Urban Sentinel (April 2021) - Dr. Antonio Webb

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Is the year moving too fast or is it me. April has arrived and the nation seems to be at a crossroads when it comes to fighting the Covid-19 virus. People are getting vaccinated and people are dishing the mask because there are some states that are not requiring mask any longer. I am asking the readers to please keep wearing your mask, get your vaccine, and please don’t drop your guard. The virus is still in our mist.

The George Floyd trial is finally taking place at this time. As always, the victim has been put on trial by the defense and not the person who committed the crime.

It is my desire that justice will prevail and the police officer who committed this hideous crime will be found guilty.

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This month’s magazine cover features Dr. Antonio Webb who is an Orthopedic Spine Surgeon, Military Veteran, Author, and Motivational Speaker, who has overcome many odds in his life and is using his story to spread a message of hope to all, especially the younger generation. The city of San Antonio, Texas is blessed to have him in their mist.

This issue also features a plethora of great stories that are filled with heartwarming sentiments and words of encouragement. We are excited for you to turn each page and enjoy the articles from front to back.

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SUMMARY

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Michelle Smalls

Nicki Kris

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Queen of Harlem

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Prince's Fight for His Intellectual Property

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An Epic Love Story

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McMixon the European 'King of Spins' Chart Topper

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Nicki Kris: Living Life On Purpose

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How Is Beauty Defined Today

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Overcoming the Odds

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Get Fit for Spring

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Yasmin

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Celebrity Desinger Delise' Ana Parker

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A Photographer's Journey to Recovery from A Stroke

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Sisterhood

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Know Your Value

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William “Bill” Hamilton

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Jesus Has Risen Indeed!

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Are You Blocking Your Success?

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LiveWaves Social Network

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Are You Invested In The Love Bank?

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HARLEM

by S. Gunn for urban sentinel

Michelle Smalls, famously known as the Queen of Harlem, is an Influencer, Entrepreneur, Real Estate Broker, Philanthropist and mother to three adult children. Michelle gained the name over a decade ago, when challenged to unite the party scene in New York City. "Harlem can be very clique-ish [and] the different areas only associated with themselves,'' recalls Michelle. However, within two months, she was able to host an event bringing together partygoers from all over. Her name recognition and deep ties in the Harlem community helped her to accomplish very quickly what had been unsuccessfully attempted for many years.

Ms. Smalls’ legacy as a community leader and organizer stems from her ability to use the tragedies and circumstances of her life as fuel to create positive opportunities to do good and give back. She faced incredible challenges growing up, including her father being murdered and her mother battling drug addiction. As a result, she often turned to a neighbor for solace and support. “Patsy was the one who made sure I was alright, Ms. Smalls says.” “A stranger gave me a chance so [I] now extend that same chance to others.”

Ms. Smalls hosts several successful community outreach events in Harlem, including an annual prom dress giveaway.

She recalled the memory that birthed this idea. In the 6th grade and as valedictorian of her class, Ms. Smalls wished for the same white dress (retailing about $35 at the time) that many of the other girls had worn. However, due to lack of

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means, she was given an older-looking dress that made her feel left out. Years later, she used this incident as motivation to launch a night of fun for 10 teen girls. To help prepare the girls for prom, she would give them a dress, provide free hair and makeup at her salon, and a car service. Ms. Smalls hopes that her example will inspire the participants to give back in future.

Ms. Smalls’ events have become a staple of hope and generosity in the Harlem community. Ms. Smalls noticed that many kids got hurt on Halloween and thus, she partnered with a gentleman to host a community Halloween party, now a community favorite. Attendance sored from the start and she can expect about 1000 kids every year enjoying the inflatables, games, music, and pizza. At this event, parents have some peace of mind about safety due to community and police support.

After Halloween, families and children can look forward to her annual Christmas Toy and Coat Drive. Ms. Smalls gives away 600 coats that she purchased herself. (In fact, major stores like Macy’s call her when sales start to help her meet this yearly goal). “Every coat is new as well as every toy, says Michelle. It’s Christmas.” Her Christmas event prompted Ms. Smalls’ love for Christmas and enjoys the joy it brings to so many within the community - but it wasn’t always like this. For so many, Christmas and holidays can resurrect old, painful memories for people. At just 10 years old, Ms. Smalls

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found her presents stolen by someone in the neighborhood.

Christmas was the only time of the year her grandmother bought big gifts, so Michelle looked forward to her presents.

As a result of not receiving her Christmas gifts, she shied away from people and hated Christmas for many years. Her Christmas event has changed that. During the pandemic, she gave away coats to the homeless shelter. She recalls giving one child a new coat and he began to do flips. She also inspired a friend who was with her named Jessie, to go out and give back. He purchased $2000 worth of coats to also give away.

Michelle says there is plenty of work to be done. We must not get caught up trying to compete. Her advice to others wanting to give back is “ Do it from the heart. A good deed is just that, a good deed.” Go beyond yourselves. Visit a shelter and sponsor a family, you will be surprised how a little goes a long way.

When asked how the pandemic affected her initiatives? The Queen solemnly responded, ”The pandemic did not affect me. I mean I lost a lot of people, including my grandmother and uncle. But honestly I'm working more now. I just never stopped working! I placed a lot of homeless people. I’m an essential worker as a broker. Therefore I went to the shelters with 100 people on the floor, and understood the needs the

pandemic was presenting.” She worked night and day on a solution. As a result she was able to place hundreds into transitional housing for safety.

Queen of Harlem Commandments, shares Ms. Smalls' moments of heartache, triumphs, betrayal, and disloyalty. She believes in order to survive and be successful in the hustle of life, you must respect the Code and follow the Commandments.

She shared that her number one commandment is Loyalty.

Her father’s best friend murdered him. If she senses disloyalty she tends to disconnect. Her grandmother wouldn't give her father a gun, she believed two best friends were going to fight out a disagreement. However, the best friend had a gun and murdered Michelle's father. Leaving her grandmother to live with that pain till her death. This was Michelle’s first lesson about loyalty, and the reason it’s her 1st Commandment.

Ms. Smalls now reigns as a Serial Entrepreneur. Previously, she made 10k a night at parties. Life was too easy! She felt like her children just saw her sleeping, although she had a new car and was purchasing a house. She got a job at the shelter system, and says she was treated horribly. She remembers feeling like people were abusing their titles, at that moment she knew she would have her own business in the near future.

And vowed that she would treat people differently. Michelle now owns a salon, has a Real Estate office in Harlem and is opening a second location in Long Island.

Additionally, she owns a Juice Bar and gym that opened on the 25th of March and has two Post Ops opening soon in Harlem and Long Island.

Ms. Smalls shares to never judge a book by it’s cover. She considers herself very spiritual, believing in the principle of sowing and reaping. She continues to freely sow and encourages others to do so also. Adding that as you do, good will continue to flow freely to you.

PRINCE’S FIGHT For His Intellectual Property

by Brandee Johnson for urban sentinel

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I remember where I was when I heard that the legendary Prince had passed away. It was my day off from work, and I was getting my hair done at the hair salon. We were doing the usual thing you did at the hair salon before the pandemic – talking, laughing, having a good time – when my hair stylist checked her phone and saw that Prince had been rushed to the hospital. Reminiscing about when I heard the news of Michael Jackson and Whitney Houston’s passing, I was hoping that the media was wrong and that Prince was going to pull through. Sadly, that was not the case.

It’s hard to believe that five years ago, we lost one of the most authentic, innovative, and truly one-of-a-kind musicians the world had ever seen. When Prince Rogers Nelson passed away on April 21, 2016, he left a gap in the music industry that no one will ever fulfill. If you’re a fan of music, you’re a fan of Prince’s musicality and artistry. Many people loved and respected Prince because he was THE quintessential artist; whatever instrument, vocal, or word you heard on his album, best believe he played it, sang it, or wrote it. Prince

solidified his legacy in music by seeking ownership in every part of his artistry – not just creatively but legally.

Prince’s most renown fight for his ownership began in 1977, when he signed a $100 million, six album contract with Warner Bros. Records, at 18 years old. During the 70s, artists signed a traditional recording contract with a music label where they sign complete ownership of their music (masters, publishing, selling and distribution) over to the label in exchange for financial support in studio time, video budgets, marketing, and press. Just like the man himself, Prince’s contract was unique in the fact that he had full artistic control for his first three albums; he wrote, produced, and sang all vocals on his debut album “For You”. He was also able to release an album yearly from 1978 to 1981.

As Prince’s catalog grew from 1982 to 1992, so did his quest for ownership. He released timeless albums such as Controversy, 1999, and Purple Rain from 1982 to 1984.

Taking advantage of the success of Purple Rain, Prince launched his own label called Paisley Park Records in 1985, with Warner Bros in charge of the distribution. Prince’s work ethic didn’t miss a beat while managing Paisley Park Records; he was able to launch new artists such as Tevin Campbell and Sheila E., sign legends such as Mavis Staples and George Clinton, and release eight of his own albums, including Diamonds and Pearls (one of my favorite Prince albums).

Prince began to make moves and establish himself as an independent artist who did not need to depend on his label.

In 1993, tensions began to rise between Prince and Warner Bros. Prince wanted full ownership of his catalog, from his masters down to the ability to release the type of music he wanted to release when he wanted to release it. With the exception of his first three albums, Warner Bros owned the rights to his body of work – including the rights to sell and distribute that work – despite the fact that their company had little or nothing to do with creating his work. In true Prince fashion, he brought awareness to the issue in the most unique way possible: he changed his name to a unique symbol, wrote the word “Slave” on his

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cheek, and recorded music under many aliases, such as “Symbol” or “The Artist Formerly Known as Prince”. Although at the time he was mocked by the media, this was a really innovative way to bring attention to the issue of ownership for musicians – and honestly for anyone responsible for creating intellectual property.

Unfortunately, Prince still had to fulfill the terms of his contract with Warner Bros, which he did by impressively releasing three albums’ worth of records in less than three years. In the end, however, it was worth it; after years of going back and forth with Warner Bros.

Records in court, Prince earned his masters back from the label. This was a legendary feat, as many artists – even to this day – rarely if ever earn all of their masters. Prince showed artists the importance of fighting for ownership of your art – something he continued to do even after earning his masters.

From 2007 to 2015, Prince continued to maintain creative control of his music in all avenues – including the Internet. I always wondered when I was younger why you could barely find Prince’s music or videos of him performing on YouTube; little did I know that Prince was adamant about preserving his intellectual property. In 2007, he and Universal Music (the label that administered his music publishing) sued a mother for copyright infringement after she uploaded a video on YouTube of her son dancing to Prince’s song “Let’s Go Crazy”. He also filed similar lawsuits against 20 people in 2015 for either posting his songs online or participating in file sharing services that posted his music. Some people may have found Prince’s actions excessive; but as someone who creates intellectual property, I respect the lengths that Prince took to protect and preserve his music. Prince wasn’t someone who was money hungry or found joy in filing lawsuits on someone. He filed the lawsuits more so to bring attention to the issues of copyright infringement, which is why he dropped the lawsuits as soon as the other parties took the music or videos down.

As we celebrate Prince’s life, let’’s take a moment to appreciate the risks he took artistically and legally to become the artist he was. Prince will always be remembered as one the greatest; not just because he was capable of playing many instruments and making timeless music, but he was able to make the music industry a little bit better to navigate for other musicians. 57 years is too young for anyone to pass away, but Prince made an impact by stressing the importance of ownership for creatives. His fight for his intellectual property will always be respected, and will be mentioned as much as his musical achievements.

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OUR LOVE STORY: HOW WE MET HOW WE LIVE AVA I L A B L E O N A M A Z O N A N D B A R N E S & N O B L E S 10

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AN EPIC

by René Gordon for urban sentinel From the first day Isaac laid eyes on Dorothy, he knew she

Isaac was born in 1929, and for a young fellow, he was quite

was the one for him. He literally felt it in his heart. “…my

the helper around the house. He would help his mother care

chest started to swell, and my heart started to pump faster

for his younger siblings and also help in the kitchen. The day

and faster” is how Isaac describes the feeling he felt as he rode

he met Dorothy, he couldn’t wait to tell his mother about the

his bike down the street where Dorothy was playing in her

little girl he met and how he always wanted to marry a girl

front yard. He was only 11 years old, but he was smitten.

named Dorothy. His mother emphasized that “she should be a good church-going girl with a good personality and

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attitude.” Dorothy was just that.

Isaac and Dorothy decided to write about their journey and share advice about marriage. Isaac was happily passing out

Interestingly enough, Isaac wouldn’t see Dorothy again

copies of their hand-written manuscript at church and to

after that day for another four years when they were both

family and friends. He never imagined it would soon lead

in high school attending Haines together, now called Lucy

to becoming a published book! Their book, Our Love Story:

Craft-Laney High School. It was a chance encounter Isaac’s

How we met - How we live, has sold internationally. Just a

classmate had with Dorothy on the school yard that brought

little over a year ago…befittingly the day after Valentine’s

Isaac and Dorothy back together. Isaac asked his classmate

Day, the couple held a book signing at 2nd and Charles

to ask Dorothy to meet him after school if she remembered

Books Store in Augusta, Georgia, and they were featured on

him. Well, it turned out that she did remember. You see, when

the local news. They haven’t had a chance to hold other book

Dorothy met Isaac that day, she eagerly told her mother about

signings, but their book can be purchased online on Amazon

the little boy she met outside riding his bicycle. She was only

and Barnes and Noble. You can also buy their book through

10 when they met, but she said of him at that time, “I could

their Publisher www.ReneWritesBooks.com Books, Events,

see something in that young man…”

and More page of the website.

Now that they were both in high school, Isaac asked Dorothy’s

Dorothy and Isaac still live in the first home they bought

parents for permission to “court" Dorothy. In those times,

together. Today, at a young 90 and 91 years old, Isaac still

young men requested a young lady's parents' permission

recounts, with explicit detail, the first day he met Dorothy.

before dating. Having received proper blessings, the two

He even remembers what she was wearing, from the big

began their courtship, and Isaac would walk Dorothy home

white bows in her hair to the black and white saddle oxford

from school every day. They were later engaged, and after

shoes on her feet. Theirs is an epic love story, and we could all

graduating high school, they were married “under a beautiful

learn a thing or two from the way they live.

archway that was put up in the driveway of Dorothy’s parent’s house”, Isaac recalls.

They would spend the next 70+ years piecing the puzzle of their life together, going through life’s triumphs and tragedies …births, deaths, and life-threatening illnesses. Isaac and Dorothy would say their encounter was not by chance at all but “God’s favor…who put us together in the first place.”

The love they have for one another has seen them through some of the best days and some of the worst days of their lives. Yet through it all, their love is the bond that holds their relationship together with blessings from God pouring out every day.

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McMixson THE EUROPEAN ‘KING OF SPINS’ CHART TOPPER

by Keisha Esprit for urban sentinel Derrick J. Mixson II, also known by his stage name "Mixson", is a Hip Hop Artist and Songwriter. He has had 12 productive years in the business. Master of Ceremony (MC) is an addition to his Mixson’s name and he surely lives up to this title. He was born in New York City and raised in Brooklyn. The humble gentleman’s song 'Turn It Up' was sold worldwide as an EDM Album. It was also rated #1 on Charts in the UK /Europe by 'Kings Of Spins.'

His main goal in his career is to influence and inspire the World. He already masters this by executing diversity within all genres. He mixes the Hip Hop culture, with a series of unique sounds which are accommodating and innovative in today's music. The 30 year old talent is one of a kind; because when you listen to his music you get the vibes of the great legends like Rakim, Biggie and Tupac.

Mixson’s style and diction aren’t difficult to decipher. His transition of rapping seems effortlesslyas he changes from slow to fast. He perfects it even more by switching it back and forth rhythmically to suit the song he is expressing.

His tone and beats awake the chakras and places you in the mood accordingly. He’s a genius, the modern day musician scientist and lyricist. He takes you back to the era and origination of real Hip Hop. The phenomenal lad is inspired by the support and reaction of his diverse fans. The Philanthropist also partakes in events within Communities. His hobbies include shopping and traveling. His music is available online for streaming at Reverbnation.com/Mixson. His email is: MixsonMusicWorldWide@Gmail.com.

What’s your advice to those who share your passion?

Humility Is Everything! Don't Rush Your Journey, Take Your Time! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Name a few Productions you have worked with.

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YoMTV Raps 'Doctor Dre', We The Best 'Dj Khaled', Law And Order's 'Ice T',NBA's 'Zach Randolph',Wutang Clan's 'Free Murda',Real Housewives Of New Jersey's 'Dolores Catania'.Music Videos: Kasha - I Want You, Sonja Blade Guess You Ain't Heard Me Have you received any Music Awards?

I won an Award with 'Jefte Figueroa' at 'The ROCK Church' for The Best Music Performance! It was A Bilingual Collaboration. The crowd’s reaction was unforgettable. It felt good to know the impact we had. It was a spectacular night of being an M.C. Name a few Professionals who have impacted your career.

Mario Litchfield For Remixing "Turn It Up Ft Dilini" & Making It One Of The Hottest 2014 Edm ReMIXes on the Buzz Charts, In The DMC World Magazine. Sarah Cooper, Joe B, Keisha Esprit,Boss Lady-CEO of EFMCI(www.

EFMCI.biz). I mentioned her in my 'ADVENTURES' Song produced by Brent Mania. Movie Producer, John Thomas' CEO Of 'JT Talent Enterprise LLC' and CEO 'Todd Wharton's 'Local Talent Connect.'

'Gardner Cole', CEO of Kaleidosphere Records discovered me. The Song "Turn It Up Ft Dilini". 'Dilini Ranaweera' is a Hollywood Singer Songwriter. His songs on Nickelodeon, The Music Producer 'Daniel Melendez' is from L.A, Produced For 'The Game', 'Far East', 'Willow', 'Auditory Productions', etc. I was the only guy From Brooklyn on this Epic Bicoastal Collaboration. Beatport, Spotify, Amazon, Google Play, iTunes,etc has it. They put my song out as an Album by making 8 Dance Club remixes.

Derrick J. Mixson II, also known by his stage name "Mixson", is a Hip Hop Artist and Songwriter. He has had 12 productive years in the business. Master of Ceremony

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(MC) is an addition to his Mixson’s name and he surely lives up to this title. He was born in New York City and raised in Brooklyn. The humble gentleman’s song 'Turn It Up' was sold worldwide as an EDM Album. It was also rated #1 on Charts in the UK /Europe by 'Kings Of Spins.'

His main goal in his career is to influence and inspire the World. He already masters this by executing diversity within all genres. He mixes the Hip Hop culture, with a series of unique sounds which are accommodating and innovative in today's music. The 30 year old talent is one of a kind; because when you listen to his music you get the vibes of the great legends like Rakim, Biggie and Tupac.

Mixson’s style and diction aren’t difficult to decipher. His transition of rapping seems effortlesslyas he changes from slow to fast. He perfects it even more by switching it back and forth rhythmically to suit the song he is expressing.

His tone and beats awake the chakras and places you in the mood accordingly. He’s a genius, the modern day musician scientist and lyricist. He takes you back to the era and origination of real Hip Hop. The phenomenal lad is inspired by the support and reaction of his diverse fans. The Philanthropist also partakes in events within Communities. His hobbies include shopping and traveling. His music is available online for streaming at Reverbnation.com/Mixson. His email is: MixsonMusicWorldWide@Gmail.com.

What’s your advice to those who share your passion?

Humility Is Everything! Don't Rush Your Journey, Take Your Time! BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! Name a few Productions you have worked with.

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YoMTV Raps 'Doctor Dre', We The Best 'Dj Khaled', Law And Order's 'Ice T',NBA's 'Zach Randolph',Wutang Clan's 'Free Murda',Real Housewives Of New Jersey's 'Dolores Catania'.Music Videos: Kasha - I Want You, Sonja Blade Guess You Ain't Heard Me Have you received any Music Awards?

I won an Award with 'Jefte Figueroa' at 'The ROCK Church' for The Best Music Performance! It was A Bilingual Collaboration. The crowd’s reaction was unforgettable. It felt good to know the impact we had. It was a spectacular night of being an M.C. Name a few Professionals who have impacted your career.

Mario Litchfield For Remixing "Turn It Up Ft Dilini" & Making It One Of The Hottest 2014 Edm ReMIXes on the Buzz Charts, In The DMC World Magazine. Sarah Cooper, Joe B, Keisha Esprit,Boss Lady-CEO of EFMCI(www.

EFMCI.biz). I mentioned her in my 'ADVENTURES' Song produced by Brent Mania. Movie Producer, John Thomas' CEO Of 'JT Talent Enterprise LLC' and CEO 'Todd Wharton's 'Local Talent Connect.'

'Gardner Cole', CEO of Kaleidosphere Records discovered me. The Song "Turn It Up Ft Dilini". 'Dilini Ranaweera' is a Hollywood Singer Songwriter. His songs on Nickelodeon, The Music Producer 'Daniel Melendez' is from L.A, Produced For 'The Game', 'Far East', 'Willow', 'Auditory Productions', etc. I was the only guy From Brooklyn on this Epic Bicoastal Collaboration. Beatport, Spotify, Amazon, Google Play, iTunes,etc has it. They put my song out as an Album by making 8 Dance Club remixes.

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Nicki Kris

LIVING LIFE ON PURPOSE

by C. NaTasha Richburg for urban sentinel Nicki Kris is an award-winning, Billboard-charting powerhouse based in Raleigh, North Carolina. Nicki's music has been featured in movies, TV shows, and on radio stations worldwide. Nicki has also been on the official ballot for the Grammy Awards for the past eight years in numerous categories. Born in New Jersey, she and her older brother were raised with two adoptive parents with a challenging home life experiences influenced by both New Jersey and Upstate New York.

Nicki found music a joyful escape from the challenges of home. Music provided an experience of love and joy.

However, during her senior year of high school, Nicki’s older brother was killed in a car accident. The trauma of the experience pushed Nicki to make a pivotal life decision: “Do I continue with music or move on with my life?” Nicki made the decision to put music on the backburner and pursue a career in the secular world. “I earned my degree, found a job, started dating my future husband, and eventually got married and had kids.”

As a child, what did you dream about? Music has been a part of me for as long as I can remember. Even at a very young age, I had the urge to sing and perform. I spent most of my youth doing just that. In high school, music became an escape for me—an escape from low self-esteem and a not-so-great family life. I vividly remember working all summer to save up for a keyboard so I could write songs. I wrote down every idea in a notebook that I still have to this day. The songs I wrote back then became like my family, filling in the missing pieces from my actual one. With each song I finished, it became clearer to me that I wanted to pursue music as my career. However, [due to] the event of losing my brother, I altered my path to take the fork in the road away from music.

As an adult, what do you know to be true? You can do anything if you set your mind and heart to it, and you should always follow your dreams, regardless of what anyone says. Seriously. I hear myself telling my children this constantly. I wish I had had the courage to believe it myself when I was presented with that fork in the road. I also believe that everything happens for a reason, and regardless of the amount of time that it takes to achieve something;

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you're going to end up where you are supposed to be. I

on the day and time. At time things may fall through the

feel very strongly about this. I have no doubt that my life

cracks, which becomes a lesson that supports progression.

would be very different had I 'rebelled' and followed my musical passion; perhaps for the better, perhaps not.

Facing the biases in the music business head on, Nicki rises up with songs from within her to bear witness. The

What does success look like to you? This is such a hard

freshness in her clean voice is laced with her experiences.

question. Sometimes I think success is having a hit song, as

For example, “Rise” https://youtu.be/km4Y9ru-5Is gives

an artist—one that is earned via fan streams and perhaps

resonant permission for us to be seen and be heard. The

picked up by commercial radio. Sometimes it's writing the

strength in Nicki’s voice acknowledges the difficulty for

hit song that's recorded by a better-known female artist

independent women over the age of 35 who desire to sign

that fits the 'label' and 'branding' mold. Or perhaps it's

with a major label. Nicki is a co-founder of “Sisters in

getting several sync placements in film or TV, or perhaps

Music,” an organization which promotes and encourages

it's all of the above. Lately, success is building a better

educational opportunities, collaborative musical works

tomorrow for my sisters in the music, entertainment,

and performances among women to raise awareness and

and performing arts by empowering, encouraging, and

funding for various female-focused charities.

providing them with the tools, resources, and professional network to never give up on their dreams. Their successes

Nicki believes “everything happens for a reason. We're

are my success.

here for a purpose.” Always remembering the fork in the road that took her away from music when she was young

Having a child affords us an opportunity to look into

has given her the fire to pursue her dream “on purpose”

the eyes of our innocence that once resonated within.

now. Viewing her pursuit of music as the “dam that has

Sometimes in our innocence [we are] reminded of the

been broken,” there is nothing stopping Nicki now. Nicki

dream we did not pursue at the fork in the road. Nicki

has won a spot in the world of professional musicians.

was able to recapture the innocence of her youth when she

She holds on to a truth that “at some point the river will

regenerated the desire for music that drifted away with the

find its way to the ocean.” Nicki Kris’ life experiences have

loss of her brother. There was apprehension about getting

prepared her to find the river of her independent catalog of

into the music business once again. “I do sometimes

songs into the ocean of artists signed by a major label.

feel like I'm playing catch-up for all of the years that I put music on hold.” Realizing that time doesn't stand

www.nickikris.com

still for anyone, the desire to move forward outweighed

https://www.sistersinmusic.org/

Nicki’s fear of failure. “Tomorrow isn't a guarantee, so I'm

info@nickikris.com

certainly trying to make the most impact that I possibly can,” she says.

Nicki is driven to override life’s challenges. She delights in being a great multi-tasker and is prepared to take on career, family and music. All take priority depending

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“Everything happens for a reason. We're here for a purpose.”

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H o w Is

Beauty

Db y Oely mfip ianKee n td To d a y The interesting thing about beauty is that there is simply no downside to it, it can only enhance our lives. Beauty is what allows us to experience the extraordinary richness of our surroundings. today's beauty standards say that women are expected to wear makeup in their daily lives, work out at the gym, stay skinny with curves in the right places, be and look young. However, what makes today different from the past is that we can also show our uniqueness, as society has become more inclusive.

Women are subject to what society defines as beautiful we have an accepted norm culturally of what makes someone beautiful. A standard that is hard to meet. Being light-skinned, blonde and blue-eyed is the benchmark of beauty, of women as for men, they are judged by muscle, tone, shape, hairy or hairless chests and what is most desirable. You would think this is so shallow but in fact a lot of people young and older still look at this to be true.

I found that TV and film changed how makeup was used.

In the 1950s, more makeup like foundation, eyeliner, and blush began being used. This was back when colored movies were becoming popular, and women began to copy these theatrical faces from the big screen. Actresses such as Clara Bow, Elizabeth Taylor, and Marilyn Monroe were some of the most popular. Since then, makeup has been a huge part of so many women’s lives then and now.

But now we have technology, and it has changed a lot of looks for everyone all over the world. Due to the invention of Photoshop, the perfect body is more and more

impossible to achieve. Over the past 25 years, Photoshop technology has become so advanced that it is sometimes hard to tell when it has been used, creating unrealistic standards for women. Photoshop has changed the way we see ourselves.

There is a lot of pressure on people today because of how perfect our (Photoshopped) idols look. Today, we have a wide range of makeup and products that promise to cover up and remove “blemishes” such as stretch marks, cellulite, and skin “imperfections” like vitiligo and birthmarks.

Due to the invention of Photoshop, the perfect body is more and more impossible to achieve. Over the past 25 years, Photoshop technology has become so advanced that it is sometimes hard to tell when it has been used, creating unrealistic standards for women. I feel that beauty standards impact all people.

Today, there’s way more acceptance of all our body shapes and colors, with icons such as Jamie Brewer, Winnie Harlow, and Tess Holliday leading the way. Especially in fashion, there has been a shift that has models from diverse ethnic backgrounds representing brands. People should be able to feel comfortable in their own skin. “The “rules of how to be pretty” need to be adapted to be accepting of all bodies, genders, races, and sexual orientations. Beauty moving forward cannot be defined by one idea, but rather it needs to be as diverse as the people that see it. It needs to reflect how people really are.” (theinkblotnews.com) and I certainly agree.

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overcoming the

odds.

Dr. Antonio Webb

by S. Gunn for urban sentinel Dr. Antonio Webb, an Orthopedic Spine Surgeon, Military Veteran, Author, and Motivational Speaker, has overcome many odds in his life and is using his story to spread a message of hope to all, especially the younger generation.

Overcoming the Odds Dr. Webb grew up in the rough streets of Shreveport, Louisiana, surrounded by drugs, gangs, and violence.

While this level of exposure has robbed many people of a future, he chose to keep his head up and to forge a different path. In his book Overcoming the Odds, Webb discusses the pain of dealing with friends and family who were killed or jailed, including a younger brother who was sentenced to a juvenile life sentence for armed robbery. His mother also suffered from a drug addiction

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that landed her in and out of jail his whole life and eventually paralyzed from the waist down after being shot.

Dr. Webb’s life took a turn when he participated in a Medical Careers Magnet Program.. This high school program allowed Dr. Webb to see himself as a doctor and outside of the streets of Louisiana -- and would become the start of a years-long journey to becoming a doctor. After high school and at the young age of 17, Webb joined the United States Air Force where he spent a total of 8 years in the military, which included a tour to Iraq in 2005 as a medic (or medical attendant). His unit treated just over 800 patients while in-country and survived over 100 enemy mortar attacks during their deployment, earning his unit several medals of

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distinction in the process.

Following his enlistment, Dr. Webb began applying for medical school. Although he battled many rejections, and in some cases at the same school, he never lost heart and remained true to accomplishing his dream. In today’s very microwave culture, a true message can be valued through his story of tenacity and bravery: don’t give up! Dr. Webb said that "nothing was going to deter him from becoming a doctor. It didn't matter how many times he had to apply."

Achieving his Dream Dr. Webb graduated from Georgetown University School of Medicine in 2014. In addition to his surgical training at UT San Antonio, Dr. Webb was fortunate to learn and spend time operating under the guidance of Dr. Kaye Wilkins in Port Au Prince, Haiti on two separate occasions, and in 2018 he was awarded an AO trauma fellowship that allowed him to spend a month doing trauma and spine surgery in Bangkok, Thailand.

He also explained his specialty as Orthopedic Spine Surgery is the most competitive surgery to get into. He made a point to share his gratitude for life and the eyeopening experiences that further exposed the plight of vulnerable and Black communities.

In his last year of medical school, Dr. Webb completed a month-long international surgery rotation in Liberia, West Africa, returning to the United States just weeks before the Ebola outbreak that devastated the country. With Ebola, Dr. Webb stated that “patients were quarantined and treated very quickly, whereas in COVID-19, most people are asymptomatic,” weakening a community or area’s ability to combat the virus. Dr. Webb went on to discuss the disparities in the African American community that the pandemic revealed.

With an emphasis on fixing the disparities, Dr. Webb

highlighted that there were more Black male doctors in medicine in 1978 than 2008, stressing the importance of representation.

Making the Difference Understanding the need for representation is why Dr. Webb is so passionate about mentoring the youth. “I never saw Black male doctors growing up and [currently] only 1.9% of Spine Doctors are African American.” He has dedicated years to mentoring underprivileged middle and high school students interested in a career in medicine.

Webb says it is important for students to know that “if I can do it, they can also.” Webb says his proudest moment will be when he encounters a student in later years who says, “I am in medical school because of you.”

Despite the current pandemic, Dr. Webb found a way to share his message even further. He recently hosted a 21-city virtual tour discussing his newly released documentary, also entitled “Overcoming the Odds.” As a result, many young people have reached out with questions and in search of advice. He hopes through his YouTube Channel, book, and documentary (which he hopes to see streaming on Netflix or on another mainstream platform) to continue to serve as a resource. His closing advice to today's youth is that social media is a powerful tool and to use it to reach out for mentors, ask questions, and take the initiative needed to reach your dreams!

Dr. Webb currently practices in San Antonio, Texas specializing in Orthopedic Spine Surgery.

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GETTING FIT FOR

SPRI NG by claudia newby tynes for the urban sentinel

Often this topic is tabooed, but during the winter season, some have gained some unwanted pounds, including myself. Some of those pounds can be blamed on the pandemic; but nevertheless, we need to shed them too.

But, let's look ahead to spring because help is on the way. Do you want to get fit for the spring and stay fit? If so, this article was written with you in mind. Spring is synonymous to a physical or spiritual rejuvenation. It's a time of new beginnings or getting a fresh start, and it’s a time of refreshing. Take a moment and think about your new birth experience. Our experiences can be summed up in all of the preceding sentences plus a whole lot more. The biblical account of the resurrection of Jesus occurred in the spring. Believers, globally, will celebrate His death, burial, and resurrection on Easter or Resurrection Sunday, April 4, 2021.

Spring has finally sprung! We have waved "Goodbye" to the bone-chilling cold air, snow, ice, sleet, and the freezing rains

For every climatic season in our lives, there are spiritual

of winter. We say "Hello" to spring as we welcome warmer

and practical lessons we can learn and apply in those

temperatures, trees budding, flowers blooming and the feel

natural and spiritual seasons. Take a look at this acrostic

of moist green blankets of grass under our feet. Winter was

for S-P-R-I-N-G.

a cover up for so many of us. We covered up with coats, hats, scarves, gloves and boots. Now that spring is here,

1. S - Spring means to move or jump forth suddenly or take

we are shedding the coats, hats, scarves gloves, and boots.

the first step towards locating your starting point. Come

We are putting on our shorts, sleeveless blouses, dresses,

prepared by counting the cost before you launch. As you

t-shirts, and sandals. Dare not I say, some prefer bare feet?

launch forward, there is a starting point and a finishing line. The most important lesson here is to stay in your own

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lane, and you will reach the desired finished line.

our ending from our beginning.

2. P - Posture is vital in enhancing your launching forward

6. G - Grow and gravitate to higher heights as you grow

from your starting point and entering into your winning

in love and grace. Definitely say, “Yes” to Love for God is

season. Pray about everything and worry about nothing.

Love. The Psalmist says, "Thou satisfies my mouth with

God got you in the palm of His hands. Listen for clarity

good things, and my youth is renewed as an eagle." Think

of His instructions and do what He says. And please don't

highly of yourself, but not too highly. Have a boat load of

forget to send Judah first. "Who is Judah?" you asked. Judah

fun by loving, living, and laughing out loud. Don't be so

is praise! Now let's give God some praises: (Glory! Thank

serious even when you find yourself in the deep waters of

You Jesus! Hallelujah!).

life. Just put on your knee-high boots and keep walking on the water. Trust God in all of your ways (Proverbs 3 :( 3-5).

3. R - Rejuvenate your spirit, soul, and body and remain resilient. Pursue peace at all costs. You will sense

Know that all is well...indeed it is so! Now go forth and get

rejuvenation in every part of who you are: you are a spirit,

fit for your spring season. In my Bishop T.D Jakes' voice,

you have a soul, and you live in a body. Breathe...inhale and exhale. Choose exercises and activities that uplift your spirit and soul and stimulate your body. Flex those physical and spiritual muscles while you stretch out all those knots and kinks that lingered during those lackadaisical days of winter. Take time for some good old R&R (rest and relaxation).

4. I - Inspire others as you spring forth, and invigorate

"GET READY, GET READY, GET READY!"

Happy Spring!

yourself during the process. Don't be afraid to express yourself to others or to yourself.

Inspiration and

invigoration are Siamese twins, and they are vital for every phase of your race. Do you have a support group? If not, form one and you become the lead supporter for inspiring and encouraging others. Stay connected to the DI-VINE (purposely stated). Divine hookups and connections are God-directed.

5. N - New beginnings are simply starting again, to begin afresh and anew. These new beginnings need nurturing on every level. Find out what your calling(s) are by giving your God-given talents and gifts back to the Giver of life. I am reminded of Jeremiah 29:11, (His plan for us is a good plan). Trust His process for your race because He knows

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Yasmin

by Myeka Johnson for the urban sentinel

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Born on November 26th 2011 at the Avera Mckennan Hospital in Sioux Falls, South Dakota and now lives in Minnesota.

Yasmin is 9 years old and her nickname is Yazzydazzle. Yasmin has taken Dance, Swimming, and Gymnastic classes with Gymnastics currently being her favorite. Yasmin started Gymnastics in 2016 and eventually worked her way to the Gymnastics team in 2019. Yasmin is still currently in Gymnastics during COVID 19 using social distancing during practice, the teams competitions are currently on hold.

Yasmin has always been athletic and extremely competitive, having an older sister that is just as competitive she has to always keep up. Yasmin learned how to ride bike without training wheels at the age of 3 and soon after that learned how to roller blade. Over the summer of 2019 she took on Golf, Soccer, Softball, and Tennis. 2020 and 2021 was a lot different due to Covid 19 which all activities had to be canceled.

Yasmin became interested in modeling and acting in December of 2019,so her mother entered her in a 1 month long online model contest in January of 2020 out of Utica,New York. She won the online model contest out of Utica,New York with over 1k votes over her competitors in February of 2020. Since then Yasmin has been in several magazines, a short film, and commercial,she is signed with agencies in New York and Minnesota.

Yasmin was Cover Girl for” Young Model Magazine “ Issue 12, 2020 with a 4 page feature. She has also been featured in “Young Model Magazine” 2021 Calendar as Miss January. She has been in many more after that “Brand Magazine” issue 437, 2020,”It Girl Model” issue 10 volume 7, 2020, “Katana Magazine “Celebrity Kid Style, 2020, and many more.

She will be featured in a short film which is still in the making called “ Parrot” filmed in late January of 2021 in Center City ,Philadelphia by Red Flight Pictures.

She will be in a online commercial filmed out of Atlanta, Georgia called “ Watermelon Warrior “ with her playing as the main villain by EyeKiss films. Yasmin has more projects and events in the works with dates to be determined.

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Celebrity Designer

Delise’ Ana Parker

by Keisha Esprit for the urban sentinel

Delise’ Ana Parker is a Gullah native of Beaufort, South Carolina. Parker realized her eye for fashion at an early age. Her designs and unique style were recognized in high school, when she was voted most creative student. While completing her Bachelors degree in Marketing from South Carolina State University, the designer opened a custom gown boutique in Orangeburg, SC. This boutique show cased the first official clothing line entitled Delise' Ana Fashions. Delise' Ana is the combination of the designer's Grandmother's, Mother's, and Self name. Together, Delise' Ana defines wisdom, strength, and courage.

After graduation Delise'Ana decided to take a leap of faith, and relocated to Los Angeles where she attended fashion design school. Since then the designer has participated and been recognized in international fashion shows, magazines, and music videos combined. Delise' Ana’s talent has also been noted by many famous stylists, fashion industry leaders, and International artists. Parker’s custom garments have been worn by talents such as Nicki Minaj, Lizzo, LaLa Milan, K. Michelle, Faith Evans, Danai Gurira (Black panther & The Walking Dead), to name a few.

Delise' Ana’s designs have been showcased at Paris Fashion Week, Los Angeles Fashion Week, and New York Fashion Week.

You can also see her designs in magazines such as MarieClaire, Fashion Bomb Daily, Elle, Glamour, LA Apparel News, and many more.

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A PHOTOGRAPHER’S JOURNEY TO

Recovery from a Stroke

by Stacey Henry-Carr for urban sentinel Why does it seem that we wait for something drastic to

and yet his pictures did not look like what he saw in the

happen to realize what is important to us? Crist Booze

magazines. He started doing research and realized that he

from Sharp Shoota Photography had an earth-shattering

needed to learn about his camera and how to use it. Crist

epiphany that gave him a new outlook on his life. This

said, “There is a lot more to photography than picking up

former Marine, husband, and father of four children

an expensive camera and shooting.” He became dedicated to

ignored the signs his body gave him, and it caught up

learning more about his craft and took classes and partnered

with him. For many years he succumbed to societal

with a mentor. it was eight years later from the purchase of

and generational pressures that defined the role of a

his first camera that he was satisfied with his pictures. But

man. But this hard-working man who was always on

his initial interest in photography started in 1998 when

the grind was suddenly struck down with a stroke.

his uncle showed him a photo he took of a young Crist.

He wanted to share with the Urban Sentinel readers

He said, “That was when I fell in love with photography.”

how his journey to recovery taught him to be a more

As his passion continued, he started his business as a side

intentional father, and more attentive to his needs.

gig, evenings, and weekends. He worked weddings, birthday parties, took portraits and built a loyal clientele.

Crist’s passion for photography originated from two distinct moments in his life. When Crist was in

In March 2020, Crist had a stroke to the right side of his

barber school someone presented a slide

brain that affected his entire left side of his body. He was

show and at that moment he gleaned

diagnosed with having a blood clot that formed in his

the idea to start helping people

body, traveled to his brain, and resulted in a stroke. Crist

create slide shows. However, as he

had constant hypertension and stress that perpetuated his

created the slides for his clients,

situation. This unfortunate incident threatened his life and

he recognized the images had

later his craft as a photographer. It was six months after his

poor quality. It was then he

stroke that he decided he would pick up the camera again,

decided he wanted to create

but it was a challenge. He said he was unable to steady the

pictures

camera, stand long enough, and focus with his blurry vision.

photography.

But he was determined that he was going to strengthen his

But it was not as simple

body and override the negative thoughts in his mind. He

as

better

quality

through

thought.

He

said each time he fell he got back up and decided not to give

learned

that

up. He then relied on his training as a photographer and

photography was more

listened for the beeps from the camera to know when the

than just having an

shot was in focus.

he

quickly

expensive

camera.

He said he spent a lot

He said the toughest part during his recovery was self-doubt.

of money on a camera

He told himself he was not going to be able to do it because

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he fell so many times without his camera. Once he shifted his mind and determination, he stopped telling himself all the negative things and started taking pictures. It took practice and mind over matter to get back to being fully confident and taking beautiful sharp images again. He stated that the best thing about being a photographer is that “I don’t take pictures, I make pictures.” Crist continues building his photography business to be a household name throughout the DMV and the east coast. He has repeat clients and understands that a client relationship with their photographer has a level of intimacy and trust. This is a trust he built over the years.

Crist has advice for men about their health.

He said, “As men, we don’t like when the check engine light comes on our vehicles, so my advice is to listen to those check engine lights our bodies give us. We can’t help our families sitting in the hospital.” He feels like men were given a curse to work until they fall over but knows now that is not necessary. He stated we do not have to “Work until the sweat of our brows.” He wants the men reading this article to take care of themselves, learn how to take time to relax, and check their health. Crist said, “Your body is a temple and if you don’t take care of it your body will crumble.” He encourages the spouses and partners to make the doctor’s appointment and encourage the men in their lives to relax. If they wait until their body tells them it could be detrimental and too late.

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overcoming that feeling meant staying alive and recovering for his family. He gives his wife Laura Booze credit and appreciation for holding things together while he recovered.

Crist said one of the biggest gains from this was he got the opportunity to learn and know his family. Before the stroke, he was always working hard to make money. He would leave his house while his children were asleep and came home while they were asleep. The hustle to provide kept him isolated from his children.

They had little bond except for him telling them what to do versus communicating and learning who they were. But the stroke changed that, he is getting the one-on-one talks and the bonding conversations about life that he never had with his children. Mindful, intentional parenting and bonding are now a major part of his household. Before everyone called Crist and he became the Godfather to his extended family. But now he had to trust the process and allow others to assist. Crist had to learn how to trust himself and not always be the go-to for everyone.

Crist Booze is a freelance photographer who works weddings, events, and create portraits.

Now Crist balances life and work, he pays attention to his body. He said, “Men should learn and know when to rest their bodies and know when to stop grinding so hard.”

Contact information for Crist Booze: www.Sharpshootsphotography.com www.instagram.com/mobettabooze

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Sisterhood

by Catherine Tyson for the urban sentinel

To fully appreciate who we are as women we may need to begin to get back to the basics of supporting other women and helping one another with our challenges and to reach our full potential. To those out there who have found that inner peace and serenity and skills to cope, we need to share this with our counterparts. I read an editorial the other day from a lady who wrote that ‘no one was going to get into her skin and live her life for her” and that inspired me so much. It is so true! Sometimes I wish I could just breathe life into some of my women friends and acquaintances and inspire the ones filled with hurt, anger and defeat to just go out there and make their mark. Be who you wanted to be when you were that hopeful teenager or little girl.

It is so much easier to criticize other women or try to tear them down when most probably we are just filled with jealousy over the same thing that we are criticizing. Certain things like judgment, envy, criticism are just cover up emotions for the real problem. Why not just celebrate them or ask them for pointers about how to get you to where you want to be if it seems that they have the formula. You see women there are some things that men cannot understand or appreciate about us and we can only do that for ourselves and vice versa of course. A day without girlfriends to chat with or complain to or save the world with is a very lonely day on this earth. We need this to relate; we yearn for this and nothing else can ever replace this. Those of us who have sisters, mothers, aunts, grandmothers, daughters, nieces and the list goes on; we know that without that force in our lives we would only be half the woman we are today.

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of great advice, mentored me and even chastised or disciplined me when that was needed as well. My mom, as other people my age can probably appreciate, worked long, hard hours as a single mother and the help from these awesome ladies was necessary and much appreciated.

This past weekend I overheard a man say something very derogatory about women with his wife sitting right beside him and my heart was almost shattered. He went on to say “women can’t rule the world; they are too emotional and fickle minded”. I almost turned around to correct him and thought better of it seeing the times that we live in but more importantly wanted to tell his wife that I was sorry that this is what she hears in her ear enough to probably believe it. Men we do not want to rule the world; at least not without your help, but more importantly I think men and women alike can all appreciate that women contribute some very valuable things on this earth and need to be respectful of each other.

So ladies bearing this in mind let’s get back into each other’s corners and help one another by uplifting that woman at work, school, or even next door. Does she need any help or are we just so busy living that we forget about our fellow sisters on the journey. As we help each other to become self-assured and secure we begin to create that utopia. Ladies we can begin by being the change that we want to see and help the world to see women as they are; strong, beautiful, talented, smart, kind, good and able to rule the world!

Connect with me on Facebook at Catherine Tyson and Instagram @realcatherinetyson. Until next time!

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KNOW YOUR VALUE

by Dr. Sharon H. Porter for the urban sentinel

“Know your worth.

Know the difference between what you’re getting and what you deserve.”

One of my all-time favorite leadership books is “The Little Black of Success: The Laws of Leadership for Black Women” by Elaine Meryl Brown, Marsha Haygood, and Rhonda Joy McLena. Lesson 14 is “Know Your Value: Don’t confuse your net worth with your self-worth. The talent you acquired as a leader in your community, church or school have value in the workplace-apply them”.

I have to admit, I have not always known my worth... my value, professionally or personally. You cannot allow people to treat you any way they choose. Like the saying goes, “you have to teach people how to treat you”. I learned to value my knowledge and talents later in life. Once I became an entrepreneur, my eyes were open to knowing my value because I had to begin naming my price for my services. When I started Perfect Time SHP Publishing and SHP Media and Broadcasting, I would always sell myself short because I enjoyed the work and it was something that I could easily do. What I didn’t factor in was the work (and finances) I had to put in to learn my craft and the time needed to complete the task. I quickly learned my value.

People will take advantage of your limited knowledge (which is why you need a mentor or coach. I will write about that in an upcoming issue).

Mika Brzezinski, founder of the women’s empowerment brand Know Your Value, made it clear. Knowing your value is not just about money, but about every relationship in your life. Her goal is for women to advocate for themselves, communicate effectively, and carry themselves with confidence.

I once felt invisible, like my voice was not heard. I will admit, part of that was Imposter Syndrome, but a lot of it was me just not truly knowing my worth. Oftentimes, we are our own barrier. Get out of your own way and go forth and be great! Find your voice and lift it!.

Knowing your value is in part why I chose to begin the Young Women Who L.E.A.D. Mentoring Program. I am committed to helping young girls and young ladies know their worth and truly embrace the fact that their options are limitless.

I now make it a point to let my voice be heard. I use the hashtag #leadershipmatters quite often, but knowing your value is about #Imatter. I really feel that fear holds many of us back from truly being confident, lifting our voice, and letting others know what our value is. As Viola Davis says, “The big C has to enter these rooms. That’s courage... which is just Fear with prayer.” Lisa Nichols, says, ``Do it afraid, even if your knees are knocking and your teeth are chattering.” Growth is simply doing the things you think you cannot do (Eleanor Roosevelt).

The Senate recently confirmed New Mexico Representative Deb Haaland as interior secretary, making her the first native American to lead a Cabinet department. Representative Marcia Fudge (Ohio) was confirmed as the secretary of housing and urban development (HUD), making her the first Black woman to lead the agency in more than forty years. There continues to be firsts out there (#stillfirsts).

This is important because the more we conquer these firsts, the more women will begin to know their own value.

Representation matters!

We (women) have come a long way. We are more confident, we voice our opinions, we embrace collaboration, and more importantly we are leading and representing in all spaces.

“Make sure you don’t start seeing yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you. Know your worth even if they don’t.” -Unknown

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William “Bill” Hamilton

Retired SCSU SID/Sports Historian

by The Office of SCSU Sports Information for the urban sentinel

Orangeburg, SC – Bill Hamilton retired as South Carolina State Sports Information Director (SID)/Sports Historian in June of 2013 after a forty-year tenure at the Orangeburg institution. A 1973 SCSU alumnus, Hamilton continues to assist the University as a volunteer.

Hamilton began his career at SC State in July 1973 as a public information specialist in the Public Relations Office before being named SID two years later. Upon his retirement in 2013, the press box at the Bulldogs’ O.C. Dawson Stadium was named in his honor.

A Baltimore, MD native, he grew up in Chesterfield, SC where he attended public schools and earned a diploma from the former Gary High School.

Hamilton earned a bachelor’s in English Language and Literature at SC State in 1973, and received a Master of Education degree from the Orangeburg institution in 1979.

He did further study at New York University.

He has earned numerous professional and civic awards during his long, distinguished career, including the College Sports Information Directors of America (CoSIDA) Bob Kenworthy Community Service Award, the CoSIDA Trailblazer Award and the CoSIDA Arch Ward Award.

Other awards the SC State alumnus received included the All-American Football Foundation Scoop Hudgins Outstanding SID Award, the BCSIDA Cal Jacox-Champ Clark Award. In February of 2011, he was featured by ESPN.com during Black History Month. In May of 2012, he received the Herman Helms Media Excellence Award from the South Carolina Athletic Hall of Fame.

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the university by the Mid-Eastern Athletic Conference (MEAC) during the league’s annual basketball tournament at The Scope arena in Norfolk, VA. In November of 2020, he was presented the Orangeburg Touchdown Club’s Unsung Hero Award.

He is enshrined in the MEAC Hall of Fame, the CoSIDA Hall of Fame, the SC State Athletic Hall of Fame and the SC State Physical Education Hall of Fame. In addition, Hamilton was named Staff Employee of the Year at SC State in 1999, a NAFEO (National Association for Equal Opportunity in Higher Education) Distinguished Alumnus in 2005, and was designated a Stellar Alumnus on the SC State National Alumni Association’s 2010 calendar.

He was a longtime pollster for both the Sheridan Broadcasting Network (SBN) and The Sports Network (TSN), and is currently a pollster for the STATS FCS rankings. He also served nine years on the NCAA Final Four Media Coordination Committee.

Hamilton is a member of the Greater Orangeburg Alumni Chapter of SC State and a Life Member of the SCSUNAA. He has been actively involved in his community and is the current president of the Summit Homeowners Association. He formerly served as the longtime board chairman of the Orangeburg Attention Homes, Inc.; former board member and executive committee member of the SC State Employees Association (SCSEA), is the current president of the Orangeburg chapter; and former board member and local chapter president of the Alston Wilkes Society.

Hamilton is a member of Mt. Pisgah Baptist Church in Orangeburg where he is a trustee, usher and a reporter for the church newsletter. He is also a life member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc. Office of Sports Information SC State University PO Box 7128 Orangeburg, SC 29117 803-536-7060/536-8759

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JESUS HAS RISEN INDEED! by bridgette m. alfred for urban sentinel

A. The History of Resurrection Sunday: 1. Physical: According to the Bible, Jesus' death and resurrection took place around the time of the Jewish Passover, observed on the first full moon following the vernal equinox, when the sun crosses the equator going north. The vernal equinox occurs on March 20, and therefore Easter can fall on a day between March 21 and April 25.

This is why the date for Easter differs every year within the Gregorian Calendar. This year Easter will be celebrated on April 4th.

Oftentimes there is a debate to call this celebration Easter or Resurrection Sunday. What's most important is celebrating the event and purpose of Jesus' resurrection.

2. Spiritual: John 20:17-18 (NCV): Jesus said to her, “Don’t hold on to me, because I have not yet gone up to the Father. But go to my brothers and tell them, ‘I am going back to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’” Mary Magdalene went and said to the followers, “I saw the Lord!” And she told them what Jesus had said to her.

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commemorates God's "passing over" the Hebrew's homes by the angel of death. By accepting Jesus, we are promised eternal life and we are saved from spiritual death. Jesus is called the Lamb of God through whom the only escape is possible, without His sacrifice, Christianity would be an empty religion.

2. Spiritual: Exodus 12:40-42 (NCV): The people of Israel had lived in Egypt for four hundred thirty years; on the very day, the four hundred thirty years ended, the Lord’s divisions of people left Egypt.

That night the Lord kept watch to bring them out of Egypt, and so on this same night the Israelites are to keep watch to honor the Lord from now on.

C. Jesus Has Risen Indeed!: 1. Physical: Resurrection Sunday is a day for Christians to affirm their belief in the resurrection of Jesus and the future resurrection of His followers. While Jesus was admired and praised as a teacher, healer, and for performing miracles, He was put to death on the cross. The grave did not hold Him. Death did not defeat Him. God raised Him from the dead. There were witnesses that saw Jesus, and Christianity spread across the globe and remained a profound belief to this day.

2. Spiritual: 1 Corinthians 15:3-5 (NCV): I passed on to you what I received, of which this was most important: that Christ died for our sins, as the Scriptures say; that he was buried and was raised to life on the third day as the Scriptures say; and that he was seen by Peter and then by the twelve apostles.

D. Conclusion: 1. Physical: Because of the COVID-19 pandemic it is a challenge for churches to have a physical celebration for Resurrection Sunday. However, the key is to keep Christ in focus throughout the day. Embrace Him and rejoice in what He has done for you and your family.

The greatest experience a family can do together on this day is to lift Jesus up in love and worship.

2. Spiritual: Joshua 24:15 (NCV): But if you don’t want to serve the Lord, you must choose for yourselves today whom you will serve. You may serve the gods that your ancestors worshiped when they lived on the other side of the Euphrates River, or you may serve the gods of the Amorites who lived in this land. As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.

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Are You Blocking Your Success?

S P I RI T UA L N O U RI S H M E N T B RO U GH T TO YO U B Y THE URBAN SENTINEL AND UPSHIFT GLOBAL by dr. anita davis-defoe for urban sentinel Do you feel like giving up on your dreams? Do you

losses?” When we focus on loss after loss, it is difficult to

feel like settling for whatever comes your way? Have you

recognize and reignite our spirits and our actions because

lost sight of your personal goals? Have you allowed the

we do not infuse these life lessons and the wisdom gained

struggles of life to steal your personal joy from day to day?

into our lives.

Have the past months of this global pandemic paralyzed you, resulting in a diminished capacity to make decisions

Once you realize that the only person that can hold you

or to think about the future due in part because of the

back is wearing your clothes, listening to your music,

uncertainty of every day? If you can answer yes to any

walking around in your shoes, and thinking your thoughts,

one of these questions, it is time to do some serious soul

you will have solved one of life’s most perplexing mysteries.

searching; it is time to think earnestly about the things you

With this realization, you will have unmasked the dream

want out of life. Those 86,400 seconds that you are gifted

bandit; uncovered the thief who robs you of your inner

everyday are not to be wasted!!

peace; you will truly begin to understand that the only person that can hold you back is YOU.

Are you using your gifts and talents doing work that you enjoy? Are you pursing your dreams passionately, fearlessly, and persistently?

Daily we need to take a personal inventory. Daily we need

Do you review your list of

to chart the progress being made relative to the achievement

goals daily and take positive steps, or at least one action

of the wishes that flow from our spirits and our hearts. Daily

daily, to achieve them? Do you listen attentively to your

we need to check ourselves and make certain that we have

boundless inner guide instead of your limiting inner critic?

not made a success blocker one of our dearest and most

If you can answer no to any of these questions, it is time to

trusted friends.

take charge of your life; it is certainly time to figure out the mental roadblocks that may be holding you back.

What is a success blocker? Success blockers are attitudes, beliefs, and self-defeating behaviors that keep us from

You must ask yourself these two questions, “Am I evolving

accomplishing our goals and dreams. The seven most

or simply revolving?” Yes, revolving in a circle making

common success blockers include fear, doubt, excuse-itis,

the same limiting choices, the same mistakes, the same

self-sabotage, procrastination, laziness, and embarking on

decisions that hinder your progress and take you further

endeavors that simply go against one’s value system. Are

from your life purpose. The second question you must

you guilty of blocking your own success??

ponder is this, “Are You counting your lessons, or just your

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Fear is far more than false expectations appearing real, fear is like stepping into a pool of cement and remaining stuck there making no attempt to get free. The fear, the anticipation of things possibly going wrong keeps some of us from trying anything. Consequently, we accomplish nothing. Others allow doubt to stop them from pursuing their goals, rationalizing that the risk is far too great to even make an attempt at going after what they truly want.

Meanwhile, that same person will empty his or her pockets to buy lottery tickets, knowing that the odds for winning are practically slim and none. Making excuses works for some of us, while others do something to derail their own progress every time it looks like success is right around the corner. Putting things off or just choosing to do nothing hoping to merely get by is the option for others. Consciously choosing to pursue dreams and goals that go against one’s beliefs or opting to do things simply because you want to fit in with the crowd rarely works. Success Blockers….the tools of self-defeat. Success Blockers….beliefs and behaviors that without fail haunt many of us for all of our lives.

The journey to achieve personal success is rarely a straight path, very seldom a magic carpet ride. The road to accomplish a dream is always a roller coaster ride on a scenic freeway that ultimately leads to opportunity and personal fulfillment. The pathway to personal joy may be filled with numerous obstacles, but these are merely opportunities for improvement, chances to use life lessons to grow; fleeting moments designed to prepare you for both the joy and responsibility that comes with achieving your heart’s desires.

The next time you feel like quitting, the next time fear, doubt or procrastination knock on your door, stop and take a look in the mirror; ask the face that you see there, “Are you blocking your own success?”

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Black Tech Company Responds to the COVID-19 Pandemic by Launching the LiveWaves Social Network and Makes History:

Welcome to the Future! social networking resource. In response to the COVID-19 pandemic for people who want and need change, a blackowned Tech Company launched a social network.

Michael Dorsey shared details about LiveWaves with me, and I immediately went to the “app store” and downloaded it to my phone, and I am sure you will be pleased when you do the same.

On December 31, 2020 WYRD Ventures & Consulting, Inc. based in Cornelius, North Carolina launched “the only” social network built on an event platform that allows content creators to monetize their content at no cost to them. LiveWaves is not only a “call-to-action” and a “content creators dream”, LiveWaves is an answer to the call for the need to create a social network that that helps individuals monetize their content virtually and globally!

Thought as a “change agent” the aim of the LiveWaves App Michael Dorsey, the Executive Vice-President of “The

is to help uplift, encourage innovation and become an all in

Franchise Enterprise” is an innovator, a strategist, and

one solution for current and future content creators.

is certainly blazing a trail as it relates to global business development. Dorsey and his collaborative partner have

According to the National Bureau of Economic Research

created a social networking platform that is dynamic

(2020) “a recession started in February 2020. As it became

and value added for the end user. During the month of

clear that the coronavirus was a national emergency, most

February 2021, headlines celebrated the launch of this

businesses shut down as the stay-at-home order was put

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in place.” As the COVID-19 pandemic began to threaten,

the need for social distancing due to the coronavirus by

cripple or negatively impact the livelihood of families, small

allowing viewers to view content or attend event from the

businesses, charitable and religious organizations, contract

comfort of their home.

workers, the entertainment industry, the restaurant industry, educational institutions, impact those with family housed

• Pay-Per-View (PPV) Option - Content creators can

in senior care communities and etc., WYRD Ventures &

upload previously recorded content,

Consulting Inc. knew something needed to change. Fast!

religious, charity and other events, etc. as paid events.

The LiveWaves Social Networking App is perfect for

• Unlimited Event Ticket Creation Option - Content

Music Artists and Musicians of all genres, Independent

creators and organizations can create

film makers, Stage Play Productions, Comedians, Fitness

number of tickets, globally, for livestreaming, PPV or in-

Trainers, Teachers, Public Speakers, Ministers, Seminar

person events.

shows, trainings,

an unlimited

and Webinar Speakers, Therapists and Counselors, Craft Instructors, State Sanctioned physical combat (i.e. boxing,

• Integrated Event Platform – LiveWaves is built on an event

MMA, etc., etc.). Venues who choose to offer

platform and replaces the need to use multiple platforms to create and host events.

PPV Rap and VERZUZ battles, Talk Shows, and any other type of live demonstration can allow individuals to watch

• In App Donation/Tipping Feature – Viewers and

from the comfort of their home or mobile devices.

supporters can utilize the tip or donation feature to help support a charity, live event, favorite artist, purchase

Some of What LiveWaves Brings to the Market

products and etc.

• A Call to Action - A product and a service so that content

Join the wave by downloading the LiveWaves App today!

creators and in-person demonstrators can use to build

| For more information, PR or Marketing inquiries, email

revenue via instant or pre-paid pay-per-view events, while

Nicole Beecher, Chief Marketing Officer at cmonicole@

hosting virtual in-person events, series and shows on the

wyrdinc.com. For more information or inquiries about

LiveWaves Platform.

the LiveWaves App, email Andreas Parsley-Williams, Chief Vision Officer at cvodre@wyrdinc.com.

• People Connector - LivesWaves connects people virtually who have struggled to earn a living prior to and since the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic at “no cost to them”.

• Unlimited Earning Potential - LiveWaves provides content creators and in-person

demonstrators an “all in one

solution” to build revenue on their schedule, while charging what they want per event or ticket.

• Social Distancing – LiveWaves provides an answer to

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ARE YOU INVE

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ESTING IN THE LOVE BANK?

by CaSay Vaugh for urban sentinel What does your Love Account look like?

Here is a guide on how to deposit and build a romantic relationship that’s healthy, and satisfying.

Nurturing a strong relationship Relationships are not perfect, it is important to intentionally deposit into your “Love Bank.” There has to be a willingness to compromise and change with your significant other.

Regardless if you are a novice in love or in a commitment monogamous relationship there are items you must take to deposit in your “Love Bank.”

Investing in your relationship Relationships are between two individuals. It is a joint account with the person you love and that should be the foundation of how you run your relationship. Most issues come in a relationship when outside sources have an opinion. And that’s something only you and your partner can control.

Understanding that basic principle can help keep your relationship stress free, meaningful, fulfilling and exciting.

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It is IMPERATIVE to maintain a meaningful emotional

When both parties know what their goals for the

connection with each other. Making your partner feel

relationship are and feel comfortable expressing their

loved and emotionally fulfilled sets the frequency of how

needs, wants and fears, it can increases the trust and

the relationship. There’s a difference between being loved

strengthen the bond between you.

and feeling loved. When you feel loved, no matter if you are in the same room or states away , it makes you feel

INTENTIONALLY SPEND TIME TOGETHER

accepted and valued by your partner. When the feeling of love is questionable a relationship can get stuck in peaceful

The last and final deposit to your “Love Bank” is the most

coexistence, (the difference in loving someone and being

important. Intentionally Spend Time with your partner. It

IN Love). On the surface it seems great but the substance is

is important to put the same effort in that you began with.

non existent and that is what creates distance.

It is important to continue to attentively look and listen to your partner. Make sure you constantly allow yourself to

HAVING THE HARD CONVERSATIONS

fall in love.

Do not be afraid to have the hard conversations (respectful) disagreement. The key in a strong relationship, is to feel

Life demands of work, family and just life can swallow our

comfortable to safely express things that bother you without

time making it very difficult to find time together. Texting

fear of retaliation, and be able to resolve conflict without

and phone communication is ok but there is nothing like

being disrespectful,degradation, or unable to compromise

face-to-face contact . The emotional cues , the physical

your viewpoint.

touch that is needed to feel loved can only be felt by your partner, it’s important to carve out time to spend together.

You keep the lines of communication open and clear.

Schedule some quality time together , create opportunities

Remember no one is perfect, in fact, expecting too much

on a regular basis. You do not want your relationship

from your partner can put unhealthy pressure on a

to be on OVERDRAFT. No matter how busy you are,

relationship. And your partner can not give you what you

remember to take a few minutes each day to put aside

do not tell them you need.

your phone and STOP AND FOCUS and really focus on and connect with your partner. Create playful ways

SELF CARE AND INDEPENDENCE

to surprise your partner, like bringing her flowers or

Self care not couple care but SELF CARE is very important

unexpectedly booking at his/her favorite restaurant.

in your relationship. It is the direct deposit that stimulates and enrich your romantic relationship, it’s important to

Remember when the smoke clears you want to make sure

sustain your own identity outside of the relationship,

your “LOVE BANK” is in the BLACK NOT RED!

preserve connections and maintain your hobbies and interests. If you do not invest in your self then mentally

You can follow Celebrity DJ Jay Claxton and Dr. Casay on

and emotionally you can not be there for your partner.

Instagram @JayClaxton

LET’S TALK ABOUT IT

@CasayVaughn

The first line of defense in a strong relationship is being

@loveandbusinessonlock

able to openly communicate. Communication is the line of

Or Facebook

credit that keeps the relationship funded.

Love Business on Lock

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PHOTO CREDITS

Michelle Smalls Pages 3&4: LVH Creative Media Crist Booze Pages 3, 38, 40 , 41: Sharpshootaphotography.com Shari Barner Pages 24 & 26: Timothy Brantley MUA: Olympia Kent Prince Pages 7, www.esquire.com, 8 & 9,www.mprnews.org Nicki Kris Page 3 & 19: Natasha Sioss, Page 21: Nicki Kris(My best selfie ever) Page 23: Tyler Goellner Jay Claxton and Dr. CaSay Back Cover, pages 56 & 59: Jackie Hicks@fondmemories Derrick McMixson Pages 15 & 16: William Young

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