The Triangle • Spring 2017

TRIANGLE spring 2017

Walking the road from victim to survivor a brave sister shares her story

State of our Sisterhood

Character Essay Contest Winners

Housing Highlight

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The Triangle | Spring 2017

Volume 17, Number 1

Editor Mallory Borino, Eta Omicron Design/Editing Shelle Design, Inc. Member Experience Editor Katie Bevan, Eta Chi Features Editors Samantha Green, Eta Chi

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from the

president Believe in tomorrow…

As springtime unfurls and the world around us awakens, I am reminded of something Audrey Hepburn once said: “To plant a garden is to believe in tomorrow.” She is one of my favorite iconic women and this time of year I find myself thinking about some of Tri Sigma’s icons—our Founders.

I often ponder how these women and our earliest members managed to

NATALIE AVERETTE Gamma Beta National President

expand Tri Sigma to places as far away as Texas and Tennessee within just a few years of our founding without the aid of technology and instant forms of communication or the accessibility of a large national network of members. How did young women at other small schools learn about

the Sigmas in rural Virginia? How did Tri Sigma manage to spread the seeds of our sisterhood given the limitations of technology and communication in the early 20th century?

There are very few surviving historical records of those early years that tell us how Tri Sigma

established itself at schools throughout the mid-Atlantic and Southern states. Personal connections and relationships with friends and family were undoubtedly essential elements of our growth.

I imagine letters written to cousins and childhood neighbors who were seeking higher education in places far from home spread the word about a band of women united by bonds of sisterhood…how much fun they had together…how supportive they were of each other. I do not know exactly what was said back then that enticed women to come together and petition Tri Sigma to start chapters at their own schools, but surely expansion began with talking up Sigma!

It all started with friends and acquaintances telling them why being a Sigma was such a great

thing which sparked the thought that it could be a great thing for them too. Sound familiar?

Regardless of the many technological and cultural changes through the decades, recruiting isn’t really all that different now than it was a hundred years ago when Sigma was expanding its chapter roll at an almost dizzying pace. The method of delivery may have changed, and the details of the message may be a little bit different but we still depend on you to always put your best foot forward, entice and invite your friends, and seize every opportunity to make new friends who could one day become your sisters.

Collegiate members are the primary force driving Sigma’s future growth as a national organization.

We especially count on our collegiate women to ensure the sustainability of Tri Sigma for at least another century or so. Potential sisters are around every corner! Are you prepared to meet them?

Do you always represent Tri Sigma in a positive manner? Do you know what it is that makes being a Sigma so fantastic? Can you convey your sentiments in such a way so others will realize that they too must make Tri Sigma a part of their lives?

As alumnae, we must ask ourselves these same questions, for it is our influence which guides

and assists our collegiate members and chapters to ensure their strength and success. Are we upholding the values and principles of our illustrious sisterhood? Are we always presenting the best side of ourselves and of Tri Sigma, and are we promoting all that Sigma has to offer?

No one is perfect of course. We cannot always be on our “A game,” but we can always be

confident in what we’re “selling” and thoughtful in how we “sell” it. That’s standard advice for success in business, and it applies equally to growing our sisterhood. Remember, recruiting new members isn’t complicated. If it feels like a complex, tortuous exercise go back to the basics that have worked for over a century - make new friends and show them how awesome it is to be a Tri Sigma.

We must plant seeds of greatness and nurture our sorority. Let us tend to our Sigma garden,

Follow us @trisigma

for we all believe in tomorrow and in the future of Tri Sigma.

Follow us @trisigma

Happy gardening!

Follow us @TriSigmaNational

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~ Natalie

contents

26 features:

departments:

6 Wellbeing Series

4 Editor’s Corner

10 State of our Sisterhood

5 Empowered Women

16 Presidents Academy

13 Leadership

18 Character Essay Contest Winners

29 Member News

23 NPC Annual Meeting Recap 24 Housing Highlight

36 Foundation 38 Archives 39 Omega Listing

26 Victim to Survivor

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the editor’s corner

you? how are

“How are you?”

We all ask and receive this question

countless times throughout our day and

week. From the waitress taking your lunch order to the clerk at the gas station, we

all hear it, but do we all mean it? Do we MALLORY BORINO Eta Omicron Director of Marketing and Communications

use this simple phrase when it is needed the most?

I found myself on a Thursday evening

grocery shopping for dinner and trying to

rush home before my husband so I could surprise him with one of his favorite meals. Traffic was horrible during rush hour, the store

was packed, and the checkout line was long enough to consider dropping my cart and opting for a few Wendy’s combo meals.

When it was finally my turn to make my purchase the clerk behind the counter asked, much like everyone else I had spoken to that day, “How are you?”

Instead of rambling off the generic “I’m fine; how are you?”

I stopped. I stopped unloading my cart. I stopped rummaging through my purse for my wallet. I stopped and looked at the kind clerk staring back at me with that simple question.

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How many of us genuinely ask this question? How many of

us respond in truth? I took a few moments to chat with the clerk about my day; the highs and the lows. Ultimately, I found myself

in a conversation about her recent loss. You see, Mary’s husband

had passed three weeks earlier. Today seemed particularly hard for her but she still put on a smile and continued through her day. We shared stories about her husband’s favorite sweets and their dog

Cookie (who just so happened to be named after his favorite sweet).

When it was time to gather my bags and leave, Mary stopped again and took time to speak genuinely. She thanked me for the brief

conversation. Today was her anniversary and she was just trying

to get through the day. Taking a moment to share some memories was exactly what she needed and I felt it.

This issue features the story of a sister who survived sexual

assault. She walked through life for a year holding guilt and just

getting by. At one simple lunch a sister took the time to stop and ask how she was. That changed her life.

When was the last time you reached out to someone you saw

hurting or in need? When was the last time you genuinely answered the clerk asking how you are? Take the time to be present this year.

It may have a life changing effect on someone that needs it most.

empowered women

Celebrating 75 Years with Tri Sigma!

Chapter Name Alpha Sigma Margaret Hardy Abbott Alpha Rho Rose Probst Akeley Alpha Lambda Doris Raymer Albers Alpha Dora Jones Anfin Alpha Nu Nadine Spurrier Aunt Nu Betty Stewart Baile Alpha Nu Betty Randle Baldridge Alpha Phi Pauline DeMott Ballou Alpha Chi Frances Nelson Barclay Alpha Mu Maveh Rosser Barker Alpha Nu Frances Blanckertz Bass Sigma Mary Belle DeVivier Beach Alpha Iota Wanda Bell Beane Alpha Phi Gertrude Shearer Beck Alpha Psi Esther Pinkstaff Bethune Alpha Ida Sykes Billups Alpha Tau Alice Sudenga Bliss Alpha Iota Marjorie Mills Bliss Alpha Pi Ilene Ross Bovaird Alpha Delta Sarah Ross Brig Alpha Sigma Isabelle McCoy Brown Alpha Nu Dorris Reidelberger Campbell Alpha Nu Teddy Hess Carlton Alpha Nu Allynn Wright Carter Alpha Upsilon Frances Matthews Clark Mu Lois Drennan Cloyd Alpha Mu Ruth Blanchet Colomb Mu Jean Janney Coon Alpha Helen Wilson Cover Alpha Iota Agnes Lazenby Cowan Alpha Omicron Ouida Hutto Cox Alpha Psi Mary Jones Cramer Alpha Beta Jane Mueller Cropley Alpha Theta Mary Peters Cunningham Alpha Upsilon Ann Nowlin Dechert Alpha Phi Mary Wilson Delano Alpha Pi Donagene McDowell DeLong Alpha Phi Louise Gundry Devendorf Alpha Phi Phyllis Johnson Ditlevsen Alpha Upsilon Emma Eley Dubose Alpha Psi Betty Lewis Ebe Alpha Gamma Loraine Hickey Ehrhard Alpha Chi Dollye McAlister Elliott Sigma Betty McCormick Emberton Alpha Psi Margaret Rademaker Ferris Alpha Psi Charlotte Greene Fisher Alpha Delta Eleanor Stevenson Flood Alpha Epsilon Margie Chapman Foley Alpha Psi Elizabeth King Ford Alpha Beta Norma Heflinger Foreman Alpha Alpha Eleanor Mann Freeman Alpha Lambda Kathryn Doss Frei Mu Bonnie Salisbury Funk Alpha Psi Jean Gossett Gaines Alpha Epsilon Martha Polsley Gamble Alpha Zeta Opal Madden Gaspard Alpha Delta Dorothy Mather Glasebrook Psi Eunice Parry Gleason Pi Maudene Messmer Goebel

Chapter Name Alpha Sigma Annie Walker Grim Pi Ila Soderstrom Grossardt Alpha Chi Betty Overbey Hale Xi Mary Stahl Halverson Psi Eleanor Beckner Hand Alpha Psi Bessie Mae Townsend Hanks Psi Jane Turner Hansen Alpha Psi Martha Rademaker Haugh Mu Betty Green Hayes Pi Gertrude Foster Hayes Alpha Chi Leah Williamson Hays Lambda Arlene Hoffman Hazlewood Alpha Phi Patricia Hendrick Psi Bess Broaddus Herndon Alpha Psi Martha Jack Hobbs Alpha Alpha Ethel Wall Holland* Alpha Alpha Belvia Reid Honaker Alpha Chi Martha Hays Hoskins Upsilon Virginia Mayfield Hughey Alpha Upsilon Ann Brown Hutchinson Alpha Psi Bette Bails Johnson Alpha Tau Phyllis Walker Johnson Mu Betty Mesmer Jones Alpha Omicron Marilyn Farish Jones Zeta Thelma Popp Jones Alpha Xi Joyce Yeager Kaiser Alpha Alpha Dolores Snuffer Karr Alpha Xi Jeanette Ludtke Krumheurer Xi Lorene Boucher Laird Alpha Omicron Margaret Hardgrave Laster Alpha Upsilon Mary Sherman Lawler Omicron Joan Schrepper Leininger Alpha Theta Helen Kemp Lepchitz Alpha Upsilon Margaret Latham Lesner Alpha Zeta Eloise Richmond Lloyd Alpha Tau Edith Smith Ludwick Nu Grace Warren Luther Pi Sophie Fearl Majewski Psi Eleanor Porter Mallard Alpha Psi Mary Pinkstaff Marohn Alpha Psi Martha Moore Mason Munn Alpha Upsilon Elizabeth Overton McAlpine Psi Berkeley Lyon McCraw Alpha Psi Jean Camp McCumber Alpha Lambda Dorothy Vahrenkamp McHale Alpha Psi Helen Thomas Mellin Alpha Mu Mazie Mestayer Xi Dorothea Plisek Millward Xi Dixie Irene Molz Alpha Epsilon Magaret Palm Morrow Chi Elizabeth Stryker Munson Alpha Iota Mary Cherry Munson Nu Sarah John Murray Alpha Rho Marian Clark Myers Alpha Phi Ora-Evelyn Nimms Alpha Upsilon Margaret Wright Odell Alpha Mary Butterworth Parson Alpha Upsilon Sarah Overton Partridge Alpha Psi Ida McNutt Patchett

Chapter Name Chi Mary Heckert Paull Alpha Upsilon Margaret Winfield Payne Alpha Chi Martha Pride Pryor Alpha Psi Fae Maness Reynolds Alpha Upsilon Jane Monroe Reynolds Alpha Omicron Norma Crigler Ring Tau Zuella Bowe Roberts Pi Wanda Rector Rose Alpha Elizabeth Agnew Rosenberg Alpha Alpha Charlotte A. Samples Alpha Upsilon Clara Nissen Satchell Psi Betty Riggs Senter Alpha Chi Martha Hood Sisterhen Alpha Omicron Ethel Johnson Smith Alpha Delta Norma Jean Smith Alpha Alpha Irma Fink Stafford Alpha Xi Doris Klitzkie Strehlow Pi Marjorie Jones Swope Alpha Lambda Margery Ramspott Theiss Alpha Iota Wilma West Theimer Alpha Iota Martha Bliss True Alpha Chi Grace West Underwood Omicron Marion Coward Vander Veen* Iota Dorothy Braun Vicklund Sigma Martha Freeman Wacholtz Alpha Tau Florence Walleigh Walleigh Alpha Epsilon Elizabeth Lippman Watson Alpha Upsilon Ruth Whittington Alpha Marilyn Johnson Williams Alpha Upsilon Margaret Brock Wilson Alpha Nancy Bondurant Wilson Alpha Epsilon Mary Hartness Wise Alpha Iota Robbie Lee Baker Woodruff Pi Dorothy Jackson Wooton* * Indicates Golden Violet

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Day. Contact Kristen Wisbaum at kristen2122@gmail.com

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empowered women

WELLBEING SERIES: PHYSICAL WELLBEING

By Amanda Marchegiani, Beta Xi, Features Editor

As part of Tri Sigma’s current strategic plan, wellbeing is a key component as part of our member enrichment plan.

In the next few issues of The Triangle, we’ll dive into each area of wellbeing and provide ideas on how you can improve your overall wellbeing.

Physical wellness relates to fitness and energy for you to complete all of the things you want to achieve. According to Gallup-

Healthways Well-Being Index survey taken between May 2008 and April 2009, only 27% of Americans get the recommended amount of exercise each week. Physical wellbeing includes mental health too.

Here are some ways you can incorporate physical wellbeing into your life:

Keep a journal

Rest

This can include workouts and information about health

Getting enough sleep and time to yourself is part of your

appointments you’ve had. You can write down questions you

physical and mental wellbeing.

appointments.

mind: talk to a counselor, listen to podcasts or Ted Talks, seek

have for each of your doctors and record the items discussed at

Maintain a healthy lifestyle

Cook at home or eat out in moderation, get regular

exercise, try a new activity, and find balance.

spiritual or religious guidance, or work on meditation.

Stay hydrated

way

Drink water throughout the day–at work, the gym, at home,

and while studying.

Find some resources to hold you accountable

Find a friend with the same goal in mind, find a running

or cooking group, try local yoga classes, or find a walking or hiking club. Check out your local library for programs, take a meditation

Mental strength Find mental avenues to maintain your positive state of

Find tools or resources that help you along the Get a new water bottle, purchase a new outfit, treat

yourself for completing your goal, find an app that helps track your fitness, or read motivational magazines or quotes.

Start your own wellbeing group Find ways to incorporate wellbeing into your meetings

and daily life.

class, or host an activity each month for you to try.

There are so many ways to think about your physical wellbeing and the list we’ve provided is just the tip of the iceberg. Find what

In the end, no matter how you maintain your physical wellbeing, make it fun and get your family, friends and Sigma sisters involved.

works for you personally and for your chapter.

We all want to be part of a group and share experiences, so make it something you look forward to and have a great time with it.

Share your photos and ideas of how you exhibit physical wellbeing with us on social media using #TriSigma and #Wellbeing.

Are you interested in learning more about wellbeing? Check out the book, Wellbeing: The Five Essential Elements by Tom Rath and Jim Harter. the TRIANGLE | spring 2017 7

empowered women

2017 Chapter Anniversaries Chater Date

Chater Date

Anniversary

Collegiate Chapter

1917 100 Omicron and Pi

Anniversary

Collegiate Chapter

1992

25

Zeta Eta

1927 90 Alpha Epsilon

1992

25

Zeta Kappa

1922

95

Chi and Psi

1932

85

Alpha Xi

1942

75

Alpha Chi

1942 1942 1952 1967

75 75 65 50

Gamma Rho

1982

45 35

Delta Eta

Delta Chi

1987 30 Epsilon Theta

Zeta Gamma The Ladies of Zeta Gamma at Southeastern

Oklahoma State University hosted their 25th Anniversary Celebration on October 15,

in Durant, Oklahoma. Chapter President,

Madelyn Schneider, emceed the event, which had 98 collegians, alumnae, and guests in

attendance. Dean of Students Liz McCraw

presented a look back at Tri Sigma over the

past 25 years, and the chapter members and alumnae honored retiring Vice President of

Student Services, Sharon Berish Robinson.

Alumnae traveled from all over the country­— Texas, Missouri, North Carolina, Louisiana, and Illinois. The alumnae hosted a silent

auction for the local chapter, and a special

alumnae gathering was hosted immediately following the banquet. 18 of our charter

members were able to attend the evening’s celebration. The event was lovely, and the bonds of sisterhood remain strong for the women of the Zeta Gamma Chapter of Tri Sigma.

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Zeta Theta

1997 20 Zeta Psi

Alpha Psi Beta Pi

25

1997 20 Zeta Chi

Alpha Phi

Gamma Pi 1972

1992

1997 20 Eta Alpha 1997 20 Eta Beta 1997 20 Eta Zeta 2002

15

Eta Xi

2007

10

Eta Upsilon

2002 2012

15 5

Eta Omicron Theta Delta

Celebrates 25 Years!

Dear Sigma Sisters, In the late 1890s, our Founders were preparing to be teachers at the State Normal School of Farmville, Virginia. Our history indicates that while they were good students, they still made time to “indulge in the lighter side of college life.” That meant making friends, sharing time together, and being of help to one another. It is these friendships that led to the establishment of Sigma Sigma Sigma. Friendships that would last a lifetime!

As we celebrate Founders Day this year, I am reminded of the Tri Sigma friendships that I have made in both my collegiate chapter, and in our national sisterhood. Perpetual bonds of friendship are like no other. As a result, I have been empowered by many of our members to be more than I thought I could be—to be a leader, and a person that empowers others.

One of the definitions of empowering is helping someone realize their abilities and potential, sometimes for the first time. As Tri Sigmas, we have been empowered by the women that came before us to help make a difference in the world. In this year’s Founders Day program, “Exceptional Experiences. Empowered Women.,” written by Su-Lin Hammond Banks, Gamma Psi and National Ritual Coordinator, we are asked to ponder well our responsibility and what the measure of our influence will be.

In reading our history, it is noted that as early as 1912 Tri Sigma members were concerned with the needs of others. They wanted to “alleviate if only a little of the suffering” of those around them. Upon reading this, I couldn’t help but relate it to our new partnership with the March of Dimes and our continued philanthropic initiative, Sigma Serves Children. Like the early Sigmas, we feel a sense of responsibility to help make a difference to those around us.

What will you do to empower others? How will you change the world? As we enter our 119th year, let us ponder well our responsibility, as we are Tri Sigma Empowered!

I extend heartfelt greetings and best wishes on behalf of the Executive Council.

In Our Bonds,

Ann (Annie) C. Rutkowski Epsilon Delta National Treasurer

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sisterhood

empowered women

2016 State of our

MEMBERSHIP 9,502 Collegiate Members

201

Active Collegiate and Alumnae Chapters

91,782 Alumnae Members

New Chapters Oakland, MI – Theta Theta

Charlottesville, VA – Delta Chi

Auburn, AL – Theta Iota

Amherst, MA – Gamma Iota

Foundation $304,000 raised by Collegiate Chapters for the Foundation.

Over $27,000 raised benefitting March of Dimes in the first 6 months of our partnership.

$100,000 in Foundation grants for programming efforts.

ENGAGEMENT 646 National Volunteers 13,449 Twitter Interactions 204,300 Facebook Post Likes 19,000 Instagram Likes and Comments

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25,174 issues of The Triangle mailed

Revenue Collegiate Support: 66% Conference: 16% Investments/Grants/Other: 7% Royalties/Chapter Supplies: 7% Alumnae Support: 4%

Programming

66%

4%

7% 7%

16%

307 Prevention Institute Attendees

91%

of chapters participated in

CHARACTER COUNTS! Week

226 Alumnae participated in Alumnae Engage

Average GPA –

3.15

Expenses Member Support/Programs: 62% Management/General: 24% Professional Investment/ Other: 10% Technology: 3% Walton House: 1%

1% 3%

PILLAR 4 CHAPTERS: • Nu

• Gamma Xi

• Omicron

• Gamma Pi

• Pi

• Delta Pi

• Chi

• Epsilon Rho

• Alpha Zeta

• Zeta Alpha

• Alpha Iota

• Zeta Kappa

• Alpha Chi

• Eta Kappa

• Alpha Pi

• Eta Theta

• Beta Delta

• Eta Xi

• Beta Xi

• Theta Gamma

• Gamma Beta

10% 62%

24%

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Congratulations Alumnae Initiates Initiation date, Name, Chapter

10/09/16 Vicki Rae Duplantier, Gamma Mu

10/24/16 Teresa Slagter Luyet, Nu

10/09/16 Lisa M. Collins, Gamma Mu

11/01/16 Teena Henry Harlin, Zeta Gamma

10/15/16 Annette Altamirano Lusko, Iota Alpha

11/06/16 Carolyn Margaret Littlefield, Iota Alpha

10/16/16 Wendy Nesoff Naimaister, Zeta Kappa

11/10/16 Caroline Bushkowski Cipressi, Alpha Pi

10/16/16 Nicole Kelley Mezzina, Zeta Kappa

11/13/16 Susan Mare Botelho, Zeta Alpha

10/17/16 Kaitlyn Josee Hamilton, Alpha Iota

11/20/16 Courtney Rufh, Epsilon Nu

10/20/16 Debora Early Price, Chi

11/20/16 Doris Layman Booton, Epsilon Nu

10/20/16 Kathleen Walsh Richardson, Chi

12/08/16 Sarah Jones Seawell, Epsilon Nu

10/20/16 Molly Jane Howgill, Chi

01/29/17 Ashley Boynton Thom, Iota Alpha

10/23/16 Ginger Cuzzort DeHaan, Delta Pi

01/29/17 Elizabeth Pyle, Pi

10/23/16 Kaitlyn Cronin Chavez, Beta Epsilon

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By Danielle Kloap, Epsilon Beta

leadership

Prevention Institute Recap When Delta Delta Chapter Advisor Karen Boardman attended

Council specialists facilitated curriculum covering topics ranging

reduction and Honor Council, but what she didn’t expect was to

Council meetings to learning more about GreekLifeEdu statistics.

the Prevention Institute, she expected to learn more about harm realize just how connected Tri Sigma

from women and hazing to motivational interviewing in Honor

The Prevention Institute, funded

sisters really are.

in part by the Tri Sigma Foundation,

on the first day, Karen chatted with her

opportunity to attend a national

After a long evening of programming

roommate, Zeta Kappa alumna Ariel Frechtman, who serves as Eta Nu’s

Chapter Advisor. As the two alumnae

from different areas of the country got

gave a wide range of members the program and develop the skills

and partnerships necessary to be successful chapter leaders.

Nadia Serna, Epsilon Iota’s Risk

to know one another, they realized they

Manager, attended the Nashville

being Chapter Advisors.

program prepared her for her new role.

had much more in common than just

Ariel and Karen’s husbands both

location and praised how well the

“I really needed the training and

grew up within miles of each other in

I would have been completely lost

Nadia said. “Now that I know what’s

the same small town in New Jersey.

“It’s such a small world,” Karen

said. “I think (Tri Sigmas) are all

connected in ways we probably wouldn’t realize. It’s good to dig

deep and find those commonalities.”

The theme of the weekend for

advisors and collegians alike was learning

this semester without going to PI,”

expected of me, it’s made me want to

be more involved and take things more seriously, especially the topics we

dealt with like hazing, transportation, and events with alcohol.”

Mikaela Berthiaume, Zeta

that no matter where your chapter is

Upsilon’s Risk Manager, said she

same issues when working to keep sisters

and learning new ideas to take back

located, they all confront many of the

safe and hold members accountable.

“We really do all struggle with

the same issues,” said Julia Hilliard,

enjoyed connecting with other sisters to her chapter at Fitchburg State University in Massachusetts.

Natalie Vasquez, the Risk Manager

a Gamma Zeta alumna and advisor.

for Epsilon Tau Chapter at St. Leo

when we come to programs like this

part of the Prevention Institute was

“It’s nice to know that we’re not alone and bounce ideas off each other.”

Risk Managers, Honor Council

members, Advisors, Vice Presidents

University in Florida, said her favorite connecting with different sisters from across the country.

“I learned so many new things

of Operations, and even a few Chapter

from their chapter, as they did ours,”

January to attend the second annual

“This was a great experience that I

Presidents had an opportunity in

Prevention Institute in Chicago, Dulles, and Nashville. SAFE Team and Honor

Natalie said of the sisters she met. wish I could do all over again!”

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leadership

By Katie Bevan, Eta Chi

Theta Iota Chapter Installed at Auburn University

With help from members of the Executive Council, staff, volunteers, and collegiate members from Epsilon Theta, Tri Sigma officially installed the Theta Iota Chapter at Auburn University in Auburn, Alabama, last fall.

After months of planning and preparation, Installation

Weekend began on Friday, November 18, 2016, with a pre-

initiation meeting. The evening also included a campus tour for

Executive Council and the initiation of the new Chapter’s officers.

On Saturday, November 19, 121 collegiate members were

initiated into the Theta Iota Chapter, concluding with the honor

initiate, Courtlyn Harcrow. Many Auburn CAB members helped make the day a success.

“What a joy—an absolute joy—to be a part of something so

rich in tradition and so rewarding!” said Catherine Hudson, Delta

Beta and Auburn CAB member. “The Installation weekend was so very well planned and executed that all I had to do was show up with a smile and an open heart. The rest came back to me, even after 25 years! I am so blessed that I am able to be a part of this awesome adventure.”

All of the newly initiated sisters were incredibly honored

to have the entire Executive Council in attendance, in addition

to hearing stories of what Tri Sigma meant to all of the alumnae present at the Installation Banquet on Saturday evening.

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“Initiation was a beautiful and wonderful experience,” said

Courtlyn Harcrow, Theta Iota Honor Initiate. “As the Honor Initiate, I had no idea what to expect, but I knew I was going to remember it forever. Having each of my sisters and the National President at

my initiation was the best part! The banquet was a great time with sisters and their families. I loved hearing so many women speak

about what great things Sigma Sigma Sigma has to offer. I cannot wait to dive into this sisterhood and experience even greater things to come.”

During their first semester, Theta Iota begun creating

traditions of their own that the sisters will enjoy for many years.

Between Bid Day, semi-formal and other social events with Greek members on campus, Parent’s Tailgate, and completing over

1,000 service hours, the sisters of Theta Iota are just beginning their Tri Sigma journey.

Follow the chapter’s journey on social media

@TriSigmaAuburn for Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter

By Katie Bevan and Josey Herrera, Eta Chi

Gamma Iota Chapter

Installed at University of Massachusetts Amherst

This spring, Tri Sigma was proud to install their newest chapter, Gamma Iota, at the University of Massachusetts in Amherst, Massachusetts. It could not have been done without the help of collegiate members from nearby Epsilon Chi and Zeta Upsilon, additional volunteers, staff and National Vice President Kara Miller.

While preparing for their installation, members completed a

cumulative total of over 800 hours of service within Amherst and surrounding communities. The new chapter was very active on

the UMass campus, and participated in Panhellenic Pride week to support other campus sororities in their philanthropic endeavors.

On the evening of January 27th, the chapter had an

installation team dinner and then held a pre-initiation meeting

for all of the members; they then initiated Gamma Iota’s elected

officers directly following that in the Campus Center Auditorium.

On Saturday, January 28th, 84 collegiate members were

initiated into the Gamma Iota Chapter, concluding with the honor

initiate, Molly King. The Installation Banquet was held that evening

On Sunday morning, the officer team held the post-initiation

meeting during which they demonstrated a CBM and led a brief ritual study for the newly initiated members.

The new chapter was also honored to have alumnae from the

Central CT Alumnae Chapter attending, many of whom traveled from the Northeast to share stories and memorabilia with their new Sisters.

“I loved getting to play a role in helping initiate everyone.

I look forward to our chapter gaining even more empowered

women in the years to come,” says Faye McGuire, Gamma Iota Chapter President.

at Hadley Farms.

Follow the chapter’s journey on social media

be going through it with all of my sisters and having their love and

Instagram @TriSigmaUmass

“I would have to say my favorite part of the weekend would

support while we all worked towards initiation,” says Molly King, Gamma Iota Honor Initiate.

Facebook @TriSigmaUMass Twitter @TriSigmaUmass

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leadership

We, the women of Sigma Sigma Sigma Sorority, throughout our lives, strive to steadfastly uphold our vows and cherish our bonds of sisterhood Chapter leaders and volunteer coaches from across the nation joined in Dulles, Virginia, from January 5-8, for the inaugural

Presidents Academy. With a new opportunity to network with

each of these organizations have made a positive impact on the lives of individuals and our greater society. Our leaders heard

both testimonies and opportunities of how our vision provides exceptional experiences that empower women to change the world continues to be fulfilled through these partnerships.

sisters in similar roles, participants formed a deeper commitment

To seek wisdom and joy

our beloved Sorority.

to have fun! The keys to learning from and with each other was

To become inspired leaders

the wisdom of their peers while remaining pledged to share the

not only to the responsibilities of leadership, but to each other and

Beginning the weekend by recognizing the light that shines

from within, chapter leaders learned to name and claim their

top talents and develop strategies for putting them to work to

achieve greatness in their chapter, the classroom, and beyond.

The concept of strengths spotting was also explored to learn how

Participants delighted in the opportunity to not only learn but being committed to a new experience and willing to listen to

value of their own perspective. The mutual respect and trust that was established between peers and coaches developed into

partnerships that will continue to grow into friendship through shared experiences.

to identify and develop the talents of others, ultimately harnessing

And to live purposeful lives of integrity, faith, empathy,

Once participants had a stronger grasp on the potential within

The weekend culminated with an update of the State of our

while relevant as chapter leaders, will also be necessary for their

on how each participant will commit to apply the knowledge, skills,

on prioritizing wellbeing, learning effective decision making,

journey.

social justice by better understanding identity.

program, we expect to represent a certain chapter or particular

To support causes greater than ourselves

ourselves by understanding that our devotion to this sisterhood

each person’s individual talents for the benefit of the sisterhood.

understanding and love.

and around them, they continued to examine concepts that,

Sisterhood from National President Natalie Averette and reflection

continued growth as empowered women. This included a focus

and perspective gained through the Academy on their leadership

developing and inspiring confidence, and answering the call for

In addition to the dynamic and developmental exploration of

leadership, participants connected with the Tri Sigma Foundation and the March of Dimes by hearing the personal stories of how

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When we travel to take part in a Tri Sigma collegiate leadership

role. Once we depart, we realize our true calling is to represent comes from being who we already are.

We are empowered. We are Tri Sigma.

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Character Essay Contest Winners In recognition and support of National CHARACTER COUNTS! Week, Tri Sigma once again sponsored a Character Essay Contest.

The contest was open to all women affiliated with a National Sorority and enrolled full-time at a College or University as well as alumnae of Tri Sigma. The essay theme for 2016 was: Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate and how will compassion change our world?

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kept bringing us weird concoctions of tater-tots and cooked vegetables that could be reheated the next day.

I was told that there is no proper way to grieve and that each

person has his or her own way of coping with loss. It wasn’t until

Maggie Squyer

I received a terrified look from my coach that I realized maybe

University of South Dakota

hearing my dad had died. There was no stopping me though—I

Alpha Phi Sorority

Maggie Squyer is a junior who is double majoring in biology

it wasn’t normal for me to play in a soccer game 36 hours after

ached for a way to get my life back in motion. After one day off

of school, I showed up to my fifth grade classroom expecting a

conservation and sustainability with a minor in political science.

normal day beginning with the Pledge of Allegiance and ending

Alpha Phi, a Morale Captain for Dakotathon (the school’s Dance

by a hug from my teacher and a bouquet of flowers addressed to

assistant for the University’s Biology Department. After graduation

work for an environmental nonprofit or in local government.

11-year-olds. There was a genuine feeling of empathy and

Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate

As a child, I learned that being compassionate didn’t mean

She is currently the Director of New Member Education for

with math problems or spelling words. I was greeted instead

Marathon), a teacher’s aid at an elementary school, and a research

me from my 25 classmates. You guessed it—I bawled like a baby.

she hopes to get her master’s degree in public policy and either

experiencing in my life, and it was given to me by 25 10-and

and how will compassion change the world?

This was the first true act of compassion I can remember

kindness in that classroom that I try to carry with me still today. sending sympathy cards; it meant other children letting you

take the good jump rope out of the closet for once and parents

As a little girl, I remember gathering in the guidance

volunteering their time to carpool you home after school.

counselor’s office at my elementary school for our monthly student

Compassion looks like an extension on a homework assignment,

that stated The Six Pillars of Character: trustworthiness, respect,

tastes like the Krispy Kreme doughnuts your friend’s mom brings

of each meeting we would chant “TRRFCC! That’s what character

about compassion, let alone what the word even meant. In the fall

microcosm that was Mark Twain Elementary School speaks

to my four brothers and sisters when my mom delivered the news

filled with truthful politicians, respect for mental health issues,

In movies, depictions of characters receiving “bad news” are

system, care for struggling nations, and a sense of citizenship that

of adults toting casseroles, tight hugs, and a never-ending wave of

compassion that brought a struggling fifth grader back to her feet

Hallmark aisle of Walgreens, and I couldn’t figure out why people

can permanently change the lives of people around the world.

council meetings and studying the colorful poster on the wall

feels like the warm spot on the couch you share with a dog, and

responsibility, fairness, caring, and citizenship. At the beginning

home the morning after a sleepover.

means to me!” But as an 11-year-old, I don’t think I knew much

has the ability to evoke large-scale change in our world. The

of 2006, that changed. I was seated on the living room floor next

volumes to the world I want to live in today: a global community

that my father had died of a heart attack earlier that afternoon.

responsible interactions with the environment, a fair judicial

actually incredibly accurate — my world slowed to a sluggish blur

encourages individuals to be better community members. It was

sympathy cards. Our dining room table practically turned into the

after the unexpected loss of a parent, and it is compassion that

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Compassion is a powerful and frankly underrated tool that

in my daily interactions with others. Compassion starts with the

2nd Brenna Smith

Beta Epsilon Chapter

Western Illinois University

Brenna is a senior at Western Illinois University double

majoring in communication and economics. She is the President of the Beta Epsilon Chapter, a mentor to students in the First

Year Experience Program, and the Vice President of Rho Lambda Honor Society. She has recently served as the Chief of Staff

for the Student Government Association and as a Recruitment Counselor for Formal Recruitment.

Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate and how will compassion change the world?

If you search “define: compassionate” on Google, you

will find a definition that states, quite simply, that the word

“compassionate” means “feeling or showing sympathy and

concern for others.” However, as someone who prides herself on being a compassionate person, I believe that this definition is a

disservice to all that it means to be compassionate. This definition oversimplifies what it means to be compassionate.

To be compassionate is more than to just feel sympathy

or show concern. To be compassionate is more than simply

telling someone that you care. To be compassionate is to feel

deeply for another person as they experience the ups and downs associated with life. To be compassionate is to not just tell

someone that you care, but also to show them that you care by

being there before they even ask for it. Compassion is a complex, beautiful phenomenon which allows us to empathetically relate

to another human being and provide support for them in whatever way we can.

For me, compassion and empathy go hand in hand. I

challenge myself to be compassionate each and every day,

understanding that everyone you meet is fighting their own battle of which you know nothing. That frame of mind makes it easy to

treat others with love, compassion, empathy, and understanding.

We are all humans facing great challenges, and when you realize that, compassion becomes easy.

I believe that compassion will change our world one person

and one compassionate act at a time. Gandhi once advised that we must be the change we wish to see in the world, and I

believe that if we wish to see a compassionate revolution, we

need to start by being compassionate to others in every aspect of our lives.

So many of the problems in our world stem from a lack of

compassion. Violence and hatred could be solved with a little

compassion or a little understanding that we are all humans with strengths and weaknesses. How often do we think about the

struggles facing the person in our class with whom we do not get

along? When was the last time you thought about what the person who cut you off on the highway was dealing with before getting angry at them? Do we consider people’s reasons for having a certain opinion before writing them off and disagreeing with them?

While these may seem like simple scenarios, I believe that

compassion can truly make a difference when applied to any

kind of scenario like this. So often major tragedies result when someone reaches their tipping point or their last straw. Could those situations be changed if individuals were shown a little

compassion along the way? I am no psychic and I cannot see

the future, but something tells me that compassion would make a big difference.

If we want to change the world by being compassionate, we

need to start with ourselves and the small things in life. We need

to embody compassion each day in our lives to each person that

we encounter. Little by little, we will change the world. After all, life isn’t all about the big things; life is made up of the little things. A

little compassion, a little love, and a little understanding can leave a significant mark.

whether in my student leadership roles, at my place of work, or

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3rd Erin Stein

her day. She lives alone and doesn’t get to talk as much as she

Beta Tau Chapter

University of Detroit Mercy

Erin is a senior in the Secondary English Education program

with a minor in political science. She joined Tri Sigma as a

sophomore and fell in love with it from the beginning. She went to

Officer Academy last winter and currently serves as the Education Director for Beta Tau. She is a Presidential Ambassador for the

University of Detroit Mercy, Editor of the Student Arts Journal, and a board member of Alpha Sigma Nu, the Jesuit Honor Society.

She also works at the campus library as a student assistant

and assists with RX for Reading, an outreach program to help distribute books to children in Detroit.

Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate and how will compassion change the world?

Imagine you’re driving down 8 mile, the notorious road that

splits poverty from suburbia, and you see a man holding a sign

that says, “Will Work for Food.” You then see someone at the red light roll their window down and hand the homeless person what

looks to be parts of their lunch and a few dollars. Although this is charity, this is also compassion.

Imagine you’re at the grocery store and you hold the door

open for an elderly woman who wants to start up a conversation

Imagine you’re out to lunch with some friends and you realize

that you only have three dollars because you had to pay rent and

tuition for the month and you’re struggling more than you thought you were. Your friend slyly hands you a five dollar bill and you

flash them a “thank-you-so-much-you’re-the-best” look while

anxiously paying your bill. Although this is just friendship, this is also compassion.

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with you. After casually bantering back and forth a few times, the

woman tells you that the conversation she just had with you made used to. Although this is just being kind, this is also compassion.

Compassion can be doing works of charity, such as feeding

a homeless man; it can be spotting a struggling friend, and it can be chatting with a stranger. It can be relatively anything.

Compassion can wear many hats and can be manifested in

many ways; the most important thing is just that compassion is

happening. Sometimes in bleak places, such as 8 mile, the light of compassion shines a little brighter than normal. All of the people in the cars behind the civil servant may stop and think and put their lives in perspective for just a moment before zooming off

after the light turns green. Maybe that friend who got spotted at lunch will pay it forward and help another friend in deed or pay

the customer’s bill behind them the next time they are in the drive

thru. Maybe that person who had the conversation with the elderly woman will volunteer at a nursing home or simply call their own

grandparents. The key to compassion is having it spark and light a fire of other acts of compassion.

Little acts of compassion will spark and set the world in a

blaze of love and kindness. Compassion is in every classroom,

every hospital, and every supermarket. We just need to make it

happen more often. Compassion will only change the world when we let it change ourselves. Once we let compassion into our

hearts, we can let it in our jobs, our politics, and our daily lives.

Compassion just makes us more human, and lately with all that

has been going on in the world and our country, I think we all need to be reminded that after all, we are all just humans who need a little love and compassion.

Opie felt sorry for the boy and intentionally got himself fired so the

alumnae winner Arlene Ball

Alpha Phi Chapter, Metro Detroit, Central Michigan and Florida Gulf Coast

Arlene joined Tri Sigma in 1975 at Central Michigan University (Alpha Phi) as a second semester junior. Her sister, Gail Reid

Vettraino, joined Tri Sigma the following year! Arlene is a member of three alumnae chapters: Metro Detroit, Central Michigan, and

Florida Gulf Coast. She is the Alumnae Advisor for Beta Tau and Theta Theta Chapters in Michigan. She and her husband Jim

are proud of their two daughters, Jenni (Beta Tau) and Teresa. A retired elementary teacher, Arlene now enjoys playing with and

“teaching” her grandson Jacob, age 2. She also loves time spent

with her mom, 90, and takes care of Jim’s mom, 88, who lives with them and has dementia. She has been to every Convention since her first one in Washington DC, 1998, and hopes to make it to

many more! As a 2014 Labyrinth participant, Arlene is grateful to

the Foundation and urges sisters to join her in supporting it and to apply for Labyrinth 2017.

Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate and how will compassion change the world?

On an old episode of The Andy Griffith Show, 12-year-old

Opie and another young lad were trying out for a week to be the best and fastest delivery boy in order to get the job at the local market. The owner of the store was so tired of them racing so

much that he decided a day early to give Opie the job but would

pay both boys to work the next day. Opie and the boys were both good sports and Opie was talking about how he was going to

save his money to get a new bike. Opie asked the other boy what he would have saved his money for and the boy told him how his dad had been sick and there were lots of bills to pay at home.

other boy could have the job. Although I thought it would have been better to just tell the owner to hire the other boy instead, young Opie showed COMPASSION by taking ACTION on his feelings of EMPATHY.

Recently in my state of Michigan, a football team along with

the cooperation of the opposing team, let the team water boy with Down Syndrome run the field for a touchdown. That really made

the boy’s day. It was in the news and touched the hearts of many.

Those coaches and team demonstrated that Empathy in Action = Compassion!

Remember that song, “What the World Needs Now is Love

Sweet Love” sung by Dionne Warwick or Jackie DeShannon?

What we need is love in action. Can compassion be taught?

Possibly, but it is more effective when it is modeled. When

others witness acts of compassion, they are more apt to be

compassionate as well. While we can wish that world leaders,

terrorists, and fighting countries would just show compassion, it actually starts at home with every one of us. We can make a

difference in our own little circles of friends and family by choosing TO DO compassion! It is not always easy to do. Even those of us who feel that they are basically compassionate people, get overwhelmed and stressed.

Think of the difference you could make in your life and the

lives of those around you if instead of snapping back with a retort

or letting your frustration burst out, you just took a minute, exhaled and replied kindly. Anger begets anger. Compassion begets

compassion. How about waving someone in or not responding when someone makes a driving error or cuts you off in traffic?

How about baking or cooking something for the new or needy

neighbor? Offer to watch a neighbor’s children. Try looking around you and filling a need. You don’t have to win an award or get a

million likes on Facebook for your good deeds. Just look around and you will see many ways to show compassion. Just like a

stone cast into the water will make circles of ripples that reach the shore; doing acts of compassion will have a domino effect in the world around you. Try it today!

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caring and citizenship. All of these pillars fall within the realm of what it means to be compassionate and to spread our

alumnae winner Emily Whiteman Gamma Zeta

Emily joined the Gamma Zeta chapter of Sigma Sigma Sigma

at Slippery Rock University in the fall of 2012 with her best friend Charlene Klinger. It’s an experience she will never forget. She

studied K-12 physical/health education and served as the Vice

President of Operations when the position was established during 2014. She graduated in 2015 and has since moved to Kansas where she currently attends Kansas State University pursuing another degree in Criminology as well as an active cadet in Army ROTC.

Compassion. What does it mean to be compassionate and how will compassion change the world?

Compassion is a sense of wanting to help, wanting to give

back, being a true sister and a friend to all without judgment.

To be compassionate means to help, to understand, to care and to love. To be compassionate also means to live up to

our Sisterhood’s mission statement: “To establish among its

members a perpetual bond of friendship, to develop in them strong womanly character, and to impress upon them high standards of conduct”.

Two years ago, I attended Sigma Sigma Sigma Officer’s

Academy when I was Vice President of Operations. One of

the many aspects that I took away with me were the Pillars of Character: trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness,

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compassion to change the world. Trustworthiness means to be

able to be dependable, keep my promises and follow through with them. How can I expect someone in unfortunate circumstances

to trust me, when I’m not showing them the compassion that they so deserve? Respect all that you come across, we have no prior

intellect on their pasts; thus, it is important to treat everyone with dignity and how we would expect to be treated. Trustworthiness

also goes hand-in-hand with responsibility, because it’s essential to be a dependable person and keep the promises that I make.

Respect and Fairness are also in the same realm to spread

compassion amongst the world, because we must treat everyone with dignity and respect and also we must not discriminate

against other. To be caring means to show love and compassion, it’s also important to remember that Love is one of our core

values. Citizenship is being a good sister and giving back to

the community. Each pillar carries some meaning as to what it means to be compassionate.

How will compassion change the world? Even if it’s through

the spreading of love, showing understanding and simply being a friend for someone, one person at a time can make a difference.

The end results of many small differences will make a grander impact. A simple act of compassion such as standing up for someone when they aren’t able to stand up for themselves

just yet will make a larger difference in the world than what we

realize. When we spread love, kindness and generosity through

our compassion, the better our world will be. When we place our minds into a more compassionate state, the world around us will profoundly change for the better.

By Jules Schenk, Kappa Kappa Gamma, NPC Director of Marketing

2016 Annual Meeting Recap The 2016 National Panhellenic Conference annual meeting offered delegation members, inter/national presidents and executive directors an opportunity to reflect on and discuss how the 26 member organizations are advancing sorority together. The leaders met Oct. 20-23 at the Renaissance St. Louis Airport Hotel.

For the first time, in an effort to build relationships among the executive leadership, the delegate, inter/national president and executive director for each member organization attended an off-site event. The group visited the Missouri History Museum—home of the first Thomas Jefferson memorial—to tour the Route 66 exhibit and have dinner Thursday, Oct. 20. Ginny Carroll, Alpha Xi Delta, InGiNuity, guided lively conversation on NPC memories and what NPC does best. NPC platinum partners also joined the excursion: Billhighway, CrowdChange, Herff Jones Greek Division, MJ Insurance Sorority Division and OmegaFi.

Friday, Oct. 21, began with the executive leadership gathering for a facilitated conversation led by Carroll, including breakouts into their specific designations as board members, inter/national presidents and executive directors. Lunch offered a learning opportunity on the Circle of Sisterhood Foundation and further networking. The annual meeting then opened for all alternate delegates, NPC Foundation trustees and guests, including nondelegation area advisors. The afternoon included training for new area advisors and those who serve on the Alumnae Panhellenics and College Panhellenics committees.

That evening, attendees gathered to discuss the proposed legislation, hear an update from the Government RelationsCommittee and learn how the inter/national presidents of the organizations represented at Harvard University are responding to Harvard’s ban on campus participation for members of single-sex organizations. During dinner, sponsored by gold partner CSL Management, delegations had time to catch up and discuss the proposed legislation.

Friday continued with the official opening of the business meeting.

Delegations introduced members and guests, legislation was proposed and adopted, and the chairman gave the state of NPC presentation. This year, the address took on a new twist as a video complementing the annual report displayed the accomplishments of the past year. Chairman Donna C. King, Sigma Kappa, closed the presentation saying, “Thank you to each of you for working together to ensure the achievements of 2015-16 send a strong message to our publics that the sorority experience is alive, well and growing.”After the business meeting, first-time attendees adjourned to a reception hosted by King, and others gathered at a reception to celebrate the retirement of long-time delegation member Patty Disque, Chi Omega.

Early morning committee meetings kicked off Saturday, Oct. 22, followed by inter/national presidents and executive directors visiting the 37 NPC partners in the exhibit hall to learn about the valuable services they can provide member organizations. During the exhibit hall hours, College Panhellenic and Alumnae Panhellenic area advisors met by region and then attended breakout sessions to delve into specific areas, such as finance and recruitment. All attendees then enjoyed a networking lunch with the partners.

The afternoon featured campus meetings where member organizations met to discuss specific concerns identified on certain campuses. The closing business meeting included additional proposed legislation and special presentations from member organizations. Then, for the first time at an even-year meeting, NPC held the memorial service. Said Malaea Seleski,

Zeta Tau Alpha, “Open your hearts and reflect on these amazing women who touched us. We know they are smiling down at us from somewhere over the rainbow.” She then sang a touching rendition of “Over the Rainbow” while a video shared the panhellenic spirit of 10 women who served NPC and had passed away during the year.

After the business meeting, that night’s dinner celebrated the accomplishments of the NPC Foundation. Before and throughout the annual meeting delegation members, inter/national presidents, executive directors, College Panhellenics, Alumnae Panhellenics and Panhellenic friends purchased sunflower stickers for $5 each. These stickers were given to attendees—or emailed to them if they weren’t in attendance—to say thank you for advancing the sorority experience. Janet Brown, Alpha Omicron Pi, NPC Foundation board of trustees president, announced during dinner that this year’s sales raised more than $8,000 for the spirit fund. She also noted that 17 member organizations met the 100 percent delegation donation challenge.

The annual meeting concluded with a town hall gathering Saturday night. Jon Coffin, VOX Global, moderated a panel discussion on the evolution of gender identity. The conversation presented an educational opportunity to listen and learn about a topic that intersects with the unique position NPC organizations have as all-women’s groups. Panelists were Tim Burke, president of Manley Burke and its Fraternal Law Partners division; Jessica Pettitt, Delta Gamma, diversity consultant for Good Enough Now; Dr. Lori Reesor, vice provost for student affairs and dean of students at Indiana University–Bloomington; and Beth Stathos, general counsel for and member of Chi Omega. After this thoughtful discussion, attendees enjoyed each other’s company at a dessert reception.

On Sunday, Oct. 23, NPC hosted a special educational summit for communications decision makers. In opening the summit, Donna Chereck, Alpha Chi Omega, NPC Advocacy chairman, explained that “I like that phrase ‘a rising tide lifts all boats’…and I hope we can keep that in mind as we tell the stories of our own member organizations and promote the broader sorority experience at the same time.” In total, 35 member organization representatives learned about internal communications, brand ambassadorship, how to talk to the media and how to leverage social media.

Participants wrapped up the day by breaking into small groups to apply the concepts to case studies.

Top row L to R: Kelly Jo Karnes, Pi; Linda Henderson, Delta Psi; Emily Ellis, Gamma Beta; Marcia Cutter, Beta Gamma; Nancy Mancuso, Zeta Alpha; Laura Sweet, Alpha Sigma. Bottom row L to R: Caitlyn Westfall, Theta Gamma; Paige Hirtz, Theta Delta; Natalie Averette, Gamma Beta; Emily Saulnier, Theta Delta.

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Housing Highlight: Theta Iota at Auburn University The Theta Iota Chapter

room was established in the summer of 2016 in

preparation for the new

chapter joining the Auburn

Panhellenic community. The room is in a dorm area on

campus referred to as The

Village which houses the 17 other Panhellenic chapters along with Tri Sigma.

Barbara Bonapfel, Rho, was key in the planning and

execution of the chapter room and helped to find the best

resources and decorator. Patty Disque of Disque Designs, was able to create an elegant space with hints of Tri Sigma colors

throughout the room. Barbara and Patty also collaborated with

other Panhellenic Advisors and students at Auburn to ensure the chapter room would be something that was not only functional but also something that the members would enjoy through creating a warm and welcoming environment that would foster sisterhood within the new chapter.

Some unique aspects to the room include benches along

the sides that are used to display chapter t-shirts, a state of

the art sound system allowing the members to connect their

devices and creating an instant dance party as well as a long counter space with a power strip wall perfect for plugging in their devices while studying in the chapter room.

The chapter room has been well received by both the

members and the Auburn community. During formal recruitment in the fall semester, the chapter will host new members for the first time and prepare to welcome their new members.

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victim to survivor

Every 98 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted.1

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Walking the road from victim to survivor

I made it all the way to Halloween. All the new member education in the world couldn’t have changed what happened that night. It wasn’t because I didn’t use the buddy system, and I wasn’t too drunk. I did everything I was “supposed” to do and it still happened to me.

I

t was my first semester of college and I was visiting my

boyfriend of six months and some of our friends on a different

campus. I didn’t drink, but I wanted to dance, so we made our

way to a big costume party downtown. I ran into another woman wearing my costume, and we became fast friends. I wish I could tell you what happened next, but the next eight hours were completely wiped from my memory.

It’s strange to experience a hangover when you’ve never

been drunk before. My head only hurt for a moment… until my

chest caved in when I realized I was lying naked in a room I didn’t recognize with no recollection of the night before. My boyfriend was playing Xbox at the foot of the bed. He was never able to meet my gaze after that.

When I look back at my college experience, the six months

that followed simply don’t exist. I have no memories of the winter or spring, and there was certainly no photographic evidence I

existed, as I rarely left my dorm. I fell out of touch with friends

and used academic stress as an excuse to abandon my social life. I didn’t want to be around people anymore, and I was

downright afraid of parties. I dove headfirst into school and Sigma commitments, working odd hours to disguise the fact I couldn’t

sleep. I threw out old clothes I couldn’t bear to wear and picked up a part-time job to fund a few trips to Old Navy for replacements. I was cramming my schedule full of obligations so I wouldn’t have

time to go dancing with friends… or really think about the reason I didn’t want to anymore.

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“It’s always easier to breathe when there’s not a weight on your chest, and you know I’d help you carry it.”

I thought that, maybe, if I was busy enough, I’d stop blaming

here.” She said this so casually, as if her words weren’t turning my

“You should have worn tights with your dress. That would

there’s not a weight on your chest, and you know I’d help you carry

myself for what happened:

have attracted less attention.” “You shouldn’t have talked to

strangers.” “You were sharing a bed with your boyfriend for the

weekend—after months of explaining your religious abstinence.

What did you expect?”

I’ll never know who slipped ketamine in my Diet Coke. Maybe

it was my boyfriend. Perhaps it was the guy behind the bar. But I do know this: a dozen people stood between that party and the

bed I ended up in, and most of them were my friends. They knew I didn’t drink, but remained silent when my boyfriend called a taxi and hauled me away in a stupor. A man that told me he loved me hours before taking advantage of the rare state I was in.

For a year, I split the guilt evenly between my boyfriend

and myself in my mind. Our crimes? Sexual assault and naïvety,

respectively. I didn’t tell a soul. I doubted anyone would believe me.

At the time, my campus wasn’t proactively discussing

bystander intervention and sexual violence. I knew resources

existed on my campus and in my community, but as a young

campus leader, I was terrified of how the label of “victim” might

change my future. My friendships. I couldn’t bear to think about

what it would do to my family. I didn’t want to think what the label might do to my own psyche.

My life changed when a sister I was working with asked

me to lunch. After, while we were working through mountains of Sigma-related paperwork together she causally asked how my

semester was going. When I blew off her question with calculated vagueness, she closed her laptop and looked at me: “Listen. You haven’t been yourself lately, and I don’t need to know what, if

anything is going on. But if you want to talk, I want you to know I’m

world upside down on the spot. “It’s always easier to breathe when it.” She made a self-depreciating joke about upper body strength and went right back to her work.

That conversation was the start of a bond that changed me.

That saved me, in many ways. I didn’t open up to her immediately, and I’ve never shared the details of what exactly happened that

Halloween weekend. I didn’t need to, because I don’t carry them with me anymore.

You don’t have to make an eloquent speech—you don’t have

to know precisely what to say. Imperfect words are so much better than silence. When your gut tells you a sister is hurting, chances

are you’re probably right. Reach out. Working through a moment of tension and awkwardness for you could change everything

for someone you love. She was one of the people that started

that process of healing for me, but I knew that was too big a task for just me or her alone. I got a counselor and, in time, began to

unpack all the heartache I’d managed to bottle up. I truly believe that I found myself in the process. It has certainly made me a kinder sister and a better friend.

What happened to me was not more or less awful than what

has happened to countless other women. My abstinence or

sobriety doesn’t make this more tragic because I was some kind of “perfect victim,” every instance is horrifying.

Sadly, this is a conversation we must all be prepared to have.

Statistically, we all know someone who will walk the road from

“victim” to “survivor.” Tri Sigmas are mothers, daughters, siblings, mentors and teachers. It’s crucial that we teach boys and girls about consent from a young age so that the campuses of the future will be safer.

One in five women and one in 71 men will be raped at some point in their lives.2 1 Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, Bureau of Justice Statistics, National Crime Victimization Survey, 2010-2014 (2015).

2 National Sexual Violence Resource Center, Info and Stats for Journalists, Statistics About Sexual Violence (2012, 2013, 2015).

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Collegiate News ALPHA DELTA, DREXEL UNIVERSITY

GAMMA MU, SOUTHEASTERN LOUISIANA UNIVERSITY

This past October, for CHARACTER COUNTS! Week, Tri Sigma

The week of August 8, started as recruitment week typically does.

“have a treat on Tri Sigma” baggies with change on the vending

until they woke up and realized there would not be Preference.

decided to pay it forward to the students of Drexel. Sisters put up machines around campus so students could have a nice pick-meup. They also posted pictures holding up the pillars of the sorority, which are a huge part of who Tri Sigmas are. Alpha Delta wanted

to share their character values with their peers. Members also went around campus and put up motivational sticky notes to help get students through the week.

ALPHA IOTA, NORTHWESTERN STATE UNIVERSITY On October 4, 2016 the Alpha Iota Chapter at Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, Oklahoma, held their annual Fall Brawl

Fundraiser. Caitlin Andrews and Kaydee Hutchinson, Alpha Iota’s fundraising chairs, spent weeks planning and preparing for this event. They invited the six fraternities on campus to come out

and compete. The fraternities competed against each other to earn points, and the fraternity with the highest number of points at the end of the event won a bucket of Halloween candy and bragging rights. There were six events including a Slip n’ Slide, a pumpkin

pie-eating contest, and an obstacle course. This fundraiser was a fun-filled way for the Alpha Iota Chapter to raise over $600 for the Foundation.

The ladies of Gamma Mu made it through each day successfully,

On the morning of Friday, August 12, mother nature decided

that south Louisiana needed some rain. Cars had to be moved to higher ground to prevent them from being filled with water, and

homes began filling with water. Because the rain didn’t stop for

about two days, the university decided to postpone recruitment, giving everyone time to somewhat recover from the flood. In the

spirit of sisterhood and giving much, sisters set out to help each other, other members of Greek life, and the community affected by the flood. Groups of Sigmas piled into cars and drove to

various homes of those in need, assisting with demolishing walls, sorting through debris, and helping out in any way they could.

Most people wouldn’t think sorority women could wield hammers and crowbars, but they haven’t seen Sigmas take on demolition.

Those that could not help with tearing things down donated food,

toiletries, clothes, and school supplies to people and schools in the area that had lost so much due to this disaster.

After the week of sweat and tears ended, the chapter was

able to refocus our attention on recruiting new women into

our chapter. We finished strongly, gaining 30 new sisters in the process. Through all of this, not only did we help to rebuild (or begin to rebuild) homes, but we grew our sisterhood.

Above left: Alpha Delta Chapter celebrates CHARACTER COUNTS! Week with the students at Drexel University. Above right: Destiny Blossom, Haley Schuler, and Charys Galdamez Alpha Iota.

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member news

Collegiate News

Left: Epsilon Tau volunteers at the Ronald McDonald House: Jennifer Connel, Kari Rafferty, and Rosemary Luycx.

Middle: Gamma Pi sisters attending a JOTS birthday party at Cornerstone. Right: Gamma Pi Chapter sisters visiting Lady of the Lake Hospital; from left to right: Larissa Valero, Alisa Plaisance, Kelsey Savoie, Natalie Dufrene, Jessica Arceneaux, Lynda Boylan, Allison LaRose, Shelby Rousse, and Rebecca Grabert

GAMMA PI, NICHOLLS STATE UNIVERSITY The Gamma Pi Chapter of Sigma Sigma Sigma is proud of the things they have accomplished over the fall semester of 2016.

This semester the chapter participated in multiple service events

for both the national and local philanthropies. In October, Gamma Pi held their 7th annual Running for Robbie 5K race benefiting the Robbie Page Memorial Fund and the Sigma Sigma Sigma

Foundation. They raised over $16,800 with the help of sponsors

and the Nicholls community. Throughout the semester, sisters have fully immersed themselves in a local organization in Thibodaux, the Cornerstone Children’s Center. Along with the help of JOTS, our sisters are able to help throw birthday parties for these children, involve them in campus events, and provide them a support

system. The chapter was also very proud this semester to receive a second grant from the Sigma Sigma Sigma Foundation to help

support the children’s department at Our Lady of the Lake Hospital

located in Baton Rouge, Louisiana. With this grant, Our Lady of the Lake was able to purchase equipment to assist in play therapy for special needs children in their children’s department. Along with the multiple service events, the chapter of Gamma Pi also built

upon sisterhood with retreats, movie nights, intramural sports, and weekly meetings. From service to sisterhood, Gamma Pi is very

proud of the things accomplished this semester and look forward to the spring.

EPSILON TAU, NICHOLLS STATE UNIVERSITY A great success for the chapter was CHARACTER COUNTS!

week, where Sister Rafferty and many others encouraged the

student body of Saint Leo University to say what character means to them, and then had them write a letter to a person they admire.

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Epsilon Tau also hosted their annual Shake, Rattle, and Stroll

event, and raised over $100 for the Robbie Page Memorial Fund. A number of sisters were also able to volunteer with alumnae at the

Ronald McDonald House, where they had the opportunity to serve dinner to the children there.

The chapter had the opportunity to compete in the Kappa

Sigma Splashdown, an event which raised money for troops

currently overseas. The sisters came in second place, which was very exciting!

ZETA UPSILON, FITCHBURG STATE COLLEGE During the month of October, the Zeta Upsilon Chapter at

Fitchburg State University raised money for the Making Strides

walk for breast cancer and participated in the walk on October 2nd. The chapter held a fundraiser at the end of September that involved many other clubs and organizations on campus to raise money

for the cause, and raised over $1,000 in donations for the walk.

Some men and women from other Greek organizations on campus walked with the team in Boston and had a great time supporting an amazing cause.

ETA NU, RAMAPO COLLEGE OF NEW JERSEY On October 22nd, the ladies of Eta Nu hosted their annual Senior Citizen Prom, which raised money for Tackle Kids Cancer. The sisters of Tri Sigma danced the day away with other Ramapo College fraternities and sororities, senior citizens from local

communities, and Rebecca “Becca Boo” Salmins. Becca is a

strong little girl who recently reached her “Rainbow Day” (last day of chemotherapy), and kicked cancer’s butt!

This amazing event raised over $300 for Tackle Kids Cancer.

All of the sisters had a great time at the event and cannot wait to hold it again next year!

ETA CHI, UNIVERSITY OF MISSOURI This past fall, the ladies of Eta Chi hosted their annual

Kindergarten Dinner raising $7,335 for the Sigma Sigma

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Eta Chi organized their semi-annual Week of Kindness.

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messages to students around campus, including snow cones

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Above top: Members of the Eta Nu Chapter at Ramapo College pose for a picture at their annual Senior Citizen Prom with Becca Salmins who recently reached her last day of chemotherapy. Above bottom: Zeta Upsilon along with members of other Greek organizations at Fitchburg State University.

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Alumnae News ATLANTA ALUMNAE CHAPTER The Atlanta Alumnae Chapter has been passionately focused

on making sure graduating seniors are able to effortlessly make the transition into the Alumnae Chapter. In addition to providing meals and donations during recruitment, the Epsilon Theta and

the Atlanta Alumnae Chapter enjoy several joint events throughout

the year including a potluck Thanksgiving lunch, winter Jingle Ball, and a summer pool party. We try to live by and instill in others

the reminder that Tri Sigma isn’t just for four years, it’s a lifetime commitment.

we walked in and [the look on their faces] has stayed with me

ever since.” Stacey Gutridge relayed that the best time she had

volunteering at the hospital was “dressing up and trick-or-treating

with the patients because it was an opportunity to help them forget about the illnesses and feel like normal kids for the day.”

As Chapter President, Jessica Dowches-Wheeler, notes “Serving Samuelson Children’s Hospital at Sinai is one of our most

meaningful contributions to the Baltimore community.” The chapter

BALTIMORE SUBURBAN S.W. ALUMNAE CHAPTER Over the past three years, the Baltimore Area Alumnae Chapter

has maintained a strong partnership with The Herman and Walter Samuelson Children’s Hospital at Sinai located in Baltimore, Maryland. The chapter became involved with the hospital

through sister Kristen Mylotte, who works as a Certified Child Life Specialist at Sinai. Sisters have volunteered at various activities such as the hospital’s annual 5K Race for our Kids, trick-or-

treating in the hospital, the Remembrance Ceremony to honor the families who have lost a child, organizing toy donations around

the Christmas holiday, and the NICU reunion. While volunteering at these events, sisters are able to make genuine connections

with the patients and build strong memories. Erin Magee said her favorite memory with the children was at the first 5K. “After the

5K we were able to deliver balloons and leftover favors to the sick children, who were not able to leave their rooms. They lit up when

hopes to maintain this partnership for many years to come.

DENVER ALUMNAE CHAPTER

The Denver Area Alumnae Chapter is excited to introduce area

Sigmas to Children’s Hospital Colorado Foundation by supporting their RPM grant and a potential Tri Sigma Child Activity Room in

the future Colorado Springs hospital. The alumnae also assisted

the Eta Pi Chapter with its application for an RPM grant for a Vecta Distraction Station, and were thrilled when they held their own check presentation at the main hospital.

Volunteerism is a huge component of the chapter’s mission.

The most recent endeavor by 10 Sigmas was sorting clothing

for “A Precious Child,” which provides clothing and other items to families referred by local agencies, schools, churches, and teachers. All goods are provided free of charge. Sisters were

absolutely amazed at the volume of goods and at the fact that

Pictured left: Atlanta Alumnae Chapter; top row left to right: Chelsea Corona, Liz Weber, LaDonna Barnes, Alma Kadri Next Row: Jess Lill, Karen Perez, Destiney Gary, Brooke Toluba, Lindsey Boutin Middle Row: Jessica Leandro, Maryajose Zubillaga, Rebecca Corder, Stephanie Everett Front Row: Rebecca Waltrip, Stephanie Moore and son Finlay, Sarah Carter and son Charlie, Elena Weiss

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The relationship has been just as rewarding and impactful

for the sisters as it has been for the patients and their families.

Top left: Baltimore Suburban S.W. Alumnae Chapter; left to right: Stacey Gutridge, Joann Feustle, Stacey Taylor, Alexis Barone, Kristen Mylotte Bottom left: Denver Alumnae Chapter arrange clothing at a Precious Child shopping area.

Pictured bottom row left to right: Phyllis Tollefson Kempkes and Videll Alme Nordmark, Beta Iota, and Michelle Pollard Hektor, Beta Delta. In back are Desiree Paulhamus, Foundation Staff and Bobbi Walker Smith, Alpha Epsilon.

this organization is run almost entirely by volunteers. Additionally,

NEW ORLEANS ALUMNAE CHAPTER

docents, tour guides, volunteers for dog rescues, foreign exchange

a 2016 Tri Sigma Foundation RPM grant has been awarded to

walking for March of Dimes in 2017.

Orleans area. The grant will enable the hospital to purchase an

Sigma, and Michelle Pollard Hektor, Beta Delta, reached out last

for an outdoor balcony area. The hospital will be enhancing the

State Colorado University in Gunnison, CO. They entered a float in

space to read or study outside or simply relax with a view of the

made a special Sigma Foundation presentation.

GREATER CLEVELAND ALUMNAE CHAPTER

and filled with age appropriate games and toys. Sister Christy

Denver Alumnae members are very active in the community as

The New Orleans Alumnae Chapter is proud to announce that

students, and Meals on Wheels volunteers. The chapter will be

the Child Life Center at Ochsner Hospital for Children in the New

outdoor glider bench, two chairs, two end tables and a deck box

Kay Curtis Hunsaker, Jennifer Fowler, and Janice Brown Reed,

fall by hosting a Sigma Chapter Homecoming Reunion at Western

space with an awning to provide shade. This area gives patients

the parade, designated a section of bleachers for attendees, and

Mississippi River.

Members of our chapter toured the Child Life Center at the

main campus where play therapy and activity rooms were bright

The Greater Cleveland Alumnae Chapter has had a very busy and

Gomez Gardes, Gamma Mu, volunteers weekly in the Child Life

the Theta Zeta Chapter at Case Western Reserve University kick

used for play. She also assists the specialists in sitting with a

Potluck Dinner,” where attendees dished up amazing entrees

outdoor furnishings will provide for the patients at the Ochsner

sisters young and old enjoyed an afternoon of apple picking at

for granting this request.

historic Medina, Ohio, members of our Alumnae Chapter met to

NORTH JERSEY ALUMNAE CHAPTER

ornament exchange, and a warming of the spirits with tea at Miss

expected to be a year of fun and service on October 8th. In addition

fantastic March of Dimes event. The Signature Chefs Auction was

annual tradition: stuffing Halloween treat bags for the children at

Cleveland’s finest chefs served their signature dishes to raise funds

violence prevention agency that offers emergency services to

honor for the sisters to contribute their time and energy towards

exciting semester. Alumnae sisters helped the collegiate sisters of

area. One of her duties is to clean the toys that the patients have

off the school year by joining them for the “Celebrate Your Heritage

patient from time to time. She certainly knows what benefits the

indicative of each sister’s ethnicity. Once the leaves started to fall,

Hospital for Children. Our members are grateful to the Foundation

Patterson Fruit Farms in the scenic town of Chesterland, Ohio. In ring in the season of giving with a tour of Castle Noel, our annual

The women of the North Jersey Alumnae Chapter kicked off what’s

Molly’s tea room. To wrap up the year, the chapter volunteered at a

to reconnecting and planning events, they took part in a beloved

held at the Hilton in downtown Cleveland, and as many as 40 of

Jersey Battered Women’s Service (JBWS), a non-profit domestic

to fight against premature births and infant mortality. It was truly an

women and children.

such a significant cause.

adopting a family for the holidays! Every December, the chapter

The ladies also planned for another cherished tradition:

adopts a family in need to help make their days a little more merry

and bright. The family is given not only some bare necessities, but special gifts for parents and kids.

Pictured far left: Child Life Staff members Suzanne Blanchard McGlone, Gamma Mu; Susan Conner Massey, Gamma Pi, New Orleans Alumnae Chapter President; Christy Gomez Gardes, Gamma Mu; Ann Hammond Seymour, Gamma Mu; Child Life Specialist.

Pictured from left to right: Lynnette Medeiros, Epsilon Epsilon and Amy Skinner, Eta Nu of the North Jersey Alumnae Chapter, fill Halloween treat bags for children living in a New Jersey shelter.

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Alumnae News

Pictured left: Northshore Louisiana Alumnae members and Gamma Mu’s Karena Surla Anderson, Christine Boudreaux Stanley and Alison Thompson Hopper bring supplies to fellow Gamma Mu Jaime Sommers Hall after her home flooded. Pictured right: Members of the Southern West Virginia Alumnae Chapter (left to right): Cassidi Hall, Sarah Lively Turner, Jordan Manning, Lauren Manning and Sara Seabolt Duncan. Pictured middle (left to right): Michelle (VanderVeen) Harbin, (Alpha Gamma); Brandi Holt, (Pi); Stephanie (Bronston) Rozendal, (Pi).

NORTHSHORE LOUISIANA ALUMNAE CHAPTER In August 2016, storms flooded parts of south Louisiana that

left much of the area in shock and devastation. The Northshore Louisiana Alumnae Chapter wanted to reach out to sisters that tragically lost their homes and possessions. The Purple Violet

Flood Relief (headed by member and Gamma Mu, Karena Surla Anderson) was formed as a tangible way for the small alumnae chapter to help others. And, sisters answered the call to help.

Word of the efforts spread and donations were received from

sisters across the country. More than $1,500 was collected and

distributed to 15 families. The hope was that this gift would bless these families and act as reminders of Tri Sigma bonds. The

Northshore Alumnae are so proud and humbled to be able to give back to sisters and Tri Sigma. “To receive much, you must give much,” has never been more true.

SOUTHERN WEST VIRGINIA ALUMNAE CHAPTER After the flooding in West Virginia in June of 2016, members of the Southern West Virginia Alumnae Chapter knew they needed to do whatever they could to help their communities recover from such

a devastating event. Chapter members donated various items and money to local efforts in their areas. Some of the chapter women traveled to hard-hit Greenbrier County to help staff a distribution

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center for flood victims. While the rebuilding process is far from

over, the support from all over the state has been outstanding and the affected communities are doing all they can to move forward.

TUCSON SUNSHINE ALUMNAE CHAPTER Sharon (Shari) Parsons Stewart, Beta Kappa, was presented with her Golden Violet award by Henrietta Zinn Hallaq, Beta

Xi, President of the Tucson Sunshine Alumnae Chapter at the

chapter’s “Get Acquainted” breakfast meeting in September 2016.

Shari lives the true spirit of Sigma sisterhood through her years of

service and devotion to Tri Sigma. She has held many offices in the chapter and is currently Vice President and Panhellenic delegate.

WICHITA ALUMNAE CHAPTER The Wichita Alumnae Chapter participated in a Walk to Defeat ALS where they walked around the Water Front in Wichita, Kansas, in support of a fellow sister’s mother who passed away due to the condition. As a team, Wichita Alumnae were able to raise $775 to go towards research to find treatment and a cure for ALS.

There is an upcoming philanthropy project for a brand new

children’s hospital in the area—the chapter’s “Bears for Kids” will provide teddy bears for children who are staying in the hospital to cuddle.

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foundation

The Gift of Leadership Leadership is ingrained in who I am today

because of Tri Sigma. I am passionate about

women empowering women—especially in the

areas of building leadership skills and providing experiences to build upon those skills.

During my collegiate years at Winthrop

University, I served as secretary on the Panhellenic Council,

and in various chapter chair positions. One of the most valuable

lessons I learned about the power of sisterhood is the power we have in helping others excel. While I was coaching at Presidents Academy this January, I was reminded of those years as a leader in my Greek community when I looked to my alumnae mentors and advisors to guide me in leading my peers.

Fast forward to my professional career, which focuses on the

onboarding of new employees and organizational and leadership development at Roper St. Francis Healthcare in Charleston,

South Carolina. While at Presidents Academy, I realized that so

many of the alumnae in that room had given me career advice, coached me through life’s challenges, and led me to personal successes. The leadership skills from my Sigma experiences are what prepared me to be the professional I am today, and

for those experiences and those women, I’m forever grateful.

My leadership skills are a gift that keep giving as my Sigma

journey continues and a gift I never had to go without because of the generosity and support of my Sigma sisters. One of my mentors, Emily Lee, reminded me often that to receive much

you must give much. She would tell me that there will be times in life I will only be able to give a little financial support, but to do it because every penny matters.

miss the money and I honestly felt good about contributing to our sisterhood.

We all have our “story” about why we give to the Foundation.

I continue to give so that I can ensure our leadership programs, like Presidents Academy, continue to expand and fit the needs

of Tri Sigma. My hope is that our sisters have access to valuable resources and have successful leadership experiences before and after they leave college.

While my “story” may not be your reason for giving, I ask that

you give a gift that is significant and meaningful to you. When you can give, I ask that you empower a sister to give the same. Most

importantly, never forget the sisters that came before us. With my Foundation gifts, I will continue to honor my mentors, like Emily Lee, for empowering me.

For Sigma,

Jennifer Avenel, Delta Pi

Let me pay forward Emily’s advice and lead by example.

No gift is too small when you begin giving. I started giving by

setting up recurring gifts. Once I made the arrangement, I didn’t

Chair, Foundation Board of Directors

With each $5 gift, you can pay tribute to a special sister, friend or loved

one who has touched your life. With each gift, you can make a difference. Give a Violet Tribute at violettributes.com

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Pillars of Sigma The Pillars of Sigma are a community of our most generous and engaged sisters who invest $1,000 or more each year in unrestricted support for Sigma Sigma Sigma. Deliver on your promise to empower our sisters by giving today.

Join me as a Pillar of Sigma at trisigma.org/donate.

“I give to the Tri Sigma Foundation because I believe in empowering women and leadership development.” – JeanMarie Komyathy

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archives

By Liz Johns, Delta Omicron, National Archivist

Heart Home Transformed:

New Convention Exhibition Room in the Mabel Lee Walton House Tri Sigma staff has enjoyed the new National Headquarters

Even with all the business that goes on at a Convention, Tri Sigma

Archives have enjoyed the empty rooms in the house even more!

certificates, indicating the sisters who “have suffered through more

office building next door to the Mabel Lee Walton House, but the Freeing up space in the house allowed the Archives to transform former offices into new exhibit spaces featuring treasured historical materials.

The newest exhibit is the permanent Convention Collection

Room on the second floor. The full Convention collection begins

with materials from the very first Convention in Farmville, Virginia, in 1903 and spans to the most recent Convention in 2016. Paper

made it fun. For many years, women were given Boomerang

than one Convention of Sigma Sigma Sigma, and probably being

sound neither in mind nor body, are absolutely fitten to be a hastily initiated member of the broiled hors d’oeuvres of Boomerang.”

A few tell-tale signs of a Boomerang Sigma were, “right arm

overdeveloped from taking notes, eating, waving;” “eyes big, half

asleep, but see all;” and “ears overdeveloped for hearing all details.”

materials are stored in the Archives; most materials are reports,

minutes, planning documents, and handwritten letters between

staff, Executive Council, and volunteers organizing the event. But the physical objects tucked in between the stacks of reports give

a more tangible look into the Conventions of the past. In 2016,

Convention attendees wore printed name tags around their necks, adorned with ribbons or violet stickers showing their commitment to the sorority and the Foundation. But in 1953, Sigmas wore

hand-crafted name badges, such as the one worn by Marie Santee Dunham when she was Executive Secretary. The collection also includes favors, Sigma Shop items, programs, personal notes,

and letters. Favors today are often pendants, but as shown in the

exhibit, Sigma sisters went home with many different trinkets over

the years such as a sterling silver bookmark with the crest, jewelry,

The new exhibit room features Convention favors, copies of songs,

in 1933, even a tape measure.

newsletter, scrapbooks, and group photos. The best part is that

badge boxes, a violet shaped desk clock, a leather key holder, and

a Boomerang certificate, examples of The Angle Convention every three years, there will be something new to add to the

collection. A trip to Walton House to see this fun memorabilia might not be easy for everyone so we’ve brought a bit of the

exhibit to you through the Archives’ new online photo gallery at

flickr.com/photos/trisigmaarchives/. See a panoramic view of the

new exhibit room and snaps of displays to get a taste of what you missed at past Conventions.

For questions about the Archives and its collections,

or submitting materials to the Archives, contact Liz Johns,

National Archivist at archives@trisigma.org. Visit the Archives

Flickr Gallery at flickr.com/photos/trisigmaarchives/ to see more of the Archives Collection.

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omega listing

Omega Listing

The following Tri Sigmas were reported to have entered the Omega Chapter. We offer our sympathy to their friends and families and honor them for their lifelong commitment to Tri Sigma.

ALPHA Frances Parham Mallory

KAPPA Kathleen Ann McMillan Marilyn Calsacy Moran* NU Julia Atkins Consalus OMICRON Camille Carlson Sanders PI Helen Fearl Shadwick* SIGMA Bonnie Boger Wilcox CHI Barbara Runkle Foresman Jane Baldridge Wiswall ALPHA ALPHA Rosaclaire Kirby Anthony Helen Hurst Bailey Kimberly Harrah Becker Fay Robison Shearer Claudia Blankenship Wender ALPHA DELTA Helen Lintern Harris ALPHA EPSILON Mary Garrett Dieterich Patricia Lyon Reineke Leason Wilson Strong* ALPHA ETA Dorothy Yagerline Oliver Minnie Walls Parsons Jane Kaylor Wright

ALPHA IOTA Kara Muskrat Standifird

GAMMA BETA Linda Bullard Jennings

ALPHA NU Jean Mossman Heaton

GAMMA DELTA Janice Beck Durbin

ALPHA OMICRON Deborah Apple Fulmer

GAMMA ETA Renee Jane Glindmeyer

ALPHA UPSILON Carolyn Swank Kline Shirley Pembroke Wilkins

GAMMA PI Sherry Legendre Ourso

ALPHA PHI Karen Lynn Dolecki Anne Dalton Dukin Vernice Dalton Dukin Michelle Weyh Griffin Janet Marie King Margaret Outcalt Planchard Kathleen Carroll Ryan Jodi Annette Wharram ALPHA CHI Brenda Smith Boor Thelma Combs Newberry BETA GAMMA Janet K. Federspill Rose O’Connor Harper Pamela Bowen Hauser BETA DELTA Carol Bugg Gardner

GAMMA RHO Beth Vargo Watson GAMMA PSI Madeleine Desnea Brockman Jean Kathryn Snyder DELTA PI Elizabeth Shetterly Loquist EPSILON ALPHA Annie Lin Shotts EPSILON DELTA Sonja Elizabeth Becker EPSILON LAMBDA Jennifer Lindsey Collins EPSILON PSI Abigail Cara Spring * Indicates Golden Violet

BETA KAPPA Barbara Kocen Sweebe BETA TAU Marilyn Kelly Schoenherr

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