THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE 18TH JUNE 2023

...NOT IN THISDAY STYLE? THEN YOU’RE NOT IN STYLE

HAPPY FATHER’S DAY

SUNDAY, JUNE 18, 2023

ITUAH IGHODALO

FINDING STRENGTH IN FAMILY

EDITOR’S LETTER

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EXECUTIVE EDITOR

s we celebrate Father’s Day this week, we celebrate all fathers, especially those raising kids alone.

Speaking to Pastor Ituah Ighodalo on this, he shares the joy of raising his two beautiful children, who he says are his main priority after God and his journey thus far in his new role as a single father.

Society

AN EVENING OF SAPPHIRES & RELAXATION

Cascades Luxury, the owners of Scentified Stores and exclusive distributors of Boadicea The Victorious Perfumes in Nigeria in collaboration with Skymit Motors, recently welcomed Mr Jeremy Taylor, the esteemed Commercial Director of the renowned fragrance brand.

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On Ageing and Confidence

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S yle EXECUTIVE EDITOR KONYE NWABOGOR 08111847087 DEPUTY EXECUTIVE EDITOR OLUFUNKE BABS-KUFEJI 08111847086

A Guide To Becoming The BestDressed Man In The Room.

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ASSISTANT EDITOR OROMA JUMBO 08113921062

Father’s Day: 5 Movies Inspired

By Fatherhood

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VISUAL/SENIOR DESIGNER MATHIAS ARCHIBONG 07054965500

Redefined Menswear

GUEST CORRESPONDENT YOMI OWOPE

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The Timeless Appeal Of Ageing Gracefully

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Bovi Ugboma on Fatherhood

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Father’s Day: Bonding Activities to Create Lasting Memories

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Why Every Man Should Have A Skincare Routine

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CONTRIBUTORS AZUKA OGUJIUBA DIDEE ETA AYO LAWAL BUKOLA AMOBOYE RUKY SALAKO KEJUO LEKAN PHOTOGRAPHER TY BELLO

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he Timeless Appeal of Ageing Gracefully”- this right here is one article that stood out for me this week.

And the reason is that I couldn’t help but connect deeply with some sentiments expressed. Truth be told, it is a phenomenon I’ve noticed over the years — the increasing allure and confidence that men exude as they age. And I am sure you all have noticed that enigmatic quality that emerges in men as they advance in years, a sense of self-assuredness that seems to blossom with each passing day. As their hair turns silver and their faces bear the gentle lines of experience, a quiet confidence emanates from them. They have lived through life’s triumphs and tribulations, gaining wisdom and insight along the way. It is this accrued knowledge that forms the foundation for their newfound self-assurance, and it is this very trait that renders them truly captivating. While this phenomenon of growing confidence and attractiveness is not exclusive to men, the gender differences in this regard are indeed quite dramatic. And the reason for this is not quite farfetched. Society often places undue pressure on women to retain their youthful appearance, propagating the notion that ageing diminishes their value and appeal.

On the other hand, men are encouraged to embrace the signs of ageing as badges of honour, symbols of their maturity and wisdom. This crazy double standard perpetuates harmful stereotypes and deprives women of the opportunity to fully embrace the beauty and confidence of growing older. I think it is high time we challenge these norms and celebrate the enduring appeal of age for all genders. Ageing should not be regarded as a decline but a continuous journey towards self-discovery, wherein confidence and attractiveness are not confined to any particular stage of life.

Imagine a society that values and appreciates every individual’s beauty, regardless of age or gender and what it would do for our self-esteem and mental health. I am loving it already. If we are intentional about it, we can create a world where ageing is seen as a source of empowerment, where confidence and attractiveness radiate from within, and where the passage of time becomes a symbol of strength rather than a cause for concern. How about we start that today?

Still, on the men, it is Father’s Day today, and even though the men in our lives are celebrated every day, let’s make an effort to make today extra special. I want to take a moment to express my gratitude first to my biological father. The examples and the great memories I have shared with you are everlasting and have positively influenced my life as no one else could have. I couldn’t have asked for a better man as a father, and I am forever thankful to God for this blessing—Happy Father’s Day, Chief Godfrey Egorum Nwabogor. I love you with all my heart, and I am so proud to be your daughter. Thank you for, amongst other things, life, love and laughter…..And also to every man who has played the role of a father figure in my life. You all have provided me with guidance and support and, through your actions, demonstrated the kind of confidence that inspires me to be my best self. For this, I am indeed thankful.

As we celebrate today, let’s also make it a point of duty to strive for a society that fosters confidence, self-acceptance, and equal opportunities for all. By doing so, we create a world where every person can flourish, regardless of age or gender.

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An Evening of Sapphires & Relaxation

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ascades Luxury, the owners of Scentified Stores and exclusive distributors of Boadicea The Victorious Perfumes in Nigeria in collaboration with Skymit Motors, recently welcomed Mr Jeremy Taylor, the esteemed Commercial Director of the renowned fragrance brand. This extraordinary event, aptly titled “An Evening of Sapphires & Relaxation,” captivated the hearts of attendees, who were treated to an enchanting experience of fine fragrances, luxurious ambience, and delightful company.

Guests were immersed in a world of scents and sensations, mingling with like-minded individuals who shared their passion for exquisite perfumery.

ERNEST OMOREGIE, ADAEZE NNAMA & MUYIWA AKINYEMI

JEREMY TAYLOR AND CHIKE MEMEH

AMANDA AMUSAN

VICTOR ABHULIM, YEMI AMUSAN, CHIKE MEMEH, DR KINGSLEY UMADIA AND CONRAD MEMEH

CHIKE OGEAH, BAYO ABDUL & TAYO AYENI

DONALD NEDKWU AND EMEKA OBIAGOR

OGUNMEFUN KUNLE & JIKE COKER

IFUNAYA ANAESIUBA

KWARA STATE GOVERNOR), ABDULRAHMAN ABDULRAZAQ, TAYO AYENI AND KAYODE ODUKOYA

OBINNA OBI IYIEGBU

WHOTERA KAGHO & IFY KAGHO

KAFAYAT OLUWATOYIN

UCHE UKPAKA & MOHAMMED KOKO

TAIWO AFOLABI

AMBROSE OVBIEBO & OGUNMEFUN KUNLE MARTIN AYENI

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EKI OGUMBOR & NICOLE CHIKWE

EMMANUEL EGBOH

DONALD NDEKWU, BASORUN AKIN KONGI &NIYI ADESEUN

OLARONKE APAMPA

ADEOLA ALADE & AISHA HAMMED

VANESSA AZAR & NICOLE CHIKWE

FALIL AYO ABINA, DAPO OGUNTAYO, JEREMY TAYLOR, OTUNBA LAI LABODE & ISREAL OVIRIH

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uinness World Records has announced Hilda Baci as the new record holder for the longest cooking by an individual. The GWR, in a statement on its website, said: “Following a thorough review of all the evidence, Guinness World Records can now confirm that Hilda Effiong Bassey, better known as Hilda Baci, has officially broken the record for the longest cooking marathon (individual), with a time of 93 hours 11 minutes. “A tweet on their official Twitter page also reads: “After reviewing all the footage, we’re delighted to announce that Hilda Baci is the new record holder for the longest cooking marathon (individual).

ABBAS, KALU EMERGE, SPEAKER, DEPUTY

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ajudeen Abbas has emerged as the Speaker of the House of Representatives. Abbas, who polled 353 votes, emerged as Speaker after a roll call of members-elect, 359 out of 360 members that participated in the process of the inauguration of the 10th National Assembly. While the immediate past spokesman of the House, Benjamin Kalu, emerged unopposed as Deputy Speaker of the House of Representatives.

GRAMMY INTRODUCES THE ‘BEST AFRICAN MUSIC PERFORMANCE’ CATEGORY TO 2024 AWARDS.

EDO GOVT. REDUCES SCHOOL DAYS TO 3 PER WEEK

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he Edo State Government has cut school days to three times a week to mitigate the impact of the removal of fuel subsidies. Ozavize Salami, the Chairperson of the Edo State Universal Basic Education Board (SUBEB), confirmed this after a meeting between the state’s Head of Service, Anthony Okungbowa and other government officials.

This comes after the state government announced that public and civil servants should work thrice weekly following the removal of subsidy.

BURNA BOY THRILLS FANS AT UEFA CHAMPIONS LEAGUE FINAL.

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he Recording Academy, organisers of Grammy Awards, has created a category for ‘Best African Music Performance.’ The category was among the three new ones announced by the academy.

The other two newly created categories are Best Pop Dance Recording and Best Alternative Jazz Album.

According to the statement, the new categories will receive nominations beginning with next year’s show.

“The addition of the Best African Music Performance category reflects how African acts such as Burna Boy, Wizkid, and Tems—along with the rise of the Afrobeats genre—have become global chart-topping stars and streaming juggernauts,” the statement reads.

LAGOS FASHION WEEK 2023 IS HERE

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agos Fashion Week — is set to return for an exciting fashion feast come October. Hosted in Lagos, Nigeria, the event brings together buyers, consumers and the media to view designers’ latest collections. This year’s edition is scheduled from the 25th to the 29th October, 2023.

AKPABIO ELECTED AS SENATE PRESIDENT, AND JIBRIN AS DEPUTY SENATE PRESIDENT.

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odswill Akpabio has been elected president of the 10th Senate.

Mr Akpabio polled 63 votes to defeat his lone challenger, Abdulaziz Yari, a former governor of Zamfara State, who secured 46 votes.

Also, the senator representing Kano North, Barau Jibrin, emerged as the deputy senate president. Mr Jibrin was elected unopposed.

Like the Senate President, Mr Jibrin was given the instruments of his office after taking the oaths of allegiance, membership of the Senate and the office of the deputy Senate president.

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EXXONMOBIL APPOINTS ADESUA DOZIE AS VICE CHAIRPERSON FOR MOBIL PRODUCING NIGERIA.

GUINNESS WORLD RECORDS ANNOUNCES HILDA BACI’S NEW RECORD HOLDER.

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xxonMobil has appointed Adesua Dozie as the new vice chairperson for its Nigerian affiliates, Mobil Producing Nigeria Unlimited (MPN) and Esso Exploration and Production Nigeria Limited (EEPNL).

Until her appointment, she was an Executive Director and General Counsel for MPN and EEPNL. Dozie joined MPN in November 2019 as General Counsel and was elevated to the position of Executive Director on December 30, 2019. She is a senior legal advisor with over 20 years of experience as a trusted leader for multinational companies across Africa in diverse industries.

CBN GRANTS BANKS THE FREEDOM TO TRADE FOREX AT ANY RATE.

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he Central Bank of Nigeria has authorised commercial banks to trade foreign exchange at any rate freely. The authorisation means that banks now have the power to sell forex at a market-determined rate.

For years, Nigeria has maintained a tightly controlled official exchange rate as the country’s forex reserves hit new lows. While the CBN maintained an artificial rate of $1/N462.

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rammy award-winner Burna Boy has recorded another giant feat after he became the first African star to perform at a UEFA Champions League Final. This historic performance took place during the 2023 European Club football final in Istanbul, Turkey Burna Boy thrilled a stadium packed filled with 80,000 fans who turned up to watch the final between Manchester City and Inter Milan.

The 2023 final was held In Istanbul, Turkey, and Burna Boy thrilled fans with a collection of his hit songs as he continued to lead the international charge of Afrobeats.

CHEF DAMMY COMPLETES 120 HOUR COOK-A-THON

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kiti-based Nigerian chef, Damilola Adeparusi, has completed her 120 hours of cook-a-thon.

She announced this on her Twitter page with the caption, “120hrs done! I want to appreciate you all for your support emotionally, financially, physically & spiritually. If not for you guys, I wouldn’t be able to achieve this,” she tweeted.

However in a confirmation request to Legit NG , the Guinness World Record has said has said it did not receive an application regarding the cook-a-thon .

The body said: “We have not received an application for this attempt.

Applications can be made via the Guinness World Records website for our records management team to review.” Adeparusi started her cooking marathon on June 9 and has become a viral sensation ever since.

Her cooking marathon also attracted different reactions from social media users. While some users commended her courage, others slammed her for allegedly planning to undermine Baci’s 93 hours record.

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FATHER’S DAY: 5 MOVIES INSPIRED BY FATHERHOOD

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From adventures to heart-wrenching dramas, these movies capture the essence of fatherhood—the selflessness, strength, and unconditional love that shape the relationship between a father and his child. As we celebrate Father’s Day, let’s honour and appreciate the fathers who inspire us, uplift us, and play a vital role in shaping the people we become.

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THE PURSUIT OF HAPPYNESS Starring the iconic real-life father and son duo of Will Smith and Jaden Smith, this 2006 movie is based on the real-life of Chris Gardner and his struggle as a single father trying to make ends meet and cater for his son. The movie was critically acclaimed and got Will Smith both Oscar and Golden Globe nominations for Best Actor that year.

Embrace Colors and Patterns

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DADDY’S HOME AND DADDY’S HOME 2 This 2015 movie and its 2017 sequel hilariously tell the story of nearly every stepfather vying for the love and respect of their stepchildren. In these movies, we find the stepfathers ridiculously pitting themselves against the biological fathers to gain the attention of the kids, with the sequel taking it up a notch by introducing the granddads from both sides.

Dress for the Occasion

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I AM SAM Released in 2001 and directed by Jessie Nelson, this movie tells the moving story of a father with an intellectual disability battling to win custody of his daughter and prove that he is capable of raising her. Sean Penn, in the lead role of the disabled father, was nominated as Best Actor at the Oscars and SAG awards for his performance.

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KING RICHARD This 2021 film, directed by Renaldo Marcus Green, also stars Will Smith and is based on the true story of Serena and Venus Williams and the impact their father, Richard Williams, had on their successful tennis careers. Coming from a lowly background, Richard Williams pushed and supported his daughters to become two of the best tennis players the world has ever seen.

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FATHERHOOD One of the first things you notice about this movie is its unlikely lead cast, Kevin Hart, who is popularly known for his comedy.

This, however, is an emotional drama that tells the story of a widower faced with the challenges of raising his infant all alone after the death of his wife. He struggles to do this amidst his doubts, fears, and invasive inlaws who do not believe him capable. It was directed by Paul Weitz and released in 2021.

It is also based on a true story.

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In a society where being average is applauded, we should be careful not to pat single fathers on their backs for doing what they are supposed to. Men should love and care for their children, provide emotional and financial support, and give guidance and instruction. Many men do, but society never really speaks much about them. There are many men out there who are primary caregivers and are doing phenomenally well raising children all on their own. As we celebrate Father’s Day this week, we celebrate all fathers, especially those raising kids alone. Speaking to Pastor Ituah Ighodalo on this, he shares the joy of raising his two beautiful children, who he says are his main priority after God and his journey thus far in his new role as a single father.

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Since your wife died in 2020, how has it been raising the kids independently?

Difficult to describe. The first challenge was getting the information I needed to learn about certain things. The second was pulling myself out to create more time to attend to things I didn’t quite know about or, most times, only glanced through. The third, and perhaps the funniest, was in care selection—the choice of nannies, things like that—and having to be much more involved in the children’s school activities. But it’s just an adjustment of time and knowing that now I have to take on a lot more and be a lot more hands-on and a lot more available. And know that children are the main priority of one’s life.

have gone to the schools, analysed them, evaluated them, and just come and said to me that this is the one that is good. Both schools my daughter went to, she came and said to me, “I think these are the schools”, and luckily, I knew the schools, so I didn’t need to evaluate them too much. But she made all the findings as she was extremely meticulous. She did all the legwork and found all the information, and I just approved once I felt they were in tune with what we both wanted. She also took the children out more—she took them swimming; she went with them to their parties, organised their clothes, organised their food, and everything else. I’ve had to do all that now that she is gone.

What do you miss most about your wife and raising the kids?

First of all, she was extremely organised, so she got everything sorted. I had nothing to do with school. In those days, she would

Tell us how you feel about the reputation society and movies have created about single dads and what exactly the reality is.

I guess a stereotyped impression sells the movie more.: having

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Finding Strength in Family

You may make a few mistakes here and there, but within a few months, you’ll get into a rhythm if you’re serious about what you’re doing.

And you begin to enjoy it.

PASTOR ITUAH IGHODALO AND HIS KIDS UNUAKEMONYI OLAJUMOKE IGHODALO AND EHIZENAN AKINTUNDE IGHODALO

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Beyond Formal Attire

a clumsy single dad who burns the food, forgets the kids, and runs raggedy all over the place. You may make a few mistakes here and there, but within a few months, you’ll get into a rhythm if you’re serious about what you’re doing. And you begin to enjoy it.

I remember the very first school PTA meeting that I had to attend.

I was initially irritated, but I’ve been to a few since then and am beginning to enjoy those things. We’re not as confused and upsidedown as movies portray. We tend to settle into a rhythm, begin to understand things, and then accept that this is our new situation in life. To be honest, society is quite understanding, accommodating, and quite accepting. I have also gotten a lot of support from my inlaws, but also a lot of support from my siblings. I’ve also got a lot of help from church members and, of course, a lot of support from even the schools that the children attend.

Most times, single mothers are harshly judged and criticised for how they raise their kids, but people are more sympathetic towards single fathers. Do you agree, and why is it so? Or do you get criticised just the same?

Not as of now. I get a lot of suggestions, or I used to get a lot of suggestions, but I am getting them less now. Maybe the initial few months that my wife passed—the initial nine months or so— I got all sorts of suggestions and things. People were scared for me— that I wouldn’t know my left from my right or what to do. But now we all seem to have settled into a rhythm, and most people have backed off. As to single mothers being criticised, it is just a societal assumption that most children are raised by their mothers, and to some extent, it’s 60 to 70% true because traditional society has women spending more time with their children. Women either stop working or find flexible work because of the children. But teaching the children the manners they need to know is up to both parents. It takes two to raise a child. So participation is very important. So any child that has not been well raised well is a result of both parents contributions as far as I’m concerned.

Many people are of the opinion that fathers should raise their kids the way moms do, but the real question here is: can a dad be a mom? Yes or no, and why?

Maybe you need to ask my daughter that question because one day I was going out, and she said I must make sure I come back home early, and I said why? And she said, “Don’t you know you are now mummy/daddy?”

I think both parents have a significant role to play. I know some fathers who have done phenomenal work raising their children.

They’ve been a lot more disciplined and committed. But these days, raising children is not just strict discipline as such; you want to raise children who are your friends; you want to raise children who are confident in themselves. You want to raise children whose talents and gifts you can expose and harness so they can fulfil their purpose in life, as opposed to that straight jacket way of saying, this is right, this is wrong, left, right, forward, backwards. In my opinion, there must be more flexibility, participation, and engagement with the children.

How would you describe your parenting style?

My parenting style is more of a problem-solving technique than the command-and-rule technique. Raising my children has been very pleasurable. I have enjoyed it. We have a lot of fun together; we sleep together, and we have meals together. I take them to school, and we swim.

I look forward to spending time with them every evening before they go to bed.

I used to get a lot of suggestions, but I am getting them less now.

Maybe the initial few months that my wife passed—the initial nine months or so— I got all sorts of suggestions and things. People were scared for me—that I wouldn’t know my left from my right or what to do 16

It’s fantastic to hear you are friends with your kid. But as a man of God, from a spiritual perspective, why is it important to raise kids godly in these times and climes?

It’s not just important; it’s critical. It’s critical in a society where values are being quickly eroded.

Nobody knows what is right or wrong anymore.

Everybody is pushing their agenda and desires and trying to force them on the world in the name of human rights. Making good old values look traditional and old-fashioned. The only values that stand the test of time are those that are Godly. And those values evolved from people having a relationship with God and being able to distinguish through inspiration and critical thinking what was proper from what was not proper. Marriage, for example, is fundamentally

between two people of opposite sexes, but now society is forcing us to believe you can have a significant other of any sex. It’s not right. It’s not natural. It’s also not biblical. But now they’re saying the Bible is old-fashioned and needs to be rewritten. Some things don’t change.

For instance, you cannot eat with your ears, no matter how much you try. The ear is for hearing, not eating. It’s just not equipped to do that.

You cannot look with your fingers; the fingers don’t have sight. So you cannot say that looking with your eyes is old-fashioned. And that’s what society is almost saying now.

From a spiritual perspective, what is your approach when it comes to discipline?

It’s a mixture of what you would call traditional discipline and modern engagement. I will not shy away from saying that I use a stick once in a while for my children because it’s important. Spare the rod and spoil the child. The fear is that some people might overdo things. So there must be a balance. There must be a way by which you ensure and insist on some discipline for the child. And if they push their boundaries, then they get a bit of the rod. I don’t think it is inappropriate.

The redefined menswear revolution extends beyond formal occasions. Casual wear has become a playground for self-expression.

The limited choices of jeans and t-shirts no longer bind men. Instead, they explore a myriad of options, including tailored shorts, widelegged trousers, and layered looks.

Athleisure has also gained immense popularity, providing comfort without compromising on style. It’s all about striking the perfect balance between comfort, versatility, and fashion-forwardness.

Accessories as Statements

Accessories have always been an essential part of fashion, but they now play an even more significant role in redefined menswear. From statement necklaces and bracelets to vibrant pocket squares and bold socks, men are embracing accessories as an extension of their personal style. These little details can elevate an outfit and make a powerful statement. Unique eyewear, hats, and even unconventional bags are also gaining prominence, allowing men to showcase their individuality.

Celebrating Cultural Influences

So you mentioned you have come into a rhythm with your kids, but some things must be hard as a single dad. Tell us the hardest part about being a single dad, and what are some of your struggles ? Also, what is the best part about it?

Physically, it’s not hard for me. I do everything with my children.

I’m happy to do it. I give them their baths, and I feed them, etc. My girl is a young lady now, so she likes to take a bath herself. The only difficulty is emotional, and that’s when they ask after their mom. They ask why she went and when she is coming back. Questions like that make it emotionally hard, but aside from that, nothing is hard.

What is or was your relationship with your dad, and what fond memories do you have of him?

I had a beautiful relationship with my dad when he was alive. When he was much younger, he had a beard. He used to live in Benin and would drive from Benin to Ibadan, where we lived as young children, with my mother who worked in the civil service. In those days, we used to sleep underneath in mosquito nets and would be asleep when he arrived from Benin. First, you would hear the horn of his car at the gate, and when he came in, he would come straight to our room, put his head inside our mosquito net, and rub his beard all over our faces. You would smell his aroma when he did this, which was really enjoyable. He was a brave man; he was calm, a good-looking man, a very affectionate man, and he loved his children. He used to take us hunting, out on drives, and he would take us to the farm. Both my parents had farms. He taught me how to ride a bicycle, and he taught me how to drive at the age of 14 or 15

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Is that the same approach you have with your children, especially as a single dad?

I really hope so. Time will tell whether I’m successful or not, but I allow them to have their say and consult them. We discuss, and we have fun. When they’re going out of line, I stop them.

What are your hopes for your children in the future?

I hope they grow up as children with strong Christian values. I hope they are confident in themselves while being respectful and disciplined and, most importantly, that they fulfil their purpose. I hope to guide them towards their destinies and not force them to be what they would rather not be.

What advice do you have to give other single dads?

There’s nothing to be too worried about. I don’t know what circumstances led to their singleness. Some are single because they’re separated; some are single, like in my case, because they lost their wives; some are single because they never got married and are responsible for raising their children. My advice is that they should be good parents and good people. You can’t give what you don’t have.

You should be born again; you should be a Christian. You should distinguish right from wrong values. Go back to school if you are not that inclined so you can transfer the same values to your children. The second thing is to create time for your children, look forward to it, and make it fun. Don’t think of it as a regress or that it’s not masculine to bring up children. You just have to keep going, keep doing it, and make the most of it. The third, of course, is to seek help when you need it.

Consult people and ask for advice. Don’t think you know it all because nobody knows it all. I’ve sought help many times, and it helps.

The redefined menswear movement celebrates the influence of various cultures and ethnicities.

Global fashion designers draw inspiration from diverse traditions, resulting in fusion garments that EMMANUEL IMOH blend the best of both Tailoring with a Twist worlds. Traditional patterns, embroidery, and Traditional tailoring has also experienced a renaissance with a contemporary twist. Slim-fitting suits and fabrics from different cultures find their way into structured blazers are still classic choices, but designers have introduced unconventional elements that contemporary menswear, challenge convention. Asymmetrical lapels, exaggeratcreating a rich tapestry of style. This interplay of cul- ed shoulder lines, and unexpected fabric combinations tural influences allows men add an avant-garde touch to traditional menswear. to express their heritage Customisation is also on the rise, with made-towhile embracing modern measure and bespoke options allowing men to create fashion trends. garments that perfectly reflect their personalities.

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From Street Style to High Fashion

One of the most fascinating aspects of redefined menswear is its ability to blend street style with high fashion seamlessly. Streetwear, once considered a subculture, has now become a dominant force in the fashion industry. It has transformed the way men dress, infusing casual elements into formal attire and effortlessly blending comfort with style. From designer sneakers paired with tailored suits to hoodies worn under blazers, this fusion of styles has given birth to a new breed of fashion-forward gentlemen who effortlessly exude confidence and sophistication.

Sustainability and Ethical Fashion

Alongside the push for redefined menswear, there is a growing awareness of sustainability and ethical fashion practices. Men are increasingly opting for eco-friendly fabrics, recycled materials, and ethically sourced garments. Sustainable brands are gaining traction, emphasising quality over quantity and encouraging conscious consumption. This shift towards sustainability aligns with the desire to make responsible choices and positively impact the planet.

The redefined menswear movement represents a seismic shift in the world of fashion. Men are no longer confined by rigid rules and are instead empowered to express their individuality through their clothing choices.

With the freedom to experiment and embrace colour, pattern, and unconventional styles, the modern man has found new avenues for self-expression.

Go ahead and delve into the fascinating world of redefined menswear, where boundaries are broken and personal expression is celebrated. Break free from the norm, and embark on your journey of self-expression.

Breaking Free from Traditional Stereotypes

Gone are the days when menswear was confined to a limited colour palette, basic silhouettes, and rigid gender norms. The redefined menswear movement challenges these stereotypes, embracing inclusivity and diversity. Men now confidently experiment with vibrant hues, patterns, and unconventional cuts. Floral prints, pastel shades, and bold geometrics have become common sights, blurring the lines between traditional masculine and feminine aesthetics.

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The Power of Confidence One of the most alluring traits that accompany age is the confidence that develops over time. Mature men have experienced life’s ups and downs, gaining wisdom and self-assurance along the way. This confidence emanates from within, transforming an ordinary face into one that captivates and intrigues. It’s the magnetism of a man who knows who he is, unapologetically embracing his flaws and exuding an air of authenticity that is simply irresistible.

Distinguished Features With the passage of time, the face and body of a man undergo subtle changes that can enhance their attractiveness.

Fine lines and wrinkles, commonly associated with ageing, add character and depth to a man’s face, revealing a life lived fully. These lines, etched with memories, tell stories that make a man intriguing and interesting. Furthermore, a well-maintained salt-and-pepper beard or distinguished grey hair can exude sophistication and lend an air of wisdom that younger counterparts may

find challenging to replicate.

Health and Vitality While external features are essential, maintaining a healthy and vibrant appearance is equally crucial for male attractiveness as one ages. Taking care of one’s physical well-being through regular exercise and a balanced diet keeps the body in shape and adds an appealing glow to the skin. Men who prioritise their health project vitality and radiance, making them undeniably attractive regardless of age.

Personal Style Evolution Another fascinating aspect of male attractiveness and ageing is the evolution of personal style. With age comes a refined sense of fashion and a deeper understanding of what works best for oneself. Gone are the experimental fashion phases of youth, replaced by a cultivated and effortlessly elegant style.

The combination of sartorial choices and confidence is a winning formula that elevates a man’s attractiveness to new heights.

Style and Fashion Gone are the days when men were limited to a narrow spectrum of fashion choices. Today, men of all ages have embraced diverse and expressive styles, showcasing their personalities through clothing. From classic tailored suits that exude sophistication to casual ensembles that emphasise comfort and individuality, men have an expansive sartorial playground that accentuates their unique attractiveness at any age.

Embracing Emotional Intelligence As men age, their emotional intelligence tends to grow, becoming an increasingly attractive quality. Emotional intelligence encompasses the ability to empathise, communicate, and connect deeply with others. These qualities go beyond physical appearances and create a magnetic pull towards a man who possesses the ability to understand and relate to others on a profound level. The emotionally intelligent man possesses the gift of making people around him feel seen, heard, and appreciated.

Embracing Authenticity Above all, the true essence of male attractiveness lies in embracing authenticity. Men who remain true to themselves, unapologetically embracing their individuality and quirks, radiate an irresistible magnetism. This unwavering authenticity becomes the foundation upon which their attractiveness is built, ensuring a timeless charm that captivates those around them.

Embracing Change Adapting to change becomes more natural with age, and this adaptability brings forth an undeniable charm. Men who embrace the ageing process and the changes that come with it project an attitude of grace and acceptance.

They understand that life is a journey, and each phase has its unique beauty.

This acceptance resonates with others, making them see the beauty of ageing as well.

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The Power of Experience As men accumulate life experiences, they develop a unique depth and substance that adds to their attractiveness. The stories they carry, the lessons they’ve learned, and the wisdom they’ve acquired through the years create an unparalleled aura of magnetism. Engaging in conversations with such individuals becomes a captivating experience, as they offer insights and perspectives that are born out of a rich tapestry of experiences.

THE TIMELESS APPEAL OF AGEING GRACEFULLY For a generation obsessed with youthful appearances, the topic of male attractiveness and ageing often takes a back seat. But let’s pause for a moment and consider the undeniable charm that comes with the passage of time. Like a fine wine that only gets better with age, men possess a unique ability to exude a magnetism that transcends mere physicality. In this article, we delve into the multifaceted aspects of male attractiveness, exploring the factors that contribute to their timeless allure as they navigate the journey of ageing.

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The Art of Grooming While grey hair may grace their temples and lines may etch their faces, men today have embraced a new era of grooming that celebrates their evolving features. The meticulous care of well-maintained facial hair has become an art form, emphasising masculinity and lending a distinguished air. Coupled with proper skincare routines, which enhance the health and vitality of the skin, men have mastered the art of ageing gracefully.

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Sunday, June 18, 2023 Vol. 22, No. 10258

Bovi Ugboma on Fatherhood: The secrets to balancing laughter, love, and life.

home? That’s a rhetorical question.

What my daughter and I share is not peculiar to us.

Most first daughters and their fathers are very fond of each other. It’s an Electra complex. communication and less criticism. I think it’s helped to cushion the surprises. I don’t want them to be timid, and I don’t want them to be reckless. I’m also ensuring to avoid raising them with a general method because they have different temperaments.

When it comes to entertainment, Bovi Ugboma has made a name for himself with his infectious humour and undeniable wit.

But behind the spotlight and the uproarious laughter lies a side of Bovi that many may not be familiar with – his role as a devoted father.

To mark this year’s Father’s Day, we had the privilege of sitting down with this multitalented comedian and actor to delve into his personal journey of balancing fatherhood and fame. With his characteristic charm and uncanny ability to find the perfect punchline in any situation, Bovi Ugboma opens up about the joys, challenges, and lessons he’s learned on this unpredictable and hilarious journey called parenting.

Happy Father’s Day, Bovi. Let’s talk a bit about fatherhood. What does it mean to you, and how has it influenced your outlook on life?

Happy Father’s Day, Bovi. Let’s talk a bit about fatherhood. What does it mean to you, and how has it influenced your outlook on life?

Thank you. Being a father is fun only on paper. The only thing I love is my unconditional love for my children. Outside that, it has forced me into responsibility. Probably quicker than I planned. I have stopped living for me 100 and started to make sacrifices with joy. As an adult, it’s kind of fulfilling to be experiencing these feelings for the first time. It’s not easy, but that’s the honest truth. I had no forewarning.

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As a producer, you have successfully created comedy shows and events such as “Bovi Man on Fire” and “Visa on Arrival” What do you consider when selecting projects, and how do you ensure they resonate with your audience?

They must strike a chord in my heart first. Stand-up is different. Producing it is like producing any other show. But for stand-up, I’m the performer. I have stories to tell for ages. As regards TV shows, I like to mirror society. Visa on Arrival is a satire.

You know Nigerians don’t issue visas. We are telling the story of Nigerians in public offices and how unprofessional they can be. I like to tell stories people can relate to. That’s why the show, like previous ones I’ve done, was a hit.

Our parents didn’t understand us. I knew they wanted the best for me, but they also needed to know times have changed. Now I find myself in the same boat with my kids, and to be honest, I’m quite cool. I try to understand where they’re coming from.

What challenges do you face as a modern-day parent, and how do you strike a balance between work, family, and personal life?

I’m one person who tries not to do to others what was done to me. That’s things I didn’t like. Our parents didn’t understand us. I knew they wanted the best for me, but they also needed to know times have changed. Now I find myself in the same boat with my kids, and to be honest, I’m quite cool. I try to understand where they’re coming from.

The only thing I don’t compromise is their safety. By the time they’re teenagers, I’d let them go wherever they want.

But I’d certainly have security shadowing them without in the entertainment industry. How would them knowing. My work is flexible in a way that allows me to be home most of the time. If I’m not working, I’m home. that make you feel?

It’s flattery to say she’s following in my So it’s good. footsteps. Even if I were a native doctor, Let’s talk a bit about your kids, your daughter Elena has I’m sure she would still be who she is an captured the hearts of your social media followers. It ap- entertainer. It’s in her blood. It only seems like she’s following my path because I’m in pears you both share a special bond. showbiz. She was expressing herself way What my daughter and I share is not peculiar to us. Most before she had developed the ability to do first daughters and their fathers are very fond of each other.

It’s an Electra complex. But what makes ours evident is that so . As a tot, she communicated and had a she’s a natural-born entertainer. Even if I wasn’t an entertain- sense of humour. As crazy as that sounds, it’s the gospel truth. I advise her always to er, she would have still been famous cos she came to this do what makes her happy. world preprogrammed like that.

From the look of things, she’s following in your footsteps It is popularly believed that parenting boys can present unique challenges.

Your entry into the entertainment industry began with the “Extended Family” sitcom, which you wrote and produced.

What were the early days like?

Just know that I was a lucky chap.

Fame found me before anything else. The programme hit the airwaves by 8 pm on Sunday, 1st of April 2007. And by the next day, I couldn’t walk the streets anymore.

It’s a crazy situation to blow and not have a dime or a car. Fans went into hysteria when they saw me. I loved it and dreaded it at the same time. But I kept pushing.

Now I’m grateful for everyone who helped me and everyone who cheated me. It was an ok growth for me.

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Has this been your experience, and how do you approach parenting them while instilling your cherished values?

I allow the boys to be boys. You know, there’s a limit they can go. They know there are consequences for the wrong actions, but I also make sure the punishment doesn’t outweigh the crime. The last thing I want to do is make my kids become timid. So I try my best to be as balanced as possible.

So what’s your relationship with them like?

My sons don’t have my time as the way they have their mom’s time. I put it down to the Oedipus complex—especially my first.

I’m the one who’s always calling them and trying to strike up conversations. They can go days without seeing me and not really be bothered. I call them quarrelling because that they don’t ask of me, and all they say is sorry. The only time they want to be with me is to play PlayStation. So I take my pound of flesh by whooping them silly. I play them like I’m playing with my mates. I remind them that I’ve been playing the game since the turn of the millenium.

Fatherhood can be both rewarding and demanding.

How do you navigate the fine line between being a funloving dad and a responsible parent?

Well, certain rules must not be broken, and they know them. Do they break them? Yes, they do, but I make sure the punishment doesn’t outweigh the crime. I also negotiate a lot with them. If there’s anything I desire, it’s for them to communicate properly with me. I prioritised open

Your career has witnessed significant growth and success. What do you attribute to this upward trajectory, and how do you maintain your motivation to push the boundaries of your craft?

Maintaining motivation is hard. I can’t even lie. Especially because for someone like me, I get easily bored. I think every Nigerian artist has had motivation for years. We just lack the structures to break new ground. I started doing my shows at Eko Hotel in 2013. I’ve done it there four times. I wish we had a 10 thousand or 20-thousand-capacity arena. That’s what I should be doing at this stage of my career.

So you see, these are some of the issues.

How many arenas do we have in Nigeria?

I mean proper arenas. When the system isn’t growing, the artist gets to the top and just starts going on to station. Burna and Wiz are selling out stadiums outside their own country. Which stadium in Naija will be conducive for them to do the same at

How do you maintain a balance between pushing boundaries with your comedy and ensuring your jokes are received positively?

You can’t get it right all the time. But for me, I try to see the merits and demerits of every topic. People are less offended when you make them know that you see their “why”. I think that’s been my survival skill. I don’t judge anybody, but that doesn’t stop me from having a different opinion.

Fans are eagerly anticipating your upcoming American tour. And, of course, here in Lagos come September. What can they expect from your live performances?

The usual. I just keep it real. I try to be as authentic as possible. I try to touch on what everyone is thinking but not wanting to talk about. Yep. That’s it. I’m doing Atlanta, New York, Maryland and Dallas.

The beauty of comedy is that people want to hear a comic version of what’s happening in life. Some jokes cut across. While some of them you have to tweak. It just depends on the city. Sometimes the difference is slight. Other times you tweak it altogether. Drop some jokes. Add others.

With the rise of social media and online platforms, comedians have gained new avenues to connect with their audience. How has this digital landscape impacted your career?

I’ve been making skits and short clips even before social media exploded. Don’t forget that we used skits to promote shows on TV. So once social media blew up, it took us into more homes. It brought us into direct contact with the consumers.

It’s a beautiful thing.

Being a father often comes with its fair share of unexpected and humorous moments. Can you share a funny anecdote from your parenting journey that still makes you smile?

The most recent was when my 9-yearold daughter thanked me for carrying her on my back. And my response was, “Yeah, your mom can’t do that for you, but I can”. She replied, saying, “Dad, that’s sexist”. I froze Looking ahead, what are your aspirations and goals for the future? Are there any projects or endeavours you are particularly excited about?

I’m holding all that close to my chest.

Just know that the version of me you see today, you won’t see tomorrow. I’m like an app that is constantly updated. I’m so done with everything you know. And I’m exploring new frontiers.

What valuable lessons do you hope to pass on to your children about love, respect, and navigating life’s challenges?

I’m just taking it one day at a time.

Above all, I want them to treat others with respect while protecting their self-esteem.

I tell them always how special they are and that their journey in life is about using their gifts to affect mankind.

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WHY EVERY MAN SHOULD HAVE A SKINCARE ROUTINE

Lights, Camera, Action - Movie Night Kick back and relax with your dad by organising a movie night. Let him choose his favourite film or introduce him to a new one. Create a cosy atmosphere with popcorn, snacks, and blankets, and enjoy a cinematic experience together. This activity allows for laughter, shared emotions, and the opportunity to discuss the movie afterwards.

Picnic in Nature’s Embrace Escape the hustle and bustle of everyday life by planning a scenic picnic with your dad. Find a picturesque location, whether a nearby park or a beach. Pack a delicious lunch, including his favourite treats, and revel in the beauty of nature while engaging in heartwarming conversations. Capture the moment with some photographs to preserve the memories forever.

Spa Day Delight Pampering is not just for moms; dads deserve relaxation and rejuvenation too.

Treat your father to a well-deserved spa day. Arrange for massages, facials, or even a soothing hot tub session. Spend quality time together in a tranquil environment, helping him unwind and recharge. This activity fosters a sense of well-being and shows your dad how much you care about his comfort.

Personal Shopping Adventure Shopping for a gift together can be a delightful experience that strengthens the bond between fathers and children.

Embark on a personal shopping adventure, where you both explore stores and boutiques to find the perfect gift for each other. Whether it’s clothing, gadgets, or hobby-related items, this activity allows for bonding through shared interests and the joy of finding something special.

Game On For tech-savvy dads, a video game session can be a fantastic bonding opportunity. Challenge your father to a friendly competition or team up for an epic gaming adventure. Engaging in virtual worlds provides an exciting platform for interaction and shared experiences. It’s a chance to let loose, have fun, and create memories that will make you smile for years to come.

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Fathers play an irreplaceable role in their children’s lives, and spending quality time together strengthens that bond. This Father’s Day let’s seize the opportunity to create lasting memories and forge unbreakable connections.

Whether it’s embarking on outdoor adventures, cooking together, or sharing the joy of storytelling, there are countless opportunities for fathers and children to bond and grow closer. So, let’s celebrate this special day by engaging in activities that will shape cherished memories for years to come. Happy Father’s Day!

FATHER’S DAY: BONDING ACTIVITIES TO CREATE LASTING MEMORIES

By Bukola Amoboye

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GAME ON

LIGHTS CAMERA ACTION MOVIE NIGHT

LUNCH OR DINNER DATE

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Culinary Connections ; Lunch or Dinner Date Food has a magical way of bringing people together. Surprise your dad with a lunch or dinner date where you can connect over a delicious meal. You can either cook his favourite dish together or take him to his preferred restaurant. Use this time to chat, reminisce, and strengthen your bond.

Get Active ; Sports and Outdoor Adventures Plan an adventure-filled day if your dad is a sports enthusiast or enjoys outdoor activities. Play a game of basketball or soccer. Engaging in physical activities together not only promotes a healthy lifestyle but also fosters a sense of camaraderie and teamwork.

Capture the joy and laughter through photographs to create a tangible memory of the day.

PERSONAL SHOPPING ADVENTURE

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