THISDAY STYLE MAGAZINE 8TH JANUARY 2023

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THE STYLE OF G-5 GOVERNORS SUNDAY, JANUARY 8, 2023

SONIA AGBASI CHIKELU LIVING HER BEST LIFE

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EDITOR’S LETTER

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In a world where women are constantly bombarded with messages about how to look younger and more attractive by society’s standards, maintaining the fountain of youth is a never-ending battle. However, this is different for the beautiful Sonia Agbasi Chikelu, a lawyer by profession and daughter of Chief Gilbert Chikelu, the Owelle of Ichida, who recently turned 60.

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The Beauty of Ageing.

“Beautiful young people are accidents of nature, but beautiful old people are works of art.”

– Eleanor Roosevelt t was such a delight to catch up with my cover personality Sonia Agbaso Chikelu. When she turned 50, I spent a pleasant afternoon with her, and that meeting left a lasting impression on me. Ten years after, the conversation is a little different. This time, we talked about ageing and the all too familiar fear surrounding it. It gladdened my heart to hear she was loving every minute of it. Her confidence got me thinking of several older women I knew who were still grappling with the process instead of enjoying the journey. No one needs to tell you that the ageing process is not a woman’s friend.

There comes the much dreaded time when she has to bow to the laws of gravity and time and start to think: ‘What next? She also has to come to terms with the ominous tick, tick of the clock, especially if she’s bought into the beauty obsession culture and the definition of what makes for a perfect woman media companies continue to shove down our throats.

The sad truth is that as women, society has conditioned our lives to revolve around a clock. From the marriage clock to the career and the biological clock, it’s forever ticking. It’s embarrassing to admit, but given a chance to turn back just one of these timepieces, most would choose the beauty clock. This is precisely why we do our utmost to keep looking our best, chasing that much needed morale boost we get from looking good. It’s why we buy tons of make - up, go to nail bars, and spend thousands of naira at a time at the salon; some also choose to spend even more on Botox, boobs jobs and facelifts. Whether we’re in our 20s, 40s or 60s, we never stop trying. It takes a lot of confidence not to feel the pressure. But to what end? I am slowly approaching 40, and I love being here. I may not be as young as I used to be, but I have that much more appreciation for the experience of living, learning, feeling, and loving. The best way a woman can overcome the paradox of fading beauty is to accept that she can’t defy time or the process of ageing. And while that means change, it certainly doesn’t decrease her value or make her any less of a full - bodied, beautifully graceful woman. Let’s start by rejecting the impossible media - driven standards telling us what beauty is and broaden our concept to encompass the charm, soulful scars, and inner wisdom of getting older. Don’t apologize for your wrinkles, ladies, or your greys or the size of your thighs. Just relax, you sexy thing, and celebrate living.

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To end the year 2022 in grand style, the Group Chairman, United Bank for Africa (UBA) Plc and Founder, Tony Elumelu Foundation, Mr Tony O. Elumelu, CFR, hosted the crème de la crème of society at a Havana-themed fiesta party on Saturday, December 24th, 2022.

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o end the year 2022 in grand style, the Group Chairman, United Bank for Africa (UBA) Plc and Founder, Tony Elumelu Foundation, Mr Tony O. Elumelu, CFR, hosted the crème de la crème of society at a Havana-themed fiesta party on Saturday, December 24th, 2022.

The party which was held in TOE’s beautiful Mansion located in Ikoyi, Lagos, had in attendance Chief Executive Officers, Diplomats, heads of industry, Business Moguls as well as top celebrities and socialites from Nigeria Africa and across the world Performing at the grand event was the legendary crooner, Kizz Daniel a.k.a Mr Buga, Mr Money with the vibes, Asake and there was also a surprise performance from Wizkid, which had the fans bursting with excitement. M I Abaga was the host of the night’s activities.

Tony Elumelu, who also chairs Transcorp Plc and Heirs Holdings, took time off to show off his new dance moves at the glamorous event, while his wife Dr Awele and his entire family joined him on the dance floor at intervals.

There was a rich display of the splendour, lots of food, glam and glitz, and in line with the theme, the beautiful thematic colours of electrifying fireworks ushered all attendees into Christmas day.

It was indeed a night to remember.

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THE BEGINNERS GUIDE TO MAXIMALIST FASHION

Not sure if you are a maximalist in fashion? You might be one if you find neutrals and solid pieces boring. Also, if you love to layer excessively and heavily accessorise, you are definitely one. Maximalism is an intricate approach to fashion that only style-conscious individuals can master. It’s about having fun in fashion and not taking your style too seriously. To help you nail this fashion approach accurately, follow our tips below.

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5 SKINCARE PRACTICES FOR HARMATTAN SEASON.

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armattan is one weather that people can’t decide if they love or hate or hate to love. On one hand, it offers a relatively cool weather as opposed to the usual heat; on the other hand, it brings all the dust from the Sahara into everything. Whatever the case, one thing is sure: Harmattan is no friend to your skin; it completely dries it up, sometimes leading to cracking and peeling. However, it is one season we can’t ignore, so the best way to handle it is to figure out how best to care for our skin while it’s here. Here are some tips you will find helpful.

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Hydrate: Asides from drinking water to satisfy your unusual thirst this season, drink water to hydrate your skin. The weather is really dry and can leave your skin looking wrinkled. Yes, drink water, and don’t lose sight of what it does for your skin.

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First of all, mismatch

Throw caution to the wind and forget everything you learned about matching. Mixing textures and colours in the same outfit will bring life into your outfit. If loud and bright isn’t your thing, sticking to the same colour families when mixing prints is our favourite mismatch starter tip.

Bigger is always better

When it comes to maximalism, bigger is always better. Dresses with tiered skirts, jackets with shoulder pads, and blouses with ruffled hems are gladly accepted into a maximalist’s closet. Perhaps more intimidating, this styling is fairly simple to pull off. All you need is one statement item. With shops bringing in new fashions with puffed sleeves, voluminous tops will be your go-to.

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Always strike a balance.

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creative and chaotic. Prevent wardrobe malfunction by striking a balance in your maxed look. Ornament your outfit evenly from head to toe. Ruffled tops do best with structured trousers. Two prints and one texture are enough. When it comes to jewellery, don’t overstack. It all sounds very complicated, but start small, adding details as you get more comfortable. Follow your instincts—you’ll know when too much is too much.

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Layering is a must.

When going bold, layers are a simple way to add character. Feel free to get creative, though: A transparent kaftan over a turtleneck? Easy and still sophisticated. But don’t forget—maximalists are typically known for their artful accessories. Layering five necklaces of varying lengths and a wrist full of bracelet cuffs would also help with this look.

Moisturise: We cannot overemphasise the importance of this. Ensure you’re using a good moisturiser on your skin this season.

You can also mix your lotion with body oils for more moisture. Shove those thin water-based lotions for now and look for oil-based creams or moisturisers. You do not want your skin to look ashy, especially after a bath. Examples of natural oils that are good for your skin this season are; coconut oil, almond oil, olive oil, jojoba oil, shea butter, etc.

Protective Clothing: While it’s tempting to look fashionable with sexier looks, we advise you to wear more protective clothing to prevent dry air from messing with your skin. You can also put on socks to prevent cracked feet.

Makeup/Lip-gloss: This goes without saying; you should carry your lip-gloss or a really good moisturising lip balm everywhere you go. Lip gloss is a must at all times. The weather can cause your lips to dry out, looking ashy, chapped and cracked and then it starts to peel and hurt. Avoid matte foundation and matte lipstick this season.

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ON POLITICS AND STYLE THE G5 GOVERNORS Political campaigns are serious business in Nigeria, and so is the outfit the politicians wear to these campaigns. More often than not, what you wear is as important as what you say.

It is an easy way of connecting with a crowd whose tradition, culture and first language a campaigning politician might not share. And with over 200 million people and dozens of languages and ethnic groups, the traditional attires are endless.

In the run-up to the upcoming elections, the G5 governors, which consists of Nyesom Wike

L-R - GOV SEYI MAKINDE OF OYO STATE, GOV SAMUEL ORTOM OF BENUE STATE, GOV NYESOM WIKE OF RIVERS STATE, GOV IFEANYI UGWUANYI OF ENUGU STATE, GOV OKEZIE IKPEAZU OF ABIA STATE

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of Rivers State (the de facto leader), Seyi Makinde of Oyo State, Samuel Ortom of Benue State, Ifeanyi Ugwuanyi of Enugu State and Okezie Ikpeazu of Abia State have donned a wardrobe’s worth of regional attire, and we totally love it.

The outfits range from the babban riga favoured by the Hausa people of the north to the red caps commonly worn by the southeastern Igbo people and the beautifully woven aso-oke from the West.

G5” is an abbreviation for a group of five governors who have been self-styled as the “Integrity Group.” All five governors are members of the Peoples Democratic Party but have broken ranks with the party’s national leadership for not honouring what they called the agreement to return power to the South. Some political analysts think they are in a position to tilt the presidential election in favour of one of the candidates; others insist they might not be as powerful as many assume. While we await the outcome of this political dance, we will, for now, focus on the flair and panache they bring to the process.

GOV SEYI MAKINDE OF OYO STATE

GOV SAMUEL ORTOM OF BENUE STATE

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SONIA AGBASI CHIKELU LIVING HER BEST LIFE

In a world where women are constantly bombarded with messages about how to look younger and more attractive by society’s standards, maintaining the fountain of youth is a never-ending battle. However, this is different for the beautiful Sonia Agbasi Chikelu, a lawyer by profession and daughter of Chief Gilbert Chikelu, the Owelle of Ichida, who recently turned 60. The last time I caught up with her was exactly ten years ago when she turned 50. And even though nothing much had changed, it was comforting to hear her say she has found her way of reconciling herself to this progression and seeing her do amazing at it. ‘’It’s a privilege to get older; there are many benefits. One of them is that, in most cases, you can truly say, “been there, done that”.That is the benefit of your life journey, your experiences.’’ she says. Also intact was her happy-go-lucky and effervescent nature. Like the last time, I left her feeling like I had known her all my life. Which really is the same experience for everyone who comes in contact with her. ‘’I love to be with good people, genuine friendships, and nice and happy people. I love positive-minded people. My favourite hobby is being happy and putting a smile on people’s faces.’’ This time we spoke about the ten years between turning 60 and the taboo surrounding ageing for women.

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that believe that age is just a number. You are as old as you think, feel and act. Some people are 60 but think and act 80, and you have some who are 80 but think and act 40 or even less.

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Congratulations on your 60th birthday; the last time we spoke, you had just turned 50. What have you been up to since then?

Goodness, time really does fly! Ten years since we spoke? It has been ten very eventful years of God’s amazing goodness and mercy. Without a doubt, the most significant event in my life during that period was the illness and eventual passing away of my dear mother, Ifeatu Irene Chikelu. Her illness gave the family an opportunity to demonstrate our love for her and, in a way, do a little to pay back her unquestionable love and sacrifice for all of us. My Mom was an incredible woman.

As a family, we came together to give her all the love, attention and comfort she required. She was our matriarch of strong character and a God-fearing woman. We shuttled between London and Lagos for some years until she passed peacefully in Lagos at the Reddington Hospital. It was a devastating period for our family and, of course, my Dad. That year 2018, was a very difficult time for the family. The burial preparations and the necessary arrangements took us to the end of the year and into the following year. We had to stand strong together as a family and also support my Dad during the grieving period. It was a tough time. We all had different ways of grieving for different personalities.

Subsequently, we had the Covid-19 pandemic that stopped the whole world in its tracks for nearly two years. These were two very significant things that happened in the last ten years.

On the brighter side of life, we also had the opportunity to celebrate my Dad’s 90th birthday in 2020. Owelle Gilbert Chikelu, our patriarch, our Dad strong with full mental capacity to the glory of God, turned 90. We had a lovely intimate online celebration for him with some family and friends. It was really a privilege for which we are very grateful to God. He just celebrated his 92nd birthday and is strong, healthy and happy to the Glory of God. I really cannot complain but give glory to the almighty for life and good health.

And, of course, here I am, just having celebrated my 60th birthday, it was an emotional one without my mum, but I had my siblings, children, loved ones and friends with me. Also, with my children, my first daughter Nikky is now 28 years old; she is very happy and doing well to the glory of God, in control of her environment. My second daughter Renee completed her law degree at the LSE, finished her Law School and is now working in one of the best-known law firms in the UK. I am one of those For those meeting you for the first time, please tell us a bit about yourself.?

Well, what do I say? The answer to that question can be from many perspectives, but in summary, I am Sonia, the first child of Owelle Gilbert and Ifeatu Irene Chikelu. I am a lawyer by training, though I have worked in an international oil firm and also in a Nigerian bank. I think I am a very simple human being, and a lot of my friends can testify to that. I detest complications, ha! Ha! And I run from it. Firstly. I love people who have the fear of God in them; that is the foundation of life. In everything we do. I love to be with good people, genuine friendships, and nice and happy people. I love positiveminded people. My favourite hobby is being happy and putting a smile on people’s faces. Touching the lives of people is beyond material things; it could be that, but it could also be many other ways, such as making yourself available to encourage, to listen, to guide or share burdens, to be there at good times and when it’s not so good, to be willing to make the sacrifices that are necessary for the people God has caused your paths to cross with in

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one way or the other. Generally, I enjoy giving of myself in any situation where I can be of assistance. I love children and have a very soft spot for children with special needs. I come from a very close-knit family, so I have developed a very strong kindred spirit which I share with my close friends too. My family means everything to me; they are the centre of my life because they have been with me all through life’slife’s journey and challenges. I would have been a completely different person if it wasn’twasn’t for the support from my parents and siblings all through my life.

I see so much value in forging undeniable long-term bonds, so it’s no surprise that I have very strong relationships with my friends, most of whom I have known and been close to for many years. They are, in fact, family and my sisters. I do not like proud people; life is a stage and only temporary. We definitely cannot get out of it alive. We need to love and be loved, have a good vibe and be happy, celebrate with those celebrating and mourn with those mourning. I can be very shy and will run away from being put on the spot. I tear up easily and still avoid finding myself in a position that will lead to me expressing myself openly.

I have heard someone say 60 is the new 40, and at that age, It can feel like you get an automatic software upgrade. Does it feel the same for you?

Honestly, I am one of those that believe that age is just a number.

You are as old as you think, feel and act. Some people are 60 but think and act 80, and you have some who are 80 but think and act 40 or even less. By their poise, engagements with society, and physical and mental activities, you can see that they are living their lives to the fullest. The most important thing for me is that you own your reality and not put yourself under any pressure to look or act in any way that is not you, be true to yourself.

Beauty exists at every age; it’s not about youth I think that the and perfection. I am becoming a classic; we get better with age, just like old wine; my life most important must control my age. I have a general feeling of tenets that define exhaling, an absolute right to be myself without my life can be apologies. encapsulated in the

3 Fs of Faith, Family and Friends.

What’s your favourite part of growing older?

Hmmm… It’s a privilege to get older; there are many benefits. One of them is that, in most cases, you can truly say, “been there, done that” “. That is the benefit of your life journey, your experiences. Not much can awe you because you have seen most things, the good, the bad and the ugly. You have made your mistakes and hopefully learnt that the good people around you are worth much more than silver or Gold. You cherish those you have and are in a better position to counsel others. You are also able to make the incontrovertible statement to value those that have been good to you, people with positive energy and good vibes, people who bring out the best in you, people who make you laugh, happy and relaxed, and most of all, people with the fear of God who have given you a hand up in this journey.

Do you think about your purpose in life differently approaching 60 as opposed to when you were approaching 50?

No, I have always been consistent in my life-driven purpose.

I have always seen my purpose as being a force for good. A vehicle to touch lives, and I have strived to be a better person each day, to reach out more, to give of myself and deny myself at times for the benefit of another, to be fair and always testify of the goodness of the almighty in my life and to remain at the centre of God’sGod’s will for me.

With every step we take in life, we pray for God’s guidance.

At what point did you begin to understand and appreciate the value of prayer that has carried you thus far?

Ah, my parents are devout Christians. From a very early age, we attended church every Sunday at what was then known as St Saviour’s Church Tafawa Square Lagos. My mother also took all her children to a weekday home fellowship that contributed to our firm faith today. I attended Holy Child College Lagos, which was started as a faith-based school too, so from decades ago and through life’slife’s many experiences, I have come to

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understand and appreciate the power of prayers.

Also, on charity and giving, have you become more involved in that?

Ahh…giving is a gift from God because it has many blessings that follow it. It requires understanding that we are nothing, we came with nothing, all we are blessed with was given to us, and we will leave with nothing. Giving is one of the most important tenets of my life, near numero uno. Apart from my personal angle, I have for very many years served as the head of the benevolence department in my church, Guiding light assembly, London. I am very grateful to God for the privilege and opportunity to be a blessing.

Why do you think there’s a taboo concerning ageing?

And what is your advice to women that are scared of ageing?

There is no taboo for me concerning ageing, oh! It is a reality and a blessing. We will all age someday for sure; it is life’s cycle. The important thing is to age gracefully and carry yourself with the respect and dignity that age confers.

Each person must find what they are comfortable with and try to accept the inevitable.

Let’s talk a bit about fashion. How has your approach to style changed, if it has?

It hasn’t changed. I love fashion, and we all look at it differently; your sense of style is simply an expression of your inner being. I dress and look how I feel. What I find delightful is that over the years, the fashion options available to us have broadened tremendously to now have a very strong presence of truly talented Nigerians making a mark at home and worldwide.

I can see that you have maintained a gorgeous body frame with excellent and beautiful skin. Can you let us in on your beauty and fitness secrets?

There are no secrets o. I try to make a few healthy lifestyle choices. Avoiding anything in excess. Moderation is key. Regular exercise that is sustainable.

Very simple things. I walk a lot in London, where I live, almost everywhere that is walkable: grocery runs, post office, dry cleaners, etc. There are lots of parks for walking and exercising, and gyms are also easily accessible to all, so, as they say, “when in Rome, do like the Romans”. It has become a part of me. In Lagos, I regularly walk with all safety arrangements, and in Abuja, I also walk. One time, I went for a long walk in Abuja, and I didn’t hear my Dad’s phone calls; by the time I got back, he was livid, so this is not London!!!

She walked with God, family and friends and lived her life to its fullest.

What are some of the principles that define your life?

I think that the most important tenets that define my life can be encapsulated in the 3 Fs of Faith, Family and Friends.

Respect, love, fairness and justice. Then comes good manners, charity, integrity and loyalty.

Now that you have turned 60, how best will you describe your life so far?

My life so far can be described as that of a blessed and grateful child of God, handed to Owelle G. P.O Chikelu and Ifeatu to nurture and raise. As one of my favourite pastors said, “I have made some mistakes; God alone is perfect. I have also enjoyed the Grace, mercy and favour of God.

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What’s a day like in the life of Sonia Chikelu?

I am now 60, so I have earned and enjoy the reality of a slower-paced life. A typical day for me now begins with my morning devotion which includes my prayers and Bible reading. Depending on how I feel, I will have a cup of tea or coffee, then drop off my daughter at a skills centre. I go through my messages and emails to reply to the urgent ones, and I also send off important messages and discharge with the tasks I had set for the day. After that, I run off to the gym, return to shower and get ready for the day, then back to my paperwork which could include legal matters, financial and investment management issues etc. After this, I can do the runs for groceries, the post office and any other stop I need to make. I pick up my daughter myself, we have lunch together, and I am typically at home after that till we go for our evening walk.

What is your ultimate life goal, and what would you like to be remembered for?

My ultimate life goal is to do my best to fulfil all that God purposed for my life.

To be there for my family, particularly my father and the children in our family, that are growing every day and need guidance, support and direction. I want to support my siblings and my dear friends and help those I have the good fortune to come across. I would like to stay true to my promises to my mum and ensure my Dad stays happy and strong.

Looking back, what’s the greatest lesson you have learnt from life?

This life we live in is very complex and challenging. Everyone has their story, their strengths and their vulnerabilities.

SONIA AGBASI CHIKELU AND HER DAUGHTERS , RENEE AND NIKKY Do not judge a book by its cover, be kind, be charitable, stay on your lane What would be your top tips for making the most of your 50s and focus on those things that mean the most to you. With God on and 60s? your side, you have every chance. Also, beware of friendly foes.

Faith first, strengthen your relationship with God. The second is to make healthy choices in your diet and exercise, whatever you Any last words? are comfortable with, either a gym, walking or exercise in any Well, nothing but gratitude to Almighty God and to all those who, form. Maintain strong family bonds and enjoy your friends. Avoid in one way or another, have been a help and a blessing to my life. I toxic relationships; never forget to be grateful for what you have. thank you all so much from the bottom of my heart. I do not take you Laugh without ceasing and love without measure. for granted; I hope I have somehow been a blessing too. In this life, we will all go home someday, alone without a pin, keep calm, laugh If there was a headline for your life journey during this a lot, love without measure and make the best of the now because period, what would it be? tomorrow is promised to nobody.

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2. Be Humble

Be Teachable. Be Ready to Learn. People are where they are because they worked their way there. Learn from them. Take action and make changes when needed.

They’ve seen a lot of what you’re just seeing. Experience is the best Teacher, and they have Experience.

3. Know people and let them know you. It takes one person to remember your name in that meeting and say, “what of this person” People can only mention your name when they know you. Go out to important places.

Connect with the Ogas! A lot of people say they can’t kiss ass. It’s not kissing ass if you’re giving honour to who honour is due. Swallow your pride; you’re not that big yet!

Nnenna Okoye What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

Skinceuticals hyaluronic acid How long does it usually last?

Just about two months What makes it worthy of your coins?

It’s an antioxidant that helps stimulates collagen and helps fade hyperpigmentation.

Ezinne Alfa What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

A good Factor50 Sunscreen How long does it usually last?

Approximately 3months Why makes it worthy of your coins?

Sunscreen is the most important step in any skincare routine. Everyone needs it whether you use actives or irrespective of skin tone. Or else you might as well not bother with anything in your skincare routine.

Ijeoma Balogun

What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

La Roche-Posay Anthelios 50+ Sunscreen

How long does it last?

It lasts about 2-3 weeks; I apply it every 3 hours.

What makes it worth your coins?

It’s very effective and does the work of keeping my skin from being sun damaged.

Yemisi Seriki

What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

I always buy the Garnier Micellar Milky cleansing water.

How long does it usually last?

A month and some days

What makes it worthy of your coins?

Sometimes I get too lazy at night to wash my face, so I use this to get all my makeup off and even when I do wash my face, I use it before I do.

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... from a young person who some may call Thriving

Our generation can find an excuse for anything and everything! To achieve anything, you have to be persistent at it. Good things take time, and they sure do not come easily. Finish School. Learn that Skill.

4. Calm down

Social media has a way of making you feel you’re not doing anything. LMAO! You’re 20, comparing yourself to people in their thirties. Chile! Keep working and trying to break bars but don’t beat yourself up when you just started yesterday.

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5. Integrity

What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

BM Pro Caffeine and Honey Wash Souffle How long does it usually last?

It usually lasts about three months.

6. Hardwork

What makes it worthy of your coins?

It protects and clarifies my skin, and its healing properties take care of all minor issues my skin may develop. Paired with the BM Pro pigmentation control Oil Day and Night, my skin is healthy, smooth and glowing.

Bola Balogun

What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

Clarins Double Serum does it for me. The texture also is smooth on the skin.

Don’t lose YOU and your standards. Let them be able to say anything but have things they can’t say. “I don’t like him, but he’s good”. “She’s so annoying, ah!

But she won’t ever cheat” Let people be able to speak and stand for you.

There’s no way to achieve anything other than through hard work. You can talk about the things you want to do, but if you don’t get up to do them, it would just be mere talk. Stand up, Baba; talk is cheap! As an influencer, for example, if I want more money, I have to do the extra; write a book, sell a product or

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TEN THINGS I LEARNED IN 2022 THAT COULD HELP YOUR 2023

1. Don’t Give Up

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something sha. You can’t have more money without doing what brings the money, and most times, it requires you to leave your comfort zone! It’s easy to say, “I would be rich”, but it’s not about talking; it’s about DOING.

7. Money isn’t everything

Relationships matter. For some things you do, do them for goodwill, not necessarily for money. Help people. Sometimes brands call me for story posts; I just do it. People attach emotional sentiments to those who helped them when they knew they had nothing to gain. Most times, what’s in front is bigger than what’s at the back.

8. The friends you keep matter

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The people around you matter. If no one around you inspires you, you will have nothing to look up to!

When you move in certain circles, no one needs to tell you to get your shit together.

9. There’s a thing called Grace

I don’t know how it works, but it exists. Abeg! Pray.

Let someone pray for you. Speak to the Universe like you know someone is listening.

10. Live consciously

Some days it’s just vibes. But most days, get your head in order. Eat well—set goals.

Have priorities. Look forward to what you want to achieve each day. Life is not just vibes; those who plan are mosly likely to succeed than those who don’t plan at all. *An extra tip is that people are most likely to call you what you call yourself.

Burna is called African Giant cause he called himself first, and his work spoke for him, and then everyone flowed with it. Call yourself that, do the work, and people will catch up!

I wish everyone success, and I pray all of our dreams come true.

Love You.

How long does it usually last?

It lasts about two months.

What makes it worthy of your coins?

It helps with the overall texture of my face.

Toyin Eze

What is the one beauty product you will always spend your money on?

It has to be the Pixi Glow Tonic.

How long does it usually last?

It lasts about two to three months, depending on how I use it.

What makes it worthy of your coins?

It exfoliates and gives my skin a squeaky clean, bright, glowing look.

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NEWS

This Week BRITISH FASHION DESIGNER VIVIENNE WESTWOOD DIES AT 81.

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ritish fashion designer and style icon Vivienne Westwood has died aged 81.

According to an official statement from her eponymous company, she passed away peacefully, surrounded by her family, at her home in London. Westwood’s designs became prominent during the punk era of 1970s England, with many of her clothes being donned by punk music pioneers, the Sex Pistols. Her impact on punk is widely acknowledged, with the Metropolitan Museum of Art’s Costume Institute going so far as to call her the “Mother of Punk.” To the fashion world, she was “the high priestess of punk” and the “Queen of Extreme.” A beloved character who pushed the boundaries of the

KING OF BOYS RETURNS.

OBASANJO ENDORSES PETER OBI Former President Olusegun Obasanjo has endorsed the Labour Party standard bearer, Peter Obi, saying he has the edge over other presidential candidates in terms of Knowledge, discipline, vitality and character. This development has attracted mixed reactions from the general public and several political parties, including the All Progressives Congress, the Peoples Democratic Party, Social Democratic Party, the All Progressives Grand Alliance and the African Action Alliance. The presidential candidates of the APC, Bola Tinubu; PDP, Atiku Abubakar; LP, Obi and the New Nigeria Peoples Party, Rabiu Kwankwaso, are the frontrunners in the race to succeed the President, Major General Muhammadu Buhari (retd.) in upcoming elections.

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ilmmaker Kemi Adetiba has hinted that the third part of ‘King of Boys’, her hit movie is in the works. Adetiba hinted that the project is already underway in a post via her social media handles. She also urged her fans to anticipate the project, adding that it will be a “wild ride”. The post was a picture of herself, Sola Sobowale, and Seun Kuti in a background, which appears to be a movie set.” I just need y’all to know… That KOB 3 is gonna be a wild ride…..#SayingALot WithoutSayingTooMuch#KOB 3#WhenThunderAndLightning MeetOnScreen.!!!,” she wrote.

‘King of Boys 1’ debuted in 2018 and gained widespread reception. It was followed by a seven-part limited series which debuted on Netflix in 2021.

BURNA BOY CALLS FOR RESTRUCTURING IN THE NIGERIAN ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY.

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SHOWMAX SPOTLIGHTS NIGERIA’S GOLD MINES IN NEW ORIGINAL TELENOVELA, WURA

S MEDIA PERSONALITY LATASHA NGWUBE MAKES 80TH GOLDEN GLOBES AWARD INTERNATIONAL VOTING COMMITTEE

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opular Nigerian media personality Latasha Ngwube has been appointed amongst other Africans and international personalities to be part of the 80th Golden Globes award non-member voting committee. Being on this committee allows her to screen international movies and actors and be amongst the voices that would influence who deserves to receive an award at the 80th Golden Globes award.

Latasha Ngwube is a seasoned media personality who has had her footprints in traditional media, such as Vanguard, This day newspaper, and The Will downtown, to name a few. The multifaceted talent is also the creative director of About that curvy life, a dynamic fashion movement for plus-size women in Africa.

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Sunday, January 8, 2023 Vol. 22, No. 10104

CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE BAGS CHIEFTANCY TITLE

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himamanda Ngozi Adichie has been conferred a chieftaincy title in recognition of her contributions to the welfare and development of her hometown, Abba. The award-winning author was honoured with the title of Odeluwa Abba, which means “The one who writes for the world,” at the 45th Ofala festival and 80th birthday celebration of HRH. Igwe Sir Leonard Nwankwo Ezeh (Eze Abba).

howmax is set to launch a new Original telenovela titled Wura in January 2023. A Nigerian adaptation of the hit South African 1Magic telenovela, The River, Wura, is billed to be Showmax’s first and longest-running Nigerian telenovela, with over 200 episodes.

Set against the backdrop of the gold mining industry in the Iperindo community of Osun state, Wura tells the story of Wura-Amoo Adeleke, a perfect wife, a loving mother of two, and the ruthless Chief Executive Officer of the fictional Frontline Gold Mine. In the eyes of her family, Wura is faultless and a saint, but when it comes to running her business empire, she is the ultimate iron lady who doesn›t care whose ox is gored in her path to get what she wants.

The episodic drama stars Nollywood veterans and upcomers, including fastrising Nollywood star Scarlet Gomez, who is cast as the lead Wura AmooAdeleke, popular Nollywood Yoruba actor Yomi Fash-Lanso who plays Anthony Amoo-Adeleke and Nollywood veteran, Carol King as Grace Adeleke.

ulti-award-winning artist and Afrobeat sensation Damini Ebunoluwa Ogulu, popularly known as Burna Boy, has apologised to his fans for coming late for his recent event in Lagos, themed ‘Love Damini Concert’. Laying the blame on the event organisers, he also called for the reformation of the industry and expressed willingness to work with investors to achieve his goals.

“Lagos, I love you, but I can’t do this again. The organisational structure and infrastructure are not there for the complexities of my audio and production needs. Let’s be clear. I wasn’t late; my band wasn’t late. ...... I know I can’t go all over the world and neglect my own people, so I’m taking matters into my own hands! I’m gathering the troops to work on building worldclass infrastructure in the Nigerian entertainment business. Investors and stakeholders interested, pls hit me up, we need to make some changes.’’

BATTLE OF BUKA MAKES CINEMA HISTORY.

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unke Akindele’s ‘Battle on Buka Street’ was recently released in the United States and the United Kingdom. The movie debuted in 11 Regal Cinemas, making it the first-ever Indigenous Nollywood release in the United States. Despite opening in only 11 locations, the comedy earned $61 000 over the 4-day New Year Weekend.

Commenting on the movie’s impressive opening, Craig Shurn of Part Two Media said, “We always knew that ‘Battle on Buka Street’ had the potential to do well in the US especially after it’s blockbuster results and status in Nigeria, but we never expected these sorts of figures for the first Nollywood release here. Full credit to the star, director and producer Funke Akindele, who worked her magic to her 15 million+ Instagram followers.

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7 ESSENTIALS EVERY LADY SHOULD HAVE IN HER HANDBAG. With the return of mini and midi bags, ladies no longer have the luxury of stuffing their entire dresser into their handbags. Bearing this in mind, we decided to list some essential things you should always have in your handbag asides from your mobile phone, wallet, and keys.

By Bukola Amoboye

Lip Balm/Gloss: We’re sure you saw this coming. It’s advisable to keep your lips moisturized throughout the day so having a lip gloss or a lip balm in your bag is definitely necessary. If you wear makeup often, it is advisable not to wear matte lipstick too often as it can result in chapped lips over time.

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Phone Charger / Power Bank: You want to avoid being

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stranded on the road with your phone off when you need to reach someone. With the erratic power supply in Nigeria, take this as premium advice. If you don’t have a power bank, at least go out with your phone chargers just in case you find a place to charge.

Face Tissues: Face tissues

have become quite essential over time and have multiple uses, including dabbing sweat without smearing makeup, fixing makeup, blowing your nose in case of a flu or allergic reaction, wiping dusty seats or surfaces where you sit, etc. Chances are that you will need to do at least one of these things while you’re out, so face tissues to the rescue.

HAND LOTION

Perfume: A pocket perfume or mini perfume oil is useful. As you grow more active and start to sweat in the course of the day, a quick spray here and there wouldn’t hurt.

Sanitary Pads/Tampons:

We know that monthly visitors can sometimes come unexpectedly, so to avoid embarrassment, it’s simply best to have one in your bag, just in case.

LIP BALM

LIP GLOSS

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Hand Lotion: For many, your

hands can become annoyingly dry during the day and become an irritant. You can prevent this by getting a hand lotion and ensuring it goes out with you as often as possible.

Sunglasses: If you’re in Nigeria, it is sunglasses season.

Don’t forget to put them in your bag so you can wear them when you’re out.

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P.S. - There are several other things we think every lady should have in her bag, including a hairbrush, breath mints, hair bands, etc. But it also depends on your priorities and where you’re going.

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