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Cool, Iconic, Modern…

Palm Springs

By Cindy Duffy

Christopher Kennedy

This year marks the ninth anniversary of Modernism Week’s signature February event, an exciting 11-day celebration of mid-century modern design, architecture, art, fashion and culture. The event, which has become a highlight in Palm Springs, began in 2006 as a means of showcasing Palm Springs’ world-renowned mid-century modern architecture.

While Palm Springs has long enjoyed worldwide fame as a celebrity haven and international vacation destination, its midcentury modern architecture started to attract a new market that put it on the map for cultural tourism as well as fun in the sun.

The growing interest in the architecture resulted in the birth of the first Modernism Week to promote and celebrate the ideals, design, and culture of modernism.

From its humble beginnings, Modernism Week has continued to grow exponentially to eleven days and more than 150 events.

As the variety and sophistication of events continues to grow, a greater number of people from around the globe are drawn to join us in this celebration, bringing more than $12 million into the local economy in 2013.

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As a response to positive feedback from attendee survey results, Modernism Week has added more options for evening entertainment this year with the introduction of “Modernism Week After Dark,” a new and exciting series of nightly entertainment including cocktail parties at stylish hotels, music clubs, and venues featuring live bands, deejays and dancing. An exclusive, retroinspired “Modern Mambo” party will kickoff the festivities on February 13, 2014.

Another new and much anticipated addition is The Modernism Week Show House 2014: The Christopher Kennedy Compound presented by Luxe Interiors + Design. Under the direction of noted Palm Springs designer Christopher Kennedy, an unparalleled roster of celebrity designers have re-imagined an architecturally significant Stan Sackley home, circa 1971, which will be open to the public for tours and will also be the site of several evening events.

Perhaps the biggest news for Modernism Week this year is the recent announcement of a partnership with Goldenvoice, creators of Coachella Valley Music & Arts Festival and Stagecoach Country Music Festival.

Goldenvoice will provide support through corporate sponsorships, national and international marketing campaigns, event logistics and special event production.

“This partnership, similar to our sponsorship agreements and partnerships with the City of Palm Springs, Land Rover and the Palm Springs Historical Society, allows Modernism Week to build additional capacity and expand our educational outreach throughout the Coachella Valley,” said Modernism Week Board Chairman, J. Chris Mobley. “Modernism Week enthusiastically seeks out collaborative opportunities that serve and promote our mission.”

The mission of Modernism Week, a California 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, is to celebrate and foster appreciation of mid-century architecture and design, as well as contemporary thinking in these fields, by encouraging education, preservation and sustainable modern living as represented in Palm Springs. In light of this mission, Modernism Week and Goldenvoice have future plans to expand programs throughout the calendar year and to develop specialty VIP hotel, ticket and shuttle packages.

In the future, possible quarterly or even year-round programming will allow Modernism Week to expand its scholarship program for college students pursuing educations in the fields of architecture and design, and to increase its grants to local and state preservation organizations for their efforts to preserve modernist architecture throughout the state of California.

As this year’s event draws to a close, organizers will already be working on details for a spectacular 10th annual Modernism Week, February 12-22, 2015.

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Frey II House / Frey II House, 1963-4, Albert Frey architect, collection Palm Springs Art Museum. Photograph courtesy Gregg Felsen.

Frey House II, architect Albert Frey’s second home in Palm Springs, completed in 1964. Frey (1903-1998), one of the most important modern architects of our time, lived and worked in Palm Springs since 1934.

Tramway Gas Station / Palm Springs Visitor Center (formerly Tramway Gas Station), Frey and Chambers, architects, 1963-65, Photo by Gregg Felsen The iconic Tramway gas station, now the Palm Springs Visitors Center, is the midway stop of the Modernism Week Premier Double Decker Architectural Bus Tours. The building was built in 1965 and was designed by Albert Frey and Robson C. Chambers.

Edris House / Photo by David A. Lee The Edris House, designed by architect E. Stewart Williams, remains largely unchanged since 1953 and contains many of the original Williams’ designed fixtures and details. It is protected from alteration since being designated a Class One Historic Site by the City of Palm Springs.

Sunnylands / Julius Shulman and Juergen Nogai, Sunnylands, A. Quincy Jones and Frederick E. Emmons, 1966, photo 2007, © Juergen Nogai, courtesy Palm Springs Art Museum.

Sunnylands is home to the Annenberg Estate, a modernist residence designed by A. Quincy Jones in 1966 for Walter and Leonore Annenberg.

President Barack Obama hosted President Xi Jinping of the People’s Republic of China at Sunnylands in 2013.

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Take Five

Five questions with Lisa Vossler Smith, Executive Director of Modernism Week venues, world-class architects and historians, and a star-studded lineup of program participants including friends from KCRW (Frances Anderton, Mallery Roberts Morgan and Madeline Brand), Bravo’s Property Envy (Stephen Collins), and HGTV’s Curb Appeal (John Gidding). We will have two debut films, including “Nobody Famous Ever Lived Here” about the amazing Stahl House, Case Study #22 on Feb 15; and “Quiet Elegance” a documentary about Palm Springs architect Hugh M. Kaptur, whom we are honoring on the Palm Springs Walk of Stars on Feb 14.

1. You were the former Senior Director of Administration and Operations for the Palm Springs Art Museum and last year you were named Executive Director of Palm Springs Modernism Week; can you tell us what similarities and differences you have found between the two positions?

In both jobs, I have had the wonderful opportunity to work on exhibitions, lectures and special events with iconic architects and designers, which has been tremendously insightful and rewarding. I have also had the good fortune of working with incredibly talented co-workers and amazing volunteers. The greatest difference is that Modernism Week has the unique challenge of presenting a year’s worth of valley-wide activities over a brief 11-day period, where the museum is established as a year-round venue for arts and culture.

2. What can attendees of this year’s event anticipate?

Modernism Week will continue to have the exclusive, highquality tours and programs that our participants expect, with new and exciting additions to the schedule. Our new major sponsor Land Rover will present a fabulous first-time event at Frank Sinatra’s Twin Palms Estate with their Design Director and CCO, Gerry McGovern on Feb 15. The popular lecture series has been expanded with multiple

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3. You and your husband are founding members of the Architecture & Design Council of the PS Art Museum, which architect from the Mid Century era is your favorite and why?

Of course, I find it impossible to pick a favorite in a field that includes Albert Frey and John Lautner, but my sentimental favorites are Don Wexler, E. Stewart Williams, and Hugh M. Kaptur. Not only have I had the pleasure of working on special projects with each of them and have grown to know and love their respective families, but I also deeply admire their designs, as well as their brilliant use of the natural surroundings.

4. Will the organization be awarding scholarships this year and if so what are the criteria for potential winners?

Yes, each year Modernism Week awards local high school students with four-year renewable scholarships. We recognize students who demonstrate excellence in scholastic and community achievements and are pursuing a college or university degree in design or architecture. This year we will give two scholarships and have plans to increase the number in the future.

5. What is your favorite event during Modernism Week?

It’s too hard to pick a favorite with such an amazing selection!

I love shopping at the Modernism Show & Sale, taking a doubledecker bus tour and visiting Sunnylands. The Prefab Showcase and Modern Living Expo offer a fun, family-friendly “village” setting with live music and creative food trucks. I am excited to see the Vintage Fashion Show by Déjà Vu and the new designer show house, The Christopher Kennedy Compound. The lecture and film series is always a favorite for me, because you can often buy tickets at the door, and the speakers present a fascinating and intriguing variety of topics.

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architects | cover Great Examples of Mid Century Design & Architecture example of mid-century architecture in the heart of Palm Springs. This estate boasts both mid-century style luxury and historical significance with modern amenities. This Palm Springs architectural gem features exquisite period furnishings and infamous piano-shaped swimming pool.

William F Cody Located in one of the first exclusive guard-gated country club communities in Rancho Mirage, this architecturally significant estate is a nostalgic marvel of mid-century preservation. The fairway residence, designed in 1955 by renowned architect, William F. Cody, AIA, as commissioned by his steel magnate client, and is among an eclectic portfolio of homes from mid-century to Moroccan.

Albert Frey Albert Frey, one of the most important modernist architects of our time, lived and worked in Palm Springs for seven decades. Frey produced such notable local landmarks as the Frey House II, Palm Springs City Hall, and the Aerial Tramway Valley Station. The Russell House is a unique property with Albert Frey contributions for a unique infinity pool design. The gated hillside-retreat was built in 1959 and restored extensively in 2007 now has modern appeal blended with vintage furnishings and accents.

Arthur Elrod Designed and furnished by renowned architect and prominent interior designer Arthur Elrod himself, this home is a prime example of why Elrod was known in the 1950’s as the “Design King of the Desert.”

Arthur Elrod & Steve Chase Rumored to have been originally built in 1964 and then expanded in 1970 by noted designers Arthur Elrod and Steven Chase, signature design elements of this pair can be seen throughout the home. Legend has it that Collins Hideaway also served as Steven Chase’s Palm Springs residence for a period of time.

E. Stewart Williams Designed by E. Stewart Williams in 1947 for Frank Sinatra and his first wife, Nancy Barbato, the Twin Palms Estate is a spectacular

Special thank you to Kevin Blessing and Beau Monde Villas for providing images and information on these fantastic properties.

For more info, please visit www.beaumondevillas.com

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The Bears Converge on Palm Springs IBC 2014

Are you ready for a party? Bears from around the world are coming to Palm Springs to make a big splash!

The first International Bear Convergence event will be held in Palm Springs, President’s Day Weekend, 2014. The event attracting men from all over the world, associated with the LGBT subset known as ‘Bears”, will bring hundreds of thousands of revenue and tax dollars to a city that already hosts the White Party and Dinah Shore Weekend. Over 1500 men (roughly a third being international attendees) are expected to attend this event being hosted at the Renaissance Palms Springs Hotel. The hotel is already over 90% sold.

Some of the event’s largest sponsors are MillerCoors of Chicago, Illinois, Monster Energy Drinks, Svedka PNN Media Group and TheStandardPS.com. Dj’s on board for this event are Dj David Knapp, DJ John LePage, Dj Candy vs Ryan Jones, Dj Doug Jackson & Dj Chub Jim. There will be pool parties daily and dances that will go into the wee hours of the night.

Andy Bell of Erasure will be performing at the Sunday night event with DJ John

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LePage, making it a very memorable evening for the guests and residents of Palm Springs. Tickets are available at the door to the public and doors will open at 9:30.

Andy is set to perform many of Erasure’s greatest hits and a few new songs from Erasure’s upcoming album.

In addition, on hand, to host the event will be featured entertainer and muscle-bear funnyman, Peter Bisuito Local retailers, businesses owners and restaurants will benefit and are excited about the expected attendance of men from all over the world.

Event Producer Steve (Stevo) Harris and Co-Producer Chris Vance are determined to make their mark in the Worldwide Bear event circuit as this winter event will attract those seeking the perfect location for sun and fun.

“It was a long time coming” says Harris. “The Bear Community has grown considerably over the past ten years and it’s time to place an event in one of the gayest cities in the world with the most perfect weather” “We want our guests to come with an open mind and open expectations,” says Harris. “Bears

are a very friendly crowd, this is definitely a convergence ... it’s not a circuit party, it’s a weekend of celebration!”

Pool parties, dances and mixers are part of the weekend activities. Top entertainment and DJ’s are expected to draw in hundreds from surrounding cities. One of the highlights of the International Bear Convergence will be Sunday’s main dance on February 16: The Furrageous party in the Renaissance’s California Grand Ballroom, featuring a live performance by out singer Andy Bell of the group Erasure.

Steve Harris is the former Editor in Chief of A Bear’s Life magazine and produced such events as Bear Trek in White Plains, New York, Big Bear Adventure Weekend in Big Bear Lake California and Bear Heat dance events in Palm Springs, California. He is also the CEO of Diversity Platinum Rewards, Incorporated.

Chris Vance is the producer of “BearNight” a monthly dance event for the Bear Community in San Diego, California as well as “Furball” an annual dance event during San Diego Gay Pride.

feature Schedule of Events Thursday February 13 Thursday Night Street Fair (Complimentary) 7:00PM-10:00PM Palm Canyon Drive (between Amado and Baristo Roads) becomes an old-fashioned street fair, with musicians, food, arts and crafts vendors, and a farmers market.

Early Bear Party at Hunters (Complimentary) 9:00PM-2:00AM

Drink and dance to the hottest dance and pop hits with DJ Chub Jim. Friday February 14 Registration 9:00am-Noon & 3:00pm-8:00pm

The weekend includes a series of Four Pool Parties called PLUNGE. Soak up the sun, drink and splash around with hot, furry men and featured DJs. Private cabana rentals available for $400 per day, while they last.

Bottle and bar service available. Grilled-toorder food available all day.

Meet & Greet T-Dance $15 (Included with Run Pass) 5:00pm-9:00pm Poolside welcome party with complimentary buffet and music.

Meatloaf with DJ Paul Coals $20 (Included with Run Pass) 10:00pm-2:00am A frisky night of bears, music, cruising and mayhem.

BearHeat With DJ Doug Jackson $30 (Included with Run Pass) The California Grand Ballroom 10:00PM - 2:00AM Submit to a primal, seductive night of hot men and music at BearHeat, IBC’s Saturday night dance party. Break out your favorite uniform or leather and dance to the pounding tunes of our featured DJs. Late Night Pizza $10 (Included with Run Pass) 1:30am-2:30am - Terrace

Saturday February 15 Registration 9:00AM - Noon Palm Springs Aerial Tramway (Excursion) $38 (Additional Cost) 8:00am - 12:30pm Ascend 2.5 miles with breath-taking views of Coachella Valley to a pristine wilderness aboard the World’s Largest Rotating Tramcars. Price includes tram ticket and transportation to and from the tram.

Bus leaves hotel at 7:45AM and returns at 12:30PM.

PLUNGE 1.0 Pool Party With DJ Sean Mac $20 (Included with Run Pass) Noon-4:00PM

PLUNGE 2.0 Pool Party With DJ Ryan Jones and DJ Candy $20 (Included with Run Pass) 10:00AM-4:00PM

Sunday February 16 Hungry Bear Brunch Buffet $18.95 (Additional Cost) DATE Restaurant Terrace 9:00AM - 2:00PM PLUNGE 3.0 Pool Party with DJ David Knapp

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the weekend .this high energy dance party is sure to overload your senses with a full spectrum of lasers, lights and visuals. erasure’s andy Bell will perform erasure’s top hits including “a little respect,” “Chains of love,” “always” and more!

sunday funday Beer Bust With dJ easy tiger $10 (Included with run Pass) 5:00Pm -8:00 Complimentary draft beer, while supplies last, music and grilled specials available.

monday feBruary 17 Plunge 4.0 Pool Party With dJ Chub Jim $20 (Included with run Pass) 9:00am-2:00Pm furraGeouS® With dJ John lePage & featuring a live performance by erasure’s andy Bell. $40 (Included with run Pass) the California grand Ballroom 10:00Pm - 2:00am Furrageous® is the grand finale of

farewell happy hour at hunters (no cover) enjoy happy hour prices and music. for more details on the International Bear Convergence, check out its web site www.ibc-ps.com IBC reserves the right to change, modify or cancel events without prior notice.

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Jason Dottley’s Return to Love Story Star of TV’s Sordid Lives On Life and Love After Divorce

By Mick Sandoval

When Sordid Lives star Jason Dottley married his long-term partner, playwright-filmmaker Del Shores, in 2003, the pair imagined theirs would be a love to last a lifetime.

Together, the ‘first couple of West Hollywood’ (as fans of the show often dubbed them) fought hard for marriage equality, becoming poster boys of the movement. That was, until last year, when Del Shores announced via Facebook that they were splitting. In his post, Shores wrote, “This was not what I wanted, but I must now accept what Jason wants.”

Disappointed fans waited to hear Dottley’s reason for leaving, however, their wait would be a long one. The early 30s Mississippi native chose to remain silent. Even Shores admitted in an interview with the Dallas Voice that he didn’t know why Dottley departed. “Let me put it this way,” he explained to reporter Rich Lopez, “I come up with reasons I don’t cast certain (actors), but the bottom line is, I don’t want (them) to play the role. The bottom line was Jason said, ‘I don’t want to be married to you anymore.’ And there was no negotiation on any level.”

After a year of personal contemplation, Dottley says he is ready to break his silence. More than that, he is eager to experience love again. He sings about it in “Love Story”, a song he wrote that releases next month.

The slice of 80’s pop, layered with emotionally compelling lyrics, is the first of a three-part experience Dottley is calling The Love Story Project that will also include a music video and a Love-U-Mentary film.

You made your marriage with Del Shores public. Why did you choose to keep your divorce private for so long?

I chose to keep my pain and my journey to myself, to write about it, to learn from it. Discussing it with total strangers while I was lost in the trek myself was not on the agenda for me.

How long has it been since the divorce became final?

April 2013.

You were married nine years. Walking down the aisle, did you intend for it to be forever?

Of course I did.

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When did the blooms first start falling from the rose?

That sounds so pretty. About two years before we separated.

Were you fighting or simply drifting in different directions?

We evolved into people who didn’t compliment and inspire each other any more. We stopped healing, growing. It wasn’t like I threw the towel in the first time it got ugly. It was two years of collapsing before the foundation had to be scrapped entirely. Then we fought. Divorce doesn’t bring the best out of you.

When did you know it was over?

At some point, a fire inside of you for someone burns out. It’s a cold, lonely feeling. You just know.

What is your relationship with Del like now?

We are peaceful and out of each other’s lives.

Are you prepared to see him with a new man?

I saw pics of Del with a guy that I heard he’s dating. He looked so happy. It eased my guilt for leaving. As for him seeing me with a new man, well, once I’m ready to share that part of my life openly again, he’ll see and he’ll be fine.

Is it true that Del recast you in Sordid Lives?

Can you imagine for one minute how awkward that set would

be? I’m not friends with anyone in that cast because of my divorce.

If he has recast the role, congrats to the new guy, whom I hear is the original Ty from the movie. My life has moved on from Sordid Lives, so it’s not something that I feel I lost. It’s cherished, and I’m fine to leave my work as Ty complete as-is. And, I am definitely the better Ty. (Laughs) Yeah, I said it. Del knows it too.

Has it been hard to contemplate love after divorce?

If you go out looking for love, you might as well stay home. Love will find you.

What is one thing you will do in your next relationship as a result of what you learned from your last?

I will communicate better. I will compromise more and I will always make sure he knows that he’s my everything.

Will you walk down the aisle again?

You bet your ass.

Will the next time be forever?

Who can say? I believe we are intended to have a series of love affairs.

You don’t believe in one soul mate?

I absolutely believe in soul mates. Nothing about a soul mate says that you are meant to be together forever, or even together at all.

My three best friends are all my soul mates, but I’m not romantically interested in them.

Do you believe in monogamy?

100%. I do not share. I’ll guest star occasionally, though.

Why did you decide to launch The Love project?

“The Love Story Project” is my attempt to shine a light on gay love. The project aims to help people see gay lovers as people and not ideas. I encourage everyone to visit the website, share your story and become a part of it yourself!

Are you encouraged by the response the project has received so far?

I am! It has pushed me further than I ever thought I could take this project.

What are you looking for in your next love project?

Someone who is ambitious, fearless, and inspiring. I’ve already found him but I ain’t giving details. I’ve learned the hard way to keep my heart private.

Visit www.JasonsLoveStoryProject.com for more information of Jason Dottley and his Love Story Project.

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psp foCus aGua Caliente Cultural MuSeuM

Presents the 2014 natIVe fIlmfest the 2014 native filmfest presented by agua Caliente Cultural museum will be held at Camelot theatres on tuesday, march 4 through sunday, march 9. guest Programmer of native filmfest is elizabeth Weatherford, founder and director of the film and Video Center of the smithsonian National Museum of the American Indian. The lineup films this year offers the best in available feature, documentary and short films by, about, and starring native americans and other Indigenous peoples.

The festival will present important new Native feature films such as the navajo star Wars episode IV: a new hope (In navajo, with english subtitles) and maïna starring award-winning Canadian actress tantoo Cardinal. the diversity of subject matter and stunningly beautiful cinematography of films such as the documentary Desert Dreams and the poignant short film Miss Chief: Justice of the Piece is sure to engage and inform, as well as, entertain. opening the festival on tuesday evening is Views on native film – a free lecture by nancy marie mithlo, Ph.d. (Chiricahua apache), associate Professor of art history and american Indian studies at university of Wisconsin-madison. In fall 2014, dr. mithlo will be Chair of american Indian studies at autry national Center in los angeles. her lecture is entitled, Can you hear me? silence as an Indigenous representational strategy in film. richard m. milanovich, the late Chairman of the agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians, was a lover of film and, each year, attended native filmfest. the richard m. milanovich award for distinguished Contributions to Indigenous film established in his name honors those who have distinguished themselves by their meritorious work in Indigenous film. The 2014 Award will be presented to Tantoo Cardinal on saturday evening at the 8:00 screening. an accomplished and celebrated actress, tantoo Cardinal has advanced aboriginal performing arts throughout the world, blazing a trail in an industry where few roles for aboriginal women previously existed. among her 80-plus credits are dances with Wolves, Black robe, smoke signals, and north of 60. acting and speaking are only two of the many ways she contributes to society, dedicating her life to ensuring aboriginal people, their cultures, and the historic and current issues affecting their communities are fairly represented throughout the arts. In 2010, ms. Cardinal was inducted as a member into the order of Canada for her outstanding contributions.

Ticket and screening information, including film synopses, are attached and online at www.accmuseum.org. there will be tented public receptions daily between the 5:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m. screenings. filmgoers may purchase tasty meals and beverages at nominal cost and visit with other filmgoers, as well

as filmmakers, directors, and actors in attendance. the festival promises to be an entertaining and illuminating week of Indigenous film. For additional information, please contact Steve sharp, director of development, at 760.833.8167 or ssharp@accmuseum.org.

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oPenIng nIght leCture tuesday, march 4 / 7:30 p.m. / Camelot theatres VIeWs on natIVe fIlm a special lecture by nancy marie mithlo, Ph.d. (Chiricahua apache) associate Professor of art history and american Indian studies, university of Wisconsin-madison her lecture is entitled, Can you hear me: silence as an Indigenous representational strategy in film. In fall 2014, dr. mithlo will be the Chair of american Indian studies at autry national Center. free admission filMS in SCHedule order eaCh eVenIng at 7:00 Pm festIVal tent meet & greet tasty meals, snacks, and beverages moderately priced are available for purchase at the Camelot International CafĂŠ. Visit with filmmakers, actors, and other guests. wednesday, March 5 / 8:00 pm empire of dirt Canada, feature, 99 minutes thursday, March 6 / 5:00 pm honey moccasin Canada, feature drama, 47 minutes Blood river Canada, short, 23 minutes memory united states, short, 15 minutes

psp foCus 8:00 pm / moose river Crossing Canada, feature, 91 minutes friday, March 7 / 5:00 pm reply to this Video letter mexico, short, 20 minutes silvestre Pantaleon mexico, documentary, 65 minutes 8:00 pm / We are Canada Canada, short, 3 minutes heart of sky, heart of earth germany/united states, documentary, 98 minutes Saturday, March 8 / 5:00 pm / mountain memories: spirit mountain Wilderness united states, short, 4 minutes Before there Were Parks: yellowstone and glacier through native eyes, united states, documentary, 28 minutes desert dreams: Celebrating five seasons of the sonoran desert, united states, documentary, 52 minutes 8:00 pm / Presentation of the richard m. milanovich award for distinguished Contributions to Indigenous film the late Chairman of the agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians, Richard M. Milanovich, loved film and took special effort to attend native filmfest each year. In 2013, the museum established the richard m. milanovich award for distinguished Contributions to Indigenous film to honor those who have distinguished themselves by their meritorious work in Indigenous film. The award, this year, will be presented to acclaimed Canadian actress tantoo Cardinal at the 8:00 p.m. screening on saturday, march 8 ma�na Canada, feature, 103 mInutes Sunday, March 9 / 5:00 pm / Visionaries: short films by Indigenous filmmakers huyhuy (trade) united states, short, 5 minutes Wakening Canada, short, 9 minutes three Poems by heidi e. erdrich united states, short, 7 minutes 7 lifetimes Canada short, 3 minutes Ivan and Ivan russia, short, 17 minutes kinoomaage-asin (teaching rock) Canada, short, 5 minutes miss Chief: Justice of the Piece Canada, short, 31 minutes 8:00 pm / star Wars ePIsode IV: a neW hoPe (In naVaJo) unIted states, feature, 121 mInutes IndIVIdual tICket PrICes $10 adult, $7 senior adult (60+), youth (16 & under), students, and active duty military personnel all aCCess Pass $50 • Provides access to all screenings the all access Pass and individual tickets can be purchased online at www.camelottheatres.com and the Camelot Theatres Box Office starting February 3. For complete synopses of all films, please visit www. accmuseum.org/2014-native-filmfest

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psp focus “DONALD CRAVENS: WITNESS TO HISTORY” NOW ON DISPLAY AT COLLEGE OF THE DESERT

Historically significant photographs taken by late valley philanthropist and Time/Life photojournalist Donald Cravens are now on display at The Walter N. Marks Center for the Arts at College of the Desert (COD), located at 43-500 Monterey Ave in Palm Desert.

The Center is also presenting a selection of student photography in conjunction with the Cravens exhibit, featuring the work of student photographer Mark Manocchio, whose collection of images is entitled “A Joshua Tree Retrospective.” Retired from a successful career with Levi Strauss; Mr.Manocchio’s first photography class ever was at COD in 1994.

But his experience capturing landscape images dates back to World War II; serving in the U.S. Navy from 1942 to 1946, he worked

as an aviation machinist on aircraft carriers in the Pacific Ocean, and was part of a unit that took aerial photographs of the Marshall Islands. The month-long exhibit, which opened on January 27, will run through Thursday, February 27, 2014 and is free and open to the public. Gallery hours are MondayThursday from 11 am to 4 pm, and first Sundays (Sunday, February 9) from 11 am to 1 pm and by appointment. Cravens’ work is on display in the Cravens and Leberman galleries, and Manocchio’s photography is on display in the Alumni Association gallery. For more information about these exhibits, call the Marks Center at (760) 776-7278 or go to www.collegeofthedesert.edu.

COYOTE STAGEWORKS PRESENTS “THE 39 STEPS” Coyote StageWorks is pleased to present “The 39Steps”at the Annenberg Theater in Palm Springs, February 28 through March 9, 2014.A two-time Tony® and Drama Desk Award-winner and recipient of the Laurence Olivier Award for Best New Comedy, “The 39 Steps” is a fast-paced whodunit for everyone who loves the magic of theatre. Mix a Hitchcock masterpiece with a juicy spy novel, add a dash of Monty Python and you have “The 39 Steps,” packed with nonstop laughs, more than 150 zany characters, an on-stage plane crash, handcuffs, missing fingers and some good oldfashioned romance. For more information about Coyote StageWorks and its 2014 season, please visit www.coyotestageworks.org

LESBIAN HUMORIST DOROTHY KIRK TO APPEAR AT THE DESERT ROSE PLAYHOUSE The Desert Rose Playhouse, the Valley’s live stage company serving the LGBT community, will present lesbian humorist Dorothy Kirk in two of her one-woman shows: a lab production of I Came Out in a Darkroom; and Hold Still! I Can’t See Myself. The special presentations will play for one weekend only, March 7 – 9, 2014. I Came Out in a Darkroom will be performed on Friday, March 7, 2014 at 8 PM. Hold Still! I Can’t See Myself, will be performed Saturday, March 8 at 8 PM and Sunday, March 9 at 2 PM. Dorothy began writing and performing her personal stories a few years ago as a result of taking singing lessons. ‘Singing Changed My Life Twice,’ one of her stories in Hold Still! I Can’t See Myself describes how. Dorothy’s show, I Came Out in a Darkroom, was inspired by a conversation with a much younger lesbian who said to her in astonishment, “My God, you came out before Stonewall, I’ve never known a pre-Stonewall dyke before. Tell me what it was like.” For more info go to www.desertroseplayhouse.org or call 760-202-3000.

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national

Federal Appeals Court Lets Stand California Law Protecting Youth from Dangerous Anti-Gay “Conversion” Therapies Provided by EQCA

Kamala Harris

Last week, the full U.S. Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit let stand an earlier decision by a three-judge panel of the same court upholding Senate Bill 1172, a California statute enacted in 2012 that protects minors from dangerous and ineffective mental health treatments that falsely claim to be able to change a young person’s sexual orientation.

The California Legislature enacted the law to prevent state-licensed mental health professionals from attempting to change the sexual orientation or gender expression of minor patients. The Legislature based the law on the unanimous consensus of the nation’s leading medical and mental health associations that such purported treatments have no scientific basis and put children at risk of serious harms, including depression and suicide.

In the lawsuit that the Ninth Circuit ruled in today, therapists who wish to engage in these practices on minor patients and who argued that the law violated their right to freedom of speech challenged the statute.

In August 2013, a panel of the Ninth Circuit held that California’s law was a permissible regulation of medical treatment to protect public health and safety and did not violate the free speech rights of therapists. The Ninth

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Circuit’s ruling today allows that decision to stand, thereby ensuring that California’s law will remain in effect.

California’s law was defended in the case by California Attorney General Kamala Harris and by Equality California, the lead sponsor of the legislation and California’s largest organization advocating for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) people.

Equality California was represented by the National Center for Lesbian Rights (NCLR) and the law firm of Munger, Tolles, & Olson LLP. Said Equality California Executive Director John O’Connor, “Equality California is proud to have sponsored and defended this important law. We are grateful to Senator Ted Lieu for authoring it and to Governor Brown for signing it. We are also grateful for medical and mental health associations that supported the law and helped to educate the legislature about the serious dangers posed by scientifically baseless efforts to change a person’s sexual orientation or gender expression. No ethical professional should put a young person’s life and well-being at risk by engaging in these ineffective and dangerous practices. Every young person deserves to be treated with dignity and respect and to be valued for who they are.”

NCLR Legal Director Shannon Minter,

Esq. added: “Today’s decision affirms that California can protect young people and their families from being deceived and harmed by unethical therapists who falsely claim they can change a person’s sexual orientation. These practices have no scientific basis and can cause serious, lasting harms that devastate families and destroy young lives. California has a duty to protect the public from deceptive and unsafe practices by medical professionals who are licensed by the state. The Legislature did the right thing by enacting this protective law, and the ruling today strongly confirms that other states should follow California’s example and adopt similar laws.”

Three of the Ninth Circuit’s 27 active judges dissented from today’s ruling, based on disagreement with the original panel’s reasoning. The dissenting judges took no position on whether the statute is valid, stating, “The regulation at issue may very well constitute a valid exercise of California’s police power.”

New Jersey enacted a similar law in 2013. A federal district court upheld New Jersey’s law on November 8, 2013, and that law is currently the subject of an appeal before the U.S. Court of Appeals for the Third Circuit. In that litigation, NCLR represents Garden State Equality, New Jersey’s largest LGBT rights organization.

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national / INTERNATIONAL

Blue Cross reversing course, will offer gay N.C. couples family policies North Carolina’s largest insurer is reversing course and now says it will offer family coverage to same-sex married couples and domestic partners in new policies.

Blue Cross and Blue Shield of North Carolina said Wednesday it’s making the change for policies sold starting in February and taking effect March 1. The announcement comes after a report

by The News & Observer of Raleigh was picked up nationally by the Associated Press that the Chapel Hill-based insurer cancelled family coverage sold to 20 gay and lesbian couples on the federal insurance marketplace. The insurer said it had intended to update its plans to include those offerings, but postponed making the change

in terminology as the company scrambled to get ready for what turned out to be a rocky rollout of subsidized insurance under the Affordable Care Act. Blue Cross said it had planned to change the definition next year, but CEO Brad Wilson says the insurer should have been more thoughtful about the delay.

Associated Press contributed to this report.

Mayor of Olympics host Sochi: “We have no homosexuals in our city” The mayor of the Russian Black Sea resort city of Sochi, soon to play host to the Winter Olympics, says there are no gay people in his city.

Anatoly Pakhomov, a member of President Vladimir Putin’s United Russia party, says that gay people would be welcome at the games as long as they respect the laws of the Russian Federation and do not “impose their habits on others,” reported the BBC. But when asked whether gay people had to hide their sexuality in Sochi, the mayor said: “No, we just say that it is your business, it’s your life. However, it is not accepted here in the Caucasus where we live. We do not have them in our city.”

Boris Nemtsov, former Deputy Prime Minister and now a leader of the opposition, said the Pakhomov’s claim was laughable.

“As far as I know there are several gay clubs in Sochi,” said Nemtsov. “How do they survive? Why they are not bankrupt?”

Earlier this month, President Vladimir Putin claimed gay people would be welcome in Sochi, providing they “just leave the children alone”.

“We don’t have a ban on non-traditional sexual relations,” he said.

“We have a ban on the propaganda of homosexuality and pedophilia.”

In a subsequent interview, Putin denied accusations of homophobia, saying he was not prejudiced as he was on “friendly terms” with several people who are gay.

Club Mayak, Sochi’s Biggest Gay Night Club, owner and Sochi resident Andrei Tanichev. If there aren’t any gays in Sochi, what is this about. Photo Courtesy of Policymic.com

Russian Prime Minister Dmitry Medvedev last week dismissed criticism of the country’s anti-gay laws, claiming not a single gay person in Russia has complained.

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Almost anything I need is right out my front door.

Ross, D.A.P. client

D.A.P. treats and supports the whole person Living on just Social Security, my beautiful, subsidized apartment on D.A.P.’s campus has been a lifesaver.

It even has solar collectors to reduce my electric bill! But best of all, my doctor, dentist, case manager, pharmacy— just about anything I could need—are only about 500 feet away when I open my front door.

For the first time in years, my T-cells are up, I have dental care again, and my future seems bright.

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nortHern CypruS beCoMeS laSt in europe to deCriMinaliZe HoMoSexuality

northern Cyprus has voted to repeal a colonial era ban prohibiting gay sex, a move that makes europe the third continent in the world with no laws criminalizing homosexuality. turkish Cypriot deputies passed an amendment on monday repealing a colonial-era law that punished homosexual acts with up to five years in prison, reported The Guardian.

The change still has to be endorsed by the republic’s president, Derviş eroglu, who is expected to support the reform. once enacted, the new law will mean that no states in europe, north america, or australasia (comprising australia, new Zealand and new guinea) criminalize homosexuality. “these pernicious anti-gay laws, which protect no one and cause deep distress and harm to gay and lesbian people, still exist in 82 legal jurisdictions. But that is one fewer than yesterday, and this we must celebrate,” said Jonathan Cooper, chief executive of the london-based human dignity trust. the trust had sought legal action in the european Court of human rights in strasbourg against northern Cyprus for its laws against homosexuality.

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LEGALLY SPEAKING

Property Ownership and the Do-It-Yourself Blues

By Christopher Heritage

Most married couples and registered domestic partners living in California soon learn about community property. “What’s mine is yours and what’s yours is mine” governs most property ownership here. Pre- or post-marital agreements and state law will provide clear guidance for settling property issues, if the relationships end.

But what about partners who don’t marry or register? Do California statutes govern their separate and joint property? No. They are two individuals with no recognized legal relationship, and they usually don’t have any legal responsibility for each other or for each other’s property.

What happens if one of them becomes ill or dies? Or if they just decide to split up? I see the fall-out from broken relationships every day in my practice. And this is what really worries me. There are far too many unmarried or unregistered couples who do nothing to protect themselves and their assets. Or think there are simple doit-yourself tools for protecting themselves. Worst of all, some believe that a “palimony” suit can resolve everything, if they split up and disagree about assets.

Couples often buy a home together, and open joint checking and savings accounts. They may own cars, buy furniture, make other investments together. Who owns all these things? Both of them? What if one paid a little more of the down payment on their home than the other? Does he or she own a little more of the property? How much more? Is it a gift to the one who paid less?

One “simple” way to share property is to own it as joint tenants with right of survivorship. Cash accounts, investments, houses and cars can be owned this way. If one partner dies, the other fully owns the property. No probate. No hassle. It was ours, now it’s mine. But this is a risky way to protect yourself and your property. Here are a few of the very serious pitfalls: If one joint owner has a legal liability, creditor judgment, or is found at fault in an accident, the entire bank account, house or other property can be taken, even though the other joint owner is not involved.

Joint ownership of a house, for example, requires the agreement and signature of both owners to sell, refinance, rent out, or carry out other transactions. One owner can act only for his or her share of the property, not the entire property.

Suppose the two owners disagree about selling or managing

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the property? There can be deadlock until mediation or some other intervention resolves it.

If one joint owner becomes mentally incapacitated, the property is in legal limbo.

It might be necessary to go through a lengthy, expensive court process to secure a conservatorship for the incapacitated partner, so the other can legally manage the entire property.

If one joint owner dies, even if there is a Will or Trust passing his or her ownership share to someone else, the other joint owner automatically becomes full owner of the property. Wills and Trusts have no control over property owned in joint tenancy.

There may be tax consequences for transferring property into joint tenancy. Adding a joint tenant to your bank account or house title is a gift, subject to your annual gift exemption of $14,000.00.

If over that amount, you may owe taxes on the gift, depending on your financial situation. Do-it-yourself estate planning rarely works, and simple tools like joint tenancy are very risky. Too often someone is left crying the blues. There are far better ways for couples to manage their assets, and most of them can be easily obtained with a little planning ahead and the good advice of your attorney.

This article is part of an ongoing series of articles pertaining to legal issues relevant to the LGBT community, and is intended for general information purposes only – not legal advice. Christopher Heritage is an attorney in Palm Springs and San Diego, who focuses on LGBT estate planning, domestic partnerships, same-sex marriage, probate, trust administration, and bankruptcy. He welcomes questions and comments and can be contacted at 760-325-2020 or at chris@heritagelegal.com

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wellness

Modernism Dialed In

By Dr. Kenneth Toth, BA, MAT, DC, RN, CPT

Now that everyone is busy making good on all their New Year’s resolutions, with the muscles budding and the fat fading (right?), we can all look forward to our annual celebration of Modernism in the desert for which Palm Springs is famous! The clean lines, the glass, the simplicity, the geometry!

I know a couple who have impeccably dialed in a fabulous midcentury house that is truly timeless! It could have been designed, built, landscaped and decorated yesterday, or fifty years ago, and no one can tell. It is truly timeless! It is beautiful! While we’re holding that easy-to-feel picture in our minds, let’s consider for a moment how it can translate into the need for a healthy, supportive, and beautiful body. Really, this is not a stretch! First, many of us are at least chronologically approaching, or have even exceeded, midcentury status. At this point in life, most people need to be dialed in, if not completely remodeled, in order to enjoy a high quality life for the rest of the ride.

This brings to mind one of my very special clients who will here remain anonymous, but who is very real and dear to me. For purposes of this conversation, let’s call him Max. Max sought out my services as a personal trainer strictly because of my unique experience and credentials. He had reached a point in life where he knew he was faced with a life programming “if statement”. He told me at our first meeting that he had resolved that it was “now or never”….to either get back into an appropriate, supervised training program, or to “retire” into more and more physical inactivity and unattractiveness like the majority of his social circle. He chose improved health and greater physical attractiveness.

In essence, Max made the commitment to dial in his biological “house”, to modernize it, to bring it up to speed again where it used to be. He is, once again, much happier living in his body. It now gives him greater inner peace, comfort, and joy! Not unlike the proud owner of a fabulous mid-century home, he is uniquely proud of his body! His posture is that of a thirty-year-old. He can once again buy, and wear with pride, new sleeveless “muscle shirts” and increasingly fashionable shorter-than-board shorts because he’s earned the privilege. The compliments just keep coming! He has celebrated his new spirit of life’s enjoyments by donating his oncefabulous Tommy B. shirts to a thrift store. He no longer needs them, if you know what I mean.

In short, Max has once again taken charge of his picture of health. He now feels a greater motivation to take his physicianprescribed medications exactly as directed. Max told me recently that his cardiologist was beaming during his last office visit while

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reviewing his last, extensive laboratory report! He asked Max what he was doing differently. Max told him. Needless to say, his physician was delighted with his progress and told him be sure to keep on doing what he’s doing.

As one meanders along any of the quaint streets and byways of Palm Springs, there are still quite a few once-beautiful, mid-centuries that are in dire need of a sprucing up or even a downright makeover.

All they need is an owner who has the vision to see what once was, as well as what can be once again. All that is needed is love and determination. A house’s inhabitant needs to love the house in which he lives in order to resolve to take the best care of it.

Max continues to love and enjoy his already beautiful midcentury home even more these days, because he has once again learned to really love and maintain, and truly enjoy, his healthier and much more attractive physical body!

Dr. Kenneth Toth, BA, MAT, DC, RN, CPT, holds multiple degrees and credentials as a science educator, chiropractor, registered nurse, and personal trainer. He is currently limiting his professional activities to Personal Training/Nutritional Coaching. Dr. Ken is now accepting new clients at WorkOUT Gym, Palm Springs, CA for personal training along with nutritional coaching. Reach him at 949-235-9408 or by email at ken@KenTothFitness.com.

fitness

GOOD HEAlTH AND FITNESS IS A CHOICE

By Dennis Mason, B.F.A., C.P.T. It is always amazing to me how many people allow their mind to believe that all the ailments and changes that occur as we age are inevitably part of “the way it is.” Examples would be gaining excess body fat, losing muscle tone, getting high blood pressure and heart disease, becoming arthritic, etc. However, we know from scientific research that those issues are not necessarily the way it has to be.

Proper nutrition, sensible exercise, and stress reduction are among some of the things we can do right now to slow down the aging process and be graceful about it. See, for the most part, your good health and fitness is actually a CHOICE...like keeping your home in good repair.

For some people, just the mention of the word fitness brings about a cold sweat. Very often that reaction is based on information given to us on television, in magazines or by other types of mass media. The message generally portrayed to us is that fitness belongs to the young. Just take a moment to reflect on the types of characters found on the daily soaps and prime time features. How about the images on the front cover of the local publications or the models used in the advertisements within? Rarely do we see mature adults in these roles. The conclusion can then be made that staying fit is not for those over fifty.

The truth is, fitness is for all ages. Moreover, it is absolutely essential for the well-being of the mature adult to stay in shape.

Over the years your body undergoes a wide variety of changes and compensations. Some may require special needs and attention to help us slow down the aging and degeneration process. Some examples might include: physiological changes that affect balance and coordination, muscle atrophy, high blood pressure, heart/lung disease, bone or joint disorders, arthritis, or even previous injuries and/or surgeries. It is paramount then, that a person keep his or her body healthy, toned, and in the best possible working order. That doesn’t mean you can do all the things you used to do at a younger age. It simply means doing the absolute best you can at every age.

Over the past thirty years as a professional trainer I have been able to successfully design age appropriate exercise programs that incorporate the special needs of an individual. However, the single most difficult roadblock to staying fit is lack of inspiration.

Here’s where the old sayings “mind over matter” and “healthy body, healthy mind” take on new dimensions. Comedian George Burns once commented on the fact that “you don’t have to grow old as you

get older.” You can choose to prove that poor health and increasing lack of fitness does not have to be expected as you age. In fact, staying healthy and in shape is a form of health insurance...on the ‘front line.’ The old adage “An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure” is especially true in this case.

Those of us active professionals in the fitness industry have seen the benefits of regular exercise and an active lifestyle at any given age. Medical reports of clinical fitness trials and tests agree. Simply put, staying fit by exercising regularly, following a sensible meal plan, and getting plenty of rest can stimulate new bone growth, condition and strengthen the heart, remove toxins from the body, improve mental alertness, drop body fat, strengthen muscles, help lower stress and cholesterol levels, and increase a feeling of wellbeing at any age. An active lifestyle truly is the legendary “Fountain of Youth.” While we cannot completely eliminate the risks of certain illnesses or diseases, many ailments can be lessened or prevented.

It’s never too late to get in shape. Stop making excuses. Start TODAY. Good Health and Fitness Is A Choice.

Join Dennis each week to be taken on a journey with his radio guests to explore new ideas; separate myth from fact and gain new information. That’s FITNESS & MORE INTERNATIONAL with Dennis Mason, Saturdays at 10:00 a.m. Pacific Time, only on www.BlogTalkRadio.com/Fitness and More.

Dennis Mason is a certified personal trainer and coach with over 30 years’ experience, an NPC bodybuilding competitor, charity cyclist, health and fitness motivational speaker and author. Specialist in Physique Sculpting, Aqua Pilates, Post Injury Retraining and Nutritional Guidance. For more information visit: DennisMasonFitness.com or FitnessAndMoreRadio.com. On Facebook and Twitter as fitnessradio. 760-219-5877

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Nutrition

FAST FOOD FAUX PAS

by Linda Bergersen, MS Board Certified Nutrition Consultant®

As a nutritionist, I want to make a challenge to all fast-food restaurants.

As we see McDonald’s, Wendy’s, Subway and the like adding and changing menu items to reflect better nutrition, it’s evident that there is a belief that foods we eat are not making us healthy. The momentum is building for healthier restaurant menus, but not building fast enough. Unfortunately they follow the guidelines of the media, jumping on what the media hypes, and not nutrition specialists.

We’ve seen New York City, beginning in 2007, ban the use of trans fat in restaurants, and many fast-food chains have already started taking trans fat out of their cooking oils. They’ve added a variety of salads; oatmeal and yogurt parfaits for breakfast; we see sweet potatoes added. This is all positive, except sugars are still being added to items that really do not need added sugars. And beyond this, foods may contain additives like propylene glycol or MSG. In the past, some chains tried the low-fat burgers and pizza and such, and they failed. But, fat isn’t necessarily the answer anyway.

The concentration of making items healthier seems to be in the wrong places. It’s not so much the burger, but more importantly the bun!

Buns are loaded with hydrogenated oils, sugars and refined flour. Some restaurants may say they are offering whole-wheat bread, but let’s get serious. It’s not whole wheat. The federal law allows the manufacturers of whole wheat products to include up to 49 percent of the flour to be refined non-whole-wheat flour. The words “100 percent” must be on the package if it is indeed completely whole wheat. And you can be assured that most restaurants are not going to put out the extra money to go all the way to offer 100 percent. So as long as they can fool the public, they will get away with continuing to offer their version of whole-wheat bread.

We now have options of nice salads, but the salad dressings are full of sugars, high-fructose corn syrup, hydrogenated oils and who knows what else.

Smoothies are everywhere now, but are they really healthy? No. Their conception of a smoothie is no way near what healthy means.

The fast-food smoothie will most likely be full of refined sugar or high-fructose corn syrup. Some don’t even use real fruit, just syrups, artificial dyes and extracts. And to begin with, even if they use fruit juices, it’s not realized that fruit juice is just another refined food that inflames the arteries.

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Even the eggs may not be the real thing. They may be irradiated (exposed to radiation for liability reasons), pasteurized or liquid processed eggs that may contain gluten, artificial flavor, cornstarch, milk product, or soy oil.

Recently, it was in the news that many fast-food establishments serve ground meat that is not 100-percent meat, but rather could contain only between 30- and 80-percent real meat. And it was revealed that chicken nuggets could contain all kinds of additives, including dimethylpolysiloxane, an anti-foaming agent used in Silly Putty.

Some of the most important information needed to know about the proliferation of refined foods can be found in my book, So, You Think You Eat Healthy?. Refined foods are the main reasons for our rise in obesity and diabetes, and all the toxic additives cannot be good for our health.

So, here is the challenge for you, fast-food business owners. Get educated, and begin to offer items geared toward the segment of the population who want to eat healthy and already doing so. But also, there is another percentage of fast-food patrons who just might be tempted to pick the 100-percent whole-wheat bun or tortilla, or the meat without fillers, or the salad dressing without hydrogenated oil and sugar. Of course, the public has no way of knowing what other hidden things lurk inside your foods, but at least we can start with a few better choices, and hopefully have your determination to someday serve wholesome foods that pose little threat to our health.

medicaL 411

aSk tHe doCtor Question: I am 67 years old. When my husband retired, we moved to Palm springs. after we moved here, I have developed problems with dry eyes. I have tried over the counter artificial tears with some relief but am still aware of a problem with my eyes especially lately. Is there anything else that I can do? do I need to see an ophthalmologist?

Betty R., Rancho Mirage, CA answer: yes, Betty, there are a number of things that you can do to alleviate your dry eyes. I am sure you are aware that humidity levels during the day around the Coachella Valley are less than 10%, often around 5%. this causes the natural tears that you make to evaporate more quickly. You might consider adding a cool air humidifier to your home especially in the room that you spend most of your time. this will give you great relief. In addition, most of us spend a lot of time reading or staring at a monitor of some type. make sure that you take ‘quiet eye’ breaks every 15 minutes and close your eyes for 1-2 minutes. Add Fish Oil or Flaxseed Oil if you have fish oil reflux to your diet or vitamin regimen. Find a non-preserved artificial tear that feels good. In addition, you should consultant your doctor regarding prescription dry eye medications if the problem becomes worse.

Question: a friend who recently had cataract surgery told me that I would most likely develop cataracts because I live in the desert. Is this true? I do know quite a few peers who have had this

By forrest p. Murphy, Md, faCs

surgery and I’m worried about my vision deteriorating. Can you give me some advice?

Paul M., Palm Springs, CA answer: Paul, as we age, we are more likely to develop cataracts. heredity places a major role in the propensity to develop cataracts so if your parents had cataracts, you are more likely to develop them. the increased ultraviolet light of the desert may place you at slightly greater risk. Wear sunglasses outside at all times, even on cloudy days, to cut out the uV light. our corneas absorb 97% of the UV light in the first place and the glasses will do the rest. Cataracts can slowly take the clarity of vision from you, but once you identify this as the problem, it is completely reversible and curable. Cataract surgery is the #1 outpatient surgery performed in the us. and, in my practice and experience, almost everyone is thrilled with the results!

Forrest P. Murphy, MD, FACS is a board-certified Ophthalmologist and board eligible in emergency medicine and anti-aging. he has agreed to answer medical questions for the standard magazine. If you have a question for dr. forrest, simply send us an email with your question to info@standardps.com. the Content provided in this column is for informational purposes only and is not medical advice, diagnosis, treatment or care, nor is it intended to be a substitute. always seek the advice of a physician or other qualified health provider.

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travel

Romance Your Love

Out on Valentine’s Day

by George Zander

Times are changing and LGBT romantic holidays have jumped out of the closet into the mainstream. Valentine’s Day is for everyone.

It’s no wonder that tourism agencies are reaching out to the LGBT community. You can throw away those dusty copies of the secret gay spots to visit. The gay spots are everyone’s places now!!

Honeymoons and lovely Valentine’s Escape vacations have become a $12 billion industry in America. The historic Supreme Court overturning of DOMA in June 2013 coincided with simultaneous gay marriage victories in France, the United Kingdom, Uruguay, Brazil, and many other places; creating a boom of honeymoon spending among this pink dual-income, no-kids demographic.

There’s also been a sea change in where gays travel; gayowned hotels and traditional gay destinations are no longer the primary draw. Places like Wales, Uruguay, and Bora-Bora are all beautiful and rarefied and now also offer gay marriage and antidiscrimination laws that can put same-sex couples at ease. After all, LGBT honeymooners want to be able to hold hands or exchange a kiss on the beach like everyone else.

Rest assured many parts of the United States and rural parts of the world are not “LGBT friendly, but the growth of these places is a very encouraging sign. We of course live in one of the most LGBT friendly spots on earth-the Coachella Valley, but travel to others is

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essential for everyone.

Let’s begin with some major travel for you and your honey.

French Polynesia. This honeymoon favorite delivers, regardless of sexual orientation and gender identity, thanks to a winning tradition of soft white-sand beaches, and some of the world’s sexiest hotels.

At Le Méridien Bora Bora, overwater bungalows feature glass floors to reveal the marine life below while windows face Mount Pahia and Mount Otemanu, the island’s iconic post card perfect volcanoes.

Since its motherland France passed marriage equality in June 2013, French Polynesia has granted LGBT travelers full protection status; same-sex marriage is recognized and performed here.

Closer to home, the top romantic Valentine’s out of town spot is Santa Barbara. A wonderful coastal climate, great food, beautiful beaches and lower rates in the winter are all a draw. California helped make major legal strides at the federal level so one can celebrate here at home. Four driving hours away. Consider Santa Barbara, a wine lover’s paradise along the central coast and setting for El Encanto, an exquisitely renovated Orient-Express property atop the city’s Riviera Hill. Romantic Craftsman bungalows are fitted with fireplaces, fluffy beds, and private porches, while a full-service spa specializes in couples’ treatments like lemon-basil body scrubs.

More active types can use electric bikes to explore Santa Barbara’s

winery-packed Funk Zone, or arrange snorkeling in the nearby Channel Islands.

Leaving Paris out of a list like this world be sinful, so yes, Paris would be romance destination number one as it has been for centuries.

France passed gay marriage in 2013, and there’s no better place to celebrate than Gay Paree, where romance is taken as seriously as the food, wine, and art. If that weren’t enough, the thriving gay nightlife and fashion scene keep this city’s pulse positively electrically rainbow. After a night out, retreat to the intimate Hotel de Nell, in the Ninth Arrondissement on a quiet street near Montmartre. This features sexy Japanese tubs made of marble and Oregon myrtle.

Back to a driving escape, there is San Diego. Specifically, the Del Coronado Hotel is classic early 20th Century romance. A lovely room, long walks on the beach and San Diego’s lively party atmosphere is a perfect romantic getaway. For a moonlight dinner and a stroll with waterside views of San Diego’s lights, dine at the Bali Hai on Shelter Island. But make those reservations soon.

And even closer to home in the Mission Inn in Riverside. The Mission Inn Hotel & Spa has four restaurants on site. Room service is available.

This beautiful in absolutely oozes special memories. The rooms are delightful and the service is perfect. It is a very romantic spot.

Of course romance is enhanced by travel, and now that our LGBT community is far more comfortable in most locations than ever before in our history. take the plunge and travel out!!

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epicurean

Recipes for Romance

A little thought, A little imagination, and a lot of love

By Chef Andre Carthen

We all know that roses and chocolates have always symbolized romance. While traditional favorites are great for Birthdays and Christmas, Valentine’s Day is the perfect time for a little nontraditional imagination.

Here are a few ways to re-invent the art of Romance:

(http://www.organicbouquet.com/c_631/Kathy-IrelandDesigns/Gifts.html ) Food: Make it fun; give it a twist.

The most importance thing to remember is don’t pressure yourself! You don’t have to do it all and it doesn’t have to be prefect.

Flowers: All women love flowers, from one single perfect stem to a dozen.

And yes men like them too, although they won’t admit it. Instead of a dozen long stem roses, why not try smaller bunches of spring flowers.

(Think wedding bouquet, but smaller and all the same flower).

Tulips, gerberas, lilies, hyacinths and even roses make great bouquets.

These can be placed around the house, sent to the office or hand delivered.

If you have children, I know you’re thinking “romantic dinner at home, yeah right!”

Start by planning ahead. Feed the children a little earlier and get them settled for the evening. Call ahead to your favorite restaurant and order your favorites to go, and then create a romantic setting at home. Whether it’s a beautifully set table or a picnic on the living room floor, remember some small details can enhance the mood. Music and candlelight are a must. I like Sinatra, Barry White, Tony Bennett, and Diana Krall to name a few.

A great way to start the day is to place a single flower on the car seat of the person you love. This is sure to give them a warm fuzzy feeling all day. Place the flower the night before. In most places, it’s still cool enough for the flower to last until morning. Adding a small note will make it that much more special. Just remember to order early I suggest Organic Bouquet.

Now, if you want to splurge a little on your romantic dinner and make it really special, try a little thing I like to call Cater Waiter.

Again, your favorite restaurant, your favorite food, but this time you hire your favorite server. Talk about romance! Your own private waiter seeing to your every need all you do is choose the menu and the server will take care of the rest. From pick up to clean up. Your home,

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epicurean the office or anywhere your imagination leads you, you get to sit back and enjoy what’s sure to be a very romantic and pampering evening.

Looking for a special place for a little romance? Or interested in what some of the local chefs and designers think are sexy foods?

Our friends Tony and Mark at Trio / is offering a romance prixfixe Valentine’s Day Menu The Purple Room – Dinner and a show is on the menu Bernie’s – Lounge and Supper Club Celebrate with a special four course pre-fixe chefs’ menu from the fabulous Executive Chef Jason Moffitt The flavors of sexy: From Scott Robertson – Chef and Owner: New Leaf Catering / Caviar and Champagne / Chocolate / Oysters / Roasted Figs / Pomegranate / Expensive Olive Oil Chad Gardner – Executive Chef and Owner: Dash and a Handful Catering / Suggests something spicy – good way to heat things up. Also just the process of preparing food can be very sexy.

Christopher Kennedy – Designer: says he knows its cliché but he loves fresh oysters at the beach. A good steak is always the way to his heart. And, finally loves breakfast in bed – red velvet pancakes are a sure way to win him over.

As for me: I luv finger foods. Anything you can feed each other is always fun n sexy. Shrimp Cocktail / Grilled Asparagus wrapped with Pancetta / fondue / figs and honey / … I love watching people enjoy their food so the whole eating thing is sexy to me.

Sweet Endings – a tray of fresh sweet strawberries, melted chocolate, powdered sugar, and champagne are always a way to end the evening…in the bedroom!

Now that I’ve set the mood, the rest is up to you!

If you decide you want to cook something special, remember it doesn’t have to be complicated to be impressive. As with this menu.

Signature Cocktail – Chocolate Martini Strawberry/Spinach Salad Lasagna Roll-Ups (a twist on an old favorite; looks impressive without the fuss.)

Pears avec Chocolait (It’s easier than it sounds and the great thing is you can use different flavored chocolate.)

Chocolate Martini 2 ½ oz. vanilla Vodka

½ oz. Chocolate liqueur Mixing instructions: Combine ingredients in cocktail shaker with ice. Shake well and strain into chilled martini glass.

Enjoy Responsibly!

Pears avec Chocolait ¾-cup sugar 4 cups water Juice of 1 large orange 2 cinnamon sticks 4 cloves 2 tbsp. bandy 2 firm Anjou or Comice pears, stems left intact 4oz. unsweetened chocolate, broken into small piece.

2oz. semi-sweet chocolate, broken into small pieces or 1 (12oz.) bag semi-sweet chocolate chips ½ cup (1 stick) unsalted butter Fresh mint sprigs, for garnish In a large saucepan over medium heat, combine the sugar, water, and cook, stirring for, about 3 minutes, until the sugar has dissolved. Stir in the orange juice, cinnamon, cloves and brandy, simmer, covered, for 10 to 15 minutes.

Peel the pears and trim the bottoms so that they stand upright.

Place the pears in the syrup and poach until tender, 30 to 40 minutes, depending on the ripeness of the pears (test with a toothpick). Allow the pears to cool in the syrup, then chill thoroughly, preferably overnight.

Place both chocolates in the top of a double boiler set over simmering water. Add the butter and stir until melted and smooth.

Remove from the heat.

Remove the pears from the syrup and gently pat dry. Dip the pears into the melted chocolate and coat evenly, using a spoon if necessary. Lift the pears to drain off the excess chocolate. Arrange on a serving dish and garnish with mint. (The pears will keep in the refrigerator for up to 36 hours. Allow to come to room temperature before serving).

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Chef Andre Carthen a.k.a. the Fit Chef, is featured in Kathy Ireland’s book “Real Solutions for Busy Moms: Your Guide to Success and Sanity,” and Janet Jackson’s first book, NY Times #1 Best Seller “True You” where he contributed over 30 recipes for a healthy meal plan. To learn more http://kathyireland.com/entertaining/entertaining-about/

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From Inside The Boudoir Happiness and Beauty from the Inside Out

by Stephanie Brooke Smith

Your body is your temple, so they say. So why not worship at its altar? All of our bodies are beautiful in their own unique way-never forget that!

Now, my questions is: why should any of us waste even a moment of our precious and limited time worrying and obsessing about trying to change our bodies to conform to the superficial, social norm that is considered “physical beauty and attractiveness.”

The answer: we shouldn’t! Life is too short to waste even a moment not being your happiest self. It’s just like John Lennon’s story of one of his childhood memories: “When I was five years old, my mother always told me that happiness was the key to life. When I went to school, they asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up-I wrote down ‘happy.’ They told me I didn’t understand the assignment and I told them they didn’t understand life.” As a child, John Lennon knew what was most important in life. As adults, I am confident that we can learn the same valuable lesson and apply it to our own lives.

The best thing about being happy with yourself and being comfortable in your own skin is that it is up to you and unique to you as well. No two people will need the same things to make them happy with themselves. We each have to figure these things out for ourselves and implement them to the best of our abilities.

Being happy with our bodies can come about in a variety of different ways. Some of us go on one of the many fad diets that we have heard about, begin exercise routines, we change our hair, buy new clothes, or present ourselves in a different way to showcase our bodies in the best way we can.

According to the group of ladies that I am currently working with, the most popular ways that they promote their own positive body image are by wearing tight jeans that hug their curves, dressing nicer than average, styling their hair, and wearing makeup.

All of these are manipulations of our physical attributes, but have nothing to do with physical health; only what is considered to be “physical beauty” based on what mainstream society tells us every day. Interesting enough, a healthy diet and exercise routine were not part of the way these women thought to promote a positive body image for themselves. They connected diet and exercise to personal health rather than physical beauty.

Even though these are all ways to help us promote a positive image for ourselves and other women, it is important to remember

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that health has a lot to do with being happy with ourselves and the way we perceive our own bodies as being beautiful. When we feel great on the inside, it emanates through our skin and is then visible on the outside. We can literally shine from the inside out when we are healthy because health really is beauty.

And when we are healthy and feel beautiful, there is nothing that can hold us back from going after what will make us our happiest self. So, my beautiful ladies, are you ready to be happy?

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events Calendar Bella da Ball. Proceeds from this event will benefit AIDS Assistance Program. Those in attendance will view the oscars® preshow and awards presentation on special screens. tickets may be purchased in advance by visiting www.aidsassistance.org or by calling aaP at 760/325-8481. feb 13-16 annual Palm sPrIngs fIne art faIr The hottest show in February for fine art collectors, buyers and aficionados as well as the museum curator audience is the 3rd annual Palm springs art fair taking place february 13-16, 2014. a must see for collectors and fans of Contemporary art. a virtual pop-up museum of modern art valued at over $100 million dollars from over 60 international galleries will be presented at the exhibit hall at the Palm springs Convention Center. www.palmspringsfineartfair.com

feb 14 - Mar 1 the edge toP roCk. hard roCk hotel Palm sPrIngs audiences play voyeur to hits from lurhmann’s the great gatsby soundtrack, including lana del rey’s “young and Beautiful,” Jay-Z & kanye West’s “no Church in the Wild,” and fergie’s “a little Party never killed nobody,” as well as hits from the roarin’ 20’s Broadway production the Wild Party. shows start at 8pm. must be 21. tickets available at: theedgePalmsprings.com Visit www.hrhpalmsprings.com

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feb 16 Warhol’s World In song. musICal snaPshots from the 1960’s. heath gallery Palm sPrIngs Ca this is a great event for any man over 40 interested in recovering or maintaining his health, vigor and vitality. learn about key issues and advances in men’s health and meet the medical experts serving our Coachella Valley. this event is free and open to the community, so we encourage you to invite your friends and family! event is from 8:301:00 saturday Jan 18. for further info & to register by Jan 11 visit http://emc.org/ menshealthevent

Mar 2 hollyWood’s BIggest nIght – osCar nIght trIo restaurant. Palm sPrIngs Ca In celebration of the 86th annual academy awards, trIo restaurant in Palm springs will host their fifth annual “hollywood’s Biggest night” beginning at 4:30 pm, on sunday, march 2. the glittering evening will include the now signature ‘orange’ carpet arrivals, and a special greeting from dynamo host and local celebrity,

Mar 7 5th annual haute 4 helP fashIon shoW & auCtIon. mIssIon hIlls CC ranCh mIrage A fashionable charity event benefitting desert aIds Project’s 100 Women & Partners for life. live auction and runway fashion show with designs from top designers and retailers. for more info visit www.haute4help.org

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events Calendar SundayS “the Playgirls” at toucans tiki lounge featuring tommi rose. Performances 8, 10pm. these darling divas of drag really deliver with their very own brand of entertainment to packed houses. special guests appear weekly. dJ in the sound booth. every sunday Complete list of events www.toucanstikilounge.com

the PurPle room supper club, drinks and live music. It’s where Palm springs plays. great entertainment nightly and dinner specials. you never know whom you might see at the Purple room. for monthly schedule and info visit http://purpleroompalmsprings.com

osCar’s CafÉ & Bar you and your dog(s) are invited to join us every saturday and sunday from 7:30am - 2:00pm for a fun brunch on our always dog-friendly patio. oscar’s Cafe & Bar participates in my Perfect Pet’s “dine With your dog” program, offering fresh, whole, healthy 100% human-grade food for your dog while serving delicious human food for our pet parents! dog meals are offered free with a $2 per meal donation (which benefits local animal nonprofits) 7 days a week at oscar’s Cafe & Bar. make your Bow Wow Brunch reservations by calling oscar’s at (760) 325-1188.

Ps: Brunch is also available indoors for those without pets!

hunters nightclubs® Palm springs, Palm springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club, has been leading the way in full-out fun for 13 lucky years now! We enjoy having the desert’s most sought-after and friendly dJs, full-on themed events, and a staff that has it all without the attitude. and of course, we are proud to hold the longest happy hour in the entire Valley. remember: size matters.

Come by for our happy hour from 10am – 7pm. yes, that’s right: 9 hours long! for a list of all events and specials visit www.huntersnightclubs.com

art Walk. Back street art district , discover the Backstreet Art District, on the first Wednesday of every month, the coolest, hippest art destination in the desert. stroll through a dozen artist-owned galleries and working studios featuring exciting collections of original, contemporary art by nationally and internationally recognized artists including paintings, sculpture, photography, jewelry, ceramics as well as performing arts. art Walks are held the first Wednesday of every month during evening hour. www.backstreetartdistrict.com

Wang’s in the desert. the weekly Wang’s live entertainment series features the best in local and regional musical talents. guests can relax from cabaret and Broadway show performances to upbeat, jazzy showcases on the Zen Patio, with its beautiful stone outdoor fireplace, giant red Buddha statue and lush tropical surroundings. the sunday series is becoming the new performance showcase for weekends and holidays in downtown Palm springs. It’s the perfect, casual venue for great music, cool cocktails and of course, a fantastic crowd. for more information about Wang’s in the desert, visit www.wangsinthedesert.com tueSdayS Bella da Ball Cabaret Variety dinner revue at azul features a different show each week with a cast of male and female vocalists and drag personalities. the highly popular show is hosted and produced by Palm springs’ area social ambassador, Bella da Ball, and features music-comedysong-dance-costuming-headdresses-photo ops-door prizes-audience participation and more. the 95+ minute production features musical numbers ranging from show tunes to country to pop and everything in between. don’t miss the fun every tuesday at 7:30pm! no cover.

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EVENTS CALENDAR we are excited to continue to bring the fun of Elevation to Park City, Utah as well as Mammoth Lakes. www.utahgayski.com

Lake Tahoe aboard the Tahoe Queen.

Experience world-class skiing and nightly entertainment. www.laketahoewinterfest.com

FEB 13 - 17

Palm Springs International Bear Convergence Palm Springs, CA International Bear Convergence (IBC), destined to become the premier winter event for bears & admirers, debuts in Palm Springs, California, February 13-17, 2014. This desert oasis turns into a winter den during Presidents’ Day Weekend at the beautiful Renaissance Palm Springs Hotel for thousands of frisky, furry bears, their friends & their fans.

Visit www.ibc-ps.com

Mar 1 - 2

PrideFest 2014 Fort Lauderdale, Florida Pridefest (Pride South Florida) remains as the largest Pride Festival in the state of Florida with thousands of attendees and up to 250 vendors. It’s a two-day celebration at War Memorial, Fort Lauderdale. Pride is an opportunity to take a stand against oppression, and celebrate the strength and resolve of the LGBT community. www.pridesouthflorida.org

Mar 5 - 10

Winter Party Festival Miami, Florida The world’s biggest and best-loved celebrations for the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) community in one of the world’s hottest destinations, Miami Beach, Florida. Over 10,000 guests from around the world attend our annual six-day extravaganza featuring the most spectacular venues, the most unforgettable parties and receptions and the best international DJ talent. www.winterparty.com

mar 2 - 9 FEB 20 - 23

Elevation: Utah Park City, Utah Elevation Utah is the newest outpost of the wildly successful Elevation Ski Week brand.

For the past 11 years, Elevation Mammoth has taken place in Mammoth Lakes, California and has quickly grown to be the 3rd largest gay ski week in North America, bringing more than 2,500 people to the High Sierras each year. In 2014,

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WinterFest Gay and Lesbian Ski Week 2014 Lake Tahoe What is Creating Change? Only the pJoin the friendliest skiers from the United States and around the globe on Lake Tahoe’s scenic south shore! Skiers and non-skiers alike will enjoy the beauty and fun in Lake Tahoe. Plan your week of skiing and boarding or a fun filled weekend of hot casino action. Tickets are available for the PRIVATE Dinner/DJ Dance Cruise on

Mar 22 - 23

The 21st Original GLBT Expo New York City, NY #1 in Attendance #1 in Exhibitors #1 Advertising & Promotion #1 Expo 2014 is our 21st Anniversary. This is a huge milestone for the GLBT Community, the loyal sponsors/exhibitors/attendees that support the EXPO and your dedicated staff at The RDP Group. http://originalglbtexpo.com

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events Calendar packed with around 250,000 revellers.

Catalonians, french, english, Italians and germans all turn out for the sitges Carnival, dressed up to the nines and ready to party.

Jueves lardero (“fatty thursday”) marks the beginning of carnival with a gargantuan celebration of local dishes. there’s more to do than eat, though. the busiest days are sunday and tuesday, when the local carnival guilds parade down the rúa del extermini in decorated carriages, sporting some amazingly kitsch, razzle-dazzle outfits. www.gaysitgesguide.com

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antwerp leatHer pride antWerP, BelgIum during the Belgium leather Pride, several gay fetish parties and events will be held in antwerp, a city that is rapidly developing as one of europe’s hottest and most popular fetish destinations. www.leatherpride.be

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bear eSSentialS beartropoliS sydney australIa Bear essentials is an internationally recognised and respected bear festival organised and delivered by the harbour City Bears. It brings together the best of our local bear culture and offers it to the world in one of the best cities in the world, sydney. this is our 18th Bear essentials and in 2014 it’s going to be packed full of 18 amazing events over 10 days. We are bringing back all the festival favourites that everyone loves plus many more that you’re sure to enjoy. www.bearessentials.com.au

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Sydney Gay & leSbian Mardi GraS sydney, australIa sydney gay and lesbian mardi gras is one of australia’s most famous and well-loved events, bringing thousands of visitors to sydney to join in the celebrations. It captures the imagination of australia’s lgBtQI and mainstream communities, taking over the city for weeks on end, culminating in the worldfamous Parade: a colorful and dazzling night of pride, celebration and self-expression. www.mardigras.org.au

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SitGeS Carnival sItges sPaIn acknowledged by the straight and gay press as spain’s wildest party, the sitges Carnival entertains even the most demanding visitor.

Its most popular days see the streets of the fishing village cum popular gay resort

Jan 22 - 29

european Gay Ski week frenCh alPs this year marks the 6th amazing year of europe’s original and most popular gay Winter sports and music festival and we are returning for a 4th year to the ski resort of alpe d’huez. alpe d’huez is a big-league resort, with impressively extensive and varied slopes’. there are few single resorts to rival alpe d’huez. our guests come in all genders, shapes, sizes, ages, & nationalities representing a broad mix of people; so you’ll find introverts & extroverts ,dedicated skiers & boarders, novices & experts, party people & bookworms, blossoming youths & interesting elders, all mingling together in a friendly fun environment. We have a broad and varied program and all of our events are open to everyone. www.europeangayskiweek.com

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dine | drink | dance { Coachella Valley }

Bars and Night Clubs

Wang’s in the Desert 424 S Indian Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92262 Phone: (760) 325-WANG (9264) www.wangsinthedesert.com

Las Casuelas Terraza 222 S Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 325-2794 www.lascasuelas.com

Zin American Bistro 198 S Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 322-6300 www.pszin.com

Hunters Nightclub 302 East Arenas Road, Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-323-0700 www.huntersnightclubs.com

Nature’s Health Food & Cafe 555 S Sunrise Way Suite 301 Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 323-9487 www.natureshealthfoodcafe.com

LuLu California Bistro 200 S Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 327-5858 www.lulupalmsprings.com

Birba 622 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 327-5678 www.birbaps.com

Toucan’s Tiki Lounge 2100 North Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-416-7584 www.toucanstikilounge.com

Pomme Frite 256 S Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 778-3727 www.pomme-frite.com

Cheekys 622 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 327-7595 www.cheekysps.com

Rainbow Bar and Grill 216 South Indian Canyon Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-325-3989 www.rainbowbarngrill.com

Rio Azul Mexican Bar and Grill 350 S Indian Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 992-5641 www.rioazulpalmsprings.com

El Mirasol 140 E Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 323-0721 www.elmirasolrestaurants.com

Trio Restaurant 707 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA 92262 Phone: (760) 864-8746 www.triopalmsprings.com

Thai Smile Palm Springs 651 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 320-5503 www.thaismilepalmsprings.com

Hamburger Mary’s Bar & Grille 415 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 778-6279 www.hamburgermarysps.com

Studio ONE 11 Cocktail Lounge 67-555 East Palm Canyon Drive, Suite A103, Cat. City CA 92264 760.328.2900 www.Studio-One-11.com

Trio Restaurant 707 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 864-8746 www.triopalmsprings.com

Rick’s Restaurant 1973 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 416-0090 www.ricksrestaurant.biz

The Tool Shed 600 E. Sunny Dunes Road, Palm Springs, CA 92262 760.320.3299 www.toolshed-ps.com

The Tropicale 330 E Amado Road Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 866-1952 www.thetropicale.com

Pinocchio in the Desert 134 E. Tahquitz Canyon Way Palm Springs, CA 92262 760-322-3776 www.pinocchiops.com

Spurline Video Lounge 200 Indian Canyon Drive Palm Springs CA 92262 760-778-4326 www.spurline.com

Sherman’s Deli & Bakery 401 E Tahquitz Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 325-1199 www.shermansdeli.com Acqua Pazza / The River at Rancho Mirage 71800 Highway 111 Suite A167 Rancho Mirage, CA Phone: (760) 862-9800 www.acquapazzabistro.com Azul Restaurant 369 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 325-5533 www.azultapaslounge.com Casa de Frida 450 S Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 459-1681 www.casadefrida.com Copley’s on Palm Canyon 621 N Palm Canyon Drive Palm Springs, CA Phone: (760) 327-9555 www.copleyspalmsprings.com

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SATURDAY, MAY 3, 2014 The O’Donnell Golf Club Palm Springs Cocktails 5:30 pm Dinner 7:30 pm An abundance of bartenders, fabulous live & silent auctions, inspiring honorees, delectable cuisine, divine entertainment and dancing!

FEATURING* * SCHEDULED TO APPEAR

Linda Clifford “If My Friends Could See Me Now” France Joli “Come To Me” Evelyn Champagne King “Shame” Maxine Nightingale “Right Back Where We Started From” Pamala Stanley “Coming Out of Hiding” Anita Ward “Ring My Bell” Martha Wash “It’s Raining Men” Alfa Anderson Luci Martin Norma Jean Formerly of Chic “Good Times”

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