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During this time of year, being thankful for blessings received is top of mind. While this year has been extremely challenging, from COVID-19 to Hurricanes Laura and Delta, we’ve experienced the generous spirit of our friends and neighbors. We are truly grateful for your outpouring of love and support this year. With your help, we remain committed to providing exceptional care to our community, every moment, every day.

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In This Issue

Wining & Dining 6 Bring SWLA Traditions to the Holiday Table

28 Business Buzz 8 Peace, Love, & Pasta - Pasta Lab Opens in LC 42 Who's News

62 Solutions for Life

Mind & Body

Regular Features

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Don’t Take A Holiday from Asthma Management Handling Holiday Stress Not-so-Jolly Holiday Health Risks Chronic Pain & the Holidays

Money & Career

18-27 Special Section:

The Banking Industry:

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Places & Faces

30-37 Cover Section:

Good Samaritans of SWLA

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Style & Beauty

44 Sparkle and Shine

Holiday Style Trends

46 Trends in Bangs

Home & Family

48-56 Special Section:

58 Fireplace Gadgets

60 Manage Your Child's Holiday Gift Expectations

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Wining & Dining Holiday tables across Southwest Louisiana usually have one thing in common: they are full of mouth-watering dishes that give a nod to tradition.

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Foods like juicy, tender, mouth-watering

turkeys stuffed with Grandma’s cornbread dressing, succulent hams with pineapple rounds and plump cherries perched on top, cheesy broccoli casseroles, candied yams with gooey, melted marshmallows, rice dressing, green bean casseroles topped with crunchy fried onions, mashed potatoes and gravy, buttery, fluffy dinner rolls, and of course, cranberry sauce.

These are everyone’s favorite comfort foods, all in one day, and nobody cooks up comfort quite like southerners do.

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With down-home recipes that have been honed to perfection through the years, tables decked out in rich colors, and favorite serving platters, the scene is set.

Holiday tables in these parts are smorgasbords of gastronomical delights offering up bold flavors and dishes to remember.

Although casseroles of every sort take center stage right alongside the turkey or ham at Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners, some like to add boudin, crawfish, gumbo, or something caught during hunting season to the tables. This is Cajun Country after all!

Speaking of Cajuns, nobody ever said only turkey or ham could be served as the main dish. For a showstopper, consider a turducken for the main course. Turducken is a dish that consists of a chicken stuffed inside a duck that’s then stuffed inside a turkey, hence the name; a combination of the words turkey, duck, and chicken. It may sound quirky, but it’s tasty.

In recent years, fried turkey has been all the rage. Deep-frying a turkey makes it crispy on the outside and ever-so-juicy on the inside.

For those with a sweet tooth, some folks have separate dessert tables laden with decadent pies and other sweet treats. Guests will find everything from pecan and pumpkin to lemon meringue and chocolate pies. Not to mention cookies, fudge, banana nut bread, divinity, and bread pudding.

All of those things are melt-in-your-mouth delicious, but many have taken to tweaking some menu items over the years to give dishes an added boost.

For instance, why serve the same old cranberry sauce from the can (even if you’ve been doing it forever) when you can jazz up the dish by using fresh cranberries and adding ingredients such as orange zest, fresh ginger, and cinnamon (a basic recipe is on the bag). Those little berries do a lot more than just perk up your table, though. They are colorful, delicious, and packed with antioxidants.

Serving up turkey or ham with all the trimmings makes for great leftovers the next day – there’s nothing better than a turkey or ham sandwich with a little dressing and cranberry sauce on the side (or inside the sandwich, if preferred.)

Finally sitting down to that long-anticipated holiday dinner with family or friends, especially after a difficult year like 2020, is the perfect opportunity to look around the table and give thanks for the special people in your life while recalling memories of ones who are no longer here.

Enjoying incredible food while fellowshipping with loved ones is the cherry on top. May everyone find something to be truly thankful for this year, despite the many hardships.

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Wining & Dining

Peace, Love,

& Pasta Italian cuisine lovers, take note – there’s a new one-of a-kind pasta shop in Lake Charles! Pasta Lab creates a variety of fresh pastas from scratch with the highest quality ingredients and made with equipment imported from Italy.

“We use tip-top ingredients such as imported Northern Italian soft flour, American hard red wheat flour, cage-free organic eggs, and spring water,” says Michael Gardner, owner of Pasta Lab. Gardner first imagined the idea of a pasta manufacturing/retail storefront after leaving a long career in golf and country club management, including a six-year stint at the Lake Charles Country Club in the late 1990s.

“I had a clear vision of people coming into a very dynamic environment with metal-clad walls, concrete floor, bright lights and motion, and shopping for pasta, oils and vinegars, and Parmesan cheese.”

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PASTA LAB

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Gardner says he became interested in pasta making in the 1990s when his mother gave him a Marcato counter-top hand crank pasta making set. “I had a blast, making all kinds of flats and a few filled things. My enthusiasm waned during my peak career years but returned around 2017. Homemade pasta makes people smile. Whether I give someone a bunch of pasta or I make it for a gathering, people seem to be wonder struck.”

GARDNER’S FLAT PASTAS – capellini, spaghetti, fettucine, tagliatelle, pappardelle- are yolk-only pastas and produced from sheets of pasta, compared to grocery pastas which are forced (extruded) through a die, for example, round spaghetti. “Our spaghetti is square, because it is rolled and cut,” explains Gardner.

“Fresh or dried? You choose at the shop. Fresh pasta goes home to the boiling pot right away. We roll and cut pasta on-the-spot for folks and can layer in fresh basil, cracked black pepper, or red chili flakes.”

HIS SHAPED PASTAS – rigatoni, fusilli, penne, elbow macaroni, shells- are extruded, out of necessity. “The dies that form the shapes are solid bronze. The pasta produced is intended to showcase the sauce or ragout being served. So, the surfaces are ridged (rigati) or smooth (lisce), as appropriate. Simplified, it’s good!”

To enhance your pasta experience, Pasta Lab offers an assortment of Italian grating cheeses, such as Parmigiana-Reggiano, Asiago and Pecorino Romano, available as a block or grated. “We have our own grater, so the cheeses are super-fresh,” says Gardner. He also sells a variety of olive oils from around the world with infusions of herbs, florals, and garlic; and balsamic vinegars with flavors such as fig and berry.

Pasta Lab has an in-house studio, complete with closed-circuit monitors, a functioning range, and a touch of quarry tile, where Gardner offers classes on basic pasta making, advanced shapes, and the secrets that make home pasta making easy and clean. More classes with a variety of cooking topics are in the works. “These classes make a great date night for couples, a unique party experience for birthdays and showers, or team building exercises. Bring your own beverages, talk, forget about our troubled world for a little while, and leave feeling good.”

Pasta Lab is open Tuesday through Saturday, from 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. 1301 E. McNeese Street, Suite 105, Lake Charles. Call 337-419-0285, find them on Facebook, or go to www.Pasta.Fun.

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Mind & Body DON’T TAKE A HOLIDAY FROM

Asthma Management

by Christine Fisher

Holiday festivities can give asthma sufferers a reason to say Bah Humbug. From bringing dusty ornaments down from the attic, to burning heavilyscented candles, there are many triggers that can cause problems. People with asthma can’t take a holiday from keeping symptoms under control.

“Identifying triggers helps,” says Jody George, MD, family medicine physician with The Family Care Center of SWLA and medical staff member of West Calcasieu Cameron Hospital. “It’s helpful to know what could bring on an asthma attack. During the holidays, there are many activities and home décor additions that are not part of our everyday routines. It can be easy to forget to take proper care when dealing with asthma.”

Asthma triggers are plentiful and can flare up from a variety of situations:

Home  If you choose a live tree for the holidays, let it dry out in the

garage or enclosed porch. If you buy from a vendor that offers to put it in a shaking machine before taking it home, do that.

It will help remove loose needles and also helps get rid of allergens on the tree.

 When using an artificial tree, take it outside to make sure it is dust-free before assembling it inside.

 Limit or eliminate heavily scented candles and potpourri.

Some air fresheners can also cause discomfort for people with asthma.

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 Keep in mind that glass, metal or plastic decorations can be

easily washed each season before using, to get rid of any dust mites, mold or allergens. Store them in a plastic bin to help reduce dust.

 Smoke from fireplaces may aggravate asthma. Keep firewood outside until it’s time to use it. Logs carry allergens that can aggravate symptoms.

Travel  Take your own pillow and pillowcase while traveling. You may consider also taking your own blanket.

 If you plan to visit a home with pets, take your medication

before arriving to minimize a possible reaction. Inform your hosts that you have asthma; they will likely do what they can to make your stay as comfortable as possible.

Outdoors  Raking leaves and doing outdoor work, especially in the

damp weather of fall and winter, can cause symptoms to flare up. If possible, delegate those chores to another family member who does not suffer from asthma. If that is not an option, choose a day that is clear and sunny.

 Cold weather can aggravate symptoms. On especially cold

days, some people find it helpful to wear a scarf to warm and humidify the air before it enters the lungs.

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Mind & Body

NOT -SOJOLLY

Holiday Health Risks

by Kristy Como Armand

The cheer and warm wishes of the holiday season can lighten the heart and lift the spirit, but they can also bring some very unmerry health problems. In fact, the very things we love most about the holidays – decorating, visiting with family and friends, eating and drinking – may result in a few adverse effects on your health.

Imperial Health physicians have provided an overview of some of the more common health problems that occur during the holidays, along with advice to prevent these unwelcome gifts from ruining your enjoyment of the season.

Germs

We’re living through a new surge of COVID-19, so everyone should be familiar with the necessary steps to help prevent the spread of coronavirus. “Because of the pandemic, many typical holiday activities and travel plans are scaled back or not taking place at all, which will help minimize the risk of exposure to many of the typical seasonal viruses, such as cold and flu,” says Dr. Andrew Bradberry, family medicine specialist. “We are already seeing this with the flu, with lower rates than typical for this time of year, believed to be due to precautionary measures in place for COVID-19.” As a reminder, Dr. Bradberry says washing your hands is by far the best thing anyone can do to keep germs in check. “Use soap and running water if possible. If you aren’t near soap and water, anti-bacterial gels are a good second choice.

And of course, wear a mask to protect yourself and others.”

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Allergies

People with allergies face unique health challenges during the winter holidays, both from food and from many of the things we do to decorate for the season.

The variety of foods available increases the risk for those with food allergies. “For those with known allergies, extra care is needed during the holidays when many people are preparing foods,” says Dr. Bridget Loehn, ENT & Allergy Specialist. If you aren’t sure of the ingredients in a dish, ask, or if you can’t find out, don’t eat it. Also, take time to check restaurant menus before eating out or ordering in, and always have an epinephrine injection kit available in case of a reaction.”

“Molds are not usually a problem in the winter, as their counts are lower, but the greenery many people bring into their homes, including Christmas trees, can harbor mold spores, which could trigger an allergic reaction” says Dr. Loehn. She advises using an artificial tree or greenery if you are prone to indoor allergies and dusting off stored decoration before putting out. Limit or remove scented candles, potpourri and similar items than can cause discomfort for those with allergies. Use caution with spray-on “snow,” and popular pine-scented sprays or oils, which can cause allergic reactions in some people. “If you have an established pattern for allergy flare ups at this time of year, take treatment precautions to prevent those symptoms. If you are traveling, pack any medications you may need.”

Heartburn

When it comes to over-indulgence, holiday heartburn is another seasonal concern. Rich holiday food may leave you reaching for the antacids instead of the leftovers. Dr. Bradberry says for those who experience chronic acid reflux or gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD), the holidays can be especially painful. Acid reflux is a common, chronic digestive condition caused by a weakened lower esophageal sphincter (the valve between the stomach and esophagus) that allows stomach acid to back up into the esophagus. Heartburn, sour taste and indigestion are the most common symptoms. “The holiday season is one of the worst times of the year for patients with GERD,” says Dr. Bradberry. “The large amounts and different types of food we eat during the holidays can lead to extreme discomfort for chronic heartburn sufferers. It’s important to stay focused on your dietary recommendations and take medications as directed.”

Heart Health

The holidays are full of surprises, but a heart attack is something no one expects. However, multiple studies show that the incidence of heart attacks occurring the two weeks before and the two weeks after Christmas increase significantly, with the highest increase – 37% -- being found on Christmas Eve, according to 2018 study published in the British Journal of Medicine. Researchers from Vanderbilt Medical Center in Nashville studied national death rates from a nearly 30-year period and found that deaths related to heart disease spike in December and January, reaching their peak on Christmas and New Year’s Day.

Similar results were found in a national study conducted at the University of California in San Diego. These researchers found that the number of cardiac deaths is higher on Christmas Day than on any other day of the year; with the second highest on December 26 and third highest on January 1.

Dr. Thomas Mulhearn, cardiologist with Cardiovascular Specialists of Southwest Louisiana, says there are many reasons for this phenomenon.

“People with symptoms of heart trouble during the holidays tend to delay going to the doctor, partly from denial and partly from procrastination because it’s such a busy time. They are less likely to see their physicians when they first notice symptoms, mistakenly thinking they can just deal with it after the holidays are over.” Other holiday-related risk factors include too much food, too little exercise, added stress, and alcohol. “Busy holiday schedules often provide the perfect excuse for skipping a workout or indulging in foods that are higher in fat, sodium and calories – all things that are not good for your heart.” He adds that missing medications can also cause a problem during the holidays.

“People are out of their normal routine and may forget to take medications such as blood thinners and pills for high blood pressure, or if traveling, may forget to pack them.”

Don’t let preventable health problems put a damper on your holidays. Take a few precautions and enjoy the season in good health!

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In spite of its reputation as “The Most Wonderful Time of the Year,” for people suffering from chronic pain conditions, the holiday season can feel anything but jolly.

According to the CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention), 20 million Americans suffer from chronic pain that interferes with their daily activities. William Lowry Jr., MD, physical medicine and rehabilitation specialist with Center for Orthopaedics, explains that chronic pain can result from many different conditions, including rheumatoid arthritis, neuropathy, osteoarthritis, degenerative disc disease, fibromyalgia and traumatic injury, just to name a few of the most common causes. .

“The holidays can be stressful for everyone, but if you are already coping with the challenges of managing chronic pain, the added stress and activity level of the season may make a challenging condition much more difficult,” says Dr. Lowry. “Increased stress for most chronic pain patients leads to increased pain.”

He advises having a plan in place for the holidays and offers the following suggestions that might help you enjoy the holidays while keeping your pain in check..

1. BE REALISTIC If you aren’t physically able to do everything you once did over the holidays, don’t set your expectations based on the past. Unrealistic expectations will only lead to disappointment. You know your body and what is likely to cause a pain flare. Don’t take on more than you know you can manage. Adjust your activities according to your current capabilities and don’t dwell on what you can’t do. Consider what is practical and use that as your starting point for your holiday plans.

2. PLAN AND PRIORITIZE Make a list of all of your tasks and prioritize them. Be organized and start preparations early. Know in advance what you can let slide and what really has to be done. Set a schedule, communicate this to your family, and stick to it. Prioritize those events that are most important to you and won’t exacerbate your pain symptoms. It’s incredibly tempting to get caught up in holiday cheer and ignore warning signals, so set a hard “out” time for events in advance, and consider taking two cars, so you can leave when you need to without curtailing anyone else’s fun.

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3. DELEGATE A lot of people try to do it all themselves, but the holidays are meant to be a family affair. This is even more important if you are living with chronic pain. Don’t be afraid to share the workload. This year, maybe you don’t need to be the only cook for the holiday feast. Save your energy and ask loved ones who will be attending to help by bringing a dish, coming early to help prepare it, staying late to assist with clean-up, or helping in some other way. The same goes for decorating, shopping, cleaning the house and other tasks. You do not have to do everything yourself.

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4. RELAX Manage your stress levels by scheduling downtime. Once the hectic holiday pace begins, it can be hard to find time to relax, so be proactive and carve out time to slow down. Avoid scheduling multiple energy-intensive activities close together; mix in some time to rest and recuperate.

5. DON’T NEGLECT YOUR HEALTH It’s easy to want to forget about your health problems during this festive time but doing so could prevent you from enjoying any of it.

Eating right, exercising and getting the recommended amount of sleep is an important part of pain management, so try to stick to those routines as much as possible. Many pain medications work best if they are taken on a regular schedule, but this can be hard to do when normal schedules are disrupted by holiday activities. Use your phone to set an alarm so that you don’t miss medication doses. Make sure you will not run out of medications if traveling and/or while your doctor’s office is closed over the holidays. Don’t skip your doctor or physical therapy appointments during the holidays, and discuss your plans for coping with the seasonal demands with your provider. They can offer some additional advice for your specific situation.

“The holidays can be enjoyable even when you have chronic pain,” adds Dr. Lowry. “The key is recognizing your needs and taking steps to care for yourself.”

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Lakeside Bank prides itself on being a locally owned, locally operated community bank that is “small enough to know you and big enough to serve you.” Never has that philosophy been more important than over the past year.

First during the COVID-19 crisis and then during two major hurricanes, individuals and businesses in Southwest Louisiana turned to Lakeside for help navigating the financial challenges of multiple disasters.

“We are here for our customers during the good times and the bad times. This is our home, too.

We’re committed to personal service and those are much more than just words to us,” says Roy M. Raftery, Jr., President and CEO of Lakeside Bank. “By helping our community through these tough times, we’ll all come out stronger, together.”

In response to the COVID crisis, Lakeside bankers worked nonstop to help small local businesses get approved for the muchneeded SBA Paycheck Protection Program (PPP). The bank also offered a skip-a-payment program to help their customers cope with the financial strain of the shut-down. “We were able to respond to this crisis immediately,” says Raftery, “because we have the liquidity, decisions are made right here, and our lenders are accessible and responsive.”

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When the hurricanes hit this year, Lakeside had branches open and bankers available immediately after the storm. “That’s when our customers needed us,” says Raftery. “Not weeks later, and not by calling a corporate office. We were right here.”

Lakeside took other immediate steps to help support hurricane recovery in Southwest Louisiana, including three-year unsecured personal loans, special rates on home equity lines of credit, deferred loan payments and more. A hurricane resource page was added to their website to provide information about Lakeside recovery support, as well as easy access to other information to assist with recovery.

With five locations across Southwest Louisiana, Lakeside offers a full range of personal and business banking services, including online and mobile banking technology. “Our customers, both individuals and businesses, want the convenience of managing their money quickly, securely and efficiently, from their homes, offices or on the go,” says Raftery. “We make this as easy as possible, along with a personal connection to their banker.”

As an added boost of confidence in the value of local banking, Lakeside Bank was ranked one of the 200 healthiest banks in the United States (the only one in Louisiana to be included) in DepositAccounts’ “Top 200 Healthiest Banks in America” 2020 annual report.

Lakeside also received the Bauer 5-Star rating, the highest possible awarded by Bauer Financial, the nation’s leading independent bank rating firm. This rating denotes the absolute highest level of banking performance.

Lakeside begins their second decade well positioned for future growth, reaching a remarkable $300,000,000 in assets in its first 10 years of operation. “As we look toward the future, we see our footprint expanding to meet the needs of our community,” says Raftery.

“We’re proud to be part of the region’s recovery and growth, providing the level of high quality, personal banking services our customers deserve.”

Learn more about Lakeside Bank at www.mylksb.bank.

Southwest Louisiana Credit Union (SWLACU) has deep roots in the Southwest Louisiana community.

It began as PPG Employees’ Credit Union in 1952, with a vision to put the member first and meet the needs of the average worker. SWLACU is now a full-service, multi-location credit union that caters to the unique needs of the people of Southwest Louisiana. From a small office at the PPG Industries production facility to the credit union it is today, the cornerstone of their philosophy remains the same: people helping people.

It starts with technology that rivals corporate banks. SWLACU offers members the convenience of 24/7 account access through online and mobile banking. Members can mobile-deposit checks, make transfers, set up automatic bill and loan payments, receive e-statements, find the nearest ATM or banking center, and more.

But banking is much more than just a transactional relationship for the credit union— they seek to educate their members and make

a difference in the community. “We obtained our CDFI (Community Development Financial Institution) designation in 2018, allowing us to pour back into our communities through financial empowerment workshops, scholarships, a financial empowerment center, and a tuition loan plan for those pursuing fast-track programs to engage them into today’s workforce—especially high-demand skilled trades,” says Chad Miller, CEO. Through this grant funding, those with a tuition loan can also apply to receive a monthly stipend for childcare and housing costs—the two main barriers to earning a technical degree or certification.

Southwest Louisiana Credit Union aims to meet the needs of members from all different walks of life—and one of the many perks they tout over big banks is free one-on-one financial counseling. “We are committed to doing whatever is in the best interest of the member,” says Makeitta Citizen, Brand Ambassador for SWLACU. There’s no comparison to the care and personal touch local banks put into your financial experience.

SWLACU staff are people who live and work in the same community as you—and care about the things you care about. “Our board of volunteers are also members. The senior leadership of SWLACU are everyday

people who have grown up in SWLA and who have built a relationship with our members over many years,” Citizen says. “We celebrate milestones like graduations, weddings, birthdays and the birth of babies with our members.”

When times get tough, the credit union has your back. “Because we are local, we know the needs of our community and can develop products and services that specifically address those needs,” says Miller. This was especially true during the COVID-19 outbreak early this year, and then again when Hurricanes Laura and Delta hit our area. By providing Hardship Loans during the coronavirus surge, and Disaster Loans after the hurricanes, SWLACU helped the community when it needed it most.

“Perhaps what we do best is talk to the community,” Citizen adds. “We want you to come in, have a cup of coffee on us, and tell us how we can help. Whether you are looking for an auto loan or need help getting on your feet, we’ve got your back, and we are always looking for more ways to make your banking experience a little easier.”

For more information about Southwest Louisiana Credit Union, please call 477-9190 or visit www.swlacu.com.

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“Come on over” is not just a tag line here at First Federal Bank of Louisiana – it’s a cornerstone of everything we do. As we surpass the $1 billion mark in assets, we are constantly examining how we can better meet our customers’ financial needs. It is because of our team’s 70 years of ambition, strategy, and community support that this achievement has become a reality. Being a communityminded bank is bigger than the sum of its parts – it means that despite getting hit with a worldwide pandemic and back-toback hurricanes, we strap on our boots and get to work. It’s now more important than ever that we remember our roots and continue our 70 years of unparalleled customer service.

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First Federal Bank of Louisiana has deep roots in Lake Charles dating to July 20, 1949, when the institution was chartered as First Federal Savings and Loan Association of Lake Charles. The idea of creating a savings and loan was initiated by community-minded business and community leaders with the desire to see Lake Charles flourish. With this mission in mind, they saw the need for a savings and loan that allowed local money to be invested in the local economy.

Today, First Federal Bank has a presence that reaches business and consumer markets in communities across Southwest and Central Louisiana. Headquartered in Lake Charles, our 16 branches are located in Sulphur, Carlyss, Vinton, Westlake, Moss Bluff, DeRidder, Oakdale, Natchitoches, Alexandria, and Pineville. First Federal Bank’s employment has grown to over 220 team members, and the bank has enjoyed a remarkable history of growth and success while remaining one of the top financial leaders in each of the markets it serves with assets in excess of $1 billion.

In addition to checking and savings accounts, loans, online banking, retirement options, and more, First Federal Bank also houses insurance and investment divisions to provide the full

financial package for our customers. First Federal Bank is still governed by the same charter from 1949 and is still a mutually owned institution; therefore, customers of the bank play a major role in our local economy by investing money into their own community. This concept of neighbors helping neighbors is the premise on which savings and loan institutions were founded – to see the people within their own neighborhoods succeed financially.

Our leadership, employees, and commitment to the community are what make First Federal Bank different. We were created for our customers to invest back into the community.

Over the decades, this has not changed.

Whether it’s adapting to new procedures due to COVID-19 or finding a way to work through the devastation caused by Hurricanes Laura and Delta, First Federal Bank came together to serve our community. We were one of the first banks to open after the storm, and we are still here to help rebuild your house, your business, and everything in between. Whatever it takes to rise again, First Federal Bank will be a part of the process, and together we will be better and stronger than ever. We are community strong.

Over $1 billion in assets, a milestone 70 years in the making.

OVER A BILLION REASONS WE ARE

COMMUNITY STRONG

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JD Bank has been serving Southwest Louisiana for over 70 years. Founded in 1947 in Jennings, La., JD Bank is dedicated to improving the financial services available in our community. “Banking with a local community bank helps support your neighbors and the local economy,” says Ann Barilleaux, VP Marketing Director at JD Bank. “When banking with JD Bank, you receive personalized service from local people who understand the specific needs of SWLA. We are Louisiana’s Community Bank but offer products and services that compete with the larger, national banks.”

For example, online banking has revolutionized the way people manage their money.

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“JD Bank has invested millions of dollars over the past decade and offers an array of digital products to enhance and streamline our customer’s banking experience,” says Jeremy Guidry, VP Client Experience Director. “Services such as Mobile Check Deposit, Zelle for person-to-person payments, Bank to Bank Transfers, Bill Pay, Mobile Wallet (ie. Apple Pay), Real Time Account Alerts, Debit Card Fraud Controls, and Online Chat are all designed to reduce friction when customers need to move funds and manage their finances. We find that customers harness the full power of digital once they realize their mobile device allows them to deposit a check, send money to a friend, transfer funds to or from another bank, pay the electric bill, make a purchase without having to take out a debit card, and receive a real time text alert when a charge hits their account. These services became even more critical in 2020 when we needed to minimize contact and travel due to COVID-19. While our customers leverage digital more than ever due to these unfortunate events, we realize the importance of keeping the momentum going when it comes to enhancing and adding options to our digital lineup.

JD Bank continues to assess new technologies and has plans to offer new digital solutions in the near future.”

While serving individuals with personalized banking services, JD Bank also caters to business owners and their needs, with products such as Automatic Clearing House Origination, Merchant Services and Merchant Capture, Business Bill Pay, an alert system called Notifi, Wire Transfers, Positive Pay to protect a company from check fraud, their new online loan pay program called Bill Matrix, and much more.

Pam Judson, VP of Treasury Management at JD Bank, finds that most banks offer similar products, but it is the ease of use and customer service that sets a local bank above the rest. “Larger banks use a Treasury Management platform for their business online banking that tends to be more complicated for the user with an overkill of information. Our system, like many other community banks, is robust and user friendly.”

With over two dozen community partners, JD Bank believes community service goes hand-in-hand with customer service, and they care about the communities they serve. They donate the time and effort of their employees, as well as provide financial resources to numerous philanthropic organizations in our region. “We are proud to be Louisiana’s Community Bank and know that we are only as successful as our neighbors,” says Barilleaux. “It is important that we play a role in supporting the needs of the communities we serve.”

Access of Louisiana Federal Credit Union was established in 1955 as the Olin Mathieson Lake Charles Employees Federal Credit Union by and for employees of Olin Chemical Plant in Lake Charles. Over the years, there were name changes and mergers with other credit unions, all in efforts to better serve the SWLA community. In February 2011, Access of Louisiana FCU was granted a community charter and membership was extended to individuals who live, work, worship, or attend school in Calcasieu Parish, in addition to the current field of membership and their immediate families. Their goal is to provide low-cost, high-quality financial services in a friendly, personal environment.

“Over the years, we have had several acquisitions, and continue to serve all of them with the same level of service as our founding credit union,” says Kim Richard, Executive Vice President at Access of Louisiana FCU, who has witnessed the credit union rise above many challenges while continuing to grow to meet the needs of members over the past decade.

“We are all one big family here – staff, volunteers, members.”

Janet Langley, Sr. Loan Officer/Mortgage Specialist, has helped many members in her 25 years at Access. Langley says they care about their members through personalized customer service. “For example, if someone applies for a $2,000 loan to fix their air conditioner that went out, we could simply process the application and send them on their way, whether approved or denied, based solely on what they requested.

But Access has a different approach – we look at the bigger picture of their finances to see how we might improve their situation as a whole. Could we refinance their auto at a lower rate that also lowers the monthly payment, which includes the $2,000 cash needed for the new A/C? It’s certainly possible, and there is an overall improvement to their monthly budget, rather than a burden created by adding a new monthly payment.”

Access strives to meet the needs of every generation in their membership by the various services and products they offer, from personal service to mobile apps. Amanda Youngblood has been a familiar face to many members throughout her 20 years at Access, from the teller line to her current role as Executive Assistant/Staff Notary. “If you have a need, we do our best to help; whether it’s how to get cash when you are out of town or where’s a good place to eat for lunch, we’ve got you. Are you getting a fair deal on a product you are purchasing? Our loan officers will be sure to let you know and can also provide valuations when you shop around. Can’t make it to our office during normal business hours because of traffic, life, etc? We do our best to accommodate. Is one of our services not working for you? We go out of our way to make sure you are taken care of. From COVID to hurricanes, we know you have other things to worry about. Our goal is to make dealing with your credit union the easiest item on your to-do list.”

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Introducing Matt Koch, President/CEO of CSE Credit Union Tell us a bit about your background and career in banking.

I chose a career in banking because I enjoy numbers and finance.

I am from Shreveport/ Bossier City but my wife is from Sulphur. We moved here in August 2015 after our first child was born. I have a bachelor’s degree in Finance from Louisiana Tech (Geaux Dawgs!) and my MBA from LSUS. I also earned a designation as a certified credit union executive from Cuna Management School at Madison, Wisconsin. I started my career as a teller/vault teller at a community bank in Shreveport. After a year, I went to ANECA Federal Credit Union as a loan processor. Soon after, I applied for an open position as staff accountant and have been enjoying accounting/finance ever since then. I have thoroughly enjoyed the culture, food and getting to know the Southwest Louisiana community.

And now you’re at CSE Credit Union.

Yes, our CEO Emeritus, Clark Yelverton, announced plans last year that he would be retiring at the end 2020. I decided a long time ago I would apply for that position when the time came. I became CEO right after Hurricane Laura – talk about timing! That was my first time having to decide to evacuate, close our branch locations, and wonder about the damage the hurricane would leave behind. Not only have we dealt with the Covid pandemic, but two hurricanes as 26

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well this year. Working remotely with our employees spread out in different states was certainly a challenge but we managed to open back up only 10 days after Hurricane Laura. Some of our staff stayed up until 11:00 p.m. to answer members’ questions via email or Facebook. It was stressful and difficult but a great learning experience in disaster recovery. We also learned how strong our community is. We will comeback even better.

As President/CEO of CSE, what are your goals for the credit union?

My goals are to continue taking care of and serving our members, and to make sure we stay a tight-knit, family-oriented organization whose sole purpose is to build financial success for our members. We will continue adding products and services that our members need, continue investing in technology, and adding more branches in the future. The future is bright for CSE.

What are the advantages of banking with a local credit union vs. a national bank?

The advantages of a local credit union are not only the structure but the service you receive. Our board is an unpaid, volunteer board where members are the owners of the business instead of a select few stockholders. Our members enjoy higher deposit rates, and lower loan rates with fewer and lesser fees because of our structure and mission. Credit unions were created during the Great Depression to help those of moderate means.

Is there anything else you would like to add?

We want to thank our members for choosing CSE!

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1955

The credit union was established on June 9, 1955, by and for employees of Olin Chemical Plant in Lake Charles, LA, employees of the credit union and both employees’ immediate families, when an organization certificate for Olin Mathieson Lake Charles Employees Federal Credit Union was issued.

1984

The Board of Directors agreed to change the bylaws to allow more people to become members of the credit union, and became a designated multi-SEG based institution.

1970

On March 13, 1970, a certificate of approval was filed to amend the charter and bylaws of the credit union. The approved certificate changed the credit union’s name to Olin Employees LC Federal Credit Union and the bylaws reflected those members eligible to join the credit union.

2011

On February 15, 2011, Access of Louisiana FCU was granted community charter and membership was extended to individuals who live, work, worship or attend school in Calcasieu Parish in addition to current field of membership and their immediate families.

2004

In October 2004, the credit union merged in Local 106 FCU and gained its third location.

1993

The credit union continued to expand membership by merging the West Calcasieu Cameron Hospital (WCCH) Credit Union into operation and expanded the Board of Directors from 7 to 9 volunteers in October 1993. This became its 2nd location in the community

2009

On February 1, 2009, Olin Employees LC Federal Credit Union submitted a certificate of name change to formally change the credit union’s name to Access of Louisiana Federal Credit Union.

2017

In August 2017, the credit union merged LC Municipal Federal Credit Union into operation.

Proudly serving our community since 1955!

Access of Louisiana Federal Credit Union’s focus is on our

members. Our goal is to provide our members with low-cost, high-quality finan­cial­services­in­a­friendly,­personal­ environment.

We have made exceptional progress over the years in expanding our services and keeping up with the demands of technology, with many projects underway for 2020 and 2021. We could not have achieved such success without our valued members and volunteers.

Sulphur • Lake Charles

337-533-1808 www.access.coop Federally Insured by NCUA

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Cameron LNG Provides Temporary Facility to West Calcasieu Cameron Hospital to Meet Healthcare Needs of Cameron Parish Cameron LNG donates temporary building facility to West Calcasieu Cameron Hospital (WCCH) to operate the Hackberry Rural Health Clinic and meet the healthcare needs of Cameron Parish residents.

The Hackberry Rural Health Clinic of WCCH is located at 1020 Main Street in Hackberry, LA. For more information on the Hackberry Rural Health Clinic of WCCH, call (337) 762-3762 or visit: https://www.wcch.com/services/ruralhealth.

For more information on Cameron LNG, please visit www.cameronlng.com.

Beau Danielle Beauty Makeup Launch Celebrates Every Hue, Shade, And Color - Inspired By Creole Culture, Led By Diversity Beau Danielle Beauty is announcing the launch of its signature makeup line, celebrating every hue, shade and color. Beau Danielle (www.beaudaniellle. com) is inspired by Creole culture and led by diversity. Founder Ashley Collins says Beau Danielle is about more than colors - it’s a culture.

Collins emphasizes the line is inclusive and diverse, for women of all shades, with a focus on women of color. Beau Danielle is ideal for women in search of a shade that authentically matches their natural complexion, and the brand also encourages women to celebrate their individuality.

Native to the Creole country of Southwest Louisiana, Collins has distinguished herself as a passionate, professional makeup artist, working in Atlanta and New York for 12 years.

The mother and entrepreneur launched this brand with her 6-year-old daughter’s namesake.

For more information, visit www.beaudanielle.com.

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SOWELA Faculty and Staff Honored During Statewide Conference Recipients Awarded at the 2020 Louisiana Community and Technical College System Annual Conference SOWELA Technical Community College faculty and staff were recently honored at the annual Louisiana Community and Technical College System (LCTCS) Annual Conference. Honorees were nominated by fellow SOWELA employees. The conference and award ceremony were held virtually this year with the following individuals recognized: Outstanding Faculty Member: Mr. Todd Carrere Todd Carrere is the Associate Professor of Mathematics at SOWELA, where he has taught since 2008. He began his career as a Graduate Instructor at McNeese State University, teaching developmental mathematics and college algebra and serving as a mentor and tutor in mathematics and statistics. Carrere has taught mathematics for elementary school teachers, pre-calculus, college algebra, and developmental mathematics while also advising pre-med students.

He holds the 2011 National Institute for Staff and Organizational Development (NISOD) Excellence Award, the 2006 Anne Ferguson Award for Outstanding Alumnus of the National Association for Developmental Education, and was the 2011 LCTCS Award recipient for Outstanding SOWELA Faculty Member.

Outstanding Professional Staff: Dr. Paula Hellums Paula Hellums is the Vice Chancellor for Academic Affairs and has served in this role for the past six years. As a registered nurse, she began her career caring for medical-surgical and organ transplant patients in a large teaching hospital. She went on to teach for over 15 years in practical nursing programs before being named a practical

nursing department chair. Hellums then transitioned to her current role, during which time she has served on the Nursing Supply and Demand Council, Simulation Medical Training and Education Council, and the Health Works Commission. As Accreditation Liaison, Hellums was a key member of the College’s 2019 SACSCOC reaffirmation team.

More recently, she has served as a member of the College’s COVID-19 planning team and has worked to promote the safety and welfare of students and employees. Paula completed her undergraduate studies at Louisiana College. She went on to obtain her Master of Science in Nursing degree from McNeese State University and her Doctor of Education in Educational Leadership degree with a concentration in Higher Education Administration from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette. She is the proud mother of three wonderful children.

Outstanding Professional Support Staff: Ms. Magan Soileau Magan Soileau is the Site Coordinator for SOWELA Oakdale. Her postsecondary education began at the Oakdale campus where she earned Associate Degrees in Office Systems Technology and Accounting Technology. Soileau also holds an associate degree and bachelor’s degree in Business Administration. She started her career in higher education as a student worker for the Oakdale campus and was hired as an Accounting Clerk from 2000-2004. In 2004, she replaced the retiring accountant and remained in that position until shifting into Human Resources in September 2013. When SOWELA acquired the Oakdale campus on July 1, 2018, she transitioned into her current role as Site Coordinator and assists as the Human Resources Manager.

Distinguished Retiree: Ms. Marianne White Marianne White served as the Executive Director of Institutional Advancement, Alumni Affairs and Community Engagement at SOWELA from 2015-2018. White worked with SOWELA’s leadership team, the SOWELA Foundation board of directors, business and

industry partners, donors and friends to advance the mission of the College. Prior to joining SOWELA, she served as the Coordinator of Planned Giving and Donor Research at the McNeese State University Foundation and as the first Executive Director of Calcasieu Community Clinic. She has a master’s degree in business administration from McNeese and a bachelor’s degree in business administration with a concentration in marketing from Texas A&M University.

McNeese Makes U.S. News and World Report List for 10th Straight Year For the 10th consecutive year, the U.S. News and World Report has ranked McNeese State University as one of the top universities in the South in its 2021 Best Colleges list.

The university also ranks among the Top 50 Public Schools in the southern region as well—one of four Louisiana institutions to make the Top 50.

The U.S. News ranking system considers information collected from several sources and measures indicators of academic quality based on such areas as outcomes, faculty and financial resources, retention and graduation rates, academic reputation, alumni giving and student excellence.

Once again, McNeese’s undergraduate engineering program was ranked among the best engineering programs in the country. Most recently, the 2019 College Report by PayScale Inc. ranked the McNeese engineering program as one of the Top 50 programs in the nation for salary potential for engineering majors.

McNeese also ranked in the Top Performers on Social Mobility (#109) in graduating students with federal Pell Grants.

Regional universities offer a broad scope of undergraduate degrees and master’s degree programs and selected public and private universities are ranked geographically in one of four regions-North, South, Midwest and West. The annual report is used as a tool by parents and students to help narrow their college search.

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n emphasis on the idea of Shop Local began a decade ago with the first Small Business Saturday in November 2010, as an effort to help small businesses gain exposure and to inspire consumers to shop within their own communities during the holiday season. In this year’s Holiday Gift Guide, we feature several of those hard-working small business owners.

Thrive encourages you to forego the Big Box chains and resist the convenience of shopping online; and instead, patronize our local retailers. Your support is especially important now, at the end of a year that has been so devastating for many area entrepreneurs.

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Crying Eagle Brewing Crying Eagle Brewing Co. is a one stop shop for the beer lover in your life. Known for their craft beers, beertails, and hand rolled pizzas, this local micro-brewery is located at 1165 E. McNeese St. Open Tuesday-Thursday 11:00 a.m.- 9:00 p.m. + Friday & Saturday 11:00 a.m.-10:00 p.m. ed items. beer-them ) variety of et pictured m a wide sk fro ba et 0 sk 10 ba r you. ($ gle gift Crying Ea sket just fo ba om a st ild cu a ey’ll bu Create int and th a price po Give them

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Expressions is temporarily relocated at 3100 Ryan Street, next to Roly Poly. Their 30th anniversary this year hasn’t gone exactly the way they had hoped, but as owner Susie Book says, “We’re still here!”

They continue to offer the latest, most unique gifts, with both traditional favorites and brand new products.

Expressions is known regionally for their positive, family-oriented atmosphere, extensive inventory, and complementary gift wrap.

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Crave Gourmet is a specialty food and gift store in Lake Charles. With wine, artisanal cheeses and over 50 premium Olive Oils and Balsamic Vinegars, our goal is to provide a unique – and delicious – shopping experience. You can satisfy every taste at Crave Gourmet! 2801 Ryan Street, Suite 100 – Lake Charles (337) 421-0040.

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The Plumbing Warehouse/LCR is a wholesale plumbing supply company that has been in the Lake Area since the early 1900’s. They specialize in all things plumbing, from the pipe and fittings to the beautiful showroom fixtures, and can help with design and color coordination as well as budgets and technical aspects. p e dee ny and rovid a d to p cle Comp re o il Bicy es ta devic Southern erapy by sive th ody. Stop s u rc b e art p your of sm ealing to tion. h a line tra un is ent and demons g ra e tm n Th le trea eragu musc ence a Th ri expe

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Southern Bicycle Company is locally owned and operated. They have been serving the cycling community for many years and recently opened Southern Running Company within the store to provide the needs of runners, as well. They offer a wide variety of equipment and training accessories to suit the needs of all the bicyclists and runners on your gift list.

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There's a little something for everyone at Palm Plaza in Lake Charles, conveniently located mid-town on the Ryan St. corridor. It's the perfect place to get a jump start on your holiday shopping and support local businesses.

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Guide

THE DOS & DON’TS of Holiday Gift Giving Your home for the holidays awaits.

If you’re dreaming of a new home this holiday season, CENTURY 21 Bessette Realty, Inc. has the keys you need. Our experienced agents will make a list and check it twice so all of your wishes come true.

And don’t worry, we’ll give Santa your new address!

Century21-Bessette.com | 474-2185 3025 Lake Street, Lake Charles Each office independently owned and operated.

Licensed by the Louisiana Real Estate Commission.

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Thanksgiving is over and the holiday shopping season is in full swing. Buying gifts for everyone on your list can get expensive and overwhelming. How much do you spend? Must you buy for absolutely everyone? Is it okay to re-gift? What if you don’t know what to get a person?

Sharon Schweitzer, an international etiquette expert, author, and founder of Protocol & Etiquette Worldwide, offers these 10 rules of holiday gift giving:

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Don t’ break the bank.

It should be common sense by now, yet many people overspend and rack up debt. Stay within your household budget. Gift giving is a blessing, not an obligation. Avoid overspending. January bills can be unforgiving!

Avoid asking, “What do you want ?”

If you don’t know what to get, try and figure it out.

Consider their hobbies or what’s important in their lives. If they exercise every day, workout gear is probably a good choice. If they recently moved into a new home, go for a housewarming gift. It’s all about being thoughtful.

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Avoid matched spending.

When buying is driven more by pressure than thoughtfulness, it loses its meaning. When folks buy flamboyantly, hopefully they do so because they wish to, not because they expect anything in return. Most extravagant gift buyers have everything they could wish for, so there’s nothing luxurious you can buy them that they can’t buy for themselves. It’s better to plan a thoughtful, sentimental gift without a hefty price tag.

Re -gift immediately and don ’t get caught.

According to an American Express 2015 survey, 76% of Americans believe re-gifting is socially appropriate. If you do so, be sure to re-gift in different social and family circles. Remove all traces of the original giving, including handwritten notes and cards.

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Do consider couple gifts.

Once a family member or friend is in a serious relationship, gift giving may segue from individual gifts to couple gifts.

For example, buy them a gift certificate to their favorite restaurant, and include a thoughtful note that shows your gracious holiday spirit. If they are engaged or newlyweds, check their registry for a treasure trove of ideas.

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Annually review your gift list. How has your relationship grown and evolved? Have you kept in touch via phone, email, or seen each other in person? Did you buy him or her a birthday gift? If the answers to these are no, evaluate the need for a gift. Avoid having a friend feel truly forgotten by sending a personalized holiday card.

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Be genuine in your response to surprise gifts.

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Research the policies of the college, school, office and organization. Be cautious about giving your professor or boss a gift—even if your university or office doesn’t specifically forbid the practice, because it could send the wrong message. Consider gift pools for charity.

Always include gift receipts.

If you receive an unexpected gift, be authentic in your response. Share that you are “surprised, and maybe slightly embarrassed that you don’t have a gift ready for them.” It’s awkward to race to the gift closet and spring a last-minute gift on them. You may wish to send a thank you note with a small gift wishing them all the best in the coming year.

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With loyal, long term service providers, consider a holiday gratuity or tip.

Whether it is the holidays, or all year-long, including the gift receipt with every gift is an etiquette best-practice. If the recipient needs to exchange it because it’s the wrong size, color, or texture, why make it difficult? Avoid the awkwardness of them coming to you and asking for the receipt.

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Never are the helpers in a community more visible than during a time of catastrophic crisis. 2020 has dealt a rough blow to Southwest Louisiana, from a world-wide pandemic that caused a devastating economic downturn to two back-to-back major hurricanes.

The people of our region take pride in their resiliency, but everyone needs a helping hand from time to time; and local aid organizations have been working mightily to meet the many needs of our community.

In this year’s Good Samaritans feature, we highlight three community leaders and the non-profit organizations through which they serve the citizens of Southwest Louisiana.

Paula Taylor

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aula Taylor, volunteer Executive Director of Sulphur Christian Community Coalition (SC3), says the impetus for this nonprofit organization stemmed from a series of people saying, ‘Yes!’ “ A small group stepped out of their comfort zone, said yes, and believed that the Good News that transformed their lives could touch all people regardless of their circumstances.

We said yes through a series of studies we had attended, and yes once again when we visited events and places like Mission Waco & Church Under the Bridge. Each of us began a journey of faith and God was so big. Miracle after miracle opened doors and granted us favor. In January 2010, we officially started by sitting on the front porch of the Hope House and meeting our neighbors. We listened to concerns and met needs as they surfaced. Through these conversations we began to see first-hand the cycle of poverty, addiction, and hopelessness gripping so many individuals and families.

As we set about providing opportunities that empowered our community, the Sulphur Christian Community Coalition formed. We began to see hope in the people around us, and the journey to break the multi-generational cycle of poverty was set into motion. As SC3 has evolved, our goals have expanded. We work alongside our neighbors to build a community where every child and adult leads a healthy and purposeful life. We strive to develop a safe and vibrant neighborhood in which residents choose to live, learn, work, worship, engage, play, and serve. Countless individuals and small groups have supported us by connecting us with their churches and organizations. Now there are churches and organizations from across the country who have joined us. Some donate or send supplies; others send teams and individuals to serve in our community.”

Every day, SC3 lives out their mission through numerous programs that meet the unique needs of individuals in the community, from the homeless and those in crisis or battling addictions to “our most precious resource” – children. “I believe love changes everything,” Taylor says.

“Jesus’ love changed me and through that same love I want to see our community, its places, people, and systems redeemed, empowered, transformed, and restored to reflect God’s Kingdom on earth.”

There are countless ways to lend a hand or contribute to the work of SC3.

If you are interested in getting involved, Taylor suggests getting plugged in by scheduling a tour of their facility, call 337-287-0483, or find them on Facebook.

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Jody Farnum

Care Help of Sulphur, Executive Director

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says in 2013, God opened a door and she now works full time as the organization’s Executive Director, along with her hard-working staff, over 50 volunteers, and an 11-member Board of Directors.

Farnum became involved with Care Help because she believed in their mission. “’To express the love of God through ministry to those in need by supplying short term assistance and promoting life skills.’ Helping others is my calling, I believe in order to lead,

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you must be willing to serve. It is in the serving that you find Jesus, it is in the serving that you find yourself and help bridge the gap to give hope to those who feel so hopeless. So many people live one paycheck away from homelessness, especially with COVID and two back-to-back hurricanes. Care Help meets the needs of thousands in our community who face emergency situations and food insecurity. We assist people who need help with food, rent, mortgage, electricity and other utilities, medicine, clothing, furniture and appliances.”

Farnum says Care Help has one of the largest food banks in West Calcasieu Parish. They provide food to over 500 households monthly. “One of our main goals is to fight childhood hunger. Before COVID closed the schools, we delivered 490 non-perishable food bags to 11 local schools weekly – almost 2,000 bags a month to students who face food insecurity on the weekends.”

Care Help provides back to school supplies, and each qualified child receives a $40 gift card for new shoes. They distribute $12,000 in shoe cards for our area each year.

At their annual Community Christmas Toy Store, qualified parents can shop for their children and purchase new toys at 80-90% off retail.

“This helps our parents feel invested in their children’s Christmas,” Farnum says.

Kids (ages 5-16) of under-privileged families also have an opportunity to shop at no cost for gifts for their parents or guardians.

“It is a special day. The children shop with a volunteer while parents are fed and entertained in a separate building. There is no greater feeling than seeing the smile on these children’s faces as they choose the gifts.”

Hurricanes Laura and Delta dealt a devastating blow to struggling families. Care Help recently joined with the St. Bernard Project and established Project ReBuild, to help qualified applicants rebuild their homes in West Cameron and West Calcasieu Parishes.

Post-Hurricane Laura, Care Help set up a relief site for 11 days and distributed over 300,000 pounds of dry goods and supplies, tons of water and ice, and over 28,000 hot meals.

Care Help is supported by local industries, organizations, churches, and the public. They welcome donations for any of their many programs. “And we are always in need of volunteers to help at the thrift store, food pantry, and our special Christmas programs.”

To volunteer or donate, call 337-528-2273 or stop by 200 N. Huntington St. Sulphur, LA.

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manda Johnson became involved with the National Association of University Women (NAUW) a decade ago and has been an active

member since then. Prior to being elected President earlier this year, she served as 1st Vice President for four years and four years as Recording Secretary before that. She is also the Sectional Treasurer for the NAUW South Central Section and Publicity Chair at the national level. “We encourage women who possess at least a four-year bachelor’s degree from an accredited college to join NAUW,” Johnson says. “I’m excited about being the President of the Lake Charles Branch and expect exciting and promising projects with the help of our 85 members. Our goal is to retain our current membership, reclaim inactive members, and recruit new ladies who have a desire to educate our youth and assist the elderly in the Lake Charles community.”

Founded in 1954, the Lake Charles Branch is one of the largest NAUW branches in the nation. They focus on community service and volunteerism, primarily helping youth and the elderly. Johnson says they participate in numerous events throughout the year – “NAMI Walks, Sickle Cell Walks, Ethel Precht Breast Cancer Walks, Habitat for Humanity, Adopt-A-Spot, essay contests, RAM (Remote Area Medical) Project, Community Outreach for Senior Citizens (including a Senior Bingo and luncheon), Reading Bridge for Dr. Seuss’s Birthday, Trunk or Treat, school supply giveaways, Recycled Purse giveaways, an annual $1500 scholarship and two $250 book stipends.” And that is a short list of their annual activities. After Hurricane Laura, they held a cleaning supply giveaway that helped over 100 families. Johnson says serving the community is a priority for her because it’s a way to give back.

“So much was given to me growing up in the Lake Charles community and I want to do my part by giving back. ‘To whom much is given, much is required.’ In other words, because I have redeemed so many blessings, I should turn around and bless others because I’ve been greatly blessed. Give and it will be given unto you. It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

When she’s not volunteering, Johnson works for the City of Lake Charles. For 21 years, she has served the community in the Housing Authority Recreation Department, and now in the Transit Authority. “I love working with the public and helping those less fortunate.”

For more information on NAUW, email nauwlakecharles@yahoo.com.

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Attorney Russell Stutes Named to Lakeside Bank Board of Directors Lakeside Bank has appointed Russell (“Rusty”) Stutes to the organization’s board of directors. Originally from Lake Charles, Stutes is the managing partner of Russell (“Rusty”) Stutes Stutes and Lavergne Law Firm. He is a graduate of St. Louis High School in Lake Charles and earned an undergraduate degree in accounting from Louisiana State University and his Juris Doctorate from the Louisiana State University Law Center, both in Baton Rouge. Stutes also attended the University of Florida College of Law in Gainesville, where he earned a LL.M (master of laws) degree. He was admitted to the Louisiana State Bar Association in 1991. After practicing with Scofield, Gerard, Veron, Singletary and Pohorelsky in Lake Charles for 13 years, Stutes co-founded Stutes and Lavergne in 2005. He maintains an extensive business, tax, estate planning, estate administration, expropriation and commercial practice.

Lakeside Bank is celebrating its 10th anniversary this year. Since it’s opening in 2010, the bank has grown to five locations in Lake Charles, Sulphur, Westlake and an LPO (Loan Production Office) in DeRidder. Lakeside has been repeatedly recognized nationally for its growth, performance and safe, secure banking practices. For more information, visit www.mylksb.bank.

Kyle Edmiston elected as Chair of Brand USA Board of Directors Brand USA, the destination marketing organization for the United States, has selected Kyle Edmiston, President and CEO of Visit Lake Charles, as Chair of Kyle Edmiston their Board of Directors for 2021 during its final meeting of the 2020 calendar year. Edmiston served as Treasurer of the organization for the past two years and previously served in the role of Vice Chair of Brand USA.

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The other officers voted in for 2021 of the Brand USA board of directors are Paul Brown, CEO of Inspire Brands, and Mark Hoplamazian, CEO of Hyatt Hotels Corporation, serving as Vice Chairs, and Alice Norsworthy, Executive Vice President of Marketing for Universal Parks & Resorts, as Treasurer. Chris Thompson, President and CEO of Brand USA, will serve another year as Executive Director and Jake Conte, General Counsel of Brand USA, as Assistant Secretary of the organization.

The U.S. Secretary of Commerce, in consultation with the White House, the U.S. Secretary of State and the U.S. Secretary of Homeland Security, appoints the 11-member board according to specific sectors of the travel and tourism industry.

Edmiston serves as the sole representative of all local or regional Destination Marketing Organizations in the United States. These senior executives serve staggered three-year terms and work together to provide leadership and overall guidance to Brand USA’s mission and operations.

Learn more about Brand USA at www.thebrandusa.com.

Ben Thompson, MD Achieves Mastership from American College of Physicians Memorial Medical Group Pulmonologist/Critical Care Specialists Ben Thompson, MD has been elected to Mastership by the American College Ben Thompson of Physicians. Over the past year, unknown to Dr. Thompson, a number of his colleagues and peers have been assembling a dossier outlining the impact he has had on the community, the profession of medicine, medical science and his patients. Dr. Thompson has practiced medicine at Memorial since 1982.

According to the American College of Surgeons, Mastership is conferred only on a select number of worthy candidates who are deemed distinguished through a combination of achievements, including the practice of internal medicine, academic contributions to our specialty, and service to the College. In making decisions about each candidate’s suitability for Mastership, the Committee considered qualities such as strength of character, integrity, perseverance, leadership, compassion, and devotion, as well as clinical expertise and commitment to advancing the art and science of medicine.

Emphasis was placed on service as a teacher and mentor, advocacy for quality in internal medicine, a commitment to social justice, deep interest in people, and the creation of communities of medicine. Additionally, those elected to Mastership should be “citizen physicians,” educational innovators, humanists, and learner-teachers who inspire others to seek high standards and excellence in our cherished specialty of Internal Medicine.

Family Medicine Specialist Kira Groves, DO Joins Memorial Medical Group Memorial Medical Group welcomes Family Medicine Specialist Kira Groves, DO to its staff. She sees patients of all ages from newborns to senior Kira Groves citizens, with a focus on women’s and mother-baby health. Dr. Groves joins fellow family medicine specialists Ben Groves, DO, Donald Higgins, MD, Carolyn Hutchinson, MD, Percival Kane, MD, Gerald Mouton, MD and Michael Seep, MD at the Memorial Medical Group clinic on Aster Street.

Dr. Groves has a degree in biology and chemistry from Louisiana College in Pineville. She received her Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine from William Carey University College of Osteopathic Medicine in Hattiesburg, Mississippi. Her post-graduate training includes a family medicine residency from Sampson Regional Medical Center in Clinton, North Carolina.

Dr. Groves is a member of the American Academy of Family Physicians, American College of Osteopathic Family Physicians and American Osteopathic Association. For more information or to schedule an appointment, visit www.lcmmg.com.

Family Medicine Specialist Ben Groves, DO Joins Memorial Medical Group

Ben Groves

Memorial Medical Group welcomes Ben Groves, DO, a board-certified family medicine specialist to its staff. He sees patients of all ages from newborns to senior citizens.

Dr. Groves joins fellow family medicine specialists Kira Groves, DO, Donald Higgins, MD, Carolyn Hutchinson, MD, Percival Kane, MD, Gerald Mouton, MD and Michael Seep, MD at the Memorial Medical Group clinic on Aster Street.

Dr. Groves has a degree in biology from the University of Mississippi. He received his Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine from William Carey University College of Osteopathic Medicine in Hattiesburg, Mississippi. His post-graduate training includes a family medicine residency at Danville Regional Medical Center in Danville, Virginia where he served as Chief Resident. Before moving to Lake Charles, he worked at Sampson Regional Medical Center in Clinton, North Carolina.

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Julio Galan Named Chairman of the Governor’s Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Advisory Board

Julio Galan

Gov. Edwards reappoints Julio Galan of Lake Charles to the Governor’s Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Advisory Board.

Mr. Galan will serve as the

Chairman of the Board.

The Governor’s Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Advisory Board serves to encourage and assist the state, units of local government, and private non-profit agencies in the comprehensive improvement of the juvenile justice system in the State of Louisiana. The Board assists in the establishment of juvenile justice policy by providing advice and counsel to the Louisiana Commission on Law Enforcement, the Louisiana Legislature, and the Governor of Louisiana on ways and means to facilitate greater juvenile justice system effectiveness; and, to carry out the requirements according to the U.S. Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention Act. Galan will serve as a representative of the nonprofit sector with a special focus on strengthening families, youth development, delinquency prevention, and the overall quality of juvenile justice, education, and social services for children.

Galan has been the CEO of Family & Youth Counseling Agency since 1997, and the President of the Family Foundation of Southwest Louisiana since its inception in 2000.

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It’s been a difficult year, to say the least, and the holidays will be challenging for all of us here in Southwest Louisiana as we recover from two hurricanes and continue to deal with the effects of COVID restrictions. Nevertheless, it IS the most wonderful time of the year. So, whether it’s a Zoom party or an in-person celebration, we owe it to ourselves to dress up and have some fun—now, more than ever!

Wear Some Shimmer The sky’s the limit when it comes to holiday fashion. Of course, the issue we have down here is the weather. Will it be cold enough to wear that cute sweater? Or will we need to turn the AC on and pull out a summer outfit? Always have an Outfit Plan B so you won’t be caught off guard.

That being said, wear something special. Even if you don’t normally dress up, make an exception, because it’s an exceptional time of year. Think sparkle and bling. Maybe wear black and spice up your outfit with colorful accessories. Make it fun!

There are all kinds of novelty Christmas dresses, shirts, and sweaters to choose from.

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Put on a Festive Face

Flashy Fingers & Toes

If you want to go all out with false lashes, eyeliner, and bold colors but aren’t quite sure you can achieve the desired result on your own, go online to learn. You’ll find dozens of tutorials for the perfect holiday eyes. Experiment with shimmery shadows and highlighters until you find a look you’re comfortable with. Wear a long-lasting lipstick that won’t fade or rub off, so you don’t have to keep reapplying it throughout the day. Go for a vibrant color that makes a statement.

Although nail decals have long been popular, the coming season will take it over the top, with stones, gems, charms, and little ornaments dangling off acrylic nails of varying shapes—from almond to outrageous stiletto. If you want to keep it simple, a metallic polish in silver, gold or crimson sets a holiday mood. Add some glitter on top of your base color for extra sparkle.

Accentuate with Accessories

No matter what you wear this holiday season, the most important thing is to be comfortable, relaxed, and enjoy yourself.

Accessories are where many women bring the glitz and glamour to a fun party look. Jewelry, shoes, and handbags offer an easy way to express your unique personality. The holidays are also a sentimental time and some of our most cherished memories are of Christmases past. To add a nostalgic note to your holiday ensemble, wear a piece of jewelry or a scarf that belonged to a loved one who is no longer with you to keep those memories close. Start your own tradition by purchasing a special piece of Christmas jewelry and wear it every year—knowing that someday, it will be passed down in your own family.

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Up-dos are chic and sophisticated. Put a rhinestone pin in your hair, or a dazzling hair clip—or a sprig of mistletoe. If you’re feeling playful, streak your hair with red and/or green. Or, you may want to wear a Santa hat or reindeer ears that light up, or something equally festive. That would certainly add some color to a Zoom party!

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2021 Celebration Planner

2020 has been a long year, with challenges no one could have anticipated. Between the Covid-19 pandemic, an economic downturn, and the destruction caused by two back-to-back hurricanes, many of us have had to push the pause button on parties. But 2021 is a new year, and while our lives might not exactly be back to “normal” just yet, we are hopeful there will be plenty to celebrate in this next year – perhaps with a “new normal” for now. In this special Celebration Planner section, you’ll find the best party places, whether it’s a birthday party, reception, shower, or simply a gathering for the fun of it, as well as tips to celebrate safely.

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Birthday Parties for Children

Our kids are just as ready for 2020 to be over as we are. Families can celebrate their children’s birthday parties and have tons of fun at places like these:

 Chuck E. Cheese (3221 E. Prien Lake Road; 477-4772): A classic birthday venue, all you need to secure a two-hour party filled with pizza and games is a $50 deposit. Various party packages are available at chuckecheese.com/kids-birthday-party.

 Sweet Frog (4201 Nelson Road; 480-3764): Lake Charles’ home for premium frozen yogurt, Sweet Frog hosts birthday parties Saturday mornings from 10-11 a.m. before the store opens to the public.

Cost is $80 for 10 kids + $8 per extra child. Manager Shelby Ewing suggests calling 1-2 weeks in advance. “Families can bring any food they like and decorate how they like,” Ewing says. “The birthday child also gets a free T-shirt.”

 The Little Gym (1301 E. McNeese Street; 419-1903): After being closed since Hurricane Laura, The Little Gym has re-opened and will host birthday parties again, says co-owner Codi Savant. Families can call or book online at thelittlegym.com/lakecharlesLA. The base package price is $275 for members and $300 for non-members for up to 15 kids. “Pricing includes an hour in the gym with instructor-led activities and fun and 30 minutes in the multi-purpose room,” Savant says. “We take care of set-up, tear-down and paper goods, and we sanitize between every party. We also offer 45-minute Private Play Dates.”

 We Rock the Spectrum (3714 Common Street; 419-1986): We Rock the Spectrum is a gym for all children to play and grow together, and the Lake Charles location is bustling with birthday party requests, says coach Tiffany Ashworth. They offer three 2-hour slots on Saturday and two Sunday slots with Friday evenings available by request. Packages start at $275 and include full use of the gym and party room. Learn more at werockthespectrumlakecharles.com. “We’re starting to pick up momentum since the COVID shutdown and hurricanes,” Ashworth says. “Definitely book at least two months ahead. All that’s required is $100 deposit, and pay the rest on the party day. We also have open play during the week, and you can rent the facility then.”

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Party Venues for Adults

Looking for a venue to celebrate a birthday, shower, anniversary, retirement party, etc.? Check out these venues:

 Crying Eagle Brewing Company (1165 E. McNeese Street; 990-4871): Crying Eagle is holding several small business and community holiday events, and they have two private event spaces available to rent – The Loft, above the taproom, and The Deck, outdoor seating with ramp and umbrellas. To check availability and pricing, fill out the form at cryingeagle.com/ events.

 Empire of the Seed (949 Ryan Street; 310-0405): All three venues on this property group bring an air of culture and vibrancy to any event. To book, fill out the online form at empireoftheseed.com, or contact Ashley Gatte.

o Calcasieu Marine National Bank: Built in 1928,

the iconic Lake Charles landmark is known for weddings and receptions. Along with the grand ballroom, guests can also filter out to the main vault and pavilion area. Want an outdoor ceremony or more casual reception? You can exclusively book the pavilion area.

o Cash & Carry: Another historic venue used for

weddings, large receptions and fundraisers, the 9,600 square foot Cash & Carry has a rustic feel. It’s complete with polished cement floors, exposed brick, giant wooden beams and skylights. There’s also a warming kitchen and hand-crafted bar.

o Paramount Room: More popular for office Christmas

parties, Mardi Gras krewe gatherings, birthday parties and intimate wedding receptions (less than 150), the 2,400 square foot Paramount Room hearkens back to the Prohibition Era with its large bar area and dark wooden design. Guests also can access the courtyard.

“We have really big spaces, and with capacity guidelines we ’re cleared up to 250 people for all three spaces,” Gatte says. “Our security officers do temperature checks, we have electronic hand sanitizer stations and social distancing signs. I think we’re doing an excellent job.”

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 Pioneer Club (127 W. Broad Street, 9th Floor; 436-2805): The Pioneer Club has a new look, with a remodel completed just before the pandemic, according to General Manager Jacob Manceaux. Now after minimal hurricane damage, they’ve been busier than ever. You don’t have to be a member to book a private event like a company party or a rehearsal dinner – just contact the club to reserve your room, date and pay a $500 “trial membership” which gives you club access for the whole month of your event. Member-sponsored events also come in handy. Learn about their Louisiana cuisine and event spaces at thepioneerclubla.com. “We do lots and lots of Christmas parties, Sweet 16s, everything under the sun,” Manceaux says. “We run the gamut here.”

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 Oak Crossing (5656 Nelson Rd., Lake Charles) offers two beautifully unique event venues, with indoor and outdoor options, or a combination of both.

o The TreeHouse at Oak Crossing. This

indoor venue spans an entire second floor overlooking the beautiful oak trees located in Oak Crossing’s park and Gazebo area. The 4200-square-foot Treehouse is elegantly decorated in a muted pallet to complement any color choices. It can be divided into two distinct sections, allowing it to accommodate multiple events of varying sizes.

o The Gazebo at Oak Crossing. This

outdoor venue is nestled in the heart of Oak Crossing, under majestic oak trees.

The hand-crafted Gazebo structure is a 320-square-foot outdoor venue that provides a beautiful backdrop for a wide variety of celebrations. The Gazebo is equipped with lighting and electrical outlets, making it a versatile choice regardless of the time of the event.

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Our New Normal

After the challenges of this past year, most everyone in Southwest Louisiana is likely ready for some major celebrating in 2021. We need to party with a capital P! The reality is that COVID is still a threat and cases continue to climb – but that doesn’t mean we can’t gather and celebrate important life events like birthdays and weddings. It simply means we should take appropriate precautions.

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Lake Charles event planner Sara Lasher says no one wants a COVID outbreak at their function, and the two weeks after a gathering are often an added source of stress for hosts right now. “As vendors, we try our best to put together best practices based on Louisiana’s Open Safely Phase 3 guidelines that are easily implemented but won’t inflate the cost of hosting an event so much so that hosts can no longer afford to throw them.”

Lasher suggests the following tips on how to protect ourselves and others when we come together and pass a good time.

Temperature Checks Some venues take guests’ temperatures prior to allowing entry. Lasher says this process is quick, and so far, she’s not seen anyone turned away due to fever, but it’s an added comfort when you host an event and have a sense of responsibility for your guests.

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Sanitation Stations Lasher says hand sanitizers and masks aren’t going anywhere, and sanitation stations are a great way to help guests comply. “We place them in multiple locations at events, but especially at entrances if there is a guest book, by the bar, restrooms, food lines, cake tables, and favor areas. These high traffic areas are appropriate places for hand sanitizers.”

Designate a HighRisk Area “Elderly guests have been shut in for months, and they really want to get out and see their loved ones again,” Lasher says. “By providing them their own area, we hope to give them the confidence to attend and witness some of these gatherings while maintaining a safe distance.”

Venue L ayout Considerations

Besides decreased capacity, venues space rows of chairs six feet apart for ceremonies and speaking engagements and add more aisles so rows are shorter. At events with tables such as receptions, guest tables are placed 10 feet apart in order to keep guest chairs six feet apart. Plan enough seating so that each person has a chair, unlike a cocktail party, where there may not be a seat for everyone, making it harder to social distance.

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Lasher urges, “No bubble exits! How many times have you blown bubbles on a bride and groom at the end of the evening prior to 2020? Now consider those bubbles potentially being little bombs of COVID molecules waiting to detonate. I don’t care where you fall on the spectrum of COVID concerns. In 2020, this is a hard no from me!”

Self-serve buffets are a thing of the past, at least for now.

Lasher suggests staff-served lines and stations instead.

“Staff are masked and gloved, and often, a stanchion is in place to keep guests from breathing on the food.

It does increase labor charges, but it’s more controlled than self-serve and is still far more economical than a seated and plated meal.”

Pre-Wrapped Eating Utensils

In other words, no bulk loose silverware. “We’ve been opting instead for pre-wrapped to-go style disposables or linen-wrapped utensils . . . next to that handy dandy hand sanitizer, of course,” Lasher says.

Lasher says the goal should be to help guests feel confident to attend an event, knowing that the hosts have added precautions and put measures in place to keep people safe; though she does urge guests to stay home if they or someone in their household are feeling under the weather. “We all need to take ownership in protecting our neighbors and loved ones, and there’s no better way to be a good guest than by staying home when you are sick.”

Outdoor Spaces

The weather doesn’t always cooperate, but planning an outdoor event can be a wise precaution.

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Hot Trends in Fireplace Designs & Gadgets

by Angie Kay Dilmore

Few things say warm and cozy more than a crackling blaze in the fireplace. While most fireplace designs and tools to tend a fire are fairly standard, there are some interesting new design trends and creative gadgets that can add spark to your hearth.

Design Trends Today’s consumers appreciate versatility.

Not sure if you want gas or wood-burning, open viewing or sealed?

You can have it all with a convertible fireplace!

For a modern look, indoor gas-lit linear fireplaces make a statement, whether single-sided or dual-sided see-through. Linear gas fireplaces also work well in outdoor settings. As an extra-modern convenience, integrate the fireplace with your home automation system.

Want the look and feel of a fireplace but your home cannot accommodate one? Try a portable tabletop fireplace or a hanging model.

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If you have a large space and an extrahigh ceiling, consider a vertical fireplace, and we’re talking floor-to ceiling!

For a unique use of space, there’s the three-sided corner concept, also called a peninsula fireplace, offering a practical use of space.

Want to see the fire from every angle. Opt for a see-through, foursided glass fireplace for a simple yet contemporary look.

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Fireplaces should not be used continuously for more than five hours due to carbon monoxide concerns.

Consider installing smoke alarms and a CO2 monitor in your home, and keep a window cracked in the room when using the fireplace.

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Before starting your fire, make sure the damper (or flue) is open so the smoke is drawn out of the house.

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Ensure the area around your fireplace is clear of anything that is potentially flammable, ie. drapes, newspapers, books, and furniture.

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Never leave a fire in your fireplace unattended. Be sure the fire is out completely before you go to bed or leave the house.

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Keep your fireplace and chimney clean. Have your chimney checked once a year (or after about 80 fires) by a professional chimney sweep. A chimney cap can prevent water damage and deter animals from nesting. Clean the firebox (the area where the logs burn) at least weekly during use so that ash does not build up, but leave about an inch of ash in the area for insulation and to allow the coals to heat up more quickly

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How To Manage Your

Child’s Holiday Gift Expectations

by Vinay Saranga M.D.

As parents, we want the best for our children in all aspects of their lives. After all, their happiness means the world. However, this is the time of year when parents begin to hear more and more about the things their children want as the holiday lists roll in. It seems like they’re adding something new every day, or changing their minds at the last minute which is no surprise in this overstimulated world. It’s important for parents to manage expectations, especially this time of year. Fortunately, there are strategies to manage your children’s holiday gift expectations and it doesn’t need to end in disappointment.

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Explain how to prioritize & deal with disappointment.

This is where you can address your children’s “gimme“ mentality. When kids make a long list of desired gifts, they are not considering whether or not you can afford everything they want. Young children don’t really understand the value of money so that’s a lost point.

A better approach is to teach them about prioritizing their list. Learning that we can’t always have everything we want in life is a great lesson. Work with them to identify the one or two items that mean the most to them on the list (and fits within your gift budget).

Discuss every item on the list and discover their motivation for selecting the items. Let them know why you can’t get all the items on the list. This will teach them not to feel sad or disappointed whenever you say no, because they’ll know there’s a logical reason behind your decision and you’re not just trying to deprive them.

This strategy can help develop critical thinking habits in your children that will be beneficial to them the rest of their lives.

Teach the importance of generosity & empathy.

Remind children that gifts are meant to be given as well as received. Talk about the benefits of helping others. This can shift the focus of your child from getting what they want to giving in ways that can’t be monetized.

There are many ways you can help your kids attain an age-appropriate level of self-sacrifice. Take them shopping to choose gifts for friends, family, or a charity. Encourage them to donate gently used toys to a kidfocused charity or toy drive. Or take them along to buy food and personal care items for people in homeless shelters to demonstrate wants vs. needs.

Focus on the magic of the season (aka the Big Picture).

No matter what you’re celebrating this holiday season, your kids will undoubtedly be very happy when they see their gifts. But those gifts are quickly forgotten, sometimes even before the next holiday. The truth is that gifts are wonderful, but there’s more joy to be gained when you look at the bigger picture.

Remember, memories last longer than gifts. Be creative and consider giving experiences instead of toys. Challenge yourself to get into the holiday spirit in unique ways that won’t break the bank.

Bake cookies, make a gingerbread house, or volunteer your time together as a family. There are no limits to what you can add to your family›s holiday traditions.

Start conversations now before the holidays are in full swing so you can manage expectations and teach a few valuable lessons along the way. Be patient, especially if your children are accustomed to getting what they want. Generosity, gratitude, and prioritizing are all complex concepts for children. Keep exposing them to situations where they can do good for others even if it means not getting everything they want.

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by Keri Forbess-McCorquodale, MS, LPC, LMFT, CEAP

Good Riddance 2020???

Have we really almost made it to the end of 2020? Unlike most other years, I can’t say this year has flown by. It has been such a turtle of a year, moving achingly slow.

I’ve been hearing and seeing all over social media how ready everyone is for 2020 to be over. Lots of “I’m staying up this New Year’s Eve to make sure 2020 leaves” kinds of things. Other than being in the year 2021, will things really change? Doubtful.

However, most of us love beginnings, fresh starts and “do overs.” Many of us use the beginning of the year to get ourselves back on track health-wise, add in a new habit, or quit a bad habit. I get it. We need deadlines and start dates.

Pursuant to this, I have a friend who says, “All diets begin on Mondays. Period.”

So, we have established that turning the page on the calendar will not change much in our day to day challenges.

And we like the beginnings of things. BUT . . . are there any parts of 2020 that we might not want to wave goodbye to?

Has there been anything redeeming about these last 12 months? I say, “Yes!” Here are some things I am hoping we hang on to . . .

Handwashing. I love seeing everyone wash their hands all

the time. I have always felt people, in general, don’t do it enough. It has always made me reticent to shake hands with anyone (another thing I won’t be sad if it stays around – not shaking hands).

Slow, calm weekends. I mean it. I’m not giving them up.

It is my nature to be active and busy, and I have always prided myself on all I can get accomplished. It wasn’t until I couldn’t go anywhere on the weekends that I realized I was purposely making myself busy. Looking at an empty weekend on the calendar had me thinking about where I could go and what I could do not to “waste” the day. I no longer view those days without plans as a waste; I view them as a time to rest and rejuvenate. (I know, I’m a therapist – I should already know these things.)

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Examination of racism. This is a biggie for me. I have always

done lots of reading on diversity issues because I do lots of training on the topic. But this year, racism hit me in the gut in a deeper way than ever before. I became determined to educate myself and own my shortcomings as well as my white privilege. And we white people need to accept it – just by being born white, we automatically have a leg up on anyone of color. It’s not about you personally doing anything, and it’s not about insinuating that you haven’t had your own struggles. It’s about history and the way things have been set up, and the continuation of those ways. We must do better, and it is only the white people who can change things. White people have to hold white people accountable. It’s time to stop asking people of color to re-live their traumas so we white people can understand racism. The best thing I read all year: when you put a bandaid on, if it matches your skin, you have privilege. Yes, all those “small” things add up.

Becoming and staying more mentally healthy. It was a true broken record: exercise, eat healthy, do something you enjoy every day, and maintain social connections. As people spiraled down the rabbit holes of depression and anxiety, those of us in mental health said the same things over and over. Now, the challenge is to continue with the healthy practices you started. It took many of us a hot minute to get back on track (more like several months). But I am working with people who have finally decided that all the stress eating/drinking/couch potato’ing must stop. So back to the broken record items: can it really be that simple?

Yes, it can. If you do those four things, you will be more stable. If you do those four things, you will be much better at managing stress. If you do those four things, you will be more resilient.

So, goodbye 2020. I’m not sad to see you go. But I plan to keep parts of you around. I hope all of you readers will consider the year and do the same.

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PUTTING THE COMMUNITY BACK IN FOCUS Our friends, family, and co-workers – those people closest to our hearts and homes – have been through a lot this year. But despite the ongoing pandemic and the devastating storms that have come knocking on our doors, we have:

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