January 28 2018 bulletin

Bishop of the Diocese of Trenton: Most Reverend David M. O’Connell, C. M. Pastor: Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee

THE PARISH OF SAINT MARY A Catholic Community Proclaiming the Greatness of God in our Time

One Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722 Phone: 732-780-2666 Fax: 732-780-0394

Pastor Emeritus: Reverend Fr. William J. Bausch Deacons: Vincent Rinaldi John Wedemeyer

Trustees: Bill LaMorte Irene Weller

Parish Office hours Mon. - Thurs. 8:30 am - 7:30 pm Open Sunday 9 am - 12 noon.

Parish Membership:

New Parishioners are welcome to register at the office at any time.

Next New Parishioner Orientation - Sunday, 11 February at 11 am Contact Parish Office at parishoffice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Registration is required.

Sacraments:

Eucharist

Detailed Mass times listed on page 2

Penance & Reconciliation

Saturday 3 pm or by appointment.

Marriage

Contact the Parish Office one year in advance for information & guidelines.

Baptism

Contact the Parish Office for information & required paperwork three months in advance.

There are no Baptisms during Advent or Lent, please plan accordingly.

Summer Intensive Religious Educa on Registra on will begin in February.

Families wishing to a end Summer RE will need a My Own Church portal login to register. See page 4 & 9 for more informa on.

Friday, 2 February Presenta on of the LORD—Candlemas Day 9 am Mass in the Church Blessing of Candles Saturday, 3 February ‐ Memorial, St. Blaise, Bishop & Martyr Blessing of the Throats during the 4 pm Mass Visit our Website: www.stmaryscoltsneck.org

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org 28 January 2018 2 Mass Inten ons for the Week 29 January ‐ 4 February For * Requested by

Please pray for the following members of our parish family who are ill:

Monday, January 29 – Chapel 9 AM Dorothy Deckert * Maria and Joe Beninato Tuesday, January 30 – Chapel 9 AM Jake Honig * Yaninas Family Louis Turkaly * Darryl Turkaly Wednesday, January 31 – Chapel 9 AM St. John Bosco Margaret O’Boyle Dunigan * Neil and Jane Slattery Thursday, February 1 – Chapel 9 AM Anthony DeSimone * Joann and Robert Buhler Edith Iannelli * Joseph, Cindy and Matthew Iannelli Friday, February 2 – Church 9 AM The Presentation of the Lord; First Friday Intentions of Maria Incremona * Suzanne Schlesinger Saturday, February 3 – Church 4 PM St. Blaise; St. Ansgar; First Saturday; Blessing of Throats; Blessed Virgin Mary Intentions of Leonidas Mavrookas * Suzanne Schlesinger Jack Pizzolato * The Family Ed Eastman * Marge Eastman Sunday, February 4 – Church Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time; World Day for Consecrated Life; Boy Scouting Sunday 8 AM Albruno/DeStefano Families * Mr. and Mrs. Franceschetti Judith Joyce * Joyce Family Carlos Lara * Maria Yaninas 10 AM Julia Camarata * Caregiver Son Chuck Philip Mascaro * Marie Mascaro Edith Minerva Gold * Reverend Fr. Jeffrey E. Lee & Staff 12 PM Robert A. McNamara * Family Benedetto and Saverla Squalrito * Gerbino Family 5 PM Pro Populo Victor Norulak * Weller Family

Kay Amatel Eileen Beckley John Beckley Deborah Blasucci Daniel Brown Harry Brown Sal Castro Jo Clement Logan Dayton John DeStefano Kaitlin Donahue Nagle Sarina Dormelus Glenn Duenas Ruth Fiedler James Fiedler

Inez Fieramosca Emily Gioacchini Edward Habrack Tom Hudak Lori Lettieri Donna Lodi Pauline Madzin Leonidas Mavrookas John McInerney Mary Joan McNamara Marjorie Messler Tere Nolan Owen Shoemaker Remmington T. Jay Vida

To add a family member to the sick list, please call or e-mail the Parish Office.

A person is put on the list for 8 weeks unless a renewal call is received.

Thank you!

732-780-2666 or parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Recycle Last Years Palms A receptacle has been placed in the gathering space and by the Parish Office to collect old palms.

They are to be burnt, and the ashes are to be used on Ash Wednesday for the imposition of the ashes.

LEADERS Leaders are like eagles. They don't flock. You find them . . . one at a me. ‐‐Anonymous

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org 28 January 2018 3 Parish Of ice: 732‐780‐2666 parishofϔice@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Bulletin Deadline: Electronic format by 12 noon Thursday of the prior week (10 days before). parishbulletin@stmaryscoltsneck.org Bulletin Editor: Catherine Love Liturgical & Worship Ministries Contact: Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Pray for Our Military Chief Blake Conley, USN Lt. Col. John Anthony Coppola, US Army Sergeant Scott MacConnell Pvt Michael John Mento, US Army 1st Lt. Adam Sjoholm, US Army 2nd Lt. Ryan Tanguay, US Army Staff Sergeant Stephen Witherow, USAF Lance Corporal Edward Zarzecki

Music Ministry Contact: David Maliakel Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Adult Faith Formation Contact: Jim Bridges FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Religious Education Contact: Jim Bridges ReligiousEd@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Temporal Administration, Stewardship & Outreach Contact: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Sanctuary Lamps Consider donating the sanctuary lamp that burns in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament in the Church or Christ Chapel in memory of a loved one who has died or to honor a living person.

The suggested donation for Sanctuary Lamp is $25.

Upcoming availability Church & Christ Chapel: 2/11‐2/17, 2/18‐2/24 & 2/25‐3/3 Christ Chapel: 2/4‐2/10

Come, let us bow down in worship; let us kneel before the LORD who made us.

-- Psalm 95:6

Those in Ac ve Military Service

Lord, hold our troops in your loving hands, Protect them as they protect us.

Bless them and their families for the sacrifices they make for us in our hour of need and give us peace.

We ask this in the Name of Jesus, Our Lord and Savior. Amen If there is a family member you wish to be placed on a list, please call the Parish Office at 732‐780‐2666.

Please include rank and branch of service.

Lifelong Catechesis Week 29 January ‐ 4 February READINGS FOR THE WEEK Monday: 2 Sm 15:13-14, 30; 16:5-13; Mk 5:1-20 Tuesday: 2 Sm 18:9-10, 14b, 24-25a, 30 -- 19:3; Mk 5:21-43 Wednesday: 2 Sm 24:2, 9-17; Mk 6:1-6 Thursday: 1 Kgs 2:1-4, 10-12; Mk 6:7-13 Friday: Mal 3:1-4; Heb 2:14-18; Lk 2:22-40 [22-32] Sunday, 4 February - 5th Sunday in Ordinary Time Jb 7:1-4, 6-7; 1 Cor 9:16-19, 22-23; Mk 1:29-39 Questions for Deeper Reflections: Question for Children: What can you do to help your friends and classmates know more about Jesus?

Question for Youth: Jesus knew that his mission was for everyone, not just one village or group of people. How can you reach out to others (outside of friends and family) and offer them hope and Good News?

Question for Adults: If you were going to pray for healing for any reason, what would it be? What needs to be healed in our world and society?

-Lifelong Catechesis

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org 28 January 2018 4 Dr. Jim Bridges Pastoral Coordinator of Faith Formation and Religious Education FaithFormation@stmaryscoltsneck.org ReligiousEducation@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Registration for Summer Intensive 2018 Religious Education will begin Feb 1st Summer Intensive 1 : July 9 – 13 & 16 – 20 Summer Intensive 2 : August 6 – 10 & 13 - 17

Grades available for the Summer Intensive Program: Grades 1‐6 (those children entering these grades in September 2017) on a first come, first serve basis. Families must be registered ac ve parishioners whose children have been in the Religious Educa on program for at least one year (with the excep on of first graders). However all families must be registered parishioners for at least 1 year prior to enrolling.

Times: Each session will include a Family Orienta on star ng with 12 noon Mass and ending at approximately 2 pm.  Session 1: Sunday, 8 July 12 noon Mass ‐ 2 pm  Session 2: Sunday, 5 August 12 noon Mass ‐ 2 pm Followed by classes Monday‐ Friday 8:30 am ‐12:30 pm.

Tui on:  

From Feb 1st through midnight March 31st the reduced tui on is $250 per child.

From April 1st through midnight May 15th the tui on rate of $300 a child will apply.

Program Expecta ons: Each family would be expected to par cipate in 4 intergenera onal events throughout the school year. Including the Advent and/or Lenten Penance and Reconcilia on services.

More details are outlined on the Intergenera onal web‐page.

Registra on process: NEW for 2018 For your convenience, all registra on is online through the My Own Church Portal. Once your registra on has been received and capacity is verified an invoice will be sent back for final payment. Payment will be through the On‐line Giving Interface, Pay Pal, or a one‐ me dona on through the Parish Website. The process is completed a er payments have been applied to Family Invoices.

The My Own Church Bu on may be found on the parish website www.stmaryscoltsneck.org

First Communion Meeting Tuesday, February 6 a meeting to discuss First Communion with the 2nd Grade parents.

There will be two sessions and you are free to attend whichever is more convenient for you. The first will be at 5:00 p.m. and the second will be at 6:30 p.m. Both will take place in the Theater in the parish center. Each will last approximately a half hour.

Please make every effort to attend.

Confirmation Prep. Grades 7 & 8 Next few sessions Date Group Session 1/28/2018 8 Mass at 5‐7:30PM B 2/4/2018 Super Bowl ‐ 3:30pm Class A 9 ‐ 5pm Mass 2/11/2018 9 Mass at 5‐7:30PM B

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Quo vadis…

My Dear Parishioners: Today we celebrate the Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time. Although it is a Sabbath, Jesus begins the work of the kingdom: teaching, healing and redeeming.

Note the response of the people in the synagogue at Capernaum. The author of the Gospel of Mark notes Jesus’ command to the demon, upon which the assembly exclaims, “A new teaching with authority.” But they also question, “What is this?” In the first verse of the Gospel, Jesus was identified as the Son of God. Today the challenge for each of us is: Who is this---for me?

This week we celebrate The Feast of the Presentation of the Lord (2 February). Simeon and Anna might symbolize paschal mystery living for us: they both long awaited the revelation of the Messiah, their enduring fidelity was rewarded by seeing the Christ, they were both holy. Our lives, too, are to be characterized by awaiting the return of Christ at his second coming; our enduring fidelity will be rewarded, too, by seeing Christ. The link between this expectation and fulfillment is to live lives that are holy. We are “refined,” “purified,” “tested” when we allow Christ to “help” us—when we listen to his word and come to the table to be nourished. We are reminded, however, that church (Temple) and life (“grew and became strong”) are related.

The paschal mystery celebrated in word and table is the very same mystery lived in the dying and rising of our everyday life. Paschal mystery living is Temple living. Like Simeon and Anna, our very lives exude the expectation of Christ’s redemption. February 3rd is the Memorial of

Saint Blasé, bishop and martyr. Our parish will bless throats during the regularly scheduled daily Mass. This is a wonderful custom of our church. I would encourage you to keep this custom by coming to the church to have your throat blessed and asking God, through the intercession of Saint Blasé, to continue to protect you from all diseases of the throat.

WOW! Many THANKS to all of those who generously participated in our 2017 Christmas Collection.

Last weekend we provided an accounting for your review. Please take time to read it. We should be proud of our stewardship efforts. The net result continues to show that those who have participated are very generous and appreciative of the efforts of our parish as we move forward and I say THANK YOU. I would invite each and every person to continue to reflect on how we can grow in our stewardship efforts as we make a return to the Lord for the blessings in our lives especially during these challenging economic times. I am away this weekend on assignment in my role as Diocesan Director of Pilgrimages. His Excellency, The Most Reverend Bishop of Trenton, requested several years ago that I plan a pilgrimage to the Holy Land for priests of the Diocese of Trenton. Twenty priests have registered, and I have been busy arranging a fitting pilgrimage for them. Please pray for us during this pilgrimage. I am grateful to our parish staff and the clergy who graciously cover the sacramentalliturgical responsibilities during my absence. See you next weekend. Have a great week. Let us remember one another in prayer. Happy Sunday!

Peace. Father Jeff

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org 28 January 2018 6 Liturgical & Worship Ministries Andrew J. Macirowski Worship@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Music Ministry David Maliakel Music@stmaryscoltsneck.org

Another week, another lingering ques on brought forward to be answered. The query this me around, “How is the music for the Mass chosen?”

In the specific realm of The Parish of Saint Mary, the answers to this ques on vary depending upon the day and season. We can, however, break it down into a few easily diges ble parts.

The first place that is looked at for the choosing of music is the Roman Missal. Here, the an phons for the day are prescribed. According to the General Instruc on of the Roman Missal:

In the Dioceses of the United States of America, there are four op ons for the Entrance Chant: (1) the an phon from the Missal or the an phon with its Psalm from the Graduale Romanum, as set to music there or in another se ng; (2) the an phon and Psalm of the Graduale Simplex for the liturgical me; (3) a chant from another collec on of Psalms and an phons, approved by the Conference of Bishops or the Diocesan Bishop, including Psalms arranged in responsorial or metrical forms; (4) another liturgical chant that is suited to the sacred ac on, the day, or the me of year, similarly approved by the Conference of Bishops or the Diocesan Bishop.

When planning the music for a par cular day, we look at the hierarchy above, and, culling from the resources available, choose one that best suits the service of the Mass that day. Some days, like Palm Sunday, we are closer to taking the 1st, and most preferred op on. Other days, like during the Season of Lent, we take the 4th op on, singing a common Gathering Rite for the various Sundays of the season. We take this same approach with the Offertory and Communion an phons, striving to serve a well balanced diet of the sacred chant, classic hymns, and contemporary music.

The second place where there is a choice of music is the se ng of the Psalm a er the First Reading. In the past, we have grown used to singing common psalms in a contemporary se ng, as appropriate to the season. Moving forward, we will be singing the psalm of the day, as its nature is that of a companion to the reading. In choosing the music, we follow the same idea as before, mixing chanted psalms and metrical ones.

Finally, there is the choosing of the sung parts of the Mass. We vary this by season, again striking a balance between styles. We chant the Ordinary during parts of Ordinary Time and Advent/Christmas, and sing contemporary se ngs during Lent/Easter and the remainder of Ordinary Time.

Next week, I will dive into the roles of choir, cantor, and congrega on. Do you have a ques on regarding the music of the Catholic Church? Send me an email and you just may find your answer in a future bulle n!

Andrew J. Macirowski

Pastoral Coordinator for Worship / Organist

AGAPE Ministry Leaders are looking for new co‐chairs to run this once a month gathering. (except during Lent and Advent)

Contact: Jack Coppola to volunteer & for more informa on. jcoppola007@yahoo.com

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org 28 January 2018 7 Worship Ministry Schedule: February 3 - February 4: Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time Altar Server

Saturday, 4:00 PM (Church)

Sunday, 8:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 10:00 AM (Church)

Sunday, 12:00 PM (Church)

Sunday, 5:00 PM (Church)

Reader

Reader

1

2

EMs of Holy Communion

Greeter

Cantor

LWD

Usher

Mark Hines William Hines

Susan Baker ‐ Center Cup Helene Lind ‐ Organ Host Susan Murphy ‐ Center Host Diane An co ‐ Tabernacle Host Monty Matrisciani ‐ Organ Cup Irene Weller ‐ Tabernacle Cup Suzanne Schlesinger ‐ Alternate

Bruno Savo

Michael Zarraga

Margaret Caponegro Tina Repe o

Marybeth Jacobson

Fernando Pinguelo

John Grabowski Jim Davis Bob Lind Frank Sikorskas NOT FILLED

Lindsey Bertone Heather Boliver

Marsha Grigoli ‐ Center Cup Catherine Rinaldi ‐ Organ Host Lisa Aldridge ‐ Center Host Joyce Flynn ‐ Tabernacle Host Paul Osmulski ‐ Organ Cup Gina Shute ‐ Tabernacle Cup Susan Osmulski ‐ Alternate

Anne e Raynor

Anthony Bongiorno

NOT FILLED NOT FILLED

David Maliakel

Michael Boliver George Watts James Pifer Joe Young

Gabriella Penczak Alessandra Zilinski NOT FILLED

Mathilda Said ‐ Center Cup Barbara Moskal ‐ Organ Host Winifred O'Doherty ‐ Center Host Mary Aiello ‐ Tabernacle Host Edward Moskal ‐ Organ Cup Amy Orrico ‐ Tabernacle Cup Louise Habrack ‐ Alternate

Phil Limeri

Rita Duenas

Anne Baker Denise Smith

David Maliakel

Jennifer Garcia

Leigh Gavinelli John Orrico Greg Penczak Jack Zumba Charlie Gavinelli Allan Ryan Vince Cerulo

Mary Natale Tommy Zita

Patricia Balbo ‐ Center Cup NOT FILLED ‐ Organ Host NOT FILLED ‐ Center Host Anna May Schellenberger ‐ Tabernacle Host Lee Gesner ‐ Organ Cup Patricia Gesner ‐ Tabernacle Cup Joseph Merante ‐ Alternate

Stanley Drusdow

John McCrae

Donna Murphy NOT FILLED

Kathy Woolston

Melissa Widmeier

James Dolan Joe Mancino Joseph Rinaldo William Starce

Anthony Buzze a Alexandria Foley

NOT FILLED ‐ Center Cup NOT FILLED ‐ Organ Host Jus ne Buzze a ‐ Center Host Martha Cowles ‐ Tabernacle Host NOT FILLED ‐ Organ Cup Terrie Aus n ‐ Tabernacle Cup NOT FILLED ‐ Alternate

Charles Young

Kathy Maher

Diane Dragone

The Music Ministry is seeking new and returning members!

The Magnificat Choir and Handbells are in need of new membership in prepara on for the Lenten and Easter Seasons.

We rehearse Thursday Evenings, our first rehearsal will be February 1st.

There will be a bell workshop following the 10:00 AM Mass, Sunday, February 4th.

See or contact either of the following to sign up! 

David, Music Ministry 732‐780‐2666 X 327  Andrew, Liturgical & Worship Ministries 732‐780‐2666 X 303

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Martha Mary Guild Mee ng — FEBRUARY 14, 2018 MARY (Miriam) of Nazareth A program repor ng on contemporary reflec ons focused on a Marian Spirituality for Today Rev. Ronald Cioffi, pastor of St. Joseph Parish in Keyport (1990 – 2016), will be our special guest speaker for the February mee ng. Not only is it Valen ne’s Day, but it is also the first day of Lent, Ash Wednesday.

SAVE the Date Golf Outing Monday, 4 June 2018

The Parish of Saint Mary 9 Annual Golf Ou ng Ba le Ground Country Club th

THE TRADITION CONTINUES! Interested in joining the Golf Commi ee?

Contacts: Edwin A. Sevillano TemporalAdmin@stmaryscoltsneck.org 732‐780‐2666 x312

Ken Camarco kccamarco@gmail.com

In Rev. Cioffi’s words: “ Hopefully, our brief me together for this presenta on will influence your thought, prayer and ac on during the season of Lent. Beyond our received ‘informa on’ concerning Mary and our approach to her in our Catholic religious piety, our me together will hopefully propel us to deepen our apprecia on of Mary as a person of faith, hope and courage able to offer us a model for our own lives in the 21st century. To accomplish this, it will be necessary to reflect on a more focused apprecia on of her historical life situa on and how such an approach can help us build on our current rela onship to her as a companion on our own ‘faith‐ journey.’

Father Cioffi will conclude with an Ash Wednesday Prayer Service and distribu on of ashes.

We cordially invite the men of our parish to join us at this special me. The rosary will be said at 11:30 am in the Christ Chapel, followed by “BYOL” ‐ bring your own lunch, with refreshments provided by the Guild. The mee ng will begin promptly at 12:30, in Madonna Hall, followed by the program presenta on at 12:45 pm.

Classic Danube River Cruise with Oberammergau Passion Play featuring a 6-night Danube River Cruise, Munich, Passau, Vienna, Bratislava and Budapest

June 07 — June 16, 2020 • 10 Days • 22 Meals

Highlights

Oberammergau Passion Play, Munich, Passau, Linz, Wachau Valley, Vienna, Bratislava, Budapest

You're Invited! Special Travel Presentation Thursday, Feb. 22, 2018 - TIME 7:00 PM St. Mary’s Church, Phalanx Road, Colts Neck, NJ 07722

h ps://gateway.gocolle e.com/link/853200

Since 1634, this small Bavarian village has honored its vow to God to perform the Passion Play every 10 years, and 2020 is no different.

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Sharing Our Treasure Third Sunday in Ordinary Time 21 January Weekly Sacrificial Stewardship

$14,810

Envelope Contribu ons

$ 9,681

Electronic/Online Contribu ons

$ 3,744

Loose Contribu ons

$ 1,385

Average Contribu on per Household this week $31.44 # of Contribu ng Households # Registered Parishioner Households

The Red Cross Blood Drive held on Jan 10 was a great success.

All 29 available appointments were filled.

427 1,269

Addi onally, because of your contribu ons, we were able to send $1,000 to the appeal for La n America

THANK YOU for the Sacrificial Stewardship Offerings as we support the ministries, programs and facilities of our parish.

Thanks to all 45 families who have already logged in to My Own Church and verified their family records! If you haven’t already done so, please do us a favor and help us keep our family records current! It’s as easy as 1, 2, 3!

We send a reminder email each week with the e-bulletin to all members – if you didn’t get it, and you’re already registered at the Parish of Saint Mary, we probably don’t have an accurate email for you. Please help us serve you better by updating the info for the members of your family today!

The My Own Church Bu on on the parish website

may be found

www.stmaryscoltsneck.org Located under the Parish Resources Block. Select The Parish of Saint Mary, Colts Neck from the dropdown menu (fourth from the bo om), and fill in the required informa on. Ques ons?

See the help page link or call the parish office.

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2018 Weekend Retreat  February 16‐18, 2018  August 24‐26, 2018 Rachel’s Vineyard’s Retreat is a chance to focus on this painful me in your life through a suppor ve non‐ judgmental process, in an atmosphere of confiden ality, understanding, and compassion.

It is designed to help both women and men experience the mercy and compassion of God. If you have suffered through an abor on and have isolated yourself from healing and forgiveness, you might consider a ending one our retreat weekends. For more informa on, contact Judy Warenkiewicz at 732‐536‐6871. All inquiries are strictly confiden al.

Downey Side Adop on is holding an orienta on for interested persons

To learn about adop ng older children, school age and up.

PLACE: St Uriel’s Church, 219 Philadelphia Ave., Sea Girt, NJ DATE: Sunday, February 18, 2018, 2 pm to 4 pm For informa on contact Sr. Elizabeth Engel, Director at 732 359 8434

March 2‐4, 2018 A Lenten Silent Directed Retreat