Putting my money where my mouth is -- I've been talking about a "new book of prayer" - a new way of praying not just words spoken silently or aloud, but also with pen & paper- a way of "tracking" your prayer life. Are you really praying every day-- and for whom or what ? And for how long? Using "tally marks" helps keep yourself honest- and also you look back and see how God answered your prayers. And you can try to assess if you were really praying according to His wil, not just your own.