Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee
THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394
Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller
Deacons: Fred Sorrentino Vincent Rinaldi
Parish Office hours Mon. - Thurs. 8:30 am - 7:30 pm Open Sunday 9 am - 12 noon.
Parish Membership:
New Parishioners welcome! Next New Parishioner Orientation - Sunday, 11 February at 11 am Contact Parish Of ice parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Registration is required
Sacraments: Eucharist
Detailed Mass times listed on page 2
Penance & Reconciliation Saturday 3 pm or by appointment.
Marriage
Contact the Parish Of ice one year in advance for information & guidelines.
Baptism
Contact the Parish Of ice for information & required paperwork three months in advance. There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.
Cohort 13 St. Catharine of Genoa 108 Middletown Rd., Holmdel
Join us for THANKSGIVING DAY MASS Thursday, 23 November in the Church at 9 am. Start your day in thankful prayer!!
Saint Mary Parish One Phalanx Rd., Colts Neck St. Gabriel 100 N. Main St., Marlboro St. Benedict 165 Bethany Rd., Holmdel
Join a small faith sharing group for the four weeks of Advent
Prepare for the coming of our Lord more information see page 9
Visit our Website: www.stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Mass Intentions for the Week 20 November - 26 November For * Requested by Monday, 20 November 9AM - Chapel Shih-Yue Hou * Jen Straniero Nancy Cavaliere * Jack and Jane Petillo MaryJo Scibetta * Maureen Valenziano
Tuesday, 21 November 9AM – Chapel Presentation of the Blessed Virgin Mary Mary Gabriel * Maria Gerbino Hilda O’Doherty * Tom and Angela Kinlin Elizabeth DeliSanti * Linda A. Evans
Wednesday, 22 November 9AM – Chapel St. Cecilia Margaret Boyle * The Aiello Family Loretta Krzywulak * Lorraine Lee Sergio DeGioia * Sergio DeGioia
Thursday, 23 November 9AM – Church St. Clement I, St. Columban; Blessed Miguel Agustín Pro; Thanksgiving Day Deanne Bottone Rose * Jack and Jane Petillo Joseph Genovario * Lorraine Lee
Friday, 24 November 9AM – Chapel St. Andrew Dung-L?c and Companions Elaine Shapiro * Coseglia Family Reverend Fr. Gerard J. McCarron * Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners
Saturday, 25 November 4PM – Church St. Catherine of Alexandria; Blessed Virgin Mary Pro Populo Nelson Bowdish * Barbara Saake Terence Deckert * John and Susan Murphy
Sunday, 26 November – Church Solemnity of Christ the King
Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Kay Amatel Frank Baker Eileen Beckley John Beckley Raymond Binaco Daniel Brown Harry Brown Sal Castro Jo Clement Logan Dayton John DeStefano Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Glenn Duenas Jose Espinoza Jake F. Gary Federico Ruth Fiedler James Fiedler Inez Fieramosca Emily Gioacchini
Thomas Giuffrida Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Theresia Kopp Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Henry Lohn Pauline Madzin Joseph Mascaro Leonidas Mavrookas John McInerney Mary Joan McNamara Marjorie Messler Tere Nolan Elena SanFilippo Anna May Schellenberger Owen Shoemaker Remmington T. Tommy Zita IV
8AM Erma Mascaro * Marie Mascaro and Family Anthony Abbatiello * Mrs. and Mrs. Mario Geneve Donna Rainey * Fugaro Family
10AM Doris McGrory * Scott and Christine McGrory Jack Sadlon * Phil and Cathy Limeri Deceased Members of the Ambrosio Family * Gruenling Family
To add a family member to the sick list, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. A person is put on the list for 8 weeks unless a renewal call is received. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
12PM Charlotte Clime * Pauline Madzin Marlene Colangelo * Mr. and Mrs. Stephen Cirillo and Family Charles Schneider * Joan and Mario Valeriani
5PM - NO MASS
USING TALENTS If we use God's talents, we shall find that they become multiplied in the use. We thought we had two; we find we have five.
Welcome to the newest members of our Saint Mary Parish family who were Baptized recently: Axel Arthur Herberger Francesca Josephine DePierro
--Richard Meux Benson The Parish Office is closing for Thanksgiving Wednesday, 22 November at 12 noon. Remaining closed Thursday, 23 November & Sunday, 26 November. Reopening on Monday, 27 November
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Those in Active Military Service
Pray for Our Military
Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands, Protect them as they protect us. Bless them and their families for the sacrifices they make for us in our hour of need and give us peace. We ask this in the Name of Jesus, Our Lord and Savior. Amen
Chief Blake Conley, USN Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Sergeant Scott MacConnell Pvt Michael John Mento, US Army 2nd Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 2nd Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army Staff Sergeant Stephen Witherow, USAF Lance Corporal Edward Zarzecki
If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please call the Parish Office at 732-780-2666. Please include rank and branch of service.
Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week ( 10 days). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Ministry Leaders Please NOTE: The holidays ahead mean the bulletin submission deadline moves to the following: Bulletin New Submission Date
Nov 26 , 2017 Tuesday, 14 Nov Dec 3, 2017 Monday, 20 Nov
Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel in memory of a loved one who has died or to honor a living person. These intentions are on a weekly basis starting with the Sunday, therefore a new request is published each week in the bulletin. The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25. Cards available to present Upcoming availability Chapel: 12/10 - 12/16, & 12/24 - 12/30 Church & Christ Chapel: 12/3 - 12/9, 12/17 - 12/23, & 12/31 - 1/6
CHURCH Veronica Grabowski Suzanne Grabowski, Janet & Christopher Munger
Lifelong Catechesis Week 20 November - 26 November READINGS FOR THE WEEK
Monday: 1 Mc 1:10-15, 41-43, 54-57, 62-63; Lk 18:35-43 Tuesday: 2 Mc 6:18-31; Lk 19:1-10 Wednesday: 2 Mc 7:1, 20-31; Lk 19:11-28 Thursday: 1 Mc 2:15-29; Lk 19:41-44 Thanksgiving Day: Sir 50:22-24; 1 Cor 1:3-9; Lk 17:11-19 Friday: 1 Mc 4:36-37, 52-59; Lk 19:45-48 26 November- Christ the King Ez 34:11-12, 15-17; 1 Cor 15:20-26, 28; Mt 25:31-46 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: Who are the people most in need of help who live around you, and how can you help them? Question for Youth: What can you do (alone, with friends, or with your family) to help those who are without food, shelter, or have other needs? When have you seen Jesus in the poor? Question for Adults: As you grapple with this very strong, direct and demanding Gospel passage, name the people for whom you have cared personally – or if there are none, those for whom you will offer care in the coming weeks. - Lifelong Catechesis
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Liturgical & Worship Ministries Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org
4 Music Ministry David Maliakel Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Worship Ministry Schedule: November 25 - November 26: The Solemnity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, King of the Universe Altar Server
Saturday, 4 pm (Church)
Sunday, 8 am (Church)
Sunday, 10 am (Church)
Sunday, 12 noon (Church)
EMs of Holy Communion
Reader 1
Reader 2
Greeter
Cantor
Liturgy of Word Dismissal
Usher
Mark Hines William Hines
Helene Lind - Center Cup Gail Cargiulo - Organ Host Louise Habrack - Center Host Monty Matrisciani - Tabernacle Host NOT FILLED - Organ Cup Rosemarie Estephan - Tabernacle Cup Suzanne Schlesinger - Alternate
Michael Zarraga
Carl Simone
Margaret Caponegro Tina Repetto
Meghan Kryscnski
Stephen Hawthorne
John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas NOT FILLED
Abigail Cowles Daniel Cowles
Joyce Flynn - Center Cup Martha Cowles - Organ Host Martha Leonhardt - Center Host Jane Slattery - Tabernacle Host Joseph Flanagan - Organ Cup Gail Hall - Tabernacle Cup Michael Stivala - Alternate
Anthony Bongiorno
Christopher Aquinas
NOT FILLED NOT FILLED
Diane Dragone
N/A
Michael Boliver George Watts James Pifer Joe Young
Gabriella Penczak Valeska Yaninas
Mary Aiello - Center Cup Dawn Reinhardt - Organ Host Mathilda Said - Center Host Barbara Moskal - Tabernacle Host Emily Santangelo - Organ Cup Barbara Schaflin - Tabernacle Cup Amy Orrico - Alternate
Kevin Swan
Julia Cullen
Andrew Befumo, Jr. Anne Baker
Kathy Woolston
Fernando Pinguelo
Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Vince Cerulo
Mary Natale Patrick Dickinson
Maria Gerbino - Center Cup Lee Gesner - Organ Host Patricia Balbo - Center Host Joseph Merante - Tabernacle Host Patricia Gesner - Organ Cup Gregory Calderaro - Tabernacle Cup NOT FILLED - Alternate
Dering Sprague
Richard Gerbino
Donna Murphy Anna May Schellenberger
Kristen Kohm
Gina Miele
James Dolan Joe Mancino Joseph Rinaldo William Starce
All are invited to participate in the Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation at the parish Penance and Reconciliation Service held this Advent on Sunday, 3 Dec 2017 at 3 pm Sixteen (16) priest confessors will be available to you for your convenience to r educe wait times. To prepare yourself, please take some time out prior to attending the Penance & Reconciliation Service to examine your conscience. Please visit our website for a short video on the Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation. Penance and Reconciliation page via the following: stmaryscoltsneck.org/index.php/worship/sacraments/reconciliation The Catholic Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation has three elements: conversion, confession and celebration. In it, we find God's unconditional forgiveness, and as a result we are called to forgive others. In this sacrament, the outward sign is the absolution, or forgiveness of sins, that the priest grants to the penitent (the person confessing his or her sins); the inward grace is the reconciliation of the penitent to God. To receive the sacrament worthily, three things are required of the penitent: • To be contrite—or, in other words, sorry for his or her sins. • To confess those sins fully, in kind and in number. • To be willing to do penance and make amends for his or her sins. Since Advent is a time for preparation, Penance and Reconciliation helps make us ready in mind, heart and soul for the coming of Christ, which we will soon celebrate in the Mass of Christmas.
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Eucharistic Adoration Christ Chapel on Wednesday from 10am-12noon Why should I sit a while with Jesus? "I am the Bread of Life which came down from heaven." John 6:41 Jesus waits for us in this Sacrament of Love. “In the Sacred Host, He is present, the true treasure, always waiting for us. Only by adoring this Presence do we learn how to receive Him properly.� Bishop Camillo Ballin, MCCJ, the first Apostolic Vicar of Northern Arabia http://www.catholic-church.org
What is Eucharistic Adoration? Understood simply, Eucharistic Adoration is adoring or honoring the Eucharistic Presence of Christ. In a deeper sense, it involves "the contemplation of the Mystery of Christ truly present before us". During Eucharistic Adoration, we "watch and wait", we remain "silent" in His Presence and open ourselves to His Graces which flow from the Eucharist ... By worshiping the Eucharistic Jesus, we become what God wants us to be! Like a magnet, The Lord draws us to Himself and gently transforms us. In its fullest essence ... Eucharistic Adoration is "God and Man reaching out for each other, at the same time!" The Monstrance contains the Sacred Host. At all other times, the reserved Sacrament is kept locked in the Tabernacle, so that the faithful may pray in the presence of the Sacrament. The Eucharist is: Jesus truly present Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity!
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SHARING OUR GIFTS Autumn is the season for harvesting and sharing the fruits of our labors. This week's scriptures use images of the harvest, family life, pregnancy, and investment to describe the abundant harvest in the reign of God. We discover that sharing the gifts we have been given brings eternal rewards for everyone. In the Gospel parable a master entrusts his possessions to three servants before going on a journey. Each is given some talents. What they do with those talents determines what the master will do with them when he returns. How about us? What are we doing with our talents? How will our Master treat us when he returns? Copyright (c) J. S. Paluch Co., Inc.
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Religious Education Grades 1 - 8, RCIA ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Confirmation Prep. Grades 7 & 8 Next few sessions A
11/19
Mass at 5- 7:30PM
A&B
11/21
Ecumenical Service / RE Intergen.
No Class 11/26 A/B
12/3
Thanksgiving - No 5PM Mass BOTH (3:30pm Pen/Rec & 5pm Mass)
B
12/10
Mass at 5-7:30PM
A
12/17
Mass at 5-7:30PM
First Eucharist prep. Grade 2 First Penance & Reconciliation will take place at the parish Advent Penance & Reconciliation Service, December 3, 2017 please be in a seat by 2:30pm for a brief practice, the service will begin promptly at 3 pm.
"My God, how very much You love me! When I think of that Love, I feel a sudden surge of courage to face the future. Even death becomes merely the beauĆ&#x;ful moment when the One Who loves, and the one who is loved, meet face to face." -Mother Angelica
Participation in the Ecumenical Service represents a single Parish event requirement toward the Religious Education Intergenerational requirements for all grades.
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Quo vadis… My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Thirty Third Sunday in Ordinary Time. As we continue our journey through these final days of the liturgical year, the scriptures remind us of our responsibility as Catholic Christians to act in life-giving and accountable ways. None of us likes to think about the end of times or the final judgment. However, we need to develop a certain consciousness about these matters. When we make decisions we ought not to be so carefree that we radiate a sense of unbridled carefreeness that children and others who look to us might perceive the wrong attitudes about our view of what is right and what is wrong. These last days are also an opportunity for us to take a type of spiritual inventory of our lives as we ready ourselves for the image rich tranquil season of Advent. November calls us to prayerfully reflect on our belief in the resurrection, as we honor all the saints and we pray for the repose of all the holy souls. Bereavement and grieving is a necessary part of our parish ministry. I encourage you to pray for all those whose names are entered into our parish book of remembrance. November is also a time for us to be thankful for all the many blessings that we have received. We are a blessed people… no doubt about that. How do we make a return to the Lord for these blessings? We are collecting non-perishable food items to be distributed throughout the year. Together we can help to make a difference. This coming week we will host members of the Colts Neck Reformed Church for the Annual Thanksgiving Ecumenical Service. This is a wonderful opportunity to come
together as Christians witnessing to one another the blessings that we have received. Mass will be celebrated on Thanksgiving Day at 9:00 am in the Church. Come and begin your family’s observance of Thanksgiving by giving thanks to God first. The Solemnity of Jesus Christ the King of the Universe is quickly approaching…next Sunday. This marks the conclusion of the Church’s Liturgical Year. This year we will come together to thank God for the ministry and service to our parish community of Deacon Fred Sorrentino at the 12:00 noon Mass. Come and join us to thank God and to honor Deacon Fred for his years of service to our parish community. The First Sunday of Advent follows on 3 December 2017. It is the beginning of the Church’s New Liturgical Year. Our Sunday Readings will be taken from Cycle B; Weekday Readings will be taken from Year II. Congratulations to all those who have been elected for public service. Let us keep them in our prayer as they strive to serve the needs of all their constituents. Please note your personal schedules for the Advent Penance & Reconciliation Services on Sunday, 3 December at 3:00 pm. During this service we will welcome our young people as they celebrate First Penance & Reconciliation with their family members and our parishioners. I encourage all of our parishioners to come and receive God’s Grace in this sacrament and to support our young people in their journey of faith. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday. Peace. Father Jeff
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Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Sharing Our Treasure
Outreach Opportunities this Christmas
12 November 32nd Sunday in Ordinary Time
Christmas Sponsor-A-Family
Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship
$13,167
Envelope Contributions
$10,113
Electronic/Online Contributions
$ 1,889
Loose Contributions
$ 1,165
Average Contribution per Household this week $30.08 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households
399 1,269
Additionally, because of your contributions, we were able to send $500 to the Human Development appeal. For end of the year charitable giving opportunities, please consult your financial advisors. Consider our parish for your end of year charitable gift.
This program adopts families from Aslan Youth Ministries, The Center in Asbury Park, Family Resource Associates and the Highpoint School. The goal is to sponsor families in need at Christmas. Purchase gifts for a family. You select the size of the family you wish to sponsor (2-6 people). Several families or a group of people can sponsor a larger family. Gifts per person are usually a value of $50 and based on a list of needed items prepared by the family. If you, your family, your neighbors, coworkers, or friends would like to sponsor a family in need this holiday season. Please contact:
Sue infoman46@aol.com Kathy wamaher2@aol.com
THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish.
FAITH TO MOVE MOUNTAINS ENDOWMENT CAMPAIGN FTMM - as of 11/6/17 Total $1,392,681 Pledes 197 Average gift $7,069 Percent of Goal 136% Saint Mary Parish MINIMUM goal, as established by the Diocese of Trenton, was $1,250,000 in which we included 3 years of the parish’s contribution to the Annual Catholic Appeal. NOTE: 70% of all gifts received after reaching our minimum goal come back (rebate) to the parish and will go into a restricted fund to be used only for the 3 items in the case statement. Thank you for your generosity!
‘Tree of Love’ The Tree is up this weekend ! Purchase individual gift items for individuals from tags that are placed on the Christmas Tree of Love. Parishioners may take as many tags off the tree as you desire. Return gift with the tag by Dec. 3rd. Please do not go over the value noted on the gift tag. Thank you, for your generous support.
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Adult Faith Formation Linda Dickinson-Pancila, Coordinator of Adult Faith Formation faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 x305
Congratulations to parish teens: Patrick Dickinson, Bridget Farrow, and Valeska Yaninas who are attending the National Catholic Youth Conference in Indianapolis this weekend with adult chaperone Linda Dickinson-Pancila. Attendees will experience three days of catechesis, prayer, Eucharist, service, and recreation in a safe and welcoming environment along with 25,000 other teens and adult chaperones. The parish group is traveling together by bus with other Diocesan youth. A special thank you to St Mary Parish and the Martha Mary Guild for funding the cost of the trip. Keep all NCYC attendees in your prayers. For more information and live feeds of NCYC 2017, please visit http://www.nfcym.org/ncyc1/ Teens interested in experiencing this dynamic opportunity NCYC 2019 please contact faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Watch FORMED.org at the PARISH Lectio Eucharist Unveiling Scripture and Tradition Watch Lectio Eucharist in the parish Theatre Monday mornings after Mass at 9:45am. Sessions run times are between 14 minutes and 30 minutes followed by a brief discussion. Upcoming sessions:
Session 8 - Nov 20 The Last Supper & the Cross, 22m Session 9 - Nov 27 The Mass, 25m Session 10 - Dec 4 Revelation, 30m
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November Book: Imagine Heaven: Near-Death Experiences, God's Promises, and the Exhilarating Future That Awaits You by John Burke Book Club Meeting: Wednesday, November 29 4:30-6:00pm Room #17 To join, contact: Linda 732-780-2666 x305 faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Why not join a faith sharing group this Advent, to read the Scripture of the season, pray together & share faith? All materials are provided. Groups meet at the parish or in your home depending on each facilitator’s schedule. No fee. Materials available at Agape & on the parish website. Groups meet once a week during the weeks of Advent: Nov. 27th, Dec.4th, Dec. 11th, & Dec. 18th. New and past facilitators please check in with your interest for this year. New facilitator training available. Visit the parish website for a registration form. Email info or drop off form at parish office. Please contact: Tom Kinlin tomkinlin@gmail.com Linda Dickinson-Pancila 732-780-2666 x 305 or email faithfor mation@stmar yscoltsneck.or g Please consider this wonderful way to ready our hearts for the coming of our Lord and Savior!
A THANKFUL HEART A thankful heart is not only the greatest virtue, but the parent of all the other virtues. --Cicero
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Pastoral Coordinator for Community Building
Linda Dickinson-Pancila communitybuilding@stmaryscoltsneck.org
Hospitability-Ministry-Friendship Fun-Food-Conversation AGAPE: November 26, 2017 after all Masses in the Parish Hall. ***Parishioners are invited to bring items to share with others this month. Please visit the following ministries/committees/ outside groups during Agape:
Pancake Breakfast ticket sales Christians of Bethlehem – sale of religious items Faith Formation – Advent Faith Sharing Groups Light Up A Memory
Please join us to celebrate Deacon Fred Sorrentino at his Thank You Reception after the 12noon Mass
Advent Pancake Breakfast December 10, 2017
Madonna Hall 8:30AM to 1:30PM
Join us for a great community event featuring hospitality, great food, crafts and a few special guests... Tickets: $5.00 in advance *$10 at the door Children ages 5 and under free **Tickets are for sale at AGAPE and in the Parish Office. On-line sales open NOW. https://goo.gl/CMySSr Scan QR code at left to purchase your tickets!
Want to help out at this year’s breakfast? MORE INFO: Christine McGrory & Jennifer Gioacchini: stmaryspancake@gmail.com (adult volunteers) Alicia Mendez: azucitabella@gmail.com (youth volunteers) Linda Dickinson-Pancila communitybuilding@stmaryscoltsneck.org
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Parish Fall Clean-Up
Saturday, November 25, 9am-1pm Join us to PICK UP leaves and branches from the parish grounds before the winter months. Please bring rakes, gloves and other lawn items to the event. Adults with pick up trucks and leaf blowers needed . Come when you are available. Shifts & Community Service HOURS Available. Group Leaders Needed,
SIGN UP: 732-780-2666 x 305 communitybuilding@stmarsycoltsneck.org
“Light Up a Memory” “Light Up a Memory” has become a beautiful Christmas tradition at St. Mary and is now in its 10th year, thanks to the support of an enthusiastic community. It is heartwarming to see the hundreds of lights sparkle during the Christmas season. For a contribution of $10.00 per light, people are invited to sponsor a light in memory of someone deceased or in honor of a living person. All of the names will be inscribed in the Light Up a Memory book, which will be displayed in St. Mary’s Gathering Space. There will be a tree Lighting Ceremony on Sat., Dec. 16, after the 4:00 Mass, with music provided by St. Mary’s Choir. Refreshments will be served in the Gathering Space after the ceremony. The deadline to reserve a light is Nov. 27, so call the parish 732-780-2666, Molly Aiello 732-5986808 or Freda O’Doherty 732-577-9541. You may purchase Lights Scan QR code below to reserve your lights! online at https://goo.gl/PbHqBL (case sensitive) Everyone is welcome to participate in this wonderful tribute to our loved ones.