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Q: What do you love most about banking?

Beth (B): This may sound corny, but I love to work with clients and help them grow their wealth to achieve their financial goals through planning, portfolio management and budgeting.

I also love working with women, and I want to see more women taking an active role in their own wealth.

Caroline (C): I love getting to know people, personally and financially.

Financial choices reveal who people are, and the direction of money is very, very personal. I’m honored to get to know my clients on that level, and I love being able to make a difference in their lives and livelihoods. I always learn a lot from them in the process.

Q: Is banking a boys’ club?

B: It can certainly feel that way. It’s far too common for women to be left out of the conversation about money. I’ve had women tell me about past advisors who only engaged with their husbands even though they were sitting right at the table—which is unfortunate, as they are major decision-makers in the household.

That is a huge missed opportunity. The financial industry needs to do a better job of engaging female clients. At the end of the day, women want to feel valued and included when engaging with their advisor, and they want to know that they have a seat at the table.

C: It’s so important to work with

people who make you feel heard and understood. Our group, which includes both men and women, works together with one purpose: understanding our clients and reaching them together, where they are. If your current banking experience makes you feel intimidated or unheard, we want to be the difference!

Q: What’s a surprisingly emotional part of money management?

C: Budgeting! Not just making one, but following it. Plenty of people have a budget, but actually following it is the tough part. It’s really hard to change our habits.

B: Money is emotional, period.

Oftentimes people will take the time to create a budget and a financial plan… and then never open the file again.

There can be a lot of shame around how people manage and spend their money. They feel like they just don’t have the emotional space for it, which I totally understand.

C: Little, bite-sized changes are the key.

Since our immediate happiness can sometimes override long-term goals, we can combine something we like to do with something we know we should do. That’s how we create new habits that are intentional and serve our longterm goals. Getting creative with how we spend can make a big difference when it comes to following budgets and consuming intentionally. The goal is to make you feel comfortable spending and enjoying your money, and good planning can help with that.

Q: What should women know about getting a financial advisor?

C: A lot of the time, it’s so helpful

to have one person navigate all of your banking: lines of credit1, social security, investments2, all of it. I know it can feel overwhelming, and it really is easier for you when it’s all in one place.

B: Find an advisor who really listens to what you are trying to accomplish and works with you to create a plan to achieve your financial goals. A smart financial plan should be a living, breathing, holistic thing that changes with your life, your habits, and your goals. It’s not a set-it-and-forget it kind of thing, and it’s our job to make sure it’s working for you.

C: We’re here to help. We’re not life coaches or psychologists, but we can still offer strategies to help you work through things you’re struggling with.

My job is to create a financial plan that’s easy for you to follow, that works with your life, and that’s tailored to your goals and who you are as a person.

NEXT STEPS: Want to get started on your financial plan? Looking for your perfect advisor? Come see Caroline, Beth, and the rest of the experts at Bank of the Bluegrass & Trust Co. We’ll help you build a solid financial strategy that works for you. Call (859) 233-4500 today!

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Hello, Friends!

The month of November brings with it full-on holiday mode for us all.

Thanksgiving will be here before we know it, and December rushes in with the blink of an eye. Stocking stuffer gifts are one of my favorite hunts, as I try to choose the perfect trinket for that special someone.

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L I F E ST YL E

self-care holidays DURING THE

OUR TAKE:

Eating crappy delivery pizza in a closet (with or without hot toddies) is absolutely valid.

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Cry in the Target Parking Lot

OUR TAKE:

Go ahead. Cry it out. Even if this technically solves nothing, consider it the instant steam release valve on your stress.

Drive Up services mean you don’t even have to go in!

Why Target? Tell everyone you’ve got to run out for something (but don’t mention Target, or else Cousin Linda will ride along and spend all day in the dishes as if she’s going to buy a whole set today for some reason.

Ugh, classic Linda.) Drive there and cry. Cry inside the store, cry in the parking lot, stand by your car and cry.

No one will judge you at Target. And when you return from your trip with that bright red logo emblazoned on the side, no one will question your red, puffy eyes; they’ll be too interested in your Dollar Spot haul.

Letting it out is important. Studies show that keeping it all bottled up can have negative impacts on your immune system, cardiovascular health and mental health (obviously). Meanwhile, crying releases oxytocin and endorphins that help you feel better once you’ve stopped sobbing.

TARGET

Mess Something Up

You heard that right. Goof up! Perfection is the enemy of joy, so why not give yourself immediate permission to let go of the ideal in favor of the real? Make a gingerbread man with a ridiculous expression. Wrap something in the most chaotic manner you can imagine. Hang something on the tree without repositioning it a million times.

Get yourself used to enjoying the unexpected pleasure of a “good enough” holiday season. It will feel less like a national disaster when you underbake the pie a little or when a grabby toddler ruins your Insta-worthy tablescape.

Stay Off Social Media You don’t need to post every moment and you certainly don’t need to check up on what everyone else is up to. The nostalgia of the season may have you check in on friends – or, more realistically, stalking exes – but now’s not the time for FOMO and old insecurities. If you’re curious how someone is doing, give them a call. Otherwise, leave your phone face down.

According to Inverse, one 2022 study showed that a week-long break from social media improved participants’ symptoms of depression and anxiety while elevating their overall sense of well-being. But social media use can be deceptive. A 2023 study that looked specifically at Instagram and TikTok found that participants experienced short-term relaxation when using these apps but that the use of these apps ultimately raised participants’ depression and anxiety.

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Leave It All at Cracker Barrel

If you know a get-together will be trying and difficult for everyone involved, try changing the venue. Meeting up at a restaurant can eliminate a lot of stress and chaos for everyone at the table. Being in public means everyone will be on their best behavior. And you’re basically setting a time limit on the event; people won’t linger as long, so there’s less time for arguments to break out. Plus, everyone gets a bite of that tasty hash brown casserole. Just leave an extra-massive tip to apologize for Great Uncle Al – it’s still money well spent on your sanity.

That said, if a change in venue is not in the cards for your cohort, it’s still worth exploring how you can make your family meal feel more like a restaurant experience.

Get the food catered from a local eatery to cut down on prep stress and clutter.

Set a time limit for the entire interaction, with plans afterward that will give you an “out” to leave. Maybe turn your meal into a Facebook Live to keep everybody actin’ right (we’re joking. Maybe.)

CRACKER BARREL

Make Time for Calm

One problem many of us face during the busy holiday season is that our schedules fall completely out of whack.

While most self-care guides would encourage you to keep a routine, we know from experience that it’s more or less impossible. So, instead, we’re encouraging you to schedule time for normal and calm.

This does not mean you have to go jogging at 5AM every single morning or do laundry every day at 8PM – though you could totally do those things! But what we mean is that you have to clear space and time for yourself to just be you. Whether that means hiring a babysitter so you can soak in the tub and read old copies of TOPS with a glass of wine or going out for coffee with your best friend, you have to be intentional about getting what makes you feel most normal. Santa can’t put that under the tree for you; you’ve got to build it into your hectic life.

And really, that’s the essence of self-care! Give yourself what you need because you deserve it: as much as the kids deserve a beautifully wrapped mountain of presents, as much as your parents deserve your love and care, as much as your partner deserves your undivided attention, as much as your friends deserve your listening ear, as much as Santa deserves milk and cookies. You can’t do any of that well if your internal battery isn’t recharged. So take care of yourself first! •

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T HE GUIDE to

Recently, we asked a few of our favorite holiday decorators what trends we can expect this winter and the answers were surprisingly the same.

Let us inspire you to fill your home with holiday cheer this season, from stunning tree designs to tabletop décor. We’ve curated some of this year’s best tricks and trends sure to wow even the most discriminating guests!

T R E E T I P S • G A R L A N D S • W R E A T H S • S E T T I N G T H E TA B L E • H O L I D A Y T R E N D S • A N D M O R E !

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WHAT YOU ’LL FIND

At First Glance 33

A Warm Welcom e with th e Perfe ctly D e corate d Front Porch

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Holiday Foliage Breakdown

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Entryways Enhan ce d with Garlan ds Galore

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Sh opping for th e *Right* Real Tre e

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Forever Gre ens

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Flo cke d an d Fabulous

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Set th e Scen e with D etaile d Tables cap es

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A Must-Try Holiday Co cktail

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Wreaths D on e Right

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That’s A Wrap on Gift Wrapping Tren ds

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Gilde d B eauty Panton e Approve d South ern Blue Pretty Pastels Country Farmh ous e Can dylan d Classic Christmas Floral Pop

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DE C OR T I P

Looking to add interest to your holiday porch? Branches and birch logs can add height and dimension to your planters.

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A Warm Welcome Guests are as much a part of the holiday season as all the tinsel and trees. Create a front porch that makes every visitor feel like part of the family!

Building a beautiful entryway requires bearing one principle in mind: balance. While you don’t have to achieve exact symmetry, you do want to create balance between pieces. If you have a giant nutcracker on one side of your front door, perhaps place a boxed tree on the other side.

Just because it’s winter doesn’t mean you need to bring your planters inside. Fill them with real or faux greenery and add seasonal details, such as lights, oversized ornaments, bows or decorative picks.

Don’t forget the tiny details. Practical, but pretty items such as a festive doormat, vintage boot scraper and charming lanterns to light the way will help your guests feel so welcome this winter!

Merry Doormat | Pottery Barn • Ribbed Ornament Stack Grandin Road • Legare Lantern | Ballard Designs

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Holiday Foliage

breakdown

Pine

PINE Pine branch picks and garlands range from short, compact branches like Norfolk pine to long, wispy sprays. Utilize a couple of different varieties for a full arrangement, or stick to a single variety for a more minimalistic look.

Magnolia

M A GNOLIA Magnolia leaves are a hallmark of Southern décor!

Ranging from deep forest green to golden-brown, magnolia leaves are always stunning.

CEDA R Like some varieties of pine, cedar boughs are compact, adding a lot of texture in a lush arrangement.

Cedar

FERN Ferns are a year-round stunner, and can be an unexpected addition to a winter arrangement. They are often lighter in color than other holiday foliage, which can make for a fun contrast.

JUNI PER Like cedar, the foliage of juniper tends to be small and compact. However, the real beauty of a juniper bough are the small berries that grow along the branches.

Fern

EUCA LY PT US This fragrant plant has grown in popularity among arrangements of all kinds. With a variety of shapes and lengths, it’s easy to incorporate into holiday décor while adding a wintery chill to the air.

DIY:

Check out pro-crafter herself, Megan Gilger's post on her blog Fresh Exchange for tips on how to create your own DIY Foraged Evergreen Garland!

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Juniper

Eucalyptus

LO CAL C ONNE C T ION

Where do we go to find beautiful faux greens like these?

Entryways & Garlands Galore

Look no further than local holiday pros like House

by JSD and My Favorite Things!

Evergreens have been a major part of holiday décor for centuries. They add so much warmth and joy to your space in the dreary winter months.

Garlands are a natural addition to mantles, entryway tables and staircases. We recommend picking a few varieties of foliage and utilizing those with wreaths, trees and garlands to create a cohesive feel throughout your home.

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Shopping for the

*Right* Real Tree For those who aren’t as big on those forever-greens and look forward to that natural pine smell that fills their home each year, then you love shopping for a real Christmas tree.

This can be a daunting task for some, but is also so much fun! We’ve broken down a few important tips to keep in mind when searching for that perfect real tree:

ME ASURE FIRST

CHECK FOR FRESHNESS

Before you even start looking for a tree, pick the spot you’ll place it.

Measure across the space to find out how wide your tree can be. Then measure the height, taking into account any tree toppers you might be adding or the base you’ll place your tree in.

• Look for even coloring.

K NOW YOUR WAN T S

• Gently bounce the tree on its base: if needles on the outermost tips are falling off, move along.

What look are you hoping to achieve?

Do you want a tree that is full, or one that’s a bit more rustic? Do you mind if the needles that fall are sharp, or would you prefer they be softer?

• Compared to others of its kind on the lot, your tree should be greener.

• The trunk should be slightly sticky to the touch.

• Do the “bend” test: bend a needle in half with your fingers. Firs should snap while pines should bend, but not break.

• Give it a sniff: fresh trees should be fragrant.

• Hold a branch loosely between your thumb and forefinger, about a foot from the tip. Gently pull your hand toward you and see if any needles fall off.

OTHER TI P S:

• Bring along one of your heavier ornaments; you want a tree with branches that can support the weight of your decorations!

• One bare spot? If you’re planning to set your tree in a corner or against a wall, you can put the bare spot to the back. You might be able to negotiate a better deal for a less than ideal tree!

• While a lush, full tree is beautiful, it actually may not be ideal for those who love to fill their tree with decorations. If you pack in the pretties, pick a tree with more space between branches.

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F rontga te

Forever Greens Today’s faux tree offerings bear little in common with what your parents put up when you were a kid. Most people prefer faux trees because of the many pre-lit options. But it’s important to also consider the needles themselves.

Here’s a primer on what to look for when you’re shopping for faux:

CL ASSIC PVC TREE NEEDLES Okay, this is exactly what your parents put up when you were little. The rectangular ends of the needles and the material they’re made from are often not the most realistic, but they do create a very full look. These trees are a great option if you plan to add your own flocking. They also tend to be the less expensive options.

TAPERED PE NEEDLES F ron tga te

Otherwise known as polyethylene plastic needles, these molded branches have the look of a real evergreen. Trees with only polyethylene needles tend to look more rustic and can be somewhat sparse.

MIXED NEEDLES These trees utilize classic PVC needles to create fullness, then feature PE needles at the tips to create the most realistic look. It’s the best of both worlds! Some even utilize long needles, reminiscent of white pine trees.

FANCY NEEDLES From feathers to tinsel, fiber optic and beyond, there are so many options out there! These trees allow you tons of creativity and kitschy fun.

Flocked & Fabulous

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DECOR TI P

To save money on buying flocked trees, there are DIY techniques to create your own flocked tree!

Blogger Krista from The Happy Housie has a step-by-step guide you can follow to flock-on like a pro!

Don't call it a comeback: flocking is a retro tree trend that has been gaining popularity in recent years... and we're confident it's here to stay!

Flocking creates the look of freshly fallen snow over the tree's branches. This velvety coating offers a wintry look that will feel like you stepped outside into a winter wonderland.

Fair warning: a flocked tree can be messy!

While flocking can be added on after you've purchased your tree, there's less mess - and less stress with a tree that comes pre-flocked. Still, you will want to take extra care when packing the tree away to ensure that the flocking isn't damaged... as well as your floors!

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Holiday meals bring everyone together and make everyone feel the magic of the season. Make sure your table brings all that whimsy and cheer to the moment!

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Set the Scene

with Detailed Tablescapes

Layering plates, placemats, napkins, and chargers adds a ton of visual interest. It also makes every place setting feel personally curated. Use heirloom pieces if you can for even more family magic.

Charger : Antique White 13” Plastic Charger (Event Decor Direct). Dinner Plates: Stewart Plaid 8-Piece Dinnerware Set (Pottery Barn) and Reindeer Starter Plate (Mrs.Alice). Accents: Arte Italica Vetro Hollywood Gold Accent Wine Glass (Kathy Kuo Home) and Red Bordeaux Napkins (Williams Sonoma).

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Charger : Lace Embossed Acrylic Plastic Charger Plate in Blush (CV Linens).

Dinner Plate: Provencal Sky Dinner Plate by Lenox (Replacements LTD).

Accents: Fringed Dinner Napkins in Navy and Vintage Etched Wine Glasses (Williams Sonoma) and Faux Frosted Pinecone Napkin Rings (Pottery Barn).

Fe nwick F i el d s

must try

Holiday Cocktail WO ODFORD RESERVE®

CH RIST MA S C OBBLER INGREDIENTS • 2 oz. Woodford Reserve Wheat Whiskey • 1/2 oz. tawny port • 1/2 oz. lemon juice • 1 oz. cranberry sauce

INSTRUCTIONS 1) Add ingredients to a shaker tin with ice.

2) Shake vigorously until chilled and diluted 3) Strain into a rocks glass with ice.

4) Garnish with three cranberries on a pick.

Plates: Bordallo Pinheiro Large Cabbage Dinner Plates (Williams Sonoma) and Johnson Brothers Old Britain Castles Pink Christmas Salad Plate (Amazon). Accents: Scalloped Edge Blush Napkin (Matouk) and Sage Green Wave Coupe Glass (House of Nomad Design).

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• Swap the towels in your guest bathroom for a set in a holiday-inspired hue.

• Don’t forget the pets! Holiday-themed toys and pet beds are so cute.

• Throw blankets in cozy plaids will offer all the snuggly winter vibes.

• Swap vase and bowl fillers for ornaments, snow, fairy lights or greenery.

• Throw pillows are the easiest holiday swap!

• Hang your holiday cards as a fun, free decoration.

• Miniature trees in guest rooms and kids’ spaces bring lots of holiday magic.

• When in doubt, a lit holiday-scented candle will do all the work for you.

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Many people are turning to reusable fabrics as a wrapping option, such as scarves, handkerchiefs and even sweaters! This serves as a fun bonus gift for the recipient, so it seems like a win/win to us. Others are utilizing yarn, twine and wool roving to create a fabulous natural look. And don’t forget fun pom poms and tassels!

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Nothing screams luxury quite like velvet. Use velvet ribbon to add a touch of luxe to your gift; even better if you layer it with a wider grosgrain ribbon. Meanwhile, a wrapping paper with a flocked design can mimic the look of velvet.

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Bold letters are very on-trend. We love the idea of creating a unique faux-monogram for each of your recipients’ gift tags. Whether you go funky or old school, this will feel so special.

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Once all the loops are formed, tie a long piece of ribbon around the center to make the tails of the bow.

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Pretty Palettes HOLI DA Y

Whether you’re drawn to natural winter textures, glitz and glam or soft muted pastels... there’s many rising holiday decorating color palettes to try to create a beautifully decorated home this season!

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COLOR TREND

Pantone Approved Pantone’s 2023 Color of the Year, Viva Magenta, is a show-stopper.

This bright, vibrant pink is such an unexpected choice for the holiday season. We love pairing it with pale pink and blue for a look that’s modernmeets-classic. Add lots of white to your home’s décor to make this shine.

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Top Left to Right: Poppy Christmas Stocking by Furbish Studio (Maisonette), Jolly Santa Enameled Jaye Tray (Jayes Studio), Pink Flocked Resin 12in Reindeer (Walmart), Pleated Tree Set, (Maisonette), KI Store Hot Pink Christmas Ball Ornament Set (Amazon). Bottom Left to Right: Rose Palette Taper Candles (Annie Selke), Sonoma Goods For Life Green Merry Throw Pillow (Kohls), Magenta 20x20 Rajmahal Velvet Pillow (Laura Park).

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Southern Blue If you’re having a blue Christmas, you’re right on trend! We are big fans of ginger jars for any season, but they truly shine at Christmastime. This monochromatic trend invites you to use interesting textures and patterns for visual impact. This looks great with metals and creamy white.

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T his is O u r B lis s Top Left to Right: Bleu Heirloom Garland (Frontgate), Blue Blossom Handpainted Porcelain Vase (Inviting Home), Linden Street Woven Plaid Square Throw Pillow (JC Penny). Bottom Left to Right: Noble Holiday North Sky Scented Novelty Candle with Glass Holder (Wayfair), Chinoiserie Trees Candles (Battery Operated Candles), Scallop Rattan Tray (Serena & Lily), Chinoiserie Santa by Karen Didion Originals (Wayfair).

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Top Left to Right: The Three Wisemen (Willow Tree), Celine Tree Pillow in Beige (Maisonette), Cypress Winter Swag with Bells and Velvet Bow (Lights.com). Bottom Left to Right: Braided Jute Ball Ornaments (Pottery Barn), Farmhouse Pottery Wooden Village (Garnet Hill), Pinecone Stems (Grandin Road), 2-Piece Woven Holiday Tabletop Tree Set (Wayfair).

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Earthy Farmhouse Natural textures and hues will make everyone feel right at home.

Oversized greenery and pinecones bring that wonderful woodland feel.

Use decorations that are flocked, knit, woven, faux bois or made of clay for a truly cozy look. Pair this with rustic woods and chunky knit throws.

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Top Left to Right: 72” Gold Faux Garland (Joss and Main), Delancey Embroidered Pillow (Pottery Barn), Set of 3 Antique Gold Taper Candle Holders (Afloral). Bottom Left to Right: Gilded Nutcracker Soldiers, Set of Two (Frontgate), 25” Hammered Metal Christmas Tree Collar Matte Gold by Wondershop™ (Target), Majestic Deer, 22” and 32” (Z Gallerie).

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Gilded Beauty Who doesn’t love a little sparkle?

While metallic pieces are always on-trend for the holidays, this year’s look is decidedly more elegant. To achieve this look, mix your metals: think bright gold with bronze, pewter with brass. This upscale look pops against moody black.

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COLOR TREND

Candy Land Peppermint patterns offer such a classic, whimsical look, but the limited color palette makes this fun trend feel just a little more grownup. If you want to incorporate metallic elements, we recommend silver and pearly white. This looks best set against neutrals.

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Top Left to Right: Scalloped Ceramic Catchall in Red (Mark and Graham), Christmas Red Velvet Ribbon (Amazon), 15” Christmas Wood Nutcracker by Place & Time (JOANN), Candy Cane Two-Tiered Tray (Bed Bath & Beyond), Ornament Shaped Scented Candles (Pottery Barn), RAZ Imports Kringle Candy Co. Ribbon Candy Tree (Amazon). Bottom Left to Right: Candy Cane Shaped Pillow (Kirklands Home), 8” Christmas White Peppermint Lollipop Tree Pick (JOANN), Red and White Ball Ornament Set (Amazon).

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Classic Christmas It seems like everyone is craving a good ol’ fashioned family Christmas this year. Tartan plaids and flocked greenery offers a traditional look. Keep this look fresh by incorporating a few trendy figures or ornaments in classic red or green. Pair this look with a fireplace and a mug of cocoa!

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Top Left to Right: Classic Greenery Faux Wreath (Williams Sonoma), Stewart Tartan Stocking by Juliska (Wayfair), Merry Christmas Metal Wall Sign (Magnolia). Bottom Left to Right: Italian Plaid Monogrammed Throw Blanket (Mark and Graham), Holiday Stewart Plaid Tray (Pottery Barn), Glitzhome® 14.75” Green Christmas Tree Table Décor (Michaels).

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Pretty Pastels This charming look keeps things light and airy. Sugar shop pastels bring a touch of whimsy to your décor; here, we’ve featured pieces that take that literally! This is a great opportunity utilize pearls, subtle shimmer and pretty florals.

This works best in homes that are already pastel perfect.

Top Left to Right: Resin LayeGingerbread Icing Tree (Wayfair), Beachcomber Cotton Throw (Serena & Lily), Sage Beaded Mercury Ball Ornament (Oriental Trading), Shatterproof Lux Pearl Ornaments Set (Pottery Barn), Christmas Fir Tree Throw Pillow Cover (Luv Unique Home Etsy), Donuts Christmas Nutcracker (Wayfair).

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Floral Pop Florals for Christmas? Groundbreaking!

This look will bring a little bit of spring to your winter holidays. We love the color-coordinated florals wrapping the tree like garland. Finish this look with a wicker or rattan tree collar and lots of bright accessories. We love this look paired with warm whites and soft tones.

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Top Left to Right: Super Premium Dogwood Branch 58” Bendable Spray (Shop Wild Things), Handcrafted Beachcomber Basket Tree Collar (Pottery Barn), Breigha Temple Ceramic Green and White Floral Chinoiserie Decorative Stoneware Jar (Wayfair), White Polka Dot Felted Wool Christmas Stocking (World Market), Knitted Floral Throw Blanket (Wayfair), Bejeweled Botanical Garland (Frontgate).

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SPO NSO RE D CO NTE NT

Let’s raise a glass to our local business owners and thank them for doing what they do, every day, all day.

Because nobody knows their business better, and we salute them for their hard work and dedication. Cheers!

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JUSTIN TAYLOR E vo lve 2 Pe r for m Evolve 2 Perform began as a mobile basketball training service more than 15 years ago and has since grown into a 7,000-square-foot facility offering group basketball and Vertimax classes, private lessons, specialty clinics/ camps, leagues, court rentals, pickleball, and more. The facility was developed for the entire community, offering a safe and welcoming space for people to come together, pursue their love for the game, and build valuable life skills, fostering a sense of unity and camaraderie that transcends the bounds of the basketball court.

“Evolve 2 Perform offers a specialized environment to help student athletes develop the skills needed to perform better on the court, in the classroom and in their communities,” he said. “The sport opened many doors for me throughout my life and career, and I am blessed to be able to give back to the same city that I grew up in,” says the Lexington native.

As a former professional basketball player who once graced courts overseas in numerous countries, Justin now makes a profound impact on the community by extending opportunities and inclusivity through his program. Evolve 2 Perform participates in a scholarship initiative made possible by government-funded resources, enabling youth of all backgrounds to access top-tier basketball training.

“One of the most important lessons I learned as a business owner is to always move with intention, create a task list and be able to prioritize,” he reflected. “And always remain humble.”

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DR. NICOLE FREELS Lex ington Po di at r y + M o d ern Po di at r i s t

Serving patients for more than 15 years through Lexington Podiatry and for another eight with her product line, Modern Podiatrist, Dr. Nicole Freels has delivered care that combines medical expertise and exceptional holistic attention.

“Our focus is patient experience while offering the most advanced technology and procedures in a fun, friendly and spalike environment,” Dr. Freels explained.

“We utilize the traditional building blocks of medicine with a focus on regenerative medicine and treating the patient as a whole, not just their feet. And while running a busy medical practice, we’ve strategically reduced our patient load to be able to provide an elevated experience for all.”

Inspired by her Grandfather Dr. Freels has designed a full footcare line designed for at home treatment solutions. This line begins with all natural ingredients enhanced with modern medicine. This upgrades them to prescription strength. These solutions are delivered right to your doorstep, helping you treat everything from pain to toenail fungus to dry and callused skin. And beyond all of their daily work with patients, Modern Podiatrist and Lexington Podiatry remain committed to serving the community.

“We offer free foot exams for our local laborers and even visit different schools to evaluate children to offer preventative care,” Dr. Freels said. “We also participate in numerous running events, helping those with injuries suffered during the races.”

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DERRICK WHITAKER D e r r i ck W hi t ake r D es i gns Running his massively popular and eponymous design firm, Derrick Whitaker offers a range of services to revitalize clients’ homes, from dedicated consultations, to 3D renderings, to custom vanities, cabinets, countertops and more.

“I have been in the kitchen and bath industry since 1994,” Whitaker explained. “Kitchens are one of my favorite rooms but also one of the most challenging. The space must be maximized with an eye to function, as well as aesthetics. It’s the hub of activity and truly an investment in the value of your entire home.”

Above all, Whitaker emphasizes that one size does not fit all in the design business, and he always approaches each job on an individual basis, adapting to fit the specific needs of every client. Similarly, he brings a dedication to impacting individual lives in his work with the wider Lexington community.

“I try to be involved with local charities and nonprofits that are specially catered to the needs of children, having adopted six children of my own,” he concluded. “I can’t think of a better way of giving back than by helping those most in need.”

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TREY MCCALLIE Realty On e G roup

When Realty One Group was looking to plant a flag in Kentucky, it knew the best man for the job would be Trey McCallie, now the Principal Broker for Realty One Group Bluegrass. When he was first approached with the idea, he was looking for a new opportunity and he found that the company’s brand reputation, its business momentum and the cutting-edge access to technology it would provide his team made it the perfect fit for his next step.

“We wanted to serve our clients at a high level, we wanted to demystify the home buying process for firsttime buyers and we wanted to serve the luxury market,” McCallie recalled. “I think if you ask our clients, we have accomplished all of that and more.”

And while many factors have made the partnership between Realty One Group and McCallie a successful one, its position in Central Kentucky stands out as one of the biggest.

“This region is so easy to sell,” McCallie said. “When I talk to those who are relocating here, they are amazed by the natural beauty, low taxes, friendly people and the diversity of events and activities.”

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MANDI SNELL S o lut i o n s Fu nct i onal & H o r m o n e Me di ci ne After serving as an acute care nurse practitioner in one of the busiest urban emergency departments for more than 25 years, Mandi Snell discovered the power of “functional medicine” and found a new tool that could help her patients. To continue changing their lives for the better, she introduced Solutions Functional & Hormone Medicine and has been delivering results for clients ever since.

“Having tools to address the original cause of ailments like brain fog, anxiety, depression, weight gain, low mood, low motivation, joint pain, low libido, hair loss and insomnia is a resource I cannot keep to myself,” Snell said. “Is hormone therapy for everyone? No. But everyone deserves the conversation.”

As she welcomes those who have been underserved by legacy treatments to explore the tools that might be central to their improved wellbeing, Snell seeks to create a healthier community in Central Kentucky and beyond, focusing on education above all.

“Clients don’t want to merely be told what they need, they want to know why,” she said. “That’s why our consultations are long appointments, they are mini seminars, one on ones in endocrinology.”

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DR. PAUL HESTER & CHASITY HESTER

Be M e di s pa

In 2004, Dr. Paul Hester and Chasity Hester, PA-C, envisioned Be Medispa as a haven of transformation in Lexington, Kentucky, where patients could find cutting-edge treatments and an unrivaled experience of care and compassion.

What do you like best about owning a company?

DR. PAUL HESTER: Owning a company like Be Medispa is incredibly fulfilling because it allows us to witness the positive transformations and newfound confidence in our patients.

CHASITY HESTER: For me, the best part is the opportunity to build a close-knit community within our team and among our patients.

What do you like best about owning a company in Lexington, Kentucky?

DR. PAUL HESTER: Lexington holds a special place in our hearts. The people of Lexington are not just patrons; they are our neighbors, our friends.

CHASITY HESTER: It’s a city where people appreciate quality. The community’s openness to new ideas and innovations has allowed us to push boundaries and explore new avenues in medical aesthetics.

Why Aesthetics Medicine?

DR. PAUL HESTER: Aesthetics medicine is a harmonious blend of artistry and science. We were drawn to it because it allows us to combine our medical expertise with our passion for creativity.

CHASITY HESTER: It’s not just about enhancing appearances; it’s about empowering people to feel confident and comfortable in their skin.

Every face and body is unique. We find great joy in tailoring our approach to bring out the natural beauty in every person we meet.

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KAREN CONDI Wo r k s p ac e St rat e gi es

Karen Condi launched Workspace Strategies in 2007 with a primary mission: to assist real estate investors in achieving the pinnacle of yield on their investments. A unique blend of strategies includes optimizing the use, design, and management of coworking spaces to enhance the profitability for her clients.

As President of Workspace Strategies, Karen has developed a unique approach that provides the maximum benefit to those who look to her for leadership and expertise. “Transforming a space into a flex workspace or coworking space, as opposed to its conventional commercial use, can typically yield 1.3 to 1.6 times higher profitability,” says Condi. “When the market conditions align, it’s a clear choice. The journey usually begins with a comprehensive feasibility study focused on the potential market dynamics.”

Karen has built a team of experts and describes her leadership style in the culture of coaching. “Coaching Leadership is a style that focuses on the personal and professional development of individuals within a team or organization,” she explained.

By helping her team reach their full potential, achieve their goals and improve their performances, Condi is able to continually exceed the expectations of her clients and, ultimately, offer support to investors across the United States.

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DEBBIE MOSSBARGER The Fron t Porch

With nearly 50 years of serving Lexington, The Front Porch has become a go-to source for stationary, seasonal decor, home furnishings and gifts that celebrate any occasion.

And since 2019, it has been growing under the direction of owner Debbie Mossbarger who has continued to deliver things that no other local business can.

“We’re unique for our fun environment, exceptional variety of gifts at every price point, list of vendors that can’t be found anywhere else and team of 20 ladies from every age that want to be part of a family,” Mossbarger said. “It’s a pleasure to contribute to a community that continues to support local businesses in a way that surpasses any place I have ever seen.”

In everything The Front Porch does, Mossbarger aims to create the kind of environment that customers want to return to and where staff want to be. As a lifelong Lexington resident, she’s focused on making it a community staple for 40 more years and beyond.

“I get to work with my friends each day,” she said. “I also get to work with our amazing customers, who feel a whole lot like family.”

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MARK FICHTNER & JAYME JACKSON FICHTNER C ar s o n’ s Fo o d & D r i nk Nearly 7 years ago when owner Mark Fichtner first opened the doors at Carson’s on Main St, he was determined to establish a restaurant unlike any he had ever worked for. “At Carsons, we are a family.

That is a statement that many companies attempt to embody but each day we strive to live it. From its earliest concept, Carsons was built to be a welcoming “come as you are” atmosphere that offers consistently well executed menu options served up with welcoming hospitality. In Lexington you have a choice of where to eat and we are grateful every day that you choose Carsons” states Fichtner.

Fast forward 7 years and Mark never imagined just how much of a family business Carsons would become. In September, Mark married Jayme Jackson, former President of TOPS in Lexington in a lovely ceremony held at the restaurant. “I was introduced to Mark 6 years ago when he became my first client at TOPS. We’ve enjoyed a long friendship and it was an honor to marry him. Mark makes every day better and I enjoy learning from his leadership style and trying to crack the secret to his restaurant success.”

Jayme recently became President of Carson’s Food and Drink owned by the parent company Palate Restaurant Group. “We could not be prouder of the success and the team that we have at our Main Street location, and we are busily working on our second location, Carsons at Andover which is slated to open Spring of 2024. Located inside the new Carson’s at Andover is our event space, The Hudson. The Hudson is going to allow Carsons to host over 120 plus people for private events, weddings and corporate luncheons. After all, what’s better than lunch, brunch or dinner at Carsons? Getting to share it with a group of people that you care about” says Jayme.

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MELODY MARSHALL J ohn’ s Run/Wa lk S h op

Since 1978, John’s Run/Walk Shop has been helping customers find the best shoes for their feet, whether they’re a perfect fit for running, walking, working or playing. And since 2016, when original owner John Sensenig passed the business on to lifelong runner Melody Marshall, the business has been growing into the future while maintaining the things that have made it a community staple for so long.

“Our experienced staff is well trained and up-to-date on all shoe models and brands we carry, and are able to perform a gait analysis for every customer — a vital step in finding the right shoes,” Marshall explained. “Our ongoing training with our staff and vendors keeps us on our toes, and helps ensure we know the latest solutions for anything our customers might be going through.”

Running a business with 45 years of serving its community, Marshall knows that maintaining that legacy is going to be central to continued success.

“Creating relationships with customers is vital for the level of customer service we provide,” she said. “When you enter our stores, we want you to feel welcome and feel the uniqueness that can only be brought by an independent small business.”

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LENORA COSTANZO AND CHAD KINMAN T h e M ai lRo om

Since 1985, the MailRoom has met a variety of customer needs, serving as an office space for businesses that run the gamut, from answering, dating and transcription services to travel and insurance agents. But as times have changed, so has the MailRoom, growing into Lexington’s go-to place for all packing and shipping needs.

“We have added DHL shipping for international packages. We also offer document shredding, notary service, scan/email and Penske truck rentals,” owner Lenora Costanzo and manager Chad Kinman explained, touching on just a handful of the services that their business offers. “We have the best customers and truly enjoy helping them get their packages to the right place, on time and at a cost that meets their price range.”

In addition to their ability to evolve with the times, Costanzo and Kinman pointed to their willingness to learn from the people who make the MailRoom so great as a key to their success.

“Never underestimate what you can learn from your employees or your customers,” they said. “Ours have a wealth of knowledge, skills, experience and wisdom.”

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MEREDITH WILLETT South Hill G a lle r y

A little more than two years ago, Meredith Willett expanded on her three decades of local business ownership by purchasing South Hill Gallery, one of Lexington’s most prominent showrooms for unforgettable, visually-stunning artwork.

“We continue to promote and sell local artists’ work as well as work with customers in custom framing,” Willett explained. “And our photo lab has filled a needed niche in photo restoration and repair.”

Willett emphasized a resilient approach to leading businesses that has taught her to “eat an elephant one bite at a time.” So, as she works to improve the things that have made South Hill Gallery so successful since its opening in the 1970s, she is working with the support of her neighbors and the vibrant community of local creatives to grow it into the future as well.

“There is a plethora of opportunity here with the vast, diverse corporate community who hold you to high standards and remain loyal,” she reflected. “The arts are important to people here and well showcased in Lexington and Central Kentucky.

We strive to support the local art community by showcasing local talent as well.”

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LISAH BARBOUR N i ml o k Ke nt u cky In more than three decades of serving the Lexington area, Nimlok Kentucky has established itself as a leader in experiential branding, trade show design and trade show logistics services. And now, with Lisah Barbour taking over as the majority owner last year, it’s only strengthening its mission to help local businesses stand out.

“We have an expert team of sales consultants, designers, project managers and production/installation professionals that can help bring your brand to life,” Barbour said. “All branded projects are custom and use a variety of materials and substrates to fit any goal and budget. We love to flex our creative muscle and deliver finished pieces that make everyone say, ‘Who did that?!’”

And, quickly establishing success in her ownership role, Barbour shared the biggest lesson she’s learned as Nimlok grows in its ability to showcase the best of Central Kentucky.

“The most important lesson learned is the importance of people,” she reflected. “The two most important assets of a business are employees and customers. Without these people, a business won’t exist. Both employees and customers want to feel valued and appreciated so, as an owner, my goal is to invest in the wellbeing of employees and customers every day.”

2505 Te chnol og y Dr ive L ousiv ill e, K Y 40299 502-499-7566 niml ok-ke nt uck y.c om

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STEPHEN & ASHLEY ANDERSON

F lo oring b y D e s i g n Flooring By Design is a family business in the truest sense of the term. Owner Stephen Anderson grew up around the industry, with his family owning and operating flooring stores where he learned and worked every day. Today he operates Flooring By Design with his wife Ashley, and the couple are raising their own family around the business as they continue to deliver the best for clients.

“We truly set out to provide topnotch customer service all around,” the Andersons said. “We pride ourselves on our responsiveness to all situations.”

In addition to giving back to the industry that has been so central to their lives, Stephen and Ashley Anderson support their community through initiatives like Habitat For Humanity and holiday food drives throughout the region. Ultimately, their dedicated nature is something clients will always benefit from.

“The most important thing we have learned is to do what you say you are going to do, because word of mouth referrals are what keep small business going,” they said. “It is super important to ensure our customers are happy and satisfied.”

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PATRICK CARTER S t ay O ve r C abi ns When Patrick Carter and his family became determined to purchase a vacation home in Red River Gorge, they realized they wouldn’t be able to achieve their goals with the management companies they were meeting. So, he came up with a business plan for a short-term vacation rental company of his own and launched it three months later. Today, StayOver Management is one of the area’s most successful local businesses, helping others live the dream that Carter has worked so hard to achieve.

“StayOver is continuously expanding and growing every day, creating jobs in Red River Gorge,” Carter explained.

“We will continuously meet the needs of our 36 employees by offering a safe and exciting work environment, offering progressive training and a community that cares about developing its people.”

Carter expanded on this mission by pointing to company culture as the most important factor in growing a business.

“A good company culture engraved and set on strong values and principals will change the lives of employees, clients and guests,” he said. “If those who work within your organization are happy, feel appreciated, seen and heard, the clients and guests ultimately reap the fruits of that labor of love.”

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MICHAEL RIVARD AND BRANDON RIVARD

Rivard F ine J e w e lr y

After moving to Lexington in the 1950s, the Rivard family found a community that deserved perfection in their engagement rings, bridal jewelry, class rings, custom jewelry repair and more. With that pursuit in mind, it founded Rivard Fine Jewelry in 1984 and has been focused on delivering unparalleled quality ever since.

“It’s my opinion that being the absolute best at something is better than trying to be mediocre at a lot of things,” explained Brandon Rivard, the second-generation owner, who works closely with his father Mike to continue the Rivard legacy. “It’s always very important to put yourself on the other side of the counter and treat your customers the way you would expect to be treated as well.”

With the chance to build on Rivard Fine Jewelry’s reputation for excellence in the city where he was born and raised, Brandon Rivard finds satisfaction not only in serving as a leader in the jewelry industry but in doing so for his hometown.

“Nothing is more gratifying than having the pleasure of helping your friends, family and neighbors with celebrating life’s important moments with a beautiful piece of jewelry,” he concluded.

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SARAH FOX Ho us e o f Col ou r

Like so many others, Sarah Fox realized she was losing her sense of self as she transitioned into motherhood.

She found a roadmap to feeling great in her own skin through color and style. She launched House of Colour South Lexington to share that feeling with as many others as she can.

“Style is incredibly personal and so much more than short-lived trends,” she said. “Once I discovered that a few simple tools could make such an impact on my day-to-day, I knew I had to share. I provide color and style analysis to help others understand what clothing works best for them individually and assist with implementing that through personal shopping, closet clean outs and capsule wardrobes. My services are great for both men and women and both private or group sessions.”

Navigating the many challenges of owning her own business, Fox has counted on her genuine passion for helping others. Using her talents in fashion and style through House of Colour have been the key to her ongoing growth and success.

“Being a small business owner is not glamorous. Entrepreneurs must be passionate about what we do, who we are surrounded by and serving our community,” she said. “We come back day after day because we are so fortunate to be living our dreams. I love that I get to spread this light to everyone who walks through my door.

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“Building confidence and helping people believe in themselves again is something that has always meant so much to me,” Parker explained. “I’ve had to personally climb myself out of dark holes without the help of anyone and it’s something I wouldn’t wish on another. I became a certified life coach four years ago because I wanted to be able to help guide and inspire others to live happier, more fulfilled lives.”

In her journey to become a leading life coach in Lexington — through her own struggles to find happiness, her journey toward certification and in the continued work she does with clients of all types — Parker has found that these services are needed now more than ever, and that there is nothing but room for Bad Ashe Coaching to grow.

“Children and adults bully one another instead of lifting each other up,” she said. “Businesses become toxic and unsuccessful when they simply need a little help with team and relationship building. People are living unhappy in marriages or relationships and are afraid to leave or change. I simply want to show people that they do not have to live unhappily.”

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Meet...

Amy E. Dougherty has been a member of Bluegrass Elderlaw, PLLC more than 10 years.

Amy focuses her practice on assisting older persons in qualifying for Medicaid long term care. Amy creates Wills, Powers-of-Attorney, Advanced Directives, and Trusts for her clients. She enjoys special needs planning for persons with disabilities. Previously, Amy practiced elder law for Legal Aid of the Bluegrass.

Amy is a frequent lecturer and presenter on Elder Law topics. She is a graduate of the University of Kentucky where she earned her B.A. (History) and J.D. Degrees. Amy is a member of the Fayette County Bar Association, the Kentucky Bar Association (Elder Law Section), the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys, and the Academy of Special Needs Planners. She is admitted to practice in the Eastern District of KY, the Western District of KY, the Sixth Circuit Court of Appeals and the U.S. Supreme Court. Amy is a graduate of the 2017 Leadership Lexington class.

Amy serves on the Board of Directors for the non-profit Life Plan of Kentucky, Inc. She also serves on the board of the Statewide Independent Living Council.

A M Y E . D O U G H E RTY Mary Patton was born and raised in Lexington, Kentucky. She earned her B.A. in Communication magna cum laude from the University of Kentucky and her J.D. from the University of Dayton School of Law. Mary practiced law in Ohio for five years before returning home to Lexington. She has practiced at Bluegrass Elderlaw, PLLC since 2014 and has been a partner since 2020. Mary is licensed to practice law in both Kentucky and Ohio. She enjoys getting to know her clients on a personal level and understanding their family dynamics. These conversations help to construct strategies enabling clients to achieve their financial, legal, and health care goals.

Mary has held multiple leadership positions in her field of practice. She is a recent pastchair of the Elder Law Section of the Kentucky Bar Association and past president of the Kentucky Guardianship Association. She currently serves on the board of directors for the Fayette County Bar Association and the Kentucky Guardianship Association.

Mary has authored chapters in the Kentucky Practice Series, Elder Law Volume and the UK/CLE Elder Law Handbook and multiple continuing legal education articles. In 2019, she was named the Pro Bono Attorney of the year for her volunteer work with Legal Aid of the Bluegrass.

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Katie E. Finnell joined Bluegrass Elderlaw, PLLC in January 2017 as an Associate after spending several years as a sole practitioner. She joined the firm as a member in 2020.

Katie graduated from the University of Kentucky and earned her law degree from Northern Kentucky University, Chase College of Law. She is a member of the Kentucky Bar Association and the Fayette County Bar Association. She earned her LLM (legal masters degree) in Estate Planning and Elder Law from Western New England University in 2016.

Katie is the past CLE Committee Chair as well as the President of the KY Bar Association Elder Law Section.

Katie has a passion for helping others and frequently serves as a professional fiduciary for those needing a trusted person to appoint as power of attorney, executor, or trustee. She does everything for coordinate medical appointments and in home care givers to financial management and bill pay.

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LOC AL LI VI NG

Founded in 2010 by American Express, Small Business Saturday aims to drive traffic to local boutiques, shops and vendors during the busy holiday season. Held the day after “Black Friday” each year, this event is a wonderful way to directly support our community. Here are some tips to help you make the most of this shopping event while doing the most to benefit local small businesses!

Follow Businesses on Social Media Follow your favorite boutiques and local organizations on social media early in November.

Most businesses that offer SBS discounts will promote them on Facebook and Instagram. That said, even if a business doesn’t offer any type of discount, some host open houses and fun events that will make the shopping experience a festive, fun time!

Think Outside the Shopping Bag It’s called Small Business Saturday – not “Shopping Small Saturday.” There are a lot of businesses and vendors that participate in this event that aren’t typical brick-and-mortar boutiques or stores.

Local artisans, “experience” venues, restaurants, florists, candy shops and more are out there waiting to be explored!

Can’t Shop In-Person?

Don’t forget that many local businesses offer products or gift cards online! Some even have online exclusive sales for the holiday season!

Spread the Word

Small Business Saturday SATURDAY, NOV EM B ER 2 5 T H

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Tell everyone that you’ll be shopping local on SBS! The Small Business Saturday website offers graphics you can post on your social media to let your followers know you are committed to the #ShopSmall effort. By increasing awareness of shopping local, you’re helping businesses across the United States!

It’s Not Just One Day Shopping local is an everyday effort. Remember to shop locally throughout the holiday season – and all year long! •

Visit sba.gov/saturday to learn more!

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Holiday shopping has officially begun, and we’re sure you’re searching high and low for the perfect present for everyone on your list, whether naughty or nice! If you’re unsure where to do your holiday shopping this year, make sure to stop in and say hello at your local small businesses.

With many spots around town hosting open houses or having holiday sales, you’ll have everything checked off your list in no time.

Check out some of our favorite shops and boutiques in Lexington and beyond, where you can find the perfect holiday gift for all your loved ones!

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4 | 13" Pink Candy House Decoration, $56.99. 5 | Merry & Bright Tangled Snowman Outdoor Holiday Decoration, $199.

6 | Christmas in Paris Bath Balm Set, $38.

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peggy's gifts 1 | Chick-Fil-A Ornament, $20. 2 | "Taylor Swift and The Clothes She Wears", $30. 3 | Merry Sweatshirt, $45 4 | E-Newton 14K Gold Plated Bracelets - Starting at $42.00.

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little english 1 | Duck Hooded Towel, $44. 2 | Quilted Luggage Set in Pink Ballet, $240. 3 | Boy Lab Crochet Playsuit, $54. 4 | Bow Crochet Playsuit, $54.

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3 | Nutcracker Trio Hooked Lumbar PIllow by Peking Handicraft, $86. 4 | "Old Saint Nick" Hand Painted Vietri Biscotti Jar, $244.

5 | Ceramic Cookie Jar by Certified International, $65.

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syers browning 1 | Enamel 4x6 Frames with Gold Trim, $68. 2 | Gold Foil Bee Notepad, $50. 3 | Costa Throw in Coral_$350.

4 | Hampton Bamboo Bottle Coaster, $30.

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4 | Lele Sadoughi Jet Lily Claw Clip $38. 5 | Heart of Gold Hart Necklace, $320. 6 | Large MAMA Hart Beaded Bracelet, $64.

7 | Lele Sadoughi Navy Corduroy Knotted Headband, $145.

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comfortably FESTIVE

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The coming holiday season means lots of family get-togethers where the dress code is decidedly casual.

But so much tasty home cookin’ means we’re all considering elastic waistbands. While you don’t have to be Lauren Hutton, we know you can strike a beautiful balance between festive and comfy without looking frumpy.

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Cropped Garçon Shirt (J.Crew)

The Fineloft Shrunken Sweater Vest (Madewell)

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Matched sets continue to be very much on-trend. But many definitely skirt into the “frumpy” category, especially looseygoosey knits.

Go with pieces that look tailored. This set at Ada & Lo is constructed using scuba modal fabric. It’s thicker, so it holds sharp edges and stands up. At the same time, it’s very stretchy so you’ll be comfortable all day.

Another trend that this look is nailing: the split hem. The slit allows it to fall nicely over your shoes without instantly puddling around your ankles. Wide-leg pants are very on-trend, but these are way more comfortable than jeans could ever be.

This outfit is basically a blank slate in terms of styling. Any top with clean lines would work here. White button-ups are very trendy for Fall/Winter 2023; if you want to double up on the trends, give everything a nipped waist with a corset top. Or, pile on the cozy with a fun sweater vest. A cropped jacket would look also fabulous!

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Champagne Diamond Yellow Gold Stud Earrings (Shelia Bayes)

Circus by Sam Edelman Ella Loafer (Urban Outfitters)

Calliope Bag in Papaya (Freedman’s)

Keep it easy: Merle Norman Tinted Lip Balm in Rose Kiss

Olive You Boutique

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Iris Setlakwe batwing sleeved cardigan (Carl Meyers)

A dress that skims the body without clinging is your comfy Swiss Army knife. This look styled by Olive You features a loose-fitting knit dress that has interesting details to catch the eye, like the wide collar, trim and puffed sleeves. She still looks plenty chic, even though she could easily be hiding a food baby under there.

e.Newton Round Gold Hoops (The Front Porch)

We love keeping these looks simple; pile on bracelets, wear a gold necklace (or two) and finish off the look with boots.

You may be tempted to swaddle this dress in a big duster cardigan. However, that’s going to look very dated. Instead, we suggest topping it with a structured crewneck sweater. To add some structure to the look, do a “belt tuck:” place a belt over the hem wherever you’d like the sweater to fall, preferably above your natural waist, then fold the sweater over it. You could also go with a cropped or waist-length cardigan.

Canvas Pendant Necklace (explore styles at My Favorite Things)

If you want a coat, go with a large, structured blazer or a trench.

Avoid a denim jacket if you’re wearing cowboy boots; it’s going to give a little too much “yee-haw” here.

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Gabriel & Co. 14K Yellow Gold Bujukan Diamond Teardrops Bangle (Rivard Fine Jewelry)

Pumpkin Spice Kentucky Tee (KY for KY)

Violets Boutique 18K Gold Double Initial Custom Ring (BaubleBar)

Rib-Knit Midi Skirt (Old Navy)

Linny H2O Brown Suede Boot (Peggy’s Gifts & Accessories)

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Flannel is the unofficial fabric of fall. Shackets remain fully in vogue, and we couldn’t be happier. That said, these shapeless garments can require careful styling to look current and cool.

Here, Violets rolled up the sleeves of their flannel and piled on bracelets. That’s a great move, as it cuts down on the visual bulk.

We love building layers with shackets. A pair of straight-legged jeans with a white button-up and a sweater vest will keep you cozy while making you look super stylish. Alternately, try tucking a casual tee or ribbed knit top into a midi skirt under your flannel. We even support layering flannels; try a plain shacket over a plaid flannel.

If you want to avoid looking dated, our first recommendation would be do not wear a hat, especially one with a wider brim; that look has the early 2010s written all over it. The same goes for skinny jeans and boots that expose your ankle with cut-outs or extremely low shafts. Speaking of jeans, don’t go overly wide, distressed or baggy, as the overall look will be sloppy.

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Siena Italian Wool Blazer (Banana Republic)

Sunshine Tienda Rancher Block Drop Earrings (Tuckernuck)

Almost Perfect Convertible Crossbody (Portland Leather)

Ladybug Sneaker (Tory Burch)

Real Deals

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Okay, you know what? It probably sounds like we’ve got something against looking a tiny, eensy, little, baby bit slouchy.

In actuality, there’s nothing wrong with prioritizing comfort over fashion… to a point.

The key to any successful outfit – whether red carpet-ready or ready for bed – is always balance. Offset your most casual pieces with others that bring a little something extra to the table.

Above, the team at Real Deals paired their ulta-casual look with sparkly sneakers, sleek jewelry and some fabulous shades. The voluminous joggers are balanced by tucking in the tee.

Joggers are a divisive article of clothing, but we think that’s nonsense. We happen to love a pair of joggers with a tucked turtleneck, or styled with a denim jacket. Shorter ones like these look great with sneakers or heels. Add a very structured bag and you’re ready to roll.

In other words? Get playful with it! Mix casual and structure.

And don’t shy away from some shine.

Gold Tone Crocodile Heart Necklace (Lacoste) Friendsgiving Tee (Tipsy Elves)

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Discover the Beauty of Custom Jewelry with the experts at

GEM SOURCE E very piece of jewelry tells a story. Since 1989, Jim Salyer and the Gem Source team have been a part of countless stories – from engagements to holiday memories. They’re eager to be a part of your next chapter, whether you’re celebrating a special moment or simply celebrating your own unique style.

Gem Source offers incredible custom jewelry design services. They also want everyone to know that getting a unique piece of jewelry is easier – and more exciting – than you might expect!

First, why might someone consider a custom jewelry piece? One reason is that we all love something exceptional. A custom piece can be completely tailored to your tastes, so you never have to settle for something you don’t love. Some customers choose to pursue a custom design because they want a piece which perfectly complements their selected stone. Some people get custom jewelry designed to match the style and look of a piece they already own and love, such as earrings and a bracelet to match their engagement ring. Others simply want something they know nobody else will have – and we can’t blame them!

As members of the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) Alumni Association, Jewelers of America (JA) and American Gem Trade Association (AGTA), you can rest assured that this family-owned and operated business adheres to the strictest standard of quality and ethical trade practices. Their impeccable reputation in central Kentucky is owed to their incredible work, integrity and openness with their customers.

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So how does it work? The process begins with a conversation. You can meet in person with the Gem Source team to discuss the piece you are dreaming of.

They make it a point to understand what you’re looking for, your hopes for the piece and the budget you’re working with. They can make custom rings, pendants, earrings and bracelets, all based on your input. Whether you know exactly what you want or don’t know where to start, the staff can work with you to create something amazing.

Next comes the selection of the center stone. As their name suggests, Gem Source can find the perfect stone for your piece. Whether you want a stunning sapphire, a unique gem or a classic diamond, Gem Source can find something incredible; they are gemologist-trained professionals in jewelry – of all phases. You are also welcome to use their website to select a diamond of distinction. They can also upgrade heirloom and antique rings!

At this point, they will provide an expert 3D rendering of the proposed piece.

This allows you to see every detail from every angle. Subsequently, you can discuss the ins and outs of the piece and make any alterations you desire. For customers, this is a thrilling part of the process. Once you completely approve the design, Gem Source gets to work crafting your piece.

Gem Source specializes in creating unique, stunning jewelry.

The Gem Source staff encourages people to think outside of the box. Custom jewelry pieces will be a part of your wardrobe forever; shouldn’t they be exactly what you want? Gem Source can create something that will dazzle you and provide an unmatched customer experience. With financing options available, it’s never been easier to have the jewelry of your dreams!

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The latest beauty trends for fall include nude tones, browns, grunge glam, dewy skin and RED. Whether you like monochromatic and effortless or lips that make a statement, we like these looks a latte.

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Coffee Talk MERIT Signature Lip Lightweight Lipstick in Slip: Use this warm neutral to complement an evening smokey eye.

Kaja LOVE SWIPE Lip Mousse in Everygirl: This peachy nude is an adorable must-have in your bag.

Charlotte Tilbury Matte Revolution Lipstick in Super Fabulous and Lip Cheat Lip Liner in Iconic Nude: for For an everyday easy look, you can’t go wrong with Charlotte Tilbury!

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Eye See You Hourglass Scattered Light Glitter Eye Shadow in Vivid: Recreate the viral “Granny smith green” look! This olive offers a fun metallic pop on the eyes.

So Cheeky

Patrick Ta Major Dimension 3 Palette: Perfect for an everyday neutral makeup look or fall smokey eye. Both warm and cool tones are mixed in and it includes two potted eyeliners – brown and black – to complete any look!

Rare Beauty Soft Pinch Liquid Blush in Virtue: Try this for a dewy finish pop of warm color on the cheeks. Almost looks like you’ve been out in the cold and have a natural flush of color!

Chef’s Kiss ColourPop Lux Lipstick in Latte: This coffeeinspired hue has so much fun 90s flair!

Gisou Honey Infused Lip Oil: Enhance any look and give your lips a glossy, youthful finish.

MERIT Shade Slick Classics Tinted Lip Oil in Cara Cara: Use this soft red orange for all the autumn energy and a bold statement lip enhancer!

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Red is IN this fall: in beauty, in fashion, in hair. There’s nothing more classic than a red power pout.

Kosas Weightless Lip Color in Deep Talk: A neutral brick red that works for just about any skin tone.

Patrick Ta Matte Suede Lipstick in That’s Why She’s Late: For a pop of red!

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REC I PE S

in season:

SWEET POTATOES Picture a sweet potato.

Go on, close your eyes and do it. It’s probably got brown skin and orange flesh. It’s good baked or made into fries, right?

Or maybe you’re picturing a big ol’ can labeled “Yams.”

You’ve probably been taught that “yam” and “sweet potato” are basically interchangeable terms. Well, they are most certainly not.

Yams have a much rougher, bark-like skin and their flesh is dry, neutral in flavor and starchy, like a potato; in fact, many yams have pale flesh just like an Idaho spud.

Sweet potatoes, on the other hand, generally have thinner red-brown skin with beautifully orange flesh and a much sweeter taste.

Except there are sweet potatoes with white flesh.

And also purple. (But, well, there’s also ube, which is a yam that’s completely purple. And neither is to be confused with the regular ol’ purple potato. Hoo-boy, that’s a lot of tubers!)

Why the confusion? In the early 20th century, Southern sweet potato growers adopted the African word, “yam,” to distinguish sweet potatoes from regular potatoes, especially for canned goods. And that solves the mystery of why you think you eat yams every year; canned sweet potatoes are often labeled as such in great, big letters… so big, you hardly notice the USDA-required label of “sweet potatoes” right under that.

I will concede that “yam” sounds way more interesting and does, indeed, remove a layer of confusion between sweet potatoes and potatoes. But if you bake up an actual yam thinking it’s a sweet potato, you’ll see why it’s a misconception that needs clearing up.

Yams are often used when a recipe needs a potato that will hold its shape after heating; they’re commonly served alongside braised meats or in Asian dishes. Yams can also be pounded into fufu, often called swallow, a traditional food of the African diaspora.

So why would you use anything other than the standard, orangefleshed sweet potato you can reliably find at your local grocer?

White-fleshed sweet potatoes tend to be a bit drier, so they’re good in recipes where you need to control for moisture, such as gnocchi or other pasta. Purple sweet potatoes are most often used simply for their beautiful color! As with any other vegetable, specialty varieties of sweet potato bring differences in sweetness and flavor.

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Split-Topping Sweet Potato Casserole CASSEROLE • 4 c. sweet potatoes, cooked and mashed • 1 c. light brown sugar • 1/3 c. heavy cream • 1/2 tsp. ground cinnamon • 1/4 tsp. ground nutmeg • 1 tsp. vanilla • 1 T orange juice

Preheat oven to 350°F. Coat a 13x9” baking dish with cooking spray.

TOPPINGS • 1/2 c. butter, room temperature • 1 1/2 c. pecans, roughly chopped • 1 c. light brown sugar • 1/4 c. flour • mini marshmallows

Bake for 25 minutes, until center is heated through and marshmallows have melted. (adapted from recipe by Joshua Grotheer)

In a large mixing bowl, combine all sweet potato ingredients, stirring until fully incorporated. Pour into prepared baking dish.

In a clean mixing bowl, combine the pecan topping by mixing the butter, pecans, light brown sugar and flour. Crumble over half the sweet potatoes.

Spread mini marshmallows over the other half.

Note: We love that this recipe basically gives everyone a bite of what they love; marshmallow fiends get their sweet, fluffy bite while folks who like a savory-sweet casserole get to enjoy their pecan-crusted dream. Finally, peace at the dinner table... for five minutes, at least.

Mediterranean Baked Sweet Potatoes POTATOES • 4 medium sweet potatoes • 1 15oz. can chickpeas, drained • 1/2 T olive oil • 1/2 tsp. cumin • 1/2 tsp. coriander • 1/2 tsp. cinnamon • 1/2 tsp. paprika GARLIC HERB SAUCE • 1/4 c. hummus or tahini • 1 T lemon juice • 3/4 tsp. dried dill • 3 cloves garlic, minced TOPPING • 1/4 c. cherry tomatoes, diced • 1/4 c. chopped parsley • 3 T red onion, finely chopped • 2 T lemon juice

Preheat oven to 400°F. Line a large, rimmed baking sheet with foil.

Rinse and scrub sweet potatoes, then half lengthwise.

Toss chickpeas with olive oil and spices. Place on foil-lined sheet.

Rub potatoes with additional olive oil. Place face-down on baking sheet. Roast until sweet potatoes are fork tender, about 25 minutes.

Add sauce ingredients to a mixing bowl; whisk to combine. If necessary, add water to thin to your desired consistency.

Prepare topping by tossing ingredients together, then setting aside to marinate.

Flip potatoes fresh-side up. Use a fork to lightly press down the insides, or slightly mash, if you wish. Top with chickpeas. Drizzle with garlic herb sauce, then lightly sprinkle with topping. (adapted from Minimalist Baker) Note: This is a much more exciting alternative to a simple baked sweet potato.

The sweet-savory combination is wonderful. This is great as a side or a meat-free main dish. If you want to serve it on your Thanksgiving table, skip the topping, as it may be a bit too bold by contrast.

THE Thanksgiving Side Dish • 2 cloves garlic, minced • 3 T olive oil • 2 T maple syrup • 2 tsp. balsamic vinegar • 2 sweet potatoes, peeled and cubed • 1 lb. Brussels sprouts, trimmed and halved • 1/2 c. dried cranberries • 1/2 c. toasted pecans, chopped or halved

Preheat oven to 400°F. Line a large, rimmed baking sheet with foil.

In a large bowl, combine garlic, olive oil, syrup and balsamic vinegar.

Add sweet potatoes and Brussels sprouts, and toss to combine.

Add sweet potatoes and Brussels sprouts to baking dish. Roast for 20 minutes.

Remove from oven and add cranberries and pecans. Mix well, and return to oven for another 10 minutes. (adapted from Giangi’s Kitchen) Note: As the title suggests, this is the perfect Thanksgiving side dish. It’s an easy recipe that’s fairly hands-off, but full of the flavors of the season.

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Patti LaBelle’s Sweet Potato Pie PATTI’S FAVORITE PIE DOUGH • 1 1/2 cups unbleached allpurpose flour • 1/2 teaspoon salt • 1/2 cup chilled butter-flavored vegetable shortening • 1/2 cup ice water, as needed Sift the flour and salt into a medium bowl. Add the shortening. Using a pastry blender or two knives (drawing them apart in a crisscross pattern), cut the shortening into the flour until the mixture resembles coarse crumbs with a few pea-sized bits.

Stirring with a fork, gradually add enough of the water for the mixture to clump together (you may not need all of the water).

When you press the dough together, it should be moist and malleable, without cracking, so add a bit more water if need be. Gather up the dough and press it into a thick disk. Wrap in plastic wrap or waxed paper and refrigerate for 30 minutes to 1 hour. The dough is easiest to roll out if it is chilled but not hard. (The dough can be refrigerated for up to 1 day. If the dough is chilled until it is very firm, let it stand at room temperature for about 10 minutes to soften slightly before rolling it out.)

PATTI’S WHIPPED CREAM • 1 cup heavy cream • 2 tablespoons confectioners’ sugar • 1 teaspoon vanilla extract Freeze a medium bowl until it is chilled, about 5 minutes. Add the cream, confectioners’ sugar, and vanilla. Whip with an electric mixer on high speed until the cream forms soft peaks. (The cream can be covered and refrigerated for up to 1 day. If it separates, whisk until thickened.)

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PIE • Patti’s Favorite Pie Dough • 2 1/2 pounds orange-fleshed sweet potatoes, about 5 medium, scrubbed but unpeeled • 1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, melted • 1 cup granulated sugar • 1/2 cup evaporated milk (See Patti’s Pointers below) • 2 large eggs • 1 teaspoon freshly grated or ground nutmeg • 1 teaspoon ground cinnamon • 1/4 teaspoon salt • Patti’s Whipped Cream Unwrap the dough and place it on a lightly floured work surface. Sprinkle some flour over the top of the dough. Roll out the dough into a 12- to 13-inch round about 1/8 inch thick. Fit into a 9-inch pie pan. Trim the excess dough to make a 1/2-inch overhang around the edge of the pan. Fold the dough over so the edge of the fold is flush with the edge of the pan. Flute the edge of the dough. Pierce the bottom of the dough about a dozen times with a fork. Freeze the dough for 20 to 30 minutes.

Position a rack in the bottom third of the oven and preheat the oven to 375°F. Line the inside of the piecrust with aluminum foil. Fill the foil with pie weights, dried beans, or uncooked rice. Place the pan on a rimmed baking sheet.

Bake until the exposed dough looks set and is beginning to brown, 12 to 15 minutes. Lift up and remove the foil with the weights. Continue baking the piecrust until it looks dry on the bottom, about 10 minutes more. (If the piecrust puffs, pierce the crust with a fork.) Transfer to a wire cake rack.

Meanwhile, make the filling: Pierce each sweet potato a few times with the tines of a fork. Place them, in a spoke pattern, on the turntable of a microwave oven.

Cook on high (100%), turning the sweet potatoes over after 4 minutes, until they are tender, 8 to 10 minutes total. Let cool for a few minutes.

If necessary, return the oven temperature to 375°F. Using a kitchen towel to protect your hands, split each sweet potato and use a spoon to scrape the flesh into a medium bowl. Mash the sweet potatoes—you should have about 2 cups.

Using an electric mixer set on medium speed, beat in the melted butter. Add the sugar, evaporated milk, eggs, nutmeg, cinnamon, and salt and beat on low speed just until the sugar is dissolved. Spread the filling evenly in the pie shell. Place the pie on a baking sheet.

Bake for 15 minutes. Reduce the oven temperature to 350°F. Continue baking until the filling is set and doesn’t jiggle when the pie is gently shaken, about 30 minutes more. Transfer the pie to the wire rack and let cool completely. (The pie can be covered with plastic wrap and refrigerated for up to 1 day. Let stand at room temperature for 1 hour before serving.)

Slice the pie and top each serving with a dollop of whipped cream.

Patti’s Pointers: Why evaporated milk? Even if a farmhouse didn’t have a refrigerator, country folks usually had canned evaporated milk in the kitchen cupboard. This ingredient is rich and sweet because the excess water has been removed (evaporated) before canning.

(Excerpted from the Desserts LaBelle by Patti LaBelle. Copyright © 2017 by Pattonium Inc.)

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Sweet Potato Dip • 2 medium sweet potatoes • 2/3 c. plain Greek yogurt • 1 T light brown sugar • 1 tsp. lemon juice • 1/4 tsp. garlic powder • 1/4 tsp. ground cumin • 2 tsp. salt • 1 T chopped chives

Preheat oven to 400F. Line a rimmed baking sheet with foil, and set a wire rack inside baking sheet.

Prick potatoes with a fork. Place on the rack, leaving space between them. Bake until tender, about 45 minutes. Remove from oven and allow to cool completely.

Scoop out the flesh into a food processor (about 1 1/2 c. total) and add yogurt, brown sugar, lemon juice, garlic powder, cumin, salt and several grinds of black pepper, to taste. Process until combined, scraping down sides as needed. Transfer to a serving bowl, then fold in chives. (adapted from Food Network) Note: serve with warm pita chips.

Sweet Potato Bisque • 2 T butter • 3 cloves garlic, minced • 1 onion, finely chopped • 1/2” knob garlic, peeled and minced • 1 chipotle pepper, canned in adobo • 4 c. chicken broth • 1 1/4 c. apple cider • 2 large sweet potatoes, peeled and cubed • 3/4 c. heavy whipping cream

Add butter to a large dutch oven or soup pot over medium-high heat.

Once butter becomes foamy, add garlic, onion and ginger; sauté until tender and fragrant, about 3 minutes. Season liberally with salt and pepper. Add chipotle pepper with 1 T. sauce; sauté 1 minute longer while mashing the pepper with the back of a wooden spoon.

Add chicken broth, apple cider and sweet potatoes. Bring to a simmer and cook until potatoes are tender, about 20 minutes.

Purée using an immersion blender. Finish by stirring in heavy cream. (adapted from Food Network)

Sweet Potato Pancakes • 1 c mashed sweet potatoes • 2 large eggs • 1/2 c. milk • 2 T light brown sugar • 1 T maple syrup • 3/4 c. all-purpose flour • 1 tsp. cinnamon • 1 tsp. baking powder • 1/4 tsp. salt • 1/4 tsp. nutmeg • 2 T melted butter (plus more for cooking)

In a large bowl, combine sweet potatoes, milk, brown sugar and maple syrup.

In a separate bowl, whisk together flour, cinnamon, baking powder, salt and nutmeg. Add to sweet potato mixture and stir until smooth.

Add melted butter and mix until combined.

Set a large skillet over medium heat. Add a pat of butter and allow to melt. (When a drop of water sizzles without dissolving right away, the temperature is perfect.)

Add 1/3 c. pancake batter to skillet. Cook until bubbles form on the top of the pancake and the edges are slightly set, 2-4 minutes. Flip and cook an additional 2-3 minutes. Repeat until all batter has been used. (adapted from Feel Good Foodie) Note: This is a terrific way to use up leftover sweet potatoes the morning after Thanksgiving. If you made sweet potato casserole that was sweet and already seasoned, skip the brown sugar, maple syrup, cinnamon and nutmeg. Just be sure you don’t get any marshmallows in the batter. Pecans, on the other hand, will work just fine! •

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Tuesday is coming up and I’d really like to help those in need. The holidays can Q: Giving be a difficult time for many, and I think this is a great time to consider the ways I can

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HI CHARLIE: First, let me say I appreciate your kindness and your desire to help those in need. There are several giving strategies that can benefit not only the recipient but also the giver.

One strategy is to consider gifting highly appreciated investments (such as stocks or mutual funds) to avoid capital gains you would normally incur if you sold the shares. Another strategy for those age 70 ½ (or older) is to consider gifting IRA assets to charity. Each year, up to $100,000 can be transferred directly from your IRA to a qualified charity. This is a tax-free IRA distribution, and the amount donated can count toward a required minimum distribution that must be taken each year for IRA owners age 72 or older. Finally, there are various charitable trusts or even donor advised funds that can implemented as a part of your estate and gifting plans.

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PLAYBOOK Your guide to having the best holiday possible... with your sanity fully intact.

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The Bird Word?

Americans eat around 704 million pounds of turkey every Thanksgiving. If it seems like your household accounts for a big chunk of that, you may want to keep reading… Picking the right turkey for your table is pretty confusing stuff.

Here’s a quick and dirty guide to picking the perfect bird:

Frozen vs. Fresh:

While frozen birds are pretty obvious, “fresh” only means that the bird is not currently frozen. If you want a turkey that has never been frozen, look for that specific labeling.

Kosher:

This turkey was slaughtered by a trained, Jewish butcher according to kosher laws. They’re also salted, which eliminates the need for brining.

Natural:

According to the USDA, this means the turkey has not had any artificial flavorings or preservatives added. This does not mean hormone-free.

Organic:

This turkey was fed organic feed and not treated with antibiotics, hormones or steroids.

Free-Range:

This is a legal definition, which requires the turkeys to be raised with “access” to the outdoors. There is wiggle room into how that is interpreted. This doesn’t necessarily mean the turkey was freely wandering the outdoors.

Pastured:

This is a non-regulated claim that often means the turkey was raised “free-range,” but with actual access to grass. If this is a concern for you, it’s best to select a bird raised on a farm you’re familiar with.

Self-Basting or Pre-Brined:

These have added salt, water, broth or seasonings injected into the meat. Adding this bird to a brine soak would be a waste of time. Many people describe these turkeys as spongy and flavorless. That said, if these birds were common in your family, it might also be the most familiar taste.

Heritage:

This turkey is a descendant of some of America’s earliest breeds. The meat has a stronger flavor - some may say it’s gamy. Heritage birds often have smaller breasts and legs compared to commercial turkeys, and are pricier.

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TOPTips:

Yeah, this perfectly-browned turkey? It’s (mostly) a food-styling lie. That said, you can get your bird’s skin a bit crispier with these steps: • Leave it uncovered in the fridge for several hours during thawing. This will dry out the skin.

• When you’re ready to cook, pat the skin dry with paper towels, then rub it generously with oil.

• Roast your turkey tented with foil, then let it rest uncovered to prevent steam from sogging up your skin!

Need Professional Turkey Help?

You’re Not Alone!

Did you know that there is an official Butterball® turkey help line? Their experts answer questions through the holiday season about all types of turkey troubles.

Did you also know that most of their calls are from people wondering what to do with their frozen bird? (Their best tip: please DO NOT try to use a hairdryer!)

The BEST way to thaw a frozen turkey is in the refrigerator, allowing 24 hours per five pounds of turkey. Round up if you’re not sure.

But if you need to thaw it the day-of, fully submerge the turkey (still in its packaging) in cold water. Change the water every 30 minutes, and allow roughly 30 minutes per pound to thaw.

If you’re deep frying the bird, it must be completely thawed. Putting a frozen (or even partially-frozen) turkey into the hot oil will cause a massive fire, full stop.

Don’t do it!

If you’re oven-roasting your turkey, you’ve got a little leeway. If it’s totally frozen, increase cooking time by fifty percent: if it’s partially frozen, about 25%.

Just check your meat thermometer for doneness: the USDA recommends 165°F. Still have more questions? The professionals on the Butterball® Turkey Talk-Line have an answer... no matter how silly you may think you question is!

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the vibes

Hosting means making everyone feel comfortable – even if you’re about to lose your marbles. Here are our tips for keeping the vibes very chill while keeping everyone out of your hair.

HAVE APPETIZERS READY. When people walk in, point them to appetizers they can graze on while chit-chatting. Strategically place these apps away from the kitchen.

BATCH-MADE COCKTAILS. Pre-mixed cocktails mean no one has to play mixologist. If your guests can behave, go ahead and let them serve themselves.

PLAY MUSIC. Nothing encourages people to mingle quite like a good playlist. Feel free to make separate playlists for the “cocktail hour,” dinner (to be played softly) and after dinner.

DELEGATE A KITCHEN BOUNCER. If you have some persistent guests who insist on “helping,” designate a friend or trusted family member who will gently redirect their well-meaning attention.

BRING TOPICS. Come to the dinner table with pre-planned topics of conversation, especially if some of your guests may feel like wallflowers.

Conversation cards would work here, too!

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Do It Ahead of Time

One of the most important “secret hacks” a Thanksgiving host can learn? Make whatever you can ahead of time!

• Pies. You will need to heat them before serving, anyway. And most pies won’t change a bit if you place them in the fridge for up to two days – or even longer in the freezer!

• Any casserole. Casseroles practically beg to be pre-prepped. Simply put everything in the appropriate dish the night before, cover tightly and refrigerate. It won’t add much time to the baking, but it will save you a lot of day-of sweat. Be sure to skip any elements that need to be crispy, such as cracker toppings or French’s fried onions; add those just before the casserole goes in the oven.

• Stuffing breads. Pre-prep the breads that will go into your stuffing.

Dry them in the oven the night before, and once cooled, put them in an airtight container overnight. This will save you a lot of time on Turkey Day! • Gravy. You might be one of those people who insists on using the juices of the bird from the big day, making gravy prep your last step.

But we’d ask… why? Not only is it a lot of hassle when everyone’s probably buzzing around the kitchen, getting everything ready for launch, but it’s a lot of pressure; what if the gravy doesn’t turn out right?

We suggest making the gravy the day before. Not only does this ensure you can enact a backup plan if things get lumpy, but it also allows the flavors in the gravy to really meld.

• Veggie prep. Don’t be shy about chopping up any veggies the night before you cook them. Some can even be blanched to cut down on cooking time!

Extra Pie Dough?

There always seems to be just a little pie dough leftover, whether it’s a few trimmed scraps or a whole shell’s worth. You can absolutely freeze it for later use, but why not make it work for you right now?

• Decorate! Roll out the dough and use small cookie cutters to cut out as many shapes as possible. Press them gently into the edge of your pie crust, or bake them separately and add to the top of the pie later.

We love the look of making little leaves and tucking them into piles of whipped cream.

• Make crackers! Roll out the dough and cut into small rounds, then brush with egg wash and lightly dock with a fork. Add seasoning, if desired, then bake.

• Make pigs in a blanket! Roll out the dough and cut into long, thin triangles. Place a smoked cocktail sausage on the widest end of the triangle, then roll it up. Bake until dough is cooked through and golden.

• Sprinkle it! Dust the rolled dough with cinnamon and crushed nuts, gently pressing into the dough. Bake until dough is cooked through and golden. Crush the crust and toss with brown sugar. Use this as a streusel topping for any fruit pie or sundae.

• Make sesame twists! Roll out the dough and brush with an egg wash, then spread evenly with sesame seeds. Cut into thin strips. Gently fold the dough around itself to make long twists. Add these to your charcuterie board.

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on time

One of a cook’s biggest challenges in managing a feast like Thanksgiving? Getting everything done at the same time! It’s no small feat, but we’re here to talk you through this.

Plan Ahead

This probably has you rolling your eyes, but you know the old adage, right? (Something about failing to plan, planning to fail.) If you’re using recipes, see if they have an approximation of the time the recipe will require – and, for sanity’s sake, build in several minutes.

If you don’t have that info, try to ballpark a timeframe based on the complexity of the preparation as well as the time spent actually cooking; don’t forget to include any resting, rising or chilling time.

Use this data to help you build a day-of timeline.

No-Cook Options

You know logically that not everything on the table must be served hot. But are you planning some cold dishes? Salads of all kinds can be served cold or room temperature, and they can be a fun alternative to traditional dishes; for example, why bother with roasted brussels sprouts when you can shave them into a salad, Fruit dishes, including cranberry sauce, are wonderful when served chilled (and they’ll be a nice break from all the heavy starches!)

Delegate

If someone volunteers to bring a dish, let them! That said, don’t feel bad about giving specific instructions; if there will be no oven or microwave space for last-minute heating of hot dishes, tell them to bring a crock pot or to stick to cold dishes. And remember that if they forget or bring something else or whatever, it’s not the end of the world if you don’t have potato salad on Thanksgiving.

Separate Heating Sources

For my family, buying an electric roaster for the turkey was a gamechanger. This piece of equipment frees up so much oven space! That said, for your family, utilizing other sources of heat may mean crock pots, hot plates, the microwave, electric buffet servers, the grill or even an outdoor smoker. This means less shifting and coordinating which dishes go in when… hallelujah!

It’s Okay to Reheat!

So your plan fell-through and something ended up getting cold before the rest of the meal was done? There’s really no shame in reheating something. Just make sure it’s in a container that is ovensafe (or microwave-safe. Really. We won’t tell.)

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Big-Batch Hot Bourbon Cocktail with Maple & Apple Cider • 1 gallon apple cider • 1/2 cup pure maple syrup • 4 cinnamon sticks, plus more for garnish • 1 tablespoon whole allspice berries • 4 whole star anise pods • 2 cups bourbon • 1 cup ginger liqueur (such as Domaine de Canton®) Stir cider and maple syrup together in a large heavy pot. Add cinnamon, allspice and star anise. Cover and bring to a simmer over medium-low heat, then reduce the heat to low and continue to gently simmer for 30 minutes.

(Alternatively, combine ingredients in a 6- to 8-quart slow cooker; cook on Low for 2 hours.)

Stir in bourbon and ginger liqueur. Ladle the cocktail into heatproof glasses to serve. Garnish with additional cinnamon sticks, if desired.

TIP to make ahead: Prepare mulled cider (Step 1) and refrigerate for up to 3 days.

Reheat before adding the liquor and serving. To keep the cocktail warm for an extended period of time without overheating it, use the Keep Warm function on the slow cooker. (courtesy of EatingWell • eatingwell.com)

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people say they’re tired of turkey.

Nearly half are serving a second main-course option, or are skipping the bird entirely.

How about you?

(Sources: polls conducted by Hardee’s and Omaha Steaks)

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a question of etiquette:

At the Table

Q: Which rules of table etiquette are passé?

• Any tradition of women/men eating first. Just eat together, y’all.

• No elbows on the table – assuming there’s not a plate in front of you. (Otherwise you’re just asking for a mess.)

• Pass to the left. If several dishes are being passed, follow the set flow of traffic. Otherwise, just pass in whatever direction will get that hashbrown casserole into their hands the fastest.

• Napkin on the chair when you get up. TBH, this one is just gross.

Set it next to your plate – not anywhere your butt has been.

Q: Bless her heart, but Great Aunt Ethel insists on cooking the turkey – and ends up ruining it.

Can I just jump in and take over?

This is like one of those college philosophy course ethics questions: have inedible turkey or piss off dear, sweet Ethel?

The polite answer, of course, is to grin and bear it. Perhaps bring an alterative main dish if it’s a potluck situation, or just make tons and tons of gravy.

But we think the right answer is to commit subtle reverse-sabotage: secretly slide into the kitchen and fix her mistakes behind her back.

Turn the temperature down, pour broth over the dry meat or quietly butter that bird.

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Q: I’ve been invited to multiple Thanksgiving dinners, and I can’t decide which invitation(s) to accept. What do I do?

We suggest a little soul-searching. Deep down, you know which invitations you want to decline. While tradition and social obligation may make you feel as though you have to accept those, we say life’s too short. If you’ve got options, skip anything that feels like chore.

So, on to the initiations you might want to accept. Think about which initiations might do you – and/or your hosts – the most good. If seeing your lonely grandma would warm her heart this year, give that invite a little extra weight. On the flip side, if spending the day with your best friend would make you feel relaxed and loved, maybe that’s the ticket.

We can’t decide for you. But we can tell you that whatever you choose, it’s fine, really! Just please respond ASAP to all of the invites, be it yes or no.

Q: Who washes dishes?

Can I be excused because...

Q: Help! There’s a VEGAN coming!

Every family has its own traditions regarding cleanup. But we’re assuming you’re asking because the rules aren’t crystal clear. So…

Imagine the horror. Look, in the Year of Our Lord 2023, there’s no reason to act like accommodating dietary restrictions is something new or shocking. You’ll live!

First, if you’re a guest, always defer to your host’s marching orders. If they do or don’t want help, that’s the final word on the matter.

But we think it’s only fair that the people who cooked should get to rest after the meal. If they seem particular about how things should go, let them give you instructions and supervise (from a nearby comfy seat) while you work. You don’t get a hall pass because you “work hard the rest of the year” or you “don’t know how” or “it’s icky.” Just pitch in and the whole sudsy affair will be over before you know it.

And no, you don’t suddenly need to use the bathroom!

If you know the vegan in question personally, reach out to them and ask what dishes they might like to have. They’ll be glad to share some ideas, or they may even offer to bring a dish of their own.

If they’re someone’s plus one, just look up a couple vegan Thanksgiving recipes and make those. Find a vegan main dish, as well as a couple sides. (What will really shock you is how many of your dishes are already vegan.)

When they arrive at the table, quietly point out which dishes are vegan, for their convenience. No muss, no fuss. •

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The Wildcat Group supports local charities and non-profit organizations who focus on a diverse range of community-uplifting, even lifesaving, initiatives.

Whether it be moving a domestic violence victim to a safe space or providing a truck to store donated bicycles during the holidays, The Wildcat Group answers the call. They also work with organizations who promote and advocate for early childhood education, literacy, healthy living, pediatric cancer research, and much more. The Wildcat Group donated more than a thousand labor hours in 2022, plus trucks and equipment, to assist charities behind these causes in fulfilling their missions.

While monetary considerations are important, The Wildcat Group believes collaborating with its charitable partners through actionable planning and effort will foster meaningful relationships and create impactful change within Lexington and the region at large. No cause is too big or too small to ask for the company’s help because The Wildcat Group is committed to service in more ways than one.

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Kentucky Book Festival

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Central Kentucky Riding for Hope

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The Hope Center

Kentucky Educational Television

Lexington Rescue Mission

Lexington Hearing & Speech Center

Justin’s Place

Bluegrass Families First

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Down Syndrome Association of Central Kentucky

YMCA of Central Kentucky

Contact The Wildcat Group to learn more about community partnership opportunities.

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CMA fosters equitable access to high-quality, tuition-free private music instruction. Since 2004, CMA has given 50,000+ free music lessons to 1,500+ children

CMA students achieve excellence in music while receiving consistent mentorship and enhancing responsibility, self-esteem, goal setting skills, and creative thinking.

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We’re committed to being a true community partner, which is often expressed in the ways we give back. Just as valuable as monetary contributions, our employees donate countless volunteer hours serving on nonprofit boards, building homes, mentoring youth, collecting food and so much more. We’re proud to be a local bank supporting our communities.

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The Secretariat Center The Secretariat Center opened in 2004 as a nonprofit 501c3 organization located at the Kentucky Horse Park.

The campus was Established by racing industry leaders who identified a need to care for horses after their racing careers ended. Many of these horses are young, healthy, and sound, they just needed some re-training and a second career. This new focus in turn has helped to foster a healthier future for Thoroughbreds and the racing industry as a whole.

Considered the Gold Standard in Thoroughbred reschooling, The Secretariat Center's mission is to prepare off-track Thoroughbreds for happy, healthy, and successful post-track careers. We rehabilitate and give each horse a broad-based foundation of skills and then work with a potential approved adopter to place each horse into a home best suited to their future endeavors.

The Secretariat Center is a Thoroughbred Aftercare Alliance accredited organization meaning that we meet the highest standards of care and rehoming. Horses that retire from racing often require a great deal of time, care, and specialized training before they can safely and successfully begin second careers as riding or sport horses in adoptive homes. The Secretariat Center’s program is unique in that we not only evaluate the horses for soundness, athletic ability, and temperament, but also provide professional reschooling that develops in these horses the necessary skills to be successful riding, pleasure, show or sport horses.

The Secretariat Center’s vision for the future ensures a second career for all Thoroughbreds by combining a passion for horses, with meaningful partnerships, and the belief that all equine athletes deserve care, kindness, and a purpose beyond the racetrack. Get involved at www.secretariatcenter.org, 859-246-3080, we welcome interns, volunteers, adopters, visitors, and tours.

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Cystic Fibrosis Foundation Meet Ignacio Ignacio Roe was diagnosed with cystic fibrosis (CF) as an infant. A resident of Frankfort, he has access to world-class care at Kentucky Children’s Hospital.

Cystic fibrosis (CF) is a genetic, life-threatening condition that triggers changes in the thickness of secretions from the body. CF patients have a change in their genes that cause these secretions to be very thick and sticky, clogging the body’s tubes and ducts. CF primarily affects the lungs and pancreas but does affect other parts of the body as well.

Most patients with CF can perform normal daily activities, but need daily care to keep fluids from blocking the airway or triggering other complications. While there is no cure for CF, advancing treatments are helping patients live longer. Just a few years ago, most patients lived to be 20 or 30 – but today many survive to 40 or 50 years old. Real progress has been made, but the lives of people with CF are still cut far too short.

Every person with CF deserves to live a long, healthy life.

Many children with CF still face the sobering prospect of a shortened lifespan. Nearly half of the 600+ people served in cystic fibrosis care centers in Kentucky are children. The CF Foundation has given more than $2million in the last 5 years to support patient care and research for the children of Kentucky.

This year you can support CF fighters like Nacho when you donate to the CF Foundation. We are accelerating progress toward a cure for all people with CF. With your support, we can make CF stand for “cure found”.

There is much more critical work to be done to improve health and extend the lives of those with CF and to reach our goal of a cure for all people with CF.

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Kentucky Historical Society Lt. Col. Dianne Louise Butts of the Kentucky Army National Guard delivered a poignant reminder when she stated, “Women have always been here.” This sentiment is the driving force behind the Kentucky Historical Society’s latest exhibit, Our Stories, Our Service: Kentucky Women’s Veterans. In this tribute, visitors uncover the oftenoverlooked legacy of women in the U.S. military.

Women have contributed to America’s military from the nation’s inception— both officially and unofficially. Our Stories, Our Service pays heartfelt homage to Kentucky’s women veterans, shines a light on their enduring courage and leadership, and showcases their indelible mark on military history. Their experiences represent a pivotal chapter in the broader story of women’s everevolving roles within the United States Armed Forces, transcending cultural and institutional barriers.

Additionally, Our Stories, Our Service presents a thematic exploration, shedding light on how women veterans from diverse backgrounds in Kentucky navigated and triumphed over social and military challenges to serve their nation.

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The Kentucky Historical Society, a membership organization and an agency in the Kentucky Tourism, Arts and Heritage Cabinet, is home to this remarkable exhibit. KHS is accredited by the American Alliance of Museums and is a proud Smithsonian affiliate. A dynamic partnership with the Kentucky Historical Society Foundation provides vital philanthropic support through monetary, in-kind, and volunteer contributions, ensuring a high standard of quality in Kentucky history preservation and exploration.

Nestled in historic downtown Frankfort, KHS features three sites: the Old State Capitol, the Kentucky Military History Museum, and the Thomas D. Clark Center for Kentucky History (home of KHS headquarters, a signature museum, state-ofthe-art research facilities, extensive collections, a museum store, and more). Discover how Kentucky’s pioneering women shaped American military history, explore the KHS campus, and contribute to the KHS mission. Visit in person or online at history.ky.gov.

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Jessamine Humane Society The Jessamine Humane Society is a nonprofit, volunteer-driven organization dedicated to the protection of all animals from cruelty and exploitation and to the elimination of pet overpopulation.

Working to ensure the well-being of all animals, the JHS is committed to educating the public about responsible pet ownership, advocating the humane treatment of all animals, and inspiring compassion toward every living creature.

According to the ASPCA, roughly 6.3 MILLION companion animals enter animal shelters nationwide each year.

View the fostered animals up for adoption through JHS online. To begin the adoption process, you can fill out their preliminary adoption form online.

If the board approves your application, they will contact you to arrange a meet and greet with the animal. Their goal is to find the best-suited home for the animal. After the meeting, the JHS team will determine the best way to proceed.

Their every decision is guided by what's in the best interest of the dog or cat.

The Jessamine Humane Society also offer low-cost spay and neuter clinic services to the public on select dates. Fill out the necessary forms online and the team will reach out regarding availability.

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AVOL Kentucky

Together, let’s build a warm and safe place to call home for those in our community living with HIV. 100% of donations to AVOL Kentucky (made between now and the end of 2023) will be used for housing efforts in 2024. Emergency housing support includes rent and utility assistance, emergency food and clothing, emergency home cleaning and hygiene care packages, and household set-up.

Stable housing saves lives. On average, 87% of those served by AVOL’s housing programs stay consistent with their medical care and medication adherence, which leads to reduced or ‘undetectable’ HIV levels in the body. At these levels, people feel better and cannot pass the virus to others. The support you can provide directly impacts stable housing, improved health outcomes, and expanded HIV prevention.

AVOL was founded in 1988 to serve a mission to END the stigma associated with HIV and other chronic health conditions by creating safe spaces, housing opportunities, connectivity to health care, and advocacy.

AVOL Kentucky serves over 325 individuals throughout Central and Eastern Kentucky through housing support and case management. AVOL also provides over 1,500 HIV tests and other medical screenings annually, with connectivity to medical care as its primary objective.

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With more than three decades of experience providing housing and supportive services to low-income individuals and families living with HIV/AIDS, AVOL understands that medically vulnerable populations require a rich array of support services to help them maintain stable housing, achieve life goals, and achieve greater self-sufficiency.

Please give and help AVOL create a Home for the Holidays for our citizens most in need. www.avolgives.org.

May you and your family experience many blessings during the upcoming holiday season!

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To learn more and support AVOL Kentucky, Inc.: 1824 Hill Rise Drive STE 100, Lexington, KY 40504 (859) 225-3000 • www.avolky.org

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Stable Recovery, Inc.

Stable Recovery’s mission: to provide a safe and stable living environment to men in early recovery. They are a peer-driven therapeutic community with a focus on equine-related employment opportunities. They also extend their mission beyond individual recovery to actively contribute to the community.

The Stable Recovery Effect: • Sustained Sobriety: Stable Recovery holds impressive retention rates at crucial milestones (30 days: 74 individuals; 60 days: 60 individuals; 90 days: 52 individuals), indicating its efficacy in supporting individuals through early stages of recovery.

• Employment Opportunities: With 50 out of 56 graduates securing full-time positions, Stable Recovery not only helps individuals overcome addiction but also facilitates their reintegration into the workforce, promoting self-sufficiency and financial stability.

• Skill Development: The significant investment of 13,406 hours in School of Horsemanship Training shows a commitment to equipping participants with valuable skills, enhancing their personal and professional growth.

• Family Reconnection: The reconnection of 372 family members with program participants demonstrates the program’s holistic approach, addressing not only individual well-being but also fostering stronger family bonds.

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“Me and my sister had not spoken for about 2 1/2 years when I came into this program. I wrote her a letter explaining my recovery and the work I was doing. We had a phone call shortly after. For years I slowly stopped coming around the family and going to family functions; she is like a second mother to me and I couldn’t stand to see the disappointment in her eyes. We are now closer than ever. I thank God every day for giving me this opportunity.” – William Jackson

How Your Can Help: • Send Donations To: 321 Hummingbird Lane, Lexington, Ky 40503. Address checks to Stable Recovery. Item donations include, but are not limited to; soap, shampoo, razors, conditioner, washcloths, towels, paper towels, nonperishable food items, coats, jackets, shoes, boots, gloves, socks, undergarments, plates, cups, silverware, cooking utensils, etc.

• Donate or sign up for the Stable Recovery newsletter at stablerecovery.net • Follow Stable Recovery Inc. on Facebook

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Equine Education Center Spy Coast Farm’s Equine Education Center is Lexington’s premier equine event facility developed to provide the ultimate convenience for conferences, meetings, seminars, corporate luncheons and dinners.

The facility includes a Banquet Room with attached catering kitchen and bar, Lecture Hall with stadium-style seating for 102+ people with livestream capability, wet-lab demonstration stalls, and more!

Fostering Opportunity Spy Coast Farm is a fair chance employer that provides opportunities for second chance individuals and those in recovery. They proudly partner with Stable Recovery and TRF Second Chances at Blackburn Correctional Facility by offering employment to those with horsemanship skills.

Promoting Education & Community Outreach The Equine Education Center seeks to further the growth of the next generation of equine professionals by creating and supporting learning and skill development opportunities within the equine industry.

Spy Coast Farm collaborates with a number of non-profit and educational programs as a way for individuals to gain exposure to equine career paths in a supportive environment while advocating for diversity in the equine industry. Some of the programs include the Success Academy, Locust Trace AgriScience Center, CKRH STABLES, Ed Brown Society, Legacy Equine Academy, Bluegrass Community & Technical College, University of Kentucky, and Midway University.

For bookings and inquiries contact: events@spycoastfarm.com

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Sunrise Children's Services Why support Sunrise? Because we have been supporting abused and neglected children for 154 years. Our ministry began in 1869 with four ladies from Walnut Street Baptist Church starting the Louisville Baptist Orphan’s Home. Today, now known as Sunrise Children’s Services, we provide a full continuum of care for abused and neglected children and at-risk families throughout Kentucky.

These services are needed in our state. More than 8,000 children are currently in out-of-home care. Among all 50 states, Kentucky now has the 6th highest rate for child abuse and neglect reports.

But Sunrise is making a difference, caring for nearly 700 individuals in all of its programs each day. Plus, we have surpassed 620 adoptions since the start of our fosterto-adopt program in 2006. At Sunrise, we believe every child deserves a home.

You can make a difference in the life of a child by supporting Sunrise. Donations can be made online at www.sunrise.org/donate. Your tax-deductible donation can be given any time during the year, even in memory or in honor of a loved one.

You can also choose to make a monthly donation.

Young people can also get involved by participating in “Miles of Pennies,” a program designed specifically for children to give to our children at Sunrise.

Materials can be downloaded and ordered at www.sunrise.org/resources.

However you choose to give, know that a gift to Sunrise can provide hope to a child who has lost all hope. You can build a brighter tomorrow for a child who fears there is no future. You can help a child find a loving home. Find out more at www.sunrise.org.

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A Gift to Sunrise

CAN N HELP A CHILD FIND A LOVING HOME HOME. Consider giving to Sunrise in one or more of the following ways: • Make a major gift to Sunrise • Give in memory or in honor of a loved one • Become a monthly donor • Participate in our “Miles of Pennies” program (sunrise.org/resources) • Consider legacy and planned giving

All donations can be made online at sunrise.org/donate.

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ARH Foundation for Healthier Communities The ARH Foundation for Healthier Communities is the philanthropic arm of the Appalachian Regional Healthcare (ARH) system. Each day, we proudly work toward our mission to further healthcare, education, and community involvement in Eastern Kentucky and Southern West Virginia through philanthropy and fundraising for Appalachian Regional Healthcare.

ARH provides quality healthcare services to the 350,000 residents living in our communities in Eastern Kentucky and Southern West Virginia, and now to patients in Lexington, KY through ARH Medical Associates.

Passionate about investing in Appalachia, as of October 11th, the ARH Foundation has put approximately $577,741 back into the communities we serve in 2023 alone because of gifts from generous donors; however, we have even more planned for next month. Since the July 2022 floods in Eastern Kentucky, the Foundation has dispersed more than $1.3 million in funds to those affected and continues to partner with Long-Term Recovery Groups in the area to meet the needs that still exist in the area. In total, at this time, we have raised $2.2 million for the flood fund. We continue to meet those needs via the Disaster Relief Center that was established in Hazard, KY and through the work of our compassionate employees, generous donors, and wonderful volunteers.

As we invest in our neighbors, we are looking forward to continuing our work to further education by providing much-needed funding for local schools.

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One way that we live this part of our mission is by sponsoring the WYMT Game of the Week for the 2023 football season, where $37,000 was provided to local schools chosen by WYMT as the featured game. We were also able to provide much-needed school supplies to those affected by the 2022 floods thanks to generous donors from near and far who supported this endeavor.

As a regional healthcare leader, ARH provides care to patients falling into multiple socioeconomic conditions. The ARH Foundation supports ARH by helping patients experiencing hardships to put their minds to rest and focus only on getting well. This is made possible through our Patient Assistance Fund.

We also support our system by providing funding to ensure our patients have access to cutting-edge medical care when and where they need it most. We also help eligible employees who need help as they face temporary financial hardship thanks to our Employee Emergency Assistance Fund, which has dispersed $40,641.35 just in 2023, as of October 11th.

In 2022, we distributed over $120,000.

New for 2023, our Executive Director Angela Bailey has kicked off her journey to Living Well and a healthier lifestyle to show her commitment to the Foundation’s mission to create healthier communities. She will be sharing every step of her journey, featuring ARH providers, via the Living Well Blog that is hosted on our website. Stay up to date with her journey by signing up for our mailing list and following us on social media!

We’re passionate about Appalachia and the people that we are fortunate enough to serve.

We’re always looking for ways to give back to our communities and help those in need. We also realize that this would not be possible without the generosity of donors and the support of those very same communities, as well as supporters from afar.

As we work to provide peace of mind and invest in Appalachia, we are asking for your support. You can support our work by donating, connecting with us on social media, and joining our mailing list.

Thank you again for making our work possible and for believing in the future of Appalachia.

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USA Cares USA Cares began in the Radcliff area and relocated its national headquarters to Jeffersontown in 2017. Since its start, USA Cares has assisted thousands of veterans and military families facing hardships related to service. Not only does this include financial assistance, but USA Cares goes above and beyond to provide service members and their families with postservice skills training to improve the quality of life for veterans. Their programs include the Military Assistance Response Program, Career Transition Program, Financial Education & Empowerment Program, Homeless Veterans Reintegration Program,and plenty of additional resources accessible to service members.

USA Cares has partnered with the Fort Knox leadership team to introduce the Career Skills Program (CSP) known as the Corporate Fellowship Program (CFP). This program provides opportunities for transitioning service members to participate in an 8-week internship with local businesses to gain knowledge and experience before beginning new careers in the civilian workforce.

CFP participants will spend four days a week – Monday through Thursday – at their designated employer location. On Fridays, they attend workshops with previous graduates from the program and guest speakers. Topics for the seminars include helpful subjects such as cover letters and portfolios, networking, preparing for interviews, using social media for recruiting, and other skills useful for a civilian career path.

USA Cares recognizes the challenges service members face when transitioning into the

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civilian workforce, providing invaluable resources for veterans and families seeking employment after a successful military career. The Career Transition Program has assisted hundreds of service members in finding a career after the military, with success stories of former participants going on to be operations managers, logistics managers, and more at various fortune 500 companies. Another perk of this program is that it helps pay for an individual’s essential expenses while they train for their new career or job!

Hiring veterans can bring numerous benefits to companies and corporations. Former military members are known for their excellent work ethic, discipline, and ability to work well under pressure, all of which are valuable traits in any workplace. Veterans also possess a wealth of experience, skills, and knowledge gained through their military service, such as leadership, teamwork, problem-solving, and technical expertise.

Finally, hiring veterans is not only a socially responsible decision, but it can also provide companies with a competitive advantage when it comes to attracting and retaining top talent. By providing veterans with meaningful employment opportunities, companies can play a vital role in supporting these individuals' successful transition to civilian life.

If you'd like more information on the Career Skills Program or to partner with USA Cares in the Corporate Fellowship Program, please reach out to Paula Redding (paula@usacares.org) or Greg Bishop (greg@usacares.org).

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God's Pantry Food Bank Transforming Lives, One Meal at a Time Imagine a community where no one goes hungry. A place where every family has access to wholesome meals and no child has to wonder where their next meal will come from. This is our vision at God's Pantry Food Bank: a nourished life for every Kentuckian.

In Central and Eastern Kentucky, 1 in 6 people are unsure about where they'll get their next meal. But God's Pantry Food Bank is working tirelessly to change that statistic.

Serving 50 counties in partnership with more than 500 food pantries and meal programs, we are on a mission to reduce hunger.

In the fiscal year 2023, God's Pantry Food Bank distributed 43 million pounds of food. Through dedicated efforts, food was provided to nearly 240,000 individuals who previously didn't know where their next meal would come from.

But this impact goes beyond just the pounds of food distributed; the 36 million meals created served as nourishment and sustenance for children, adults, and seniors.

Every meal we help create represents hope, a chance for our neighbors to thrive and to have a brighter future. Food is a symbol of compassion and empowerment for the most vulnerable in our communities.

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You, too, can make a difference by volunteering with God's Pantry Food Bank. By dedicating your time and skills, you can directly impact the lives of individuals and families facing hunger. Your efforts will ensure that food reaches those who need it most and that no one in our community goes to bed hungry.

If you're unable to volunteer, you can still make a significant impact by giving a donation. Every dollar is turned into meals, making a tangible difference in the lives of individuals and families struggling with food insecurity.

Together, we can feed Kentucky communities. Join God's Pantry Food Bank in its mission to nourish every Kentuckian. Visit godspantry.org to learn more and take action today.

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We’re excited to announce the 13th Annual GoodGiving Challenge starts on Giving Tuesday, November 28th! With daily matching challenges and lots of prizes to boost the impact of your gifts, the GoodGiving Challenge is the best time to support your favorite local nonprofits!

Thanks to generous donors like you, the GoodGiving Challenge has raised $20 million for our region’s hard-working nonprofits. We want to make the 2023 GoodGiving Challenge the best yet, but we need your help! Learn more and make plans to give online at BGgives.org.

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A Chance to Dance Inc A Sense of Place Allegro Dance Project Alpha Beta Lambda Chapter Education Foundation AMEN House, Inc. The American Red Cross Bluegrass Chapter American Spiritual Ensemble AppalReD Legal Aid Arbor Youth Services Art Center of the Bluegrass Arts Commission of Danville/Boyle County Ashland Terrace The Aviation Museum of Kentucky, Inc. Baby Health Service, Inc. BCTC Danville Campus BCTC Georgetown-Scott County Campus BCTC Lawrenceburg Campus BCTC Lexington Campuses BCTC Winchester-Clark County Campus The Beacon of Hope Emergency Shelter Inc BeWell in School Big Brothers Big Sisters of the Bluegrass Bike Walk Kentucky Black Male Working Academy Blessing Hands Blue Grass Farms Charities Bluegrass Care Navigators Bluegrass Greensource Bluegrass Heritage Museum Bluegrass Land Conservancy Bluegrass Ovarian Cancer Support, Inc. Bluegrass Parkinson’s Alliance Broke Spoke Community Bike Shop Camp Horsin’ Around Carnegie Center for Literacy and Learning Casa de la Cultura Kentucky CASA of Lexington CASA of the Bluegrass Catholic Education Opportunities Foundation Central Kentucky Audubon Society Central Kentucky Youth Orchestras Central Music Academy Charlie’s Heart Charity Child Neurology Foundation Children’s Advocacy Center of the Bluegrass Christian Appalachian Project Chrysalis House, Inc. CivicLex Clark Coalition Foundation Clark County Community Services Clark County Homeless Coalition Clark County Youth Sports Association

Common Good CDC Community Response Coalition of Kentucky Inc. ComposeArts DV8 Kitchen Vocational Training Foundation, Inc Easterseals Bluegrass Ephraim McDowell Health Care Foundation Explorium of Lexington F.E.E.D-Fayette Eating, Education & Delivery Family Services Association of Boyle County, Inc. Fayette Cooperating Preschool Fayette County Bar Foundation, Inc. The Fayette Education Foundation FC Kentucky FoodChain Fostering Goodwill Inc. Friends & Vets Helping Pets Friends of Huntertown Community Interpretive Park Friends of Lexington Senior Centers Friends of Parks and Recreation Friends of the Clark County Animal Shelter, Inc. Friends of the Lexington Mounted Unit, Inc. Glean Kentucky Gleanings Housing Inc. God’s Pantry Food Bank Goodwill Industries of Kentucky Green Forests Work GreenHouse17 GreenRoom Exchange Growing Together Preschool Habitat for Humanity of Madison & Clark Counties Harstad Fine Arts Series The Hearing & Speech Center Heritage Hospice, Inc. Holly Rood Hope Center Hope for Recovery, Kentucky, Inc. Hope Spay Neuter Clinic Hospice East, Inc. Imagination Library of Frankfort International Book Project ITNBluegrass Itty Bitty Kitten Rescue Jewish Federation of the Bluegrass, Inc. Junior Achievement of the Bluegrass, Inc Just Fund Education Project, Inc Kendyl and Friends Foundation, Inc. Kentucky Center for Economic Policy The Kentucky Center for Grieving Children and Families

Kentucky Civil War Roundtable, Inc. Kentucky Equal Justice Center Kentucky Equine Adoption Center Kentucky Heartwood Kentucky Horse Park Foundation Kentucky Natural Lands Trust Kentucky Refugee Ministries - Lexington Kentucky Resources Council, Inc. Kentucky United Methodist Children’s Homes Kentucky Youth Law Project, Inc. Kerrington’s Heart, Inc. KSDAR Endowed Fund for Duncan Tavern Historic Center KY FIRST Robotics Lady Veterans Connect Inc Leeds Center for the Arts Legacy Greenscapes Legal Aid of the Bluegrass LexArts Lexington Black Prosperity Initiative at BGCF Lexington Children’s Theatre Lexington Humane Society Lexington Leadership Foundation Lexington Organizations for Violence Engagement Lexington Philharmonic Lexington Pride Center Lexington Rescue Mission The Lexington Theatre Company Life Adventure Center Life Plan of Kentucky, Inc. Lighthouse Ministries Living Arts & Science Center Lower Howard’s Creek Nature and Heritage Preserve, Inc. M’Power Rhythm Marco Shemwell Foundation Mary Todd Lincoln House Mentors & Meals MICAH LEGAL Mission Health Lexington Moveable Feast Lexington, Inc. Natalie’s Sisters The Nathaniel Mission Neighbors Immigration Clinic The Nest - Center for Women, Children & Families New Beginnings of Winchester New Opportunity School for Women, Inc. Newton’s Attic Northside Common Market/Julietta Market Nursing Home Ombudsman Agency of the Bluegrass, Inc.

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One Parent Scholar House Operation Making A Change, Inc. Organic Association of Kentucky Paris Independent Schools Education Foundation Partners for Youth Partners In Education of Clark County Phoenix Rising of Lexington, Kentucky Pioneer Playhouse Planned Parenthood Great Northwest Hawai’i Alaska Indiana Kentucky Primate Rescue Center Inc. Providence Montessori School The Provision School and Counseling Center Radio Eye, Inc. RADIOLEX Red Oaks Forest School Refuge Clinic Rose Mary C. Brooks Place Rowland Arts Center Sayre Christian Village Scott/Bourbon Counties Habitat for Humanity Seedleaf Sisters Road To Freedom, Inc. Spark Community Cafe Special Needs Camp of Kentucky, Inc. Sphinx Academy St. Agatha Academy Step By Step, INC. Still Waters Center STRIDE Program Surgery on Sunday, Inc. Swimchester Sailfish, Inc. The Salvation Army Trees Lexington!

Urban League of Lexington - Fayette County Visually Impaired Preschool Services Voices of Hope - Lexington, Inc. Wanda Joyce Robinson Foundation The Well of Lexington Winchester Black History & Heritage Committee Winchester Clark County Farmers Market Winchester Community Work Group Winchester Kiwanis Woodford County Festival Of Trees Woodford Habitat for Humanity, Inc. Woodford Theatre Woods & Waters Land Trust The Working Cat Project

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Bake sales can help raise funds for causes you care about in a way that’s fun, engaging and pretty universally loved. That said, a lot of work goes into putting on a bake sale!

Here’s what you need to know.

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Tips: Whether for a school or church, your kids’ clubs or your favorite nonprofit organization, there’s no denying that bake sales are a fun way to raise funds. That said, there are a lot of ins and outs to hosting a bake sale. Aside from designating a clear leader, wrangling volunteers and coordinating who is baking what, here are some more tips that will help you reach bake sale success:

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Note any potential allergens using signs. These include dairy, nuts, wheat, gluten, soy and eggs. Also note whether your cooking environment was allergysafe; chances are, your kitchen can’t be considered as such unless you never have these products in your home.

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For safety, don’t sell anything that requires refrigeration. This includes pies and cakes that use dairy or feature cream or meringue toppings.

Tightly wrap all items using cling film, secured plastic baggies or approved containers for baked goods.

Wrap them grouped as you intend to sell them; eg. cookies in groups of three, individual brownies, cupcakes individually AND by the dozen, etc.

People are more apt to buy items if they can easily transport them… and knowing that no one else has handled them.

It pays to advertise. Think about creating signage for the bake sale as you would a yard sale. Be sure to include the cause you’re raising funds for on the signs.

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No-bake cookies • 2 c. sugar • 1/2 c. butter • 1/2 c. milk • 1/3 c. cocoa • 2 1/2 c. quick or old fashioned oats, uncooked • 1/3 c. peanut butter • 2 tsp. vanilla

In medium saucepan, combine sugar, margarine, milk and cocoa. Cook over medium heat, stirring constantly, until mixture comes to a rolling boil. Continue to boil one minute, stirring constantly. Remove from heat.

Add oats, peanut butter, peanuts and vanilla; mix well.

Drop by heaping teaspoons onto wax paper or foil; cool completely. Store on a plate covered with foil or plastic wrap, in a cool dry place. (recipe courtesy Quaker Oats)

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Preheat oven to 350°F. Line baking sheets with parchment paper.

In a medium bowl, mix peanut butter, sugar and egg together until smooth. Roll into 1” balls and place 1” apart on lined baking sheet. Flatten each with a fork.

Bake until just barely browned, about 6 minutes. Cool on baking sheets until the cookies can be removed to a wire rack without breaking. (adapted from All Recipes) Note: This makes about 24 cookies. Obviously, the recipe is incredibly easy to adapt for larger (or smaller) batches!

Bear track bars CRUST LAYER • 1 1/2 c. flour • 2/3 c. powdered sugar • 1/3 c. cocoa • 1/4 tsp. salt • 1 c. butter, melted CARAMEL LAYER • 1 package (13 oz.) caramels • 3 T heavy whipping cream • 1 1/2 c. pretzels, lightly crushed PEANUT BUTTER LAYER • 1 c. creamy peanut butter • 1/4 c. butter, softened • 1/3 c. powdered sugar

Preheat oven to 350°F. Grease a 13x9” baking pan.

In a large bowl, whisk together flour, powdered sugar, cocoa and salt; stir in butter. Press into bottom of the prepared baking pan; bake until set, around 12 minutes. Cool completely.

In a microwave-safe bowl with a lid, combine caramels and cream. Microwave, covered, on high until melted, 3-5 minutes; remove three times throughout cooking to stir. Spread over crust layer. Sprinkle crushed pretzels on top. Allow to set.

Combine peanut butter and butter, then beat in powdered sugar until smooth.

Spread over pretzels, and allow to set.

In microwave safe bowl, melt chocolate chips and shortening together, stirring until smooth. Spread on top, and allow to set. (adapted from Taste of Home) Note: To speed up the setting of each layer, place the dish in the refrigerator no more than 15 minutes. Before wrapping up the squares, allow the entire tray to come to room temperature to avoid “sweating.”

CHOCOLATE LAYER • 2 c. semisweet chocolate chips • 3 T shortening

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Allergy-friendly tahini cookies

• 1 T chia seeds • 3 T water • 1/2 c. raisins • 1/2 c. tahini • 2 T maple syrup • 1 tsp. vanilla • 1/2 tsp. cinnamon • 6 T coconut flour • 1 tsp. baking powder

Soak chia seeds in water for 15 minutes, or until they begin to gel.

Preheat oven to 350°F. In a food processor, pulse together raisins, tahini and syrup until smooth. Add remaining ingredients and pulse until combined; dough will be sticky.

Line a baking tray with parchment paper. Wet your hands and a spoon. Roll Tablespoonfuls of the mixture into balls and place on the lined tray. Press with the tines of a wet fork to slightly flatten the cookies.

Bake 9 minutes, until set and slightly golden. (adapted from My Kids Lick the Bowl) Note: These cookies are dairy, egg, wheat, gluten and nut-free.

Team pride fudge • 6 T white cake mix • 1 1/2 (11 oz.) bags white chocolate chips • 1 1/2 (14 oz.) cans condensed milk • 3 T salted butter, softened and divided • 3 shades of gel food coloring

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In a microwave-safe bowl, microwave the cake mix for 1 minute, removing and stirring well at the 30-second mark. Allow to come to room temperature.

Prepare an 8x8” pan with parchment paper.

In a large saucepan, combine a third each of the chocolate chips, condensed milk and butter over low heat; stir constantly until melted. Remove from heat and add 2 T of the dry cake mix, stirring until dissolved. Add 2-3 drops of the first food coloring, stirring until completely mixed; add more until mixture reaches the desired color. Pour this mixture into the prepared baking dish; shake gently to spread the mixture evenly. Allow layer to cool and stiffen slightly.

Repeat the previous step for each of the other two shades of food coloring (note, for a white layer, omit the gel coloring and simply pour the mixture into the pan.)

If desired, top with coordinating sprinkles while the final layer of fudge is still liquid.

Once fully set, use a knife to cut the fudge into 12 equal squares and wrap each square tightly with cling film. (adapted from Princess Pinky Girl) Note: Yeah, we’re suggesting you pander to your audience a little here. Use your school’s team colors or blue, white and blue layers for UK fans. Do brown, orange and yellow for Thanksgiving or red, white and green for Christmas. The possibilities are endless!

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• 1 c. butter, melted • 1 c. sugar • 1 c. packed dark brown sugar • 4 large eggs • 1 T vanilla • 1 c. all-purpose flour • 1 c. Dutch-processed cocoa • 1 tsp. espresso powder • 1 tsp. kosher salt, plus more for sprinkling • 1 1/4 c. chocolate, chopped and divided

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spray. Line with parchment paper, leaving overhand on the sides, and spray again.

In a large bowl, whisk together melted butter, sugar and brown sugar. Add in sugar, until dissolved. Add the eggs and vanilla extract until smooth and combined.

Sift in flour and cocoa, then add in salt and espresso powder. Stir until just combined.

Fold in 1 c. chopped chocolate.

Pour into prepared baking pan, spreading evenly. Sprinkle remaining chopped chocolate on top.

Bake for 25 minutes, or until just set to the touch. Remove from oven and allow brownies to set. While still warm, sprinkle with a pinch or two of salt. Once fully cool, cut into squares. (adapted from Two Peas & Their Pod) Note: This recipe is easy to scale up, but we recommend not overcrowding your oven with pans. It’s important that your brownies be on the middle rack to cook evenly.

For a little fun, skewer your brownies with popsicle sticks, then dip into melted chocolate or candy coating, then add sprinkles.

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SNAFU:

Your jokes about killing the turkey yourself are way less endearing than you imagine.

Showing Up Empty-Handed

Showing up without a hostess gift is a no-no any time of year, but especially so during the holiday season. It’s always polite to offer your host a small, thoughtful gift as a token of thanks for feeding you.

But around the holiday season, there’s always a good chance that your host will have a gift for you – and there are few moments more awkward than when someone gives you a present, and you have nothing to give them in return.

That said, you should have a “gift stash” of inexpensive, fun, wrapped gifts at the ready for moments like that throughout the holiday season.

Keep a candle, a nice pair of socks or a gift card on hand in case you’re faced with an impromptu gift exchange. (Note: look up the SNL song “The Christmas Candle” for a laugh.)

Breaking Down Over THAT Question

Everyone has a button that’s easily pressed by family and friends. Just picture your overly-friendly uncle asking, “How’s that boyfriend of yours… Jeff, was it?” Never mind that Jeff got thrown out with the old Easter candy. Or when your mother-in-law asks, “Now, when are we going to get a grandbaby?”

Fifteen minutes after you learn to mind your business, Deborah.

We’d love to envision a future when people learn not to poke at old wounds. But until that blessed day, we’re all just trying to grin and bear it.

To steel yourself for these awful moments, rehearse your response. Act out the scene with a friend if you have to. Try Googling non-answer answers to the questions (Try: “Aw, thank you so much for asking.

But what I want to know about is–” and redirect the conversation.)

Being the Guy That Asks THAT Question

It’s easy to forget that the people who ask those painful questions don’t always have bad intentions.

Sometimes, what you think is just a normal topic for chit-chat is actually a minefield. The old adage goes that you should avoid talking about politics, religion and money. But in truth, it’s difficult to know which topics should be avoided, especially when what’s okay in one setting may be totally inappropriate in another. In short, most personal topics are really none of your business, so why go there?

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Instead, stick to open-ended questions that invite the person to share more if they’re comfortable doing so, such as, “What hobbies are you into right now?” or “What have you been spending your time doing lately?” Have some questions like these in your back pocket in case the conversation hits a lull so you don’t rely on an old gem like, “So you dating anybody right now, Cousin Bethany?”

Forgetting the Gratitude

‘Tis the season to say “thanks.” Express your gratitude to everyone around you. If you receive a gift, send a handwritten thank you note. Give a generous tip to those who provide you with services. Send gracious, heartfelt sentiments inside your holiday cards. Say “thank you,” even if you hate the gift or the turkey is dry.

Missing the Boat

Whether you’re traveling by plane, train or automobile, getting there is your most important holiday task. Don’t leave holiday travel to chance! Book early, always RSVP, arrive early, be prepared for anything, and, if you’re traveling with others, be a good team leader. Make a plan and many lists to ensure you get there in one piece.

Overindulging

While it may be the season to eat, drink and be merry, it’s never a good look to overdo it. But it’s easy to do with so many open bars and buffet lines. We’re all for letting your hair down a bit around the holidays, but it’s still important to do so in moderation.

One-Upsmanship

Everyone takes a little pride in their “thing” around the holidays. Maybe Great Aunt Ethel is family-famous for her sweet potato casserole. Maybe your dad fancies himself the best gift wrapper this side of the Mississippi. Or maybe your cousin has always hosted the family cookie swap. Now is not the time to step in and show off how much better you are (or think you are); let them have their moment!

Think of ways you might be slipping into “pick me” thinking. Are you going over-the-top with your outfit because you know you’ll maybe kinda outshine your hostess (and it’s totally unrelated that she’s your husband’s exgirlfriend)? Are you getting ready to tell a whopper of a story because Uncle Doug just told a story, and yours can beat it by a mile? Are you getting ready to insist that no one has ever been as sick, as stressed, as overworked, as happy, as successful, as awesome or whatever as you are?

Let it lie, and simply enjoy the moment! We think you’ll have way more fun that way.

Getting Dragged Into It

So you’ve been good and stayed away from controversial topics or touchy family debates, only for someone else at the table to just dive right in. Don’t take the bait. If it looks like the situation is going to boil over and no one is stepping in, go ahead and suggest a change of location, either for the debate or for those who aren’t interested in engaging. Yes, it’s tense and awkward, but there’s no reason you have to sit there and suck it up. •

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USPS OPERATION SANTA INSPIRATIO NS

MAKES HOLIDAY MAGIC

by Amanda Harper

For over 100 years,

the United States Postal Service has played Santa to children across the country. Today, you can help make a family’s Christmas magical through this convenient online service.

USPS Operation Santa collects thousands of letters sent to the North Pole. If you choose to participate as a Letter Adopter, you can browse these letters on USPSOperationSanta.com.

One person “adopts” each letter. Families that write in together are posted together, so you can choose to adopt an entire family. The gifts are sent anonymously both ways; you don’t know the exact destination of the package (though you can choose to send gifts to your home state) and the recipient believes that the gift truly came from Santa. Which, of course, is the point!

How you participate is up to you. There is no minimum or maximum spend. You pay for USPS shipping and the program requires that all gifts be new, unused items (for safety).

While you can’t send cash or checks, gift cards are acceptable. Other than that, it’s up to you how you choose to make the season magical.

Some of the letters are very straightforward, with a specific list of requests. Others are more open to interpretation; one of the letters I adopted simply read, “I want Christmas is lie detector test.” So I got Claire a toy lie detector test – as well as some other fun, child-safe toys that I thought a budding young detective might enjoy.

To learn more about the program, to submit a letter, or to register as a letter adopter, visit uspsoperationsanta.com.

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Foster Parents NEEDED: Making positive change with Benchmark Family Services A tried and true way to make positive change in your community is to begin by making positive change in your own home.

Benchmark Family Services does just this through their devoted and intentional work with foster parents throughout their 13 offices within Kentucky. This privately owned therapeutic foster agency focuses their efforts on creating a welcoming and nurturing environment for foster children to call home.

By providing therapy and psychiatric services, as well as specialized training to allow parents to navigate the challenges that come along with childhood trauma, Benchmark is making ripple effects in the lives of hundreds of children throughout the greater Lexington area and Kentucky as a whole.

Today, nearly 8,500 children are currently placed in out-of-home care in the state of Kentucky. This unprecedented number can only be lessened by families willing to open their hearts and homes to children in desperate need.

Foster parents have an incredibly unique opportunity to change the trajectory of a child’s life by creating a stable, healing environment that supports growth and cultivates the irreplaceable feeling of “home”. Benchmark is seeking these families with open arms, willing and eager to aid through every step of the foster journey!

Contact them today if you’re interested in their foster program. You can make a difference!

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I’m Loving...

To celebrate being a fashion and lifestyle contributor to TOPS for a whopping 10 years, we asked our favorite style guru Jesse L. Brooks to share some of her recent favorites. From vacay destinations to her go-to lipstick, here’s what Jesse is loving right now.

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Gotta Get Away: If you sit me in front of the ocean and a pretty pink sunset I couldn’t be happier. Two years ago my niece moved to Maui and I finally understood the true meaning of paradise.

It’s absolutely breathtaking. They also have the most magical, yummiest bakery everThe Maui Cookie Lady. (ask for the Salted Caramel Bliss-you won’t be sorry!)

Staple Outfit: I am a dress girl for life. Audrey Hepburn has been my style muse since I was about 12 years old. Nothing beats a classic little black dress, a chic coat and an oversized pair of sunglasses for me. It’s easy, timeless, and low-fuss.

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Go-To Beauty Product: I have idolized Dolly Parton my entire life, so when it comes to makeup and skincare, I am not subtle; I love it all. But as for a product I use multiple times a day, it’s gotta be lipstick. I love a 90s-inspired pinky-nude and I have found no shade more perfect than “Kim.K.W.” by Charlotte Tilbury.

What’s That Smell?: I’m very picky about fragrance. I have worn Daisy Fresh by Marc Jacobs for years. I also love Escada scents, but most recently I have fallen in love with Flowerbomb by Viktor & Rolf. It’s uber feminine without overpowering with sweetness.

Everyday Accessory: I’m the type of lady who needs a big bag that I can carry anything I might possibly ever need around in. I was recently gifted Kurt Geiger’s Kensington Soft Shopper, and I’m obsessed. It’s spacious and buttery.

On My Nightstand: Making Faces by Kevyn Aucoin. That coffee table book of celebrity transformations is what made me fall in love with makeup and using it as a tool to help others feel more beautiful. It’s also why I started my website – GettingGorJess.com – so that I have a space to share my love of beauty and glamour.

Prized Jewels: I am definitely a jewelry girl. I think every great outfit deserves a little sparkle and shine. I also collect symbolic necklaces. Butterflies are very special to me, and I wear this one

by Gorjana nearly every day.

The Great Escape: I love film and television. It’s the best way to forget about your problems. I have many favorites, but as a born and raised Southerner, Steel Magnolias holds a special place in my heart. The strength, self-awareness and vulnerability of the characters really showcases how amazing women – and their female friendships – truly are.

On Repeat: I have not stopped listening to Sza’s SOS album for months. I think it perfectly sums up being a water sign girl: very chill, but always in your feelings. I also keep Beyoncé, Post Malone, The Weeknd, Kacey Musgraves and Taylor Swift on heavy rotation.

Best Advice: Hands down to never settle. My mom always made self respect a top tier trait in our house. If you don’t know your worth, no one else ever will. Also, get your pets spayed and neutered!

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celebrating IN LEXINGTON

There is so much holiday fun to be had in central Kentucky.

This handy guide will help you stay festive so you can celebrate the season without a single stop!

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The holiday spectacular you can’t miss!

Dreaming of a white Christmas? You won’t want to miss a spirited adaptation of a beloved holiday classic. The Lexington Theatre Company presents Irving Berlin’s White Christmas: The Musical on November 17th-19th at the Lexington Opera House. This family-friendly stage spectacular features all of the iconic songs you love. Be sure to buy tickets early; we wouldn’t be surprised if this show sells out! Visit lexingtontheatrecompany.org for showtimes or to buy tickets.

Get a head start on holiday shopping...

‘Tis the season for buying gifts. Fortunately, the Lexington Junior League’s Holly Day Market has 80+ merchants in one location for you to browse and enjoy, along with fun activities, family-friendly fun and so much more. Head to the Central Bank Center November 11th and 12th to start checking off your holiday shopping list. Tickets are $10 online or at the door, while children 10 and under get in free! Visit hollydaymarket.com to learn more.

See a holiday classic live on stage!

A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage is a beautiful, colorful, exciting reimagining of a treasured classic holiday special. Join all of your beloved Peanuts characters as they uncover the true meaning of Christmas – and join them after the show for a Christmas sing-along!

The single showing is December 6th 6pm at the EKU Center for the Arts.

Visit ekucenter.com for more info and tickets for this family-friendly holiday event.

Light it up, Lex...

Lexington’s Holiday Lighting Festival is a wonderful way to ring in the holiday season. See Lexington’s official Christmas tree lit for the season. Sing carols, enjoy snacks by local vendors and mingle around Triangle Park before Santa makes his grand apperance! To get the latest on this fun family event, visit downtownlex.com – and while you’re on their site, you can find out when The Rink at Triangle Park will be open for skating!

Love Christmas music?

The Lexington Chamber Chorale’s Sing Noel (November 26th 5pm at the Second Presbyterian Church) features tunes that will be familiar as well as many that may be new to you – and they invite the audience to sing along for part of the program! Visit lexingtonchamberchorale.org for tickets. The Alltech Celebration of Song (December 10th 4pm at the Kentucky Horse Park Alltech Arena) features the incredible voices of Kentucky Opera Theatre and the winners of the Alltech Vocal Scholarship Competition. The UK Choirs Collage: A Holiday Spectacular (December 2nd and 3rd at the Singletary Center for the Arts) features student choirs. Fans of Glee should check out A Very Darren Crissmas on December 19th 8pm at the Lexington Opera House, which is sure to be a toe-tapping good time. The Lexington Philharmonic and The Lexington Singers present their annual holiday favorite concert, A Cathedral Christmas, December 16th 8pm at the Cathedral of Christ the King; get tickets at lexphil.org.

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HOLIDAY MOVIE NIGHT Pick a holiday-themed double feature and bring (or order) dishes that somehow coordinate with the movies.

FESTIVE POTLUCK From Friendsgiving to New Year’s Eatings, there are plenty of excuses to get together and nosh on comfort foods.

COOKIE SWAP Either bake cookies together, or just meet up to snack on cookies, cocoa and hot gossip.

DO KID STUFF So many activities aimed for families – especially kids – are actually a lot of fun to do with adult friends. Embrace your inner child!

HOLIDAY SIGHTING GROUP TEXT Start a group text, and send photos of fun holiday sights, like catching the giant Halloween skeleton dressed as Santa.

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Looking for lights?

Find more holiday fun:

Southern Lights Is it really Christmas in Kentucky if you don’t take a drive through Southern Lights? We don’t think so! This three-mile driving tour features over a million twinkling lights that will get your entire family in the Christmas spirit. From pictures with Santa to the ever-adored Animal Land, there’s so much to see and enjoy!

Waveland State Historic Site They typically host Christmas teas and more fun events. parks.ky.gov

Christmas lights are one of the most fantastic sights of the season. But knowing where to look seems like a struggle every year. We’re sharing our favorite lights attractions for you to enjoy!

Ashland, The Henry Clay Estate From candlelight tours to their stunning Christmas tree, you can step back in history while celebrating the season. henryclay.org

This year, the Southern Lights are on Novemer 24th - December 31st (closed Christmas Day) 5:30-10pm. Tickets are $35 per carload; purchase tickets online or at the gate. To learn more about all the fun, visit southernlightsky.com.

Shaker Village of Pleasant Hill From festive lunches to Illuminated Evenings, there’s so much to enjoy! shakervillageky.org

Want a sneak peek at the Southern Lights? The Southern Lights Stroll and 5K will be Saturday, November 18th. Gates open at 5:30pm. Learn more at khpfoundation.org.

Mustard Seed Hill This Millersburg home features holiday activities, lights and more. mustardseedhill.events

White Christmas House This home at 1080 Chinoe Road always puts on a spectacular display for Christmas that’s free to view. The Turners typically try to have everything illuminated by the day after Thanksgiving.

Fire Station #20 Located at 3001 Arrowhead Drive, the firefighters of this station put up a fantastic display of lights that’s coordinated to music. It’s free to view.

Fire Station #11 Not to be outdone, the firefighters at Station 11 are doing Christmas up right. Visit 1626 Harrodsburg Road to see the show.

Wild Lights Since 2017, this home at 112 Bernie Trail in Nicholasville has lit up for a good cause. Follow them on Facebook to learn more.

Jones Family Christmas Light and Music Show Visit 1748 Abbington Hill to see a spectacular private lights show December 1st - January 1st 6:30pm-9pm.

The Blow-Up House This home at 200 Toronto Road sure loves blow-up figures. Drive by for some instant holiday cheer! ... and More!

Tons of private homes and neighborhoods in the area have fantastic displays. Check social media for what everyone’s buzzing about!

Holiday Lights at Buffalo Trace This drive-through display of holiday lights is a can’t-miss. It’s free and open to the public November 30th - December 25th and begins at 113 Great Buffalo Trace. Learn more at buffalotracedistillery.com.

Lights Under Louisville This unique drive-through lights tour of the Mega Cavern is open November 10th - January 1st. Learn more at lightsunderlouisville.com.

Winter Nights, River Lights On warmer nights, head to Newport for a fun holiday stroll across their iconic purple people bridge, which is decked out in holiday lights. This is free to enjoy, but maybe stop by one of the riverfront shops for cocoa before you make the trek!

Patti’s 1880s Settlement Grand Rivers comes alive this time of year. pattis1880s.com Woodford County There is so much to do in Woodford, from shopping to events! visitwoodfordky.com The Kentucky Castle From wreath workshops to an exclusive NYE experience, it’s a magical spot. thekentuckycastle.com Kentucky Railway Museum Check out their holiday-themed rides! kyrail.org Bluegrass Scenic Railroad and Museum Their Santa Trains are so much fun. bluegrassrailroad.com The Polar Express Train Ride All aboard for holiday magic! stearnsthepolarexpressride.com Lexington Children’s Theatre The Best Little Christmas Pageant Ever will warm your heart! lctonstage.org The Kentucky Theatre Look for special holiday screenings! kentuckytheatre.org Lexington Parks & Recreation Fun community events and more. lexingtonky.gov Lexington Public Library Look for booktacular holiday fun! lexpublib.org

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‘Tis the season for being an absolute couch potato. Between all the hustle and bustle of the holiday season, you sometimes just need a little R&R. So here’s our holiday viewing guide!

Order carryout from your favorite restaurant and queue up one of these holiday flicks.

Jim Henson’s Turkey Hollow (TVPG) This whimsical movie has all of the Thanksgiving vibes, plus some fun hijinks that everyone will enjoy.

Planes, Trains and Automobiles (R) This comedy is relatable to anyone who has struggled to travel home for the holidays. Steve Martin and John Candy at their best.

Soul Food (R) Though this is about one family coming to terms with itself over Sunday suppers, it will feel familiar to everyone around Thanksgiving.

You’ve Got Mail (PG) This has all the seasonal charm with lots of snappy dialogue. Seen it?

Watch the movie it’s based on, Little Shop Around the Corner.

The Muppet Christmas Carol (G) There are many adaptations of the Charles Dickens classic, but no other features Muppets. Everyone will love it!

It’s a Wonderful Life (PG) Of course we’re listing this sweet, tear-jerker classic!

It will surely remind you what Christmas is all about.

Die Hard (R) Yes, it is a Christmas movie. And yes, sometimes, you just need a break from all the sappy stuff. This action flick is unforgettable fun.

Emmet Otter’s JugBand Christmas (G) This Jim Henson special has probably slipped off your radar. It’s heartwarming, charming, catchy and adorable.

A Charlie Brown Christmas (TVG) It ain’t Christmas without Snoopy and the gang! The music and heartfelt story will have you in the holiday spirit in no time.

What Happens Later (R) In theatres Nov. 3, two exes get snowed in at the airport together.

This rom-com promises quirky, relatable fun.

The Family Stone (PG-13) This fish-out-ofwater story is a mix of comforting and cringy, hilarious and sentimental.

Just like any family gathering.

Red One (NR) The plot of this one is under wraps, but it promises to be a Christmas action adventure comedy with some pretty big stars. Coming to Amazon.

While You Were Sleeping (PG) Sandra Bullock falls in love with a man she’s never met – and ends up parading as his fiancée when he falls into a coma.

Ghostbusters 2 (PG) A little spooky and a whole lot funny, the big monster comes to life just as NYE kicks off in NYC. Make it a double-feature with the first one!

Trading Places (R) A bet changes the switches the lives of Dan Akroyd and Eddie Murphy in this wild 1983 social satire. It’s a comedy classic.

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Tyler Ulis Big Blue Return He was one of the most popular players to play for coach John Calipari at Kentucky and Tyler Ulis expected Big Blue fans to embrace him when he came back to UK as a graduate assistant coach midway of last season.

“The fans have always loved me and showed me love throughout my surgery (from a car crash about 1 1/2 years ago) and my pro career. I figured they would show me a lot of love and that’s why I love it here so much,” said Ulis.

He led the 2014-15 team that started the year 38-0 in assists and was a freshman all-Southeastern Conference selection. The next year he was a consensus firstteam all-American as well as the SEC Player of the Year and Defensive Player of the Year.

Ulis went on to play in 133 NBA games after leaving UK after his sophomore season and averaged 7.5 points, 4.0 assists, 1.7 rebounds and 21 minutes per game.

Now he’s ready to help a team featuring an abundance of young guards hopefully make a Final Four run.

“The players only know the last three years but when they go back and research him, and we utilize him a lot in our highlight clips, they can see the impact that he had on teams,” Kentucky assistant coach Orlando Antigua said. “Cal raves about him and how he empowered (the team) and that allowed him to run the team because of his leadership, knowledge, unselfishness and caring for his teammates.”

Ulis joined the UK coaching staff in January but was still on crutches from injuries suffered in the automobile accident. This season he says he can move around and be more “hands on” with players.

“I will be with the team the entire year and can do a lot more since I am not on crutches,” Ulis said. “I am still dealing with the injuries but I am just happy to be living in the present and able to show guys things on the court and help as much as I can.”

Ulis could be the perfect mentor for freshman guards DJ Wagner, Rob Dillingham, Reed Sheppard and Justin Edwards.

“A lot of guys we have are similar to a few teams I have played on and guys I have played with. I think I can help them a lot. We are a heavy point guard and heavy guard team,” Ulis said. “I have played for Cal and ran his offense, so I am trying to help them as much as I can.

“They are all smart. They can all pass, shoot, dribble. Really, the entire team is that way. We have a bunch of ball players, guys that can get in the lane and make good decisions. Once they learn this offense it is going to be a lot of fun this season because they are all really good players.”

Antigua said the learning process, especially for the new players, will be easier with Ulis on the staff.

“He is a great liaison between the staff and the players because he has lived what they are going through. He can talk about the expectations, the demands, the things as a staff we are trying to communicate and may not be registering with the players but he can deliver it in a different way to current players,” Antigua said.

“They still see him as relatively close in age and that gives him an advantage that will help us.”

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Donations Accepted through November 17th.

The Need is Great!! M.R. Bishop DMD & Associates is a proud member of the Jessamine County community and is thrilled to again partner with the Kentucky Center for Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery for the Share-a-Smile Food Drive. The goal is to fill the Jessamine County Food Bank so no family goes hungry over the holidays.

Drop off non perishable food or monetary donations at M. R. Bishop DMD & Associates offices at 409 Otter Drive in Nicholasville or contact Terri at 859-887-1094 now through November 17th.

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CALENDAR of Events What's happening in town this month?

Sports & Run/Walks

Performing & Visual Arts

NOVEMBER 5

NOVEMBER 8

VA5K 1pm Lexington VA Health Care System Franklin R. Sousley Campus

NOVEMBER 9

Day of the Dead Exhibition Living Arts & Science Center

NOVEMBER 6 UK Men’s Basketball vs New Mexico State Rupp Arena

NOVEMBER 7

George Thorogood and The Destroyers Lexington Opera House

Tommy Prine The Burl

Blues Traveler 8pm Manchester Music Hall

NOVEMBER 10

UK Men’s Basketball vs Texas A&M-Commerce Rupp Arena Holly Day Eve 5pm Central Bank Center

Community Events NOVEMBER 11

Lexington Junior League Holly Day Market 9am Central Bank Center UK Football vs. Alabama Kroger Field Academy of Local Musicians Hall of Fame Induction 7pm Central Public Library Lexington Chamber Orchestra 7:30pm Centenary Methodist Church

NOVEMBER 12

Lexington Junior League Holly Day Market 9am Central Bank Center Nurse Blake: Shock Advised Tour 8pm Singletary Center for the Arts

NOVEMBER 14

Irving Berlin’s White Christmas: The Musical Lexington Opera House

NOVEMBER 25

The Sporting Art Auction 12pm Keeneland

NOVEMBER 26

An Evening with Geraldine Brooks 6pm Keeneland

The Eagles with Steely Dan Rupp Arena

Southern Lights Stroll Kentucky Horse Park

UK Men’s Basketball vs Kansas 9:30pm AWAY

Turkey Strut 5K 9am Nicholasville

NOVEMBER 16

NOVEMBER 19

Irving Berlin’s White Christmas: The Musical Lexington Opera House Women in Leadership Awards 12pm The Signature Club

NOVEMBER 17

UK Men’s Basketball vs Stonehill 7pm Rupp Arena LexArts HOP Downtown

NOVEMBER 18

UK Football at South Carolina Away Lexington Philharmonic Space, Dinosaurs & Magic: The Music of John Williams 7:30pm Singletary Center

HOLLY DAY MARKET NOV. 11 & 12

Irving Berlin’s White Christmas: The Musical Lexington Opera House

NOVEMBER 20

UK Men’s Basketball vs St. Joseph’s 7pm Rupp Arena

NOVEMBER 21

Nutcracker! Magical Christmas Ballet 7pm Singletary Center

UK Football at Louisville Away

Holiday Lighting Festival 3pm Triangle Park Lexington Chamber Chorale: Sing Noel 5pm Second Presbyterian Church

NOVEMBER 28

UK Men’s Basketball vs Miami 7:30pm Rupp Arena GoodGiving Challenge Begins! bggives.org

NOVEMBER 30

UK Symphony Orchestra: In the Steppes of Central Asia 7:30pm Singletary Center for the Arts

DECEMBER 2

UK Men’s Basketball vs UNCWilmington 4pm Rupp Arena

NOVEMBER 23

Collage: A Holiday Spectacular 2023 2pm & 7:30pm Singletary Center for the Arts

NOVEMBER 24

Downtown Lexington Christmas Parade 11am Main Street

Thoroughbred Classic 5K 9am Keeneland

UK Men’s Basketball vs Marshall 7pm Rupp Arena

Bob Dylan 7:30pm EKU Center for the Arts

Celtic Woman Christmas Symphony Tour 7:30pm Norton Center for the Arts

Boys II Men 7:30pm EKU Center for the Arts

DECEMBER 10

DECEMBER 3 Jack Harlow 7:30pm Rupp Arena

Kentucky Ballet Theatre: The Nutcracker 2pm Lexington Opera House

Collage: A Holiday Spectacular 2023 3pm Singletary Center for the Arts

Alltech Celebration of Song 4pm Kentucky Horse Park

Holly Dolly Drag Brunch 11:30am The Origin Hotel

DECEMBER 16

UK Men’s Basketball vs North Carolina 5:30pm AWAY

DECEMBER 6

The Fab Four 7:30pm Lexington Opera House

Kentucky Ballet Theatre: The Nutcracker 2pm & 7pm Lexington Opera House

A Charlie Brown Christmas: Live on Stage 6pm EKU Center for the Arts

A Cathedral Christmas 8pm Cathedral of Christ the King

DECEMBER 8

DECEMBER 17

Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer 7:30pm EKU Center for the Arts

DECEMBER 9

UK Men’s Basketball at Penn 9pm AWAY

Kentucky Ballet Theatre: The Nutcracker 2pm Lexington Opera House

Kentucky Ballet Theatre: The Nutcracker 2pm & 7pm Lexington Opera House

UK Men’s Basketball at Louisville 6pm AWAY

DECEMBER 22

Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker 7:30pm EKU Center for the Arts Amadeus Lex: “We Wi-Schumann ‘erry Christmas” 7pm St. Mark Catholic, Richmond

DECEMBER 23

Lexington Ballet Company: The Nutcracker 2pm EKU Center for the Arts

DECEMBER 29

UK Men’s Basketball vs Illinois State 6pm Rupp Arena

DECEMBER 30 Tyler Childers 7:30pm Rupp Arena

DECEMBER 18

DECEMBER 31

DECEMBER 19

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Amadeus Lex: “We Wi-Schumann ‘erry Christmas” 6:30pm St. Michael Episcopal

Lexington SantaCon 2023 9am Downtown

DECEMBER 21

A Very Darren Crissmas 8pm Lexington Opera House

Tyler Childers 9pm Rupp Arena

Women In Leadership AWARDS LUNCHEON November 16 The Signature Club 3256 Lansdowne Dr., Lexington

12:00 - 2:00 PM

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Gale Reece

Raquel Carter

Chef & Restaurateur

Community Volunteer

Owner, Guide Realty

The Martha Layne Collins Legacy Award

The Isabel Yates Community Service Award

The Janet Holloway Path Lighter Award

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Tari Young, Raquel Carter and Lashawn Barber at the 2023 Empowerment Banquet

Lydia Black, Bryant Staley, Tawana Walters Palmer Kellie Clarke and Justin Morris at the Norwalk Open House

Women Leading Kentucky Spooky Soirée

Terry Thomas, Jacqueline Coleman, Brea Tillford, Chris Forhand, Shirl Marks and Angela Bates at Echoes of Our Ancestors

Ame Sweetall, Camden Skidmore and Kim Skidmore at an ARTY Party

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Carol Russell and Mike Turner

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Reagan Newman

Fran Elsen and Maury Sparrow

Kim Skidmore, Camden Skidmore and Emma Skidmore

Di Boyer and Priscilla Johnson

Scott Kinison, Brittney Kinison and Ben Haydon

Lynne Washbish, Vicki Evans, Kellie Stoddart and Matthew Stoddart

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Anthony Smallwood and Megan Martin

Dwight Turner and Apeksha Patel

Keith Yarber, Ame Sweetall and Vicki Evans

Marc Cobane, Jill Delair and Basha Roberts

Abbey Allen, Pamela Goodwine and Joseph Yarber

Cheryl Eadens, Jessica Munoz and Crystal Newton

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September 30 • Central Bank Center • photos by Woody Phillips and Carmen Siguenza

Carol Russell and Patty Breeze

Billie Dollins

Judy Rush and Eleanor Ratliff

Sheila Devine Griffeth and Tammy Dail

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Dr. Anthony Houston and Rebecca Houston

Jennifer Palumbo, Maggie Davis and Kirsten Rowland

New Vista team

Seth Smith and Shannon Smith

Maddie Goode

Cicily Smith, Patty Smith, Karen Harbin and Kristie Jones

Ryann Brashear, Janie Olmstead and Julia Fuqua

Randy Bird, Sharon Bird and Andrea Ooten

Kyra Elzy and Maddie Scherr

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October 10 • The Manchester Hotel • photos by Mary Pace

Chris McCarron, Linda Gorton and John Paul Miller

Fran Elsen, John Paul Miller and Reagan Newman

Luke Snyder and Paige Paxton Snyder

Mollie Jameson and Debbie Long

Keith Yarber and John Paul Miller

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Iris Setlakwe and Sherri Mosley

Neil Mosley, Sherri Mosley, Iris Setlakwe and Patrick Forte

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October 18 • Lexington Opera House • photos by Woody Phillips

Darryl Strawberry and Dr. Eli Capilouto

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Cathy Jacobs and Jim Muscove

Katie Vogel and Rufus Friday

Debbie Jones, Darryl Strawberry and Larry Jones

Darryl Strawberry, Marc Cobane and Jill Delair

Celia Moore and Jonathan Moore

Stephanie Porter, Jeffrey Newcomb and Susan Lancho

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keeneland fall meet

Keeneland • photos by Woody Phillips

Anna Thiel and Shannon Arvin

Chris Radousky and Keith Radousky

Make-A-Wish Kid Samuel and the Hagyard team

Make-A-Wish Kid Nikki and Rebecca Benton

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Bill Thomason and Kara Heissenbuttel

Ryn Harris, Anna Tomsik and Bill Tomsik

Jonathan Stroud and Elizabeth Stroud

Karen Harbin and Faith Hacker

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Proud town 1st annual pride & Inclusion festival October 21 • Winchester • photos by Whiskey and Wiles • sponsored by Walker Properties

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TOP 10 GREAT REASONS TO LIVE AT STERLING MEADOWS. 1.

Reduced Rates for a limited Time

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$500 Referral Fee

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On-Site Salon

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Physician Practice on Premises

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Studio and One Bedroom Apartments with spacious private baths

10. Three Home Cooked meals cooked daily.

We pride ourselves on our Mount Sterling location just 25 miles east of Lexington, where “Small Town America” is still alive and well throughout the community. We want to extend an invitation to individuals 65 and over that are interested in experiencing an exceptional lifestyle to stay in one of our beautifully decorated apartments, receive a relaxing manicure and pedicure and enjoy delicious meals and scheduled activities tailored to them.

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Friendship INCLUDED.

Friends enrich life. And Personal Care and Memory Care at a Cedarhurst Senior Living community help make you or your loved one rich with friends.

AND NOW, THE FRIENDSHIP BEGINS. Visit CedarhurstLiving.com or call to schedule a tour.

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*Cedarhurst Promise™ program is only available at advertised community. Not applicable for respite or other short-term stays. Refund is available only if move out is a result of dissatisfaction with Cedarhurst community as documented throughout stay. Complete rent refund includes base rent only. Additional terms and conditions may apply. Please see Resident Agreement for additional details. Void where prohibited.

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