Messenger - November 2019

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FROMB’NAI THE RABBI HIGHLIGHTS THECALENDAR SYNAGOGUE | CONGREGATION EMUNAH | TULSA | NOVEMBER 2019

CBS NEWS ANCHOR SCOTT PELLEY AT THE SYNAGOGUE—SEE PAGE 3

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RABBI DANIEL KAIMAN

Marc B. Fitzerman and Daniel S. Kaiman................. Rabbis Dr. Elana Newman................................................ President Dr. John Schumann...................................... Vice-President Ross Heyman........... Vice-President for Finance/Treasurer Nancy Cohen.......................................................... Secretary Jeremy Rabinowitz......... Synagogue Foundation President Hillary Roubein.................................... Sisterhood President Sara Levitt..................Director of Jewish Life and Learning Betty Lehman.............................. Synagogue Administrator Shelli Wright........................................... Preschool Director Valerie Henderson.............................................. Bookkeeper Brigid Kelley and Cheryl Myers....................Rabbis Offices Gwenn RedCorn......................................... Co-Receptionist Nicki Johnson............................................. Co-Receptionist Nancy Cohen............................ Sisterhood Gift Shop Chair Robert Conn................................................Security Officer Forrest Young...............................................Security Officer David Kraft...................................................Security Officer

SEASONAL AFFECTIVE AMBIVALENCE I hate taking down my Sukkah. At our house, we have one of those kits you can buy online, so the work is not very hard.

All the parts are interlocking, and no tools are necessary. But still, it always takes me a bit longer than I’d like to admit to get my act together and deconstruct that temporary dwelling space. The truth is, it takes me so long to pull the Sukkah down because I really love it when it is up.

Of course, for me, the Sukkah fulfills all cultural and religious demands of the season. It is a prompt and reminder to spend more time outside. It is a signal to our neighbors of a small way in which we are different from the rest of Tulsa, and it is just a charming space to sit and read a book. So I don’t like taking it down because it means I am giving up something I truly enjoy.

Yet, I know that in this act of demarcation of the season, I am doing something important for myself. By pulling the pieces apart and carefully storing them for next year, I am making a statement about what I hope and wish for the year ahead. It is precisely because I take down the Sukkah every year that I know I will once again get to delight in its construction and presence when this time rolls around again soon. It turns out that by doing something I don’t want to do, I enable something that I very much do want to do. And in that is a reminder of the cyclical nature of our tradition. We love and celebrate in the moments we have, and we count on being able to revel in the moments that lie ahead.

BOARD OF DIRECTORS Steven Aberson Emily Melton Bolusky Sharon Cash Brian Brouse ON THE COVER Nancy Cohen Randee Charney Barbara Eisen Mark Goldman Because we so often speak of Ross JudahHeyman Touro, Jake Lerner youTerry might think that this is yet another portrait Marcum Matt Katz of the colonial Jewish philanthropist.

But Jeremy Rabinowitz Dr. Elana Newman this is actually a painting of Gershom Mendes Debby Raskin David Sandler, M.D. Seixas, first Jewish congregational leaderM.D. Angelathe Taubman John Schumann, born the United States. Seixas the Eva served Unterman RickiinWimmer famous Spanish and Portuguese Synagogue in Hillary Roubein New York City. We honor his memory this month because he led the first synagogue IMMEDIATE PAST PRESIDENTS celebration of Thanksgiving in 1789.

In these actions, we express hope and make a statement about how we relate to this world around us. So while I may not like the feeling I get when I pull that Sukkah apart, in my actions I make a statement about how I want the world to work. As we look forward in our year, so may we be able to say goodbye to these good moments, knowing that they will come again.

Sally A. Donaldson Craig Silberg Jolene Sanditen

STREAMING SERMONS With the High Holiday season now behind us, many of you have asked for a way to share your experiences of the holiday season more widely. We’re happy to share that a selection of videos is now available on our website at www.tulsagogue.com/5780. We hope to add several more selections over the coming weeks so that you can continue to carry this experience forward. Thanks to all for making the holidays at the Synagogue such a special part of our year.

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CONGREGATION B’NAI EMUNAH 1719 South Owasso Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 Office: (918) 583‑7121 School: (918) 585‑KIDS Fax: (918) 747-9696 Website: www.tulsagogue.com

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THE NOVEMBER CALENDAR OF EVENTS 2

BAR MITZVAH OF ADAM ARBITAL

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The Synagogue notes with pride the upcoming Bar Mitzvah of Adam Arbital, son of David Arbital and Emilyn Potter, brother of Josh and Andrew. Adam has prepared for this occasion under the mentorship of Greg Raskin and supported

by Morah Sara Levitt. This Shabbat morning celebration will begin at 9:00 a.m.

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Dr. Sheldon Berger will celebrate the half-century anniversary of his bar mitzvah this Shabbat morning by chanting his original portion. See the details on page 5 of this issue. A kiddush luncheon will follow the service, and all are invited.

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ALEXANDER McCALL SMITH

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CHALLAH BAKING

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SCOTT PELLEY

TO+GATHER

This Sunday morning program is geared toward families with children under 4 years old and their families. Our theme this month is “Let’s Celebrate Shabbat.” The morning will include singing, a story, a project, and more! The fun begins at 10:30 a.m. and will conclude by 11:45 a.m. Families are then invited to join our ShulSchool students for the last 15 minutes of the day. Questions and to RSVP? Please be in touch with Sara Levitt.

A 60 Minutes correspondent and former anchor of the CBS Evening News, Scott Pelley has been telling the important stories for nearly 30 years. In his new book, Truth Worth Telling, Pelley offers a collection of inspiring tales that remind us of the importance of values in uncertain times. Pelley will visit The Synagogue on Wednesday, November 6, and the program will begin at 7:00 p.m. Tickets are on sale now at www.magiccitybooks.com.

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SHABBAT FOR EVERYONE | POLAY+APPLE

With open doors and open arms, welcoming Shabbat with community is a wonderful way to start your weekend. An optional communal meal accompanies this service so that your Shabbat can be truly restful and restorative. This month we’ll celebrate the upcoming wedding of Maya Polay and Dancey Apple with an aufruf blessing. Join us! Many of our young people will be in their handmade capes and crowns, and we’ll call out all the names on our November yahrtzeit list. No reservation is needed for the celebration at 7:00 p.m. But please call or visit our website to make your meal reservations. Dinner begins at 6:15 p.m.

It’s the greatest bread ever. Each month we gather on a Wednesday to mix dough so that you’ll have enough for two challahs the following Friday afternoon. Novice baker? Not to worry, we’ll walk you through it step-by-step. Please call the Synagogue at (918) 583-7121 to reserve your space at the kneading table. Space is limited, so please call early. No cost to anyone. Class begins at 6:00 p.m.

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SEVENTEENTH STREET DELI

Let’s face it. Jewish Deli is amazing. We love opening our doors to the broader community for this regular pop-up restaurant experience. Bring your friends and family for a fun night at the deli. Dinner begins at 6:00 p.m. Make reservations at tulsadeli.org.

A prolific writer of fiction, Alexander McCall Smith is responsible for the international phenomenon The No. 1 Ladies’ Detective Agency series, the Isabel Dalhousie Series, the Portuguese Irregular Verbs series, and the 44 Scotland Street series. McCall lives in Scotland and is a retired professor of medical law. He tours widely and will be joined in conversation by Teresa Miller. The program will begin at 7:00 p.m.

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B. MITZVAH ANNIVERSARY: DR. BERGER

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BIBI-DIBI

MILLENNIALS LEND A HAND

The Synagogue Millennials and the Tulsa Jewish Federation invite you to Lend a Hand, an evening for a cause! Join us Tuesday, November 19, at Chimera as we schmooze, nosh, learn about the Meals on Wheels, and work on a project to benefit their important work. Delicious heavy appetizers and drinks will be served. Cost is $20 per person and proceeds go to support Meals on Wheels. RSVP to Sara at slevitt@ bnaiemunah.com by November 17.

Crawling? Barely walking? Not yet talking? There’s a place for you in our circle at Bibi-Dibi. It’s a monthly Shabbat gathering for babies and their families. We sing songs, play games, and share in a beautiful Shabbat dinner. We see this as a wonderful way to build your own family traditions. While no reservation is necessary for the 6:00 p.m. celebration, we do ask that you make reservations by calling or visiting our website if you plan to join us for the meal.

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NOVEMBER EVENTS [CONTINUED] FROM RABBI FITZERMAN 23

BAR/BAT MITZVAH: THE JEFFY COUSINS

GOING DEEP It’s one thing to strike out on your own, but we’ve taken a different approach at B’nai Emunah. Many of our most important projects are cooperative ventures with other agencies and institutions. As you can see from this issue, we do a lot with Magic City Books. The Altamont Bakery brings us together with the Mental Health Association | Oklahoma. We’re in close, loving relationship with All Souls Unitarian Church, and we’ll be working on a Race Massacre effort with Metropolitan Baptist.

The potential in each case far outweighs the challenges and I’m proud that we can keep so many balls in the air.

The Synagogue notes with pride the upcoming joint b’nai mitzvah celebration for Oliver and Emma Jeffy. Oliver is the son of Dr. Elon and Kate Jeffy. Emma is the daughter of Elena and Brandon Jeffy. These first cousins have diligently prepared for this occasion and we look forward to a joyous event.

This Shabbat morning celebration will begin at 9:00 a.m.

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FAMILY DAY OF SERVICE

ShulSchool and Hebrew Language Lab students and their families are invited to our Annual Family Day of Service as we prepare for the Thanksgiving season. On Sunday, November 24, families will join their children for a day of intergenerational learning, celebration, and action. Throughout the morning we will explore our responsibility as Jews to stand up for change in our community and to help those who are hungry. We will be joined by the local non-profit, Hunger Free Oklahoma, to learn about poverty in our state and how we can make a difference in a new way. The morning will run during the regular ShulSchool hours.

One exceptionally bright spot is our strategic partnership with Catholic Charities. We’ve worked hard with Deacon Kevin Sartorius and his staff to build out a first rate program in English as a Second Language, one of the ways Catholic Charities works with immigrants and refugees. Thanks to the support of the Sharna and Irvin Frank Foundation, we’re running a best-practices program focused on citizenship. That means a busy classroom at the Synagogue operating three days each week.

We’d now like to take the next step together which promises additional gains in the area of immigration. Our idea is to relieve the professional staff of the agency so that lawyers can serve a larger number of clients. Trained by Catholic Charities professionals, we hope to do the nuts-and-bolts work of the office. Every hour we spend will be an extra hour for the lawyers, including our own member, Michael Abdoveis. Let’s help them deal directly with their hard-pressed clients so that they can resolve the complications of asylum and immigration.

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CHALLAH BAKING

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FIRST FRIDAY AT FLYLOFT

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MAH JONGG TOURNAMENT

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SHABBAT FOR EVERYONE

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BIBI-DIBI

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WINTERLIGHT

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COOKIEBAKE 2019 + 24 FOR 24

Please let me know if this appeals to you. We need five different people who can do two hours each week, each working on a separate day, morning or afternoon. If this lights a fire and fits your schedule, all you have to do is write me at marboofitz@ bnaiemunah.com. And don’t hesitate to make contact even if your office skills are rusty. My heart tells me that everyone can do effective work in this area. The issue of immigration is one of the great moral challenges of our time. Can you make a difference? Yes.

NEW TO OUR FAMILY

MILESTONES

WELCOME We are so pleased to welcome all of our new members to the Synagogue family, including

IN MEMORIAM

Loren Basch

Irene Rosenfield Mother of Judy Alexander

We hope that the years ahead bring much satisfaction and joy to one and all.

Martha Goins Grandmother of Bethanie Verduzco 4

BAR AND BAT MITZVAHS AT THE SYNAGOGUE ADAM ARBITAL

DR. SHELDON BERGER On Saturday, November 9, 2019, Dr. Sheldon C. Berger will celebrate the 50th anniversary of his bar mitzvah.

Adam Arbital, son of David Arbital and Emilyn Potter, will become a bar mitzvah on Saturday, November 2, corresponding to 4 Cheshvan, 5780, at Congregation B’nai Emunah.

On October 25, 1969, Sheldon became a bar mitzvah at Congregation Ahavat Achim in Wichita, Kansas, surrounded by his beloved parents, Herbert and Lila Berger, along with his siblings Milton, Dodi, and Steven Berger. Sheldon led the congregation in prayer, chanting from the Torah and reciting the Haftorah portion of Lech Lecha.

Adam is a seventh grade student at Edison Preparatory School, where he is in the gifted and talented program and is a member of the debate team.

Adam is an avid gamer and is partnering with the organization Game Changer for his mitzvah project.

Please join Sheldon, Molly, Michael and Sarah for this milestone occasion as Sheldon will once again chant from the Torah and recite the Lech Lecha haftorah. Following the service, the community is invited to a celebratory kiddush luncheon.

He is the brother of Andrew and Bethany Ross, and Joshua Arbital. Preparations for his bar mitzvah have been led by Greg Raskin. A dessert kiddish will follow the service.

Yahrtzeits at the Synagogue

In addition to daily services in the afternoon, our members are welcome to attend Shabbat for Everyone. That’s the joyful monthly celebration at the Synagogue intended for all ages and levels of experience. On November 15, we’ll gather at 7:00 p.m. and announce all the yahrtzeits observed this month. Please call our Receptionist at (918) 583-7121 to let us know you’re coming so that we can double-check our records and make sure that your loved one is listed for this month. We look forward to seeing you.

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BAR AND BAT MITZVAHS AT THE SYNAGOGUE [CONTINUED] THE JEFFY COUSINS Oliver Solomon Jeffy, son of Kate and Elon Jeffy, and Emma Rebecca Jeffy, daughter of Elena and Brandon Jeffy, will become b’nai mitzvah on Saturday, November 23, corresponding to 25 Heshvan, 5780, at Congregation B’nai Emunah.

Emma, from San Diego, California, and Oliver, are first cousins and only three months apart. Instead of two separate events, the two families decided to join the celebrations together and have a b’nai mitzvah service in Tulsa.

Oliver (above) is a seventh-grade student at Monte Cassino Middle School, where he is an honors student. He enjoys building computers, learning about electronics, and cruising with his family.

Oliver is the grandson of Ed and Anita Ulrich of Tulsa, Allan and Elaine Jeffy of Tulsa, and Shari Burks of Phoenix, Arizona. He is the older brother of Simon. Preparations for his bar mitzvah have been led by Greg Raskin.

Emma (below) is a seventh grader at Pacific Trails Middle School in San Diego, California. Emma enjoys skateboarding and other outdoor activities, hanging out with friends, and listening to music.

She is extremely excited to share her bat mitzvah with her cousin Oliver and to have her ceremony in the same sanctuary at B’nai Emunah where her father and uncles celebrated their b’nai mitzvah many years ago.

Emma is an active participant in many activities at Beth Am Synagogue in San Diego, and has been preparing for her Bat Mitzvah with her tutor Barbara Pardo and Rabbis Earne and Kornberg.

Emma is the granddaughter of Allan and Elaine Jeffy, Shari Burks, and Nina and Nikolai Kozin of Yaroslavl, Russia.

YOUNG LEADERSHIP NEW BOARD MEMBERS We’re delighted to announce the addition of two new members to our Board of Directors. High School students Eli Anderson and Sophie Raskin began their board service in October of this year.

They have already offered guidance on a number of issues, and we look forward to their fresh ideas and new perspectives. Sophie and Eli are part of a deliberate effort to expand the diversity and reach of our Board as the formal deliberative body of the congregation.

BAKE. FREEZE. REPEAT.

WOUld YOU LIKE TO HELP WITH MEALS FOR HOSPICE FAMILIES? Please

We'd love to have your help with CookieBake 2019. Delivery on Dec. 24.

CALL RABBI KAIMAN AT THE SYNAGOUGE.

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SISTERS | JANET DUNDEE

IN THE COMMUNITY

UPCOMING (CONCLUDED) SOCIAL JUSTICE

DOCUMENTARY

Sisterhood has been very active in promoting and volunteering for a variety of social justice programs. Below are some of the activities currently happening, and which need your help:

Phil Goldfarb, president of the Jewish Geneological Society of Tulsa, reports that the documentary L’dor V’dor: Generation to Generation | The Story of Tulsa’s Jewish Community was recently awarded First Place in Media Technology by the Oklahoma Museum Association.

Breakfast at Iron Gate. Dr. Sarah-Anne Schumann is continuing to seek volunteers to serve breakfast at the new Iron Gate facility downtown. Sarah-Anne needs six people over the age of 13 (men and women) to join together on Sunday, November 24, from 8:30 to 10:30 a.m. This important opportunity has been very popular and successful.

Contact Sarah-Anne at hennschu@gmail.com.

The documentary was also scheduled to be shown in multiple media markets around the country during the High Holy Days. It has also been entered in local, national and international film festivals.

If you do not have a copy of the DVD, they are still available at the Tulsa Historical Society. Thank you and congratulations for those who contributed to this outstanding work!

Knitting Chemo Caps. For several months, knitters in the congregation have worked to knit dozens of chemo caps which have been distributed to cancer patients with chemo-induced alopecia. Knit from soft, comforting yarn, the caps have brought warmth to many who are undergoing chemotherapy. Each cap, distributed to St. Francis Breast Center, CTCA, Oklahoma Cancer Specialists, and the offices of various Tulsa breast surgeons, has a tag from Sisterhood.

Going Forward With Knitting. Sisterhood’s next knitting effort will be winter scarves. Partnering with Family & Children’s Services, Sisterhood is dedicating the upcoming Mah Jongg Tournament to providing coats and scarves for clients.

Renee Kaplan and Michelle Brock are heading up this effort.

Contact them for further information.

SISTERHOOD SOCIALS Movie Night at Circle Cinema. Joining together with Temple Israel Sisterhood, CBE Sisterhood will meet at Calaveras restaurant for a vegetarian dinner before attending the movie 93QUEEN, part of the Jewish Film Festival. The plot? A group of tenacious Chasidic Women in New York City create the first all female volunteer ambulance service, even if the men in their lives don’t support their efforts. The movie begins at 7:00 p.m. at the Circle Cinema. Contact Hillary Roubein.

Book Club. Okay, let’s talk about great books! Men and women are invited to the new edition of the Sisterhood Book Club on Sunday, November 10, at 10:00 a.m. at the Synagogue. Karen Kiely will lead a dialogue about Alice Hoffman’s novel, Marriage of Opposites.

Mah Jongg Tournament. Elsewhere in the Messenger is a sign up flyer for the upcoming Mah Jongg Tournament.

Check it out! All the players have had a fabulous time at the past tournaments!!

In our Gift Shop: great gifts for the Mah Jongg player in your family.

Please come by to check out our new merchandise. We have clever and colorful Judaica items for everyone!

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IN OUR SCHOOLS—MORAH SARA LEVITT BETWEEN THE GENERATIONS

three-part learning experience for upcoming B’nai Mitzvah students and their parents on Sunday morning. In the moment of transition from Jewish child to adult, who better than their important adults to learn alongside our students?

Through the magic of technology, our son Lior’s grandparents see him at least once a week. They sing to him, ask him questions about school and his life, and mostly admire his growth since the last time they saw him.

For our whole school community, I hope you will join your children this month for an opportunity to learn and work together at our Annual Family Day of Service on Sunday, November 24. Together, we will have a service experience, sing, eat, learn about our responsibilities as Jews to help those in need, and work on an action project to make change in our community.

As he gets older, I imagine these conversations becoming more complex, meaningful, and more two-sided. The relationship between grandparent and grandchild, between older community member and younger, or even parent and child, matters in Judaism. Not only do these experiences enhance our student’s Jewish studies but they enrich the lives of their adults as well. We see this happen in real time at the Synagogue already, during several of our regular Shabbat celebrations, when parents, grandparents, and other adults welcome Shabbat with our children.

This year we have invited Hunger Free Oklahoma to join us in this effort. Hunger Free Oklahoma works to end hunger in our state through advocacy, education, and policy. Our morning will build on prior years and give an opportunity for our families to encourage and promote change from a policy perspective. Check our weekly email blasts for more information in the coming week. I look forward to continuing to develop these programs in our community!

Creating warm moments for truly meaningful Jewish intergenerational learning and experience is something we are continuing to develop at ShulSchool. For the first time this year we have created a B-Mitzvah Family series: a

3rd Annual Mah Jongg Tournament Hosted by Congregation B’nai Emunah Sisterhood

Sunday, December 8, 2019 • 1:00 p.m.–5:00 p.m. • Congregation B’nai Emunah • 1719 South Owasso Avenue $25 per Person-Beverages and snacks will be provided.

PLEASE BRING NEW OR GENTLY-USED COATS BENEFITING

FOR MEN, WOMEN OR CHILDREN

Friendly Play...Enjoy the day!

Intermediate...Play 3 games per round.

Advanced...Play 4 games per round.

Prizes will be awarded at each level.

Bring your 2019 Mah Jongg card.

Please r.s.v.p. by Wednesday, November 27.

Questions?

Call Barbara Eisen or Kristi Tarabolous.

Barbara Eisen • 918.645.7452 or beisen1@me.com Kristi Tarabolous • 918.361.4906 or kritter47@aol.com Let us know your playing level.

Fill out the form below and include your check made payable to: Congregation B’nai Emunah Sisterhood Mail to: Barbara Eisen • 2417 East 33rd Street • Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105

Let’s Play Name____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Email Address __________________________________________________________________________________________________________________ Phone

Level of Play

(Please check one)

______ Friendly ______ Intermediate ______ Advanced

Your check is your reservation. Please return your check and the bottom portion of the invitation by Wednesday, November 27, 2019.

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CONTRIBUTIONS TO THE SYNAGOGUE A. and M. Fedman Scholarship Fund

Chevra Kadisha

Julie Frank

Harold and Sheryl Springer

David and Sarah Oberstein

Altamont Bakery Fund Joe Degen Julie Frank Michael and Cindy Guterman

Julie Frank

Dave Sylvan Joyful Music Fund Julie Frank

David and Sophie Rubin Fund for Youth Visual Arts

Andy and Marti Levinson

Juilie Frank

Ann Beerman Flower Fund

Davis-Goodall Chapel Fund

Julie Frank

Juilie Frank

Frieda Grossbard

Sanditen Preschool Fund

Michael and Cindy Guterman Stan and Klara Klein

Anne Zarrow Courtyard Fund

Joe Degen Julie Frank Andy and Marti Levinson

Julie Frank

Nina Meyer

Barbara Curnutt Preschool Fund

Education Endowment Fund

Julie Frank

Juilie Frank

David and Sarah Oberstein

Joan Green

Bikur Cholim Fund

Frieden Computer Fund

Yolanda Charney

Juilie Frank

Julie Frank

Frank Endowment Fund

Dr. David and Vicki Hurewitz Dr. Peter Rao

Brian Sweet Multimedia Fund Julie Frank

Juilie Frank

Bolusky Memorial Outreach Fund Julie Frank

Kahan Hebrew School Fund Julie Frank David and Sarah Oberstein

Lubell Family Social Activism Fund Julie Frank

Meyer Rozen Prayerbook Fund Julie Frank Les and Carla Weston

Mizel Family Philanthropic Fund Julie Frank

Fell Landscaping Fund Judith Fell Austin Joe Degen Julie Frank

Sylvan Transportation Fund Julie Frank Dave and Barbara Sylvan

Levin Prayerbook Publication Fund Linda Dubois Julie Frank

Rabbi Arthur D. Kahn, D.D., Culture Fund Julie Frank Jerry and Susan Sokol Cheryl Wallace

Rabbi Kaiman Discretionary Fund

Dr. David and Vicki Hurewitz

Vellie Bloch

Brouse Programming Fund

Jennifer and Sam Joels

Jay Friedman

Joe Degen

Joe and Dorothy Katz Senior Fund

Julie Frank Isrella Taxon

Building and Grounds Fund Julie Frank

Building Renewal Fund Julie Frank

Camp Ramah Scholarship Fund Paul and Randi Brodsky Joe Degen Julie Frank Joan Green Stacy Schusterman

Michael and Cindy Guterman Eleanor Samuels

Julie Frank

Wilfred Sanditen

Joe Kantor Hebrew School Fund

Rabbi Fitzerman Discretionary Fund

Julie Frank

Josh Price Memorial Fund Julie Frank

Sanditen Pilgrimage Fund Julie Frank

Lenny Seigel Plaground Fund Joe Degen Julie Frank

Joan Benesh Gregory and Annabelle Falconetti Jay Friedman Frances H. Jacobson and Ada Middlebrook Dr. Stan and Stephanie Pastor Eleanor Samuels Charlotte Schuman Wilfred Sanditen Judy Ungerman Sandra and Kent Vice Diana Wolff

Richards Family Library Fund

Synagogue Endowment Fund

Julie Frank

Joe Degen

Jim Friedman

Julie Frank

Leah Borg Friedman

Robinowitz Library Fund Vellie Bloch Julie Frank

Rose Borg Sukkah Fund April and Richard Borg Rosalyn Borg (St. Louis) Rosalie Childs Julie Frank Ellen Friedman Jay and Kathy Friedman Bonnie and Louis Spiesberger

Marks Helping Hand Fund Julie Frank

Sam Plost Matzah Fund Julie Frank

Schlanger-Blend Kitchen Fund Julie Frank

Scott Zarrow Rabbinic Endowment Sally and Robert Donaldson

Synagogue General Fund Alin Avitan Bernard Backer Blumenthal Family Philanthropic Etta Borg Avrom and Rosetta Brodsky

Nelda Merrell

Enrique and Juan Cortez

Bill Meyer

Joe Degen

Margaret and Leo Meyer

Jordan Diamond and Ashley Lewis

Betty and Jay Newman

Frederic Dorwart

Don and Rita Newman

Gregory and Annabelle Falconetti

Milton and Sylvia Oberstein

Toby Fell

Esther Pastor

Irvin and Carol Gertner Sherri Goodall Dr. David and Vicki Hurewitz Dennis and Terri Johnson Jeff Krigel Norm and Shirley Levin Janice Nalibotsky Jeffrey and Elizabeth Rambach

Joe Degen

Darryl Sartwell

Julie Frank

Irene Silberg Judith Ungerman David and Erin Wambold

Cheryl Wallace

Religious School Fund

Security Fund

Julie Frank

Joe Degen

Julie Frank

Angie Angelo-Levitt and Alan Levitt

Sharna Frank Music Fund

In Memory Of

Julie Frank

Dwight Axelrod

Shirley Rabinovitz School Fund

Donna and Kenneth Brown

Stuart and Sherri Goodall/Blanc Art Education Fund Julie Frank

Sylvia H. Jacobson Harriet and Sylvan Levinson

Craig and Mary Abrahamson

Dr. David and Vicki Hurewitz

Harry Guterman Jacqueline Devries Huddle

O’Neil Cobb

Karen Neuwald

Julie Frank

Stuart Goodall Joseph Grossbard

Susan Contente and G. Kurt Piehler

Scott Sanditen Memorial Fund

Harold and Sheryl Springer

Myra Gock

Dorothy Kaset

Cheryl and Greg Myers

Jolene Sanditen

Gilbert Gertner

Linda Brown

Julie Frank

Dr. David and Vicki Hurewitz

Jeanette Altman Frieden

Elliott G. Bloch Harold Charney William S. Chucker Bettye Dritch Morris B. Fell Eunice and Charles Frank Michael Frank Sharna and Irvin Frank

Mike Rabinovitz Barbara Rambach Sol Robinowitz Jerald Schuman Dr. Miles Schuman Anna Shapiro Mort Solomon Max Springer Norman Tugenberg Hanna Ungerman Maynard Ungerman Harry J. Weiner Maurice Arthur Weinstein Kenneth Weiss Louis Weiss Mary Louise White-Young Eva Spector Wittels Milton Wolff

In Honor Of Judith Finer Freedman, on her birthday The Hurst and Hurewitz families Norman and Shirley Levin Lior Rafael Levitt

november | Cheshvan-kislev Sunday

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5:30 PM Service 6:08 PM Candles 6:28 PM Sunset 6:30 PM First Friday at Flyloft

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8:30 AM Siddur Study 9:00 AM Bar Mitzvah of Adam Arbital 6:35 PM Closing Service 6:50 PM Havdalah

Torah: Noah

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9:00 AM ShulSchool 5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Author: Alexander McCall Smith

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9:00 AM ShulSchool 10:00 AM Sisterhood Book Club 5:30 PM Service 6:00 PM 17th Street Deli

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5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Adult Institute at the JCC

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5:30 PM Service

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1:00 PM Altamont Baking 5:30 PM Service

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1:00 PM Altamont Baking 5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Board of Directors

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9:00 AM Altamont Packing 4:00 PM Hebrew Lab 5:30 PM Service 6:00 PM Challah Baking 6:30 PM Midrasha 7:00 PM Scott Pelley at The Synagogue

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9:00 AM Altamont Packing 4:00 PM Hebrew Lab 5:30 PM Service 6:30 PM Midrasha

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5:30 PM Service

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5:01 PM Candles 5:21 PM Sunset 5:30 PM Service 6:00 PM Bibi-Dibi

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8:30 AM Siddur Study 9:00 AM Shabbat Service | Berger Bar Mitzvah Anniversary 5:30 PM Closing Service 5:45 PM Havdalah

Torah: Lech-Lecha

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5:30 PM Service

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4:56 PM Candles 5:16 PM Sunset 5:30 PM Service 6:15 PM Shabbat Dinner 7:00 PM Shabbat for Everyone | Polay-Apple Aufruf

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8:30 AM Siddur Study 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 5:25 PM Closing Service 5:40 PM Havdalah

Torah: Vayera

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9:00 AM ShulSchool 10:30 AM ToGather 5:30 PM Service

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5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Adult Institute at the JCC

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1:00 PM Altamont Baking 5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Millenials: Lend a Hand

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9:00 AM Altamont Packing 4:00 PM Hebrew Lab 5:30 PM Service 6:30 PM Midrasha

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5:30 PM Service

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4:52 PM Candles 5:12 PM Sunset 5:30 PM Service

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8:30 AM Siddur Study 9:00 AM B’nai Mitzvah of Oliver and Emma Jeffy 5:20 PM Closing Service 5:35 PM Havdalah

Torah: Hayei Sarah

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9:00 AM ShulSchool: Family Day of Service 5:30 PM Service

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5:30 PM Service 7:00 PM Adult Institute at the JCC

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1:00 PM Altamont Baking 5:30 PM Service

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9:00 AM Altamont Packing 5:30 PM Service

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5:30 PM Service

Thanksgiving Day Preschool and Offices Closed

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4:49 PM Candles 5:09 PM Sunset 5:30 PM Service

Preschool and Offices Closed

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8:30 AM Siddur Study 9:00 AM Shabbat Service 5:15 PM Closing Service 5:30 PM Havdalah

Torah: Toldot

THE SYNAGOGUE

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CONGREGATION B’NAI EMUNAH

PAID

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1719 South Owasso Avenue Tulsa, Oklahoma 74120 P.O. Box 52430 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74152

YAHRTZEIT CALENDAR­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­ — 3 CHESHVAN 5780 THROUGH 2 KISLEV 5780 3 Cheshvan - Friday, November 1 Rachel Borg Sylvia Henzel Isadore Nadel Yetta Seigel

10 Cheshvan - Friday, November 8 Robert Reed Fabes Jack Gelfand Kate Kaiser Carl Sokolof Morris Sylvan

4 Cheshvan - Saturday, November 2 Theodore “Ted” Ginsberg Florence Kornblum Benyamin Kreger Verna Lebow Hanna Saveth Louis Mayer Stekoll Rowena Beatrice Zelkind

11 Cheshvan - Saturday, November 9 Bessie Blend Bernard M. Bloch Carmen Breeding Ben Dritch Bernard Jeffy Anna Kaiser

5 Cheshvan - Sunday, November 3 Phyllis H. Frey Benny W. Haskell Esther Lieberman Dr. Philip H. Miller Rae E. Rips Anna Shoubin

12 Cheshvan - Sunday, November 10 Milton Morris Cohen Tyson Dines Sam Kaplan Helen Kirsh Ruben Schechter Bryne Leah Steinberg

6 Cheshvan - Monday, November 4 Saul Joe Glenn C.H. “Harry” Lebow Rebecca Schneider Rose Travis Irvine E. Ungerman

13 Cheshvan - Monday, November 11 Lottie Jackson Toni Neuwald Leon Pastor Benjamin Ralph Poznik Molly Ratner Jean Shilder Louis R. Travis

7 Cheshvan - Tuesday, November 5 Nathan Apt Ethel Atkins Jan Baum Lance Michael Dubois Morris Dundee Sylvia Frank Sadie Gelfand Isaac Levin Harry Lewiskin Louis D. Toll Angelina Valarde Chaye H. Viner 8 Cheshvan - Wednesday, November 6 Clara Borochoff Silvan Levinson Lillian Rips Marjorie Singer 9 Cheshvan - Thursday, November 7 Henry R. Dan Eddie Jacobson Fannie Skuy Anna Stein

14 Cheshvan - Tuesday, November 12 Harvey Nudelman Rabbi Howard Rabinowitz Joseph Shwatshkin Marshall Steinberg William Ungerman 15 Cheshvan - Wednesday, November 13 Rose Brouse Gold Abraham Cash Jules Sanders Charles Richard Stidham, Sr. Jacob Tublin 16 Cheshvan - Thursday, November 14 Leona Carter Mary Spears 17 Cheshvan - Friday, November 15 Michael Frank Taube Yekusiel Globe Sara Lichtman Robison Jacob Sylvan

18 Cheshvan - Saturday, November 16 Jessie Finston Bernard Storch William Weise 19 Cheshvan - Sunday, November 17 Edith Finkel Sara Kahan Gussie Moskowitz Dr. Jerry Plost Elizabeth Sollosy 20 Cheshvan - Monday, November 18 Daniel Bennett Cohen Deanna Dinar Fannie Heyman Bebe Kantor Sol Shalom Morris B. Taubman 21 Cheshvan - Tuesday, November 19 Ann Beerman Zalman Dob Mordechai Fell Harry Louis Golden Corry Weston 22 Cheshvan - Wednesday, November 20 Gittel Arcader Ronna Taxon Einhorn Florence Katz Jennie Sarah Leff Beatrice Narotzky Shlomo B. Paru Ida Pertofsky 23 Cheshvan - Thursday, November 21 Abraham Gordon Alexander Haas 24 Cheshvan - Friday, November 22 Sandi Arbital Herman Cyter Doris Wain Lenske Dorothy Miller 25 Cheshvan - Saturday, November 23 Louis Blend Joel Lynd Dolores Nesbit Rosalyn W. Price Louis Secan

26 Cheshvan - Sunday, November 24 Nathan Berelowitz Norita Wyse Berman William Cohen Ernest Henzel Etta Hersh Terry Hurst Marion Skuy 27 Cheshvan - Monday, November 25 Stuart Goodall Michael Polay 28 Cheshvan - Tuesday, November 26 Kenneth Brown Ida Dundee Collins Geraldine E. Glass Haym Dov Glenn Leah Glenn Reta Gold Julius Jacobson Lili Katz Leo Lederman Nathan A. Rubin Dexter Stein 29 Cheshvan - Wednesday, November 27 Irving Cohen Betty Frey Mildred Goltz Marjorie Rubin 30 Cheshvan - Thursday, November 28 Jake Feldgreber Cathy Golzar Alfred Herbert Klein James S. Kohn 1 Kislev - Friday, November 29 Julius Bankoff Marshall R. Carter Claudia Heyman Soliman Khalil Benjamin Raymond Geneva Van Drielen Anna Zeff 2 Kislev - Saturday, November 30 Helen Kassel Lillian Kopp Ann Marine Felix B. Weinberg

May their souls be bound up in the bond of life everlasting. Please note that each yahrtzeit begins at sunset on the day before the date listed.