Bulletin for June 13, 2021

The parish of saint Mary A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394 parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller Worship schedule inside.

Refer to website for more detailed information www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Deacon: John Wedemeyer

June 13,2021

The 11th Sunday in Ordinary Time

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General Obligation to Attend Mass Reinstated & Mask mandates lifted for Fully Vaccinated

Religious Education Summer Intensive Session 1 begins with July 11th Orientation

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Mass Intentions for the Week of June 12– June 20 For * Requested by Saturday, June 12 – 5 PM Church Intentions of Leonidas Mavrookas * Suzanne Schlesinger Lillian Corcoran * Francine and Joe Corcoran Stephen Daisak * Barbara Daisak and Family Sunday, June 13 – Church 8 AM-Joseph C. Iannelli * Joe, Cindy and Matthew S SGT Stephen J. Coleman * Carol and Frank Donahue Robert Stetz * Alice Ganley 10 AM-Joseph Dickinson * Dickinson-Pancila Family Irene Baron * Dickinson-Pancila Family 12 PM-John Grabowski * Jim Dolan Anthony Bonanno * Connie and Rachael Bonanno Souls in Purgatory * Mary Soyka Baptism-Giulia Rose Duffy Monday, June 14 – 9 AM Chapel Vaughn Bigelow Jr. * The Flynn’s Tuesday, June 15 – 9 AM Chapel Nicholas Cappelleri * Rizzo Family Lucy Peccerillo * Dr. Maria Luccarelli Wednesday, June 16 – 9 AM Chapel Souls in Purgatory * Mary Soyka Thursday, June 17 – 9 AM Chapel Joseph M. Scalera * Jeanne and Matthew Cerbone David and Noriko Horner * Angela and Tom Kinlin Friday, June 18 – 9 AM Chapel John Stutz * John and Susan Murphy Nancy Basalyga * Ann Marie Dayton Saturday, June 19 – 5 PM Church Janet DeBiase * Barbara Saake Mary Resko * Linda and Chuck Fredda Paulette Buda * Irene Sessa Sunday, June 20 – Church 8 AM-John Sionas and Michael Stivala Sr. * Eileen and Michael Stivala Clare Peckinpaugh * Neil and Jane Slattery Gregory Prokopenko * Ray and Nancy Czarnecki 10 AM-Irene Szczepanski * Reinhardt Family Anthony J. Garito * Arlene Garito and Family Michael Salvo * Don and Ellen Papile and Family 12 PM-Nancy Vida * Denise Adams Ismael Rodriguez Sr. * Rodriguez Family Baptism -Maisie Amelia Payne

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Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill: Kathleen Amatel MaryAnn Barone Janice Basilice Fr Bill Bausch Eileen Beckley John Boyle Anne Boyle Christen Chellis Blake Conley Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Sharon Evangellista Joann Feliciti Cynthia Fiedler James Fiedler Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack

Tom Hudak Anton Kopp Bridget Korn Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Leonidas Mavrookas Ludwig Mendola Walter Moeller Kevin O’Shea Stanley Rembisz Owen Shoemaker Victoria Slater Gerard P. Thompson Seneida Tomasetti Lauren Vinci

To add a family member to the sick list for 8 weeks, please call or e-mail the Parish Office. Thank you! 732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Mass Intention Request ONLINE Available through the link below is an online form to request Mass Intentions for the remainder of the 2021 calendar.

Mass Intention Request

GROTTO CANDLES The Grotto Candles are available for your prayer intentions.

Offering is $3.00 per candle.

Parish Office Hours Monday 9 am – 2 pm Tuesday 2 pm -7:30 pm Wednesday 9 am – 2 pm Thursday 9 am – 2 pm Sunday 9 am -12 noon No office hours on Friday or Saturday

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Almighty and eternal God, those who take refuge in you will be glad and forever will shout for joy.

Protect these soldiers as they discharge their duties.

Protect them with the shield of your strength and keep them safe from all evil and harm.

May the power of your love enable them to return home in safety, that with all who love them, they may ever praise you for your loving care.

We ask this through Christ our Lord.

PRAY for Military & First Responders SN Colton Boag, USCG LCpl Devon Francis Chrzan, USMC Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Major Douglas Coppola, US Army Lt. Mary Herman, USN SN Christian Houlihan, USN Ensign Jason Joseph Howe, USN SPC Michael John Mento, US Army PFC Nicholas Poskonka, US Army Captain Richard Savo, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army Captain Ryan Tanguay, US Army TSgt Stephen Witherow, USAF LCpl Edward Zarzecki, USMC If there is a family member you wish to be placed on the list, please contact the Parish Bulletin at 732780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org.

New Parishioner Orientation Sunday August 1, 2021 Madonna Hall

3 Lifelong Catechesis Week June 7– June 13 READINGS FOR THE WEEK

14 Mon 2 Cor 6:1-10/Mt 5:38-42 15 Tues 2 Cor 8:1-9/Mt 5:43-48 16 Wed 2 Cor 9:6-11/Mt 6:1-6, 16-18 17 Thu 2 Cor 11:1-11/Mt 6:7-15 18 Fri 2 Cor 11:18, 21-30/Mt 6:19-23 Sunday June 20 - TWELFTH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME Questions for Deeper Reflection Question for Children: Jesus makes the wind and the sea peaceful. How would you have felt if you were with Jesus and the disciples during the storm?

Question for Youth: Jesus is capable of great things, even calming storms. What is one thing that you wish he would calm in your own life?

Question for Adults: When and where have you

Sanctuary Lamp Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or in the Chapel in honor of a living or deceased loved one. Request Envelopes available at the office.

The suggested donation is $25.

ONLINE https://bit.ly/37RKz5p Intentions are available in the Church & Chapel 6/27-7/3,7/4-7/10,7/11-7/13

Attendance is mandatory for those looking to become parishioners at the Parish of St. Mary.

Please Contact the Parish Office if you wish to attend 732-780-2666

Rest In Peace Please remember in your prayers those that have recently died.

Thomas F. Carey, son of parishioners Thomas and Mary Jane Carey

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Andrew J. Macirowski Pastoral Coordinator for Worship & Music / Principal Organist Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org

The Ordering of Ordinary Time During Ordinary Time, the Gospel readings are essentially sequential, picking up on one Sunday where we left off the Sunday prior. The same is true of the Epistle, with excerpts being taken sequentially from the Pauline letters to the Corinthians, Ephesians, the letters of Saints James and John, etc. This is where Ordinary comes from - meaning ”ordered”.

This provides a strong sense of continuity in the readings for the Sunday congregant. The Gospel narratives, when told in sequence like this, give us a greater understanding of the life of Jesus Christ during his public earthly ministry.

Conversely, there is the temptation for one to feel like they are experiencing the same thing week after week. While there are some points to be made there, (for example, the 19th, 20th and 21st Sundays in Ordinary Time, Year B, all have Psalm 34: “Taste and See the Goodness of the Lord” proclaimed), we must remember that the repetition serves the purpose of reaffirming our faith and why we come to Mass each and every weekend, to worship God communally and receive the Holy Eucharist.

The music during this time also has periods of great variety or repetition as well. Some weeks, the antiphons for the entrance or communion may be very similar and certain hymns may repeat often, whereas others are more “once-a-year” offerings, such as for the Transfiguration, or the feasts of saints which occur during this time.

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Reinstating the General Obligation to Attend Mass

Updated Covid-19 Protocols at St Mary Parish

ANNOUNCEMENT OF THE NEW JERSEY BISHOPS

There are updated directives from the Diocese where masks will no longer be required for fully vaccinated persons. If not fully vaccinated, persons are strongly encouraged to follow CDC guidance and wear a face mask in public settings. Also Effective June 4, all indoor gathering limits will be removed .

The Catholic Bishops of New Jersey have announced on May 20, 2021 that they are lifting the dispensation of the Sunday and Holy Days Mass obligation beginning on Saturday, June 5, 2021, and Sunday, June 6, 2021. We are very pleased to welcome our parishioners to return to the regular participation in the Sunday Eucharist, the source and summit of our Catholic faith.

This obligation, naturally, does not apply to those who are ill, recently exposed to the coronavirus or another serious or contagious illness, confined to their home, a hospital, or nursing facility, or with serious underlying health conditions.

Keep in mind all safety protocols (such as wearing masks, social distancing, etc.) and liturgical at St Mary will remain in place until modified or revoked by Bishop David M. O’ Connell.

Please see the link for the official announcement.

Saint of the Week-Anthony of Padua, Priest and Doctor, 1195-1231 Born Ferdinand de Bulhoes in Lisbon, Portugal, Anthony was the son of a knight in King Alphonso’s court. He began his studies at the cathedral in Lisbon and joined the Augustinians when he was fifteen. in 1221 at which time he took the name Anthony. Read

Although these directives represent a reduction of pandemic restrictions, St Mary has a few requirements for Mass. 

The Sign of Peace will resume but we encourage parishioners to replace a handshake with a reverent gesture, such as a nod or wave.

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During the Our Father please refrain from holding hands or making contact with any nonfamily member.

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St Mary has decided to continue with the electronic bulletin that is timely emailed to our parishioners each week. If you should require a printed copy, please contact Andrea Billitteri at the parish Office (732-780-2666 ext.

311) and one will be made available to you.

If you are not receiving the bulletin via email please email or call the parish office and we will add you to our distribution list. 

With the lifting of the dispensation from the obligation to attend Mass, we will discontinue the broadcast Mass after June 13, the Tenth Sunday in Ordinary Time. There remain many options on TV and the internet for those who choose.

As always, we thank you for your cooperation and support as we resume our normal celebration of the liturgy.

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Religious Freedom Week Religious Freedom Week will be observed this year from June 22 to June 29 and the theme chosen is Solidarity in Freedom.

“Solidarity means much more than engaging in sporadic acts of generosity. It means thinking and acting in terms of community” (Fratelli tutti, 116). Religious freedom allows the Church, and all religious communities, to live out their faith in public and to serve the good of all.

The USCCB has prepared resources to “Pray – Reflect – Act” . Each day focuses on different religious liberty topics of concern for the bishops. These materials were prepared to help people understand religious liberty from a Catholic perspective, pray about particular issues, and act on what they learn by advocating for policies that promote religious freedom.

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Here’s a short list of ways you can fully embrace this liturgical season and get caught up in Christ: 1. Examine your habits. Your day to day life is typically just a series of habits played out one after the other. If you want your life to change, the first place to look is your habits. A great new habit to start: reading the daily Gospel.

2. Gratitude. Joy always finds its root in gratitude.

Try starting each day by thanking God for five ordinary, everyday things. If you have a family, try going around the table at dinner time and list off things together.

3. Use your imagination to reflect on the daily life of Jesus. Imagine Jesus doing the simple things.

Eating, walking, joking with his friends. Praying.

Make yourself a bystander to the Gospel stories in your imagination.

Ordinary Time is anything but ordinary. But the true power of the season is only unlocked if you live it!

It is with sadness that we announce the death of Pauline Maria Lilly Savarimuthu, mother of Fr. Eugene Savarimuthu, Chaplain to the NJ Army National Guard and Adjunct Priest residing at St Mary Parish, Colts Neck assisting parishes of Cohort 13. She was hospitalized in India Friday past with COVID 19. She died 3:00pm our time Wednesday, 9 June 2021. Due to COVID-19 restrictions in India, Fr. Gene is unable to return home to be with his family at this time.

A Mass of Christian Burial without the presence of the body will be scheduled on Wednesday 16 June 2021 at 7:00 PM to pray for the repose of her soul. Please pray for Fr. Gene and his siblings. May she Rest In Peace. Father Jeff

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Worship Schedule: June 12/13 Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server

Saturday, 5:00 PM (Church)

Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)

EMHC

Reader 2

Reader 1

Cantor

Mark Hines William Hines NOT FILLED

Emily Santangelo - Organ Host Suzanne Schlesinger - Tabernacle Host Susan Murphy Alt

Bruno Savo

Charles Young

Bridget Farrow

Michael Buzzetta Michael Buzzetta NOT FILLED

Justine Buzzetta Alt

Rita Duenas

Anthony Bongiorno

Diane Dragone

Gabriella Penczak NOT FILLED

Steve Stanley Organ Host Dolores Addler Tabernacle Host Carol Donahue Alt

Carl Simone

Barbara Schaflin

David Maliakel

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Ron Gabbard Alt

Richard Gerbino

T Mullin

David Maliakel

Online Mass viewing continues with the newest weekend Mass becoming available on Saturdays after 4 pm

The Parish of Saint Mary - You Tube Channel Worship aid for weekend Mass at https://tinyurl.com/y4xhvqz8 https://yt.vu/+StMaryColtsNeck

Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults The RCIA program involves not just the newcomer or "inquirer" but all the members of the community who by prayer and personal example help the inquirer find his or her place in the Church. 

Typical tasks and responsibilities: Listening and preparing adults in a process to be received into the Catholic faith and parish community.

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Required training or skills: 1.5 hr. training session, weekly.

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Approximate time commitment: dependent on those who are seeking initiation or welcome into the Catholic community.

Contact Rose Farrow on 732-780.2666 for more information on this program.

According to new guidelines the Baptismal font will now be open

Baptism Procedures During Mass

Welcome to the newest members of our Saint Mary Parish family who were Baptized recently: Dean Nicholas Spagnola Allison Taylor and Brielle Ashley McGrath

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Religious Education Fall Summer 2021-May 2022 Julia Cullen, Pastoral Coordinator of Elementary Religion Education - Grade 1 -6 ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 309

Summer Intensive July session– begins - July 12th-23rd 9am-12 pm-(Google classroom) Orientation on Sunday July 11-children are expected to attend Mass and the orientation will directly follow

August Session begins- Aug 9th-20th 8:30am12:30pm (On Campus) Orientation on Sunday August 8th -children are expected to attend Mass and the orientation will directly follow

1st and 2nd graders are on campus and have a choice of time on Tuesdays as follows: 4:30-5:40 pm Or 5:50-7:00pm

FIRST COMMUNION UPDATE 3rd - 6th graders have weekly virtual First Communion will be held in October 2021 for the current year 2nd graders, as well as any family that chose to defer their child last year.

LIVE classes through Google Classroom.

As per our lottery, we have set the following 4 Communion Masses:

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Sunday 17 October 2021 10am or 12pm Sunday 24 October 2021 10am or 12pm

Wednesday 6:00pm -7:00 pm

The two choices are: Tuesday 4:30-5:30

Rose Farrow, Coordinator of Faith Formation for Youth Catechesis & Service - Grade 7 & 8 YouthRE@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732-780-2666 X 310 Confirmation Prep Classes Fall 2021 - Spring 2022

Requirements:

Classes will be offered both on campus in-person and in the live remote Google classroom format

approximately three larger group functions throughout the year. Students need to attend Penance and Reconciliation services, complete written Homily reflections, and any independent work assigned by the instructor.

On campus/in person option will be offered on Mondays 4:15-6:15 pm Live remote Google Classroom option will be offered on Sundays from 5:00-7:00 pm.

Classes will be held every other week (as the calendar permits taking into account holidays) from September through May.

Students and parents need to attend

Please check the parish website for all the latest details about registration and how to go to your MY OWN CHURCH portal. LINK TO WEBSITE

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The 2021-2022 program w i l l m eet w eek l y Th u r s d ay s s t ar t i n g September 23, 2021 through April 2022 Adult Women Programs will run simultaneously Daytime sessions - 10 - 11:30 am & Evening Session - 7:00 - 8:30 pm  Opening Your Heart this 22-week foundational course is designed for women new to WWP as well as those with more Bible study experience.  Keeping in Balance this 22-lesson study, we’ll explore Biblical ideas inlife’s January at for Offered managing pace2021 and pressure while living with calm and the Parish of Saint Mary steadiness.

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Quo vadis…

My Dear Parishioners, Today we celebrate the Eleventh Sunday in Ordinary Time. The Kingdom of God is rooted in the activity of the sower who sows the seed. This is a reference to Jesus and his public ministry. The parable of the seed growing by itself places God at the center.

The soil and the seed do their mysterious work.

The seed germinates and grows day and night.

However, the sower must continue to cultivate the soil making sure that weeds do not overcome the fragile sprouts. The sower nurtures the seeds. Jesus speaks in parables so that his audience can understand the teaching, not immediately, but in time after reflection.

Parables are not simple stories as they might first appear. Parables are intended to open us up to God’s plan for us. Jesus uses parables to reveal himself to the disciples.

Parables challenge us to rediscover that which has already been revealed to us through our prayer, formation and life experience. Therefore, we must believe in the hidden potential of the smallest of seeds (God’s Word) which can grow beyond all hope.

Last weekend RJoy Balacillo who served as a summer intern in our parish several years ago was ordained to the Priesthood for service in our Diocese of Trenton. He has been assigned

by His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop of Trenton to the Parish of Saint Gregory the Great, Hamilton Square, Mercer County, NJ. Let us pray for Fr. RJoy, those preparing to be ordained priests and those who are serving as priests in our diocese.

Next weekend our country honors those who embrace the noble vocation of parenting as

“Fathers”. What an important role in our society and in our Church. We believe that the Family is the “Domestic Church” of the home.

Let us pray for all those who embrace their vocation as fathers. These role models are so very important to our children and young people. One of the chief responsibilities of fathers is passing on the faith and witnessing to our faith through their personal choices.

Congratulations.

We have released additional adjustments to our Covid-19 gathering process. I encourage you to take a look at them in this week’s bulletin.

They are based on guidance received from our diocesan advisory commission, conversation among our parish team members, and in consultation with our Parish Pastoral Council members. Thank you for your patience and cooperation during this time of transition.

I had the opportunity to represent our parish community at the Annual Memorial Day Parade. It was a beautiful day with great participation. I was invited to attend the ground breaking for the new municipal building last week.

We continue to make steady progress toward our 2021 Annual Catholic Appeal Goal. I am grateful to those who have made their gift as well as those who have made a pledge. Thank you.

Take some time to enjoy these beautiful late spring days. Have a great week. Let us pray for one another. Happy Sunday.

Peace, Father Jeff

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Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Sharing Our Treasure June 6th Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship

$22,358

Envelope Contributions

$

13,510

Electronic/Online Contributions

$

8,354

Loose Contributions

$ 494

Avg.Contribution per Household this week $62.29 # of Contributing Households

351

# Registered Parishioner Households

993

Building & Mortgage Collection

$3,333

THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish. May God Bless you for the sacrifices that you make.

As of June 6, 2021

Goal: Pledged:

$75,000 $75,054

# donors: Average gift: Paid to date:

181 $227 $61,156

We have reached our goal this year! If you have not made your pledge yet you can do so now by visiting <https:// dioceseoftrenton.org/aca-donatepage>. Please select St Mary Catholic Church in the Parish Affiliation drop down menu so our parish can receive credit for your gift. Please continue to make your pledge payments so we can receive an ACA rebate. Thank you for your generosity!

ACA in Action!

"A little mercy makes the world less cold and more just." −Pope Francis, Angelus, March 17, 2013 "The faithful’s offerings to the Holy Father through the Peter’s Pence Collection in June 2021 are destined to Church needs, to humanitarian initiatives and social promotion projects, as well as to the support of the Holy See.”

Clergy and Religious Administration Consecrated Life In the Diocese of Trenton, those in consecrated life represent membership in a variety of male and female religious institutes. These men and women have dedicated their lives to proclaim the Word of the God and serve His people.

While not easily recognizable, nevertheless, they witness the face of God as they celebrate our liturgies and carry out the spiritual and corporal works of mercy in fields of education, health care and social services throughout the diocese. Your gift promotes those called to serve.

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Rosaries from Italy, Statuary, Miraculous Medals, Wall Plaques, Holy Cards and many books to help you grow in prayer & faith!

Future Generation Early Learning Center at The Parish of Saint Mary is currently enrolling for the 2021 Summer Camp Season! Our summer camp includes different weekly themes and incorporates fun learning activities and water play. Enroll for the entire summer or specific weeks. We also offer Before and After Care for Saint Mary’s Summer RE program.

We carry a diverse variety of gifts for friends, family and clergy.  Baptism  Communion  Confirmation  Wedding  Bereavement

Call 732-780-0135 today for more information and to guarantee your spot for this summer’s fun filled Summer Camp experience!

July 25, 2021 World Day of Prayer for Grandparents and the Elderly I AM WITH YOU ALWAYS Grandparents and the Elderly are an important part of our parish community. It is no secret that grandparents and our elder parish members are instrumental in passing on the faith to younger generations. Here is list of ideas and other resource links prepared by the Pastoral Life & Mission staff to celebrate this event. There are also free webinars that Sadlier is offering on Thursday eve June 10th at 6 pm, one in English (with Kathy Hendricks) the other in Spanish (with Rita Martinez). Register & Learn More