Bulletin for June 21, 2020

THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside.

Refer to website for more detailed information visit www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer

June 21, 2020

Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee and the Parish Staff extend best wishes to all fathers, god-fathers, grand-fathers and great-grandfathers for a

Do not be afraid, You are worth more than many Sparrows.

Blessed Father’s Day.

-Mathew 10:31

Sunday Mass will be in the Church 8 am, 10 am, and 12 noon

No Saturday Mass Limited seating will require advanced sign-up.

Pre-registration for June 21st Sunday Masses START: Monday, June 15 END: Thursday, June 18 at noon Details on page 5

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Mass Intentions for the Week of June 20 - June 28 For * Requested by Saturday, June 20 – Mary Coppola * Jim and Carole Ehlinger Michael Carroll * Rorie and Jack Coppola Joan Patten * Carol McKay Sunday, June 21 – Church Twelfth Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM John Sionas & Michael Stivala, Sr. * Eileen & Michael Stivala John Michael Grabowski * Mr. & Mrs. John J. Halpin 10 AM Anthony Garito * Arlene and Family Teresa Ambrosio * Gruenling Family Irene Szczepanski * John and Dawn Reinhardt 12 PM Pro Populo Anthony DeSimone * Joann and Robert Buhler Angelo Lucarelli * Richard and Maria Gerbino

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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Marcela Abril Kathleen Amatel Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley Susan Condon Blake Conley John DeSimone Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Tom Fadale James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Anton Kopp Theresia Kopp Bridget Korn

Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Mary Joan McNamara Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Paola Richmond Abel Rodriguez Owen Shoemaker Victoria Slater Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Cecilia Vilca Lauren Vinci

Monday, June 22 – 9 AM Church Lucrecia and Joaquim Nascimento * Marie Nogueira Tuesday, June 23 – 9 AM Church Anna Ferrone * Gary and Lillian Battaglia Wednesday, June 24 – 9 AM Church Marie Kostinas * Lorraine Lee Thursday, June 25 – 9 AM Church Intentions of Fr. William Bausch * Fredda Family Friday, June 26 – 9 AM Church Vincent Pucciatti * Lorraine Lee Saturday, June 27 – Pro Populo Carol Vander Velde * Diane Carnevale Joseph J. Corcoran * Francine and Joe Corcoran Sunday, June 28 – Church Thirteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time 8 AM Helen Richdale * Alice Ganley 10 AM John Vickers * Carmel and Peter Vickers Germaine Reinhardt * John and Dawn Reinhardt Irene Baron * Richard and Maria Gerbino 12 PM William P. Slover * Linda and Chuck Fredda

To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office.

Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Sanctuary Lamp Intentions Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one.

The suggested donation is $25.

Intentions are available in the Church

Rest in Peace Please remember in your prayers, those who have recently died.

Theodoor Damen Logan Dayton

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Lifelong Catechesis Week of June 22 - June 28 Monday: Tuesday: Wednesday: Thursday: Friday:

READINGS FOR THE WEEK Gn 12:1-9; Mt 7:1-5 Gn 13:2, 5-18; Mt 7:6, 12-14 Gn 15:1-12, 17-18; Mt 7:15-20 Acts 12:1-11; 2 Tm 4:6-8, 17-18; Mt 16:13-19 Gn 17:1, 9-10, 15-22; Mt 8:1-4

Sunday, June 28 - 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time 2 Kgs 4:8-11, 14-16a; Rom 6:3-4, 8-11; Mt 10:37-42 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: How can you live as a follower of Jesus?

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Prayer for Health Care Workers Almighty God, whose beloved Son Jesus Christ, went about doing good, and healing all manner of illness and disease: continue, we beseech you, his gracious work among us. Grant to physicians, nurses and all health care professionals wisdom and skill, sympathy and patience; keep them safe and preserve them from all contagion. Cheer, heal and sanctify the sick, and send down your blessing on all who care for them healer, Jesus Christ, Our Lord.

Amen. + J. Augustine DiNoia

Question for Youth: What does Jesus demand of his followers?

Question for Adults: What does this Gospel teach you about the cost of discipleship and how does it relate to your - Lifelong Catechesis experience so far?

During the Covid 19 pandemic, in addition to onsite services, Catholic Charities has established Tele Health and Tele Mental Health Services, Call 800-360-7711.

The 20th annual Providence House Domestic Violence Services event, scheduled for June 12th, will be combined with the Catholic Charities virtual gala on September 26.

PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PFC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 1st Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army SSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732-780 -2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.

Mass Intention Request ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Mass Intentions for the remainder of the 2020 calendar. https://bit.ly/3dbHyip

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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org Greetings everyone, The directives from the office of the Bishop are quite clear and offer us much guidance as we venture into what is certainly a strange time in our lives. The parish leadership, clergy, and trustees have convened to decide on the best practices to implement these guidelines, and they have been sent in today’s weekly e-bulletin. I have outlined specifics for each ministry below as pertains to them, as well as some more generic points of note.

As pre-registration for Mass attendance is required, it is imperative that all volunteers register (along with their families) for Mass. MSP will reflect volunteer assignments, but does not count as your “ticket” to get in, so to speak. Please register yourself and family for the Masses at which you are scheduled.

Thank you in advance.

For all parishioners:  Congregating before and after Mass is prohibited, as per the bishop.  There will be no children’s liturgy of the word dismissal.  Volunteers are greatly needed to wipe down the wood of the pews after all Masses (weekend and weekday). We will have a cleaning crew take care of the floors, bathrooms etc, but need this little bit of additional help. Please contact me if you are able.  At weekday Masses, no one is to arrive prior to 8:30 AM. All Masses will be in the church.  Exposition remains suspended for the time. Private adoration of the Blessed Sacrament reserved in the tabernacle is welcomed and encouraged at any time.

For extraordinary ministers:  Through July 5, the parish clergy will be the ordinary ministers of holy communion, under the species of the sacred host only. As time moves forward and additional guidelines are released, this may be modified.

For ushers:  The offerings of the faithful will be deposited in opaque boxes in the narthex as they arrive. At the conclusion of Mass, 2 ushers are needed to secure the donations as per the usual practice.  If you plan to come to Mass and are willing and able to assist, please submit to me: your name and which Mass you will be attending. I will schedule 2 ushers for each Mass, and this will be reflected in MSP. For readers:  There is to be 1 reader per Mass. I will assign readers based on previous MSP preferences however, I will first need to know if you are willing and able to participate as a reader at this time, and throughout the summer months.

For altar servers:  As is customary for Sunday Mass, 2 altar servers are requested for each Mass. I will schedule 2 servers per Mass based on previous MSP preferences, please let me know if you will participating during the summer months.

For music ministry:  Parish music staff will provide music for all weekend and weekday liturgies through July 5. As things progress, we will begin scheduling volunteers as is our custom, and I will inform you if and when we begin to make those adjustments. Choirs are not to be used at this time. I do have some ideas for future endeavors, I will keep you posted.

Thank you all for bearing with the long-winded message. If you have any questions, email me. If you would like to assist in the simple cleaning, email me. If you are in a ministry of which a response was requested above, email me.

May God bless us, and give us peace.

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EXPECTATIONS AS WE PREPARE TO GATHER FOR MASS On-line pre-registration is the best way for us as a community to be welcoming and prayerful while adhering to the strict expectation of maintaining 1/3 our official capacity. That magic number is 200 persons.

Each Monday morning, the pre-registration site will go live. Parishioners can choose which Mass they will attend. An email confirmation will be sent. Bring this confirmation email with you to present to those who will be at the center main doors. There will be personnel there to insure pre-registration, that each person is wearing their mask and to advise that social distancing is to be observed when entering/exiting, selecting a seat, processing/recessing to receive Holy Communion. It will require all to come earlier than usual to be processed and to search for seating that observes social distancing. Because of this entrance will be restricted once the Mass has begun. Masks and Social/Physical distancing are required. There can be no physical collection of Stewardship Offerings; Two designated boxes will be placed in the Narthex/Gathering Space for the placement of envelopes or offerings. Thank you for your generosity. Missals, Missalettes, Bulletins, and other papers have been removed. Holy Water has been drained from all locations. Parish Clergy will distribute Holy Communion; we ask all coming forth to observe distancing front to back and

side to side.

We have been advised that socializing before or after the Mass inside or outside is to be discouraged; clergy are not permitted to greet parishioners before or after the Mass.

Weekend Mass Pre-registration acceptance for June 28th, 8 am, 10 am, or 12 noon Masses will be Monday, June 22 - Thursday, June 25, at noon.

NOTE: this is for whether it is an online or voice pre-registration.

Online links will appear (be visible) on:  Parish website www.stmaryscoltsneck.org to the left under the parish resources block  If you have an online giving account Sign in at top RIGHT is the same as your current ParishSoft Giving account  New Mobile App called Ministry One. The profile is the same as your current ParishSoft Giving account Ministry One App is available for both iOS and Android devices:

The Mass time selections will only be available/visible Monday - Thursday of the proceeding week.

For those that need help with reservations please call 732-780-2666 x311 the week proceeding the requested Mass. Call between Monday - Thursday 12 noon. Please do not call Friday, Saturday, or Sunday as no one is on call to answer or retrieve messages.

https://parishsoft.ministryone.com/landing/P26n

Online Mass viewing continues with the newest weekend Mass becoming available for Saturdays after 5 pm The Parish of Saint Mary - You Tube Channel (https://bit.ly/2SkpRET)

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Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Formed for Summer students

The teachers in our summer religious education program may make use of videos from Formed.org with their students. Our parish subscribes to Formed and it has a variety of resources for people of all ages. We are asking all the families registered in the summer program to set up an account with Formed so that it is accessible to your child if directed to view a video by their teacher.

Create an account for yourself and explore. www.stmaryscoltsneck.formed.org CATHOLIC APPS Laudate (Free) - includes Daily Readings, Podcasts, Saint of the Day, Rosary and Chaplet, just to name a few.

3-Minute Retreat (Free) – Loyola Press’s app, for a peaceful prayer experience that guides you on a replacement bite-sized retreat using Scripture passages, soothing music, and reflection questions that you simply can pray at your own pace.

“Wisdom is seeing with God’s eyes.” – Pope Francis Scripture and the Tradition of the Catholic Church provide an abundance of wisdom, though it can often be challenging to apply it to our lives. To help you learn to gather and live with greater wisdom, the Church of St. Mary will begin Wisdom: God’s Vision for Life on Tuesday, June 23 at 7:30 p.m. or Wednesday, June 24, at 10:00 a.m. online via a Zoom session. There will be 8 sessions. Each registrant will receive the textbook and will have access to all the online videos. For more information visit AscensionPress.com, or contact Jim Bridges at faithformation@stmaryscoltsneck.org. You will not only benefit personally from being part of this study; you will also help us to grow in fellowship as a parish as we grow closer to Christ together.

Register Online here https://bit.ly/3dffzyr

CATHOLIC RADIO STATIONS The Catholic Channel on Sirus XM channel 129 Solid Catholic Talk EWTN Sirus XM channel 130 DOMESTIC CHURCH CATHOLIC RADIO Broadcasting from Trenton talk radio for Catholic life and faith. Tune your radio to 1260 AM, 89.3 FM, 1580 AM or 91.9 FM

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Sharing Our Treasure June 14 The Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship

$ 16,059

Envelope Contributions

$ 10,943

Electronic/Online Contributions

$ 4,863

Loose Contributions

$ 253

Good news!

AmazonSmile customers can now support St. Mary's Catholic Church in the Amazon shopping app on iOS and Android mobile phones!

Avg. Contribution per Household this week $ 69.63 # of Contributing Households # Registered Parishioner Households

227

Turn on AmazonSmile Open the app and find ’Settings’ in the main menu ( ). Tap on ‘AmazonSmile’ and follow the on-screen instructions to turn on AmazonSmile on your phone.

1,059

Included in this week’s offertory will be the collection for the Holy Father.

Please remember The Parish of Saint Mary in your Will and Estate planning.

smile.amazon.com/ch/22-1963114 and AmazonSmile donates to St. Mary Parish

2020 ANNUAL CATHOLIC APPEAL UPDATE As of 15 June 2020 Parish goal: $75,000 Total raised: $44,130 Percentage of goal: 59% # of Donors: 169 Payments received: $36,440 Average gift: $261 Thank you to all parishioners who have already made a pledge. If you have not done so yet you can do it here: https://www.dioceseoftrenton.org/aca-donate-page

Please select St. Mary Church, Colts Neck from the Parish Affiliation dropdown menu.

2020 Easter Collection Update As of 06/15/2020

Few more gifts were received since we published the report on 05/31/2020. Here are our updated figures for your review:

Total collected: $73,790 # of Gifts: 280 Average Gift: $258.96

Thank you all for your generosity!

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PANTRY FOOD ITEMS Food is accepted weekly. Please place donations in the grey cart in the gathering space of the Church. Please, no expired items.

Thank you to all for your continued support in helping to feed others in the community.

MOST NEEDED LIST Body Lotion Razors, shaving cream Macaroni & Cheese Canned Vegetables Instant Mashed Potatoes Cooking Oil Ketchup, mustard, Mayo Bottled Water (all sizes) Cookies, Pretzels, Crackers Peanut Butter Salad Dressings Cake mixes, frosting Soups: Chicken, Beef Baby food & Formula Baby Diapers (size 4 & up) Feminine Care Products Soap, shampoo, toothpaste

Cereal Instant Oatmeal Rice Juice Canned Puddings Jell-O Canned Fruit Canned Tuna Canned Salmon Raisins Healthy Snacks Tea Coffee Deodorant Sunscreen

Whoever is kind to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will reward them for what they have done. — Proverbs 19:17

Learning, Loving, and Laughing!

FUTURE GENERATIONS EARLY LEARNING CENTER Are you looking for a safe, loving, educational and nurturing environment where your child will get the attention and care that they deserve?

Give Future Generation a call!

Located at The Parish of Saint Mary 1 Phalanx Road, Colts Neck 732-780-0135 jessica@fgkids.org

GIFT CARD SCAM ALERT Please be aware of fraudulent emails or text messages claiming to be from a pastor or a representative of the archdiocese asking you to purchase gift cards to help the poor or sick.

Such fraudulent activity should be reported to the State of New Jersey Cyber Crimes Unit at (609) 584-5051, ext. 5664, or online at www.njsp.org/division/investigations/cybercrimes.shtml

Please note: Official electronic communications from the parish will always come from the @stmaryscoltsneck.org domain.

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