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From primary care to specialized treatments and therapies and in partnership with Rutgers Health, our Children’s Health network provides outstanding care, advanced research and teaching from renowned physicians and clinicians, with an emphasis on the social determinants of health that help to improve the health and well-being of every child in every community. Learn more at rwjbh.org/ChildrensHealth

TABLE of CONTENTS NOVEMBER 2024

NOVEMBER 2024

VOL. 24 NO. 8

David J. Black FOUNDER & CEO

Cathleen M. Black PRESIDENT & COO

Michael J. Reidy ART DIRECTOR

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Cultivating Community and Sustainability Through the Farm & Fork Society Podcast Spreads Sunshine

18. Focus on Educaiton 18 Nurturing Young Minds 19 Winston Preparatory Schools’ Individualized Learning Model Helps Students with Learning Differences Succeed

26 20 COVER ARTICLE Walter Bauman Jewelers: Generations of Excellence and Personal Service 24 Art in the Vicinity Jay Seldin—Life Teaching Photography Now on the Road

26 The Transformative Experience of Summer Camps 28 Discover the Magic of Mohonk Mountain House 30 Orthodontics Beyond Aesthetics 31 Navigating Stress, Anxiety and Depression During the Holiday Season

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IN THE VICINITY

BY JACKIE SCHATELL

South Orange Resident Writes Captivating Historical Fiction Book for Young Readers In the book, Mary made groundbreaking discoveries in paleontology, including the first complete 17-foot-long Ichthyosaurus skeleton. Despite her significant contributions, she faced skepticism and discrimination from the maledominated scientific community. Over the course of a year, she proved her discovery was authentic.

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ichele C. Hollow, a freelance journalist from South Orange, has released a historical fiction book for third to seventh graders about Mary Anning, a 12-year-old fossil hunter from the early 19th century, which is called “Jurassic Girl: The Adventures of Mary Anning.”

The book portrays Mary as a determined young girl who defied societal norms to pursue her passion.

Michele hopes Mary’s story of resilience and curiosity inspires readers to explore their interests and persist in the face of challenges.

“Jurassic Girl,” published by Ulysses Press, is available wherever books are sold.

Noble Hungers: South Orange’s Delicious New Literary Spot

Exploring Emotions Through Stories: A Journey in Mood Swings

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ook lovers and food enthusiasts alike have a new haven to explore with the opening of Noble Hungers, a culinary bookstore nestled in the heart of South Orange. Founded by former literary festival organizer and marketing professional, Camille Davies Mandel, Noble Hungers offers a unique collection that spans cookbooks, chef memoirs, and food writing, from the intricacies of French cooking to the art of mixology.

Camille’s passion for literature and food seamlessly blends in this space, which not only sells books but also hosts a variety of events, including author readings, tasting events, and the soon-to-launch Bake Club. This club will bring members together to bake from a chosen cookbook each month and share their culinary creations.

Noble Hungers, operating out of the CoLab cooperative retail space, is set to become a vibrant community hub where food and literature enthusiasts can connect, learn, and savor the joys of culinary arts.

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ohit Prasad, a former Short Hills resident, recently released his second book titled Mood Swings, a collection of nine short stories, each centered around one of the nine basic emotions as known in the dramatic arts— ranging from bravery and joy to calmness and beauty. These stories delve into how emotions influence our decisions and actions, offering answers to questions like: To what extent will one respond to insults, soothe hurt, or rise above one’s worst deed?

His first book, The Pilgrim: Inferno Redux, focused on the theme of sin and its consequences, while his new book offers a fresh perspective on how emotions shape our lives. He recently participated in an engrossing book reading session hosted by the Millburn Library, and his next book reading will be held on November 14 at 6 p.m. at 505 8th Ave, New York. Mood Swings, available on Amazon, will leave readers charmed, introspective, and eager for more.

Fall into Adventure:

Discovery Weekends Bring Family Fun to Summit

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et ready for a fall adventure this November that the whole family will love! Discovery Weekends are back at Reeves-Reed Arboretum in Summit, and there’s no better way to explore the magic of autumn than with a visit to the Arboretum. Perfect for families with children ages 3 and up, this self-guided program invites you to wander through the gardens and grounds as the vibrant colors of fall take over. Start at the Stackhouse Education Center, on Saturdays and Sundays from 9am - 3pm, where you’ll borrow a magnifying glass, pick up an interactive activity guide, and embark on your nature journey. Every weekend brings fresh surprises—whether it’s spotting hidden clues, solving mysteries, or creating something fun, there’s always a new discovery waiting to be uncovered. With the crisp fall air and endless nature-inspired activities, Discovery Weekends offer the perfect opportunity for families to bond, explore, and enjoy the beauty of the season.

SOMA Sketches Bring South Orange and Maplewood to Life

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en Stanek, a Maplewood-based artist, has channeled his love for art and the local SOMA community into a vibrant collection of 60 stunning watercolor illustrations. His debut book, ABOUT TOWN SOMA: The Illustrations of Ken Stanek, spans 125 pages and highlights the charm of beloved local businesses. Over the course of a year and a half, Ken sketched these places simply because he felt inspired by the unique character of the community.

These sketches eventually evolved into vibrant watercolor pieces, now celebrated in his book, which has received a wonderful local reception.

Ken’s talents go beyond the book. With 20 years of experience in graphic design, he turned to full-time art in 2023, creating beautiful portraits of people, pets, homes, and small businesses—he also takes custom requests! He hopes to expand his work by creating similar books for other NJ towns. You can explore his work and book at Studionumbernine.net.

Teens Take the Lead: Exploring Civil Rights and Jewish Values on a Four-Day Journey!

Members of Temple B’nai Abraham’s Teen Program make challah for homebound congregants.

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ooking for a teen program that’s more than just another extracurricular?

Temple B’nai Abraham’s Teen Program is shaking things up by blending leadership, community service, and hands-on learning with a Jewish twist. This dynamic program, based at the temple located on the border of Livingston and Millburn, gives teens the chance to serve on committees, learning about philanthropy, Jewish communal service, and finding their own political and social justice voice. From organizing events to making a real impact, these teens aren’t just participants— they’re leaders.

One of the most exciting aspects? The Teen Program is preparing students for the Etgar 36 Civil Rights Journey, a meaningful four-day trip that takes them to key historical sites in the Southern U.S. Along the way, they’ll learn about the Civil Rights Movement, visiting places connected to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. The trip also covers topics such as the struggles of African Americans to gain equality in the 1950s and ‘60s and how Jews were involved in the Civil Rights struggle. For more information call 973-994-3950.

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LOCAL HEROES

Pictured from left, are Melissa Goldberg’s sons Nathan and Elijah, her husband Lewis, and Melissa during a family trip to Africa.

CULTIVATING COMMUNITY AND SUSTAINABILITY THROUGH THE FARM & FORK SOCIETY

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BY JACKIE SCHATELL

Since its inception in 2008, Melissa Goldberg’s Farm & Fork Society has been a well-loved community-supported agriculture initiative, offering members access to fresh, organic produce sourced from local farms. What started as a small Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) group in her garage has grown into a thriving wholesale buying club, embodying her passion for food sustainability and transparency.

The Short Hills resident’s journey began with her desire to know where her food came from. As a self-described foodie with a plot in the local community garden, she found joy in supporting local farmers and promoting healthy eating. “I wanted to have a direct connection to the source of my food,” Melissa explains, reflecting on her early days. What started with 30 people picking up produce in her garage quickly expanded to over 100 members, moving to larger spaces and evolving over time.

Today, Farm & Fork Society operates as a wholesale buying club, offering bi-weekly access to a wide range of organic produce, dairy, honey, meat, eggs, beverages, and more. Members can place orders every other week based on availability, skipping the commitment of traditional CSAs while still enjoying the benefits of fresh, farm-sourced goods. Most of the products come from the Lancaster Cooperative, a network of farms that prioritize organic and sustainable practices.

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One of the unique aspects of Farm & Fork Society is the club’s flexibility. Members only pay for what they order, and there’s no seasonal fee. Melissa takes orders in advance, purchases the necessary amounts, and portions out the goods to avoid waste.

This model not only ensures members receive exactly what they need but also minimizes the environmental impact of food waste. Melissa emphasizes that food transparency, supporting local farms, and practicing sustainability are at the heart of what makes Farm & Fork Society special.

Melissa’s love for food extends beyond her work with Farm & Fork Society. Her deep connection to food culture and sustainability has inspired her to travel, exploring different culinary traditions worldwide. Through these experiences, she believes people can gain a better understanding of each other.

Though the initiative is not driven by profit, its impact is significant. Farm & Fork Society is a testament to Melissa’s dedication to food sustainability, healthy eating, and community building. Whether it’s through her support of local farms or her efforts to help the community eat healthier, Melissa Goldberg’s work ensures that Farm & Fork Society is not just about food— it’s about nourishing both people and the planet.

For more information, visit: farmandforksociety.com

LOCAL HEROES

PODCAST SPREADS SUNSHINE Celebrating Good Vibes and Great People

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At the height of the pandemic, Kate Cherichello Tente found herself, like so many others, stuck inside her New York City apartment, feeling weighed down by the constant stream of negative news. As a performer, she was used to being in front of an audience, but suddenly, her creative outlets had dried up. Kate decided to turn her situation into something positive— something that would uplift others as much as it did her.

With a camera and a lot of optimism, she began sharing feel-good stories about people doing good in the world. What started as a personal project to lift her own spirits quickly grew into a podcast that would go on to touchthousandsof lives. “Be The Good with Kate” was born, a platform dedicated to shining a spotlight on the everyday heroes who are often overlooked but who make the world a brighter place.

Over the course of the podcast’s journey, Kate has interviewed over 120 guests, each one bringing their own unique and inspiring story to the table. Her guest list ranges from nonprofit founders and small business owners to people who have overcome great personal challenges to give back to their communities. One week, she might be chatting with her own kindergarten teacher about the impact of education, and the next, she’s talking to a former inmate who now hires and supports other former inmates as they rebuild their lives.

The diversity of the people Kate interviews is part of what makes her podcast so engaging. “I’ve talked to people from all over the world,” Kate says with excitement.

“I’ve interviewed someone who started a choir for people with aphasia, a nutritionist who helps postpartum moms, and a hospital clown from Belgium. The range is incredible, and I’m constantly amazed by the impact these people are making.”

Each episode of “Be The Good with Kate” is a celebration of positivity, hope, and the human spirit. Some episodes

are as short as 12 minutes, while others stretch to nearly an hour, but no matter the length, each conversation is filled with heart and inspiration. Whether it’s a story about someone running a nonprofit or an individual making small but significant changes in their own life and the lives of others, Kate’s podcast serves as a beacon of light in a sometimes-dark world.

Kate recently relocated from New York City to Madison, New Jersey, where

she continues to juggle her roles as a performer, podcast host, and personal trainer—all while adjusting to life as a new mom. The podcast is a way she’s giving back, and she hopes it will continue to grow and reach even more listeners.

Tune in to “Be The Good with Kate” for your weekly dose of good vibes and heartwarming stories. You can find the podcast atkatecherichello.com/bethegood or on all major podcast platforms.

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LOCAL BUZZ

CHARMING CRAFTS & HOLIDAY CHEER at the Ogden Memorial Craft Fair!

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Get into the holiday spirit at the Ogden Memorial Presbyterian Church Craft Fair this December.

Guests will enjoy a delightful day filled with creativity, community, and unique handcrafted treasures.

Come discover a wide array of beautiful, handmade crafts perfect for holiday gifts, home decor, and special keepsakes. This event is the perfect opportunity to support local artisans and find that oneof-a-kind gift you’ve been searching for.

Saturday, December 7,10am-3pm Ogden Memorial Presbyterian Church 286 Main Street, Chatham

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24th Annual Holiday Open Studio

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Our Holiday Open Studio Collection of original paintings, prints and giables will be from Lisa’s recent Animalia, Ode to Monet, and Flower Garden series.

We will also be unveiling a brand new collection, G.O.A.T. (Greatest Of All Times) which features sport super stars, like Simone Biles, Shaquille O’Neal, Leo Messi and Tom Brady. The first 50 visitors will receive a free gift with purchase, while supplies last.

Saturday,November 23 & Sunday, 24, 11am-5pm 55 Mountain Ave., Calwell, NJ 07006 www.lisapalombo.com

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14TH ANNUAL MSDA REINDEER RUN & JINGLE JAM HOLIDAY MARKET

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Kick off the holiday season with Mount St. Dominic Academy’s 14th Annual 5K Reindeer Run/Walk and Jingle Jam Holiday Market (taking place the night before (Friday night) and during the race on Saturday), where you can shop for holiday gifts. All race proceeds will support MSDA, an all-girls Catholic high school.

Runners of all skill levels are invited to join in the fun, and there are exciting incentives for participants including: $250 Cash Prize for top overall male and female runners; Prizes for top finishers in each age group; Sport-Tek long-sleeve t-shirt for the first 350 registered runners; Family-friendly pre- and post-race festivities, including holiday shopping at the Jingle Jam Holiday Market.

Jingle Jam Holiday Market Friday, December 6, 5-8pm Saturday, December 7, 8:30am-12:30pm Reindeer Run Saturday, December 7, 9:30am St. Aloysius 235 Bloomfield Ave., Caldwell https://www.msdacademy.org/events/reindeer-run-5k/ reindeer-run-registration

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LOCAL BUZZ

LARGEST GAME TABLE SHOWROOM IN THE TRI-STATE AREA! Assembly and Delivery Available! Reserve Now!

Van Gogh: Poets & Lovers Film

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Van Gogh is not only one of the most beloved artists of all time but perhaps the most misunderstood. This film builds a deeper portrait of the artist, focusing on Van Gogh’s unique creative process and exploring his years in the south of France, where he revolutionized his style. Discover one of art history’s most pivotal creators in this gorgeous film created in close collaboration with the National Gallery’s biggest-ever Van Gogh exhibition.

Wednesday, November 20, 2 & 7pm Morris Museum 6 Normandy Heights Road, Morristown | 973-971-3700

Keep the Family Busy and OFF THEIR PHONES ORDER NOW FOR THE HOLIDAYS!!!

Scandinavian Import & Gift Sale

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The Lodge LInne 429 Vasa Order of American will sponsor a unique day of shopping, culture, and goodwill. The sale will feature a wide variety of traditional holiday and everyday Scandinavian items: Swedish straw decorations, Danish iron candleholders, Norwegian sweaters, paper products, household items, jewelry lines, Tomtes, and more. These gift and handicraft items are designed in a Scandinavian style or motif. Also for sale will be a large variety of Scandinavian baked goods and specialty foods. Handicap accessible.

Saturday, November 23, 10am-3pm Salt Brook School, 40 Maple Street, New Providence

Billiards/Pool Tables • Bubble Hockey • Ping Pong Foos Ball • 2-In-1 Game Tables • Air Hockey • B.ball Shuffleboard Tables • Poker Tables • Bars & Pub Tables Dart Boards • Accessories • Arcade Cabinets

Worth the Trip From Anywhere!

Mon- Sat 10am-6pm • Sunday 10am-5pm

Next-Day Delivery from 70,000 sq. ft. Warehouse

2980 Route 10 West, Morris Plains

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LOCAL BUZZ

EXPERIENCE LAND BACK:

A Community Celebration of Contemporary Native Art in Six Tiny Galleries

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In honor of National Native American Heritage Month and Interwoven Power: Native Knowledge/Native Art at the Montclair Art Museum, Tiny Gallery Montclair is introducing LAND BACK, a unique art takeover celebrating Indigenous culture and the museum’s exhibit. Curated by Jennifer Ley, this captivating event showcases the works of seven contemporary Native artists installed in six Tiny Galleries across Montclair, Glen Ridge, and Bloomfield, New Jersey—part of Lenapehoking, the ancestral homelands of the Lenape people.

Francesca Moore of Montclair, who founded Tiny Gallery, poses with the tiny gallery on her front lawn.

Francesca Moore of Montclair, who founded Tiny Gallery, says, “It’s definitely a community builder, and I’ve never had a project that received such instant, positive reactions— people just get it and love it. I’ve had people tell me it’s a special part of their day, whether it’s passing by on a dog walk or even

traveling from far away to see the gallery.

The momentum it’s gaining across towns is incredible, and to now be collaborating with the museum is just stunning. They’ve welcomed us so warmly, and we’re thrilled to support them.’”

Tiny Gallery’s mission is to make creating, exhibiting, and collecting art more inclusive by disrupting the idea of what fine art can be. Their network of compact box-sized art galleries, similar to Little Free Libraries, live on front lawns, in public spaces, and at education centers, featuring small works, ranging from two to four inches, by local and national artists.

November 2, 2024-February 1, 2025 tinygallerymontclair.com; Instagram @tinygallerymontclair

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TROT FOR A CAUSE: 2024 TWO TOWNS TURKEY TROT & FUN RUN!

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The 2024 Two Towns Turkey Trot 5K and Kids’ Fun Run, presented by the Seth Boyden PTA, is back.This family-friendly event includes a 5K race and a Kids’ Fun Run, with prizes awarded to the overall male and female winners. The race is a fundraiser for the PTA of Seth Boyden Elementary, which draws students from Maplewood and South Orange—the “two towns” referenced in the race’s name.

Proceeds from the race go to several causes, including

providing support for families in need. Additionally, local farms and grocery stores donate turkeys and other food items that are raffled off as race prizes, making it an event that benefits both the community and participants.

Race day registration and packet pickup will take place from 8:30 am to 9:45 am. The 5K race begins at 10 am, followed by the Kids’ Fun Run at 11 am. The fun run will be approximately 0.25 miles, and the awards ceremony will take place at 11:15 am.

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Saturday, November 23 South Mountain Reservation Lollipop Loop on Crest Drive,Maplewood near the Wildflower Sculpture Park and Dog Run https://runsignup.com/Race/NJ/SouthOrange/ TwoTownsTurkeyTrot

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SUMMIT’S SANTA CLAUS SHOP

Prepares to Help Deliver A Joyous Holiday to Locals in Need

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With the monetary donations from area residents, local organizations and businesses, the Santa Claus Shop can purchase the gifts that allow less fortunate neighbors to experience the joy of holiday giving without financial burden.

For the 58th consecutive year, the Santa Claus Shop will open its doors to area families to provide complimentary holiday shopping. The Shop serves more than 1,500 low-income family members and senior citizens from Summit, New Providence, and Berkeley Heights.

This year’s Santa Claus Shop will be held at St. John’s Lutheran Church, 587 Springfield Avenue in Summit. Families will be offered shopping hours by invitation only during the first week of December.

Co-chairs—Corinne White, Jen Adel,

To keep the holiday spirit alive for local residents in need, the Santa Claus Shop chairwomen ask for members of the community to consider giving. Checks can be made payable to SHIP, with Santa Claus Shop noted on the check’s memo line, and mailed to the Santa Claus Shop, P.O. Box 119, Summit, NJ 07902. The ability to make an online donation is also available.

The Santa Claus Shop is Amanda Darnowski and Jenny Groves chaired by Summit residents Jen Adel, Amanda Darnowski, Jenny Groves and Corinne www.summitsantaclausshop.com White and co-chaired by Stephanie Phiebig, Hilary Reilly, Teresa Facebook - Santa Claus Shop - Summit,NJ Solano, Jessica Whitehorne and Roseanne Wilson. The Santa Instagram - @santa_claus_shop_summit Claus Shop exists solely on donations and volunteers.

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LOCAL BUZZ

39th Annual Giralda Farms Run for a Cause

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Registration for the 39th Giralda Farms Run is open. There will be a 5K, 10K, Combo 10K and 5K Race, and a Kids Fun Run. This classic race in and around the beautiful Giralda Farms Corporate Park, will raise money for Big Brothers Big Sisters of Coastal and Northern New Jersey (BBBSCNNJ), which makes a positive difference in the lives of local children through professionally supported, one-to-one mentoring relationships with adult volunteers. The mentoring programs provided by BBBSCNNJ empower youth to achieve their greatest potential as they grow to become confident, competent, and caring individuals.

Sunday, November 10 3 Giralda Farms, Madison 7:30am—Registration and Check-In; 8:30am—Kids Fun Run; 9am—10K race; 11am—5K race runsignup.com/Race/NJ/Madison/GiraldaFarmsRuns Learn about BBBSCNNJ atmentornj.org

Holiday Variety Show

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The least serious—but most special—way to celebrate the holidays is back, and better than ever! The Vivid Company and their friends will entertain with holiday songs, comic sketches and improv, and lots of good old-fashioned fun.

Each year’s show is original; past years’ performances included an ode to binge shopping, a spoof of Hallmark Channel movies and a holiday cooking show gone bad. This year’s show promises a unique kind of silliness that’s the perfect complement to your traditional holiday viewing!

December 7, 8pm Vivid Stage Oakes Center, 120 Morris Avenue, Summit | 908-514-9654 vividstage.org

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Burn Off Some Calories Before Your Thanksgiving Meal at the 16th Annual Chatham Turkey Trot

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If you are looking for something fun and meaningful to do on Thanksgiving Day, aside from enjoying a wonderful meal and time with friends and loved ones, you may want to participate in the 16th Annual Chatham Turkey Trot. The event consists of a 1-Mile Family Fun Run, and a USA Track and Field certified 5K Race that takes participants through the scenic Highlands section of Chatham Township.

Over the years, the Chatham Turkey Trot has become a family holiday tradition that offers expert and novice runners alike the opportunity to spend time with family, friends, and neighbors, raise funds, and break a sweat before the big meal.

Each year, The Chatham Turkey Trot attracts more than 1,200 runners who help raise funds for the town’s first responders and diabetes research and education including the Chatham Township Volunteer Fire Department, the Diabetes Research Institute, The Barton Center for Diabetes Education, and the Chatham Emergency Squad.

Since 2009, the race has raised more than $270,000 from the generous support of sponsors, donors, and runners.

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Thursday, November 28 110 Van Houton Ave, Chatham, under the American flag.

8am—Warm-ups/Day of Registration; 8:30am—1 Mile Family Fun Run; 9am—1 Mile Awards Ceremony/Program/National Anthem; 9:15am—5K Race; 9:55am—5K Awards Ceremony. www.thechathamturkeytrot.org

LOCAL BUZZ

Aladdin and His Wonderful Lamp

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The Maplewood Strollers present an original musical based on the magical fable adapted and directed

by Carol Cornicelli, with music by Craig Lee, lyrics by Katherine Lench, and orchestrations by Wayne Blood.

Friday, November 8 & 15, 7pm Saturday, November 9 & 16, 1 & 3:30pm Sunday, November 10 & 16, 1 & 3:30pm The Burgdorff Center, 10 Durand Road, Maplewood TheStrollers.org

SCHEDULE YOURS TODAY!

The Illusionists– Magic of the Holidays

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Celebrate the holidays with the entire family at The Illusionists—Magic of the Holidays, a mind-blowing showcase featuring the jaw-dropping talents of the most incredible illusionists on earth. The Illusionists has shattered box office records across the globe and dazzles audiences of all ages with a powerful mix of the most outrageous and astonishing acts ever seen on stage. This non-stop show is packed with thrilling and sophisticated magic of unprecedented proportions.

This year’s family-friendly show promises even more illusions, close-up magic, mentalism, and technological spectacle performed by master entertainers who’ve captivated audiences worldwide.

Saturday, November 16, 3:30pm & 7:30pm Mayo Performing Arts Center 100 South Street, Morristown | 973-539-8008 mayoarts.org November 2024 | MyVicinityMagazine.com | 15

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FUN-FILLED TRAIL RACE HAPPENING AT SOUTH MOUNTAIN RESERVATION

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The public is invited to participate in the NJ Trail Series SOMO Winter 1 trail race set in the beautiful South Mountain Reservation in Maplewood. The course features a mix of fire roads, single-track trails, hills, and some pavement, offering a diverse and challenging experience for runners. Participants can choose between

5K, 10K, and 13.1M distances, with the 5K consisting of 1 loop, the 10K of 2 loops, and the 13.1M of 4 loops. While there are no finishing medals, there will be a special giveaway for all participants. The goal of the NJ Trail Series is to make running FUN, so come ready for a great time on the trails!

Race day registration and check-in start at 8 am, and participants are encouraged to arrive an hour before their race begins. The half marathon (13.1M) starts at 9am, the 10K begins at 9:30am, and the 5K starts at 10am. Early registration prices are $30—5K, $35—10K, and $40—13.1M On the day-of event, $45—5K, $5010K, and $55—13.1M. Pre-registration can also be arranged via email at njtrailseries@gmail.com.

Saturday, November 16, 9am - 1pm South Mountain Reservation’s Dog Park Bear Lane, Maplewood

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PRE-THANKSGIVING GOBBLE, GOBBLE HIKE & PARTY IN MILLBURN

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Get outdoors before the holiday feast with the Pre-Thanksgiving Gobble, Gobble Hike & Party.

Explore the scenic trails of South Mountain Reservation and participate in a fun post-hike party and coat drive (bring old coats of all sizes to donate and help keep someone warm this winter). The coats will be delivered to The GenWealth Financial Group for donation.

The hike will be 5-6 miles, depending on weather and trail condition, along hiking trails with some elevation, moderate difficulty 2-2.5 mph. Dress warmly in layers, wear hiking shoes/boots (trails may be muddy or rocky), and hiking poles if desired. Children who can walk the distance are welcome, but no strollers or bicycles, please.

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November 24, 10:15am - 1:45pm Locust Grove Parking Lot (start and finish line) 111 Glen Ave., Millburn

Parking is available at Locust Grove or free at the NJ Transit Millburn Station, across the street from the meeting spot.

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Clutter FREE for the Holidays!

PODCASTING 101:

Learn How To Start A Podcast

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Got a brilliant podcast idea but unsure where to begin? Join South OrangeMaplewood Adult School for “Podcasting 101,” an introductory course that covers everything you need to know to get your podcast off the ground. From equipment and sound design to editing, show formats, scheduling, marketing, and revenue generation, this workshop will guide you through the essentials of podcast creation.

Led by Deborah Goldstein, executive producer and host of Gen-Z Media’s “The Big Fib” and Sr. Audio Producer for “Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls,” this session will give you the tools to launch your own show.

Friday, November 18,7-9pm South Orange-Maplewood Adult School 17 Parker Ave, Maplewood To register visit: https://www.ssreg.com/ som/classes/results.asp?string=0110)

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THE PILGRIMS AND THE MAYFLOWER: From Sea to Shining Sea

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The Chatham Historical Society invites all to attend a free hybrid program is featuring well-known New Jersey historic lecturer Joel Farkas. Joel will guide us on a journey through the history of Christianity to Catholicism to Protestantism, from Henry the Eighth to the Pilgrims and the Mayflower, and finally to the first Thanksgiving and the woman who made it happen! The event can be attended in-person or via Zoom. Refreshements will be serviced.

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The Rabbi Barry H. Greene Early Childhood Center at Temple B’nai Jeshurun’s mission is to foster a love of learning in every child. TBJ’s warm, welcoming, and inclusive environment serves children ages 4 months through 6 years. Situated on the beautiful Florin Family Children’s campus, TBJ offers exceptional, expansive outdoor facilities.

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Playschool 2, Preschool 3, and Pre-K The curriculum is child-centered, multisensory, play- and thematically based, and integrates all domains, including social-emotional learning, oral language, literacy, emergent writing, science, technology, engineering, art, mathematics (STEAM), social studies, music, languages, and physical development.

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Offers engaging, dynamic programming that includes interactive music and movement, stimulating sensory-motor play, Yoga, Zumbini, Emergent Language and story time, Loose Parts Play, and Friday Shabbat Shalom Club for infants and toddlers with a guardian.

Offers a unique opportunity for children who turn five by October 1st to develop a strong sense of self, sharpen executive functioning skills, encourage a growth mindset, and inspire a genuine love of learning while building an exceptional academic foundation. Social and

emotional development is encouraged in creative, intentional, and age-appropriate ways that support the process of learning with joy.

TBJ is truly a thriving learning community where all children flourish!

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Winston Preparatory School New Jersey offers a highly individualized learning environment for students with learning disabilities, such as dyslexia, ADHD, and nonverbal learning disabilities (NVLD). Located in Morris County, our New Jersey campus is part of our leading national network of schools and serves students in grades 4-12.

At Winston Prep, students are grouped by learning profile and receive one-to-one daily remediation as part of our Focus Program. Backed by research, our team of expert faculty regularly assess how each student responds to their individualized skill development plan and adjust their approach based on that. With the right tools, our learning model allows students to thrive as independent learners.

At the heart of our curriculum, you will find that Winston Prep is so much more than a school. We are a community of educators that offer comprehensive support to our students and families.

Often for the first time in their lives, many of our students begin to view school as a place where they belong and can succeed.

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Walter Bauman Jewelers: GENERATIONS OF EXCELLENCE AND PERSONAL SERVICE

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Nestled in the heart of West Orange since the 1960s, Walter Bauman Jewelers has been a family-owned gem for over a century, offering generations of customers a trusted destination for fine jewelry. With roots in the industry dating back to the 1860s, the Bauman family has built a legacy of excellence and community service that spans both time and continents, with customers worldwide ordering from their website.

At Walter Bauman Jewelers, it’s not just about selling jewelry—it’s about becoming a personal jeweler for life’s most cherished moments. Whether it’s for weddings, anniversaries, birthdays, or the birth of a baby, Walter Bauman Jewelers has been there to mark these milestones with stunning pieces that are as unique as the customers themselves. This multi-generational approach means that customers come back year after year, and their children and grandchildren do, too, forging lasting relationships with the store.

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The in-store experience at Walter Bauman Jewelers is exceptional.

The store offers something for every taste with a vast selection of estate jewelry, designer pieces, and custom-made designs.

Estate jewelry has become a hot trend, offering customers the thrill of discovering unique, often vintage, pieces at an incredible value. As estate jewelry requires a discerning eye, the experts at Walter Bauman Jewelers carefully appraise each item, ensuring its authenticity and quality. This treasure hunt aspect of estate jewelry, combined with the superior craftsmanship of older pieces, makes it a popular choice for today’s savvy buyers.

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Trends in jewelry are constantly evolving, and Walter Bauman Jewelers is always at the forefront. Yellow gold, layered necklaces, as well as charms and medallions have surged in popularity recently, and Walter Bauman Jewelers has embraced these trends with open arms. Their large selection of jewelry ensures that customers can find exactly what they’re looking for a trendy new piece or a timeless classic. And thanks to their knowledgeable staff, who boast decades of experience (some with the store for over 40 years), every customer is expertly guided to the perfect piece for their needs.

But Walter Bauman Jewelers offers more than just new jewelry— they’re also experts at repurposing heirloom pieces. Many customers come in with old, sentimental jewelry—perhaps a grandmother’s brooch or an outdated ring—that they want to modernize. The team at Walter Bauman Jewelers excels at transforming these old treasures into fresh, wearable pieces, keeping the sentimental value intact while giving them new life.

It’s just one more way that Walter Bauman Jewelers serves their community, blending the past with the present.

A visit to Walter Bauman Jewelers is more than just shopping for jewelry—it’s an experience. The store’s “spa days” have become a beloved tradition. They offer customers a chance to have their jewelry cleaned and polished, ensuring that every piece looks its best for special occasions. These spa days, held before major holidays, are the perfect opportunity to refresh your favorite jewelry!

Generations of families have trusted Walter Bauman Jewelers because of their vast selection, trend-setting pieces, and the personalized service they receive. Whether celebrating a new chapter in life or finding a unique treasure from the past, Walter Bauman Jewelers continues to be the go-to destination for anyone seeking exceptional jewelry and an exceptional experience.

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ART IN VICINITY OFTHE ESSEX

JAY SELDIN

Life Teaching Photography Now On The Road

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STORY AND PORTRAIT BY DAN EPSTEIN

Retiring from over 30 years in public school education as a high school Photography teacher at 58, Montclair resident Jay Seldin gave into the urge to travel which had been a longtime interest.

And travel he did. A lot. His first big photographic expedition in 2006 was to China. People saw the images he made on his travels and wanted to travel with him… and 2008, saw the birth of a second career, leading photographic workshops to far flung places. In the beginning, working with the International Center of Photography, Seldin led workshop trips on their behalf. But he soon realized that he could do it on his own, and offer travelers a much more cost effective trip while also being flexible enough to design the workshops to his co-travelers interests. That was the start of CPE Photo Workshops.

While he often travels the US on his own with one friend in tow, his passport is very full. He’s taken people to Cuba 15 times since 2009, and likewise taken groups to Burma, India, Ireland, Scotland, South East Asia, Egypt, South Africa, and as we write this, with a group, he’s on his way to Morocco.

Coffee Pot Quilters, Beford, PA, is a photograph made while traveling the Lincoln Highway captured in 2022, in Bedford, PA. Seldin originally stopped to photograph a small building that

Garlic Roasters, Mandalay, Myanmar

looked like a coffee pot. Purely by luck a group of octogenarian quilters were working inside the building and beckoned him in to join them. An original print of this photograph is currently on display at the Montclair Art Museum in an exhibit sponsored by the NJ Council of the Arts.

While walking on the street in Mandalay during a workshop, Seldin smelled garlic roasting and followed his nose and caught this image of locals roasting garlic that had been grown locally and washed in the river.

Garlic Roasters, Mandalay, Myanmar, 2015.

Likewise, during a similar morning stroll in Burma Seldin happened upon a group of novice monks who were out collecting alms.

People would give them rice or other foods.

There was a pecking order, he says. The monks at the front of the line got the better donations, and eventually the monks in the back would move up. Morning Alms, Bagan, Mandala, Burma, 2016.

See Coffee Pot Quilters at the Montclair Art Museum until January 5th, 2025. More remarkable work and information about CPE Workshops at www.JaySeldinPhotos.com

Morning Alms, Bagan, Mandala, Burma

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Camps offer children an incredible opportunity to forge new friendships, enhance their social skills, and create lasting bonds. Within the vibrant atmosphere of camp, kids learn to cooperate and communicate effectively, working together in teams that foster a deep sense of community and belonging—elements that are crucial for their emotional and social development.

Having the chance to spend time away from home allows children to cultivate their independence and build confidence. In the nurturing environment of a camp, they navigate decision-making, tackle problem-solving challenges, and learn to manage their own needs, contributing to their overall growth.

Many summer camps are rich in outdoor adventures and physical activities, encouraging children to stay active and healthy. This engagement not only combats the monotony of summer boredom but also nurtures a lifelong appreciation for the beauty of nature and the great outdoors.

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Even though summer represents a break from traditional schooling, many camps thoughtfully weave educational elements into their activities. This intentional blending helps combat the summer learning slide, keeping kids mentally stimulated and engaged.

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Attending camp is a gateway to unique and treasured memories that enrich a child’s life. From the crackling warmth of campfire stories to the laughter shared during group activities, these experiences often become some of the most cherished memories of childhood.

Moreover, summer camp is a remarkable setting for children to meet peers from various backgrounds, encouraging them to broaden their horizons and develop a deeper understanding of diversity.

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Discover the Magic of Mohonk Mountain House PHOTOS COURTESY OF MOHONK MOUNTAIN HOUSE

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The Victorian-style resort, Mohonk Mountain House, is a National Historical Landmark located in nearby New York’s Hudson Valley. The resort offers a myriad of leisure activities and wellness programs that renew the body, mind and spirit.

Mohonk Mountain House’s recreational activities include ice skating, rock climbing and 85 miles of trails for seasonal hiking, mountain biking, snowshoeing and crosscountry skiing. The grounds feature exquisite gardens, a nine-hole golf course, tennis courts and stables for horseback riding and horse-drawn carriage rides.

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The glacial-formed Lake Mohonk is ideal for boating, fishing and swimming. A stay at Mohonk Mountain House includes three meals per day, afternoon tea and most nonalcoholic beverages.

The Spa at Mohonk Mountain House offers guests a restorative respite from the stresses of daily life in the heart of the Hudson Valley. Here guests feel at one with nature as they indulge in treatments

that celebrate the surrounding beauty of the Shawangunk Ridge and utilize natural, nourishing products.

The award-winning spa with a natureinspired treatment menu offers opportunities for relaxation and renewal.

Guests can relax in the outdoor mineral pool and lounge for hours with panoramic views from every veranda.

To further help guests unwind, The Spa also offers a variety of guided yoga, meditation and fitness experiences, as well as a comprehensive curriculum of ground-breaking mindfulness programming designed to promote overall health and wellness.

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Mohonk Mountain House is a quintessential family resort where attention to detail can be found in every aspect of your stay. From December 4–31, escape to the Victorian castle for

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS

Orthodontics Beyond Aesthetics PHOTO BY DAN EPSTEIN

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Many people think braces or Invisalign are just about looks—but there’s so much more to it! While a beautiful smile can be life-changing, orthodontic care also brings significant health benefits that go beyond aesthetics. Discovering how orthodontic treatment can enhance your dental health can be important in making informed decisions for yourself and your family.

Orthodontic treatment is fundamentally about achieving optimal oral health.

Misaligned teeth can lead to a host of problems, such as difficulties in maintaining oral hygiene. Crooked teeth can create hard-to-reach areas where plaque and food particles gather, increasing the risk of cavities and gum disease. Straightening teeth through orthodontic care makes it easier to clean them effectively, which promotes longterm dental health.

Another significant benefit of orthodontics is improving bite function.

An improper bite—whether it’s an overbite, underbite, or crossbite—can cause uneven wear on teeth, leading to chipping or cracking over time. By correcting these bite issues, orthodontic treatment can alleviate pain, prevent further issues, and enhance overall oral function.

At Sacks Orthodontics, patients can expect top-tier care from experienced, board-certified orthodontists, Dr. Eric Sacks and Dr. Vidhi Shah.

Their dedicated team provides comprehensive treatment plans tailored to each individual’s needs, so you can trust that your family is in the best hands.

Sacks Orthodontics takes pride in being the #1 provider of Invisalign and Lightforce in the state of New Jersey.

This position is a testament to their expertise and commitment to patient outcomes. With a profound understanding of these advanced technologies, they use the latest tools to deliver optimal results for their patients.

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Dr. Eric Sacks

Invisalign offers a discreet and comfortable way for you or your child to straighten their teeth, while Lightforce provides fully customized 3D-printed braces that ensure a perfect fit. As leaders in these technologies, Sacks Orthodontics is dedicated to staying ahead of the curve, guaranteeing that each patient receives.

personalized care, convenient treatment, and exceptional results. Their passion for excellence truly sets them apart, enabling them to meet the diverse needs of New Jersey families with precision and care.

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NAVIGATING STRESS, ANXIETY, AND DEPRESSION DURING THE HOLIDAY SEASON

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The holiday season, often seen as joyful, can ironically bring stress, anxiety, and depression for many. Recognizing these challenges is essential for managing them. Below are common triggers for these feelings.

Financial Pressure: The expectation to buy gifts, host parties, and travel can strain budgets, leading to guilt or anxiety.

Family Dynamics: Gatherings may heighten feelings of inadequacy, especially for those experiencing loneliness or complicated relationships.

Loss: For those grieving, holidays can evoke painful memories, making joy feel distant.

Busy Schedules: The rush of preparations can lead to stress and burnout.

Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD): Shorter days and less sunlight may exacerbate depressive symptoms.

Recognizing signs of stress is the first step to managing them.

Set realistic expectations and prioritize quality time with loved ones. Budget wisely, considering handmade gifts or experiences.

Practice self-care—make time for exercise, meditation, or quiet moments. Stay connected with supportive friends or family and limit social media use to reduce comparisons.

If feelings of anxiety or depression are overwhelming, consider reaching out to a mental health professional for support and coping strategies.

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The Memory Center is a brand-new, state-of-the-art facility where doctors utilize comprehensive care and innovative solutions for people experiencing memory and cognitive challenges. The boardcertified physicians, including neurologist Dr. Michael Heublum, internist Dr. Jeffrey Shenfeld, and an entire staff of highly trained technologists, complete a full range of testing and create a unique, customized therapy plan for each patient.

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We focus on you as a complete individual, not a symptom alone.”

Dr. Shenfeld explains the Center’s philosophy: “We understand that cognitive decline is the potential result of a wide array of underlying medical issues. Knowing and addressing your risk factors is how we can be proactive in this fight. The earlier you are aware of possible genetic predispositions, and the sooner you take care of chronic conditions, the more control you have over neurodegenerative disease.” Dr. Shenfeld elaborates: “Our therapeutic strategy incorporates not only traditional methods of treating chronic conditions such as

This is a revolutionary time in the treatment of neurodegenerative diseases. Recently, significant advances have been made in diagnosing Alzheimer’s, including a combination of laboratory and imaging tests. New treatment options have emerged, including antibody infusions and non-invasive treatments. At the Memory Center, the doctors and staff understand the challenges individuals and families face with memory impairments. From early detection and diagnostic evaluations to personalized treatment plans and

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HEALTH AND WELLNESS

Clear Vision, Personal Touch

Our Goal is to Help You Discover What You Need to Make Your Life More Enjoyable.

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Jackson Eye Care, founded by Kurt T. Jackson, MD, a highly skilled vitreo-retinal surgeon and ophthalmologist, is a practice that stands out for its specialized care, offering personalized attention and innovative treatments to patients with serious eye conditions. With over 15 years of experience in the field, Dr. Jackson is deeply committed to delivering top-tier ophthalmic care to those he serves. As a retina specialist, he treats a broad spectrum of complex eye conditions, including retinal detachments, macular degeneration, diabetic retinopathy, retinal vein occlusions, macular holes, and ocular trauma. His expertise spans both medical and surgical interventions, offering advanced treatments such as vitrectomy surgery and intravitreal injections—proven therapies that have transformed outcomes for patients with macular degeneration and diabetic retinopathy.

What truly distinguishes Jackson Eye Care is its dedication to personalized, compassionate service. Unlike larger practices, where patients might feel like just another number, this smaller practice provides intimate, focused care from start to finish.

Dr. Jackson takes the time to thoroughly understand each patient’s unique concerns, ensuring they feel heard, informed, and supported throughout their treatment journey.

In addition to providing outstanding patient care, Dr. Jackson has also contributed to the advancement of eye care through his involvement in nationally recognized clinical research trials.

His commitment to staying at the forefront of new treatments further underscores his dedication to offering the best possible care to his patients.

Dr. Jackson’s passion for preserving and restoring vision makes Jackson Eye Care a trusted and valued practice in the community.

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We are proud to use exclusively natural, eco-friendly products. Our top priorities are cleanliness, and providing you with the best possible service and experience.

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The Ethical Mattress Co. sells exceptionally well-made mattresses for a better night’s sleep, and all of them are naturally and sustainably sourced for a better world. Changing the world, one mattress at a time.

7 Townsquare, Chatham, NJ 07928 973-701-0099 | www.glazesalon.com

At the Memory Center, we understand the challenges faced by individuals and families dealing with memory impairments. We are dedicated to offering a comprehensive suite of memory services and treatments designed to address the unique needs of each patient. From early detection and diagnostic evaluations to personalized treatment plans and ongoing support, we are committed to enhancing cognitive health and improving quality of life.

Memory Center

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The Ethical Mattress Co.

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103 Baker Street, Maplewood, NJ 973-500-3303 www.handsonspamaplewood.com

387 Millburn Ave, Millburn | 973-250-6104 ethicalmattress.com

401 South Van Brunt, Suite 302, Englewood, NJ 07631 201-947-4777 | MemoryCenter.org

Orthodontist

Psychotherapy

Retina Specialist

Yoga

Dr. Eric Sacks believes that Livingston families really can have it all—the most advanced orthodontic treatment options, a truly state-of-the-art, all-digital facility, and personalized care and attention from board-certified orthodontic specialists.

Their goal is to help patients restore a healthy balance to their lives. Their therapists guide, give feedback, suggest and teach techniques and most importantly: listen. Their Wellness Center has a wide range of clinical expertise for children and families. They offer: Services for Children Dealing with School and Family Dynamics; Individual/Family/ Couples/Children and Teen Therapy; and a Variety of Clinical Therapy Expertise.

Most insurances accepted.

Telemedicine appointments available.

At Jackson Eye Care, you are guaranteed to receive the most up-to-date and state-ofthe-art diagnostics and treatments for all your vitreo-retinal problems. Specializing in managing all diseases of the retina, vitreous and macula, including macular holes, retinal detachment, diabetic retinopathy, ocular trauma and macular degeneration.

Sacks Orthodontics

Discovery Wellness Center

Jackson Eye Care

Sana Yoga is an infrared heated space. The studio is focused on creating a community of diversity, trust and inclusivity. At Sana, your practice is yours—it may not look like anyone else’s and that is okay because no one is you and that is your power!

We remind you to keep an open mind, show up for yourself, and give yourself permission to release and heal-Sana.

41 N. Livingston Avenue, Livingston 973-251-2265 www.SacksOrtho.com

7 East Frederick Place, Suite 700, Cedar Knolls | 862-242-3500 www.discoverypsychotherapycenter.com

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22 Old Short Hills Road, Suite 202, Livingston | 862-904-8349 www.jacksoneyecare.com

Sana Yoga

1280 Springfield Ave, New Providence 908-665-9642 | sanayoganj

HEALTH AND WELLNESS

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Nestled in three lush acres, this community offers the peace and quiet of a wooded retreat while remaining conveniently close to nearby shops, restaurants, parks, medical support, and more.

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DINING GUIDE It is recommended that you call in advance as reservations may be required.

BERKELEY HEIGHTS

Restaurant Serenade

Luna Stella

6 Roosevelt Avenue, Chatham, NJ 07928 973-701-0303 | www.restaurantserenade.com Artful dining, as conceived by award-winning Chef James Laird. A showcase of the finest hand-selected seasonal and regional ingredients in simple, refined presentations by Chef Laird.

5 Highland Pl, Maplewood | 973-761-7600 www.restaurantlunastella.com New American with an emphasis on creativity, fresh ingredients, and inventive cocktails.

Nagoya Sushi & Tiki Lounge 538 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-898-1188 | www.nagoyasushiandbar.com Japanese restaurant featuring a wide selection of sushi, rolls, and other Japanese favorites.

Proud Thai Cookery 645 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-665-0055 | www.proudthainj.com Authentic Thai cuisine

Trap Rock Restaurant & Brewery 279 Springfield Ave, Berkeley Heights 908-665-1755 | www.traprockrestaurant.net A microbrewery offering seasonal craft brews & a delicate menu that accentuates a southern flare.

CHATHAM Charley’s Aunt Restaurant 8-10 S Passaic Ave, Chatham | 973-635-6772 www.charleysauntchatham.com Traditional American cuisine.

Gregorio’s Mediterranean Restaurant 255A Main Street, Chatham | 973-635-2777 www.restaurantgregorios.com Italian Mediterranean cuisine bursting with flavor.

Mitsuba Japanese Cuisine 237 Main St, Chatham | 973-635-3888 www.MitsubaChatham.com Traditional Japanese specialties and cuisine

180 Maplewood Avenue, Maplewood 973-327-2871 Elevated Italian cuisine

GILLETTE Ancona Bistro 645 Valley Road, Gillette | 908-647-5755 Northern Italian entrees and pastas.

MILLBURN La Pergola

Vintage Tavern 342 Valley Rd, Gillette | 908-580-1100 www.VintageTavern.com New American tavern with pub-grub standards, including burgers, thin-crust pizzas and more.

Your go-to spot for sports, live entertainment, trivia, bingo, private parties & much more!

MADISON Bottle Hill Tavern 13 Waverly Place,, Madison | 973-949-6060 www.thebottlehilltavern.com Tavern Fare—Comfort Flare

120 Essex Street, Millburn | 973-376-6838 www.lapergolanj.com La Pergola has curated a delightful outdoor garden dining experience, as well as a signature indoor dining space. So, whether you prefer to dine surrounded by the lush, flower-filled beauty of nature, or in the candlelit elegance of our chic interior, we look forward to serving you the region’s best Northern Italian cuisine in style!

Liv Breads 184 Essex Street, Millburn 973-218-6922 | livbreads.com Artisan bakery & coffee bar

Grillera Mediterranean Cuisine 91 Park Ave, Madison | 973-301-2080 www.grillera.com Distinguished Mediterranean Cuisine

MAPLEWOOD Artie’s 15 Newark Way, Maplewood | 973-378-5800 www.artiesnj.com Destination featuring a bread bakery, plus a wood-fired pizzeria, wine & cocktails.

Scalini Fedeli 63 Main Street, Chatham | 973-701-9200 www.scalinifedeli.com French-influenced Italian fixed-price menus in an elegant, vaulted interior with Tuscan touches.

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HOURS: Sun-Thur 6am-1am Fri-Sat 6am-2am

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Ms. Lin Chinese Cuisine 59 Main St, Millburn | 973-912-8838 www.MsLinMillburn.com Ms. Lin Chinese provides convenient take-out and delivery for lunch and dinner and specializes in off-premise catering.

Asian Dumpling Making Class at Kitchen a la Mode!

Get ready for Lunar New Year! Impress friends and family with your dumpling-making skills!

Enjoy this interactive class where you’ll learn to make delicious, flavorful Asian dumplings.

Perfect for any potluck or gathering, these will become your go-to dish for special occasions!

Arrive early for a private shopping spree and enjoy 15% OFF all purchases before the demonstration begins!

Wednesday, November 9, 6pm Kitchen a la Mode | 59 South Orange Ave., South Orange To register visit: https://bit.ly/3TDewiY

Umi Sushi 339 Millburn Ave, Millburn | 973-921-2848 www.MillburnUmi.com Traditional and Fusion sushi and sashimi. Also find teriyaki, tempura, udon and soba noodle dinners. Most fish is wild-caught. Free delivery.

STIRLING

Roots Steakhouse

Trattoria Biagio 239 Main Avenue, Stirling | 908-350-8064 Authentic Italian cuisine

401 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-273-0027 rootssteakhouse.com/summit Old-fashioned NY- style Steakhouse—expect delicious USDA aged prime beef sourced from the highest quality ranches in the mid-west.

Twelve Islands Greek Taverna 1255 Valley Rd, Stirling | 908-647-2193 12islandsgreektaverna.com Traditional Greek fare

NEW PROVIDENCE Moe’s Bistro and Bar 535 Central Ave, New Providence 908-840-4540 | moesbistrobar.com Located inside the Best Western Plus & Murray Hill Hotel and Suites, Mediterranean flare.

Tonydoms 529 Morris Avenue, Summit | 908-472-0187 www.tonydoms.com Bone-in fried chicken, chicken tenders, sandwiches, biscuit sandwiches, wraps, bone-in fried chicken, fresh hand cut French fries, mac-n’ cheese, and hand-rolled biscuits.

SUMMIT Due 36 50 Maple St, Summit | 908-608-0222 Authentic Argentinian/Italian tapas restaurant

Coppola Ristorante & Pizzeria 590 Central Ave, New Providence 908-665-0266 Offering pizzas & formal Italian dishes

La Pastaria 327 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-522-9088 www.lapastaria.org Italian cusine

SHORT HILLS Boxcar Bar & Grill 25 Chatham Rd, Short Hills | 973-912-0002 www.boxcarbar.com Bar fare

Par 440 Restaurant & Lounge 440 Parsonage Hill Road, Short Hills 973-467-8882 | www.par440.com A full service restaurant, bar & lounge located on the East Orange Golf Course in Short Hills.

Offering bar bites, burgers and tasty entrees.

Serra Restaurant 10 Bank Street, Summit | 908-273-1713 www.serrasummit.com Authentic Portuguese BBQ restaurant.

Natale’s Summit Bakery 185 Broad St, Summit | 908-277-2074 natalesbakery.bakesmart.com Enjoy a selection of house made specialties including breads, pastries, pies and cakes. Daily specials. This family owned and operated bakery is serving up their delicious twist on bakery classics for over 80 years.

Healthy,Fresh & Authentic Chinese Food

Summit House Restaurant + Bar 395 Springfield Ave, Summit | 908-273-6000 www.summithousenj.com An American restaurant and bar offering seasonal cuisine, craft cocktails, fresh local beers, and terroir-driven wines.

Thanksgiving Traditions

Our dishes are prepared fresh from ingredients delivered daily and using homemade sauces created in our own kitchen—daily!

Pies

Apple • Pumpkin Fruit • Cream Pies Mince • Custard Sweet Potato

Breads

Old World Style Bread & Rolls Pastries Tea Breads

Tarts

Apple Galette Cranberry Pecan Rustic Country Apple

PLACE YOUR ORDERS ONLINE AT:

natalesbakery.bakesmart.com

Closed Thanksgiving Day and Friday, November 29

Ms. Lin Chinese Cuisine

Dine in area is now open!

Delivery & curbside pickup available

973-912-8838 59 Main Street, Millburn

ORDER ONLINE AT: www.MsLinNJ.com

SUMMIT BAKERY Family Tradition… Since 1938

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DIAMOND MINDS

If It’s to Be… It’s Up to Me!

BY BARRY FARBER

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We’ve all heard the saying… There’s no “I” in team. But I don’t want to confuse this message with teamwork and collaboration. Those are both important. You’ve read in many previous columns the idea that not only do we become what we think about but just as important we also become who we surround ourselves with. So don’t get me wrong, there are many people who I work with and depend on that make a huge difference in outcomes and results. What I’m talking about is when your goals are not moving in the direction you’d like and how to take responsibility and move them yourself. We do need quality people around us to contribute to the overall goals, but today’s Diamond Minds is about pushing the needle so there is no option for failure. No excuses that it’s someone else’s fault. Now it’s time to get it done. Personal willpower, discipline, determination, passion and purpose make things happen.

Here are a few of the ways to make a personal commitment to accomplish your goals and dreams:

Keep your passion and enthusiasm strong.

Make sure deep down you believe in what you’re doing. Not only do you believe in what you’re doing, but that there is tremendous value for you and others in the long run. Because this belief is what will fuel the fire when you get those no’s, rejections and obstacles.

Stop giving a s&@$ about what other people think.

When you’re working on your goals and dreams there are people that will try to diminish them. That’s just part of life.

They will tell you that you’re nuts, that it will never work or maybe ignore you when you ask for help or advice. And remember, do what you want to do, say what you want to say, because those who matter don’t mind, and those who do mind don’t matter.

The first part of reaching your goal is having one.

Write it down. Write down your action plan and specific steps so they are in front of you every single day. If it’s out of sight, it’s out of mind.

Barry Farber

Know your subject well.

Read everything you can that will educate you on the pathway you’re exploring.

Dive deep into those who have done what you’re looking to do. Mentors, wise advisors love to give back and also get a kick out of pulling others up who have been where they’ve been. Never be afraid to reach out to someone who you might think is unreachable. And if you have the passion in your message that I mentioned in #1 they will see that and respond most of the time.

Professional tenacity is the key.

Today I helped a client breakthrough to a large account that took months to gain access. There were many little things that were done to secure this big meeting like calling to the top (The CEO), following up with emails and texts showing that we did our homework and research on their company and mission statement. Always following up with something of value that the prospect finds helpful. As my client said; “The secret was to be pleasantly persistent.”

If it’s to be, it’s up to me attitude requires a bullet proof belief in yourself and in your passion. And never forget, whether you think you can or think you can’t, you’re right.

BARRY FARBER is a best-selling author, an award-winning radio and television host as well as an agent and marketing consultant for corporations, professional athletes, and entertainers. He’s also the creator and marketer of the FoldzFlat® Pens. His latest release is an inspirational children’s book, “In search of the magic tree,” available at www.barryfarber.com. Tune into his new TV Show, Diamond Minds, now on Brinx.tv and follow him @barryfarberofficial.

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