question “What does it take to become a certified pet therapy team with Creature Comfort?” We welcome owners of friendly, well-behaved pets to discover how they can bring joy and comfort to those in hospitals, nursing homes, shelters, schools and other facilities. Information Session takes place at Atlantic Rehabilitation Center, Room 222, 95 Mt. Kemble Ave., Morristown. 9:30am–Noon.

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Focus on techniques used to photograph wildlife, especially birds. In addition to reviewing equipment selection and use, the topics of time of day, weather, composition and light will be covered. Students will be introduced to critical variables to control in bird/ wildlife photography, such as exposure and shutter speed. 1-30pm. Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville. Call 908396-6386 to register by April 4.

The “Taste of Summit” is a gourmet extravaganza featuring more than 20 of Summit’s finest restaurants and food merchants. Each restaurant will be serving delicious “tastes” showcasing their special dishes spanning many cuisines, including Italian, American and Mexican. There will also be scrumptious desserts and a cash bar. Children under the age of twelve can enjoy their own eats and special activities while listening to music from local favorite Paul Fessock of Summit’s World of Rock.

There will also be raffle drawing for 3 fantastic prizes. 6-8:30pm. The Grand Summit Hotel, 570 Springfield Ave., Summit. For tickets call 908-277-1747 or send a check payable to The Summit Historical Society, P. O. Box 464, Summit or purchase at the door.

Siblings Class A class for the whole family designed to reduce children’s anxieties when separating with their mothers at the time of delivery. This class promotes a good feeling about the hospital and provides children with realistic expectations of newborn babies. 9-10:30am. Saint Barnabas Medical Center, 94 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston. Online registration required: rwjbh.org/sbmcevents.

Harmonium Choral Society Presents: Bach’s St. Matthew Passion In celebration of Harmonium’s 40th anniversary, Artistic Director Dr. Anne J. Matlack leads the acclaimed 100-voice choral society in this rarely-performed work, making it a “can’t miss” event.

Sung in German, the performance will include supertitles of the English translation. Audience members are encouraged to buy tickets in advance.1:30pm.

St. Mary’s Abbey at Delbarton School, Morristown. Professional parking shuttle service will be provided for various parking lots on the Delbarton campus.

973-538-6969. www.visitharmonium. yapsody.com to purchase tickets.

Library Program Singer, dancer, and instrumentalist Richard Stillman presents “A World Mosaic of Music and Dance”. He will perform native dances from Europe (Italy, Spain, Ireland, Scotland), Asia (China, Russia, Bali), North America (Mexico, Puerto Rico), and Africa. 2pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

Book Presentation & Signing

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In his new book “Revolutionary New Jersey-Forgotten towns and Crossroads of the American Revolution,” author and historian Bob Mayers rediscovers these sacred local places with new information found in original military documents, in British and Hessian accounts and by on foot exploration. 1-3pm. Jacobus Vanderveer House, 3055 River Rd., Park, Bedminster. Register at www.jvanderveerhouse.org

Jamie Novak, organizing expert, humorist, and author of “Keep This, Toss That,” will give you practical advice on decluttering your home, just in time for real estate season. Free, no registration necessary. 3pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Steampunk 101: Scorsese’s Hugo Film Screening

Historic and Current Medicinal Plants Hundreds of years ago, your garden was your pharmacy. Dorothy Smullen will give a PowerPoint presentation showing which plants were used then and why. See what plants are still important today as sources for medicine.1:30-3pm. Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville. Please call 908396-6386 to register by April 5.

Drew Art Show Members of the Drew Art Association will hold a Fabulous Fakes show featuring their own interpretations of paintings by famous artists. A reception, sponsored by the Friends of the Library of the Chathams, 2:154pm. All are welcome to attend.

The show may also be viewed during regular library hours through April 28. Library of the Chathams, 214.

Main St., Chatham. 973-635-0603. www.chathamlibrary.org

27th Annual Easter Bunny Express

Parisian orphan Hugo discovers a mysterious automaton left by his father. Seeking the key to unlock the machine, he embarks on a quest that will transform those around him and lead to a safe and loving place he can call home. Following the film, join the Guinness Collection staff for a tour of Simply Steampunk. Directed

by Martin Scorsese. 1pm. Bickford Theatre at Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. www.morrismuseum.org

Monday, April 8 “Botanical Jewelry” Presentation Linda Williams uses plant materials like leaves, flowers and berries to create pieces of jewelry. She will show how to gather, dry, prep paint and assembly materials to make these pieces. Refreshments will be served. 7-8:30pm.

New Providence DeCorso Center, 15 East 4th St., New Providence. www.npgardenclubweebly.com

The Lunchtime Film Series Celebrate the return of Spring with a ride on the “Easter Bunny Express”, a 10-mile, 45-minute round trip excursion from Whippany to Roseland with the Easter Bunny onboard. Tickets for this annual Easter tradition make great gifts for the kids and the entire family. Also April 13 &14 and April 20.

1-4pm on the hour. Whippany Railway Museum, 1 Railroad Plaza, at the Intersection of Route 10 West & Whippany Rd., Whippany. 973-887-8177. www.WhippanyRailwayMuseum.net

Presenting Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again (2018). 1pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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“The Bountiful Herb Garden”

Thursday, April 11 Parkinson’s Awareness Day Event

Caren White, the Garden Steward of Rutgers Herb Garden and a lifelong gardener, will explain how to plant and care for herbs, discuss why timing and technique are the keys to maximizing the harvest from herb gardens and the optimal methods to harvest leaves, flowers, seeds, and roots; and how to preserve them for future use. 7:30pm. Maplewood Memorial Library, 51 Baker St., Maplewood. www.maplewoodgardenclub

Tuesday, April 9 Breakfast Briefing: Disposing of Nonrecyclables the Right Way Disposing of our trash can be somewhat tricky, leaving us with more questions than answers. April, known as “spring cleaning” month, is a time to get rid of the stuff that has accumulated during our winter hibernation. Get your home in tip-top shape while keeping Mother Nature happy. Get the facts on disposing old computers and leftover medications and more. This program is free to all GSWA members; a $10 donation is appreciated from non-members. 8-9:30am.

Great Swamp Watershed Association Headquarters, 568 Tempe Wick Rd., Morristown. Register at www.GreatSwamp.org or call 973-538-3500.

As part of its Parkinson’s Awareness Day, the Parkinson’s Disease Patient and Family Advisory Committee at SBMC will host a celebration and educational event for those with Parkinson’s disease as well as their caregivers, family and friends. Speakers will include Arash Fazl, MD, PhD, who specializes in movement disorders, Parkinson’s disease, dystonia, tremor and deep brain stimulation, and Paul R. Gigante, MD, a neurosurgeon who specializes in frameless deep brain stimulation for Parkinson’s disease and essential tremor. 11:30am-1pm. Free, registration required. Saint Barnabas Medical Center, 94 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston. 1-888-724-7123 or rwjbh.org/sbmcevents.

The Suburban Music Study Club Recital Performers will include the Berkshire Trio; Clarissa Schoch, soprano; Charity Wicks, piano; Melissa Juska, mezzo-soprano. The event is free and handicap accessible with ample parking. 10:30am. Madison Public Library, 39 Keep St., Madison. Contact info 973-3770722 and www.suburbanmusicstudyclub.com

Make and Take Workshop: Early Spring Container Plant spring flowering bulbs and pansies, and create a colorful arrangement of flowers to bring home.

Adults. 7- 8pm. The Frelinghuysen Arboretum, 353 Hanover Ave., Morris Township. To register, 973326-7601.

Latin Dance Party

James Brodie will present insights on food security. The program will commence at 9:30-11:30am.

New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-591-4759. www.summitoldguard.org

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Friday, April 12 Musical Theatre Conservatory Auditions Auditions! Broadway Boot Camp! July 1st-20th. Final Show in N.Y.C. Exciting classes in singing, dancing, TV/acting, comedy, stage combat, auditioning and more. Meet and train with Agents and B’way Professionals. Ages 7-18, beg.- adv. levels. Pool party. To schedule appt.- Call Randy: 973-868-6259.

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Includes everything you need to create a 6” fondant cake to take home and enjoy with your family and friends. Cake flavor: Vanilla with chocolate fudge filling. Participants in this class must be at least 21 years of age. Participants are welcome to bring snacks and beverages. Napkins, plates, wine glasses, plastic cups, and cutlery provided. Approximately 2.5 hours. Culunary Evening at the Foundry, 8 Budd St., Morristown. www.foundry8budd.com/events

Each session includes guided relaxation, breathwork, and seated stretching / poses. Tamara Tsoutsouris will lead the classes. Also April 26th at 12:30 pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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Every Rembrandt exhibition is eagerly anticipated but this major show, hosted by London’s National Gallery and Amsterdam’s Rijksmuseum, was an event like no other. Given privileged access to both galleries, the film documents this landmark exhibition while interweaving Rembrandt’s life story, with behind-thescenes preparations at these world famous institutions. 7:30pm. Bickford Theatre at Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. 973-971-3700. www.morrismuseum.org

Spring Time Fondant Cake Decorating Class

Warm up the winter dancing to the rythms of the rich variety of upbeat Latin music performed by our special DJ. Enjoy featured cocktails and the new lounge food menu. Latin dance music 8-11pm followed by an eclectic DJ mix until closing. The dome Rooftop Lounge at the Manor, 111 Prospect Ave., West Orange. 973-731-2360.

Suburban Music Study Club Program Performers: Clarissa Schoch, soprano; Berkshire Trio; Melissa Juska, mezzo soprano; Charity Wicks, piano.

Free to the public. 10:30am. Chase Room at the Madison Library, 39 Keep St., Madison.

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Families with youngsters from preschool through second grade are invited to the Young Families Pasta before Passover Shabbat Dinner. There will be a holiday-related activity and pasta dinner (gluten-free pasta available upon request). 5pm. Everyone is invited to stay for the “Come as you Are” Shabbat service at 6pm. Please register in advance at sfantacone@tstinj. org; include names of adults and children, and children’s ages. Temple Sharey Tefilo-Israel, 432 Scotland Rd., South Orange.

The Pirates of Penzance Musical Students perform Gilbert and Sullivan’s zany operetta that follows a young man mistakenly apprenticed to a pirate. Conflict ensues and madcap madness abounds, but love wins in the end. Also April 13, 7:30pm. William Paterson University, Shea Center, 300 Pompton Rd., Wayne. 973-720-2371. www.WP-Presents.org

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Iconic singer-songwriter, Melissa Etheridge, is performing her new “Medicine Show Tour” which includes her biggest hits like, “I’m the Only One” and “Come to My Window,” as well as new songs off her 15th studio album. The new album sheds light on America’s ongoing opioid crisis and commemorates victims of the tragic Parkland, Fla. school shooting. Every pair of tickets purchased includes a “Medicine Show” digital download or CD. 8pm. Wellmont Theater, 5 Seymour St., Montclair. 973-783-9500. www.thewellmonttheater.com

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Easter Egg Hunt Event features refreshments, prizes, a special guest with very long ears, a petting zoo and pony rides. 10 am (rain date Sunday). For 8 and under.

Matthew G. Kantor Memorial Park, 915 Valley Rd., Gillette. 908-6478000.

Easter Egg Hunt The Easter Bunny arrives at 9:15am and the hunt begins at 9:30am. PreK–2nd grade. Sponsored by the New Providence Lions Club, this annual event takes place rain or shine. Baring a can pr box of non-perishable food for OLP Food Panrty. Oakwood Park, 1 Roessner Place, New Providence. www.newprov.org

Zoo Storytime with the Easter Bunny Hop on over to the Zoo this spring!

Ticket includes: reading of two stories, meet & greet and takeaway photo with the Easter Bunny and animal presentation. All children must be accompanied by a paying adult. Recommended for children ages 12 and younger. Children under two are free, but should register for a ‘Under 2 years old’ ticket.

Turtle Back Zoo, 560 Northfield Ave., West Orange. 973-731-5800 www.turtlebackzoo.com/events

New Eyes Fabulous Finds Resale Shop Sale Find great bargains on fine and vintage jewelry, watches, designer sunglasses, and small home decorative items. Proceeds fund eyeglasses for the needy in the US. 10am-1pm. The shop is also open Thursdays, 1pm3pm, and accepts donations of jewelry, watches and high-end housewares. New Eyes for the Needy, 549 Millburn Ave., Short Hills. 973-3764088.

Workers on the Farm: 1900s Immigration Experience Experience a day in the life of Irish immigrant farm workers and house servants who worked for the Foster family during the 19th and 20th centuries. Take an exciting journey through history learning their unique stories, help with farm chores and spring cleaning duties, and enjoy Irish-American musical performances. Visit the farm animals, too. Fosterfields Living Historical Farm, 73 Kahdena Rd., Morris Township. 973326-7645. www.morrisparks.net

Sunday, April 14 Stirling Street Fair The street will be transformed into a giant town block party. Come to shop, come hungry to eat all kinds of delicious foods & deserts, and enjoy a full array of children’s play activities. There will also be live music, dance and demonstrations from the local dancing schools, karate clubs and more. 10am-5pm. Main Ave. between Mercer and Somerset Sts., Stirling.

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Decorate for Spring Events with Debbie’s Designs

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t is no surprise that spring is a popular time to host events such as weddings, bar/bat mitzvahs, sweet 16’s, corporate events, and milestone events. The snow is gone, temperatures are warmer and spring flowers are in bloom. It is also the time when country clubs re-open and party venues are in high demand.

Orhan Oncul, who owns East Hanover-based Debbie’s Designs— a one-stop-shop industry leader in event planning, design and production for distinctive social events—says he loves planning spring events where he can use blooming branches such as Cherry Blossoms, and peonies in centerpieces and arches.

“We help those planning parties save money and avoid the frustration of working with multiple vendors,” says Oncul. “Clients work directly with us on everything from decorations, furniture and florals to custom graphics, lighting and more.”

According to Oncul, this spring we will see themes based on pastel colors like pinks, peaches and yellows, with beautiful greeneries. Teen bar/bat mitzvah party lounges will be bursting with lights, blown up photos, logos and taglines. Oncul also says he expects to see a lot of outdoor parties.

“When the weather allows, we will start taking parties outside where we can change up the scenery and backgrounds and

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move around plants and flowers,” says Oncul. “We will also do outdoor photo pre-shoots as well as wedding after parties, comprising of acoustic guitars, marshmallow roasting, and a sprinkling of lights overhead.”

“Spring is a beautiful time of year to create one-of-a-kind unforgettable moments,” says Oncul.

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2019 Millburn Spring Street Fair and Craft Show

Annual Spring Luncheon The event will feature a delicious lunch, entertainment by James Michael, a renowned Broadway singer and a chance on “Lady Luck” for prizes consisting of gift cards to local restaurants and shopping sprees.

Proceeds from the event will benefit the Madison Community House. Basking Ridge Country Club, 185 Madisonville Rd., Basking Ridge. Purchase tickets at www.thursdaymorningclub.org or by calling 973-3772044.

Eco-Friendly Yard Care Browse and shop a variety of vendors, artists and crafters selling their items. Also there will be rides, live music, entertainment, great food and other activities. Free admission. 11am-5pm. Downtown Millburn.

Kid’s Easter Workshop and Egg Hunt Crafts, Easter cookie decorating, story time, plus hunting for Easter Eggs. Cost: One non-perishable food item/child for the Interfaith Food Pantry. 3-4pm.

Trinity Lutheran Church, 131 Mountain Way, Morris Plains. 973-538-7606.

Watercolor Techniques for Painting Flowers and Leaves Artist Rae Hoffman will show participants how to have fun painting flowers and leaves using various techniques: wet into wet, wet into dry, negative painting, and sprinkling dry paint. She is a member of Studio 7 in Bernardsville and has paintings in national and international collections. 1-4pm. Frelinghuysen Arboretum, 252 East Hanover Ave., Morris Township. 973-326-7601. www.arboretumfriends.org

Join Gray Russell, the Sustainability Officer for the Township of Montclair, for an interesting discussion explaining why environmentally-friendly yard care is a simple and effective way to improve lawns and gardens. Topics include composting, lawn care without toxic chemicals, water-wise gardening, backyard wildlife habitats, integrated pest management, native plants, and biodiversity. 1pm. Van Vleck House & Gardens, 21 Van Vleck St., Montclair. Registration deadline date: April 9th. To register: online at vanvleck.org, email education@vanvleck.org or call 973744-4752 ext 3. 7– 8:30pm.

Mini-Camp: Garden Palooza

Warm up the winter dancing to the rythms of the rich variety of upbeat Latin music peformed by a special guest DJ. 8-11pm. Enjoy featured cocktails and an eclectic mix of dance music until closing at 1am. The Dome Rooftop Lounge at the Manor, 111 Prospect Ave., West Orange. 973-731-2360. www.themanorrestaurant.com

Musical Theatre Conservatory Auditions Auditions! Broadway Boot Camp! July 1st-20th. Final Show in N.Y.C. Exciting classes in singing, dancing, TV/acting, comedy, stage combat, auditioning and more. Meet and train with Agents and B’way Professionals. Ages 7-18, beg.- adv. levels. Pool party. To schedule appt.- Call Randy: 973-868-6259.

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The 50th Anniversary Retrospective Film Series presents “On Her Majesty’s Secret Service (1969),” starring George Lazenby as James Bond. 6:30pm.

Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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Mini-Camp: Nature Sleuths

Join Kenneth Miller, MD. Ophthalmologist with Saint Barnabas Medical Center, for a presentation about cataracts and the effects in the elderly population. He will discuss possible treatment options and management. 11:30am. South Orange Senior Circle, Baird Center, 5 Mead St., South Orange.

Free; registration required: 1-888-724-7123 or www.rwjbh.org/sbmcevents

The Lunchtime Film Series

Get crafty and make a pretty springtime craft perfect to brighten up your room or give as a gift this upcoming Mother’s Day. 3:30pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence.

908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Become Nature Detectives and explore the gardens and woodlands searching for clues that animals leave behind. 9am-Noon. 165 Hobart Ave., Summit. 908273-8787. www.reeves-reedarboretum.org

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Reverent Frank wade, former rector of St. Alban’s Church in Washington, D.C. will talk about retirement and how to make it the Golden Years. 9:3011:30am. New Providence Municipal Building, 360 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-591-4759. www.summitoldguard.org

Family Movie: Mary Poppins Returns Mary Poppins returns to save the day and take the Banks family on a magical fun-filled adventure. Children 10 and under must be accompanied by an adult. 3pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

Join us in the garden for games, crafts, food and of course gardening! Ages 4-8. 1-3pm. Reeves-Reed Arboretum, 165 Hobart Ave., Summit. 908-273-8787. www.reeves-reedarboretum.org

Thursday, April 18 The International Film Festival Presenting Bye Bye Germany (2017). 1 & 7pm.

Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

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Sunday, April 21 Easter Bunny Breakfast The Easter Bunny Breakfast is really 2 events in one: It is a bunny breakfast and an Easter Egg hunt. The event features a breakfast of bagels, orange juice and coffee, a free Easter basket, an Easter Egg hunt and a chance to meet the Easter Bunny. Picture your child and the Easter Bunny together for a fantastic memory. 10am-Noon. Imagine That Children’s Museum, 4 Vreeland Rd, Florham Park, 908-966-8000. www.imaginethatmuseum.com

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Monday, April 22 Carbohydrate Counting For Persons with Diabetes Jennifer Meyers, RD, and Deanna Schweighardt, RD, certified diabetes educators with the Center for Diabetes Wellness and Prevention, will lead a discussion about carbohydrates in relationship to diabetes. This class will focus on how carbohydrates affect blood sugars, review carbohydrate counting skills, identify portion size, as well as discuss label reading. 6:307:30pm. Barnabas Health Ambulatory Care Center, 200 South Orange Ave., Livingston. Free; registration required: 888-724-7123.

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The Mental Health Association in New Jersey discusses “How to Help Your Loved One with a Behavioral Health Issue”. 7pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973-376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

The Lunchtime Film Series Presenting A Star Is Born (2018).

1pm. Springfield Free Public Library, 66 Mountain Ave., Springfield. 973376-4930. www.sfplnj.org

Tuesday, April 23 Art at the Museum

Amazing Arboretum Challenge - Earth Day Edition

Explore a variety of art techniques inspired by METC’s building and grounds, including reliefs, printmaking and sun prints. (5/28 make-up day if needed) For grades: 1-5. 4:155:15pm. Museum of Early Trades & Crafts,9 Main St., Madison. Registration is required. 973-377-2982. www.metc.org

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Come to the Arboretum after school for a very special Earth Day edition of the Arboretum Challenge! You will learn how to use a map and a compass so that you can search for clues to solve a puzzle. The themed riddles are sure to make you think, all while learning more about the importance of Earth Day. Registration is required. Ages 6+. 4-5:30pm.

Reeves-Reed Arboretum, 165 Hobart Ave., Summit. 908-273-8787. www.reeves-reedarboretum.org

Dust Off The Ivories – Piano Classes-Group Adults who could not read a note of music are able to play simple tunes, chord changes and even transpose by the time the class is over. Classes are taught by Gilda Carmel Spielberg-M.A.New York University who has conducted all levels internationally and locally. 7-8:15pm Piano 1 & 8:15-9:30pm Piano 2, Mondays. 9:3010:45am Piano, April 24 Wednesday.

For more information call Chatham Adult School 973-443-9222. Chatham Middle School, 480 Main St., Chatham.

NAMI Union County – an affiliate of the National Alliance on Mental Illness will have a psychiatrist from RWJ Barnabas Health speak about Mental Health and Gender Differences. Free.

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The BOLL & BRANCH Flagship Store at Short Hills Embodies a Peaceful Night’s Sleep Feeling is Believing at This Fair-Trade Certified, Luxury Home Goods Store

By Jessica Schiffenhaus Photos courtesy of Boll & Branch

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f you haven’t already heard of Boll & Branch, it’s the fiveyear-old brand taking the sleep industry by storm with its luxurious, fair-trade certified, 100% organic cotton sheets that deliver all the bang at a very reasonable buck. And now, the once online-only brand is located just around the corner—at Boll & Branch’s new flagship store in the Mall at Short Hills.

At the heart of the company are Scott and Missy Tannen— Chatham, NJ residents—who started their journey with a very simple quest: finding the best quality sheets. As it turned out, the solution was to make their own.

“Once we found out that thread count didn’t define the quality of a sheet, we spent months researching, trying to find out what really made the best sheets,” said Missy. “We realized not only was there a better way to communicate the best sheets to customers—there was also a better way to manufacture and farm the materials.”

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One of the most important qualities about Boll & Branch is its mission. “We decided to make a really high-quality product in the most ethical way possible,” said Scott. Boll & Branch has a completely transparent supply chain, and all its products are Fair Trade certified. This ensures that the organic cotton farmers and factory workers in India are working in safe conditions and making above a living wage—improving the quality of life for thousands of people.

Fast forward five years, and Boll & Branch is thriving. “There’s nothing that gives us as a company more pride than knowing we can have a successful retail store right in our own backyard,” said Missy. “We can jump in the car and interact with customers and hear their reactions of new product launches,” added Scott.

Boll & Branch now offers ‘the whole package’ in addition to its sheets. Customers can cozy up in cable-knit throws, deck their beds in stylish pillows, and indulge in airy duvets. But, in this writer’s opinion, the most stand-out new addition to the line is the mattress.

“We started getting a lot of different requests from our customers to add a mattress,” said Missy. “And the world didn’t need another foam mattress in a box.” Instead, the world received a made-to-order mattress with layers of supportive, cushiony and cool materials, wrapped in organic cotton for comfort and breathability. One of the mattress’s unique qualities is the layer with thousands of micro-coils, which provide individualized support and prevent motion transfer. Even further, Boll & Branch offers a 100-night guarantee and 10-year warranty, all for the fraction of the price of a comparable mattress.

Everything Boll & Branch sells is available to experience in the retail store, which is having a spring sale April 22 to 28. Touch the sheets, lay on the beds, drape yourself in a throw. “Get a chance to feel the product,” said Scott. “It’s that much better.”

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The Importance of Controlling Humidity skin and can aggravate conditions like acne and eczema. Chronic dry air can even damage your home, pulling moisture from wood and leading to shifted and cracked walls, doorways and floors.

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The good news? You are in control of the humidity level in your home! Central HVAC systems can include humidity features for easy control. Dehumidifiers can be installed in damp areas such as the basement, and a humidifier can keep the air in your bedroom perfect for sleeping every night.

However you do it, you should always anticipate the conditions of the season coming up. Don’t wait for a “damp smell” to remind you to maintain your home’s systems.

At Air Group, our maintenance plans eliminate the guesswork and worry from home ownership in every season. With spring and summer around the corner, our cooling system maintenance plans are already in action now.

A cooling system maintenance plan keeps your system working at its best. Units like dehumidifiers can also be included in a plan. Let Air Group’s experts change your filters, examine compressors and condensers, and do all the recommended service to prepare your home for the summer months - all scheduled ahead of time, at your convenience.

30% to 50% - those are good numbers to keep on your humidistat. Having Air Group’s telephone number on your cooling system service plan is a great way to get there!

Air Group 1-800-545-1020 www.airgroupllc.com

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Awesome Animal Artists

Avenue Q Performance

Learn about and how to draw a new native NJ animal each month with indoor and outdoor activities. Create a masterpiece to take home. Adults are welcome to stay and participate. Ages 5-9. 4- 5pm. Pyramid Mountain Natural Historic Area, 472 Boonton Ave., Montville Township. To register call, 973-334-3130.

Winner of the Tony “Triple Crown” for Best Musical, Best Score and Best Book, Avenue Q is part flesh, part felt and packed with heart. Together, Princeton and his new-found friends struggle to find jobs, dates and their ever-elusive purpose in life. Runs through May 5. Centenary Stage, 715 Grand Ave., Hackettstown. 908-979-0900. www.centenarystageco.org

Thursday, April 25

Make a Herb Container Garden

Celiac Disease & Gluten Free Support Group Meeting Join Michelle Pasia, MPH, RDN, the new Program Coordinator of The Kogan Celiac Center, for this support group. It is intended for both those with celiac disease or gluten sensitivity as well as their loved ones who would like to learn more. The group is designed to share and learn about what is new in the gluten-free world through conversation, recipes, tip exchanges, educational presentations and food tastings. 6:30pm.While the support group is free, registration is required. Saint Barnabas Medical Center Barnabas Health Ambulatory Care Center, 200 S Orange Ave., Livingston. 1-888-724-7123 or www.rwjbh.org/sbmcevents

Discover the wonderful world of herbs and their many uses for culinary, medicinal and pest repellant purposes. Make your own herb garden and take it home to enjoy throughout the season. 7-8pm.

Frelinghuysen Arboretum, 353 East Hanover Ave., Morris Township. Call 973-326-7601to register. www.arboretumfriends.org

Peer Support Group The Susan Fischer Burn Peer Support Group is designed to help burn survivors and their families adjust to their new lives. The group is led by staff from The Burn Center and SOAR (Survivors Offering Assistance in Recovery) volunteers who are burn survivors themselves. 330pm. Saint Barnabas Medical Center, 94 Old Short Hills Rd., Livingston. Free; registration required: 973-322-5856.

Musical Theatre Conservatory Auditions Auditions! Broadway Boot Camp! July 1st-20th. Final Show in N.Y.C. Exciting classes in singing, dancing, TV/acting, comedy, stage combat, auditioning and more. Meet and train with Agents and B’way Professionals. Ages 7-18, beg.- adv. levels. Pool party. To schedule appt.- Call Randy: 973-868-6259.

Oral, Head and Neck Cancer Screenings Saint Barnabas Medical Center will provide free oral, head and neck cancer screenings. While tobacco and alcohol users traditionally have been considered the populations at greatest risk for these cancers, oral cancer cases are on the rise in younger adults who do not smoke, and recent research indicates this development is due partly to the increase of the human papillomavirus virus (HPV), a cancer-causing infection that can be transmitted by oral sex. 1-4pm. Atkins Kent Building, 101 Old Short Hills Rd., Suite 302, West Orange. An appointment is required; please call 1-888-724-7123.

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Rick Robinson-SPA department manager

Jeff Donaldson-Manager, Buyer Grills

Your One-Stop-Shop for Outdoor Needs

By Susan Baldani, photos by Dan Epstein

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ith warm weather finally approaching, it is time to start planning the perfect setup for outdoor fun in the spring and summer.

Luckily, Pelican Shops carries high-quality items for every season. The shop is not just a ski or winter gear store–customers can find a wide range of outdoor furniture, hot tubs, grills, pools, and pool supplies.

For those with entertaining on their mind in the spring and summer, Pelican has a vast selection of outdoor patio sets in stock and ready for immediate delivery.

Says store manager Bruce Sanderson, “The store has a few hundred sets on the floor for customers to choose from.”

Whether you prefer cast aluminum, wicker or resin, with or without cushions, they have the one that’s right for your lifestyle.

They can also assemble everything beforehand so it’s ready for use upon arrival.

“We’re probably the largest patio and hot tub dealer on the East Coast,” says Sanderson. “When people come in here, it’s like a big, adult toy store.”

To relax with family and friends, choose a hot tub to go on your patio or deck.

The preferred tubs are more comfortable with a better selection of jets. Sanderson notes that buyers should also look for a purification system that uses ultraviolet light rather than chemicals. To try before you buy, customers can even come in and try out the hot tubs that are up and running–just bring a bathing suit!

To round out the summer setup, Pelican also has a large selection of propane and natural gas grills, a line of built-in grills, and charcoal grills for those who like slow cooking or smoking. They carry Weber, Napoleon, Alfresco and other high-quality brands that will last upwards of 15 years, so you can enjoy cooking for many seasons to come.

All of Pelican’s sales people are knowledgeable about the products they carry and can guide buyers in finding the right items for their outdoor needs. A wide selection of above ground pools and water sports equipment are also available for outdoor fun. And spring is a great time to shop; they have up to 50% off sales going on now.

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Pelican Shops, family owned and operated, has been in business since 1962. Besides their Morris Plains store, with its 70,000 square feet of merchandise, they have locations in Whitehouse Station and East Brunswick, NJ, as well as one in Quakertown, PA.

Pelican Sport Center 2980 Route 10 Morris Plains, NJ 07950 973-267-0964

Pelican Swim & Ski Center 3555 Route 22 (Whitehouse) Somerville, NJ 08876 908-534-2534

Pelican Outdoor Products 393 Route 18 South East Brunswick, NJ 08816-2304 732-254-5115

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A Residents Guide to Local Home Pros Serving Essex County

Hot Tubs.

Specializing in design, construction, and installation of custom closets, garage cabinets, home offices, laundries, pantries, wardrobes and much more. Offering many finishes, accessories, and hardware. Call for free in-home design consultation and estimates.

Closets by Design

Pelican Shops has what you need and want in hot tubs, above ground swimming pools & pool supplies, patio furniture, BBQ grills, watersport equipment including stand up paddle boards & kayaks, or gaming room items such a pool tables, ping pong tables & foosball tables.

Pelican is the east coast’s premier supplier of ski & snowboard equipment and winter clothing & outerwear.

800-293-3744 | 201-964-9600 www.ClosetsByDesign.com

Pelican Shops 2980 Route 10, Morris Plains | 973-267-0964 www.pelicanshops.com

A full service company specializing in custom designed closets. They also offer kitchen & bath renovations, custom cabinetry, entertainment units, office systems & much more. Call them for a complimentary in-home consultation.

Kitchen Remodeling.

Robinwood Kitchens has been family owned and operated since 1976. Their services include kitchen and bath design, cabinetry and countertop sales, installation, and project management. They also specialize in cabinet refacing in wood using high quality products and experienced installers. Robinwood Kitchens will work within your budget to create the most aesthetically pleasing living space possible.

Custom Designed Montclair | 973-783-5788 www.customdesignednj.com

HVAC.

Robinwood Kitchens

Since 1965, Air Group technicians and installers have provided innovative, cutting-edge home comfort solutions, including heating, cooling, plumbing and electrical to more than 75,000 NJ residential and commercial customers. Air Group’s service is unparalleled and their commitment to customer service has made them the leading HVAC contractor in the area.

560 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights | 908-665-5900 www.RobinwoodKitchens.com

Realtor.

Donna Mattina uses her knowledge, expertise and personal commitment along with the backing of Coldwell Banker to provide clients with “five star” service to achieve their goals. As “Your Hometown Realtor” she treats all clients with the respect, honesty and integrity that she would personally expect.

Air Group LLC 800-545-1020 | www.airgroupllc.com

Home Décor.

ANS has been in this business for over 25 years. Their attention to detail and skilled knowledge of antiques makes them unique among buyers and sellers, ensuring each client receives accurate information about each item and each seller receives top dollar. They will also work with your favorite charity.

Donna Mattina–ABR, SRES Coldwell Banker, 49 Main Street, Madison Office: 973-377-4444 | Cell: 973-214-2929

Sheds.

ANS Antiques

Over the past 30 years, Al’s Shed World has expanded from a neighborhood hardware emporium to a distributor of fine wooden and vinyl storage sheds, children’s playhouses & swing sets, gazebos, and poolhouses.

They maintain their tradition of caring and commitment of top-notch quality and service to all customers.

500 Bloomfield Ave, Montclair | 201-345-6176 www.ansantiques.com A leading designer and retailer of luxury home goods, all of which are rooted in quality, ethically made and sustainably sourced. Their flagship features a wide selection of bedding, towels, mattresses, blankets, and other products.

Al’s Shed World 186 Columbia Turnpike, Regency Square Shopping Center, Florham Park | 973-377-3174 www.alsshedworld.com

Boll & Branch The Mall at Short Hills, 1200 Morris Turnpike, Ste. A-226, Short Hills | 800-678-3234 www.bollandbranch.com

Stair Lifts.

They sell, rent and repair stairway lifts, stair glides, stairway elevator, wheelchair ramps and reclining lift chairs. Their goal is to offer quality products at a fair price, and excellent service before, during and after the sale.

Home Furnishings.

Visit this 200-year-old farmhouse filled with antiques and decorated in a “gypsy” mix of shabby chic, Bohemian and Moroccan motifs. Find Amish farm furniture, vintage textiles, architectural salvage and garden décor, as well as a wealth of decorating ideas and advice.

Williams Lift Company 24 South Avenue, Fanwood | 908-356-6170 williamslifts.com

Gypsy Farm House 106 Pompton Ave, Cedar Grove | 973-239-9886 www.gypsyfarmhouse.com

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Saturday, April 27 Manhattan Saxophone Quartet Concert With their various musical passions in classical, jazz, theater, and contemporary music, MSQ embodies a diverse canon spanning nearly 150 years, from early original works by Romantic masters to innovative compositions by 21st century contemporary artists.

7:30pm. Morristown United Methodist Church on the Green, 50 S. Park Place, Morristown. 973-538-2132. www.morristownumc.com

v Morris County Park Palooza Enjoy a day outdoors with 20+ food trucks, a biergarten, live music, free face painting and games for kids, fun activities for adults provided by Jersey Club Sports, and more. Parking is free, and admission allows for re-entrance throughout the day. All proceeds benefit the Morris County Park Commission. 11am-7pm. Purchase tickets online in advanced for a discounted rate at www.GardenStateFoodTruckFest. com Lewis Morris Park, 270 Mendham Rd., Morristown.

The Plainfield Symphony Orchestra Concert Enjoy the final Concert of the 99th Season: “The Mystery of Alexander Scriabin “ Robert Taub, Guest Pianist, Charles Prince, Music Director.

Conductor’s Circle After Party immediately following the concert 7pm.

Crescent Ave., 716 Watchung Ave., Presbyterian Church, Plainfield. 908561-5140.

The Velveteen Rabbit Musical

A young boy’s love and a little nursery magic help transform the Velveteen Rabbit from a favorite plaything into a real rabbit. The Boy and Velveteen embark on exciting imaginary adventures, from deep dark caves to the wide open sea, and together they learn the true meaning of friendship in this musical re-telling of one of America’s favorite storybooks.Ages 4 & up.

Paper Mill Playhouse, 22 Brookside Dr., Millburn. www.papermill.org

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Pet Therapy Volunteers Is your pet calm and friendly? Loves meeting strangers? Volunteer with your pet to visit hospitals, nursing homes, schools, shelters and special needs programs and bring healing comfort to others. To become a certified pet therapy team with Creature Comfort Pet Therapy, you and your pet must pass a test that evaluates obedience and temperament. The evaluation takes place from 9-11 in Rockaway, NJ. You must fill out a volunteer application and pre-register. Information is available at www.ccpettherapy.org

Sheep Shearing at Fosterfields Experience a live sheep shearing as it was done in the past without using electricity. Learn how the fleece is then processed into woolen fibers and fashions, and dyed with brilliant, natural colors over an open fire. Enjoy fun, hands-on activities, such as weaving, spinning, and crafting, and meet the cute, baby lambs. Finish your day off with a tour of the Foster family’s 1854 Gothic revival-style mansion, the Willows. Children 3 and under free.

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Travel back in time to when dinosaurs roamed New Jersey over 65 million years ago! Handle real fossils, meet a dinosaur expert, and participate in prehistoric themed fun in BASF’s Kids’ Lab. Enjoy a Touch the Music workshop and other surprises from special guests at Field Station: Dinosaurs. 11am-4pm. Morris Museum, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown.

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SUMMER CAMP “Summer is a great time to help your child build self-help skills and independence. Large, easy-to-read labels help children easily identify their own clothes when changing and packing up. Children develop a good sense of self when they can take responsibility for their own things.”

—Congregation Agudath Israel “Performing Arts programs encourage students to express themselves creatively. Nurturing the creative possibilities within children through their participation in dance, music, art and drama can bolster self-esteem and self-confidence. Having the opportunity to experience the arts truly matters...and it’s fun!”

—Prime Time Summer Arts, Sharron Miller’s Academy for the Performing Arts “STEM camps open kids to exciting advances in science, technology and engineering through hands-on exploration and experimentation. If a child shows an interest, nurture that flame by picking a supportive environment that promotes learning by doing and celebrates failure.”

—International Ivy Summer Enrichment Programs “Theatre Camp provides kids with skills that they can use in the future in all aspects of their life. A class on how to audition not only helps to prepare students for a professional audition, but also trains them how to best present themselves in an interview or when delivering a speech. Improv classes help develop quick thinking skills.”

—Musical Theatre Conservatory

> Junior clinics, camps and adult programs offered!

“Have no expectations of where you are going or what is going to happen. Don’t prepare! Do not practice any particular skill set! Purposely travel towards something that is (for this moment) unknown. Coddiwomple is an English Slang word.

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> We are proud to be hosting a series of camps throughout the summer for students age 7-16. > Half Day and Full Day sessions are available.

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> A variety of junior clinics are available starting at the age of 6. The golf academy also offers individual lessons for all ages and abilities that are formatted to suit individual student needs.

“Parents can usually tell that their child is ready to try sleepaway camp if their child is asking about it. If they are being pushed by you, they may not be ready. Taking your child on a camp tour will give you a strong sense of their readiness.”

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“The most important question parents and children should ask is: What do we want to accomplish this summer? Is there a need to strengthen a specific skill or preview a challenging course? Explore the arts or experience hands-on STEM technologies? Learn a new sport or sharpen critical thinking skills?”

—Newark Academy Summer Session

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“Art Camp at the Visual Arts Center of New Jersey is the most creative camp around! Campers of all ages are free to use their imaginations and express themselves creatively, all while having fun exploring different art media. The impact of our art camp extends far beyond the summer–studies prove that kids who study art have higher GPAs and SAT scores too!”

—Cassandra Demski, Director of Studio School, Visual Arts Center of New Jersey “At camp, children can make new friends, explore the world around them, and learn that “I can” is much more fun than “I can’t.” In a safe environment created just for them, children learn real life skills, develop self-esteem, and gain a sense of independence and community, magic happens.

Whether children are playing, exploring nature, conquering new heights, or becoming part of a camp family, they are creating memories and skills that will last a lifetime. Kids don’t remember their best day of television but will remember their best summer ever.”

—Metropolitan YMCA of the Oranges

“We make learning during the summer a fun and positive experience by building each student’s lessons and work around their individual interests and needs. While kids usually prefer to avoid school during the summer, our students look forward to coming into school each day, because they feel good about the work they are doing.”

—Marc Silver, Director of Summer Enrichment Program, Winston Prep “Our exciting camps and clinics are an opportunity to learn the fundamentals of golf by demonstrating simple movements that are easy for juniors to understand. This teaching philosophy allows all of our student to achieve success and gain greater enjoyment for golf at an earlier age. Our PGA Professionals will not only be teaching the basics of putting, chipping, pitching and full swing, but will also instill the integrity and life skills needed to perform The Academy’s goal is to honor the traditions of golf and to pass on the passion for the game.

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RUNS THROUGH JUNE 7

“Sally Abbott: Recent Work”, A Solo Show of Paintings

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y paintings are all interpretations of my travels through the lens as I see vistas of land, sea and sky to photograph and then to paint. They tell the story of my own personal observations, and how I translate them onto canvas – the world as I see it,” Chatham painter and world traveler Sally Abbot explained.

Her landscapes, seascapes, skyscapes and still life paintings focus on light and textures. The Rooster Series, a fun and whimsical series, is inspired by Andy Warhol’s Elizabeth Taylor series and can be enjoyed as single paintings or hung in groupings.

Ms. Abbott’s work comes from a lifetime of rich art experiences. Studying art at Purdue University, collecting regional art, curating while dealing with NY galleries and museums, serving as a museum board member, fundraising for the arts, science, history and preservation have given a valuable background to evolve into a painter.

The Art League of the Chathams Spring Exhibit Runs through June 7 6:30-8:30pm Lindt-Glover Gallery Township of Chatham Municipal Building 58 Meyersville Road, Chatham 973-635-4600

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Flea Market

Springtime Oyster Roast

The Auxiliary of the Green Village Fire Department is hosting an indoor Flea Market. With 20+ vendors, a wide range of items will be available for sale. Home-baked goods will be available as well.

The sale will be held rain or shine. Parking is free.

Green Village Volunteer Fire Department, 529 Green Village Rd., Chatham Township. 973-377-4071. www.greenvillagefire.com

Celebrate the start of spring at an old fashioned Oyster Roast. Steamed oysters provided by Barnegat Bay Oysters will be served alongside Memphis BBQ smoked to perfection by the Rev. Nate Huddleston and the Men of Calvary. Entertainment for toe tapping and dancing will be provided by an 80’s cover band sure to play all the hits. All funds raised will help benefit Calvary’s Youth Ministry & Outreach initiatives. This event is open to everyone so please invite friends and neighbors. 4-8 pm. Calvary Church, 31 Woodland Ave., Summit. 908-277-1814.

Fishing Derby Bring your rod, reel & bait and catch trout of varying sizes stocked in the pond at Oakwood Park. Prizes will be awarded to the lucky fishermen who catch one of the 6 monstrous lunkers! Co-Sponsored by New Providence P.B.A. Local #132 and New Providence Recreation. Oakwood Park, 1 Park Pl, Summit. www.newprov.org/recreation

Croaks, Trills, and Splashes!

Come for a night adventure to the world of amphibians! Start with a short slide presentation of the frogs of the Sanctuary, and then head out with flashlights, buckets, and nets to the ponds. We’ll listen and look for Green Frogs and anything else that hops, swims, or crawls. Due to the sensitivity of the habitat, the program is limited to 15 people. Please bring a flashlight. 7-8:30pm. Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary, 11 Hardscrabble Rd., Bernardsville.

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Sunday, April 28 Arbor Day Celebration Celebrate Arbor Day with NJ’s largest living things - trees. Learn how to plant, identify, and appreciate local trees. Tour the Arboretum’s Big Trees, create a tree craft, and take home seedlings. 1-4pm. The Frelinghuysen Arboretum, 353 Hanover Ave., Morris Township. To register call, 973-326-7601.

Pirates of Penzance Performance The Light Opera of NJ will perform an abridged version of Gilbert and Sullivan’s comic opera, “Pirates of Penzance.” 3pm. New Providence Memorial Library, 377 Elkwood Ave., New Providence. 908-665-0311. www.newprovidencelibrary.org

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Spring is a time when the plants and the animals that call the Arboretum home feel warm and energized. Join Cora’s Conservation Corps as they guide you into the woods and introduce you to the discoveries you can make as a Citizen Scientist.

11am, 1pm & 3pm. Cora Hartshorn Arboretum, 324 Forest Drive South, Short Hills. 973-376-3587. www.hartshornarboretum.org

Monday, April 29 Deer in the Garden Veronica Dengler, Rutgers Master Gardener, will speak about the growing population of deer in New Jersey and the damage they have done to forests and gardens. Her talk will also provide techniques the homeowner can use to protect property including suggestions for plants that deer generally don’t like.

7pm. Library of the Chathams, 214. Main St., Chatham. Sign up online www.chathamlibrary.org or call the library at 973-635-0603.

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lthough many children receive a vision screening at school or by their pediatricians, those evaluations aren’t enough to identify vision issues and manage overall vision health. Parents who take a proactive role in their child’s vision health can help identify and correct problems before they impact everyday life.

One common issue affecting children is myopia. Better known as nearsightedness, myopia is a condition in which close-up objects appear clear but, at a distance, everything becomes blurry and out of focus. If untreated, over time it can put the eyes at risk for serious vision-threatening conditions including retinal detachment, early cataract development, macular degeneration and glaucoma.

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Vision Health There can be significant short-term impacts, too. Nearly 50 percent of children with myopia experience difficulty in the classroom, and 41 percent of parents with myopic children claim their children struggle with everyday activities, according to a study conducted by MetrixLab on behalf of Essilor of America. However, recognizing those struggles as myopia isn’t always easy. Only 41 percent of parents in the study recognized their children were suffering from myopia.

If your child is suffering from myopia, look for symptoms such as squinting to see distant objects, like the board in the classroom; sitting too close to the TV or holding books and tablets close when reading; and experiencing eyestrain or headaches.

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While technology can be a great tool for learning, all that screen time can lead to digital eyestrain, resulting in tired eyes, headaches, itchy eyes, blurred vision and increased sensitivity to light. To help reduce eyestrain, have children take periodic breaks while using devices and remember to strike a balance between screen time and outdoor time, as studies have shown that kids who play outside may be at a reduced risk of developing vision issues.

Protect Eyes From the Sun

Parents tend to remember sunscreen when children are outdoors, but they sometimes forget eyes are just as important. Children are at heightened risk for retinal damage when outdoors because their pupils, compared to adults, are larger outdoors and the lens inside the eye is clearer, which enables more harmful blue light from the sun to enter into the eye. Encourage kids to stay inside during the sun’s peak hours, and when they do go outside, have them wear sunglasses with both blue light protection and UV protection that blocks UVA and UVB rays.

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ith one photograph, you are transported to a distinct moment that is forever frozen in time. You instantly remember how it felt when your child would slowly fall asleep in your arms. You remember the sound of giggles and little feet pattering down the hallway. The seemingly mundane moments from years gone suddenly have new meaning.

Portraits have the unique power to connect us to who we were, who we are and who we hope to become. They lead us to a connected life filled with purpose, discovery and joy.

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Dining/Dessert Guide BERKELEY HEIGHTS

A Fusion of Old World Tradition and New World Innovation to Delight Your Palate.

Giovanni’s Bistro Bar & Catering 449 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-464-6644 | www.giovannisbistrobar.com Featuring a fresh modern style combining the flavors from America’s melting pot with traditional techniques with a classic dining experience.

Suburban Essex

Strega Bistro

2018

430 Springfield Ave Berkeley Heights 908-665-5905 | www.stregabh.com Modern Italian Farm to Table Bistro featuring seasonal organic menu with Mediterranean influenced-specials.

Gold Winner

CHATHAM Mitsuba Japanese Cuisine 237 Main St, Chatham | 973-635-3888 www.MitsubaChatham.com Traditional Japanese specialties and cuisine served in a casual setting.

LUNCH Daily 11:30am–3pm DINNER Sun-Thu 5-9pm, Fri-Sat 5-10pm

Restaurant Serenade 6 Roosevelt Avenue, Chatham, NJ 07928 973-701-0303 | www.restaurantserenade.com Artful dining, as conceived by award-winning Chef James Laird. A showcase of the finest hand-selected seasonal and regional ingredients in simple, refined presentations by Chef Laird.

277 Eisenhower Parkway, Livingston

973.992.9300

WWW.MEZZALIVINGSTON.COM

EAST HANOVER East Hanover Diner 275 NJ State Highway 10, East Hanover 973-884-8840 | www.EastHanoverDiner.com Soup, salad, pasta, omelets, burgers and more. Whatever the fare, they do it right. Bring the whole family to this delicious, neighborhood restaurant.

Suburban Essex

LIVINGSTON 2018

Mezza Mediterranean 277 Eisenhower Pkwy, Livingston NJ 07039 973-992-9300 | www.mezzalivingston.com MEZZA prepares authentic Mediterranean cuisine with a modern touch.

As you walk into our new spacious and attractive dining space, the aroma of fresh spices with a hint of citrus greets you at the door. As you and your dining companions relax in the ambiance of main dining room or our intimate private dinner space, the sight of the artistic presentation of our appetizers, entrees, and desserts will entrance you.

When our attentive wait staff serves your selection from our new menu, you’ll immerse your palate in the delicious tapestry of flavors of dishes prepared with only the freshest ingredients.

MILLBURN Ms. Lin Chinese Cuisine

Gold Winner

GOLD WINNER

Best Full Service Restaurant

FARM TOTABLE TABLE CUISINE FARM TO TABLE CUISINE FARM TO CUISINE

ATITS ITS FINEST AT FINEST AT ITS FINEST LuNello’s menu features decadent Italian dishes composed with the finest and freshest ingredients. This season, indulge in fresh fish dishes including halibut and bronzino.

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HANDSOME BAR & LOUNGE

59 Main St, Millburn | 973-912-8838 182 STEVENS AVENUE, CEDAR GROVE, NJ • (973) 837-1660 • WWW.LUNELLO.COM www.MsLinMillburn.com Ms. Lin Chinese provides convenient take-out and delivery for lunchGOLD PRIZE Best Full Service and dinner and specializes in off-premise catering.

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SILVER PR Best Ita Restaur

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182 STEVENS 182 AVENUE, CEDAR GROVE, NJ •GROVE, (973) 837-1660 WWW.LUNELLO. STEVENS AVENUE, CEDAR NJ • (973)• 837-1660

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Fan Bistro

Squirrel & The Bee

8 South St, New Providence | 908-898-1818 www.fanbistro.m988.com Warm, stone-&-wood-clad stop offering Chinese & Japanese fare such as sushi plus lunch specials.

515 Millburn Avenue, Short Hills 973-376-4888 www.squirrelandthebee.com All of their baked goods are made with a nut flour base, so they are loaded with protein, healthy fats, vitamins & minerals. The bake shop has a warm, casual atmosphere and is a great place to come with the family or to meet friends for breakfast or lunch. Also serving soups, salads, veggie burgers and more.

Umi Sushi 339 Millburn Ave, Millburn | 973-921-2848 www.MillburnUmi.com Traditional and Fusion sushi and sashimi. Also find teriyaki, tempura, udon and soba noodle dinners.

Most fish is wild-caught. Free delivery all day. MonThu 11:30am-10pm, Fri-Sat 11:30am-11pm, Sun 12:30pm-9:30pm.

NEW PROVIDENCE Moe’s Bistro and Bar

SHORT HILLS Par 440 Restaurant & Lounge 440 Parsonage Hill Road, Short Hills 973-467-8882 A full service restaurant, bar & lounge located on the East Orange Golf Course in Short Hills.

STIRLING 12 Islands Greek Taverna 1255 Valley Rd, Stirling | 908-647-2193 www.12islandsgreektaverna.com Charming eatery crafting traditional Greek fare, including seafood & classic homestyle dishes. 12 Island has a full bar and themenu is assembled with a wide variety of recipes from the Dodecanese and other islands.

535 Central Ave, New Providence 908-840-4540 | moesbistroandbar.com Located inside the Best Western Plus & Murray Hill Hotel and Suites, offer a full and varied menu with a Mediterranean flare. Full bar and live entertainment.

SUMMIT Natale’s Summit Bakery 185 Broad St, Summit | 908-277-2074 www.NatalesBakery.com Enjoy a selection of house made specialties including breads, pastries, pies and cakes. Daily specials. This family owned and operated bakery is serving up their delicious twist on bakery classics for over 80 years.

Roots Steakhouse 401 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-273-0027 www.rootssteakhouse.com/summit Roots Steakhouse is an old-fashioned New York style Steakhouse. Diners can expect delicious USDA aged prime beef sourced from the highest quality ranches in the mid-west.

WEST ORANGE Highlawn Pavilion Eagle Rock Reservation, West Orange 973-731-3463 | www.highlawn.com Characterized by panoramic views of the New York City skyline, Highlawn Pavilion on Eagle Rock Reservation offers scenic dining at its finest. The exceptional French-infused American fare is equally matched by the restaurant’s world-class service.

Highlawn is increasingly becoming the venue of choice for weddings, anniversaries, birthdays and other special occasions. Live music is offered every Friday and Saturday in the Piano Room.

HAPPY HOUR - FRIDAYS - 5:30 -7:00 P.M. - SPECIALLY-PRICED APPETIZERS, BEERS, WINES & COCKTAILS DJ & DANCING - EVERY FRIDAY & SATURDAY - 9:00 P.M. - CLOSING (NO COVER) LIVE PERFORMANCES: (TICKETS ONLINE) - SONGS OF SINATRA & MORE - 03.21.18 - A TRIBUTE TO “THE WHO” - 04.12.18 YOUR WINE WITH NO CORKAGE - BRING LADIES OF OWN COUNTRY MUSIC - 05.24.18FEE

WINE NIGHT EVERY WEDNESDAY + STELLAR FEATURED WINES AT REMARKABLE PRICES

SPECIALTY THEME NIGHTS: (NO COVER) - “SWANKY-OKE” KARAOKE - 03.29.18 - 80s DJ DANCE PARTY - 04.06.18 - LATIN DJ DANCE PARTY - 05.04.18

T H E D O M E R O O F T O P L O U N G E AT T H E M A N O R

111 PROSPECT AVE.| WEST ORANGE, NJ | 973.731.2360

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The Manor 111 Prospect Ave, West Orange | 973-731-2360 www.themanorrestaurant.com The Manor combines distinctive gourmet cuisine, superior service and a fabulous environment both inside and out to provide an exceptional experience for your special event or simply dinner with friends or family.

Our famous skyline view of Manhattan is only the beginning.

WARREN Bruno’s Bistro 116 Mountain Blvd Ext, Warren | 732-217-1777 www.brunosbistro.com Italian fine dining restaurant, a great place to celebrate a romantic evening or a special occasion with a small group of friends or family. It is upscale ambiance with small town charm.

Lukas’ Seafood & Grill 61 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-668-4888 www.lukasnj.com Seafood, steak and bar offering Mediterranean cooking and culture in an upscale casual environment.

Silk Road Restaurant 41 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-561-8288 www.silkroadrestaurant.org Silk Road, the second Afghan restaurant in the state of New Jersey, transports its customers to classical Afghanistan. As you walk through the doors, you are welcomed with the sights of an old world Afghanistan, the sounds of its traditional music and the smells of fresh bread and kabobs awaiting you.

Spice Isle 41 Mountain Blvd, Warren | 908-834-8864 www.spiceislenj.com/index.html Spice Isle introduces diners and re-connects Caribbean vacationers to tasty, flavorful Caribbean fusion cuisine. Open for lunch Tuesday through Friday and dinner Tuesday through Sunday; closed Mondays.

Spice Isle offers a list of wines from Alba Vineyards in NJ.

“Proof that a spectacular view and extraordinary food can coexist.”

Best Romantic Restaurant (GOLD)

Stone House at Stirling Ridge 50 Stirling Road, Warren | 908.754.1222 www.stonehouseatstirlingridge.com The Stone House at Stirling Ridge, nestled on 10 acres of meticulously lush gardens. The Stone House menu changes seasonally and offers specials with ingredients that are sustainable and fresh. An open kitchen for foodies to admire.

Uproot 9 Mt Bethel Rd, Warren | 908-834-8194 www.uprootrestaurant.com American eatery with creative tasting menus & à la carte fare (pizza, salad) in bright, modern digs.

WATCHUNG Water & Wine Ristorante 141 Stirling Rd, Watchung | 908-755-9344 www.visitwaterandwine.com Large, upscale venue on Lake Watchung featuring an Italian & American menu & lake views. Merging contemporary American fare with Italian Influence. Water & Wine offers a full service bar and wine shop.

LUNCH | DINNER | PRIVATE EVENTS LIVELY BAR | FRIDAYS: JAZZ TRIO | PIANIST: SATURDAYS

EAGLE ROCK RESERVATION | WEST ORANGE, NJ

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Diamond Minds

When Faith Meets Fear the first time in the beginning of her career she was in Barry Farber front of a handful of drunken patrons at three in the morning. Those times were difficult, but she faced her fears and went on. Not only did she put the worst behind her, she learned something every time she stepped up to that microphone.

“Fear came knocking at the door, faith answered and no one was there.”

realize it’s the reason we start to believe the excuses we make for ourselves.

Therefore, the first step in taming any fear is to analyze what is real and what is not.

Then dive in and take action.

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In order to take action, we have to learn to get rid of our fear of failure. Author Tom Peters tells about how he had the privilege of introducing the late Sam Walton, the founder of Walmart, when he was going to be introduced into the sales and marketing executives Hall of Fame.

This is made even more interesting by the fact that Alexander’s armies were always outnumbered, sometimes by as much as twenty to one. But Alexander’s philosophy was to attack so swiftly and move so quickly that his soldiers didn’t have time to be afraid. He knew that fear is the greatest obstacle to success. The more we think about all the possible reasons something won’t work out, the more our fear paralyzes us, and we end up not taking any action at all.

“What can you say in two minutes about a guy like Walton?” says Peters. “During that time, I called David Glass, CEO of Walmart. I said, ‘If you had 90 seconds to say something about Sam Walton, what would you say?’ Quicker than a wink, he answered, ‘Sam Walton is not afraid to fail. He’ll give something a try, he’ll make a total mess of it, and walk back in tomorrow with a smile on his face and another idea.’ It’s that ability to try something, make a mess of it, and get on with the “All great masters are chiefly distinguished next action that allows us to win out over fear.” by the power of adding a second, a third,

—Mark Twain

t took Alexander the Great 10 years– from the time he was 23 to his death at age of 33–to conquer most of the known world. Alexander has been studied and admired throughout the centuries for his incredible willingness and ability to take action in the face of adversity.

Fear blocks more people from achieving their goals. It is the anticipation of negative results, imagination working overtime. People are afraid of failing, afraid they will make a mistake, afraid they will look foolish. Many times, what we’re afraid of isn’t even real. You could look at the acronym F.E.A.R., which stands for False Evidence Appearing Real, and

What we don’t think about is that there’s only one first time. Once you take an action, it could never be quite as scary or difficult again. Comedian Rita Rudner told me when she got up on stage for

Every time we step up to try something we’ve never done before, we learn more than we expect. The uniqueness of the experience gives us insights we could never get except by taking an action.

Why is it that children are such quick learners? It’s because everything is new to them. They’re experiencing everything for the first time. When we venture out into new worlds, we open our minds and our senses to things we might never otherwise experience. Our knowledge of the world expands tremendously with each new step we take.

and perhaps a fourth step in a continuous line. Many a man has taken the first step.

With every additional step you enhance immensely the value of your first.”

—Ralph Waldo Emerson

Barry Farber is a radio and television host with expertise in sales and marketing topics, as well as a marketing consultant for corporations, professional athletes, and entertainers. He is the creator and marketer of the FoldzFlat® Pens that can be seen at www.makemypen.com. Learn more about this author at www.BarryFarber.com

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