Bullying-Not Just A Childs Problem

Lorna Hamilton Reporter

Bullying can affect anyone at any time. It is not isolated to a child in school or on the playground. It can affect youth, adults and seniors in any environment: schools, playgrounds, workplaces, and even in community spaces. We need to recognize what bullying is defined as and ways to prevent it as no one should have to accept or tolerate any form of bullying by anyone.

Bullying is any repeated, hostile or demeaning behaviour intended to cause harm, fear or distress, including physical or psychological harm and according to Alberta.ca for an action to be considered bullying it can have different scenarios. The first is intent- meaning the actions happen on purpose, 2)Harm-this means the recipient is hurt by the actions performed, and lastly, repetition- meaning the person or persons on the other end of the act is repeatedly targeted.

Bullying can be verbal, for example name calling, put downs, or threats. It can be socially or relationally performed, this is where exclusion, gossiping, and ganging-up come into play, and of course physical bullying which is the pushing, hitting, and slapping.

Some warning signs of bullying is increased absences and disengagement from school, work or community events. Children and youth may ‘lose’ belongings or come home with them destroyed, and unexplained bruises or cuts. People subjected to bullying may become withdrawn, present with increased agitation, irritability, and mental health issues such as depression or anxiety.

If you suspect bullying in any situation you should ask them directly if it is happening to them and if they say it is you should offer support and let them know you are there to help. You should also work with them and the system which they are associated for example in a school situation the parents should be involved in discussions with the school administration to monitor and deal with the situation. In the case of workplaces, employees should work with colleagues, supervisors and human resources, and ensure there are policies and procedures in place to deal with the situation. You can also make arrangements for their safety, and promote healthy relationships by encouraging empathy, kindness, honesty and respect, and you can also practice effective responses to create awareness, and one of the most important things you should do is communicate to create an open dialogue.

It is said that bullying is not a discipline problem; it’s a relationship problem as it creates fear and threatens the safety and well-being of individuals, families and society as a whole. To end bullying everyone needs to work together to promote

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Buffalo Trail Public Schools students and staff will be wearing pink shirts on February 22, 2023. Pink Shirt Day is recognized worldwide as a day to promote anti-bullying and inclusivity. Last year, BTPS hosted a division wide Pink Shirt Day logo contest and our division pink shirts were designed by Eva Slawson from Dr. Folkins Community School.

BTPS brings awareness to bullying and lets students know that we do not tolerate bullying in our schools. We want our students to know that if they are a victim of bullying, reach out for help. Students are able to talk to a parent, teacher, or friend. All students in the province have access to the

Kids Help Phone number which is 1-800668-6868.

BTPS takes a stand against bullying. We are proud that our students maximize student learning in a safe and caring environment, supported by a highly effective team. BTPS wants to create a safe and inclusive environment where all students feel valued and respected.

Be kind to each other and speak out when you see bullying happening. BTPS cares about the wellbeing of our students and strives to ensure our schools are safe and caring. The division encourages everyone to join in the effort to promote kindness and end bullying in schools and communities.

Angela Mouly Reporter

The East West Chapter of the Alberta Carriage Driving Association will be hosting their 19th Annual Cutter Rally for Cancer at the Lloyd Ex Grounds on February 25.

All of the proceeds from ticket sales, as well as a silent auction and 50/50 will go towards the Lloydminster Region Health Foundation in support of the chemo ward, as well as a portion going towards Haying in the 30’s.