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November 2007 • Volume 8, Issue 97

Giving Thanks 2007

By C.S. Purcell I am not sure when it happened - maybe in my teens? - but I officially hated Thanksgiving. I am not much into food, and Thanksgiving, to me, was all about eating. We go to a restaurant every year, and I would watch everyone take trip after trip to the buffet bar. But gathering meant something to my mother and father - it meant that the whole family would get together over a meal - which I never understood because we are lucky enough that the whole family gets together frequently for meals and otherwise.

And then 3 years ago I lost my daughter, Maya Rain, in August. And by Thanksgiving I was in no shape

to celebrate without her. My parents understood. So I did not join Thanksgiving dinner that year. The next year my mom really wanted me to join again, and I went. But my heart sank as I watched all the moms celebrating with their little girls. Last year, I did join in and with more heart, because I was pregnant. And I was so thankful that another little soul would grace me. This May I gave birth to a perfect little boy. His birth was rough and he almost died.

So every day I look at him, I have a day of Thanksgiving. He smiles and I melt. He laughs and my heart soars. He cries and I hold him close to my chest to comfort him. To comfort us.

These last 3 years have been filled with downs and ups and tragedy and love, and through all these

experiences - bitter and sweet - I taste the full delicacy of life. I have learned to savor the good in ways I never knew possible. And I have learned to grow from the tragedies. I want to teach my son to experience life, not just go through it. I want to teach him to follow his heart and remain true to it. To know that life is a gift and every day a celebration. I want to teach him to always, always be thankful for what he has and to love all the opportunities that are given to him to learn and to grow.

This year, I will gather with the family over a meal, and the meal will be sweeter than ever before.

No, I probably won't eat much, as always. But I will savor the experience of being together and celebrating life.

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First Record of Bald Eagles Nesting on Quinnipiac For the first time in Connecticut state records, a pair of bald eagles has successfully nested along the Quinnipiac River and produced two healthy offspring, a male and a female, to the delight of the Quinnipiac River Watershed Association (QRWA). Mike Horn, volunteer osprey coordinator for QRWA, reported the success of the majestic birds along with a "good year" for ospreys in his annual summary of nesting activities to Connecticut Department of Environmental Protection (CT DEP). Ospreys along the Quinnipiac also did well, producing 41 fledged birds in 2007, up from 16 in 2001.

Mary Mushinsky, executive director of QRWA, said the group's members and other interested birders, who cooperate with CT DEP's Peter Picone to install osprey nesting platforms, have been quietly observing the nesting pair through spring and summer 2007 after the eagles began carrying large sticks and engaging in courtship behavior in February. "We did not wish to disturb them in any way-we just hoped they would make it," Mushinsky said. "The successful nesting of bald eagles on the Quinnipiac in 2007 is a watershed event in the history of this urban river, Mushinsky summarized."

Horn went public for the first time at QRWA's recent annual meeting. "It means all the hard work of volunteers and those who have helped to clean up the river has paid off," Horn said. The birds eat mainly fish.

Horn has labeled the nest, which is located in the lower river, as QE1 (Quinnipiac River Eagle Nest #1), and gave the parents suitably regal names of Queen Elizabeth I and Earl of Essex, or Elizabeth and Essex for short. "Keeping that theme, the chicks were named William and Mary", said Horn. "Using the names of kings and queens seems highly appropriate for these most majestic of birds."

In July, a young osprey became entangled in a cell tower in Wallingford, the furthest north the birds have nested along the Quinnipiac, and was brought down from the tower by rescuers. That bird was injured and did not survive. Despite losing that bird, Mushinsky said the ospreys had a very good year, raising 41 chicks from 19 active nests. The birds have steadily recovered from a dismal low of ten nesting pairs statewide in 1973, after persistent pesticides, which harmed reproduction, were banned and people began to construct nest platforms. "My hunch is that the plentiful osprey nests on our volunteer-built platforms inspired the eagles, who have been wintering along the Q in the past few years. They probably looked at all the osprey nests and decided, 'Hey-fishing must be good here!'"

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Community Thanksgiving in Wallingford

By Nancy Freyburg - Coordinator Every year I am always asked this one question by a first time reporter to the holiday community dinners, "Why do you give up your holidays to do this?" For 27 years I have given the same answer. "Look around. Pull up a chair.

Stay awhile. Then ask me again." They never do. On Thanksgiving, Christmas, and Easter, I get to enjoy the world exactly the way I think God intended it to be. We come together in friendship to be with, and to serve one another. We have created a huge family that loves to come home year after year. That is the goal of the dinners, to make people feel like they are coming "home."

Twenty-seven years ago I was out for a walk. I heard a voice say, "find a place and cook. No one should be alone for the holidays". I don't want you to worry that I often hear voices, but that one was pretty clear! We started at the Advent Christian church on Whittlesey Avenue. About 35 people attended that first dinner. We added Christmas the next year and began serving Easter Dinner about 15 years ago. As the dinners grew and needed more space, we moved to St. Paul's Episcopal Church for many wonderful years and now enjoy a tremendous partnership with the First Congregational Church. People from every church in town and every walk of life support the community dinners, which have grown in every direction.

Although Thanksgiving is the largest dinner, with 250 - 400 people eating in the fellowship hall, Christmas and Easter are close behind. We also send about 250 meals and visits out to the home bound each holiday, and provide food for two other communities so that they might enjoy the holidays too. Baskets with turkeys and all the trimmings are given to families at Thanksgiving who want to cook at home, and we "adopt" individuals and families at Christmas, providing them with food baskets, gifts, and whatever is needed. The Christmas Adopt - A - Family Program has extended to a school supplies program in the Fall that sends many kids back to school well equipped with clothes, back packs, lunch boxes, note books, pens, pencils, and so much of what they need to be successful in school.

As the dinners and everything attached to them has grown, we have affectionately renamed it "God's Dinner". It really takes a miracle of faith and spirit to bring it all together. This is all done with volunteers who share their time, talent, energy, and great kindness to make these holidays wonderful for so many. The food is all donated. Even though the dinners are so large, all the food is home made, hand made, heart made and healthy! We want every participant to feel like they are coming home for the holidays. Individuals bring in pies and other home made desserts while Brownies, CCD and high school cooking classes bring over pans of the best cookies ever! Dennis Bonito brings his guitar and keyboards and plays and sings all afternoon. It is simply amazing and heart warming to be part of this effort.

Every one who works on the "dinners" is blessed by it. It is the best example I have ever seen of people joining together to make our world a little safer, softer, and with such kindness. I give up nothing and gain everything to be part of this! The blessings are too many to name.

Here is what I need as we move in to this wonderful season. There is a place for everyone who wants to help. We need volunteers on the actual holidays to help set up, serve, deliver meals to the home bound, and clean up. We need help ahead of time in the kitchen doing prep work and cooking turkeys. We also need donations of time, talent, food and money. Anyone who wants to volunteer, make a financial contribution, or donation of food should call the office at 203-284-8299. We are happy to tell you what we need.

Dinner is served noon - 2pm Thanksgiving and Christmas day. The meal is free and transportation will be provided as needed. The meal is for anyone who wants to spend the day with others and have a great time.

One of the thanks I received after Christmas last year was from a 91-year-old woman who had received a meal and visit. Her note simply said, "In 25 years, you have never forgotten me. Thank you."

My thanks to all of you who never forget to share yourselves with others. It makes us all better.

Parents & Kids Foundation, Inc., Nancy Freyberg, 101 No. Plains Industrial Rd.Wallingford 203-284-8299

Franciscan Christmas Fair Come one, come all to the 16th Annual Franciscan Christmas Fair to benefit the counseling, education, home health care and hospice care programs of the Franciscan Life Center on Saturday, November 17, 2007, 9:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. on the campus of the Franciscan Life Center, 271 Finch Avenue, Meriden, Connecticut 06451. Join in the spirit of Christmas by enjoying Franciscan music, quilt raffle, a living creche, pottery, jams and jellies, bread, and more. Freshly cut Christmas trees, hand-decorated wreaths and a fantastic basket raffle are also available. Bring family and friends.

See you at the Fair. For more information call the Franciscan Life Center at (203) 237-8084.

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PASTA SUPPER The Civitan Club of Meriden/Wallingford will hold their 13th annual pasta supper to benefit the physically and mentally challenged youth and adults in the area on Thursday, November 8th from 4:30 P.M. to 7:30 P.M. at St. Joseph Church ,West Main St. Meriden. Donation will be $7.00 for adults, $3.00 for children 6 to 12, and children 5 years and younger free. Tickets may be purchased at the door or from Elain Cariati Drauss at 630-9805.

HOLIDAY CRAFT FAIR! The Annual Ladies Guild Holiday Craft Fair at the Church of the Resurrection, 115 Pond Hill Road, Wallingford, will be held on Saturday, November 10, from 9:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Highlights: Handmade Crafts, Country Kitchen, Bake Sale, White Elephant, Basket Raffle and Holiday Raffle. Raffle drawings will be held at noon on Sunday, November 11. Stop by for some Holiday cheer; check out the many wonderful crafted items and home-baked goodies. Enjoya luncheon of delicious soups, sandwiches and desserts. For more information, call the Church office at 203-265-1694

Home Country Slim Randles Some things aren't allowed to go away, no matter how much a person might want them to, and no matter how much sense it makes to do away with them.

It was that way with Doc's golf tournament.

Last fall, to raise money for coats for kids who needed them, Doc talked two farmers out of the use of their pastures and set up the only 18-hole golf course in history that was created in an hour and a half. Each of the 18 holes had a hole (personally dug by Doc with a shovel) and a flag by the hole (a steel tpost personally pounded in by Dud) and a tee-off spot (personally tee-off by Herb Collins). But that was all the course had. If there was grass on the fairway, it was because the cows missed a bite. The whole course was hazard.

The tenth hole alone had two rock piles and a manure sump to negotiate. The second hole required people to clear a prairie dog town or lose the ball forever to the abode of confused and terrorized rodents.

Well, everyone had fun, and the whole thing was won by Delbert Chin, owner of the Gates of Heaven Chinese restaurant, who came in with the low score of 312.

Doc wasn't really excited about doing it again, but first one, then another of our locals pestered him until he relented and set out a whole new course this year that included the elementary school playground and the town's sewage treatment lagoons.

Twice as many people signed on to play this year, and Doc admits that next year's course might have to take in the gravel quarry just east of town.

"The hardest part about this tournament," he told the boys down at the Mule Barn truck stop, "is figuring out what par should be."

MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY ANNOUNCES THANKSGIVING DAY CLOSINGS Meriden Public Library will observe the following Thanksgiving holiday schedule: Thursday, November 22 Library is closed.

Saturday, November 24 Library is open 10 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.

The library's regular business hours are: Monday through Wednesday, 11:00 a.m. to 8:00 p.m.; Thursday and Saturday, 10:00 a.m. to 5:00 p.m.; Closed Sunday and Friday.

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THANKSGIVING

By Ernie Larson What is it - What it mean to me?

To many, Thanksgiving is a just a day off, another holiday, to others it is a gathering of family and friends and to an estimated 279 million people it's a day to eat turkey in one form or another. I remember the Thanksgivings of my youth, Mom toiling in the kitchen, while the men, Grandpa, my father, my brother and I waited for dinner in the living room with our guests usually my Uncle Al and Aunt Carmen, unless they were going to spend the day with "her people' as Grandpa would say and Mrs. McDonald in later years, she was Grandpa's companion, he knew her in his youth and struck up a relationship when he was in his 70's, long story, but he was happy. Dinner was around 1:00 PM and I do remember that every year my grandfather would compliment the cook "Margaret, that turkey was done to a turn", little did we know that Mom usually overcooked the turkey and it was dry as a bone, we ate it of course, just doubled up on the gravy; it tasted OK to us and we never criticized Mom's cooking. After dinner we usually just sat around, sometimes we'd go outside and throw around a football, while the others visited, the TV and football games were on in the background and my Dad snoozed in his chair………that was Thanksgiving.

In grade school we were taught the story of the Pilgrims, Plymouth Rock, the Indians who helped the Pilgrims acclimate to the new world and the meaning of Thanksgiving. I remember when I first saw Plymouth Rock as an adult I got tingly all over - after all, hearing about it for so many years and here it was a rock, big rock with the inscription 1620.

Who knows if this is the exact rock the pilgrims moored the Mayflower to, but it's got its own pavilion so it must be the real Plymouth Rock, hey, I was convinced, I'm not going to question history. Then there was the replica of the Mayflower nearby, built to exact specifications of the original, it was smaller than some of the 'pleasure' craft moored nearby and to think it made a transatlantic voyage, remarkable.

The basis for our present day Thanksgiving holiday is directly related to the Pilgrims. The settlers were thankful for surviving a harsh winter and with the help of the Indians purportedly held a feast sometime between September 21 and November 9th in 1621, a year after they landed, some say it was 1622, who knows, eking out a living was a bit more difficult than they had imagined. They invited the natives to their celebration and both groups contributed to the feast some of the menu items were fish, cod, clams, waterfowl, ducks, geese, turkeys, venison, dried fruit, nuts, grains i.e. wheat flour, Indian corn, vegetables, mainly squash and beans. No corn on the cob, mashed potatoes, sweet potatoes, pumpkin pie, whipped cream or cranberry sauce as we know it nor was there any ham on the menu, historians claim the Pilgrims did not bring any pigs with them - who eats ham on Thanksgiving anyway? And that's the way it all began, in a nutshell.

And now for some little known facts about the holiday - do you know why Thanksgiving is on the fourth Thursday in November - well, yes you guessed it; I'm going to tell you. It all political, believe it or not, and goes back to George Washington who declared a national day of thanks in 1789 and for years to come the holiday was on or near whatever Thursday came closest to the 26th of November. Then Abraham Lincoln declared Thanksgiving be celebrated on the last Thursday in November in 1863. This was all fine and good until the presidency of Franklin Roosevelt. Under pressure from retail merchandisers, who said that the last Thursday of November only gave merchants 4 weeks to sell their Christmas wares, as many people started their holiday shopping just after Thanksgiving, they asked him to change the date of Thanksgiving to the fourth Thursday in November. And so he did, not without controversy, some claimed he was buckling under to big money - he probably was and like almost every other questionable act by a politician this one too was soon forgotten and now the fourth Thursday of November is Thanksgiving in the United States.

So now, what does Thanksgiving mean to me, it's a time of year when family and friends gather and enjoy each others company while enjoying the bounty of the season; this year we're again welcoming my son's fiancée along with my wife's Aunt Agnes, she just moved into Meriden and was going to spend the day at her assisted living facility, no way, she'll be with family for the holiday, that's just how it should be! Our immediate family, our daughter, her husband, our granddaughter, my brother, his wife and son, my Aunt Carmen, she spends Thanksgiving with us and Christmas with "her people" in New York. Not sure if anyone else is coming, but they certainly would be welcome.

We always recall the year we invited 'the Indians' to our celebration. In a nutshell, my workmate who was spending his first Thanksgiving in the US, asked me on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving at 3:00 in the afternoon "how do you prepare the traditional Thanksgiving dinner?" To say the least it would have taken me quite a while to explain the whole deal so I just invited him and his wife to our dinner. My children were amazed, his wife had a pierced nose and wore her traditional Indian sari - and of course I said this is just like the first Thanksgiving, having the Indians (Harish and Nilima were from Bombay, India) to dinner. They liked it so much, they came back for Christmas.

And we do celebrate with food, traditional roast turkey, stuffing, potatoes, root vegetables and all the trimmings, I have a great recipe for a cranberry/pear chutney - I'm sure the family is looking forward to that; (a bit of sarcasm, I must say). And we top it all off with desserts, pumpkin pie, apple pie and this year my daughter wants me to make Indian pudding, I think a version of this was on the original Thanksgiving menu. We're never lacking for something to eat on this day. And remembering the less fortunate, as in past years we will be donating our excess holiday food to Shelter Now in Meriden.

But the best part of the day are the family discussions and reminisces; perusing photo albums of yore and this year, my nephew just started college at UCONN so we'll hear some of his stories - I'm sure he'll be rather reserved, maybe Mom and Dad really do not want to know what is going on, hey, as long as he is having fun, right? He better be

studying, if he knows what's good for him! We'll recount tales of holidays past and have a good old time. Thanksgiving is a holiday where just having everyone together is the main purpose of the day, when asked many people say Thanksgiving is their favorite holiday: family, food, football the general camaraderie of the day makes it special. I look forward to seeing my granddaughter interact with mine and my wife's aunts, who as octogenarians don't get to mingle with 4.5 year olds on a regular basis, I'm sure she will keep them amused.

That is what Thanksgiving is all about to me and I eagerly await the day.

Here's a quote from the 2008 Old Farmer's Almanac, it says it all: ? "THANKSGIVING - The company makes the feast."?

And so it does: Happy Thanksgiving to all!

The Essential Guide To Rock Chic Entertainment Journalist/Author & Rock Wife Carrie Borzillo-Vrenna Inks Deal With Simon & Schuster For The Ultimate Guide To Infusing Everyday Life With Rock Chick Style and Attitude Admit it. We'd all like to be just a little bit cooler-to have that indisputable aura of confidence that comes with knowing everything worth knowing, from how to get backstage to how to cook a great steak. To have the edgy, selfassured style of Amy Winehouse or Debbie Harry. To know how to be a better flirt, a hotter girlfriend, a tougher chick, and the friend everybody wants on speed-dial.

Journalist Carrie Borzillo-Vrenna's forthcoming not-yet-titled book for Simon & Schuster's Simon Spotlight Entertainment imprint will bring readers just that. The unique A-to-Z book, currently scheduled for publication in August 2008, will be a reference manual for everything an edgy girl needs to know, including the obvious (style, beauty, dating, and sex tips) and the notso-obvious (how to prepare Absinthe, how to hit on a celebrity, how to sneak backstage at a concert). It's a girl's guide with a difference -- one that shows readers how to identify, go after, and get whatever they want in life, be it a hot guy, a great job, multiple orgasms, or a sexy new look.

"This is the book I've always wanted to write," says Borzillo-Vrenna.

"There are so many books out there that give girls and women advice on living life, but there has never been a book that spoke to the girl who is a little bit edgier, a little bit tougher, a little bit more rock-and-roll. This book is for the girls who prefer black nail polish to French Manicures, who prefer the bad boy to the 9-to-5-er, and who would rather learn how to play guitar than learn how to play by the rules."

The majority of the advice, tips, and know-how will come from the author's own experience as a music-celebrity-entertainment journalist and rock girlfriend since age 17 and rock wife for the past seven years. But, the book will also be peppered with tid-bits from a select group of cool female rock stars and celebrities (and a few select males).

"This book is the cool girl's guide to getting what you want out of life," said Jennifer Bergstrom, VP and Publisher of Simon Spotlight Entertainment, "and Carrie is the perfect person to write it." The book is slated for an August 2008 publication and was acquired by Michael Broussard and Emily Westlake from Holly Root of the Waxman Agency. The deal includes World English rights.

Borzillo-Vrenna's first book was Eyewitness Nirvana: The Day by Day Chronicle in 2000 and the expanded Nirvana: The Day to Day Illustrated Journals in 2003 (Carlton Books). The writer, originally from Wallingford, CT, lives in Los Angeles with her Grammy Award-winning husband Chris Vrenna, who plays keyboards with Marilyn Manson and drums with Gnarls Barkley.

Celebrations of Life and Home HAPPY 25 TH ANNIVERSARY TO MANYA AND GEORGE !!!

Congratulations on your love and commitment!

Keep having fun!

With best wishes and love, from your family.

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Celebrations of Life and Home "Happy Birthday to my Auntie Karen!

Wishing you ALL the happiness you bring to me every day! You're awesome!

Love you, Hunter Christian Pageau"

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Mark T. Sheehan High School in Wallingford CWE Program is a Success.

Alan Oblon (pictured above standing), is the Coordinator of The Connecticut CWE (Connecticut Cooperative Education Program), This is a 2 credit course that Sheehan High School offers for students who are interested in occupational training and exploration that each student self assesses. This program is designed to allow students to seek their place in the world.

Oblon emphasized that with a variety of speakers representing various occupations along with students working part time, helps to expand horizons and nurture the career interest of his students and our youth entirely.

Oblon points out another key component for the students is to be involved in Job Shadow. The Job Shadow is a one day experience for the students to shadow a professional, employed full time, to provide information about careers.

Maggie Griffin, Associate Partner of Keller Williams Central CT focused on telling students about A Career In Real Estate and if choosing real estate, how important it is to affiliate with the right broker who offers up to date training and technology that is important to have in effort to keep up with the changing Market. Additionally, Griffin said, "As I walked in and saw this group, I wanted to give them an example of a fast change. It was a moment where I asked them all to stand, change seats and introduce themselves as a professional to the student sitting to their right."

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What Thanksgiving Means to Me by some students from Cook Hill School Zachary Hart 5th Grade- What Thanksgiving means to me... Thanksgiving is about being thankful for life and what we have. It's about getting together with your family and having a nice dinner. It's about remembering all the soldiers who are in Iraq right now, not getting to see their families. It's about being thankful for the world and all it's beautiful places; the galaxy and its solar system and planets. All the sports and people we're all lucky to have. Our countrys, continents, and water. Without these items no one would be alive. We should be thankful for the sun and all its warmth. Imagine if all of these just disappeared.

Irina Tsilfoglou 5th Grade - Thanksgiving Means To Me: Thanksgiving means having family and being surrounded by family. Family is very important. The first Thanksgiving was with the Pilgrims and the Native Americans. So... Thanksgiving should be about being with friends and family.

You should be very thankful on Thanksgiving. Be thankful for the food, family and life. Just be thankful for everything you have. So... now be thankful!

Gabrielle Hummel 5th grade - What Thanksgiving Means to Me: Thanksgiving means to thank God for the food, shelter, family and other things he has given us. In our every day life, we use those things many times a day. Thanksgiving is a day we feast and pray for him. Thanksgiving is also a day to spend with our family.

Joshua Glynn 5th Grade - What Thanksgiving Means to Me: Thanksgiving means a special day that we celebrate by having a feast. Thanksgiving is a day that we say thanks to all the things we are thankful for. The first Thanksgiving was with the Indians and the Pilgrims. The Indians helped the Pilgrims with growing crops such as corn. The most important food at Thanksgiving is a turkey. Lots of different foods that are eaten are corn, fish, turkey, squash, deer meat, cranberry sauce and much more. On Thanksgiving, before anyone eats anything, you are suppossed to say grace. You should be most thankful for shelter, food and clothes. You should also be thankful for anything that is special to you. Other things to be thankful for is your family, your pets, your friends, your teachers and your school.

Dea Acorda 5th Grade - Thanksgiving means to have thanks to everyone and everything we have. It means thanks for food, thanks for family, thanks for teachers who go and teach you in school. It means thanks for friends who stick up for you when things go wrong. It means thanks for books that take you to placed unknown and thanks for the Earth that gives us everything that we need. It means thanks to the animals that give us some food to eat. Last of All...

It means thanks for this paper and pencil so I could write this for you.

Sammi Chagnon 4th Grade T hanks to people U s giving R espectfulness to everyone K indness to everyone E nergy to pass on Y ou are a hero S pecial thought to share Thanksgiving by Marisa Daly 5th grade T hinking of others H aving fun A n awesome dinner N o selfishness K indness S ecret presents G iving I interesting things happen V ery thankful I 'm thankful for the world N ice helping to get ready G iving presents to family members

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Get Ready for the Holidays!

Mother-Daughter Book Group Announces 2007 Fall Schedule"

The Quinnipiac Chamber of Commerce Invites you to Girls' Night Out Monday November 19th!

With its numerous vendors, fabulous food, and outstanding networking opportunities, Girls' Night Out is the perfect time and place to buy all those Holiday Gifts! Slated for 5:30 to 8pm, Monday, November 19, 2007 at Tradition Golf Course this event is expected to draw more than 100 spectators!

Held annually by the Chamber, Girls' Night Out is geared to serve as a showcase for Chamber member businesses as well as a fun night out for everyone. This is a chance to get a jump on your shopping for the Holidays, weddings, engagements, birthdays, anniversaries, etc. In addition to products featured by numerous service providers and businesses, vendors will offer: jewelry, skin care products, health and wellness items, home goods, bath and body products, gourmet kitchen accessories, gift certificates and much more.

Don't let the name fool you - men are welcome at Girls' Night Out! So call your friends, co-workers, family members and neighbors! This is a fun night out and a great opportunity to treat that special someone or to pamper your self.

The cost for this great event is only $10 per person and includes hors d'oeuvres and one raffle ticket. Additional raffle tickets for fabulous prizes and a cash bar will also be available at the event.

Please register online at www.quinncham.com email Maribel@quinncham.com or Dee@Quinncham.com or call 234-0332 or 269-9891.

The Mother-Daughter Book Group invites new members to join their book discussions this fall at the Wallingford Public Library. Mothers and their middle school or high school aged daughters are welcome to read and discuss the following good books for teens. (The group is open to all adult females and teenaged girls.)

On Monday, November 5th the group will meet to discuss the futuristic novel: "House of the Scorpion," by Nancy Farmer; and on Tuesday, December 11, the season will conclude with a discussion of "Megan Meade's Guide to the McGowan Boys," by Kate Brian.

Each book discussion will take place in the Small Conference Room at the Wallingford Public Library. All discussions begin at 7:30 p.m. Refreshments will be served. Please sign up for this free program at the library's Information Desk. For more information, call the library at 203-265-6754.

Holiday Happenings

Southwestern Jalapeno Cornbread Dressing

The St. Joseph School Christmas Bazaar, will be held at Rosary Hall, St, Joseph Church on West Main Street in Meriden on November 16th and November 17th. Hours: 3 p.m. to 9 p.m., Friday, November 16th and 10 a.m. to 2 p.m., Saturday, November 17th. Wonderful crafts, delicious food, and lots of fun for the whole family. Expect a special visit from Santa! Event Chair: Cathy Sarault. Contact Information: 203-237-0159.

Serving Size: 12 Ingredients: 4 Cups cornbread crumbled 10 Slices dried bread cubed 1 Pound MILD ITALIAN TURKEY SAUSAGE 1-1/2 Cups celery chopped 1 Cup onion chopped 1-1/2 Teaspoons salt 1 Teaspoon poultry seasoning 1/4 Cup Jalapeno peppers seeded and chopped 2 eggs slightly beaten 1 Cup TURKEY BROTH Instructions: Preheat oven to 325.

In large bowl combine cornbread and bread cubes.

In large skillet, over medium-high heat, saute sausage, celery and onion until sausage is no longer pink and vegetables are tender; combine with cornbread mixture. Add salt, poultry seasoning, jalapeno peppers, eggs and turkey broth.

Spoon dressing into lightly greased 3-quart casserole dish.

Bake, covered, at 325 degrees F. 45 to 50 minutes.

MERIDEN-GRANT FOR CHILDREN'S LIBRARY The Children's Library of Meriden Public Library recently received a grant from the Emily Hall Tremaine Foundation for the purchase of thematic kits for the Learning Diversity Resource Center. These kits contain "hands-on" materials including puzzles, sensory games, puppets, software, videos, DVDS, and cassettes. A variety of subjects covered are: diverse abilities, touch, dyslexia, autism, getting dressed, community helpers, pre-writing skills, sounds, alphabet, numbers, and shapes to name a few. Some of the concepts stressed are comprehension, retention of information, reinforcement of concepts, language development, logic, and thinking skills. Thematic kits will be available for circulation through the Children's Library. Please call (203) 630-6347 or email us at mplchildrens@hotmail.com

Holiday Craft Fair Lyman Hall High School in Wallingford The Lyman Hall High School MPA will be sponsoring a Holiday Craft Fair, On Saturday, November 17th at the High School, 70 Pond Hill Rd, from 9:00 am To 3:00 pm. We are also still seeking crafters, if interested please contact, Roseann at 203-294-1062 or by e-mail at rodydody@sbcglobal.net. Sponsored by Music Parents Association

WALLINGFORD A craft fair, sponsored by the Yalesville Vol. Fire Department's Relay for Life Team, from the American Cancer Society, will take place Saturday November 24th from 9am - 3pm at the firehouse 143 Hope Hill Rd., Yalesville. A tea cup raffle and refreshments will be available.

Celebrations of Life and Home

BETH ISRAEL UPCOMING EVENTS!!!

Congregation Beth Israel has many enjoyable events coming up. This coming Friday (10/26/07) is the joyous musical service, Shabbat Joy, led by Richard Gans and his group of musicians. This event starts at 6:45 pm.

Other events at Beth Israel; coming up in November are: On November 9th we will be having a dairy pot luck dinner. This will start at 6:00 pm with a service and conclude with dinner. And on November 17th, we will have Toddlers, Bagels, & Torah Study. Toddlers will learn and play downstairs and the adults will have Torah study upstairs with our Rabbinic Intern, Bruce Alpert.

Congregation Beth Israel is located at 22 North Orchard Street in Wallingford, CT. We are a non-affiliated synagogue which warmly welcomes Jewish individuals and families, interfaith and non-traditional. Please visit our website at www.bethisraelwallingford.org for more information.

"Home For the Holidays" Christmas Fair December 2 - 9:00 am to 3:00 p.m.

The congregation of the First Congregational Church, Wallingford, corner of Center and Main Streets, is hard at work preparing for its "Home for the Holidays" Christmas Fair, December 2. This all-in-house production features fine needle and hand work, delicious jellies, preserves, and jams, a marvelous selection of baked goods, plus surprises galore filling the huge church hall. Of special note: the Unique Boutique that highlights the artisans in the congregation who have been preparing extraordinary surprises. New this year: the International Artisans Booth featuring gifts from around the world. Pet lovers will enjoy the gifts for animals at the Pet Booth. Treasures abound at the Jewelry and Yesterday's Treasures Tables. The Coffee Café is available all day long. A complete hot lunch, featuring the First Church Open Face Turkey Sandwich will be served beginning at 11:30 am.. The church is handicapped accessible and has ample parking. For more information, please call the church office (203) 265-1691.

AMERICAN RED CROSS LIFEGUARD TRAINING COURSE INCLUDES FIRST AID & CPR/FPR/AED Participants must be 15 years of age and able to swim 500 yards. Pre-test date-Thursday, Dec. 20, 7PM- Be prepared to swim. Class dates- December 26, 27, 28, & 31 from 9AM-5PM Fee: Wallingford YMCA members: $235 Program Members: $270 Fee includes textbook, pocket mask, and certification cards Call 203 269 4497 for more information and to register. www.wallingfordymca.org

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Meriden Preschool Teacher of the Year On October 17 at the annual meeting of Meriden Children First, the Meriden School Readiness Council celebrated the 10th year of the School Readiness program. School Readiness is a state grant program that enables the City of Meriden to fund nine accredited child care programs, serving 313children. School Readiness helps provide quality preschool programming for Meriden residents. The grant works on a sliding fee scale helping to reduce and or provide free care for families.

In honor of ten great years of School Readiness, the School Readiness Council along with Meriden Children First started the first annual preschool teacher of the year award.

This year's winner of the award was Cindy Eddy of St. Andrew's Nursery School. Cindy has gained the respect and admiration of students, parents, co-workers and the community. She inspires students of all backgrounds and abilities to learn. She also plays an active and useful role in her community. Cindy frequently goes above and beyond her classroom responsibilities and distinguishes herself as a strong leader.

As a recognition for her efforts, Cindy received a beautiful certificate for herself and for her preschool program. Along with this certificate, the Cindy received a $100 gift certificate from Lakeshore Learning, a $50 gift certificate from Violi's Restaurant and a $100 gift certificate from Meriden Westfield Shopping Center.

For more information about the School Readiness Program contact Jessica Stewart at 630-4236.

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November Poll What's your favorite and least favorite Thanksgiving dish?

Thanksgiving foods have a different ring when you are vegetarian. My dad makes good stuffing and stuffed mushrooms for his "vegetarian" daughters. I also look forward to garlic mashed red potatoes. But my favorite this time of year??? Butternut Squash and Almond Bisque. YUM!! - Carrie My favorite Thanksgiving day food is turkey, and I really like cranberry sauce. I like home baked bread, and pecan pie is by far my favorite pie. I know a Chinese-American family that puts water chestnuts in their stuffing. Katrina Alxerod My favorite thanksgiving dish is a toss up between turkey(white meat) and stuffing smothered in gravy and my mother's fried summer squash (which I'll never have the way she cooked it again because she's gone) and my least favorite is cranberry sauce with whole berries. Diana

so bad close enough to their nose to ingest it?

Horrifying. - Ralph Riello Flora: Favorite dish: Tie between good stuffing and sweet potatoes topped with marshmallows baked to perfection.

Least Favorite: Creamed onions What is not to like? It is the best day for people being positive. - Kate McBride Rocky Mountain Oysters are my favorite - Dave My favorite Thanksgiving dish is Turnip :-) Least favorite is green bean casserole :-( Cathy Love a turkey, eat vegetarian!!!! - Bren & Ern Favorite.....Twice baked potatoes stuffed with bacon and hickory smoked cheddar cheese.. Least Favorite....turnips and soggy green beans.

Favorite - Twice baked potatoes, my grandma makes them the best!

Least favorite - Whole berry cranberry sauce, it's too gushy - Allison Sprafke

Favorite: Pumpkin Pie Least favorite: Candied Yams (YUCK!) - Mark Hughes

My favorite is the appetizers (shrimp) and the jello with strawberries and bananas My least favorite is the green bean casserole - Kristen

My favorite Thanksgiving dish is sweet and sour red cabbage the way my grandmother made it and my mother still does. I also love the turnips! Add those two items to the turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing and gravy and life doesn't get any better - Pam White

My favorite dish may be the pumpkin pie. My least favorite would be turnips. See, son, I did read your mail.

Will miracles never cease? - Mom

My favorite thanksgiving dish is everything that my brother-in-law makes - especially since I don't have to cook it. Least favorite would be brussels sprouts, but if he ever ventured there, I think the family would rebel Betty Berger/Meriden My favorite dish is stuffing. My least favorite dish is sweet potatoes - YUK!!! Andrea My earliest memory of Thanksgiving, the smell of turnip cooking turned my stomach inside out. I was forced to at least eat some of it off my plate, and I gagged during the entire most unpleasant process. To this day if I smell turnip cooking, it makes me sick. The best part of Thanksgiving for me was always the drumstick on the turkey. If one was not available, I made due with the wing. Dark meat is definitely the best! Yum! - Barbara If you consider beets a dish, that's my pick for least favorite. I hate beets! Very tough to pick a favorite. If I had to choose, it would be a chestnut and sausage stuffing! - Dan D'addio Least favorite, sweet potatoes. Favorite is mashed potatoes with gravy Roger My least favorite Thanksgiving item is turnip (Yuk) and my favorite is PUMPKIN PIE!! Thanks Tracy Mashed Potatoes are my favorite and the briscuit is my least favorite. - Heather Sarkin Least favorite is turnip with melted marshmallows. It's always touted as a family tradition and rarely touched. William Dennett Least favorite is cranberry sauce, and favorite is stuffing Shirle

Favorite Dish: Hopefully this includes desert: Hands down: pumpkin pie with whipped cream (real whipped cream). Least favorite dish: Turnips. I still have to cook them because my husband and mother like them, but they stink up my house, and taste awful! Happy Thanksgiving!

- Denise My wife has this mystical ability of rendering our ordinary butterball turkey into a heavenly, golden brown delicacy. I always scramble for one of the well-browned, juicy legs...hmmm. Some may think I am un-American when I say, "I will pass on the stuffing". George Arndt Favorite: My dad's stuffing. It's made with sausage and onions and is so delicious my brothers and sisters all fight over the leftovers. Favorite after Thanksgiving is turkey, stuffing, and cranberry sandwiches. I don't have a east favorite, I like it all. Someone is cooking dinner for me, what's not to like? -Joan

For all the people who dislike turnip: Try cooking them with a shredded carrot, then mashing them with celery salt, pepper, butter, and heavy cream.

Then when you eat them mix them with mashed potatoes.

I always disliked turnip until my mother-in-law mixed them with mashed potatoes. Now I love them.

My favorite Thanksgiving foods are the turkey, stuffing, gravy (without giblets), pumpkin pie, and of course, turnip. My least favorite is whole cranberry sauce.

Favorite...mashed potatoes and gravy. Least favorite...squash - Yannick Gonzalez

Most loved dish: Stuffing Least Favorite pearl cream onions Submitted by Brenda Crosby

Favorite - whatever's for dessert. Least favorite - If I have to pick something, I guess it would be cranberry sauce. - Bill Mercuri

LEAST FAVORITE DESSERT MINCE MEAT PIE FAVORITE DISH STUFFING: WHO MAKES IT ME. Mary

Favorite: This item is tied into my ethnicity. My mother sautés a huge batch of fresh mushrooms with garlic every Thanksgiving. People in my family will argue over where the bowl of mushrooms will sit on the table. We never let it sit next to my brother. He is what we call a "cavone." Least favorite Thanksgiving dish: Simple.

Deviled eggs. How can anyone get something that smells

Brenda/Easel Works....for me...not one food....its all the trimmings with lots of gravy.....and don't forget the cranberry sauce!

I don't like real cranberry sauce made with real berries, now that's nasty, and my favorite is the green bean casserole! - Emma Connolly Favorite: mashed potatoes sauce - Lori

Least favorite: cranberry

Favorite: stuffing and gravy Least Favorite: creamed onions, yuk!

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I love stuffing and homemade apple pie the best. Joy

Turnips-least favorite Stuffing--favorite (my grandmothers) - Jacqueline Whoolery

My favorite of all time is Broccoli Rice Cheese Bake.

My sister Cathy makes it, and I could eat a whole dish of it. I still have nightmares about my least favorite - Mince Meat Pie. I don't know how anyone could like that. Jake Kilroy

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My favorite Thanksgiving day food was my mother's veal stuffing. She made it with milk crackers that always gave it a wonderful taste. . I recreate today.

My least favorites Thanksgiving Day Food was........HMMMMMMMMM...nothing at all!-Gina

Thanksgiving is a tough holiday for me - being the only vegetarian in the family - but, I absolutely LOVE homemade mashed potatoes & most of the veggies, so I can make a pretty good meal for myself. And I always bring a veggie burger just in case. I dislike any dish that was made "especially for me" (people tend to do that due to my veggie status & don't get me wrong, I DO appreciate it) because then the entire table makes sure I did indeed get some of whatever "it" is, and then they watch me eat the "special weird girls veggie dish" to see if I am going to gag & spit it out, or eat it.

Then I have to say how yummy it is, and this has gotten me into many a year of having to eat horrible food usually made from the back of a soup can label, or items that were good the first, second & third time, but not the 56936324 time. Like cheddar cheese soup over broccoli with a tofu crumble, BBQ vegetable kabob and 89 bean baked beans.

Christi, glad I don't have to suffer anymore in Meriden

Favorite: Pecan Pie Least: Turnip - Steve Zerio

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My favorite dish is everything really, whats not to like about Thanksgivng (plus its my bday!)

But if I had to choose I would have to say pumpkin pie with home made whip cream!!!!!! - Nicole Giannetta

We are udderly wonderful at making holiday treats!

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Wallingford Park and Recreation Fun Events NINE AND A CHICKEN This year's hunt will be one for the ages. Participants will be required to go to the Recreation Department to pick up a packet of CERTIFIED clues. (We want to make sure that all participants start from the Recreation Department so everyone has a fair shot) These clues will lead you to 9 cardboard turkeys and the bonus chicken. All cardboard turkeys and chicken will be hidden on Wallingford town property. The object is to locate a turkey and return it to the Parks and Recreation for the gift certificate.

Awards: To be awarded to the first three families. Clues must be handed in at time of redemption.

When: November 16, 2007 Time: 7:00p.m.

Where: Wallingford Parks and Recreation Department Fee: Free HOL IDAY EXTRAVAGANZA!!!

Visits with Santa, Frosty Parade and the Annual Tree Lighting Ceremony. All events will be held on Saturday December 1, 2007 beginning at 2:00p.m. The event will start at the Wallingford Town Hall!

Visits with Santa and Mrs. Clause 2:00-4:45p.m. ** You must be in line by 4:45 to assure your visit with Santa. Horse and Carriage Rides 2:00-5:00p.m. Music, entertainment, cookies and visits with Toy Soldiers. Frosty Parade will begin in front of the Town Hall at 5:15 and march to the Johanna Manfreda Fishbein Park followed by music from the Wallingford Chorus, reading of "Twas' The Night Before Christmas" by Mayor William Dickinson and finally followed by the annual Tree Lighting Ceremony. All events sponsored by Wallingford Public Celebrations and Wallingford Parks and Recreation Department.

CITY OF MERIDEN NOVEMBER EVENTS

TRAILBLAZER HIKING PROGRAM The 2007 Trailblazer Hiking Program concludes in November with two hikes to explore Meriden's scenic areas. Dates & sites include(4:00PM start): Date Site 11/8 Hubbard Park (pool parking lot) The hikes will last approximately 1.5-2.0 hours. Hiking boots or other comfortable footwear is strongly suggested.

TURKEY HUNT Tom the Turkey is trying something new! To avoid being found, he has chosen five hiding spots this year. Clues to the five locations will be given on the Recreation Activity Line (630-4279) on the following dates: 11/5, 11/7, 11/9, 11/12, & 11/14. Children ages 12 & under are asked to identify the locations on paper and submit them to the Parks & Recreation office (460 Liberty Street) by 4:00PM on Monday, November 19th. Entries can be mailed or delivered inperson and should contain the child's full name, address, phone, school, and grade level. One winner will be selected by drawing to receive a special Thanksgiving prize package. Remember, Tom is not physically located at his hiding locations.

VETERANS' DAY CEREMONY The Meriden United Veterans Council will hold the 2007 Veterans' Day Ceremony on Sunday, November 11th at the Stop & Shop Veterans' Plaza (across from the Broad Street monuments) at 12:00PM. The public is invited & encouraged to show their appreciation to those who have given so much in protecting our freedom. Refreshments will be provided.

FESTIVAL OF SILVER LIGHTS ILLUMINATION CEREMONY The 2007-2008 Festival of Silver Lights will kick off on Tuesday, November 20th with a special lighting ceremony at Hubbard Park's pool parking lot at 6:00PM. The event will feature music, entertainment, costumed characters, refreshments, and the chance to see this year's holiday lights illuminated for the very first time.

WASHINGTON PARK JUNIOR DRUM CORPS The Washington Park Junior Drum Corps is looking for new members ages 10 & older. No experience is necessary and instruments are provided. There are openings for fifes, bells, trumpets, baritones, color guard, and drums. Members learn to play an instrument, read music, march in parades, and take part in competitions. Meetings are at John Barry School on Wednesday nights from 6:30-9:00PM during the school year and at the SMVFD during the summer. All recruits, experienced or not, are welcome. Stop in Wednesday night or call 294-1430.

2007-2008 CO-ED ADULT VOLLEYBALL PROGRAM Organized recreational volleyball games for adults ages 18 & older take place every Wednesday night at the Meriden YMCA(110 West Main Street) in South Meriden from 6:00-8:30PM. The program runs through March 26th. A onetime $25.00 registration fee can be paid onsite any night the program is in session.

INDOOR PUBLIC SWIM PROGRAM The 2007-2008 Indoor Public Swim Program takes place at the Maloney HS pool on the following dates & times: Mondays, Wednesdays, and Thursdays from 6:30-7:45PM and Saturdays & Sundays from 12:00-3:45PM. All interested participants must possess a valid 2006 pool pass. Available for purchase at the Parks & Recreation office, passes cost $5.00 for adults and $1.00 for children ages 17 & under. Potential recipients must come to the office in-person and bring proof of Meriden residency to receive a pass.

MERIDEN MEN'S BASKETBALL LEAGUE Team registrations for the 2007-2008 Meriden Men's Basketball League will be accepted through Wednesday, November 7th at the Parks & Recreation office. The entrance fee is $475.00 per team. Games will begin in late November and run through March. Games are played on weekday nights at Washington Middle School, Lincoln Middle School, and the Meriden YMCA. Teams interested in obtaining a registration packet are asked to call 630-4259.

MERIDEN SKATEPARK The Meriden Skate park, located on the corner of Coe Avenue & Hamilton Street, has the following hours of operation (weather permitting): School Days 2:00PM-Dusk Non-School Days 11:00AM-Dusk

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Wallingford Senior Center November 28, Let's work on our cognitive health! Learn ways to improve your memory, attention, problem-solving, planning and language skills at the Brain G.Y.M.M. (Get Your Mind Moving) Mind Aerobics workshop on November 28. This program, presented by Patti Said, Executive Director of the New England Cognitive Center, was made possible by a donation from the Kiwanis Club of Wallingford. Be sure to register in advance if you plan to attend. This program is FREE and open to the public.

2007 HALLOWEEN HOUSE DECORATING CONTEST RESULTS Results from the 2007 Halloween House Decorating Contest are as follows: MOST CREATIVE SCARIEST ENTRY 52 Clinton Street 1.

85 Linsley Avenue 41 Swain Avenue 2.

48 Virginia Drive 248 Curtis Street 3.

142 Schwink Drive BEST AUTUMN THEME BEST OVERALL 123 Collins Avenue 1.

67 Hillside Street 100 Sandy Lane 2.

502 Gracey Avenue 112 Westfort Drive 3.

13 Baldwin Avenue The Meriden Recreation Division would like to thank all entrants in this year's contest for their effort & enthusiasm and wish everyone a happy & safe Halloween!

MERIDEN-CHILDREN'S THANKSGIVING SPECIAL Monday, November 19th at 6:30 pm. - Come along and have some fun. Make special placements for your family members, play games, listen to stories, do some other crafts, have a snack. Get ready for Thanksgiving at your house. This program is for children ages Kindergarten through third grade. Registration is required.

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The greatest gift you can give is the gift of presence. Being a volunteer means becoming a member of a caring and compassionate hospice team. Hospice is about living every day to its fullest...it's all about quality not quantity of life.

There are many volunteer opportunities available.... companionship, respite for weary caregivers, animal assisted therapy, sharing your musical or artistic talents, or helping in the office. You choose what's best for you!

Training to become a hospice volunteer with Connecticut VNA's hospice will be starting soon in our Wallingford office. We offer a Medicare approved volunteer training as well as continuing education and support. Begin the hospice volunteer journey today - call Jolan Szollosi, Volunteer Coordinator at 203-679-5342.

Thanksgiving Day comes, by statute, once a year; to the honest man it comes as frequently as the heart of gratitude will allow. ~Edward Sandford Martin

OLD OAKS, STONE WALLS & BUCK TRACKS

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When forebears plowed the dark river mud soil, They piled short castles and walls, marking metes, Denoting bounds and spatial alignments in perpetuity, That if I should ever depart my birthplace in years, Still constant remained place, decrying rude development, Old signposts unchanged like eternal oaks, and buck tracks.

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GRIEVING TO ACHIEVING ABOARD THE USS NIMITZ

By Dan LaRosa The marine screamed loudly at his new recruits. "Stand at attention.

Drop and give me twenty push-ups.

Do it now! Stop laughing."

Suddenly the music of Tchaikovsky's Swan Lake began playing. Again the marine hollered, "STOP LAUGHING AT ME!" But no one listened. By now the audience was laughing hysterically as the marine, dressed in his fatigues and combat boots began delicately dancing a fluttering ballet!

As a comedy stage hypnotist, I've used this "drill sergeant becomes a ballet dancer" routine with hundreds of volunteers in college and corporate shows, but this was a first for me!

Here was a real-life hypnotized marine performing in front of 3000 sailors and leathernecks on board the hanger deck of the nuclear powered aircraft carrier, USS NIMITZ. The carrier was returning home to San Diego, California from the Pearl Harbor Naval Base in Honolulu, Hawaii. In the tradition of Bob Hope, I was performing my comedy hypnosis show for these brave men and women who were on an extended tour of the Persian Gulf. Away from family and friends, they were exhausted and morale was low. I was told a few laughs would go a long way to help cheer them up. After all, laughter is supposed to be the best medicine.

But how could I cheer up battle-fatigued troops when I needed some cheering up, too? Just three months earlier, my beautiful wife Christine, passed away in her sleep without warning. Christine was a well-known Middletown High School Spanish teacher. She spent her summer vacations as a volunteer teaching in one of the bleakest places on earth: the garbage dump of the city of Tijuana, Mexico. Most people think of TJ as a popular and wild tourist destination, but on the edge of the city there is another Tijuana. The city allows its poor to build shanties on a landfill dump.

Their tiny shacks have no water or electricity but they have a school that Christine helped build. Every summer she lived with the poor and taught English to the children of the Tijuana garbage dump!

Life was wonderful! I was at the top of my game as a stage hypnotist. I performed over 150 shows per year throughout the United States, Europe, the Caribbean, and even Mexico, where I entertained in the most elegant resorts of Cancun and Acapulco. But on June 15, 2007 my world collapsed. My wife was gone. I was devastated, exhausted and depressed. My morale was at an all-time low. How could this happen to me? I doubted I would ever perform again or even regain my sense of humor.

The Nimitz is over 23 stories tall with a flight deck the size of 4 football fields. It is the same size as a luxury cruise liner, but that's where the similarity ends. My previous "cruising" experience was on ships where everything was glamorous and the staff catered to our every whim. Christine and I would lounge by the pool soaking in the sun while reading the latest Grisham novel. Our suites always had large living rooms, beautiful bathrooms with a shower and a Jacuzzi, and even our own private balconies. What a difference on the Nimitz! Forty sailors and I shared quarters crammed with racks of bunk beds stacked three high with no private bathrooms or showers. On my first night with lights out, I startled a sleeping sailor as I mistakenly got into the wrong bunk. I had volunteered for "duty" aboard the USS Nimitz, but that night I wondered, "What had I gotten myself into?"

What I had gotten myself into was one of the greatest and most satisfying adventures of my life! The men and women of the Nimitz were returning home from active war duty in the Persian Gulf on one of the longest carrier operations in naval history. They were tired, homesick, and stressed, and they were ready to have some fun. But, was I ready?

Only 350 people attended the first show, and they were somewhat reluctant to participate. Sometimes people think all we hypnotists do is make people cluck like chickens or bark like dogs, but anyone who has ever seen my show knows that the volunteers have a really great time and they feel fantastic! Word got out that the hypnotist was "okay" because over 1000 people attended the next show, and then over 3500 people came to watch the last show. But, then a surprise! The executive officer of the Nimitz asked if I would perform an additional show for a special guest, Governor Arnold Schwartzenegger.

The Governor was scheduled to arrive on board by helicopter to meet and greet the men and women of the Nimitz, and to attend my hypnosis show with all the troops. Everyone was excited, the stage was set, and I was eager to meet and entertain one of the world's best-known celebrities. And then disappointment; at the last minute the Governor's schedule was changed and his visit to the Nimitz was canceled. But, the show, like life, must go on. And, so it did.

I was impressed with the dedicated young men and women of the USS Nimitz who volunteered to serve our country.

They told me that during the shows for a little while they forgot about their own problems. Funny thing is, I forgot about my problems too!

Most people find stage hypnosis to be amazing and hilarious, but there is another side to this awesome mind technology, the therapeutic side. Many on board asked if I would help them quit smoking, eliminate stress, or shed a few unwanted pounds. I began my career as a hypnotherapist conducting private sessions, and so I said yes. After the first few sessions I realized why I became a hypnotist in the first place: to help others reach their goals and improve their lives.

My journey on the Nimitz really was a remarkable and fun time. For me it was life changing.

FOOD-DRUG INTERACTIONS Wallingford Senior Center November 14, 10:00 a.m.

Did you know that medications need to be taken at different times depending on when you eat? Did you know that medications can interact with nutrients in food?

Learn more about drug interactions with food and other drugs. Denise Romeo, R.Ph., Certified Geriatric Pharmacist from OSCO Pharmacy at Shaw's will give advice, answer questions and provide handouts and giveaways. Register by calling 2657753.

This program is FREE and open to the public.

He who thanks but with the lips Thanks but in part; The full, the true Thanksgiving Comes from the heart. ~J.A. Shedd

"Why Can't Johnny Sing?"

Part 2 of 2 By Katrina S. Axelrod How many students know what a cello is and don't think it is a dessert? This is killing our country. The Arts Economy is Flat-lined. We have no one to carry on the Artists' traditions, the basic information, the techniques, the love, the existence of the oboe. The what? The oboe. (Look it up).

The younger the student expresses an interest, the more the public school system fails the artistic student. If that student goes to a school where there are no oboes, well then the student will never learn that she could be a world-class oboe player. Then when that student does have a chance to discover it, it will be in college, (again if the family's economy works out) and then studying the oboe becomes a very expensive prospect indeed. Now there were obviously years wasted that cannot be made up for, and if the student has gone to college outside Connecticut because there is no program enticing enough, now this represents a "Brain Drain " and "Talent Drain". Lost to the Connecticut Economy, lost to the Arts Economy.

When we deny our students their rights to creativity, we pay a dear price, but it is like bridge repair, you don't notice it at first. Silent. When we add the Arts back into the curriculum, we add the reason that some kids go to school.

Some kids are artistic kids. In the exact same proportion as there are kids who do other things. But the Math and Science and Auto Mechanics-inclined students get their public school training and the arts kids don't. They should complement each other in the spectrum that is good public education. Not just rich kids are artistic. The rich kids just get the oboes.

Multiply that by every school system. Every school system, even the rich ones. Because every school system has kids who are being denied the Arts in school, even the really rich ones. That is because the Arts themselves are being denied another talented member when a public school doesn't teach the subject. The Arts are so far back on the bus that they are hanging off the back bumper.

Who cares? I do. So do the parents of kids who are showing their artistry at three years old. Violin, harp, accordion, I've seen it. "Mommy, I want to learn the language of Music". That is an actual quote from a young lady musician, who was then three years old. What will become of these students of music who are already choosing for themselves that which they love? Can we in good conscience bundle them off to kindergarten, give them 'happy sticks' and ask them to pound out some inane song or another? Meanwhile the musically-inclined child is feeling the music in his/her soul, reading music and performing for family and friends. What does school have to offer in first and second grade? Talented and gifted is only for fourth graders in many schools. But in the reality of a child's life, there is a continuum, a life span, to consider. For the kid, being talented in a public school is a lonely social experience, because no one in the school knows you even play an instrument, because 'nobody else is doing it' until fourth grade. By this time kids who started young, in accordance with their talents, are playing Bach and Vivaldi and the public school kids are seeing music for the first time, the public school kids aren't your peers- again!

These ultra talented students are treated like well, the exception, in a bad way. They are exceptional, in a good way.

That's another kind of 'diversity' that teaches something too. Cultural Diversity is not the only Diversity there is. There is Talent Diversity. Talent Diversity is a good thing; it is one of the more positive ways of helping inspire kids to change themselves in their own chosen field- such as Science or any other. Kids who strive teach other kids to strive.

But right now, there is nowhere in the public school system for them.

Kindergartens are places for children to explore and discover. When they explore the sports portion of their abilities, it is picked up quickly; those teeny-tiny hockey sticks and these itty-bitty bats and ½ size soccer balls will attest to that.

But how many parents know that there are 1/8 sized violins? There are 1/8, ¼, ½ -sized version of lots of instruments, and that's why piano benches go up and down.

So, we should rearrange our budget priorities for a few exceptional children? No, we should rearrange our budget priorities for all children. Will all children become mathematicians? No. But we have math books-aplenty. You see where I'm going with this? There are plenty, years worth, of opportunities for children to realize that they are mathematicians. Or scientists or Olympians, for crying out loud. But where is the child down the street going to be able to learn to draw a three-dimensional object, or photograph the moon's craters, or design a building? The Math kids are sometimes the Music kids, too. They all deserve a good public school education.

The students who learn like this grows up like this. Go ahead; ask 10 kids at the age of 10 what an oboe is. Ask the parents the difference between a band and an orchestra.

Now I've shown you that schooling can be incomplete, too, perhaps now you feel foolish. That was not my intent.

My intent is to tell you that there are worlds within worlds awaiting discovery, outside and inside every human being, and they include the Arts. Maybe you didn't get shown them. But your children are different people and you want and should expect a more complete education than you got. That is how a civilization progress.

Even the Army has a band. You can serve our country playing music. But it is extremely hard to get into - it is the elite, the cream of the crop. One would have to start playing early in life to be admitted after audition. Gee, I wonder who gets in?

Children grow to know what they are taught. Some drum on trash cans and anything else they can find. Some become listless in school, knowing that nothing reaches them, a loss to themselves and our State of Connecticut.

Oh, over-reaching am I? How many violinists are on your block? You don't know and neither do it, because some of them will never have had a chance to find out.

Next: The Artists' "Brain Drain" The Artistic "Brain Drain" in this country isn't spoken about much. It never makes the news. It exists. There are fewer orchestras, there are fewer communities willing to support an orchestra. AH, the Metropolitan Opera is having a wonderful success with piping their operas into movie theaters. People are going! They come home singing. There is hope.

There is opening up for more accessibility and there is marketing. Remember the Metropolitan Museum of Art? Big business, because the New York City Arts community can afford to put money into Marketing and put more creativity in getting your attention. They need Connecticut bucks, too. That's fair; we want them to be there in New York when we visit.

Next: "The Brains" What do we suppose goes through the mind and heart of a child who KNOWS that he wants to play the trumpet for a living? Well, the one I know got roundly and soundly told to choose something else, because that 'just wasn't practical'.

I got that, too. Singing was something that you did in the shower. OK- tell Barbara Streisand that - her Mom wanted her to be a typist. But, Barbara sang and we're glad she did. It was very hard road. And that's for a person of her talent!

Should we make it easier for artists (all artists, now) to make a living? Hmmm, isn't that what the National

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Endowment for the Arts (NEA) does? Yes, it is. And without entering any politics in this discussion, the NEA is laying on its side, panting for life-sustaining water, that is- money and cooperation.

The circular argument goes like this: So, why put more money into the NEA? Afterall, (seemingly), there aren't very many people who pursue the arts, (because they aren't taught in public schools anymore), so no one cares enough to keep them funded. My point precisely. We are Arts-deficient and there is almost no one left to scream about it. The bad guys have damn-near won.

I care, a lot. I am not giving up. I propose a different way of thinking about the arts- a life-cycle approach. And in one generation, we'll be back where we should be. Remember those kids who come into the school system every year? We'll think of their arrival in school as Round 1. Those children can learn about the arts with our existing system-when we move the figures around to include more music and movement and drawing and imagining and nurture the children for who they are we get them, as they come in. Not things that take a whole lot of money, just common sense and sensitivity, like Math/Lit courses. Math/Arts courses or Writing/Music Courses. Take the resources we have, move them around, and listen to what the children say to us. Teach them as they come to us. The new arts students who come to the Middle Schools, the High Schools and Universities this year are new, too.

Think of these students as Round 1, too.

So, now we have five year olds and 13 year olds and 15 year olds and 18 year olds. Everyone can learn. It is only the level of instruction that has to change for the students, not the students themselves.

When we use our school systems' natural areas of redundancy and turn them into a more profitable use of the resources, we will all win with students who get a more balanced education. Students who become Connecticut Grown Artists. "Connecticut Grown" isn't just for milk and produce anymore.

Professional artists are in our communities. I suggest that we offer to teach them to teach, and hire them. Not everyone is a teacher, but some are, and we have GREAT teaching schools. Then we take the 18 year olds and teach them how to teach and we hire them when they become 22 year olds, or whenever they finish their training.

And, in Round 2, we teach our elementary school students and our middle school students with these teachers and teaching-interns. Then as the natural process of attrition starts to require new people to replace those retiring, we have a bevy of well-trained candidates from whom to choose. So who are these people in this bevy? Yes, they are the Connecticut Artists that are now recognized in our communities are Entrepreneurs. They will be regarded well for the arts that they do. They can make their living in the Arts by teaching, or he or she can help pump up the communities' arts economies because more money will be flowing through it. The Arts are natural multipliers in the big National Economy. Let's use the Commission on Culture and Tourism to teach more entrepreneurial and managerial skills that the new artist needs to get established. Let's get the Local Artists into the local Connecticut Chambers of Commerce. They can support themselves as artists because communities want them, as purposeful and valued members of communities who can make a living wage doing/sharing/continuing their art. More people buy their art, and, learning about their art, (maybe even cultures and traditions, too?) appreciate their arts. Children learn and then turn the Arts into their own Arts.

Local Arts institutions become relevant again. Hence, "The Arts Economy."

And it goes around, and around in a self-sustaining, meaningful way. And we live to see Round 3. We will be Round 3.

Katrina S. Axelrod is a Meriden resident and has founded the Meriden ArtsTrust, (MAT), an incubator agency for programs that link youth with the Arts. The MAT is now administering the Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra. Meriden ArtsTrust may be contacted at meridenartstrust@yahoo.com Reader's views are requested.

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Rediscovering Family

CHESHIRE GARDEN CLUB HOLIDAY LUNCHEON Fabulous floral designer Bill Graham, from the Boston area, will be the featured program speaker at the Cheshire Garden Club's Holiday Luncheon on Wednesday, December 5, 2007 at the Aqua Turf. Back by popular demand, his eight floral holiday designs will be raffled off just before lunch.

Tickets are $35. per person and are available through Tony Fay, 518 Wolf Hill Road, Cheshire, CT, 06410, Tel. 203-272-4173. Luncheon choices are Baked Salmon, Chicken Francaise, NY Sirloin, and Eggplant Parmigiana.

Doors open at 9:30 a.m. You can shop at the Boutique, where a large variety of crafts are on sale, including fresh green wreaths, swags and table top arrangements; also, cement planters and decorated leaves; diverse holiday gift items; and the always popular gourmet and baked goods items.

Try your luck at the general raffle to win a most exquisite quilt and other gorgeous gift items. Order your tickets soon. First come, first serve.

Proceeds from this annual fundraiser will be applied toward scholarships and civic and youth projects.

Crafters Needed SS. Peter & Paul Orthodox Church in Meriden is holding a Holiday Extravaganza on November 3, 2007. Crafters and local artisans will be present. In addition, the Church will open up its kitchen specializing in a variety of ethnic foods. There will be a tea cup raffle as well. The craft show will run from 9:00 am -3:00 p.m. It will be held at St. Peter & Paul's Community Center located at 305 Center Street, Meriden, CT. For information and crafter registration, please contact Linda Craig @ 203-269-9759.

Celebrations of Life and Home I bought this stuffed cat for my Grandson Emerson.

It seems like Mootz knows a good friend when he feels one.He took his afternoon nap all curled up with this cat.

I couldn`t pass up this picture.

Don’t go over empty handed!

By Bill Mercuri "So how are you spending the holidays?" I asked a good friend.

"Oh, I can't wait for them to be over. What a hassle. I can't stand my brother-in-law and to drive fifty miles to my mother's house only to have to sit there and listen to her and my grandmother fight all afternoon over something that happened twenty years ago. This one doesn't talk to that one and my cousin Tom just stirs the pot and makes it even worse. I hate it" "You're serious? You don't get along well with your family."

"I'm serious."

How sad, I thought.

Some of the most interesting people I've ever met or haven't met are members of my own family; each one with his or her own story to be told and history to be revealed. In our book of life, they're the characters.

This summer, I was at a family reunion. There were aunts and uncles, brothers and sisters, cousins and in-laws.

One person I met was my cousin, Doreen. Doreen is probably a second or third cousin but with the Mercuri's, a cousin's a cousin. No matter what number comes before it, the relation is skin tight.

Doreen lives in Florida but through the magic of the internet is able to read some of my People's Press articles on line. She actually sent some unsolicited (honest!) fan mail to the editor, asking when one of my stories would appear next. I tend to write about family. Our family I'll bet I hadn't seen Doreen in more than 20 years, but I enjoyed talking with her. She encouraged me to continue writing, at one point saying, "you should write a book!"

"I'm going to write a book? I have enough trouble meeting the People's Press deadlines once a month and I'm going to write a book? And if I were to write a book, I'd have to write about something I'm really passionate about. What would that be?"

Without hesitation Doreen said, "Your family! You're passionate about your family."

She was right. I am passionate about my family. Proud of our history with a hunger to learn about who I am by understanding those who came before me. Honored to sit and listen to good, decent people; people who won't make the headlines but whom live interesting and fulfilling lives, leaving their marks in so many ways.

Their stories are what books are made of. Think of the adventure of a 14-year-old boy leaving his home and family at the turn of the twentieth century, alone, boarding a ship bound for a brighter future in America. Each new immigrant needed a sponsor to claim him before he could enter the country. When the boy arrived, his sponsor failed to meet him. The boy worked his way back to Italy on a ship. Two years later he made the journey again, this time landing for good and starting a family of his own. Say hello to my grandfather.

Want to know about Joe Mercuri? Which one? There're five of them ranging in age from 91 to 22. Wouldn't it be great, if not confusing, to get the five Joe's around a table with some pasta, Italian bread from Boston (Joe, you bring the bread) and some wine and just let them talk for a few hours. There's a chapter right there.

How many more tales there must be? Enough to fill the pages of a book? Maybe, maybe not. But the fun would be in collecting the stories.

Your family has stories, too. So put aside the petty quarrels and make the holidays a reason to celebrate your family and write your own book.

In the meantime, I'll rely on my family to provide the backdrop for the next story. Maybe you'll enjoy reading them as much as I enjoy writing them. If you don't, that's OK. I know my family will.

Nature As a Mirror

by Dorothy Gonick

Cheesecake - No one makes it like Marianna’s with Mama’s Secret Recipe!!!

Hours: Tues.-Sat. 7-6; Sun. 7-2; Closed Mondays

CORNUCOPIA Drives along the countryside have been lovely this fall as though the earth had burst into flaming flower. On one drive we came to a rustic farm wagon piled with golden pumpkins and we marveled at the uniformity and sameness of their beauty. A short distance beyond we came to a veritable feast for eyes and senses. A farm produce stand was a picture of diverse color, shape and texture. There were the orange pumpkins; corn with rows of yellow kernels topped by dried husks, much like a young boy's thatch of tousled hair; smooth purple eggplants glistened near red, ripe tomatoes; glossy red and yellow apples nestled near a variety of hard shelled nuts; yellow crooked necked squash cradled a bouquet of broccoli. We sensed a keen awareness of God's creativity in the sweet, spicy, pungent produce!

The gathering of these diverse fruits into a harmonious cluster brought to mind a class of small children and their diversity. Variety not just of size, color or culture, but also their individual traits that the children will learn to accept or to tolerate. The classroom cornucopia of humanity will have the studious, the clown, the challenged, the worrier, the jolly, the bully, the meek, the gifted, the plodder: a more diverse combination of personalities that will seldom be found in many adult groups. It is heartwarming to remember how the children befriended and accepted friendships with one another regardless of their differences.

Our nation is a cornucopia of much diversity. 'Foreign' foods tempt us at mealtimes with exciting tastes and textures. Each nationality and culture adds its special flavor and influence to the creation of a people who acknowledge and embrace the diversity of others, adding depth and richness to life.

Let us celebrate our differences and be thankful that God in His wisdom did not make us copies of each other.

The unthankful heart... discovers no mercies; but let the thankful heart sweep through the day and, as the magnet finds the iron, so it will find, in every hour, some heavenly blessings! ~Henry Ward Beecher

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Wallingford Senior Center NOVEMBER 2007 Edition VETERANS DAY PROGRAM on Friday, November 9, 11:00 a.m.- Join us as we salute our veterans on November 9, at 11:00 a.m. Our keynote speaker will be Roy Cannon, who served in the U.S. Marine Corps and was part of the First Marine Brigade in Korea. The program will also feature patriotic music by the Vintage Voices and participation by local veterans groups. Do come to honor all those who have served our nation.

ITALY TRIP SLIDE SHOW on Thursday, November 8, 1:00 p.m. - A Collette Vacations representative will present a slide show on November 8, at 1:00 p.m., depicting a 10-day trip to Italy that departs April 21, 2008. The slide show will take you to Rome, Florence, Venice, and other great destinations in between. Registration for this trip will follow the presentation. Please sign up if you plan to attend.

THANKSGIVING BAKE SALE Tuesday, November 20. We are planning a Bake Sale to raise funds for Moses Y. Beach School as part of our ongoing partnership with this local elementary school. We need bakers and buyers! Please call 265-7753 to sign up to bake for this event. The goodies will be on sale on November 20 (just in time for Thanksgiving) from 9:30 a.m. to 3:00 p.m., or until supplies run out! Thanks in advance for supporting this special project.

HARVEST DANCE PARTY Friday, November 30, 1:00 - 3:00 p.m.- Vinnie Carr will provide the dancing and listening music and our Hospitality Committee will provide the refreshments at our Harvest Dance Party on November 30.

Bring your friends!

FALL PREVENTION PROGRAM Tuesday, November 13, 10:30 a.m.- Falls are the leading cause of injury deaths and the most common cause of hospital admissions for trauma for people aged 65 and older. Each year, nearly one third of older adults experience a fall. A program presented by the Rehabilitation Professionals from Brook Hollow Health Care Center on November 13, will offer techniques to avoid falls both in the home and outside environments. Balance reaction techniques and compensation techniques to improve safety will also be demonstrated. Call 265-7753 to register to attend.

LONG TERM CARE WORKSHOP Thursday, November 29, 10:30 a.m.- How will you finance long term care if you should have a medical problem that requires it? A workshop to explain the mechanics of long term care will be held November 29. Learn about the Deficit Reduction Act of 2006 and how it affects the "look back" period. Understand how the Connecticut Partnership program protects your estate if you should need long term care. Find out if a long term care policy is something you should consider to protect your retirement savings. This workshop will be presented by long term care specialist John Baez. Call 265-7753 to register to attend.

CREATIVE WRITERS GROUP - The Creative Writers Group held a meeting to discuss our upcoming magazine.

There were some wonderful stories and poems on many different subjects. Won't you join us and submit something?

We would love to have your submission. And, as always, please be sure to write your name and date on everything.

Thanks to all who did submit a story, poem, essay, or just thoughts on a subject.

SOCIAL SERVICES ENERGY ASSISTANCE DATES WALLINGFORD SENIOR HOUSING - Applications will be completed on the following dates and times. Please see your Community Room bulletin board for information on documents needed to complete applications.

Tuesday, November 27 McKenna Court from 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. Southside Terrace from 12:30 p.m.-2:30 p.m.

Thursday, November 29 John Savage Commons from 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m. East Side Terrace from 12:30 p.m.-2:30 p.m.

Tuesday, December 4 McGuire Court from 9:00 a.m.-11:00 a.m.

LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP - Michele Tarantino from Masonic Healthcare Center's Visual Rehabilitation Center invites you to attend our Low Vision Support Group on Friday, November 16, at 10:15 a.m. Michele will give an overview of the Visual Rehabilitation Center's resources, services and training for those with visual impairments.

Please register by calling 265-7753.

CT ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM 2007-2008 HEATING SEASON - The Wallingford Senior Center is an intake site for Wallingford residents, age 60 and over. The program provides financial assistance to income-eligible households to pay for a portion of their heating costs. Gas and electric customers can call beginning December 3 for an appointment. Income limits are: $20,420 for a single person and $27,380 for two people. Asset limits also apply.

Applicants MUST bring (2) photocopies of the following checklist documents: Most recent bank statement showing Social Security deposit amount, or a copy of a 2007 Social Security check, or Social Security "Your New Benefit Amount" letter for 2007.

Most recent checking, savings, CD, annuity, stock, bond documents.

2007 year-to-date pension or annuity dividends and/or interest income. Four most recent pay stubs, if employed.

Rental Income: rent stub or copy of check deposited into bank account.

Most recent heat utility bill. Electric bill.

Applications are by appointment only.

To schedule an appointment, please call 265-7753.

2008 MEDICARE PLANS: Informational Meeting on November 14, 1:00 p.m.

Well, it's that time of year again when we need to tune in to find out more about the 2008 Medicare Plans. Maybe you were pleased with your Medicare Plan last year, or maybe you decided you will look into other Medicare Plan options for this coming year. Either way, whatever your particular plan options, features, and premiums were in 2007, the 2008 Medicare Plans have changed again. Hear about the changes, ask questions, and enjoy refreshments. Please RSVP by November 9 to 265-7753. This program is FREE and open to the public.

FOOD-DRUG INTERACTIONS on November 14, 10:00 a.m.

Did you know that medications need to be taken at different times depending on when you eat? Did you know that medications can interact with nutrients in food? Learn more about drug interactions with food and other drugs. Denise Romeo, R.Ph., Certified Geriatric Pharmacist from OSCO Pharmacy at Shaw's will give advice, answer questions and provide handouts and giveaways. Register by calling 265-7753.

Instructional Music, Robotics, Advanced Placement, Student Code of Conduct, Mathletics, Technology Curriculum Plan, Project Challenge, School Readiness, Guided Reading, Early Childhood Assessments, School Facility Improvements, Summer Reading and Writing, Reduced Class Size, Middle School Foreign Language, Project Outreach, Read With Me Program, Math Literacy Teachers, Themed Middle Schools, Early Literacy Task Force, Interdistrict Sister School

Grants, Bristol Myers Collaboration, Science Resource Teachers, Pre-K Early Literacy Committee, CPR Course at Maloney and Platt, Instructional Associates, Exemplary Achievement Awards, Task Force for At Risk Children, Family Resource Centers, Minigrant Program, Venture Program, Inclusion Program, Distinguished Title One Schools.

Best attendance of ANY board member.

Hard work, dedication and an open mind.

FOR MERIDEN BOARD OF EDUCATION

ON NOVEMBER 6TH, FILL IN POSITION 8A This message was approved by Rob Kosienski, Jr. Paid for by Kosienski for Board of Education, BRUCE FONTANELLA, TREASURER

Mayor’s Corner - Meriden Dear Friends, I hope all is well with you and your family. As I drive around the City, I can't help but get excited about all the positive developments. Whether it is the new plaza going in at the former Spot site, the new Comfort Inn replacing the East Inn, or Diversified Physical Therapy at the former Garden of Eden location, positive tax generating development is occurring throughout our city.

We are also anxiously awaiting the opening of the new Ocean State Job Lot and Lowes. In addition to the new tax revenue, these developments clean up the area, provide job opportunities, and add quality businesses to our city.

With development abound on the east side of town, I am pleased to see the renaissance of South Broad Street. Vacant buildings and lots have turned over into new businesses. National retailers and insurance providers have chosen Meriden as their new home. Over west, we welcomed a quality plaza with new commercial tenants. In downtown Meriden we have seen private investors renovating buildings and placing new tenants in them. We have also aggressively fought blight and championed key demolitions. The HUB site will provide an opportunity to recreate our downtown center. Public input, private investment and state support are critical components. I would love to see new businesses and restaurants join our downtown merchants.

In closing, congratulations to Joe Carabetta, Barbara White, and Ed Naamon on their induction into the Meriden Hall of Fame. This is Meriden's most prestigious honor and Joe, Barbara, and Ed are most deserving recipients. I appreciate all your support. Your Friend, Mark D. Benigni - Mayor

What you need to know!

Chrysalis Staff accept plaque at the recent 30th celebration of domestic violence services to the Meriden-Wallingford area.

Celebrations of Life and Home

"Happy Birthday to my amazing Mommy. I adore you! All my love, Hunter Christian Pageau~Your Son, Your Moon and Your Star!

A Special Edition of View From The Village

by Ralph Riello It has been nearly four years since my first cathartic submission to this, Mr. and Mrs. Reynolds' most excellent publication. The personal rewards were such that I sweated deadlines for two years, nearly without fail (thanks to the publisher's patience). Pushing the deadline envelope and sweating the column in the waning hours of the month was my compensation. So was the visceral response from those whom, having read my published thoughts, loved or hated what I had to say. I was happy to promote a laugh, or social discourse in the search for clarity, even if it was just my own.

Some might call my disrespect of deadlines mere procrastination. Truth be told, I'm a bit of an adrenaline junkie. The thrill of racing anything, cars in my younger days, column deadlines, waning sunlight climbing mountains, bespeaks years spent working in live remote network television. While I am pulled further into middle age, there are less opportunities to quench my adrenaline-thirst. The excitement leading up to a remote event, the edgy adrenaline surge as the event unfolded, and the pressure of my part in it, laid bare to the participants, the fans, and my peers, tended to bring out the best in me. I was good at it, and I have statues to prove it.

For those of you new to this column, I announced my self-imposed sabbatical so that I could attend grad school and attempt a career change. I've almost completely traded remote events and a voyeur's ringside seat for the regularity and pressure of four shows a day in front of a live audience. I am now a high school teacher. I did return to the People's Press once during my time away, inspired by a remote event right here in my favorite village, one near and dear to my heart. I return again today, inspired by that same event, in the hopes of inspiring you to get motivated, either to help, donate or attend the ninth annual Christmas In The Village, happening on Saturday December 1st in the bucolic Village of South Meriden, also the inspiration for this column. I hope to return to my cathartic ramblings with regularity in this space, although as I've gained wisdom, I've learned not to make promises unless I intend to keep them. Let's just say I'm hoping for the best.

Christmas In The Village ("CITV" for the rest of this column) is one of those rarities that most folks believe only takes place in Norman Rockwell paintings or Hallmark cards. If you're new to the area, or share proclivities with the late Howard Hughes, the best I can say is that CITV is a Norman Rockwell painting come to life. I am honored to be part of a caring and hard-working committee of local volunteers, in partnership with businesses, residents, donors and other benefactors who pull together every year to provide a family holiday event that is open to anyone who wants to share the Holiday Spirit with a couple of thousand like-minded neighbors, friends, relatives, visitors, and four-legged creatures. For your convenience there are no longer any dates to remember from year to year. The committee decided as of last year that the event will always be held on the first Saturday of December. How easy is that?

Last year, I wrote about the history of the event, so I won't rehash that here.

You can find it in a past issue of The People's Press by visiting the website. I want to focus on what this year's event is with the goal of whetting your appetite, and possibly motivating you to give a little of your time, or money to this worthy cause. Donations can be made to CITV care of Tom's Place, 55 Main Street, South Meriden 06451. We are a 501c3, so your donation is tax deductible. We are also looking for volunteers to help put wreaths (paid for

by CITV) on light poles, on November 17th, 9am. Meet at the firehouse.

Volunteers are also needed for the day of the event in various capacities.

Community service hours are available to middle and high school students.

The event time frame is 2pm until roughly 5:30pm. Main Street will be closed from Webb Street to Evansville Avenue. Traffic help will be provided by the MPD and the Police Explorers. The event will once again be kicked off by the Santa Parade through the streets of the village. The city's mobile stage will be set up and once again I'll be on stage introducing acts, promoting our sponsors, and soliciting personal items in return for prizes from our local sponsors. Speaking of prizes, be sure to sign up for the popular house decorating contest, with three winners announced before the tree lighting. The stage will go dark around 5pm, when we move the party east to the park for the annual tree lighting ceremony.

In order to keep your strength up, refreshments at the event are provided free of charge thanks to the generosity of our sponsors, volunteers, and committee members. That includes baked apples (thousands served last year), chestnuts, popcorn, hot chocolate, coffee, and baked goods at various locations. Since we're providing food, we ask that in the spirit of the holidays, attendees bring a canned food item (or three) for distribution to local residents in unfortunate circumstances. Canned food items are collected in various locations throughout the event. Check the brochure for updated information. Local businesses will also be open and serving food, although we have no control over what they charge. No one is allowed to charge for vending in the street, so if you

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see somebody selling something, please come to the stage and let us know and that person will be asked to leave.

Refreshments aren't the only free offerings. Santa is at the firehouse and polaroids are available of the kiddies with the jolly one. So is face painting, entertainment, hot chocolate, and Amber Alert registration. At the western end of the festival, Hanover PTO is running a book sale at the elementary school, so stretch your legs and invest in your child's intelligence. South Meriden Trinity United Methodist Church a name that has taken me nine years to commit to memory, is providing a children's carnival and crafts fair. New Life Church will probably have something going on, but as of this writing, Reverend Will is still seeking divine guidance. We've asked the Connecticut Kempo Karate and Fitness Center to return for a demo. The stage will be populated throughout the day with familiar acts like The Connecticut Barbershoppers, Hanover Chorus, and our old friend Dennis from Top of the Key. Sadly, we've lost Kelly & Sean to greener pastures, so Dennis might be moved indoors to the firehouse. His fingers will thank us, and the kids will love him. Rudolph and Frosty will be making the rounds, and Nick Grasso and his Accordion could be back this year. Also on Main Street will be balloon animals, a craft tent, children's games, and two horse drawn carriage hay rides. In the past, the Bookmobile and the Meriden PD's rolling command post were on display, and we hope to see them back as well.

One of my favorite aspects of the event is the selection of a local charity. We provide them with a space, some promotion, and supplies for luminary bags that they sell for their purposes. This year, we are pleased to support the Platt & Maloney High School "GUS 228" Robotics program. "GUS" (the robot) and this amazingly talented group of students, parents, and volunteers need to raise money to compete in the national robotics championships in Atlanta, Georgia next spring. Their goal is six thousand dollars, so please plan to purchase a luminary bag to help them on their way. We hear so much about sports, but these folks compete just as intensely as any stick and ball sports team. If you want to help them out, contact Artie Dutra for more information at apdutra3@sbcglobal.net or visit their web site at www.team228.org . The headquarters for the event remains at Tom's Place, which is where the lost and found is located. It is also the location for the House Decorating Contest signup. If you don't want to sign up, nominate a neighbor who works hard at sharing their holiday spirit. All you have to do is give us the correct address, and we'll drive by and assess the work. As the event gets closer, visit our web site at www.southmeridenevents.org and see what's going on.

You should also check this site periodically for updates, and other events throughout the year. In the event of inclement weather, local news organizations are contacted with cancellation information. We don't expect any problems, but it's the weather in New England, so we're always prepared with a plan B. I hope you'll consider a donation or volunteering at this year's event. Meetings are every Tuesday evening in November at 5:30, Tom's Place, 55 Main Street.

We are always in need, and it's not easy to put on a free event of this magnitude without help. Tough as it is, the effort is always worth it when the faces of the children and the holiday spirit combine to create a village scene that Norman Rockwell would have been proud to paint. So spread a little of your holiday cheer, bring some cash for donations, some canned food for those in need, and wishes of good cheer for your neighbors as we all celebrate the holiday season together in my favorite place on earth. At that time of year, the view from the village is always good.

Thanks for listening. See you at the stage.

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Love Comes Tenderly Chapter 2

By Diana Lewis The alarm on the wind up clock by their bed went off. Sara heard it first and turned to Jason.

"Honey, it's time to get up." He groaned and turned over and looked at the clock. He hit the button to turn it off. He rolled over on his back and stretched. Sara sat on the edge of the bed. She got her clothes that she was wearing for the day that she laid on out the night before, on the rocking chair next to the bed.

"Just in case we run into any Indians. You should have one too."

'Yes, I supposed I should. He didn't tell him about the rifle he has stashed in his closet. He would dig it out and buys some shells and bring it along.

"Finally everything was packed that they could bring along. Sara was disappointed on some things she couldn't take so she took them to her mother to take care of. On July 22, the day before they were to leave, Jason went to the bank to sign the farm over to them and what ever equipment that was being left behind.

The next day, everyone from Sara's family and Jason's family came to see them off at the wagon train. They were two hours early so they had some time to visit. Jason and Mike went to find the wagon master and have a chat with him about the trip and what was expected. Sara's mother, Julienne cried her heart out. She was losing her baby. They hugged each other for the longest time. Jason and Mike came back just in time to say goodbye to everyone before the wagon master hollered "Wagons Ho" and they got into their wagons and waved goodbye until they couldn't see them anymore. Then Sara started concentrating on her new adventure.

They must have traveled about 10 miles and it was time to stop for dinner. The wagons joined into a circle and the women started making dinner for their families. They barely got the dishes cleaned up and repacked when the Wagon Master hollered "Wagons Ho" and they were off again. They went about another 20 miles to a river and the wagon master sent word back to everyone that they would be stopping for the night and crossing the river the next day. They formed a circle for the night. The women fixed the evening meal and they settled in for the night. Sara had just finished the dishes when some of the men took out harmonicas, and fiddles and started playing hymns. Everyone gathered and sang with them until they decided they better get some sleep for another day of traveling the next day.

The next day, they were awakened early and were rushed with their breakfast. Sara decided to walk with the women and children for a while. She met several of them. Mrs. Chamberlain and Mrs. Faulkner seem to throw insults at each other all the time. Sara couldn't tell if they were joking or they were serious. They were both middle age women with three children a piece. Sara also met Belinda Cross, who was more her age and was pregnant as well. They both hoped they'd make it to Missouri before their babies came. They were both due about the same time. They both became good friends on the trip. Sara and Jason often were over to Belinda and Thomas Cross's wagon in the evening after they dinner.

They were on the trail for a week and on Saturday night the wagon master told them that they wouldn't be traveling on Sunday. They could have the day to do as they pleased, but to be ready early morning to be on the trail again.

"How about we have ourselves a little church service.?" Suggested Thomas Cross.

"And who's going to be the preacher?" asked one of the men.

"Well, I can give a little Bible lesson," said Thomas. Then it was settled, they would have a service on Sunday morning at 11:00.

Sunday morning, Sara rose to a bright sunny morning that made her thank the Lord for His goodness on a very nice say for the church service. She had never been to one out of doors, but she was excited about it. Jason came around the wagon as she finished cooking their breakfast, "Are you going to the church service?" she asked.

"You know how I feel about church."

"But everyone is going. What will you do for the hour?"

"I've got plenty to do."

"But can't that wait till after church? We've got all day." He walked over to her and put his arms around her.

"It would mean a lot to you if I went, wouldn't it?"

"Yes, Darling, it would." she reached up and hugged him as well.

"Well, I'll this once, but please don't nag me to go, ok?" He kissed her.

"Okay."

They met Thomas and Belinda on the way to the clearing that they had chosen for their meeting. When they arrived everyone was standing around talking. At 11:00 Thomas went up front and got their attention.

"Is there a favorite hymn you would like to sing?" he asked.

"At the Cross" someone hollered out. Thomas started the song and the others joined in. They sang a few more hymns and Thomas started his message.

"If you have Bibles, we will be studying from Paul's letter to the Romans, chapter one. I will read the first five verses for now and we will talk about them and then go on till the end of the chapter, He read the verses. This is Paul's greeting to the Church in Rome .He calls himself a bond servant of the Lord Jesus Christ, the word bond servant means "slave". Paul was called to be an Apostle. He places himself on the same level as the twelve Apostles and he claims authority from God for His work."

The rest of the service was really interesting to Jason, but he wasn't sure he wanted to be a slave to anyone. They ended with another hymn and they broke up heading back to their wagons for dinner and doing some repairs on harnesses and things that needed repair. Today was a good day to do that.

Soon after supper, they went to bed so they could rise early the next morning and get on the trail again.

The next morning they rose to rain. The wagon master urged them on. Sara stayed in the wagon, trying to do some knitting for the baby. It was a bumpy ride and she knew Jason was soaked to the skin. She handed him a towel to wipe his face.

The train continued for two days. By that time they had reached the river. The wagon master halted the train for the night. During the night the rain had stopped, but everything was soaked and the roads were muddy. But today they would have to forge the river but the wagon master said the river was too high to cross. They would have to wait until the water level went down. They camped there for a week, when the wagon master thought it was safe enough to cross.

They went one wagon at a time. Sara sat with Jason in the wagon seat. She held on tight to the seat when they were crossing. They were the four wagon to get over to the other side of the river.

The wagon behind them had problems. The horse stopped in the middle and refused to go any further. The man, Walter Samson, had to get down off the wagon and almost pull the horses the rest of the way. Finally all the wagon were safely on the other side of the river. The wagon master urged them on. They needed to pick up some time. That week put them behind schedule. The nest few day he urged them on until almost dark before he let them stop for the night. They then had a quick supper and went to bed. There was no visiting these nights. They still had their customary Sunday stops and Thomas Cross did the service for them. They had been studying other chapter in the book of Romans each week.

Traveling on trail turned into a routine for everyone. Sara met most of the women when they were walking and the children. One lady, Amanda had two small children and this day they both decided to cry and wouldn't stop. Sara went over to her.

"Can I help?" she asked. The woman just looked her with relief in her eyes. Her children were getting to be a handful on this trip. Sara took the two year old and held and cooed to her and sang a hymn to her and she finally fell asleep on her shoulder. The mother was holding the four year old and he finally did the same. They took them to the wagon and laid them in there.

"I better get some rest myself while they are sleeping. Thank you so much for your help. I was getting beside myself."said Amanda.

"You are welcome. Anytime you need any help, just let me know." said Sara sincerely.

"You are a God sent, thank you." and she went in the wagon so they wouldn't hold it up for to long. Sara waved to her and went back to the la dies and children who were walking. She walked most of the day and went to the wagon a little while before they stopped for the night.

That night two children had come down with fevers. The women kept them in the wagons and gave them some medicine that they had brought with them. The wagon master kept them going, nevertheless. The nest day two other children came down with the fever and also an older woman. Sara went to help the families in the evenings. Within the next week five more people came down with the fever. Two of the children died who got it the first day. Thomas officiated at the funerals. Still the wagon master urged them on. Belinda was getting a little nervous about the baby she was carrying. She prayed that she wouldn't get the fever.

Within two weeks nine more people had the fever. One of them was Amanda's two year old. Sara went every day to help her with her other son. Finally he got it as well. Finally the wagon master had them stop so they could take care of the ill. Sara worked from sun up til sun down, helping them all. She started getting weary and Jason made her take a day off from it and get some rest before she got sick too. She had to think about their baby. Sara reluctantly did what her husband told her to do. When she woke up the next day it was 2:00 in the afternoon and she was still tired. Jason put her to bed again soon after supper.

Look for Chapter 3 in the next issue

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Our Lady of Fatima - Craft Fair Nov. 10 A craft fair will take place on Saturday, November 10, from 9am to 3pm in the parish hall of Our Lady of Fatima Church, 382 Hope Hill Road, Yalesville.

Over 20 tables of local crafters. Raffles, bake sale, lunch kitchen will be available. Hall is handicapped accessible. The public is invited.

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Celebrations of Life and Home

Dear People’s Press I have been a single mom for 11 years and work very hard for what I have including to teach my son well and give him a decent lively hood. Five years ago my son won a new bike from his school and gave to a young person that had none so they could ride together where we lived then. He has been noted for all good deeds that he has done at his young age. He grew out his old BMX bike . I bought him another one that was better fitted so that he could race at Falcon Field here where we now live and registered him to compete locally and nationally. He recently took 3 trophies and he goes to the field to practice on his NEW red BMX that was stolen! He has since seen the boys who are taller and older. They say thanks for bike and he's afraid of them so, he only says I didn't give it to you but I have another one you can have if you need it.

I'm writing because someone knows who they are and knows it does not belong to them. They broke his "spirit" he's devastated! Please print this and hopefully that someone will help to recover this bike for him.

God Bless.

Abraham Lincoln's Thanksgiving Proclamation

GRANDMA

Congratulations to Vumbacco on the birth of her new granddaughter Sarah Margaret. Sarah’s proud parents are Christin and Kevin.

The year that is drawing towards its close, has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added, which are of so extraordinary a nature, that they cannot fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever watchful providence of Almighty God. In the midst of a civil war of unequalled magnitude and severity, which has sometimes seemed to foreign States to invite and to provoke their aggression, peace has been preserved with all nations, order has been maintained, the laws have been respected and obeyed, and harmony has prevailed everywhere except in the theatre of military conflict; while that theatre has been greatly contracted by the advancing armies and navies of the Union. Needful diversions of wealth and of strength from the fields of peaceful industry to the national defence, have not arrested the plough, the shuttle, or the ship; the axe had enlarged the borders of our settlements, and the mines, as well of iron and coal as of the precious metals, have yielded even more abundantly than heretofore. Population has steadily increased, notwithstanding the waste that has been made in the camp, the siege and the battle-field; and the country, rejoicing in the consciousness of augmented strength and vigor, is permitted to expect continuance of years with large increase of freedom. No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy. It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently and gratefully acknowledged as with one heart and voice by the whole American People. I do therefore invite my fellow citizens in every part of the United States, and also those who are at sea and those who are sojourning in foreign lands, to set apart and observe the last Thursday of November next, as a day of Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens. And I recommend to them that while offering up the ascriptions justly due to Him for such singular deliverances and blessings, they do also, with humble penitence for our national perverseness and disobedience, commend to his tender care all those who have become widows, orphans, mourners or sufferers in the lamentable civil strife in which we are unavoidably engaged, and fervently implore the interposition of the Almighty Hand to heal the wounds of the nation and to restore it as soon as may be consistent with the Divine purposes to the full enjoyment of peace, harmony, tranquillity and Union. It is the duty of nations as well as of men to own their dependence upon the overruling power of God; to confess their sins and transgressions in humble sorrow, yet with assured hope that genuine repentance will lead to mercy and pardon; and to recognize the sublime truth, announced in the Holy Scriptures and proven by all history, that those nations are blessed whose God is the Lord.

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Bobbie's Bevy of Beauties

After School Pick-Up from Ulbrich Boys & Girls Club

The Montauk daisy and orchid chrysanthemums (they resemble the white Shasta daisy) have finally come into bloom. Made up many bouquets of these mums. The very colorful and different varieties of dahlias were also added to them. And as usual when a bouquet is made up it is given away. Looking out the windows or standing on the deck surveying my garden beds gives me great joy.

Most people like flowers and are happy to receive a posie or two which also makes me feel good. Unless you are an avid gardener you might not understand. But a lot of time, energy, money and love goes into this hobby.

My cleanup has finally begun. Only a few perennials remain but a goodly number of annuals are hanging in there. Remember don't trim your butterfly bushes or transplant any new ones until the end of March or beginning of April. And hands off the rhododendrons. If you start clipping away you'll be cutting off the buds which will produce the flowers for next spring.

Don't think this was the greatest year for tomatoes. Still have quite a few green ones. A couple times a week three or four will be ripe enough to pick. Some are on the smaller side. They might have e few dark spots or narrow slits in them. Just cut them out and they are fine to eat. Maybe next year will be better.

Since there is nothing more as far as the gardening bit goes let's get to the birds. Specifically the turkey vultures.

Three of them , about 7:30 in the morning a couple of weeks ago when Jimmy was doing his therapy exercises in bed, he could see from the hall window these huge birds sitting on our neighbor Pam's roof. He called me to come upstairs to see them. From there they flew to the chi8mney and roof on the last house on Fairview Ave., which is two houses past Pam's. Prior to our seeing them their first landing which was quite noisy according to Pam was on hew sunroom roof. Went outside, ran over to Ruth's, another very dear neighbor and borrowed her binoculars. They put on quite a display for the neighborhood. Taking turns showing off their wing span. Finally about 10:00 one by one each turkey vulture took his or her departure. Told our neighbor friend Jeff who lives in the condos below us on West Main St. about our visitors. Said he sees five coming and going in his area quite often. Early evening they fly into the tree tops across West Main St. into the wooded area below Johnson Hgts. They may not be the prettiest of birds but certainly are very impressive.

This is probably my last writing until spring of 2008. Am making my hibernation plans. Since Jimmy is doing much better and he has LatlBit for company I'm sure he'll make it okay without me for those few cold, icy, snowy months. The two of them fit very comfortably in his recliner. Jimmy stretched out to his full length and LitlBit sprawled in his lap. The last couple of years I've made my bed under the park bench at the end of the back yard. Been quite comfortable there so I think that is where I will return. Now the question is when. I always entered my bed of peat moss on Nov. 1st and exited on March 1st. But with the 3rd month of this year being so cold and miserable and seeing what the outside world looked like after Jimmy came for me I had decided to have him place me back into the peat moss again until April 1st. That was when I returned for good. So all depends upon Mother Nature.

Thank you for reading my articles and sometimes commenting on them. Wishing you all health, happiness and may peace reign forever in the world.

Flowercerely yours, Bobbie G. Vosgrien P..S. Love and best wishes to our son Keith, the oldest child, who lives in Paris, France. He turned 50 years old this past October 5th. This snapshot was taken of him and our two older granddaughters, his nieces, Emmy "Me O" and Abby, on his annual spring - summer visit I can remember when he called me from Paris to wish me a happy 50th birthday. It seems like it was only a couple of years ago. Where does the time go? And the older one becomes the faster it seems to fly.

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New Leaf Compactor Invented

These highly trained proffesionals from top to bottom are Dante, Pierce, Jay and Jamie. Please do not try this at home.

Please Save A Life!

I don't call this "a dog's life" ‌ Imagine waking up one day and everything has changed. You don't recognize any part of your life anymore including the people in it!

Unfortunately, for Snickers an eight-year old Shepherd mix at the SPCA of Connecticut in Monroe that is exactly what happened, and regrettably it was not just a bad dream. Less then a year ago Snickers was living in New York with his owner, and other than the normal aches and pains of aging, life was pretty good for both of them. Then one fateful night, Snickers' owner was robbed. While trying to protect him, Snickers had his leg was blown off with a shotgun, and despite his best efforts, his owner was killed.

It is a horrific story that is sure to bring tears to your eyes.

After his amputation Snickers ended up in a shelter in New Rochelle, New York, that after only a few weeks labeled him "too old and not adoptable." At that point Frederick Acker, Director of Connecticut's SPCA, agreed to help and brought him to his organization. What is even sadder is Snickers today. Losing his owner, his home and his front leg would be more than enough to bear for a young and resilient pup, but Snickers is getting up in years, so to say his ordeal has broken his spirit is an understatement.

While clearly depressed and struggling to get accustomed to being handicapped, Snickers still won over all of the staff and volunteers at the SPCA. They all agree that while he may be a guard dog at heart, Snickers is the kindest and gentlest of souls. They do their best to comfort him both physically and emotionally but there are still times when Snickers just gazes off as if he is still waiting for his owner to walk around the corner.

As Snickers approaches his golden years, he deserves more than the average dog to live out his last years being comfortable and spoiled. A shelter is the last place he should be especially with winter approaching. Of course, since he hasn't been an amputee his whole life, he's still learning the best way to get around, but sometimes it's a struggle. Snickers would do best in a home with someone who is not that active; as a matter of fact, he would be a great companion for an elderly person who would allow him to be a couch potato!

So that is the short version of a long story. I could not rest until Snickers' story was heard, because he is a hero in every sense of the word and every hero deserves recognition and their day to shine. If you are interested in giving Snickers a new home, with a new owner to love this holiday season, please contact Frederick Acker at the SPCA of Connecticut, telephone (203) 445-9978 or at TSVSI@aol.com (mail to: SPCA - 359 Spring Hill Road, Monroe, CT 06468). Thanks for taking the time to read about Snickers.

"FAMILY FUN DAY: A DAY FOR HUNTER!"

by Sharon Agli-Pageau Thanksgiving is all about family, traditions, togetherness, and most importantly, sharing our gratitude for all of our many blessings. As Hunter Christian Pageau's Mommy, I am honored to announce that a substantial portion of the Wallingford community is coming together, in a family format, to graciously support our family's campaign of "Help Hunter Ride/Hope for Hunter!" For those of you who may not know, our son, Hunter Christian Pageau, has an extremely rare affliction, entitled SMARD1 (Spinal Muscular Atrophy with Respiratory Distress). He is 1 of 3 in this country with this condition, and 1 of 60 worldwide only! We were told by medical professionals upon Hunter's birth that it would be a miracle if he were to make it to his 2nd birthday. Indeed, he recently has, and he's thriving, despite the odds he's bravely faced!

Hunter's high medical specifications requires full 24-7 around-the-clock care, and until the needed 480 hours of monthly homecare nursing is secured (we now have only 24 hours total of homecare nursing per month staffed), we, as parents assuming those hours ourselves, are unable to return to gainful employment outside of our home. This renders us unable to provide Hunter with those equipment needs that our Insurance is unwilling to cover, as all of our resources have been exhausted caring for Hunter. Our beautiful son is our most profound blessing ever, despite his affliction, and we extend our deepest gratitude to all of you who are stepping forward, alongside us, to help make Hunter's dreams of Mobility/Freedom come true! Together we will raise the donations to provide Hunter with the Wheelchair Accessible Van he needs for his safe transport outside of our home. Until then, he remains ambulance transported to Drs/therapy appointments, which is a carry over of the institutionalization he already suffered while hospitalized for a full year.

The beauty and simplicity of this upcoming fundraiser to honor Hunter, highlighting the thematic "family weekend," that the long Thanksgiving weekend is to many of us, resonates deeply within us as a family in true need. We couldn't think of a better time for families/friends/supporters to come out to the multiple events being hosted on Saturday, November 24th, all with the intention of helping a local little boy who truly needs your help!

Our family is cordially inviting your family to come out for a day of fun, smiles, laughter, and happiness, all for a very good cause! The events are as follows: ~ Holiday Cinemas Stadium 10 Wallingford (265-6911) will host a Special Showing of the new Disney movie, "Enchanted," at 10am. Both the Princess and the Prince from the movie will be there between 10am-1pm for you to meet and to take a picture with you! There will be a Raffle for your enjoyment, also! ~Wallingford Friendly's Restaurant (269-2650) will host "Happy Hours for Hunter" between 1pm-6pm! Swing in and enjoy a delicious meal and a yummy Sundae dessert, along with meeting Mickey and Minnie Mouse, who will also be available for pictures! The Raffle continues here at Friendly's throughout the day! ~Wallingford Bowl (949-1100) invites you to come down between 5pm-9pm to experience their newly renovated bowling lanes, along with meeting Winnie the Pooh! Yes, more pictures to have of the kids with their favorite Disney characters! Fresh popped Kettle Corn and homemade candies will be sold during this event only, with all the proceeds to be donated to Hunter's Trust, to go towards the much needed Wheelchair Accessible Van! The Raffle will conclude at this event at 8:45pm!

Thank you all in advance who take the time to participate in these fun filled events on Saturday, November 24th, from 10am-9pm at the various participating locations, in an effort to "Help Hunter Ride!" Wishing you all the most heartfelt Thanksgiving yet, from our family to yours! In EVERYTHING, give Thanks!

"Songs of the Promise" Unity Concert 10 Year Celebration

Simchat Yisrael Messianic Jewish Synagogue would like to invite the community to its annual Songs of the Promise unity concert on Saturday, November 10th at 7:00 p.m. We are celebrating our 10th year in bringing worship teams together to glorify God through various expressions of music. A special night is planned and groups featured this year include Simchat Yisrael's "Echad" playing original Messianic praise music and Tapestry playing contemporary songs of worship as well as a few other groups you won't want to miss. This event is free and all are welcome to come and experience God through many different music styles. Refreshments will be served. The unity concert will take place at Congregation Simchat Yisrael, located at 870 First Avenue in West Haven. For more information and directions, please contact the synagogue at (203) 932-9929 or visit the website at www.SimchatYisrael.org.

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"Happiest Thanksgiving, with great Love & Gratitude, to all our family/friends/supporters who have helped us to smile so genuinely along the way! God Bless! Thankfully, Sharon, Adam & Hunter Pageau!"

ONE WOMAN'S STRUGGLE CAN BE ANOTHER WOMAN'S HOPE WHEN I WAS GROWING UP AND ENTERING THE STAGES OF WOMANHOOD I LOOKED TO MY FAMILY FOR ADVICE AND GUIDANCE. I GREW UP KNOWING THAT ONE DAY I WOULD HAVE TO FACE WHAT IS KNOWN AS A MAMOGRAM. ALL I KNEW THEN WAS THAT IT HAD TO BE DONE AND THAT IT WOULDN'T BE A PLEASANT EXPERIENCE. I ENTERED HIGHSCHOOL AND THEN COLLEGE AND FOUND OUT THAT THIS FEAR WAS DRILLED INTO ME BECAUSE IT IS ONE MILLIONS OF WOMAN SHARE AROUND THE WORLD. WHEN I FIGURED OUT THAT A MAMOGRAM WAS SOMETHING TO PRE-SCREEN BREAST CANCER, I BECAME EVEN MORE SCARED. LIKE ALL WOMAN I BEGAN TO WISH THAT IT WOULD NEVER HAPPEN TO ME. I THEN ENTERED COLLEGE WHERE I STUDIED SCIENCE AND BIOLOGY AND BEGAN TO UNDERSTAND THE MANY FORMS OF CANCERS AND DISEASES THAT EXIST. I REALIZED THEN THAT SOME HAVE CURES AND OTHERS DON'T, SOME ARE HEREDITARY AND OTHERS ARE NOT. AFTER LEARNING ALL THIS AND MUCH MORE, I FOUND OUT THAT MY GRANDMOTHER WAS DIAGNOSED WITH BREAST CANCER AND WE ARE HAVING OUR TRADITIONAL CHRISTMAS EVE CELEBRATION MOVED FROM HER HOUSE TO MY AUNT'S AS SHE WOULD UNDERGO CHEMOTHERAPY AND RADIATION. I DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS OR HOW SCARED I SHOULD BE. BUT THE WHOLE FAMILY TOOK IT DAY BY DAY. SHE BEGAN TO LOSE HER HAIR AND HAVE TO GO TO THE DOCTOR AN AWFUL LOT. THE ONE THING SHE DID NOT LOSE THROUGH THE ENTIRE STRUGGLE WAS HER HOPE. SHE KEPT HER POSITIVE ATTITUDE THAT SHE ALWAYS HAD AND WE CURRENTLY ARE GOING ON HER 5TH YEAR AS CANCER FREE. AFTER THIS BATTLE ENDED ANOTHER ONE BEGAN. WE FOUND OUT ABOUT A YEAR AGO THAT MY GRANDMOTHER'S SISTER (MY AUNTIE GINA) HAD NOW ALSO BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH BREAST CANCER. LOSING HER HAIR KIND OF HIT HER A LITTLE HARDER THAN IT DID MY GRANDMOTHER. MY AUNTIE GINA LOVED HER HAIR (SOMETHING WE BOTH HAVE IN COMMON)! SHE EVEN USED TO MAKE A LIVING AS A HAIRDRESSER. MY AUNT GINA MANAGED TO KEEP HER HOME UP AND RUNNING WITH DAILY TASKS WITH THE HELP OF FAMILY OF COURSE AND CONTINUE TO GO TO SCHOOL PART-TIME TOWARDS HER ASSOCIATES DEGREE. NOW THOSE ARE TWO STRONG WOMEN! THEY BEAT THE STRUGGLE MANY WOMAN DON'T OF BREAST CANCER AND PROVIDED ME AND MANY LOVED ONES WITH HOPE. TECHNOLOGY TODAY HAS DEFINETLY PROVED IT WORTHY. HOWEVER I DO NOT BELIEVE IT WAS JUST SCIENCE THAT HELPED, BUT THE POSITIE ATTITUDE THAT THESE TWO WOMEN HAD THROUGHOUT THEIR STRUGGLE AND THEY BOTH DESERVE A PINK RIBBON THAT THEY SHOULD WEAR WITH PRIDE. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY MY AUNT GINA'S HAIR IS STARTING TO GROW BACK! I LOVE YOU BOTH VERY MUCH! WRITTEN WITH LOVE BY: BREANNA

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MidState Medical Center Treats Pediatric Sleep Disorders A good night's sleep is essential for the well-being of adults, but it is even more critical for a developing child. The National Institutes of Health recommends that children ages 7-11 get at least nine hours of sleep each night for optimal health and functioning.

Unfortunately, many children do not get the recommended number of hours of sleep each night. A child's disrupted sleep can be due, in part, to a sleep disorder such as obstructive sleep apnea, insomnia, or restless leg syndrome. In fact, the American Academy of Pediatrics notes that 3% of children aged 2-8 have obstructive sleep apnea.

How do you know if your child is suffering from a sleep disorder? Nancy Keiluhn, RRT, RPSGT, Pediatric Specialist at MidState Medical Center's Sleep Care center, offers some signs and symptoms to look for in determining if a child is affected by a sleep disorder.

"We call it failure to thrive," said Keiluhn. This symptom is specific to obstructive sleep apnea because children can actually burn extra calories at night trying to breathe, resulting in improper weight gain.

Children who are underweight or do not seem to be growing may be plagued by disrupted sleep in general. In deep sleep stages, a child's body secretes special growth hormones that sustain the child's weight and height. If sleep is disrupted, however, hormone secretion may be decreased and the child may not grow as well.

Another major sign to look for is hyperactivity. Keiluhn emphasizes that "this one question can give you a boat load of information." While most adults who go without sleep would be sluggish the following day, many children are hyperactive. Consequently, many children who have a sleep disorder could potentially be diagnosed with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

These children may be disruptive in school, inattentive during daily activities, or have mood swings with irritable behavior. A recent study in first grade students found that 18% of the students in the lowest 10% of the class academically had obstructive sleep apnea.. Treatment of the disorder lead to significantly improved school performance and a decrease in hyperactivity.

Children with obstructive sleep apnea may snore with intermittent pauses, gasps, or snorts, stop breathing for brief intervals during sleep, and have restless sleep, sweating, and recurrent bedwetting.

Yet a child doesn't have to suffer with a sleep disorder. Sleep Care at MidState Medical Center offers a state-of-the-art facility geared towards the special needs of children to help diagnose and treat a potential sleep disorder.

If a child has problems sleeping, a nighttime sleep study may be beneficial to help correct the problem.

"It is important that sleep issues in children be discussed. Parents may not bring sleep issues to the attention of their pediatrician feeling their child may grow out of it," said Keiluhn. During a sleep study, also known as a polysomnogram, a child's sleep pattern will be recorded, including disrupted breathing, snoring, leg movements, heart rhythm, and oxygen levels. A small video camera in the room will also record what occurs during the night.

The sleep study requires that small sensors, called electrodes, be placed on your child's head and other areas. For example, electrodes are placed next to each eye to determine dream sleep, on the chest to read heart rate, and on the legs to detect movement. The electrodes, however, are completely painless and easily applied.

While MidState's Sleep Care center can treat children ages 5 and older, any child under the age of 18 must have a parent accompany them for the nighttime sleep study. Sleeping accommodations are made available to the parent.

Our sleep studies take place in a home-like atmosphere to ensure the utmost comfort of the child and parent/guardian.

"Properly diagnosing and treating the disorder can result in the resolution of daytime symptoms," said Keiluhn. And that can make everyone sleep a little better.

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The San or Hunter -Gatherers of South Africa

By Jill Vickerman - South Africa Thinking about days gone by, I was wondering how the tribes migrating down from Northern Africa must have given thanks when they arrived in the southern part of the Western Cape The earliest inhabitants of the Western Cape were the San (hunter gatherers) who lived their lives in harmony with nature. They were governed by the seasons and the movement of game and were isolated from the people in the North.

Clans followed seasonal game migrations between the mountain ranges and the coastline meeting at certain times of the year.

They eventually would have had to come into contact with the Khoi or Khoikoi (herders), who had moved into the northern and western parts of South Africa and had started to migrate southward bringing with them cattle, sheep and oxen obtained from the Nguni, who were also moving southward from the eastern parts of the country ( the Zulu, Xhosa and Swazi ) Some of the early Europeans, who were shipwrecked on the treacherous Skeleton coast of South West Africa, would have come across 'Strandloopers' (San beachcombers) who often had secret sources of water as Vasco de Gama found, after landing at St Helena Bay in 1497 looking for fresh water, he was shown to a cave where a secret spring was located in what is now called Slipper bay by a local tribe of Strandloopers It could have been no walk in the park to survive the long journey south without some knowledge of the plants that grew in that vast desert. Food, both in sufficient amounts and of nutrition, would have been an enduring struggle and they would have had to turn to the local San to identify edible indigenous plants.

Thousands of plants were known to the San, from nutritional to medicinal, mystical and lethal. The San ate anything available, both animal and vegetable. The 'kannika' or 'jakkalskos' (jackal food) is a root parasite which produces a single underground fruit, takes about two years to ripen, and was not found everywhere up the barren west coast, wild melons such as 'tsamma', roots and the creeping Sour Fig, which is sweet to eat (and is also applied on wounds and burns, insect bites and stings. It also stops bleeding) Snakes (venomous and non-venomous), Hyena, antelope, Zebra, porcupine, wild hare, Lion, Giraffe, fish, insects, tortoise, flying ants, lizards and scorpions.

There is a bird that led the San to bee hives, and they always left a share of the honey for the honey-guide, They said it is a vindictive bird which will lead the way to a snake or leopard next time if it is cheated.

In severe, prolonged droughts the San women chewed the bark of a particular tree which acted as contraceptive, so preventing an increase in the number of mouths to feed, they stored water in ostrich shells, which they buried deep below the sandy desert surface and recovered with uncanny accuracy. San hunters could follow the spoor of an animal across virtually any surface. A 'ka' 'ngwa', which is a small caterpillar, produced a poison that was boiled until it resembled a red jelly. Highly toxic, this would be smeared onto arrow heads, which would be contained in a reed, to avoid any accidental contact with the bearer where it would have acted slowly on the nervous system.

After months of hardship, the Winter rains would have transformed the land, they would have come across more and more streams and springs, plants and flowers, where vast herds of game would have abounded across a land magically transformed into a glorious tapestry of rainbow colors.

The San recorded the first encounters with Europeans on rock paintings. The Western Cape is said to have more rock paintings than anywhere else in the country. South Africa probably has the richest legacy of rock art in the world.

The paintings recorded the experiences of shamans, they became animals in order to enhance their power as healers, rainmakers or to control game during a hunt. The shaman perceived images and became a part of them. Patterns of light, animals, especially the Eland (being particularly important to the San) merged, and these images were recorded in their art where frequently the Shaman's image would be shown changing, from a man or woman into an animal.

The peaceful existence of the San was eventually shattered, and they must have watched with disbelief as the herds of game disappeared, to be replaced by the domestic herds of the Khoi . After centuries of a free migratory way of life, many of them chose to retreat into the desert, others made their peace and slowly adapted to the Khoi way of living.

These people then called themselves 'Khoisan'.

There is one day that is ours. There is one day when all we Americans who are not self-made go back to the old home to eat saleratus biscuits and marvel how much nearer to the porch the old pump looks than it used to. Thanksgiving Day is the one day that is purely American. ~O. Henry

Holiday Tree & Item Display Silent Auction Saturday, November 10th through Wednesday, December 5th 2007 Trees will be on display at all Events at the Center

Come out and see this beautiful display of trees, wreaths, and centerpieces donated by local businesses and non-profit organizations all over the City of Meriden. Bid on your favorite item for yourself or a special gift for the Holidays, if you have the winning bid items from the Holiday Auction can be picked up on Dec. 5th & 6th....

Come and view the display just to get into the Holiday spirit and bring some friends!!! Support your local nonprofit by bidding on their tree, wreath or centerpiece. They get half of the proceeds that there item brings in...

There is no admission fee to view the trees.....Center will be open daily Nov. 29th through Dec. 4th from 11am to 8pm for viewing. All other days please call for times. Tree Opening ceremony will be from 1pm to 4pm on Saturday, Nov.10th featuring the S.W.E.E.T Potato Society Bake-Off...

175 East Main Street in Meriden 203.639.2856 The latest style for kids is to design their own birthday cakes. Sierra did one.

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Celebration in Poetry

LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP Wallingford Senior Center Michele Tarantino from Masonic Healthcare Center's Visual Rehabilitation Center invites you to attend our Low Vision Support Group onFriday, November 16 at 10:15 a.m. Michele will give an overview of the Visual Rehabilitation Center's resources, services and training for those with visual impairments. Please register by calling 265-7753.

2008 MEDICARE PLANS Informational Meeting Wallingford Senior Center Wednesday, November 14, 1:00 p.m.

Well, it's that time of year again when we need to tune in to find out more about the 2008 Medicare Plans. Maybe you were pleased with your Medicare Plan last year, or maybe you decided you will look into other Medicare Plan options for this coming year. Either way, whatever your particular plan options, features, and premiums were in 2007, the 2008 Medicare Plans have changed again. Hear about the changes, ask questions, and enjoy refreshments. Please RSVP by November 9 to 265-7753. This program is FREE and open to the public.

Thanksgiving Baby

Melanie, It seems like yesterday you were my Angel from Above, I never knew my heart could feel such overwhelming love.

As you grew we shared so much, the laughter and the tears, How quickly all the moments passed, as days turned into years.

As you stand before me my heart-

fills up with pride, Now you too are going to be a mommy as you carry baby Charlie inside.

May he fill your life with such love and joy,as you have brought me.

Words alone can hardly say, I wish you and Chuck happiness on this, your baby shower day!

All my love, Mom

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By Maura K. Ammenheuser Yes, I know Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude. Yes, like others, I'm grateful for much: a roof over my head, healthy relatives and friends, food on the table, a decent life. OK, now that I've said all that, here's something else: I'm pregnant.

Somewhere deep down, I'm thrilled by the prospect of another child. But pregnancy's not exactly causing me great blissful leaps of joy, at least not at the moment still stuck in early weeks, I'm a groggy, nauseated mess with a bad attitude. I've tried looking on the bright side, however, and indeed, I've found stuff to be grateful for.

We have three toilets in our house. I'm never more than a five-second dash from any of them, which is really important when you've got dry heaves threatening to turn wet any second. Ramen noodles are cheap. I don't exactly crave them. Rather, they're one of the few foods that don't actually turn my stomach when I'm sick with a cold, sore throat, or in this case, chronic nausea. So lately I've ingested a frightening volume of salt-starch-and-fat feasts. My husband is a saint. Of course, I'm overlooking the fact that he got me into this situation in the first place. Guilt notwithstanding, he's been unbelievably patient. In 11 weeks he's never complained about the unwashed laundry, the general household filth or the sorry state of dinner around here. I haven't had the energy or the stomach to clean, and it's tough to cook when you can't stand the thought of food. (Have I mentioned the queasiness yet?) Plus I can barely remember anything the poor guy tells me because I'm walking around in a hormone-induced fog.

Miraculously, David hasn't filed for divorce, lost his temper or run away from home. Plus he brings in mashed potatoes from Boston Market (more starch). I knew I married him for a reason.

My toddler is a saint. Luckily, Ryan has his daddy's temperament. He's an agreeable, happy kid, mature enough that I don't have to entertain him every second of the day. He pours over his books, pushes Matchbox cars contentedly across the coffee table and watches "Sesame Street" while I attempt a grocery list. Frankly, I'm just over on the couch, too lethargic and headachy to do anything at all. Ryan even turns the TV off when his show's over. I don't even have to lift my head to nag.

This is my second pregnancy; Good thing the first one didn't feel this crummy. I would never have done this again.

I can doggie-paddle. Oddly, I feel far less seasick in the water then on dry land. In the pool I am graceful, soothed. I am Aqua Woman. I am Strong. I am At Peace with the universe.

I am Ms. Lumbering Landlubber the moment I climb out of the water.

So when I can't get to the pool. I hibernate in the bathtub. (It's tough to swim laps in there but least we have bubbles.)

The second trimester starts before Turkey Day. I eagerly await the day I wake up feeling relatively normal.

According to books, calendars and conventional wisdom, that should be any time now. The 12-weeks mark free most women from the crappy side effects of early pregnancy. For me it'll be just in time for the feast. Pass the turkey, stuffing and pecan pie, please. I'll be eating for two.

Sonograms, there's nothing like medical science to put everything in perspective. I went for a prenatal checkup. Late last month. The doctor swept her little handheld baby-detecting thingamajig over my tummy, listening for the baby's heartbeat.

It should have been there, a rapid-fire thumping filling the room through the speaker. There was no heartbeat. The doctor pressed and prodded for what felt like an eternity. I held my breath, felt my own heart banging in my chest. Still no sign of the baby.

Doc stepped outside to get the sonogram equipment for a visual investigation. That quickly, all my complaints vanished. Nausea, fatigue, aches and pains. Self-pity - gone, in an instant, replaced by pure fear, agonizing certainty that something had gone wrong and a heroic effort not to start crying right there on the exam table, in front of Ryan, who was talking to himself in his stroller in a corner of the room.

The doctor lugged in the sonogram, rubbed its sensor over my belly, than laughed.

That's why I couldn't find the heartbeat, she, pivoting the screen so I could see it. "The baby's moving too much. Ooo, what a long baby!

Sure enough, there was my blurry little tadpole, turning somersaults on the screen; two incredibly long skinny legs kicking out constantly from its round blobby body. How is it possible that I can't yet feel something gyrating so vigorously inside me? I exhaled in relief, grinned the biggest grin I've managed in weeks and gazed at the sonogram image for a long, giddy minute before Doc had to pack the gear away. The baby's fine. I'm going to be fine. Never mind that I'm never doing this again. For now, I just have to wait out the grogginess and the queasiness. It's the most wonderful wait in the world. And I'm grateful to do it.

When do we change our clocks?

Beginning in 2007, most of the United States begins Daylight Saving Time at 2:00 a.m. on the second Sunday in March and reverts to standard time on the first Sunday in November. In the U.S., each time zone switches at a different time.

So remember to fall behind on Sunday, November 4th or you are going to be an hour early for work and you wouldn’t want that to happen would you?

Stuffed Acorn Squash 2 tsp. vanilla Ingredients: 2 C. white chocolate chips 2 acorn squash 2/3 C. coarsely chopped macadamia nuts, toasted 2 carrots, grated 1 can (8 oz.)

Directions: crushed pineapple 2 tbsp.

Combine first 4 ingredients in a small bowl. Beat butter dried white raisins and sugars in a large bowl until creamy. Beat in pump1/4 tsp. ginger kin, egg and vanilla until well mixed; gradually beat in Instructions: flour mixture. Stir in chips and nuts. Drop by rounded Cut squash in half; scoop out seeds. Place in baking dish. Tbs. onto greased baking sheet; flatten slightly with back Combine remaining ingredients and spoon into squash of spoon or greased bottom of glass dipped in sugar. cavities.

Bake in preheated oven at 350 degrees for 11-14 minBake at 350°F for 30 minutes or until squash is tender. utes. Cool for 2 minutes; remove to wire rack to cool 95 House "House" Salad Dressing completely.

The recipe is as follows: 2 cups Hellmanns mayonnaise, Stuffimg by Mary 2 cups sour cream, 1 tablespoon A-1 Sauce, A loaf of white bread cubed 1 tablespoon olive oil, 2 tablespoons mustard seed, 4 4 eggs tablespoons garlic powder, 1 tablespoon lemon juice, 1 onion diced tablespoon wine vinegar, 1 teaspoon Accent. Mix all celery diced ingredients well and let sit over night. The longer it sits salt the stronger and sharper the taste. pepper Macadamia White Chip Pumpkin Cookies parsley fresh snipped So many delicious flavors, it's a great cookie for the fall cooked sausage if you like it season when pumpkins are abundant!

1 sm apple, diced Ingredients add 1/2 to 3/4 lb of melted butter to bread mixture before 2 C. flour 2 tsp. cinnamon mixing 1 tsp. ground cardamom 1 tsp. baking soda mix eggs and put into cubed bread 1 C. butter, softened 1/2 C. sugar add onion, celery, salt and pepper and cooked sausage 1/2 C. packed brown sugar and parsley.( I just snip the ends of a bunch) 1 C. solid pack pumpkin and apple then mix up and before you cook the bird, 1 egg stuff it with this filling. It is moist and very good.

A Brief History of Thanksgiving

By C.S. Purcell - As most of us know, our national holiday evolved from the Puritan Thanksgivings of colonial New England. The Plymouth Pilgrims and the Boston Puritans, both strict Calvinists, observed only three religious holidays: the Sunday Sabbath, Days of Fasting and Humiliation, and Days of Thanksgiving and Praise.

Whereas Sunday Sabbaths were predefined times, having occurred every Sunday, in the religious calendar, Thanksgivings and Fast Days were set neither in date nor in number. In any given year, there could be many Thanksgivings and Fast Days, or there could be none. These holidays were called in response to God's Providence. If God was pleased with His people, He granted favorable conditions, such as a mild winter or a good crop. To show their appreciation, the Puritans would call a Thanksgiving. If, however, God was displeased with His people and conditions reflected such, then the Puritans would call Fast Days. Although both religious holidays could be declared by different churches in different towns at different times, most Fast Days occurred in the spring before the crops had matured and Thanksgivings were usually declared after the harvest in the autumn when food was more abundant. Often, both the Fast Days and Thanksgivings were held on sermon days, which were Wednesdays in Connecticut and Thursdays in Massachusetts.

These days of Thanksgiving were not big feasts, as ours are today. Instead, the town would gather at the meetinghouse where they would give thanks to God for their blessings. Afterwards, they would go home and enjoy a celebratory dinner with family and sometimes with friends and neighbors. The Thanksgiving of 1621 is what we refer to when we say "The First Thanksgiving." After surviving a particularly difficult first winter, the Plymouth colonists and the Wampanoag Indians shared an autumn harvest feast. But it was more a secular feast than a religious Puritan holiday.

Our description of the 1621 celebration comes from a letter written by Edward Winslow on December 11, 1621: "Our harvest being gotten in, our governor sent four men on fowling, that so we might after a special manner rejoice together after we had gathered the fruit of our labors. They four in one day killed as much fowl as, with a little help beside, served the company almost a week. At which time, among other recreations, we exercised our arms, many of the Indians coming amongst us, and among the rest their greatest king Massasoit, with some ninety men, whom for three days we entertained and feasted, and they went out and killed five deer, which they brought to the plantation and bestowed upon our governor, and upon the captain, and others. And although it be not always so plentiful as it was at this time with us, yet by the goodness of God, we are so far from want that we often wish you partakers of our plenty."

However, this "First Thanksgiving" was not the beginning of our annual national custom as we know it today. This particular Thanksgiving was entirely forgotten until a reference to it was found in 1820, after which it was referred to as the First Thanksgiving. Also, although the custom of an annual Thanksgivings was established throughout New England by the mid-17th century, it was not a national holiday.

The first national Thanksgiving occurred in 1777 when the Continental Congress declared December 18th a national day of Thanksgiving following the victory at Saratoga. In Puritan tradition, the day was officially a religious observance in recognition of God's mercy on the newly-born country. Being a holy day, both work and amusements were forbidden. But the focus from a religious holiday to a more secular holiday was unofficially underway. Families still attended church each Thanksgiving Day, but the social and culinary attractions were increasing in importance.

For five years, from 1777 to 1783, Congress declared national annual Thanksgivings. All the Thanksgivings between those years were celebrated in December, save for the Thanksgiving in 1782. After 1783, there were no national Thanksgivings until President Washington once again called for two Thanksgivings, one in 1789 and one in 1795. John Adams declared Thanksgivings in 1798 and 1799, while James Madison declared the holiday twice in 1815. Not one of the Thanksgivings declared by Washington, Adams, and Madison was celebrated in November, though.

1815 was the last nationally celebrated Thanksgiving until the Civil War, as the south was not fond of having a "northern" custom forced upon them by the federal government. The northern states, however, continued to have their own Thanksgiving traditions, which were usually held in November. New Englanders traveling westward brought their Thanksgiving traditions with them, spreading the celebration of an annual Thanksgiving first in the Northeast and in the Northwest Territory, then to the middle and western states. By the mid 19th century, even some southern states had their own Thanksgiving traditions.

By the 1840s the Thanksgiving celebration had moved far from its holy-day roots to a family gathering day with a feast as the central event. Newspapers and magazines helped popularize the holiday as a secular autumn celebration featuring feasting, family reunions and charity to the poor. In a time of industrial revolution, it was hoped that having a familycentric holiday with undertones of charity would bring focus back to moral integrity for an industrial society lacking virtue. By the turn of the century, as Victorians searched for a return to family values, the imagery of the First Thanksgiving, with its large feast and charitable hospitality, was a perfect representation for the holiday. The 1621 celebration quickly became the mythic First Thanksgiving, remaining the primary historical representation of the holiday ever since. Still, the holiday was celebrated at different times in different states. Those Americans that truly wanted a

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return to the values and simplicity of a bygone era lobbied for the establishment of Thanksgiving as a permanent national holiday. Among the biggest supporters was Sarah Josepha Hale, a leading figure in the domesticity movement and author and editor of Godey's Ladies Book. From 1846 to 1863, Hale wrote editorials urging the federal government to establish Thanksgiving as a national holiday. In 1863, after the victory at Gettysburg, Abraham Lincoln declared that a national Thanksgiving be held that year on the last Thursday in November.

In his proclamation, Lincoln wrote: "The year that is drawing toward its close has been filled with the blessings of fruitful fields and healthful skies. To these bounties, which are so constantly enjoyed that we are prone to forget the source from which they come, others have been added which are of so extraordinary a nature that they can not fail to penetrate and soften even the heart which is habitually insensible to the ever-watchful providence of Almighty God….

No human counsel hath devised nor hath any mortal hand worked out these great things. They are the gracious gifts of the Most High God, who, while dealing with us in anger for our sins, hath nevertheless remembered mercy.

It has seemed to me fit and proper that they should be solemnly, reverently, and gratefully acknowledged, as with one heart and one voice, by the whole American people."

In 1864, Lincoln called again for the last Thursday in November as a Thanksgiving Day. Andrew Johnson followed Lincoln's lead by calling a Thanksgiving for December 7, 1865. In fact, every president after Lincoln declared a national Thanksgiving, but it was not a holiday sanctioned by law until 1941 when Franklin D. Roosevelt signed a bill establishing the fourth Thursday in every month as the Thanksgiving holiday.

Today, Thanksgiving is not a day called to give thanks for positive events bestowed upon us, as it was for most of the holiday's history. Rather, we gather with loved ones to celebrate a feast in a combination of early American traditions that have evolved to fit our modern times and our own families' traditions. And, hopefully, in midst of the feast and cheer, we will take a moment to give thanks for all that is good in our lives.

What you need to know!

North Haven Garden Club Meeting on Floral Design The North Haven Garden Club will meet on Thursday, Nov 8, 2007 at 7:00 pm at the North Haven Congregational Church Hall on 28 Church Street.The program is open to the public at 7:30 with a $4.00 donation at the door. The program will be “Floral Designs” with Tom Melillo “The Flower Man” from the Blossom Shop. Refreshments will be served after the program. North Haven Garden Club is a member of The Federated Garden Clubs of Connecticut, Inc and National Garden Clubs, Inc.Photo by Ellie tessmer Floral Arrangement by Annette Bailey

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On October 17th, Meriden Children First Initiative Board of Directors recognized the efforts of the Children's Department of the Meriden Public Library. The criteria for this award is that individuals go "above and beyond" to improve the lives of local children and families. This award was given to Kathie Matsil, Sandy Olson, and Sherry Breton. As stated by David Ratcliffe " As the heart and soul of the Children's Department, they embody the passion and care needed to make a positive change in children's lives.

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Old Man

By Chris Randolph "Old man look at my life, I'm a lot like you were." Just one simple line from the Neil Young song, "Old Man," from his Harvest album. I look back at the seventies and the promise I made to myself that this would not be the case. It was wrong of me to think that, but such is the ignorance of youth. It was an interesting time with the Vietnam War and the rebellion against past generations in full force.

My father was a good man. He cared about others. He befriended all those he met, and even if he disagreed with them, he kept it to himself and focused on what they agreed on. Why he became a target for my rebellion is clear to me now - he was an easy target. He often hid from the world. The moments that he went out and showed his positive side were rare. It was almost as if he had to recover for a while, rebuild his confidence, and then he could face the world again. This cycle is what I promised myself I would not do. I never attacked him directly, except to push him out of these hiding periods he had.

He also was obsessive/compulsive. He would check the front door to the house 10 times before he could leave. This compulsive checking and rechecking always happened while I was waiting frustrated in the car. The frustration grew 10 fold as I got older and his OC increased, as well. I remember quite clearly how checking the front door became checking all the doors in until he could finally go to the car, and shortly after he would leave again to double check if the stove had been turned off. There are times I laugh about this. There are times I cry about this. What could I have done for him? How could I have helped him more? Normal reactions I suppose. Ones that all of us go through when faced with any type of problem a loved one faces or is challenged with. Now I realize that there is nothing I could have done. He had his demons as we all have.

Like him, I now focus on the positive that we shared. His love of people. His gregarious nature. His charity.

Mostly it was his ability to communicate with children that I strive for the most. Even in his darkest hours he was liberated by his grandchildren, and it was so beautiful to see the smiles that he brought to their faces.

Our relationship grew much better over time. I began to understand both his problems and my own. I never stopped pushing him, though. When he did not want to attend a family event, I sometimes would wait till I forced him to come with me. Sometimes this worked and sometimes it didn't. I don't regret those efforts at the end of his life as he changed into the gregarious man once he finally did arrive.

I am still traumatized by the very ending of his life, though. The pain and suffering he felt against a losing battle with Melanoma. The anger I felt towards him for not getting it checked as recommended after he had a successful surgery to remove his first case of it. I thought that his obvious lack of care for his health was just another way of hiding again. Maybe death would be the best way to end the suffering he faced his whole life.

The time came when I had enough and forced him to go to the hospital. The disease had come back of course, just as I knew it would. It had spread far into his body. Again, when offered with the hope of an extensive program to fight the disease, he refused. The trips became more frequent to the hospital, as his lungs would often fill with fluid. I still remember the traumatizing moments for me. He was so ill and his lungs had filled again. I rented a wheelchair and insisted on bringing him to the hospital - again. He refused to be seen in a wheelchair when he left the house. So he made me check 5 times to be sure that no neighbors were out. He had become so week that I had to carry him to the car. The anger that showed on his face was piercing. He made me stop the car before I drove off, he looked at the house for a moment and then said simply but with frustration, "Just Go, Chris." He knew that was the last time he would ever see his home, where he had hoped to die instead of a hospital.

The hospital knew as soon as he came in that the time was near. He was transferred to the Branford Hospice and was coherent for a few days more as he said goodbye and spoke with all our family with kindness and love. But he never spoke to me at the end. I know why, and I understood. I stayed day and night as did most of my family, especially my Mom. Mom would climb into bed with him when night came and hold him close. He surprised even the staff of the Hospice as he clung onto life even when he no longer spoke and was no longer coherent.

I knew he was afraid of death at the end. I remember my last words to him: "It's alright Dad. It's a beautiful place you are going to. Your loved ones are waiting for you. Just let go. Let go of the pain and find peace." I walked out of his area for a moment as the nurse came in to clean him and change his bedding. Seconds later came that last horrible rattling breath and he was gone.

I know I am left to deal with those last months, and I try the best I can. It's funny though, that I have become so much like him. There are many times that I hide from the outside world to recover and then go out again. There are times I check the door a few times. I get a good laugh out of it, actually. I understand him so much more now.

So as I hear those words, "Old man, look at my life, I'm a lot like you were," I know that I am and that's o.k.

Here are some comments made in 1951 ---- only 56 years ago!

Submitted by Donna Mahon "I'll tell you one thing, if things keep going the way they are, it's going to be impossible to buy a week's groceries for $20."

"Have you seen the new cars coming out next year? It won't be long before $2000 will only buy a used one."

"If cigarettes keep going up in price, I'm going to quit. A quarter a pack is ridiculous."

"Did you hear the post office is thinking about charging a dime just to mail a letter?"

"If they raise the minimum wage to $1, nobody will be able to hire outside help at the store."

"When I first started driving, who would have thought gas would someday cost 29 cents a gallon. Guess we'd be better off leaving the car in the garage."

"Kids today are impossible. Those duck tail hair cuts make it impossible to stay groomed. Next thing you know, boys will be wearing their hair as long as the girls."

"I'm afraid to send my kids to the movies any more. Ever since they let Clark Gable get by with saying 'damn' in 'Gone With The Wind,' it seems every new movie has either "hell" or "damn" in it.

"I read the other day where some scientist thinks it's possible to put a man on the moon by the end of the century. They even have some fellows they call astronauts preparing for it down in Texas " "Did you see where some baseball player just signed a contract for $75,000 a year just to play ball? It wouldn't surprise me if someday they'll be making more than the president."

"I never thought I'd see the day all our kitchen appliances would be electric. They are even making electric typewriters now."

PRAYER TO The Blessed Virgin: Never known to fail. Oh most beautiful power of Mt. Carmel, Fruitful Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me and show me that you are my mother. Oh Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and earth, I humbly seek you from the bottom of my heart to secure me in my necessity. (Make your request). There are none that can withstand your pwer. Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee (3 times). Holy Mary, I place this prayer in your hands (3 times).

Say this prayer for three consecutive days and then you must publish it and it will be granted to you. Grateful Thanks. R.R.

PRAYER TO The Blessed Virgin: Never known to fail. Oh most beautiful power of Mt. Carmel, Fruitful Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me and show me that you are my mother. Oh Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and earth, I humbly seek you from the bottom of my heart to secure me in my necessity. (Make your request). There are none that can withstand your pwer. Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee (3 times). Holy Mary, I place this prayer in your hands (3 times).

Say this prayer for three consecutive days and then you must publish it and it will be granted to you. Grateful Thanks. A.P.R.

PRAYER TO The Blessed Virgin: Never known to fail. Oh most beautiful power of Mt. Carmel, Fruitful Vine, Splendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me in my necessity. Oh Star of the Sea, help me and show me that you are my mother. Oh Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and earth, I humbly seek you from the bottom of my heart to secure me in my necessity. (Make your request). There are none that can withstand your pwer. Oh Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee (3 times). Holy Mary, I place this prayer in your hands (3 times).

Say this prayer for three consecutive days and then you must publish it and it will be granted to you. Grateful Thanks. C.P.L.

While walking along North Street in Tucson, Arizona, on October 21, I chanced to spot a very large black bird perched on top of a pole and I thought from its size it must be a raven. When it flew down to the street for a drink, I was even more sure. When I got home, I was looking for a photo of a raven and came across a site that compared the raven to a crow, saying one difference between them is the caw sound of the raven is much deeper and throatier than the crow's. The caw of the bird I saw sounded like someone clearing their throat, so I would say it was a raven. I think it was Wikepedia that said it was the smartest of all birds which means it is even smarter than the crow, and was a very special treat for me. As I continued my walk to the grocery store, I preserved this encounter with the following poem: I think I saw a raven while walking to the store.

I am not completely sure; it didn't say "Nevermore."

But if, indeed, it was, then I can definitely say, I'm glad I saw a raven while on my walk today.

I also wanted to add the following brief quotes paying homage to the beauty of autumnal foliage, not much of which is present in Tucson: Everyone must take time to sit and watch the leaves turn ElizabethLawrence A fallen leaf is nothing more than a summer's wave goodbye.

Autumn arrives, array'd in splendid mien.- Farmers Almanac, 1818 Autumn is a second spring where every leaf is a flower - Albert Camus Autumn is a season followed immediately by looking forward to spring.Anonymous Autumn arrives in the early morning, but spring at the close of a winter day -Elizabeth Bowen From Nancy Sherburne, Tucson, Arizona

What you need to know!

Quinnipiac Chamber Forms Motorcycle Club !

In their never-ending quest to find unique ways to target groups for networking opportunities, the Quinnipiac Chamber has reached out to all its motorcycle-riding members !

What was almost exclusive to the 20-somethings as a strictly recreational sport has now evolved into an outlet for the more mature businessperson.

"It's a great way to relax at the end of the day or the end of the week," said Rich Wilson, Wilson Furniture who came up with the idea and is a cochairman.

"Business owners have started a new trend - they're "Business Hogs !" added Premnath Sonny, of Citibank in North Haven, the other co-chair.

They both agreed that it offers a unique opportunity to ride for fun, charity and network with other business owners.

The newly formed QC Motorcycle Club will participate in charity rides, fun runs and use their common love of those wonderful machines to visit each other's businesses and network in a truly unique way.

Anyone who is a member of the Quinnipiac Chamber and wants to join this group, please contact us at: 269-9891 or email Dee@quinncham.com QC Motorcyle Club, Premnath Sonny, Tom Quinn, Mike Greenberg and Rich Wilson

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Did You Know?

The tradition of professional football on Thanksgiving Day is now more than 80 years old. Thanksgiving football is most associated with the Detroit Lions and Dallas Cowboys. Both teams host a game each Thanksgiving. However, the Turkey Day tradition actually dates back to the National Football League's first season in 1920, when the league was known as the American Professional Football Association (APFA). In fact, while Thanksgiving football is now limited to just three games (a third game was added in 2006), in the league's first year a total of six games featuring APFA teams were played on Thanksgiving Day in 1920, a concept that would surely thrill today's football fans. The Lions have the longest running Turkey Day tenure, having hosted a game every year since 1934 (excluding the years 1939 to 1944, when the game was not played due to World War II). The Lions' involvement in the game is due to former owner G.A. Richards, who volunteered his team to play onThanksgiving as a means of increasing sagging attendance. If Richards were around today, chances are he might volunteer his team to play on every holiday, as the Lions boast a 33-31-2 mark on Thanksgiving Day, compared to a 448-513-30 in regular season games not played on Turkey Day.

"Sheltering an Animal's Perspective"

by Gregory M. Simpson While perusing the newspaper, Animal People, I came across an article that described pro-animal laws passed in 2007 in various states. In reading about the new legislation it occurred to me how overdue this country is in enacting some basic protections for animals - and in many cases, people, too. Here's a sample.

Arizona passed a law requiring that engine coolant or antifreeze that contains more than 10% ethylene glycol must also include the bittering agent, denatonium benzoate, to keep animals and children from drinking poisonous antifreeze by accident in its normal sweet tasting form. This is a law that should be in every state and would most easily be put into place by enacting federal legislation. It is also one of the myriad of risks that speaks to keeping cats safer indoors.

Cats love the sweet taste of anti-freeze which has dripped from cars onto driveways.

Indiana signed into legislation a bill which makes killing an animal to threaten, intimidate, coerce, or terrorize a household family member a Class D felony, punishable by up to three years in prison and a fine of $10,000. While personally I'd like to see the maximum penalty higher, it's a step in the right direction. The link between animal abuse, domestic violence, and child abuse is well established. The American Humane Association has long advocated that there also be a law in every state requiring cross-training and cross-reporting regarding child abuse and animal abuse among law enforcement officers, humane investigators, veterinarians, health professionals, domestic violence advocates, and child protection workers.

The Iowa governor signed a bill into law prohibiting Internet hunting, in which hunters kill animals from distant locations using web cameras to spot their targets and a mouse-click to shoot. Model anti-Internet hunting bills have been promoted nationally in recent years by the Humane Society of the United States. Thirty states have enacted such laws and the other twenty should quickly follow. As P.G. Wodehouse wrote, "The fascination of shooting as a sport depends almost wholly on whether you are at the right or wrong end of a gun."

Nebraska Governor Dave Heineman signed a bill into law making animal abandonment a felony offense. Now there's a man after my own heart. Animal abandonment is one of the most heinous crimes against animals.

As of 2007, Washington State now bans private acquisition of large cats, wolves, bears, non human primates, alligators, and other potentially dangerous wild animals. Once again, this should be enacted as a federal law. No one needs to keep as a pet an animal that may view a house guest as its next meal.

The Hawaii state legislature passed a 2007 bill enacting felony penalties for intentionally torturing, mutilating, or poisoning pets, including pigs as well as cats, dogs, rabbits, guinea pigs and birds.. Bravo, Hawaii! Did you know that the very first American child abuse law in 1874 was modeled after already existing animal anti-cruelty laws?

The Texas legislature sent multiple pro-animal bills to the governor for signature, including one to increase the criminal penalties for dog fighting. Another bill extends the laws protecting cats, dogs, and horses to feral members of their species. A third bill introduces penalties for prolonged dog tethering.

Many states, including Connecticut, enacted legislation in 2007 that would require disaster planning to include plans for evacuating, transporting, and sheltering service animals and household pets. This follows the 2006 federal Pets Evacuation and Transportation Standards Act which requires states that accept Stafford Act funds for homeland security to ensure that state and local emergency preparedness plans "take into account the needs of individuals with household pets and service animals prior to, during, and following a major disaster or emergency." Kudos go to Connecticut Representative Christopher Shays who co-introduced the bill in the U.S. House of Representatives.

Governor Rell also signed a law, effective 10/1/07, which allows a state or local animal control officer to take custody of an animal without a warrant if a neglected or cruelly treated animal faces imminent harm. Previously, a criminal search and seizure warrant was needed before taking custody.

Also effective 10/1/07 was legislation signed by Governor Rell which permits courts to issue orders of protection for animals kept by victims of family violence, stalking or harassment. Previously, court orders only protected people.

On the federal level, President Bush signed the Animal Fighting Prohibition Enforcement Act into law on May 3, 2007. This legislation provides felony penalties for interstate and foreign animal fighting. Each violation has a maximum sentence of 3 years incarceration and a fine up to $250,000. Since involved dog kennels rely on transporting their fighting dogs across state lines and internationally, the new law should cripple the interstate transport and international trade in fighting animals.

Every year more progress is made with pro-animal legislation. Sometimes it is two steps forward and one backward.

There is still much more that needs to be done. Please consider becoming an animal advocate.

For the animals, Gregory M. Simpson Gregory Simpson's animal welfare involvement spans over 25 years, having provided leadership for several Connecticut organizations, as well as having served as state advisor to the national Friends of Animals. Chosen by CAT FANCY magazine as one of the ultimate cat lovers in the U.S., he is also a member of the Cat Writers' Association.

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by Francis W. Lappert According to Connecticut maps of the river systems of Connecticut, the Quinnipiac River originates in the north reaches of Plainville and empties into the Sound in East Haven Harbor. It has many feeder streams that empty into it, and keeps a well-balanced, level running water. Beginning with Southington, I know of Eight-Mile River and also Misery Brook. Then comes Ten-Mile River that originates in west Cheshire and joins the Quinnipiac in Mildale. Also Honey Pot Brook from Cheshire. Farther downstream is Ives Brook that begins above Johnson Avenue in Meriden. Also the overflow from Broad Brook Reservoir feeds the river. As the river flows through Meriden, it is joined by Harbor Brook, which flows into Hanover Pond, which is part of the river. I know of only one from Wallingford, Meeting House Brook. There are others I do not know about.

Since I was a young lad, I fished many of these smaller streams and caught many native brook trout. At this time the Quinnipiac River was not known as having any trout in it. That came much later. The river then was clean enough to swim in. Our favorite spot was call Charlie's Rock, and we went there often. I remember when the river froze over in the winter, there was a group of men that would cut a large hole in the ice by Red Bridge and jump in the cold water.

They called themselves the Polar Bears. They enjoyed showing off to the crowd who watched them.

In later years the State Board of Fisheries decided to stock trout in the river from Carpenter's Dam down to Red Bridge. The fishermen in our area were quite happy about this. Shortly after, several fishermen from Meriden got together and formed the Quinnipiac River Water Association. I was invited to join the organization and was elected to represent Meriden on the commission. We had members from Southington, Cheshire, Meriden, Wallingford, and also North Haven. Our goal was to clean up as much of the river as we could and to improve the quality of the water.

Mike Roberts was also one of the group representing Meriden and was responsible for getting donations from all the towns to keep the organization going, and also getting new members to join. The State Board of Fisheries now stocks the river with a good many rainbow, brown, and brook trout.

The Meriden Rod and Gun Club also helps by putting many large sized trout in the river, and tags them so that when someone catches one, he will get a prize from one of the bait stores. When the fishing starts in April, it is hard to find a likable place to fish as some of the fishermen set up camp the night before in their favorite spot. I do not go there on opening day, as it is too crowded.

I have been informed that the State is now stocking trout in the river from Yalesville to Wallingford, and a few fishermen have caught some nice trout from here. I hope some day in the future the quality of the water in the river is made suitable for swimming also. I would like to see Hanover Pond dredged and made suitable for boating and swimming.

Annual Meeting of Meriden Children First On October 17, the Meriden Children First Initiative (CFI) held its annual meeting. More than 130 of Meriden's finest parent and community leaders were in attendance at the Curtis Cultural Center to celebrate the year's progress, welcome the 2008 CFI Board of Directors, and preview 2008 issue priorities. The highlight of the evening was the recognition of the first-ever Meriden Preschool Teacher of the Year (St. Andrew's Cindy Eddy) and this year's Children Champions. Two groups were recognized for their efforts to improve the lives of Meriden children and families: the children's department of the Meriden Public Library (Kathie Matsil, Sandy Olson, and Sherry Breton ) and the Hubbard Park Playground Committee (Dawn N-Reynolds, Joan Goodman and Maryann Santos).

The event concluded with a debate of candidates running for the Meriden Board of Education. The debate was co-sponsored by the Meriden Federation of Teachers, the Meriden-Wallingford NAACP, the Greater Meriden Chamber of Commerce, and the Record-Journal. For more information about Meriden Children First, call 630-3566 or visit www.meridenchildrenfirst.org PLEASE NOTE THAT IN THE NEXT ISSUE WE WILL BE DOING A FULL STORY ON MERIDEN CHILDREN FIRST INITIATIVE. YOU WILL BE AMAZED AT ALL THEY DO AND ALL THE PROGRAMS THEY SUPPORT FOR ALL!

The Senior Buddy Readers Program Seeks Volunteers The Senior Buddy Readers intergenerational mentoring & literacy program is currently seeking volunteers for the 2006-2007 school year. Active retirees are needed to help first and second grade students improve their reading skills.

The program runs from October through the end of May and takes place in six of Meriden's elementary schools: Ben Franklin, Casimir Pulaski, Hanover, Israel Putnam, Nathan Hale and Thomas Hooker schools. Anyone interested in sharing one hour a week mentoring a child is invited to call the office of Meriden Children First Initiative at 630-3566. Make a difference in the life of a child…become a Senior Buddy Reader volunteer!

(The Senior Buddy Readers program is sponsored by nonprofit Meriden Children First Initiative and is supported financially through foundation grants and local business donations.)

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Our Family Trip to Sesame Place

By Amy Benigni This summer we packed our bags and loaded the SUV for an excursion to Sesame Place in Pennsylvania. With carriages, pack-n-plays, diapers, and toys in tow we began our journey. With Bria in one car seat and Blake in the other, we quickly left our home on our way to visit Elmo and friends. Bria held on to Elmo and Big Bird as we continued down the Merritt Parkway. Mark and I were soon to find out that a trip with two youngsters would present some challenges, but many rewards.

Our daughter Bria loves Elmo and the Sesame Street gang. She has two Elmo dolls, an Elmo chair, and Elmo pajamas too. For weeks, Mark would ask Bria, "Do you want to go see Elmo?" Bria would respond with a big smile as she said "Ya"! We arrived in Pennsylvania, minutes from Sesame Place, on a warm summer night at about 10:00 p.m. With both children sleeping, we quietly prepared for our first night's stay. At about 6:30 a.m. the next morning, Bria woke up and proceeded to wake Blake up too. We were ready for our big day with Elmo and friends.

As we pulled up to the park, I could see Bria's excitement as she saw a towering Elmo in the sky. As Mark took Bria on a few rides, I fed Blake and snapped a few pictures to remember our family visit to Sesame Place. Whether it was the slide, the rocking boat, or the parachutes, Bria was all smiles. We also took Bria to the padded playground so she could run around and play with other youngsters. Now it was time for lunch and the Elmo show. After a quick lunch, we entered the theater for the Elmo show. We sat in the back row and Mark held Bria while I sat with Blake. As the music began and Elmo hit the stage, Bria was clapping, dancing, and trying to make her way to the stage.

After the show, it was my turn to take Bria to the water park. As sprinklers shot water in all directions, Bria ran from one water spout to the next. She loved the water and was fascinated by all the spinklers. As Mark watched Blake, getting himself a tan and keeping Blake out of the sun, I enjoyed the water activities with my daughter. Before leaving the water area, Mark took Bria on the tube slide for a plunge into the rapids.

After a full day at the park, we returned to our hotel for some rest and relaxation before returning for dinner with Elmo and friends and the Sesame Place parade. The dinner celebration gave Bria an opportunity to see all her favorite Sesame characters up close and personal. She got her picture taken with Elmo and became quite fond of Ernie. After dinner, we took our place along the parade route. Bria clapped as her favorite characters passed by. Mark and I clapped as we celebrated a terrific family trip to Elmo's home, Sesame Place.

Meriden Public Library News LOCAL AUTHOR AND ADVENTURER CAPTAIN BILL PINKNEY TO SIGN COPIES OF HIS AUTOBIOGRAPHY NOVEMBER 7 - Meriden Public Library will host a special appearance by William "Bill" Pinkney, Meriden author of AS LONG AS IT TAKES, which is his autobiography on Wednesday, November 7 at 4:00 p.m.

Captain Bill Pinkney will sign copies of his book, field questions about his forty plus years at sea and show a video about his solo voyage around the world. Of the five Americans who have sailed solo around the world via Cape Horn, only one is African-American and lives in Meriden, Connecticut. He is Captain William "Bill" Pinkney of Meriden.

Though a Chicago native, Pinkney came to Connecticut in 1998 to be a part of the creation of the state's Sailing Ambassador: Freedom Schooner Amistad. Upon completion of the ships, he served as Master until his retirement in 2003. Bill Pinkney then married a Meriden resident and bought a home here. The Captain travels the country speaking to schools, organizations and corporations about the lessons learned at sea. In addition Captain Bill hosts a weekly radio on WLIS-WMRD AM (Middletown/Old Saybrook) called "The Maritime Scene". While living in Meriden he completed his second book about his solo circumnavigation, the book has been hailed as a "an inspirational book to compare with any on the market today" by award winning writer Maya Angelou. AS LONG AS IT TAKES (Bunker Hill Publishing), the 2006 John Southam Award winner, is Pinkney's autobiography. Spanning the years from childhood through his incredible 32,000 mile sailing adventure, the story tells of the idea that started as a dream of adventure in seventh grade, and became a floating class room for students and a benchmark for his grandchildren. The John Southam Award has been presented annually since 1993 by Sail America for excellence in marine communications.

The program is free and the public is invited to attend. Free registration is requested by calling (203) 630-6349, by sending an email to: comsvc@hotmail.com or by signing up at the library online calendar at www.meridenlibrary.org DR. KANE TO DISCUSS "AGING GRACEFULLY" NOVEMBER 14 Meriden Public Library will host a special appearance by naturopathic physician Dr. Michael Kane of the Connecticut Center for Health on Wednesday, November 14 at 6:30 p.m. His topic will be "Aging Gracefully". Everyone is invited to attend. As the baby boomers age they become one of the largest population groups to face the challenges of old age.

Osteoporosis, heart disease, joint failures, and cognitive decline are some of the conditions that can prevent the enjoyment of retirement or the later years of life. Come and join our lecture on how to age gracefully where our local naturopathic physician Dr. Michael Kane will lecture on the "Natural" proactive measures you can take to support your body in the aging process. Graduating from Bastyr University in 1996, Dr. Kane joined the Connecticut Center for Health in Middletown. Since then he has focused his attention on the basic powerful principles of this medicine. The principles of nature cure. Support and treatment with nutrition, homeopathy and botanical medicine as well as mind-body-soul work will also be discussed. He encourages his patients to ask themselves each day "If I were to take complete care of myself, what would I do today?" and he challenges them to knock down the barriers that get in the way of doing just that. The program is free and the public is invited to attend. Since seating is limited, free registration is requested by calling (203) 630-6349, sending an email to: comsvc@hotmail.com or by signing up online at the library calendar at www.meridenlibrary.org

Patricia is about ACTION. She acts on YOUR needs & what Meriden needs!

We are proud to be celebrating our 103rd year in the fruit growing business! 1904-2 2007 Find out why by stopping by!

* Created the “Litter Committee” to clean up our beautiful city! * Serving as a Committee Member for National Night Out. * An active supporter of Neighborhood Associations and the Council of Neighborhoods. *Expanded the Community Clean-Up Days to include FREE DUMP DAYS! * Worked with the Housing Department to make sure that the Anti-Blight Ordinance is enforced and making our city safer. * Active involement with the Health Department to take advantage of grants that improve the quality of life for ALL Meriden citizens.

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Holiday Meal Food Safety Tips Submitted by the Wallingford Health Department Holidays are here! And with the holidays comes food, lots of food. High protein, high moisture foods such as turkey present the potential for a food borne illness. Follow the "turkey basics" for a safe holiday.

Keep all refrigerated foods cold; thaw frozen food in the refrigerator not on the kitchen counter. Generally, it takes 24 hours per 5 pounds of turkey to thaw in the refrigerator. If you don't have enough time, thaw under running water for about 30 minutes per pound.

Cook a fresh turkey within 2 days of purchase.

If you are cooking a stuffed turkey, mix the ingredients just before it goes in the turkey and stuff loosely, about 3/4 cup per pound of turkey.

Always use a thermometer when cooking, do not rely on time alone to know when your meal is ready. The bird is done when it reaches 180 degrees F in the innermost thigh and a stuffed bird should reach 165 degrees in the center of the stuffing. Remember that a stuffed bird takes longer to cook.

Set the oven temperature no lower than 325 degrees F. What about all those leftovers? Always reheat to 165 degrees F. Refrigerate or freeze leftovers promptly in small shallow containers and wrap tightly. How long should you keep your leftovers?

Refrigerator: Frozen: Cooked turkey 3-4 days Turkey slices/pieces 4 mos Stuffing and gravy 1-2 days Turkey with gray 6 mos. other dishes 3-4 days Stuffing 1 mo.

You should also have plenty of fresh cut vegetables on hand for those in-between meal munchies. Try to incorporate some holiday spirit that doesn't focus on food. Why not take a walk after the meal before the pie. You can have a safe and healthy holiday! Put a gift certificate to a local gym on your Christmas wish list or a new pair of sneakers.

For more information contact the Wallingford Health Dept at 294-2065 or the toll free USDA Meat and Poultry Hotline at 1-800-535-4555. We also have FREE magnets with Safe Food Temperatures so you won't forget. Stop by Wallingford Town hall, rm. 215 today.

Meriden Movers November Group Walk Schedule Submitted by the Meriden Health Department Meriden Movers, a community walking program, will meet at the Platt High School track twice a week starting November 6, 2007.

The group will meet Tuesdays, from 10:00am-11:00am, and Thursdays from 5:30pm-6:30pm.

In the case of bad weather (rain or snow), the walk will be cancelled.

All Meriden residents are encouraged to attend. The walk is done at your own pace. Wear comfortable clothing (dress for the weather); bring a water bottle and a pedometer if you have one. Additional pedometers and walking logs will be available at each walk.

Meriden Movers is a walking program started by the Meriden Health Department. The program encourages all Meriden residents to walk for better health. The program is funded by the United Way of Meriden and Wallingford venture grant program.

For more information, please call Lea Crown, Health Educator, at 630-4238.

What you need to know!

Moonlight Blues Gala A Huge Success There was a warm reception at the Aqua Turf on Saturday, October 13, as 484 of MidState's employees, physicians, board of directors, family, friends, and sponsors turned out for the Moonlight Blues Gala.

An amazing time was had by all with dancing to music from Eight to the Bar and the Blues Brothers look-a-likes. Guests also feasted on great food like fresh sushi, beef tenderloin, and smashed potatoes from the "potini bar."

What was even more amazing was the generous support the Auxiliary received for the event. Funds raised totaled approximately $98,000! This almost doubles the money raised in 2003 at the Moonlight Harvest Ball. The money comes from a variety of sources including sponsorships, ticket sales, and auction items.

"We're excited that the event was such a huge success. The gala is one of our signature fundraising events, and this year the support was over the top," said Gail Millerick, Director of Development.

The gala is held biannually even though planning beings well over a year in advance. It will be hard to top this year's event next time around, but we know the MidState Medical Auxiliary and Development team will make next year's event as memorable as this one.

Many thanks to all those who contributed to the success of the Moonlight Blues Gala. Until next time…

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Come see for yourself the most festive Holiday Fair in town!

The Ladies of St. Anne Society will host their annual fair at St. Laurent Church, 121 Camp St. Meriden on Sat. Nov. 17th (10 AM - 6 PM) and Sun. Nov. 18th (8 AM - 10 AM). Come on Saturday to get the best variety of baked goods from our Cookie Walk"! Browse the crafters/vendor tables where you'll be able to purchase Avon products, baby quilts and bibs, cemetery boxes, dolls, knitted scarves and baby blankets, Christmas wreaths, decorations and ornaments, jewelry, and homemade green tomato relish, cranberry relish, and Gifts-in-a- Jar from our own "St. Anne's Pantry" (with prices starting at just $1.00) and much, much more. Then you'll want to stay grab a snack or stay for lunch at the "Candy Cane Cafe". This year's menu includes beverages, donuts, hot dogs, sandwiches, hot soups and a slice of French meat pie. Before you leave be sure to buy some chances for the basket raffle. The drawing will be held on Sunday morning at 10 AM. There's plenty of free off-street parking in the back of the church - just follow the signs!

Diabetic Retinopathy Thursday, November 15, 2007 6 p.m.-7:30 p.m. MidState Medical Center 435 Lewis Avenue Meriden, CT, 06450 Horwitz Conference Rooms I and II. Please join Andrew Epstein, MD, for a discussion on diabetes and eye health. Dr. Epstein practices ophthalmology and will discuss different types of diabetic retinopathy, how the eye is examined for diabetes, and how diabetic retinopathy is treated. Pre-registration is required for this program. To register, call 203-694-8785

Autumn Cornucopia With its assortment of fall flowers, cattails, fresh apples and miniature corn, this beautiful cornucopia will add great taste to any table setting.

Gerberas, sunflowers, cattails, miniature Indian corn and fresh apples arrive in a wicker cornucopia

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THE WORLD OF THE REVEREND THEOPHILUS HALL, AM

Part 2 of a 3 part series By Ken Cowing YALE COLLEGE - This first pastor of the church in Meriden was born in Wallingford, April 1, 1707, and was the son of Samuel and Love (Royce) Hall. He was the oldest of six children. Theophilus Gall married Hannah Avery, and they had seven children. One son, Rev. . Avery Hall, was the Pastor of a church in Rochester, New York, and one daughter, Eunice, married the Rev. Andrew Lee of Lisbon, Connecticut.

Theophilus Hall was described as being small of stature and slight of physique. Two hundred and sixty years ago, such a description would have indicated that he was not more than five feet tall, since the height of the average man at that time was less than five feet, five inches. Slight of physique did not mean that a person was weak. In this case, we can assume that Hall had a lean and wiry build that is often identified with New England. He owned farm property, and like most of the men of that time he was no stranger to physical labor. One of his peers described him as having "suavity of temper and dignity of manners combined with the greatest affability!! He was persuaded of the truth of Christianity and was deeply sensible of its importance. Hs was much esteemed as a preacher with great firmness and stability and a zealous advocate for civil and religious liberty."

His original salary was 50 pounds per annum and firewood. It was raised to 54 pounds and firewood in 1757, and later raised to 70 pounds and firewood. Often problems with the local economy required the community to pay Hall in provisions in lieu of cash. The following rates were set by the bushel: wheat, 4 shillings; rye, 2 shillings; and corn, 2 shillings.

Fortunately he had other means of support. He owned over five hundred acres of land in the Meriden, Southington and Killingworth areas, and he owned most of the land in the area that is now 'Broad, East Main, Curtis and Liberty Streets. He gave the land to the church which was the site of the second meeting house. The third meeting house that was built in 1830 is in the same area. He also gave the land across the street from the church for the construction of Sabbath houses. (Church service in those days was al all day affair, and the houses were a place to rest and have lunch after a sermon that usually lasted two or three hours.) When the second meeting house was built, he advanced the sum of 150 pounds.

The colonies of New England were close to becoming a complete theocracy - a Bible community. The English colonists had moved to Connecticut from the Massachusetts Colony for freedom of religion - for themselves. Christ's Church in Meriden Parish of Wallingford was the established church. No other religious services could be held without their permission. In fact, the Meriden church was established only after the Assembly in New Haven gave permission.

One of the requirements was permission from the surrounding communities to form a separate religious society. Only church members could vote, own land or hold public office. Everyone was required to support the church regardless of any other religious persuasion. Quakers were not welcome and could be put to death if they practiced their beliefs in public.

Eventually this changed when the Great Awakening swept through the Connecticut Valley. One of the many changes was the separation of church and state. Individual churches gained their own autonomy and ecclesiastical government came to an end. Hall held his congregation together during this controversy. It required strong leadership, an ability to consider both sides of the controversy and a genuine regard for the welfare of his congregation. When a minister was hired by a congregation, he was not accountable to them but to the governing body of the colony. The freedom of the individual began to emerge, and although it was not immediately evident, the effects were far reaching. It eventually led to the independence of the English Colonies from the mother country. Theophilus Hall was in fact the only leader in Meriden at the age of twenty-one.

Rev. Hall was a slave owner as was nearly every minister and a person of affluence in the colonies. It seems to us today, a contradiction for a man of God or any Christian to own slaves. However, the seventeenth and eighteenth centuries were cruel, harsh times, and slavery had been a way of life for hundreds of years.

Theophilus Hall was a man of his time and a member of the establishment. It was understood and accepted that anyone who entered the clergy profession had other means of financial support. As a group, the clergy owned many acres of farmland and depended on slave labor. Existing records show the affluence and land ownership.

The demand for labor in the colonies reached a critical state and slavery was considered the only solution. It was and it precipitated one of the greatest tragedies in our history that has never been completely resolved.

The period during Hall's lifetime was the end of an era that included severe inhumane punishment for crimes committed against the colony.

Public humiliation and disfigurement were quite common. A person could be flogged at the whipping post on the community green in front of the meeting house. Sitting in the stocks or standing at a pillory be a convicted offender was an invitation to the public to give the offender physical and verbal abuse.

At the main entrance of the meeting house an offender would be forced to sit on the Remittence Stool with a sign hung around his neck indicating his crime. I The first offence as a forger was branded on the thumb with the letter "F".

A third offence as a forger would require that the ear lobe be clipped.

But the practice of slavery remained during Hall's life. After his death in 1787, the attitude began to change.

It is true that some families treated their slaves with affection and considered them members of the family. They were, but they were still slaves and were considered property. The status of slaves in the family was the same as a household pet.

How can we, today, judge Reverend Hall? Only more knowledge of his attitude towards life in the Eighteenth Century can give us only an idea of what life was like then.

What will someone say about our lifestyles two hundred years from now? As someone once said, "History can be a harsh judge!"

Fifty-four years later, another clergyman assumed the responsibility as pastor of the same church. The story of 'Reverend George W. Perkins will follow. Slaves again, played a prominent role in the history of this church.

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them. ~John Fitzgerald Kennedy

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Augusta Curtis Cultural Center Upcoming Events Tom Bruenn & ACCC present Con Brio Thursday, November 01, 2007 7:00pm to 9:00pm Con Brio will perform classical music with a 5 piece string quintet... Admission Free, donations appreciated.

"Seniors Art Show" Seniors Have Dreams Too! Thursday, November 08, 2007 5:30pm Save the Date!!! More info to follow.... For more info call Sally Smith @203-265-5801 Annual Augusta Auction Augusta Curtis Cultural Center & Nest Egg Auctions located at30 Research Parkway Meriden, CT 06450 Saturday, November 10, 2007 6:00 pm to 9:30 pm Central CT's favorite auction will be held at Nest Egg Auctions this year on Research Parkway.. Live Auction featuring Nest Egg Auction's own Carl Brechlin as Auctioneer!! 6:00pm Connoisseur Coffee & Delectable Desserts served to invited guests and table reservations at $20 per person. 7:00 Doors open to the public. 7:30 Auction Begins Live auctions items available.....Trips, Furniture, Celebrity Memorabilia, art, antiques, and so much more.........Save the date to support the Arts & Cultural Center of Meriden.

On Oct. 25th we will be having an open donation drop off at 30 Research Parkway (Nest Egg Gallery) from 4 to 7.....We need you to donate some of your treasurers.

Donated items may be eligible for tax deduction.

Holiday Tree & Item Display Silent Auction Saturday, November 10, 2007 through Wednesday, December 05, 2007 - Trees will be on display at all Events @ The Center There is no admission fee to view the trees.....Center will be open daily Nov. 29th through Dec. 4th from 11am to 8pm for viewing. All other days please call for times. Tree Opening ceremony will be from 1pm to 4pm on Saturday, Nov.10th featuring the S.W.E.E.T Potato Society Bake-Off...

Come out and see this beautiful display of trees, wreaths, and centerpieces donated by local businesses and non-profit organizations all over the City of Meriden. Bid on your favorite item for yourself or a special gift for the Holidays, if you have the winning bid items from the Holiday Auction can be picked up on Dec. 5th & 6th....

Come and view the display just to get into the Holiday spirit and bring some friends!!! Support your local nonprofit by bidding on their tree, wreath or centerpiece.

They get half of the proceeds that there item brings in...

Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra "Open House & Concert" ACCC & CCCYO Sunday, November 18, 2007 2:00 pm to 4:00 pm Thanksgiving Concert....Call Katrina for more information @ 203-235-7445 White Lites Brite Nites WLBN Committee & ACCC

Friday, November 23, 2007 5:30pm to 9:30pm An enchanted evening for the whole family to benefit the American Cancer Society for Pancreatic Cancer Research & Awareness. Entry fee $35 per person and includes a luminary bag. 4 pack fee $125 and includes 4 luminary bags. Family Ribbon for Tree $20 per ribbon, and luminary bags $5 per bag.

The evening includes a Lite Fare, Luminary Bags, White Elephant Table, Christmas Tree by Murdy & Sons, Kettle Corn, and Coffee & Hot Chocolate by Dolce Cafe.

Entertainment Provided by: Sean & Kelley Moore, The Valley Shore Chorus, and Sr. Marie Roccapriore's "Spirit Joy" Youth Musical Group...For more information, please call Teresa Vitelli @ 860-347-7772 "What is in The Words" S.W.E.E.T Potato Society in conjunction with ACCC Wednesday, November 28, 2007 6:00pm to 9:00pm S.W.E.E.T Potato Society in conjunction with the ACCC presents "What is in The Words", Spoken Word ....."At The Augusta". Caberet Style Event BYOB & BYOF $15.00 per person or $100 per table of 8. For more information call Floresia at: 203- 715-1758 or 203-238-5380.

This is a 27 and older event and Poets & Writers must register before speaking. $5.00 entry for speaking. BYOF & BYOB Music provided during intermission. Meet and greet with poets and writers.

Augusta Curtis Concert Band Holiday Concert Monday, December 10, 2007 7:00pm to 9:00pm Location to be announced...

All events take place at the Augusta Curtis Cultural Center located at 175 East Main Street in Meriden unless noted otherwise.

NATHAN HALE'S 4TH ANNUAL HOLIDAY CRAFT FAIR Many Handmade Crafts, Homemade Chocolates & Candy, Homemade Cookie Walk, and don't forget to visit SANTA!!! FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 2007 277 Atkins Street Ext., Meriden, CT 06450 Set-Up: 4:00 p.m. Fair Hours: 5:30 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. CRAFTERS NEEDED TABLE PRICE $ 20 PLUS DONATION OF ONE CRAFT ITEM FOR RAFFLE CONTACT JENNIFER DAY for Registration Details @ 237-4775 (leave message in mailbox # 2) OR by email: cricket0302@yahoo.com

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What's T.I.D.E.? Totally Integrated Dynamic Exercise!

A low resistance workout. Strength training Core body strengthening Aerobic fitness An excellent cross- training accent to other aerobic fitness classes. Set to music All fitness levels welcome! Come join in the fun and exercise with Maura on Tuesday nights in the Therapy Pool.

7:35PM-8:30PM - Tuesday nights. FREE to Wallingford Y members $10/ per class for guests or $55 for a 7 week session.

Highland Elementary School PTO Craft Fair The Highland Elementary School PTO (200 Highland Avenue, Wallingford, CT) will hold its 24th annual Craft Fair on Saturday, December 1, 2007 from 9 AM to 3 PM at the school. Featured crafts include jewelry, wreaths, holiday ornaments, woodworking, original art work, animal treats, wall hangings, scarves, bags, doll clothes, books, glassware, florals, clothing, jams, jellies, candy, gourmet mixes, quilts, matted photographs, cards, etc.

Refreshments will be available including homemade apple crisp. For more information contact Carole Eager at (203) 314-3413 or Highland School at (203) 949-0121.

Group Hayrides available with beautiful views of the hills and valleys of Wallingford and Meriden.

Twi-night Rides and Bonfires also available.

The BEST and BIGGEST P u mp k i n s a re p e r fe c t fo r Thanksgiving D e c o ra t i o n s !

Sponsored by: Child Adoption Resource Association, a non-profit full service adoption agency located in New London serving all of Connecticut Free Informational Sessions for People Interested in Finding Out more about Adoption: Wednesday, November 7th 7:00 to 8:00 PM Borders Books and Music Café 470 Lewis Ave. Suite 7000 Meriden, CT. A CARA social worker will explain different types of adoption and offer a step-by-step outline to adopting a child. Adopting a child from Connecticut state foster care through Project Connecticut's Child, a grant funded free adoption program, will be discussed, as well as international and domestic infant adoption.

Participants will leave with a folder of resources to help guide families, couples, or individuals wishing to adopt www.adoptacarakid.org or 860-444-0553 for more information or to schedule a one on one adoption inquiry meeting at the CARA offices in New London. No registration required!

If you like the water, you'll love T.I.D.E.

Apple & Pear Picking while in Season

We are a local family farm offering apples, pears, fresh cider, pumpkins, vegetables, flowers and herbs in the Fall.

We also offer boxes of fruit, vegetables and fresh cider in the Winter.

We invite you to come visit us and taste the difference of our high quality products!

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Come see this amazing plant in beautiful maroon that we now offer seeds for. We won’t tell you what it is as you have to see it to believe it. NO ONE ELSE HAS IT BUT NOW YOU CAN HAVE IT TOO!!!

Directions We are located off I-91 at Exit 15, Rt. 68. Go east 500 feet and take a left on Research Parkway. Go 1 mile, take a right on Thorpe Avenue. Go 3/4 mile, bear right onto Fleming Road and go to the top of the hill From Meriden: Take East Main Street. Go right onto Thorpe Avenue. Go 2 miles and take a left onto Fleming Road to the top of the hill.

170 Fleming Road in Meriden 203 294-0276

Southwest Conservation District Awards Special Awards were for Outstanding Individuals within New Haven and Fairfield Counties: 2007 Citizen Conservationist Award to Joseph De Risi of Hamden for years of service to the region and continuing efforts to preserve, conserve and protect the resources of our state.

2007 New Haven County Cooperator to Joseph Geremia of Wallingford.

Recognized Geremia Greenhouses for efforts in implementing energy and micro irrigation techniques with latest best available technologies in flood floor fertilization and irrigation installation in the greenhouse operations.

2007 Fairfield County Cooperator to John Plasko of Trumbull.

Recognized Plasko Farms for efforts in implementing low consumption irrigation practices through the installation of drip-lines in the greenhouses and agricultural fields while promoting the sound stewardship of your land and preserving the rich farming heritage of New England.

Photo by Ellie Tessmer

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DEAR HOUSEWIVES - CENTRAL CONNECTICUT’S KNOW IT ALL GALS Dear Housewives, I have lost faith in life and "God". I believe in neither anymore and feel lost searching.

Empty in Wallingford FLORA: Dear Friend in Wallingford. I hope I have words for you to give you hope in a life and God that can fill you up. First I have to say that if you are suffering from depression call your physician and be totally honest with your feelings. Your doctor can guide you to a therapist and psychiatrist if medication and talk therapy are needed.

Depression is treatable. Calling 211 can lead you in the right direction too.

Another direction you can go is up. Lifting your eyes up to the all powerful, can do anything God. You can pray to God and say "I am powerless. I realize I cannot change without your help. Show me Lord and help me change my heart. I ask this in your precious name.

Amen".

There are some things that you can try. Go and invest in a Bible. Not just any Bible but an NIV Study Bible. There is a great one by Zondervan Publishers. NIV is short for New International Version which gives you God's word with a contemporary translation.

Some people find that journaling their feelings helps them receive their faith back. Did something happen to you or someone you care about that caused these feelings? Write things out and ask God to help you. You said that you lost faith in God so you had faith at some point. Try the Bible, journaling and prayer. Put God first and things will turn around. It is promised to you. Let us know how you make out. We care.

JUNE: Wow, first of all, thanks Flora for bible time. I felt like I should start clapping as I read your answer. I guess I shouldn't be silly this is a serious matter, especially since our writer sounds truly upset by their feelings.

I am sorry to hear you feel empty but I am not sure purchasing a bible will help that feeling much less reading through it. Without getting into a religious "thing" here I can only say that your life is making you feel this way not belief in God or lack of belief. If you were religious before you may want to speak to your priest or clergyman or head of your church. You may need a doctor to evaluate you in case something chemical is going on. If something traumatic has recently happened you should seek a psychologist or psychiatrist. Maybe even getting away on a small trip for a change of scenery to think about what is important to you may be of help. Please, if you feel dire and like not living at any point get immediate help. Things will always change and you need to be "around" to see how.

Dear Housewives, I am a Vegetarian and I am dreading Thanksgiving and what I have to deal with from my family and the dishes they make for me and how they stare at me all dinner to see if I like it. How do I get them to get over it?

Suffering Stuffing in Meriden JUNE: I won't go on with my opinion on vegetarianism but I will say this--by now everyone in your family knows your choice I am sure. It seems a little hysterical that you feel you have to "deal" with the dishes and staring. There is nothing to deal with it is Thanksgiving and this is what people do; they make dishes and look at each other. Please, bring your own food and have them make you a dish of the veggies and potatoes and cranberry sauce and whatever main part you would make at home to eat, eat it with relatives. Stop stressing about something so silly.

FLORA: Dear Vegetarian, How are you suffering if your family is accommodating you by making you dishes to satisfy your dietary requirements? Before they start to stare at you, why don't you tell them how grateful you are that they made something for you and compliment them. Have you thought about making a bringing a delicious homemade vegetarian dish to share?

JUNE: Don't waste your hummus and thyme if there are no other vegetarians.

Sound Off FLORA: O.K. folks, Flora had her feathers ruffled this morning. I went to the unnamed cable company in Meriden, CT and politely asked for a copy of the channel guide. I explained to them that I tried going on-line and printing it from home but the file was very big and jammed up our printer. The woman opened a drawer, pulled out a paper and said she needed to make more copies and would return. Eight minutes (I counted after she was taking a while...) later she came out and said that they did not have one. I then said to her " Aren't you the cable company, if anyone would have a channel list, I thought it would be you. and can you explain why you had pages to photo copy and now you tell me you don't have a listing?" She said that she looked closer at the pages and it was not the channel guide. She then said "actually you should go on-line and print it out myself. We don't do this type of thing here". Well, I felt my feathers start to ruffle and there was a rage in my cage.... I took a deep breath and said that I will like to leave here today with my channel guide and reminded her that I did try to print out the guide at home without any luck. A moment later she returned with my guide.

Oof, Flora, sorry you had such a cruddy experience at the old cable company. I have a good sound off. Be ready next month. Glad you got your guide. Seems like a no brainer they should be the ones to give it to you. Duh, right? Way

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to stick to your guns and make the gal earn her paycheck.

BOOK REVIEW FLORA: "Half of a Yellow Sun" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is an incredible book that takes you to her home land, Nigeria during the 60's and 70's. It tells a tale of the Nigerian-Biafra War. The book centralizes on the lives of three people and how their lives are affected by colonization and the brutality of a civil war. For some reason, I never learned about Africa in school. Sure we learned about Egypt but that was pretty much it. There is so much history in Africa that American children miss out on.

By reading novels like "Half of a yellow Sun" I was drawn into Nigeria and now have a better understanding of the Igbo people, and how they were affected by British colonization and the horrors of their civil war.

JUNE: Okay Flora, I could barely get through the description much less the gazzzillion pages that this book must be. (If it was a full orange sun perhaps.)

I also think that American children should finish learning about American issues and history before we move on to a distant continent. Many kids can't answer simple questions about America. Anyway, a book a slightly different speed is a book called "Forensic Files" by Dr. Henry Lee. My friend urged me to read this book which lays out five different forensic cases (Scott Peterson, Michael Peterson (no relation to Scott) and the kidnapped Elizabeth Smart just to name a few. Anyway, this book offers a breakdown of the evidence as well as a mini lesson on blood spatter and crime scene analysis.

Easy read and pretty interesting and hey, it is even set in this decade. What a treat, right Flora?!

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It has been an unchallengeable American doctrine that cranberry sauce, a pink goo with overtones of sugared tomatoes, is a delectable necessity of the Thanksgiving board and that turkey is uneatable without it. ~Alistair Cooke

What you need to know!

The Wallingford Garden Club and Wallingford Center Inc have a joint project in the beautification of Wallingford’s Public and Civic Gardens. The Wallingford Garden Club maintains the gardens at Johanne Manfreda Fishbein Gazebo, Crescent Garden across the street, Wallingford Police Station, Julia H Roude Herb Garden at the Historical Society, Pond Hill/South Elm Street and Wallingford Community Day Care Center.

Wallingford Center Inc maintains the plantings on Simpson Court, containers on Center Street and Railroad Station. Tuesday mornings the Wallingford Garden Club Civic group can be seen working spring through fall. Special Thanks to coordinator Caryl Ryan, Marilyn Ulizio and the many faithful volunteers: Fran Zemke, Clare Clark, Helen Daney, Eileen Eccles, Carole Golitko, Lillian Hefka, Shirley Krampitz, Doris Linton, Fran Pellegrino, Chris Walsh, Lillian Weaver, Carolyn Heine and Barbara Garvey. Maryon Lindholm does the containers at the Wallingford Senior Center. Ellie Tessmer assists at the Agnes B Campos Memorial Bird and Butterfly Garden as well as the Federated Garden Club I 91 Wildflower Garden at Exit 15 Rest Stop. Special thanks to all you ladies who have directly kept Wallingford bright and beautiful and supported the Wallingford Gardeners Market during the summer months, especially Fran Zemke.

Fran Zemke with Nancy Eddy at the Gazebo Garden.

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MAX E. MURAVNICK MERIDEN SENIOR CITIZENS' CENTER The Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Citizens' Center is open to all Meriden residents age 60 and over. Membership is free of charge and new members may sign-up any weekday between 9:00 AM and 5:00 PM by presenting a driver's license or other proof of age. New members receive an information package about senior services and a coupon entitling them to one complimentary lunch in our Senior Community Café. Sign-up today and find out about all that is offered for Meriden seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center! ******** On Thursday, November 8 at 10:30 AM musician Bob Mel will perform in Willene's Place in a Tribute to Veterans sponsored by Health Net. A professional entertainer, Bob has been making music for New England audiences in restaurants, night clubs and resorts, at weddings and other private celebrations for more than 25 years. His unique blend of song, warmth and a touch of comedy (just for fun) has endeared him to thousands and allowed him to build a career doing what he loves - making music! Don't miss this special Tribute to Veterans by this popular entertainer on Thursday, November 8 at 10:30 AM. The lunch served at 11:30 that day in our Senior Community Café will be a fresh fruit cup, stuffed shells with marinara sauce, tossed salad with Italian dressing, garlic bread, and a flag cupcake! No reservation is needed to attend the musical program but if you want to join us for lunch please make a reservation by calling 235-8052. ******** Meteorologist Art Horn will again visit the Senior Center to put on his latest weather show, "The Weather of the U.S.A.". Art's fun and informative show will be on Wednesday, November 14 from 10:30 - 11:30 AM in the first floor meeting room. His 45 minute slide show will cover such topics as historic weather events and extreme weather conditions that have taken place in the history of the United States. Following his slide show Art will conduct a 10 to 15 minute question and answer session. Be sure not to miss "The Weather of the U.S.A." with former TV weatherman Art Horn on Wednesday, November 14 at 10:30 AM! ******** The Thanksgiving Special Luncheon in our Senior Community Café will be held on Thursday, November 15. The menu will feature roast turkey with gravy, stuffing with gravy, cranberry sauce, mixed vegetables, whole wheat dinner roll and pumpkin pie with topping for dessert. Musical entertainment will be provided by Middi and the Country Gentlemen starting at 10:30. Please sign-up for the special Thanksgiving luncheon at the Senior Center or by calling 235-8052 one week in advance. ******** Manicures by students from Wilcox Technical High School will be offered at the Senior Center on Tuesday, November 20 from 9:30 - 11:00 AM. This complimentary service is done on a first come, first served basis and newcomers are always welcome. Special thanks to the Wilcox students led by Mrs. Donna Marinan who provide this much appreciated service for the seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center! ******** The Meriden Health Department administered more than 250 flu shots at the Senior Center at a Flu Shot Clinic in October. Plenty of vaccine still remains at this time and the staff at the Health Department encourages local citizens to call 630-4234 to schedule an appointment for this important annual inoculation. The $20 cost is covered by Medicare and certain Medicare managed care plans or payable by cash at the time of the flu shot. Those eligible for the flu shot are Meriden residents who are senior citizens, chronically ill citizens, or persons 50 - 64 years old. The Health Department also offers a pneumonia vaccine to residents aged 65 and over at any time during the year by appointment only. For further information contact the Meriden Health Department at 630-4234. ******** For a complete listing of all Senior Center classes, activities, trips and meal menus, pick-up a copy of our newsletter available on the first of each month at the reception desk in the front lobby.

Tis' The Season

Lori Peck, Senior Volunteer In this season of giving and caring, won't you please open up your hearts a little wider and consider adopting one of our wonderful cats or dogs. They will in turn give you back all the love and thanks you are so deserving of. An animal is such a comfort at anytime and they don't ask for much in return.

Whether it's a dog to snuggle with or take a walk or a cat that curls up on your lap and purrs. Their companionship is so rewarding.

So please, come visit our friends at the shelter on Murdock Ave. or view them on our website at www.meridenhs.petfinder.org. While your there you can check out all of our upcoming fundraisers. We will be having pictures with Santa in December! As always, if you have any questions, you can reach us at the Meriden Humane Society at 238-3650. Happy Thanksgiving from all of us at the Meriden Humane Society!

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Holiday Craft Bazaar - St. Luke's Eldercare Solutions will host a Holiday Craft Bazaar Fundraiser on Friday November 30th from 4-7pm.

Raffle items are also needed. St. Luke's Eldercare Solutions serves seniors in Middlesex County including the towns of Middletown, Cromwell, Middlefield, Durham, Portland, Higganum, Haddam, East Haddam and East Hampton. For more information on being a vendor or donating a raffle item, please contact Laura at 335.7526

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Annual Auxiliary Holiday Bazaar Presented by MidState Medical Center Saturday, November, 17, 2007 MidState Medical Center Horwitz Conference Center 9 a.m. - 4 p.m.

The MidState Medical Center Gift Gallery will host the 2nd Annual Auxiliary Holiday Bazaar in the hospital*s Horwitz Conference Center.

This year*s bazaar has a new twist with all arts and crafts handmade by MidState Medical Center employees and volunteers. Approximately 25 vendors will be showcasing their crafts at the event, including custom jewelry and purses, elegant scarves and belts, luxurious soaps and lotions, unique handmade cards, and accessories for the home.

Twenty percent of all sales will benefit the MidState Auxiliary, which supports the hospital through volunteering and fundraising activities.

The Pink Partini Fashion Show Presented by MidState Medical Center Thursday, November 8, 2007 Aqua Turf, Plantsville, CT6 p.m.- 9 p.m.

Cancer survivors and hospital staff will model the latest fashions from Talbots of Southbury; Kimberly Boutique of West Hartford; The Dressing Room of Wallingford; Diva Kidz of Westfarms Mall, Farmington; and Modern Formals of Meriden, North Haven and Southington. Event includes cocktails, signature martini, hors d*oeuvres, and chocolate dessert bar. Tickets are $45. Call Dawn Papallo at 203-694-8742 for tickets and more information. All proceeds benefit the Cancer Center at MidState.

It’s time to celebrate the good tastes of the Holiday Season!

MidState Medical Center Announces the Pink Partini Fashion Show Cancer Survivors and Hospital Staff Walk the Runway to Benefit Cancer Center Cancer survivors and hospital staff from MidState Medical Center will model the latest fashions from a variety of area retailers at the Aqua Turf on Thursday, November 8, from 6 p.m. - 9 p.m., to benefit the hospital's Cancer Center.

Models include Lucille Janatka, President and CEO of MidState Medical Center, as well as physicians, nurses, members of MidState's board of directors, and volunteers. Many of the staff's children will also be strutting their stuff on the catwalk.

"We're excited to have so many members of our staff support this fundraiser. This is a first time event, but with enough community support, we can make it an annual one," said Gail Millerick, Director of Development.

Fashions on the runway will be Talbots of Southbury; Kimberly Boutique of West Hartford; The Dressing Room of Wallingford; Diva Kidz of Westfarms Mall, Farmington; and Modern Formals of Meriden, North Haven and Southington.

Guests who attend the Pink Partini Fashion Show will enjoy cocktails, a signature "Dream Girl" martini, hors d'oeuvres, and chocolate dessert bar.

There will also be complimentary chair and hand massages in addition to pink ribbon nail paintings.

And guests can shop until they drop at the Pink Partini because the Auxiliary 's Gift Gallery will be sponsoring the "Think Pink Boutique," where you'll find selections like porcelain dolls, beautiful jewelry, elegant handbags, body creams and soaps, and many signature Breast Cancer Awareness items.

Entertainment during the evening will be provided by MidState employee, Armando Ortiz, who will sing selections by Marc Anthony.

This first-time event is sponsored by the Medical Oncology and Hematology, P.C. Tickets for the event are $45, and all proceeds will benefit the Cancer Center. For tickets and more information, contact Dawn Papallo at 203-694-8742.

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“A TRIBUTE TO ROB SZYMASZEK, JR.” As seen through the eyes of his uncle, retired Police Chief Robert E. Kosienski, Sr. Yes, I remember when Rob was born and his parents were so proud of him. I was 15 at the time and I was honored that they had asked me to be his God Father. Rob was the middle child, in between his sisters Sharon and Janice and the love that his parents gave to all was equal. There was no such thing as a favorite child!

Rob’s mom and dad were steeped in family tradition, both coming from Polish families where love, tradition religion and family meant so much, and they taught their children the true meaning of those treasures, especially love, loyalty and respect for others.

I clearly remember when Rob was just old enough to hold a football and I taught him how to successfully throw a spiral. I was left handed but I taught him how to hold the ball with his right hand and to spin it while throwing it. It worked!!!

Rob’s father groomed him the rest of the way and Rob developed such a love for football that it became a part of his life.

He developed into a great football player for Maloney and the rest is history. He married well, very well when he married Dinae Nalewajek. Her family background was similar to Rob’s and they both adored each other, just like his mom and dad, and Diane encouraged Rob throughout both of his successful careers, as Hear Football Coach at Maloney High School, with the most victories, and as Guidance Counselor. Their daughter Jennifer was the jewel of their lives and to say that they adored her is an understatement.

My wife Rosemarie and our children Cheryl and Rob, Jr., followed Rob when he was coach, to almost all of his games. There were many happy times and a few sad ones, but overall we watched great team play, with a great coach.

My oldest brother, Walter Kosienski, who lived in Bristol, would come to as many games as we did, and when the Maloney team played Bristol Walter would stay on the Maloney side, rooting for Maloney. “He loved Rob!” There was love and r4espect for all of his and Diane’s family, especially at Christmas time. We would get together at his home, as he wanted it, to share our family traditions, especially Vigilia.

That’s Christmas Eve. In Polish, where we would break the traditional Oplatic (wafer) and wish each other “Health, Happiness, Love, Long and Healthy Lives, and Fortunes of Heaven.”

We would then sing traditional Polish Holiday Songs, and enjoy traditional food and drinks. Two songs were especially sung that brought tears and happiness to the festivities and these are: — JAK SZYBKO MIJAJA CHWILE, JAK SZYBKO PLYNIE ZCAS, which means “How quickly time and the moments go by. A year, a month, a moment, let’s make the most of being together, by enjoying what we have now, because God knows if we’ll be together again.”! And “STO LAT”, which means “MAY HE/SHE LIVE ONE HUNDRED YEARS”, and this is usually done with a glass filled with your favorite beverage in your hand, with your arm raised in salute to the person, or the entire group, that you are with in sincere celebration of a long, healthy life.

Rob always felt that everyone should be treated equally and fairly and he certainly proved that as a councilor and coach. His love of football was phenomenal and his fairness in coaching and his ability to encourage his players to give their best, and more, much more, made so many of them winners. Yes, he touched many lives and will never be forgotten! Rob is missed by so many, and his brave fight certainly has been an inspiration to us.

“He never gave up.”!!!! His famous quote “LIFE IS GOOD” will stay with us forever, and encourages us to go on, no matter how difficult the road. I miss you Rob, thanks for sharing so much with me you legacy certainly will live on!!!!

Your Grateful and Loving Uncle, “Uncle Bobby”

“Life is Good!” - ROB SZYMASZEK, JR

I also thought of how Rob was a second father to several hundred Maloney students and football and football players over the past 30 years. He wrote their recommendations, attended their weddings and visited their hospital rooms. Finally, I thought of Rob seated in a golf cart this past August at his field dedication ceremony pointing over to where the Rob Sazmaszek Field sign would be erected and stating, “Panc, I plan on sitting under my sigh and watching football practice on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving.” I responded, “Coach, I’ll meet you there and watch practice with you. You’ve got a deal!”

Smaz, my good friend, I can’t wait to see you there.

Don Panciera - Assistant Principal Maloney High School

When I was a youngster, about 5 or 6 My Dad and I would listen to WMMW on Saturdays when they would broadcast the Maloney Football games live. If we could get to a game, that was great, but thank God for the radio. My Dad would grab a football, and try to teach me how to throw a spiral. He would say, I taught your cousin Rob how to throw a football, and you’re going to learn, too. I actually became a better kicker than a passer, but my fathers pride and love for his nephew/godson Rob Szymaszek was incredible.

Rob was truly the family’s favorite son. Rob was the All American kid, the standout football player, the favorite teacher and beloved coach.

My Husband…My Friend My best family memories were of the Szymaszek family and Most people know that Rob and I were high school sweethearts…Maloney High School the holidays,. Thanksgiving was usually the feast of feasts…if at that. Rob was captain of the football team, I was a cheerleader. Football has been a Maloney won, boy that Turkey tasted better than if they lost…but part of our lives for a long, long time. What can I write about this man that was my part- the fun, good spirits and family and friendships were so special. ner in life for forty years…thirty-five of marriage—-five before that. Most of the good Rob would enter the house a hero, people hugged him, patted him has already been said about Rob in the newspapers and the blogs on my on the back and he always was positive. He loved his players so recordjournal.com. I guess I should tell you about the fun part of Rob as a much. He loved and adored his wife Diane and daughter Jen so husband…some things that people don’t know much about. very much more…Diane was the perfect wife. She stood by Rob, Some of you know, Rob liked to cook. He cooked like he lived his life! It was always with all of his late night meetings, weekends of scouting and gourmet. His best dish was a zuppa di pesce…a marinara sauce with clams, mussels, watching films. She was at every game, had Jen dressed as a calamari, shrimp and flakey white fish and when he really wanted to make it extra special cheerleader and had a line of dogs as mascots, from Kirby to for someone he would put in a lobster tail. Money was never an issue with Rob. Oh! Kelly to Mr. Diffely, they all wore the green and white.

And his onion soup was the best around. There were some things that couldn’t be Rob and I grew closer as I got older. When I was elected to ordered out because there was no comparison to Rob’s. Some of my favorite memories the Meriden Board of Education, Rob was the first person to call of Rob are after football season was over and coming home late from school. Before I me the next morning and tell me that I had a big job to do. He even got in the door I could smell the garlic sautéing on the stove. I know I didn’t have said remember it’s about kids, not politics, something that I have to cook that night and I was in for a treat. practiced since. When I would visit schools, Rob would take me Rob also loved romance and in this area as in all he was the best. Once on a trip to the into his office and tell me what we were doing right, and what we Cayman Islands, Rob surprised me with a fancy dinner on the beach. People going by were doing wrong. We always had some great laughs, shared a wondered if we were celebrities. It wasn’t something people normally did on this beach great story talked about what was important for our school stubut it is a beautiful memory. For my fiftieth birthday, Rob asked me, “if you could go dents. anywhere for your birthday where would you want to go?” I said, “of course I would like When Rob found out he had cancer, it was probably one of the to go to Sedona, but I know we can’t go there”. Well guess where he took me? He loved toughest times our family had faced ever. Here was a guy who to surprise me. jogged, worked out and had no earlier signs of ill health. Like There are many stories like this that I could ramble on and on about but I think you always, Rob was positive and optimistic. Christmas Eve of the get the picture. Rob didn’t do anything halfway. It was always done the best. first year, Rob handed me a drink and said let’s toast life. My If Rob could have seen his funeral, I think he would be happy with it as it was the best. Dad looked at him, with a tear in his eye and sang the song He would be pleased to know the number of people who attendee and would have loved “Stolat” which in Polish means another 100 years. John the music. I know he felt he chose well in picking Father Jack to do his funeral mass.

Bowman, Rob’s brother-in-law (also a great man) said that was a Father Jack jokes that this is the first time he was ever interviewed to do a funeral mass! song you could sing, no matter what the occasion and it would I would like to take this opportunity in this paper to thank everyone who was there, all bring a smile to your face and confuse the heck out of the non who wrote long letters to tell me how Rob touched their lives, who sent flowers, food, Poles who didn’t know what we were singing about. Tradition who donated to the Franciscans or the scholarship or who have just been there to support and family values were a great part of Rob’s life. Rob was so me and my family. If I forgot to thank you personally, know that yo9ur act of support close to his sisters, and they adored him. Each successful in their and sympathy were greatly appreciated. The following is something that was in the thank own right, they all treated each other with respect and love. They you notes that I would like to share with you. never argued…they just showed love.

“The love and support throughout Rob’s six year battle with brain cancer and his This past spring when Rob was told that his tumor was groweventual death, has and still is overwhelming. If one person can generate this much ing again, he took the attitude of “I’m not letting this thing beat love, just think what all of us together can do. The key now is to not forget but to me”. He spoke with enthusiasm and hope. I didn’t want to carry it with us always and continue to pass it on and do the same for each other believe that Rob could possibly pass on. Rob said he wasn’t while here on earth.” “Life is Still Good” Diane Szymaszek afraid. He had his faith, his family and second family at Maloney High School. I live in awe of Rob’s strength. His life has taught everything he said. For a long time we talked about his wife, Diane, and how much he me that God, family and love are always there and never to be loved her. They were high school sweethearts and said that he couldn’t imagine his life taken for granted. I take those life lessons and look to my father without her support and his wonderful daughter. He cherished them so much. So much Robert Syzmaszek has done a lot for Meriden, but he has done for additional ones. Believe it or not, he keeps telling me I still more for Maloney High. He has taken boys into his football pro- love poured out when he talked about them that I felt as if I had known the family for have a lot to learn. Most importantly, I wake up everyday and gram and produced men. Mr. Smaz would make you feel like you year. That’s when coach told me something, that to this day I don’t think I will ever forremember that Rob Szymaszek, taught me “Life is Good.” get.

He told me how much I reminded him of his daughter, Jennifer.

What an honor that have the ability to do anything and everything. On your own you Rob Kosienski, Jr. was, after seeing pictures and hearing stories about her. From then on I referred to him as would go into the game and you would have doubts as to you My Friend Rob Szymaszek, I had the privilege to meet and know my Godfather. So for the short time that I knew coach I felt as if he was my family. winning the game or not. Mr. Smaz would open those blue eyes the person that I feel is the greatest coach, mentor and family I was one of the fortunate ones to say “goodbye” to him a week and a half before he as wide as he could, Smile, And then begin a speech that would man I have ever met. Rob was my friend for just the past two passed on to be with our Lord. I went over to his house not knowing what to expect. I wipe all of the doubts out of your mind. You could be going up years during his illness. I didn’t know him for very long but it was welcomed by his wife and adorable dog. I entered the room to see my coach, my against the 49ers but we would still believe that we could win didn’t matter if you knew Rob for one day or for thiry years, he friend, lying on a hospital bed, so calm and peaceful. I approached the bed and reached (we’d probably beat them anyway). As a guidance counselor he was the same person. out to hold his hand.

I looked into his crystal blue eyes and for a while I was speechless. was the same. He would have you taking classes you didn’t know Rob taught me to be a better person and a better coach, as he I honestly don’t even remember what I said to him. I remember I made him laugh, which existed but you’re in it and you would know that you would be for him took a lot of energy to do. He was even able to say a few words. Just enough to went through the course of the day. What I mean is that you fine because if you needed help he was always there and always remind me that nothing would bring him down. He told me to wish the team well, and to would never know that he was sick. He always had a joke to tell had time. He never made things seem as if they were about him or one to listen to. Rob was also responsible in providing help for remind them that “Life is good.” he put the emphasis on you. He helped people to see their self students, athletes, parents and coaches, for more then thirty years.

I guess you can say we are all apart of his “team”, and we just have to keep playing. worth. He has helped me raise mine and I’m a better teenager for I guess you could say he was the “John F. Kennedy” of it. As I grow and step into the real world his guidance is going to So here I am reminding you for Coach, “Life is good.” Lindsey Pearsall - Student M.H.S. Meriden...good looking and he cared about everyone. form the man I become.

As I was preparing for Parents Night at Maloney High School on the evening of Besides Rob being such a role model as a person, he was P.S. Life Is Good. Shoquan Stevens - Student MHS September 20th, my cell phone rang. Before I answered, I looked at my screen and saw blessed with a caring wife and daughter. They also touch everythe name and number of the caller. It was a call I knew was inevitable and I knew what one in the city of Meriden. Rob always said “Life is Good”.

Life is good. the message would be. Diane Szymaszek had called to inform me that my very good Maybe we should take a piece of Rob and his family in our hearts Truer words were never spoken. This was said by a man who and say “Life Is Good”. I love him and his family forever. lived and preached this quote as if it was his duty. I never thought friend and colleague had finally succumbed to his long illness with a malignant brain Thanks for Reading, Leonard Pettitte and Family for a second that writing a short paragraph about coach would be tumor a short time ago.

Several personal remembrances of Rob passed through my mind. I thought of the time this difficult. However, just like many, I realized I have too many Dedication Speech I sat in Rob’s kitchen back in 1978 and interviewed for an assistant football coaching fond memories to sum up the life of this wonderful man. position on his staff. I Rob offered me the position, even though I was fresh out of college I am very happy to be here this morning with Rob, his wife Just the other day I was reminiscing about the memories of Diane, members of their family, and their friends and colleagues with no coaching experience. Passing over several experienced candidates. (He said he Coach Szymaz, as I passed by something written on a wall. The to celebrate the dedication of the Maloney High School football liked my enthusiasm and energy and he could tell I cared about kids.) graffiti said, “Each day is a gift; that is why it is called the prefield as the Rob Szymaszek Field.

I thought of Rob sitting in my driveway for hours waiting for me to return home from sent.” Right then and there I knew Coach was in my presence. I Maloney High School has a strong tradition of honoring staff the hospital after my mother passed away to offer his condolences and support. am still finding signs that Coach sends me to reassure everyone members who have made significant contributions to our students I remembered Rob delivering a beautiful and heartfelt eulogy for my Dad when I that he is looking after us. Each time I receive a new “sign”, I and school community. Teachers previously recognized by havlacked the strength to do so. just look up to the sky and smile. ing an area of the school building or an athletic field dedicated in I recalled Rob giving money to every panhandler he encountered on the streets of Coach was obviously a very influential man. He is the definition of a fighting Spartan. One who never let adversity get in his Cleveland, ignoring our cynical comments that they would use the money to buy liquor or their honor include Steven Hermaszewski- Art wing, Dennis Gannon- math wing, Ed Zajac- baseball field, Benjamin Nessingdrugs. way. Call it stubbornness, call it pride, call it what ever you’d I thought of Rob bringing over a thick folder with detailed information prior to my hip gymnasium, Antonio Parisi- auditorium, and William Bryan- scilike; there’s no doubt in my mind that he did everything out of love. That drive is what everyone admired about him. He always surgery last fall. (He sensed that I was “scared to death” facing surgery for the first time.) ence wing.

Today we add Rob Szymaszek to the list of honorees. Rob has I recalled breaking down on the phone as I told Rob that we had to put Murphy, our 14 found the positive and good in life. He never put himself first; year old dog down that afternoon. Within the hour, Rob and Diane were in our driveway a long history at Maloney High School. He has been a student, which was evident when he became ill. Even then, coach was still pushing to go to football practices because he wanted to see to be there for us. Diane and I had all we could do to help Rob out of the car and into our athlete, teacher, guidance counselor, and football coach. While Rob will always be remembered as a staunch advocate for the “his boys”. Being the only girl on the football team, the manager, house, since he had been bed-ridden and housebound with his illness for several weeks.

(Rob had made Diane drive him to the Ruth-Chris steakhouse to buy us a gift certificate!) students of Maloney High School, it is in his capacity as football I was used to being grouped under the title “boys” or “men”. coach that his passion most brightly shines. I’m using the present What always amazed me is that you never needed to ask Rob for his help. From the Never the less, Coach still held the door open for me, or yelled at time I first met Rob, he possessed an innate ability to know when a friend, student, player tense purposefully because Rob is still volunteering with our the boys if they forgot a “lady” was present. coaching staff and has been observing conditioning practices this Coach and I had plenty of memorable conversations. One that or total stranger, for that matter, needed to be “picked up” or needed his assistance. I week. stands out in my mind was when I went to see him on his last day thought of the phone conversation with Rob in early July after his MRI. He simply said, Maloney High School means so much to Rob and Rob means “I didn’t have a good scan. My doctor gave me two months.” Then in typical Rob at Maloney. He had retired from being a guidance counselor at Maloney; which in my opinion he never stopped giving guidance. Szymaszek fashion he said, “Panc, no goddamn doctor is going to tell me how long I have so much to Maloney High School. It is most fitting that this field be named in his honor.

I went to his office to say “goodbye”. We ended up chatting it up to live!”

I thought of Rob being the loving and proud father of Jennifer, his only child, however, Congratulations Coach! Robert J. Angeli, Principal - Francis T. for a while when I really experienced how genuine he was about Maloney High School