Valentines Edition

VALENTINES EDITION

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BONTLE LEILA RATAU REMEMBER TO SHARE WITH ALL YOUR FRIENDS

INDEX PAGE 2: EDITOR PAGE 3 – 32: SINGLE AND LOOKING(MEN AND WOMEN) PAGE 33: SAY I LOVE YOU WITH CAKE PAGE 34: POEM: THIS ROSE

PAGE 35 – 36: THE STORY BEHIND THE SONG: EILAY PAGE 37: WHAT WOMEN WANT FROM MEN? PAGE 38: WHAT MEN WANT FROM WOMEN? PAGE 39 – 40: CONTRACEPTIVES PAGE 41 – 43: FIVE SIGNS SHE IS SECRETLY ATTRACTED TO YOU PAGE 44 – 46: TEN SIGNS YOU’RE AN ALPHA WOMAN PAGE 47 -48: TEN SIGNS YOU’RE AN ALPHA MALE PAGE 49 - 51: A CRY FOR HELP FROM OUR FUTURE MISS TEEN SA

PAGE 52: TOP FIVE FAVOURITE SEX POSITIONS PAGE 53 – 55: OUR COVER MODEL CONTESTANTS PAGE 56: 15TH ISSUE COVER MODEL COMPETITION ENTRIES(OPEN) PAGE 57: ABOUT UPCOMING MAG

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Hey Awesome people I would like to start by thanking our readers who helped us find out what women want from men, what men want from women and the top five favourite sex positions. Thank you! thank you! thank you!

My first idea was to make this edition not for people under 18 I mean we are advertising single people looking for love, we talking about contraceptives and sex but daily I see more and more primary school girls falling pregnant which means these kids are dating and having sex, we have tried the they are kids and should know nothing about sex tactic and it is not working, am I condoning kids dating and having sex, no and they having it anyway, the government even discussed teaching primary school children about condoms and how to use them.

So I am allowing everyone to read.

If you are single and over 16 we have single men and women in this edition ready to give love a chance and get a date for this valentines, we gave people the opportunity to put themselves out there in an attempt to get them love and hopefully a date for this Vday, however we are not responsible if anything happens if you agree to meet anyone. Do background checks meet in public, don’t drink anything you found open, be safe Much love, thank you.

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SINGLE WOMAN: Bontle Name: Bontle Leila Ratau Age: 20 years old Location: Pretoria I need a man who is matured, older than me , taller than me , any type I just want to explore different types of men and personalities.

I need a man who is about spending dawg I don't need to tell you that I need money come on đ&#x;˜‚.

Oh be better be hustling his game on or have a job ďż˝.

He better be romantic and not too much on social media.

Vacations, dinner dates, picnics, Photoshoots, road trips & more are very important darling.

Will discuss more when we meet...��

He can contact me on Whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook, call Anyway he can

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SINGLE MAN: Sphelele Name & Surname: Sphelele Khaba Age: 19 Location: Soweto

Type of a Woman: I want someone who's serious about future and knows what she wants and take things seriously and she must be independent, caring, supportive, friendly & open person. She must be around Jo'burg. For the visit at least we must see each 3/4 days per week She older than me 20 - 27

Contact: 062 491 9752

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SINGLE WOMAN: Samantha Name:Samantha Mbali-enhle Age:20 years old Location: Diepsloot

I want a tall handsome guy, who's romantic, loves going out, have fun and must have a great sense of humour.

WhatsApp: 0749023257

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SINGLE MAN: Trinchy Name: Trinchy Age: 27 Location: joburg Type of man I want to find/date: I would appreciate any fun guy who is open minded and who loves drinking beer, must be okey financially and willing to spend on me. And I'd also appreciate a woman who doesn't have time for a relationship but could use a friend now and again..

The best way for them to contact Me:

Whatsapp: 0651324626

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SINGLE WOMAN: Tebatso Name: Tebatso Age: 23 Location: Limpopo Mokopane Looking for: a Dark and tall man aged between 25-33 He Can text me on WhatsApp

Whatsapp: 0662040877

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SINGLE MAN: Iris Name: Iris Location: Rosetwnville Age: 24 Looking for a woman who is: Thick.

Not taller than me Smart Not too dark She must have a job or parents should be able to maintain herself.

She shouldn’t be a believer in sangomas or healers

She should contact me on my number: 0743834649

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SINGLE WOMAN: Simphiwe

Name: Simphiwe Age: 23 Location: Brakpan

I want a man who is tall, brown skin.

He must contact me Via

WhatsApp: 0629226055

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SINGLE MAN: Charles Name: Charles Age: 18 Location: Roodepoort Type of man: I'm that kind of a guy who is cool I love music, I'm not that talkative I'm friendly I'm kind, Loving, caring, Understanding And open..

The rest she will figure when time goes on. đ&#x;˜‰ Women I want to find: I want a lovely woman..

Kind sweet and understanding, girl who is funny, supportive in everything that I do because I will definitely do that to her.. đ&#x;˜Š I need to date someone who can be more than that..

Call/Whatsapp: 078 166 4344

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SINGLE WOMAN: Khomotjo Name: Khomotjo Age: 25 Location: Tembisa

I want a man who is loving, caring and who respect a woman.

Contact me either way:

Phone call or text: 0727694928

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SINGLE MAN: Sandile Name: Sandile Age: 18 Location: Soweto

I am looking for an adventurous lady, someone who is goal driven, not afraid to try new things and very open.

She must not be too tall, Skin colour does not really matter. She must have a nice body and she must be well rounded.

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SINGLE WOMAN: Connie D Name: Fikile AKA Connie D Age: 17 years old Location: I am a model am looking for someone who will understand me, someone who will respect me, l need someone who is honest, someone who will tell me when am wrong even if the truth is hurts.

WhatsApp:

0729979095

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SINGLE MAN: Brian Name: Brian nebutaro Age: 25 Location: Pretoria

Looking for a good looking woman who takes care of herself and has a good personality.

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SINGLE WOMAN: Hazel Name: Hazel Age: 26 years old Location: Tshilamba Looking for a handsome guy, who is working, not talkative, a Christian.

Light in complexion.

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0761552355

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SINGLE MAN: Lloyd Name: Lloyd Maluleke Age: 26 Location: Soweto

Looking for: a woman who likes talking, not easily angered, she must be available to meet, hang out and go to dates,

About me: I am a kind loving guy who is a good listener. I am chef who can cook his way into a woman's heart.

She can contact me by

call/whatsApp: 0734164131

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SINGLE WOMAN: Randy Name: Randy Age : 29 Location: Roodepoort

Looking For handsome guy a matured Man at age of 32 to 36 who's driving and must be working and knows how to treat woman and very Fun person with good personality đ&#x;˜œ

He can contact me either way

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Poem: This Rose By: Monate Written: 13 February 2006 To: Zintle Written at: NorthView high school This rose I give you Has my love in it My love is as red as blood Blood is in me so is love.

Take care of this rose Because my love is precious Put it where people can see it Because my love is something you can be proud of.

This rose is like my heart Here I am giving it to you I love you with all my heart Or should I say I love you with this rose?

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Love is like air It is not important Unless it is not there.

I love you Zintle my feeling Keep this rose from harm’s way and I will love you for eternity.

The story behind the song: Eilay My song was inspired by a girl I fell in love with and she was also in love with me đ&#x;˜ .the reason I titled it "eilay " (everything I like about you) was that I was telling the girl everything I liked about her so that she could know how I felt about her not knowing that she felt the same way about me. I wrote this song happy and in love After I wrote it, I spoke with my producer to make a beat that goes with the lyrics smoothly my producer's name is (dr twain) he is from Lawley. I recorded this song on the 17th of December 2019 and I decided to release it on the 10th of February 2020 Thank you

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What women want from men?

We asked our female readers what they want from men and this is what they said.

1. Good sex ďż˝ and respect 2. I personally from a man want Love, honesty, trust and fun Love because if you dating someone who doesn't love you they wouldn't care if you safe or okay be it physically, emotionally or sexuallyđ&#x;˜… but they wouldn't care. They would always put their needs first and you'll always come second or third but you won't be one of the first few main priorities Honesty because a relationship built on lies won't last and that would lead to a relationship without trust Trust because if you don't trust your partner you'll always assume that they doing silly things when you are not around, you will always question their movement and become insecure for nothing and that will lead to you and your partner always fighting Fun because imagine dating someone who's always uptightďż˝. You pop a joke, the person doesn't laugh�♀ if you really love someone even a boring joke sounds funny and it doesn't matter how love you've been with the person, everyday feels like a Valentine's day and everything about your partner doesn't get old coz you enjoy each other's company. Your relationship will always feel like it's new

3. We want a guy who will love us more than we love them, because a guy loves from get go and a girl can always learn to love throughout the relationship.

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We want to be babied at times, we want to be taken care of like babies, we want to be motivated and inspired.

We want a guy with dreams, or atleast a stable guy, the guy's mind is everything to us, his ability to think and reason with us is important.

We want a God fearing person.

We want a guy who's honest no matter what.

We hate sharing ( men) so we want loyalty, we want to be the only person in a guy's life. We also require communication skills.

Once in a while we want surprises, gifts and outings.

We want time, respect and value.

4. Money 5. Women want Time, Love, Compliments, Men who are well built ,Smelling nice is also their want, Communication whereby Man communicate with their ladies and obviously Money they may deny it Kodwa it's a naked truth that's what they want from man.

6. Love, Attention, Respectďż˝that what I want from a man 7. I personally believe that love us the most important thing everything else comes way after that. Yes there are women who prefers money and all the materialistic that a guy may offer but for me it's a no nođ&#x;™…ďż˝ I'd prefer a man who's going to love and respect me above everything else.

What men want from women?

We asked our male readers what they want from women and this is what they said.

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2. So basically...What I want from women is more independence, responsiblity, persistence. Being open minded is key, playfulness and adventure, a risk taker, they must work out and be well rounded.

3. Honesty 4. Speaking as an individual "what I want from women is for them, to let their work speak for them also they must be knowledgeable about the cruelty of the entertainment industry especially against women."

5. Sex every day.

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During this Month a lot of babies are made, let’s face it February is the month of love and with love comes love-making(sex) therefore we are telling you about Contraceptives although a condom is the most safest because not only does it protect you from unintended pregnancy but it also protects you from STD’s and STI’s, not only are they cheap, you can also get them for free. Here is a list of options you can choose from.

WHAT IS LONG-ACTING REVERSIBLE CONTRACEPTION? Long-acting reversible contraception (LARC) is a contraceptive that lasts for a long time.

There are two types of LARC: the intra uterine device (IUD) that lasts for five to ten years the implant that lasts for three or five years.

They are sometimes called “fit and forget” contraception because you don’t need to remember it every day or every month.

LARCs are the most effective types of contraception. They are more than 99% effective at preventing pregnancy and 0% effective at preventing STD’s/STI’s.

WHAT ARE HORMONAL CONTRACEPTIVES? These are contraceptives that use hormones to prevent pregnancy.

Hormonal contraceptives include the pill and the Depo Provera injection.

There are two types of pill: Combined oral contraceptive pillprogestogen-only contraceptive pill You take one pill each day. The pill is more than 99% effective at preventing pregnancy if you take it correctly and 0% effective at preventing STD’s/STI’s.

The Depo Provera injection is another type of hormonal contraception. You get an injection every three months. If you get your injections on time, Depo Provera is more than 99% effective and 0% effective at preventing STD’s/STI’s.

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WHAT ARE BARRIER METHODS? Barrier methods stop sperm from entering the vagina.

The two barrier methods are: External condoms (Male condoms) Internal condoms (Female condoms) Condoms protect against sexually transmissible infections (STIs) as well as unintended pregnancy.

You can get them for free at local clinics and hospitals.

You can get a prescription for condoms from Family Planning or your doctor, or you can buy them from online shops, pharmacies, supermarkets and other shops.

WHAT IS EMERGENCY CONTRACEPTION? There are two options for emergency contraception: the emergency contraceptive pill (ECP) or a copper IUD. The ECP is approved to be taken up three days after unprotected sex. If you are an average weight, the ECP is 98% effective and 0% effective at preventing STD’s/STI’s.

If you weigh more than 70kg, the ECP is less effective and a copper IUD is recommended.

If you weigh more than 70kg and you choose to take ECP, you should ask if taking a double dose is the right option for you. The copper IUD can be inserted up to five days after unprotected sex, and is more than 99% effective at preventing pregnancy and 0% effective at preventing STD’s/STI’s.

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WHAT IS FERTILITY AWARENESS? Fertility awareness is learning the signs of fertility in your menstrual cycle to help you plan or avoid a pregnancy.

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5 Signs She Is Secretly Attracted To You For Men only Gents let admit it some women have balls, in the year that Upcoming Mag completed on the 31st of January only one woman told me straight how she feels about me and more than 100 women tried flirting with me or give me signs that they like me, when it comes to signs I am very blind because I am always thinking of innovative ways to improve Upcoming Mag. Maybe you are as blind as me so here are: 5 Signs She Is Secretly Attracted To You – Hidden signals a girl likes you!

Originally appeared on Boureston Media Inc 5. Intensity Break So imagine this scenario: You’re in public with your friends and all of a sudden you get the feeling you’re being watched… The hair on your neck sticks up, your body becomes tense, and you slowly turn your head to find the source…

Luckily, this isn’t some sort of horror movie where you come face to face with a violent and gruesome death.

Instead, you turn your head and see a cute girl looking at you, which -- I think we can all agree -- is much better than the alternative.

You lock eyes for an intense couple seconds and can almost see the sparks flying across the room. Then she looks away and leaves you wondering what the hell all that was about.

That look of intensity where the two of you are staring into each other’s souls is one of the signs she is secretly attracted to you.

And then, because she realizes she’s displaying one of the subconscious signs of attraction she so desperately wants to hide, she breaks the intensity to prevent the truth from coming out…

Do you know what to do when a girl looks at you like this?

If it happens with a stranger, your best bet is to go up and talk to her. You have absolutely nothing to lose.

But if this happens with a girl you’ve known for quite some time, make a mental note and keep an eye out for the other hidden signs in this video. Because there might be UPCOMING more to Mag your friendship than you initially thought.

4. A Song of Ice & Fire Let’s say you and your crush have plans to meet up with some friends but the two of you are the first to arrive. And while you two are alone, you can feel the fire of her affection, and she’s not trying to hide her body language signs she’s attracted to you.

But then your friends show up and all of a sudden, things are… Different.

You try to continue the conversation you were having with her, but she’s suddenly distant, and might even be cold towards you.

This switch from hot to cold is one of the most common signs, and it can really mess with your head.

You could tell there was something significant happening while you were alone, but the moment other people showed up, it died. Why? It could be for any number of reasons. She probably likes you, but maybe she doesn’t want other people to know just yet because she’s worried it’ll create a rift in the realm of your friend group.

Or maybe she hasn’t accepted the fact that she can’t get enough of you and is afraid of it’ll ruin your friendship if she comes clean.

If she’s your sister, the truth could make things a little awkward and cause your entire world to come crumbling down…

Whatever her reasons for the emotional shift, tread lightly and see if you can figure out what’s going on behind the scenes without making it obvious.

It’ll take time to get to the bottom of things, but if you start to notice a pattern of this type of off and on behavior from her, find a time to privately ask her where you stand because everyone has secrets… Nobody deserves to be led on.

5 Signs She Is Secretly Attracted To You 3. (Almost) Open Book When a girl has feelings for you, she’ll want to create a bond with you.

And one of the ways she’ll do it is by opening up to you about her personal life.

She’ll talk about everything from what her childhood was like to the time she got to hold a Capuchin Monkey at the zoo and it completely changed her life.

But even after all that opening up, one of the signs is this: Whenever the topic of her love life comes up, there’s suddenly nothing to say.

She’ll give you a wishy-washy answer about how she’s just waiting for the right person to come along, or she’ll turn the question over to you so she doesn’t have to answer.

Hell, she might even completely change the subject and attempt to make you forget you asked.

Here’s the thing: If a girl doesn’t answer your questions about who she’s interested in, there’s a pretty good chance it’s you.

And as frustrating as it is, girls don’t like to spell out their feelings for guys they like.

They want us to take the initiative and make the first move because most girls want a man who isn’t afraid to be bold.

So instead of coming out and saying how they really feel, like an author writing a book, they’ll drop hints to try and lead us in the direction they want us to go. And just like a book is more satisfying if you take the time to read it instead of jumping straight to the end, A girl will slowlyMag feed you chapters of her UPCOMING book in hopes that you’ll take the time to read it… Then help her write the ending.

2. It Goes Down In the DM’s When it comes to dating, social media is a necessity these days.

I mean, let’s face it -- You’re much more likely to embarrass yourself in a face-toface conversation than online.

Online you have plenty of time to compose your thoughts and present the best version of yourself you can.

So it’s only natural that people use it to make more meaningful connections.

Of course, you shouldn’t spend all your time talking to a girl on social media, but if your crush likes you and she’s trying to keep it hidden, one of the ways she’ll let you know is by sending you a private message or DM. She might want to comment on your posts or share a hilarious meme on your page, but she won’t because she doesn’t want everyone to see it.

So take advantage of the privacy of the DM’s to have a conversation and do some flirting.

Because the golden rule of online flirting is that if a girl sends you the first message, there’s a solid chance she’s into you.

But remember… Most girls want you to make the first move so you might have to be the one to start the conversation.

But then again, some girls are simply shy and are afraid to write you first. If that’s the case, to figure out how to tell if a shy girl likes you, check out this video: How to tell if a Shy Girl Likes You -10 Hidden, but Obvious Signs She Wants You.

5 Signs She Is Secretly Attracted To You 1. Magnetism If you think about it, science is a wonderful thing.

Hot air rises because it wants to be closer to its home, the sun. Honey never goes bad, and since bees make honey, bees must be immortal. And since magnets attract things, you cancover yourself in them to attract women.

Science rules… Obviously, none of these are true -- but if a girl likes you, she’ll try to get close to you, and you won’t even have to raid your fridge.

So the next time you’re in a group with a girl you think secretly likes you, keep an eye on where she ends up.

Does she always end up next to you in group conversations?

Is she always in your car when the rides are heading out?

Do you suddenly see her more often than normal because a change in her routine?

If any of these seem familiar, she’s giving off one of the most blatant signs a woman wants to be approached…And she’s tired of hiding it. Alternatively, she might not even realize she has feelings for you, she’s just following her magnetic attraction to you. But hold your horses…

Just because you see this sign, you shouldn’t unleash all your romantic feelings on her. The best thing you can do in this situation is to show her why you’re exactly the person she wants to be around. So be your awesome self and make it impossible for her to resist coming back for more. The Most Obvious Sign She Has Feelings for You But if she invites you to hang out one-on-one and you’re still wondering how to tell if a girl likes you… I’m afraid there’s not much else we can do for you… Unless you’re in a clearly defined platonic friendship, when a girl asks you to do something alone, she’s showing that she trusts you and enjoys your company so much that she wants you all to herself. She’s also giving you the perfect opportunity to ask her out or express your own feelings. If you let an opportunity like this pass you by, especially if she’s been dropping the other hints on our list, she’ll either think you don’t like her back, you’re too dense to put the clues together, or worse… You’re too scared to make your move. So when she asks you out, don’t freak out because she didn’t call it a date. She likes you.Now don’t blow it.

In Conclusion UPCOMING Mag Those are the 5 signs she is secretly attracted to you and the most overt sign she’s done trying to keep it a secret.

10 Signs You Are An Alpha Woman Hey Ladies what good would be our magazine if it didn’t help you improve your life?

You have a role model who has made it and you also want to get there, if you have these signs you on your way there if you do not you start practicing them now in order to make it in to the entertainment industry or to make it in life in general.

There are very few things as stunning and breathtaking as an alpha woman. Her poised sense of self and her kind yet firm ways are a masterful thing to behold. While others may lack courage and direction in life, the alpha woman knows exactly what she wants, who she is, and she is completely unapologetic about it.

Are you wondering if you are an alpha woman? Read on and discover 10 signs that will show you if you are that masterful alpha woman that everybody loves.

1. The spotlight is always on you.

Whether you want it or not, the spotlight is always on you. Your confidence demands the attention of all you come in contact with. At work everyone may look to you for guidance on how to complete a project or for you to take the lead on group assignments.

In social gatherings, you may just be the one sharing the entertaining stories and making everyone laugh uncontrollably. You steal the attention of one and all and you capture them with your energy, your poise, and your all-encompassing gift of social power.

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2. You live with purpose.

Not one day goes by that you don’t know exactly what you are going to get out of that day. You live with purpose and have clear goals for all areas of your life. The physical, mental and spiritual goals you set for yourself are more than just things you want to accomplish, they are achievements that define you and therefore you pour your heart into them.

You persevere regardless of the circumstances or trials that come with achieving goals. You know that it is only through hard work that you can continue to be the masterful woman you are.

10 Signs You Are An Alpha Woman 3. So you broke up with your boyfriend of 5 years? That is quite alright. You are not defined by romantic relationships. You know what you are capable of accomplishing with or without love in your life.

5. You embrace change.

While most people are terrified of change, the magnificent alpha woman in you welcomes it. You believe there is no growth without change and no change without sacrifice.

In fact, sometimes you are way more productive when you are alone; so really the break up was a blessing in disguise.

You now have time to read all the books that have been collecting dust under your bed, or catch up with old friends. In regards to the boy? Well, there will be another.

For you, the opportunity for selfdevelopment is worth far more than the fear of sacrificing the comfort of what you already know. This is truly where the beauty of the alpha woman lies, in your ability to face life and embrace the possibilities for change.

4. You understand the importance of balance.

You understand that you need balance in all aspects of your life: physical, mental and spiritual. You are committed to thorough work in each of these areas to better yourself and live life to the fullest.

You embrace the importance of believing in something greater than yourself in order to truly be fulfilled. You understand that what you put in your body is exactly what you will get out. Therefore, you take care of your body as if it was an ancient temple or one of the seven world wonders, which, if we are being honest, it truly is.

Lastly, you don’t stop developing yourself intellectually, ever. It is your knowledge and wisdom of life that intrigues people but more UPCOMING importantly Mag it is what drives you to face life with courage and boldness.

6. You know how to love.

While most people may argue that as an alpha woman you are self-sufficient and have no capacity for love, they couldn’t be further from the truth. Instead, they fail to see that you thoroughly understand your worth and therefore accurately guard your heart until you find worthy individuals to pour your love on.

When you do, the love fest is unconditional, faithful and true. To you, Disney fairy tales are a disgrace to the true meaning of love. While everyone else is waiting to get swept off their feet, you aren’t afraid to make the first move and fight for what you believe is rightly yours, your one true love.

10 Signs You Are An Alpha Woman 7. You are very much misunderstood.

Society has this incessant need of fitting you into a mold and quite frankly that does not work with you. You are unapologetic about your opinions. You are unrestrained about your beliefs. You believe in what you believe in, and there is very little others can do to change your mind once it has been made up.

Because of your strong sense of self and your uncontainable confidence, you are very much misunderstood.

Society cannot understand how it is possible for a woman to be so bold, so courageous, so thoroughly and magnificently breathtaking. Don’t ever feel like you must change to fit someone else’s opinion of you.

8. You are a uncontrollable risk taker.

You believe the wise words of William Shedd who said: “A ship is safe in harbour, but that is not what ships are for.”

For you, there is no life without risk! What others may see as reckless you see as an opportunity for stepping out of your comfort zone and let your courage shine. Taking these risks in life is what drives you and keeps you focused on becoming the woman you long to be. You never conform and always persevere. You are simply a natural risk taker!

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9. You know that you don’t know.

Your wisdom and constant pursuit for knowledge have taught you that you don’t know everything. This is what saves you and keeps you from becoming arrogant and selfabsorbed.

Continue to keep this in mind, knowing that there is always room to discover and learn from others. This is crucial to keep the balance in your life; especially because your natural ways are so overpowering.

With time, you will learn when to step aside and let someone else shine, knowing that stepping aside won’t diminish your light, and instead, it will enhance it even more.

10. You never give up.

This is probably one of your most amazing qualities. The fact that you know that it is not over until you gain complete victory over what you are setting out to do. This quality is what allows you to be successful and sets you apart from the rest of society.

You persevere with purpose and determination. That perseverance is what gives you the freedom to be bold and courageous. After all, you know where you’ve been, where you are going, and down to the “T”, exactly what you are capable of.

10 Signs You’re An Alpha Male Gents This information dates to the cavemen, something’s will never change, you want to make it in arts and entertainment or life in general? Become an Alpha male.

1. You are a leader It is great to be the boss. To be an alpha male you have to show strong leadership. You have to be able to carry yourself with the pride of a king.

2. You know how to keep your cool You don’t have to talk about or boast about your exploits.

Losers tend to be charlatans and try to consolidate their inferiorities by telling the world about their successes. But alpha males have nothing to prove. They simply make an unforgettable impression.

They are confident enough about their abilities and do not need to brag about their conquests. It is either you like them for who they are or you don’t.

3. You can walk the walk You get the job done and you are a goal-getter. You have immense self-belief and anytime you go out to pursue a goal, you are all in. Alpha males know what commitment means. It is either they can attain something or they can’t. But since they are goal-oriented and focused they always deliver results even when the chips are down.

4. You have your self-respect If you don’t value yourself, how the heck would the world out there value you? Alpha males have solid self-esteem and won’t allow anyone or anything dent their self-worth. Even when they are not yet successful, they walk, dress and play the success card.

5. You know what you want Alpha males are clear about their goals and desires. They know what they want and won’t follow the crowd. They don’t live their life on assumptions but through data and critical thinking they can create a path to achieving their goals.

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10 Signs You’re An Alpha Male 6. You are authentic They know when others are bullsh*tting them. They can see through your façade if you are a fake. Alpha males have no time for mediocrity or BS. It is either you are worth their time and energy or not.

7. You connect with your environment Because you are an alpha male doesn’t mean you are not a gentleman. In fact alpha males are sensitive and can be empathetic. They could be very caring and loving souls. But this is not a weakness since they can be as ruthless and cold also.

8. You are confident Alpha males are confident and inspire others with such confidence. Even when others retreat because of a challenge, alpha males thrive best during chaos and difficult moments. They ooze confidence as they rely on their strengths to win and conquer.

9. You believe in yourself It is not whether they can do it or not, they simply have a winner’s mindset. And yes they believe in their abilities. They are a brand and yes through self-belief they continue to build this brand daily.

10. You are busy Alpha males are busy people.

They are not idle. There is always something to do and goals to chase after. They don’t complain or make excuses, they simply get busy.

They earn the attention they deserve. Even in a digital world when everyone is busy on one device or another, alpha males enter the room and get the attention they deserve. Of course it goes beyond marketing their brand, who doesn’t want to be around success? 

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A cry for help from our future Miss Teen Sa Well my name is Nande Mfiki am 15 years I live in Cape Town in a township called Samora, I am a model and I entered Miss Teenager South Africa and I became one of the girls that were chosen to represent Western Cape in the Finals in Johannesburg on June and now Miss Teen SA requires me to pay a R3700 registration fee and also I have to pay my own transportation to Johannesburg and my parents can't afford that kind of money so I am humbly requesting for your financial assistance because I believe that I can be Miss Teen SA, Thank you.

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The two lists above were contracted with the help of other readers, we asked them what their favourite sex position and from their responses we were able to make a list for women and man from the most favourite being number one to the list favourite being number five. We would like to thank everyone who participated.

Knowing your partners favourite position lets you know which position to do to make her/him climax, thus giving him/her more orgasms this February.

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Upcoming Mag’s Cover model competition We had more than 30 contestants who sent up their pictures and info but they never paid the registration fee which is only R50, maybe we gave people a short time to pay. Therefore entries for our 15th cover model

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