Thank you to our Dedicated Give Lead DonorsRed River Title, Brad & Rena Douglass, and TMC Volunteers!
9:00 pm - DJ & Dancing
9:45 pm – Winner’s Choice Trip Raffle Drawing – Jason Taylor
REMINDER: Online Silent Auction Closes at 11pm!
A SPECIAL THANK YOU TO OUR EVENT CHAIRS!
Sponsorsship Chair: Adrianne Brandy Johnson
Auction Revenue Procurement Co-Chairs: Alli Deshotels and April Vaughn
Decorationg Co-Chairs: Heather Keizer, Donna Perry- Huff, Megan Nobles
THE STARFISH STORY
One day a man was walking along the beach when he noticed a boy picking something up and gently throwing it into the ocean.
Approaching the boy, he asked, “What are you doing?” The youth replied, “Throwing starfish back into the ocean. The surf is up, and the tide is going out. If I don’t throw them back, they’ll die.”
A MESSAGE FROM...
Michelle Castle, Board President
Welcome to the 2025 Starfish Benefit!
I’m beyond excited that we’re gathering this year at the Hilton Garden Inn—we’ve officially outgrown every other venue! That alone speaks volumes. It means people like you continue to show up and pour love into the children and families who need us most. And that right there? That’s what this night is all about.
Throughout the evening, you’ll hear powerful stories of families in crisis who found hope and healing thanks to the work happening every day at Child & Family Guidance Center—and thanks to generous hearts in our community. Together, we are changing lives. Together, we are saving the starfish among us.
My heart led me to this organization because I know how critical mental health care is—and how many people go without it. There’s still a stigma attached to asking for help, and for families already struggling to make ends meet, getting care can feel out of reach. That’s where CFGC steps in. No one is turned away due to financial hardship. Services are offered on a sliding scale, and many clients receive care at no cost. That means a child who’s experienced unthinkable trauma can sit with a caring therapist, learn to process their pain, and—most importantly—know it’s okay to ask for help.
Mental health care should be as normal and accessible as going to the doctor when you’re physically sick.
While a large portion of our funding comes from grants, about 15% of our operating budget is raised through the Starfish Benefit—which makes tonight incredibly important. Every dollar helps provide care to those who need it most.
Thank you for being here. Thank you for believing in this mission. And thank you for helping us help others.
With heartfelt gratitude,
Michelle Castle Board President Child & Family Guidance Center
THE WHY!
YOU make it possible for us to be here for Amelia & Henry!
Amelia - Age 12
This 12-year-old female began counseling over two years ago due to severe anxiety affecting multiple areas of her life, including car rides, school separation, and peer interactions. Her symptoms caused significant emotional distress and disruption to daily functioning. Her parents sought therapy to reduce her anxiety and help her build effective coping skills. Over time, she has made meaningful progress in understanding and managing her anxiety, becoming more open in session and able to recognize and respond to early signs of distress using learned tools. She has also embraced her creativity, using art as a form of emotional expression and regulation both in and outside of therapy. As her confidence has grown, she has become more socially active, joining school sports and activities, including basketball, softball, cheerleading, and serving as her school’s upcoming mascot.
Client Story - Age 8
Therapist started seeing the client when he was five years old. The client initially started treatment when his parents separated. Client expressed feelings of abandonment, fear of separation from caregiver, and complications with adjustment to new living situation. The client would become angry and threaten self-harm and suicide. Through play therapy, the therapist noticed symptoms consistent with Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD). As play therapy progressed, the client was able to develop healthy coping skills for anxiety and has adjusted well to regular bedtime routines. The client no longer threatens suicide or self-harm and continues to make progress with his anxiety disorder.
2025 STARFISH BENEFIT SPONSORS!
PRESENTING
Sponsor
Utter Family of Dealerships
EMERALD Sponsors
Lead Dedicated Give Sponsors
Red River Title Company
TMC Volunteers
PLATINUM Sponsors
Lead Dedicated Give Sponsors
Brad & Rena Douglass
DIAMOND Sponsors
Rayburn Energy Station, LLC
TPG Pediatric Urgent Care & Clinic-
Sherman & Anna
GOLD Sponsors
IPro Media
UNDERWRITER Sponsors
Alli DesHotels, REALTOR® RE/MAX
Anonymous
Cultivar Capital
Dexter Ward & Associates
Dr. Stephen & Melissa Sandoval
ER at Sherman, A Service of Texoma
Medical Center
First United Bank
GI Alliance
Guild Mortgage
Hannah's Florist
Oliver McElroy, Midway Warehouse, LLC
MAJOR AUCTION Sponsors
Alli DesHotels, REALTOR® RE/MAX
Andy & Stacey Olmstead
Apex Construction
April Vaughn, Snelling Staffing Services
Brett & Debbie Graham
Cernero Surgery & Aesthetics
Daystar Landscapes
Dr. Chuck & Jeannine Hatt
Manny & Sherri Morales
Mitchell & Denise Harris
SILVER Sponsors
Guardian Hospice
Kevin & Susan Simmons
Utter, Pike & Dobbs Private Wealth Management Group
BRONZE Sponsors
Apex Construction
Atmos Energy
Audrey Creswell
Bayless - Hall - Blanton
Cadence Bank
Dr. Stephen & Melissa Sandoval
Easy Life Realty
Emerson- Fisher Controls
Grayson County Sheriff's Office
John Kermit Hill, Grayson County Criminal District Attorney
THANK YOU! YOUR SUPPORT MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE!
Randy & Nancy Gill
Scott & Brenda Hayward
Tammy Hicks
Texoma Industrial Insulation
Waterfall Development Partners
COPPER Sponsors
Adrianne Brandy Johnson
American Roofing & Construction
Brad & Laurie Pillow
Brad Rhodes
Commissary Express, Inc.
Covenant Development
Dr. Chuck Phelps & Dr. Jeannine Hatt
First State Bank
Gaddis Premier Wealth Advisors
Good Earth Soil and Materials
Greg & Nancy Kirkpatrick
Holiday Chevrolet
John & Tracey Bullard
Joinery
LeCrone Law Firm, PC
McCullough & Pierson Insurance
Melton Financial Group of Benjamin F. Edwards
Michael and Sherry Wynne
Milestone Premier Properties
Nautilus Family Fitness
Oral Surgery Center of Texoma
Pediatric Dental Specialists
Peter & Helen Schulze Charitable Fund
PTF Insulation Fabricators
Rivas Law
Ron & Donna Perry-Huff
Ruiz Foods
Simmons Bank
Sisemore Services HVAC & Plumbing
Spirit Ink Steps 2 Strides Therapy Center
Texas Institute for Neurological Disorders
Texoma City Lifestyle
The Meals Team - eXp Realty
Tyson Foods
MEDIA & PROMOTIONAL
Partners
B99.7 The Buzz
Blue Willow Cafe
Cadence Studios
Cooper Morgan, Photographer
Denise Harris
DJ Dun-Nee D Entertainment Services
Hannah's Florist
Heads Up Media
KTEN
KXII
Sparklight Advertising
Undaunted Creative Agency
Wilson's Farm
THANK YOU! YOUR SUPPORT MAKES ALL THE DIFFERENCE!
Winner's Choice Raffle Sponsor
Decor Sponsor
360 Photo Booth Sponsor
Photo Booth Sponsor
Silent Auction Sponsor
Bid Paddle Sponsor
Champagne Sponsor Silent Auction Sponsor
CONGRATULATIONS TO THE 2024 WINNER'S CHOICE
RAFFLE CHAMPION!
“I would like to extend my heartfelt gratitude to the Child and Family Guidance Center for organizing such a wonderful trip. My son and I had an exceptional time, and the experience was truly enjoyable. I am particularly thankful for the opportunity to participate in this once-in-a-lifetime journey. It has created lasting memories that we will cherish. Thank you once again for your efforts in making this event possible.”
- Dr. Mohamad Al-Rifai
Ireland Adventure
Sponsored By
Escape the run of the mill and become enchanted with a 6-night journey through Ireland, where you will explore prehistoric forts, navigate pristine lakes and discover hidden gems on this guided adventure through Gaelic culture.
Fairmont Scottsdale Golf & Spa
Enjoy a 3-night stay in a standard room at the Fairmont Scottsdale Princess, Roundtrip coach class airfare from within the 48 contiguous U.S. to Phoenix, AZ, $500 in Fairmont gift cards towards golf and/or spa treatments & daily breakfast.
Visit Champagne
Indulge in the ultimate Champagne experience with a 3-night stay for two in a charming château. Enjoy wine tastings, a visit to the Abbey of Dom Perignon, dinner at Michelin-starred Le Foch, and chauffeured transportation for a day.
Passport to Europe
Experience Europe with a 5-night stay for two in a 4-star city-center hotel. Includes roundtrip coach airfare from the U.S. to Paris, Madrid, Prague, Vienna, or Rome (subject to availability), daily breakfast, and curated city experiences.
Cap Cana All-Inclusive
Enjoy a 4-night stay in a junior suite at your choice of Hyatt Ziva or Zilara Cap Cana, with Winspire booking & concierge service. Discover the Dominican Republic’s rich culture, pristine beaches, world-class golf, and luxurious amenities in this exclusive Caribbean paradise.
Meet Me in Montana
Escape to Triple Creek Ranch, nestled in the stunning Bitterroot Mountain Range. This adult-only Montana retreat includes a 3-night stay in a Cedar Cabin, with all meals, snacks, and drinks provided. Enjoy legendary hospitality and breathtaking views in one of the world’s best hotels.
College Rivalry Showdown
Calling all college sports fans! Ever dream of cheering on your team in person? This is your chance to be a part of some of the biggest buzz in college sports.Enjoy a trip for two to your choice of one regular season college football game*.
Disney World Family Adventure
This experience for 4 includes a 4-night stay in one standard guest room at the Hyatt Regency Grand Cypress, roud-trip coach class airfare from within the 48 contiguous U.S. to Orlando, FL, $1,000 in Disney gift cards redeemable toward admission, food, or
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
STONE PINE HIDEAWAY BROKEN BOW
Relax on the welcoming front porch of this beautiful Broken Bow cabin, just minutes from Hochatown. With floor-to-ceiling windows, cozy living spaces, and room for everyone, it’s the perfect place to unwind and reconnect with nature.
This unforgettable 4-day, 3-night getaway includes a $250 Visa gift card, a $100 gift card to Grateful Head Pizza, wine tasting for two at Knotted Rope Winery, and a bourbon tasting and tour for two at Hochatown Distillery—plus two bottles of their Bottled in Bond Bourbon.
Donated By: Doris Caston Randy & Nancy Gill
GOLF & SPA
FAIRMONT, SCOTTSDALE AZ
Escape to the stunning Sonoran Desert with a 3-night Stay for Two at the luxurious Fairmont Scottsdale Princess.
Enjoy daily breakfast, world-class golf at TPC Scottsdale, and relaxing spa treatments using $500 in Fairmont gift cards.
Includes Winspire booking & concierge service for a seamless experience.
Donated By: Mitchell & Denise Harris and The Norris Group
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
MARIN HEADLANDS ADVENTURE E-BIKES
ADVENTURE ON AND OFF-ROAD RIDING
GRAVEL RIDING Fully loaded bikepacking, fast and light offroad adventures, gravel and CX racing… or simply exploring your favorite tracks and trails. The Marin Headlands is a high tech, high-spec carbon fiber gravel and adventure bike that’s made to be lightningfast, confidence-inspiring and super comfortable on all surfaces.
Incdlues a Marin Headlands Adventure Bike and $100 gift card from Texoma Bicycle Works
Donated By: Drs. Chuck Phelps & Jeannine Hatt
FALL FOLIAGE EXPERIENCE
BEAVER CREEK, CO
Escape to the stunning mountains of Beaver Creek for a week-long stay from October 18–25, 2025 in a luxurious 2-bedroom Park Plaza condo.
Enjoy golden aspens, live music, hot air balloon rides, shopping, and unforgettable mountain dining.
Includes a $700 Visa gift card to experience their favorite fall adventures. Perfect for a family or friends’ retreat—this fall escape will leave you breathless!
Donated By: Andy & Stacey Olmstead Joe & Megan Brown
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
NATURE’S SECLUDED LUXURY RETREAT
TULUM, MEXICO
Escape to paradise with a 5-day, 4-night stay for up to 10 guests at Casa Manatí, a stunning 3-story jungle villa in Tulum’s exclusive Flora Fauna community. Enjoy two rooftop terraces, a private saltwater pool, daily housekeeping, and VIP access to Cinco Beach Club.
Includes discounted rates at Vesica Cenote Sanctuary, transportation contacts, and optional concierge services.
Restrictions:
Expires May 3, 2026. Subject to owner approval. Not available in December or January.
Donated By:
Sherri & Manny Morales Ortiz
LANDSCAPE DESIGN AND INSTALLATION
DAYSTAR LANDSCAPING
Creating Beautifully, Maintaining Elegantly — Transforming Outdoor Spaces Across North Texas
Design the landscape you've always imagined with premier landscape design & installation from Daystar Landscapes! This exclusive live auction package includes:
- An onsite consultation
- Custom landscape design
- Professional landscape installation (Up to $5000)
From the first consultation to the final plant in the ground, every detail will be thoughtfully crafted to match your vision, lifestyle, and the natural beauty of your property.
Donated by:
Daystar Landscapes, Inc.
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
HILLWOOD MANOR
DENISON, TX
CABIN ROAD TRIP
NORRIS LAKE, TN
Enjoy a 2-night getaway for up to 12 guests at the beautifully restored Hillwood Manor, a serene 1880s estate on 17 peaceful acres just minutes from downtown Denison— perfect for a girls’ trip, family gathering, or retreat.
Your stay includes an authentic Italian dinner for 12, crafted by culinary expert Kathleen Hagan of Olive Oil de Fino, paired with fine wines. Each guest also receives a bottle of artisanal olive oil to take home.
Donated By:
Jennie & Mark Roden
Kathleen Hagan
Alli Deshotels
Relax and recharge with a 4-night, 5-day stay at Harpjacks Hollow, a spacious lakefront cabin on beautiful Norris Lake, Tennessee.
With 6 bedrooms and space for up to 15 guests, this retreat features a private dock, hot tub, and game room, perfect for family fun or a group getaway.
Includes a $500 Visa gift card and $200 in Shell gas cards for the ultimate road trip experience.
Restrictions:
Valid September 2025 – April 2026.
Donated By:
Lynn Jackson & Jay Harper
Chapman Inc.
Mitchell & Denise Harris
Dr. Peter & Stacey Selz
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
COWBOY COOL FORT WORTH WEEKEND
Weekend Getaway at Hotel Drover –Fort Worth
Stockyards
Enjoy a 2-night stay at the stylish Hotel Drover from June 27–29, with deluxe accommodations and frontrow vibes for the legendary Robert Earl Keen concert at Billy Bob’s on Friday night.
Stroll Mule Alley, soak in Old West charm, and dine with a $200 Paloma Suerte gift card—plus enjoy extra fun with a $500 Visa gift card to spend as you please.
Donated By:
Dr. Stephen & Melissa Sandoval
Olivia Beck
FALL GETAWAY JACKSON HOLE, WY
Fall Getaway to Jackson Hole, Wyoming!
Experience the magic of autumn in Jackson Hole with a 4-night stay for 2, available August 1–October 15.
Enjoy cooler temps, vibrant colors, and fewer crowds as you explore the stunning Tetons.
Package includes a Yellowstone tour, visit to the National Museum of Wildlife, and a ride on the Aerial Tram for breathtaking views.
Restrictions:
Valid for 2 years.
Donated By:
Brett & Debbie Graham
LIVE AUCTION ITEMS
PATIO MAKEOVER THE ULTIMATE PATIO PACKAGE
Transform Your Backyard into an Outdoor Oasis!
Whether it’s a patio extension or the foundation for that dream pergola, this package has everything you need to relax, entertain, and enjoy your outdoor space like never before!
Win the ultimate Patio Package, Featuring:
9.0 cubic yards of premium concrete from The Hope Concrete Company, Professional installation by Apex Construction, along with a $500 Twin Oaks Nursery gift card to add the perfect finishing touches!
Donated By:
Apex Construction
Hope Concrete
Twin Oaks Nursery
OCEANFRONT SIESTA MEXICO
All-Inclusive Luxury Escape to Mexico!
Enjoy 4 nights for 2 at your choice of five-star Marival Luxury Resort in Banderas Bay or Nuevo Nayarit.
Relax in an elegant room with a private balcony, indulge in gourmet dining, 24-hour room service, beach access, pools, and more.
Includes $400 Visa gift card for resort taxes and fees.
Paradise is calling—answer with oceanfront luxury and unforgettable sunsets.
Donated By: Anonymous
THE WHY!
YOU make it possible for us to be here for Nayan, Beau & Christopher!
Nayan - Age 16
At just 16 years old, Nayan has already demonstrated remarkable strength and resilience. She began counseling at the center to work through the complex emotions stemming from early childhood sexual abuse. In the face of significant challenges— including depression, anxiety, and body image struggles—Nayan committed herself fully to the healing process.
Over the past year, Nayan has made incredible strides. Through consistent therapy and the development of healthy coping strategies, she has successfully refrained from self-injury, choosing instead to reach out for support and use the tools she’s gained in counseling. This is a powerful testament to her dedication and personal growth. One of the most transformative aspects of Nayan’s journey has been her evolving relationship with her body. Nayan has been able to shift her mindset, embrace a healthier self-image, and let go of restrictive eating behaviors. Today, she maintains a balanced, healthy weight—reflecting both physical and emotional progress. Nayan's story is one of hope, courage, and determination. Her continued growth is an inspiration, and she remains a shining example of what is possible through support, selfawareness, and strength.
Beau & Christopher - Age 11, 8
These two brothers were victims of domestic violence and have been separated from both their mother and father. The older is a caring brother who has been growing in how they express their emotions and anger. He enjoys the new sensory room, sports play and games in session. He is often testing himself and his abilities. The younger brother is thoughtful and reflective. He enjoys processing his feelings through pretend play with the dolls and doll house. He often creates art in session for his family.
MAY is Mental Health Awareness Month!
Want to improve your mental health but don’t know where to start?
Here are 4 ways to improve your mental health:
Take Action!
Try advocating for causes that are important to you - this can be therapeutic in its own way!
Find Support
Whether it’s friends, family, community spaces, or therapy, building a support system can help.
Set Boundaries
Create a healthier relationship with technology by limiting your screen time.
Develop Skills
Invest some time in figuring out the best coping skills to help you healthily manage your feelings.
Brad Rhodes, Past President Heather Keizer, Secretary
Adrianne Brandy Johnson, President Elect
BOARD MEMBERS
Wendy Acosta
Lesley Davis Brooks
Briza Cano
Alli DesHotels
Rena Douglass
Stephanie Foley
Frank Gadek
Shawn KinCannon
Greg Kirkpatrick
Megan Nobles
Stacey Olmstead
Donna Perry-Huff
Carlos Rivas
Melissa Sandoval
Allen Shaw
Susan Simmons
April Vaughn
CFGC STAFF
EXECUTIVE/CLINICAL SUPPORT
Brenda Hayward, MBA Executive Director
Jessica Hamilton, CPPM Practice Manager
Loren Hervey, LPC-S Clinical Director
Kristin Hilson
Marketing Executive Assistant
Rachel Carey, LPC-S
Ashley Hinson, LPC-S
John Trader, LPC-S
Megan Gonzalez Intake Coordinator
Breanna Lavalais
Administrative Assistant
Karla Nieves
Administrative Assistant
Amber Welch
Administrative/Billing Assistant
CLINICAL TEAM
Sandreonia Slunder, LMFT-Associate
Alexandra Steward, LPC-Associate
Michael Albright, Field Experience Intern
PROGRAMS & SERVICES OFFERED
INDIVIDUAL, FAMILY, AND GROUP THERAPY
Sessions are designed to provide a safe, confidential, and non-judgmental environment that allows clients to talk about their concerns and feelings.
PLAY THERAPY
Play has often been described as the language of children. Our specially trained play therapists help young children express their most difficult feelings. Some of the tools therapists use in the play therapy process are games, books, toys, anatomically correct dolls, sand tray therapy, and art therapy.
CASE MANAGEMENT
A FREE customized resource needs assessment with CFGC’s Case Manager. This helps find clients and client’s families resources to assist in areas of need.
FAMILY EMPOWERMENT PROGRAM
Caregivers are provided support and resources by working directly with a master’s level intern to help them learn about their child’s diagnosis, emotional and behavioral problems, parenting skills assistance as well as their own mental healthcare needs.
PARENT EDUCATION PROGRAMS
A variety of award winning, evidence-based programs and curriculum are offered in group classes and individually to help parents strengthen their parenting skills.
MENTAL HEALTH PROFESSIONAL TRAINING
CFGC offers CEU training to staff and community mental health providers. We also provide internships to master level students and LPC interns.
COMMUNITY PARTNERSHIPS & COLLABORATIONS
CFGC is proud of the many professional relationships developed over the years that provide expanded services and resources to clients.
The Child & Family Guidance Center of Texoma is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit agency that receives financial support from generous community partners. Because of this generous support, no uninsured client is refused treatment because of financial limitations.
