THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE 17TH JANUARY 2021

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CONTENT Fashion 2021 SNEAKER’S EDIT PG 4

PUMP UP THE VOLUME PG 6-7 A WEDDING GIFT GUIDE ENGAGEMENT RING TRENDS PG 8-9

HOME AWAY FROM HOME PG 8-9

20 MOST OUTRAGEOUS ITEMS IN GOLD PG 10-11 QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS PERFUMES PG 17 • CAPSULES • COLOURS OF LIFE PG 18 • FAT SHAMING • FASHION FACTS PG 19 Dakuku Peterside is the immediate past Director General/CEO of Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA) . He is a columnist in a number of Nigerian newspapers and recently published his first book, Strategic Turnaround, an account of reforms in NIMASA. He recently turned 50, here he talks about his childhood, his life’s journey so far and the many boxes he will still like to tick God-willing. ISIOMA USIADE reports...

QUIRKY PIECES FOR 2021 PG 20-21

VITAMINS FOR YOUTHFUL LOOK PG 22

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IT’S A THISDAY STYLE FASHION DIRECTOR/EXECUTIVE EDITOR RUTH OSIME

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For the past several months if not the past year, we have been plagued with a pandemic that still has its grip on the world as people have died and are still dying from it. One of the most profound things that have hit home to us is how fickle this life can be. One minute you are here, next minute you are gone! This has made many of us reflect on what truly matters with other issues pushed to the bottom of the list in terms of priorities. l cannot emphasize enough the importance of staying home as much as you can. Whatever it is you need to step out for, please weigh it very seriously whether or not it’s worth the risk you might be exposed to. These are truly dire times. Most people have chosen to do everything that can be done within their homes business wise. Thank God for internet! Avoiding large crowds and observing social distance cannot and should not be taken lightly at all.

For those who have chosen to only step out for things like grocery shopping, or home runs, needless to say, your ‘outing shoes’ have been safely tucked away to be replaced by something more comfortable which is where our 2021 SNEAKERS EDIT comes in. Not only are these most comfortable, they have literally become ‘a girl’s best friend’ in the scheme of things. Keeping it simple and casual is the dress code for today’s times truly speaking.

Another thing everyone should have is a rich collection of vitamins in their medical cupboards or bedside. The pandemic has made it paramount that two major vitamins are to be taken daily, Vitamin D and C. Zinc is also required too. These three tablets are highly recommended and apart from that, VITAMINS FOR A YOUTHFUL LOOK shows you other vitamins you can take to achieve that goal.

Stay Safe!

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The season of headwraps is upon us! It is not only a life saver in one of those bad hair days, it also also a strong fashion statement and in fact, the more daring the headgear, the more sassy your style is!

Some stick to conventional wisdom and play it safe with a small sized wrap while other choose to push the envelope to eclectic borders - those are the ones who make this trend popular.

Whether you’re a proud peacock or modest princess or you just simply need your hair covered, the option of styles are boundless and you can also go to YouTube to show you how to achieve your desired look!

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STYLE & DESIGN

HIGH ROLLERS

Low? Great. High?

Sometimes, high is even better. These street-smart classics throw it back in the best way adding a kick of cool to anything they come near. You can’t deny the power of a legit pair of hightop sneakers. The look will continue having a moment in 2021 especially when paired with skirts and dresses.

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FRESH WHITES

What these near-blinding sneakers lack in colour, they make up for in tactful details, like clean lines and sleek, covert branding. Those canvas kicks are versatile, comfy, and ideal to bring a low-key feel to a look.

TECHED-OUT TRAINERS

It’s all about comfort these days. Those trainers you might have typically worn at the gym will come into play in everyday looks as well when worn with jeans, joggers, and so on.

FLYING COLOURS

Between the ROYGBIVhappy panelling and those right-now tones and tie-dye prints, the future is looking especially bright. These colour-blocked styles are a fresh choice to make a statement.

CHUNKY SOLES

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Inarguably the flashiest, cutest of the bunch, these fashion-forward soles loaded up with some extra chunkiness are the swiftest way to level up any look.

The style actually brings quite a modern feel to legit any look.

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VOLUME!

BY ISIOMA USIADE

This year, leather-on-leather has taken over the runways but this fashion can be tricky, especially when it comes to wearing two leather items at the same time. Our climate is also not very conducive for this texture of fabric but that doesn’t mean now and again you can’t push the envelope or better still, take a few tips on how to wear it when you do wear it...whether here or abroad. When styling a leather-on-leather outfit, pick classic items in high quality and go for neutral colours like black, blush, tan, grey, cream or white. Family of Reds are great options for the more daring woman. However, only wear colours that flatter you. Make a fashion statement with your outfit, and let the accessories play a supporting role too. Get some style inspiration on how to effortlessly look chic in all leather outfit.

Leather jacket+ highwaisted mini leather skirt

Swap your work blouse for a luxelooking leather jacket instead. Opt for white, purple and mint green tone to give the look a casual touch and keep the rest of the outfit simple and super chic.

Leather Wrap Skirt + Leather mini jacket

There are plenty of opportunities to have fun with your leather looks. A chic leather wrap skirt can act as a blank canvas to pair with other outfits in the same colour family giving it a monochrome look. Try a brown leather skirt with a turtle neck top and mini jacket for a statement look.

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Black high knee boots + black leather shirt

One of the easiest ways to take on the leather trend is to get a black leather shirt. Keep the look chic by pairing it with black high knee boots. Black can never go wrong.

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Leather statement two piece

Leather Mididress + Knee-High Boots

Not your average frock, a leather dress is guaranteed to garner a myriad of compliments, especially when paired with this statement leather kneehigh mock-croc boots. Opt for a brown hue for a softer take than black.

Leather Shirt Dress

For an easy, effortless outfit, match your leather hoodie top on your high waisted straight leggings and finish the look with trending accessories and animal sandal heels. This outfit sures makes a statement.

A Leather shirtdress can be worn in multiple ways, it can be worn as a jacket over an outfit. Look for cool detailing, like sleeves, belt and slit for a modern look. Pair with sandals to give the look a casual edge.

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Leather Culottes + Animal skin top

Leather shorts-meets-culottes have been doing the rounds on Instagram this season with fashion it girls pairing them predominantly with animal skin top and accessories. It’s a refreshingly modern way of wearing leather that we can’t wait to try.

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A wedding gift guide STYLE & DESIGN

just for you...and your spouse

Confused about the perfect gift for your spouse on your wedding day? Look no further as we have the perfect wedding gift guide just for you and your significant other!

- Solidify your most treasured memories with a scrapbook.

Letters, photos, messages, favorite songs, plane tickets, and anything else that tells your love story. Emotions are sure to run wild!

SCRAPBOOK

- Travel and adventure should definitely be a part of your love story. Get your partner a suitcase and keep that spontaneity and fun spirit in your marriage! Throw in a world map and a pair of sunglasses to make it the cutest package!

- Your vows should always be something you hold on to forever, so why not frame it? Gift this to your special someone and watch him/her cherish it forever!

- Gift yourself and your beau a pair of monogrammed glasses as an early wedding gift so you both can use them at the reception and you can bring them out to toast every anniversary in the future.

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UNIQUE CENTER STONES

The classics - round, princess, cushion, emerald - aren’t going anywhere, but expect to see a rise in alternative shapes like hexagon, shield or trillion cut, as well as heart, kite and tear drop shapes.

ELONGATED CUSHION CUTS

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PERSONALISED MAGNUM MOËT & CHANDON MINIMONY

- Champagne is the perfect celebratory item and what’s a better celebration than your wedding day? Guaranteed to set your wedding apart in style, this personalized Moët & Chandon magnum with the couple’s initials is sure to add a pop to the special day in more ways than one! It can also serve as a guest book with the guest’s signatures on the bottle! Bride and Groom can keep this as a memento of their special day.

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For brides-tobe who don’t want to stray too far from the classic, an elongated cushion is the perfect balance between modern and traditional.

YELLOW GOLD

Rose gold had its moment, but now the classic yellow gold is seeing resurgence. Yellow gold is currently on high trend and will likely continue for years to come. Gold is claimed to never go out of style, and yellow gold specifically is

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engagement trend for 2021 rings 2020 has certainly been a year we’ll never forget... for better or for worse. After months spent quarantining together, you and your partner may be ready to take that next step (congrats!). Choosing an engagement ring is a one-in-a-lifetime experience, and brides are more involved in the process than ever before. Here, the experts share what’s trending for the new year. very popular right now due its rich, warm and timeless chromaticity.

THREE-STONE SETTINGS

The classic, timeless nature of a three-stone engagement ring style will be hot this year for brides, with many choosing to customize these timeless styles with fancy shaped diamonds or personalized touches.

WIDER BANDS

Dainty and thin engagement ring bands may have been in vogue last decade, but not anymore!

Wider bands are about to have their moment in 2021.

ANNIVERSARY RINGS

The ring-giving doesn’t have to end on the wedding day! With fewer trips and vacations last year, this year couples are opting to celebrate milestone anniversaries with eternity bands, especially featuring fancy shaped diamonds.

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Home Away From Home

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The Pitons, Marigot Bay are some of the many historical sites. Anse Chastanet Marine National park provides the opportunity to snorkel and dive whilst experiencing the treasure trove of sealife.Above the surface Anse Chastanet is a sheltered beach allowing you lovely views of the Pitons.

One of the most adventurous activities in St Lucia is zip lining in view of the Pitons and the Rodney Bay Marina is one of the best equipped in the eastern Caribbean with many water sports on offer.

One could also indulge in retail therapy at St Lucia’s biggest shopping mall tucked away in this area.

The various Caribbean Islands: St Lucia, St Kitts & Nevis, Grenada, Commonwealth of Dominica andAntigua & Barbuda amongst others all have unique features of their own. They are all greatlocations for a getaway relaxing vacation, sunshine and blue skies.

These Caribbean countries have been and are still offering citizenship by investment or dualcitizenship to people who are interested not only in vacationing but to live, work or invest in the region. There is a great opportunity here as Nations hint at the process

MARIGOT BAY

of travel being more rigid with countries introducing tougher measures and protocols to ensure safety.

There is a certainty of more stringent rules to acquire visa travel documents, particularly, as countries make the process more cumbersome on safety concerns and discourage many potential visitors, investors, and tourists alike, from visiting post Covid-19. Respite comes from these Caribbean countries in the face of the anticipated travel challenges.

The citizenship by investment, which is commonly called economic citizenship, is obtainable by

making an investment in a country’s approved real estate project or towards a fund. A second strong citizenship and passport from these countries not only provides one with the freedom of visa free travel to over 120 countries, but also affords access to better healthcare services, higher education, career and business opportunities outside of one’s home country.

It secures current and future generations, allowing for a peaceful retirement plan to many who choose to have a home away from home. As a dual passport carrier one avoids the challenges of visa processing, delays and refusals, especially for impromptu travel for business, medical emergencies among others.

Offering more details on how to acquire dual citizenship in the Caribbean, Privado Luxury andpartner AID Consultants (DMCC) an approved citizenship by investment marketing firm approved by the various Caribbean Governments note that one can do so by investment via signature hotel brand developments, government donation or real estate.

Further details can be found at www.privadoluxury. com or SM handles @privadoluxury

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STYLE & DESIGN

BY USIADE ISIOMA

20 MOST OUTRAGEOUS ITEMS IN GOLD

When it comes to opulence and luxury, people generally think of two things: money, diamonds and gold. Whether you want to show off your success or you just want a one-of-a-kind item that packs a real punch, gold is the precious metal of choice. We’ve rounded up a list of 20 most expensive golden luxury items that are beyond the standard golden eggs, gold crowns and gold rings, but an interesting mix of gold-infused stuff from classic collectibles to modern bling’s and with 18-karat white gold and a diamond frame that houses 384 18-karat gold chips. The chips in turn are set in precious stones while the dealer button is 18-karat white gold in two rows of diamonds. The poker cards come in four decks that are all platinum-plated. Prodigal, one might say, but this is actually a couture gambling bling.

Clients specify the currency, denomination and precious rock formations they want on their set to dazzle poker-faced guests at play.

1. Gold Loo $37 million

This toilet, built in 2001, was manufactured by Hong Kongbased jeweller Hang Fung Gold Technology, and on display in its HK showroom, can truly be considered a throne. Made of 24k solid gold, it weighs nearly a metric tonne. Designer Lam Sai-wing said he was inspired

by Soviet leader Vladimir Lenin’s declaration that when a communist revolution swept over the world, there would be public toilets made of gold.

2. Gold Gadget Stuart Hughes Gold and Black Diamond iPhone 5

GOLDEN LOO

STUART HUGHES GOLD AND BLACK DIAMOND IPHONE 5

GOLDEN POKER SET GEOFFREY PARKER CUSTOMMADE WHITE GOLD POKER SET

GOLD GUITAR

$15million

While the latest gadgets can still be affordable to some people, there are ways to set the bar higher when it comes to owning the most expensive hi-tech toys. Hire gadget jeweler, Stuart Hughes to mix technology with so much gold plus some diamond studs and you’ve got the Gold and Black Diamond iPhone 5, the most expensive gadget in the world to date. The shimmering case is made of 24-karat solid gold while the edges and the Apple logo are covered in diamond studs numbering 600 in all.

The iPhone’s crowning glory is the 26-karat black diamond embedded on the Home button.

This piece of golden bling is owned by a Chinese billionaire.

3. Gold Watch Patek Philippi Super Complication Gold Pocket Watch $11million

Watches are among the most excessively priced luxury items in the world, and different watches hold distinct positions when it comes to “valuable” rankings. The watch was commissioned by banker Henry Graves in a competition with

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PATEK PHILIPPI SUPER COMPLICATION GOLD POCKET WATCH

EAMES GOLDEN CHAIR

Covered in over 11,441 diamonds. Known as the Eden of Coronet, the Gibson SG guitar is adorned with more than 400 carat diamonds and about 1.6 kilograms of 18K gold.

It currently holds the office Guinness World Record for being the world’s most valuable guitar. To create the impressive piece, Gibson teamed up with jewellery designer Aaron Shum and musician and designer Mark Lui. It was created by 68 artisans and took 700-mandays to complete.

7. Eames Gold chair GOLD LAMBORGHINI

friend James Packard on who can own the most complicated watch. The result was expectedly a very costly timepiece since jewels and precious metals are primarily used in the micro parts of a watch. Graves’ watch was made of 18-karat solid gold and comes complete with a skyline of New York City. It is now on display in a Geneva museum.

diamond-encrusted Lambo.

The car is covered in thin sheets of solid 24k gold around the exterior with a goldladen interior. The car is eight times smaller than a regular Lamborghini.

5. Geoffrey Parker Custom-Made White Gold Poker 4. Gold Lamborghini Set $7.8million Okay, so maybe a Lambo isn’t exactly an “everyday item”, but this is worth a mention. Back in 2012, Dubai’s Lamborghini showroom unveiled the first-ever gold, platinum and

GOLD COIN CANADIAN GIANT GOLD ELIZABETH COIN

24K GOLD EXTREME MOUNTAIN BIKE

$7.5 million

This is a creation of British deck game designer Geoffrey Parker.

First, the case is of alligator skin with a suede lining. The poker game gems are fitted

9. 24K Gold Extreme Mountain Bike $1 Million

Being able to afford a luxurious bike is a pretty big deal, but imagine a gold-plated one! The 24K Gold Extreme Mountain Bike, has the distinction of being the most expensive extreme mountain bike. Not only is this an expensive bike to say the least-it’s also super exclusive.

GOLD VACUUM CLEANER

$2.122m

The Eames brand ottoman, chairs, and furniture have always been popular for its high price, refinement, and class. Though the standard furniture of this brand is made of finest leather and wood, gold has also been used to break the monotony.

The Eames golden chair is simply classy, beautiful and pricey.

8. Gold Toilet Paper $1.3million

Your golden throne wouldn’t be complete without a roll of solid 24k gold toilet paper.

Manufactured in Australia and sold by a company called Toilet Paper Man, this is currently the most expensive toilet paper in the world.

14. Datta Phuge Gold Shirt

GOLD CHOCOLATE PUDDING

11. Canadian Giant Gold Elizabeth Coin

$240,000

$997,000

6. Gold guitar $2million

baby comes with a 10-amp motor and fancy anti-marring urethane wheels.

10. Gold vacuum cleaner $1million

Why not suck up your dust bunnies in style with this 24k solid gold vacuum cleaner?

Created by Go Vacuum, this

There are many coins in the world that vie for the most expensive because of their historical value, notably the Flowing Hair Dollar coin valued at $10 million, it being the very first dollar coin issued by the US government in 1794. But these valuable coins are not exactly gold coins. The distinction for the most expensive gold coin to date goes to Canada’s giant gold Elizabeth coin unveiled in 2007 and is made of 99.999 percent pure gold. The coin weighs 220 pounds, is 1.2 inches in thickness and measures 21 inches in diameter. It was minted to promote Canada’s one-ounce bullion coins and features Queen Elizabeth on the obverse (head) and maple leaves on the reverse (tail).

GOLD CUPCAKE GOLDEN PHOENIX GOLD CUPCAKE

CLIC GOLD READING GLASS

GOLDEN SKATEBOARD CHRISTOPHER MICHAEL SHELLIS GOLD VALENTINE STILETTO

12. Phoenix Gold Cupcake $972,000

There have been many food preparations infused with edible gold dusts and specks with accompanying golden price tags of course, and for the easily bored, these have become as ubiquitous as tenderloin.

But not the Golden Phoenix cupcake, the latest edible gold to whet a royally hungry appetite. This gold-wrapped chocolate cupcake is made

by Bloomsbury’s Cupcakes in Dubai. Every bite comes with a mix of the priciest ingredients from organic flour to butter and chocolate to the edible gold sheets weighing 23 carats. To create the perfect golden mood prior to the ultimate wrecking, the golden cupcake is served on a gold-plated Mary Antoinette tea trolley and gold-painted cake stand.

DATTA PHUGE GOLD SHIRT

GOLD CONTACT LENSES

Datta Phuge, an Indian gold investor, owns this shirt that is crafted of gold weighing more than three kilograms. This clothing was designed by Rankar Jewelers, an Indian jeweler, who took 15 days to complete making this shirt. The golden top is lined with velvet and has images of Indian kings. Though it is not washable, is certainly stunningly beautiful.

took 50 man-hours to create a pair, with the frame, back piece and side stems all made in solid gold.

17. Gold Chocolate Pudding $35,000

To indulge in this dessert, you have to order it two weeks in advance. This pudding, which looks like a piece of art, is adorned with gold leaf, caviar and a 2-carat diamond. At this cost, you better savor every single bite.

18. Gold Skateboard $15,000

Imagine owning a skateboard that you can both ride and display in your home as a piece of opulent art. In addition to being made out of pure 24K gold 15. Gold electroplate it is also a fully Beefeater functioning skateboard. Artist Matthew Willet designed Barbeque the skateboards for SHUT skateboards and each one Grill is numbered by the artist. $160,000 Because of the amount of gold Yes, there’s the and quality craftsmanship, this Gold Beefeater Barbeque Grill, and is the world’s most expensive skateboard. every side, rack, nuts and bolts of this wonder cooker is made of 24-karat 19. Gold Contact gold. BeefEater, Lenses an Australian grill $15,000 manufacturer, came up with this Gold is not just for your golden grill for the fingers and your neck; you 2007 Sydney Home can now have it in your eyes.

Apparently, it isn’t just gold Show. lenses. You can also buy lenses with both diamonds and gold, 16. Glass because with just gold isn’t enough obviously!

Clic Gold Reader $75,000

Knowledge is GOLD BEEFEATER a treasure that GOLD KEYBOARD BARBEQUE GRILL cannot be stolen, shoes in recent history, so design with sexy heels made so it can be just as fitting to expensive that some of his of solid gold while sole sides up all the knowledge both 13. Gold Christopher creations have no takers yet. and straps are encrusted with zap useful and useless from books, But just recently, the wonder 2,000 diamond studs. The Michael Shellis videos, TV and other sources shoe-man came up with what backside reveals a carmine with help from a golden Valentine Stiletto was dubbed as the most heart-shaped sole pad that reading glass that is in itself, a $268,000 expensive (yet again) Valentine makes it comfortable and soft treasure. The Clic Gold Reader British bejewelled shoe designer shoes. The latest Christopher to wear, which is the ultimate is made of 18-karat gold that Christopher Michael has created Michael Shellis Solid Gold gold standard for high-heeled crosses the lines of practical the most expensive lines of Stilettos is a classic strappy shoes anyway. optics and precious jewelry. It

20. Gold keyboard $10,000

Mechanically, the keyboard is identical to the regular XPG Summoner keyboard and features 104 keys with RGB backlighting, media control buttons and a USB port to attach a mouse. The keycaps along with the base of the keyboard are 24-karat gold plated. Even the wrist rest is wrapped in a material that matches the matte gold finish of the keyboard.

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Dakuku Peterside is the immediate past Director General/CEO of Nigerian Maritime Administration and Safety Agency (NIMASA). Dakuku Peterside has served at all levels of government and two arms of government. He was also a former member of the National Assembly of Nigeria (2011–2015), Governorship Candidate of APC in 2015 elections, leadership and turnaround expert; oil and gas, maritime resource person and founder of the Development and Leadership Institute of Nigeria (a non-governmental organization and development think tank). Peterside is currently a consultant to several corporate and international bodies in the areas of leadership; regulatory work and compliance and maritime industry, especially in maritime security in the Gulf of Guinea, oil and gas industry and he also consults for a number of private think tanks across the globe. He is a columnist in a number of Nigerian newspapers and recently published his first book, Strategic Turnaround, an account of reforms in NIMASA. He recently turned 50, here he talks about his childhood, his life’s journey so far and the many boxes he will still like to tick God-willing. ISIOMA USIADE reports...

Who inspired you most whilst growing up?

Surprisingly I drew most of my inspiration from reading books. But the human beings who inspired me most while growing up were my maternal grandparents. My grandfather was a no-nonsense disciplinarian, a very focused and serious minded man of integrity. He was legacy conscious and had a good sense of history that was second to none. He inspired me a lot. My grandmother was generous to a fault and l attribute my good fortunes to her kindness. She was in every sense, a strong and enterprising woman. I drew from both of them, the importance of integrity, hard work and leaving a legacy wherever you go. I know I have not been able to match them. There were others along the line throughout my formative years who also inspired me.

I like the tenacity of Nelson Mandela, the powerful vision of Obafemi Awolowo, the Pan African view of Nnamdi Azikiwe and patriotism of Ahmadu Bello.

Different people had different influences on me at different times but all pointed to one direction, I was attracted to those who are or were, real leaders. Those who had wisdom and led by example.

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What do you miss about your youth that you feel is lacking with today’s generation?

There is always a gap between one generation and another. It will be foolhardy and precipitous to expect the generation below mine to adopt our own value system or we to adopt the value system of those above us. In my youth, we took pride in respect for elders, healthy competition for knowledge, communal spirit and our interconnectedness. Today, western values and technology seems to have eroded those.

Communal living and interconnectedness has been replaced by technology. People hardly know their neighbours and do not have strong relationship with their relatives. We boasted about literature and history books we have read in public libraries whenever we met but today, public libraries are gradually being phased out by technological developments. I miss walking around freely in my village and on the streets of Port Harcourt without fear of molestation or kidnapping. On a personal level, I miss my mental alertness and fitness but gained experience. Things have changed incredibly especially in the past twenty years.

At what age did you learn to fend for yourself and do you feel this better prepared you to be the man you are today?

I recall that by age eleven I had intuitively realized my gift in leadership and service. I had no doubt that those were the areas I had strong potential that I needed to develop. This self realization made me comport myself differently. Unlike others, I consciously made efforts to sharpen my leadership potential to be a better leader who will make a difference and leave a legacy. Fending for myself didn’t come that early in life till I finished University or maybe in my university days. From my early days in the University, I showed great sense of independence

in reasoning and decision making and this extended to my finances. You cannot show independence of thought when you depend on your peers or those oppressing you for economic survival. I come from a family that combined public service with entrepreneurship and I picked up a bit of that. Making money from my early days plus insatiable quest for knowledge, gave me some courage to speak up. As you advance in life, make sure you work for economic independence so you will not be encumbered from speaking your mind. Contentment is another area that I have strength. My needs are not too much so I have no reason to be greedy or covetous.

Do you feel the gap between the ‘haves and have nots’ can be drawn closer and if so, what are the key things privileged children have to learn to make them street smart and close this gap?

This issue of closing the gap between the rich and the poor has been there for ever. It has influenced systems of government and has been preached in religious circles. Communist believe that everybody should be given equal opportunity to work for the

I like the tenacity of Nelson Mandela, the powerful vision of Obafemi Awolowo, the Pan African view of Nnamdi Azikiwe and patriotism of Ahmadu Bello. Different people had different influences on me at different times but all pointed to one direction, I was attracted to those who are or were, real leaders. Those who had wisdom and led by example.

commonwealth and eat from the commonwealth.

Capitalists believe that people are endowed differently and those who have capacity to make wealth should be allowed to create employment.

Our Society is structured in a way that those who are rich will continue to make more wealth while those who are poor will continue to serve the rich.

The issues are about productive capacity, economic opportunities and creating the right environment for people to pursue their potentials. My take - society should provide opportunity for every citizen to build up capacity to be productive through education, skills and economic opportunities. Government should

put policies in place to give more people access to make wealth. Rich kids or privileged children tend to have a sense of entitlement which makes them lazy sometimes. At other times, they are not street smart.

The right approach is to let them know early in life that society is competitive, things are dynamic and will not always be the same, interdependency and not independence is important. They should be taught that perseverance and relationship with people are key to success in life and that hardwork does not kill.

At what age did you learn you were destined for leadership roles? What role did you play in University that defined your foray into politics?

I had mentioned earlier that I discovered my potential to lead and serve the public at age eleven.

During my university days I started by holding offices at departmental and faculty levels and ended up running for office in National Association of Nigerian Students (NANS). However, I was elected National President of National Union Of Rivers State Students (NURSS) in 1991/1992. My active involvement in students activism and students politics prepared me for politics and service in the larger society. The dynamics are essentially the same but the scale is different. What I find disturbing is that the credibility of students politics and students Union movement is all time low now. People don’t believe students Activsts can still raise us for a just society. The creeping in of politics to students movement has rubbed it of it potency.

You are a member of APC, why is there so much discord within your party? What are the main disputes?

It is expected of a big party that its development, philosophy or manifesto did not evolve organically.

There will be contest for whose idea will triumph or prevail and whose idea of organizational structure will be applicable. It is part of the evolution of the political culture. The issue can be narrowed down to the struggle for who controls the soul of the party.

Unfortunately the struggle is not about good life for Nigerian people. However the party is beginning to put its act together and Nigerians should watch out for a repositioned and a more vibrant party in the days ahead. Other big parties are also facing their own challenges. Nigerian political Parties are only a platform to seek for power and not woven around a definite ideology. Nigerians should rather, watch out for antecedents and capacity of those who want to lead them and mobilize fellow citizens to rally around leaders who genuinely are interested in serving society.

You wrote a book after your tenure as DG Nimasa.

Can you tell us about it and how long it took you to put it together?

The book is called Strategic Turnaround which essentially is about the reforms we championed in Nigeria Maritime administration and safety agency (NIMASA) in the past four years. I wanted those who

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are serving in public office or who may be appointed in future to serve, to learn from our failures and successes. Secondly, I wanted to document our experience for posterity so history can record us.

Thirdly, we wanted to shore up the confidence of those in public office to believe that there are no odds that are insurmountable provided there is a will.

NIMASA at the time we were appointed, was almost an institution that was a liability and underperforming but the story is different today. Fourth, we chose to put together a reference material or a workbook of sorts so all those who want to embark on organizational renewal can see a model that worked to pick vital lessons from our experience. Finally, we applied principles of transformational leadership in a public sector setting that scholars of leadership will have lessons to learn from by the way we applied the principles.

How long did it take you to write this book?

Oh, literally it took me the last eight - nine months. I have always had the idea but I paid serious attention to it after I left office and I was able to sit back and reflect on my time at the Agency.

You are so involved in Politics but sadly, this terrain is heavily linked with corruption as are official positions given within governmental parastatals. As a commissioner to the then Governor of your state, Governor ROTIMI Amaechi, and later, DG of Nimasa, how were you able to forge success and avoid the sometimes slippery slopes of working in the public sector?

I have always had strong value system that I am not ready to compromise. This value system l subscribe to has guided me over the years. The one thing I realized in public life is that many persons are motivated by greed, selfish interest and not the desire to serve the public. My motivation all through the years in public service is to deliver service, leave a legacy and be remembered for the difference I made. With a mindset focused on delivering service, protecting my reputation and integrity and away from corruption, I have no reason to bother with slippery paths of public service.

What do you think is the principal function of a political party?

For me the principal function of a political party is to aggregate the ideas of a set of people on how to transform society, fight to secure political power so they can apply those ideas. Political parties exist also to educate the populace on civic responsibilities and mobilize them towards achieving national aspiration.

The discord in APC is normal in a big party and in a democracy provided it is not destructive. What is worrisome in the case of APC, is that the issue is not about ideology or strategy to achieve development for the people but interest of a few self serving persons. It is a struggle to who controls the soul of the party. However things are settling down and I see the party bouncing back very strong.

What is the solution for pressing issues that affect the wellbeing of the system like the health and educational sectors?

It’s time for us to reset our national goals and aspirations. Our health sector is in shambles and Covid has exposed us to that piece of fact. There is a national consensus that we should give priority attention to our health and education sectors as social infrastructure to drive development. The starting point is to build human capacity, infrastructure, investment on research and innovation. Our work attitude and ethics needs to change, a massive reorientation is imperative. One of the greatest challenges we face both in healthcare and education is access of the citizen to services. Even if we had quality facilities, how many of our people can afford the services? We all have a responsibility to fix

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Respect is a product of love and openness. l find time to listen to her, play with her and adore her. Giving attention to your partner is a secret you cannot wish away in marriage. I am her home Pastor and sometimes researcher.

I am her Chief Adviser.

Generally we are meant for each other and God has been gracious to us.

If you were to be Governor, what pertinent matters will you immediately address?

The first priority for me would be security, law and order. This includes public sector accountability and transparency in the conduct of government business. Every other development rests on this pillar and without it, you cannot talk about sustainable development. The next priority for me would be to create the conditions for employment generation and wealth creation for our people. I would also focus on growing our social, human and infrastructural capital to stimulate economic growth. Finally, we would put in place the framework for food security.

More than anything else, I would have loved to mobilize United Rivers state and Rivers people behind a common vision and common agenda. These things are captured in the agenda with which I ran for the Governor in 2015 titled “Roadmap to Prosperity”. The situation has not changed much from 2015 till date though the environmental context has.

Are you involved in any form of philanthropy? If so, what charitable works are closest to your heart?

My family set up the Dakuku Peterside Foundation (DPF) to provide scholarship to underprivileged children because of our belief that education is the best tool to close the gap between the rich and the poor. This year, we intend to do more work in the area of healthcare. Our strategy is to keep our activities under the radar and just let people feel the impact of our work. Education, which includes giving people skills and healthcare, are the closest charitable human endeavors to my heart. As human beings, we have shared humanity with empathy, care for each other

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BY ISIOMA USIADE

PERFUMES Scents are a godly gift. You might be an avid user of perfumes and you might have an extensive collection but have you ever wondered why perfumes are one of the few products that do not come with instruction manuals?

Here are 11 mind-boggling questions about perfume answered!

1. What does the word Perfume actually mean?

The word perfume actually came from the Latin world ‘per fumum’ which literally translates as ‘through smoke’ and the Romans and Arabs refined the art of making and wearing perfume 2500 years ago.

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our educational and health system because of its multiplier effect on quality of life.

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and love as our second nature.

How did you meet your wife and how long have you been married?

We lived in the same neighborhood in Port Harcourt. On a few occasions she brought mails from my cousin who was in the same school with her.

That is how I took note of her person and started observing her. She was calm, more mature than her age, independent minded and very homely. A friendship started that ended up in marriage. She is still my girlfriend from the year 2000 till date, 20 years after. We are blessed with three wonderful children, Soba(19), Belema(17) and Mieibi (13).

What key things do you believe are required to sustain a good marriage and what do you still do till date that she loves, to keep the flame alive?

Each marriage is unique. Marriage differs from one couple to another however from 20 years experience, I can say appreciating that you come from two different backgrounds is important. As partners, you need to communicate often in an open and honest manner. You are not marrying an angel or a saint so you must learn early to tolerate and forgive each other. Make deliberate effort to build trust and bond of friendship. Watch your words to ensure you say things that promote love and understanding and not what will demean your partner. Both of you must accept that you are not in competition but you are there to compliment each other.

Respect is a product of love and openness. l find time to listen to her, play with her and adore her.

Giving attention to your partner is a secret you cannot wish away in marriage. I am her home Pastor and sometimes researcher. I am her Chief Adviser.

Generally we are meant for each other and God has been gracious to us.

2. There are some perfumes that instantly attracts the opposite sex, can perfume be an aphrodisiac?

Perfume can undoubtedly make the wearer feel sexy. There are indeed perfumes with ingredients that are known to have aphrodisiac qualities and the smell can prompt an instant attraction and intuitive sensual responses. Ingredients like Jasmine, Ylang ylang, Vanilla and Ginger are said have aphrodisiac properties.

3. Why is it that perfumes wear out gradually, or change throughout the day?

This is due to the Top, Heart and Base notes in a perfume. When creating a fragrance, the chemistry of the skin and the raw materials used causes a perfume to evolve over time. A perfume is a very complex composition of top notes, heart notes and base notes.

The top notes are the most delicate and do typically not last very long. Heart notes tend to be herbal, floral and spice notes which last longer than the top notes but you will be able to smell the base notes the longest.

Base notes are usually composed from wood, amber and musk.

4. Does Perfume have an expiry date?

The composition of a perfume might change over time. This is why it is recommended to use your perfume within 3 – 5 years. Once the bottle is opened and comes into contact with air by opening the bottle or spraying the atomizer, it should be used within the first three years. The older the fragrance gets, the more different it can smell, Eau de Toilette for example might only smell of alcohol after a few years. The higher the perfume concentration, the higher the chance that it will last longer in the bottle and as well as on your skin.

Commonly, Perfumes with heavier (oriental) base notes last the longest.

5. A lot of times perfume shelf are either in the

bathroom or dressing table and sometimes they are kept in the car for days when we forget to use them before leaving the house. Are there preferred places to store perfume?

There are certain factors you should remember when storing perfume.

Humidity, sunlight and variations of temperature will impact your perfume over time.

Therefore, to make your perfume last longer, make sure to store it upright in a dark place that is not impacted by humidity or extreme changes of temperatures so the bathroom or car is really not ideal.

6. Some people get confused about the difference between Eau de Parfum and Parfum, what’s the difference?

There are different categories in perfumery for perfume types with certain concentration.

Concentration refers to the amount of pure perfume oil within a fragrance. Eaude Toilette, for example, has a perfume concentration of about 10%, whilst Eau de Parfum 15%. Perfumes that are classified as actual Parfum boast a concentration of over 20%. The higher the concentration, the higher the longevity on the skin which means that a Parfum lasts significantly longer on your skin than an Eaude Parfum. One can expect a Parfum to last 8-12 hours whilst an Eau de Parfum might only last for about six hours.

7. A good perfume they say has a lot to do with one’s mood. Is it a mood booster?

Perfume is definitely a feel-good stimulant that can relax you, improve the mood, make you feel sexy and act as a confidence booster. Perfume is also known to evoke certain associations. Having a scent memory can be quite special as it helps to remember things you actually want to remember. It is also said that Citrus perfumes make you energised and refreshed.

8. A friend of mine once said that same perfume we both used smells differently on our skin. Do they and why so?

Every person has a different skin PH and also lead a

different lifestyle; sports, diet, smoking, drinking, etc.

This can have implications on how your perfume smells on your skin in comparison to someone else or on a scented card. If you notice that your perfume smells different than it used to, it does not automatically mean that the perfume has gone off or that the formula of the perfume has changed – it can also mean that you might have changed your lifestyle.

9. What is the difference between a splash bottle and atomizer?

Most perfumes are atomizers, which is essentially a spray pump. A splash bottle does not have a spray pump and does not necessarily have an applicator on the bottle top. Splash bottles are usually used for Aftershaves. Pure perfume oils might also be presented in crystal bottles that do not have a spray pump but feature an applicator which allows to dab and apply the perfume on the skin.

10. People get it wrong most times on how to apply perfume and most times it ends in argument because everybody thinks how they apply their perfume is the best way. How should we apply perfume?

Perfume is activated by body heat this is why you should apply perfume on your skin at the main pulse points, the inside of your wrist, on the neck, behind the ear, elbows and behind your knees. Do not rub your wrists together as this will alter the molecules of the perfume and will result in the fragrance smelling different. You can also put perfume into your hair as it will last longer and will diffuse the scent as it is constantly in motion. Please refrain from spraying perfume directly on your hair as the contained alcohol can dry it out. Spray the perfume on your brush before brushing your hair.

11. Can perfume react with your jewellery?

Not a lot of people know that the chemicals used in production of perfumes can actually damage jewellery products. It would often happen that you’re wearing perfume along with precious jewellery such as pearls and diamonds and also fold or silver plated jewelry. The point to be noticed here is that diamonds and pearls are particularly sensitive to synthetic ingredients that are used in perfumes and can lessen the shine of such jewellery. Gold however, does not react with artificial scents and should be wore with ease of mind. We suggest putting on perfume and letting it settle down before wearing jewellery that is sensitive to chemicals.

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Alero Adollo aleroadollo@yahoo.com

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CAPSULES

BY FUNKE BABS-KUFEJI

2021.....

We have just turned a chapter but guess what, it’s still the same book so if you were faffing around the year before and continue in that trajectory expecting a different outcome, I am here to burst your bubble, it ain’t gonna work. Consequences accrue to action or inertia, na so life be, new year or no new year....

To get the best of the year you have to hit the ground running, embrace each day like it doesn’t have enough hours, success does not come free to anyone, it is the resultant effect of a lot of work, oftentimes you fall on your face repeatedly before you hit gold.

There are a few basic things you cannot devote yourself to if you want to soar, you cannot spend time on what does not concern you, learn to mind your own business because truth be told your poison may be my nutrient and I also probably have a poison troubling my system.

You also need to dump fruitless relationships, these are relationships that do not add value to your life, it actually drags you . You need to quit spending time debating issues that yield zero income, get up, get smart and stop wasting time throwing stones at others, last time I checked, there was only one God, so stop with the judge and jury stuff, work on your life and grow.

The “I know God more than Jesus” amongst us should wake up and smell the coffee, it is by your fruits that you can claim you truly have a relationship with the Creator not by putting your pastor on speed dial, interestingly many people are “CEO in their Christianity i.e Christmas, Easter Only” so get serious and release the throttle and then you move biko, to a better tide, if you don’t change the content, the story will retain its bland taste, I tell you.

I remember pondering (on the 31 st of December) about the new year asking myself what could possibly change in 24hours, I do agree that the physical dates sometimes have spiritual connotations but I must reiterate that expecting a change with the same plan can keep you in limbo.

It is a new year yes, a new day, yes, but what it becomes and how it unfolds depends to a large extent on what you feed it, how you grow it, the diligent removal of weed, simply put you’ve got to put in the time to nurture. The universe has a sense of humour, sometimes it humbles you, other times it elevates you, but you must at the very least do your bit.

We really really need to strip our plans by checking out our reality and tweak it if need be. We have to relearn how to seize each day and stop it from running away from us, we must ensure we God stamp the 365 days of the year with faith and action.

How does the pilgrim progress without faith, our expectations and the will to go on after the badgering of the previous 2020 is dependent on how we work our faith, you cannot do nothing and abracadabra the year into action. You can decide to put “2020 to be continued” on the door of your expectations, it’s your choice or you can say “enough” this has got to stop and take back your life.

You must as a matter of urgency get with the programme and align with God, he is dependable and like Nathaniel Bassey sang in his “Olorun Agbaye” he has a track record for keeping his word, so why not learn to trust him.

“Trust in the Lord and do good, dwell in the land and enjoy safe pastures, delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart” Psalm 37:3.

The good book also assures us further that “I was young and now I am old, I have never seen the righteous forsaken or her children beg for bread” . We need to get up from our pity party and take our lives back, cos if we don’t we will be singing the same song in December wondering how we wronged God. Happy new day of realisation, happy eureka moment, happy new dawn.

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Colours of Life with Koko Kalango

CONVERSATIONS WITH A SERPENT (1) ‘Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the Lord God had made. He said to the woman, “Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden?”

Genesis 3:1 Temptation usually begins with a conversation; a conversation with one’s self, with another or with society.

After God had created the world, He created Adam (a man). God planted a garden and placed Adam in it. He also gave Adam the responsibility of tending the garden. Then God gave Adam a commandment; “You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.”

God saw that Adam would be lonely, that he needed a companion who would help him.

God paraded all the animals he had created before Adam so he would name them. Adam did. But none of the animals was a suitable companion for the man. God then put Adam to deep sleep and out of his rib created Eve (a woman). When Adam woke up, God presented Eve to him. Adam knew this creation was different. There was something special about her. He must have sensed she was a part of him – no wonder he proclaimed: “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called ‘woman’, because she was taken out of man.”

Lurking somewhere in the shadows when all this was happening, was the tempter, the devil, in the form of a serpent. He had a plan to thwart the plan of God. His target was to hit the human race, with eternal consequences.

He had to be meticulous, he needed to execute his plan seamlessly. The devil was calculated and cunning. He avoided the man and went for the woman. He had a simple question for her.

“Did God really say…?”

The first tactic of the devil was to attack the notion of God speaking. In effect he was saying to Eve ‘Does God speak? Did God speak? Come on, how can you be so gullible? Did you hear God speak?’

God had given this instruction to Adam before Eve came into the picture. Indeed, Eve did not hear God speak. She was relying on what her husband had told her.

Meanwhile the devil had succeeded in engaging Eve. He had lured her into dialogue.

He had cast doubt on the word of God. He now had her where he wanted her: having a conversation with a serpent.

Step one accomplished, he went one step further. “….You must not eat from any tree in the garden?”

The devil misquoted the scriptures. This would confuse the woman so that she would actually wonder, first, if God speaks, second, if God had spoken and third, if so, what God had actually said.

God had said they could eat of EVERY tree in the garden EXCEPT of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. The devil’s misinterpretation of scriptures was his second plot to get Eve’s attention. The wrong quote first got her thinking, then dwelling, until it dawned on her that it was a misrepresentation.

Meanwhile the devil had succeeded in engaging Eve. He had lured her into dialogue.

He had confused her with the word of God. He now had her where he wanted her: having a conversation with a serpent.

Are you having a conversation with a serpent?

The devil does not respect age, status, orientation, education or wealth. All he cares about is his 3-fold ministry; to steal, kill and destroy (John 10:10). When he turns up, it is not to play games but to accomplish his mission. And he is focused. The devil has not changed. He still deploys the same bag of tricks. Like he did with Eve, he usually begins with dialogue; a voice within us or a voice around us.

But for every temptation there is another voice pulling us in the opposite direction. How do we know which is good and which is evil?

The voice of God aligns with His word. It takes us on the path of righteousness; the straight and narrow path that leads to eternal life. The voice of the devil, on the other hand, takes us on the path of disobedience to the word of God; the broad way that leads to destruction.

Like happened for Eve, our response to a ‘simple’ question in our conversation with a serpent can lead down a path with dire, eternal consequences.

Don’t pay him attention when he casts doubt on the word of God. Don’t pay him attention when he misquotes the word of God. Don’t be lured into dialogue with him. Whatever you do, never enter into a conversation with a serpent.

Happy New Year!

Koko Kalango is author of the Colours of Life devotional and host of the Colours of Life show. Contact her at: contact@ coloursoflife.org and on Instagram: @koko.kalango.

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have gotten to a stage where it’s almost impossible to stick to any regimen.

I tried intermittent fasting recently on the advice of my skinny sister and I lost a few kilos but it all went through the window when I was going through stress from an issue I was dealing with.

Like you, I used to be slim and if anyone had told me that from twiggy l would end up overweight l would have said the person was crazy.

To be quite honest, l spoke so seriously to myself the way a

BY DONU KOGBARA mother would to her erring kid on New Years Day regarding my weight loss journey. It still hasn’t helped. Thank God the year is still young.

But having read your column today, I am charged up PART 39 (Week 40) again, knowing that l am not alone. I am tired of failing and carrying on with this excess baggage. I still have on my mind the svelte me that could wear just about anything. since then. Suffice it to say that after a particularly My kid sis promised me a change of wardrobe if l shed shameless Christmas food-and-drink binge in London, I weight.

I have failed over and over for years, so she has now had reached a heinous 123kg by last week – my highest withdrawn the offer. point on this journey.

The problem l have is not the quantity of food l eat, but I could hardly walk because of the enormous pressure the sort of things l love. They are loaded with calories and on my knees. Every step I took was pure agony, so I HAD they are the ones that are tagged unhealthy. I have fallen to do something strict and decided to stick to water, off the wagon over and over again and it’s so disgraceful. sugarless green tea and oil-free English vegetable soup Donu, l feel you big time. I do not want to make any (broccoli, carrots, red cabbage, etc) for 3 days, followed promises here, but l will try my best to get back on my by total fasting (water and tea only) for 4 days. weight loss journey. It’s never too late to get back up and But I started to feel faint and nauseous on Day 4; and a doctor friend advised me to eat just one normal meat/ drive again. I will start again today and I pray the next email l send to you in future will have good news. fish-veg-carbohydrate meal a day; and I’ve wound up I wish you the best in this battle that we have found ditching 2kg in the past 7 days. ourselves in. A lot of people don’t know how difficult it is, This is not as good a result as I’d hoped for. But especially with age. anything is better than nothing; and it’s important to feel well while you’re dieting.

My response to Nneka and others in a similar A reader called Nneka contacted me a couple of days predicament is: ago as follows: Please stay with me. Let’s respect ourselves and do this tough thing together. Let us prove the people who have Hello Donu, given up on us wrong.

Happy New Year!!!!

BATTLE OF THE BULGE Recap and vital statistics: I am 5 feet and 10 inches tall and 61 years old. I was an effortlessly super-slim 70kg till my late 40s, then the weight started to pile on. By my early 50s, I was 85kg.

But I didn’t become obese till my mid-50s.

I started this battle of the bulge on March 16th last year, when I weighed a whopping 120kg and measured 49-47-51 (chest-waist-hips) inches. And I’ve been struggling to shed excess lard since then.

I was at my happiest and most elegant when I was 70kg and a size 10 (UK sizing). But a woman of my current advanced age might look haggard – ill and starved even - in a totally fat-free body and face zone, so I’m taking the view that a bit of genteel padding does a sexuagenarian no harm. And since I didn’t feel/ look too bad when I was 85kg and a size 14, that’s the compromise I am aiming for.

It’s been a yo-yo ride.

My weight has, alas, fluctuated wildly since I started this journey. I’ve had weeks when I’ve lost a couple of kilos, weeks when I’ve regained every lost kilo and weeks when I haven’t gained or lost an ounce.

Last summer, my weight dropped to 106kg – my lowest point on this journey. I won’t bore you with all of the ups and downs my weight has been through

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: Having short hair is a fashion trend nowadays.

But, according to fashion facts, this wasn’t always the case. Did you know that in the early 1800s and 1900s, women having short hair were considered unfaithful?

Women with short hair were a symbol of infidelity.

I was in stitches when l read your last column. I don’t even DONU KOGBARA IS A VANGUARD NEWSPAPER COLUMNIST. know where to start. I have been a big disgrace myself to Please feel free to share your thoughts about her weight loss say the least. I pray I get some sort of discipline in my life. I journey on 0805 404 6887 or donzol2002@yahoo.co.uk

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: During the Renaissance period, European women began the practice of removing hair from their bodies not the legs or arms, but only eyebrows and the hair on the forehead. It was said to be very fashionable at that time. Hence, mothers rubbed walnut oil on their children’s eyebrows and forehead to prevent any facial hair.

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: False eyelashes are a popular trend today. But did you know that the first false eyelashes were created by producer G.W Griffith in 1916?

Only because he wanted to enhance the beauty of actress Seena Owen in his film. They were made of actual human hair.

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: The first issue of Vogue magazine was published on 17th December 1982 in the United States of America.

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: High Heels were initially worn by both men and women. Men wore it since it was easier for them to ride on horses. This style faded by 1740s

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: Do you know what was the second oldest garment in the history of fashion after the loincloth? It was the Skirt. And in the 18th & 19th-century fashion facts, skirts were not just worn by women, but by men too.

Fashion FA C T S Fashion has had a very diverse and an interesting history throughout. You must now know a few fun facts about the emergence and existence of some trends you are familiar with as in present times.

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quirky pieces for 2021

BY USIADE ISIOMA

From Zoom meetings to working from home, Jewelry and fashion professionals have had to adapt swiftly to a very unique and new way of dressing. Cute tops visible to the eye and slouchy bottoms not visible to the eye. With the exception of handbeaded chains for your

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mask, jewelry has been overlooked for the larger part of 2020. Despite this, designers sent a mix of gorgeous styles down the runway for 2021.

Let’s dive into the beautiful world of jewelry and unveil the biggest and most beautiful trends for the year!

MODEL FOR ZIVA LAGOS BEACH BEADS

PEARL POWER

MODEL FOR PEPPER-ROW

MODEL FOR ODIO-MIMONET

Trade in your smooth gold hoops for a textured pair.

This season, designers swapped flat gold and silver pieces for rigid, “crushed” styles.

METAL CRUSH BAGS AS NECKLACES

ShoulderGrazing Earrings

Beach Beads

Whether worn alone or layered, these colourful beads are the perfect addition to your beach look. Here’s to the hope of vacationing in 2021.

Make an entrance in a pair of shoulder-grazing earrings. Whether for day or black tie, these earrings are more versatile than you’d think.

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Pearls are no longer just for your grandmother.

Designers sent these stones in a mix of silhouettes down the spring runways. From drop earrings to layered necklaces, there’s a style for you.

Metal Crush

MODEL FOR ODION MODEL FOR MIMONET ODIO-MIMONET

MODEL FOR ODIO-MIMONET SHOULDERGRAZING EARRINGS

Bags as Necklaces Both chic and delightfully irrational, bags worn around the neck have been trending for a few seasons now. Maybe in 2021, Apple will make an iPhone to fit into these pint-size purses.

MODEL FOR ONALAJA

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VITAMINS FOR FIRM SKIN

VITAMINS FOR SUPPLE SKIN

VITAMIN A

VITAMIN B3

Also known as niacin, this magic vitamin is a powerhouse ingredient in skincare.

It contributes to healthy glowing skin by restoring the skin’s moisture content, and also improves texture.

Topical application of this vitamin helps repair the outer protective layer of the skin, boosting the skin’s barrier function and locking in moisture. It is also anti-inflammatory in nature.

This potent antioxidant is effective in reducing the signs of ageing by preventing damage to collagen. Collagen is a protein with great tensile strength and is the main component of bones, tendons, cartilage, ligaments, and teeth, also responsible for the strength and elasticity of the skin. By stopping the process of collagen damage, vitamin A keeps wrinkles at bay and keeps skin looking firm and youthful.

This vitamin also prevents sun damage and sunburn.

VITAMIN B5

Vitamin B5, also called pantothenic acid, has moisture-retaining capacities, which not just keeps the skin hydrated, but also improves the skin’s barrier functions, preventing further moisture loss and keeping skin radiant. Now that you know which vitamin keeps your skin healthy, treat your skin to the best.

VITAMIN C

VITAMIN E

This well-known vitamin is produced naturally by the body through sebum, but the topical application and oral consumption can boost skin health.

Vitamin E is antioxidant, inhibiting oxidation, a chemical reaction which produces molecules called free radicals that can damage the health of cells. By inhibiting the effects of free radicals, vitamin E helps maintain healthy skin, keeping it moisturized and preventing skin irritation.

When applied topically, Vitamin E also absorbs the UV rays of the sun, reducing sun damage.

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The production of collagen gradually decreases as we age, and sun exposure over the years can further break down this protein, making skin lose its firmness and suppleness. Vitamin C enhances the production of collagen, and topical application of this antioxidant can help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles.

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YOUTHFUL LOOK If you’re looking to treat your skin from the inside out, you need to know which vitamin keeps your skin healthy. Different vitamins play various roles in keeping your skin looking and feeling great, and, as such, eating the right foods to address specific skincare concerns is important.

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make retinoids useful in improving acne.

Topical retinol improves skin wrinkles and hyperpigmentation.

Interestingly, this vitamin is found in the skin’s topmost and inner layers, and boosting your intake of this ingredient or applying it topically can treat VITAMIN A several skin concerns and issues ranging from acne Popularly used and dark spots to fine lines and hyperpigmentation. in skincare VITAMIN B3 products owing This vitamin protects your skin from the damage Vitamin C also inhibits tyrosinase, an enzyme that’s to its antioxidant caused by free radicals. It can reduce symptoms of important for melanin production, thereby reducing properties, vitamin A non-inflammatory acne, helping you achieve healthy skin tan.

Oral consumption of this vitamin is said to enhance is certainly another magic glowing skin. Topical application of this vitamin can sunscreen efficacy. Vitamin C protects the skin from ingredient you can’t do without! Vitamin A is an also delay signs of ageing. the damaging effects of sunlight and pollution, antioxidant, an immune modulator, and it suppresses treating wear and tear. Bear in mind, that topical carcinogenesis. Deficiency of this vitamin causes VITAMIN C application of vitamin C offers more benefits than dry skin disorders. Retinoids, a form of vitamin A strong antioxidant, vitamin C reduces cell oral consumption because it doesn’t reach the A, are a part of several topical and oral anti-acne damage and speeds up the skin’s healing process. desired level in the skin. formulations. Their anti-inflammatory properties

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