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Rally at UN urges world leaders to address antisemitism – page 7

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2027 Super Sunday brings Jewish Tidewater together to learn, play, act, and give

Sunday, October 11, 12 - 3 pm, Sandler Family Campus Amy Zelenka Tidewater’s Jewish community will gather for a very special Super Sunday this month. 2027 Super Sunday is a day dedicated to learning, family fun, volunteerism, and giving, while connecting with local and global organizations. -------––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Learn about the impact of giving

Throughout the day, attendees will have the opportunity to stroll displays in the Copeland Cardo and meet community partners whose work is made possible in part through United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s support. Each agency will share stories highlighting the impact of their services on Jewish communities from Tidewater to Tel Aviv. This is an opportunity for participants to see firsthand how their individual and collective tzedakah supports local and overseas programs, nurtures Jewish pride, and safeguards the Jewish community’s shared future. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

A Sunday Funday for families

Noon - 4 pm, Sandler Family Campus Families are invited to bring their children to Sunday Funday where the kids can bounce, create, and play while parents and other family members take part in the day’s activities. Parents volunteering for Super Sunday who are making calls in support of the Campaign may also drop-off children ages 4 and older during their calling shift. Childcare spots are limited, and drop-off is available only during parents’ calling shifts. Families can register for Sunday Funday when

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Taking action together

Super Sunday is Tidewater’s largest day of Jewish community action, with volunteers playing a central role in making the campaign successful. During the event, volunteer callers will reach out to fellow-community members to request pledges of support for the 2027 Community Campaign. Super Sunday shows that every gift matters, and every connection matters, whether it comes through a phone call, text message, or personal conversation. Community members interested in volunteering are encouraged to sign up for a calling shift. Calling will take place in the Fleder Multipurpose Room. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Giving back to the community

Super Sunday also brings with it the simple invitation to give. Donations to United Jewish Federation of Tidewater help strengthen the local community while supporting Jewish life beyond the region. This year’s Super Sunday offers something for everyone — and an opportunity to learn about the work UJFT does every single day. For more information and to register, go to jewishva.org/supersunday.

About the cover: Devorah Halberstam, whose son Ari was killed in a terror attack in 1994, addresses the crowd at a rally outside the United Nations. (Photograph by Jackie Hajdenberg)

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Be A Reader is back to school . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14

Jewish News supporters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5

Special section: Legal . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 15

Opinion: We need to take seriously the erosion of US support for Israel . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6

Cantors and Chazanim Concert . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 27

Rally at UN urges world leaders to address antisemitism . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7

Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival . 28 SIA Golf Tournament . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 30 Lev Sara Bikkur Cholim initiative . . . . . . . . . . . . 31

$2 million endowment for Curator of Photography at the Chrysler Museum . . . . . . . . . . 8

At 90, Erica Ausch teaches aerobics . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Pilot stabbed on Israel-bound flight . . . . . . . . . . . . 9

What’s Happening . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 32

Calls increase to remove Pink as UNICEF Ambassador . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10 Why voting matters . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11

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Jewish Dems in Congress oppose plans to merge Holocaust and antisemitism envoys

early two dozen Jewish Democrats in Congress signed a letter opposing plans to fold the State Department’s standalone Holocaust envoy office into the office of Rabbi Yehuda Kaploun, the Trump administration’s special envoy to monitor and combat antisemitism. Kaploun has been pushing for the merger for months, and his efforts have divided Jewish leaders over the future of Holocaust diplomacy. Supporters of the move claimed that it would improve efficiency, while critics said it would flatten the attention given to Holocaust-specific issues, and criticized it as a power grab by Kaploun. Opposition to the plan escalated Sept. 23 when 19 members of Congress in a letter called for Secretary of State Marco Rubio to preserve the Holocaust envoy as “a distinct, permanent office led by a dedicated career State Department official.” The officials, who are all members of the Congressional Jewish Caucus, wrote that the two offices “are complementary, but they are not interchangeable.” Kaploun’s office is “responsible for confronting contemporary antisemitism around the world,” the letter reads, while the Holocaust envoy’s office “focuses on Holocaust-era restitution, historical justice, remembrance, and accountability.” Signatories on the letter include moderate Democrats such as Reps. Jared Moskowitz and Josh Gottheimer, and progressives including Reps. Jamie Raskin and Jan Schakowsky. New York Rep. Jerry Nadler, who co-led the letter with Illinois Rep. Brad Schneider, said in June that the potential move was “abominable” and a “vain attempt to consolidate power by Yehuda Kaploun.” “If supporting Holocaust victims and their families was a priority to this Administration, they would seek further opportunities to support SEHI, not to eliminate it,” said Nadler, the House’s longest-serving Jewish member. The letter called for Rubio to not only preserve the role, which is currently vacant, but also to “immediately appoint a new Special Envoy for Holocaust Issues.” Rubio has not named a successor to Ellen Germain, whose term ended on July 31 after she took over in August 2021. Germain emphasized the need for European nations to sustain remembrance of the Holocaust and their roles in its perpetration; top Trump administration figures, including Vice President JD Vance, have said that the current intensity of Holocaust commemoration in Europe is counterproductive. A group of Jewish organizations, including the Anti-Defamation League, American Jewish Committee and B’nai Brith International, had called on Rubio to fill the impending vacancy in April. Doing so, the groups wrote, would “demonstrate the prioritization that the

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United States ascribes to preserving the uniqueness of the Holocaust through this special office,” and “ensure that its critical work continues.” A separate host of Jewish groups, including the Combat Antisemitism Movement, the Union of Orthodox Jewish Congregations of America, the World Jewish Congress, and Chabad-Lubavitch World Headquarters, had called for Rubio to go ahead with the merger to increase efficiency and avoid “duplicative efforts” by the two offices. The Jewish Democrats’ letter refuted that argument: “Combining them would not streamline efficiency or eliminate any meaningful duplication; it would risk diminishing the focus, experience, and institutional capacity necessary for each,” the letter reads. (JTA) ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Poll: A third of Israelis call settler rioters ‘terrorists’

third of Israelis describe Jewish rioters involved in recent violence in the West Bank village of Qusra as “Israeli terrorists,” according to a survey released Sept. 21 by the Jewish People Policy Institute. Coupled with another 18% who called them “nationalist criminals,” the results demonstrate the degree to which the rioters, whose actions have roiled Israel’s relations with its allies, including the Trump administration, are outliers in Israel, Yedidia Stern, JPPI president, said. “The survey shows that support among Israelis for the Jewish rioters in the West Bank is truly negligible, at just 5%,” Stern said. “More than half the public judges them very harshly, as terrorists or criminals, while others view them with varying degrees of severity. This represents an unusually broad consensus in Israel’s polarized society.” Only 13% of the respondents chose one of the two most lenient descriptions: “young people who sometimes go too far” or “the salt of the earth.” The government of Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu has come under pressure from the Trump administration and European nations to crack down on the rioters. Netanyahu has until recently resisted serious action, mindful that a significant portion of his coalition includes far-right parties sympathetic to varying degrees with the rioters. Earlier last month, Netanyahu ordered some of the outposts associated with the rioters removed. Views on the rioters differed according to political affiliation. Sixty-three percent of respondents on the left described the rioters as “Israeli terrorists,” compared with 49% in the center and just 3% on the right. Arab Israelis were also more likely to use the term, at 55%, compared with 27% of Jewish Israelis. The survey referred to a recent incident in Qusra in which dozens of masked Israelis arrived in pickup trucks, threw stones at Palestinian residents, and barricaded themselves inside a Palestinian home while members of the family were still inside, according to the

Israeli military. Several Palestinians were wounded, and the rioters fled when security forces arrived. No arrests were made. The incident came weeks after another confrontation in Qusra in which Israeli settlers set up an unauthorized outpost beside Palestinian homes. U.S. Ambassador Mike Huckabee condemned that episode at the time as a “horrific act of terror” meant to “intimidate and harass” families. (JTA) ––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Sunkist Fruit Gems return after panic over loss of synagogue staple

unkist Fruit Gems, candies beloved for their throwable qualities at Jewish celebrations, will return after a brief panic over their discontinuation. The sugar-coated gummies will be on shelves in early 2027 following an outpouring of “overwhelming support and enthusiasm shown by Sunkist Fruit Gems fans in recent days,” Sunkist confirmed to JTA. The company said it will collaborate with CandyRific, a Kentucky-based confectionery company, to continue the legacy of Sunkist Fruit Gems days after reports of the gummies’ demise. The fruit gems tick crucial boxes for being hurled at bar and bat mitzvahs, wedding celebrations, and other happy occasions: They are kosher, soft enough to avoid injuring celebrants and individually wrapped so they don’t get stuck on the floor. “Consumers can expect the same key product characteristics they know and love, including individually wrapped pieces, a soft texture, fruit flavors, and kosher certification,” Sunkist said. EJewishPhilanthropy first reported last month that the fruit gems were being discontinued by Ferrara, a Chicagobased candy company, prompting memorial tributes in Jewish communities throughout the United States. Ferrara told JTA that Sunkist Fruit Gems were cut from their Jelly Belly brand to “focus resources on future growth and innovation.” The fruit gems have been a staple at synagogues for generations. They were born from an overabundance of citrus in the 1930s, when the citrus harvester Sunkist began transforming surplus fruit into byproducts. The candies evolved from Christopher’s Fruit Gems to take the Sunkist name in the 1960s. Protests against their disappearance included an appeal in eJewishPhilanthropy by Sara Fredman Aeder, the executive vice president of programming at the Jewish Community Relations Council of New York, headlined “Save the Fruit Gems.” Sunkist’s announcement on Instagram that the fruit gems were “not going anywhere” was met with grateful replies. “I panic-bought in bulk for my wedding next year,” said one commenter. “Now I feel foolish lol. But enjoying a bunch of very yummy gummies.” (JTA)

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WE NEED TO TAKE SERIOUSLY THE EROSION OF US SUPPORT FOR ISRAEL Benny Gantz (JTA) —In the shadow-filled days that followed Oct. 7, 2023, few things were as clear as the solemn understanding that what was cannot be again, and that things must change. Three years on, and ahead of the first elections since that day, with polls pointing toward yet another political deadlock, that realization has still not produced a clear collective answer to the question of how. Israel stands at an extraordinary moment, rapidly approaching Election Day on Oct. 27. We face serious threats, among the most troubling since our nation’s modern rebirth: a decline in our global standing, rising antisemitism, a weakening connection with Jewish communities abroad and, above all, a paralyzing internal divide over the questions that define who we are. The leaders facing this moment cannot be those who deepen that divide. Israel now needs a broad, moderate Zionist government – stretching from the responsible right to the responsible left, and strong enough to govern without dependence on political radicals. This is not simply an argument about coalition politics. It is a strategic necessity. When it comes to Israel-U.S. relations, Israelis should take seriously California Congressman Brad Sherman’s recent warning about the erosion of support for Israel in America, particularly because it comes from one of Israel’s longstanding Democratic friends. The rhetoric and radical positions of figures such as Itamar Ben-Gvir, the national security minister in Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu’s government, can cause damage to Israel’s standing even when they do not become government policy or are executed on the ground. Israel does not have to agree with every criticism coming from Washington. We are a sovereign country and must make our own security decisions while working to reduce unnecessary external dependence. But when friends who have defended Israel for decades tell us that something is going wrong, we should listen. The U.S.Israel alliance cannot be held hostage to partisan politics. Presidents change, congressional majorities change, and political generations change. The alliance must be strong enough to endure all of them. The same is true of Israel’s relationship with American Jewry. American Jews should never have to support every Israeli minister or government to demonstrate their support for Israel. Criticism of a political vision is not a rejection of the Jewish state. 6 | JEWISH NEWS | OCTOBER 5, 2026 | jewishnewsva.org

American Jews remain outside Israel’s democratic arena, but Israel is the nation-state of the Jewish people, and we must protect the dialogue over our shared future. Governments come and go; Jewish peoplehood does not. That responsibility also has a religious dimension. The Western Wall should symbolize the shared history and destiny of the Jewish people. Instead, narrow coalition politics have allowed the question of how Jews can pray there to become another source of division between Israel and Jews abroad. I have said before that the Western Wall is large enough to accommodate everyone. It still is. The consequences of disproportionate leverage for radicals do not stop at Israel’s borders. The Abraham Accords demonstrated what the alternative can look like. They shattered the assumption that Israel was condemned to isolation from much of our region. The next chapter could be even more consequential. A regional architecture connecting Israel, the United States and moderate Arab and Muslim countries through security, technology, trade and shared strategic interests could reshape Israel’s position for generations. But Israel needs the political room to pursue it. We cannot make regional normalization a strategic priority while allowing political factions fundamentally opposed to compromise to exercise disproportionate influence over Benny Gantz. national policy. Israel’s problem is not that the majority of Israelis have become radical. It is that our political system repeatedly gives radical minorities power far beyond their public support. After a decade of political struggles, I have concluded that this model cannot provide the broad base required to make and effectively implement

decisions on Israel’s fundamental national challenges. That is why I believe Israel needs a broad Zionist government anchored by moderate forces. The purpose is to create enough political strength across the responsible Zionist center that extremists are no longer indispensable and no longer possess veto power over Israel’s national direction. Broad does not mean without principles. Such a government can and should contain serious disagreements between right, center and left. Zionism has never required political uniformity. But its members must share basic responsibilities: defending the country and sharing its burdens; preserving Israel as Jewish and democratic; respecting the rule of law; rejecting racism and political violence; and understanding that decisions made in Jerusalem affect Israel’s alliances and the Jewish people as a whole. For the sake of Israel’s future and Jewish unity, we must restore political power to the broad moderate majority and ensure that narrow political interests do not outweigh the wider national interest. Decisions made in Jerusalem do not stop at the doors of the Knesset. The political leaders who make them can and will determine how they echo in Washington, in synagogues, on campuses, in Jewish organizations and in families throughout the Diaspora. Never has that responsibility mattered more.

Decisions made in Jerusalem do not stop at the doors of the Knesset. They echo in Washington, in synagogues, on campuses, in Jewish organizations and in families throughout the Diaspora.

Benny Gantz, the former minister of defense for the State of Israel, is the chairman of the Blue & White Party. The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of JTA, its parent company, 70 Faces Media or of Jewish News and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater.

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MEET: Paul R. Hernandez “This area is our home and we are committed to supporting it. Our lawyers are actively involved by donating their time to programs that help the community, especially in the schools with young drivers. I am very involved with End Distracted Driving, spending 20 days a year in the schools educating students about the dangers of using a cell phone while driving. The other major program we work on is Every 15 Minutes which highlights how every 15 minutes someone dies in a car crash and helps teens understand the consequences of drinking and driving.”

Hundreds rally at UN to urge world leaders to address antisemitism Jackie Hajdenberg (New York Jewish Week) —Hundreds of members of New York’s Jewish community competed against stand-still traffic, security details and dozens of black SUVs on the evening of Wednesday, Sept. 23 to reach Dag Hammarskjöld Plaza near the United Nations. Their plea? For world leaders at the global body’s annual General Assembly to take antisemitic violence seriously. “This week world leaders are gathered in our city, right down the street at the United Nations, to discuss global challenges,” Eric Goldstein, CEO of the UJA-Federation of New York, said in his opening remarks. “But we know that they are not addressing the rampant proliferation of antisemitism across the world.” Organized by UJA and the Jewish Community Relations Council of New York, the evening rally featured a number of interfaith speakers, as well as survivors of various antisemitic hate crimes around the world from Nova to Bondi Beach. Devorah Halberstam, whose son

Ari was murdered on the Brooklyn Bridge in 1994 in a terror attack, gave an impassioned speech, imploring world leaders to “tell your people: Take this message back to your countries. Antisemitism must stop. Not tomorrow. Not when it becomes politically expedient. Right now.” A number of speakers criticized New York City Mayor Zohran Mamdani, questioning whether he could truly be a mayor to New York City’s Jews who fundamentally disagree with him on Israel. Anti-Defamation League CEO Jonathan Greenblatt called out a more general “deliberate passivity in the face of antisemitism,” likening it to complicity. Also speaking at the event was George Zamot, a UPS driver who intervened in July’s stabbing attack on the Upper West Side, in which a Jewish man and an Asian man were injured. While some speakers focused on the dangers of antisemitism, a few addressed moments of community that resulted from such terrible events.

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$2 million endowment for new Curator of Photography at Chrysler Museum honors Germaine Clair, former Jewish News art director A transformative $2 million gift from The endowment honors Johnson’s longtime Chrysler Museum supporter late wife, Germaine Clair, who was an and former curator active member Brooks Johnson of Hampton will establish an Roads’ creative endowed Curator community known of Photography for her warmth, position at the generosity, Chrysler Museum elegance, and of Art. The newly spirited advocacy created Germaine for the arts. Clair Clair and Brooks served as art Johnson Curator director for Jewish of Photography News for 18 years, Brooks Johnson and Eric Neil at the museum. will ensure the where she used her continued growth, care, and visibility of design talent and production expertise to the Museum’s photography collection. produce the paper and its accompanying

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One pilot stabbed another on Israel-bound ﬂight in a possible attempt to crash the plane Tomer Almagor (JTA) — One pilot stabbed another in the cockpit of a Flydubai flight from Dubai to Tel Aviv in what may have been an attempt to crash the plane, Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu said on Wednesday, Sept. 30. A passenger intervened to help restrain the attacker, he added. The flight, carrying more than 100 Israeli passengers, was diverted while flying over Jordanian airspace and made an emergency landing at Tabuk Airport in northwestern Saudi Arabia, an Israeli official told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency. “During the flight, as they were approaching Israel, one of the pilots stabbed the other pilot and apparently attempted to crash the plane with its passengers on board,” Netanyahu said in an official video statement. He said he spoke with one of the passengers, who told him that he had managed to enter the cockpit with a member of the cabin crew. Together, they were able to restrain the pilot who had allegedly carried out the stabbing and was attempting to interfere with the aircraft’s systems, Netanyahu said. He added that another crew member entered the cockpit and managed to land the plane. “I salute these heroes, who saved many lives and prevented a major disaster,” Netanyahu said. He called the incident a “serious security event” and said that nearly all of the passengers on board were Israelis. Defense Minister Israel Katz described the incident as a “jihadist terror attack.” “According to the initial information in our possession, the terrorist had one intention: to crash the plane with all its passengers on board,” Katz said. He credited the passengers with taking control of the attacker and allowing another flight crew member to regain control of the aircraft. Saudi authorities said the two pilots were taken to a hospital after sustaining injuries, according to international media reports. Netanyahu said that the pilot accused of carrying out the stabbing was “currently being questioned by the Saudi authorities.” Data from Flightradar24 showed the aircraft descending roughly 14,000 feet in less than 30 seconds during the incident. Videos recorded during the flight appeared to show chaos in the cabin, with passengers screaming and crying. The entire incident lasted about an hour and a half, according to accounts from passengers posted on social media and reports by Israeli media. “We are on the flight from Dubai. We took control of the flight. There was an attacker with a knife who stabbed one of the pilots,” passenger Itzhak Liber said in a Facebook video. “A few of us jumped in and pulled him out of the cockpit. Everything is OK now. The terrorist is neutralized. There is a pilot who is seriously injured.” “It was tough. Everything is covered in blood,” Liber added. Another passenger, with blood on his face, appeared in a video posted to social media and said the passengers were in the middle of a hijacking and had restrained the attacker as the plane prepared to land. In another video, several passengers said they were protecting the pilot. The first official U.S. reaction came from U.S. Ambassador to Israel Mike Huckabee, who wrote on X that “details still unclear,” but that Israeli passengers on board had helped subdue the co-pilot, who “apparently tried to take over the plane.” Huckabee added that the incident “could have been a horrific” one, but that everyone was safe. Flydubai has acknowledged that there was an “incident” that led to the diversion of the flight. It stressed that the plane landed safely and that all passengers were safe. UAE officials had not commented on the incident as of publication. Earlier in the same week as the incident, Netanyahu met with UAE President Sheikh Mohamed bin Zayed Al Nahyan in Abu Dhabi. Israel and Saudi Arabia do not have formal diplomatic relations, but the two countries maintain ties.

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ANTISEMITISM

CALLS INCREASE TO REMOVE PINK AS UNICEF AMBASSADOR Joseph Strauss (JTA) —Pop singer Pink is facing more calls — including from Spanish Oscar-winning actor Javier Bardem — for her removal as an ambassador for UNICEF, the United Nations agency that provides aid to children and mothers. A petition calling for Pink’s ouster was published the same day that she posted a statement criticizing the rapper Macklemore for the pro-Palestinian comments, imagery and statements aimed at Jews in his opening set on singer Ed Sheeran’s tour last month. The petition has since gained nearly 200,000 signatures. Her comments, the petition writes, have “fueled ongoing conflict and struggles for visibility and empathy,” and removing her “would reaffirm UNICEF’s commitment to impartiality and its dedication to all children, irrespective of nationality or heritage.” Macklemore, who was removed from the tour after venues objected to his participation following the controversial set at New Jersey’s MetLife stadium, has announced his own “Free Palestine” tour beginning with three dates in Dublin, Paris, and London starting Oct. 26, with additional dates, including in the U.S., to be announced. “All proceeds will benefit organizations supporting the Palestinian people and movement,” he said. Jewish Voice for Peace, an anti–Zionist group, is one of the causes listed on the tour flier. Pink, who is Jewish and whose real name is Alecia Beth Moore-Hart, cited her work as a UNICEF ambassador in a lengthy Instagram post earlier this month about Macklemore’s comments. “I’ve spent a decade as a UNICEF ambassador for kids who didn’t choose the country or the war they were born into, and I have grieved every one of them, on both sides of that fence,” Pink wrote at the time. She added that Macklemore used “violent images from a war on the screens, dedicated a song to the movement of his choice, and then took the mic to tell all of the Jews in the stadium that it wasn’t about them.” Macklemore told the crowd during his speech: “To all of my Jewish brothers and sisters: criticism of Israel, criticism of apartheid, being against genocide in no way is a criticism of you.” “You don’t get to decide that for us,” Pink responded in her post. That comment, and not Macklemore’s use of the phrase “Free Palestine,” was what motivated Pink to weigh in, she said. She first weighed in by sharing a post by the 10 | JEWISH NEWS | OCTOBER 5, 2026 | jewishnewsva.org

account StopAntisemitism, which accused Macklemore of ambushing fans with “anti-Israel propaganda.” After receiving backlash for the repost, Pink issued a statement of her own, saying that people assumed her exact beliefs based on her Jewishness. “I was born a Jew. I didn’t pick it, and I’ve never hidden it,” she wrote. “And this week a whole lot of people decided what I believe without asking me, without checking a single thing I’ve ever said or done, because a repost and the word ‘Jew’ were apparently enough to fill in the rest.” In her post, Pink wrote that she does not “speak for Israel, or for any government,” and that “Palestinians deserve a future that honors their humanity and their aspirations.” She lamented the use of the word “‘Zionist,’ spat like it’s a slur.” She also wrote that she did not call for Macklemore to be dropped from the tour, which some critics did. “I have never asked for another artist to be silenced and I’m not asking now,” she wrote. “I don’t need anyone fired, and I don’t need a refund. What I need is to be able to say, as a Jewish mom, ‘that scared me, and it scared people I love,’ without being told our fear is just propaganda, and without being told I’m somehow cool with genocide because I noticed.” The petition against her reads: “As individuals who care deeply about the welfare of children around the world, we must hold UNICEF Ambassadors to the highest standards of neutrality and compassion.” It was started by the group Swifties Against Genocide and has received more than 192,000 signatures. Bardem, who has been vocal in his support of Palestinians, shared the petition on his Instagram account earlier this week. “Palestinian children, like all children affected by genocide, deserve ambassadors who unequivocally extend support and empathy towards their plight,” the petition reads. Bardem and his wife, actress Penelope Cruz,

faced threats of a boycott in 2014 after they joined an open letter condemning Israel for its conduct in its war that year with Hamas. Bardem particularly stirred outrage with a separate statement at the time in which he said, “I cannot understand this barbarism, even more brutal and incomprehensible considering all of the horrible things the Jewish people have gone through in the past.” He and Cruz soon walked back their comments. Pink was first named a U.S. national ambassador for UNICEF in 2015. That year, she traveled to Haiti and met with children and health center patients who were dealing with the aftermath of the country’s devastating 2010 earthquake. UNICEF’s website also says that Pink is passionate about ending global malnutrition and that she has used QR codes in her merchandise booths that link to UNICEF donation pages. U.N. officials have previously defended the right of UNICEF ambassadors to express political views in their personal capacity. The Pakistani government called for UNICEF to drop Indian actor Priyanka Chopra as one of its ambassadors in 2019, saying that her “support for war” and for India’s government amid heightened conflict in the disputed region of Kashmir made a “mockery” of the role. “When UNICEF Goodwill Ambassadors speak in their personal capacity, they retain the right to speak about issues that interest or concern them,” Stephane Dujarric, a spokesperson for U.N. Secretary General Antonio Guterres, said at the time, adding that their “personal views or actions do not necessarily reflect those of UNICEF.” UNICEF has, however, removed an ambassador over political conduct. In 1987, it terminated its association with goodwill ambassador Boris Becker after the tennis player declined to commit that he would not return to apartheid-era South Africa.

What I need is to be able to say, as a Jewish mom, ‘that scared me, and it scared people I love,’ without being told our fear is just propaganda, and without being told I’m somehow cool with genocide because I noticed.

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Sixteen elections later, voting still matters Robin Mancoll This election season marks my 16th election with United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Jewish Community Relations Council. Over those 16 election cycles, I’ve watched elections energize the community, spark debate, shape public policy, and help determine the direction of local, state, and national government. I’ve also heard countless people say the same thing: “My vote won’t make a difference.” History tells us otherwise. One of the most compelling examples happened just across the Hampton Roads Bridge-Tunnel. Those who follow elections likely remember the 2017 race between David Yancey and Shelly Simonds for a seat in the Virginia House of Delegates. After Election Day, a recount, and legal challenges, the race ended in an exact tie and was ultimately decided by a random drawing under Virginia law. At a time when concerns about antisemitism, support for Israel, and the safety of Jewish communities are top of mind throughout the Jewish community, voting is one of the most direct ways to make your voice heard. But making your voice heard requires more than simply showing up on Election Day. It Voting together has long been a Mancoll family tradition. This photo, taken after casting ballots in 2016, captures Robin, Matt, their daughters, and their nephew following an means becoming unexpected reunion at the polls. an informed voter by learning about the candidates, understanding the issues, reviewing the ballot, and planning how and when to vote. To help make that easier, the JCRC created a 2026 Election Toolkit – a one-stop resource for Virginia voters. As a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater must remain nonpartisan. The toolkit is designed to encourage informed and engaged participation in the democratic process. Sixteen elections later, the message remains the same: Get educated. Show up. Vote. Because your vote matters. Every vote matters. Visit JewishVA.org/Election26 to make your plan to vote and access the toolkit. Robin Mancoll, is senior director, United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Jewish Community Relations Council.

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IT’S A WRAP

Tidewater Ruby Lions celebrate philanthropy, legacy, and sisterhood Linda Ausch n a beautiful September afternoon, just days before Rosh Hashanah, Tidewater’s Ruby Lions gathered at Jodi Klebanoff’s home for a luncheon celebrating friendship, philanthropy, and the impact of women’s leadership. Alicia London Friedman, Women’s Philanthropy chair, welcomed the guests and thanked Jodi Klebanoff for hosting. She then shared the exciting news that Tidewater already has eight new Ruby Lions so far this year—and the campaign year is just beginning. This growing number of Rubies reflects not just the generosity and commitment of these women, but also their dedication to strengthening Jewish life locally, nationally, and around the world. Friedman reminded the women that being a Ruby Lion ($10,000+ Federation giver) is much more than a giving level. It represents leadership and a belief in the future of Tidewater’s Jewish community. She reflected on

the legacy “we leave for our daughters, grandchildren, and generations we may never know—the values we model and the traditions we pass down.” “The women who came before us helped build the community we have today,” she shared. “We are now the link between those generations and the ones who will come after us.” Ellen Rostov Hundley, Women’s Philanthropy vice chair, introduced the luncheon’s guest speaker, Sheila Katz, who recently joined the senior professional leadership at Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) after years of service elsewhere in the Jewish world (most recently at National Council of Jewish Women and before that at Hillel International). In describing her vision for her new role, – Chief Jewish Life Officer – Katz described the immense opportunities being created for Jewish communities across the country. She spoke with particular enthusiasm about a transformative new source of funding for Jewish education, Jewish institutions, and

Jewish families, which is set to become available next year. Jewish educational organizations are joining forces to help communities take full advantage of this opportunity, and if participation reaches the scale that organizers envision, thousands of tax-credit contributions could translate into substantial new funding for Jewish education nationwide, making it more accessible for families across the country. Katz spoke about the importance of Jewish communities coming together, sharing resources, and thinking creatively – especially in the area of next generation engagement. Her message resonated with the Ruby Lions, whose philanthropy reflects a deep commitment to addressing many of these same issues in Jewish Tidewater. As the luncheon drew to a close, Klebanoff thanked all for coming and recognized those who work behind the scenes to make these programs and initiatives possible, including the members of the Federation’s professional

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Be A Reader is back to school Robin Ford The High Holy Days just offered a time to pause, reflect, and think about the year ahead – how to do better, how to give more, and, hopefully, how to make a difference. Now it’s time to get busy! This is one of Be A Reader (BeAR) Literacy Project’s favorite times of the year. These early fall days are when mentors are matched with schools, teachers choose their second graders, books and supplies are being gathered, and mentors prepare to head back into classrooms across Norfolk and Virginia Beach. For 27 years, BeAR mentors have spent one hour a week reading one-on-one with second-grade students in local Title I schools. Mentors don’t need to be a teacher or a reading expert – they just need a little patience, a love for kids, and a willingness to show up. To a child, having someone walk through that school door every week just for them says, “You matter! I believe in you! I’m excited to see you!” That’s a pretty big message packed into one little hour. The High Holy Days may be over, but the things reflected on don’t have to be. Now, they can be carried into the new year and put into action. It might not be possible to change the entire world, but it certainly is possible to change someone’s little corner of it. For one second grader, one hour a week is a wonderful place to start. To learn more about BeAR, contact Robin Ford at United Jewish Federation of Tidewater at 757-321-2304 or rford@ujft.org.

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Dear Readers, On my drive to the office, I’m listening to Tom Lake by Anne Padget. Taking place in the summer of 2020, Lara, the mother and book’s narrator, attempts to get her adult daughters to stop focusing on the news. She tells them (and I’m paraphrasing, because, as I mentioned, I’m listening to the book) “If you look to the left, you see all that misery, but if you look to the right, you see out the window the beautiful white blossoms.” The daughters tell her that either way, the news exists. And they don’t want to look away. It’s a minor passage in the book. . . not what the story is about. . . but it reminds me of the importance of being aware of the news occurring outside of our daily lives. And that is exactly why this section features legal news that impacts Jewish communities, houses of worship, businesses where Jews are employed, and universities. The frequency of lawsuits focusing on antisemitism, criminal cases involving violence against Jews and institutions, and new legislation designed to protect Jewish life are growing each day. Having closely monitored news of the Jewish world for more than two decades, the proliferation of these fights, charges, incidents of hate, and scrambles to legislate is sobering. These are not ordinary times. What is now considered ordinary, however, is the necessity for security at synagogues. Keeping everyone safe and following the law is the subject of an article on page 22. A different type of legal issue concerns honoring parents, one of the Ten Commandments, which takes on new meaning as people age and children assume caregiver roles and become decision makers for their moms and dads. Attorney Scott Alperin and Rabbis Herber and Brashevitzky, share advice from legal, religious, and ethical perspectives. That article begins on the next page. Gazing at the white cherry blossoms as Lara recommends, has advantages. But I’m with her daughters – I love soaking in my gardenias, but I’m staying informed, and hoping that you, our Jewish News readers, want the same. Thanks for reading,

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Honoring one’s father and mother Haley Bartel “Honor your father and your mother” is one of the most recognizable of the Ten Commandments – simple enough for a child to memorize, yet its sentiment sticks with many Jews far more into adulthood. Kibud av v’em, the Jewish obligation to honor one’s parents, doesn’t end when childhood does. It follows families as they make some of life’s most difficult decisions: how to care for a parent who is aging. Rabbi Jacob Herber of Congregation Beth El expands on what honoring a parent requires, per Exodus 20:12 and Deuteronomy 5:16. Feeding them, providing for them, and helping them get around are all core examples. “As Jews, we now face many situations that the Torah and Talmud never anticipated,” Herber says – dementia, nursing facilities, life support, a parent who can no longer communicate. “We should always try to provide our parents with dignity and care. But each situation should be taken into consideration.” Herber is careful to note that kibud av v’em plays only a small role in actual life-or-death medical decisions. The more central Jewish values at play, he says, are the obligation to save lives, to prevent suffering, and to honor a parent’s Rabbi Jacob Herber. own wishes. When congregants come to him wrestling with these decisions, he starts by listening.

“I like to remind my congregants to ask themselves: What would my mother or father want? What is the doctor saying they will gain from this treatment? Will this allow my parent to live comfortably and have quality of life? What can my family do to take care of my parent?” Elder law attorney Scott Alperin equates honoring one’s parent to respecting them. “It involves both a spiritual obligation to dignify them because they are responsible for giving you life, but also reflects a responsibility to respect them because your parents play an essential role in guiding you to achieve your lot in life.” At his practice, Alperin Law, he works with families navigating long-term care and end-of-life planning on a regular basis, and the principle of honoring one’s parents shows up in nearly every case that crosses his desk. The hardest conversations often involve a parent who wants to stay independent even as it becomes less safe to do so. “Mom and dad may wish to remain in the residence they have called home for several decades for as long as possible,” he says, “but there are complicating considerations as the parents decline and confront mobility limitations, cognitive impairment, or the need for assistance with their activities of daily living.”

Alperin encourages families to plan ahead – executing a general durable power of attorney and a healthcare power of attorney while a parent is still able to

One of the most difficult scenarios he sees is a parent who is no longer safe to drive but refuses to give up their license. “We all take for granted our freedom of movement and the ability to drive where we need to go, and that is one of the most heartbreaking conversations to have with a parent who is faced with permanently losing their independence.” This is why Alperin encourages Scott Alperin. families to plan ahead – executing a general durable power of attorney and a healthcare power

of attorney while a parent is still able to, so that a trusted agent can step in without the expense and emotional toll of a guardianship proceeding. That said, even with the right documents in place, families still have to reckon with a deeper question. “The biggest misconception is the recognition that what the child perceives as being in the best interest of the parent does not always equate to what the parent desires,” Alperin (Continued on page 18)

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Legal says. “Many children erroneously assume that because their parents are old and frail, what the children want is best for their parents. Often that is not the case.” Rabbi Levi Brashevitzky of Chabad stresses that the obligation doesn’t end when a parent can no longer reciprocate. “Not only does kibud av v'em apply then,” he says, “Torah teaches that it applies after their passing too.” His advice to families navigating the hardest calls is less about legal mechanics and more about posture. “Always approach with pledging the fifth of the Ten Commandments,” he says. “Reflect on

the partnership they have with God in your creation. Remember your children learn most by what you do and how you handle situations, more than what you tell them and or demand of them.” Through the legal framework and religious grounding, a common thread emerges: honoring a parent isn’t about doing everything they ask or protecting them from every risk. It’s about taking their wishes seriously while maintaining a mindset that values both practical and the spiritual perspectives of the law. Most importantly, it’s knowing that how a family navigates these moments matters just as much as what they decide.

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Stanford Gaza protesters avoid felony charges in community service deal

Emma Goss (JTA) —(J. The Jewish News of Northern California via JTA) — State prosecutors are preparing to drop charges against five current and former Stanford University students accused of felony vandalism during the 2024 occupation of the university president’s office in protest against the war in Gaza. Each of them will be required to complete 100 hours of community service and pay a combined $52,000 in restitution to the university as part of a deal reached on Sept. 21 with California Attorney General Rob Bonta’s office. The AG’s office confirmed that the restitution has been paid. In addition, last month, prosecutors in Seattle are preparing to settle charges in a similar case involving the University of Washington. According to the student newspaper, local prosecutors have reportedly entered agreements with all 33 defendants charged with first-degree criminal trespass stemming from a 2025 Gaza protest that

also occupied a campus building. The initial charges were filed in March, but prosecutors agreed to drop them if the defendants complete community service and commit no new legal violations. Two prominent Bay Area Jewish groups decried the outcome of the Stanford prosecution as a “miscarriage of justice,” saying in a joint statement that it “sends the troubling message that politically motivated destruction of property carries minimal legal consequences.” The statement, released by the Jewish Community Relations Council Bay Area and Jewish Silicon Valley, also lamented that the court hearing at which the students agreed to the offer was held on Yom Kippur, precluding many Jews from attending. “That a hearing so closely connected to debates over rising antisemitism was made inaccessible to many in the Jewish community demonstrates a lack of sensitivity and cultural competency,” the joint statement reads.

That a hearing so closely connected to debates over rising antisemitism was made inaccessible to many in the Jewish community demonstrates a lack of sensitivity and cultural competency

Stanford Hillel’s director, Rabbi Jessica Kirschner, also decried the resolution. “These students aren’t heroes. They committed serious acts of vandalism and intimidation against the University community,” Kirschner told Haaretz. “They are fortunate that the court gave them a second chance, and I hope that they use this time to reflect on what it means to be a constructive member of a community.” The Stanford charges were originally brought by the Santa Clara County District Attorney’s Office, led by Jeff Rosen, who is Jewish. A judge declared a mistrial in February. In May, the defense successfully argued that Rosen and his office should be removed from the case over concerns that he had crossed a legal line when suggesting in campaign messaging that the protesters were antisemitic. California’s attorney general then assumed control of the case. The case was one of the highest profile prosecutions of students during the 2024 wave of pro-Palestinian protests on college campuses. In the early morning of June 5, 2024, protesters broke into Building 10, which houses the university president’s office, shattering a window to gain

entry to the building. Once inside, the protesters barricaded entrances to the building using tools and furniture, covered security cameras and spattered fake blood around the building. Thirteen people were arrested following the incident, and 12 were charged with felony vandalism and felony conspiracy to trespass. Seven of them accepted plea deals or diversion programs, leaving the last five to face trial. Bonta’s office defended the outcome of the case, saying in a statement that the defendants were appropriately held accountable for their actions. “We believe this outcome serves the best interests of the community and all parties involved,” the statement said. Following the outcome of the UW resolution, university spokesperson Victor Balta said in a statement to media, “We appreciate the work and attention from the King County Prosecuting Attorney’s Office on this matter.”

These students aren’t heroes. They committed serious acts of vandalism and intimidation against the University.

This story was first reported by J. The Jewish News of Northern California and is reprinted with permission.

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In a legal settlement, UC Berkeley offers a dance scholar a position it denied her because she’s Israeli. Niva Ashkenazi (JTA) — (J. The Jewish News of Northern California via JTA) — For more than nine months, UC Berkeley has failed to honor a legal settlement with an Israeli dance scholar who was denied a teaching position due to her nationality. In response to a J. inquiry, a university spokesperson said the delay was caused by “internal miscommunication.” The university now promises that the scholar, Yael Nativ, will receive the job offer she was guaranteed in the December 2025 settlement “no later than the week of Sept. 28.” “We deeply regret this unfortunate delay and look forward to welcoming Dr. Nativ back to our campus,” UC Berkeley

spokesperson Dan Mogulof said in a statement. Nativ said she received an apology for the delay, and the promise of an imminent job offer in a Sept. 21 email from a university administrator. “It’s always a surprise when I get emails from them because the correspondence was so little to none,” Nativ said. “I’m so tired of this case.” Nativ, a sociologist specializing in Israeli dance, taught in UC Berkeley’s dance department during spring 2022 as a visiting professor through the Helen Diller Institute for Jewish Law and Israel Studies. Her course focused on contemporary dance in Israel through social, political, and cultural perspectives.

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The institute invited Nativ to reapply for another year of teaching. But after the Oct. 7, 2023, Hamas attack on Israel, SanSan Kwan, chair of the dance department, informed Nativ that she would not be rehired. In November 2023, Kwan told Nativ in a WhatsApp message: “My dept cannot host you for a class next fall. Things are very hot right now and many of our grad students are angry. I would be putting the dept and you in a terrible position if you taught here.” The university’s civil rights office investigated the matter and concluded that Nativ was discriminated against based on her Israeli identity. Nativ sued the university, with representation from the Brandeis Center for Human Rights Under Law, in August 2025. When the two sides settled the lawsuit in December 2025, the university acknowledged its wrongdoing and committed to apologizing to Nativ and inviting her back to campus. UC Berkeley Chancellor Rich Lyons apologized to Nativ over Zoom on Feb. 3, but no job offer arrived. The lapse was publicized by Malcolm Feeley, a retired UC Berkeley Law professor, who wrote about Nativ’s

case in a Sept. 16 article in the Jewish Review of Books. “Justice delayed is justice denied. This is justice delayed in the extreme,” Feeley said in an interview. “It takes a concerted effort of badgering to get [the university] to move an inch.” In a statement to J. following the publication of Feeley’s article, Mogulof said the university hadn’t sent Nativ a job offer due to a misunderstanding among administrators about who was responsible for doing so. Executive Vice Chancellor and Provost Ben Hermalin will personally ensure the offer will come within the next two weeks, according to Mogulof. Nativ went on to work as a research fellow at Ben-Gurion University in Israel after she left Berkeley. She said her main goal since the lawsuit has been to hold UC Berkeley accountable, not to land a job. “It wasn’t urgent for me to go [back to campus]. It’s more about making a point, getting my justice,” she said. “But if they invite, I will consider.” This story was first reported by J. The Jewish News of Northern California and is reprinted with permission.

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Synagogues face the challenge to be safe, secure, welcoming, and legal Haley Bartel n 2018, a gunman killed 11 worshippers at the Tree of Life synagogue in Pittsburgh, the deadliest attack on the Jewish community in U.S. history. In the years since, some Jewish writers have argued that congregants should be able to protect themselves. Rabbi Stuart Halpern and Tevi Troy wrote in City Journal in 2022 that many Jews concluded the only ones who can defend them are themselves. Laws barring licensed carriers from houses of worship, they argued, leave would-be victims disarmed while attackers stay armed. “A siddur, alas, is a poor substitute for a gun in a firefight,” they wrote. Still, Virginia law makes it a misdemeanor to carry a gun into a place of worship during a religious meeting without “good and sufficient reason,” a phrase the statute doesn’t define. Lawmakers have attempted to loosen the law. A 2019 bill to allow weapons in places of worship passed the state Senate 21-19, but died in the House Rules Committee. Ohef Sholom Temple is one of the congregations that has chosen the stricter approach. The synagogue has armed security on site, but congregants – or anyone entering the building – are not allowed to carry their own firearms.

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“The issue of security is a basic in synagogue life,” says Jennifer Levin-Tavares, the temple’s executive director. She has spent more than 25 years in synagogue management, and several of those years put her close to some of the nation’s worst tragedies, including the 2018 shooting at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School, one mile from the synagogue she served in Parkland, Florida. Throughout her career, balancing security with the air of warmth that worshippers crave from a synagogue has never been easy. “It is a tricky balance,” she says, “one that constantly evolves.” Security consultant Joe Bouchard started working with Ohef Sholom in 2017 to help overhaul its security policies and procedures. Levin-Tavares is in regular contact with Bouchard, as well as with Mike Goldsmith, Secure Community Network regional advisor, and the Norfolk Police. The Secure Community Network, which advises Jewish institutions on security, recommends a layered

approach that includes hiring off-duty police officers for armed security, says Goldsmith. Synagogues that choose to use armed volunteers should have strict policies, vetting, and rigorous training, he says, and should distinguish between a formal security team and an individual allowed to carry concealed. Coordination with police is essential, he says, because in the event of an emergency “first responders will not know who is on your security team.” The temple has hosted full-scale exercises for Hampton Roads law enforcement, most recently through Goldsmith’s coordination. Protocols are re-evaluated after significant antisemitic or security incidents and before major events, and congregants are told about changes, such as those around the High Holidays. “We don't want Ohef Sholom to feel like a fortress,” Levin-Tavares says. Access control and layered security are key, but “the warmth largely comes from the people, how we treat each other, and being strategic in approach.”

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California Gov. Gavin Newsom signs bill to create safe spaces around synagogues Sharon Udasin (JTA) — California Gov. Gavin Newsom, a Democrat, has signed a law that will create protective spaces around religious institutions, after a pro-Palestinian protest at a Los Angeles synagogue last year turned violent. The legislation, AB 2664, establishes 100-foot zones around the entrances to houses of worship. Within the zones, no one will be allowed to come within eight feet of a congregant without consent to

distribute leaflets, hold a sign, or engage in oral protests that aim “to harass, obstruct, threaten, or intimidate the person.” Failure to comply could result in fines of up to $1,000 and/or imprisonment of no more than six months, with second violations raising those bars to $5,000 and one year, per the law. “Every Californian should be able to walk into a synagogue, church, mosque, or other house of worship without fear,” Newsom said in a statement.

“California is continuing to protect these organizations and the people they serve, and we’re strengthening that work from the front door to expanding security resources to community events statewide.” Newsom’s status as a leading Democrat – and one considering a 2028 presidential run – makes his enthusiastic endorsement notable. Progressives in other locales, including New York City, have pushed back against similar laws, saying they endanger speech protections. The bill’s signing came less than a year after a violent protest rattled the Wilshire Boulevard Temple in Los Angeles. At the December event, pro-Palestinian demonstrators blocked people from entering the synagogue and cut off parental access to the religious school. Protesters destroyed property and assaulted a security guard; one person was arrested for battery and another for vandalism. At the time, Mayor Karen Bass denounced the incident, which took place at one of the largest synagogues in the city, as both “abhorrent” and antisemitic. The following spring, California Assembly member Rebecca Bauer-Kahan, a Democrat, introduced the legislation, drafted by Jewish California, a lobby representing a number of the state’s Jewish groups. Newsom signed the bill on Friday, Sept. 25 inside Wilshire Boulevard Temple, joined by Jewish California leaders, synagogue clergy, and members of the California Legislative Jewish Caucus and the broader community. The legislation advanced despite vocal opposition. The Council on American-Islamic Relations slammed the bill for infringing upon free speech by creating “new criminal penalties that would put peaceful protesters and

community advocates at risk.” In a statement following Newsom’s signing ceremony, the council’s California CEO, Hussam Ayloush, argued that some sales of “illegally occupied land” are occurring “exclusively to Jewish Americans at events hosted by American synagogues.” “If a house of worship in America chooses to serve as a platform for illegal land sales meant to normalize Palestinian displacement, Americans should be able to peacefully demonstrate against that immoral activity,” Ayloush said. The protest at the Wilshire Boulevard Temple did not target land sales, but a public safety and technology event organized by the Consulate General of Israel. Jewish California stressed that the legislation not only gained support from dozens of Jewish groups but also from Muslim, Sikh, Christian, and Hindu organizations. Ultimately, the bill passed with 34 out of 40 State Senate votes and 61 of 80 State Assembly votes. “With the Governor’s signature, California is sending a clear message: everyone has the right to practice their faith safely and freely,” Bauer-Kahan said in a statement. “Antisemitism is rising, and so is hostility towards other religious communities,” she added. “This law protects all worshippers of all faiths, and it ensures that faith can be practiced without fear.” AB 2664 was one of six bills relevant to the Jewish community that passed in California’s state legislature last month. Newsom signed one of the other bills, AB 1853, on Monday, Sept. 28 — enacting a ban on including misleading or threatening information, like hate speech,

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Feds say Cisco likely failed to protect pro-Palestinian workers from harassment

Andrew Silow-Carroll (JTA) — Cisco Systems likely violated the civil rights of Palestinian, Arab, and Muslim employees, a federal agency has found, after employees were subjected to harassing messages — some of them posted by employees in an internal forum called the Connected Jewish Network. The U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission determined in June that there was “reasonable cause to believe” Cisco subjected the employees to a hostile work environment based on their national origin, religion or association in violation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964. The determination follows on media reports and an EEOC probe into an ugly climate at the tech company following the Oct. 7, 2023, deadly attacks by Hamas on southern Israel. Pro-Palestinian employees called on the company to end its business dealings with Israel, while Jewish employees said the company had failed to protect them from harassment by proPalestinian employees. The EEOC case, however, turned in part on messages shared in the internal Connected Jewish Network forum. A complaint filed by Legal Aid at Work, which represented the Muslim and proPalestinian employees, said employees on the Jewish forum had “repeatedly glorified violence, joked about sending people to their deaths” and “labeled Palestinians, Arabs, and

Muslims as murderous, violent, terrorists.” “This is a massive multinational corporation with all the resources in the world and they couldn’t get it right,” Christopher Ho, a director at Legal Aid at Work, told the Guardian, which reported on the EEOC finding last month. “Thankfully the EEOC did.” Ho said Cisco had “at best failed to take their harassment seriously” and through its inaction had sent “the implicit message that its pro-Palestinian employees were unworthy of protection.” The letter is not a binding ruling, and both sides said the EEOC has indicated it will not sue. The finding could nonetheless strengthen employees’ cases if they pursue their own lawsuits. The employees are considering collective and individual litigation, according to media reports. The case examines the period after a group of mostly Palestinian, Arab, and Muslim employees called Bridge to Humanity, circulated an open letter urging Cisco to end its business dealings with the Israeli military. More than 1,700 employees signed the letter. The employees said they were subsequently subjected to racist and Islamophobic harassment. In August 2024, employees — including some concerned Jewish employees — filed a 76-page ethics complaint accusing more than a dozen colleagues of creating a hostile

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tech company involving discrimination against workers engaged in pro-Palestinian advocacy. Since the Oct. 7 attacks, the EEOC has made combating workplace antisemitism a major policy and enforcement priority, with scrutiny on academia and the private sector increasing under the Trump administration. Cisco has disputed the EEOC’s determination, saying it had “thoroughly investigated all concerns and took appropriate action.” The company previously said it had removed some comments, issued discipline warnings and provided coaching to multiple employees.

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One heart, many voices join for annual concert at Temple Emanuel Pati Buksztejn Menda Oliszewski A full house gathered at Temple Emanuel in Virginia Beach on Tuesday, Sept. 15, for the annual Cantors and Chazanim Concert, an evening that brought together cantors, rabbis, and musicians from congregations across the Tidewater Jewish community. Now in its fourth year, Performers at the fourth annual Cantors and Chazanim Concert. the concert has become a meaningful local tradition, celebrating both the Yiddish medley that filled the sanctuary with warmth, diversity of Jewish music and the strength of a energy, and joy. community united through song. The program moved A particularly tender moment came when eightfrom beloved selections from the Israeli songbook to year-old Lia joined guest Chazan Alberto Mirchuk for familiar liturgical melodies, concluding with a lively a duet. Mirchuk, who traveled from Buenos Aires to

participate in the concert for the fourth consecutive year, welcomed his young singing partner with generosity and warmth. Their performance offered a simple reminder of how Jewish music is lovingly passed from one generation to the next. Presented by Temple Emanuel, the concert highlighted remarkable voices, some already familiar and others newly discovered by the audience. More than a musical performance alone, the evening reflected what is possible when Tidewater’s congregations come together—one community, many voices, and, fittingly, one heart.

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Hunter Thomas or more than 40 years, the Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival has brought extraordinary voices to Tidewater. Bestselling authors, journalists, diplomats, physicians, judges, artists, historians, and thought leaders visit the community to share ideas, challenge assumptions, spark curiosity, and deepen understanding. Each conversation offers an opportunity to engage with remarkable individuals whose work is shaping public discourse, advancing knowledge, illuminating history, and expanding perspectives. Together, these voices invite exploration of some of today’s most compelling questions and enduring themes, from identity, belonging, and creativity to leadership, wellness, culture, law, and current events. The festival experience extends beyond the stage. Featured books provide opportunities for continued learning, reflection, and engagement long after each conversation concludes. Unless otherwise noted, all conversations are free and take place at the Simon Family Jewish Community Center on the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus of the Tidewater Jewish Community. Pre-registration is required. For more information and to register, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest.

upport the festival and its visiting authors by purchasing books online. Pre-order a copy for pick-up at the Simon Family JCC when registering for an event or order a book for home delivery through JewishVA.org/BookShop. Books can also be purchased at the JCC. Stay after each event to meet the author and get books signed.

or more information about the festival or to sponsor or volunteer, contact Hunter Thomas, UJFT’s director of Arts + Ideas, at HThomas@UJFT.org or 757-965-6137. To learn more or to register for events, visit JewishVA.org/BookFest.

he Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival is funded in part by the citizens of Virginia Beach through a grant from the City of Virginia Beach Arts and Humanities Commission and is held in coordination with the Jewish Book Council, the longest-running organization devoted exclusively to the support and celebration of Jewish literature.

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THE AMERICAN-ISRAELI RELATIONSHIP: PAST, PRESENT, AND FUTURE

JUDY BLUME: A LIFE

Israeli Ambassador to the United States (2009-2013), Michael Oren

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Thursday, October 22 7 pm, Congregation Beth El

ew individuals have had a front-row seat to the modern U.S.-Israel relationship quite like Michael Oren. With Israelis heading to the polls just days after his visit, Oren connects history to today’s headlines while exploring the forces shaping Israel, America, and the broader Middle East. Drawing on decades of public service, he offers insight into the challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. Presented by the Milton “Mickey” Kramer ScholarIn-Residence Fund of the Congregation Beth El Foundation in partnership with the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, all area synagogues, and Community Partners’ 16th Annual Israel Today Series.

Journalist, author, and podcaster Mark Oppenheimer

Wednesday, October 28 7 pm

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HINENU: ISRAEL AT TEN MILLION Photographer David Shlachter Author of Hinenu: Israel at Ten Million

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s Israel reaches a historic demographic milestone, David Shlachter explores the individuals behind the statistics – Jews and Arabs, immigrants and natives, young dreamers and seasoned leaders – creating a multifaceted portrait of a nation at an important moment in its history. The result is an intimate portrait of Israeli society and the people helping define its future. Presented in partnership with the Jewish Community Relations Council of the United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, Simon Family JCC, all area synagogues, and Community Partners’ 16th Annual Israel Today Series. View photographs from Hinenu: Israel at Ten Million on display in the Leon Family Gallery at the Simon Family JCC, November through December 2026.

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SIA Golf Tournament scores a winning day

Winning team: Ben Leon, Miles Leon, Matt Fine, and Wes Bourdon.

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Carin Simon For 38 years, golfers, sponsors, volunteers, and friends of Strelitz International Academy have come together for a day that is about much more than golf. This year, that tradition reached a new milestone. The 38th Annual Bob Josephberg Classic & Strelitz International Academy Golf Tournament, held September 2 at Virginia Beach National Golf Club, raised a record $150,000 in support of SIA’s students, faculty, and programs. As the school’s largest annual fundraiser, the tournament provides critical support that helps SIA continue to offer an exceptional education grounded in Jewish values while investing in the people and programs that make the school community thrive. “Reaching $150,000 is an incredible accomplishment, but what makes this tournament so meaningful is the community behind it,” says Heather Moore, Head of School. “Year after year, our sponsors, golfers, and volunteers

Ross Bangel and Tim Thornton, Tournament co-chairs.

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show us how deeply they believe in our school and in the importance of investing in Jewish education. Their generosity directly impacts the experience we are able to provide our students and faculty every day.” The tournament has become a beloved SIA tradition, bringing together longtime supporters, local businesses, parents, alumni families, and friends of the school. While participants may arrive ready for a great day on the golf course, the event is ultimately about a shared commitment to ensuring a strong future for SIA and Jewish education in Tidewater. This year’s tournament success was made possible through the leadership of Tim Thornton and Ross Bangel, tournament co-chairs, along with committee members Bill Carden, Chip Friedman, Sharon Grossman, Angela Jenkins, David Leon, Nina Kruger, Kasey Molloy, and Ian Persaud. Months of planning, sponsor outreach, and behind-thescenes work culminated in a successful day both on and off the course.

2nd Place team: David Cardon, Doug Hatfield, Bob Zuckerman, and Steve Zuckerman.

The greatest measure of the tournament’s success, however, was not found on the leaderboard. It was found in a community coming together to support the next generation. For nearly four decades, the Bob Josephberg Classic has demonstrated the power of collective giving. Every sponsorship, registration, raffle donation, and volunteer hour contributes to SIA’s ability to provide students with an outstanding academic experience within a dynamic Jewish environment, one that nurtures their identities, encourages curiosity, and prepares them to become compassionate, engaged members of the Jewish community and the world. Strelitz International Academy is deeply grateful to every sponsor, golfer, donor, and volunteer who made this year’s tournament possible and looks forward to continuing the tradition at the 39th Annual Bob Josephberg Classic. Carin Simon is director of advancement at Strelitz International Academy.

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After dairy dinner catered by Cater613 while listening to speakers several weeks, the child remarked, share how the project began and “They’re finally paying attention to me, highlight the importance of the mitzvah checking if I need anything.” When of bikkur cholim. Rabbi Levin thanked the hospital staff, Shari Berman opened the they replied, “If he is important to you, program by explaining the “why” he must be important to us.” Wolf behind the project. Lev Sara is named emphasized that the takeaway from in memory of her mother-in-law, Shirley this story is that when hospital staff see Berman, whose Hebrew name was Sara. others showing care and attention to a Berman described how her motherpatient, they are more likely to do the in-law dedicated her life to chesed, to same. She said she has witnessed this bikkur cholim. In addition to her work Liba Eisenberg, Pati Oliszewski, and Jennie Tabakin. dynamic herself during the many hours as a social worker, she volunteered she has spent in hospitals with families. with an organization that supports people with cancer. Liba Eisenberg introduced the final part of the program. Berman said she “felt this project would be a meaningful way “Now we have ‘the what,’ the importance of this mitzvah. (But) to honor Shirley’s memory.” what makes the biggest difference is not in what but in how In introducing Elise Wolf, the keynote speaker, Michal we do the mitzvah.” Participants at each table spent about 10 Stein noted that Wolf’s connection to Norfolk spans many minutes discussing pre-distributed questions, including: What years. Born in Norfolk to Benn and Jackie Richels, she noted is helpful—and what is not? What does it mean to show up that the community continues to benefit from the hard work without extracting information? How do we want people to feel the Richels invested in Norfolk’s Jewish community. As after interacting with us? Several themes emerged: It is often the principal of Bais Yaakov of Baltimore, Wolf has played more helpful to offer something specific—“I make soup; can a significant role in educating thousands of young Jewish I bring you some at 1?”—rather than asking a broad question women, including Stein, who highlighted the love, care, and like, “What can I do to help?” which may put the burden on devotion Wolf shows her students during their time at the the person who is ill. Participants also noted the importance of school and long after graduation. respecting privacy and not pressing for details about someone’s Wolf began by saying that when she researched the topic condition. Instead, the focus should be on offering time and of bikkur cholim, “it never occurred to me how nuanced and conversation. Genuine care should feel natural and unforced. how varied this mitzvah is.” She broke the mitzvah down into Visits should not be rushed; rather than arriving with an eye on three parts: what it is, where it appears in the Torah, and the the clock, one should be present and make the interaction about benefits of performing it. The word bikkur, she explained, means the other person. Ultimately, listening was highlighted as one of to check on someone and ensure that their needs are met. the most meaningful ways to support someone going through a Wolf shared a couple of stories stressing the benefits of difficult time. bikkur cholim. Before leaving, attendees completed cards indicating how First, she told a story from the Gemara about the great they could get involved in the project, such as cooking and first-century sage, Rabbi Akiva. When one of his students was delivering meals, and visiting hospitals or senior living facilities. absent for a couple of days and his classmates had not seen him, Although the committee was initiated by members of B’nai Israel, Rabbi Akiva suspected he was ill, as he was typically diligent its mission extends to serving anyone in need within the greater and dedicated. When Rabbi Akiva visited him, he found drawn Tidewater Jewish community. window shades and the room dusty. He immediately opened the windows to let in fresh air, changed the bed linens, and spent a To participate as a volunteer or recipient of services, email few minutes speaking with his student. The student said to his levsarabikkurcholim@gmail.com, call 757-559-1409, or go to https:// rebbe, “You have given me life.” Wolf emphasized this Gemara’s www.bnaiisrael.org/lev-sara-bikur-cholim.html. lesson: when we neglect the sick, we cause great harm, but when

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At 90, Holocaust Survivor Erica Ausch shows no signs of slowing down Joel Rubin For the past 13 summers, Erica Ausch has led hour-long water aerobics classes for fellow residents at the Oceans Condominiums on Atlantic Avenue. “Raise hands, bring them over your head, then down to your sides,” Ausch calls out. “Kick right side, arms out, then left, 10 times.” “We call her ‘the world’s best teacher’,” says Evelyn Dowdy. “She works your arms and legs, all your joints,” adds Dowdy’s sister Anne Holcombe. “As we get older, it’s what we need to do.” Erica Ausch. For Ausch, it’s the latest chapter in a life that began in Kittsee, Austria, where in 1938 at age 2, her family hid out on a marooned barge on the Danube River with dozens of other Jews, relying on food from strangers to survive the coming Nazi invasion. “We were lucky,” she recalls. “We had relatives in Norfolk and were able to obtain affidavits to leave.” Once here, “my father, who had run a tavern in Austria,

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Shari Graber For anyone who has ever thought it would be cool to learn how to dance but didn’t know where to start, a new opportunity is taking place at the Simon Family JCC. Robin Orr, Tidewater USA Dance treasurer, was looking for a new location for the monthly dances. Among the group’s criteria during the search were: a neutral location so that all the local studios would feel comfortable attending, a central location, a great wood dance floor with lots of space, lots of parking, and to feel safe walking to cars late at night. The Simon Family JCC checked all the boxes. In fact, Orr says they “loved the extra security at the JCC.” Orr says it has been a pleasure working with Benita Watts on scheduling at the JCC. Barring any scheduling conflicts, the group hopes to use the JCC as a permanent location for monthly dances. The dances usually take place on the fourth Saturday of each month. At the upcoming event, a waltz lesson will start the evening off at 7 pm. The cost is $10 for USA dance members, $15 dollars for guests, and $5 for students with an ID. The atmosphere is friendly and all levels are welcome. Dance hosts are present, so people should feel comfortable attending with or without a partner. The music includes swing, salsa, tango, Cha-Cha, Foxtrot, the occasional country Two Step, and a few others. Dancing has great health benefits – including improving mood and memory and always some fun. Water and snacks are also provided. For more information, go to tidewaterusadance.com.

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Decades of Memories: Honoring the loss of peers and friends with Dr. Louise Lubin A special program for seniors Monday, October 19, 11 am - 12:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus Julie Kievit Moving through life, everyone inevitably experiences the loss of people who have been integral along their journey — family, friends, neighbors, colleagues, and members of the community. While those losses might be difficult, the memories that are carried can be a source of comfort, connection, and joy. Jewish Family Service invites seniors to join Dr. Louise B. Lubin for Decades of Memories: Honoring the Loss of Our Peers and Friends. This special program, made possible through The

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Last chance to see Ilse Bing Between Paris and New York Through October 18, Chrysler Museum of Art Hunter Thomas and Drew Lusher There is still time to experience Ilse Bing Between Paris and New York at the Chrysler Museum of Art before the exhibition closes this month. The exhibition examines the life and work of German Jewish artist Ilse Bing (1899-1998), whose photographs captured the energy and complexity of life in Paris and New York during the 1930s. Featuring approximately 40 works from the Museum’s collection, the exhibition follows Bing’s journey from expatriate to refugee and immigrant, revealing how she used photography to navigate a rapidly changing world. After moving from Germany to Paris in 1930, Bing became part of a cosmopolitan community of artists documenting modern urban life. Working with a Leica, the first mass-produced 35mm camera, she photographed the city from unusual angles and earned the nickname “Queen of the Leica” from photographer and critic Emmanuel Sougez in 1931. A visit to New York City in 1936 inspired Bing to turn her camera toward the city’s skyline and cultural life. But her career in Paris was interrupted by the Nazi invasion of France. After being briefly interned, Bing secured safe passage to the United States and returned to New York in 1941 as a refugee.

“What attracted me to this body of work is that Paris. These additions strengthen the Chrysler Bing’s photographs are so emblematic of a particular Museum’s holdings from this formative period and place and time—Paris and further highlight the New York in the ‘30s— contributions of women but her story also has artists to the history of incredible resonance with photography. contemporary questions Organized by the about migration and Chrysler Museum of Art belonging,” says Mia Laufer, and curated by Laufer, Ilse the Chrysler Museum’s Bing Between Paris and New Irene Leache Curator of York remains on view in European Art. “She went the Frank Photography from living as a chic Gallery through German expat in Paris, October 18. to being a refugee fleeing the Nazis, and finally an Hunter Thomas is the immigrant resettling in the director of Arts + Ideas at States. Through it all, she the United Jewish Federation used her camera to find her Ilse Bing (American, b. Germany, 1899–1998), Self-Portrait with Leica, 1931, of Tidewater. He can be Gelatin silver print, Museum purchase, 2025.74.1. This exhibition is organized place in a world that was reached at HThomas@ by the Chrysler Museum of Art and curated by Mia Laufer, PhD, Irene Leache spinning out of control.” UJFT.org or 757-965-6137. Curator of European Art. The exhibition also Drew Lusher is the Public includes two newly acquired photographs, Self-Portrait Programs and Community Partnerships manager at the with Leica (1931) and Cancan, Moulin Rouge, Paris Chrysler Museum of Art. He can be reached at (1931), both created during Bing’s early years in DLusher@Chrysler.org or 757-333-6242.

Rabbi Michael Panitz to join Civic Salon discussion on faith and community Tuesday, October 13, 11 am – 12 pm, Chrysler Museum of Art Hunter Thomas and Drew Lusher Rabbi Michael Panitz of Temple Israel will join Father Noah Van Niel, Rector of Christ & St. Luke’s Episcopal Church, for Civic Salon: Faith, a conversation exploring whether faith communities can serve as models for strong civic communities. Using Baroque artwork as a starting point, the discussion will examine how norms, narratives, Rabbi Michael Panitz and rituals shape the ways people live and work together. The program will also explore connections between civic and religious

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traditions. The program is free for Part of the Chrysler Museum members Civic Salon Series, and $8 for non-members. the program brings Registration is required. together local leaders for conversations Hunter Thomas is the director of focused on civic Arts + Ideas at the United Jewish ideals and cultural Federation of Tidewater, He can expression. By be reached at HThomas@UJFT.org pairing art and or 757-965-6137. Drew Lusher ideas with the is the Public Programs and voices shaping the Father Noah Van Niel Community Partnerships manager community, the at the Chrysler Museum of Art. series aims to create space for inquiry, reflection, He can be reached at DLusher@Chrysler.org or and dialogue about shared civic life. 757-333-6242.

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OCTOBER 10, SATURDAY

Middle School Game Night. Middle school students are invited to an evening filled with games, friendship, and fun. Test strategy skills, solve puzzles, and take on fun challenges while making new memories with friends. Sandler Family Campus. 5 - 9 pm. Dinner provided. Register at JewishVA.org/GameNight or contact Blake Sisler at BSisler@ujft.org. Kids Night Out. A night for kids to look forward to, Kids Night Out is packed with fun, including games, swimming with friends, and a movie to wrap up the evening. Pack dinner. 5 - 9 pm. Sandler Family Campus. For JCC members, ages 4 -12, the cost is $25 per child and $15 per sibling, with a maximum of $55 per household. For potential JCC members, the cost is $30 per child and $20 per sibling, with a maximum of $70 per household. Register: JewishVA.org/KNO or contact Christine Carnahan at CCarnahan@ujft.org.

OCTOBER 15 - DECEMBER 10

Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival For more than 40 years, the Lee & Bernard Jaffe Family Jewish Book Festival has brought extraordinary voices to Tidewater. Bestselling authors, journalists, diplomats, physicians, judges, artists, historians, and thought leaders visit the community to share ideas, challenge assumptions, spark curiosity, and deepen understanding. Each conversation offers an opportunity to engage with remarkable individuals whose work is shaping public discourse, advancing knowledge, illuminating history, and expanding perspectives. The full 2026 festival lineup is on pages 28-29.

OCTOBER 15, THURSDAY

Roundtable Conversation. Join community members of all ages for conversations involving current events, politics, and more. Meets every first and third Thursday of the month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

JMCC Rummage Sale October 18, 8 am - 2 pm Jewish Museum & Cultural Center Portsmouth

For information about Jewish Museum & Cultural Center’s Rummage sale, go to jewishmuseumportsmouth.com. The sale is open to everyone.

OCTOBER 16-18, FRIDAY THROUGH SUNDAY

Tidewater Community Shabbaton. The Community Shabbaton is a chance to step away from the busyness of everyday life and experience the joy of Shabbat alongside neighbors from across the community. Cost: $100 per person, max $400 per family. Includes lodging (in campstyle lodges), all meals, and all activities. Register at JewishVA.org/Shabbaton. Location provided upon registration. For more information, contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@ujft.org.

OCTOBER 19-MAY 24, MONDAYS

Conversational Hebrew with the Shinshinim. Join the Tidewater Shinshinim for weekly classes focusing on practical conversation skills, vocabulary, and pronunciation through interactive activities and real-life scenarios. Perfect for beginners and intermediate learners of all ages who want to improve their speaking and listening skills in a fun, supportive environment. 5 pm. For more information on these classes and the Shinshinim program: JewishVA.org/Shinshinim, or Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

OCTOBER 19, MONDAY

Book Club. The book of the month is The Rabbi’s Knight by Michael J. Cooper. The group meets every third Monday of the month at 1:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: Jewishva.org/Adults or Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.Book Club.

OCTOBER 21, WEDNESDAY

Senior Club: Spirit of Norfolk. Active adults 50 years and older come together on the third Wednesday of each month for lunch and an activity. This month will include a Bingo cruise on the Spirit of Norfolk. Space is limited and registration will be open to club members first. Contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org or 757-452-3184.

OCTOBER 22, THURSDAY

Understanding This Moment with Ambassador Michael Oren. Drawing on decades of service as Israel’s ambassador to the United States, a member of Knesset, diplomat, statesman, bestselling author, and public intellectual, Michael Oren explores the forces that shaped this moment and the decisions that will inﬂuence what comes next for Israel and the U.S.-Israel relationship. Connecting history to today’s headlines, he offers a unique perspective on the challenges and opportunities facing Israel, America, and the Jewish people. For more information and to register: JewishVA.org/IsraelToday or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

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Shirley Chernitzer

CHESAPEAKE – Shirley B. Chernitzer, 89, of Chesapeake, Virginia, passed away peacefully with family at her side on September 18, 2026. She was born May 24, 1937, in Norfolk, Virginia, and remained a lifelong Virginian. A 1955 graduate of Maury High School in Norfolk, Shirley dedicated her working life to serving in local schools. She worked with special needs children at Little Creek Primary School as well as served as a library assistant at Booker T. Washington High School. Shirley later worked as an administrative assistant at Lake Taylor Middle School and Southeastern Cooperative Educational Programs (SECEP). She retired in 1999. Her work in education inspired two generations of educators in the family. Most of all, she cherished her role as a wife, mother, “Meemee,” and “Great Meemee.” Her family was the center of

her world, and her boundless energy left a positive impact on everyone who knew her. Shirley was preceded in death by the love of her life, Jacob Joseph “Joe” Chernitzer, her beloved husband of 50 years; her father, Joseph Berger; her mother, Evelyn; and her favorite aunt, Bertha Glaser. She is survived by her brother, Donald Berger (Dorene); her children, Lisa Campbell (Ken); Rick Chernitzer (Julie); and Ross Chernitzer (Vicky). She is also survived by her cherished grandchildren, Drew McMillan (Danni), and their daughter, C.C.; Abby McMillan (Davis); Rachel Chernitzer; Michael Chernitzer; and Dylan Chernitzer. Shirley also leaves behind her best friend of more than 75 years, Frances Higger. A graveside service took place at Forest Lawn Cemetery, Norfolk. H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments. The family asks that memorial donations be made to Shirley’s favorite charities, the American Heart Association or the American Cancer Society.

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Cabell Barker Cummings

NORFOLK – Cabell B. Cummings, born August 14, 1977, passed away on September 5, 2026. Cabell was a man no one will ever forget. Throughout his life, he touched the lives of countless people, leaving behind memories filled with laughter, sarcasm, and the unmistakable joy of simply being Cabell. From the halls of Norview High School to the grounds of Cape Henry Collegiate, Cabell had a way of making himself part of the places and communities he loved. His humor was quick, his sarcasm was legendary, and his ability to bring joy to those around him was something that made him uniquely Cabell. Cabell had many titles throughout his life, but none meant more to him than Dad. He was immensely proud of his daughter, Karrigan, and the bond they shared. While he may not have gotten to run the basketball court or baseball diamond alongside her, he was an incredible father who gave her his love, encouragement, and unwavering support. Alongside his loving partner, Kassie Verschelde, the three of them shared a bond like no other. Cabell had plenty of practice being a great dad through his years working with the children at the Simon Family Jewish Community Center in Virginia Beach. As a Youth Sports director and coach, including through the Maccabi Games, he encouraged countless kids to get involved, work hard, and believe in themselves. Every one of those children held a special place in his giant heart, and many of them will carry a piece of Cabell’s encouragement with them for years to come. A lifelong sports fan, Cabell loved baseball and just about every sport that could be watched, debated, or turned into a fantasy league. He was also deeply connected to his Cape Henry family, where he built friendships and memories that became an important part of his life. Some of the memories that seem small at first become the ones that last the longest. For his brother-in-law, Matt Verschelde, that included Cabell taking him shopping as a kid—where Matt somehow always managed to come home with the newest Lego sets because he had

conveniently forgotten his wallet. A wink was usually all that was needed to explain how that arrangement worked. Cabell is survived by his loving partner, Kassie Verschelde, and daughter, Karrigan Cummings; his mother, Jean Cummings; his brother, George Cummings; nieces Olivia and Violet; aunt and uncle, Sandra and Don Carrigan; cousin Kelly Barefoot and his wife, Laura; parents-in-law Kathy and Brad Verschelde; brother-in-law Matthew Verschelde; and grandparents Zora and Hugh Parker and Muriel Verschelde. He was preceded in death by his Granny, Virginia Waddill; Papa Cary Waddill; and Grandfather Verschelde, who were undoubtedly ready to welcome him when he arrived. Rather than a traditional farewell, Cabell’s family will celebrate his life with a party honoring the spirit of the man he was. His life was filled with family, friendship, sports, children, laughter, and enough sarcasm to ensure that he will continue to be talked about for a very long time. In honor of Cabell, Kassie and Karrigan ask that those wishing to remember him consider making a donation to one of the following organizations that meant something to him and the communities he loved: Care 4 Frontline, Cape Henry Collegiate Financial Aid Fund, JCC Maccabi Games, and RAPS (Really Awesome People Swimming). Cabell’s life reminds us that the greatest legacy is not always something grand. Sometimes it is a daughter who knows how deeply she was loved, a child who remembers the coach who believed in them, a family who still laughs at the stories, and a friend who can make a room a little brighter simply by being in it. That was Cabell. And that is how he will be remembered. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Betty Glasser Bonnie Hecht

VIRGINIA BEACH – On September 17, 2026, Betty Glasser Bonnie Hecht, a native of Norfolk, Va., passed away at the age of 95. Betty was a loving wife of Dr. Herbert Bonnie for over 25 years until he passed away. Later, she married Robert Hecht with whom she spent six happy years until his passing. Betty is survived by her children, Lily Groh (Barton), Edgar “Pat” Levy (Michele)

OBITUARIES and David Levy (Susan), and her siblings, Sandra Glasser Tavss (Irving, of blessed memory) and Izaac Glasser (Barbara). She is also mourned by Richard Bonnie (Kathleen), Dr. Marshall Bonnie (Sonia), Karen Eaton (Seth), Dr. Gary Hecht (Muriel), Leslie Hecht-Leavitt (Charles), 21 grandchildren, and 22 great grandchildren. Betty was predeceased by her parents, Celia and Simcoe Glasser. A graveside funeral was held at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg officiated. Memorial donations may be sent to the charity of the donor’s choice. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Norman Hecht

NORFOLK – Norman Hecht, 93, passed away on September 12, 2026, after a brief illness. A proud native of Norfolk, he was the son and youngest child of the late Mollie L. and Joseph L. Hecht. He graduated from Maury High School in 1950 and University of Virginia Law School in 1956. Upon graduation, Norman immediately began practicing law in Norfolk until his retirement in 1997. Norman enjoyed a very active lifestyle up until his death, including volunteering more than 2,000 hours at the Military Aviation Museum in Pungo, working on his classic Mustangs, and taking his beloved dog Ringo on daily walks at the beach. He could discuss current events and ancient history with equal ease, and his sharp mind and quick wit will be dearly missed. In 1956, he married Gloria Caplan and they enjoyed 47 years together until her untimely death in 2003. In 2010, he and Sherry Goldstein married, second marriages for both, and spent the next 16 years of their lives together. Norman was a loving and devoted son, brother, father, grandfather, greatgrandfather and uncle who took immense pride in his family. Norman leaves behind a legacy of love and will be deeply missed by his wife Sherry; his children J. Randolph Hecht (Lori), J. Lawrence Hecht (Mai-Ellen), and Michele Cleland (David); grandchildren Matthew, Ryan (Rachel), Nathan (Jordan), Sydney, and Elissa; and great-grandson Finnegan. He is also survived by his

brothers-in-law Stephen Caplan (Renee) and James Caplan (Randy), as well as many nieces, nephews, and cousins. Norman also enjoyed a wonderful relationship with Sherry’s children Kevin (Barbara) Goldstein, Micah (Nikki) Goldstein, and Jodi Goldstein, as well as her grandchildren David, Daniel, Jack, Reid, Tyler, Rowen, and Avi. Norman was predeceased by his first wife Gloria Hecht, daughter Lynn Hecht, granddaughter Naomi Hecht, and his siblings Jerome Massey, Shirley Nagle, and Doris Gordon. A memorial service was officiated by Rabbi Rosalyn Mandelberg at H D. Oliver Funeral Apartments. Interment followed at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Memorial donations can be made to the Military Aviation Museum or to Ohef Sholom Temple. Online condolences may be offered at hdoliver.com.

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BOCA RATON, FLA. –Tutsie Lipkin unexpectedly passed away on August 31 in Boca Raton, Florida. She was the daughter of the late William and Dora Wolman Bullock and in addition was predeceased by her sister and brother-in-law, Margie and Nat Leiderman, and her nephew, William Ross Leiderman. She is survived by her husband of 52 years,

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OBITUARIES Walter Lipkin, who reached his 100th birthday in March of 2026, her nephew and his wife Marty and Ina Leiderman, and her great-nephew and his wife, Adam and Kristine Leiderman. She is also survived by two of Walter’s sons. Tutsie was born in Norfolk and attended Maury High School with her lifelong friends Ada Rubin Michaels, Beverly Rafal Werbel, and Arlene Berman Kesser. She briefly attended Mary Washington College until illness took a year of her life then graduated from what is now Old Dominion University. She spent more than a decade working for Norfolk Public Schools as a teacher at Meadowbrook Elementary School and a Reading Specialist in the Central office. Upon her marriage to Walter in 1974 she moved to Roslyn Heights, New York and then after Walter’s retirement to Boca Raton, Florida. May her memory be for a blessing to all you knew and loved her. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Evelyn Mandelberg

PIKESVILLE, MD. – Evelyn Mandelberg (nee Strauss), of Pikesville, Maryland, passed away on Monday, September 21, 2026, at the age of 99. She is survived by her loving children Dr. Terry (Shelley) Mandelberg and Robert (Ilene) Mandelberg; cherished daughterin-law, Rabbi Rosalin Mandelberg; beloved grandchildren, Elise Mandelberg, Adam (Staci) Mandelberg, Steven (Allison) Mandelberg, Jamie (Mark) Huntington, Matthew Mandelberg, Rachel (Ryan) Kaufman, and Capt. Scott Mandelberg; and cherished great-grandchildren, Brooke Mandelberg, Blake Mandelberg, Drew Mandelberg, Alex Mandelberg, and Azalea Mandelberg. She was predeceased by her devoted husband, H. William “Billy” Mandelberg; adored sons, Martin Mandelberg and Norman Mandelberg; caring siblings, Melvin Strauss, Pearl Schlenoff, and Shirley Weisberg; and dear parents, Mary and Frederick Strauss. Services took place at Sol Levinson’s Chapel in Pikesville, Md. Interment followed at Baltimore Hebrew Cemetery. Contributions in her memory may be sent to the Alzheimer’s Association or the charity of the donor’s choice.

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Chabad of Tidewater or charity of your choice. HD Oliver Funeral Apts.

NORFOLK – Stanley J. Peck told his last joke on Sunday, September 13, shortly after celebrating his 91st birthday and his 70th wedding anniversary. He was born in Baltimore, Maryland, on August 24, 1935, and moved to Norfolk, Virginia, when he was 10 years old. He was quick to make friends, which was a lifelong talent. His presence and his sense of humor brought a smile to whoever was in the room with him. He never knew a stranger and amazingly, those strangers somehow remembered him. Stanley attended Camp Skylemar in Naples, Maine, in its inaugural year and won its most coveted title of the first winning Color War captain. While attending Georgia Tech, he fell in love with his fraternity’s sweetheart, Nancy Mendel, and decided to marry her after his father bought her an engagement ring. He served as a 1st Lieutenant in the Army for two years, then returned to Portsmouth, Virginia, where he joined the family business, Peck Iron and Metal. He was always dreaming up new ideas. Some were misses—like Bessie’s Place, a farmers’ market on the site that is now Harbor Park, but others did better, most notably The Boathouse, which became one of the region’s most iconic concert venues of the 1980s and 1990s. He was predeceased by his parents, Bess and Julius Peck, his brother David Peck, and sister, Honey Verschleisser. He is survived by his brother Aaron (Carol) Peck, wife Nancy Peck, daughters Janet (Jeff Kramer), Linda (Barry Friedman), and sons Paul (Stephanie) and Larry; grandchildren Zachary, Aaron (Kate Belleman), Jessie Brenner, Ilana (Meir) Leibler, Elli and Ethan Friedman, Devorah (Reuven) Zinn, Jonathan, Audrey, and Caleb Peck; and four greatgrandchildren Cyrus and Addie Brenner and Noam and Dovi Zinn, a host of loving cousins, nieces, and nephews, and his cherished lifelong friends who remain. A graveside funeral was held at B’nai Israel Cemetery with Rabbi Aron Margolin and Rabbi Levi Brashevitzky officiating. In honor of Stanley, tell a joke, make someone smile or make a donation to

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Selma Oppleman Snyder

VIRGINIA BEACH – Selma Oppleman Snyder passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by her family, just four months shy of her 100th birthday. To know Selma was to know a woman who was truly unforgettable. Iconic, elegant, beautiful, opinionated and fierce...Selma possessed a presence all her own. She moved through nearly a century of life with remarkable strength, grace, style, and an unmistakable spirit. She knew who she was, she knew what she believed, and she was never particularly shy about sharing it. Raised in the mountains of Lynchburg, Va. by parents Ida Schewel and Joe Oppleman, Selma attended James Madison College before beginning the extraordinary life that would ultimately become her greatest legacy: her family. She raised five children with her former husband, Harry L. Snyder, and was a devoted mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She is survived by her son Louie, his wife Caroliine, her daughter Terrie, and Tricia and her husband Michael...her six beloved grandchildren, Olympia, Mackenzie, Michelle, Lauren, Jennifer, and Cody; eight great grandchildren, each of whom brought her enormous pride and joy. Family was the center of Selma’s world, but her remarkable capacity for connection extended far beyond it. Throughout her long life, she cultivated and treasured many enduring friendships. People were drawn to her infectious spirit, her graciousness, her beauty, her wit, and her singular sense of style. She had that rare quality of being remembered – not simply for how she looked or what she wore, but for how unmistakably SELMA she was. She belonged to another era in so many of the loveliest ways: Elegance mattered, graciousness mattered, friendship mattered, and family mattered most of all. Yet, there was nothing fragile about her. Beneath all that elegance was a tremendous strength – a woman who lived fully, loved deeply, endured the loss of two of her precious children, spoke her mind, and remained fiercely and unapologetically

herself throughout nearly one hundred remarkable years. Her family will remember her devotion. Her friends will remember her loyalty and sage advice. Selma will be deeply and sorely missed, but the grace, strength and love she gave to those around her will live on through the generations of the family she so dearly loved. Memorial donations may be made to the Dozoretz Hospice House of Virginia Beach or to a charity of one’s choice. A memorial service took place at H.D Oliver in Virginia Beach. –––––––––––––––––––––––––––

Dr. Stephen Willis Tonelson

NORFOLK – Dr. Stephen Willis Tonelson died peacefully on September 17, 2026. His wife, Lona, and his daughters, Claire and Rachel, were with him. He was predeceased by his parents, Dr. A. Rufus and Mrs. Sara Tonelson, and his older brother, Dr. Louis Tonelson. Steve was born April 3, 1950, in Norfolk. He attended Stuart Elementary, Blair Junior High, and Maury High. He went on to receive a college degree from The College of William and Mary, a master’s from Old Dominion University, and a doctorate from University of Virginia. Steve was a professor at UVa before moving back to his hometown of Norfolk to work at ODU’s Darden College of Education for more than 40 years. He retired as Emeritus Professor of Special Education and Early Childhood Education. Recognition of his accomplishments in scholarship, teaching, and service includes several college and university awards for Most Collaborative Grants and for Outstanding Research, and Service. Steve’s life was enriched by his marriage to Lona where he taught her how to cook and how to travel, as well as his joy in raising his daughters and watching them become adults. He valued his many friends – from the past as well as the present. He volunteered at his children’s schools, was a member and then the president of the Norfolk Public School Board. He loved playing his guitars, seeing live music, and enjoying endless rounds of golf. A memorial service was held at H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments.

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Jay M. Woodman

VIRGINIA BEACH – Jay M. Woodman, 77, passed away peacefully at home on Monday, September 7, 2026. Jay was born in Hampton, Va. to the late Theodore and Frances Woodman, and was preceded in death by his in-laws, Shirley and Leon Harris, and son-inlaw Joel Prohofsky. Jay is survived by his loving wife, Marsha, two daughters Jennifer Stern (Dani) and Shana Prohofsky, and his four grandchildren, who were the lights of his life. Jay also leaves behind his sister Sheila Preville, brother Roy Woodman (Sandy), sister-in-law Lori Beim (Mike), brother-in-law Eric Harris, and many nieces, nephews, great nieces, great nephews, and cousins. As a teenager, Jay met the love of his life, Marsha, to whom he was married for 56 years. After graduating from Virginia Commonwealth University, Jay and Marsha raised their family in Virginia Beach, Va., where Jay first worked as a corporate buyer for national grocery chains, and later co-owned with Marsha, the restaurant, Jay’s Deli. The Deli, as it was known to friends and customers, was a hub of family and community life. Employees were like family, and no one was a stranger. Not satisfied with retirement after the sale of the business, Jay returned to the grocery world, most recently working at The Fresh Market, where he continued to share his deep knowledge of the food industry and was able to remain connected with old customers and friends. Jay had many hobbies including fishing, Nascar, football, DIY home projects, and gardening. But Jay’s main interest was always his family. Jay was quick to lend a helping hand or a word of advice. A devoted family man, Jay’s memory will rest in the hearts of all who loved him. A memorial service was officiated by Rabbi Jacob Herber at H. D. Oliver Funeral Apartments Norfolk Chapel. Burial followed at Forest Lawn Cemetery. Memorial contributions to the National Kidney Foundation.

A Community Commemoration of October 7 Wednesday, October 7, 5:30 pm, Sandler Family Campus

Join Tidewater’s Jewish community to commemorate the lives lost on October 7, 2023, and honor the strength and resilience of the Israeli people. Community members will create a visual tribute by planting 1,200 Israeli flags on the grounds of the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus, as part of Flags of Fellowship, a nationwide initiative of the International Fellowship of Christians and Jews. Following the flag planting, a brief ceremony of remembrance and reflection led by the Tidewater Shinshinim will take place. For more information and to register, visit JewishVa.org/Oct7 or contact Nofar Trem at NTrem@UJFT.org.

ODU Hillel plans memorial event for October 7 Wednesday, October 7, 12:30 -1:30 pm Webb Center, Old Dominion University

This year’s October 7 Memorial at Old Dominion University centers on the voices of students. They will read, share personal reflections, remember those whose lives were changed by October 7, and help create a space grounded not only in remembrance, but also in hope. “One of the most meaningful ways our ODU campus and local Jewish communities can support Jewish and Israeli students is simply by showing up for them in these moments,” says Amy K. Milligan, PhD, Old Dominion University Batten Endowed Associate Professor of Jewish Studies and Women’s and Gender Studies director, Institute for Jewish Studies and Interfaith Understanding. “Our students are doing the difficult work of standing in front of their peers and community to be voices against antisemitism and in support of Israel.” The memorial is open to everyone, both on and off campus, and no registration is required.

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