North Jersey Woman

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Essex Edition

Steering SUCCESS Judith Schumacher-Tilton Keeps Family Dealership on Top

“Books & Beyond” Project Proving the Power of One

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10 “Books & Beyond” Project: Proving the Power of One 13 Boosting Business

by Building Relationships

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14 Calendar of Events 18 Rescue Me

7 Simple Solutions to Common Winter Beauty Problems

20 Steering Success

Judith Schumacher-Tilton Keeps Family Dealership on Top

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30 An Extraordinary Woman Gives Back in Extraordinary Ways 32 Career Choices

Court Reporting: A Field in High Demand

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33 Look As Young As You Feel!

25 Color Your World

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And Freshen Up Your Interior

27 Overcome Your Organizing Obstacles 28 Seniors Living in a Dynamic Atmosphere

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34 Beauty in Balance

A Common Sense Approach to Cosmetic Surgery and Treatments

36 Answering Your Questions About Hypnotism 37 Varicose Veins: Not Just a Cosmetic Issue 38 Warmer Weather Means Hotter Hair!

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40 Dress for Success

Work-out Wear to Inspire You

42 The Zumba® Revolution

Turning Every Workout into a Party

44 Winter Getaways First Quarter 2013

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Contributors: Mary Carlomagno, Writer Mary is the owner of Order, which specializes in clutter control, urban apartment solutions, office spaces and shopping addictions. She has written two books, Give it Up! My Year of Learning to Live Better with Less and Secrets of Simplicity. She has been featured on The Oprah Winfrey Show, Fox News, CBS News, The Today Show, and more. www.OrderPeriod.com

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Cathleen M. Black Publisher

Judi Rothenberg

Dan Epstein, Senior Photographer

Editor-at-Large

Dan is one of the premier wedding and event photographers in Northern New Jersey. He got his start as a fashion photographer, and his images have been featured in Parade Magazine, Money Magazine, Vogue, the New York Times Magazine, and more. www.DanEpstein.com

Janet Perlman Copy Editor

Melissa Kane Assistant to the Publisher

Julie Jacobs, Writer Julie is an award-winning writer and editor with special interest and experience in health/well-being and film/entertainment. Her work has appeared in numerous national, regional and local publications, including American Way, Lifestyles, MovieMaker, Inside Jersey,Suburban Essex and Vicinity Magazine. She also maintains corporate clients and runs Wynne Communications. www.wynnecommunications.com

Nicole Canfora Lupo, Writer Nicole Canfora Lupo is an accomplished journalist and editor whose work has appeared in publications across the country. She’s the author of Images of America: Belleville.

Michael J. Reidy Art Director

Julie Weinberg Graphic Designer

Vanice Gage Donegan Pauline Dunberg Lisa Ivler Marketing Consultants

Kathy Chowaniec Editorial Intern

Lisa Romeo, Writer Lisa works as a writer, editor, ghostwriter and writing teacher. Her work has appeared in dozens of print and online venues including the New York Times and O, The Oprah Magazine, and in literary journals, anthologies and essay collections. She is an editor at Baristanet.com, and teaches creative writing at the Rutgers University Writing Program, at The Writers Circle in Summit, and privately online. Lisa is at work on a memoir. www.LisaRomeo.blogspot.com, email: LisaRomeoWrites@gmail.com

Judi Rothenberg, Editor-at-Large With a keen eye and a touch of serendipity, Judi Rothenberg scouts the world (and New Jersey!) in search of new ideas, products, trends and destinations. Formerly the Lifestyle and Travel Editor of NJ Savvy Living, Rothenberg started her career as a fashion editor at Retail News and is a graduate of the Fashion Institute of Technology. www.TheLuxeLane.com, www.Twitter.com/JudiRothenberg, www.Pinterest.com/JudiRothenberg

Deborah Schapiro, Writer Deborah is a long-time contributor to North Jersey Woman’s sister publications Suburban Essex and Vicinity. She also writes for Montclair and Millburn Magazines, as well as a friend’s blog.

Sherri Heller, Writer

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t is with great pleasure to bring you—the educated, successful and savvy women of North Jersey, the second edition of North Jersey Woman.

We would like to introduce you to our panel of Expert Advisors, whom in each edition will educate and advise women on the solutions and trends in their specific expertise.

Cathleen M. Black, Publisher

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You are once again invited to enjoy North Jersey Woman and we hope it will become a close friend, helping you make the most of who you are: an extraordinary woman whose time to shine has come. Please send me an email at Cathy@NorthJerseyWoman.com with any suggestions or comments.

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“Books & Beyond” Project:

Proving the Power of One

By Janet Curran Perlman, photos by Dan Epstein

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n 2005 when Nancy Uslan was invited to travel to Rwanda with animal expert Jack Hanna to film a documentary about that country’s endangered mountain gorillas, she seized the moment…and it changed her life.

Uslan, an Essex County resident and selfprofessed “lover of animals and adventure,” was awestruck by her contact with the legendary gorillas, but it was the plight of the Rwandan people, still reeling from the tragic genocide that had decimated their country eleven years earlier, that affected her most deeply.

Back home, Uslan began to put her comfortable life in perspective. “I’d see a $36 entrée on a menu and realize that amount would educate a Rwandan child for a year,” she says. “I knew I had to do something, but had absolutely no idea what.”

But the more she pondered, the more she realized that her ideas had one common element: education.

An enthusiastic alumnus of Indiana University (I.U.), she believed that the I.U.’s Global Village living-learning

center, a dedicated residence hall for students wanting to get involved in global issues, would be a perfect partner in any plan she developed.

When a mutual friend introduced Uslan to Ali Nagle, a fifth-grade teacher at a Newark TEAM (Together Everyone Achieves Success) charter school, part of a group of charter schools offering free college prep educations to deserving Newark students, Uslan’s thoughts crystallized. Hearing that Nagle was hoping to motivate her students through a program called “TEAM in Africa,” Uslan’s memories flew back to a pivotal chance meeting with a group of Rwandan schoolchildren from the Kabwende Primary School and the request of one motivated little boy named David, the only English speaker among the African children: “Will you send me a dictionary from America?” he asked.

Now armed with a concrete plan, Uslan flew to I.U. and proposed to its new and enthusiastic Global Village director a collaboration between I.U. and TEAM students to benefit the Rwandan students. “He was hooked,” she says. The program was a go.

Mentors with their students: left, Christopher Robbins with Elijah Lambert; right, Matima Muhammad with Tameeah Harris

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Knowing that books are rare jewels in Rwanda, Nancy Uslan, Ali Nagle, Global Village Assistant Director, Lauren Caldarera and I.U. Assistant Professor, Beth Samuelson collaborated developed the “Books & Beyond Project.” The program partners I.U. Global Village students with TEAM students, they meet twice a year and communicate throughout the year to write and illustrate level-appropriate books for the Rwandan students.

The books are designed to encourage the analytical thinking and English literacy skills necessary for the students to achieve success in the global economy—skills that Rwandan President Paul Kagame had spoken of as “critical” during a 2008 United Nations’ address.

Four years after Uslan’s “lifechanging” trip to Africa, Uslan, Nagle, Caldarera and Samuelson traveled to Rwanda with students from I.U. and TEAM to deliver a copy of Volume I of the students authored “The World is Our Home” to each of the 2,000 students at Kabwende Primary School, where, traditionally, only teachers have books..

Nancy Uslan

Recently, as the I.U. and TEAM website Booksnbeyond.wordpress.com student partners met in Newark to work on Volume V of the series (10,000 copies to be delivered in summer of 2013), 14-year-old TEAM Today, Nancy Uslan reports with great pride, Dastudent Khafeeon Love, a freshman at Newark vid, the Rwandan boy who only wanted a dictionary, is Collegiate High, spoke emotionally of her summer in 18 years old and hopes to become a doctor. “If there Rwanda. “It brought tears to my eyes to see the kids’ is a moral to this story,” says Uslan, “it is this: one excitement,” she says, “It just left me speechless.” person can make a difference. Keep putting one foot Says Ali Nagle, “These students appreciate how in front of the other, and in time, you will look back and lucky they were to see their direct impact on children be amazed at the distance you have traveled.”  halfway around the world.”

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Three authors from the Big Bold Business Book bring that into sharp focus.

Deborah Gussoff, of Montville, utilizes relationship marketing as an independent distributor for SendOutCards and owner of In Order, Inc. She updates the adage about people preferring to do business with those they know, like, and trust, by adding, “And those they remember. The key is to meet someone, stay in touch, and build a long-term relationship,” She adds that “Your annual marketing plan should include a strategy and specific tactics for staying in touch with clients, prospects, and referral sources.”

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A real estate agent partners with a home inspector or stager.

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“Your partners should have a vested interest in helping your business grow, and you should demonstrate an equally strong commitment to their business development.”  Lisa Romeo is a freelance writer, editor, and ghostwriter. She lives in Cedar Grove and teaches creative writing at The Writers Circle.

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North Jersey Woman Calendar of Events WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 20, 2013

FRIDAY, FEBRUARY 22, 2013

SUNDAY, FEBRUARY 24, 2013

Body Alignment Class

Bowfire Performance & Fundraiser

Hilary Hahn Performs

This class focuses on upper body alignment and low back and core strength, for those with chronic discomfort and hyper-mobility. Pre-registration is required.

Wednesdays, 10am. The office of Dr. Kimberly Maziarz Carlucci, 86 Valley Rd., Montclair. For more information and space reservations, please call 973-744-9880.

An ensemble of crack violinists plus an assortment of accompanying musicians bring a white-hot fusion of every style of fiddle music imaginable. 8pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. For more information or for tickets, please call 888-466-5722.

In Her Eyes: Women Behind and In Front of the Camera This exhibition features photographs by women who examine female identity in their work. Wednesdays-Sundays 12-5pm. The Newark Museum, 49 Washington St., Newark. For more information, please call 973-596-6550.

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 21, 2013

SATURDAY, FEBRUARY 23, 2013 All State Wind Ensemble, Symphonic Band & Women’s Choir This performance features a collective of some of the most outstanding young singers and instrumentalists from NJ. 2:30pm.

NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. For tickets, please call 888-466-5722.

Venus and Serena Screening

Baby Weight Fitness Class

Harmonium Choral Society Chamber Singers

A fitness class for mom and baby taught

by Janelle Tricarico. Work out and bond with your baby and other new mothers.

Babies ages 6 months-1 year are welcome. Bring a bouncy seat or carrier in case baby gets tired. Thursdays, 10:30am. The office of Dr. Kimberly Maziarz Carlucci, 86 Valley Rd., Montclair.

For more information, please call 973-7449880.

Skill and Empowerment Group Participants will learn skills to manage thoughts, moods and relationships in this confidential and nurturing women-only environment. Registration required.11:15am12:15pm. Every Thursday. Mindsoother Therapy Center, 2 W. Northfield Rd., Livingston. Call 973-220-1885 or email danna@mindsoother.com for information and registration.

Meal and Meditation Group Learn meditation and relaxation techniques to help you manage feelings regarding eating. Learn journaling, imagery and meditation techniques. Registration required. Every Thursday. 12:30-1:30pm.

Mindsoother Therapy Center, 2 W. Northfield Rd., Livingston. Call 973-220-1885 or email danna@mindsoother.com for information and registration.

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American violinist Hilary Hahn brings works by Beethoven and Bach, plus selected shorts from “27 Pieces: The Hilary Hahn Encores,” which she commissioned herself from 27 European and American composers. 3pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

25 of the most advanced members of the fantastic Harmonium Chorale Society, under the direction of Dr. Anne Matlack, will take listeners on an exciting journey around the world and into many musical genres. 2pm. Women’s Club of Glen Ridge, 219 Ridgewood Ave., Glen Ridge.

For tickets and information, please call 973-748-5459.

The Montclair Film Festival presents a screening of “Venus and Serena,” an intimate look at the lives and careers of Venus & Serena Williams. Reservations requested. 3pm. Glenfield Middle School Auditorium, 25 Maple Ave., Montclair.

For more information, please visit www.montclairfilmfest.org.

New Jersey Winter Wine Festival Taste a wide variety of different wines, cleanse your palate with hors d’oeuvres, get tasting tips from experts, learn about wine and food pairings, interact with top wine connoisseurs and enjoy live jazz music. Tickets are required for entry. 7pm.

Hilton Short Hills Hotel & Spa, 41 John F. Kennedy Parkway, Short Hills. Visit www.newjerseywinefestivals.com for tickets and information.

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MONDAY, FEBRUARY 25, 2013 Taste of the World The West Orange Rotary Club presents “Taste of the World”, featuring wine and beverage tasting, live entertainment, prizes and raffles. 6-9pm. Mayfair Farms, 481 Eagle Rock Ave., West Orange. To purchase tickets, call 973-736-8304 or visit www.westorangerotary.org.

TUESDAY, FEBRUARY 26, 2013 Heart Healthy Eating Deanna Schweighardt, RD, an Outpatient Nutritionist at St. Barnabas, will share ideas and recipes to help you eat heart healthy. 7-8pm. Leon & Toby Cooperman JCC, 760 Northfield Ave., West Orange.

For more information, please visit www.barnabashealthcalendar.org.

WEDNESDAY, FEBRUARY 27, 2013 Power Networking Breakfast Sponsored by the North Essex Chamber of Commerce. 7:30-9am. Registration requested. ACIEM Audio Video & Interactive Media, 7 N. Mountain Ave., Montclair. Call 973-226-5500 to register or for more information.

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Blood Drive 12:30-6:30pm. The Women’s Club of Glen Ridge, 219 Ridgewood Ave., Glen Ridge. To reserve your time, please visit www.bloodnj.org/donor_locations.htm.

THURSDAY, FEBRUARY 28, 2013 Big Bold Business Panel Presentation at Window Works In this interactive discussion, a panel of four NJ women business owners and Big Bold Business authors will share their insight and expertise to help entrepreneurs grow their businesses. A Q&A session and book signing will follow.

7-8:30pm. Window Works of Livingston, 38 E. Northfield Rd., Livingston. For information or to reserve your spot, visit facebook.com/woodpeckerpress/events

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FRIDAY, MARCH 1, 2013 W2W Networking Breakfast Join the North Essex Chamber of Commerce for their monthly Networking Breakfast. First Friday of every month. Sponsored by Women 2 Women.

8-9:30am. Marriot Courtyard, 8 Rooney Circle, West Orange. For more information or to register, please call 973-226-5500 or email email@northessexchamber.com.

SUNDAY, MARCH 3, 2013 Simple Gifts Karen Hirshon and Lind Littleton play a wide variety of ethnic folk music, ranging from lively Irish jigs and down-home American reels to hard-driving Klezmer feilachs, haunting Gypsy melodies and exotic Balkan dance tunes. 2pm. Morris Museum, Bickford Theatre, 6 Normandy Heights Rd., Morristown. For tickets, please visit www.morrismuseum.org.

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TUESDAY, MARCH 5, 2013 Intro to Microsoft WORD Pre-requisite of Intro to Windows or previous experience necessary. Also March 7, 12, 14, 19 and 21. 9-11am. Registration required. Linda & Rudy Slucker NCJW Center for Women, 70 S. Orange Ave., Ste. 120, Livingston. For reservations or information, please call 973-994-4994 or email ncjw@ncjwessex.org.

with an elegant dinner party menu. Return home with do ahead tips, the all-important organized shopping list and a time plan that will ensure a no-fail elegant party.

10am-2pm. Kings Cooking Studio, 778 Morris Tpke., Summit. For more information, visit www.kingsfoodmarkets.com.

THURSDAY, MARCH 14, 2013 Celtic Woman Live

THURSDAY, MARCH 7, 2013

FRIDAY, MARCH 8, 2013 Insipration Networking Breakfast Join Because We Are Women for their monthly networking and inspiration breakfast. Pre-registration required. Crane’s Mill, 459 Passaic Ave., West Caldwell. For more information, call Because We Are Women at 973-498-0048.

MONDAY, MARCH 11, 2013 How to Start a Small Business Learn the difference between self-employment and entrepreneurship. Roundtable discussion to follow. Free. 9am. Women’s Center for Entrepreneurship Corp., 311 Main St., 2nd Floor, Chatham. Register by visiting www.wcecnj.org or call 973-507-9700.

New Moon and Healing Gong The first three days of the moon are a powerful time for manifestation. Start with a pranayam, short yoga set, followed with meditation and a Healing ring. Complete the event with a long session of deep metitative relaxation with the Healing Gong. 6-8:25pm. Aquarian Yoga Center, 641 Bloomfield Ave., Montlair. For more information or to register, please visit www.aquarianyogacenter.com.

TUESDAY, MARCH 13, 2013 Do-Ahead Party Planning Cooking Class This one session workshop is designed to give you skill-building, hands on practice

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The New York Voices New York Voices is the Grammy Award winning vocal ensemble renowned for their excellence in jazz and the art of group singing. Their interests are rooted in jazz, Brazilian, R&B, classical and pop infused with equal creativity and authenticity. 7:30pm. SOPAC, 1 SOPAC Way, South Orange. For tickets, please call 973-313-2787.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 20, 2013

“Luck of the Irish” St. Patrick’s Day Cooking Classes Surprise your guests with this St. Patrick’s Day menu bursting with an array of flavors.

Sample each dish as Chef Cardie demonstrates useful techniques needed to create this holiday meal at home. 6:30-9:30pm.

Kings Cooking Studio, 778 Morris Tpke., Summit. For more information or to register, please visit www.kingsfoodmarkets.com.

TUESDAY, MARCH 19

Women’s Workshop: Navigating the Internet to Find What You Need

The awe-inspiring vocalists and mesmerizing violinist of Celtic Woman brings their new North American Tour to NJPAC, with a program of classic Irish tunes, timeless pop anthems and inspirational songs. 8pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

FRIDAY, MARCH 15, 2013 Jazz Night Live jazz music in the Bar at the Highlawn Pavilion. Weekly on Thursday and Friday nights. 7-10pm. Highlawn Pavilion, Eagle Rock Reservation, West Orange.

SATURDAY, MARCH 16, 2013

How to conduct effective and efficient internet research to find what you want on the Web. Space is limited to 8 participants and pre-registration is required. 7:15pm.

Linda & Rudy Slucker NCJW Center for Women, 70 S. Orange Ave., Ste. 120, Livingston. For reservations or information, email ncjw@ncjwessex.org or call 973-994-4994.

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 27, 2013 Italian Easter Baking Class Prepare such a profusion of baked specialities that form the basis for the principal meal of La Pasquetta or “little Easter” the tradition beginning on the picnicking season on Easter Monday. 6:30-9:30pm.

Kings Cooking Studio, 778 Morris Tpke., Summit. For more information, please visit www.kingsfoodmarkets.com.

Taylor Swift-The RED Tour

Progressive Dinner and Live Jazz Beginning with cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, this gastronomic journey will break into smaller groups, each headed to a different entree destination. Tickets will reveal hostesses address and theme city.

Reservations required by March 1st. 6:3011pm. Call The Women’s Club of Glen Ridge at 973-748-5459.

MONDAY, MARCH 18, 2013 Girls Night Out Around the World Cooking Class Calling all girls to come to a fun night at the Kings cooking studio! Forget your worries, forget your chores and laugh and eat really good food instead! 6:30-9:30pm.

Kings Cooking Studio, 778 Morris Tpke., Summit. For more information, please visit www.kingsfoodmarkets.com.

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Country and pop superstar Taylor Swift performs live with special guest Ed Sheeran. See her perform hits off her new, platinum-selling album, RED, as well as other popular favorites. Also March 28 & 29. Doors 6pm, 7pm show. Prudential Center, 25 Lafayette St., Newark. For tickets, please call 800-745-3000 or visit www.prucenter.com.

THURSDAY, MARCH 28, 2013

MONDAY, APRIL 8, 2013

SUNDAY, APRIL 21, 2013

A Conversation with Elaine Stritch

How to Start a Small Business

For this special event, Tony and Emmy winner Elaine Stritch takes a seat for an intimate conversation about her life, her work and anything else she’d like to bring to the table. The proceeds from each ticket will support the work of the NJ State Federation of Women’s Clubs of GFWC and NJPAC. Victoria Theatre, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

Free. 9am. See march 11 for details.

Rod Stewart LIVE with Steve Winwood

The Best Healthy Choice Discuss the best food choices in every category and specific traditional medicinal foods. 8:15-10pm. Terra Sky Center for Wellness, 510 Morris Ave., Summit. For more information or to reserve your space, please call 908-277-1222.

SATURDAY, MARCH 30, 2013 Aretha Franklin LIVE at NJPAC

FRIDAY, APRIL 12, 2013 Diana Krall LIVE Grammy-winning pianist-vocalist Diana Krall, one of today’s best-selling jazz artists, brings an evening of adventurous “Song and Dance” standards. 8pm.

Prudential Hall, 1 Center St., Newark.

Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

SATURDAY, APRIL 13, 2013 NJ Ballet with the West Point Band New Jersey Ballet joins forces with the 48-piece West Point Band in a program that marks the 100th anniversary of the birth of American composer Morton Gould.

7pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

SUNDAY, APRIL 14, 2013 The Diva Big Band Orchestra

One of the living legends of soul music and American pop makes her first ever appearance at NJPAC. 7pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888466-5722 for tickets.

FRIDAY, APRIL 5, 2013 W2W Networking Breakfast Join the North Essex Chamber of Commerce on the first Friday of every month for their Networking Breakfast. Coffee and refreshments will be available for purchase. Sponsored by Women 2 Women.

8-9:30am. Marriot Courtyard, 8 Rooney Circle, West Orange. For more information or to register, please call 973-226-5500 or email email@northessexchamber.com.

SUNDAY, APRIL 7, 2013 Les Ballets Trockadero de Monte Carlo The Trocks (as they are affectionately known) reign supreme as the world’s foremost all-mall comic ballet troupe, dancing a fine line between high art and camp.

3pm. Prudential Hall, NJPAC, 1 Center St., Newark. Call 888-466-5722 for tickets.

DIVA is an ensemble of 15 extremely talented and versatile big band jazz musicians who just happen to be women that exude the excitement and force found in the tradition of the historic big bands, but with an eye toward today’s progressive sound of originality and verve. 3pm. Mayo Performing Arts Center, 100 South St., Morristown.

For more information or tickets, please visit www.mayoarts.org or call 973-539-8008.

Rock and Roll Hall of Fame legend Rod Stewart will be taking his legendary sound on the road. This is a one-time engagement with special guest Steve Winwood.

Doors 6:30pm, 7:30pm show. Prudential Center, 25 Lafayette St., Newark. Call 800-745-3000 or visit www.prucenter.com for tickets.

WEDNESDAY, APRIL 24, 2013 FLEETWOOD MAC Live One of rock’s most enduring, beloved and successful bands, Fleetwood Mac will be performing as part of their major US tour.

This year, 2013, marks the 35th anniversary of the release of their classic “Rumours” album in 1977. 7pm doors, 8pm show.

Prudential Center, 25 Lafayette St., Newark. For tickets, call 800-745-3000 or visit www.prucenter.com.

SATURDAY, APRIL 27, 2013 Pat Benetar and Neil Giraldo

FRIDAY, APRIL 19, 2013 Grilled Spring Suppers Cooking Class Join in on a demonstration of recipes bursting with bright, spring flavors. Watch the grilling techniques and the preparation of delicious accompaniments. 11am-2pm.

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SATURDAY, APRIL 20, 2013 The Fab Faux: 15th Anniversary Show With a commitment to the accurate reproduction of The Beatles’ repertoire, The Fab Faux treat the seminal music with unwavering respect, and are known for their painstaking recreations of the songs (with emphasis on later works never performed live by the Beatles). 7pm doors, 8pm show. The Wellmont Theatre, 5 Seymour St., Montclair. For tickets, please visit www.wellmonttheatre.com.

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MONDAY, APRIL 29, 2013 2nd Annual Montclair Film Festival The Montclair Film Festival kicks off today featuring dozens of movie screenings, celebrity sightings and much, much more.

Runs through May 5. Montclair Film Festival Headquarters, 494 Bloomfield Ave., Montclair. For more information, please visit www.montclairfilmfest.org. 

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Judith Schumacher-Tilton Keeps Family Dealership on Top

By Julie Jacobs, Photos by Dan Epstein

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sk Judith Schumacher-Tilton what’s the greatest life lesson she’s learned so far and she’s quick to answer, “Never give up. If you imagine it, you can make it happen, but you have to have depth and the power of your own convictions, which is tough today. And in business, that’s really hard.”

And she should know. Thirteen years ago, the now President of Tilton Automotive Group, unexpectedly had to take the “driver’s seat” at her father Harold’s longstanding Chevrolet dealership in Little Falls after he died suddenly from a stroke. Her family’s resilience was tested further when, just days following the funeral, her brother, Ken, who was set to head the business upon their dad’s retirement, was diagnosed with advanced cancer.

Schumacher-Tilton had done clerical work at the dealership as a teenager, but was inexperienced in the daily operations of an automobile business. Not only was she now a car dealer, also she was racing regularly into Manhattan to help care for her brother.

“I never wanted to sell, because I wanted Ken to get well and have something to come back to,” she recalls. (Although Ken was given just three months, he lived for three years.)

Having been a full-time mom to three children, the Montclair resident applied her nurturing and organizational skills to the dealership. She also developed relationships with her father’s many contacts and networked aggressively, joining a local car-dealers group and the then newly formed General Motors Women’s Retail Network, for which she now serves as Chairman. (continued on page 22)

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Still, it was a difficult period. As she points out, the business is multi-tiered, involving new cars, used cars, parts and service. “I was determined to make it work.”

Ultimately, her perseverance paid off. With the help of her son Stephen, who left his career as an attorney, and who now serves as the company’s CFO, and Ken’s son Jeffrey Schumacher, a sales manager at Schumacher Chevrolet, her dealership has not only survived, but also thrived. In fact, the business has continuously been recognized both regionally and nationally for overall growth and sales. And, in 2008, she added another dealership to the Tilton Automotive Group by acquiring Gearhart Chevrolet in Denville, where her son, Kenneth, now works as the Vice President. Both dealerships rank among the state’s largest-volume Chevy dealers.

“I want to promote faith in the American car business and keep our dealerships strong” —Judith Schumacher-Tilton

Schumacher-Tilton works six days a week monitoring the day-to-day activities of both dealerships. She credits the success of Tilton Automotive Group to her “amazing staff” and enjoys working side by side with her sons and nephew.

She herself has been acknowledged frequently for her contributions to the industry (see sidebar), most recently as the Northeast Regional TIME Dealer of the Year. Nominated by her peers, she is the first woman dealer in New Jersey to receive the prestigious award, which honors recipients not only for their profitability, but also their civic-mindedness and philanthropy as well.

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Schumacher-Tilton sits on the boards of numerous community and charity organizations, and also founded the Give the Kids Hope Foundation with her son Stephen in 2009. The foundation, which supports educational and recreational programs for underprivileged children in New Jersey at Passaic County’s Camp Hope and Essex County’s Turtle Back Zoo, will hold its fourth annual David Harris Golf Invitational on May 13 at Greenbrook Country Club in North Caldwell.

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“I want to promote faith in the American car business and keep our dealerships strong,” she says of the future.

“I so love making my customers happy and seeing their enthusiasm about what they’re driving away in. That’s a feel-good moment.”

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Schumacher Chevrolet is located at 8 Main Street in Little Falls and can be reached at 973-256-1065.

Gearhart Chevrolet is located at 281 Route 46 East in Denville and can be contacted at 973-627-0900.

For more information on Tilton-Schumacher’s foundation, the Give the Kids Hope Foundation, please visit www.givethekidshope.org.

udith Schumacher-Tilton’s accomplishments have been duly noted. In addition to being named a TIME Dealer of the Year, she has been honored with the Women’s Automotive Association’s Spirit of Leadership Award, the General Motors Retail Network’s Performance Award (twice), the PBA’s Business Person of the Year Award, the John I. Crecco Foundation’s Business Woman of the Year Award, and the Giblin Association of NJ’s Community Service Award for Business.

More recently, she was listed among the Top 25 Leading Women Entrepreneurs by New Jersey Monthly, received the Women’s Choice Award from WomenCertified.com and the Shirley Chisholm Award for Female Entrepreneurship, and was cited as Woman of the Year by the Boy Scouts of America. 

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New paint colors are the most cost-effective way to give your home a new look while increasing buyer appeal.

• Before you paint, patch holes and imperfections, protect floors and remove electrical plates and hardware.

• Lift low ceilings by applying a lighter hue in the same color family as the walls. Conversely, large rooms with high ceilings will feel more intimate if ceilings are painted in a darker shade.

• For detailed moldings, use a contrasting tone in a glossy finish to make them “pop” and if your trim is basic, make it special by using the same tint as the walls, but in a reflective finish.

A plethora of information exists on the subject of color psychology, so if you don’t know where to start, start with what you know: • Find an article of clothing in a color that makes you feel fabulous and work from there in choosing a paint color for the entertaining or dining space.

• Neutral is not better, it’s boring - so don’t be afraid of color!

• Bathrooms with white fixtures and kitchens with stainless steel appliances will benefit from a backdrop of bold color, but be careful not to use ones that are too cold. If you like greens and blues, choose ones that have warm undertones like yellow and red.

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Overcome Your Organizing Obstacles

By Mary Carlomagno

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rganizing is not a one time only proposition; it is a process that needs to be learned over time. Like any other learning process, there is a learning curve. After all, you did not learn French on the first lesson or get in shape with one workout (If only that were true!). Think of organizing in the same way as it takes time to have long lasting effects. And like any human process, there may be obstacles that stand in the way. The key is to remain on your path and understand that setbacks can happen, but should not deter you from your ultimate goal. To help you navigate those obstacles, I offer the following advice: Obstacle: My partner is so disorganized.

Solution: When engaging in any project with a partner, make communication the key and deal with the project at hand rather than the person. Once you remove the emotional baggage and manage the tasks free of emotion, you will be able to gain consensus.

Think compromise where each side inevitably will need to give and to get.

Obstacle: It will take too long!

Solution: Flip the way you look at organizing as a means of gaining time, rather than losing it. Ultimately, being organized will help you save time, money and energy, so investing a little time up front is worth the pay off in the end. If it helps, think of all those times you searched and searched for a misplaced item that had it been organized, you would have found in a snap!

Obstacle: I work from home, so I am always working!

Solution: Many work from homers have trouble setting boundaries for where work ends and where personal life begins. Realize that how you work is within your power and that starts with setting good work habits. Establishing a consistent routine and schedule that you can maintain will help you close the door to your home office when the workday ends.

Obstacle: Every time I organize I have a “look what I found moment” that derails the process.

Solution: Distractions from unpleasant tasks are easy to come by. Instead of stopping the project at hand, hold that item you have uncovered until the end. It then becomes a reward for all that good organizing work. A great way to battle procrastination is to put a reward at the task’s completion.

Obstacle: How do I keep the momentum going?

Solution: Doing something everyday will not only encourage steady progress, but also instill a familiarity with your items and what needs to be done. When you have frequent touch with the project, you begin to gain the confidence and control you need to accomplish your task.

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Seniors Living in a Dynamic Atmosphere At the Lester Senior Housing Community

By Sherri Heller, photos by Dan Epstein Bernice Bornstein

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mid the beautiful Aidekman Jewish Federation Campus just off Route 10 in Whippany are several distinctive buildings known as the Lester Senior Housing Community. Co-owned and operated by the Jewish Community Housing Corporation of Metropolitan New Jersey (JCHC), Lester Senior Housing is under Jewish auspices, but is inclusive and open to everyone.

community life. The ongoing and popular program, “Kids, Concerts and Cookies” has children from local schools visit and entertain with songs, often interacting with residents to form lasting bonds of friendship.

Additionally, transportation to cultural and community events, including membership in the Jewish Community Center of MetroWest’s Men/Women at Leisure Programs are very popular as well.

Well-respected as an exceptional senior residential community of 175 units, it caters to the 62+ population and is comprised of both independent living apartments and assisted living residences.

Some of the noteworthy amenities include: on-site medical, podiatry and dental services, a fullyequipped exercise room including state-of-the-art equipment, wellness/physical and cognitive therapy centers, a country store, glatt kosher meals served 7 days a week, housekeeping and linen services, library, a computer lab, a chapel and additional community rooms.

Renowned as the first Jewish-sponsored kosher Assisted Living community in the state of New Jersey, The Judy and Josh Weston Assisted Living Residences offer studio and 1-bedroom units.

These seniors can take advantage of help with daily activities such as getting dressed, bathing, taking medications, walking and getting in and out of bed.

Assistance from licensed practical nurses, certified medication aides and certified nursing assistants enhance the daily lives of these residents.

According to CEO of JCHC, Harold ColtonMax, “When we opened in May of 2001, our goal was to create and maintain a rich and nurturing supportive community where seniors could enjoy a range of options.” A mixed-income choice of housing options includes market rate housing and low-income housing as well.

The Margaret and Martin Heller Independent Living Apartments offer a mix of one and two bedroom units at market rental as well as one bedroom low and moderate living units. Active seniors participate in a tenants association and a mini-university where lectures, movies and cultural trips are a vital part of

Nowadays the new catch phrase in the world of senior community living is “aging in place.” Alex Gross, Administrator of Lester Senior Housing explains, “Adult children seeking a safe haven for their aging parents know that there will be health challenges and possibly emergencies along the way. Stability and returning to a familiar place provides comfort and a strong sense of security for our residents.”

Keeping members of any community happy is a daunting challenge and Gross is quick to share what has become the most reoccurring criticism from residents. On any given day, a senior will approach Gross and say, “There is so much to choose from, so many wonderful activities— why didn’t I come to Lester sooner?” 

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n 2004, at the urging of her best friend (or as Deborah would say, BFF) and political mentor, Joyce Wilson Harley, Esq., the accomplished and gifted attorney Deborah E. Collins accepted a volunteer position created

by Essex County Executive Joseph N. DiVincenzo Jr., Collins became the Chair of a 22-member Disparity Study Commission that investigated whether minority-owned businesses receive a fair share of public contracts. After eight months of painstaking work, the Commission’s comprehensive 250-page report was impressive and staggering—it revealed that only half of one percent of professional public contracts were awarded to women, minorities and small business owners.

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Prompted by public outcry and moved by the Commission’s findings, DiVincenzo actively recruited Collins to be the Director of his newly created Office of Small Business Development and Affirmative Action (SBDAA) in Essex County. Since its opening in December 2005, the SBDAA has produced a variety of programs, business expos and outreach initiatives designed to help make public contracting and procurement policies and procedures more available to the community of women, minority and small business owners.

So how, and more important, why did Collins—a Brooklyn-born, longtime New Jersey resident who began her working career as a bilingual educator—segue from an exceptional legal career to eventually become the Director of SBDAA? Collins says simply, “A lot of people helped me along the way.

I had excellent women mentors who were trailblazers and pioneers. Now it’s my turn to pay back.”

And so she does. Under Collins’ stewardship, and armed with her legal expertise in employment litigation and human resources from her corporate work history at prestigious companies—including Time Warner, JP Morgan, and Goldman Sachs—SBDAA has grown since its inception. In just seven years, SBDAA is responsible for 8.35 percent of available contract dollars being awarded to woman-owned, minority and small business owners.

One example of Collins’ heartfelt handson approach occurred in the aftermath of Hurricane Sandy when her office was contacted for emergency services. Remembering one independent contractor from Essex county whose business was failing, SBDAA helped the minority business owner obtain contracts for the emergency services. Only through the resources and efforts of the SBDAA was the business bolstered and ultimately saved from economic disaster.

Additionally, Collins is enthusiastic about upcoming opportunities when New Jersey hosts Super Bowl XIV in 2014. Working with Business Connect, the Host Committee for the National Football League, she will help identify qualified woman and minority Deborah E. Collins, Esq. (second from the left) with business owners to bid for contractual work. vendors Eileen R. Della Volle, Jim Davis and Charlotte Diakite.

The NFL will need the professional services of local business entrepreneurs including florists, event planners, decorators, caterers, janitorial to respond, “The best part of my job is knowing that services, transportation, marketers and much more. we make a difference in people’s lives. It is so rewardWhen asked about the significant inroads SBDAA has made for minorities and women, Collins is quick

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ourt reporting is one of the best kept secrets in today’s changing marketplace, where freelance work is becoming more and more popular. Women looking for flexible work hours, diverse assignments, high earning power, options to travel or work from home in their PJs, may want to consider a career as a freelance court reporter.

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hrough the practice of aesthetic medicine, Dr. Rosalie Curreri has the pleasure of making her patients at Mecca Integrated Medical in Fairfield look and feel younger. Mecca’s boutique experience and soothing atmosphere combine to create a nurturing environment for clients interested in rejuvenating their mind and body, whether they’re coming in for a facial or interested in learning more about fillers and Botox for a younger-looking appearance. “We can’t halt aging,” says Dr. Curreri, “but we can put the brakes on and slow it down.”

The lines on my face don’t reflect my younger woman within— I’m interested in fillers, but never got them before. What do I need to know?

didates for fillers—it depends where you are in the aging process. Every patient has different needs, and I discuss with them what will work best for their rejuvenation process.

Fillers of different mediums, such as Juvederm and Radiesse, are used by physicians to fill voids in the face caused by aging, gravity or weight loss. Placed strategically in the relevant areas of the face, they can recreate the fullness from the patient’s younger years. The aging process isn’t just about the loss of fat, but also of bone mass throughout the body, even in the face. Fillers soften those lines, and increase facial volume. We approximate the look of youth with fillers in the nasolabial folds, corners of the mouth and lips, along the lower jaw line, and cheek zones where hollowness first occurs. A liquid facelift restores the look of youth.

What will the physician ask me during our consultation?

Am I a candidate for Botox?

Is it right for me?

For fillers, I recommend that my clients take arnica, an over-the-counter homeopathic medicine, a day prior to their procedure, and a few days post procedure. It’s useful with the healing of bruising and inflammation. One should discontinue the use of blood-

Botox can work in conjunction with fillers. Instead of filling, it smooths out certain areas of the face. Muscles freeze thereby preventing wrinkles.

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When being seen, tell the doctor about any medical conditions and any medications you’re taking, especially blood thinners, such as prescription Coumadin, aspirin, non-steroidals, and omega III. Avoiding blood thinners will help minimize bruising after fillers.

I always ask about pregnancy and breast-feeding, as both procedures should be avoided during these times.

If a patient has had complications with either Botox or fillers in the past, this should also be mentioned.

How can I prepare for the procedure?

thinners 5 days prior to fillers. There is no preparation necessary for Botox.

What can I expect during the actual session?

Filler sessions involve the use of one to two pre-filled syringes of filler such as Juvederm. These syringes also contain lidocane to numb the injection sites. The patient and I work together to decide how much to use— I’ll evaluate and help suggest other areas of the face that might benefit from fillers or Botox and advise them of their options. The changes should be subtle—you’re going to come out of the procedure refreshed and seeing results. The effects of fillers are seen immediately; where as the full effect of Botox can take up to two weeks.

What will I need to do after the procedure?

Swelling comes with the territory, but the patient should help optimize the results of the injectibles. So you’ll want to avoid doing or taking anything that will cause a negative effect. I advise my patients not to exercise for 48 hours after “deep injections”—the tissues in the face are very fragile, and they should protect their new investment. After treatment with Botox, patients should keep their head elevated for a few hours, avoiding exercising, and hats or headbands across the forehad. Good skincare is a great compliment to your investment. Results of your treatment are optimized with good eating habits, hydration, and

Dr. Rosalie Curreri is a board certified diplomat of the American Board of Internal Medicine (ABIM). Dr. Curreri graduated from St. George’s University School of Medicine. Trained as an internist, she was a resident and chief resident at St. Vincent’s Medical Center in New York City. She now currently concentrates on aesthetic medicine, including Botox and filler injections, and practices in both New Jersey and New York. Dr. Curreri also performs trigger point injections; using a homeopathic inflammation-regulating drug (IRD), she injects one or several muscles at trigger point sights to temporarily relieve symptoms associated with inflammation or degenerative processes due to acute trauma.

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that many of us have, but never have been able to ask.

Here she offers answers to some of the field’s most basic questions and offers insight into the decision-making that goes into choosing to “go under the knife.”

I’m considering plastic surgery, but I want it to look as natural as possible. Can this be done?

Our patients no longer want an “operated” or “done” look. Today, it is all about making changes that look natural.

People are interested in being the best version of themselves. They would like to make changes on the outside that match the person that they feel on the inside, and they do not necessarily want to “announce” their surgery to the world. As we always say, “the best facelift goes unnoticed, but your younger, refreshed look never does.” e-mail

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Women and men of all ages, ethnic backgrounds, professions and income levels are interested in taking advantage of the new techniques and recent advances in cosmetic surgery. It is difficult to find someone in a major metropolitan area or surrounding suburb who has not had or does not know of someone who has had some type of cosmetic surgery or treatment. Business people, artists, teachers, soccer moms and college students are some of the many types of people who have become regular consumers of cosmetic surgery procedures. The old days when only wealthy women in their 50s with a lot of time on their hands had plastic surgery are over.

With the advent of new techniques and safe outpatient surgical facilities, we can now perform many different procedures efficiently in order to maximize change and minimize recovery time.

Do I need cosmetic surgery?

There are many different reasons for people to entertain the idea of changing their appearance with surgery. Some of our patients say that having cosmetic enhancements was something that they had thought about or wanted for a long time, but it took some type of “trigger” event for them to decide to go through with it. In fact, there are a number of common scenarios that begin the thought process about cosmetic surgery. Relocating, milestone birthdays—30th, 40th, 50th and 60th—and events such as high school or college reunions and weddings often trigger the thought of altering one’s appearance.

Of course, there are physical signs that may lead you to consider plastic surgery, often noticed for the first time when you see a photograph of yourself. The physical changes associated with aging, child-bearing and major weight loss gradually begin to become more obvious.

When is the right time to consider getting plastic surgery?

It is common for people to consider facial or body enhancements after major life changes, such as the loss of a partner through separation divorce or death, and career change. We do not recommend having cosmetic surgery during times of emotional upheaval. There may even be occasions when we feel it is appropriate to have a patient’s mental health formally evaluated by a psychiatrist before surgery, to make sure your judgment is not clouded by your emotional state.

When it comes to rejuvenation procedures, there is no specific formula or age when you “need” or “should have” certain procedures. Every person has a different awareness of body image and assigns a different degree of importance to appearance and physical characteristics. As a result, it is impossible to make a specific rule or develop a guideline for when certain flaws, deficiencies or perceived deformities are “worthy” of change with cosmetic surgery.

When you have a feature that you do not like and want to change, whether it is a hook nose, a weak chin, small breasts or “heavy thighs,” it is reasonable to at least have a consultation with a cosmetic surgeon to help put your thoughts into perspective.

There is no medical reason that should determine what time of year to have a cosmetic operation or treatment.

The “best time” for each person will depend on the type of surgery, how long it takes to recover, lifestyle issues, type of work, work schedule and family commitments. It is not surprising that most people would like to recover from plastic surgery procedures in private. The fact is that many people do not want their family, friends, neighbors and co-workers to “know” about their surgery, even if they would like people to notice the changes afterward. As a result, they may choose times for surgery when there is less of a demand for social appearances. 

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Hypnosis is a state of mind in which you are relaxed and focused, and your concentration is much higher than if you were awake. In hypnosis, we bypass the conscious mind (the critical thinking part). The suggestions that are made during hypnosis go directly to the subconscious mind, where thoughts and behaviors can be changed because of this very heightened awareness.

When you are given a new suggestion about a behavior you want to change and if that suggestion is within your belief system, your subconscious mind accepts the new behavior as reality. When you are hypnotized, you feel very relaxed, and if you are like most people, you should remember everything that happened during the session.

Can anyone be hypnotized?

Yes, in fact we are hypnotized every day without knowing it. Have you ever driven in your car and realized that you got to your destination without knowing it? You did so because you were in a trance or a state of self-hypnosis.

Hypnosis works by identifying the negative behaviors you want to change and then replacing it with positive behaviors that can help you achieve your goals. The hypnotist is the facilitator that allows you to relax and gives your subconscious mind the ability to make the desired changes.

Is hypnosis dangerous?

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No, hypnosis is not dangerous. Hypnosis involves just listening to the hypnotist’s words and music so that you can become very relaxed. It is a great tool to change your way of thinking and to make positive changes that you want to make but do not know how to make. The hypnotist knows how to gently release your mental blocks and fears and how to help you create a new inner belief that will set the wheels in motion for changes in the way you think, feel and behave.

Can you make me do things I do not want to do?

Contrary to what many people believe, you are always in control during hypnosis. No one can make you do anything that is against your moral or ethical values. You have to want to make the suggested change in your behavior.

Remember: there can be no hypnosis unless you hypnotize yourself. 

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with a vascular sonogram. This is performed to determine the location and the severity of the diseased vein (or veins as generally more than one are affected).

After the initial sonogram, it is extremely important to discuss with the patient the risks and outcomes of their treatment options in great detail. A typical procedure is done in the office, using local anesthesia, and takes only about 20 minutes.

What causes varicose veins and whom do they affect?

There are several treatment options, but the one I use most commonly and I regard as the best technology available is called Endovenous Radiofrequency Ablation (ERA). ERA, unlike vein stripping, the painful and highly invasive procedure formerly performed to correct varicose veins, is minimally invasive and almost painless. A catheter with a special tip is inserted into the diseased vein and, using radio frequency energy, the tip gradually heats the vein painlessly, closing the vein down and causing blood to be diverted to the nearest healthy vein, improving the circulation.

Varicose veins are caused by venous insufficiency, which means that the veins in the leg have trouble sending blood back to the heart. This is because valves in the leg veins, which normally prevent the blood from flowing backward, are damaged or missing. And, though the most common cause of varicose veins is, in fact, pregnancy, and 90% of patients are women between the ages 25 and 50 years of age, this condition is not gender-exclusive. Often, and especially in male patients, long hours spent standing on their feet can cause poor circulation, which, in turn, can cause the development of varicose veins. In some cases, though, individuals-both men and women alike—are simply genetically predisposed and develop these veins at an accelerated rate.

What is the procedure called and how does it work?

How long does it take to recover from ERA treatment and why should I consider it?

Because only local anesthesia is used in ERA, patients can go back to work the same day. Exercise is encouraged right away, and flying is allowed after two weeks, with the only post-surgical requirement being patients must wear surgical support stockings for two weeks following treatment. Although there can be an obvious cosmetic benefit to the treatment of varicose How do I determine if veins, treatment is far from being a cosmetic procedure.

I’m a candidate for Venous insufficiency can cause leg cramping, swelling treatment? and fatigue, as well as itching and burning sensations.

In addition, the longer the condition is left untreated, the At vein centers, more veins will become diseased, causing the patient the evaluation begins to feel worse after time. Anyone suffering with varicose veins is urged to seek medical treatment.

There is no reason that you should have to live with this condition; Vein Centers at NYC Surgical Associates treatment is easy, painless and 555 Passaic Ave, Suite 10, West Caldwell generally covered by insurance. 

Dr. David Greuner 888-286-6600 • www.veincenters.net

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Warmer Weather Means

HOTTER HAIR! Shag86’s Jen Martinez reveals her tips for head-turning locks photos by Dan Epstein

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hen you leave a salon, you should be looking—and feeling—fabulous. No one knows

this better than Jen Martinez, Master Stylist

and Educational Director at Shag86 in Little Falls. Martinez, who helps Shag86’s stylists develop and hone their skills, is passionate about her work and believes every client should feel comfortable enough to work with their stylist to create a beautiful look that takes their style to the next level. Now that the weather is getting warmer, Martinez offers advice and ideas for women who are looking to shake up their look for spring. e-mail

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Great question! Too many people try to go from dark to blonde in just one shot. My advice is to always do it slowly while keeping the hair healthy.

This year, we’ve seen so many versions of ombré, a highlighting process that removes some of the color from the midshaft to the end. My solution is to start with a soft faux ombré highlight from the middle of the strands to the ends, leaving some dark hair exposed. Next, the stylist should add some “panels” that start from the scalp through the end of the hair. This results in a soft, subtle blended look and a color that’s a good two shades lighter with no damage. It’s always important to do a deep conditioning treatment at the end of the process. It may take two to three visits to achieve your summer blonde, but it’s better than doing it all at once!

The dry winter weather is great for my hair, but as summer approaches, it gets a frizzy texture and becomes too puffy. What’s the best process for taming my tresses?

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How do I know a new stylist is a good fit for me?

Amazing question! More people should be concerned with this. For me, consultation is everything.

I am very passionate about this, because the most important part of finding a stylist is that they “get” you—and that you “get” them. Remember: your visit to the salon is about you and your experience; too many stylists talk at you, and not to you. You both need to be on the same page. Make sure they are truly listening to you and your needs. You need to be able to picture the look they want to give you as they speak to you—and you need to feel comfortable enough to make changes. They should also listen to your ideas, and offer feedback to help create the best look for you. It’s important that you can work with your stylist, because it’s a relationship that can last a very long time! 

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Baggy, faded sweats, your husband’s ratty college tee and a sports-bra from the 90’s; if that’s what you wear to the gym, no wonder you don’t want to go.

Like a power suit in the boardroom, the right exercise gear will give you a psychological boost. Shaping-up your activewear may help you to shape-up your body. Get your mojo going with these figure flattering styles, high tech fabrics and vibrant colors.

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2 Accent with Color Top an all-black ensemble with a shot of hot pink. High performance fabric offers UV protection. Moto Jacket, C9 by Champion®, $34.99, target.com

3 Stay in Step Light-weight running shoe with turquoise laces and soles, Motivate, C9 by Champion®, $32.99, target.com

4 Everyone Needs Support Two looks for the price of one; racer back bra reverses from mango/pink graphic print to solid grape, C9 by Champion®, $14.99, target.com The ultimate underwire sports bra for active full-busted women. Available in sizes 32DD to 40GG, and it’s pretty too! In hot pink, black, a navy/white/red combo or grey trimmed with purple. $68, Panache, barenecessities.com

5 Back Interest Longer length cover-up tank with keyhole back and lace Jacquard Piqué ventilation. $55, and cropped pant, $72, both from MPG sport, mpgsport.com

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ach week, in 150 countries at approximately 140,000 locations, nearly 14 million people take a Zumba® class. The workout, which truly is a party unto itself, pairs Latin-inspired dance moves, upbeat music and fitness to form an exercise class charged with energy, revelry and excitement. And with a lineup of “party” classes of varying intensity (some proven to burn upwards of 600 calories in an hour), Zumba® is appealing to both novice exercisers and fitness gurus alike.

As the classes continue to grow in popularity, local instructors have seen a rise in Zumba® as the go-to option for interactive and engaging parties, ladies nights out, fundraisers and events.

Jen deLorenzi, a licensed instructor in the Caldwell area, teaches weekly classes at churches and dance studios or will set up a private class. “My classes might be 10 people or 100 people, ranging from 10-80 years of age.

Each class is unique, but it is always a party,” she says.

“I think there is tremendous power in dance, music and movement.” She has recently played host to events benefitting breast cancer research and Hurricane Sandy relief.

The JCC MetroWest Community Center in West Orange now holds approximately 15 regularly scheduled classes each week, all of which are open to members and guests of the center. According to Shannon Koenig, the center’s Group Exercise Director, the past several years have shown sustained interest in this fitness phenomenon. “Our classes have a maximum capacity of 30 people, and I think it’s safe to say that even our smallest classes have at least 15 people,” states Koenig.

The JCC MetroWest Community Center recently hosted their first ever ZumbaThon®, a two-hour event that offered dancing set to a live DJ, smoothies, six instructors and four raffle prizes—including gift certificates for massages and personal training. Over 100 people attended the event, which Koenig and her colleagues feel was hugely successful. “Everyone had a really good time and we look forward to the possibility of holding this event next year,” Koenig said.

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YO-YO DIETING STOPS HERE Kelly S. has lost – and kept off – over 90 pounds since starting her diet plan over four

Zumba®: A high-energy aerobic

years ago with endocrinologist, Dr. A.D. Angeletti, of West Caldwell.

exercise that features dancing and fitness set to an upbeat, exciting soundtrack of Latin, Salsa, Reggaeton, Merengue and Dance music for novice exercisers and fitness gurus alike.

“I couldn’t have done this without him.

I tried everything, and nothing else worked for me. Dr. Angeletti saved my life.

Sometimes motivation is not enough.

Motivation with the right program is the key to success. I plan to continue on this path for the rest of my life” Kelly said.

Zumba® Gold: A lower-intensity

version of Zumba® class designed specifically for “baby boomers.”

Zumba gold is active and set to the up-tempo Zumba beats, but tailored and modified for safety and comfort.

Zumba® Toning: Traditional

Zumba® with the addition of toning sticks and weights to tone common problem areas such as arms, thighs, glutes and abs.

Aqua Zumba®: Zumba® in the

water! Aqua Zumba® combines traditional Zumba® elements with water-based fitness training for a high-energy swimming class.

Zumbatomic®: A Zumba® class

designed specifically for children ages 4-12 offering an extremely high energy routine but modified for the safety of their young bodies.

Zumba® in the Circuit: 30 minutes

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Perfect Getaways

By Judi Rothenberg

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o you see winter as a wondrous playground or as something to flee? Even if you fully embrace freshly fallen snow, it may be time to find some R&R away from home. Whether you want to swish down the slopes with your kids, soak up the sun with your girlfriends, or escape with your sweetheart for a romantic interlude, we can help you find your ideal destination.

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The 41,000 square foot splash zone has slides, hot tubs, an interactive play area for wee ones, a basketball cove and a wave pool. Greekpeakmtnresort.com, hopelakelodge.com

Montage Deer Valley Resort

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neak away with your besties for some prime female bonding. Shop…chat… hang by the pool…view an art exhibit…and shop some more! We’ve got two destinations to fit the bill, one in Florida and one in Manhattan.

Get a jump on your spring wardrobe in a place that already feels like spring! No puffy coat needed in Bal Harbour, Florida! Stroll from one exclusive designer shop to another in a lush garden setting at open-air Bal Harbour Shops. On Art Nights at the Shops, you’ll find museum quality themed installations alongside the high fashion. To make the most of your time together, stay at the Bal Harbour Quarzo, where you can get a condo-sized suite with a living room and kitchen instead of a standard hotel room. The waterfront boutique hotel has two heated pools and a Zen-inspired meditation garden for ultimate relaxation.

Balharbourshops.com, quarzomiamihotel.com Don’t have time to travel? In less than an hour (fingers crossed), you can be at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel in Manhattan. While it may be bleak and blustery outside,

once you’ve arrived, you won’t need your winter coat until you leave. The hotel has an indoor pool, fitness center and one of the city’s most highly rated (and expensive) spas.

A plethora of dining, activities and shopping await in the adjacent Shops at Columbus Circle in the Time Warner Center. You’ll find women’s clothing favorites like A/X Armani Exchange, Cole Haan and Stuart Weitzman as well as the lifestyle boutique, C. Wonder, with its unique merchandise mix of colorful and spirited clothing, accessories and home goods. No schlepping! Concierge service is available to have your bags delivered to your room. Dining choices go from casual gourmet like Bouchon Bakery, modeled on the boulangeries of Paris, to extreme haute cuisine at Masa and Per Se. Center Bar by Chef Michael Lomanaco falls somewhere in the middle with offerings of tapas-style small plates, an extensive wine list and handcrafted cocktails. Infuse a little culture into your visit and drop into the Museum of Art and Design directly across the street. Mandarinoriental.com, theshopsatcolumbuscircle.com, madmuseum.org 

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