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Five Legal Myths About Marriage in Scotland
hristmas and New Year remain among the most popular times of year for proposals. While most newly engaged couples are busy planning venues, guest lists and honeymoons, it is also worth understanding some of the legal myths that surround marriage in Scotland. Myth 1: Everything becomes 50/50 when you get married
Myth 3: Pre-nuptial agreements aren’t worth the paper they’re written on Well-drafted pre-nuptial agreements can carry significant weight in Scotland. They are often used to protect family businesses, inherited assets, property owned before the relationship, or the interests of children from previous relationships. Myth 4: Inherited assets are always shared on divorce
Marriage does not automatically mean that every asset owned by either spouse is shared equally. Scottish law distinguishes between different types of property, and the rules surrounding separation and divorce are often more nuanced than people expect.
Inheritance is treated differently from property built up during a marriage, although the position can become more complicated if inherited funds are used for joint purposes. Inherited assets, where kept separately, are not matrimonial property.
Myth 2: We should get married because I have no rights if we live together
Myth 5: It’s unromantic to discuss finances before marriage
Many couples assume that living together offers no legal protection. While cohabiting couples do not have the same rights as married couples or civil partners, the law in Scotland does provide certain protections. Depending on the circumstances, a cohabitant may be able to make financial claims when a relationship ends or following the death of a partner. Understanding those rights can be just as important as understanding the rights that come with marriage.
The strongest foundations are often built on open conversations. Discussing finances, property and future expectations before the wedding can help couples make informed decisions and avoid misunderstandings later. A little legal planning may not be as exciting as choosing a wedding venue, but it can be one of the most important investments in a happy future together. By Lynne Mulcahy and Kirsten Knight
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06 On Trend: Dates for your winter diary 14 Your chance to be in the audience at HMT’s Dirty Dancing 19 Win tickets to see Dear Evan Hansen at The Tivoli 58 Style and Sounds at Malmaison
HEALTH & BEAUTY
08 Invest in wellbeing with Aberdeen Sports Village 12 Exciting new venture for Bloom
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HOMES, INTERIORS &GARDENS 42 Cosy finds with Mains of Drum 48 Avoid common garden mishaps
TRAVEL, LIFESTYLE & LEISURE 48 The only gift guide you’ll need 60 Mrs Murray’s calls on support
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EDITOR Hello and welcome to the final edition of Trend for 2026. It has been another brilliant year, and we’ve loved meeting so many marvellous readers at our Trend events. With Christmas on the horizon, we’ve scoured the North-east for everything from dreamy hotel stays to fine dining, and those wee presents which always make people feel special. Everything is wrapped up neatly in our annual gift guide. Elsewhere and we have stepped back in time with a look at all things vintage fashion. There are some wee gems across City and Shire, with sustainability at the heart of style. Out in the garden we have taken a look at some common mishaps with Kirsty McLean. Are you guilty of getting carried away at the garden centre? Read on for expert advice on how to make your garden work for you. We’ve had some fantastic working mums appear in our My Motherhood section feature throughout the year, and this time round we’ve heard from a very special woman who arrived at motherhood via adoption. We hope you enjoy this issue; it is fun, heartfelt and all things Trend. All that is left to say, we wish you all a very happy Christmas and we’ll see you on the other side in 2027.
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Did someone say road trip? Head to the pictureperfect Aberdeenshire village of Udny Green, where you will find the delicious Coullie Coffee. This wee gem can be found within the charmingly named Primrose Cottage and serves both breakfast and lunch alongside mouthwatering sweet treats. We have it on good authority that their take on Matcha is worth the visit alone, whilst the chocolate and Guiness cake is swoon worthy. You can’t make a reservation, so turn up in plenty of time if you’re after a table.
Fancy unwinding in a sauna complete with a view of Aberdeen beach? Barbossauna is a converted horse box and is located right on the beach front. It is ideal for a girly wellness catchup and can comfortably fit six people; unwind by the waves in this sweltering sanctuary. Founder Fabio Barbosa originally hails from Brazil and has infused the heat of his homeland into the otherwise chilly Granite City. We’re feeling tropical already.
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We love dark drama here at Trend, so why not come along to The Lemon Tree for Dead Husbands Club? The thrilling plot follows three women who become widows, united by the fact that their loss is at the hands of the same killer. From the stories we tell ourselves to live with grief, to the unexpected bonds formed from tragedy - it promises to be a great evening. You can catch the show from November 24th to the 28th, with tickets available via aberdeenperformingarts.com
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D You need not be religious to appreciate the beauty and stillness of St Machar’s Cathedral. It regularly hosts Fever Candlelight Concerts, with tribute performances to Queen, Oasis and Fleetwood Mac on offer in the coming months. You can even enjoy a guided tour and learn more about the fascinating history or take the wee ones along in the school holidays. There is a fantastic children’s corner complete with dressing up clothes, plus plenty of community groups who are on a mission to improve biodiversity in the grounds.
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If you’re on the lookout for trendy new eyewear, might we suggest Iolla on Schoolhill? It is the brand’s first shop in the North-east, where expert stylists are committed to helping you find the right pair of glasses. We love the ethos of affordable eyewear, where prices start from around £85. You can look through more than 100 different designs , and hopefully leave with a pair of specs that will do your gorgeous face justice.
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Reformer at ASV A Different Way to Train
Reformer has become one of the most popular ways to work out, combining strength, control and movement in sessions that can be adapted to almost any fitness level. At ASV, it takes the principles of traditional reformer Pilates and gives them a modern fitness edge, with a varied programme designed to help you move better, build strength and get more from every session. Using spring-based resistance, the reformer allows you to work the whole body through controlled, targeted movements. It can help improve core strength, stability, mobility, posture and flexibility, while challenging your muscles in a completely different way to traditional gym-based training. And one of its biggest benefits is its versatility. ASV’s Re:Form Studio is the largest reformer studio in Northeast Scotland, with 12 beds and a programme ranging from beginnerfriendly sessions through to more challenging strength and conditioning workouts including; • Re:Beginners: learn the movements, understand the equipment and build confidence while improving your range of motion and flexibility • Re:Align: targets posture, balance and core stability • Re:Strength: increases the resistance to challenge strength, endurance and muscle tone • Re:Express: a powerful workout in just 30 minutes Whatever your starting point, reformer can grow with you. Exercises and resistance can be adapted as you become stronger and more confident, making it a great addition to your regular fitness routine.
Reformer with Lifestyle Premium For anyone looking to make reformer a regular part of their week, ASV's Lifestyle Premium Membership offers exceptional value. For £85 per month, Premium members can enjoy up to 12 reformer classes, which works out at just over £7 per class. And it doesn't just cover reformer. Lifestyle Premium gives you access to everything ASV has to offer, including: • Full access to the gym and swimming pools • 120+ group fitness classes each week • 45+ virtual classes • Racquet sports and athletics track access • 10-day advance booking rights • A monthly guest pass • A personalised fitness programme • ASV app access for quick booking and cancellations • 10% café discount for post-workout refuelling • Exclusive Club Perks discounts via the ASV app That means you can combine reformer with strength training, swimming, cardio, HYROX, group exercise or recovery, all within one membership. Whether your goal is to feel stronger, move better, improve your fitness or simply find a workout you genuinely look forward to, Reformer at ASV offers a different way to train. 12 Re:Form classes. A full ASV membership. £85 a month. Join today.
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Salon owner on mission to help clients with hair loss
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rom Saturday girl to employing more than 100 people, life has come full circle for Sheona Will. The proud founder of Bloom Hair Salons has never forgotten her roots, having started her career at the tender age of 16. From working her way up in a notoriously competitive industry, to going behind the scenes in the day to day running of multiple businesses – it has been quite the journey thus far. And now Sheona is embarking on her next big adventure, with the launch of a rather special service. She sat down with Trend and explained why wig sourcing and styling has made her heart sing again. “I got my business degree in my Twenties and gave up cutting hair in order to run my businesses,” recalled Sheona. “Having worked my way through the industry, I knew I had to stay profitable. I had salons in Aberdeen, Glasglow and London, so there was a lot of travelling. The closure of my London branch was the trigger to change, it was a pivotal moment, I absolutely love the hair and beauty industry, and the salons and teams. I actually had begun to dislike my job though. “I sat down at the start of this year and realised I was so far away from what I wanted to be doing in life. I grew up in the hairdressing industry and knew this was my moment to make an impact on my own destiny.” Sheona runs the salons with nephew, Neil Smith, who does most of the day to day running alongside some amazing team members. She now finally has the time to embrace something a little different, whilst still remaining at the heart of the business. Hair loss can impact clients at any stage of life, be it linked to medical treatment, certain conditions or hormones. Both
Sheona and Neil wanted clients to feel they could return to Bloom and be offered a solution for hair loss - as well as a seat within a supportive community. “For our clients who are experiencing hair loss, we didn’t want them to feel like they couldn’t keep coming, because you don’t just lose your appointment,” said Sheona. “You lose the entire experience, the person who always remembers how you take your coffee and what may be going on in your life. I took the plunge and underwent training in synthetic, high heat fibre and human hair wigs and enhancer solutions. I still look back to 25 years ago when my mum had cancer. She could barely get the wig out of the box; it was not until we cut it that she could even begin to wear it.” Sheona hopes to make a real difference for those struggling with hair loss, not least by enabling clients to wear a wig which feels part of them. “The experience so far has already opened my mind so much,” she said. “A wig should be like adding a piece of clothing instead of a strange entity. It should feel natural and comfortable.” Sheona is now getting ready to offer full consultations in both the Glasgow and Aberdeen salon. She will also be able to provide support to those who already have a wig, if they feel cutting or styling might help. “We will be with clients every step of the way, from sourcing a wig to fitting, cutting, styling and maintaining,” said Sheona. “I went into hairdressing all those years ago to help people feel good, so I can’t wait for this next chapter.” Book now at www.bloomlifestyle.co.uk or call. 01224 446750. 24 Rose Street Aberdeen AB10 1UA
Mark Palmers & Associates becomes The Terrace Clinic Mark Palmers & Associates becomes The Terrace Clinic following its takeover by Siobhan Hewson, bringing dentistry and aesthetics together under one roof in the heart of Aberdeen. Two months into her ownership, Siobhan is establishing the clinic as a welcoming destination for patients seeking professional dental care in a friendly and comfortable setting. With dentistry at its heart, The Terrace Clinic focuses on helping patients maintain healthy smiles through personalised care tailored to individual needs. The clinic continues to benefit from the experience and support of its existing dentists, Mark Palmer and Daria Martynia, providing continuity of care for established patients. From routine dental appointments to advice on oral health, patients can expect a professional and welcoming experience at the established Rubislaw Terrace address. Alongside dentistry, the clinic offers aesthetic treatments, giving clients the convenience of accessing both services in one location. Aesthetics at The Terrace Clinic The aesthetics clinic operates on Thursday evenings, offering clients the opportunity to explore treatments in a welcoming, professional environment. While dentistry remains the clinic’s main focus, aesthetics provides a complementary service for those looking to care for their smiles and enhance their confidence.
19b Rubislaw Terrace, AB10 1XE | t. 01224 641778 e hello@theterraceclinic.co.uk | www.theterraceclinic.co.uk
puts Win Nobody Baby in the corner Grab a watermelon and get ready to sway, we have two pairs of tickets up for grabs for the opening night of Dirty Dancing on Tuesday, 2 February. The crooning classic is coming to HMT 2nd to 6th February, we can’t wait! To be in with a chance of dancing the night away, go trendmagazine.co.uk and answer this question: What item does baby famously say she carried?
When hearing loss doesn’t tell the whole story... Sometimes, a hearing test gives you the result. But an experienced audiologist looks beyond it. After 25 years of hearing difficulties and increasingly powerful hearing aids, Sue was concerned about how quickly her hearing was deteriorating. Despite years of hearing tests, no one had questioned why her hearing was getting worse. When Sue visited Jayne at Bryce Hearing Services, she took the time to look at the bigger picture — her hearing history, experiences and the changes she had noticed.
Believing there could be more to Sue’s difficulties than hearing loss alone, Jayne encouraged her to seek further investigation through her GP. Scans eventually revealed otosclerosis in both ears. Following surgery, Sue experienced a remarkable improvement in her hearing. Today, her hearing aids have been turned down considerably, she no longer needs her TV streaming device, and she can hear her grandchildren properly again.
“Jayne has transformed not just my life but those close to me too.”
“It is a delight to hear my grandchildren properly. I can’t thank Jayne enough for being the person who looked deeper and cared enough to push for a result.” Sue Parrott, Aberdeen
Hearing care that looks at the bigger picture. At Bryce Hearing Services, we believe in taking the time to listen, understand and provide personal, professional hearing care.
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New Bathroom from Design to Completion With almost 20 years of entertaining experience and the ability to cover all genres of music, Paul can provide the ideal soundtrack to your event. Ranging from intimate drinks receptions, to larger parties, Paul is available for the following...
• WEDDINGS • BIRTHDAYS • HEN PARTIES • BARS • RESTAURANTS • LADIES DAYS • CHARITY EVENTS • CORPORATE EVENTS
• Free, no obligation Survey, 3D Design, and Quotation • Visit our Showroom • Installation 2 Year Warranty • British, Italian & Swiss Suppliers • Friendly Local Company
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NEW CHAPTER FOR NY SKIN
NY Skin Clinic is moving into a new chapter with a full rebrand to NY Skin & Aesthetics Clinic. The clinic has grown and evolved over the years, so we wanted the brand to better reflect where we are now and the range of treatments we offer.
Alongside Elaine, Mya, our Skin Specialist, plays a big part in the clinic, helping clients improve their skin health through personalised treatments and skincare advice. Mya is known for her kind, gentle personality and for making clients feel relaxed and comfortable throughout their treatment journey.
The new look will still keep the NY name that people already know, but with a softer, more modern feel using blush pink, cream, black and neutral tones. NY stands for New You, which fits perfectly with what we want our clients to feel when they visit us ... refreshed, confident and still completely themselves.
We offer a wide range of medical aesthetics and advanced skin treatments, including anti-wrinkle treatments, dermal fillers, skin boosters, facials, peels, Morpheus8 and Lumecca, alongside professional skincare from ZO Skin Health.
The clinic is led by Elaine Wood, an experienced Nurse Prescriber, with a strong background in nursing and aesthetics. The clinic is also registered with Healthcare Improvement Scotland (HIS), reflecting the importance we place on safety, high standards and patient care.
As part of the rebrand, we have also created a new luxury seating area where clients can relax before or after their appointment, with complimentary drinks and snacks available. For us, the rebrand is about creating a more modern, welcoming and elevated clinic experience from the moment you walk through the door.
NY Skin Clinic | 92 Fonthill Road Aberdeen | AB11 6UL | E. info@nyskinandaesthetics.co.uk | T. 01224 593777
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When December arrives the search for meaningful presents can feel overwhelming. Many of us are searching for something genuinely useful This year, why not consider a refreshing alternative gift: The gift of physical wellbeing and self care from a local company.
A ReformPhysio & Pilates gift voucher puts expert care into your loved one’s hands.
Vouchers can be redeemed across all studio and clinic services: Reformer Pilates classes or 1:1’s Physiotherapy consultations/treatments MummyMOT Whether you are celebrating a new mum with a MummyMOT voucher or helping someone continue with the Reformer Pilates classes they love, we have gift vouchers tailored to every goal. To purchase please: E: hello@reformphysiopilates.co.uk | T: 01224 675959 or drop in to our reception Mon-Thurs 10am-2pm.
Book your appointment online www.reformphysioandpilates.co.uk Visit reformphysioabz on Instagram, Facebook and LinkedIn
Smash hit musicals set for Aberdeen Arts Centre
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t’s never too early to look ahead to 2027. Aberdeen Arts Centre already has a fantastic line up, including Bon Jovi forever on the 30 th of January and The Dolly Show come February the 11th . But first, the glorious panto! The Snow Queen will run from November 28th to the 27th of December. For more information and to book tickets, go to aberdeenartscentre.com
tickets Win Win to firm fan favourite We have two pairs of tickets complete with ice cream on offer, to the opening night of Dear Evan Hansen at The Tivoli. Do you fancy being in the audience come January 27th, as A-Z Aberdeen take to the stage with this tale of a lonely teenager who suddenly becomes famous overnight? Go to trendmagazine.co.uk and answer this question: What is Evan’s surname?
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NY Skin & Aesthetics Clinic to hold re-brand party
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re you ready for a fun evening filled with skincare, shopping, and sass? NY Skin & Aesthetics Clinic is holding an exciting launch party on November 26th from their glamorous spot on Fonthill Road in Aberdeen. You can expect goodie bags, cocktails and canapés, a free consultation, and great discounts off treatments plus local popups with the likes of Snooze Sleepwear and Welded Love. Tickets are £20 fully redeemable on anything purchased on the evening. Follow nyskinclinic on social media to find out more.
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The Ritual of
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As the festive season approaches, Rituals invites you to slow down and savour the joy of reflection. Discover two gorgeous Advent calendars, each offering 24 days of surprises, from favourite products and limited editions to full-size treats. Choose Classic or Premium, both featuring nostalgic designs to treasure year after year. Gift the ritual of Advent this Christmas, visit our Union Square store to discover more.
Nursing, Dementia and Palliative Care at Hawkhill House Nursing Home Our beautiful care home, Hawkhill House in Aberdeen, provides residents with highquality nursing, residential and dementia care for both long or short stays with us.
Our quality care across all types means you can be confident of a home for life at Hawkhill House, even if your needs change. Hawkhill House is centred around our residents, their needs and their wishes. Our fully trained nurses and care team are chosen for their compassion and expertise. With a lovely garden area, comfortable communal spaces, and a hairdressing salon, our facilities and varied daily activities mean that all residents are engaged and supported to live life to the full. There is always lots happening at Hawkhill House Nursing Home - why not join us at one of our events.
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High Tea at Three 1st Weds of every month, 3.00pm – 4.00pm We'd love to welcome the community to join us for high tea each month. Enjoy complimentary tea and coffee alongside sweet treats freshly prepared by our Head Chef.
Book Club Last Tues of every month 2.00pm - 3.00pm Looking for a fun, social way to spend your Thursday afternoons? Step back in time and enjoy a selection of classic films in the comfort of our cosy cinema room, designed to provide a warm and welcoming environment. For more information about life at Hawkhill House, or to RSVP for one of our upcoming events, please contact our Home Manager, Rae on the phone number below or by email: hawkhill@caringhomes.org.
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an you be stylish while caring for the environment? Absolutely. City and Shire are home to some wonderful businesses championing sustainable fashion, from vintage treasures to designer rental and resale. We spoke to the people behind three businesses giving beautiful clothes a longer life. LOVE YOUR DRESS Founder Debra Dingwall rents stunning pieces from her wardrobe, helping customers enjoy special outfits without the guilt of buying something they may only wear once.
ENCORE DRESS AND VINTAGE AGENCY Based in Fettercairn, Encore is an Aladdin’s cave of unique vintage finds. Founded by Christine Timms in 1997, the business recently celebrated its 29th birthday. Owner, Carrie Murdoch revealed her passion for individuality and pre-loved fashion. “We offer a unique shopping experience with a human touch and amazing stock, from mother-of-the-bride outfits to high-end Chanel. Our customers range from
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A bonnie display at Encore in Fettercairn “Love Your Dress began with a chance conversation on New Year’s Eve, when a woman told me, ‘I wish I could rent your wardrobe.’ I’ve always loved clothes that are a little different - colour, sparkle, and fabulous prints - but what I love most is how the right dress makes someone feel. My yellow Farm Rio dress has been rented 37 times, while one of my newest crystal dresses has five bookings in under two months. Beautiful clothes get more lives rather than hanging unworn.”
teenagers searching for prom dresses to people celebrating their hundredth birthday. We have championed pre-loved fashion for years, offering pieces that stand the test of time and can hopefully be passed down to the next generation.” THE DRESS AGENCY On Holburn Street, Pamela Blewett has spent 19 years helping customers shop designer fashion more sustainably. From handbags and shoes to occasion-wear, coats and everyday favourites, each piece is selected for its quality and longevity. “The Dress Agency champions the idea that great fashion should not be worn just once. It’s about finding pieces to wear, love and share, extending the life of beautiful clothing and accessories while offering a more considered way to shop designer. It also gives people the opportunity to earn money from pieces they no longer wear.”
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How can separated parents wrap up Christmas arrangements?
By Tom Main, Partner in Family Law at Aberdein Considine LLP
For separated or divorced parents, Christmas can be one of the most emotionally charged times of the year. While everyone wants to create special memories with their children, disagreements over arrangements can quickly add unnecessary stress.
• Communicate clearly
Here are some top tips help make the festive period more enjoyable for everyone:
• Consider gifts and family events
• Start discussions early Christmas arrangements should be discussed as far in advance as possible. Early conversations give both parents time to consider options, make plans and avoid last-minute disputes.
• Focus on the children It can be tempting to prioritise what you would like, but the focus should remain firmly on your children’s needs. Consider their ages, routines and wishes. Older children may benefit from having their views taken into account.
Once arrangements have been agreed, ensure children understand what will happen and when. Clear communication reduces uncertainty and helps them look forward to spending time with both parents.
Discuss presents and significant family gatherings in advance. Co-ordination can help avoid duplication, disappointment and unnecessary tension. • Seek advice if you can’t agree Where discussions break down, family law advice should be sought as early as possible. Mediation or solicitor-led negotiations may help resolve matters without the need for court proceedings. With careful planning, co-operation and a child-focused approach, separated parents can minimise conflict and help ensure the festive season remains a positive and memorable occasion for their children.
• Be flexible There is no single “right” way to share the festive period. Some families divide Christmas Day itself, while others celebrate on alternative dates. A flexible approach can often reduce conflict and create a better experience for children.
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Garden mishaps: Are you guilty of these common mistakes? With Kirsty McLean
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The 5 biggest mistakes homeowners make when planning a garden (and how to fix them) 1. Treating the Garden as an Afterthought Many homeowners spend a great deal of time, money, and effort designing their interior spaces while neglecting the garden. However, your outdoor area holds massive potential and value, regardless of its size, shape, or orientation. • The Fix: Treat your garden as a direct extension of your home. By viewing it as an “outdoor room” and a personal haven, you can dramatically increase your day-to-day quality of life. 2. Placing Patios and Seating Areas in the Wrong Location A beautiful patio is useless if it is trapped in damp shade or completely cut off from the house. Homeowners often forget to map out how people will naturally walk through the space, or they build a patio that is simply too small. • The Fix: Observe where the sun and shade fall at different times of the day before choosing a spot. Size matters! Think about how you will use the space (BBQ, dining, lounging) and leave plenty of room. You want enough space to walk between furniture without your dining chair legs falling off the edge of the patio when you push back to stand up. Finally, ensure the patio’s shape complements both the house architecture and your overall garden style. 3. Forgetting to Zone the Space A gorgeous garden view can be instantly ruined by poorly placed wheelie bins, clotheslines, or log stores. While utility areas need to be easily accessible from paths and doors, they shouldn’t dominate your view.
• The Fix: Deliberately zone your garden. Place sheds and utilities near utility doors or driveways but keep them screened out of sight from your main windows and relaxation areas using fencing, trellises, or clever planting. 4. Ignoring Your Personal Style Without a clear design vision, gardens can easily end up looking cluttered and chaotic. Choosing too many different types of stone, brick, or wood prevents the space from feeling cohesive. • The Fix: Understand your personal style (contemporary, naturalistic, classical) by creating a storyboard. Include both gardens you love and gardens you dislike to spot common themes, materials, and colours. Limit your hard-landscaping to a maximum of two or three distinct materials. Always collect samples and test them in your garden in situ to see how they look wet, dry, and in different lights. 5. Buying Plants Without a Plan It is incredibly easy to fall in love with a gorgeous flowering shrub at the garden centre, plant it right against the house, and later watch it grow into a four-meter-high monster that blocks your window. • The Fix: Embrace the phrase “right plant, right place.” Test your soil pH and map out your garden’s microclimates (sunny, shady, damp) before buying. Build a “backbone” of evergreen plants to keep the garden structured through the winter and choose a palette that offers succession planting for year-round colour. Always check a plant’s ultimate growth size before giving it a permanent home.
Shop local with the Ultimate Trend Gift Guide
Whether you are an avid gift buyer or inwardly groan as the season of good will approaches, it can be difficult to know where to start. We have sprinkled some Christmas magic with our festive gift guide, having rounded up the very finest of North-east offerings. Happy shopping!
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TICKLE THOSE TASTEBUDS
Oh, what to get the dedicated foodie in your life? We are spoilt for choice with some fantastic restaurants in our midst. Book a table or surprise your lucky recipient with a voucher, it is something to look forward to after all. Let us start with Da Vinci. Treat your loved one to an authentic Italian experience, chef’s kiss! We love the romantic atmosphere and the fact that the same family have been at the helm for decades. If you fancy dinner with a difference, No 10 on Queen’s Terrace has you covered. Exposed granite walls and even an exclusive private dining space will be sure to impress, why not purchase at gift card to be used at leisure? Near to there is The Albyn, a truly gorgeous space with the menu to match. It offers the ideal spot for brunch with the girls, maybe a cocktail or two after all this Christmas shopping! Head on up to Malmaison for a taste of luxury, where you can dine in style before enjoying an overnight stay. If you are a lover of seafood, it must be The Silver Darling perched on Pocra Quay. The views
alone are quite the treat, and catch of the day promises fresh seafood – caught on your doorstep. If you are in search of a one-off experience, journey to the picturesque Bridge of Feugh in Banchory where you’ll find Falls by Orry Shand. Having opened earlier this year, the fine dining experience has taken the local hospitality scene by storm. It would make the perfect gift for the discerning foodie, with multiple courses served throughout the evening. Marcliffe is always worth a visit, especially if you have not yet sampled Skylark Brasserie. Whether you are treating Granny to afternoon tea or out for dinner with friends, Marcliffe appeals across the generations. And now for a little something, from cheese to chocolate we have of course taste tested in the name of research. For the chocoholic, Pure Decadence by Loch Auroa. The only slight issue is the temptation to eat the delights of Belgian chocolate and handmade fudge before they can even make it under the tree! CocoCaramel
have heavenly caramels which have been infused with flavours from Aberdeenshire and the Highlands. It simply is not Christmas without cheese, and the Gourmet Cheese Company can cater to every pongy need. Order a hamper in advance, put together by staff who really do know their Stilton from their Wensleydale. Chattan Quality Meats is ideal if you want to bring premium cuts to the table, and the family run business stocks all those little extras that really do make the difference. Why not put together your own hamper following a visit to Marshall’s Farm Shop & Kitchen. The farm shop is a tasty treasure trove boasting a meat and deli counter, a delicious bakery section plus chutneys and preserves. Bakery Lane has a new chutney and a jam range just launched. Grab a gift voucher and a sweet treat or two.
Handcrafted Scottish Chocolate
Based in Inverurie, CocoCaramel is an award-winning chocolatier known for their rich, caramel-filled creations. Each piece is handmade by Helen Arkwright and her team in small batches, using local ingredients wherever possible- Scottish butter, honey from nearby beekeepers, raspberries from local farms, and of course local whisky. This Christmas, Helen’s chocolates bring warmth to winter gifting. With flavours like Salted Caramel, Cherry Amaretto, Coffee Caramel, and Chocolate Orange, each collection balances comfort and creativity in celebration of the best of Aberdeenshire’s larder. Thoughtful stocking fillers, a host gift, or something to share after Christmas dinner, CocoCaramel offers a simple kind of indulgence- festive, local, and beautifully made. Find the whole range of our delicious treats on our website and at selected local retailers
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Christmas at
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Treat yourself to our succulent turkey, boneless turkey breast or our wonderful beef wellington this Christmas. Locally sourced high quality Scottish produce, outstanding traditional cuts, pies, delicious ready to cook dishes and family favourites delivered to your door. 35-37 Chattan Place, AB10 6RB Tel. 01224 581843 chattanqualitymeats chattanqualitymeats.co.uk
RAISE A GLASS
‘Tis the season to be merry, and you will certainly feel in good spirits at Fibbers Irish Snug. Not long open and already excelling in good craic, experience the buzz in this new Irish bar. For the cocktail lover, you cannot go wrong with Reynold’s Cocktails. Their cocktail pouches mean you can serve seriously impressive drinks at home, anyone for a vanilla espresso martini? Or why not try SugarBird in the Gardens, a gorgeous wine bar set against the backdrop of Union Terrace Gardens. The Union Grove venue is still a stylish and cosy spot where you can unwind, and the onsite shop boasts a vast selection of wines. If you’re in search of just the right whisky liqueur, The Cock O’ The North makes for the ideal gift. Infused with Scottish blaeberries, it also boasts a secret ingredient known only to The Marquess of Huntly and his son, The Earl of Aboyne. Equally steeped in tradition is House of Elrick Gin. Distilled on the beautiful
estate in Aberdeenshire, it is infused with botanicals hand-picked by the estate’s Master of Gin - now there is a thoughtful gift. If you want to try your own hand at distilling, Lost Loch Spirits would make a fabulous gift. From micro tours to tasting sessions, take a trip out to Deeside Activity Park for a spirted experience.
SOMETHING SPARKLY
There is something wonderfully nostalgic when it comes to the gift of jewellery, the sentiment never goes out of fashion. Finnies The Jeweller will be with you every step of the way, and are ready and waiting at their gorgeous shop on George St. From luxury watches to necklaces, earrings and bracelets, there is a beautiful selection. Lee-Lie Jewellery is perfect for those who prefer a minimalistic look, with many lovely items handcrafted in sterling silver. Aria & Co is stocked across Scotland, and prides itself on distinctive yet wearable jewellery. The pieces are also affordable and would make a great gift for your teen’s first piece of jewellery.
Gifts to be treasured
We offer a collection of distinctive yet wearable jewellery, crafted predominantly from 18k gold-plated stainless steel, cubic zirconia and natural freshwater pearls.
The Sweetest Gifts Decadent Belgian Chocolate Fudges, Award winning marshmallows and Scottish Tablet and other gift ideas. Handmade and made fresh for Christmas
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GET YOUR GLAD RAGS ON
NEW BRAND ALERT – MONARI
Discover our new brand ‘Monari” and explore alongside Brax, Margittes, Mos Mosh, Wolford, Tribal, Tinta and Bariloche. Pop in and find your new favourites Open Mon - Sat, 10am-5pm 22a Thistle Street Aberdeen AB10 1XD
Is it really Christmas if you don’t buy something special for the wardrobe, be it your own or as a gift? Hit Lolo + Co for all things tres chic, say goodbye to fast fashion and hello to beautiful investment pieces. If you are a lover of Gabor footwear, Hamish Munro has a stunning collection, with the outfits to match of course. Bellino will help you get Christmas all wrapped up thanks to multiple brands including a new arrival, Monari. Country Ways in Banchory is ready to style you for the traditional Christmas day walk, with some lovely things also on offer for four-legged friends. For those golfers in your life, Kings Links Golf Centre stocks all the leading brands and Elovate Golf is fresh on the course, with everything from polo shirts to caps and golf towels.
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MAKE SOME MEMORIES It’s lovely to have presents to open, but sometimes the best gifts are experiences which you can enjoy together. How about booking some theatre tickets at HMT, with Cats the Musical and Dirty Dancing scheduled for 2027? The recently launched Art Workshop can help bring out creativity, with a focus on making art accessible. Fab workshops are on offer alongside sip and paint events. Why not arrange a visit to the elegant Milton Art Gallery, home to fabulous exhibitions with investment pieces available to buy. A luxurious stay at Gleneagles would
make for a very special gift, or you can stay closer to home thanks to the beautiful Tor-Na-Coille Hotel, classic Marcliffe and stylish Malmaison. Douneside & Health Club will help you escape from it all, the luxury country house is perfect for a weekend away. Carnoustie Golf Hotel is ideal if you want to split your time between the golf course and the spa, whilst Lochter Activity Centre is perfect for adrenalin junkies. Trump International Golf Links has exclusive experiences, alongside a curated choice of luxury gifts, gift vouchers, and limited-edition seasonal collections for all golf and non-golf enthusiasts.
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CHILDHOOD MAGIC
Oh, to be a child at Christmas. Toys come and go, but snazzy vouchers will be a hit with both the young recipient and mum and dad. Why not load up a gift card for Skyline Trampoline Park, or book a session at the award winning Farm Stop in Portlethen? Aberdeen Science Centre never fails to delight, and will get everyone out the house over Twixmas. Raemoir Garden Centre is magical at this time of year, and the toy section will be sure to impress.
PURE PAMPER
Nothing says ‘I thought of you’ like booking in for ultimate relaxation. The House is a gorgeous sanctuary where you can unwind with a hot stone massage and enjoy a wide variety of treatments. Book in for some pampering at Bloom Salon, before giving your skin some TLC at Terrace Aesthetics, and NY Skin Clinic has some brilliant treatment bundles available. Finally, you can never go wrong with a candle; help someone relax in the comfort of their own home thanks to the choice at Heartfelt Aromas.
GOOD HEALTH
It can be difficult to make time for yourself, make life easier with a gifted session at Aberdeen Sports Village with dozens of classes to choose from. Rituals in Union Square believes in slowing down, and the lovely team will help you choose a gift with the recipient in mind. And for the friend who insists they do not need glasses, a gentle push towards Belmont Optical could see them wear trendy new frames with confidence. The Orthodontic Clinic is the go-to for state-of-the-art treatment and the dedicated team have a wealth of experience.
Every occasion is different, and we believe the flowers should be too
We create bespoke floral arrangements and thoughtful gifts for life’s special moments, using locally grown flowers wherever possible. From weddings to funeral tributes, every design is crafted with care and individuality.
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JUST BECAUSE
Is there anything more lovely than receiving a little something, a gift which shows someone was thinking of you in that exact moment? No 18 Gifts and Cards have some gorgeous wee pieces to fit the bill and have a wonderful selection of Jellycats! They share premises with Flower Vogue so while you are there grab one of their fabulous door wreaths. Gifted is famed for its excellent selection of cards, the spot on Countesswells Road is well worth a look. Ben Reid Garden Centre and Mains of Drum double up as a great day out, complete with present buying ticked off the list. We are all guilty of not framing precious pictures, but there’s no excuse with a visit to Iain Glennie Framing. Get a special print or photo expertly framed for a gift which can be proudly displayed on the wall for years to come. And finally, say it with flowers, Twigs and Thistles can create a bespoke arrangement for that special person with same day collection available.
Unwrap beautiful memories this Christmas Bespoke picture framing including 3D collections and textiles High quality scanning and digital prints from your own artwork, photos, slides or negatives for a gift they’ll really treasure
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m t s a i r s h at C Xmas at Gifted pop in and discover our fabulous collections Katie Loxton Scottish Fine soaps Luxury chocolates and biscuits Cards, wrap and bags Jewellery Home decor and fragrance Open seven days through December | 0735 3788 302 Open Mon-Sat 9-5.30 and Sundays in December from 11-3 68D Countesswells Road AB15 7YE GiftedAberdeen
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My d o o h er th o M
It is our final My Motherhood of the year, and we’re incredibly proud to share this poignant insight from Beverley Tricker. The PR pro also runs her own bridal boutique, Tricker Bridal, and adopted her daughter when she was six-years-old. Here she reflects on an incredible journey into motherhood.
I’m no stranger to adoption, as my brother and I know what a marvellous life you can have when you are brought up by parents who adopted us as babies. Is bringing up an adopted child who has lived six traumatic years easy? No, but then nor is bringing up your own baby and none of us know what challenges lie ahead at that point. Can you love an adopted child as much as your own? Without doubt! Working in PR at the time, my daily life was already spinning plates, so adding in another factor wasn’t as hard as it seemed. Being single, I certainly could never have managed without the utterly amazing support from my parents, who gave my
daughter another element which had been missing from her life - loving grandparents. I firmly believe you can remain focussed, energetic and ambitious; it’s not the prerogative of the childless woman! My daughter, from the shakiest of starts in life, now has an amazing career as an underwriter with an international firm. I was so proud that she had the ambition to do this, and the resilience to move to London at the age of 21. Bridal appointments are a reflection of all life – and I see all sorts of relationships. The brides and mums who stay with me are those where the mum is so supportive. I also see many brides who have lost their mums and are really feeling the loss of their presence at such a key point in their life. I think I become more ‘mum like’ at these appointments. And, I do always make sure that I ask them – in the fitting room away from their entourage – to take a long look and ask herself what would my mum have thought of this dress. I feel it brings a bit of their mum to the day.
Jill Smart, Gisele Carolo, Jessica Concalves and Leigh Porter
Paul Black
Sharon Miller, Zoe Bavidge and Tamara Taylor
Trend’s Style and Sounds Josie Brown, Lesley Nicholson and Linda Matheson
We were treated to the latest fashion from a gorgeous array of retailers; a huge thank you to lolo+co, hamishmunro, Country Ways and The Fashion Den. Singer Paul Black kept everyone entertained with his fine voice.
Mary Dalgarno, Anne Dalgarno and Shona Dalgarno
Mandy Miller, Kerry Ings and Ashley Mcdonald
Indy Chapman, Anna Anderson and Lauren Mcphee
Natalia Mir, Iris Bruce and Ines Mir
Karen Castle-Anderson, Elaine Rogie, Lynn Ewen and Denise West
Ann Robertson, Lisa Duncan nd Monrea Watt
Pam Forgie and Pat Stout
Shirley Smith, Sophia Traynor, Hannah Garden, Alysha Grant and Audrey Wood
Mandy Aitchison, Sandra Sinclair, Fiona Windle and Audrey Yule
Gail Brechin, Kay Hughes, Kathleen Pirie and Marie Mahoney
Seonaid Grimmer, Cate Armstrong and Allison Singleton
Shirley Smith and Audrey Wood
Susan McDougall, Emma McDougall and Lynne Canale
Alix Mann and Lesley Milne
Wilma Burnett , Vikki Stephen and Nicola Mitchell
Rosemary Stewart, Janette Ramsay, Pat Duff, Allison Baxter and Anne Ross
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Charity Focus:
Mrs Murray’s Big Build
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rs Muray’s is a beloved institution in Aberdeen, having been founded in 1889 by Susan Murray as a place of refuge and shelter for stray and abandoned dogs and cats. Fast forward to today and it cares for hundreds of animals each year. The organisation is now calling on businesses to step forward as part of a major campaign, which will ultimately enable Mrs Murray’s to continue in its incredible work for years to come. Work is already well underway for Mrs Murray’s Big Build - with plans to create 21 modern kennels and a much-needed maternity unit. Demolition work has commenced and Chap has been appointed as the main contractor for this exciting development. In the meantime, the charity is calling on businesses to get behind the campaign via corporate sponsorship. Chairman Alan
Chairman Alan Grant with Homes manager Marie Simpson
Grant said: ‘We would love to hear from businesses of every size which might be able to support us. There are a number of ways to get involved and, if anyone would like to come along, see what we are doing and talk about how they could become part of the Big Build, our door is very much open. Aberdeen has changed enormously since Mrs Susan Murray first opened the Home, but the reason we are here has not. There will always be animals that need somewhere safe to go and people who need our help. This is our chance to make sure the facilities are there for them. We hope businesses across the North-east will join us and help build the next chapter of Mrs Murray’s.” To find out more, go to mrsmurrays.co.uk
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LYNNE MULCAHY
Lynne is Partner with Balfour+Manson where she heads up the Family Law team in Aberdeen. Here she explains why an interest in people is key to the job.
O
nce I got over the disappointment, at age seven, of discovering there wasn’t a realistic career path to becoming one of Charlie’s
network of collaborative lawyers - and am heavily involved in our local Consensus group.
Angels, I wasn’t sure what I wanted to do - only that
My career progression has been conventional in some
I wanted to help people. As I progressed through
respects and less so in others. I took two breaks from
school, I narrowed my options to medicine or law.
practice while raising my children, as well as spending time travelling and living in Asia and Norway. I have
Even at the UCAS application stage, I remained hugely conflicted, but ultimately law won out, and I’ve now been practising for over 25 years. There is no such thing as an average day in my role, although my time is broadly split between court days and office days. Whatever my court commitments, every day begins with a long walk with my six-yearold black Labrador. She is a gundog and needs the exercise as much as I do. I work with a wonderful group of people at B+M and have a fantastic team. Our Family Team is a close-knit group of excellent professionals who work in a genuinely collaborative way. We appear in sheriff courts across Scotland and undertake Court of Session
been fortunate to pick up where I left off and continue practising family law. I have now been back in Aberdeen for 15 years, nine of them with B+M. I firmly believe in using alternative dispute resolution in family law. Since qualifying, I have trained as both a mediator and collaborative practitioner. It may sound trite, but I genuinely enjoy helping people through some of the most stressful periods of their lives. Supporting someone through a family law matter is often a journey, and it is rewarding to see how your guidance can help them move from a very difficult stage towards a new beginning. I am married with three children. Although they
work in Edinburgh.
are now grown, separating work and home has
I prefer to meet clients in person or on Teams because
exercise - a walk, yoga or Pilates - while a podcast or
seeing them helps me gauge how they are feeling and
audiobook helps me unwind on the journey home.
always been a priority. After work, I try to fit in some
what they need from me. Between meetings, I draft letters, emails and other documents based on their
My advice to anyone considering family law is simple:
instructions. I also make time for the management
academic excellence matters, but so do a genuine
responsibilities that come with leading the team and
interest in people, patience, strong communication
being a partner in a 17-partner practice. In addition, I
skills and empathy. Without those qualities, this is
chair the national Consensus Scotland committee - our
unlikely to be the right area of practice for you.
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