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Hendricks County mom Carla Sands has a college degree in aerospace engineering, a pilot’s license and a love for all things aviation. However, her high-flying career never could have prepared her for the trials, joys and pains of motherhood and

parenting her three adventurous boys.

She is now grounded in her mission to provide support and encouragement to local moms through her organization, which is called Shine, mama.

main programs - growth groups and prayer groups.

Groups of women gather to pray in the local community, and in doing so they share authentic pieces of themselves, “The vision is that we have a community being vulnerable about their struggles, of women, not just a friend group, not just histories, pains and sufferings. a small group, but this Hendricks County community of moms where we become Growth groups are an extension of better versions of ourselves together,” Purposeful Living groups, which Sands Sands says. became involved in a couple years ago.

Purposeful Living is an Indianapolis nonprofit that aims to help women find The organization is a Hendricks County support and purpose in their marriages, nonprofit whose goal, according to the careers, motherhood journeys and lives. official website, is to encourage moms to shine the light of Jesus Christ by “sparking Sands stumbled upon the group at a very low point in her life. growth, igniting purpose, and kindling community.” This is done through two MARCH 2021

Sands grew up in North Carolina, which reveals itself in her charming accent. Her nuclear family consists of loving parents and two sisters, so she has always had female support in her life. In college she met her husband, and followed him to Georgia where she began to work full time in the aviation industry. They began their family, and Sands found she enjoyed being productive outside of the home.

When her second son turned 1 year old, she found herself struggling to balance full-time work with parenting.

“I couldn’t love my kids as well as I really wanted to,” Sands says. “It was such a big struggle.”

She began to work from home, which helped alleviate some pressure and stress. However, in 2014 she suffered what she calls the most devastating loss of her entire life. Sands experienced a

miscarriage during her third pregnancy.

She discovered this at 12 weeks along.

“It was a tremendous loss,” Sands says.

“When you get pregnant, you think constantly about what will happen, what their name will be, what the baby will be like. The miscarriage broke me down. I struggled to feel whole again after that.”

A few months after her loss, Sands’ family moved to Indiana for her husband’s job.

In addition to her pain, she began to experience isolation in a way she never had before.

“We had two kids, I just suffered a miscarriage, we came to a state far away from family, I had no friends and I was working from home,” Sands says. “I was alone.”

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extremely joyous occasion was painted with fear and anxiety due to her recent miscarriage. She sank into a depression.

“I was angry and I was scared,” Sands says. “I was stuck at home with no friends, no support system, and was convincing myself I was miscarrying. It was so hard to just be a person at that time, much less a good mom or a good wife.”

Thankfully her pregnancy resulted in a healthy baby boy who completed their family beautifully, but Sands was still struggling to find purpose in her day-today work and parenting. In addition to not feeling happy, she felt guilty about not finding fulfillment as a mom. She assumed since she grew up wanting to be a mother, while also being a very nurturing person naturally, that she would feel full of purpose as a mother.

However, as many moms find out

“THAT RE ALLY SPARKED SHINE, MAMA. “GOD CRAFTED IT FROM THERE. IT CAME FROM MOMS GETTING AWAY FROM LIFE FOR A LITTLE WHILE TO REALLY BUILD A COMMUNITY OF LOCAL MOMS.” - CARLA SANDS themselves, parenting was much harder than she anticipated.

In 2018 Sands got connected with Purposeful Living, whose aim is to bring women out of isolation and into a Christlike community. Sands joined a group and found a community of women who were solely there to build her up and affirm her.

“I really started blossoming,” Sands says.

“I saw what a supportive, safe, healthy, authentic community could do.”

Around the same time, Sands took a work trip by herself to San Diego, California.

She traveled for work occasionally, but being able to escape to California’s sunny climate during a cold, gray Indiana January hit her differently.

“Every mom deserves a trip to some place sunny, to do something they want for a day and escape the madness for a day or two,” Sands says.

While she couldn’t provide exactly that for other mamas, she dreamed of a place or group where she could make a mission out of giving moms a break, and build an intimate community of support and encouragement for them.

“That really sparked Shine, mama,” Sands says. “God crafted it from there. It came from moms getting away from life for a little while to really build a community of local moms.”

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curriculums, the current topic being “My Identity.” The group then digs into who God says they are, referencing scriptures and stories that support how loved, chosen and accepted women are by God. “We talk about how we construe that as women, or even how the world construes it,” Sands says. “We try to combat the lies the world tells women with who God says we are.”

Growth group meetings take place in homes every other week. Women bring their children, who can safely play together close by. Prayer groups take place once per month. Eventually Sands would love to offer child care at in-person events so that more women have the option to come.

raising a cash flow of $5,000 per month

by August of this year. This money will be poured right back into the community of moms.

“All of our programs are free,” Sands says.

“I don’t want that to be a limiting factor.

We cannot heal and we cannot grow alone.”

For more information, visit shinemama. org, or email Sands at Carla.jo@ shinemama.org.

Sands also implements community outreach. She worked with Family Promise in 2020, organizing the delivery of flowers, cards and gift bags to moms for Mother’s Day. She also did outreach to Family Promise graduates when COVID hit, offering donations of gently used learning toys, board games, and arts and crafts supplies.

She has goals for the coming year, while also realizing flexibility is required due to COVID. She’s in talks with a Hendricks County gym about possibly organizing a play group, making sure Family Promise families are aware of the opportunity.

She is also working on a quarterly program called “In Her Words,” for which she invites people to speak on taboo topics such as miscarriage and infant loss.

Potential future topics are grief, domestic violence or special-needs parenting.

In 2020 Sands saw success, growth and hope in her organization. There was one growth group and one prayer group, and second groups will be launching in February. A total of 40 women were impacted through outreach in 2020.

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EIGHT D E CADES IN LOVE 102-YEAR-OLD COUPLE FACES LIFE WITH GRACE, JOY AND POSITIVITY Writer / Christy Heitger-Ewing Photography Provided

If 2020 taught us anything, it’s that life can throw us one difficult curveball after another. While the unknown can be frightening, disconcerting and overwhelming, there is always hope. Just ask Hendricks County locals Bob and Gerry Peterson, both 102, who have been married for 79 years. They made it through World War II, have survived two global pandemics, and through it all they have remained steadfast in their commitment to positivity.

Gerry was just 11 months old when her mother died of the Spanish flu in 1919 at age 23. Following the tragedy, Gerry, an only child, was raised by her dad and his half-sister.

“Mom never really spoke about her mother’s passing,” says Sandy Galyan, Bob and Gerry’s daughter. “I don’t think back then people dwelled on the bad. Instead, they wanted to move forward.”

And that she did. Not that she knew it at the time, but in 1923 Gerry met the love of her life, Bob, when she was just 5 years old.

Fast-forward to 1936 when the pair graduated from high school.

They tied the knot five years later in April of 1941. Not only did they go on to raise three children (Dave, Sandy, and Bob), but they also helped care for Gerry’s dad and Bob’s brother Raymond, a quadriplegic confined to a wheelchair.

That kind of commitment is bound to add stress to any marriage, but Bob and Gerry took it all in stride. It may have something to do with the fact that they faced turmoil early on in their union as they married in the midst of World War II. In 1944 Bob went to enlist in the Army, but when he got to the front of the line, he was met by a relative on Gerry’s side of the family who asked Bob what he was doing.

“I’m joining the Army,” Bob replied.

The man shook his head and handed Bob his papers, then instructed him to get in the line for the Navy.

“Although he didn’t say it outright, he was indirectly telling dad that if he joined the Army, chances weren’t good that he would return from the war,” Sandy says.

Bob joined the Navy and served until 1946. He was sent to Pearl Harbor where he worked in communications as a typist under Admiral Chester Nimitz. While he was serving, Gerry gave birth to

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their firstborn son, Dave, whom Bob didn’t meet until Dave was 2 years old. Through all of these hardships, however, Bob and Gerry embraced the goodness in life. As for Sandy and her brothers, they learned about commitment, patience, kindness and empathy simply by watching their parents interact.

“As we knocked on doors, I remember feeling so excited about bringing joy to someone else,” says Sandy, who for years has regularly volunteered to feed the homeless because she learned early on the satisfaction that comes from helping others. “I was also proud of my dad for being so caring.”

“In our house, affection was always shown - lots of hugs and kisses,” Sandy says.

Though the pandemic has been especially tough for the senior population, Sandy says that she and her brothers have continued to speak positively when interacting with their parents.

There was one particular way that Gerry showed her husband she cared. Every evening she would start making dinner, then stop what she was doing before Bob got home and retreat to the bedroom to fix her hair and makeup, and put on a fresh dress and apron. One day Sandy asked her mom why she went to such trouble.

“I love your dad, and he happens to work in an office with lots of pretty secretaries,” Gerry replied. “I just want to always look my best when he comes home.”

Though Gerry was never particularly athletic through her kids’ younger years, she was always game for going camping, ice skating, roller skating, and anything the family did because she wanted to join in the fun.

For Bob’s part, he often brought home cards for his wife, and whenever he bought her a nice outfit, he had it wrapped.

“Their love was evident just in the way they spoke to each other, with such kindness and respect,” Sandy says.

Bob went to work dressed in a suit and tie, and Gerry laundered and pressed those clothes so that he always looked his best.

“She would do those loving things for him because he was out providing for her,” Sandy says. “It was a continual circle of doing for each other.”

In April the pair will have been married for 80 years, so it’s not surprising that they are often asked about their secret for making love last. The couple insists that it’s very simple.

“We are blessed by God, we treat each other as equals, and we don’t entertain negative thoughts,” Bob says. “A good life is all about positive thinking. Negativity doesn’t get you any place except in trouble.”

“Mom and dad have not only loved each other, but have always been in love with each other,” Sandy adds.

They also spread that love to others. For instance, when Sandy and her brothers were growing up, her parents had a greenhouse on their property. Every Easter, Bob would take a flower, complete with foil and a bow, to widows at their local church. Sandy often helped in this annual endeavor and vividly recalls the feelings it stirred inside of her.

“We’re using what they taught us to navigate this time,” says Sandy, who every Friday takes her folks dinner from the Coachman, one of their favorite restaurants. “I call mom and dad on Thursday and ask them what they would like for their Friday date-night dinner.”

Sandy has a theory about her parents’ longevity.

“I think that God said to mom and dad, ‘A long time ago, I asked you to care for your parent and your brother during your early

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Being 102, the couple has plenty to reminisce about.

“Mom is more forgetful now, but what helps them stay connected is the fact that any given time, one of them can go back and say, ‘I was just thinking about so-and-so,’ and they can have a conversation about it,” Sandy says.

Not long ago Sandy asked her mom how far back she could remember knowing her dad, and there was a long pause that tugged at Sandy’s heart as she worried that perhaps the memories were starting to fade. Gerry sat and stared for a bit, and then all of a sudden looked up and said, “Well, maybe the first recollection I have at the moment would be in the fifth grade.”

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It’s also rather remarkable to still be able to draw stories from two living, breathing history books, as Sandy and her siblings gather details about their ancestors. For instance, Gerry’s Swedish grandparents put their 15-year-old daughter (Gerry’s mother) on a ship that went from Sweden to Belfast to America. She sat in steerage in the bottom of a ship where half the people couldn’t even talk to each other. When she arrived at Ellis Island, she registered as a servant.

“More than anything, I just have to say that it’s a privilege to have mom and dad as parents,” Sandy says. “They’ve taught us to be grateful and kind. They are honestly just so much fun.”

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For years, Traci Gibson worked as a home intervention specialist for First Steps, an early intervention program that provides services to young children who have developmental delays or disabilities. With a master’s degree in special education and applied behavioral analysis, she was trained for such work and thrived in her field. When she and her husband Jon had children, two of whom had developmental disabilities, she was well aware of what they needed.

The problem was that so many others in the community were also in dire need, and after being put on various waiting lists for therapies, Gibson decided to do something about it.

“A lot of agencies are enormous and it’s hard to get your calls answered,” says Gibson, who opened Embracing Abilities in October of 2018. “I saw a need for a more familyfocused provider agency. “We put faces to the services. We have direct connections to those who provide the services for their loved ones.”

The organization started with a handful of people and a goal of working with 30 families. They added therapy services the following year and rented an office space in Plainfield, but outgrew it by April of 2019 so the following month they moved to a location in Avon between the Town Hall and Avon United Methodist Church.

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outpatient clinic with musical, recreational, behavioral, occupational and speech therapy.

“Our little 30-family goal was great, but we grew exponentially and surpassed that in two months,” Gibson says. “When we hit our two-year mark last October, we were serving more than 700 families.”

The staff members are currently gearing up to renovate the back part of the lot to build an inclusive and adaptive playground for the community this spring or summer.

“Typical playgrounds don’t fit every child,” says Gibson, noting that it will not be a playground strictly speaking, but rather an “experience ground” with outdoor musical instruments, as well as sensory and balance improvement activities.

Embracing Abilities serves a wide age range, from babies to elderly clients. Currently, their youngest is 2 and their oldest is in his 70s. Gibson shares how rewarding it is to provide caregiver support so individuals can focus their energies elsewhere from time to time and have a break. For example, perhaps a parent wants to attend another child’s basketball game but they have an autistic child who can’t handle bright lights and

loud noises. Maybe a mom and dad haven’t enjoyed a date night in months because they are constantly tending to their child’s behavioral and medical needs.

“Having someone come in and allow caregivers to take a break is so important,” Gibson says. “It’s a wonderful feeling in your heart to know you are impacting people in a positive way.”

Embracing Abilities offers a number of programs, including the Reach program, Summer Camp, Winter Camp and Parents’ Day Out. Last summer, due to COVID-19, they offered a hybrid virtual option for summer camp, but in normal times children meet up with their counselors to swim, go to a movie theater, attend a play, or visit a honey farm - different activities that are not always possible for families to participate in when they have other children because the excursion proves to be too overwhelming.

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on the screen,” says Gibson, whose own daughter lives for the one-on-one interaction with her therapist at Embracing Abilities. “As a parent, it’s nice that our kids still have that connection because they have lost so many connections over the last year.”

Though the pandemic presented its challenges, Gibson is thankful for the way her staff and families were able and willing to adjust.

“It’s just learning a new world, but I feel positive about the ways we’ve been able to support people even with the curveballs that kept coming,” says Gibson, who felt a lot of pressure with 300-plus employees and 700plus families all counting on her to make the right choices.

She often hears from family members who express their gratitude for the way Embracing Abilities has positively affected their entire family’s life.

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Gibson is quick to acknowledge that she couldn’t have gotten this far without the outpouring of community support.

For instance, when the staff members were building their clinic kitchen and had ordered IKEA cabinets that needed assembly, she posted a plea on social media, asking for volunteers.

“A number of people showed up who had no connection whatsoever to our organization,” she says. “They sat on the floor of the gym and helped us build.”

In November, they collected bottle caps in order to turn them in to a plastic plant and purchase buddy benches and picnic tables.

When they posted the request on their marquee, individuals began dropping off hundreds of bottle caps daily.

Gibson’s favorite part of the job is seeing and hearing how their services affect clients.

When the children come to the office or are dropped off for camp, their faces are beaming with enthusiasm - and they’re not the only emotional ones. Parents sometimes cry because they are so moved by the love and commitment on the part of the staff. One mother told Gibson, “I’ve tried multiple summer camps and have never seen staff that is so excited to work with my son.”

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“That real-life feedback is what makes everything worthwhile,” Gibson says. “In the end, that’s why we are here - to better the lives of people with disabilities and also better the life of their families.”

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My entire yard is fondly called “the garden.” There is plenty of work and exercise to be found here year-round. It is where I find joy, and what I love teaching people about the most - how to grow a more beautiful life.

March is the beginning. It is the time I wait for all year. The spring equinox will arrive on Saturday, March 20 at 5:37 a.m. I love how precise spring is. She knows right when to get here, and it is always when we need her the most.

Begin your work with taking stock of your property. With a cup of coffee in hand, walk your property and dream a little. What do you want to change? Would you like to grow more cut-flowers, and bring them indoors for family dinners? How about some more privacy - do you need to plant a screen of trees? I usually begin by looking for the damage the winter harshness has created. With pruners along for the walk, I will discard any broken or unsightly limbs from woody plants. (Note: I always sharpen and clean all my tools prior to starting). This is a good place to begin.

Most importantly, begin to remove winter debris. Remove any remnants of last season’s garden. I always use a general granular, organic fertilizer and sprinkle around the base of the newly exposed green shoots. If the soil is thawed enough, I will edge the beds and get a crisp, sharp outline around each area. I try not to rake too much, as this will expose the weed seeds lying just under the soil. I want to leave those dormant as long as possible.

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She is all about timing. When you see those little crocus sprouts, or the tips of your tulips begin to emerge, don’t worry too much.

They know what they are doing. If you want to cover them with a little newspaper or a sheet because a blanket of ice is coming, do it especially cover if the flower buds are well emerged.

I adore the perfect timing of it all. English gardeners have long believed in timing when it comes to the moon’s incredible power, particularly the gravitational pull. The Farmer’s Almanac reads, “Folklore is rich among farmers, given their close ties to earth and her natural rhythms.” The moon’s new and first-quarter phases, known as the Light of the Moon, are considered good for planting above-ground crops, putting down sod, grafting trees, and transplanting in the late spring. Also, you have to love this tip: “Dig your horseradish in the full moon for the best flavor.” This is good to know for that savory Bloody Mary. Now that’s wellness!

While I love the perfect timing of it all, it is OK to “force” a few things along the way. Now is a great time to plant small vessels with wheatgrass seed to use indoors for your Easter table centerpieces.

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The shop itself is almost like a time machine.

The posters of vintage albums, the scribbled notes at the front desk, and chairs waiting for visitors to stop in and maybe listen to music or have a conversation, all provide a different feel than many businesses these days. 6 Strings Down, a music shop in Plainfield that offers lessons, repairs and equipment, has been in the community for 23 years and shows no signs of stopping.

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“I’ve always liked people,” Bryant says.

“Believe it or not, people make the world go round. Without them, this place is nothing.”

A sign above his cash register drives his point home: “Enter as strangers, leave as friends.”

Bryant’s passion for guitars and music goes way back into his childhood.

“It all started with the Beatles, just like everyone else my age,” Bryant says. “The Beatles on ‘The Ed Sullivan Show’ sold more guitars than any guitar salesman could ever dream of selling. They inspired a whole

generation to start playing.”

Bryant simply started playing with his friends, and eventually found a deal where he could get some guitar lessons at a local shop in Plainfield. The deal was that customers could rent a guitar and get a handful of lessons at a set price.

“My dad always said to think carefully through things to make sure they’d work out,” Bryant says. “It took him two minutes to figure out he was in trouble because this was going to work for me.”

He finally got his first guitar at 12 years old, a little Stella acoustic guitar, and decided to pursue more lessons. However, in his day, guitar lessons were almost always the same and consisted of a strict regimen.

Bryant and his friends were ready for more complicated skills.

His teacher at the time would grab Beatles music for Bryant and his friends, so they could at least play what they wanted.

“It wasn’t perfect, but it kept the fire going,” Bryant says. “A bunch of us started at the same time. I’d learn something, I’d show it to Phil, then he’d learn it and show it to someone else, and that’s how the whole thing got started. We pretty much taught ourselves or helped each other along.”

Phil Jarrett and Bryant have been friends since childhood, having attended high school and college together. They played music together through the decades, and now Jarrett drives Bryant to work, often sitting in his shop for a while to chat or play music.

“For a while we were just playing,” Jarrett says. “We’d start bands and play in garages, basements, driveways, and shelters at parks - we didn’t care. As long as we got to play, we were having fun.”

Jarrett is around the shop often enough to know some of the customers, and he tells the story of a father who comes in regularly with his two daughters. Both girls love music and love piano, and their father taught them some guitar. They stopped in one

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evening and played together in the shop.

“The beat goes on, so they say,” Jarrett says.

“Dad learned, then dad teaches the kids, and they continue the tradition. It was really cool.”

Bryant admits it’s tough to get kids to practice. He can usually tell in a week or two if they will actually play, and keep up their practice and skills. He attributes a lot of the unwillingness to practice to the times.

“Growing up, most kids my age had a piano at home,” Bryant says. “I was playing guitar, and my sister was taking piano lessons.

When no one was home, I was on that piano.”

He continued to play in bands through the mid-1970s, when he had his first son. He says one night he was getting ready to leave while his baby son sat on the floor looking at him, almost as if to ask where he was going.

“It just hit me,” Bryant says. “I went and played that night, and turned my notice in to the band. I quit playing for 17 years so I could be with my family.”

While he played plenty at home and for gatherings, Bryant didn’t join a band again until 1994. During that time he was working with a friend who built custom homes during the day, so Bryant was heading out early and getting home early every day.

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getting his business plan together.

Everything was settled except for the name.

He approached the problem the only way he knew how - through music. He had a disc player that rotated through five albums at a time, and he just sat and listened to music. When he heard the song “Six Strings Down,” he knew that’s what he wanted to call his shop. He was a huge Stevie Ray Vaughan fan, and the song was written by his brother Jimmie as a tribute to Stevie.

Bryant opened 6 Strings Down in 1997.

There had been a music shop in Plainfield, but it closed and opened back up in Speedway. Bryant’s first location was where African Plumb Home & More sits today on Main Street. He was there through October of 2005, when he moved to his current location. He’s been a one-man show ever since he opened, only hiring a little help here and there.

child with any kind of desire is squelch that desire. If they can’t get it, at least you gave them a chance, and usually a seed gets planted and they’ll try it again in the future.”

“I’ve never wanted to get so big I couldn’t do it myself,” Bryant says. “I know that’s a strange outlook for a business plan. Most want to start itty-bitty and be the Goliath of the world, but I’ve never aspired to be Bill Gates. That’s why I don’t put prices on anything. You’ve got to talk to me instead.”

Bryant teaches approximately 25 lessons per week in person, and lessons last 30 minutes. He doesn’t have a website, a Facebook page or an email address, but he encourages people to call or stop in, to talk or hear a song. He has full faith in word-ofmouth advertising.

Bryant emphasizes how music has always been there for him through the years, and how it’s an excellent fallback for anyone in life.

“When age creeps up on you and you can’t go out and do the physical things you’ve been doing, the guitar will be your friend forever,” he says. “It’s always there for you.”

He encourages anyone to try and learn to play.

“Most people see ads and go, ‘OK,’ and it’s gone - but coming from a friend or relative, that’s the absolute best advertising you can have,” Bryant says. “I’m just happy doing what I’m doing. That’s the name of the game.”

“We’re open to anyone,” Bryant says. “Even if they’re as young as 5. I’ve always said, I think the worst thing you can do to any

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