Bulletin for June 27, 2021

The parish of saint Mary A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside.

Refer to website for more detailed information www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer

The 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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June 27, 2021

General Obligation to Attend Mass Reinstated & Mask mandates lifted for Fully Vaccinated-See page 5

Religious Education Summer Intensive Session 1 begins with July 11th Orientation See page 6

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Mass Intentions for the Week of June 26– July 4 For * Requested by Saturday, June 26 – 5 PM Church Pro Populo JoAnn Fanticola * Barbara Saake Colette Flynn * Phyllis and Hugh Murphy Sunday, June 27 – Church 8AM DeStefano/Albruno Families * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti Raymond Stetz * Alice Ganley Dan Warren * Neil and Jane Slattery 10 AM Gerri Reinhardt * Reinhardt Family Ruth Diaz * Maria Yaninas Anna DeSousa * Annie and Tom Neubauer 12 PM John Cavagnaro * Richard and Maria Gerbino Victor Pena * Richard and Maria Gerbino Mary O’Donnell * Mr. and Mrs. David Cowles Baptism-Nico Thomas Young Monday, June 28 – 9 AM Chapel Robert Cicero * Pat and John Steed Tuesday, June 29 – 9 AM Chapel Renee Buda * Irene Sessa Rev. William T. Schneider * Rev. Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee, Staff and Parishioners Wednesday, June 30 – 9 AM Chapel Kathy Marion * Laura Sheehy Thursday, July 1 – 9 Chapel Souls in Purgatory * Mary Soyka Friday, July 2 – 9 AM Chapel Matthew Mager * Vanessa and Mark Aiossa Joseph White * The O’Connors Saturday, July 3 – 5 PM Church Anthony Carnevale * Diane Carnevale Alice Luchino * Susan and John Murphy Janet DeBiase * Michele Telesca Sunday, July 4 – Church 10 AM Pro Populo Robert A. McNamara and Mary Joan McNamara * McNamara Family

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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Kathleen Amatel Frank Baker MaryAnn Barone Janice Basilice Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley John Boyle Anne Boyle Christen Chellis Blake Conley Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Sharon Evangellista Joann Feliciti Cynthia Fiedler James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini

Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Anton Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Ludwig Mendola Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Owen Shoemaker Victoria Slater Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Lauren Vinci

To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Mass Intention Request ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Mass Intentions for the remainder of the 2021 calendar.

Mass Intention Request

GROTTO CANDLES The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions.

Offering is $3.00 per candle.

Parish Office Hours Monday 9 am – 2 pm Tuesday 2 pm -7:30 pm Wednesday 9 am – 2 pm Thursday 9 am – 2 pm Sunday 9 am -12 noon No office hours on Friday or Saturday

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Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy.

Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties.

Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm.

May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army SPC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.

3 Lifelong Catechesis Week June 28– July 4 READINGS FOR THE WEEK

28 Mon 29 Tues 30 Wed 1 Thu 2 Fri

Gn 18:16-33/Mt 8:18-22 Acts 12:1-11/2 Tm 4:6-8 Gn 21:5, 8-20a/Mt 8:28-34 Gn 22:1b-19/Mt 9:1-8 Gn 23:1-4, 19; 24:1-8

Sunday July 4 - FOURTEENTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME

Questions for Deeper Reflection

Sanctuary Lamp Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one. Request Envelopes available at the office.

The suggested donation is $25.

ONLINE https://bit.ly/37RKz5p

New Parishioner Orientation Sunday August 1, 2021 Madonna Hall Attendance is mandatory for those looking to become parishioners at the Parish of St. Mary.

Please Contact the Parish Office if you wish to attend 732-780-2666

Intentions are available in the Church & Chapel 7/4-7/10,7/11-7/17, 7/18-7/24

Church Joseph Dickinson Dickinson-Pancila Family

Rest In Peace Please remember in your prayers those that have recently died.

Claire Pekinpaugh Marion DePalma

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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org

As we continue our re-opening, it is important to address one thing that has been on people’s minds. Why should we sing at Mass?

A very important question that has fortunately simple answers. We should sing at Mass because the Universal Church expects us to do so. One of the driving reasons behind the reforms of the Second Vatican Council was for “Full and active participation in the Mass”.

What does this mean? This means attentive listening to the word of God during the liturgy of the word. This means that when we say “Thanks Be To God”, we truly mean it. This means that when we respond to the Word of the Lord in the psalm, we sing its antiphon (refrain) with our whole voice and heart. We watch, listen, and respond in song to the priest during the prayers of the Communion Rite. The Mass is not a spectator sport. We MUST participate.

The singing of the Ordinary, (the parts of the Mass that do not change weekly: the Gloria, the Eucharistic Acclamations, etc) is of utmost importance and these parts are to always be sung at every Mass.

The singing of the Propers of the Mass (the parts that change: the psalms, the communion antiphon, etc) is a tradition as old as the organized Church itself, and it is one that we carry on today.

The singing of the hymns (a tradition borrowed from our Protestant brethren, who borrowed it from the Catholic tradition of singing hymns at the Liturgy of the Hours), although optional, is still important, as the hymns that are chosen for a particular day are meant to re-affirm the teachings of the readings from the day, or the nature of the liturgical season.

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Updated Covid-19 Protocols at St Mary Parish There are updated directives from the Diocese where masks will no longer be required for fully vaccinated persons. If not fully vaccinated, persons are strongly encouraged to follow CDC guidance and wear a face mask in public settings. Also Effective June 4, all indoor gathering limits will be removed .

Although these directives represent a reduction of pandemic restrictions, St Mary has a few requirements for Mass. 

The Sign of Peace will resume but we encourage parishioners to replace a handshake with a reverent gesture, such as a nod or wave.

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During the Our Father please refrain from holding hands or making contact with any nonfamily member.

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St Mary has decided to continue with the electronic bulletin that is timely emailed to our parishioners each week. If you should require a printed copy, please contact Andrea Billitteri at the parish Office (732-780-2666 ext.

311) and one will be made available to you.

If you are not receiving the bulletin via email please email or call the parish office and we will add you to our distribution list. 

With the lifting of the dispensation from the obligation to attend Mass, we have discontinued the broadcast Mass after June 13, the Tenth Sunday in Ordinary Time. There remain many options on TV and the internet for those who choose.

As always, we thank you for your cooperation and support as we resume our normal celebration of the liturgy.

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Abbreviated Mass Schedule for Independence Day Weekend : Saturday July 3rd -5PM and Sunday July 4th -10:00am

Bishops discuss a national pastoral on youth, young adults WASHINGTON – In a June 17 presentation to the U.S. bishops at their annual spring assembly, which was virtual again this year, Dallas Bishop Edward J. Burns announced a proposal to develop a new national pastoral framework on accompanying youths and young adults in the church.

He said the work will be presented to the body of bishops for review at their November 2022 meeting.

It will be developed by the bishops' Committee on Laity, Marriage, Family Life and Youth.

After his presentation, the bishops voted on the proposal, with the tally announced June 18, the final day of their meeting. The measure passed with 222 voting in favor of it. Seven bishops voted against; there were no abstentions.

Bishop Burns, a member of that committee and the youth episcopal liaison to World Youth Day 2022 in Lisbon, Portugal, said this new pastoral framework would be in light of "Christus Vivit" ("Christ Lives"), Pope Francis' 2019 reflections on the previous year's Synod of Bishops on young people.

That work encouraged young people about their place in the church and also urged older people not to stifle the enthusiasm of the young. Read

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To have … God has given each man and woman an abundance of gifts and marriage is one of them!

What would you think of a person who has an amazing gift, a gift that brings lasting happiness, but doesn’t open it? Even more bewildering, what if the gift is in plain sight, but the person still does not open it? Sounds strange? Not really. For a variety of reasons, from distractions to presumptions, from insecurity to arrogance, from fear to foolhardiness, people can easily miss a gift. This all-to-common human inclination to not see the forest for the trees can make us laugh or cry depending upon what it is that we missed.

With this in mind, let us remember that as people of faith, we don’t want to miss God’s gifts to us— they are, after all, from the Lord God Himself.

And, they are given to us for our ultimate happiness! Let’s take a look at these gifts, especially that of marriage and the family.

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Religious Freedom Week to promote ‘solidarity’ with persecuted, prayerful response Drawing upon inspiration from great saints who remained faithful in the face of adversity, the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops has assigned June 22-29 as Religious Freedom Week – a week beginning with the Feasts of Sts. John Fisher and Thomas More, ending with the Solemnity of Sts. Peter and Paul and including the Feast of the Nativity of St. John the Baptist.

“During Religious Freedom Week, Catholics are encouraged to pray and act each day for religious freedom,” said Cardinal Timothy Dolan, Archbishop of New York and chairman of the USCCB Committee for Religious Liberty. RFW replaces the Fortnight for Freedom that ran 2012-2017.

Read The Holy Eucharist is Jesus Christ Himself

RETROUVAILLE: REDISCOVER THE LOVE IN YOUR MARRIAGE Tens of thousands of couples have healed their marriages through Retrouvaille (pronounced Retro-vy). If you know anyone who could benefit from this program, please pass this on. Couples learn to build communication skills and to increase intimacy. It provides help for marriage problems, difficulties or crises.

The next program begins the weekend of August 13 - 15, 2021 at the Family Life Center in Malvern, PA. For more information, or to register, visit www.HelpOurMarriage.org or call 215-766-3944 or 800-470-2230. All inquiries are strictly confidential.

A message from Bishop David M. O'Connell, C.M.

The Church believes and teaches and practices what it has always believed and taught and practiced about the Holy Eucharist. That is what the new proposed document to be drafted in the next few months will consider, similar to the USCCB document on the Holy Eucharist (“Happy Are Those Called to His Supper”) published in 2006, not a set of national norms on Eucharistic reception, although worthy receiving of the Holy Eucharist will surely be addressed.

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Worship Schedule: June 26/27 Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server

Saturday, 5:00 PM (Church)

Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)

EMHC

Reader 1

Reader 2

Cantor

Mark Hines William Hines NOT FILLED

Emily Santangelo Organ Host Susan Murphy Tabernacle Host Suzanne Schlesinger - Alt

Bruno Savo

Charles Young

Bridget Farrow

Alexander Lennon Sophia Lennon NOT FILLED

Jane Slattery - Alt

Annette Raynor

Kevin Swan

David Maliakel

Gabriella Penczak NOT FILLED

Sue Fitzpatrick Organ Host Gregory Calderaro Tabernacle Host Dawn Reinhardt - Alt

Barbara Schaflin

Steve Rumsby

David Maliakel

NOT FILLED NOT FILLED

Patricia Gesner - Alt

T Mullin

Richard Gerbino

Diane Dragone

The Parish of Saint Mary - You Tube Channel Worship aid for weekend Mass at https://tinyurl.com/y4xhvqz8 https://yt.vu/+StMaryColtsNeck Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults The RCIA program involves not just the newcomer or "inquirer" but all the members of the community who by prayer and personal example help the inquirer find his or her place in the Church. 

Typical tasks and responsibilities: Listening and preparing adults in a process to be received into the Catholic faith and parish community.

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Required training or skills: 1.5 hr. training session, weekly.

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Approximate time commitment: dependent on those who are seeking initiation or welcome into the Catholic community.

Contact Rose Farrow on 732-780.2666 for more information on this program.

Saint of the Week St. Cyril of Alexandria Bishop and Doctor of the Church (June 27) Cyril was born at Alexandria, Egypt. He was nephew of the patriarch of that city, Theophilus. During the rest of his life, Cyril wrote treatises that clarified the doctrines of the Trinity and the Incarnation and that helped prevent Nestorianism and Pelagianism from taking long -term deep root in the Christian community. He was the most brilliant theologian of the Alexandrian tradition. His writings are characterized by accurate thinking, sermons. He was declared a doctor of the Church by Pope Leo XIII in 1882. His feast day is June 27th.

Learn More

Welcome to the newest member of our Saint Mary Parish family Maisie Amelia Payne

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Religious Education Fall Summer 2021-May 2022 Julia Cullen, Pastoral Coordinator of Elementary Religion Education - Grade 1 -6 ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 309

Summer Intensive July session– begins - July 12th-23rd 9am-12 pm-(Google classroom) Orientation on Sunday July 11-children are expected to attend Mass and the orientation will directly follow

August Session begins- Aug 9th-20th 8:30am12:30pm (On Campus) Orientation on Sunday August 8th -children are expected to attend Mass and the orientation will directly follow

1st and 2nd graders are on campus and have a choice of time on Tuesdays as follows: 4:30-5:40 pm Or 5:50-7:00pm

FIRST COMMUNION UPDATE 3rd - 6th graders have weekly virtual First Communion will be held in October 2021 for the current year 2nd graders, as well as any family that chose to defer their child last year.

LIVE classes through Google Classroom.

As per our lottery, we have set the following 4 Communion Masses:

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Sunday 17 October 2021 10am or 12pm Sunday 24 October 2021 10am or 12pm

Wednesday 6:00pm -7:00 pm

The two choices are: Tuesday 4:30-5:30

Rose Farrow, Coordinator of Faith Formation for Youth Catechesis & Service - Grade 7 & 8 YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 310 Confirmation Prep Classes Fall 2021 - Spring 2022

Requirements:

Classes will be offered both on campus in-person and in the live remote Google classroom format

approximately three larger group functions throughout the year. Students need to attend Penance and Reconciliation services, complete written Homily reflections, and any independent work assigned by the instructor.

On campus/in person option will be offered on Mondays 4:15-6:15 pm Live remote Google Classroom option will be offered on Sundays from 5:00-7:00 pm.

Classes will be held every other week (as the calendar permits taking into account holidays) from September through May.

Students and parents need to attend

Confirmation Date –Oct 15, 2021 4:00pm Please check the parish website for all the latest details about registration and how to go to your MY OWN CHURCH portal. LINK TO WEBSITE

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The 2021-2022 program w i l l m eet w eek l y Th u r s d ay s s t ar t i n g September 23, 2021 through April 2022 Adult Women Programs will run simultaneously Daytime sessions - 10 - 11:30 am & Evening Session - 7:00 - 8:30 pm  Opening

Your Heart this 22-week foundational course is designed for women new to WWP as well as those with more Bible study experience.  Keeping in Balance this 22-lesson study, we’ll explore Biblical ideas for managing life’s pace and pressure while living with calm and steadiness.

Offered in January 2021 at the Parish of 2021-2022 Saint Maryprogram or for more information please email: Register now for the lindad16@optonline.net The Parish of Saint Mary Has Purchased a Gift for You! Enjoy a free subscription to an incredible online gateway to the best Catholic content .

Pick of the Week-Light of Love When most of us think about religious life, we might imagine kneeling in a convent or assisting the poor on the streets. While both of these scenes are essential to life as a sister, Light of Love takes a deeper look into understanding the call... the "why" of religious life.

WATCH Outreach There are many opportunities for parishioners of Saint Mary to “reach out” into the community to help those in need!

Learn more about the Charitable Appeals & Outreach Ministries at The Parish of Saint Mary: 

Martha Mary Guild

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Food Collection

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Prayer Shawl Ministry

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Sewing & Quilting Ministry

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Quo vadis…

My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time. Death is part of our human lives.

Yet, Jesus’ inauguration of God’s kingdom vanquishes death and restores life. Like Jairus and the woman with the hemorrhage, all we need do to overcome death is reach out and touch the nearness of Jesus. Death not only means the cessation of physical life but also all those everyday “dying's to self ” that call us to surrender our wills to God’s will. In the Christian mystery, death is the doorway to life.

Just as Jairus and the woman forgot their own stations in life and overcame their fears in order to receive life from Jesus, so must we surrender our own wills in order to encounter Jesus and receive life. God’s kingdom of life is not built by avoiding death, but by embracing it. Living the paschal mystery is none other than our daily dying to self---overcoming our fears and reaching out to Jesus in humility---in all the little practical ways that fill our daily routines. Paschal Mystery dying is as simple as smiling at the children even when we are bone tired or taking an hour out of our day to visit the sick. When we surrender in humility to his goodness and power, Jesus offers us life. For our reflection this week: How can your faith have an impact on other people’s lives? What does it mean for you as disciples to build a kingdom of life?

As we end another fiscal year it is important for us to pause and to give thanks and praise to almighty God for all the blessings we continue to receive. Even in the midst of some uncertainty there are countless blessings for us to acknowledge. This is especially important when as we prepare to celebrate the anniversary of the birth of our country this

coming week. Independence Day is a time to acknowledge the freedom that we enjoy and the sacrifices that have been made and continue to be made in order for us to live in a free society.

We will observe an abbreviated Mass schedule for Independence Day Weekend.

Many thanks to all those have offered prayerful support to Father Gene as he grieves the death of his mother Pauline. Restricted travel to and from India prevented him from returning home to be with his siblings. I am grateful Bill Boglioli from the Holmdel Funeral Home for assisting Father Gene at this time as well as our parish Lazarus Ministry and our parish staff.

We have returned to the offering of a gesture of peace during the celebration of mass. It is strongly recommended that we remain conscious offer a gesture such as a simple bow of the head or a restrained wave thus avoiding flesh to flesh contact with non-family members.

Thank you for your attentiveness and care regarding this matter.

Our Parish Pastoral Council unanimously recommended to me and our staff that we resume hosting the many non-parish support groups using our facilities. Originally this was scheduled to resume during the month of September 2021. However, we are beginning to host these groups as soon as possible given their importance. Our parish has a long history of providing meeting space for a number of self-help groups. This is directly connected to your generous sacrificial stewardship. Enjoy these summer days. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday.

Peace. Father Jeff

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Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Sharing Our Treasure June 20th Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship

$16,169

Envelope Contributions

$9,200

Electronic/Online Contributions

$6,564

Loose Contributions Weekly Avg.Contribution per Household

$405 $54

# of Contributing Households

292

# Registered Parishioner Households

993

This weekend will be the Holy Father Collection.

Proceeds are used by the Pope for philanthropic works throughout the world and for administrative costs of the Vatican state.

THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.

BUILDING AND MORTGAGE REDUCTION Next weekend July 4-5 will be our monthly collection for our parish Building and Mortgage Reduction fund. When coming to mass please drop your offering in the box marked Building and Mortgage Reduction collection.

Alternatively you can send your offering thru our Online Giving system. Thank you for your generosity!

A TRADITION OF SUPPORT FOR THE HOLY FATHER Support for such papal efforts has its roots in the scriptural message to take care of the poor and is an expression of unity with the Holy Father. Peter’s Pence expresses this unity in two ways: through the ongoing activities of the Holy See and through the charitable works of the Holy Father on behalf of those most in need .

As of June 20 2021 Goal: Pledged:

$75,000 $78,404

# donors: 186 Average gift: $421 Paid to date: $65,238 We have reached our goal this year! If you have not made your pledge yet you can do so now. Please select St Mary Catholic Church in the Parish Affiliation drop down menu so our parish can receive credit for your gift. Please continue to make your pledge payments so we can receive an ACA rebate. Thank you for your generosity!

ACA in Action!

Clergy and Religious Administration Consecrated Life In the Diocese of Trenton, those in consecrated life represent membership in a variety of male and female religious institutes. These men and women have dedicated their lives to proclaim the Word of the God and serve His people. While not easily recognizable, nevertheless, they witness the face of God as they celebrate our liturgies and carry out the spiritual and corporal works of mercy in fields of education, health care and social services throughout the diocese. Your gift promotes those called to serve.

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Collaboration, the strategic model chosen by the Cohorts and DPC, to ensure that parishes work together with programs, staffing and resources to meet the spiritual and pastoral needs of the people of the Diocese for the sake of evangelization.

St Mary is part of Cohort 13 which includes St. Benedict, Holmdel, St. Catharine, Holmdel , and St. Gabriel, Marlboro.

A Pastoral Letter on Our Future Together

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With the lifting of many COVID-related restrictions in our churches, we have removed the hold on all PARISH BULK SUBSCRIPTIONS to The Monitor Magazine effective with the June 2021 issue.

As a reminder, these are the copies of the magazine that were ordered by the parish (before the COVID shutdown) for parishioners to pick up in church.

The issue includes …. the Ordinations of our new priest – Father Rjoy Ballacillo – and of eight new deacons. This issue also includes the revised COVID protocols and reporting on how parishes have prepared for the full re-opening of the churches.

Saint Leo the Great Religious Store Now Featuring Devotionals for Our Lady!

Rosaries from Italy, Statuary, Miraculous Medals, Wall Plaques, Holy Cards and many books to help you grow in prayer & faith!

We carry a diverse variety of gifts for friends, family and clergy.  Baptism  Communion  Confirmation  Wedding  Bereavement

Future Generation Early Learning Center at The Parish of Saint Mary is currently enrolling for the 2021 Summer Camp Season! Our summer camp includes different weekly themes and incorporates fun learning activities and water play. Enroll for the entire summer or specific weeks. We also offer Before and After Care for Saint Mary’s Summer RE program.

Call 732-780-0135 today for more information and to guarantee your spot for this summer’s fun filled Summer Camp experience!