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ISSUE 86 | DECEMBER 2018

WITH COLDWELL BANKER TOMLINSON

THE VOICES OF TOMLINSON: LOVE HEALS

Submitted by Julie Dean

CAROLING. The “Voices” of Tomlinson caroling group has been

CONNECTIONS. Even with mental impairment,

serving our community by touring nursing homes, hospitals, and retirement facilities since 1993. The group members engage with area seniors and reach the infirm or afflicted during the holidays through the universal language of music. Dozens of people have participated over the 25 year span, with four original members remaining. The following vignette exemplifies the type of impact their human contact provides:

trauma, or dementia, the musical center of the brain can be awakened. The members of “Voices” know this. They do more than sing; they engage with those they visit. Julie Dean, the group’s founder, puts it this way: “I am honored to stand/ sing/serve with these selfless people. Their joyful spirits, vulnerable hearts, and commitment to making a positive difference every day impress me. The connections we make through music are so real and tangible. We go out to give, yet we receive so much more.”

FRANCES. Her name is Frances. She no longer speaks. She is respectfully cared for in this place. She is truly lovely, captivating actually Undoubtedly radiant through her life. She sits silently, yet regally, in her chair by the Christmas tree. We begin to sing Christmas carols - the “Voices” of Tomlinson And Frances (with the others) lights up: focused - attentive. All the residents of the Memory Care Unit engage with us: Singing, laughing, smiling, whistling, tapping the beat. Frances begins moving her mouth. Then she begins softly singing - every word of every song! Quietly recollecting. Her spirit awakens and her muteness disappears. Kneeling in front of her, I reach to hold her hand. She squeezes mine as we sing “White Christmas” all together. I am holding back tears. In this moment, it’s just Frances and me ... Bridging affliction with “Voices.”

In this busy holiday season and darkness of winter, consider taking a moment to “see” people: make eye contact, share a smile, nod in recognition, shake a hand. The smallest of gestures can make the most positive impact. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!


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