Jewish News May 4, 2026 Edition

JD Salinger asked publishers to remove references to his Jewish heritage, newly surfaced letters reveal

Jackie Hajdenberg

(JTA) — Acclaimed author J.D. Salinger asked his publisher to remove references to his Jewish heritage in the book jacket of The Catcher in the Rye, newly surfaced letters from 1951 reveal.

The request came in a letter from Salinger, a notoriously private man, and his editor, John Woodburn at publisher Little, Brown and Co. The correspondence, which took place in early 1951, predates the first publication of The Catcher in the Rye, Salinger’s hit coming-of-age novel.

“I don’t know that I’d like to have that Jewish-Irish business slapped on the jacket,” Salinger wrote. “Surely if it’s catchy, that is.”

The letter has come to light because Peter Harrington Rare Books, a bookseller based in London, listed it as part of a package for sale in the New York International Antiquarian Book Fair.

The Catcher in the Rye, a contemporary classic

following the life of angsty boarding school student Holden Caulfield, is one of the best-selling books of all time.

Caulfield’s character is of Irish heritage, like Salinger’s mother. But Salinger was the son of Sol, a cheese salesman (whose wares might have been kosher) and the grandson of a rabbi on his father’s side. His mother, Marie Jillich, went by Miriam to appease her in-laws who disapproved of the mixed marriage. He learned his mother’s real name only around the time of his bar mitzvah.

To Woodburn, Salinger wrote that he worried about being pigeonholed as a Jewish-Irish writer if the book broadcast that information.

“My Jewish-Irishness isn’t quite so bizarre, as, say, [James] Thurber’s eyesight,” Salinger wrote, referring to the American author and cartoonist, who was legally blind by that time. “But nonetheless, second-rate reviewers would probably find the information just provocative

enough to use and misuse over and over again, and I’d end up being expected to wear a Star of David and a Shamrock on the back of my sweatshirt. So, please, let’s be careful.”

Salinger’s other famous works include the 1948 short story A Perfect Day for a Bananafish, which follows the Irish Catholic-Jewish Glass family, who also make appearances in Franny and Zooey.

The letters, previously unpublished, were acquired from a private collector and were on view at the New York International Antiquarian Book Fair at the Park Avenue Armory April 30 - May 3.

The triad of letters, which was offered at a set price of $47,500, includes two typed letters by Salinger, with his signature, and a carbon copy of Woodburn’s reply. It also includes a reference to one of Salinger’s “lost stories,” a prequel to Catcher in the Rye that was not to be published until 50 years after his death.

Salinger died in 2010 at the age of 91. The “lost story,” The Ocean Full of Bowling Balls, was set to be published in 2060, but in 2013, it was pirated and leaked online.

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US soldier charged for threatening to ‘kill every single Jew’ inside of a synagogue

Grace Gilson

(JTA) — A soldier stationed at Fort Polk in Louisiana was arrested last week after he told users on the popular messaging platform Discord that he planned to conduct a mass shooting at a synagogue.

Jakob Marcoulier, 22, was arrested last month and charged with transmitting a threat in interstate commerce after the FBI’s National Threat Operations Center received a tip in February that he had made threats toward synagogues, according to the U.S. attorney’s office for the western district of Louisiana.

According to court documents, the FBI obtained audio from Discord in which Marcoulier allegedly said, “After this deployment if the Jews still have reign over our government, I am going to walk into a synagogue with my AK, with a 75-round drum mag, and all of my extra mags, with my level four plates, and my haka helmet that’s three plus, and I am going to kill every single Jew I know inside of that synagogue. And that’s my goal in life.”

During the communications, Marcoulier told the other users, “You guys will never do anything about but I will. I just have to finish this, I have to go back overseas and do what I have to do. And then you’ll see me in the news. I promise you.”

He also allegedly said that he would “kill these motherf—kers in order to make sure the white youth is f—king secured.”

It was not immediately clear when Marcoulier made the comments, but the United States and Israel jointly attacked Iran on Feb. 28 following a buildup of U.S. troops in the Middle East.

The Iran war has put Jewish institutions across the country and the around the world on high alert, with attacks on synagogues including arsons in Europe and a synagogue ramming in suburban Detroit.

“Threats against synagogues and Jewish Americans are threats to the religious freedom promised to every single one of us, and this Office and our law enforcement partners are committed to protecting those freedoms,” United States Attorney Zachary A. Keller said in a statement.

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Houston synagogue and Jewish day school closed temporarily due to threats

AHouston synagogue and Jewish day school closed Wednesday, April 22 after receiving threats to their shared campus.

The threats to Congregation Beth Israel, a Reform synagogue, and the Shlenker School, a preschool and elementary school, were communicated to the Houston Police Department, which informed the Jewish institutions.

The Shlenker School said on its website that it had closed “out of an abundance of caution,” and the Jewish Federation of Greater Houston said it did not believe there was a risk to the broader Jewish community.

“This situation is fluid, ongoing, and under investigation,” the federation said in a statement. “After significant discussions with both the FBI and HPD, we have been advised that it is safe for other local Jewish institutions to remain open. Local law enforcement agencies are increasing patrols around Houston-area Jewish institutions.”

The incident comes as security experts have warned of continued elevation of threats to global Jewish communities amid the Iran war, and it follows an attack on a Detroit-area synagogue last month by a man who had expressed sympathy for Hezbollah. It also reprises an extended string of hoax bomb threats to Jewish institutions across the United States that caused a large number of closures in 2023 and 2024, both before and after the start of the war in Gaza.

According to its website, Congregation Beth Israel is home to 1,500 families and is the oldest Jewish congregation in Texas. (JTA)

Israel jails soldiers who smashed Jesus statue in Lebanon, installs a new one

An Israeli soldier who bludgeoned a statue of Jesus in southern Lebanon and another soldier who photographed the act have both been dismissed from combat duty and sentenced to 30 days in military detention, the Israeli military said on Monday, April 20.

“The IDF expresses deep regret over the incident and emphasizes that its operations in Lebanon are directed solely against the Hezbollah terrorist organization and other terrorist groups, and not against Lebanese civilians,” the IDF said.

The military also announced it had replaced the damaged statue with a new one “in full coordination with the local community of Debel in southern Lebanon.” The town is a Christian enclave within a region that is a Hezbollah stronghold.

Photos of the incident, which depicted the soldier striking an overturned Jesus statue, were quickly condemned by Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and the IDF.

A day after the incident, a letter condemning the act had drawn over 80 signatures by prominent Jewish

leaders, including former Israeli cabinet minister Michael Melchior; American antisemitism activist Shabbos Kestenbaum; and Orthodox rabbis in Israel and the United States.

“This act is a chillul Hashem — a desecration of God’s name,” the letter said. “It is an affront to the ancient Christian communities of the Middle East and to Christians all over the world. It is a vile betrayal of the Jewish values upon which the State of Israel was founded. And it is a wound inflicted upon the fragile Jewish-Christian friendship that is more important than ever.”

The announcement of the punishment comes as the IDF said it was probing an incident in the West Bank in which a reservist soldier reportedly killed two Palestinians, aged 14 and 32. (JTA)

Survey: Nearly half of young Americans view US relationship with Israel as a burden

Nearly half of young Americans, 46%, believe that the United States’ relationship with Israel is mostly a burden to the United States, according to a new survey from the Institute of Politics at the Harvard Kennedy School.

The Harvard Youth Poll, which polled 2,018 Americans aged 18 to 29, found that just 16% of those surveyed described the U.S. relationship with Israel as mostly a benefit.

Respondents were asked about their view of other U.S. alliances, including Canada, which 53% saw as beneficial, and Ukraine, which 21% saw as beneficial. Israel received the lowest perceived benefit of any country tested.

The survey also found that 55% of young Americans believe the U.S. military action in Iran is not in the best interest of the American people.

It comes as attitudes about Israel among young Americans in recent years have grown sharply negative. Earlier this month, a Pew Research Center survey found that 70% of Americans aged 18 to 49 held a somewhat or very negative opinion of Israel. That view was split among partisan lines, with 84% of Democrats in that demographic holding a negative view of Israel, compared to 57% of Republicans.

The Harvard survey was conducted by Ipsos Public Affairs between March 26 and April 3. (JTA)

Barred from holding Shabbat services in his house, could the Supreme Court take up his case?

Orthodox Jewish groups urged the Supreme Court to take up the case of an Orthodox Jewish man ordered by officials in University Heights, Ohio, to stop hosting prayer services in his home without a permit.

The amicus brief, which was filed by the National Jewish Advocacy Center alongside the Orthodox Union and the National Council of Young Israel, comes years after Daniel Grand, a resident of the suburb of Cleveland,

invited a group of Jewish men to his home for Shabbat services starting in January 2021.

At the time, University Heights, citing zoning laws, issued a cease-and-desist order blocking Grand from using his home for prayer.

Grand initially applied for a special use permit to use his home as “a place of religious assembly” in 2021, but later withdrew the application, saying he did not “wish to operate a house of worship as is defined under the zoning ordinance.”

According to the NJAC, the former mayor of University Heights, Michael Dylan Brennan, then encouraged Grand’s “neighbors to watch his home and report any sign of Jewish worship to the authorities.”

“What happened to Daniel Grand is not an isolated incident,” Rabbi Mark Goldfeder, the CEO of NJAC, said. “It is the latest chapter in a long and documented history of municipalities using zoning laws to suppress Orthodox Jewish religious practice.”

The city’s current mayor, Michele Weiss, told JTA that there was currently one residence in the city that had obtained a special permit to host worship gatherings and that another was currently in the middle of applying for one.

“My perspective is that everyone has a right to worship in their home with a small group of people (a minyan) without city involvement, just like a book club might do,” Weiss, who is the first female Orthodox Jewish mayor in the United States, wrote in an email to JTA. “If a congregation wants to worship in a residence with a proper congregation, then each city should have a way forward through their planning commission.”

In September 2022, Grand filed a lawsuit against the city and Brennan, alleging that the former mayor was motivated by “animus against Orthodox Jews.” He maintained that the actions blocking him from conducting services in his home were part of a “systematic campaign” to prevent the Orthodox community from growing in University Heights, according to the Cleveland Jewish News.

Brennan, who was twice censured by the city council for “inappropriate language,” faced criticism from the city’s Jewish community during his tenure. In November 2024, he drew backlash for criticizing voters in a heavily Jewish neighborhood who supported Donald Trump, and in April 2025, he accused the volunteer-run Jewish ambulance service Hatzalah of “jeopardizing public safety.”

In October 2024, the U.S. District Court of Northern Ohio ruled in favor of University Heights, and the Ohio 6th District Court of Appeals later upheld the ruling in November 2025.

“This case deserves Supreme Court review because, across the country, Jewish religious practice has repeatedly been constrained through the neutral application of rules in ways that disproportionately burden visible Jewish life,” David Benger, the litigation counsel at NJAC, said in a statement. (JTA)

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DOJ’s indictment of Southern Poverty Law Center recalls Jewish groups’ use of informants to fight extremism

Andrew Silow-Carroll (JTA) — Jewish social justice organizations are sharply criticizing the Trump administration’s decision to indict the Southern Poverty Law Center, framing the move as part of a broader campaign against civil society groups that monitor extremism.

The Department of Justice alleges that SPLC engaged in bank and wire fraud and conspired to commit money laundering, arguing that its use of paid informants to monitor extremist groups amounted to a funding mechanism for those same groups. SPLC has not yet issued a detailed public response to the charges.

For many observers, the clash also echoes an earlier and lesser-known chapter in American Jewish history — one in which Jewish organizations themselves used covert methods, including paid informants, to track and expose white supremacist movements, often with little support from the federal government.

Coincidentally, the indictment came down nearly

simultaneously with the publication of The Secret War Against Hate: American Resistance to Antisemitism and White Supremacy, by historian Steven J. Ross. The newly released book documents how groups such as the Anti-Defamation League and the American Jewish Committee infiltrated neo-Nazi and Ku Klux Klan organizations in the decades before and after World War II, passing intelligence to law enforcement agencies that were often reluctant to act.

The historical parallel is not exact, but it is striking: Tactics once employed by Jewish groups to counter violent extremism are now at the center of a federal prosecution against one of the country’s most prominent civil rights watchdogs.

The Union for Reform Judaism said it was “watching with concern” the Department of Justice’s action, noting SPLC’s long record of combating hate, including antisemitism.

“SPLC is a long-time ally in the civil rights space and has a record of more than five decades of combating hate,

including antisemitism,” the group said in a statement.

Leaders at the Jewish Council for Public Affairs were more forceful, casting the indictment as a direct threat to organizations that track hate groups and protect vulnerable communities.

“Civil society is under attack . . . and it puts Jewish and so many other communities at risk of violence,” said CEO Amy Spitalnick.

“As today’s attack on the Southern Poverty Law Center shows, groups that protect civil rights and counter violent extremism are being criminalized,” she added. “None of us can afford to be silent.”

The liberal Jewish advocacy group Bend the Arc similarly argued that the indictment reflects an effort to undermine democratic institutions.

“Groups like the Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) make this nation safer for American Jews and all Americans,” the organization said. “Americans and American Jews will keep showing up to defend our

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democracy, from our elections to all of our liberties.”

Ross, whose parents were Holocaust survivors, describes a period in which antisemitism and white supremacist ideology were both widespread and frequently violent, with extremists targeting synagogues and Black churches and staging rallies adorned with Nazi imagery. Figures such as George Lincoln Rockwell, who founded the American Nazi Party in 1959, and Jesse Benjamin Stoner, the racist and antisemitic politician convicted in the 1958 bombing of the Bethel Baptist Church in Birmingham, Alabama, sought to build mass movements rooted in racial and religious exclusion.

The concern is not only about a single indictment but about the potential chilling effect on organizations that track and expose extremism.

doing their job.”

Ross also said that the groups he writes about in the book made it clear to informants and infiltrators that they couldn’t break any laws. “I’m sure the SPLC is doing the same thing because they know their informants would get in trouble otherwise, that they could be prosecuted by the government,” he said.

Another ADL operation came to light just a few years ago when political historian Matthew Dallek of George Washington University wrote a book detailing how the ADL’s covert operation targeting the John Birch Society helped bring

down an influential far-right extremist movement in the United States in the 1960s and ’70s.

“The ADL also had undercover agents with code names, who were able to infiltrate the society’s headquarters in Belmont, Massachusetts, and various chapter officers,” Dallek told the Jewish Telegraphic Agency in 2023. “They dug up financial and employment information about individual Birchers. And they not only used the material for their own newsletters and press releases, but they also fed information to the media.”

In the early 1990s, however, the West Coast branch of the ADL was accused in federal court of illegally spying on leftwing and pro-Arab groups, including the African National Congress, the American Indian Movement, and the Association of Vietnam Veterans.

The ADL eventually settled a federal lawsuit, which charged, among other things, that the organization had sold information on anti-apartheid groups to the government of South Africa. The

ADL consistently denied any improper or illegal actions, a position reiterated in the settlement.

Critics at the same accused the ADL of drifting from its founding mission — fighting antisemitism and promoting tolerance — to target legitimate criticism of Israel and advocacy of the Palestinian cause.

The Anti-Defamation League did not respond to a request for comment about the Department of Justice’s prosecution of the Southern Poverty Law Center.

But for Jewish groups now rallying to SPLC’s defense, the concern is not only about a single indictment but about the potential chilling effect on organizations that track and expose extremism — work they see as essential at a time of rising antisemitism.

“At a moment of rising antisemitism and broader extremism,” Spitalnick said, “the Administration should focus on how to protect our communities from these threats, not attack the very organizations and infrastructure whose work helps keep us safe in the first place.”

At the same time, Jewish defense organizations quietly developed sophisticated intelligence operations, including the use of informants, to monitor those threats. Their efforts, Ross writes, were often met with indifference from officials such as J. Edgar Hoover, whose FBI frequently declined to take more than token action against extremist groups.

In his book, Ross argues that while movements and leaders evolve, the underlying ideas — including white supremacy and antisemitism — persist. Today, he notes, those ideologies are often expressed less through explicit antisemitism than through broader attacks on immigrants and demographic change.

Speaking to NPR’s Terry Gross on Thursday, April 23, Ross said he was skeptical about the indictment of the SPLC.

“I’m not sure if the indictment is true or not, but the idea that there are informants is not illegal,” he said. “These people are simply monitoring what was going on and whether accused of stealing records, their records were sent, I’m sure, to the government forces like the FBI, the Justice Department, because they weren’t

ANTISEMITISM

Concert to benefit Bondi Beach victims canceled after Greek choir refuses to sing with Jews

Philissa

Cramer (JTA) — A concert to raise money for the victims of the shooting attack on a Hanukkah party on Sydney’s Bondi Beach has been canceled after the Greek choir that was to take part voted not to sing with a Jewish choir.

A majority of members of the 50-member Australian Hellenic Choir “politically objected” to singing alongside the Sydney Jewish Choral Society. Others said they did not feel safe in a joint performance with Jews.

“I was not expecting this to happen at all as we’d performed with the Jewish choir without issue in 2022,” the Greek choir’s founder and president, James Tsolakis, told the Australian newspaper. He added, “The Jewish people are all into it, I’m into it, but the Greek choir was a bit anti doing it because of the political climate.”

The “Concert for Hope and Unity,” which had received government support, was to have featured The Ballad of Mauthausen, about a romance between Greek and Jewish prisoners at the Nazi concentration camp. The groups performed the piece together in 2022, but the reaction to the Gaza war has perceptions of Jews across Australia, including, Tsolakis said, within his community.

“There’s a bit of antisemitism in the Greek community; I didn’t realize the extent of it. Unfortunately, we have a lot of people in the community blaming the Jewish community for what’s happening in Israel, Palestine … that’s not correct,” Tsolakis said. “You want to hate [Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin] Netanyahu? Hate Netanyahu, but what have the Jewish people done to you? The whole antisemitism thing has got be wound back.”

Since Hamas’ Oct. 7, 2023, attack on Israel and resulting war in Gaza, Australian Jews have faced mass anti-Israel protests, exclusion from arts and other communities, and spasms of violence, including arson attacks on synagogues and the Bondi Beach massacre, which killed 15 people who were celebrating during a Hanukkah party on the beach in December.

Following the Bondi Beach massacre, and under pressure from Jewish leaders to respond more forcefully, the Australian government established a Royal Commission on Antisemitism and Social Cohesion to examine policies and practices that have contributed to anti-Jewish sentiment in the country.

The Jewish Choral Society has made an official complaint to the Royal Commission, according to a letter sent by its chair, Anne Spira, to its 30 members informing them about the concert’s cancellation. Spira told the Australian that the incident reflected a broad dynamic that many Australian Jews have experienced.

“The result is, like many other Jews in the arts since 7 October 2023, we have been cancelled,” Spira said. “We have been de-platformed and it is deeply upsetting for us and for the broader Jewish community who have been the target of anti-Jewish racism in this country for 2½ years.”

The Greek City Times, an Australian publication, called the choir’s vote “embarrassing.”

The Australian said in an editorial that the incident was an appropriate topic for the royal commission. “The vote to opt out of the event almost beggars belief,” the editorial said. “In light of antisemitic tensions that have reared their ugly head in Australia since October 7, 2023, those who didn’t want to be associated with a Jewish choir event have displayed an alarming lack of historical empathy and understanding.”

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ANTISEMITISM

California Jewish groups decry antisemitic conspiracy theories printed in governor’s race voter guide

Grace Gilson (JTA)

— As Californian voters checked their mailboxes last month, they found a voter guide containing conspiratorial claims about Israel and antisemitic rhetoric.

The mailer, which was sent by California Secretary of State Shirley Weber to the households of all registered California voters, featured biographical information about candidates slated to appear in the state’s June primaries. In all, there are 32 candidates listed, of whom 10 are considered serious contenders.

Among those who are not: the far-right activist Don J. Grundmann, who is not affiliated with any party and has previously described a group he was affiliated with as a “totally peaceful racist group.” Grundman used his entry in the guide to promote a series of anti-Israel conspiracy theories and antisemitic rhetoric.

His entry claimed that Israel had been behind the murder of conservative activist Charlie Kirk; purposefully killed U.S. soldiers during an attack on the U.S.S. Liberty in 1967; orchestrated the 9/11 attacks, and planned to “suitcase nuke” the United States.

“Israel, the REAL terrorists, created and funds Hamas via Qatar,” Grundmann wrote. “Countless war crimes by lsrael/ Netanyahu. No further funding for Israel. They call Palestinians AND Christians AND America ‘Amalek;—their sworn forever enemy.”

The paragraph, which included a series of links to websites promoting antisemitic materials, also included a series of antisemitic claims about Jewish supremacy.

“We are ‘goyim’ (less than human animals/cattle) that they will enslave. We are stupid chumps,” Grundmann wrote,

using the Hebrew word for non-Jews that has been increasingly used by the far-right. “Israel rules our conquered Republic. Talmud—their Bible— says Christ boiling in in Israel allowed/planned/ promoted Hamas attack (they murdered their own people) to justify genocide and steal billion$ in Gaza oil/gas rights. Christian Zionism = soul poison. Talmudic Judeo-Christian values’ don’t exist . . .”

In both the print version delivered to voters and the online version of the voter guide, a disclaimer was added for Grundmann’s entry that did not appear for any other

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candidates: “The views and opinions expressed by the candidates are their own and do not represent the views and opinions of the Secretary of State’s office.” The line also appears on the bottom of each page.

Local Jewish groups, including the Jewish Federation of Orange County, decried the inclusion of the entry, saying in a letter to Weber, “When something appears in an official voter guide, it carries a level of legitimacy and reaches millions.”

Added the groups, including the federation, the Anti-Defamation League of Orange County/Long Beach, the Jewish Community Action Network, and Israeli American Council, “By including a statement containing antisemitic tropes and conspiracy theories in an official voter guide, the State has effectively provided a government platform for rhetoric that fuels division and undermines the safety and dignity of Jewish communities.”

The groups called on Weber to explain how the statement was approved. They contended that the entry violated the guidelines by making “extensive reference to third parties” and using “largely of inflammatory and conspiratorial claims unrelated to any permissible category of content” included in the provisions.

“At a time of rising antisemitism, including rhetoric rooted in antisemitic tropes in a state publication is deeply concerning,” read the letter. “This isn’t about limiting speech—it’s about enforcing neutral standards and maintaining the integrity of our election materials.”

The voter guide comes as antisemitism has emerged as a notable issue in the upcoming California governor’s race, with several candidates staking out their approach to rising antisemitism in the state at a candidate forum in February. The primary is on June 2.

JEWISH TIDEWATER

Aiden Vonegloffstein named 2026 Stein Family Scholarship recipient

TJF staff

Long before leadership titles and community recognition, Aiden Vonegloffstein was learning what it meant to serve in the most ordinary moments.

As a child, his mother taught him to notice when someone needed help, to carry groceries for a neighbor, to lend a hand without being asked, to show up for others simply because it mattered. Those early lessons became the foundation of who he is.

Today, that same instinct to serve defines Aiden, the 2026 recipient of the Stein Family Scholarship. He will attend JMU.

A senior at Kempsville High School, Aiden has built a strong record of leadership and community involvement, from mentoring elementary school students to volunteering extensively and serving as a student representative on the Virginia Beach Resort Advisory Committee.

“I’ve just always been taught to help,” Aiden says. “If anyone calls, I’m there.”

His approach is grounded in servant leadership. “You’re not being a leader to grow yourself; you’re being a leader to grow others,” he says. “And then you grow with them.”

That commitment to serving others is also deeply rooted in his Jewish identity. From helping at synagogue to founding and leading the Jewish Student Association at Kempsville High School, Aiden has carried those values into his everyday life.

That mindset is shaping his future. Aiden plans to study hospitality and tourism management alongside

business administration.

He hopes to return to Virginia Beach to support local, family-owned businesses and create shared spaces that bring people together. “I really just want to help the local community thrive,” he says.

The Stein Family Scholarship, created in memory of Arlene Shea Stein, reflects a legacy of compassion and a belief that education should be accessible to all.

“This scholarship gave me options,” Aiden says. “If I don’t have to work just to pay off debt, I can put that energy into helping others and making a bigger impact.”

Naomi Limor Sedek, Tidewater Jewish Foundation president and CEO, says, “When we see young leaders like Aiden, alongside families like the Steins who continue to invest in the next generation, we are reminded that the future of our Jewish community is strong. We can move forward with confidence knowing it is in the hands of individuals who are deeply committed to service, leadership, and lifting others.”

For Aiden, the opportunity carries responsibility. “It’s not just about what this does for me,” he says. “It’s about everyone I’ll be able to help because of it.” And in that way, the lessons he learned as a child continue to ripple outward, shaping not only his path, but the lives he will touch along the way. “There’s no such thing as a missed opportunity. Just opportunities that lead you somewhere different.”

Aiden Vonegloffstein.

Aiden Vonegloffstein with Nathan Benjo at Masada during a CTeen summer trip to Israel.

ARTS & CULTURE

Sam Linda: Lion King actor with JCC roots

Terri Denison

The role of Uncle Henry in the Jewish Community Center of Houston’s production of The Wizard of Oz was Sam Linda’s first real experience on stage. He was eight years old. Linda says he knew then that he was hooked on acting – and he’s been performing ever since – currently on Chrysler Hall’s stage in the role of Ed, the hyena, in the national touring production of The Lion King.

As a child in Houston, Linda attended Sunday School, became a Bar Mitzvah (he says his parents “made him,” but he’s now happy about that – especially since he’s still friends with his Bar Mitzvah Buddy), and went to synagogue with his family for all of the major holidays, and some of the minor ones, too.

Linda’s teen years were spent at Houston’s High School for the Performing

and Visual Arts, where half of each school day concentrated on theater classes, including everything from voice lessons to learning aspects of lighting, costumes, etc. Those classes he says, ensures he really appreciates the behind-the-scenes people, who “work many more hours than I do.”

In 2016, Linda left Houston for Chicago to attend Northwestern University, where he majored in theater. He’s one of those 2020 graduates whose graduation ceremony and festivities took place via Zoom.

Not to be deterred, however, he’s remained in the Windy City, appearing in several productions at various theaters.

Among his favorites are the Band’s Visit and Fiddler on the Roof. “I’m obsessed with the score of the Band’s Visit,” he muses.

Besides singing and dancing, Linda plays the piano and is a self-taught percussionist.

The original animated version of The Lion King, he says, was “on the VHS rotation

at home” when he was a toddler. He first saw the stage production when he was 12 years old once the national touring company made it to Houston.

Linda’s audition for the show is a story filled with mishaps that sound as if they are perfect fodder for a film about the trials of young actors. His agent encouraged him to put together an audition tape that turned out to be good enough to get him a ‘callback’ to New York City. His trip from Chicago included being “trapped in Milwaukee” due to a cancelled flight, managing to get the last seat on “a crack-ofthe-dawn” Delta flight bound for New York, taking a cab to the wrong place, and basically “feeling like a train wreck running on four hours of sleep” when he finally arrived at his audition. “Maybe all of that helped,” he laughs, as he got the job!

And it’s a job doing what he loves that is taking him around the country to see and experience new places, such as Norfolk. (When asked if he had ever been to this city, he first responded, “Is THAT how you say it?!?) Quickly getting the pronunciation correct, he says he hopes to explore the entire area as time permits.

Feeling like he’s standing on the shoulders of Jewish humorists such as Eugene Levy and Mel Brooks, as well as those of his great grandfather who ran the synagogue in Crowley, La., Linda is appreciative of his roots. That great grandfather had a truck spray-painted orange with ‘Shalom Y’all!’ on the side.

“I think I inherited some of that humor. He wore his Jewishness on his sleeve.”

“There’s no way I would be where I am without the support of my parents,” he says. “They are my biggest support system. I try to tell them I appreciate them when I can.”

Linda says he is “Super grateful that I get to do this. It’s so cool.”

The touring schedule for The Lion King says, “To be continued,” so Sam Linda might be on the road for a good long while.

The Lion King runs through Sunday, May 17 at Norfolk’s Chrysler Hall. Tickets are available at the Scope Arena box office and at Ticketmaster.com.

Sam Linda.

Mother’s Day

Celebrating M oms & W omen

Dear Readers,

Regular readers of Jewish News know that we list donations to the paper on page 5. We generally wait until we have several before running them, which is why the listing isn’t in each edition. This time, however, in honor of Mother’s Day, we’re making an exception and printing just the one donation that’s been made since the last issue. That’s because I know Mother’s Day was important to Helen Koltun and it just seemed appropriate not to delay.

Sunday, May 10 is the day we officially celebrate Mother’s Day this year, but ideally, shouldn’t we appreciate our moms and the dynamic women in our lives –grandmothers, mothers, daughters, and friends – every day? I like to think so, and hope that I do.

In this section that’s what we aim for.

An article on the next page, for instance, features women who are members of Hadassah, specifically Sharon Goretsky, who recently went to Washington, DC to meet with more than 100 bipartisan Congressional offices about a variety of issues, including women’s health. That’s taking charge.

Members of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Women Philanthropy held their Spring Luncheon last month and celebrated their accomplishments. The article and photographs are on page 16.

Plus, we have a story about Ilana Peck Liebler who planned a 10-day trip to Norfolk and got stuck due to the war with Iran, as well as a piece about Bobby Friedman who just turned 95.

Celebrating these women – and those in your lives – is a good thing to do all the time. Right?

Happy Mother’s Day!

Terri Denison Editor

Hadassah advocates visit DC to press Congress on US-Israel relationship, antisemitism, and health

Jewish News staff report

Tidewater’s Sharon Goretsky, past president of Hadassah Southern Seaboard Region, was among the group of 200 leaders of Hadassah, The Women’s Zionist Organization of America, who arrived on Capitol Hill from across the country for the organization’s Day of Impact in March. Their mission was to urge lawmakers to maintain a strong US-Israel relationship, to confront antisemitism, and to protect women’s health.

The advocates held more than 100 meetings with staff for members of the House and Senate.

continuing discussions in Congress about America’s support for Israel.

“Hadassah has never sat on the sidelines, and we are not going to do so at this pivotal moment,” says Carol Ann Schwartz, National president. “We brought the combined strength of our nearly 300,000 members, donors, and supporters directly to Congress to stand firm against antisemitism, to uphold the strategic US-Israel alliance, and to safeguard the health and well-being of women everywhere.”

Hadassah’s Day of Impact reflects the organization’s broader national advocacy network, which mobilizes members across all 50 states to engage policymakers at the federal, state, and local level.

Among the meetings, Goretsky says that the one with a staff member of Senator Mark Warner’s was particularly productive. “He has Israeli family,” she says.

She also had a good meeting with staff from Congresswoman Jen Kiggan’s office.

One of the most impactful portions of the day, according to Goretsky was a lunch where four U.S. Senators – Elissa Slotkin, Marsha Blackburn, Jacky Rosen, and James Lankford – spoke to the group. “It was excellent,” she says.

Hadassah’s coordinated advocacy effort took place amid record numbers of antisemitic incidents in the US and

Hadassah’s priority issues include increased funding for the Nonprofit Security Grant Program, which will protect American communities at risk of terrorist attack; support for medical innovation and US-Israel medical partnerships, including the MIRACLE Act; and expanded federal investment in women’s health research, particularly for conditions that disproportionally affect women.

Hadassah also reaffirms its commitment to advancing women’s health priorities through expanded research, inclusive clinical trials and stronger protections for personal health data.

Goretsky is a national board member for Hadassah and serves as chair of both the Zionist Affairs Department and Nurse and Allied Health Professionals Council.

Ann Eisenberg, Gail Shookoff-Moskowitz, Sharon Goretsky, and Rebecca Young at Congresswoman Jen Kiggan’s office.

Eliza Prince (JDC), Laura Wingett, Leora Drory, Alicia London Friedman, and Linda Ausch.

Rachael Feigenbaum, Deb Segaloff, and Alicia London.

Laura Gross and Linda Spindell.

Lisa Roesen, Ellen Rosenblum, and Laura Goldstein.

Megan Zuckerman, Leslie Siegel, and Shaye Arluk.

Celebrating M oms & W omen

Linda Ausch

United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Women’s Philanthropy gathered for its annual Spring Lunch at the Sandler Family Campus last month. The event served as both a celebration and thank you for a year defined by generosity, leadership, and community impact.

Alicia London Friedman, Campaign chair, welcomed attendees and described the “wonderful and successful year” of events and fundraising. The luncheon honored volunteer campaign ambassadors (members of Women’s Philanthropy), as well as Lions of Judah—women contributing $5,000 or more annually.

Friedman thanked Betty Ann Levin, executive vice president; Amy Zelenka, chief development officer; and Linda Ausch, Women’s Development director; and offered a touching tribute to her mother, Joan London, who was in attendance, acknowledging her as a lifelong source of inspiration.

Mona Flax, UJFT president, shared an encouraging campaign update, noting that the 2026 Community Campaign has surpassed $5.1 million and is on track to hit or exceed its goal of $5.2 million, with the Women’s Division contributing an impressive $1.5 million from 417 donors—already exceeding last year’s total.

Flax then called Annie Sandler, past Women’s Campaign chair and current president of the American Jewish Joint Distribution Committee, to install new Women’s Philanthropy members. Sandler gave a special shout out to retiring member Judy Rosenblatt for nine years of service and thanked Debra Aleck for agreeing to serve another term. She then welcomed new members: Rebecca Auerbach, Stacie Caplan, Amy Gladstein, Nichole Kushner, Laura Wingett, Nikki Shapiro Roth, Laura Goldstein, and Ellen Rosenblum.

A special lunch inspired by the book, eat small plates, was next. Lunch was followed by a lively Q&A with cookbook authors Zikki and Ben Siman-Tov, moderated by Deb Segaloff. The discussion was entertaining and uplifting as Ben charmed the audience while holding the couple’s newborn daughter and Zikki spoke to the mechanics and details of the ingredients they love. Both agreed that food was not just important for its nutrition and caloric intake, but for bringing people together… whether from the same community or across divides.

Betty Ann Levin closed the event with her own thanks to the women in the room and others not present – for caring and for doing the vital work of giving and asking others to give, so that together, all can continue to strengthen the Tidewater Jewish community.

Naomi Sedek, Judy Rosenblatt, Kim Fink, Martha Glasser, Laura Gross, Jodi Klebanoff, and Deb Segaloff.

Alicia London Friedman, Betty Ann Levin, and Deb Segaloff.

Betsy Karotkin and Rachael Feigenbaum. Debbie Mandell, Janet Mercadante, Leora Drory, and Arlene Soussan.

Annie Sandler, Deb Segaloff, and Arlene Soussan. Rachel Abrams and Megan Zuckerman.

Susan Cohen and Rachelle Karp. Zikki and Ben Siman-Tov.

Karen Jaffe and Betty Ann Levin. Stephanie Calliott and Leora Drory.

Argentina Group. Rachelle Karp, Rebecca Auerbach, Annie Sandler, Laura Gross, Rachael Feigenbaum, Leora Drory, Betty Ann Levin, Mona Flax, Naomi Sedek, Jodi Klebanoff, Alicia London Friedman and Amy Zelenka.

Celebrating M oms & W omen

Bobby Friedman at Ninety-Five

In March of twenty six, dear friends, a milestone came alive— A shining, joyful moment: Bobby turning ninety five.

From Philly roots to Waynesboro, she grew both bright and popular, A star whose appeal and laughter made each room feel spectacular.

At RPI she studied hard, her future wide and deep, Till one day on 34th Street, fate took a sudden leap. She spotted someone playing handball—“Who is that handsome guy?” Her friend replied, “You don’t know Boodie Friedman? You two will surely fly.”

He asked her out not once but twice—each time she had a previous plan, The third? A boat in choppy seas—she said, “no way,” to that brave young man. Still, he tried again, and that fourth ask would be a start, To a love that lasted seventy years, two souls, one beating heart.

On their first date she told him straight, “You’re going to marry me,” He laughed—but she was right, of course, as everyone could plainly see. She left her path as a physical therapist and built a life instead, With Boodie, her beloved prince, the one she chose to wed.

Now Norfolk is her kingdom where she’s lived a life so grand, Three children—Alan, LynneDee, Penny—her extraordinary band. Each morning with her crossword and her trusty orange slice, Though sometimes she’ll switch to a banana—for something different and nice.

Mom emphasized education and studying with thoughtful care, Penny became an accomplished teacher, an educator extraordinaire. LynneDee supported children with unique special needs, Alan ensured pharmacy information would not mistakenly mislead.

She writes, creates, imagines—Temple Israel knows it well, Her plays brought joy and laughter and the stories she could tell.

A friend so true and trusted, with a Yiddish lilt so sweet, Who loves key lime and chocolate delights—her favorite dessert treats.

Bobby’s a Mahjongg Maven through and through, a knitter with great flair, A reader who librarians greet with joy when she is often there.

When weather’s fine she jokes, “I played pickleball today!”

Her kids all know she’s teasing—but they go with it anyway.

Working at UJF with Sonny Lefcoe—witty, warm, a dear, Who knew he’d be her mayechutan in a later, blessed year?

With Darryl’s dental wisdom, panache, and charms galore, It’s clear that Bobby’s son Alan certainly did score.

And family wove through friendships—how life can intertwine, Bobby’s mechutanim, Morty and Esther—were oh so very divine.

Allan—a mister fix-it and believe us, this is not fakery, He made delicious bread at Richmond’s Weiman’s Bakery.

For Bobby, mishpocheh is the center of her life, Mentor, guide, role model, mother and wife.

Grammy to her grands and greats, each one a cherished treasure— JD, Andrea, Lee, and Orly—names she speaks with pleasure.

As if that wasn’t enough, great love abounds much more, Generations continue to expand—it warms Bobby to the core.

Penny’s joys are Allie, Ross, and Grace who joined the crew, Then Shane, Hugh, Maya, Vera—great grand blessings, too.

At ninety five she’s thriving still, silver hair and manicured nails, Driving off to Wegmans and home again to check her numerous emails. From her perch at the Oceans, watching surf and sky unfold, She speaks to her heavenly prince in whispers soft and bold.

So, Mom and Grammy, on this day, with hearts that overflow, With all our love, all our lives—and thanks—for countless ways you glow. May this small Mother’s Day surprise bring joy that brightly thrives, For the woman we adore so much—Bobby at ninety five.

— Your Children

Standing: LynnDee Weiman, Alan Friedman, and Penny Friedman. Sitting: Boodie and Bobby Friedman.

Celebrating M oms & W omen

Ilana Peck Leibler makes the best of being stuck in Tidewater

Terri Denison

In late February, Ilana Peck Leibler was in Norfolk, expecting to return to Israel after a quick visit with her family. The war in the Middle East, however, swiftly and drastically altered her plans.

A Norfolk native, Leibler has lived in Israel for nine years.

“I came home to visit my parents, Grandma Nancy and Zayde, and other extended family,” says Leibler. “It was supposed to be a 10-day trip and instead, it has turned into two months.”

Not only is Leibler not where she lives, she’s not near her new husband, Meir Leibler.

A Lone Soldier (an Israel Defense Forces member who serves without immediate family in Israel), Leibler met her husband during Reserve Duty after Oct. 7.

The couple planned their wedding to take place in June 2025, but as Liebler muses, “Iran messed that up.

We got married on Aug. 5, instead.”

At the time Leibler boarded her flight in Israel with Norfolk as her destination, she admits she knew there was a possibility that travel issues might occur, as murmurs of war were brewing. She says, however, she was not dissuaded from making the trip because, “I really wanted to see my family.”

When asked if this was the first time she and her husband had been separated, she was quick to laugh, “We’re not separated, we are just not physically together.” In truth though, it is not their first ‘physical separation’ in their young marriage. . . “Three days after we got married, Meir was called into Reserve Duty, and we were apart for three weeks.”

While her husband is serving, communication, she notes, is limited.

“We have a What’s App group with all the wives of the soldiers and we get daily updates that everything is going well, but aside from that, communication is very limited,” says Liebler.

Being so far away from her Israeli home, Leibler says, “I am very concerned about my family and friends in Israel, but I am very fortunate to have my family and friends in Norfolk.”

Since Leibler works remotely, “I have been able to work, and my company is very understanding and accommodating during these difficult times.”

Still, she can’t recall the last time she has spent this much time Norfolk since she was 16 years old.

The forced stay hasn’t been all bad. “The weather has been amazing,” says Leibler. “I ended up being here for Purim and Pesach – and even joined a gym.”

And there’s been an added bonus for her family: “I went to Bishulm Culinary School in Yaffa while I was living in Israel, so my parents have definitely enjoyed me cooking for them.”

For Leibler, though, she says, “I can’t wait to get back to my husband and my blind dog Stevie.”

Ilana Peck Leibler and her husband, Meir Leibler.

Mothers of Invention

Creating Pathways For Jewish Continuity

Women have always sustained Jewish life

The women of the Lion of Judah Endowment (LOJE) carry that forward, creating lasting support for our community through their generosity

They have created something that will endure. This Mother’s Day, we honor them

Marcia Moss

Susan Alper

Bonnie Brand

Stephanie Calliott

Deborah Mancoll Casey

Marsha Chenman

Bertha Segall* Chenman

Ann Copeland

Barbara Dudley

Anne Fleder

Esther Fleder*

Gail Fleder

Alicia London Friedman

Shari Friedman

Helen Gifford*

Amy Ginsburg

Hara Glasser-Frei

Laura Gross

Fay Halpern*

Brenda Horwitz

Beth Cohen Jaffe

Lee Jaffe*

Sheila Josephberg

Eileen Kahn

Mimi Karesh*

Betsy Karotkin

Jodi Klebanoff

Sofia Konikoff*

Cynthia Kramer

Alma Laderberg*

Phyllis Lannik*

Telsa Leon*

Betty Ann Levin

Amy Levy

Karen Lombart

Joan Kaplan London

Martha Mednick-Glasser

Janet Mercadante

Laura Miller

Eleanor Rashkind*

Judy Rubin

Annie Sandler

Toni Sandler

Terri Sarfan

Lynn Schoenbaum

Deborah Segaloff

Annette Shore*

Marilyn Simon-Weinberg

Cheryl Sloane

Linda Spindel

Jane Stein

Joyce Strelitz*

Randi Strelitz

Renee Strelitz

Sylvia Yavner*

Amy Zelenka

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IT’S A WRAP

RUSH WEEK REVIEW

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During BBYO’s Rush Week, both Simcha BBG and OD AZA were able to host successful programs.

Rush Week is when BBYO chapters host events that are targeted towards new members, in an attempt to attract more people to get involved and join.

On Wednesday, March 18, both chapters held their respective programs, with Simcha hosting Pizza, PJ’s, and Productivity night and OD’s blue-collar night with yard games.

“It was a great atmosphere, even though no one really got all that much work done,” says Leah Steerman, a Simcha board member, when recounting the Pizza, PJ’s, and Productivity program.

Tidewater BBYO also attended the Norfolk Admirals game on March 22 to finish the week. The Virginia Council presidents from Richmond, Nica Shapovalova and Kaden Staffenberg, joined the local chapters at the game. The group watched three thrilling periods before the game went into overtime, with the Admirals coming out on top versus the Greensboro Gargoyles with a final score of 4-3.

With these programs completed, both chapters are looking forward to finishing the term out strong and are anticipating the upcoming spring regional convention in Charlotte, North Carolina.

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Back row: Hayden Caplan, Kaden Staffenberg, Leah Steerman, and Randall Nied. Front row: Nica Shapovalova, Skylar Caplan, Hattie Friedman, and Lilah Friedman.

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Yom Hashoah provides time to reflect and remember

Elka

Mednick

At this year’s Yom Hashoah commemoration on April 13, Megan Zuckerman and Elyse Cardon, Holocaust Commission co-chairs, reminded the community that memory is not just something to hold onto, but something that commands action, asking each person to reflect on their choices, their treatment of others, and their place within an interdependent world.

That theme shaped the evening’s program, which wove together personal testimony, education, and ritual. Through the voices of clergy, students, and educators, and the participation of descendants who serve as living links between past and future, the commemoration demonstrated how Holocaust memory is carried forward and given meaning in the present.

Dr. Milton Zweig, the evening’s guest speaker, brought this theme to life through the story of his

mother’s family, sharing their experiences during the Holocaust and the refuge they ultimately found in Colombia. Zweig spoke about how their survival often depended on human connection and compassion. His remarks emphasized that remembrance carries an ethical dimension.

Education remained a central focus of the event with the presentation of awards to student honorees connected to the Elie Wiesel Writing and Visual Arts Competition. Student winners were recognized for their thoughtful engagement with Holocaust history and memory, demonstrating how young people continue to grapple with both the weight of the past and its relevance today.

Teachers Kindra Mosher and Lisa Kilczewski were also recognized for their dedication to Holocaust education, highlighting the critical role educators play in fostering historical understanding, critical thinking,

and empathy. Their work was acknowledged as essential to ensuring that Holocaust education remains rigorous, meaningful, and responsive to the challenges of the present moment.

One of the most moving moments of the program was the lighting of six memorial candles by descendants of Holocaust survivors. Stepping forward as representatives of their families and generations, they expressed remembrance through ritual – embodying the continuity of memory as something carried, shared, and sustained over time.

The evening concluded with a moment of reflection and intention. As attendees quietly exited, they were offered yahrzeit candles to light at home.

Elka Mednick is director of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater’s Holocaust Commission.

Dr. Milton Zweig

Megan Zuckerman and Elyse Tapper Cardon, Holocaust Commission co-chairs.

Lainey Goldman, great granddaughter of Esther and Charles Goldman, lights a memorial candle.

Sonia Sabater, first place senior art winner in the Elie Wiesel Competition.

Jon Gjokoli, special commendation senior art winner in the Elie Wiesel Competition.

Lauren Barkan and Lisa Kilczewski, Teacher Award winner. Lauren Barkan and Kindra Mosher, Teacher Award winner. Raven and Blake Laibstain, grandchildren of Erica Reisner Ausch, light a memorial candle.

The winners of the junior divisions of the Elie Wiesel Competition.

IT’S A WRAP

Women’s Philanthropy combines business, art, and impact

Members of Women’s Philanthropy of United Jewish Federation of Tidewater convened for its sixth meeting of the year – this time at the Chrysler Museum of Art. Blending community leadership with cultural enrichment, it was an afternoon marked by inspiration and connection.

Following the meeting, attendees were treated to a private tour of Architects of Being: Louise Nevelson and Esphyr Slobodkina, led by Harry Graber, museum docent and former UJFT CEO.

Alicia London Friedman, Women’s Philanthropy chair, opened the program by welcoming the organization’s newest members: Rebecca Auerbach, Amy Gladstein, Ellen Rosenblum, Nicole Kushner, Allison Cooper, Laura Goldstein, Laura Wingett, and Nikki Shapiro Roth.

“Mazel tov to all—we are so excited to have you with us,” she said.

Friedman shared a Campaign update highlighting the strength of the community’s giving. “As of today,” she said, “The UJFT Campaign has reached $5.1 million from nearly 1,000 donors, with the Women’s Division contributing $1.5 million from 414 donors.”

“We could not do this without you,” she said. Thanking everyone for their dedication and generosity, Friedman emphasized the collective impact of the Women’s leadership, noting that this year has been meaningful and successful. “Women’s Philanthropy is strong and inspiring because of each of you—your leadership, generosity, and commitment.”

The private tour engaged participants with the work of Nevelson and Slobodkina – two Jewish women artists – which deepened a shared sense of pride and community.

JFS HOLDS VOLUNTEER APPRECIATION LUNCHEON

An opportunity to recognize the many people who give their time to help others, the Jewish Family Service volunteer luncheon was held on Friday, April 17, at the Sandler Family Campus.

This year’s theme was travel, which made the room feel fun and welcoming. The little touches, such as globes and mini suitcases that tied into the theme, gave everyone something light and enjoyable to talk about while also taking time to appreciate their meaningful work.

Many different volunteer groups are involved at Jewish Family Service of Tidewater, so it was special to have them all together in one place. Some volunteers help with PAM filing, while others are Meals on Wheels drivers who deliver food to those who need it, along with food pantry volunteers who make sure families have access to groceries, as well as knitters, quilters, and crocheters who create handmade items with care. Tax preparers even donate their time and expertise to

help others during tax season. JFS depends on its volunteers. The organization truly could not run without them. Along with the generous donations from the Jewish community, the volunteers are what keep everything going and allow JFS to support so many individuals and families in need.

The luncheon was not fancy, but it didn’t need to be. It felt genuine and heartfelt, which made it meaningful. People had the chance to connect, share stories, and just feel appreciated for what they do.

The event took place at the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus, which continues to be a central place for Jewish life in Tidewater.

Anyone who is interested in volunteering, donating, or learning more about Jewish Family Service, can contact Julie Kievit, Jewish Community Relations Manager, at 757-321-2318 or jkievit@ jfshamptonroads.org. Giving even a little bit of time can make a big difference.

Julie Kievit

Linda Ausch

Harry Graber speaks to the group.

Debra Aleck, Ellen Coley, and Sara Jo Rubin.

Amy Levy and her mother Marcia Moss.

PAM volunteers: Sam Wittenberg, Doug Weinstein, Jay Legum, and Patti Mellor.

MOW volunteers: Ellie Brooke, Lenny Brooke, Alan Kurzer, and Mark Delevie.

IT’S A WRAP

Kate-Lynn Cipolla

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Another successful spring break camp took place last month at Camp JCC. Students from Strelitz International Academy and local public schools participated in sports, nature walks, Israeli culture, and arts and crafts.

Each day featured specific themes: Camp Takeover included tie-dying shirts; Passover Day focused on decorating matzah covers; Nature Day involved exploration and journaling; and Arts Day featured clay sculpting, dancing, and magic tricks. The week ended with Parent Trap Day, inspired by the Disney film The Parent Trap, where campers made friendship bracelets, completed an obstacle course, and watched the movie.

Spring Break at Camp JCC Get

Families maintained flexibility by enrolling for individual days or bundling the full week for savings. This customizable scheduling allowed campers to balance spring travel and family time with the activities at Camp JCC. By providing diverse programming and convenient registration, the camp delivered a streamlined and engaging experience.

To learn more about Camp JCC, Kids Night Out, School Days Out, children’s classes, and more, contact Kate-Lynn Cipolla, Camp JCC director, at klcipolla@ujft.org or 757-321-2306.

Aiden Coneys explores the new playground on the Sandler Family Campus.

Mimi Greer with her owl creation with clay on Arts Day.

Ruby Kievit’s first time on the new playground.

Eleanor Levenstein, Aiden Coneys, Wes Cohen, Blake Sisler, Mimi Greer, and Gavin Blanks enjoy spending time in the sun.

WHAT’S HAPPENING

Pop-Up Shabbat dinners strengthen community

Hannah Yasemsky

With summer just ahead, Pop-Up Shabbat dinners are bringing renewed energy and excitement to Jewish young adults and families across Tidewater. Coordinated by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater, this initiative creates warm, welcoming spaces where community members can gather to share in the joy of Shabbat.

At its core, Pop-Up Shabbat is about building unity and ensuring that every young adult in the community has a place at the table. Designed for those who are roughly ages 22 to 45, along with their families, the program highlights a growing network of enthusiastic hosts. Each host brings their unique family traditions and a passion for community, offering guests a varied Shabbat experience.

There is no expectation to observe Shabbat in any one way, reflecting a commitment to respecting the traditions that feel most meaningful to each host and participant.

Upcoming dinners include:

• Shabbat hosted by Josh and Bo Lepchitz – Friday, May 29 in the Town Center area. This kidfriendly gathering offers a warm and relaxed Shabbat experience. The home does not have any pets.

• Shabbat hosted by John and Erma Dupon – Friday, May 29, near Mount Trashmore. This

dinner takes place in a home with two cats.

• Shabbat hosted by Michael and Aly Yaary – Friday, June 5, in the Great Neck area of Virginia Beach. This gathering is kid friendly.

• Shabbat hosted by Lauren Fitzwater and Tomas Moore –Friday, June 12, in the Town Center area. This dinner takes place in a home with two cats and offers another opportunity for meaningful connection around the Shabbat table.

Organizers are eager to continue growing the calendar. Community members who have ever considered opening their homes are encouraged to step forward as hosts. For those who want to participate, browsing host profiles offers a chance to find the perfect fit and experience a meaningful Shabbat in a fellow community member’s home.

Supported by the Richard Glasser Family Foundation, Pop-Up Shabbat dinners provide a perfect blend of tradition, community, and modernity –a wonderful way to spend an evening.

To learn more, explore upcoming dinners, or sign up to host or attend, visit JewishVA. org/PopUpShabbat or contact Hannah Yasemsky, NextGen coordinator at UJFT at HYasemsky@UJFT.org.

Memorial

“Payday is very forward thinking and is always up on potential changes. We have also been impressed by Payday’s contingency planning. Whenever there is a potential natural disaster in our region, such as a large storm, Payday is proactive and works with our staff to make sure that everyone will be paid without interruption.”

Day Ceremony – Honoring Fallen Heroes

Thursday, May 21, 8:30 am, Sandler Family Campus

Remember those who served in this short ceremony at the Jewish War Veterans Memorial on the Reba and Sam Sandler Family Campus. Honor all who gave their lives in service to our country, from the Revolution to today.

For more information, contact Elka Mednick atEMednick@ujft.org.

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WHAT’S HAPPENING

Jewish American Heritage Month: Exploring identity, history, and belonging in Tidewater

Sierra Lautman and Hunter Thomas

Each May, Jewish American Heritage Month invites communities across the nation to pause, reflect, and celebrate the many ways Jewish Americans have shaped, and continue to shape, the nation’s cultural, civic, and artistic life. Established by presidential proclamation in 2006, JAHM recognizes more than 370 years of Jewish presence in what is now the United States.

This year’s JAHM programming in Tidewater, presented by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and community partners, brings together film, history, art, sports, music, and family-friendly events, inviting participants of all backgrounds to engage thoughtfully with the Jewish American story.

Moses Ezekiel: Portrait of a Lost Artist

Monday, May 4, 1 pm, Sandler Family Campus

The month opens with a focused exploration of Moses Jacob Ezekiel, one of the most complex figures in American Jewish art history. UJFT will present the documentary Moses Ezekiel: Portrait of a Lost Artist, which examines Ezekiel’s international acclaim alongside his support of the Confederacy and the legacy of the memorials he created.

Jewish American Heritage Month Night at the Tides game

Wednesday, May 6, Harbor Park, 6:35 pm, Harbor Park

JAHM also creates space for celebration and shared experience when the community is invited to Harbor Park for a Norfolk Tides game, honoring Jewish contributions to America’s favorite pastime. Tidewater native and award-winning Jewish country artist Troy Breslow will sing the National Anthem. Tickets are $19.99.

Architects of Being

Tuesday, May 12 and Sunday May 17, 2 pm, Chrysler Museum

Guided walk‑and‑talk tours

Tuesday, May 5, and Tuesday, May 12, 10 am, Norfolk Botanical Garden

The conversation about Ezekiel continues with guided walk- and-talk tours at the Norfolk Botanical Garden, where participants will explore the Moses Ezekiel Statuary Vista Garden and view Carrara marble sculptures he created in Rome between 1879 and 1884.

Visual art is highlighted through a continued partnership between UJFT and the Chrysler Museum of Art, with guided tours focusing on the exhibition Architects of Being, which features the work of Jewish-American immigrants Louise Nevelson and Esphyr Slobodkina.

Jason Schachter McKinney

• Thursday, May 28, 6 pm, Jewish Museum and Cultural Center

• Friday, May 29, 10:30 am, Central Library, Virginia Beach

• Friday, May 29, 6:30 pm, Ohef Sholom Temple

• Saturday, May 30, 10 am, KBH

• Sunday, May 31,10 am, Second Presbyterian Church, Norfolk

• Sunday, May 31, 11 am, Moses Myers House

A defining focus of this year’s JAHM programming is the residency of musician and author Jason Schachter McKinney. McKinney will perform at UJFT’s Konikoff Center for Learning’s third-annual Celebration of Lifelong Learning at the Jewish Museum and Cultural Center in Portsmouth, bringing together learners from preschool age through nonagenarians for an evening of music, reflection, and shared learning.

Families are invited to a story time at the Meyera E. Oberndorf Central Library in Virginia Beach featuring Jason Belongs, his autobiographical children’s book that explores identity, belonging, and what it means to be both Black and Jewish.

His residency continues through participation in Shabbat services at Ohef Sholom Temple and at Kehillat Beit Hamidrash (Kempsville Conservative Synagogue), in partnership with Temple Israel and Temple Emanuel. McKinney will also take part in a conversation about faith and music and an interfaith service at Second Presbyterian Church in Norfolk alongside Pastor Craig Wansink and Rabbi Michael Panitz. That conversation will be followed by services at 11am, which are open to all.

Later that day, Rabbi Panitz will conclude the month at the historic Myers House by exploring the life of Moses Myers, one of Norfolk’s first permanent Jewish residents, and what his story reveals about early American Jewish ideas of citizenship and belonging.

Advance registration or tickets are required for all events. For more information, visit JewishVA.org/ JAHM, or contact UJFT’s programs department at Programs@UJFT.org.

JAHM storytime at the Central Library in 2025 (Mark Robbins photography).

Moses Ezekiel

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CALENDAR

MAY 4, MONDAY

As Confederate monuments are removed nationwide, this documentary examines the life and complicated legacy of Moses Jacob Ezekiel, an internationally known Jewish-American sculptor who fought for the Confederacy and created one of its most prominent memorials. Steven Pressman’s film explores Ezekiel’s art alongside the enduring impact of the “Lost Cause” myth. For Jewish American Heritage Month. Registration required at JewishVA.org/JAHM or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@UJFT.org.

MAY 4 - 8, MONDAY THROUGH FRIDAY

PJ Library Book Exchange. Bring children’s outgrown PJ Library books and place them in the collection boxes in the JCC lobby or at Strelitz International Academy. Collected books will be displayed in the JCC lobby for families to browse and take home. Be part of a fun exchange that celebrates reading, community, and the joy of finding that next favorite story. Information: JewishVA.org/pjlibrary or Blake Sisler at BSisler@ujft.org.

MAY 5 AND MAY 12, TUESDAYS

Botanical Garden Tour for Jewish American Heritage Month. Explore the work and complicated legacy of Moses Jacob Ezekiel, the first American born Jewish artist to achieve international acclaim and a supporter of the Confederacy. This guided walk and talk tour visits the Moses Ezekiel Statuary Vista Garden, featuring Carrara marble sculptures he created in Rome between 1879 and 1884. Registration required at JewishVA.org/JAHM or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@UJFT.org.

MAY 5, TUESDAY

Yiddish Club. Embrace Yiddish culture, language, and history through music, film, poetry, and literature. Usually meets on the first Tuesday of each month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

MAY 6, WEDNESDAY

Celebrate Jewish American Heritage Month at Harbor Park honoring Jewish contributions to baseball history, presented by United Jewish Federation of Tidewater and United Jewish Community of the Virginia Peninsula. Come cheer, connect, and celebrate at this meaningful and fun-filled evening with the Norfolk Tides. First pitch: 6:35 pm. $19.99. Tickets required: JewishVA.org/Tides.

MAY 7 AND 21, THURSDAYS

Roundtable Conversation. Those of all ages who love a spirited debate join for conversations involving current events, politics, and more. Meets every first and third Thursday of the month. 1 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

MAY 7, 14, 21, 28, THURSDAYS

Baby & Me. A relaxed hour of coffee, treats, and playful activities for babies up to 24 months. Connect with caregivers while little ones explore and play. Free to attend. Membership not required. 9 -10 am. Simon Family JCC. Registration required: JewishVA.org/BAM or contact Blake Sisler at BSisler@ujft.org.

MAY 12, TUESDAY

NADIV Texas Hold 'Em-Styler Charity Tournament. Sandler Family Campus. Dinner, game play, prizes. 6 - 10:30 pm. JewishVA.org/NadivPoker.

MAY 12, TUESDAY AND MAY 17, SUNDAY

In celebration of Jewish American Heritage Month, explore Judaic themes in the Chrysler Museum’s collection, including the special exhibit Architects of Being, featuring the work of Jewish-American immigrants Louise Nevelson and Esphyr Slobodkina. These free tours are presented through a partnership between the Chrysler Museum of Art and United Jewish Federation of Tidewater. 2 pm. RSVPs required: JewishVA.org/JAHM.

MAY 18, MONDAY

Book Club. The book of the month is Wreck by Catherine Newman. Group meets every third Monday of the month. 1:30 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: Jewishva.org/Adults or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

MAY 20, WEDNESDAY

Senior Club. Join active seniors to learn what is going on in the community and how to get involved. This meeting will include playing Bingo with the Tidewater Shinshin. Meets every third Wednesday of the month. 12 pm. Sandler Family Campus. Information: www.jewishva.org/Adults or contact Sarah Cooper at SCooper@ujft.org.

MAY 28, THURSDAY

Celebrate the joy of Jewish lifelong learning with an uplifting evening bringing together learners of all ages, from preschoolers to nonagenarians. The program includes a festive reception, followed by remarks, songs, and presentations highlighting learning across the lifespan, and concludes with a community concert featuring musical artist Jason Schachter McKinney. 6 - 8 pm. Jewish Museum and Cultural Center. Limited transportation from the Jewish Community Center is available upon request. Information: JewishVA.org/JAHM or contact Sierra Lautman at SLautman@UJFT.org.

MAY 29, FRIDAY

Celebrate Jewish American Heritage Month at the Meyera E. Oberndorf Central Library with a Family Storytime featuring Jason Belongs, led by author and musician Jason Schachter McKinney. Jason has a big voice. He sings everywhere—until a whisper runs through his Jewish school: Jason is Black. Is he really Jewish? “Can I be both Black and Jewish?” wonders Jason. As he grows older, he must find a way to embrace all of who he is and rediscover his voice. The story offers young readers a powerful message: all communities are diverse, and everyone belongs. Perfect for families with children in kindergarten through 3rd grade. Free. 10:30 am.

JUNE 15, MONDAY

Camp JCC opens its doors for the first day of summer camp. Campers will dive into a full day of classic camp fun, including sports, swimming, arts, outdoor adventure, and community building with old and new friends. This kickoff day sets the tone for a season filled with energy, friendship, and unforgettable experiences. Sandler Family Campus. Registration and information: CampJCC.org or contact Kate-Lynn Cipolla, Camp JCC director at KLCipolla@UJFT.org.

IN MEMORIAM

MICHAEL TILSON THOMAS, FAMED CONDUCTOR AND SCION OF YIDDISH THEATER

Penny Schwartz (JTA) — One year ago, Michael Tilson Thomas lifted his baton to conduct a concert in San Francisco that he said would be his last.

The scion of Yiddish theater and luminary of contemporary classical music had been diagnosed with a recurrence of brain cancer, and he knew his days were numbered.

“We all get to say the old show business expression, ‘It’s a wrap,”” he said on his website after conducting Gustav Mahler’s Symphony No. 5 with the San Francisco Symphony, one of several orchestras he led during his storied career. He signed off: “Life is precious.”

Thomas died Wednesday, April 22 at his home in San Francisco, four days short

of the one-year anniversary of that concert. He was 81.

Among the many paying tribute to Thomas were those whose appreciation stretched back through his long career to his family roots in the thriving Yiddish theater scene of early 20th-century America.

“The grandson of Yiddish theater stars Boris and Bessie Thomashevsky, Michael was born and raised in Los Angeles and made incalculable contributions, not only to the music world, but through performances, recordings and curation documenting his grandparents’ musical legacy,” writes UCLA’s Milken Archive of Jewish Music. “May his memory be a blessing.”

Born in 1944 in Los Angeles,

Thomas showed both promise in and devotion to classical music from an early age. After graduating from the University of Southern California, he conducted a wide range of symphonies around the world, including in Israel, and became known as an ambassador for classical music to the masses.

He grew most associated with the Boston Symphony Orchestra, where he became assistant conductor in 1968, the San Francisco Symphony, and the New World Symphony in Miami, which he launched in 1987, with the help of the Israeli businessman Ted Arison, to aid young musicians.

Thomas’ career suffered a setback after he was arrested in 1978 and charged with carrying drugs into the country from London.

he was often compared. He conducted the narrated piece with the BSO, at Tanglewood in Western Massachusetts.

Thomas’ most well-known project with Jewish themes is The Thomashefskys: Music and Memories of a Life in the Yiddish Theater. It’s an homage to his immigrant grandparents, Boris and Bessie, who, in the early years of the 20th century

“People found out I was not the model of a nice Jewish boy,” he told the New York Times Magazine in 1995. “The event pushed me from wunderkind to desperado. It hurt, and I probably did not get some jobs I might have gotten, but hurt is important and instructive for a musician.”

Despite the incident, Thomas continued touring and racking up roles, as well as recording albums. He earned 11 Grammys for recordings of orchestras he conducted.

During his career, Tilson Thomas embraced his Jewish roots and identity through a diverse array of compositions including From the Diary of Anne Frank, commissioned in 1969 by UNICEF for the actress Audrey Hepburn.

In 2018, he composed and conducted Grace, an 80th-birthday tribute to his mentor and colleague, Leonard Bernstein, another Jewish wunderkind to whom

became trailblazing performers and producers of Yiddish theater on New York’s Lower East Side.

“My grandparents became megastars, in their new country. The Yiddish theatre was central to their lives,” Tilson Thomas wrote. The Thomashefskys, performed internationally, expressed Tilson Thomas’s pride in his Jewish roots, according to Joshua Jacobson, founder and artistic director of Zamir Chorale of Boston and a scholar of Jewish music.

“He wasn’t hiding the fact that he is Jewish. In fact, he was doing programs about it,” Jacobson says.

Thomas was preceded in death by his husband Joshua Robison, whom he met in a middle school orchestra program. The two became a couple in 1976 and were married in 2014. Robison died in February after a fall. He is also survived by his sister and nieces and nephews, according to a statement from his family.

Michael Tilson Thomas

IN MEMORIAM

The ‘godfather of denim’ was an Italian designer whose Jewish father was murdered at Auschwitz

Grace Gilson (JTA) — Adriano Goldschmied became known as the “godfather of denim” for elevating jeans from casual wear to a luxury staple. His own father’s story was equally riveting.

Goldschmied, who died April 5 at 82, following a battle with cancer in a hospital in Castelfranco Veneto, Italy, credited himself with founding or developing at least 50 brands, including Diesel, AG, Replay, Gap 1969, A Golde, and Goldsign.

He was just an infant in 1944 when his Italian Jewish father was arrested by the Nazis.

Goldschmied’s mother, Sofia, was in hiding with his sister at the time of his birth on Nov. 29, 1943, in Vico Canavese, Italy. The Nazis had invaded Italy just months earlier.

His father, Livio, had joined the Italian resistance after the Nazis took over. When he tried to visit his wife, daughter, and newborn son, he was apprehended en route. One of six people with his last name deported by the Nazis via Milan’s central station, he was ultimately sent to Auschwitz, where he was killed several months later.

According to a testimony made by a survivor to Yad Vashem, Israel’s Holocaust center, Livio was denounced by a midwife and received permission to visit his son briefly after his arrest. The testimony, which cannot be independently verified, said he

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had rejected an offer to move to the United States to work with the physicist Enrico Fermi because he would not have been able to bring his family, and had also declined an opportunity to escape from the train that took him to Auschwitz.

Following the war, Goldschmied moved with his mother to Trieste. He later spent a stint pursuing skiing in the 1960s in Cortina, the ski resort in the Southern Alps.

He did not speak readily about his family’s Holocaust history, and unlike his sister, he did not connect with his Jewish heritage. Diana was responsible for installing Stolpersteine, small memorials embedded in sidewalks documenting the Jews who lived at that address before the Holocaust, to commemorate their family members who were murdered.

“Like my father, my brother was a man of great intelligence and extraordinary intuition,” Diana told the Italian-Jewish news outlet Moked. “However, he did not want to talk about our family history. I think memory was working inside him, though.”

Goldschmied got his start in fashion in the 1970s, when he launched his shop, King’s Shop, in Cortina d’Ampezzo, and started a denim line, Daily Blue.

“That first production was going to a fabric store in my hometown, buying crazy fabrics for a very high price and going through manufacturing with my

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tailor,” Goldschmied told Women’s Wear Daily in 2023. “The product was extremely expensive, and in some way, I created a premium denim by accident.”

In 1981, Goldschmied went on to found the Genius Group, a collective that backed emerging labels like Diesel, Replay, and Goldie.

Among Goldschmied’s innovations throughout his career were the development of the stonewash technique, experimenting with Tencel fibers, creating super-stretch denim and pioneering sustainable production methods as early as the 1990s.

“He was the architect of a global

staple,” Mariette Hoitink, the co-founder of House of Denim, told Women’s Wear Daily. “Adriano didn’t just design jeans; he orchestrated the greatest transformation in the history of apparel. He was the singular force who elevated denim from rugged workwear into a global fashion staple.”

Goldschmied is survived by his wife, Michela; his daughters Sara, Marta, and Glenda; two grandchildren; and his sister.

“Adriano and I led very separate lives,” Diana told Moked. “I rediscovered my Jewish identity. He took a different path, but everyone carries the past within them.”

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RABBI ZOBERMAN POEM IN CONGRESSIONAL RECORD

Under My Grandpa’s Tallit (Prayer Shawl), a poem by Rabbi Israel Zoberman, was inserted in the Congressional Record by Congresswoman Jen Kiggans in honor of International Holocaust Remembrance Day.

Rabbi Dr. Israel Zoberman is the founder and spiritual leader of Temple Lev Tikvah as well as Honorary Senior Rabbi Scholar at Eastern Shore Chapel, both in Virginia Beach.

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Locals complete Boston Marathon

Terri Denison

Howard Roesen and Tom Purcell, Simon Family JCC’s Wellness director, ran the Boston Marathon on Monday, April 20. It was Roesen’s first Boston Marathon and Purcell’s third.

Both avid runners have completed a lot of marathons over their years of friendship, which began at the Simon Family JCC when Purcell was hired and Roesen was head of the Wellness committee.

“We have run many of the same races over the last several decades,” says Purcell. In fact, they have completed 20 straight years of the Rock ‘n’ Roll ½ marathon that was held in Virginia Beach on Labor Day Weekend.

To train for the Boston Marathon, they took a couple of 20- and 22-mile long runs together. “We discussed our training and communicated weekly to see how we’re doing,” says Purcell.

“It was a pleasure to run with Howard and to get to experience the Grand Race again,” he says. “I just turned 60 years old and wanted to run Boston one last time. Now I can say I’ve run a full marathon in every decade of my life from my 20s. I’ll keep running 1/2 marathons, but I'm closing the chapter in my 60s.”

The cool Boston temps didn’t seem to bother any runners, Purcell and Roesen included. “The weather was perfect,” says Purcell, noting that ideal marathon conditions are in the upper 40s to low 50s. “There was very little wind, and it was slightly overcast. We had a late start in our corral, so it wasn’t until 11:30 am when we started.”

The last time Purcell ran the Boston Marathon was 20 years ago when he turned 40. “Those conditions were perfect, too, as I ran a 2:39 time (6:07 pace per mile). I wanted to run Boston this time and enjoy and have fun with my dear friend Howard,” he says.

“We had a blast to soak in the 130 years of the tradition of the Boston Marathon.”

Howard Roesen and Tom Purcell.

Howard Roesen and Tom Purcell in Boston.

OPINION

Apple TV’s Your Friends & Neighbors just gave us a stunningly authentic Passover episode

Yael Buechler (JTA) — Matzah is not something I typically give much thought to in the days following Passover. Yet I cannot stop thinking about a piece of shmura matzah I recently encountered.

The encounter came on Apple TV’s Your Friends & Neighbors, where the handmade round matzah (that always tastes a little burnt) just had a major cameo — perhaps its debut on a national TV series — in the episode that dropped last month.

Your Friends & Neighbors stars Jon Hamm as a suburbanite who takes to theft, roiling his community. The entire show is packed with rounds of golf and all-you-caneat buffets at a WASPy country club — I hadn’t gotten the sense that anyone was Jewish. Until I saw that the fourth episode of the second season was called The Bread of Affliction. Perhaps I should have known: The show is based (and filmed) in Westchester County, just north of New York City, where I work as a rabbi and where many secular families include Jews. And there was a “L’chayim” in the previous episode, but that phrase has practically entered the English lexicon. I never saw the matzah coming.

There was also drool-worthy matzah ball soup being stirred in a giant, seder-sized pot, and caviar on matzah, an atypical yet perfectly kosher combination.

And then, the kiddush. Gretchen Reagan (played by Miriam Silverman, a Jewish actress and Broadway star), who is married to Hari, recited a full version of the Passover blessing — not the one-liner everyone knows from Hebrew school — and with the right nusach (tune). That tune, that beautiful, trembling holiday version, is one that most traditional households don’t even quite land as well as she did.

All of the guests at the table held (in unison) a classic yellow-and-maroon haggadah, first published in 1949. This nostalgic haggadah, which also appeared in the Passover episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm back in 2005, is still used at many seders today. It’s known for its simplicity, black-and-white drawings, and helpful directions.

— a genuinely engaging idea. And of course, there is an epic afikomen hiding spot. I won’t spoil details about its discovery, but let’s just say the afikomen was located exactly where it gets hidden in most households.

This episode was like manna from heaven. It literally just dropped. No hype, no press conference, no rounds of Jewish podcasts that project Jewish pride, sometimes a little too hungrily.

This may be the best thing that happened to Passover since 1995 — i.e., a Rugrats Passover. That episode still has the edge because it not only portrayed the seder and intergenerational family drama accurately, but it actually told the story of the Exodus in a way that felt new: accessible, funny and memorable. (Plus, it gave us the line “Let my babies go!”)

I wonder whether my excitement is simply because the standard is just that low for Judaism on-screen. It is. But this episode went above and beyond — even explaining that “Shanah Tovah” is not the appropriate greeting for Passover, or that afikomen means “dessert.”

I’ve carved out a social media niche critiquing portrayals of Judaism in pop culture. So I have to give credit where credit’s due — what transpired on Your Friends & Neighbors was no less than a modern miracle: Judaism done right.

I was sold at “Good yontif,” the words recited by Hari Sahni (played by Manu Narayan), one of the hosts, as guests entered his gorgeous, towering home for the seder. What soon transpired was not your traditional hodgepodge of a Passover table: no scattered Hebrew school projects or random plastic frogs. We viewers got an aspirational seder, with an aesthetic somewhere between cottagecore and, well, upscale Westchester. The seder table was a canvas filled with floral arrangements, votive candles, and beautifully scripted place cards. For those playing insider Jewish baseball, there was even a place card for Elijah (no last name).

Following that epic kiddush, Mel and Coop’s teenage son, Hunter, struggles to sing Ma Nishtanah. Honestly, an all-too-accurate portrayal, too — he probably hadn’t practiced since Hebrew school. He was soon backed up by another Jewish actress and Broadway star, Rebecca Naomi Jones, who plays Suzanne Haber, a neighbor in the series’ fictional Westmont Village community.

Yet what blew me away the most was that shmura matzah. Square matzah famously occupies supermarket kosher sections year-round, but shmura matzah tends to appear only right before the holiday.

Where did the props department find an intact piece? Most boxes of shmura matzah come cracked. And once they had one, how many tries did it take for Amanda Peet to break it neatly in half? The notable Jewish actress plays Mel Cooper, the Jewish ex-wife of Andrew (Coop) Cooper (Hamm), who is not Jewish. Peet’s role has been central across both seasons, as she navigates challenging family dynamics, many of which play out at the seder.

As the seder continued, guests dipped pinkies in wine (ever so daintily) for the Ten Plagues. They went around the table, each reciting one plague in English

The episode comes in stark contrast to another trending “Jewish show”: Nobody Wants This. I’m still not over Rabbi Noah Roklov (played by Adam Brody) trying to make “Mazel” a greeting. It’s not. Nor is Tu Bishvat a mourning holiday (thank you, Rabbi Neil, played by Seth Rogen).

Where does that leave the future of Judaism on TV? The bar has certainly been leavened, and I’m here for it.

From a material culture perspective, we’ve been living in an era where it has been dayenu — enough — just to have something on the shelves for Hanukkah or Passover, even if it was riddled with errors that could have been fixed by asking one person familiar with Hebrew or Jewish symbols.

And at a time when many people fear being Jewish in public, seeing Judaism on screen as a given — and portrayed correctly — is so affirming. At a moment when I, as a Jewish content creator, am flooded with antisemitic comments, direct messages, and screenshots of my “Jewish” nose, seeing Judaism in the wild is a reminder that they have not “won.”

This episode makes me hopeful that Judaism can be once again celebrated and talked about — not hidden. Now, I’m ready for a Rosh Hashanah episode in Season 3!

The views and opinions expressed in this article are those of the author and do not necessarily reflect the views of JTA or its parent company, 70 Faces Media, or of Jewish News.

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