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CONTENTS EDITOR-IN-CHIEF Catherine Frederick CHIEF OPERATING OFFICER Scott Frederick MANAGING EDITOR Marla Cantrell CONTRIBUTING WRITERS / PHOTOGRAPHERS Marla Cantrell Sara Carter Mike Daugherty Catherine Frederick Claire Kolberg Megan Lankford Malynda Sayers Jessica Sowards Stoney Stamper Louise Turner Glenn Wigington GRAPHIC DESIGNER Artifex 323 - Jessica Mays

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letter from the editor

On a recent afternoon, when a summer

this building to raise money for the Cancer

storm whipped through Fort Smith, taking

Support House. I looked up, my hand

my electrical power with it, I sat at my

shading my eyes, and wondered what it was

kitchen table and played a board game

like to see it go up way back in 1910.

called Wahoo! with my son. In those few hours, while crews worked to get the lights

At Savoy Tea Company, a dozen women

back on, I was forced to slow down. My

wearing big, loud hats, sat drinking tea and

reward was being unconnected from email

eating tiny cakes and laughing. At The Park

and breaking news alerts that typically

at West End, we rode the old Ferris wheel,

interrupt my day. I did not learn a thing

paying one dollar each for the joy of seeing

that afternoon, except that the storm was

the oldest part of the city from high up, just

over, the house was quiet, and my son was

as the stars started to appear. Nearby, a half

playing the same game I had at his age.

dozen kids played in the splash pad, their parents watching carefully as they ran through the water, making

A few nights later, when a cool breeze showed up out of

up stories, pretending to be superheroes. That night, I suspect,

nowhere, we headed to Garrison Avenue. I thought we'd grab a

every one of those kids slept well and dreamed big dreams.

bite to eat and then head home. But when we found a table on the patio at Bricktown Brewery and then heard Flash and Mark

At each of The Unexpected murals, people gathered for selfies.

Albertson playing their music, we stayed. By the time they sang

We watched as they admired this new art in this old town. We

one of our favorite Eric Clapton numbers, everyone on the patio

even stood on the stage at Garrison Commons Park that opens

was smiling. And outside the gated enclosure, a woman walking

this month, and we imagined what it would be like to sit a

down the street decided she couldn't stand one more minute

while and listen to the bands, or watch a movie, that will soon

without dancing. We all watched her, dancing like no one was

be playing there.

watching, although, of course, we all were.

I guess you could say we spent an evening like our parents and Later, we decided to stroll the avenue. Another band played

grandparents might have done, but I have another name for it.

outside La Huerta and still another on the patio at Rib Room Beer

I call it localling. After several weekends away to watch our son

Garden. At each place, crowds gathered. Outside The Sound

play travelling basketball, we reconnected with our community,

Room, where it was just a bit too early to open, an impromptu

and with everything we love about being local. If you want to

trio with a guitar belted out a Garth Brooks number.

feel the same way, try spending an evening on Garrison Avenue.

It could be one of the best nights of your summer.

As we continued our walk, we noticed the architecture of our old town. The buildings are beautiful, but driving by you never really notice the details. We stopped near First National Bank and looked up. In October, everyday citizens will rappel down

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poetry

LINEs Glenn Wigington

I must tell you about my mother, and the last time I saw her, the day she told me about chest pains and nitroglycerin pills and arrangements as if we were writing a grocery list.

We talked of things as they used to be; rocking on the front porch on cool summer nights, the air soft and limp, snow ice cream and popcorn when blizzards struck and school closed, Sunday mornings waiting for company to arrive, the subdued sound of chicken frying, the aroma of fresh bread and apple pies.

I remembered hiding when trouble came or fear aroused. She would find me, hoist me onto her soft lap, dry my wet eyes, tell me it would be all right.

It would be all right.

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UPCLOSE&PERSONAL

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UP CLOSE PERSONAL

JOHN JETER Music Director and Conductor, Fort Smith Symphony Fort Smith Symphony 479.452.7575 fortsmithsymphony.org

ABOUT THE FORT SMITH SYMPHONY The Fort Smith Symphony presents great concerts as well as educational and community programs for everyone. Most concerts are sold out and the support for the symphony is terrific. For people who have not attended, this is the season to come and hear us. Our greatest season ever — it's also my twentieth year with the Fort Smith Symphony!

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WORDS TO LIVE BY:

THE FIRST RECORD I BOUGHT FOR MYSELF WAS

"Never take yourself too seriously."

Beethoven’s Symphony No. 3.

3 PRODUCTS JOHN CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT

IF I COULD THANK MY PARENTS FOR JUST ONE THING

French press coffee maker, Mac desktop computer, Converse high top sneakers

MOST PEOPLE WOULD BE SURPRISED TO LEARN THAT I

soloed in an airplane at age 16 and have skydived about a dozen times.

it would be assuming I would always make the right choices.

If I could take a year off from my job, I'd read loads of history books.

MY BEST SUMMER VACATION WAS

conducting in Europe.

MY SUPERPOWER IS

I can't live without my Mac desktop computer I'M INSPIRED BY

people who persevere despite tremendous odds against them.

THE BEST THING ABOUT MY JOB IS

working for an overwhelmingly positive and successful organization.

MY FAVORITE THING ABOUT FORT SMITH IS

the generosity of the community.

MY FAVORITE STATE PARK IS

Moran State Park, Orcas Island, WA.

my quick wit (according to the Mrs.).

THE WORST TROUBLE I WAS EVER IN AS A KID WAS WHEN I

was caught rummaging around for my duffle bag on a tour bus in England. The driver thought I was a thief; as it turned out, I had gotten back on the wrong bus!

MY WORST HABIT IS

putting kitchen utensils back in the wrong place.

MY BEST HABIT IS

making time for my daughter’s activities.

IF I COULD CHOOSE AN ACTOR TO PLAY MY LIFE, IT WOULD BE

The most unusual thing in my fridge is Ningxia Red Whole Body Nutrient Drink

MY FIRST JOB WAS

Spencer Tracy.

MY LAST ROAD TRIP WAS TO

Indiana.

THE LAST TIME I DID SOMETHING THAT SCARED ME WAS WHEN

working at a health food store next to the beach in Southern California.

I NEVER MET A

my parachute temporarily malfunctioned.

composer I didn't like.

MY FIRST CAR WAS A

IF I COULD BRING BACK ONE FASHION TREND, IT WOULD BE

I THINK RAP IS

Karman Ghia (VW).

WW2 leather flight jackets.

overrated.

IF CALORIES DIDN'T COUNT

WHEN I WAS A KID, I WANTED TO GROW UP TO BE A

I'd eat pasta every day.

test pilot (like Chuck Yeager).

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THE BEST WAY TO STAY COOL DURING AN ARKANSAS SUMMER IS TO

never go outside!

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Submit your events to editors@dosouthmagazine.com August 9-13 118th Annual Tontitown Grape Festival Tontitown tontitowngrapefestival.com The Tontitown Grape Festival has been an Arkansas tradition for more than 100 years! Homemade spaghetti, fried chicken, hot rolls, and tons of grapes are the hallmarks of this event. There are also arts and crafts, food vendors, carnival rides, and live music.

August 6 Fort Smith Boys Shelter Car Show & BBQ Fort Smith facebook.com/ boysshelterbenefit

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August 12-14 Eureka Springs Multi-Sport Festival eurekasportsfestival.com Don't miss this three-day multi-sport event which includes a sprint-distance triathlon on Friday afternoon, road bike tour rides and racing on Saturday, and morning and running races on Sunday.

The Boys Shelter of Fort Smith is hosting its first car show & BBQ at the Fort Smith Pavilion. Cool cars, barbeque, raffles, and a silent auction.

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TH August 12 7th Annual Petropolitan Fundraiser Fort Smith 479.648.8000 Enjoy Mexican fiesta-themed food, margaritas, wine and beer. Live music, auctions, and tons of fun.

Proceeds benefit Kitties and Kanines low-cost spay neuter clinic.

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13T H August 13 Blues Traveler Hot Springs magicsprings.com Blues Traveler, the band that started in New Jersey in 1987 and had hits like "Run-Around" and "Hook," will be playing at the Magic Springs Timberwood Amphitheatre.

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August 13-14 Band Wars 2016 Russellville valleymusicfest.com The KCBS BBQ Cook-off, food vendors, and two days of great music. Listen to some of the area's best bands as they compete to win $5,000 and open for Marshall Tucker Band and Kentucky Headhunters!

August 18-20 Bluegrass Festival Eureka Springs theaud.org

Great bluegrass performers from across the country! On Thursday, there's a watermelon social at Basin Park, and then on Friday and Saturday, free live music from noon until 5. On Friday and Saturday evenings, there are ticketed shows at The Auditorium.

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August 20 Teal Night in Tahiti Fort Smith rivervalleyoca.com Enjoy a night of great food, music and dancing. Jewelry drawings, games, silent auctions and more! Proceeds benefit the River Valley Ovarian Cancer Alliance.

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August 20 Buckin' In The Ozarks Springdale rodeooftheozarks.org Buckin’ In The Ozarks, an event that showcases some of the most promising rising stars in bull riding, alongside rookies and veterans, all trying to stay on for eight seconds.

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August 27 Sparks Kids' Triathlon Fort Smith 479.785.4677 Sparks Kids' Triathlon is for kids up to 14 years of age who like to swim, bike, and run. The event begins at the Marvin Altman Fitness Center pool, with the Bike & Run course on Lexington Avenue.

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The Unexpected

When first planning The Unexpected, we were curious what

words Claire Kolberg images courtesy Mike Bell and Martin Herlacher

and global. Along with each artist who visits Fort Smith comes

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role art could play in economic development and recasting the image of our city. The impact of The Unexpected is local their social media following in the thousands. Multiply that by seven artists, and it’s close to a million touches each time

September is almost here and with that brings The Unexpected

an artist posts about The Unexpected. During 2015’s project

curated by JustKids. For the second year in a row, global

our estimated international reach was two million, and we

eyes will be on Fort Smith, Arkansas for ten days as we bring

maintain an approximate reach of 15,000 + touches weekly

some of the most world-renowned artists to create innovative

via our own media. By creating an event that was public, we

works in downtown. Highlights for this year’s event, taking

removed any barriers to art to increase our impact. Anyone

place September 2-11, include a collaborative mural between

can enjoy The Unexpected at any time, and we provide an

Northside and Southside High Schools and art that will surprise

experience that allows both artist and spectator to interact,

in both location and execution.

creating a dynamic exchange.

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Research shows that investments in the arts boost a

lectured at UAFS providing an opportunity for both artist and

community’s quality of life, fostering education, innovation and

student alike to learn from each other. She completed her

more, and these are the cornerstones for recruiting, attracting

mural at Tenth and Rogers, bringing on UAFS art students as

and retaining people. The Unexpected is proud to partner with

her artist assistants. We also invited artist Li-Hill to complete an

area schools. For example, Spring Break 2016 saw the first-ever

immersive and interactive installation on the ground floor of

Future School of Fort Smith Spring Break App Academy where

the newly remodeled Friedman–Mincer building in downtown

local high school students created and designed the platform

Fort Smith. We are currently in planning for Spring 2017’s artist

on which The Unexpected mobile app is built.

residency program.

This past spring, The Unexpected expanded programming to

The continued activity downtown brings increased foot-

include an artist-in-residency program featuring Ana Maria, a

traffic for the avenue, restaurants, storefronts and more. In

returning artist from 2015. Our guiding question was simple:

2010, American’s for the Arts determined an individual in

how could our community inspire Ana Maria, and in turn, how

Arkansas spent approximately forty dollars on themselves per

could she inspire us? Ana Maria took a painting class and guest

art and culture event. This means each person who visits The

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community

Claire Kolberg photo credit: Jacob Slaton

Unexpected contributes to the Fort Smith economy. The more a community supports and creates a place for arts and culture, the more the economy will support new revenue for the city,

Claire Kolberg is the project manager at 64.6 Downtown where

job creation and overall quality of life. A vibrant community is a

she leads initiatives focused on the intersection of art and

community that not only survives but thrives. The building walls

economic development. Bringing over a decade of experience in

are the canvas on which we are painting our future.

artist and arts management, Kolberg organizes The Unexpected, which brings some of the most world-renowned urban artists

Fort Smith is seeing renewed growth and vitality. Downtown

to create innovative works in Arkansas.

merchants have, in partnership with 64.6 Downtown, created a downtown merchants association, and there are several new storefronts on Garrison Avenue. The Unexpected is proud to be one of the catalysts propelling a vibrant and innovative creative economy.

For more information about this year’s artists please visit unexpectedfs.com and be sure to follow us on Facebook and Instagram at www.facebook.com/unexpectedFS and @UnexpectedFS or email us at info@646downtown.com.

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GREENWOOD’S SEASON OF ENTERTAINMENT words Greenwood Public Schools with Malynda Sayers images courtesy Restless Heart and Maxwell Blade

Greenwood residents used to travel out of town to enjoy

Greenwood A&P Commission. The mission is to advance the

professional shows. But that was before the Performing Arts

Greenwood Public School’s role in the arts for education and

Center, which sits at the edge of the Greenwood High School

community entertainment.

campus, was constructed in 2004. Now, residents no longer need to leave town for entertainment. Also, those in the area

Assistant Superintendent Suzy Wilson says, “Our vision is to

are welcome to attend the performances, which is great for

recognize the Greenwood School District PAC as a venue for

everyone across the region!

a variety of educational, economical, and culturally diversified programs specifically for the community and Greenwood

The 2016-17 Season of Entertainment is supported by the

Public School students.”

Greenwood Public School Administration, Greenwood Education Foundation, Fine Arts Council of Educators (F.A.C.E.),

Malynda Sayers, third-grade teacher at East Pointe Elementary

Performing Arts Center Community Council (PACCC), and the

and PAC Season of Entertainment Coordinator, says, “We

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want professional shows to come to Greenwood.

We want to help our community economically.

But, most importantly, we want our students to be exposed to different forms of performing arts. A 'For the Kids' Education Series will present educational shows by professional artists during the school day.

Some of those artists are Maxwell Blade (magician), Stone Soup with the Arkansas Arts Center Children’s Theatre Tour, and Janet’s Planet!"

The Season of Entertainment not only includes professional

shows,

but

also

showcases

“GHS

Presents” (with the high school’s band, choir, and drama departments), along with their renowned Veterans Day Assembly.

Restless Heart kicks off the Season of Entertainment on Saturday, September 10 at 7pm. This American country band was popular in the 1980s and 1990s. Their songs include “When She Cries,” “Bluest Eyes in Texas,” “Why Does It Have to Be (Wrong or Right),” and “I’ll Still Be Loving You.” Individual show tickets for Restless Heart will go on sale Tuesday, August 16. The 2016Restless Heart

17 Season also includes magician Maxwell Blade, and “GHS Presents”-The Little Mermaid, The Willis Clan, The Legend of Johnny Cash, and Shades of Buble’.

Maxwell Blade

The

Greenwood

developed

and

Performing constructed

Arts by

Center

was

Guest-Reddick

Architects and Beshears Construction, Inc. under the approval of the Greenwood Public School Board of Education and Kay Johnson, Ed.D, Superintendent, the

Greenwood

Performing

Arts

Center

was

completed in 2004. The venue seats 1,287 audience members and was built on the site of Arl McConnell's Greenwood home. It is dedicated to his memory.

For more information about tickets and to learn about the Season of Entertainment Package Deal, contact the Greenwood Administration building at 479.996.4142. Tickets can be purchased at greenwoodk12.com or etix.com.

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community

Over the Edge

words Marla Cantrell images courtesy Donald W Reynolds Cancer Support House and Marla Cantrell

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Standing on the street across from First National Bank of

through treetops while tethered to harnesses. What she learned

Fort Smith, Arkansas, you have to crane your neck to see the

then was that doing something scary does all sorts of good

roofline of the eight-story, white brick building. This landmark

things for a person, and the sense of accomplishment lasts far

took a year to construct and has been in this spot on Garrison

longer than the actual experience does.

Avenue since 1910. As recognizable as the bank is, few have seen it from the rooftop. There is a record of a renowned tenor

Some time after, Susan came across Over the Edge, a special

singing there as a publicity stunt in September 1911, but other

events company founded in 2004 that goes into cities to

than that the roof's role has been largely utilitarian.

host rappelling events at high-rise buildings. Their goal when they began was to help non-profits raise 50 million dollars,

All that will change on October 15, as ninety people from the

something that could happen as soon as the end of this year.

community rappel down the face of First National. Before they step off the ledge, they will have raised at least one thousand

Once she'd checked out Over the Edge, she brought the idea

dollars each for the Donald W Reynolds Cancer Support House.

to the board, believing it would be the perfect addition to their twenty-fifth anniversary of the Survivors' Challenge Weekend

The idea surfaced as Susan Steffens, executive director for the

on October 14 and 15. "They probably thought I was crazy at

Cancer Support House, researched unique ways to raise funds

first," Susan says, and then laughs. But once they looked over

for the non-profit. She'd been part of Leadership Crawford

her proposal, they saw why she was excited about the prospect

County not long before, and they'd gone zip lining, scaling

of bringing something revolutionary to the city.

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Already, there are people who've signed up to rappel First

Susan says you don't need any prior experience to do it, just an

National and who've started fundraising campaigns through

eye for adventure and a heart for giving. She also knows that

the Cancer Support House's website. Each week more apply,

when the day ends, she and all those working so hard to raise

and Susan encourages anyone who wants to be part of Over

money for the Cancer Support House will have done their best.

the Edge to get started now. (You can find details on how to set up your personal page at the Support House's website.)

"We've been serving the community for thirty-eight years, and we're excited this event is bringing attention to the patients

"Don't be intimidated by the fundraising," Susan says. "Most

and caregivers we serve at no cost, and to the city we love."

donations are around twenty-five dollars, and you have plenty of time to raise a thousand dollars. Use Facebook, email, make calls."

Susan encourages everyone to get involved. Sign up to go Over the Edge or for the Survivors' Challenge 10K Grand Prix, 10K

Even if you don't have the nerve to rappel, there's a way to

Grand Prix, 5K Run/Walk, Celebration Walk and wheelchair race.

participate in an initiative called Toss Your Boss. Co-workers raise fifteen-hundred dollars and nominate their boss to rappel

Finally, if you aren't rappelling, you can show up downtown and

down 108 feet from the top of First National. There is an out,

cheer the "edgers" on. You'll be seeing history unfold on Garrison

though. Bosses may elect to buy their way out by paying five

Avenue, at one of the city's best-known landmarks. What a great

hundred dollars and assigning someone else to go Over the

way to spend a day in October. What an exciting way to support

Edge in their place.

our friends and families and neighbors who are dealing with cancer, who are much braver than any of us, even those who step

Susan is hoping to raise five thousand dollars for her turn at

off the ledge of First National, 108 feet above the ground, and

scaling the building. Even though the thought makes her heart

work their way down, step by step, to solid ground below.

race, she knows it's going to be a memory she'll treasure. Sam T. Sicard, the president and CEO of First National, is also going to harness up and take his turn. On a recent day, the fifthgeneration banker went to the rooftop to see what he was up against. It's been a long time since he rappelled, and that was on White Rock Mountain in Mulberry when he was a teen.

Susan says it should only take ten minutes for an "edger" to rappel down First National. Over the Edge technicians will be there, buckling everyone into full-body harnesses and giving instructions. The Fort Smith Fire Department will be on site all day on October 15, manning the ropes. And the Fort Smith Police Department will volunteer, along with many from the community. The first to rappel will start at nine in the morning, and Susan expects crowds of onlookers to gather along Garrison Avenue to watch.

"We're going to have a big screen TV and announcers that will call out who's rappelling down the building as it happens.

We're going to have a street festival with great food and music. It's going to be so much fun." Susan laughs. "We may have to use a split screen on that TV so we can also watch the Razorback game."

Over the Edge takes place on October 15. Register to participate, or nominate your boss for Toss Your Boss, at ReynoldsCancerSupportHouse.org or by calling 479.424.1812.

Volunteers are also needed, so if you can't participate in the events, consider donating your time!

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When Breath Becomes Air

By Paul Kalanithi | Random House | 208 pages | $25

review Louise Turner images courtesy Norbert von der Groeben, Gale Gettinger, Lucy Goddard Kalanithi, Team Draft (Chris Draft)

Of all the books I have read in

were married in 2006. Finally, it was

the past year or so, the one that

back to Stanford to do his residency

has touched me most deeply is

in neurosurgery and postdoctoral

When Breath Becomes Air by Paul

work in neuroscience.

Kalanithi. When I finished it the first time I immediately turned back to

He was thirty-six years old and

the first page and began reading

about

it again. It is the book I want all

his residency when he, who had

my friends to read, so we can talk

never smoked, was diagnosed with

about it. Hardly a day goes by that

Stage IV metastatic lung cancer.

I don’t think of it in some way. It is

He had already earned awards for

just that good.

research

a

year

from

projects,

completing

including

the

Academy of Neurological Surgery’s The author, the son of immigrants

highest award. He was known as a

from India, grew up in Kingman,

surgeon with exceptional skills and

Arizona. Although his father was a cardiologist and an older

dedication, as well as a compassionate heart. It was clear that

brother a neurosurgeon, he resisted the idea of becoming a

upon graduation he could just about take his pick of job offerings,

doctor himself and, because he loved literature, decided he would

including a professorship at Stanford. Now the future that had

become a writer. Later, while studying biology and literature at

been stretching out so brightly before him was condensed into a

Stanford, he realized he loved science just as much as literature

few months or, if he was lucky, a few years.

and began to consider becoming a neurosurgeon as the way he could best use his interests and skills in service to others. His

When he asked his oncologist how much time he had left, she

writing career could wait until he retired.

would give him no answer. Instead, she encouraged him to make the best use of his time by doing the things that mattered

After getting a degree at Stanford, he did post-graduate work at

most to him for as long as he was physically able. This was good

Cambridge studying history and philosophy of medicine. Then it

advice, although he writes: “The tricky part of illness is that, as

was on to Yale to study neurosurgery. At Yale, he met and fell in

you go through it, your values are constantly changing. You try

love with Lucy Goddard, who was also a medical student. They

to figure out what matters to you, and then you keep figuring it

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out. ..You may decide you want to spend your time working as

concerned about Lucy having to raise their child by herself. Yet

a neurosurgeon, but two months later you may feel differently.

they had a loving support group of family and friends and it

Two months after that, you may want to learn the saxophone or

finally was their decision to go ahead. Elizabeth Acadia “Cady”

devote yourself to the church. Death may be a one-time event,

Kalanithi was born on July 4, 2014, several months before her

but living with terminal illness is a process.”

father would die on March 9, 2015.

When Breath Becomes Air was partially written so that Cady could get to know more about her father. Paul Kalanithi ends his book with these words for her to read someday: “When you come to one of the many moments in life where you must give an account of yourself, provide a ledger of what you have been, and done, and meant to the world, do not, I pray, discount that you filled a dying man’s days with a sated joy, a joy unknown to me in all my prior years, a joy that does not hunger for more and more but rests, satisfied. In this time, right now, that is an enormous thing.”

His wife, Lucy, provides an epilogue. She is herself an eloquent writer as well as a clinical instructor in medicine at Stanford.

She, too, has words for Cady: “When someone dies, people tend to say great things about him. Please know that all the

There would be no retirement years to dedicate to writing, so

wonderful things people are saying now about your dad are

in the months that followed he began When Breath Becomes

true. He really was that good and that brave.” And she ends

Air in which he speaks frankly about death and dying, offering

with these words to the reader: “Paul’s decision to look death

the unique perspective of one who is both a terminally ill

in the eye was a testament not just to who he was in the final

patient and a doctor. Yet it isn’t his account of death and

hours of his life but who he had always been. For much of his

dying that made his book so special to me, that inspired and

life, Paul wondered about death—and whether he could face

touched me most; it is the living that he did during the short

it with integrity. In the end, the answer was yes. I was his wife

time left to him.

and a witness.”

Because he was passionate about neurosurgery and saw it as his

I felt I had lost a friend when Paul Kalanithi died. I mourned

calling, completing his residency and graduating became one

for his family, I mourned for all the patients who would not

of his goals. The hours were long and grueling even for a healthy person, let alone one whose body was failing him, and sometimes his pain was so great that he would secretly lie on the floor and cry. These words of Samuel Beckett became his mantra: “I can’t go on. I’ll go on.”

He did graduate, although on graduation day he was too sick to attend the ceremony.

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receive

his

skilled

and

compassionate care, and, selfishly, I mourned that he would not write another book. But he will live on through this one book.

And, oh my, what a lot of living he packed into his

thirty-eight

years.

This is the lesson I, who inexplicably

have

been

given so many more years than he, take away from his book: each morning when I wake up I am reminded of what a precious gift of life I have been given. I thank God for this gift and I ask that He will help me use it to bring honor and glory to Him and show me ways to use it in service to others. That’s the way Paul Kalanithi lived his life. I want to be like him.

About Book Lover, Louise Turner "I was born and raised in Fort Smith, and although I’ve enjoyed living other places from time to time, this is home. I feel I was born loving books and reading, but, of course that isn’t quite true. Miss Irmgard Koch, my wonderful teacher during second and third grades at First Lutheran School, gets a great deal of the credit for that. Not only did she teach the necessary reading skills, but also shared her own passion for reading with us. Miss Koch was also the one who took our class to the public library and saw that we each got a library card.

Little did I know back then that one day I would be a librarian myself, inviting children to enjoy all the riches the Fort Smith Public Library offered them, just as I was once welcomed. It was my joy to serve as children’s librarian for thirty-eight years before retiring in 2007. I am very grateful that I didn’t have to give up all the fun of being a children’s librarian when I retired, but still get to do story times at our Windsor Branch Library every Monday morning. I am blessed!" ~Louise

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APPLE

OF MY EYE words and images Catherine Frederick adapted from Sally’s Baking Addiction

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An apple a day keeps the homework

METHOD

away. OK, that’s supposed to be “keeps the doctor away,” but why not gift a little sweetness and try it with teachers? It’s almost that time of year again, and before we know it, our kiddos will be back in school. Let their teachers know from Day 1 just how

In medium pan, melt sugar over medium heat, swirling the pot frequently but don’t stir. Be patient, the sugar will melt! Swirl pot frequently so as not to burn.

much we appreciate them and all they do by gifting them this delicious treat of homemade salted caramel sauce, with apples for dipping!

MATERIALS •

Mason Jars

•

Ribbon

•

Gift Wrap

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Apples (Red Delicious and Granny Smith)

•

Gift tag (optional)

INGREDIENTS

As soon as the sugar melts into a deep amber-colored liquid, add the butter. (CAUTION – mixture will bubble when butter is added.)

Whisk like crazy until all butter has melted.

Remove from heat. Slowly add cream. (CAUTION – mixture will bubble and rise when cream is added.) Whisk like crazy again!

(makes 2 cups) •

2 cups sugar

•

12 Tablespoons unsalted butter,

cubed and room temperature •

1 cup heavy cream, room temperature

•

1 teaspoon sea salt

Once cream is combined, whisk in sea salt. Mixture will be thin! Set aside for 10 -15 minutes before pouring into jars.

Pour into mason jars and let cool. Add gift tag or ribbon if using.

Sauce will keep in refrigerator for 2 weeks.

Tips: Make sure your butter and cream are at room temperature!

Whisk in the sea salt immediately after the cream or it may not completely dissolve.

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THE BATTLE FOR Beckham words Marla Cantrell Images courtesy Natalie Prescott

Natalie has found solace in her family's struggle, something incredible to consider. "This isn't the life I had planned for myself or for my kids, and it wouldn't be the life I would have chosen for Beckham.

But you can either let it get the best of you, or you can make the best of it. And that's what we do."

S

Something was wrong. That was the thought that troubled Natalie

Arkansas. Beckham seemed to sleep a lot more than her older son,

Prescott in 2012, in the days and weeks and months that followed

Hudson, had at the same age. It also seemed as if Beckham wasn't

the birth of her second son, Beckham. There had been problems

interacting as much as she thought he should.

during his delivery, and he'd stayed in the neonatal intensive care unit for more than a week. At two months of age, he was

Babies develop at their own pace, and Beckham had the

diagnosed with clubfoot, a condition that causes the foot to turn at

disadvantage of spending more than a month in casts that covered

an awkward angle.

his feet and legs. That might have explained what Natalie was seeing, and she says that was the consensus, but she couldn't get

Beckham was fitted with casts and wore them for six weeks.

rid of the feeling that there was more going on.

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At nine months, he was not yet sitting up on his own. He was

"For whatever reason."

crawling, but Army-style, pulling himself with his right arm and

Those three words, for

tucking his left arm underneath his small chest. Concern enveloped

whatever reason, seem

Natalie and Beckham's dad, Jason, at that point. Still, there was

to take something out of

no definitive diagnosis. For a while, it seemed as if Beckham

her, although she recovers

might have cerebral palsy since he exhibited many of the signs.

quickly. "He's a little

He started going to physical therapy at eleven months, and Natalie

fighter, and people say

says his results were puzzling. Some days, he seemed to be making

I'm stubborn, but he's

progress and then he'd digress, which was not typical of cerebral

really stubborn!" she says.

palsy. "He might take several steps at one session, and then the

"He works so hard to try to

next time, he'd only be able to take one or two," Natalie says.

do the things his brother and older sister do."

This sent her looking for answers. "I'd stay up until three in the

Beckham & Corbin McCarthy

morning almost every night, researching, trying to figure out what

She is telling her story from

was going on."

the

Ronald

McDonald

House in Durham, North Carolina. Her parents, along with Jason, During those sleepless nights, Natalie had come across websites

and Beckham's sister Avery have come for a visit, and Natalie is happy

about a rare genetic disorder called Pelizaeus-Merzbacher Disease

to have them nearby. Nearly one hundred days before, Beckham

(PMD), and she wondered if Beckham might have it. PMD belongs

underwent stem cell therapy at Duke Children's Hospital after eight

to a group of genetic disorders called leukodystrophies and leads

days of chemo. In the wake of the treatment, he had to have blood

to aberration and damage in the white matter of the brain and

transfusions, which is not uncommon, but frightening none the less.

spinal cord. It shows up in only one in 500,000, and right now there's not a cure. In most cases, symptoms begin in the first year

Beckham is doing incredibly well, Natalie says, and he is being

of life with diminished muscle tone, poor coordination, involuntary

monitored closely. If all goes as planned, Natalie adds, the stem cells

eye movements, and delayed motor development.

could stabilize the disease and prevent further damage.

At Arkansas Children's Hospital in July 2015, test results confirmed

Back at home those who love Beckham, along with those who've

her suspicion. "For a long time we were afraid we'd never get a

only heard his story, have been donating money and attending

diagnosis, so it was kind of a relief, but it was heartbreaking.

fundraisers, something that is essential due to the costs the family has incurred and will continue to incur.

"They told us this happens at conception and that there's absolutely nothing we could have done to cause this. I had been worrying,

On this day, nearly 17,000 people are watching Beckham's progress

wondering if I'd taken something I shouldn't have when I was

on his Facebook page, Join Team Beckham. Recently, Natalie posted

pregnant. I was thinking, Did I take something for my sinuses?

a video of him walking down the hall of the hospital. His immune

Could that be it? When they named the disease, that mother's

system is still weak, so he's wearing a mask over his mouth and

guilt went away, but my heart was broken.

nose. His gait is a bit unstable, but he's moving fast, holding his small hands together. He looks like he's on a mission.

Natalie says she underwent testing to see if she was a carrier of PMD. The tests came back negative. Her understanding is that the

"Beckham wants to play football one day," Natalie says, "and I

disease just spontaneously started with Beckham, in their family line.

know he will," Natalie says. That dream has gotten even bigger since

After she says this, she pauses for a few seconds. And then she says,

he's been In North Carolina. Two Duke University football players,

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Corbin McCarthy and Ben Humphries, have

and tugging on the shorts with the other. Tears

taken Beckham and Hudson under their wings.

were rolling down my face. I realized how

The boys can attend games and go out on the

much I used to take for granted.

field with the team before play begins.

"There are days," she says, "when I'm not Natalie talks about what a blessing the two

happy-go-lucky. Sometimes reality just slaps

young men have been. And then she says,

me in the face. It gets hard sometimes to watch

"I want Beckham to have a long and happy

your kid not be able to do things that should

life, and I believe he will. From the beginning,

be easy. Hudson just turned six. God knew

we've let him do what he can for himself, and

what He was doing making him Beckham's

we've let him try to do things he can't. When

older brother. Hudson is amazing with him.

he needs my help, I'm right there for him, but

And it doesn't bother him that he missed

I've never treated him like he has a disability.

out on T-ball this year. He missed out on a

I stay positive about ninety-nine percent of

lot of things. They both have. But he doesn't

the time. There's nothing I won't do for him.

complain. I've asked Hudson if he wants to go

If there's somewhere I can take him that will

home so he can see his friends and play ball

help, I'll take him."

and he says, 'No, I'm not leaving my bubba.'"

That determination took her to Florida last fall

Natalie pauses again, overcome by the bond

where he underwent an intensive three-week

between her young sons.

round of physical therapy. He even wore a device whose concept came from the suits

"I'm so grateful to our family and friends and

astronauts wore when they came back from

to the community for all they're doing for

outer space and needed to learn to walk on

Beckham. We've been watching videos of

Earth again. It helped so much, she hopes to

the fundraising that has been going on. (In

take him back yearly.

July, there was a fundraiser at Crawpappy's in

She's been to Utah, where she met with a

Beckham & Hudson

Alma called Battle for Beckham.) It just melts my heart to know how people are coming together. I can't put it into words how I feel.

neurologist studying white matter diseases.

There are some families here who don't have

"He told me that right now they didn't have anything available to help PMD kids, but that two years from now

that support system, and it's tough. Our pastor from Butterfield

we could be having a very different conversation."

Assembly of God in Van Buren even flew here on the day Beckham was admitted. We feel so very blessed."

That hope is one of the things that keep her going. On his Facebook page, pictures show him with his mom and dad. With

Natalie has found solace in her family's struggle, something

his sister and brother. With his grandparents. His eyes are dark

incredible to consider. "This isn't the life I had planned for myself

pools of joy. His smile shines like the sun. He is a bright and quick

or for my kids, and it wouldn't be the life I would have chosen for

and curious little boy.

Beckham. But you can either let it get the best of you, or you can make the best of it. And that's what we do. We've met amazing

That smile is one of Natalie's favorite things about him. And then

people. In four years, Beckham has taught me more than I've ever

there's his tenacity. "One day, I watched him put his shorts on, and

learned in my entire life. He changed my perspective, and he's taught

it took him maybe fifteen minutes, and when he finished, they were

me how to live. He works hard, and he doesn't give up. When you

on backwards but I didn't care. I let him wear them like that all day.

go through something like this, you look back at things you thought

He was not going to stop until he got them on. He was huffing

were a big deal before and things you might have fought about,

and puffing and holding his balance against a chair with one hand

and you realize those things are minor, and not worth it.

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"I still make mistakes daily. I'm by far not a perfect person, but I'm a better person than I used to be, and I'm a better mom because of what I've learned. I thank God every day for blessing me with my kids and my family, and having a strong group of friends and church family. Sometimes, if I'm wondering if God's forgotten me, He'll do something to show me he hasn't.

In four years, Beckham has taught me more than I've ever learned in my entire life. He changed my perspective, and he's taught me how to live. He works hard, and he doesn't give up. When you go through something like this, you look back at things you thought were a big deal before and things you might have fought about, and you realize those things are minor, and not worth it.

"I know people are praying for Beckham, and we're so

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thankful for that, and we believe prayer works. But if they could pray for all the other kiddos here, I would appreciate that. Before this happened with Beckham, I knew there were kids who were sick and families who were hurting. But you don't always realize until you're here, and you actually see it, what it's like. Just pray for those who've lost kids, and for the kids who are still fighting for their lives."

On August 2, from 5-8, Bites for Beckham, sponsored by the Fort Smith Fraternal Order of Police Lodge 39, will take place at the Fort Smith Convention Center.

Then Natalie says, "Beckham has already touched more lives than you and I ever will.

The statement is true and pure. She thinks a lot about what life will be like as he grows older. When she sees his future, she sees him run onto the football field, the happiest kid on the team. She has no doubt that it will happen. And when it does, she'll be cheering louder than anyone else, this mom who would do anything in the world for her precious little boy.

On August 11 -13, at Bargains Galore on 64, you can support Beckham by shopping at their station at the Community Center in Dyer. You can also pre-order smoked ribs and pulled pork that you can pick up on Saturday, August 13.

To order, visit https://form.jotform.com/61946783815166.

For more on both these events, and to keep track of Beckham's journey, visit Join Team Beckham on Facebook.

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Where

I'm

From words Jessica Sowards images Jeremiah Sowards

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people

A million years ago, or maybe only thirteen,

tracks, I figured out that most people do not have an inner dialogue

I sat in a senior high school class with a

describing life around them in flowery, poetic phrases.

teacher who taught creative writing. She was challenging, young, and a bit dry in the humor

I don’t have a copy of anything I wrote in that class. I don’t even

department. She taught about storytelling,

remember the teacher's name, as I only went to the school for a

and I learned from her. I soaked up what she

semester before I asked my parents if I could come home and face

said about painting word pictures.

the life I’d run from. I didn’t really realize at the time, how influential she had actually been, but now, I am a writer. I am a storyteller. And

I had moved to a new town for my last year of

though I can look at a long line of teachers and family and friends

high school, out of my parents’ house and in

who encouraged the gift in me, that nameless teacher was the one

with family 120 miles away from home. I had

pouring into me when I realized, “This is not to be wasted.”

no interest in building a grand social calendar.

I was largely running away and largely hiding,

I honestly had forgotten about her, the teacher. I’d forgotten

but, without meaning to, I was also finding

about the assignment and about the way the train tracks moved

myself. I was learning to see the fingerprints

me to realization. Then a few weeks ago, I woke up very early

of God on my life. As I look back, I remember

on a Saturday. The world outside my window was still dark, and

sitting at a desk in the back of that teacher’s

everyone in the house was still dreaming. My arm hurt. It was

class and waking up to who He had made me

covered in ointment and the start of a new tattoo that spans from

to be, however rudimentary the knowledge

wrist to shoulder. I do not like sudden change and the tattoo, as

was at eighteen years old.

much as I love it, was a very sudden change. I felt a little unsettled and a lot tired, so I started to pray. And in that deep-down

Every morning, I would drive to my uncle’s

somewhere, the hidden place called my spirit where God speaks

house and ride to school with my cousins. As

in a whisper, a question rose. Who are you?

I passed over the train tracks that stood just before their street, the commentary in my

I’m thirty. Young, really. Young enough to remember clearly when

mind would say, “Her silver car, shining in

thirty seemed old but old enough to forget things that once changed

the morning light, lumbered over the retired

me. But on that early Saturday morning, praying in the dark with my

tracks, knocking loose the sleep in her eyes

arm throbbing, I felt an assignment from The Teacher. As I lay there

and jostling her to attention." Those tracks

pondering the question, I suddenly remembered that lesson from so

would speak, like a mother waking up a child

long ago. I began, again, to collect the I-Am-Froms, thinking I would

with their soft Clang-Clunk, “It’s time to wake

just write them for myself and for God, for He and I alone to have.

up, girl. It’s time to turn on the smile.”

A lot of the things I share were originally written for God and I remember that little excerpt and the way it

myself. That’s just how it works sometimes. This is a little different,

would roll through my whirring mind every

though. I’m not just sharing this for the sake of sharing. I’m here

single morning until one day, prompted by the

to give you an assignment.

storytelling teacher, I wrote it down. Around the same time, she gave an assignment entitled

I don’t know where you'll come across this article, perhaps on a

“Where I’m From,” and she told us to develop

computer screen in your busy living room, in Do South Magazine

the main character of our own story. “You,”

in a waiting room, or on your phone while you stand in line at the

she said, “I want you to tell me who you are by

grocery store. But wherever you are, it is a classroom. Because really,

telling me what you came from.”

life is always a classroom if we will look at it as such. And whoever you are, I’d like to challenge you to this assignment. Tell me who you

As I worked on the I-Am-From assignment and

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I’ll go first. Then you go. Find a paper and a pencil and write it

that collect dust under the bed. I am from a viral blog post and a

down. Because even if your brain isn’t whirring with a constant,

magazine called Do South that said, “We like your voice.”

poetic commentary, you can still write your own story. You don’t have to be a writer to tell who you are, because only you really

I am from dancing in the kitchen and singing to Jesus at the top

know. Only you can really say what you are from.

of my lungs. I am from not believing in coincidence. I am from the fingerprints of God. I am from pain made lovely by the big picture. I

Me? I am from small-town Arkansas and from big-world dreams. I

am from redemption. I am from a wildly beautiful life.

am from a broken family covered by grace. I am from a childhood And you? What about you? Would you take this assignment

diagnosis and a miraculous healing.

and let it change you? Maybe it’s just for you. Maybe it’s for I am from a farm that I prayed for and chickens in the yard. I am

God. But maybe it’s to share, to ask someone else the question,

from a kitchen full of cast iron and fried chicken and greens. I am

“Who are you?” Because if you’ll ponder the question, you will

from a big, wild garden with tall corn stalks and overtaking weeds.

wonder the answer.

I am from fear taught to hope and anxiety taught to be still.

And if you figure out what and where you come from, you will be I am from remarriage and loving again. I am from an extended

able to say, “This is who I am.”

family so loud they make the earth shake at Thanksgiving. I am from a little brother who grew up to make tattoos and a sister who has the world’s coolest dog.

I am from a mother who throws her head back when she laughs.

I am from a father who was the first to tell me I could be a writer if I wanted to.

I am from the altar of God. I am from intimacy with King Jesus. I am from Scripture that sings over me.

I am from a camera on my bedside table. I am from the birth room, where I learned to photograph the first moments of life.

I am from running away and then going home again. I am from being poor and learning to be content. I am from learning about The Provider and from always having enough. I am from obedience. I am from following Him. I am from leading the way.

I am from adventures, from plane trips and ministering in places I never dreamed of being. I am from always being ready to go home.

I am from motherhood that started early. I am from my five sons and my one daughter. I am from tiny hands and sweet smiles that wake me up every morning. I am from tremendous love.

I am from the classroom of life, from finding lessons in the morning

Follow Jessica on her blog

moments spent awake in the dark. I am from an open laptop and

@thehodgepodgedarling.blogspot.com

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BGO Gardener April Price assists a BGO Garden Bud with harvesting potatoes.

Just one of the BGO Vegetable and Herb Garden’s raised beds during the summer!

August in the Garden words Megan Lankford, Lead Gardener, Botanical Gardens of the Ozarks images courtesy Botanical Gardens of the Ozarks

THE DIRT:

By this time of year your garden should be a veritable cornucopia. Vine ripened tomatoes languidly dangling on the vine, peppers as sweet as the flowers they grew from, and so much corn that it’s coming out your ears! This superabundance doesn’t have to end, as August is your last chance to get fall vegetables started.

TIPS:

August doesn’t seem like the right time to sow seeds for your fall/winter garden, but it is! Not only can you get one last round of corn, beans, squash, and melons planted, but you can also get the last of your cool season vegetables started. Vegetables such as quickly maturing cabbage, bok choi, lettuce, and arugula can all be sown in flats in dappled shade. The shade helps keep the seeds cool enough to germinate, and the seedlings from bolting.

YOU CAN PLANT: beans

carrots

cucumbers

peas

spinach

squash

bok choy

cabbage

pac choi

cover crop of peas and oats

beets

kale

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Get the Facts on

Going Greek

words Sara Carter, UAFS Alum images courtesy Rachel Putman, UAFS Photographer and Shannon Garcia, Greek Life and Leadership Programs Coordinator

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In 2006, Greek Life came to University of Arkansas Fort Smith

Members must also complete study hours, maintain a grade

(UAFS) and is still going strong today. Greek Life at UAFS is

point average (GPA) that maintains their status of good

full of capable, intelligent, and compassionate students who

standing, attend meetings, and participate in their community.

strive to positively impact their community, campus, and each

The academic expectation standard set forth by the University

other. When those students graduate, they take what they

is a 2.30. Currently, all fraternity and sorority members at

learned from their time in Greek Life with them and maintain

UAFS are in good academic standing with the University and

the friendships they made. Members of Greek Life refer to

their respective councils. The cumulative Greek GPA this past

their fellow members as their “brothers” or “sisters” and for

term was a 3.01.

many, their organization becomes their second family. Greek Life provides a place where students can not only be social but

There are three Panhellenic sororities, four Interfraternal Council

also push themselves to become better people, all while being

(IFC) fraternities, and one Multicultural sorority at UAFS. The

accepted and supported by those around them.

Panhellenic sororities are Alpha Omicron Pi, Delta Gamma, and Gamma Phi Beta. The reason these sororities are referred

Often, sorority and fraternity membership are characterized

to this way is that while they are separate from each other,

as exclusive, but at UAFS and campuses nationwide, Greek

the Panhellenic Council represents all of these sororities and

Life is open to all students, regardless of their race, religious

provides unity among them. The sororities and fraternities at

background, or socioeconomic background. Hazing and

UAFS and other college campuses are called “chapters” because

underage drinking are also concerns for potential members and

each of them is part of an encompassing Greek organization,

their parents. Parents’ and incoming students’ minds can be

much like chapters are part of a larger book.

put at ease, though, because these actions are not tolerated at UAFS. If an organization, Greek or otherwise, is hazing its

If you are interested in learning more about Greek Life at the

members, they will face serious consequences, no matter if they

University of Arkansas-Fort Smith, you may visit the campus

were on or off campus. They are not allowed to serve alcohol

website, or may go to the official websites of each sorority and

at their official functions and could be penalized if drinking

fraternity on campus. Sorority Recruitment will take place on the

occurs. These rules encompass all organizations on campus and

UAFS campus from September 1-4, and Fraternity Recruitment

are not limited to Greek Life. It's important to these sororities

will be from September 12-17.

and fraternities that their members enjoy themselves and build relationships with each other, and are safe while doing so.

Recruitment itself is also something of a mystery to potential new members. Recruitment is a time when potential new members meet current collegiate members of each Greek organization, learn about Greek Life, and make a decision about where they best fit. A potential new member may choose not to join a sorority or fraternity without negative consequences. Additionally, if a student decides to join a chapter, there is a period when they are considered a “new member,” before initiation when they may decide that they do not want to officially join the organization, and are not penalized for that decision. Members of a sorority or fraternity are members for life unless they choose to withdraw from the organization after they are initiated.

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The sororities on campus are Alpha Omicron Pi, Delta Gamma,

The fraternities on campus are Kappa Alpha, Kappa Sigma, Pi

Gamma Phi Beta, and Gamma Eta Sorority.

Kappa Phi, and Sigma Nu.

Upsilon Beta chapter of Alpha Omicron Pi

Kappa Alpha

• Symbol: The Général Jacqueminot Rose

• Core Values: Reverence, Gentility, Service, Leadership,

• Color: Cardinal Red

Knowledge, Perseverance, and Excellence

• Core Values: Simplicity, Integrity, Tolerance, Generosity,

• National Philanthropy: Muscular Dystrophy Association

Personal Dignity, and Love

• Local Philanthropy: Highway Cleanup and Children’s Shelter

• Motto: “Unity and Balance”

• Philanthropy Event: Children’s Shelter Egg Hunt

• Mission: “Women Enriched through Lifelong Friendship” • National Philanthropy: The Arthritis Foundation

Kappa Sigma

• Local Philanthropy: Project Compassion

• Core Values: Fellowship, Leadership, Scholarship, and Service

• Philanthropy Event: Strike Out Arthritis

• National Philanthropy: Military Heroes Campaign • Local Philanthropy: Bost

The Eta Omicron Chapter of Delta Gamma

• Philanthropy Event: Polar Bear Plunge

• Symbol: The Hannah Doll and the Anchor • Colors: Bronze, Pink, and Blue

Pi Kappa Phi

• Core Values: Sisterhood, Scholarship, Leadership, and Service

• Core Values: Character, Leadership, Achievement,

• Motto: “Do Good”

Scholarship, and Service

• Mission: “For Hope, For Strength, For Life”

• National Philanthropy: The Ability Experience

• National Philanthropy: Service for Sight

• Local Philanthropy: Special Olympics

• Local Philanthropy: Joining Forces

• Philanthropy Events: Push Week and Push Fair

• Philanthropy Event: Anchor Slam and Anchor Splash Sigma Nu The Zeta Phi Chapter of Gamma Phi Beta

• Core Values

• Symbol: Crescent Moon

- To develop ethical leaders inspired by the principles of

• Colors: Brown, Light Brown, Pink

Love, Honor, and Truth

• Core Values: “Love, Labor, Learning, and Loyalty”

- To foster the personal growth of each man’s mind,

• Motto: “Founded Upon a Rock”

heart, and character

• Mission: “To Inspire the Highest Type of Womanhood.”

- To perpetuate lifelong friendships and commitment

• National Philanthropy: Campfire USA and Girls on the Run

to the fraternity

• Local Philanthropy: Girls, Inc.

• National Philanthropy: St. Jude Children Research Hospital

• Philanthropy Event: Crescent Classic

• Local Philanthropy: Women’s Crisis Center of Fort Smith • Philanthropy Event: Sigma Nu St. Jude Breakaway 5K

Gamma Eta Sorority Inc. • The first Multicultural Greek Organization at UAFS. • Motto: “Hoy y Siempre” (Today and Always) • Philanthropy: The Prevention of Physical, Emotional, and Sexual Abuse Against Women.

• Symbols: Sun, Sunflower, and Fleur de Lis • Colors: Purple and Teal

Information about sorority and fraternity chapters accessed at campuslife.uafs.edu. Information concerning alcohol, hazing, chapter sizes and academic expectations provided by Shannon Garcia, UAFS Greek Life and Leadership Programs Coordinator.

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A HOUSE IS NOT A HOME words Stoney Stamper images courtesy April Stamper

...to me, it was perfect. My safe place. My happy place.

And still to this day, when I think about my home, I think of that little brick house on Murphy Road.

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Let me back up a little bit. I grew up in a great home. We were your normal little happy family of five from middle America. We had a three bedroom, two bath house just across the pasture from both sets of grandparents. Aunts, uncles, and cousins lined both sides of Murphy Road in both directions. We were a close family, and Murphy, Oklahoma was our home. A great home.

It’s funny the things that we remember from our childhood. When I think of that little house, even though I haven’t lived there in twenty years, I can still hear the screech of the woodstove doors as my dad loaded it up with firewood before we all went to bed.

Sometimes, in the middle of the night, I’d hear my mom try to open the stove quietly so she could add more firewood without waking anyone up.

And if you went into the bedroom that I shared with my brother, you could look at the trim around the door frame and see how tall I was every year since I was six years old. Nearly every good memory I have as a child is in that house. No, in that home. My parents worked very hard to give me, my sister, and my brother a happy home. And they nailed it. Looking back on it now, it wasn’t the nicest house I'd ever been in. It had its quirks. It had this ugly blue linoleum in the kitchen and dining room for years.

The toilet made some really funny sounds. And we didn’t finish the back patio for a long time, so it had concrete blocks stacked up to the backdoor doubling as steps. The funny thing is, I didn’t notice any of those things as a kid. I only notice them now, looking back. It never crossed my mind that it wasn’t the nicest home in town, because, to me, it was perfect. My safe place. My happy place. And still to this day, when I think about home, I think of that little brick house on Murphy Road.

In 1997, I left for college, and I never really came back. I began my

S

own journey and lived on my own. In college, I lived in dorms. And

Several years ago, April bought me a small sign for my office that

then upgraded to a nicer duplex on a golf course where I split the

said, “Never be so busy making a living, that you forget to make a

rent with three others. It wasn’t a mansion, but for a nineteen-

life.” I can’t imagine a more fitting adage for yours truly. I spent a

year-old kid trying to figure out what he wanted to do with his

dozen years doing precisely what that small wooden sign told me

life, 125 West Golf Drive in Stillwater, Oklahoma, seemed like a

not to. I spent all of my time, all of my life, chasing the almighty

pretty damn good start. From there, I moved to an apartment on

dollar. I was so consumed with becoming successful, that I never

the lake in Cleveland, and then finally, I bought my first house.

even realized my life was passing me by. But thankfully, one day

It was a small farm just around the corner from my parents and

April came along, dragging two little girls behind her, and they

grandparents. It was a cute little house, and I was proud of it. That

changed my world. They changed everything I thought I knew

year, I also took a new job that required me to travel. And I traveled

about life. And they also introduced me to what would become

a lot. It was not uncommon for me to be gone 250+ days per year.

my favorite simple pleasure. Coming home.

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spent in airports, hotels, and the driver's seat of rental cars. During that time, I moved often. I moved to Florida and had a beautiful condo on the beach. It had three balconies overlooking the Gulf Coast. I was single then. My only companion my old Australian Shepherd named Doc. From there, I moved to Richmond, Virginia, and still I traveled the country—on the road seven days out of ten.

I bought a beautiful house in a little town outside of Richmond named Midlothian. It was in a great neighborhood with good people all around. The house was beautiful. But as I'm oft to do, after about five years there, I packed up and headed back to Oklahoma, only to buy another house there. Another beautiful house. Again, I was fairly proud of it, but as with all the others, there was something missing. They were all beautiful houses. I made many improvements on them, built new decks and patios, put in new tile floors. I liked the houses, but I never had the feeling that I had when I was in that little brick house on Murphy Road.

This is the point in this story when April and the girls come in. April and I had known each other since childhood, had reconnected, started dating and then later, decided to get married. April had two daughters, Abby and Emma, so I was now going to be a family man. And a good family man can’t travel 250+ days per year. So I took a job in Texas that wouldn’t require me to travel anymore.

Yes, it was a terribly difficult decision to move our family, but ultimately, we felt it was best for us.

When we decided to buy a new house, finding one with land and

pretty nice. At the very least, I’m no longer embarrassed to have

a barn for the horses was pretty sparse. But April found one. It

company over. But most important, this house has the one thing I

had seven good acres, a four-stall barn with a tack room, and a

had been looking for, for more than twenty years. When I walk in

nice sized arena built out of solid pipe. That sounds great, huh?

that door at the end of a long workday, I set my briefcase down.

Well, yes and no. The house was a fixer-upper. Fences needed

Our youngest daughter Gracee runs to me with her arms open

to be built, and the barn needed new siding. It was a project.

wide, Abby and Emma tell me funny stories about their day, and

But once we were done with it, the value of the property would

April stands at the end of the line, waiting to give me a kiss and

double, at least. To us, it was worth the sacrifice. We went for it,

welcome me home. Man, there's no better feeling on this earth.

and for two years now, we have worked. We have tried to put as

And yes, that’s right. I said home. A house is not necessarily a

much sweat equity as we could into this house, and it’s turned out

home. I have had lots of houses. But this is my home.

Stoney Stamper is the author of the popular parenting blog, The Daddy Diaries. He and his wife April have three daughters: Abby, Emma and Gracee. Originally from northeast Oklahoma, the Stampers now live in Tyler, Texas. For your daily dose of The Daddy Diaries, visit Stoney on Facebook or on his website, thedaddydiaries.net.

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Cake, Confit, and Chefs in the Garden Words Catherine Frederick recipe courtesy Case Dighero, Honorary Chair, BGO 2016 Chefs in the Garden images Cole Fennel Photography

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one,

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this month, courtesy of Case Dighero, Honorary Chair for the Botanical Garden of the Ozarks Chefs in the Garden 2016, in Fayetteville, Arkansas! First up is a Valencia Orange - Olive Oil Cake. This citrus, olive oil, rosemary combination of sweet and savory will make your taste buds go wild!

And, for those of us who love garlic, the

2015 Chefs in the Garden: Guests enjoying the Botanical Garden of the Ozarks, great food, drinks, music and great company at the 2015 Chefs in the Garden.

next recipe, Ozark Garlic Confit will add flavor to lots of dishes. It's also perfect on a toasted baguette!

Finally, mark your calendars for the 2016 Chefs in the Garden event at the Botanical Garden of the Ozarks on September 13 from 6:00-8:30pm. Stroll through the gorgeous gardens while watching some of the area's finest chefs demonstrate their cooking techniques, then sample their scrumptious creations while sipping premium drinks.

Ticket sales close on Sunday, September 11 at midnight, so get yours early! Visit bgozarks.org for pricing and details.

The 2016 Chefs in the Garden Honorary Chair, Case Dighero.

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valencia orange - olive oil cake INGREDIENTS

METHOD

FOR TOPPING

1. Heat oven to 350°.

° 1/4 cup butter

2. Place butter in the center of a 9-inch cast iron skillet or cake pan and set in the

° 2/3 cup light brown sugar

oven. Leave the skillet or pan in the oven for a few minutes, and remove it as soon

° 1 Valencia orange (sliced thin)

as the butter melts. Manipulate the pan so that the butter coats the entire

bottom of the pan.

FOR CAKE

3. Sprinkle light brown sugar over the top of the melted butter, breaking up any large

° zest of 2 large Valencia oranges

° 1 cup granulated sugar

4. In a large mixing bowl, combine orange zest and sugar and rub with your fingers

° 1/2 cup buttermilk

until it looks like wet sand. Whisk in buttermilk, orange juice, and eggs until

° 3 Tablespoons orange juice

evenly combined.

° 3 eggs

5. In a second bowl, combine flour, minced rosemary, baking powder, baking

° 1 3/4 cup all-purpose flour

° 2 Tablespoons fresh rosemary, minced

6. Add dry ingredients to wet ingredients in two increments, stirring between

° 1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder

° 1 1/2 teaspoons baking soda

7. Pour batter over orange slices in prepared skillet or pan.

° 1/4 teaspoon salt

8. Bake until center is set, 45 to 50 minutes. Let cake cool at room temperature

° 2/3 cup Filippo Berio extra-virgin olive oil

before inverting the pan over a plate or cutting board. Slice, serve, and enjoy!

pieces with your fingers. Place orange slices in a single layer over the brown sugar.

soda, and salt.

each addition. Add oil and whisk to combine.

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ozark garlic confit INGREDIENTS

METHOD

° 1/4 cup Filippo Berio olive oil

1. Place olive oil and rendered duck fat into small saucepan.

° 1/4 cup rendered duck fat

2. Add whole garlic cloves.

(check your local grocery, or purchase at Williams-

3. Let simmer, covered, approx. 1 hour or until garlic becomes browned.

Sonoma.com or farmfreshduck.com)

4. Add salt and pepper to taste just before serving.

° 1 cup garlic cloves

5. Serve alongside toasted baguette that has been brushed with reserve duck fat

and olive oil.

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Just Peachy image Catherine Frederick adapted from bakerbynature.com

Ingredients

Method

- 2 ripe peaches, reserve 1 wedge for garnish - 1 large orange, juiced (about a 1/4 cup) - 3 teaspoons agave nectar - 1/8 cup tequila - 1 Tablespoon fresh lime juice (or bottled, not from concentrate) - 1/8 cup triple sec - 1 lime, cut into wedges (for garnish)

Peel and pit peaches, then puree with hand mixer or blender. Add orange juice and agave. Blend until smooth. Add peach mixture, tequila, lime juice and triple sec to a cocktail shaker and shake to combine.

Pour mixture over ice and garnish with lime and peach wedge.

Always drink responsibly.

Never drink and drive.

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The Beaches of

ARKANSAS Words and images courtesy Arkansas Department of Parks and Tourism

When planning a beach vacation, land-

Lake Sylvia

locked Arkansas rarely jumps to the top of the potential destination list. It's surprising to most that Arkansas indeed does have lake and river beaches—with no jellyfish, crabs or sharks! Instead we have crystal clear waters surrounded by beautiful forested scenery.

Bull Shoals Lake Sunset Houseboats

We have huge U.S. Army Corps of Engineers lakes and U.S.D.A. Forest Service lakes. Several state parks are located on lakes or rivers. There are city parks, and we have privately owned lakes. As you can see, Arkansas has plenty to choose from — some are fully developed while others are more rustic. So pack your swimsuit, inner tubes, floatable toys, and a

Greers Ferry Lake including Sugarloaf Mountain

picnic lunch, and come splash the summer away on an Arkansas beach!

Visit

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detailed

information on each location, including phone numbers, maps, images and user fees (if applicable).

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CENTRAL ARKANSAS BEACHES Beaverfork Lake Lake Bennett, Woolly Hollow State Park Lake Sylvia Beaver Lake Paddle Boarding

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NORTHWEST ARKANSAS BEACHES Beaver Lake Blue Mountain Lake Cove Lake Lake Dardanelle

Sailboat at Lake Dardnelle

Lake Leatherwood Lake Wedington Long Pool Recreation Area Shores Lake Spring Lake Table Rock Lake

Lake Leatherwood

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SOUTHWEST ARKANSAS BEACHES Albert Pike Recreation Area Charlton Recreation Area DeGray Lake Lake Greeson Jack Creek Recreation Area

DeGray Lake

Knoppers Ford Recreation Area Lake Catherine State Park Lake Hamilton Lake Ouachita Shady Lake

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Words Mike Daugherty images Greater Oklahoma City Chamber of Commerce

Two generations ago, Oklahoma City was a nice place to go for a quick weekend trip. You could see most attractions in a day or two. There was the Oklahoma City Zoo, Remington Park, what was then the Omniplex Science Museum and the Cowboy Hall of Fame, and maybe there was time for Frontier City. But that was about it. Still, as the father of then-young children living two hours south in Texas, the Oklahoma capital city presented a quick and easy getaway without the nerve-shattering traffic and higher prices encountered in the better-known destinations of Fort Worth and Dallas.

Flash forward to 2016 and…where do you start? The city has developed such an array of things to do and places to visit, especially in Bricktown and nearby Midtown, that it’s a matter of getting to everything you have scheduled instead of finding enough to explore. Here are just a few of the attractions you won’t want to miss on your next trip to OKC.

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When the Lights Go On Again All over the World FICTION Marla Cantrell

W

We are lying belly down on the fishing dock at Cedar Lake, our

"That woman was a harbinger of death," I say, and Otis hits the

arms hanging over the edge, the tip ends of our fingers rippling

water with his heel of his hand. “She surely was not. If you'd of

the water. I'm wearing a red bikini, and my hair is up in a messy

watched the show, you'd know that."

bun I worked on for an hour, not that Otis seems to notice.

He'd been watching a TV show about a Canadian woman who

“I don’t see how ten boys dying has one lick of hope in it.”

got engaged ten times during World War II, before he called me and asked me spend the day with him. Every soldier the

Otis rolls onto his back, pushes the air out of his lungs, and then

Canadian promised to marry died in the war. Otis says, "That

puts his big ole hands beneath his head. I sit up beside him. I can

woman was steeped in hope."

smell the lake water, below us, and on my hands, and in the air around us. Otis says, “Think what those last days would have been like if they hadn’t had her letters.”

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"You never once wrote me a letter, and we've been going out

"Those were different times," I say.

for nearly a year."

"Every one of the guys asked for her picture. They trimmed the "Nola," Otis says, "what would I say that I can't tell you

photos down and carried them in their cigarette cases. They

straight on?"

carried the cases in the pocket closest to their hearts."

I squint my eyes like I do when I don't want to see the world the way

"Was she beautiful?"

it is. The edges of everything go hazy, and then I say, "You amaze "She looked a lot like my Aunt Edna used to. Dark wavy hair.

me, Otis, you really do, but not in a good way."

Green eyes a little too close together. But she had this smile that Cedar Lake is in a valley that catches every bit of cool air and holds

seemed like it covered the universe."

it captive. Up on the ridge where I live, it's scalding already. Otis brought a cooler with him and inside are a dozen Pabst Blue Ribbon

We stop at Sonic and get a couple of corndogs and a tub of tater

beers. I take one out, pop the top, take a swig.

tots. I drink another beer, the can icy in my hand. We're in a dry county in the middle of the afternoon, but what the hell. The carhop gives me a look, and I tip the can at her, like a salute. "Give her an

"I don't know why we argue," Otis says.

extra dollar," I say to Otis, and he does it and then laughs.

The boards on the dock are old and worn smooth and feel like cotton sheets straight from the clothesline. I set the beer down and

Otis eats the tater tots two at a time. "Most of the letters

lie down beside him. "Maybe we don't like each other very much."

were sweet," he says. "The soldiers told her she was swell, or that they'd gotten a radio and were listening to Bob Hope but

Otis pulls me to him. "I like you just fine," he says, and he takes off

thinking about her. But then, later, as they got closer to the end,

my sunglasses and kisses me until some old woman fishing out on

they'd tell her things that gut-punched you. This one sergeant

the lake, calls from her boat, "For land's sake, it's broad daylight!"

told her he dwelled in a world of death, and then he went on to describe it." Otis shudders. " He said he didn't know how he'd

On the way out, I sit beside Otis in his old Ford truck, so close our

live anymore with regular humanity, even if he did make it home.

thighs touch. I'm thirty-five now, and I've been sidled up like this to "She wrote him back, and she told him that he would come

one guy or another for nearly half my life.

home. She said she sat on her porch every evening, and she The pickup windows are down, and the air in the valley smells like

looked at the moon. She swore she could see the future in it.

sour apple gum. I've driven as far away as Abilene, and I've never

She said, 'And there we are, around the kitchen table. You've

found this smell anywhere else. I lay my head on Otis's shoulder,

gained twenty pounds since you came home. There's a highchair

and he wraps his arm around me.

beside you with the cutest little baby sitting in it. Looks just like you. Outside, the mailman is walking down the street, and he's

"When the Canadian lady wrote to her soldiers, she always started

whistling because he doesn't have one letter in his bag with bad

the letters with 'My Dearest Someone.'" Otis has the words 'heat

news in it. And on the radio, Vera Lynn is singing “When the

lightning' tattooed on his arm, the block letters following the bone

Lights Go On Again All over the World."

from elbow to wrist. There was a local band named Heat Lightning he used to follow, and one night he got knee-walking drunk and

Otis drips a packet of mustard on his corndog. "My granddaddy was

went over to Ziggy's Ink Palace. Heat Lightning hasn't played in

in that war. My granddaddy near about raised me, what with Daddy

more than ten years. The lead singer preaches now at one of those

taking off over the years, going to and fro, who knows where. If

churches without a denomination tied to it. It's called Streets of

Granddaddy would've got killed, I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't

Gold, or Highway to Heaven. Something like that.

of known the best man I ever met."

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This may be the saddest date I've ever been on. I quit holding

I squeeze his knee. "I get it now."

my stomach in. I reach behind the seat where I put my bag, and I slip on my T-shirt from Carrie Underwood's last concert tour

"What?"

over my bikini.

"The Canadian."

"My grandpa was in World War II," I say, and suddenly I can see the photos of him. He weighed one hundred and two pounds when he

"Good," Otis says and touches my cheek.

enlisted. He was seventeen. He ended up in Okinawa. I don't know what he was like before, but life after was its own battleground.

"What do we do now?" I ask, and Otis seems to know what I mean.

"The world today," Otis says, and then he stops. He dumps the

"I'll show you."

corndog in the Sonic sack and I finish off my beer. Otis takes the can and crushes it like it's nothing.

There's a couple, maybe pushing sixty, sitting at the concrete table where pedestrians eat, sharing a kids’ meal. They look like

I look out the window at the advertisements that are up

trouble's ridden on their backs for years. They have a dog with

everywhere. Sonic is having a half-price shake special every

them, the kind of mutt you see in every shelter ad that's ever been

evening after eight. A shake sounds good, like all that ice cream

made. The dog, the man, the woman, look worn out. The woman

might fill the cavern that just opened up inside me. "Mama says

slips the dog a french fry and rubs its ugly head.

she remembers when ISIS was just a kids show about an Egyptian super-hero. She'd watch her on Saturday mornings, a beautiful

Otis motions the carhop over. The girl has black hair and black nail

woman in a costume, doing what she could to save mankind."

polish and black eyeliner that rings her dark eyes. He pulls out the hundred dollar bill he keeps hidden behind his fishing license in his

"I remember when you could go to the picture show without

wallet, and he hands it over. It's his emergency money. His safety

fearing a gunman might come in behind you."

net. He points. "Give this to that couple there," he says, just don't say who it come from."

"Why do you think the Canadian kept promising her future to the doomed?"

The girl looks at the couple and then she turns back and looks at us.

"Why?" she asks. And Otis says, "We're passing out hope today."

Otis taps his fingers on the driver's doorframe. "World War II was everybody's war. I think she was fighting it the best way

"You meet all kinds," The carhop says, as if Otis is crazy.

she knew how."

We watch as she takes the money to the table, holds it out like an "Did she ever marry."

offering. The couple look at one another, and then they lean in, asking questions, I'm sure, but the carhop just shakes her head,

Otis shakes his head no. "She ran a daycare. And wrote letters

shrugs her shoulders. When the man takes the hundred-dollar bill,

to the editor of the newspaper, asking people to be kind to

he pats the carhop's shoulder. The dog gets up, struggling on shaky

one another."

legs, and starts to circle the trio, its sorry tail wagging.

The world is at a tipping point. Both me and Otis know it. We

Otis starts the engine. The motor races and then settles down. Otis

watch the news together when I spend the night, the overly tan

reaches for the gearshift but stops. He takes my hand in his, and we

newswoman grim as she waits for the video to roll. In the last

sit, here in this valley of hope. Outside, on the fringes of this place,

weeks, we've seen death come in waves, here at home and as far

sorrow waits, and trouble so big it can bust you apart. We all know

away as Turkey, and we've not even left Otis's living room.

it's there, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't try to stop it.

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Flame offers recreational Gymnastics, USA Gymnastics Junior Olympic competitive teams (Levels 3 - 10), and Tiny Tot and Preschool gymnastics classes. There’s also Mom 'N Tot gymnastics classes—loved by moms and kiddos alike, tumbling classes, and even Urban Gymnastic classes! During the summer, kids nine months old to twelve years old can learn to swim (beginners, advanced beginners, intermediate and advanced swimmers)! We also offer amazing birthday party packages. If your child is ages four through twelve, plan their next birthday party with us, for a party they’ll never forget!

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OLYMPIC DREAMS BEGIN HERE Celebrating 31 Years!

Developing Mind, Body & Spirit since 1985!

Flame Gymnastics is the leader in Gymnastics and Tumbling instruction in the River Valley. We offer over 20,000 sq. ft. of gymnastics fun and fitness. The finest equipment and the most experienced instructors ensure your child will learn and enjoy their gymnastics experience!

Love competition? Flame has produced 35 State Champion Teams, and more than 600 Individual and All Around State Champions! Call us today, and start your child on the road to fun and fitness!

WE OFFER: Urban Gymnastics Classes Girls & Boys Recreational Gymnastics USAG Level 3-10 Competitive Girls Teams USAG Level 4-10 Competitive Boys Teams Mom ’N Tot, Preschool & Tiny Tot Gymnastics Swim Lessons with Jayne Jacobson and Daniel Beam Birthday & Splash Bash Swim Parties

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Beginner, Intermediate and Advanced Tumbling Classes Gym Hours Monday - Thursday: 10a - 7:30p Friday: 10a-6:30p Saturday: 10a – 12p

Office Hours Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 9a-8p Wednesday: 9a-7:30p Friday: 9a - 6:30p

FLAME GYMNASTICS ACADEMY 5912 South 28th Street, Fort Smith 479.646.1616 | flamefs.com |

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thefriddlesmile.com

Serving our community since 1976 At Friddle Dentistry, we provide a laid back, family-oriented atmosphere that is conducive to treating children. We begin

Serving our community since 1995

provide cleanings and other preventive services as well as

The John Brown University Fort Smith Center offers bachelor’s

restorative work as needed. Our digital radiographs emit the

degree completion programs in business, liberal arts, and

lowest possible radiation to patients, and we are a metal-free

psychology, as well as master’s degrees in business, counseling,

office, only providing composite or porcelain tooth-colored

and education. Programs are designed for working adults, with

restorations. We also provide orthodontic treatment and

classes held online or in the evening. Additionally, the JBU CARE

mouth guards needed for sports activities.

Clinic provides low-cost counseling services to the community.

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seeing children as soon as they get their first teeth, and can

jbu.edu/fortsmith

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johnsondermatology.com

SparksPhysicians.com

Serving our community since 2006

Serving our community since 1887

As dermatologists, we see patients of all ages. Dr. Sandy Johnson

When your children need back-to-school vaccinations, or

worked at Arkansas Children’s Hospital for four years. Most of

school or sports physicals, we’ve got you covered. We’re also

the team at Johnson Dermatology have children and understand

here to treat illnesses and injuries for your whole family. Our

their unique needs and wants. We have a few clinical trials for

convenient clinic locations are staffed by kid-friendly physicians.

children in order to provide the latest care, often at no cost to the

By having a long-term history with a primary care physician,

patient. As a clinic, we support many of the schools financially,

you’ll get insight into your children’s development and our

as Partners in Education or in a variety of other ways.

physicians will be able to better detect emerging problems,

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such as changes in academic or emotional status.

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Trinitycatholicjh.org

Serving our community since 1986

479.782.3021

Purpose and Mission: Trinity Junior High exists to provide a

Serving our community since 1972

superior, Catholic faith-based academic environment with a full range of extracurricular and leadership opportunities for grades

Udouj Orthodontics is not only committed to creating

seven through nine. All religious denominations are welcome. We

beautiful smiles for our patients, we are also committed to our

believe that an exemplary education can only be fostered in a safe

community. We are avid supporters of our area schools, sports

environment that affirms individual worth and mutual respect.

teams, and civic organizations. We hope to not only improve

We encourage students to partner with the community through

our patients' smiles but also the communities where they live!

stewardship and service. With parents as partners, our faculty and staff provide an exceptional academic experience focused on

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spiritual, emotional, mental, physical, and social development.

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uafs.edu

479.494.5700

Serving our community since 1928

“We’re Ready To Listen and Help.”

Students who choose the University of Arkansas – Fort Smith

We are a leading provider of world-class, specialized mental

come from all walks of life, but they all have one thing in

health treatment for all ages. We offer inpatient care, intensive

common: they know the value of a solid education. When

outpatient programs, and individualized treatment so that you

you earn your college degree from UAFS, your education

can focus on healing and gaining the skills and knowledge

goes far beyond the hours spent in class. At UAFS you will

to live a happier, healthier life. We also have a Therapeutic

study a curriculum based on the strongest academic principles,

Day Treatment for those between the ages of 5 and 18 that

prepare for your future using the latest methods in your

provides a combination of education and mental health services

chosen field, and connect with employers through internships

in a therapeutic environment. An Outpatient Clinic is available

and cooperative learning programs.

for those who benefit from a more traditional approach to treatment by meeting with a counselor in an outpatient setting

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on an ongoing basis.

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