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CONTENTS SECTIONS MONEY ...................................16 HEALTH...................................24 EDUCATION.............................28 CULTURE ................................30

Features 2019: Year of Bridge Building .................................. 12 2019 Watch Night Initiative ..................................... 13

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dfree: Achieving Financial Freedom ......................... 16 Golden Krust Foundation Awards ............................. 17 NJBIC Leadership Conference .................................. 18 Congressmen Hakeem Jeffries: One to Watch .......... 19 Harlem Holiday Lights ............................................. 20 Ray Murphy Men’s Health Night ............................... 24 East NY Restoration 5K ........................................... 27

Publisher’s Desk .................................. 8 Johanna Wright’s Redirection .................................. 28 Guest Editorial ................................... 10 Hilliard Celebrates 35th Pastoral Anniversary ........... 30 Guest Editorial ................................... 14 Newark Clergy Prayer Breakfast ............................... 31 Fitness Doctor .................................... 25 Mastering Out-of-Office Responses .......................... 32 My View ............................................. 33 Amazing Grace at Audelco Awards ........................... 36 Gospel Train ....................................... 35 Shiloh AME Zion Honors Veterans ............................ 37 The Last Word .................................... 41 Frontiers International Connects Generations .......... 38 4

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Messiah Baptist Church, Bridgeport, CT Rev. James Logan, Pastor

New Hope Baptist Church, Metuchen, NJ Rev. Dr. Ronald L. Owens, Pastorr New Hope Baptist Church of Hackensack, Hackensack, NJ Rev. Kevin Jones, Interim Pastor

St. John Baptist Church, Camden, NJ Rev. Dr. Silas M. Townsend, Pastor St. John B.C., Scotch Plains, NJ Rev. Shawn T. Wallace, Pastor St. Luke Baptist Church of Harlem, NY Rev. Dr. Johnnie McCann, Pastor St Luke B.C., Paterson, NJ Rev. Kenneth D.R. Clayton, Pastor St. Mark Missionary B.C., Jamaica, NY Rev. Owen E. Williams, Pastor St. Matthew AME Church, Orange, NJ Rev. Melvin E. Wilson, Pastor St. Paul’s B.C., Montclair, NJ Rev. Dr. Bernadette Glover, Pastor St. Paul Baptist Church, Red Bank, NJ Rev. Alexander Brown, Pastor St. Paul Community B.C., Brooklyn, NY Rev. David K. Brawley, Pastor

New Jerusalem Worship Center, Jamaica, NY Rev. Dr. Calvin Rice, Senior Pastor

The New Hope B.C., Newark, NJ Rev. Joe Carter, Senior Pastor

New Life Cathedral, Mt. Holly, NJ Rev. Eric Wallace, Pastor

Union Baptist Temple,, Bridgeton, NJ Rev. Albert L. Morgan, Pastor

North Selton AME Church, Piscataway, NJ Rev. Dr. Kenneth L. Saunders, Pastor

United Fellowship B.C., Asbury Park, NJ Rev. James H. Brown, Sr., Pastor

Paradise B. C., Newark, NJ Rev. Jethro James, Pastor Park Ave Christian Disciples of Christ, East Orange, NJ Rev. Harriet Wallace, Pastor

Walker Memorial B.C. Bronx, NY Rev. Dr. J. Albert Bush Sr., Pastor Welcome Baptist Church, Newark, NJ Rev. Dr. Elijah C. Williams, Pastor World Gospel Music Assoc., Newark, NJ Dr. Albert Lewis, Founder

“The Positive Community magazine does outstanding work in promoting the good works of the Black Church. All churches

support the only one and businesses should subscribe to and advertise in The Positive Community. Please www.thepositivecommunity.com December 2018 this Themagazine, Positive Community 7 that features good news about the black community.”—Rev. Buster Soaries, General Baptist Revival, May 20, 2010

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The Great Cultural Narrative: A STORY ABOUT THE FUTURE!

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few days ago, while parking my car in front of a building in Orange NJ, a lady who was parked behind us called out and asked, “Did Springfield Acura place an ad in your magazine yet?” I answered, “As a matter of fact they did reach out to us last week.

We’re negotiating a monthly advertising schedule. ” She explained, “I just purchased this car and I told the manager that they should be advertising in The Positive Community.” . . . And for that, my friend, we are most grateful. Yes, advocacy is the key; advocacy works!

With much humility, editor Jean Nash Wells, myself and The Positive Community family express sincere thanks to you—our readers, the faith institutions and our advertisers for their advocacy. Through God’s grace and mercy; your encouragement, support and goodwill, TPC will enter into its 20th year of publishing “Good News from The Church and Community” as of September, 2019. Our magazine’s editorial policy advocates education, health; economic and business development; cultural integrity and community progress. Quality relationships and quality service matter.

We must all continue to speak up for and on behalf of our own collective interests and community goals. As I see it, advocacy is really about the business of the future!

The Beloved Community

If you would, just ponder the following thought for a moment . . . Imagine if you could through the mind’s eye; try to capture a vision of your children’s children and that of their children’s grandchildren. Imagine the ideal future, far beyond our years; a future of prosperity, health, happiness, peace and goodwill for our descendents, whom we’ll never know; who will only think of us as ancestors. Imagine a generation with a proud heritage; demonstrating an ever-present hunger for truth, and an unquenchable thirst for righteousness. This is a story about the future—the beloved community!

And together we can achieve this vision of real and lasting intellectual, creative and social progress. But we must deal with the realities of our present times.

Today we find ourselves in the midst of a looming crisis in spiritually and culture in this country, particularly

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within the African American ethnic community. Just look at the image of our young people in popular media. In so many ways we have allowed ourselves to be portrayed to the world as backward, soulless, antisocial and immoral. This is not who we are—a false narrative!

A Gift that Keeps On Giving!

In spirit and in truth, we are the people of the Cultural Narrative; the people of God. First written in 2012, to commemorate the 150th anniversary of The Great Emancipation, The Cultural Narrative is the story of our American freedom journey condensed into just 281 words. Ideally, every forward-thinking individual, family, school and institution of faith should own or possess this important historical document—a positive, life-affirming response to today’s negative trends in popular music and culture!

For best results, encourage young people to read it before adults or their church congregation. The Cultural Narrative is designed to be read out loud. It must be spoken; it must be heard. Parents, grandparents and family members are to see to it that our children learn and speak the Cultural Narrative often. Speak it in the home, in classrooms, in churches and other houses of worship; at family reunions; back yard barbeques; community and social events, weddings, etc.

Available now, a 19 x 25 inch poster of the Cultural Narrative. It’s yours to own for just $10.00; two for $15.00. The investment will pay dividends one thousand fold when you teach it to a young child and in return, they speak it back to you and to others. It’s a gift that keeps on giving!

Frame this poster and proudly display it on the walls of your home, place of business, the classroom, in your houses of worship; in barbershops and beauty salons.

For just $10.00, you too will become a valued contributor to the story about our future!

Call us today, 973-233-9200 or email, Adrian@thepositivecommunity.com or visit our website, thepositivecommunity.com. Bulk deliveries in time for Watch Night service, MLK Observances and for Black History Month The very best to all in 2019! Happy New Year! www.thepositivecommunity.com

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The African American Cultural Narrative

frican Americans are a unique people with a peculiar history in this land. Brought to these shores in chains from Africa in the early 1600s, our people toiled and suffered as captives in brutal bondage for a quarter of a millennium (250 years).

On January 1, 1863, two years into the Civil War, the Emancipation Proclamation, signed by President Abraham Lincoln, became law, signaling an end to slavery. On that day, the African American community of the United States of America was born.

One hundred years later, in August, 1963 at the height of the Civil Rights Movement, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. stood in front of the Lincoln Memorial, as he led hundreds of thousands to a March on Washington, seeking an end to discrimination and 90 years of Jim Crow segregation in the South. It was a demand for full and equal citizen’s rights for the people in what has been called “the Second Emancipation.”

Forty years after Martin Luther King’s tragic assassination in 1968, America elects its first black president, the Honorable Barack Obama (2008).

In the 100 years between the first and second emancipation, in the midst of bitter persecution, humiliation, lynching; enduring the denial of basic human rights, the resiliency of the African American spirit continued to shine brightly in religion, business, education, medicine, invention, sports, and in the creative arts—music, fashion, dance, language, literature, and theater. Indeed, original American art forms and a popular culture which has become the envy of the world were founded upon the souls of a forlorn people! And that is our story—the Truth, Beauty and Goodness of a loving and gifted race—revealed!

An Extraordinary History Ours is an extraordinary history of trial, tribulation, and triumph that we must never, ever forget! This is the very story we must tell our children and ever be remembered for all future generations. We the people, descendants of the Great Emancipation must tell our story and sing our greatest songs to each other and to the entire world! We must remind ourselves over and over again of the noble struggle, human dignity, sacrifices and wisdom of our torch-bearing forefathers; of our goodly heritage, our divine inheritance; our great music legacy—Positive Music Matters!

This is our story—the cultural narrative— a new language of freedom; a springboard toward a great and prosperous future; a spiritually enlightened ideal. A vision of hope, opportunity, and progress; liberty and happiness; health and wholeness—peace and goodwill!

WE’VE COME THIS FAR BY FAITH…! —Adrian A. Council, Sr.

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2019: Year of Bridge-Building She steadfastly espouses her conviction that every life matters to God, and should matter to us!

But how can we connect with each other without bridges to span the great social divide?

Pastor Invites Partners in Accepting NAACP Award

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he weather was rainy, somewhat dreary and unpleasant on Friday, November 2, 2018. Actually, it felt much like the prevailing mood of the country as we approached the midterm elections. This unfavorable social climate has been largely created by divisive forces that use political differences to defend personal prejudices and promote self-serving agendas. In contrast, there was an inviting warmth and enthusiastic sense of camaraderie inside the Hanover Manor in East Hanover, New Jersey. Over 250 guests were gathered to celebrate the 102nd Thurgood Marshall Freedom Fund Dinner and Awards Ceremony sponsored by the Montclair Chapter of the NAACP. Among them were Montclair Mayor Robert Jackson, Councilwoman Dr. Renee Baskerville, and Essex County Freeholder President Brendan Gill. The evening was appropriately themed “Face the Hate: Vote,” an urging to responsible civic action that was elaborated on by Imani R. Oakley, Esq., the keynote speaker.

Rev. Dr. Bernadette Glover, senior pastor of St. Paul Baptist Church, was honored with the esteemed Rev. Benjamin J. Hooks Religious Affairs Award. In the tradition established by Dr. Hooks and in keeping with the purpose of the NAACP, this award acknowledges leaders from the community of faith who seek to promote social justice.

Dr. Glover expressed her sincere appreciation for the award, and commended the organization for continuing its work in fighting for political, social, educational, and economic equality over these many years. Hopefully what resonated most with the diverse group of church and community representatives was Dr. Glover’s call to bridge-building in the current environment of cultural and moral erosion. This invitation was particularly poignant when considered in the context that Dr. Glover has been a longtime and ardent ambassador in this

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arena. She steadfastly espouses her conviction that every life matters to God, and should matter to us! But how can we connect with each other without bridges to span the great social divide?

Since assuming pastoral leadership at St Paul, Dr. Glover has often noted the commendable characteristic of the community to unite around causes. As both a pastor and a keen student of sociology, she has observed how when something affects its members, the community unquestioningly comes together to offer support. This laudable feature is recognized as a great potential for forming alliances to counteract the negative influences creating ever-widening chasms in our society. Personal bridge-building activities have included active participation in and encouragement of organizations such as the inter-denominational Montclair African American Clergy Association (MAACA), and partnering with similarly concerned clergy and churches for worship and special services. Operation Just Hope was formed as a ministry of St. Paul with the vision to serve as a liaison with elected officials and other community leaders. Several forums have been sponsored for the purpose of sharing issues and information, as well as fostering accountability.

This urgent call for bridge-builders emphasizes the reality that we cannot wait for the process to occur at the national level; there are obvious obstacles. We also cannot spend more valuable time bemoaning the situation while the problem is exacerbated on an almost daily basis. Therefore, the call to action is timely and must be taken seriously. As we approach the new year, this seems the ideal time to pick up the pace under the direction of Almighty God, with whom all things are possible. We can answer the call by making 2019 a year of bridge-building; committing to a task bigger than each individual, but attainable by working together, guided by God. www.thepositivecommunity.com

Comments on the 2019 Watch Night Initiative and the Great Emancipation

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s we head toward “Watch Night 2019.” It is time to take off the spiritual shackles that have kept us in bondage for so long. The best prayer for me came from our prophet of freedom Fredrick Douglass when he proclaimed, “I prayed for freedom but it was not until the prayers hit my feet did my prayer get answered!”

My prayer for 2019 is that your prayers hit your hands, feet, and legs so that you can be free indeed! God Bless!

Rev. Dr. Nigel Pearce, pastor Grace Congregational Church of Harlem, UCC

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am a member and Associate Minister of the Community Baptist Church in Englewood, NJ. I also serve as the Artistic Director for New Jersey’s own, Jubilation Choir. I don't think many understand the significance of Watch Night, especially the 21st century individual. The Emancipation Proclamation provided written freedom to those enslaved at midnight. I reiterate “written freedom” because it is necessary to change laws. This is what makes voting so important. Marching, debating and protesting is important, but unless unjust laws are changed and properly enforced, it is all for mute. I pray we will celebrate the coming of every new year with this in mind!

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e gather at Watch Night service for spiritual and traditional reasons. Entering and welcoming the New Year on our knees is a way we’re showing God we are thankful for Him bringing us through the past year and trusting Him to bring us through the New Year! Praising God together, as a church family, unites us! Traditionally we honor our ancestors, who watched through the night in 1862 while they waited for the news of Emancipation Proclamation issued on January 1st, 1863! The traditional meal will be cooked by most. Black-Eyed Peas will include some part of the pig, such as a ham bone, pig's feet, or hog jowl. When it comes to the greens, the most common choices are collard, turnip, or mustard greens. This tradition will live on in our culture.

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atch Night Service being held on December 31st of each year has a long history for African Americans. This history is a rich part of African American tradition! The first African American (black) Watch Night church service is believed to have happened during the end of 1862 when African Americans (blacks) came together in "jubilees" to await the Emancipation Proclamation that was to be signed by President Abraham Lincoln on January 1, 1863.

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atch Night service in the African American tradition began as vigils centered around the precious gift of freedom. Historically it was about freedom from the slave master’s custom of disrupting the black family by selling slaves on New Year’s day to settle business accounts. In 1862, the December 31st service became about the eager anticipation of January 1, 1863, which was the day that emancipation of black slaves became law.

The services took place long before the gatherings of December 31, 1862, which was called “Freedom’s Eve.” On that night, African Americans gathered in churches and homes around the country, eagerly awaiting news that the Emancipation Proclamation would actually become law. At the stroke of midnight, all enslaved people in the Confederate States were declared legally free. The news was received with prayers, shouts, and songs of joy as people fell to their knees and thanked God. Rev. Dr. Cornell Edmonds Church of the Covenant, New York City

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neWark Public lecture Guest Lecturer: Dr. Rudy Crew

By Rev. Douglas Bendall, Ph.D., Founder and President The Newark School of Theology; Vicar, St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, Newark 1995–2006

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he Positive Community and the Newark School of Theology invite you to a public lecture on Education, Spirituality, and Post-secondary Attainment on January 16, 2019, at the Newark Public Library on Washington Street. The guest speaker is Dr. Rudy Crew, president of Medgar Evers College, Brooklyn, New York, and former chancellor of the New York City Public Schools. The lecture will be followed by a “fireside chat” with Dr. Marion Bolden, former superintendent of Newark Public Schools; Marcia Wilson Brown, vice chancellor of External and Governmental Relations at Rutgers University Newark; and Dr. Crew.

The topic for discussion is a weighty one as I believe it bears upon the future of the City of Newark. Many of us with roots in Newark believe God is seeking to bless our city. Evidence of this is the rapid development we have seen in Newark in recent decades. The Newark I came to in January 1995 still bore the marks of the riots of 1967. However, with the growth of non-profit organizations; churches reaching out into the community; improved political leadership; significant economic growth; and advancements in cultural life such as NJPAC, the Prudential Center, and restoration of our parks and other public facilities, Newark has been transformed. Newark pushes forward.

Dr. Crew will speak about the keys for success in creating greater prosperity and higher quality of life for our children and ourselves. Education is a gateway to future prosperity and provides us with knowledge and critical skills required to respond to opportunities that lie about us. Knowledge enables us to take better advantage of the resources we possess. A free mind allows us to see our worth and recognize the talents that lie dormant within us. Education provides us the means to develop our intelligence and acquire greater knowledge.

There can be no successful education without the recognition that we are spiritual beings. By spiritual, I do not mean an exclusive commitment to any one particular spiritual tradition.

Our experience of membership in an emerging global civilization and our experience of the diversity of people we meet in daily life show us there are many ways of being spiritual. Spirituality is concerned with the question of what sort of person I am meant to be. It is about how we live, talk, and walk when we are most free to be our true selves. Developing spiritually requires self-study and study of the lives of others who are persons of

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spiritual attainment. Every culture and discipline has its saints; we do well to study them.

I find it strange that in much of our present culture we do not generally recognize the critical importance of education in the development of our spiritual lives. In older civilizations, the development of one’s spiritual life was at the center and the final goal of higher education. People in previous centuries took for granted that self-awareness, morality, maturity, and wisdom are the fruits of a long process of developing these gifts that lay dormant within us when we were children. Older cultures recognized that to become fully human, to become the best of what we can be, represents the highest of human achievements. Previous generations knew that integrity, decency, kindness, and other character traits cannot be taken for granted. These considerations show that exclusive emphasis upon what some now call STEM education betrays the very meaning of education. To be educated means to bring out the latent skills and intelligence within each one of us. The root meaning of “to educate” is to lead out [e-ducare]. This is the exact opposite of “to pour in,” which is the way many present educators understand this critical human activity.

And there is post–secondary education. There are many adults who are obviously gifted but lack opportunity and means to complete their college education. The reasons for this are many; and the reader will surely know many of them.

But what is not always seen are the opportunities that can be created to offer people the means to complete their college education as mature adults. The way forward is to realize we can promote post-secondary achievement by utilizing resources already existing in Newark. If we care, we can develop ways and means by which every person who wishes to earn an undergraduate degree can do so. Relying upon the do-it-yourself spirit that has lifted Newark out of depression and through the power of collaboration, we can create a talent hub whose mission is to increase college-level attainment among residents of every background.

These are the issues we will discuss on January 16 with the help of Dr. Crew, Dr. Bolden, and Vice Chancellor. Brown.

Join us in this important discussion at the Newark Public Library.

Admission is free. Reservations are required. Email to: rsvp@thepositivecommunity.com. www.thepositivecommunity.com

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Financial Freedom: dfree®Initiative Shows Hundreds How to Achieve It

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he dfree® National Homecoming conference– packed full of education, knowledge, enlightenment, encouragement, entertainment and a new way of thinking– took place over four days (10/25-10/28)at First Baptist Church of Lincoln Gardens in Somerset, New Jersey. The event was the sixth conference hosted

by Rev. Deforest Soaries for his dfree Financial Freedom Movement, the faith-based initiative he spearheads to help stem an epidemic of overspending, particularly in the African-American community. dfree® has grown into a movement that gives participants the: ability to handle their own financial responsibilities; willingness to help others do the same; and, capacity to leave assets for future generations.

Rev. Dr. Deforest “Buster” Soaries, Jr., senior pastor, First Baptist Church of Lincoln Gardens

The primary goal of the conference was to help attendees progress to the next level of financial freedom. Presentations by experts: Lynnette “The Money Coach” Khalfani-Cox, Stacey Tisdale, Sheri Riley, and Prudential’s Dorinda Walker, helped conference goers understand how decisions on banking credit and real estate are reached.

Leon Ellis

However, the conference was not all dollars and cents.

The halftime show on Friday, 10/26 featured an inspiring gospel concert and an awards presentation recognizing those who have created financial freedom wins including chapters of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority. The concert featured award-winning gospel artists Bishop Hezekiah Walker & The Love Fellowship Choir and Kierra Sheard.

Rapper, actor, and model Diggy Simmons stopped by the dfree® Young Money Building Billionaires LIVE event to speak to nearly 1,000 high school students about legacy, entrepreneurship, and money management.

Faith & Love Fuel His Vision

Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Incorporated

Bishop Hezekiah Walker & The Love Fellowship Choir

By Glenda Cadogan Gospel artist Kierra “Kiki” Sheared

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Mavis & Ephram Hawthorne Golden Krust Foundation Excellence Awards Gala L–R: Susan L. Taylor and Terri Williams

L–R: Golden Krust VP Bakery Operations Leroy Hawthorne with honorees Dr. Una S.T. Clarke and Pasquale Russo

L–R: Golden Krust Corporate Counsel Atty. Daren H. Hawthorne; TPC Adrian Council, Jr.; Omar Hawthorne, director of franchising; and Haywood Hawthorne, vice president of Manufacturing

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estled on the Long Island Sound in New Rochelle, NY, the Greentree Country Club was the venue for the Mavis and Ephraim Hawthorne Golden Krust Foundation 13th Annual Excellence Awards Gala on October 26th. The Foundation is a community-based organization that mobilizes people, agencies, and resources to change lives through education and community programs.

Established in 2005, the foundation honors the late Mavis and Ephraim Hawthorne, who, as parents, were the inspiration for the Golden Krust family business. The foundation provides support in education–especially regarding the problem of college dropout rates among minority students–through scholarships, mentorships, and internships.

In keeping true to its mission, the Foundation has established endowment programs at Bronx Community College (BCC), Bronx, NY and the University of the West Indies, Jamaica. Both institutions have received scholarship grants, which provide funds to outstanding students in need of financial support. To date, the foundation has awarded over three hundred scholarships. — TPC Staff

L–R: Noel Spencer, Hon. Una S.T. Clarke, Omar Hawthorne, U.S. Rep. Yvette D. Clarke, and James Haynes www.thepositivecommunity.com

The following men and women received awards for excellence not only in their professions but also in their service to their communities.

Innovative Leader Award: Nicole Perkins, assistant principal, PS 294; Champion of Education Award: Dr. Noel Leo Erskine, professor of Theology and Ethics; Golden Krust Champion Award: Hon. Dr. Una S.T. Clarke; Distinguished Community Service Award: Pasquale Russo, president Chef’s Choice; and Humanitarian: Dr. Robert North, DDS, chair of Democracy Prep, NY.

L–R: Municipal Credit Union Board of Directors Chair James Durrah; his wife, Rev. Dr. Valerie Durrah, CEO Neighborhood Technical Assistance Clinic; with Dr. Thomas A. Isekenegbe, Bronx Community College president

L–R: Foundation Secretary Herma Hawthorne; Dr. Patricia E.Miller; Honoree Dr. Robert North, DDS; Vice Chair and Treasurer Lorraine Hawthorne-Morrison; with board members Dr. Desrene Freeman and Tanika Campbell

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NJBIC State Conference Chair Reva Foster salutes New Jersey’s appointed black officials

Rooted in Our Past: Building A Landscape for the Future

Tara Dowdell, founder and president Tara Dowdell Group (center) with Paterson’s Eastside Rosa Parks High School students Photos: Herman Graves

New Jersey Black Issues Convention’s 36th Annual Leadership Conference

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he New Jersey Black Issues Convention (NJBIC) 36th Annual Black Leadership Conference, a statewide forum, attracted over 700 community leaders, youth, seniors, and activists October 4 -5, 2018 at the New Jersey Institute of Technology in Newark, New Jersey. Speakers from public, private, non-profit, and education sectors contributed to the theme “Rooted in Our Past: Building a Landscape for the Future” by presenting the most current information on numerous major topics affecting the black community, according to Executive Director Lanisha MakleRidley. Forums and seminars on both days focused on four conference tracks: Economic Development/AntiPoverty, Criminal Justice Reform, Education, Health & Environment; and Hot Topics.

Newark Mayor Ras J. Baraka and NJIT President Dr. Joel Bloom welcomed seniors and attendees to Newark at the opening plenary. Governor Phil Murphy outlined his NJ strategic objectives for a more diverse workforce and increased opportunities for black vendors. Luncheon keynote speaker, Rev. Timothy Levi AdkinsJones, pastor, Bethany Baptist Church in Newark, delivered a stirring message. The NJBIC Community Change Awards ceremony honored: Tony Howell, NJIT Educational Opportunity Program; Vivian Cox Fraser, president and CEO of Essex County Urban League; Rev. Dr. Forrest Pritchett,

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Rev. Timothy Levi Adkins-Jones, pastor, Bethany Baptist Church, Newark, NJ

L–R: Jerome Harris (emcee) and featured speaker Lt. Governor Sheila Oliver

L–R: NJIT President Joel Bloom, NJ Governor Phil Murphy, and NJ Senator Ron Rice

Program Director, Martin Luther King Jr. Leadership Program at Seton Hall University; and dfree Financial Freedom Movement.

On Day-2, over 250 students representing statewide high schools were welcomed to the Youth Symposium by John Smith, NJBIC Treasurer; Angela Garretson representing NJIT; Brenda Lee, NJBIC Corresponding Secretary and educator; and Senator Ron Rice.

U.S. Senate (Rep) candidate Bob Hugin offered remarks, as did Senator Bob Menendez via video. Political Commentator Tara Dowdell delivered an empowering luncheon keynote speech, and an appearance by the GEICO gecko was a special treat.

Chairman Emeritus Jerome C. Harris presented an update on the United Black Agenda and emceed the NJBIC chair reception. Lt. Gov. Sheila Oliver, an NJBIC member, offered remarks and encouraged those in high government positions to not forget to advocate for black issues. Among those in attendance were NJ Governor Phil

Honorees: L–R: Barry Rochester accepted on behalf of Tony Howell, Executive Director, Education Opportunity Program at NJIT; Vivian Cox-Fraser, president and CEO, Urban League of Essex County; Tamika Stembridge, executive director, DFree Financial Movement, and Rev. Dr. Forrest Pritchard, program director, MLK Leadership Program at Seton Hall University

Murphy, Secretary of State Tahesha Way, Commissioner of Education Dr. Lamont Repollet, Civil Service Commission Chair Deidre Webster-Cobb, and numerous black elected officials.

The NJBIC state conference chair is Reva Foster, conference director is Clyde C. Allen of Allen and Partners, Inc. For more information on the New Jersey Black Issues Convention contact Lanisha Makle-Ridley at 973-824-7463, or visit www.njbic.org. — TPC Staff www.thepositivecommunity.com

Congressman Hakeem Jeffries: One to Watch

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akeem Jeffries, the 48-yearold Brooklynite who won his third term as U.S. Representative for the Eighth Congressional District of New York, an area that encompasses large parts of Brooklyn and a section of Queens, seems to be on a fast track in congressional leadership. He has already been elected chair of the House Democratic caucus and is seen by savvy observers as having potential to go higher, perhaps to speaker of the house, a position not ever held by a black person, and beyond. The likelihood of his becoming house speaker has increased since House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi has agreed to limit her pending speakership to a maximum of two more terms (4 years) in order

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to win the support of five members who otherwise opposed her bid.

Pelosi is sure to maintain the position according Washington insiders.

In October of this year, Jeffries, along with Rep. Yvette Clarke (who represents Brooklyn's Ninth Congressional District), and several other elected officials introduced legislation that would award Rep Shirley Chisholm the congressional gold medal — the highest honor that can be conferred by the House of Representatives. Fifty years ago (1968), Chisholm became the first African American woman elected to Congress. She served seven terms (1969 to 1983), representing Brooklyn’s 12th congressional district. In 1972 she sought the Democratic nomination for the presi-

dency of the United States, the first major party black candidate to do so.

“The election of Shirley Chisholm was an incredibly important election for our community, for our city, for the Congress and for our country,” said Jeffries.

It looks like the election of Hakeem Jeffries will have similar effects. We believe he is headed for great things. ­—JNW

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Festive Lights Shine Bright on 125 Harlem’s Busiest Street Welcomes Holiday Shoppers

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arlem Holiday Lights 2018, produced and presented by the 125th Street Business Improvement District in conjunction with its partners Manhattan Community Board #9 and #10, brought 125th Street to life on Monday, November 19th. The extravaganza included: the TD Bank Community Stage with local performers, Marvel comic characters Spider-Man and Captain America, a Children's Village, Manhattan Borough President Gale Brewer VIP Reception, three Health Villages produced by Healthfirst, the parade of lights featuring lighted floats and vehicles, and a host of activities and promotions by 125th Street businesses. Dapper Dan served as the Grand Marshall.

Assemblywoman Inez Dickens, Iesha Sekou, Empire State Development Corporation, NYC Slingshots and Slingkingz, and others participated in the Lighted Parade. Barbara Askins, president and CEO of the 125th Street BID said special recognition goes to NYC Police Departments 26th and 28th precincts, Cynthia Holiday, Angela Rooks, Harriett Rosebud, Rema Webb, and the Harlem Light It Up Committee for their participation and support.

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Newark Beth Israel Medical Center and Children’s Hospital of New Jersey:

Among the best in the US Nationally recognized for patient safety and quality.

Continuing a tradition of delivering health care excellence, Newark Beth Israel Medical Center and Children's Hospital of New Jersey earned an A grade for patient safety and quality from The Leapfrog Group for Fall 2018.

We have achieved the highest national standard for the quality and safety of the care that we provide, and we are grateful to the patients and families who choose Newark Beth Israel Medical Center and Children's Hospital of New Jersey for their health care. We remain committed to putting our patients first.

Congratulations to the medical staff, employees and volunteers at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center and Children's Hospital of New Jersey on this remarkable achievement.

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Newark Beth Israel Medical Center (NBI), a RWJBarnabas Health facility has been named to the national list of Top Teaching Hospitals by the Leapfrog Group.

NBI is one of only 53 hospitals to earn this coveted national distinction for demonstrating an extraordinary commitment to delivering safe, high quality patient care.

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Ray Murphy Men’s Health & Wellness Night

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very year, Newark Beth Israel Medical Center hosts the Ray Murphy Men’s Health & Wellness Night to honor Ray Murphy, a dedicated employee who battled cancer for nearly 20 years. The free event, which was held this year at Mayfair Farms in West Orange on November 12th, empowers men to become active participants in their healthcare. Attendees have an opportunity to talk with expert physicians and later

L–R: Richard Terry, George Martin, and Darrell K. Terry, Sr., president and CEO of NBIMC and CHoNJ

enjoy a fun evening of Monday Night Football with friends and hospital staff.

George Martin,1986 New York Giants captain and Super Bowl XXI champion served as event moderator.

The event featured many of the screenings suggested by Anthony Isedeh, MD, a specialist in internal medicine at Newark BethIsrael Medical Center and a frequent panelist at the annual Men’s Health & Wellness Night event.

Photos: Karen Waters

ALL MEN SHOULD: Get screened for obesity and, if needed, get counseling and behavioral interventions to promote sustained weight loss.

AT 18: Get hypertension screening.

AT 35: Start getting blood cholesterol levels checked annually.

The Medical Staff at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center L-R: Patricia Williams Bennett, DPM, Podiatry; Omar Bey, MD, FCCP, Critical Care/Pulmonology; Anthony Isedeh, MD, Internal Medicine; Steven Levenbrook, DDS, Dentistry; Sergio Waxman, MD, MBA, Cardiology; and Domenico Savatta, MD, FACS, Urology

AT 45: Schedule first screening for colorectal (colon or rectal) cancer with a colonoscopy; if you have a positive family history, screening can start earlier.

L–R: Health Care Consultant, Keith DeCosta; Legislative Dir. of Economic/Housing Dev. City of Newark, Cecil L Crump; Director, RWJ Barnabaas Health Diversity and Inclusion Atiya Jaha-Rashidi, RN and Rutgers NJMS COO, Walter L. Douglas, Jr.

At 55: Begin annual screening for lung cancer between the ages of 55 to 80 if any of these apply: You have a 30 pack/ year smoking history (e.g., smoked one pack/day for 30 years or two packs/day for 15 years), you smoke now or you have quit within the past 15 years.

AT 53 AND OLDER: If born between 1945 and 1965, get a blood test to screen for hepatitis C

ALL MEN 65 OR YOUNGER: Regardless of perceived risks, get screened yearly for HIV. BETWEEN 65 AND 75: If you have ever smoked tobacco, get an ultrasound to screen for abdominal aortic aneurysm.

AT 70: Get a bone mineral density test for osteoporosis (Also recommended for men 50 to 69 years who have additional risk factors; check with your doctor.)

L–R: George Martin, Marilyn Harris V.P. Community Relations (NBIMC); Walter McLaurin (NBIMC), Lisa Crapps, manager Community Affairs (NBIMC) and attendee Kyle Abercrombie

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KAHLIL CARMICHAEL THE FITNESS DOCTOR

Kahlil Carmichael MAPCC, MDIV, CPT is the pastor of Live Well Church, in Somerset, New Jersey.

He is a fitness specialist at The Fitness Doctor, a fitness and wellness consulting company; and the author of 50 Tips for a Better You. He is a contributor to Guideposts magazine. His first publication, Living Longer Living Better, is available now. Go to www.livewellchurch.org for more information.

A Season for Change

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t’s that time of year again. That time of year when we celebrate the advent of Christ as well as the Christmas holiday. I love this time of year. Gift giving, shopping, Christmas tree decorating, and time shared with loved ones make the Christmas season the most wonderful time of the year for me and my family.

But, I must admit, some things have changed. People now do a lot of their holiday shopping online as opposed to going to the malls and outlets. There is also a popular new trend among the hip and fashionable which allows for the purchase of red or black, super skinny Christmas trees.

That’s right!! Green Christmas trees are now old-fashioned and uncool. Not in the Carmichael household. As for me and my house, we will have the largest, live, green Christmas tree we can find (and fit in our home).

It’s difficult to admit, but the holidays are different. C. S. Lewis said, “Isn’t it funny how day by day nothing changes, but when you look back everything is different?” It’s tough when we experience the difference or deviation from what we consider familiar. But in most instances, although change is difficult, change is necessary; especially when something isn’t working. My thoughts are: if it isn’t broke don’t fix it; but if it’s not working, it’s time to make some changes.

Well my friend, it’s time to make a change. This change is not external. You don’t need to switch to another gym or new, exciting eating plan. Nor do you need some fancy new green, magic, fitness juice. The change I’m asking you to consider is internal. You need to change your thinking.

Norman Vincent Peale said, “Change your thoughts and you change your world.” In 2019, change the way you think about consistent exercise and healthy eating. How do you do that? I am glad you asked. Here are a few tips on ways to change your mindset about exercise: Get the best information about ways to exercise consistently and eat healthier for the rest of your life.

A professional fitness trainer and fitness consultants can help you find relevant information specific to your needs and life style. Call the Fitness Doctor for a free fitness consultation and assessment (732)921-3746 • Role Model the best people—Find a role model and ask them about their eating habits. One of my clients made an adjustment in her consumption of glutens and it made all the difference in the world. Don’t be afraid to ask.

• Shape Your Mindset with Vision and Goal—Clearly envision where you want to go. Images describing your result clearly in your mind’s eye will create a strong pull toward this result. Then go on and break your vision into goals; it will shape your mindset to conform to your vision.

It’s time to change the way you think, Beloved. Ecclesiastes 3:1 states: “To everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.” ‘Tis the season for change, or a different way of thinking. Merry Christmas, Beloved! #itiswell.

As always, exercise consistently, eat healthier, live well.

Disclaimer: The information contained in this column is of a general nature. You should consult your physician or health care professional before beginning any exercise program or changing your dietary regimen.

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East New York Restoration 5th annual 5K run/walk event

he year 2018 marks the 50th anniversary of the historic 1968 Olympics in Mexico City, at which John Carlos and Tommie Smith courageously raised their fists during the medal award ceremony to bring world attention to the poverty and racism harming African Americans in the United States. On September 8, 2018, the fifth anniversary of the Annual 5K RUN/ WALK event, Executive Director Colette Pean presented a humanitarian award to John Carlos. “We thought it was fitting that on our fifth anniversary we recall and celebrate the 50th anniversary of the 1968 Olympics as a very special moment in history.” Ms. Pean said.

A non-profit organization, East New York Restoration leads vital solar energy information sessions, small business incubator projects, job training initiatives, community gardens, and various revitalization programs in East Brooklyn.

A number of distinguished community leaders were on hand for the presentation of awards and a citation to John Carlos. They included former U.S. Congressman Ed Towns, former New York State Assembly Member Annette Robinson; the Office of Brooklyn Borough President Adams Deputy Program Director Candace Julienne; former Assemblyman Roger Green; and longtime social activist Walter Beach, who was a teammate of the great football player Jim Brown. “My brother John Carlos, I came up during the 1960s and you inspired us,” said NY State Assembly Member Charles Barron. His wife, New York City Council Member Inez Barron, read a proclamation for the revered athlete.

Carlos responded. “I’m listening to her read all these wonderful things off, and I’m looking at all these beautiful faces out here– and in my mind I’m trying to gather

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BY DAVE DANIELS how am I going to express who we are as a people, and the only thing I can think about is the grass that you’re standing on. Grass takes a beating from the sun, is stepped on, is not watered, and gets cut down. But every day that grass is growing, it keeps coming back.” He explained, “That’s what we are, a people in this society that keeps coming back. We have endured so much.”

He continued, “Everyone has a role to play in society. I didn’t go to the Olympic Games to win a medal and brag about how great I was as an athlete. God put it in my head and said, ‘If you don’t go to the Olympics’—because I was set on boycotting the 1968 Olympics —I felt like if the black soldiers stayed home during the [wars], America wouldn’t be what it is today. God told me ‘Johnnie, you must go to the Olympics…’. He added, “It’s not about world records or gold medals. It’s about the platform that you have and what you’re going to do in that time. Everything I’ve done in my life is not in the moment, it’s in the movement.”

Brooklyn Community Board 5 lent their support The free live jazz concert began filling the area with sound.

In line with the mission of East New York Restoration, this annual event again provided a valuable opportunity for small businesses like Gateway Pharmacy; well-known brands like T-Mobile and Emblem Health; as well as nonprofit organizations such as Man Up, Inc. and Brownsville Multi-Service Family Health Center to qualitatively interact with consumers and Brooklyn Community Board 5.

If you would like to learn more about future East New York Restoration LDC activities and/or how you may support it Green Champions project, call (718) 676-5920 or email info@enyrestorationldc.org.

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Leaders Leaders & & Legends Legends Education the art + science of learning

W Wright right’’ss r redirection edirection Former Former Educator/Coach Educator/Coach Johanna Johanna Lee Lee Wright Wright Continues Continues to to Advocate Advocate And And Motivate Motivate Students Students By Byg.r. g.r.maddox maddox guidance guidancecounselor, counselor,aagraduate graduateofofBennett BennettCollege Collegeinin Greensboro, Greensboro,NC, NC,encouraged encouragedJohanna Johannatototake takeaalook lookatat her heralma almamater. mater.“I“Iknew knewBennett BennettCollege Collegewas wasthe theplace place for forme,” me,”she sherecalled. recalled.

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Wright’s redirection

Last year, Johanna was honored as a North Carolina Last Living year, Johanna honored as a NorthEarl Carolina HBCU Legend,was along with hoopsters “The HBCU Living Legend, along with hoopsters Earl “The Pearl” Monroe and Curly Neal, and boxer James “BonePearl” Monroe and Curly Neal, and boxer James “Bonecrusher” Smith. She was also honored by the New York crusher” Smith.

She was to also honored by the New York Knicks, and called upon coach the inaugural McDonKnicks, and called upon to coach the inaugural McDonalds All-American Game for Women at Madison Square alds All-American Game for Women at Madison Square Garden.

Garden.

Johanna’s personal life was no less exciting. She marJohanna’s personal lifeLonnie was no Wright. less exciting.

She married All-American athlete Lonnie played ried All-American athlete Lonnie Wright.

Lonnie played professional basketball and football in the same season professional basketball in the same season for the Denver Broncos and and football the Denver Rockets.

By g.r. forAfter the Denver Broncos and the Denver Rockets.

Lonnie’s passing in 2012, Johanna retired from After Lonnie’s passingtoinrun 2012, retired from teaching and coaching forJohanna a seat on the South teaching and coaching to run for a seat on the South Orange/Maplewood Board of Education. Among her Orange/Maplewood of Education.

Among many supporters was Board actor John Amos, founder of her the many supporters was actor John Amos, founder thea Halley’s Comet Foundation, of which Wright is of also Halley’s Comet Foundation, of which Wright is also board member. “You only have to walk down the streeta board member.

“You only have to down the street with Johanna Wright anywhere in walk South Orange or in with Johanna Wright anywhere in South Orange or in New Jersey or perhaps in the United States to realize New Jersey or perhaps in the United States to realize how insignificant you are,” he said at her retirement dinhow you he said at herto retirement ner. insignificant “The addition ofare,” Johanna Wright the Boarddinof ner.

“The addition of Johanna Wright to the Board of Education is the right thing to do.”

Education is the right spoke thing toofdo.”

A former student how effectively Wright A former student spoke of how effectively Wright worked with students “From the outset, she had the talworked with students “From the outset, she had the talent to put herself in others’ shoes, and relate on a levent to put herself in others’ shoes, and relate on a level many cannot.” When Johanna ran for a seat on the el manyit cannot.”

When Johanna for a seat on the Board, was a time of turmoil in ran the school district, as Board, it was a time of turmoil in the school district, as well as disagreements about the Common Core Curricwell as disagreements about the Common Core Curriculum and PARRC testing. Wright vehemently opposed ulum and PARRC testing. and Wright opposed both during her campaign thatvehemently hasn’t changed.

The both during her campaign and that hasn’t changed.

The district was hit with complaints from the American Civil district was hit with complaints from the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU), and the Office of Civil Rights.

Liberties (ACLU), andinthe Office of Civilwere Rights.

WrightUnion said the examples the complaint “so Wright said the examples in the complaint were “so glaring and obvious that we had to adhere to making glaring and obvious that we had to adhere to making some changes, to assure that all students were highly some changes, to assureWethat all effective students leaders were highly and equally educated. need and and equally educated.

We need effective leaders and strong teachers; teachers who understand standards and strong teachers; teachers who understand standards and

“If the goal is traditional college, the as“If the goal is traditional college, the assessment should reflect that,” she said. sessment should reflect that,” she said.

“If the goal is vocational skills, then an as“If the goal is vocational skills, then an assessment focusing on hands-on learning sessment focusing on hands-on learning should be created so all students can be should be created so all students can be maddox made college- and career-ready and have made college- and career-ready and have guidance of Bennett College in a voice counselor, into theira graduate pathways.”

Greensboro, NC,their encouraged Johanna to take a look at a voice into pathways.”

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“I knew Bennett College was theWe place curriculum and can identify and track progress. also for me,” she recalled. curriculum and can identify and track progress.

We also must change the mindset of teachers who believe that Atcertain Bennett, Johanna thanwho justbelieve study and must change the mindset ofmore teachers that only students candid learn. play basketball.

She was an assistant coach for the basonly“If certain students can learn. the goal is traditional college, the assessment ketball a that,” member the“If College Quartet; and a “If team; the goal is traditional college, theis assessment should reflect she of said. the goal vocational founding member of the Bennett Underground, a band should reflect that,” she said.

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Wright ernors for New Jersey’s South Orange Performing Center (SOPAC). “I love SOPAC and being a part ofArts the continued her in the South Orange/Maplewood Center (SOPAC). love SOPAC and being parta of the Board there is career very“I rewarding work.”

She’s aalso memSchool District, coaching girls’work.” basketball and acheerBoard is very rewarding She’s(#TheWood), also member ofthere Elmwood Presbyterian Church leading at Columbia High School in Maplewood, guidber of Elmwood Presbyterian Church (#TheWood), where she’s active in the Water Walking Women Bible ing her teams to the many County, Conference, and State where she’s active in Elmwood the WaterSankofa WalkingInstitute: Women Bible study group and Black Championships. study group and the Elmwood Sankofa Institute: Black to the Future. “Our Pastor, Maria Morales Crompton, ex“My experiences have contributed the personexI to the Future.

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God BlesstoCrompton, her. am today.

One of the greatest rewards now, in my goldudes leadership, love and faith.

God Bless her.

“Whenever I attended Elmwood, with its young, vien age, is engaged in unexpected encounters with former “Whenever I attended Elmwood, with its young,stuvibrant and ministers . . . I knew I had found that dents, some of whom I fail to recognize as adults, but brant and engaged ministers . . .

I knew I had found that church home,” she said. who remember me.

In terms of my former students, church home,” said.

A still mother of she three and grandmother of five, talk of Islowing couldn’t be more proud of their successes.

I have A mother of three and grandmother of five, talkreof down is just not on her agenda. “I haven’t received many awards and accolades, but nothing can slowing down is just not on her agenda.

“I haven’t retired, I’m redirected, she chuckled.” hold aI’m candle to their achievements,” tired, redirected, she chuckled.”

“It’s about giving back.

I would not Wright be heresaid. today had “It’s about giving back.

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“Think of those people who afforded you the opportuniuntil the streetlights came on,” Wright re“Think those people who afforded youand the opportunity to do of something better —the mothers fathers who ty to do better and fathers who were thesomething eyes and ears on—the your mothers block. Thank God those called of her childhood.

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Cathedral International Senior Pastor Bishop Donald Hilliard, Jr. & Pastor Phyllis Hilliard L–R: Bishop Hilliard’s three daughters: Leah Joy Alease, Charisma Joy Denise, and Destiny Joy HilliardThomas with Lisa PorterBethune at the podium

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Bishop John Bryant, presiding prelate of the Fourth Episcopal District A.M.E Church, Baltimore, MD

Senior Pastor Rev. Dr. DeForest Soaries, Jr., First B.C. of Lincoln Gardens, Somerset, NJ and Toastmaster

35th Pastoral Anniversary Celebration Bishop Donald & Pastor Phyllis Hilliard L–R: Perth Amboy Mayor Wilda Diaz and the Carmichaels: Yvette, Pastor Kahlil, Zachary, Zoe, and Zion

Fish and Five Loaves family, L–R: Dorri Wilson, Rev. Kevin Smallwood, proprietor, and his son, Derek

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n unforgettable weekend took place in Perth Amboy, NJ November 9-11, 2018, celebrating the Hilliards, Bishop Donald and Pastor Phyllis, on their 35th anniversary leading the congregation of Cathedral International.

It was 1983 when a 26-year-old Rev. Donald Hilliard, Jr. became the new pastor at the Second Baptist Church in Perth Amboy, New Jersey. His exceptional leadership ability, compassion for people, and deep conviction for the gospel caused a buzz in the town, but according to Rev. Hilliard and his wife, Phyllis Thompson Hilliard, there was never a strategic plan created for what their pastoring journey would entail. “Faithfulness in prayer, praise, worship, and giving along with our four-fold mission to Evangelize, Educate, Emancipate, and Empower have guided us through challenges and enormous achievements,” states Bishop Donald Hilliard, Jr., senior pastor, Cathedral International.

The Testimonial Gala began celebration on Friday, November 9, and included guest speaker Presiding Prelate of the Fourth Episcopal District A.M.E Church, Baltimore, MD Bishop John Bryant and Toastmaster Rev. Dr. DeForest Soaries, senior pastor of First Baptist of Lincoln Gardens, NJ. The Legacy Leaders Luncheon on November 10 in the Family Life Center featured speaker Bishop George Searight, and welcomed everyone licensed or ordained

by Bishop Hilliard.

A beautiful Sunday service with a sermon by Rev. Dr. Karen Wells at all Cathedral International locations closed out the 35th anniversary celebration. www.thepositivecommunity.com

L–R: Patrick Council, Pastor Ralph M. Branch, Joshua Younger, Vincent M. Ralph, and Andre Coffee

Newark Mayor Ras Baraka

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Newark School of Theology Trustee Elder Paul Trautman

ore than 750 members of the clergy —pastors, priests, rabbis, ministers, deacons, elders, and laity, attended Newark’s 5th Annual Clergy Prayer Breakfast at the Robert Treat Hotel, October 18, 2018. This citywide spiritual engagement unifies faith leaders of all denominations as they come together to fellowship, pray, and share testimonies regarding community growth.

Rev. Dr. Ralph Branch, pastor of Calvary Missionary Baptist Church and moderator of the North Jersey District Missionary Baptist Association, delivered an inspiring keynote address.

United Healthcare representatives

Rev. Louise Scott-Rountree, manager of the Mayor’s Office of Clergy Affairs, coordinated the event. Rountree has managed the Clergy Affairs office since its creation by Mayor Ras J. Baraka, establishing an ecumenical space for all religious leaders and groups to work together for “A City We All Can Believe In.” –TPC Staff

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ut of office replies are a 21st-century business must. But there’s a right way to inform your colleagues that you’re on vacation and unavailable — and a wrong way.

So before you take off over the river and through the woods to grandmother’s house for the holidays, give your winter vacation autoresponder a little more thought. That way you strike the right out-of-office note to close out 2018.

1. Make sure your calendar is up to date.

If you use Microsoft Outlook as a primary email/calendar/contact app, update your calendar with a standing Appointment marked with the Out of Office status for the days you’ll be gone. That lets everyone know the basics of your holiday schedule.

2. Don’t send too many alerts.

Send the Outlook appointment concerning your Out of Office status only to people with whom you work closely or to whom you report. And make sure you turn off those regular Reminders that pop up on everyone’s calendar every day.

3. Write your autoresponder message...

This task can be completed in most versions of Microsoft Outlook by selecting Tools > Out of Office and then filling out the body copy, dates and times, and Address Book rules — for instance, for security and privacy purposes, it’s best to only send autoresponders to internal contacts since spammers can check out of office messages to validate whether or not an email account is active. You

can send just one out of office response to each unique address — that way, your close contacts won’t get inundated with 100 reminders that you’re out of the office.

4. …What to say.

The best out-of-office reply should serve two purposes: 1) Providing a polite and professional reminder that you’re unavailable for a particular time period, and 2) helpfully redirecting the message to someone else at your company who can answer a question or solve a problem.

5. Simply Stated In the interest of keeping things simple and straightforward, consider a version of this general out-of-office template: “Hello, I’m out of the office from [date] until [date].

I will only be available [specific time period]; if you need help in the meantime, please contact [name + info].

I’ll respond to your email when I’m back in the office”

Looking for more ways to enhance efficiency and boost productivity? Need help using Microsoft Outlook to manage calendars and contacts? Want to set up archiving rules to keep your inbox clean while you’re on vacation? CMIT Solutions can help. We believe technology should transform your business, not impede it — no matter when, where, or from what device you’re working.

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REV. THERESA NANCE MY VIEW

Rev. Nance is pastor of The Church by the Side of the Road in Passaic, NJ. She is also a radio talk show host and documentary filmmaker.

In Praise of Good Samaritans Bethel A.M.E. Church, Paterson NJ Honors First Responders

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his past November, Rev. Allan Boyer, Lady Dolores Boyer, and the congregants of Bethel A.M.E. Church honored area first responders. The parable of the Good Samaritan was woven into Pastor Boyer’s Sunday morning sermon during a Lady Dolores Boyer ceremony which brought Paand Rev. Allan Boyer terson Mayor Andre Sayegh, 4th Ward Councilwoman Ruby Cotton, 5th Ward Councilman Luis Velez, and other notables to offer one superlative after another, indicating the value of the local fire, police, and sheriff’s departments in the city of Paterson.

Boyer and his wife reside in the city of Plainfield and are active in social justice issues affecting the black community and community-at-large. Many marvel at their unassuming demeanor and winning personalities. Some say it is a breath of fresh air.

But, back to the parable of the Good Samaritan; Rev. Boyer said the Samaritan was the first responder in this incident but not the first person to see the need. For those who may not be familiar with the parable, Jesus told of a traveler who was going down the Jericho road when he was accosted and beaten, stripped of his clothing, and left for dead.

A priest came along but did not help him. A Levite passed by later and left the victim by the roadside helpless. But eventually a Samaritan came by, picked up the victim, took him to a place to recover, and told the innkeeper anything the victim utilized could be placed on the Samaritan’s account.

Pastor Boyer used this parable to tell the officers, firefighters, and one community leader that they were all good Samaritans because they do what they do without any thought of gaining money, status, or notoriety. He www.thepositivecommunity.com

then recalled that Pope Francis was talking to an audience and posed a question about giving money to panhandlers. He said the pope said give the money even if you think the panhandler doesn’t need it, or will buy drugs or alcohol. Or, perhaps makes more money panhandling than a man or woman who goes off to work each day to a specific job.

Minister Marie Ligon was the worship leader that day and her animated words and spiritual, uplifting antics were a catalyst for getting everyone in the room in the mood to worship. Ligon’s own life is one of unselfish deeds and thoughtful giving.

Those who were honored on that Sunday include: Passaic County Sheriff Richard Berdnik, Police Director Jerry Speziale, Police Chief Brian McDermott, Activist Jamie Bland, and Firefighter Janice Miller. Miller, a barber by trade, was the first to receive the service award. Ligon described her as a barber who when families don’t have the money for haircuts, still cuts their hair as a way of giving back. She also opened her shop so area residents could study to pass the firefighters’ examination and if they didn’t have money to pay for the test fee, Miller provided that as well.

Berdnik, Speziale, and McDermott were lauded and applauded for their consistent concern for the crimes in this inner-city and according to Cotton and others, crime itself has decreased because of this threesome’s vigilant stance.

Bland is a member of the National Action Network and founded an organization called Jumpstart Productions, where Paterson youths engage in activities related to the fine arts, including dance classes and learning to write plays.

Just an aside: the church is a historic landmark because it is the site where the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. spoke a week before he was assassinated. Back then, it was called the Community Baptist Church and my parents were among the 49 co-founders.

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his year’s event included a special tribute to the late Grace Jones, who served as president for 13 years from 2005 until her death on August 26, 2018.Mrs. Jones was 90 years old. Her passion for performing arts helped make Audelco the significant organization it has become. Denzel Washington, Kerry Washington, George Faison, Loretta Abbott, André De Shields, Samuel L. Jackson, Phylicia Rashad, Debbie Allen, Barbara Montgomery, Sanaa Lathan, and many others were recognized by Audelco long before they became famous.

This year, Arthur French and Melba Moore each received the first ever Grace Jones Lifetime Achievement Award, given in tribute to “the Amazing Grace.”

L–R: Rhonda Ross presenting Rising Star Award to Chinua Baraka Payne

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L–R: Rhonda Ross, Melba Moore and Mary Wilson (Melba receiving Lifetime Achievement Award)

L–R: Ajene Washington presenting Voza Rivers The Audelco Board of Directors Award for Gertrude Jeannette

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n November 18, 2018, Shiloh African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church in Englewood, N J hosted their annual Veterans Day celebration. Members of American Legion Post #58 were invited to take part in the ceremony. Pastor John D. Givens welcomed Sergeant Major Guy R. Theus, Sergeant Major Frank Metellus (retired), and nearly twenty other United States veterans from Long Island to New Jersey.

Pastor Givens, also retired First Sergeant from the United States Army, recognized the service of those he called, “… Our true heroes and the backbone of the victories we have won.” The event was highlighted by an American flag give-a-way, donated by Shiloh AME Zion Church. The event was the brainchild of Givens and based on his commitment to, “…GOD, country and the sacrifices made by our service people, particularly African Americans.” The observance, now in its eighth year, was spearheaded by Fredrick Johnson, E5 Sergeant (retired). — TPC Staff

L–R: First Lady Freddie Mae and Pastor Givens with daughter AaLiyah P. Fields and granddaughter Lailah B. Fields

L–R: Sergeant (retired) Fredrick Johnson, with Sergeant Major Guy R. Theus, Pastor John D. Givens (retired First Sergeant), and Sergeant Major Frank Metellus (retired) Photos: Raymond Hagans

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he Frontiers International of Plainfield gave their first annual cabaret fundraiser on Friday, November 2, at the Volunteer Firehouse in Piscataway, NJ. The theme for the cabaret was “70s Party Cabaret: A Tribute to Black Music Generation to Generation,” a follow-up to their June forum on “The Future of Black Music in America: Positive Music Matters.” Next up for the Plainfield Frontiers, their 43rd Annual Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. Memorial Breakfast on January 21, 2019 at Plainfield High School. Nayaba Arinde, editor of the Amsterdam News will serve as keynote speaker for the breakfast, which is the longest running tribute to MLK of its kind in NJ. For more information visit Plainfield Frontiers Club on Facebook.

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MLK Jr. Day Celebration

Standing on the threshold of change.

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t’s t’sthat thattime timeof ofyear yearagain. again.IIhad t’s t’s that that time time of of year year again. again. I had had barely barelydigested digestedmy myThanksgiving Thanksgiving barely digested my Thanksgiving barely digested my Thanksgiving meal mealwhen whenpeople peoplewere werelining up meal mealwhen when people people were were lining lining up up for for Black Black Friday Friday deals. deals. AA A few days Black Friday deals. few days for Black Friday deals. A few days later, later,itititwas wasCyber CyberMonday, Monday,followed later, later, it was was Cyber Cyber Monday, Monday, followed followed the the next next day day by

by Giving Giving Tuesday, next day by the next day by Giving Giving Tuesday, Tuesday, which which III believe believe should’ve should’ve been which which I believe believe should’ve should’ve been been dubbed dubbed “Giving “Giving Wednesday” Wednesday” and dubbed “Giving Wednesday” dubbed “Giving Wednesday” and and scheduled scheduled for for the the day day before scheduled scheduled for for the the day day before before Thanksgiving—when Thanksgiving—when people people are Thanksgiving—when Thanksgiving—when people people are are feeling feeling more more generous generous and and haven’t feeling more generous feeling more generous and and haven’t haven’t yet yetshopped shopped’til ’tilthey theydropped. dropped. yetshopped shopped ’til ’til they they dropped. dropped.

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This year: my mother-in-law. This is her her first firstChristmas Christmaswithout withouther herhusband first first Christmas Christmas without without her her husband husband and and her her only only son son and and daughter-indaughter-inand and her her only only son son and and daughter-indaughter-in-

law lawlive live2,500 2,500 miles away.

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Sure, it was a bit of a sacrifice.

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Meanwhile, Meanwhile, am eternally grateMeanwhile,I IIam ameternally eternallygrategrateMeanwhile, I am eternally grateful ful for for the the generosity generosity ofof spirit spirit the generosity of spirit ful for the generosity of spirit shown shown year year round round by by people people and and year round by people and shown year round by people and organizations organizations like like the the ones ones who who organizations like the ones who organizations like the ones who grace grace the the pages The Positive the pages pages ofof of The The Positive Positive grace the pages of The Positive Community Community each each month. month.

Their Their work work Community each month.

Their work Community each month. Their work isis from from the the heart heart and and makes makes real real the heart and makes real is from the heart and makes real changes changesand and differences differences inin so so many many and differences in so many changes and differences in so many lives. lives. lives.

And And aa special special mention the special mention mentiontoto tothe the And a special mention to the entire entire staff staff atat The The Positive Positive staff at The Positive entire staff at The Positive Community.

Community.

These people are not Community. These Thesepeople peopleare arenot not Community.

These people are not just just co-workers, co-workers, but but family. family.

While While co-workers, but family.

While just co-workers, but family. While some someofofus us are actually blood-relatusare areactually actuallyblood-relatblood-relatsome of us are actually blood-related, ed, others others ofof us us have have known known others of us have known ed, others of us have known one one another another for for 20, 20, 30, 30, and and 40 40 another for 20, 30, and 40 one another for 20, 30, and 40 years. years.We’ve We’ve been been together together through through We’ve been together through years. We’ve been together through marriages, marriages, the birth children, marriages, the the birth birth ofof ofchildren, children, marriages, the birth of children, death deathofofloved loved ones, ones, and and every every milemileloved ones, and every miledeath of loved ones, and every milestone stoneininbetween. between. between. stone in between.

Merry Merry Christmas!

Christmas!

Happy New Christmas! Happy HappyNew New Merry Christmas!

Happy New Year!

Year!And And all all the the best best wishes wishes ofof the the And all the best wishes of the Year! And all the best wishes of the season seasonfrom from our our family family toto yours. yours. from our family to yours. season from our family to yours.

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